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This argument is always hilarious to me. Men: women's standards are to high, they should be realistic. Also men: my biggest fear is being a beta male and having some woman settle for. Seriously, pick a god damn lane.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 02:04 AM
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You forgot the part where Reddit and porn have destroyed a generation of men's brains. Thank you for the demonstration though.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 12:38 AM
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The issue with porn and the unrealistic expectations around sex have ABSOLUTELY nothing to do with how the women look. What an incredibly absurd statement. The unrealistic expectation is what sex and, more importantly, what intimacy in a relationship looks like. If your only reference point for these things is porn, you are going to expect that women both should be performing like they do in porn and that you should be able to act out what you see in porn. In that context, it is both degrading a…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 05:19 PM
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It's so weird when y'all assume the qualities that people exhibit don't play any part in their appeal to others. Though it may explain the struggles people that think like that have when trying to attract others.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 09:40 PM
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Anytime you conjure percentages out of thin air, you're going to need to back that up with something credible. That aside, normies as a general term encompasses people who have niche interests and hobbies. I mean, I'm pretty sure tentacle porn is pretty niche but I guarantee the normie dudes on this sub are over representative of that interest. That doesn't make them any less normal than your average dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 09:35 PM
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Citation needed
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 10:18 AM
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Holy ChatGPT, Batman!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 01:02 AM
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If only. They've done cooked their brains so hard they are convinced being such stellar individuals and gentlemen is what caused them to be in the position they're in. Something about women only love bad boys and abusers or something. Hmm, the short and normal height subs are particularly atrocious. It's like this sub with a double dose of self depreciation and esteem issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 10:31 PM
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Citation needed
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 10:25 PM
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Are you under the impression those dudes were total dicks to their future wives and then once they got married, they developed these sweet qualities? Or do you think it's more likely that those qualities were responsible in part, for them deciding to date and eventually marry those men?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 09:20 PM
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🤣🤣🤣 Oh, my. I see you are a connoisseur of the finest trash subreddits lol. This one is too much for me, I don't think I can handle that sub. I'm just here for the morbid curiosity, wondering why all these guys can't see just how badly they are shooting themselves in the foot. If you're here saying this nonsense, just because you don't say it out loud doesn't mean it doesn't get expressed in your mannerisms, behaviors and every day actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 12:45 PM
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I mean, just because I'm a 42 year old, divorced dad, smell bad, don't brush my teeth or ever go outside to meet other people, doesn't mean I don't deserve to have a 10/10 18 year old badie whose definitely a virgin but fucks like a porn star 3 times a day because muh man labido demands it. /s We could do this all day and I hate that these are so accurate to this sub and only sarcastic because of how ludicrous they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 12:15 PM
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Um, no. Women are too superficial and should look past their unattractiveness and see all their great qualities... while they should also not have to date women that look like them, are "fat", have kids or any disability of any kind. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 11:46 AM
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You must be new here. The existence of this sub is predicated on the exact opposite of your comment. Most of the guys here are hurt and often angry because they can't find anyone to date them, especially not ones they see as both attractive and kind. I attest it's a lot easier than they think as well, but it is definitely not a sentiment shared around here.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 03:14 AM
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The irony is that most of the women on this sub (not to sound insulting at all) are normy as most of the dudes here. And I'm sure their husbands are as well. So maybe instead of being salty about what those dudes have, maybe take notes and learn from them and what the women here say they love about them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 12:20 AM
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My brother, leaders, lead by example. If, in your example, you truly believe that would be the way to optimal health, then the way you resolve your disagreement is by proving it works. Arguing about it does nothing, especially since you're just arguing your opinion. It may or may not work but until you show that it does, your point is mute. That's what most men who think this whole dynamic is how relationships should be, don't understand. Leading is not telling someone what to do and then just l…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 11:34 AM
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That's what we call an in-group bias my friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 01:39 AM
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This is a weird post since most men on the sub emphatically state looks don't matter as much to them as women and then go on to frame it as a moral failing of women for not wanting to date their ugly asses.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 10:42 PM
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Brother, the sheer amount of men that dick ride other men and their shitty behaviors and attitudes, especially in this sub, is astronomical. EVERYBODY does it, especially if they think it's giving them some sense of one-upmanship in an argument for their preferred gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 10:39 PM
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Your opinion about child support is silly but also irrelevant. Child support is for the benefit of the state, not the child or either parent. It is the state that mandates child support and it's almost entirely the result of the primary parent needing government services to help provide for that child. The only time child support is mandated automatically is in divorces where it is assumed both parents will participate financially in providing for that child. Do women who don't need child suppor…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 10:35 PM
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Obviously anecdotal just as the guy you are responding to (also 6'4") but- the number of women I slept with on the first date that said they don't, was way higher than the ones that didn't say this. However, it's obvious that the reason is situational and based on how well we got along. The dates that did not lead to sex were dates that didn't really go anywhere. It's astonishing to me that dudes here will just take that and make some goofy generalization about all women. Like, nah goobers, if y…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 04:03 PM
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As crass as she is, Lilith isn't entirely wrong. I think the only thing she's off by is motivation. I think for a lot of men, myself including, sex does work as a tool for validation and raising self esteem. My wife went through years of health complications that limited our sexual relationship and it definitely took a toll on me, mentally and even physically. I already deal with medication resistant depression and anxiety so when we lost something that was so prevalent in our lives, it wrecked …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 04:29 PM
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Ignoring the fact that the whole alpha/beta thing was a flawed study of wolves that the author later retracted- this concept is ludicrous on it's face. In so much that an "alpha" exists, they are the provider, the protector, the leader and the caregiver of the group. This whole idea that males that go around banging chicks and ditching them is what makes them alpha is so fucking stupid. Anyone that buys into this idiocy is braindead.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 12:11 PM
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This should absolutely be the banner for this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 10:06 PM
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While I don't disagree with you entirely, I will say this. The men who profess to struggle the ways in which OP does, the sort of run of the mill dudes on this sub, tend to exhibit similar thoughts, opinions, behaviors and biases and use a very narrow set of common vernacular. They might profess that where they are now is a result of their experiences and that they definitely didn't used to be this way. Whether that is true or not, it's obvious NOW that they are likely not pleasant to be around …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 10:05 PM
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Bruv, this entire sub is essentially a pity party for the "victims" of feminism and women. This very post is exactly that, some dude complaining about being victimized. It's this complete lack of self-awareness by 90% of the men who come here that is, in part, responsible the challenges they face.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 09:40 PM
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For someone that uses a lot of fluffy language, you aren't very good with reading comprehension brother. I absolutely said there are men that do and do not share in your ludicrous "cycle of shit". Like I said, the men like you that experience it likely have some very similar traits and behaviors. Are you so deluded that you don't understand your entire perspective is shaped by your own anecdotal experience? Brother, you even came up with a half-baked concept to explain your experiences. The only…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 01:19 PM
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"WeLl AcTuAlLy" is all you did there brother. My "anecdote" is a shared experience with other men that do not have this issue. The funniest thing about disregarding that is that your argument is couched in your own opposite experience. Just because you dress it up in jargin you impress yourself by spewing, doesn't make it any more anecdotal than my own experience. Introspection and accountability are the only way you are ever going to figure out why you and I live in two different universes. But…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 12:42 PM
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I will say this- there are men who find themselves in OPs "cycle of shit" and men who don't. I'm willing to bet there is a commonality between the behaviors of men that feel this way or get treated this way and the ones that don't. I've personally never been attacked, humiliated, degraded or harmed in any way for for approaching, talking to, being sexual with any woman. I know personal introspection and accountability are repulsive concepts in these red pill adjacent communities, but I promise y…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 05:33 AM
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That's quite the audacious comment. Relationships can only be as mediocre as the people in them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 06:37 PM
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To be honest, I really think it is just poor inter and intrapersonal communication skills. It's a challenge for a lot of people to express themselves verbally and emotionally and sex becomes this all encompassing end all be all. Who needs to talk when you can fuck, kind of attitude. Porn has definitely played a role as well as less in person human interactions due to technology. I'm glad you were able to get out of that. It makes sense how that situation skewed your perception of sexual dynamics…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 04:49 PM
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Damn, I'm sorry you had to deal with all of that. A lot of dudes get wrapped up in this idea that sex speaks for all the things they aren't doing and saying. They don't understand that sex and intimacy is just an extension of effective communication and a healthy relationship. It's laziness and lack of connection to your partner, plain and simple. I hope that you fully understand your worth and don't ever put up with that nonsense again.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 04:24 PM
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Here, let me help you beat the hell out of that strawman you created. Disingenuous much? I have never in my life heard someone keeping track of birthdays being emotional labor because it's absolute nonsense. Emotional labor is the act of basically being someone's therapist who refuses to do anything to help themselves. It's managing your partner's stress, anxiety, depression, anger, passive aggressiveness, motivation, etc. And yes, we men, find it difficult to understand why our partners can't o…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 03:58 PM
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Brother, in all sincerity, one's desire for their partner (outside of physical and mental health struggles) will always be predicated on how healthy that relationship is.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 02:50 PM
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Good lordy. Yes, relationship dynamics can and do break down so much that literally the only way to get things accomplished is to give in and begrudgingly offer sex. Is this a reward? Is this conceding to your point? The other, I guess, concession is that some people will use whatever leverage they have over someone to get what they want, including sex. Neither of these align with your broader point that women in general use sex as a form of manipulation. It is bullshit and it is absolutely beli…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 02:47 PM
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I absolutely agree. I also think something a lot of guys run into is the expectation that I did x or took care of y, therefore I am owed or should be rewarded with sex. They do not understand that sex and intimacy is a form of communication and that communication is not a reward or a guarantee. Good communication comes from staying connected, reassurance, recognition, appreciation, acknowledgement, etc all of which is primarily verbal. If you cannot talk to your partner and express affection for…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 02:34 PM
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It's these sorts of posts that go to show why, from a man's perspective, men are failing to maintain or establish relationships. On one hand you have men in relationships that think sex is used to manipulate them and on the other hand, single men reading this and just mindlessly agreeing with it because some dude on the internet said it. As a man that has been married twice and been in dozens of relationships of all kinds, generally, this is bullshit. Do couples have more sex when they are activ…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 05:11 AM
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That's quite the argument. I'm going to be purposefully obtuse so that I never have to come to the same conclusion as you. That way after I've sexually assaulted you I can say well you never ACTUALLY defined consent therefore I didn't ACTUALLY sexually assault you. Real big brain stuff here. This sort of weaponized incompetence is an actual issue, not whatever this nonsense post was about.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 11:16 PM
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Corrected. Now, as the sub rules dictate, you can argue in good faith. Spoiler alert, you won't. Edit: all it takes is one link to one post your arguing against to wreck my response.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 03:04 PM
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This sub is one GIANT strawman, especially with these debate topics. I dare OP to find one post, let alone more than a single comment that states this idiotic nonsense. I think the issue men struggle with when it comes to sex, is not understanding something very crucial to the act. Women are like trucks (high torque, low horsepower), whereas men are like cars (high horsepower, low torque). Men can get going immediately when it comes to sex and top out pretty quickly. Women take time to get going…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 02:49 PM
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These posts about "traditional gender roles", primarily for women, are absolutely stupid. Traditional gender roles are a myth perpetuated by media, religion and corporations. Everyone who has bought into this nonsense is convinced that "Leave it to Beaver" was a documentary. Sure, there were white suburbanite women who seemingly adhered to these "traditional" gender roles. Those same women were broadly hopped up on pills, alcoholic, incredibly suicidal and often fucking the pool boy. This idea t…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 01:49 AM
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Brother, I get what you're getting at but removing someone's responsibility for their own wellbeing (man or woman) doesn't address the cause of their poor wellbeing. One of the most impactful statements I've ever heard was that while your trauma is not your fault, it is your responsibility to deal with it. Obviously someone showing you kindness, compassion, interest, direction, etc will make you feel better in those moments but that's just it, it's momentary. Once you lose that person, most of t…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 04:48 AM
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There is so much stinking irony in that title on this sub of all places.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 06:55 PM
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The only hoe that needs saving is your "girlfriend" aka your right hand.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 06:35 AM
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Are you stupid? I literally addressed you head on. As far as snide comments go, post something worth taking seriously and we'll have a go at it. As someone else pointed out this low effort, I hate women because they won't touch my penis, drivel is obnoxious at best. I don't know how y'all can come one here day after day and post the same exact thing with the words rearranged and think you did something. Grow up.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 06:31 AM
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We know OP, you are proving this point quite eloquently.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 06:25 AM
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It is painfully obvious by OPs post, posts like it and the majority of commenters on this sub, that motherhood takes a Herculean effort... to do properly and successfully. Yes, raising a literal crotch goblin is easy and then they grow up to be internet trolls.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 06:23 AM
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It's because 99% of these posts are based on some shit OP thought in their head, decided that sounded profound and posted it on Reddit thinking they nailed it. Brain rot is apparently a powerful thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/26 01:16 AM
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So... Just so we're aware, drinking and hooking up is a HORRIBLE idea. You cannot legally consent to sex if you are impaired. If you are fucking sloppy drunk chicks you are absolutely (rightfully so) opening yourself up to rape allegations. That aside, I've had dozens of hookups without any alcohol needed. Y'all need to get the hell off the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 02:02 AM
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The homoeroticism on this sub is getting out of hand.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 09:55 PM
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Yes, from a terminally online Redditor, I imagine that would be your take. Search YouTube and Google for teacher sex crime prosecutions and you will see they are primarily female and endless. Get a grip my guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 09:37 PM
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You keep harping on this female pedo teacher thing as if it's even relevant to your post, and you're just as misguided/wrong about that as everything else. For one, anyone who watches/reads any sort of crime coverage can tell you female teachers are absolutely being condemned and prosecuted for sex crimes. As a side note, half or more of these prosecutions happen because they are young teachers engaged in sex acts with students who are of age. If they weren't teachers it'd be perfectly legal so …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 09:28 PM
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Assumptions make an ass out of you and... You.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 06:18 PM
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Negative on all accounts my guy. It's absolutely projection. I guarantee a woman who, by preference, is attracted to someone like Timothy Chalamet is not attracted to someone like Chris Hemsworth. I find it mindnumbingly stupid and disengenouos that guys on this sub will harp on about preferences and then say this dumb shit. If a woman posted here saying all men are attracted to Sydney Sweeny and they are lying if they say otherwise, she'd be rightly eviscerated.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 06:15 PM
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When I see these posts talking about how hot other men are and that women are lying about being attracted to them, it just sounds like the poster is in the closet. I'm a dude and I can freely admit those dudes OP pointed out, are attractive as fuck. What I'm not going to say is women have to be attracted to them because the very blatant insinuation is you feel like that because YOU are attracted to them. That's perfectly okay, just drop the projection bs.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 06:05 AM
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The thing that makes me crack up about these posts is that after having sex with dozens of women, I can't say that any have ever been "bad". Enthusiasm and skill go a long way towards encouraging participation. Most likely if your partner is bad in bed, it's because you are also bad in bed.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 04:51 AM
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Please, tell us how hot you found those men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 03:31 PM
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This made me spit out my coffee lol. It's hilarious you're walking around like, that bissh is fugly, but God damn dude is FINE! Maybe, you're looking in the wrong sea for the wrong fish my friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 03:28 PM
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Oooh ooohh, I know, I know. Rich, white, blue haired feminists!! Nailed it!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 08:05 PM
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It's not the fact that we did, it's the fact that we don't anymore (for the majority of men) but men pretend this is still a thing as some way to shit on women's shifting gender roles. Men's have equally shifted because modern society is a march towards progress. As an actual veteran of armed conflict (OIF/OEF), war is a thing that happens that men die in. Do you know who else started dying in them recently? Women. How many of them have to die before we're like, well I guess that's not a gender …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 08:00 PM
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You know what I love about these brain broken provider/protector male gender role posts? The vast majority of men don't go to war, work absurdly dangerous jobs and couldn't fight their way out of a wet paper bag to save a small puppy. Get over yourselves .
