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| 7 | What’s your go-to move for that first date greeting?It is embarrassing that it crosses some dudes heads to go for a handshake. | /r/seduction | 04/09/25 08:31 PM |
| 5 | Not all cold approaches are built the same! 10 approaches that lasted 10 minutes are far more valuable than 100 approaches that lasted a minute.A ten minute interaction is literally like an insta date at that point. | /r/seduction | 04/09/25 08:30 PM |
| 1 | Approaching 2 500 women without ANY ResultsThat is a great trend to identify. Of those 700 likes, what type of girls were liking you? On average, you will do best with women of your race and culture but your app likes can point you in the right direction to day game | /r/seduction | 13/08/25 06:37 PM |
| 2 | Approaching 2 500 women without ANY ResultsHow are you doing on apps? Have you noticed any trends? | /r/seduction | 13/08/25 06:23 PM |
| 16 | How to use dating intentions on Hinge for NYCYou always look for long-term, nothing else. Most women on dating apps have been pumped and dumped 5+ times & ghosted. Why would they want that again? | /r/seduction | 02/07/25 06:08 PM |
| 172 | 50 first dates, they all say no "spark"Spark is how you make them feel. You don't remember things people say to you - it's how you make them feel. My guess is your dates are too formal/interview style | /r/seduction | 26/06/25 02:26 PM |
| 2 | Insta, snap or phone numberIG is great if your IG is great. I don't like IG because it just gives the girl more ammo to disqualify. | /r/seduction | 18/06/25 02:43 PM |
| 2 | Great success on Hinge, no success on Tinder & Bumble whatsoeverIt's just anecdotally, but I accidentally swiped right a few times on asian girls (not ugly, 6-7), and almost immediately started noticing lower-tier white girls in my swipes. Same if I like indian/back rarely. I think it is just that non-white women are not as desired on apps. Even the attractive ones have a low algorithm score compared to average white girls. If you care about seeing the hottest white chicks, I would swipe left on all non-white girls. | /r/seduction | 12/06/25 12:55 AM |
| 5 | Great success on Hinge, no success on Tinder & Bumble whatsoeverYour algorithm is messed up on Bumble. I have similar on Hinge but got 300-400 likes on Bumble in 2-3 weeks You must have liked low-tier girls and got put at bottom of the stack. You have to be extremely selective/swiping left on Bumble & if you start liking asian/black/indian girls. app will start showing you low-tier white women. | /r/seduction | 11/06/25 02:54 PM |
| 1 | Get Plenty of Matches, but only End Up Going in Dates with women who aren’t my type-getting matches with the women I swipe on -never seem to be able to close the deal on the ones that I match with that I find most attractive -probably more competition for these women -always end up getting ghosted or poor responses from women I’m more attracted How do I separate myself out from the competition further? Cold Approach | /r/seduction | 29/05/25 01:55 PM |
| 16 | Are there any PUAs that are fat/obeseOf course there is. Those are the ones where you hear women whine on TikTok about them approaching them in parking lots. They keep doing it - some I assume they have some success | /r/seduction | 29/05/25 02:23 AM |
| 81 | Small mistakes you must avoid while on a first dateAwesome write-up dude. +10000 | /r/seduction | 26/05/25 08:13 PM |
| 1 | asking for a 2nd date?She is probably indifferent since you did not escalate aggressively enough. The best way to get her on a 2nd is to hook. Ask her when she is free, you have a surprise for her. And at the end of the 2nd date, you tell her: close your eyes- and you kiss her. As the great Todd V recommends, the dudes who are experienced he says to do. | /r/seduction | 03/05/25 01:50 AM |
| 2 | My campus is a commuter school with low energy and my judgment feels clouded by too much advice. What can help?Don't overcomplicate it starting out. It's too much to remember. Your main goal just starting shouldn't be anything more than having the guts to approach. If you apporach as a newbie - thats a win I always went direct and had success. | /r/seduction | 30/04/25 02:33 PM |
| 2 | Are you supposed to feel ‘bad’ when you date more than one girl at the same time? How to overcome this?It's literally like applying and interviewing at only one job. Would you do that and hope for the best? | /r/seduction | 28/04/25 04:08 PM |
| 2 | Will a guy expect sex if I invite him to a movie at my house?Ah, yes, the good old you can come over, but we're not doing anything. That's why, boys, you beat her to it. | /r/seduction | 28/04/25 02:54 AM |
| 3 | Giving the girl your #Puts you into a submissive state. I would personally not do it. | /r/seduction | 22/04/25 09:16 PM |
| 1 | Why some women reject in a very rude way?Post your stats. These will predict how much success you have/how harsh they reject Height, weight, Hair, eye color, style, grooming, personality Half of these things you can't control, half you can - meaning you should be moderately successful in day game no matter who you are. Unless you don't give a shit about your appearance | /r/seduction | 19/04/25 05:05 PM |
| 18 | When Do You Invite A Woman Back To Your Place?You need an excuse. The easiest and non-sinister one is do you want to meet my dog | /r/seduction | 14/04/25 11:34 PM |
| 8 | Guys who have girls on a rotation/get girls? How often to you get rejected100+ rejections for a 3-4 rotation. | /r/seduction | 08/04/25 03:37 PM |
| 2 | Why cold approaching women is wrong?The whole sub-5 is generally just not taking care of yourself Most men can get above to at least a 6 with hygiene, exercising, style, haircut, grooming, and confidence. | /r/seduction | 08/04/25 01:10 AM |