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 06:30 PM
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I wonder how much the general notion that "all couples argue" and "all relationships have conflicts" plays into this. I would think people who accept these ideas are willing to put up with a lot more than people that don't. I do not accept either of these premises.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 02:01 AM
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I don't really understand where the idea that men are being forced to adhere to strict gender roles, comes from. Maybe I'm the exception, maybe it's because of how I was raised, maybe it's because I'm a veteran, maybe it's because I'm 6'5" (ie apparently perfect), maybe it's my own "anecdotal" experience. Or maybe it's because I've never participated in the oppression Olympics that so many guys here have been speed running their entire lives. I'm 43. Been married a total of 22 years, to two diff…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 11:50 AM
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SOME women, the women completely out your reach, have infinite options. Of course the majority of those options are the dudes they'll never be interested in. I have no idea why guys on this sub obsess over the dating prospects and decisions of women that wouldn't touch them with a 10 foot pole. Instead and hear me out, focus on the 3/10 Brenda's, instead of the 10/10 Stacey's. Temper your expectations in life, work within the scope you've been dealt, and life will be much easier and more fulfill…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 05:15 AM
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The only ugly men who are lonely are the one's who refuse to date equally ugly women. This is the solution to your loneliness epidemic. That's the thing that drives me nuts about the incessant whining on this sub. When you cry about how you're invisible to most women and those women are sleeping with hot men, what you're really complaining about is the hot women you have absolutely no chance with. To be COMPLETELY honest, most people are average at best but more below than above average. The wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 05:10 AM
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Do y'all ever get tired of reading and writing the same old tired shit? It's about as insightful as a brain aneurysm at this point. 90% of y'all's brains on this sub are permanently cooked. The other 10% of us are just here for the 🍿.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 04:47 AM
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How to be and remain a virgin 101. Bravo.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 04:43 AM
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Is there anyone that actually believes this bullshit? I mean seriously, what in the actual fucking brain rot is this garbage? Just so I don't get hit with that "no contentless rhetoric" nonsense (as if this crap deserves a serious response), I'll elaborate. The two things I overtly see on PPD are "men" speed running the victimization pipeline and "men" doing flawless acrobatics to avoid any semblance of personal accountability. This post feeds into both of those observations perfectly. This is s…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 02:01 AM
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Holy shit brother! Call yourself an ambulance because I know you straight up snapped your back in half with that reach. Counterpoint- petite is a category of porn separate from teen.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 03:41 AM
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That's really interesting. My wife and most women before her would get frustrated by me not finishing. I honestly prefer it for a lot of reasons but mostly because getting off isn't the point of act. Like with you, it's a bonding moment and the longer it lasts the more opportunity to bond and connect. I don't think it's mandatory but if the person you are with is just rushing to get off absent your wants and needs, I can definitely see how that breaks the bond. Hopefully you don't have to tolera…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 02:31 AM
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Genuinely curious how you have so much info on the lifestyles of cavemen? Cavemen, as far as I know, are pre-historic, meaning before written history.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 05:33 AM
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So in one comment section women say size (relatively) doesn't matter. Then in another comment section other women are saying it does. It's almost like different women have different opinions and experiences. 90% of the reason this sub is so brain broken is most dudes on here are convinced all women are the same. Oddly enough it's always the opinions that they think prove their point that become the monolith of female thoughts and actions. This is what happens when your thoughts and ideas are det…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 11:38 PM
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Not going to lie brother. The whole thing is just you repeating the same claim over and over. If you want people to seriously engage with your posts, being concise as possible will get the most accurate engagement. You could have easily made this a single paragraph.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 03:58 PM
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I'm not saying you do specifically, just that anyone that does is struggling for a good reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 08:36 PM
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Show me a person who uses phrases like "male vs female mating strategy" and I'll show you someone who is absolutely lost in the sauce and lonely because of it. GTFO with this nonsense. I get it, everybody likes to fuck but most people are going to experience that consistently in a relationship. The relationship has to be the goal and sex the benefit of a hopefully positive attachment to someone. If your horny ass porn addled brain can't separate the two from one another, be prepared to be lonely…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 08:12 PM
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What is the whiny bs?! NOBODY IS GETTING DRAFTED for fucks sake. Japan doesn't have segregated transportation. India might but if dude's would stop their mass rape rampage there, it wouldn't be needed. Prisons, fucking really my guy? Like I said, segregation is a word with a definition and none of these are examples of equivalent racial segregation. You have got to do something about your victim complex, because it's gross and frankly, pathetic. Find some grass to touch and get the hell off the …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 09:13 PM
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Every single time this issue comes up (like 10 times a day) on PPD it's the same old bs. This only applies to men who do in fact have challenges to overcome looks wise (which can be mitigated by any dude willing to put in the effort) who want the attention of attractive women. Yes, it sucks that Scarlet Johansen or Sydney Sweeney or whatever hot blonde of the day doesn't want to smash Quasimodo. It's unfortunate that yes, if you want to have meaningful relationships with women who will have sex …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 01:29 PM
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It's so funny that this listen vs solution dichotomy ever took hold. From anyone that has spent 5 seconds in spaces like PPD, men by and large DO NOT want solutions to the things they complain about. They reject every solution shot their way because solutions create a whole other issue which now forces them to look inward for the real source of their struggles.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 01:12 PM
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There is so much irony in this and it cracks me up. There are so many women who can alter their physical appearance to go from "oh dang" to "GOD DAMN" with some very basic tools (albeit a lot of skill). Men could conceivably do the same thing if they were really THAT bothered by their perceived looks disadvantage. Men also have the same cosmetic procedures available to them that women do. It's just so irritating that dudes on one hand complain their looks are completely out of their hands and th…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 01:06 PM
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It is incredibly important for men to understand that if you have low standards for the people you have in your life, it is likely you have low standards for yourself- and that is the issue. If the standard for yourself is I'm a nice guy and I'm okay staying home all day playing video games, don't expect others to then lower their standards just because you have. I think the issue I have with this "modern dating era" is that the modern man seems to think the bare minimum should be the standard. …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 12:33 PM
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What in the actual hell are you saying man? One, the draft only exists in extreme circumstances and in those, women are also expected to sacrifice as well. I'm not sure who you think it is that is making and building sh't during war time but it definitely isn't making itself. Funny though that you would use the draft as an example of male oppression when it is MEN, not women, who instituted the draft of which was then utilized by male presidents. I haven't a clue what you are talking about when …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 03:04 AM
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Who the f'ck suggested that?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 02:47 AM
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No brother, I posted a rant about you and the weirdos that say insane shit like what you posted. Men (using the term lightly) who complain that they are discriminated against, held back, lack opportunities or are otherwise deprived by everyone but themselves. Don't you find it weird that millions upon millions of men are successful and don't experience any of this nonsense but you and every dude that thinks this crap struggles and does? Oddly enough most guys who suffer from this brain rot also …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 07:32 PM
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Imagine admitting that ya, women have essentially been considered property and mistreated since essentially the beginning of human civilization- and then going on to say but f'ck those b'tches, they have too much and now I feel oppressed. Equality always feels like oppression to the ones who are traditionally the oppressors. As an actual man actually succeeding in an increasingly egalitarian society, sh't like this wreaks of weakness, insecurity, brain rot and lack of intelligence. We as men and…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 02:44 PM
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The only guys that believe this are the one's that fashion themselves as nice guys and don't understand why women don't ingratiate themselves to them. It's performative and as soon as they don't benefit from it it becomes obvious they are anything but nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 07:45 PM
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They think they get used for their resources and labor because they refuse to understand that being an effective partner involves more than just "bringing home the bacon." At the same time most of those jaded guys are also bringing home the same as their girlfriend or wife but feel like that's all they need to contribute to the relationship because "man".
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 03:38 AM
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I didn't say yours specifically. What is the basis of your claim that MOST companies have a no dating policy? Spoiler alert, they don't. It's just such a weird claim to make.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 11:01 PM
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You said most companies have this policy. You can't name one?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 07:07 PM
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Can you provide an example of this because I have yet to find one workplace let alone MOST that have implemented a no dating policy? The only time dating a coworker is frowned upon and sometimes forbidden is if they are a subordinate.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 02:22 AM
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Casey Anthony would like to have a word with you. If y'all are going to say this ludicrous bs, at least have receipts.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 12:53 AM
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There are plenty of small women who have a preference for big men. Case in Jelly Roll and Bunny XO were together for years before he became famous. I have been as big as 305 pounds at 6'5 and been told numerous times that being with big men just makes them feel safe. I do imagine the kind of big does matter though. If your stomach touches your knees or walking up a flight of stairs winds you, you probably aren't seen as safe.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 11:42 AM
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Unless you marry the first person you date and stay with them until death... EVERYBODY IS EVERYBODY ELSE'S BACKUP PLAN!!! This idea that you weren't picked first, so your second is f'cking stupid. Dudes on here are convinced that women have all knowledge of every man alive with some arbitrary percentage for their value attached, and that's how they choose who to date. It's so utterly brain broken.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 01:42 AM
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It's hilarious when these debates break out in this sub because 95% of the dudes here have never been cheated on or in a domestic violence situation. You'd need women to be interested in f'cking you to do that. It's goofy as hell to get this invested in and irate about hypothetical situations. I'm thurougly entertained, though 🍿🍿🍿.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 02:32 AM
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Outside of a handful of booty calls, I've never pursued or been pursued for casual sex. It just kind of happens when you hang around groups of people and interact with them in a sociable way. I don't know how to get this through yalls head, but even women who are receptive to casual sex do not want to be outright seen as just a sexual object. Make them feel seen and don't perv out on them, it's really not that difficult. The best way I can put it is that they already know men want to sleep with …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 02:10 AM
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Enrichment is simply the feeling of accomplishment. My wife and I have a disagreement or a misunderstanding. We resolve the conflict, and things feel lighter and more fulfilling. Over time, having this sort of symbiotic relationship with an intimate partner enhances one's life and it actually becomes easier to be with them than without. Far too many couples never resolve their conflicts and instead let them fester and build resentment. Most relationships that collapse quite literally do succumb …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 09:57 PM
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Target dummy? You addressed the one word in your statement I didn't disagree with and wasted time looking for "research" to agree with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 09:07 PM
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Thankfully, I didn't disagree that they weren't work, only that any work you put in should enhance your life. Though I think effort is probably a better word to use.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 08:58 PM
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That's... silly. If you're out here doing work that doesn't enhance your life, ya done f'd up, my guy. Also, if your relationship is ever harder than being single, then you need to be single. Just that mentality alone, that what, co-existing with another person is inherently harder than not, means you should be single. The idea that relationships are hard is wholly due to people not and refusing to, relationship correctly. They don't resolve issues as they arise, they let their egos get in the w…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 07:53 PM
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And I think OP hit the nail on the head, just not the nail he thought. If there is one dynamic that sets the men who are successful with women apart from those who are not, it's how they perceive their interactions with them. Men who are successful with women, generally, don't consider every interaction with them as inherently sexual. Women don't want to be seen as some sexual object to be lusted after. When they aren't, it's refreshing, endearing, and brings down a lot of defensive walls. I'm a…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 01:06 AM
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These passport bro debates are hilarious. First, the majority of them are aspiring passport bros that let other aspiring passport bros blow smoke up their ass about how foreign women are basically unicorns that fuck below average men like rabbits. Then there's the passport bros who think they were successful only to find out that they were just being used for a green card or some other benefit. There are successful passport bros, but they are the same rich, successful men who never had to leave …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 12:33 AM
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There's autism and then there's the "I'm autistic/neurodivergent, so..." crowd. Autism is a legitimate diagnosis with actual diagnostic criteria that is diagnosed by a trained physician. Until you are properly diagnosed, you are not autistic. I know this will piss off half of this sub, but just because you are horrible with social interactions, anxiety, and are sensitive to certain noises doesn't mean you are autistic. It might be, but this also what happens when you are terminally online and do…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 09:10 PM
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The biggest case of losing the plot i have ever seen, lol. No, people should not be put in prison for not paying child support. It is antithetical to the purpose of child support, and having been in jail makes it harder than not to do that. Also, someone's inability to find gainful employment shouldn't be a crime. I realize SOME people think not getting a job or working under the table allows them to skirt paying, but it just builds up, and as soon as you get any money through legal channels, it…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 01:23 PM
1

Which would make sense if Chad wasn't a figment of your imagination - an amalgamation of all the things you wished you were but have no real desire or drive to strive for.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 05:30 PM
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Just because you imagine it's happening, doesn't mean it is. Life isn't a Ryan Gossling movie where droves of women flock to certain men when they walk into a room. Nor is Reddit where y'all invent this sh*t out of whole cloth. Grow up.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 02:52 PM
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Absolutely friend. I do, however, firmly believe that if more guys were committed to calling out the bad actors in our orbit, the fewer of them there would be. Either because they learn and grow or just get exiled from society. Call me an optimist, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 09:32 PM
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It's like a bad car wreck, I can't look away. It's both hilarious and mortifying at the same time. I try my best to call out their bs but it gets exhausting. It's much more fun to mock them ruthlessly.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 09:20 PM
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Attention basement dwellers and antisocial dweebs and every dude in between. The vast majority of people who are dating, in ltrs, or married meet and met through their social circles. They either know, know of, or were introduced by friends/coworkers/acquaintances. The people they end up dating travel in the same groups, have similar interests, and/or regularly patronize certain places and attend certain events. Weirdos and creeps (whether you are one or not) with very rare exceptions, cold appr…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 09:18 PM
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The number of dudes I've seen on here say men are sexually assaulted at a higher rate than women, makes me want to move to a remote region of the world without access to the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 08:49 PM
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I just enjoy the fact that men on here swear up and down they just want to be protectors and providers. Ignoring the fact that most of them couldn't fight their way out of a wet paper bag, who do y'all think you're protecting them from? It's a weird cognitive dissonance to swear up and down women aren't valid in their concerns of male perpetrated violence while also acknowledging they need protection from... who the f*ck knows. Not men, apparently.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 08:14 PM
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This is the ridiculous part of the delusion. I've been many, many places full of people from clubs to conferences to resorts. The number of times I've seen a good-looking dude walk into one of those places and get the reaction you just described is literally zero. Celebrities, yes. Your run of the mill successful pretty/play boy- absolutely none. This guy that is definitely 200% real is used as both an excuse and a reason for perfectly normal/average dudes to justify their failures and shortcomi…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 03:06 AM
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I have a crazy idea that will NEVER happen on this sub. When making these brain broken posts that posit some totally real situation or position- how about f*cking posting some examples. 99% of the posts on here are some straw strawman argument or graphs about how women want huge penises. It's all so dumb and if you take all this time to make outrageous takes, take 5 minutes to find some examples that back up what you are saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 01:22 AM
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On these comments about not wanting to be settled for- my brothers in Christ, when somebody opts to be with you, they aren't f*cking settling for you. They accept you as the package you present yourself as. No one sits there and thinks, man, I really would rather date this guy over here, but I guess I'll go with this one. I guess if people were built in a shop where you could everything about them, then sure, I guess you are settling for something else. Attraction isn't some all-encompassing adj…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 08:05 PM
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Bahahahahahha... another day another brain broken PPD post. Not EVERY dude operates this way. I'd wager to say most of us are frugal as f*ck. More importantly, living with someone is NOT cheaper than being single. It's not like when two people live together, their financial needs decrease, and theoretically paying half the rent does not make up for that. Most importantly, once you insert children into the mix, you're in for an easy mil and a half per child by Western standards. The economy absol…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 10:04 AM
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Most passport bros never leave the country. They just get wrapped up in this weird fever dream that there are droves of subservient virgins all around the world that want to have sex with them. It's goofy. When I was in the Army, I knew many soldiers who brought back foreign women from Eastern Europe and Asia. They seemed all meek and dutiful until they got their papers, then all hell broke loose. The Asian women specifically would fck their sht up if they dared talk back or looked at them cocke…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 05:07 AM
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I hope nobody reads honestly much of anything on PPD and takes it as serious advice. The vast majority of people generally end up dating someone they know, know of, have acquaintances with, work with, go to school with, interact with in some way with, etc, etc, etc. Very few long-term relationships result from this cold approach nonsense. The more connections a couple has to their social circle, the more likely they are to stay together for a multitude of reasons. This is why, despite the massiv…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 02:35 AM
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I think it'd have to be for a better reason than low-labido. There would need to be some binding factor that makes your relationship indestructible. For instance, I will never leave my wife. We have as perfect as a relationship as it gets, but she is also chronically ill, which makes sex a challenge. We have discussed this scenario before, but at the end of the day, I'd rather cherish those moments we do get to be together than share them with someone else. It also helps that I don't see sex as …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 01:44 AM
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I don't know. I told my son I have no idea what he looks like when we aren't together. He didn't think it was very cool. Also, it's annoying having to use Google maps to get most places in my small town lol. It does make missing people easier when you can't imagine what they look like 😆.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 01:15 AM
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Okay, so I almost always take a peak at the post/comment history of people who respond to me. It just gives me an idea of intent/state of mind/approach, etc. I have a severe case of aphantasia. If interested, DM me or respond here. It had impacted me my entire life, and I have a lot to say about it lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 12:03 AM
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TLDR for everyone that doesn't want to read this entire delusional disertation: I read some stuff on Reddit written by guys who say this is how women are. I can't find one woman to substantiate this so it must be right. It's one long post of the same tired tropes and talking points regurgitated on this sub every day.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 08:56 PM
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Exactly!! Guys on here like to imagine that every guy who can easily gets hookups just smashes and dashes, leaving behind a trail of women pining for them. I've had this happen to me just as much as I've done it, and I don't think any of them ever decided they were madly in love after one night of sex. It's just silly and smacks of lack of irl experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 08:02 PM
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I'm the exception, I guess. I think the biggest toxic issue in most blended families is the power struggle between bio and step parents. I've been with my wife since her youngest was 3. It helps immensely when there is a healthy co-parenting relationship between the bio parents. It also helps when there is no conflict between the bio-parents of the same sex. The relationship I had with my ex-wife and her husband was abysmal for those very reasons. The difference between my wife and her ex is exc…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 06:44 PM
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Less jade, more optimism, brother.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 06:34 PM
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That's the spirit!! You'll find somebody who will say yes, my friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 06:21 PM
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This man's entire body is covered in a thick mane of hair, except, tragically, the top of his head. He had to shave twice a day just to stay in regulation. I don't find anything wrong with it, but I don't presume it's particularly attractive to most women.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 06:20 PM
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Nope. Still married 25 years later. The trope is this nonsense you've bought into. Newsflash, though, if you're fat and/or unattractive, you either date/marry fat and/or unattractive people, or you stay single and cry on PPD.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 05:32 PM
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People say this because there are plenty of unattractive men dating... unattractive women. So, if one dude who is objectively unattractive is dating and another is not, what would be the deciding factor? As an example, my roommate in AIT (military training) was a 5'1", bald, bulky, immensely hairy 30 year old guy. He was PROUDLY married to a 6'1" 350 pound single mother. Is there any doubt if he could have found a young, fit, extremely attractive woman that he wouldn't have preferred that? Maybe…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 04:41 PM
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Are you touched? That makes zero sense. Even this comment and what you're attempting to do is kinda the point. At best, you can apply this brain rot across the board. But to say with a straight face that this primarily applies to women when 99% of the drivel posted on PPD boils down to "women are at fault for my misery" is absolutely baffling.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 02:17 PM
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Exactly. I wouldn't say subjective personal experience is worthless. But taking 1 or 2 experiences you've had and applying some nonsense you read on Reddit and building your whole worldview around it really does create this false sense of reality. I have been with at least 4 dozen women and friends with many more and have yet to meet a carbon copy of another.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 11:21 AM
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You're absolutely right. There isn't a single dude in this sub that doesn't take accountability, doesn't dig deep to understand where they might be falling short, and definitely, definitely never blame women for their struggles... 😂😂😂🤣🤣😂😂... bruh, please tell me you said this shit sarcastically, ironically, or at the very least, equally applied it for everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 11:14 AM
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Because that's all they can do is wish, and it's extremely frustrating for them. They refuse to ask themselves what is wrong with me and what can I do to make myself into someone worth dating. Instead, it's just the same old ridiculous game of blame women for their loneliness. It's honestly sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 07:56 PM
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Probably the league of women who look like you and have a similar background. Are you under the impression that MOST relationships aren't between two people of the same race and ethnic background?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 05:17 PM
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Lol, I'm so disassociated from this pill stuff, I have no idea how to even answer this question. I appreciate you taking on the good fight for me, though. This whole text thread has been quite entertaining.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 05:08 PM
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Funny enough, if he is secretly Steven Segal, then the other two possibilities are also correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 04:34 AM
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Ya, dude is absolutely the softest man alive. Most men who are confident in their masculinity, their ability to protect their loved ones, and the way they see other men do none of this nonsense. Perhaps it's the fact that I'm 6'5", 275, built like a house, and have no need to question my ability to defend myself against the vast majority of men, but I've also never looked at another man and thought, look at that Beta. It's all so freaking stupid and pointless. GTFO with that absurd bs.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 04:20 AM
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If you have the same experience with every person you come into contact with, you are the common denominator in that equation. Did you ever stop and think the issue is how you interact with people? To be completely honest, your comment paints you as incredibly pretentious and pompous. And no, contemplating other peoples' personalities is not introspection. That is quite literally the opposite of introspection.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 03:43 PM
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Sir, did you just have a stroke? What are you even saying?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 11:01 AM
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10/10 times these types of comments are pure projection. They lack any sense of introspection or insight and fail to realize THEY are absolutely the problem in the conversations they are having.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 01:09 AM
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Exactly 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 12:56 AM
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So what are you basing this theory of yours on?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 09:43 PM
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It also shows sex to them is basically hands-free masterbation. My wife also has zero sexual value to me because I have no desire to have sex with her. I desire the out of this world connection I share with her through sex and the physical closeness it provides. I think the issue here is dudes that have very little sexual experience are so enamored by the idea of getting to have sex with anyone that they never get to the next part which is the purpose of sex in a successful, stable relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 11:44 AM
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Most of the guys on PPD SPECULATE they can't get dates and provide "empirical evidence" as to why this is. Very few have actually tried in any meaningful way. No, walking up to a woman and staring awkwardly at her until she goes ew gross and walks away is not a valid attempt.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 11:17 AM
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80% of PPD Redditors are, in fact, cave trolls, so this comment checks out.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 11:12 AM
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True fact, 80% of PPD Redditors are, in fact, cave trolls, so this checks out.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 11:09 AM
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This is what happens when you get your information from Reddit instead of actually talking to/being in relationships with women. This whole "topic" is beyond moronic. It is part and parcel with your comment "well I've never actually talked to a woman, but Reddit says" in the most snarliest, nerdiest, neckbeard voice you can think of.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 11:07 AM
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The only time this brain rot ever applies is men asking out women they have no business asking out. These men who feel this way exclude women in the exact same way these women exclude men and then have the balls to complain about it. It's like dudes are shocked to learn that in the VAST majority of relationships, the couple "look" like they belong together. Hot women date hot men, average women date average men, ugly women date ugly men. My ugly brothers, I'm sorry you can't bang "10s", it sucks…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 03:47 AM
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What in the world is a NINJA, bro? The only time I have ever seen the word ninja used outside of martial arts discussions, it was an eupanism for another N word. Please clarify that isn't what you mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 09:22 PM
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Have you ever seen those YouTube videos where an expert breaks down some complex topic in increasingly difficult comprehension levels? It's sort of like that. Two people a decade or more apart can absolutely be talking about the same thing but on two completely different levels. Though, to be entirely honest, men looking to date much younger women are often closer in maturity to them than women their own age.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 10:45 PM
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Here's the problem when you just think you know how reality is instead of experiencing how reality is. The VAST majority of people don't date with some arbitrary goal in mind. Sure, SOME women are angling for that perfect marriage/family and will be intentional in their dating. However, people date other people they click with, and as long as the vibes stay good, the relationship grows. To be clear, the way these dudes think dating should work is probably how it should. If people were more inten…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 11:35 AM
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As a disabled veteran who has issues with military service myself, I still frequently suggest that as a very viable path. Irrespective of views on the overall objectives of service, on the micro level, it is incredibly beneficial. It would definitely go a ways to alleviate a lot of what these guys lack. Comradery, teamwork, overcoming struggles with other men, interactions with some of the toughest women they'd ever meet, discipline, and on and on. They just always have one excuse or another abo…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 12:31 AM
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I'm not sure why you don't think these things exist anymore. Outside of philosophers who are now simply credentialed teachers, any average dude can do all of those things. Merchant Marines, Peace Corp, military service, Habitat for Humanity, clergyship, missionaries, etc, are all easily joinable and, for the most part, in desperate need of bodies. The issue isn't these things exist. The issue is that they are challenging. Most dudes sitting around complaining about the "male loneliness epidemic"…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 09:22 PM
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It's almost like I didn't say it was important... oh wait, I did. The point is that if all you see your partner as, is a hands-free masturbation tool, your relationship will never work. Relationships are far more involved than being roommates who exclusively bang, and anyone who thinks so should and will remain single in the long run.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 03:11 AM
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I think the issue is that dudes hyper focus on the sexual aspect of relationships to the point it seems like that's all they are interested in. While important, sex is a minut part of the totality of a romantic relationship, and yet most guys in spaces like this are just looking at those relationships first and foremost as consistent access to sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 10:41 PM
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It was even a matter of encouragement. It was just never discussed or brought up. Most of my experience was between my two marriages, 2010 to 2018 or so.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 03:34 PM
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I feel terrible about this, but out of 40 some odd individual partners, I used condoms with two of them. One was my first serious relationship at 15. The other was a hookup, and on round 2, we opted not to use one. Why? Honestly, I wasn't opposed it was just never brought up. I never carried them, and they never had them. To this day, I'm astounded by the number of women who aloud a mostly unknown man to both come to their home and have unprotected sex. Also, the fact I never once caught anythin…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 02:45 AM
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You know what I find so disingenuous about this idea that nobody really cares about men's struggles? Men do, and men provide services and organizations to address them. Google "mens phyical and mental health services," and you'll find an endless stream of service providers and articles covering this. The issue isn't that men need help overcoming struggles and that nobody cares. The issue is that too many men in places like this contextualize men's struggles in terms of dating and sex. Example, m…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 12:48 PM
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7-9.1 is the average dick size for porn stars, so I'm not sure how you get around seeing this. You don't need to search it out. You keep saying what you think, which is cool, I guess, but the search term is used by roughly the same percentage of men and women, making it objectively true that more men than women use the term. You aren't going to win this one, brother. Women consistently say big dicks aren't important and their porn viewing habits bore that out. They do, however, search for a lot …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 12:16 PM
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Sourced from TrustMeBro.com, obviously. Thankfully Porn Hub publishes stats every year that refute that site. The most popular porn stars for women are women and among the most searched men, they range from 7 to 9.1 inches. Suffice to say, I don't think they are watching Johnny Sins for his big dick. While big dick searches were among the bottom of the top searches for both men and women, men are the majority of porn viewers. Also, of the categories women search more than men, big dick is not on…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 09:15 PM
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OP: men don't care about dick more than women. Also OP: one of (at a minimum) two dudes and zero women who have posted about dick today. Brother, if dudes didn't care about dick, they'd one, not post incessantly about dick size and two, big dick (insert terms) wouldn't be so prevelant on porn sites. Dudes are absolutely the size queens they fear women are. Porn has broken y'alls brains.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 02:28 PM
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To be fair, most of us never mature past high school, so that makes total sense. The hilarious part about it is that when dudes are bi-curious or chasing trans women, 100% of them are looking for huge dicks. Like 9+ inches. So it's no surprise they think women also only want the same thing. Porn has destroyed their sense of self and reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 10:14 AM
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I concur. About 90% of men are size queens. Also, like OP, they think about dick way more than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 09:21 AM
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You might be surprised to learn that the seemingly wholesome, well-off, good Christian homes those students came from were anything but. I don't know about yours, but mine sure as shit wasn't. It's not even surprising that kids from super strict, image obsessed homes are incredibly rebellious and will do whatever they can to piss off their patents.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 12:47 AM
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Hello? Are you okay? You dug through a 4 month old post to be oddly pedantic and redundant at the same time. I know you've got better things to do with your time... I hope.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 02:37 AM
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You do realize that most states require an agreement of paternity or paternity tests to establish child support, right? They don't just go, oops, you were the one with her when she was pregnant, so you're financially responsible now. It's weird that dudes who don't have kids are absolutely terrified and feel victimized by the idea that paternity tests are (in their minds) stigmatized. It's even funnier that they think women are after their money and resources. Like calm down, Randy, no one is co…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 01:08 PM
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Granted, I was married for the entirety of my 20s and married again at 38, but dating in my 30s was a blast!! Dated dozens of women in their mid 20s up to my age, never a dull moment. I imagine it's a matter of perspective, if anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 03:47 AM
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Despite my protestations, the wife said I'm no longer allowed to bring any more women home. So now I just bring home random stray animals.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 12:31 AM
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Jesus Christ, my guy! Did you rip your nut sack making that ludicrous stretch? Fucking contortionist over here.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 04:47 PM
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I'm a humanist.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 04:34 AM
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The irony of saying a bunch of nonsense that OP should rightly be attacked for while whining they have been unjustly attacked by women is ridiculous. No, sir, if this is how your brain works and you have the audacity to say this crap out loud, you are being justly attacked. Of course, attacked is just a victim coded word for criticism. Got to make it all dramatic and junk to play the victim card that hard. The positive side of this is that OP and dudes that think like this are making it clear th…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 08:16 PM
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Oh, it absolutely does. Generations of men have been f*cked up by their toxicly masculine fathers and role models. r/purplepilldebate being the prime example of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 11:40 AM
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Brother, I was about to agree with you, and then you put your foot in your mouth with that last statement. I don't think I've ever seen someone be so on point who then managed to invalidate themselves with one sentence. I've never met a "butch lesbian" (and the majority of my wife's and I's friend group are) that acted so over the top masculine (if at all) that they displayed toxic masculinity. For the record, a masculine appearance does not equate to expressions of masculinity. If anything, it'…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 11:37 AM
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Never heard of this. Do you have a source that makes this claim?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 10:53 AM
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I can't reply to your other comment on that post, so I'm posting it here: Bruv, are you stalking me? One, women don't go around constantly chirping "not all women" as a defense for abhorrent behavior. Two, men suck at holding other men accountable and refuse address the root causes of these generalities. Three, as a man, I have no desire to confront women because the things they say because they do not apply to me, they do not bother me, and they certainly do not offend me. It is also not my pla…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 10:47 AM
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Holy shit bruv. Get ahold of your vitim complex. Mate, I was married for 13 years , and I ended after my wife cheated. Two women I was in a relationship also cheated on me. Two other relationships ended after abortions. A handful of others were just toxic as hell. Do you know what I did after each failed relationship? I took accountability for the part I played, grew as a person, and became a better partner while also learning to pick better partners. Do you know why? Because I'm an adult and me…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 10:14 AM
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Rule of thumb, anyone who jumps to the "not all _____" is either guilty, thinks it could apply to them, or is really good at playing the victim. I read and see generalizations every day about men and it takes a whole two seconds to think, does this apply to me? No, then it's not about me and therefore not about ALL MEN. In context, she was responding to my comment that said men who feel every woman is against them are likely the problem. She clearly stated that all these men (who feel like this)…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 01:52 AM
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To be honest, I think the issue is that these guys lack real-world experience. Most of them are just reading stuff online from other guys that may or may not experience bias confirmation and then incorporating that into their worldview. You'll notice most of the arguments on PPD are based on misconstrued "data" that (often doesn't) confirms what they already believe to be true.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 11:47 PM
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I see posts like this daily, and yet I've never been outright treated poorly by any woman. Obviously, through the challenges relationships bring, things can get dicey, and I'm sure I can think of a few times that things got nasty, but not in this context. Is it possible that these dudes being "mistreated" by every woman they meet or try to interact with might be the problem? What's more probable, that the one constant in the equation is the issue or every other woman they meet?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 03:44 AM
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Modern men suffer because they think there is some sort of universal nature of women to understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 08:35 PM
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Absolutely not. I'm also not innocent of that, but it's a lot harder for dudes that struggle with finding someone to pump in the first place. Obviously, they are going to latch on.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 05:19 AM
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That's yet another thing on a long list of things far too many dudes struggle with. Failure is not a punishment for not succeeding at something. Failure is absolutely necessary and in the right mindset, a success in its own right.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 05:16 AM
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That's the funny thing about OPs comments. I've been guilty of this, and I know most men who sort of struggle to find partners will latch on to the first woman who will touch their penis like they are the last. Sure, some dudes will sleep with a woman once and bounce, most will not.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 03:43 AM
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You know what baffles me? Dudes come on here and assert the most ludicrous things, and it irritates me. Not because I take any of it seriously. But because of all my years married/dating/fucking I've never once experienced any of this nonsense they present as unassailable irrefutable law. Then I'm like ohhh, that's the difference between lived experience and experience lived online. It's honestly sad and slightly depressing.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 11:56 PM
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Did you? With a graph you can't read?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 09:54 PM
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Because you're bad at reading graphs. If you take into account men outnumber women about 3 to 1 on dating sites and as shown at the very beginning of the graph, women message ugly dudes 3 times more than vice versa, you have your answer. You're just looking at the very end without realizing very few dudes have access to that spectrum of attractive women but that's not the case in reverse.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 09:41 PM
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Because relationships happen in the real world, not behind graphs and screens. The deviation on that graph is nearly neglible as it is. When you actually interact with people irl, it's obvious ugly dudes are getting laid by ugly chics.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 09:38 PM
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Cute graph. I bet that looks a lot different if you paired it down to a 1 to 1 ratio. Seeing as women receive more messages than men since there are way men than women on dating apps, obviously the amount of messages and to who is going to differ drastically. In fact, it actually proves you wrong. Looks like for every one ugly chic a dude messages, a chic messages 3 ugly dudes. Weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 09:29 PM
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Nice graph. What's the deviation because I assure you it's not as drastic as you think that graph makes it look?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 09:22 PM
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So verify it, brother. I see lots of ugly dudes with ugly chicks, and I'm presuming they aren't all platonic bestie.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 09:17 PM
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In fact, it is because ugly women need and desire love to. And before we go into this nonsense about every 3 thinks she's a 10 bullshit, every ugly dude you see with a woman in public is with an equally looks matched with that woman. The issue is dudes that are a 3 insist on only interacting with 8s and ups and then act gob smacked when they are justifiably rejected.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 08:49 PM
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Nope, many dudes suck at communication because this is their primary mode of communication, and they'll never learn effective intrapersonal or interpersonal communication. The world you think exists, doesn't. Plenty of women make the first move. My first wife did, and more than a few fwbs and hookups did. It happens, but it's just another thing dudes use to make excuses for their lack of romantic options. Saying nonexistent gender norms are holding them back alleviates their need or will to seek…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 08:39 PM