| 4 | Why cold approaching women is wrong?Yeah, it is disturbing if you are a sub-5 male with bad hygiene. Don't be in that category | /r/seduction | 07/04/25 10:27 PM |
| 0 | What kinds of things do you say to her when dancing so that you can escalate and try go in for a kiss?If you are inexperienced - tell her to close her eyes and just go for it. I got this from PUA Todd V | /r/seduction | 03/04/25 03:17 PM |
| 2 | That girl you didn’t talk to? She could’ve changed your life.Most are not. Its sarcasm since the cuck above is against approaching lol | /r/seduction | 02/04/25 10:55 PM |
| 1 | That girl you didn’t talk to? She could’ve changed your life.Cold approach works if you 6ft, jacked, blue eyes, tan, 250+ income, and massive social proof. You are right, don't approach /s | /r/seduction | 02/04/25 08:00 PM |
| 0 | Why do girls give strong, obvious indications of interest and then act rude/make you feel stupid when you approach, and how do you deal with this?She is interested --> You approach --> Your approach sucks --> She is not interested. | /r/seduction | 02/04/25 12:30 AM |
| 2 | I matched with a girl on Bumble, and her opening question is: ”What makes you special and why should someone date you? :)“She is trying to make you qualify yourself. I would throw it back at her. | /r/seduction | 09/03/25 06:29 PM |
| 1 | When pursuing a serious relationship, how long would you wait for sex before assuming she's playing you?If you have good game and can build comfort, you should easily get it 1-2 | /r/seduction | 18/02/25 08:13 PM |
| 6 | When pursuing a serious relationship, how long would you wait for sex before assuming she's playing you?Are you sure hugging is fine? | /r/seduction | 18/02/25 08:12 PM |
| 19 | How to pick up girls at a bar?Day game truly does triumph night game | /r/seduction | 13/02/25 02:31 AM |
| 4 | London bars and clubs full of men?Apps should work for most if you have good photos. You do not need to be a 8/10 6ft high income earner | /r/seduction | 01/02/25 08:07 PM |
| 1 | Should I cold approach if I'm not looking for a relationship?Yes, build your social skills with women. | /r/seduction | 25/01/25 05:37 PM |
| 1 | rank the best cities for daygame 1-10.You can make 80k working as a bartender/restaurant if you don't have a degree. With apps- do you have professional photos? And what type of chick do you like? | /r/seduction | 23/01/25 03:30 PM |
| 7 | rank the best cities for daygame 1-10.You have to move to NYC, at least for a bit in your life. If you don't, you're a disgrace. -I recommend coming here with at least an 80-120k salary (min). Having roommates is ok. - If you are at least a 5.5-6, you get bumped up 1-2 points, and you lose -2 if you are a chick. -The amount of matches you get on apps is never-ending -The ease to cold approach dozens of chicks from central park,union, washington sq -any type of chick you want is in NYC | /r/seduction | 23/01/25 01:22 AM |
| 25 | Asked a girl out, this is her replyghost - do not respond | /r/seduction | 20/01/25 06:12 PM |
| 1 | Only getting rejection when going direct"Women told me that it is a bit of scary when a stranger, especially men approach you". They leave out they are scared of the ones they are not interested in them. Move on. It goes both ways. TikToks shamming guys that cold approach and TikToks shamming guys saying they DONT approach girls anymore. Since you say you're short, it's no secret you have to compensate with other things- your hairstyle, outfit, skincare, personality, get 1inch height lifts - compared to the 6'2 can slack with this. Al… | /r/seduction | 16/01/25 03:06 PM |
| -1 | What do you do when a girl leaves you on seen? (From a guy who's been with 700+ girls)Great post! Do you cold approach? What city do you live in to pull this? | /r/seduction | 08/01/25 02:59 PM |
| -1 | how is cold approaching not showing lower valueS-tier incel | /r/seduction | 04/01/25 07:33 PM |
| -1 | how is cold approaching not showing lower valueDo you want your daughter to approach men? That sounds gross. A male needs to approach. | /r/seduction | 04/01/25 03:34 PM |
| -1 | how is cold approaching not showing lower valueThis is a submissive and feminine mindset if you don't approach as a male. | /r/seduction | 04/01/25 02:14 PM |
| 1 | how is cold approaching not showing lower valueIt works for some men that they getting approached by low tier women. | /r/seduction | 04/01/25 02:53 AM |
| 1 | 28 year old Virgin. Help me out guysBeef tallow on face. Only thing you need | /r/seduction | 01/01/25 02:56 AM |
| 1 | 28 year old Virgin. Help me out guysAre you in NY/NYC area? Ill game with you | /r/seduction | 01/01/25 02:55 AM |
| 3 | Seeking RejectionExactly, Seeking rejection is good. The guy above doesn't apporach | /r/seduction | 31/12/24 03:59 AM |
| 1 | Makeup equivalent for menbotox/filler/lift shoes | /r/seduction | 26/12/24 02:39 AM |
| 4 | How to tell the difference between women who are DTF or looking for relationships?The best way to get a girl in relationship is to sleep with her asap. | /r/seduction | 22/12/24 03:01 PM |
| 0 | Best response to her “I had an amazing time tonight” textno need to respond . | /r/seduction | 21/12/24 09:18 PM |
| 1 | Solo nightgamesearch up game global. Look for wings in your city telegram https://www.gameglobal.net/groups/ | /r/seduction | 14/12/24 06:15 PM |
| 3 | How did you get over approaching women at bars/clubs? (Toronto, Canada)"Not looking to learn how to "pick up" random girls on the street or in public, as that is not something that I'm interested in." Keep telling yourself that bc you are being a bitch. learning day game is the fundamentals to be succeed in night game | /r/seduction | 14/12/24 02:25 AM |
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