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I'm a 42 year old twice and currently married father of 6, and yet I say this with a completely straight face - CAP. Every refutation you just laid out is CAP. Except that you aren't an incel, I could care less, nor did I levy that claim. If you didn't care, you wouldn't be on a forum for romantically repressed men trying to debate who should approach who in dating. You seem incredibly emotional for someone who doesn't care. Good luck with all that, friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 08:16 PM
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Alright, since you decided to escalate, let's do some tough love. I'm tired of dudes like you and your lazy ass, weak, woe is me, blame the big meany women, for every fucking problem in your life. There is exactly one person to blame for why women won't touch your penis and it's 1 million% you. It isn't your height, your money, your average ass looks, your lack of career, "society", or any other thing you can bitch about. It is your shit personality, and yes, your inability to properly communica…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 08:01 PM
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Men are, in fact, incredibly bad communicators... when it comes to the men who are really bad communicators. Generally, men who struggle with dating are, not surprisingly, bad at communicating. The solution to being a bad communicator is communicating. Denying this and putting the blame on everyone else other than the men this applies to is part and parcel with another major issue MANY men deal with- personal accountability. I'm going to need my fellow men to stop practicing for the Oppression O…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 07:35 PM
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Due to a whole host of reasons, many men and most young men don't understand appropriate and proper communication, especially when talking to women. This often comes off as incredibly awkward and, yes, creepy. Are we proposing women or people in general should have to tolerate this and then teach said man how to properly communicate? Or should the onus be on the men who either through experience or self realization, know how bad they are at this, to work on this and improve their communication s…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 07:11 PM
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I think the issue is they'd be more desperate for sex and desperation can definitely come off as creepy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 03:47 AM
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It's a lack of proper socialization for boys and young men. Most dudes suck at appropriate and effective intrapersonal (as well as interpersonal) communication. Blame the internet, solitary hobbies, ineffective parenting, lack of extracurricular activities, etc. Humans are social creatures, and when you don't know how to socialize, you are necessarily excluded from societal activities like dating. Despite their protestations, most dudes aren't unbearable to look at. They are just unbearable to t…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 12:05 AM
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Ya, it's always the dudes saying women are out to steal the fruits of their back breaking labor that rarely leaves their couches, let alone do any sort of hard manual labor.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 05:33 PM
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What woman is being paid for life after divorce? Also, what portion of men are working back breaking jobs to support them that wouldn't be working those jobs otherwise? Like, are there a bunch of men working those jobs that would rather be sitting in a cubicle instead? Edit: To clarify, the only time long-term alimony being paid would be to women who were convinced being a homemaker is in their best interest. Maybe consider that before having this goofy preference for women that many dudes on th…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 09:23 PM
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You are so close to hitting the nail on the head and then over shooting it by miles. Women are like a mystery box because, like men, they literally are. Just like men, every woman is a whole ass individual and any attempt to put them in a clearly defined box will utterly fail. People just can't be whittled down to a handful of statistics and defining characteristics. If they could, relationships, romantic or otherwise, would be absolutely boring and pointless. The whole point of dating and getti…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 02:30 AM
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Damn, called him out. Definitely simp behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 07:42 PM
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Seeing as the development of Judaism and Christianity was, in part, influenced by anti-hedonism, I'd say this is certainly not true. I figured this would be obvious, seeing as the Bible as a whole references sex and sex acts more than any other topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 04:20 AM
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I don't think there's anything nefarious about dating a younger woman. I dated an 18 year old when I was 35. We had our moment, and we moved on. It is, however, more likely to be nefarious or, at a best, questionable when you have a preference for extremely young women. If you hang out in spaces, pick jobs that are oriented towards, or seek out, these women, then that becomes an issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 12:29 PM
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Ya, as long as you keep dodging literally everything that is said to you, it'd definitely seem that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 03:06 AM
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My wife and I have 6 between the two of us. I mean, it can be challenging sometimes, but not nearly that bad lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 12:13 AM
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Whoosh, you missed the point, brother. It was a comment on your view of masculinity and its place in finding relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 08:09 PM
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Then what is the solution, brother? Also, I promise you that when the lights are out, a body is a body, and they are all sexually attractive and satisfying, i.e. fuckable. Sex aside, relationships aren't simply about well, sex. Dudes on this sub go on and on about how damn lonely they are, but then balk at the idea of being with someone they don't value sexually. At the end of the day, what makes a great relationship is being with someone who simply makes life more enjoyable than not. If sex wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 02:58 PM
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Correct "a lot" to "everything" wrong about women, and you've nailed it, brother. For perspective at 35, I was staying with my mom, had no vehicle, and had a worse job than I do now (a series of unforseen circumstances) when I met my wife. She reminds me all the time that I was a walking red flag, and if I hadn't been such a great guy, she wouldn't have kept dating me. Ego aside, despite how hard you reject that statement you made, it isn't that far off from the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 02:27 PM
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News flash! The pot wakes up today and calls the kettle black. The issue isn't attractiveness, it's dudes not accepting the fact that the VAST MAJORITY of couples are looks matched. The dudes that struggle against this fact are the ones that struggle the most. The issue isn't that dudes can't find someone to be with. It's that they resent having to "settle" for someone who looks like them. I'm sorry, brother, but if you're 350 pounds, your old lady is going to weigh proportionally as much. There…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 02:18 PM
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Also, this is such a chronically online comment to make, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 01:47 PM
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That would make sense if it weren't for the fact that most of the women I have been with were situationships. Granted, the LTRs I've had were with women who had children, but that's more of a function of life compatability and not that my soldiers knowing how to hit their target 🤣.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 01:47 PM
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I'll wager your success rate of five to my 40-something relationships/situationships and two marriages, as proof that this is, as I said, problematic. This gives, "I see MMA fighters drowning in pussy (they aren't), so I'm obviously right," vibes. I'd be willing to bet your concept of masculinity is also incredibly skewed, especially if that vibe is correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 01:42 PM
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9' tall. You?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 01:37 PM
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Brother, this reads, "I'm terminally online and don't have any real world experiences." The mere fact that you feel it necessary or appropriate to go out and scour the internet to find articles that justify your preconceived notions plays into your own struggles. I am as unphotogenic as you get, I have zero fashion sense, the only stability I have is that I'm not a psychopath, and I'm not even particularly good looking and have to use facial hair to shape my jaw line. I will emphatically tell yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 01:36 PM
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It's ideas like these that get perpetuated and warp the perspective and expectations of men that are at least in part, responsible for men's dating struggles and loneliness. This idea that men are protectors and providers and that they literally have to chase and pursue women is utter garbage that adds a bunch of nonsense pressures to dating and life in general. Relationships occur from interactions you have in your daily life and the activities you involve yourself in. The more engaged you are,…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 01:08 PM
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Were like this? I am still like this, minus the divorcee part. I almost exclusively used dating apps in the 8 years between marriages, dated/slept with/had relationships with dozens of women of all legsl ages. That's why I find the sentiments on this subreddit so fascinating and confusing. There's got to be a reason why some average ass dudes are successful at dating while similarly average ass dudes struggle, other than some arbitrary percentage they fall into. From what I can tell, these pille…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 11:57 AM
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Maybe my wife and yourself just have impeccable taste 😁
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 03:56 AM
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Every time I see a comment like this, I'm like, hell ya, I'm top X % of guys, apparently. And apparently, top X % of guys are middle-aged divorcees that make under $50k a year with three kids and a dad bod. Makes me wonder how unfortunate the under X % of guys are.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 09:45 PM
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I appreciate your philanthropy, but if you are donating your monthly income, how are you eating out? Is the reason you don't tip really because you are dining and dashing?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 01:01 PM
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Not to be pedantic, but I'm curious to know if you are actually donating to these causes as opposed to tipping or doing neither? If every time you go out, you make a conscious decision to put your would be tip towards a good cause, I'd say, that's a decent thing to do. If you're going out and not tipping but also not contributing to those causes AND justifying it by saying these causes are more important than supplementing a servers' meager wages - that just makes you an asshole.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 12:36 PM
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No argument to respond. Only way to respond to these ludicrous insecurity posts is to validate those insecurities. Maybe instead of posts like this, make one about why you think about penis so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 03:51 PM
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I'm sorry for your small penis. It will be okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 07:24 AM
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After the 100th time, this dumbass topic has come up, I'll lay it out for you. Yes, women love them big. All of you dudes under 6.3 inches should definitely give up and leave the dating market and, frankly, society as a whole. You're insignificant and worthless, PURELY AND ONLY, because of your average and below penis size. All the shit you have been telling yourself is true, and your loneliness has nothing to do with your shit personalities or your inability to act normal for more than five sec…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 07:05 AM
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Brother, I have dated a lot of women, many having had experiences with sexual violence, and many that had not. The ones that didn't were frighteningly trustworthy of me as evidenced by our first meeting/dates in their or my home. The ones that did took much more time to get close to/be intimate with/feel safe around me. They were all arguably exposed to the same sorts of violent depictions of men in fiction and real life. Your premise, as explained by every woman that has responded to you, is bl…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 07:53 PM
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Also, it shows his inexperience with the many sexual positions that make this more likely. I have devastated my wife's cervix on more than one occasion.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 05:31 AM
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He definitely goes around asking chick's to come back to his place to look at his extensive collection of katanas and samurai collectibles. Then he gets pissed when people tell him that's creepy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 05:29 AM
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I think there is a large difference between murder and rape in video games. The vast majority of games that involve death/ murder involve a protagonist, usually the "good guy," using violence as a means to justify an end. Bad guys are doing bad guy things, and they have to be stopped. Obviously, open world games like GTA exist, and while they have tiptoed on the line, mainstream games have not crossed full-on rape. Especially not as the intended purpose of the game. Should they exist? Are we bet…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 05:27 AM
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Another day, another PPD Redditor feverposting about the feminist boogey monster. This level of thought and effort put into typing out this diatribe is neither healthy nor logical. If this is all OP has to worry about, he must lead a pretty privileged life.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 05:54 PM
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That guy must be fun at parties 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 03:52 AM
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This is going to be an effort in futility but fuck it, I'm bored. 1.Penis size influences male attractiveness and is as important as height - Brian Mautz et al. Proceedings of the National Academy of Sciences (PNAS), 2013 The conclusion of the study is that female mate choice could have driven the evolution of larger penises in humans and that this selection was primarily driven by anatomical symmetry, i.e., penises that matched height and muscular structure (Ala attractiveness). This does not s…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 04:01 PM
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This is the most succinct, eloquent, and completely accurate depiction of this conversation I have ever heard. Please repost this every time this stupid ass conversation comes up.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 03:17 PM
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Brother, I'm a man talking about the comments in this thread with my wife, and we both agree (in this context) men are absolute morons.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 03:10 PM
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You do realize that if something is stated to be universally true, it only takes one example to disprove that claim, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 02:22 AM
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Yet, it is often couched as a moral issue. Also, dudes make evolutionary/biological claims without a shred of evidence, knowledge, or understanding of the topic, specifically to use it as a scapegoat.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 02:20 AM
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A taller man with muscles doesn't equate to being able to fight off a mugger, but I get what you're saying. I'd say it's actually a disadvantage for a whole host of reasons. It is silly to care about body count, and I've yet to hear a solid, logical reason why one should care.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 02:15 AM
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The point is dudes (on PPD especially), like to say biology is to blame for a whole host of problematic issues and behaviors. It's silly because it's just a scapegoat to avoid personal accountability, which is the primary issue here and much more broadly in society among men of all ages.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 02:06 AM
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This is even sillier than the other response, on both accounts.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 02:01 AM
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"Muh biOlOgy" dudes are so funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 01:57 AM
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What exactly do you think I'm coping with shorty?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 01:31 AM
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Mmmm, that's silly. Also, most men couldn't fight their way out of a wet paper bag, let alone protect anyone. The more pertinent point is that neither of these examples are universal, not by a long shot.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 01:30 AM
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Explain this biological reason for low body count preferences in men. To be clear, the idea that men universally prefer women with low body counts is just as flawed as women universally preferring taller men with muscle mass. All of that aside, this overt focus on preferences becomes very silly when you realize at the end of the day, people end up with each other regardless of these. People and relationships aren't made in a Build-A-Bear store.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 01:19 AM
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/s... but I thought it was obvious lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 11:08 PM
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Right?! How's that working out for you, brother? Ever since I learned this, I've been banging femoid snatch nonstop. It's like learning the cheatcode for unlimited vag.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 10:32 PM
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The way you present the "issue" is clownish and speaks to how unserious you are about it. The issue is, in fact, serious when and where it does occur. You, however, make a mockery of it. But sure, go ahead and not defend your claim that divorce is tantamount to rape. Hopefully, it's because you realise how absolutely idiotic such a claim is. And to be clear, I'm singling out the divorce thing because it's absolutely bankrupt of any moral clarity on your part. Every other part of your argument an…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 04:02 PM
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Because divorce isn't fucking abuse nor a form of RAPE. The fact that you used grape shows how incredibly unserious you are about actual abuse. The fact that you are trying to make divorce-rape a thing shows how a fundamentally unserious person you are. I hope you keep this up, though, bud. That way, I don't have to put any effort into finding someone else to mock relentlessly.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 12:39 PM
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To be fair, I, as a man, also relentlessly mock men who try to bring this up. Not because it doesn't EVER happen because it certainly does. But because every time it is brought up, it's done in this incredibly cartoonish way. You get mocked because you're making a farce out of actual abuse by saying ludicrous things like divorce-"graping". GTFO here with that nonsense, and like another dude said, for your sake and ours, please go touch grass. Is that enough substance for you, my guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 06:19 AM
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I think the issue is that dudes almost exclusively offer looks based or looks-adjacent compliments and feel like that should hold some value. It's incredibly shallow, low effort, and absolutely uninteresting. Like, congratulations, dude, you have eyeballs. I'd assume a lot of women are also put off buy it because those "compliments" are often followed by sexual advances if they don't shut it down and verbal abuse if they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 05:09 PM
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I'm always baffled by these "men should be able to financially abort children" posts. No matter what your argument is, neither the mother nor the father have a say in child support. The state determines financial responsibility because it has a vested interest in not footing the bill for every absent parent who doesn't want to contribute monetarily to raising their children. Furthermore, the state bases that amount on income because it has deemed it inappropriate to condemn a child to poverty wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 03:52 PM
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Weird, I'm none of these things and have never not had or been able to find someone to sleep with/date/marry. I am 6'5, so if you are going to say, POINT PROVEN, because I meet one of those bullet points, then you are, in fact, proving the point you are arguing against. You know what I don't have is a repugnant personality that would drive me to make posts like this and others on PPD.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 12:48 PM
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Not if the purpose of the date is a ONS. ONSs are usually the pretense for FWBs.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 12:37 PM
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The vast majority of my one night stands, fwbs, str/ltr relationships, and finally marriage, came from Tinder. Sincerely, an average ass dude with an average ass government job.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 02:09 AM
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It's just a characature of people they are convinced exist and then they build up these silly arguments/"debates" around their imagined existence. It's hard for them to reckon with the fact that every single freaking person on this planet is driven by their own motivations, intentions, insecurities, needs, wants, etc. It's an evolutionary flaw that has convinced most of us that people on the micro level can be grouped on the macro level, and it's just pure sophistry. It's also worth noting these…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 02:25 AM
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Like?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 03:41 AM
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As a counter to the idea that there should be a cap on child support- the rate you pay is for the purpose of maintaining the life the child was used to prior to the split. Dudes act like they should only have to pay the bare minimum to keep their child from starving. I get that it sucks but I'm not really sure what other REASONABLE solutions there are.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 08:25 PM
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If that is true, the idea that MTG is why dudes who play are lonely, is hilarious. Likewise with anime, and you actually bring up a great point. My daughters didn't start dating these dudes are into MTG, anime, and video games. They started dating them because they are good, well rounded men that treat them right, who happen to be into these things. They are also average looking dudes that are substantially shorter than their 6'5" dad who have average paying jobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 08:43 PM
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Brother, both of my daughters' fiances/boyfriends are huge MTG fans, and they had never even heard of it. They now play with them and enjoy it from time to time. While it's good to have things in common with your partner, it's healthy and preferred that you have your own things you can do separately. A lot of dudes think their "nerdy" hobbies are more stigmatized than they actually are.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 05:56 AM
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That's 1 out of 10000 other reasons. Let's see how many more you can think of, perhaps where the solution doesn't involve a dangerous experimental procedure. Side note, there are a ton of men who refuse to acknowledge their responsibility to satisfy their partner before they finish, and certainly after if they failed to do so. That's a big one that seems to never be solved by "communication" as can be attested to by about every woman who has ever had sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 10:44 PM
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Bruv, most mamals are sexually compatible if you think compatibility means peepee goes in vajayjay. There's countless reasons why two people might not be sexually compatible that can't be communicated through no matter how badly they might want to. In a perfect world, sex wouldn't matter, but for most people, it's essential pair bonding, i.e. love.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 09:07 PM
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No, I'm arguing with a kid who decided to pipe up to I don't know, stick up for the dick head that decided to come at me sideways instead of responding to something he didn't like appropriately. I'm not really sure what you thought you were gonna get out of this exchange, but it's not going to be anything productive. You're also reading into what I said. Dude wants to pop off about being pussified when we knows his bitch ass would never say that shit in person. I honestly don't give a fuck about…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 08:21 AM
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Kiddo, you don't want this smoke. Sit down before you hurt yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 07:33 AM
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One, I didn't threaten violence, you nerd. Two, I brought up height because all you red pilled incels are convinced women won't touch your penis unless you're over 6'. Get bent bitch.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 04:45 AM
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One, I didn't threaten violence you fucking nerd. Two, I bring up my height because all of you red pilled incels are absolutely convinced women won't touch your penis unless you're ever 6 ft. Get bent bitch.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 04:42 AM
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Bitch, I'm 6'5 275 pounds, I'll show pussified. Fucking child.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 12:31 AM
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Ya, that's gonna be a big no, my dude. Grifters like Andrew Tate prey on the insecurities of young and jaded men, they do not cause the insecurities. The insecurities of men are then compounded by people like you that say, ignore the economic insecurities you feel, ignore your lack of job prospects, ignore the fact you are unable to secure shelter or suitable transportation, ignore being priced out of education services, ignore the lack of proper physical and mental healthcare you need. Instead …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 03:51 PM
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Hello? Are you okay?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 01:01 AM
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I'm not really sure why people get so upset over this. One, if someone is that dismissive of the time you have invested in them, why give two flips about what they have to say or think? Two, if they were actually honest with you about why they were cutting contact, it'd just hurt your feelings, so why expect this. Three, them no longer wanting to have contact with you isn't going to provide any clarity or impact you in any meaningful way that would benefit you in the future. If anything, it's go…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 06:07 AM
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Every relationship is temporary until they aren't.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 02:34 AM
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It's hilarious how dudes think more about dicks than women. And of course, the more they talk/think about it, the straighter they are. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 03:08 AM
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There is no argument to formulate against the boogeyman feminism that dudes cry incessantly about on this sub. It is a fabrication invented in your brain to obfuscate the fact that the struggles you have with women and in life is wholly on you. It's no different than blaming any other group of people for why you struggle. This is further expounded on by the insane length of time, effort, and thought put into justifying this dellusion. Perhaps that effort would be better spent on some self reflec…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 05:54 AM
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Bunch of developmentally stunted dudes frustrated that women won't touch their penis agree with loser frustrated women won't touch his penis... shocking. But hey, maybe your perceived Reddit clout will help turn things around for you, little guy. Or you'll just keep crying about how the mean ole feminists are ruining everything so that you don't have to ever accept an ounce of personal accountability for your life. Good luck with all that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 05:17 AM
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No one talks about feminism more than a dude who can't get a woman to touch his penis. These long ass thesis statements on feminism and how terrible women are are so played out. Can we get something original, something more based in reality and not the hurt feelings of some dude who would forget all this nonsense if he could just get laid?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 03:12 AM
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Curious about this line of thinking. Wouldn't it go to reason that the poorer and likely less educated you are, the less "access to birth control" you have?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 02:39 PM
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If you've had enough experience with women to come to this conclusion about all women, I hate to tell you this, but you're the only common denominator in that equation. Which brings us full circle to the pathetic lack of accountability displayed by "men" on this sub, in particular.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 06:02 PM
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It's kind of hard to see with your wide open eyes when your head is shoved so far up your ass you're convinced your shit doesn't stink.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 05:59 PM
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Oh sweet, a false dichotomy this early in the morning. You aren't equipped for this conversation, my guy. You are outing yourself as one of these "most men are perfect, and women are lying about their abuse" weirdos. It's gross and indicative of why you are on this sub and relating to some idiotic pilled ideology.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 02:59 PM
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How do I challenge a false claim other than by one, saying it's false and two, maintaining that I am a man, speaking about men. You can shift accountability all you want, but it only just exasperates the point that many dudes (and you particularly since you've interjected) will always go BuT WoMeNs!!!. It's frankly pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 02:54 PM
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100% agree. I'm more referring to the propensity for my fellow men to leave a relationship and lay the blame for its failure entirely at the feet of their partner. There are always lessons to learn and grow from and towards being a better future partner, and when you claim perfection on your side, that growth never happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 02:50 PM
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I wish more dudes would take this approach because it is definitely a pro growth mindset. Just because a relationship ended badly doesn't take away from the fact that you were together for a reason and that you (if it was established) loved that person. To many guys walk away from relationships solely blaming their partner, never taking accountability for the role they played in the failure of the relationship. If you can maintain this love for your ex and who they were to you, it makes it much …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 01:46 PM
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Spaces where men congregate to blame women for their failures, struggles, lack of success in dating, and life in general. Spaces where dudes repeated negative experiences are linked to women as a whole even though the common factor in those experiences is them. Spaces like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 12:58 PM
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What a dumbass ignorant statement. For one, not my social circle. Two, what the fuck does that even mean? How would a social circle even be indicative of abuse unless you are prepared to engage in victim blaming, which, by this statement, it appears you are angling at.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 12:54 PM
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I can tell you are a stalwart example of this. And not that this sub is indicative of most or many men, but there is a complete lack of it here.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 04:38 AM
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And this is the other issue dudes have. BuT wOmEnS!!! is a shit way to evade personal accountability. I am a man addressing other men, I give to shits about what women may or may not do in this instance because none of us are one. I've met, dated, bed, and wed more than I care to count (accept the wed, just two of those), and my statement remains the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 03:00 AM
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And you know this how? There are a few reasons you wouldn't. Culturally, it can be a taboo subject. Individually, they don't feel comfortable talking about it or potentially reliving it. Personally, they don't trust sharing it with you. Possibly, they've only ever experienced the longing gaze of a loving man... though this is least likely to be the case. All of that aside, between both of our anecdotal experiences, yours is the least common, and there's a reason for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 02:51 AM
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Brother, there isn't a woman in my life who hasn't been raped, molested, sexually assaulted, or abused. This isn't just a Hollywood thing, but you should be equally unshocked by it. If you are, maybe talk to some of the women in your life about their experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 01:25 AM
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I think they are confusing men holding other men accountable with defending women. Whether you agree or not with their complaints about men, a lot of what women point out could be solved among men. There is a severe lack of personal accountability among men, especially younger ones, that I've noticed lately, especially in spaces like this. Spaces like this where men will lament about the consistent challenges they face with women and then come to the conclusion that women are the problem. I do s…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 12:42 AM
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Brother, there are people in every movement/ideology/group who take things to the extreme. It's goofy that you would take the extremes of a single group and create a caricature of that group to make a baseless claim about another group. Everybody, men and women, who fall into the extreme spectrum of something naturally isolate themselves from those that don't and relate to those that do. When people on this sub make posts like this, they're really just outing themselves in the vitriol they feel …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 11:48 AM
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Wrong. Stress due to financial issues, however, does.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 01:45 AM
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That doesn't happen on any meaningful scale. Financial stress i.e. not making enough to adequately support the family while also being able to agree on priorities and who gets what, etc, however do.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 01:43 AM
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It's weird seeing guys say that education level and career success don't matter in women when the number one cause of divorce is money or the lack thereof.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 06:02 PM
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The funny thing about this is the men that actually engage in this and not the ones that dream about it are the same dudes guys on this sub loathe. They are generally successful, good-looking, charismatic, and loaded. Overweight Andy sitting in his mom's basement, doom scrolling PPD has the same chances of scoring a hot foreign woman, than he has any other "western woman". The ones that are successful are absolutely being farmed for green cards. Hell, even in the military where most dudes are at…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 11:47 AM
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Just a minor correction- the top % of men get laid by the top % of women that you find attractive. It seems like when you all talk about this, you are being resentful that those women don't want you. I get every dude would love to fuck a Sydney Sweeny (or insert other highly attractive woman) but that's just not how life works.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 12:50 AM
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Body count has absolutely nothing to do with your propensity to cheat or willingness to be faithful. In my mind, limited experience with intimacy paired with an unfullfiling, unhappy relationship would be more likely to lead to cheating, but that's just me. Ultimately, it's the latter part of that sentiment that leads to cheating. Nobody in a happy, healthy, and fulfilling relationship cheats. Cheating is a sign of a relationship in turmoil, and the cheating is generally a symptom of much deeper…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 05:15 PM
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Brother, you were the one using all caps, which is a standard hysterically triggered thing to do. I'm not triggered my guy, I'm just concerned for your health. Still, none of what you decided to go on a tangent about is at all applicable to what I'm saying. Reddit has cooked your brain big dawg.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 03:37 PM
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Hello, are you okay? I fear you might have stroked out here or responded to the wrong person? That's a goofy non-response, and honestly, I have no idea what you are trying to even say or why you seem so upset. Tldr just go out with people (applies to everybody) and have a good time without frontloading it with a bunch of bullshit. If you click, great, if not, it's no sweat, at least you had a good time. Maybe take a time out from Reddit or something because you seem really stressed. Buh-bye.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 03:11 PM
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Ummm... he didn't say they were equally fat, my guy. The dude definitely thinks most women are fat, so let's not get it twisted, big dawg.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 12:57 PM
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Sttoooppp... how dare you bring facts in here that refute the imaginary worlds inside these guys' heads. You should be ashamed.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 08:19 AM
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It's no wonder that people who approach dating like this are alone and often miserable. Here's a crazy idea. How about go out and enjoy your time with somebody? If something happens, then great, if not, then you had fun, and you move on. All these expectations, transactional approaches, and outright severe pessimism has got to be exhausting. As far as the attraction thing goes, sure. As long as you keep in mind that the vast majority of couples are looks matched. It's okay if you look like Igor,…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 09:18 PM
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Are you under the impression that the only reason people cheat is that their partner is sexually inadequate? I've never known this to be the case, especially for women. If your significant other cheats on you, your inadequacy as a lover should be the least of your concern. Generally, nobody in a happy, healthy, fulfilling relationship cheats. If your relationship is failing to the point of infidelity, you both likely have a part to play.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 07:24 AM
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Yes, I agree, the internet thing people call feminism is indeed toxic. Oddly enough, the only people it impacts are the people who are convinced it exists. I responded to some duffus earlier that said feminism allows women to file false police reports carte blache without consequence. I responded that that's not a feminist, that's a criminal, and false police reports get prosecuted all of the time. This thing people think is feminism is toxic, they just happen to think everything a woman does th…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 06:02 AM
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I'm going to sidestep all this brainrot with something that makes this nonsense, obviously about bigotry and nothing to do with fairness in sports. There isn't one damn person that has decided to clutch their pearls about the .00001% of athletes that are trans, that gave a single fuck about women's sports prior to this. There is none of this passion for better pay and benefits, improved training facilities, highly qualified trainers, the out in the open sexual abuse by team doctors, etc, etc. Th…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 05:56 AM
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Anime has failed you, my dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 05:45 AM
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I'm not sure what you are going on about. I used "you" twice, colloquially to point out that people, specifically men, should not start with feminism as the root of their issues, and when they do, the issue is ALWAYS internal to them. And, that men who do this are weak as fuck. I'm sorry you feel like I was singling you out. I realize that I was writing a response on a post you made, but it was not addressing the post directly - but indirectly calling out men who would buy into the notion that f…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 05:43 AM
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The comment applies whether you are a man or a woman. Men who think feminism has had any tangible impact on them are weak as fuck. You, as a woman, trying to convince them of such is diabolical at best.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 11:12 PM
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The issue is this- if you require that trans women must compete with biological men, they will get hurt. However, if you require trans men to compete with biological women, they will get destroyed. Transmen are significantly stronger than transwomen. So the only solution here is just straight-up discrimination if you want to "die on this hill". I'm not sure why transphobes forget that transmen exist. That's why the bathroom thing is so fucking dumb. Transmen tend to transition much better than t…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 07:22 PM
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That's not a feminist my dude. That's a criminal. False police reports are a crime, and they get prosecuted all the time. There is no need to feed in useless nonsense like boogeyman feminism to scare the little boys at bedtime.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 07:01 PM
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Only weak men think feminism in any way has some sort of tangible impact on their life. Maybe stop putting the horse before the cart when looking for excuses as to why you personally struggle in life. Spoiler alert, it will ALWAYS be internal when you have convinced yourself the boogeyman is holding you back.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 06:57 PM
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Ya, I'm going to be honest, chief. I've never once had a woman come out swinging, demanding rough sex, busting out the BDSM gear right out the gate. Yet I don't know one woman who hasn't had the absolute shit choked out of her without any warning or discussion beforehand. Most have had an anal "slip up" experience. Most have been forced down and held on a penis they weren't expecting to have to take all the way. And the horror stories go on and on. Dudes watch porn as a tutorial for how to have …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 03:52 PM
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As long as dudes refer to every individual wholly separate person with a vagina as the monolith women, they will always struggle with dating and finding healthy, long-term relationships. The chick that works behind the desk at your local gas station is not the same woman as the one acting in whatever new movie is in the theater. If you can't fucking understand that these two people and the 3.9 billion women in between them don't think, feel, see or experience the world in the exact same way- whe…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 02:01 PM
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There is one reason and only one reason first marriages end in divorce, and it's that people suck at relationships. If you don't have a lot of experience and are willing to actually grow and learn how to be a better partner, being married is going to be a rough experience. People are also often overly sensitive, think every negative emotion their partner experiences is about them, have unreasonable expectations, have uncompromising ideas on what is fair, and think they should always come first. …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 01:53 PM
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This is something my wife and I have been working through. I have always made an effort when stating my feelings that they are mine and that she can't make me feel a way I'm already not willing to feel. Something that has always been helpful to me is understanding from a very early age that while the pain/trauma/abuse I have experienced isn't my fault, it is my responsibility to deal with it. Burdening others with that responsibility, I feel, is the main driving force in many toxic relationships…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 02:08 PM
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Jahova Witneses for one. Curiously, I don't see anyone trying to force them to give their blood or organs to save their child. I also don't see them being punished for letting their children die by denying them access to life-saving treatments. Then again, this was never about being pro life. It has always been about being pro forced birth full stop.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 05:54 AM
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I definitely agree with this. Pretty women with extra weight can definitely get it, lol. My first wife was very bottom heavy, small on top, and very cute in the face, and that was definitely not one of the issues that led to our divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 09:06 PM
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I'm going to be honest, brother. I don't see a lot of mismatched sized couples. Larger men usually date larger women and vice versa. Most couples in general are looks matched. The issues come when bigger guys (and bigger gals) don't think they should have to "settle" for someone their size. Anecdotally, I've known plenty of women who prefer bigger dudes because, usually, they feel more safe and secure. There are also plenty of couples in the media, some together before fame like Jelly and Bunnie…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 09:02 PM
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If you're dating, please tell me you tell every guy this to weed out the insecure ones, lol. Also, I'm pretty sure the porn, in part, drives the insecurity.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 12:02 AM
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Brother, the mismatch is in your head and the heads of dudes that have been convinced by this rhetoric. It comes from replacing a lack of irl experience with ideas that sound right. Nobody (in general) decides you know what, I want to start a family and then set out to make it happen. MOST people in the course of living their lives end up dating someone they really like and then starting a family with them in the normal progression of their relationship. MOST dudes don't sit around, like man, I …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 11:42 PM
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The VAST majority of people, no matter the gender, don't change for other people, nor should they. People change for themselves based on lived experience and in the context of relationships, to be a (hopefully) better partner. If you are changing for someone else, the likelihood of maintaining that change, not developing resentment over it, and being able to maintain that change moving forward is infinitesimaly small.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 10:02 PM
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How dare you say something logical that completely refutes the very essence of their being?! Don't you dare make them self reflect. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 12:08 AM
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I've never read something so based on this sub. Please preach this as often as you can.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 05:34 PM
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Ya, the logical thing would be to have seasonal work visas.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 04:26 AM
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You don't understand, though, he was doing it for research purposes. He even provided them exit surveys at the end of each date 🤣🤣.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 12:17 AM
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Brother, I didn't waste my time writing what you basically admitted to a shit post and then tried to reply to everyone's comment. Touché though, sometimes I can't help but watch train wrecks.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 09:50 PM
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No, they aren't, lol. I find that defying expectations and being fun to be around negates most women's innate cynicism. Okay, I guess. That seems like a weird way to spend one's time but to each his own.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 09:42 PM
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Oh no, buddy, I read it, and I was thoroughly entertained. I didn't say you're a liar, just that you have an imagination. First off, I'm going to assume English is not your first language because if it is, your challenges in life are far more serious than convincing people on Reddit you've been on x number of dates. Second, it's funny that you admit most red pilled dudes haven't been on any dates, but you, as a red pilled dude, had 50 dates in 1.5 years and can verify they are right about everyt…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 09:16 PM
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Hey, at least posters' imaginations are running strong on this sub. The problem with the red pillers is that they talk from a position of frustration and not experience. It's literally the blind leading the blind.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 08:25 PM
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You're still doing it. You are not the arbiter of this, and regardless of whether it's true or not (plot twist, it's not), this has absolutely zero material impact on your life. Your focus on whether women are held responsible and your fear of the boogeyman, aka feminism, does not benefit you one iota. Focus on yourself, brother, and the things that you can impact and which benefit you. This bullshit ain't it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 08:12 PM
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Here's an example - you have no fucking idea what you are talking about. The shit you have said in these comments does not match any objective reality, and you need to grow up. Life sucks, people suck, and personal struggles are hard, but until you are prepared to take personal accountability, you are always going to be stuck where you are. Man up, brother, you are the only person holding yourself back. You fixating and hating on women or any other group will never benefit you and will definitel…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 12:41 PM
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This is where these things fall apart - by and large people date/fuck/marry other people who bat in their same league. FOR THE MOST PART, super attractive people couple with super attractive people, average with average, unfortunate with unfortunate. Each of these groups has their individuals who are going to behave less than preferable, behave badly, do the wrong thing, etc, but also in the opposite direction. At the end of the day, the guys that make these arguments desperately want to bat out…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 12:34 PM
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Kiddo, you couldn't call out a foul ball into left field, let alone approach calling me out. Pissing in your pot isn't being dishonest, it's knowing how to engage stupidity. The point of correctly claiming disfranchisement is ALWAYS about voting rights in modern parlance is blatantly obvious. The idea that men are being disenfranchised in any usage of the word, 18th or 21st century, is so blatantly idiotic, and it undercuts any sense of personal accountability men should have for their position …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 02:46 AM
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Don't make me dug through your comment history to prove yo you that you aren't as nice as you think you are big dawg. To be clear, I wasn't saying that they are being incels. I'm saying there are plenty of good to decent looking men that are creeps alla Elliot R. Looks are not everything, brother, tons of ugly people bumb uglies every day. Here's the deal, and it's something that is pervasive here- no, you shouldn't have to settle. But you also have to recognize that the VAST majority of couples…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 02:36 AM
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Now you're getting buddy. Unless you have data that says otherwise, this would be the default conclusion. To be clear, it's the default conclusion because most couples are fairly close in height. This should be obvious because there are far more couples than there are men over 6 ft.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 02:18 AM
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Yes, if you are going to make statements in totality, then you are going to have to come with data. Women, overall, do prefer men taller than THEM. The data you will find is that of the minority of women who mention height on dating profiles, the majority prefer men who are 6" and taller. It is safe to assume that if the MAJORITY of women don't specify a preference for height, then they don't care even though they prefer men taller than THEM.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 12:16 AM
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Dunces be duncing today. That's not what you were doing, my guy. You provided the first thing you could copy and paste that you thought supported what you wanted to say. You left off, especially because it would defeat what you wanted to say. I pointed out that disenfranchisement is ALWAYS about voting rights because there is no other modern context for it. I also pointed this out because it would ruffle the feathers of every "woe is me" dude on here thinks that it's meanie women's fault they ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 12:09 AM
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And YET the base definition includes especially. Yes, they will provide historical usages of a word. There's all kinds of words we can use to redefine modern context if we want to be disingenuous in their usage.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 11:59 PM
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Statements asserted without evidence can be dismissed without evidence. Also, don't be goofy, I can't strawman my own argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 11:55 PM
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Not exclusively, just especially, which is as close as it gets in a definition since most words have multiple definitions. The word hasn't been used to refer to anything but voting rights since before the Civil War. And I'm not worked up my guy, I just have little patience for dudes who whine incessantly about being so horribly mistreated by society. Personal accountability used to be a staple of masculinity, and it's something that's desperately missing from these pilled subs (masculinity and p…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 11:23 PM
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There's only one type of dude concerned enough about feminism to bother ever bringing it up, and you definitely fit the bill, brother. Hope this is having a positive impact your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 11:11 PM
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It's okay to just say I didn't know I was using the wrong word. Systematic makes absolutely no sense in the context of your argument. You are being systematically dunked on, but that isn't a systemic issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 11:07 PM
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I've apparently ruffled quite a few feathers so I've requested examples of disenfranchisement being used to describe poor little guys being victimized by radical feminists or some similarly ludicrous example used in the comments. I suspect more women are meanies comments, but we shall see.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 11:05 PM
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It is ALWAYS used to refer to voting rights in modern usage. A simple news article or example not invented in the minds of dudes who lack any sense of personal accountability, would easily disprove this.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 11:02 PM
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I like how you decided not to include the second part of the definition as displayed in the VERY first result from Merriam- especially : deprived of the right to vote. Consider being more intellectually honest and less concerned about boogeywoman feminists.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 10:59 PM
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In modern times, it is ALWAYS used to refer to voting rights. Find me an example where disinfranchisement is used to explain how guys are being victimized by "radical feminists" or some similarly ludicrous example brought up in these comments, and I will yield. A simple news article will do.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 10:52 PM
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Nah, son, there are plenty of Elliot-like weirdos running around here that come off as incredibly creepy. However, I like your "I'm so respectful to women, but also, womanese is a thing," comment. I guarantee you don't come off the way you think you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 10:44 PM
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I'll do it for you in light of all these rejects trying to impose a definition that hasn't been used in several hundred years. Disenfranchisement is exclusively and always used to refer to the loss of voting rights. It has never once been used to describe whiny ass incels being victims of "radical feminists." I remember back in the day when a key part of masculinity was personal accountability. Nope, not here at least.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 10:37 PM
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Thankfully, I don't think OP will ever have to worry about his wife/fiance/girlfriend/female dog or anything else with a vagina leaving him for a man or woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 07:49 PM
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I love how everybody in these comments is arguing about everything except the fact that... YOUNG MEN AREN'T BEING DISENFRANCHISED!!! To be disenfranchised means they lost the right to vote. Clearly, they haven't, even though some of them maybe should be based on their basis for casting votes. There are a lot of causes for the ills we face in society. Reading comprehension and understanding the meaning of words is definitely one of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 06:45 PM
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That's a cute way of saying I didn't realize the word is systemic since clearly, systematic makes no sense in your argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 06:34 AM
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How do you go through the entire effort of thinking about, writing it out, posting it, and responding to comments on a post and fucking misspell systemic as systematic every god damn time?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 06:31 AM
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Umm, now I know you're a liar because there were only 3.758 quadrillion aliens the last time I counted. Get wrecked, you fibber.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 04:22 AM
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I know at least 10 6'8 dudes that are hideous, and women run from them, and small children cry in their presence. Weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 03:51 AM
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Thankfully, there are tons of women who are shorter than even the shortest man (health and genetic issues aside). And no, no one is dating someone they are repulsed by just because they are tall. This is silliness.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 08:02 PM
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No, I'm sure the first reaction is, I'm not interested in dating Shrek.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 06:27 PM
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That's the sprit lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 03:42 AM
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The VAST majority of my dating experiences led to sex on the first date and subsequently short and long-term relationships. The reason for this, from the proverbial horses mouth, was I wasn't a creep, and I was respectful. The bar is literally in the deepest crevices of hell if that's all it takes. It blows my mind dudes fuck this up more than not.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 03:11 AM
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I like that men on Reddit think every dude over 6'0" is a "Chad". My guy, there's just as many terrifying hulking ogres as there are tall good looking dudes. It's not like the ugly tree stops sprouting after a certain height 🤣🤣!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 01:33 AM
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So, now all you have to do is apply this in your life and then come back with the data and whether or not you have found your soulmate. Looking at the way you respond to people and how you "developed your model of the female brain," I know there is no point in debating this with you. I do know that as someone who has been married twice (and currently) and had many, many short and long-term relationships, none of this bares any connection to reality. I think at its most fundamental level, this id…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 04:12 AM
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I mean, I'm an average dude and had a harem of women at one point. That aside, the straight-up hookups I've ever had weren't due to dates. Usually, when someone wants to hook up, they'll just say, hey, you trying to fuck. To be clear, most dates I've ever been on ended with sex but that was never the intent of the date, and most of those dates resulted in short - to long-term relationships. The point is that all this brainwrot and speculating about motives and intentions is shit people make up i…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 04:50 PM
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Makes sense since I wasn't replying to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 10:51 AM
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Are you suggesting that people who can't have sex, can only be friends? Do married couples that enter their later years, all of a sudden become just friends, because they aren't having sex. Can asexual people not be in a committed relationship? This idea that sex is the only deciding factor in whether a relationship exists is asinine at best. It's more accurate that intimacy defines the line between a relationship and a friendship. Intimacy can include sex but doesn't exclusively do so.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 05:01 AM
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The issue isn't that single men want to sleep with supermodels. It's that a lot of single men feel like they shouldn't have standards for their physical appearance applied to them (height, weight, facial hair, body hair, lean muscle mass, etc) while applying the same standards to women. There are countless dudes that have a "preference" for slender women while being absolutely obese and outraged that that would disqualify them for a lot of women. People, but dudes in particular, need to get it t…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 04:26 AM
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No, it's okay to doubt him. Based on all the unhinged shit he's said just on this sub, the dude has never left his basement or talked to a woman irl.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 01:03 PM
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Same, my wife's maid of honor was her best male friend, and she was his best man at his wedding. My wife's other friends are also primarily lesbians and gay men. So much of this thread, and honestly, this sub is pure projection and deep-seeded insecurities. The reality is that most women are perfectly fine with having platonic relationships with men and women without sex ever entering the equation. If a woman seems to be using you, it's more than likely that she's already clocked your alterior m…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 01:01 PM
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Please tell me this is a troll post. A simple Google search for female villains instantly exposes this as nonsense. I can't even think of a well-known property at the moment that doesn't have a female villain or co-villian... Sonic, I guess? Either way, female villains have definitely been the primary antagonists in most of the media.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 04:48 AM
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There is one type of guy who knows what the fuck third wave feminism even is and they absolutely treat women horribly.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 11:27 PM
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It seems to me that a lot of the issue revolves around how dudes think they should interact with women. For instance, over my 27 years of dating, two marriages, and countless short and long-term partners, I've never once pursued a woman, hit on them, been over complimentary or had to use "rizz". It's hard to explain, but just being myself, genuine, kind, respectful, and friendly was more than enough. I've honestly never gone out with the goal of getting laid, and yet sex on the first or second d…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 11:25 PM
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I think the real issue comes down to the fact that the men who feel unappealing to all women aren't open to dating all women. Yes, everybody is entitled to their preferences, and no one should HAVE to settle. However, at the end of the day, romantic relationships primarily involve two similarly yoked people in terms of looks, educational attainment, income potential, outlook, values, etc. Should a dude who spends hours a day on Reddit that hasn't ever seen the inside of a gym, whose diet consist…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 04:05 AM
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Making a statement like baseless assumptions and actually proving such are two entirely different things. For instance, do you deny that there are a fuck ton of grifters targeting disillusioned young white men? How many times have you heard these charlatans blame wokeness for those men's problems and never identify the fact that 79% of all wealth in the US is held by 1% of the population? What do you think is more impactful, blue haird rad fems or the fact that home and land ownership are now ou…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 02:54 PM
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OR, and hear me out, the content you consume and engage with has convinced you you're a victim and your eyes are, in fact, lying to you. Don't get me wrong, you are a victim but of the same perpetrators that are victimizing all of us. There are real causes behind your struggles, but they aren't women, feminism, wokeness, trans, immigrants, or any number of boogeyman you've been conditioned to blame. I'd rather be a "blank slate revolutionary " than a professional victim any day.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 01:39 PM
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Should I have qualified EQUALLY unfair and fair so that you couldn't strawman an absurd clam like life is only fair 1% of time for men? Perhaps consider not being a professional victim, and then maybe you can sit at the big boy table and have an adult conversation. Sound good, kiddo?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 01:30 PM
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Tbh, any dude, that feels like this has lost the plot. It is an imaginary world that they have built with other men in a similar headspace. Life is both fair and unfair for everyone, regardless of gender. Your success or lack thereof is dictated by many different factors. If you were to weigh them, the most impactful would be socio-economic status and education/skill level. The more money you have and the more skills you have developed, the more "fair" life will feel regardless of gender. The th…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 01:41 AM
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Two seconds of critical thinking would tell you this is unequivocally untrue. If it were, men would either be entirely desirable or entirely undesirable. The truth of the matter is that some people will find you desirable, and some will not. Obviously, coming across as put together, healthy looking, good grooming habits, etc. will increase your chances to be found desirable. It's not even necessarily superficial as no one wants to be with someone who can't even take the time to invest in themsel…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 12:43 AM
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Honestly, the point of marriage is that there is no "point." It's a legal contract with certain legal protections, and that's about it. After that, it's whatever the individuals in the relationship want to make of it. I think one of the traps that people fall into is the idea that marriages and relationships have some sort of cookie cutter design to them. Define the sort of relationship that you could be most fulfilled by and find others that meet that definition.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 03:51 AM
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Unfortunately, it won't. It'll either be well, that's your personal experience or ask over and over how tall I am. It's wild because they base these wild opinions on the supposed experiences of other dudes but reject any experiences that contradict them. It's also funny how hypergamy is a thing but seemingly that all goes out the door if you're over 6 ft tall. It'll never make sense or be consistent but it is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 03:37 AM
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u/HTML_Novice brother, I am 42 years old, have been married twice for a total of 20 years, have had several long-term relationships in between and more sexual partners than I care to count and I have been relatively poor my whole life. I can guarantee you this is absolutely 100% bullshit. Women as a monolith are not hypergamous, and while some women will select for "status," virtually ALL of them want someone who is a good person and treats them well. All this nonsense you wrote, all the posts l…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 12:09 PM
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It depends? I slept with my wife of 7 years on our first date. Most of my ltrs started off sleeping together on the first date. I don't know unequivocally, but I assume it's dependent on the type of lover you are. I put a lot of heart and passion into everything I do, sex included, so I'd imagine that plays a big part.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 04:32 PM
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I'd say 100%, but that wouldn't be high enough to encapsulate the utter bullshittery that is rp or any other colored pill people want to relate themselves to.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 02:54 PM
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Enthusiastic consent isn't hard to gauge. If she is participating in the act, it's enthusiastic. If she isn't participating, seems disinterested, doesn't seem to be enjoying it, etc, any man that isn't absolute trash would stop and see what's going on and if this is something she wants to do. Is it rape? Obviously not, but that doesn't mean you were right to continue either. I will fight any dude who dies on this hill, that as long as a woman finally gives in, everything is kosher. If you harass…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 04:48 AM
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I know this sub hates personal experience, but... I've never not been a "good person" when dating, short term or not. This might be a crazy concept, but women generally respond well to a guy who is sweet, respectful, and attentive. I think the issue becomes that if your aim is purely sex, you're always going to be angling towards that, and how you treat women will reflect that. If you just go in without expectations and aim to have a good time, more often than not, sex happens naturally.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 04:09 AM
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Man, you're a glutton for punishment. Alright, son, here we go again. You're terminally online because you're so emotionally invested in something that does not effect you, that you scoured the internet looking for things you can copy and paste to argue with a stranger. You haven't made any points, and if you remember, it was you that decided to hop into this discussion responding to what I said. When abortions that are medically necessary don't happen, they do, in fact, result in the death of t…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 03:49 AM
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I get that it's hard for your terminally online brain to understand, but the inordinate amount of time you spent combing through the internet to try and argue against points I never made was horribly wasted. 240,000 people out of 8 billion people being struck by lighting is an incredibly small percentage of people. 240k out of 3.4 million is 7%, magnitudes larger than that. Don't be goofy. I give two fucks what anyone ever has said about anything related to this. Abortions are a healthcare proce…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 01:41 AM
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You're almost there. There were 3,596,017 pregnancies in 2023. 7% of those, according to your data, resulted in medically necessary abortions, or 251,721. Aside from that, just because an abortion might not be medically necessary, there are a multitude of viable reasons to have an abortion. Health conditions that aren't life threatening, drug and alcohol addiction, homelessness, rape, incest, domestic abuse, poverty, and the list goes on and on. It is incredibly crass and ignorant to assume ALL …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 10:33 PM
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Are you stupid? Abortions are often medically necessary procedures that will result in the death of the mother if not performed. Your conception of who and what abortions actually are is incredibly flawed. Maybe consult a physician and not 4chan.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 09:52 PM
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There's no reason to couch this discussion in morality or any such argument. Abortion is a healthcare procedure, and child support is a legal procedure. Regardless of your opinion on abortion it is often a vital health service. On the other hand, the state has a vested interest in establishing financial responsibility for children so that the government is not fully on the hook monetarily. You, nitwits that believe paper abortion should be an option, have every legal right to challenge the state…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 04:04 AM
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Sweet, so I need your address, so if in the event I need a kidney, I'm coming for yours. Too bad bodily autonomy doesn't exist, but I appreciate your donation.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 03:48 AM
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What is this nonsense? People don't cheat simply because the person they are cheating looks better than their current partner. To be fair, they may even be less attractive. Cheating is generally the result of a deficiency in the relationship. He/she understands me better, treats me better, is more affectionate, meets my needs, makes me feel wanted, etc, etc. As odd as relationship starved people find it, not everything can be boiled down to looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 03:10 AM
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The point was that the poster is acting like they are a daily occurrence, people being beheaded left and right. There were a total of 15 terror relates attacks in 2021, of which some were labeled jihadist. I.e the poster was over embelishing for one reason or another.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 09:44 PM
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You can sum this post up on one word- P R O J E C T I O N. Please get help.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 04:08 AM
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I'm not European, and I don't see a ton of news from Europe. However, just doing a search about ALL terrorist attacks in the EU, reports like this: https://www.consilium.europa.eu/en/infographics/terrorism-eu-facts-figures/ don't seem to support what you are saying. Do you have access to different data that does support what you are saying?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 03:46 AM
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So you think men with women over 30, aren't as happy as men with women under 30, but their relationships have a higher probability of success because they don't want to date in their 40's? Interesting...
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 03:51 PM
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Ding ding ding!! 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 09:28 PM
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Do you find it odd that relationships that start in your 30s are significantly more likely to last than ones started in your 20s? It's not even surprising, considering you're more likely to be financially stable and have pretty much figured out who you are and what you want. Most people are going to be vastly different in their 30s than 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 09:27 PM
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For every one of these, there are 5 dudes on ppd envisioning and voraciously defending an experience they nor anyone else has ever lived, my man. On this sub at least, lived experience is somewhat informative compared to the imagined one.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 03:09 AM
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Brother, the only time anyone gets this invested in defending someone else is when they feel like they are being personally attacked. I'm not even going to bother looking at your comments, but I have no doubt I'd find a "not all men" defense to someone's overall experience with men. People do not get offended or defensive about things that do not apply to them, and yet here you are. You made no valid points, but you are here on r/purplepilldebate arguing in defense of the average ppd poster- so …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 03:02 AM
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That doesn't sound like a bad person at all. That sounds like a perfectly normal person working through some shit. A lot of people struggle with self reflection and holding themselves accountable. And no, you didn't disagree. You jumped to the defense of people you felt I was calling bad. The nerve was struck because you felt like I was attacking you, which is completely evident in how you responded. It's also evident by your continued responses but go off king.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 02:02 AM
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You might want to ask yourself why that struck such a nerve. I never said any of this made someone a bad person, nor did I say I'm a particularly bad person. What I did say is that if you are struggling and the reasons you identify are wholly external AND if other people with those externalities don't suffer the same way you do, YOU might want to look internally for the cause. And yes, only permanent victims refuse to self-reflect and blame everyone else and everything else for their struggles, …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 12:35 AM
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You make such a good point about the differing depictions of marriage on various sitcoms. I think it's also worth pointing out that the Cleaver depiction was that of a well-to-do middle-class family. It drives me nuts that these dudes focus on the aesthetics of tradcon but not the conditions that even made it possible. They want stay at home mom/wife but think everything that would enable that is leftist or socialist. We simply don't live under the same economic conditions that allowed for this.…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 05:04 PM
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So perfectly said. I think one of the worst traps these men fall into is thinking "traditional marriages" were happy and productive marriages. Prior to no-fault divorces, a lot of married men mysteriously died every year. A lot of women were only able to exist in their marriages while doped up. Women searched out extremely risky back alley abortions to avoid having more children with their husband's. Life was not ad ideal as guys think it was. This was especially true after WWII and women got a …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 04:36 PM
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u/ignis_kevin this debate is ridiculous for three reasons. Whether you accept it or not, abortions are a part of healthcare, regardless of the reason behind it. It is a medical procedure administered by a licensed physician. While it is regulated by the states (in the US) as everything involving healthcare is, it is no less a medical procedure. The state is the one that decides whether or not one party or another has to pay child support. They do not care about your personal grievenances or how …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 04:07 PM
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Mental illness, when left untreated and unaddressed, can have a devastating impact on one's life trajectory and can absolutely cause you to end up alone. For men in particular because it is often overlooked and manifests in atypical ways like alcoholism and anger control issues. I also think, in the US, the underfunding of mental health services and outrageous cost of health care has compounded this issue. The issue is that it is very hard to address these things on your own, especially when you…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 01:42 PM
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It isn't your mental mental or physical health that makes you unattractive, unreliable, and ruins your life. Literally, everybody struggles, but it's how you deal with those struggles that matter. My wife has BPD and significant trauma from physical and sexual abuse as a child and adult. If she did not manage these conditions and didn't hold herself accountable when they got the best of her, we couldn't be together. Conversely, I have bipolar ii, adhd and suffer from some chronic pain. The same …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 11:59 PM
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Guy complains about dating failures and (checks notes) refers to women as heifers. Can't imagine why he's struggling. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 04:49 AM
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I like it when women are authentic. Colorful anything screams authenticity, and I like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 09:17 PM
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I see variations of this comment every day on this sub. That's not very not-Hivemind of you, sir.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 10:20 PM
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I don't know a single dude that hasn't whined about sex until their SO gave in. Kick rocks, my guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 03:54 AM
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Let ke reiterate how dumb this take in precisely because these dudes think they are the center of the universe, and women could have no other motivations for what they do. Grow up please.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 05:49 PM
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Because they feel like they are being personally attacked when women mention it. That and they almost entirely use the internet to reach out to women and are frequently rejected for their "rapey" behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 03:37 PM
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In your very specific case? "I'm not single because I'm absolutely insufferable. I just refuse to date women who wear makeup even though 99.9% of them are masc lesbians. I promise I'll find that .01% and bring them home to you, Mama."... or something like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 06:25 AM
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Hey man, we all have our defense mechanisms in place to cover up for our shortcomings. I see you big dawg.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 05:04 AM
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Arguments have to have substance to be argued, bad faith or otherwise. Braindead takes require no more than brsindead answers.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 04:48 AM
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Dumb take. Makeup for most women is an accentuator, not a whole ass mask. Do some women know how to wear makeup that completely changes their appearance? Sure. But by and large, there isn't a huge difference between makeup and no makeup on most women. And no, they don't need to be convinced to wear less makeup. I swear, the crap dudes worry about on this sub. They don't just put the horse before the carriage, they put the whole horse fetus before the tree that eventually becomes a carriage. In o…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 04:45 AM
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You are implying importance by virtue of arguing this stupid ass "statistic". You absolutely are pilled. Apparently, my 6'5" married feminist ass can't be pilled according to your peers on this subreddit. I didn't call you a virgin. I just know the calling dudes white knights is code for, I'm frustrated women don't want to touch my penis. Not a internet tough guy. Will beat the breaks off anyone bringing this stuff near my daughters and wife, not because I'm tough but because they are one step r…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 03:59 AM
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Listen here, tangent pilled man. The person, man or woman, being SA'ed determines if they have, in fact, been SA'ed. Enthusiastic consent works both ways, and if someone is obviously not into what is happening to them or their objections were dismissed through coerssion, SA has occurred. These are also the most common forms of SA. Rape either through violence or incapasitation is much rarer but is essentially the only prosecutable form of SA. A large percentage of a small number does not negate …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 03:24 AM
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This is completely disingenuous. There is this stat you are attached to that says there are some number of false/unsubstantiated SA claims made. First, a report being labeled as such says ABSOLUTELY nothing about motivations. Police reports are filed all the time with wholly good intentions, not realizing the thing they are reporting is not a crime. You are trying to correlate the filing of a claim of SA with malicious intent, and that just isn't the case. You then say you don't care about other…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 02:56 AM
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Also, do you have any genuine concern about other types of falsely reported crimes or just this specific one?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 12:49 AM
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I supplied several examples of SA in my previous example. Cohersion of any type to get sex is SA. It is the most common form of SA because if your partner doesn't give in, then the cohersion will continue, or they will be mistreated. Passive non-consent is when you have sex with someone who is obviously not into bit otherwise goes along with it to avoid any number of negative outcomes- this is SA. Having sex with someone who is under the influence is SA because they cannot fully consent- this is…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 12:39 AM
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I assume you're hypothesising they aren't rare. Something is, by definition, rare when one thing occurs at a much higher frequency than the other regardless of the percentage. The false reporting of SA is no more common than the false reporting of any number of crimes. The false reporting of any crime is a crime in itself and should not be used as a counterpoint to the existence of other crimes. This over infatuation men on this subreddit have with the existence of false reports is irrelevant. M…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 12:07 AM
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Did you ever stop and think that maybe the idea that any woman has to make up an accusation is incredibly unbelievable to women? Not because women can't be vindictive but because the vast majority of women have experienced some form of sexual abuse or violence, so why make up something that is incredibly common. There isn't one woman in my life who hasn't experienced one or multiple instances of sexual misconduct by a male partner or friend. The issue isn't that there are false reports of sexual…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 11:28 PM
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I'm calling bs on this. It reeks of, if I wanted to get laid, this is what I think I would need to do. It reminds me of this one dude who tried to convince me he'd "done it" with 130 women. Just like no man that has gotten laid would use the term done it, no dude who has gotten laid and does construction (as an example) has ever cosplayed as a construction worker. It's so obviously fake.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 10:12 PM
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THANK YOU!! I enjoy reading the brain rot, which is all these dudes opining about the reasons they get rejected is because women (in totality) only like good-looking alpha bad boys. Then they'll go on to say until they get older, then women (in totality) settle for the beta cucks, and since they aren't one, they'd rather be lonely. Anyways... You are absolutely correct. I can't count the number of women (damsels) I've tried to save in my life, including my first and second (current) marriage. Th…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 03:04 PM
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People who say vile things tend to be vile. Denigrating people and using abusive language towards them is not a belief kiddo.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 12:28 AM
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It's almost like everybody is an individual with individual preferences, wants, and needs. It's counterproductive to assume anyone person fits into a box and that there is a way to appeal to everyone in that box. You will never be everyone's cup of tea. The key is to find out what tea that person likes and if you are that tea. The vast majority of the time you won't be, and that is okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 06:00 PM
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So then, if these men DON'T feel like relationships are transactional, then why do they feel they are getting the worse end of the deal? If they don't think relationships are transactional and they feel like they are being forced to accept a deal, they would just walk away knowing that's not how healthy relationships should work. Stop talking about people as if they are monolith - both men and women. SOME men feel like they are getting the worse end of the deal. And those men are absolute idiots…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 05:51 PM
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Nobody that has had sex with 1 woman, let alone 130, has ever used the phrase "done it with". 🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 05:55 AM
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Cool story, bro. Whatever helps you sleep ar night.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 05:51 AM
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And it's statements like this that expose who is and isn't very experienced with women. I would say that MAYBE 1 in 10 women I've dated/slept with/had an ltr with preferred muscular men. Most either had no preference or highly preferred men with some meat to a lot of meat on their bones. I'm not sure if you realize this, but overly muscular bodies at or under 10% body fat aren't exactly comfortable to cuddle/have sex with. Dad bods are a thing for reason, brother. Also, the pic thing is highly e…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 09:13 PM
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I think you are partially right. I think that guys like yourself do benefit from understanding they are worthy of love and acceptance, and that can often happen as the result of a relationship. However, there is a vast difference between an inexperienced guy finding his way and one who resents women because of their lack of experience or continued experience. Sure, finding a woman who will date them temporarily relieves some of that resentment. But the well has already been poisoned, and once th…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 08:56 PM
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One, it's not just THIS sub. It's anything even remotely pill adjacent from here, to Twitter/x, to Instagram, YouTube and Kick. There are millions of dudes who have had there brains cooked on this nonsense. Are all of them vile human beings? No. But a lot of them are based on the vile shit they say here and other places. More and more, dudes specifically are replacing their irl personalities with their online ones. Two, the problem these men have is that they feel like they are getting the worse…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 08:18 PM
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You are right. They do treat women weird, and that often comes off as creepy. While they may not outright say the things in person they say here, those things do permeate through their attitude and personality. Regardless of what they are working with looks wise, the vibes they give off kill any opportunity they'd otherwise have. Online forums like Reddit and social media have absolutely cooked these guys' brains, and I have no idea what it would take to deprogram them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 08:03 PM
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Are you saying the attitudes of men towards women on this sub are NOT indicative of how sexually inactive men treat women? Are you under the impression that here they are vile human beings, but irl, they are incredibly sweet and respectful? Also, people in general who are respectful and pleasant to someone they want something from are not behaving any better than someone who gets what they want and treats someone as expendable. If anything, it's far worse because it's disingenuous at best and in…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 12:48 PM
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It's so weird reading highly speculative posts by dudes who have limited to no dating or ltr experience. This is how some people work, but not all people. Relationships and dating are incredibly random. Despite all the bitching and moaning about how selective people, and women in general, are when doing online dating- this is exactly how people chose other people in real life. You come across a bunch of people every day, and the ones that peak your interest are the ones you interact with, namely…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 05:21 AM
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I think the actual issues lie not in whether or not age gap exists, but in preferences. I sorta, kinda accidentally casually dated an 18 year old when I was 35. I say accidentally because this was not her age on her profile, but she never tried to say she was outside of that - no harm, no foul. Anyway, I've never preferred younger women because age was never a factor. Some were younger, some the same age, some older, it's whatever. It seems like when dudes have a strict preference for very young…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 05:50 PM
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I'm not sure if this will make sense - it was never about the guy, but the experience. I have zero attraction to men outside your normal, damn, that's a good-looking dude. However, when it comes to sex, feeling pleasure and providing pleasure is incredibly euphoric, and when the lights are off, bodies are bodies. There is also some correlation between the day-to-day where I am seen as a 6'5 largely in-control man and having that control taken away in the bedroom. Being topped is one of the ways …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 02:15 PM
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Women despise the vast majority of men like me, because they're romantically repulsed by the vast majority of men like me. There, I fixed it for you. You're welcome.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 09:38 PM
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Hey, that's my line, lol. Well, more like all you see around you are average ass men with average ass women living average ass lives. This type of thinking is illogical and also incredibly boring.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 09:32 PM
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Because all women are hypergamous monkey branchers. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 09:22 PM
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OP, yes, this is true. You should definitely give up, sign off the internet, and live a life of solemn solitude away from everyone. That way, no one has to hurt their brains reading this utter garbage can of depravity and misery. I feel like this should be your final contribution, your magnum opus. Now please go (leave us) in peace.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 09:20 PM
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Once again, I absolutely agree with everything you've said. I'm the exact same way sexually but from the other perspective. I guess the only difference is I can have sex with men because, from my perspective, pleasure is pleasure. Inherently, there's no difference between my wife and dude topping me or me topping them when it comes to pleasure. But I could never like make out with a guy or cuddle or whatever. I have the same visceral reaction to those more intimate things that you do to having s…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 02:42 PM
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Weird take since every dude that watches porn has seen tons of penis and not been repulsed by it. Tons of dudes watch trans porn and I'll tell you now, it's not because they look like women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 02:27 PM
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I wish you understood how cooked your brain is by this pillled nonsense you consume. Ugly is subjective. Everyone has at least one attractive trait that someone else will find alluring. It's about figuring out how best to display that. One woman not wanting you so no one woman would is an absolutely wild statement that flies in the face of factual reality. Every dude has been/is in a relationship has faced rejection in his life, so that absolutely makes no sense. Attraction comes before sexual a…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 02:24 PM
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These dudes are not pressed that women on their level don't want them. They hyper focus on the women they would not yoke with who do not match them in looks, social status, education, goals, interests, etc, and base their whole outlook on dating on this. No, an Instagram model is not going to be open to your advances because you are too dissimilar. That doesn't mean that no woman will be interested. And the idea that personality doesn't matter is absurd. Yes, your personality, as it is with thes…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 02:06 PM
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As a straight guy who has had sex with the same man twice and blew another, I absolutely agree with you. I think labels on sexuality are useless and really do put unnecessary constraints on people, men in particular. It blows people's minds when you tell them a straight man who has only dated and married women can have sex with a man and still be straight. That's because I think these labels are a lot more appropriate for romantic and intimate relationships. If I were to have romantic interest i…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 01:50 PM
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And if yes, can we admit, he isn't straight?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 01:00 PM
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I'm calling it, OP is in the closet. This is a very closeted gay man take. If societal pressures and expectations are the reason for your straightness, you are not straight, and that's perfectly okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 12:59 PM
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Brother, I hate to break it to you, but most men are absolutely obsessed with their dicks. We are so absolutely homoerotic with our own dicks that we are one gay man away from a full blown homosexual relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 12:54 PM
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Said every dude ever with a shit personality. Do you understand that the vast majority of couples are equally yoked? Meaning in terms of looks, social status, education, compatibility, etc. It's not due to them settling but because even dynamics make for more sustainable, successful relationships. Is there some superficiality in it, sure. And yet, by and large, couples generally look like they belong together. I 100% guarantee you that any guy who is struggling to meet women is absolutely trying…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 12:32 PM
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3/10 of a percent is negligible Provide data that shows this lack of tolerance. That's your opinion. That's your opinion- it's an odd statement that men both bitch about feminism and then decry all women are anti feminist which is precisely what the imposition of gender roles is. Men are primarily the ones who want to assign gender roles, primarily to women and on themselves, visavi narrow definitions of femininity and masculinity.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 06:18 AM
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Also entirely made up.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 01:56 AM
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You don't want the smoke, kiddo. Not only do I shit all over little boys leaving their wives because they have cancer, I'd absolutely slap the shit out of them if I ever met one.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 12:52 AM
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It says that media literacy in this country is horrible, and the fact you can google the answer to your own hypothesis and get an answer has rotted our brains. It isn't 33% of divorces that occur because the man is unemployed. Men who are unemployed have a probability of 3.3% chance of getting divorced within 12 months vs 2.5% for married men. Yes that is 33% higher but it does not correlate to 33% of marriages likely ending because of male unemployment. Generally, when an article title is blata…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 12:08 AM
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There was no study. This was just some pilled idiot on this sub justifying it. As far as the second statement goes, do you have data backing that up? Stress caused by financial issues is the number one contributor to divorce. It's not the fact that someone lost their job that leads to divorce, but the many stresses as a result. Two of the main stressors being abuse and alcoholism/addiction.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 09:03 PM
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I'm not disputing that, but I also think it's important to point out something about attraction. There are usually certain things about the people we involve ourselves with that we find attractive. It's rarely a total picture thing. Rather, that be someone's eyes, their smile, hair, body shape, physique, the way they dress, etc, etc. I don't know that I've ever dated/married anyone where this wasn't the case. For instance, my wife isn't conventionally gorgeous, but she has a fierce look to her, …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 05:41 PM
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Which to normal people would be a no-brainer. But this is PPD where they post things like, why it's okay to leave your wife if she has cancer.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 04:01 PM
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Not to mention how much they obssess over looks as being the NUMBER 1 defining characteristic as to why they fail to get and maintain relationships. I have yet to meet a woman who says that they would rather have a 10/10 (a scale I abhor) looking dude than one that meets their emotional and physical needs. 100% of the time, a shit personality will always be the defining reason why someone loses or never gains interest in you, irregardless of how you look.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 03:56 PM
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OP refers to women as, among other terms, medicore and then immediately turns around and is confused why no woman, "mediocre" or otherwise, wants to date them. It's baffling how people with shit personalities are confused about why people, women in particular, don't want to be around them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 01:16 AM
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Topic aside, I just want to say, I think it's cool you're into makeup, brother. I think more men should use it more often to improve their overall appearance. That skin tone pallette you posted 24 days ago is a great start. Do you 🤴!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 02:22 PM
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Huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 09:13 PM
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I never once said men don't have challenges or struggles. People as a whole have challenges and struggles. Those challenges and struggles tend to be very individualized UNTIL you pull people, in this case men, into spaces like PPD and other pilled subs, and they start correlating their issues with the perceived grievances of the men who live there. Then they start to travel down this rabbit hole of fierce denial of personal responsibility and victimhood to the point where they are now miserable …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 09:12 PM
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You mean the podcasts that repeat verbatim the things you were conditioned to believe by these niche communitues? The people who benefit from selling you courses and crypto currencies, convincing you it's women's fault you are so miserable? Maybe get off the internet altogether, take a break for a few weeks, and see how you feel.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 08:25 PM
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AND YET... please don't make me repeat myself. Also, everybody thinks they are below average. So, if you know average ass people who aren't alone and average ass people that are alone (including you), then what logical conclusion can you come to?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 04:01 PM
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Not here, no. I'm just here for the hypocrisy and contradictions lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 03:57 PM
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Which goes to explain why offline, everywhere you look, you see average ass dudes, with average ass women, living average ass lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 03:55 PM
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No, no, they have not. The issue is that you and every other pill head have invested yourself in a niche community ruled by group think, contradictions, and hypocrisy. Stepping outside into the real community that exists around you also bares this out. The VAST majority of the people you see are average ass people, with average ass significant others, living average ass lives. I don't know if it's that you resent the mediocrity you exist in or that even though you don't want to accept the world …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 03:44 PM
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Fuck off OP. That is all.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 03:24 PM
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The slightest bit of introspection would tell you that your very life is due to two average ass people meeting up and fucking. And every other pill head on here is the result of the same thing. Are ALL of you the product of luck? Are ALL of you on the winning side of the lottery?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 03:22 PM
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Fucking a lot does not equal lots of relationships. Interestingly, these "fuckboys" are the reason why they also can't maintain a stable relationship. And yes, if the experience you have with people plays out the same way, 99.9999999999% the issue is you and not everyone else. Anyone with even a lick of emotional intelligence and introspection understands this. No two relationships ever play out the same way IF you take responsibility for your part in them, learn and grow. If you never change, y…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 03:19 PM
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Is this why the vast majority of LTRs and marriages are composed of "average" men and "average" women? It's so weird that, apparently, terminally online brain keeps you from observing the world around you and not the one you obsessively imagine exists. Even more baffling is that every pill head here is also born to average ass people. Like your average ass dad and your average ass mom got together, fucked and had you and yet here you are a doomer acting like only 20% of men will ever get laid/ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 03:12 PM
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Interestingly enough, those same dudes that hate on single mom's think if women have the right to abortion then they should he able to "abort" their financial responsibility to children they help create. But then also bitch about how poorly men are treated by the courts when it comes to custody. Realistically, it's no surprise that there are more single (full-time) moms than single (full-time) dads.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 01:23 PM
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This is pretty easy to explain with one simple phrase. "Your body, my choice" This will never be a phrase that men have to worry about being uttered to them. Outside of the putrid men that would ever utter this phrase worthy of a serious ass beating- half the states in the US have effectively denied women personhood. When you tell a woman she essentially has to be on her deathbed to deserve medical care, she us no longer being treated as a sentient being. She is no longer a person at that point.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 12:40 AM
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Do you think flashing in public should be legal?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 02:15 AM
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And yet so many men don't and are desperate to fill that hole. I'm going to be 100% honest with you, I've never met someone who says that they simultaneously love themselves and also scoff at the concept of romantic love. Doomers are a unique bunch.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 04:33 AM
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Here's your 👑 king, where it proud brother.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 07:26 PM
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Especially this guy 😂. It's like they think they were this close to figuring out how to get them some, then Kamala fucked it up for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 07:24 PM
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As someone else pointed out, that's not always the case. This is why it's silly to group people, especially in such broad categories as gender. Some women prefer men with traditionally masculine traits, others do not. Even in this thread, the commenter was talking about her husband's beautifully hairy chest, and the next comment said no thanks on the hairy chest. EVERYBODY is different, brother, and that is part and parcel part of the struggle men have in this sub. They think if they can group a…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 02:02 PM
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Jesus, some of you in this sub are entirely way too miserable. Love is a choice as much as it is a feeling, and it's an internal state of being. I know it seems incredibly cliche, but anyone who has experienced love for another person (family aside) knows that it starts with you and it is shared with someone else. No one who has ever been filled with self-hatred, misery, and contempt has ever felt that for another person, and there's a reason for that. Being on this sub for a while now, it has b…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 01:43 PM
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You know, OP, some dudes are just assholes, regardless of traditionally masculine traits. I'm also like this commenter's husband. I'm a freakishly giant man who can lift lots of weight, and yet, I'm incredibly nerdy and quiet and wouldn't dream of dominating or bullying anyone. Are there dudes like this, obviously, but I guarantee that this is more perception than reality. It has far more to do with your confidence and self-worth as a man, and your views on what masculinity is, that makes you fe…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 01:08 PM
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I think you hit the nail on the head as to why guys on these subs struggle with the idea of self-improvement. They expect it to have a tangible outcome, primarily sex/relationships. Then they get resentful because why should they have to work so hard instead of just being accepted for who they already are. Being a better version of yourself has no end goal, no tangible reward, and no predetermined outcome. The reward is wholly internal, and the outcome is the process. No changes or improvements …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 11:39 PM
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If you don't understand what a rhetorical question is, you sure as hell don't know what an interlocutor is 🤣.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 11:57 PM
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What in the lack of reading comprehension?! Have you never heard of a rhetorical question?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 07:35 PM
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If, hypothetically, a woman needs to be protected and that protection is withheld because they are likely to be "feminist or misandris," what exactly are the implications? Those who assert plausible deniability and those who play along with it are cowards.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 03:11 AM
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If it's so common, you feel the need to post how these women deserve to be hurt/killed, I'm sure you wouldn't mind posting a few examples.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 10:16 PM
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Never mind, it was her response to the guy above. But since this is your post, prove it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 02:44 PM
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You spelled IDIOT wrong. Don't come on here posting this overly drawn out braindead take and then not have the temerity to back it up. She asked you a question, answer it. Man up.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 02:34 PM
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Healthy, well-rounded, and responsible adults don't do this, though. If a relationship becomes untenable, you end it, stay single for a season, and take in the lessons you learned in that relationship. That's how you get better at being a partner. That's why people who do this "monkey branching" nonsense are toxic as fuck. Self-reflection is a HUGE part of personal growth, and it is a skill that is sorely lacking among pill boy/girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 01:09 PM
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To be clear, these are all things that fragile men say and then pretend it's what women say so they can feel validated while demonizing women. All of you pill boys have this script memorized, chirp endlessly about it, and not one woman on this sub or any other (outliers irrelevant) says this brain dead nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 04:42 AM
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Having conversations about the fundamental questions of human life happens every day, which is awesome. However, philosophical sophistry is, like I said, purely mental masturbation when done outside of a philosophy classroom or discussion. When used in normal conversation, it is always for the purpose of appearing intelligent. That isn't to say you aren't, but let's not pretend that nonsense has a place in said normal (not philosophical) conversations. Also, I wasn't talking to you, so there is …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 09:44 PM
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This sort of mental masturbation should honestly be considered assault but good on you for shutting it down. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 08:32 PM
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This is quite the take from some dude writing this from his mom's basement.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 08:21 PM
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I always wonder when I see these posts about how all women are only looking to date high value men, either never leave their homes or are legally blind. Otherwise, how do these dudes ignore the fact that no matter where you go, you see average ass dudes and average ass women coupled up? Do they just assume that every dude they see is some high value guy that got stuck with an average woman? I get that it's a way for them to rationalize and compartmentalize their lonliness and lack of innate self…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 12:47 AM
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I'm pretty sure anyone that starts a sentence with "Jordan Peterson says" can immediately be dismissed. 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 06:29 PM
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The funny thing is that most of them are speaking in hypotheticals. If they were to get a girlfriend, they'd expect them to change, which just adds to the litany of reasons why they don't have one.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 06:07 PM
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Do you think the odds are better or worse if you treat women like shit, if you are tall and white?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 02:24 AM
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That's weird because the vast majority of my casual connections occurred on the first date. Hell, some of those dates were even home dates. And no, we didn't talk extensively before meeting either. Also, this idea that women are just chasing after dudes is odd. I mean, sure, there are women and men who do this, but normal people who live normal lives don't have time to be chasing after people. If someone is chasing after you, it's probably because they are psychotic and you need to get a restrai…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 02:22 AM
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My bad, the assumption comes from how you are responding. You are on PPD, after all, but I do appreciate this response. I'm not underestimating my looks, I'm just very confident in the looks I do have and remain humble. Ultimately, my point isn't to downplay hid or anyone else's struggles. It's to point out that posts like this are a hindrance to those challenges and add to the struggle.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 02:16 AM
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Ya, and her family was filthy fucking rich. I can assure you that my height or race had nothing to do with it. Is it really that hard for you guys to grasp that your personality and the way you treat people actually matter? Are you really convinced that if you are tall and I guess white, you can go around being an asshole and it's all good? All this pill ideology has truly rotted to many brains.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 02:09 AM
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Not true at all. In my experience, what really interests women is just having a pleasant experience with a guy without expectations, stress, or anxiety about what this guy they are talking to wants from them. To just be treated like a normal human being and not some object of desire or infatuation. Obviously, there are people who look for superficial qualities in their casual partners. But there are far more real, genuine people (women in this case) who just want a genuine connection with someon…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 02:03 AM
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The bar is astonishingly low when all it took was treating women like people, being respectful, and not perving out on them. I do appreciate how you guys are always like Chad's are the only guys that get to bang. Then, when dudes that are not Chad's come around and contradict that, you're like, but you're tall. Unless Chad is now just some dude over 6". This might surprise you, but most dudes in happy, healthy, successful relationships are far closer to the average height than mine. It's weird h…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 01:54 AM
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I'm 6'5 with a crooked ass leg that causes me to limp and a dad bod. If you all really think being tall is the end all, be all, I have a bridge to sell you. Do you really think if I developed your mindset or OPs mindset, and that's how I treated women, that my being tall would offset that?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 01:47 AM
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It's because you write about the "behavior of women" that is the issue, dude. No two women (or men, for that matter) are the same. Yet posters sit on PPD writing dissertations as if women are a monolith and exist to only torture 80% of guys. Ya, I'm 6'5, and yet I have a bum crooked leg, a dad bod and three kids. I also didn't chase 1000s or women or face a ton of rejection. It's weird what happens when you sit down and have a normal conversation with a woman, without any expectations or aim to …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 01:43 AM
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That is pure projection. I don't think anyone is a loser. It was easy, but I also didn't put up a million roadblocks when things weren't easy, or when I got dumped or when I got cheated on. I just recognized that everyone is an individual, and one loss is just another opportunity. It's easy to hate the world and treat women like a different species, a monolith of oppression for 98% of guys, an infuriating puzzle that can never be solved. Searching for answers in places like PPD will only ever en…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 01:32 AM
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Are you saying that OP is wrong and that his qualifiers are ridiculous? Because they are. I was in the same boat as you, and I'm not even particularly good-looking. Some of these dudes in here aren't even bad looking, but they've bought this nonsense hook, line, and sinker, and it's rotted their brains. At the end of the day, your personality and the way you treat people (women in this case) are going to be your best asset.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 01:07 AM
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This is so dumb. I am an average looking dude, I don't have any money, I don't drive nice vehicles, i have a boring government job, and I definitely have no style. I am 42 years old, and I've been married twice (once to my high-school sweetheart for 13 years and now to the love of my life for 5 years so far). From 30 to 37, I dated/slept with at least 35 different women with a couple of years of relationships in between. I was even FWB with a bi female couple for several years. At one point, I w…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 12:59 AM
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Or and hear me out, they are saying IT DOESN'T MATTER. If someone is okay with using a toy, they are also saying your penis doesn't matter. There are ways to compensate for that. Obviously, size at a point (shorter than your index and middle finger) matters during intercourse. And these women are saying I'm okay with that. Dudes on here think about penis way more than women - maybe they are chasing after the wrong sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 03:17 PM
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Source? Because anytime weirdos bring up dick size, the overwhelming response from women is that they don't think about it or it doesn't matter. Only dudes care about dick size, they think about dicks way more than women do and it's fucking weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 03:02 PM
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Y'alls obsession with height and penis size is beyond absurd. First. I'm 6'5 and I guarantee you the vast majority of men in happy, healthy, and successful relationships are far closer to the average height than mine. Second, other than the minority of men who suffer from an undersized/micro penis, the average penis is more than adequate. I'm not sure why you guys think women desire to be disembowled by huge cocks, but I assure you they do not. These and all other non-negative "red flags" OP lis…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 12:37 PM
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That statistic is misleading. From what I can tell, it is based on BMI sampling, which is highly inaccurate and frankly needs to be done away with. When a clearly overweight/obesse dude and Dwayne "The Rock" Johnson have the same BMI saying they are both obesse, there is obviously a problem. Secondly, the issue is that the impact of being "overweight" isn't nearly as well understood as being obeesse. I've been technically overweight since I was 24, and I have perfect blood pressure, insulin leve…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 12:18 PM
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Read everything you wrote and ask yourself, would I be able to love someone who thought about others and themselves the way I do. You guys get to these places where all you see is darkness without ever really contemplating that no one wants to live like that. No one wants to, nor should they be asked or expected to carry such immense emotional baggage. This shit doesn't magically disappear when you (hopefully) eventually find someone. You will carry it into that relationship or, frankly, any rel…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 08:04 PM
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The issue is that people see the trends they want to see to validate their preconceived notions on whatever topic they are preoccupied by. In the case of dating, dudes on subs like this will only acknowledge the "trends" that they can then use to justify why they are single and miserable. It could never be them that is the issue because they have identified and latched on to these things. Anybody that has been through many, many relationships (myself included) will tell you exactly what this per…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 04:25 AM
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He definitely is, lol. Either he was never married, or he hides his disdain and utter lack of respect for women from his wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 08:10 AM
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You give off very divorced dad vibes.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 02:03 AM
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While I don't inherently disagree with OP because at its base, who we chose to and not to date, is selfish- this argument of theirs is definitely driven by the same grievances as every dude on here crying about how unfair it is that no one will date them. It's almost like he's moved on to accepting the idea that in his mind, he's being treated unfairly, and that's okay because it's meant to be. Maybe this is the final boss, and all self-reflection is out the door. I don't know. Either way, this …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 03:10 PM
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No, it's just what dudes on this sub opine about as they write novels about how trash women are. Irony at its finest.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 05:35 PM
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If some of y'all put as much effort into addressing your shortcomings and struggles as you do these Reddit posts, you might actually get laid once in a while.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 02:23 AM
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Says half the dudes on this sub while simultaneously showing their contempt for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 12:23 AM
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Anyone who thinks like this, my guy, y'all.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 11:34 PM
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The unbelievable amount of copium on this sub lol. It'd be one thing if dudes on here had directly experienced these things and then wrote about them. Instead, they are just speculating and regurgitating what other pillheads on Reddit and the internet have said. Meanwhile, all this brain rot is shaping their view of the world and their attitudes and influencing the way they see and treat people (yes, that includes women because they are people too). The issue has and will always be you gentlemen…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 07:56 PM
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Whoa, someone had a nerve struck. I know we aren't going to agree because, as with most men on this sub, you sorely lack a sense of accountability, but if you fuck up in life, you pay the consequences, until you make amends for it. We are not going to make a separate distinction for men who do not think they have any responsibility in the creation of another life. Dudes get all bent out shape over this because "wah, but women get to chose so, so should I". Thankfully, most actual men feel compel…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 06:55 PM
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Only for anime cats
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 06:45 PM
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Yes, you are right because the only way that would make sense is through a legal channel. We also agreed earlier that there needs to be a good reason for termination - being a deadbeat is not one of them. It's kind of mute because you can't terminate your parental rights to an unborn child. So, my counter to this idea is this- there are tons of other situations you could apply this concept to, so why should you be able to "financially abort" in the case of pregnancy but not in business, contract…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 05:16 PM
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Why are you trying to rename a thing that already exists, lol? It's just called termination of parental rights, which ends financial responsibility. I have no idea what your overall point is. Is this basically a gripe that women get a choice in whether or not to terminate a pregnancy? Hang on... you aren't arguing that men, for financial reasons, should he able to force a woman to have an abortion are you?... Dear God I hope that isn't your argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 04:39 PM
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.... what you talkin' bout Willis?! Set aside all of the evidence and testimony against him, the dude outed himself in historic fashion on live TV. Got baited by a British guy no less 🤣🤣. Maybe he framed himself, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 04:35 PM
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This is why y'all are single. You say/think shit like this, and it informs your behaviors and actions and the way you treat people (yes, women are people to). I wish y'all would figure this out.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 04:30 PM
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Everybody can be a 7 brother, just need need to improve on what you can, dress for your body type, hair that compliments your face, smell good, light makeup as needed. You got this.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 04:28 PM
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One, financial abortion is not a thing, don't be a silly person. If you are talking about severing your parental rights, that is a thing, but you have to have a better reason than I don't want to be labeled a deadbeat. Besides, most dudes that pay child support were in a relationship/marriage where the child was wanted, and the relationship failed. No, you absolutely should not be able to "financially abort" a child you were responsible for... why is this a thing that needs to be said? Do some m…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 04:02 PM
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You're being satirical, right? Also, you do know that the girl that accused those Penn State lacross players of rape went to prison (not sure if she is still there), right? That's what happens when people file false police reports. Scientific American is a popscience and opinion piece rag and at this point. Scientific American, before being bought out by Springer Nature, was an academic journal. It is now a for-profit publication. Though I find it odd that the one "credible" source you reference…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 03:43 PM
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This is just a really off-base question in general, my guy. If someone is ranking their sexual encounters, then they clearly aren't participating in them, and they are the issue. I've had 40+ sexual partners where sometimes I was completely in charge. Sometimes, they were completely in charge, but generally, each of us participated equally - none were particularly better than the other. There are issues of sexual incompatibility, and generally, those relation/situationships don't last but not du…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 01:13 PM
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Pub Med is a great resource for studies and research papers on many topics surrounding rape and SA. If you were doing any legitimate research on the topic, I'd imagine you have a subscription. If you do, I'd be happy to send you a couple of links to the papers I looked over. Otherwise, it'd be kinda pointless. Either way, hopefully, you aren't referencing the Daily Wire (and similar trash) in your "research."
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 12:42 PM
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Man, you typed all of that and then supplied a Daily Wire link and, in one fail swoop discredited yourself. Ouch. Brother, Pub Med and JSTOR (among other research journals) exist for a reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 12:31 PM
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Not sure what version of this story you read (because there's no way you would ever google "show me articles that backup my preconceived notions" and then post a link without reading it) - CORRECTION: An earlier version of this report wrongly described the rape allegation made against Jay Cheshire as ‘false’. In fact it was simply withdrawn. We apologise for the error. It is important to note that the standard 2-8% of false rape and SA allegations is almost entirely made up of withdrawn complain…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 09:57 PM
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To be fair, it's usually the dudes that would totally SA a chick because that's the only action they could ever get- that start freaking out about "false accusations " and diminishing the experience of SA victims. It's always a clear-cut sign of projection.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 09:43 PM
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Source?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 09:41 PM
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Brother, all I said was you are trying to prove a point with blog posts that just happen to play into YOUR preconceived notions. There are places you can look for qualified, peer reviewed research papers on almost any topic to see what the actual literature says. I made absolutely no claims or even hinted at my position, so I'm not sure what you are going on about.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 05:52 AM
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Are. You. Serious? You reference a newspaper, two blogs, and a popscience website to back up your claims? I mean, why not Wikipedia or maybe Google's AI response system? If you want to be taken seriously, hop on JSTOR or Google Scholar and find some legit references, sir. These are just Google searches that amount to "please return results that backup my preconceived ideas".
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 01:14 AM
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Most of the men in this group could not survive in your hypothetical, so it's honestly a mute point. Reddit groypers and migtow/incel types aren't well known for their masculine prowess.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 12:53 AM
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Preferences are fine as long as those preferences have some legitimate basis. Outside of maybe reducing the possibility of STDs, I can't think of one legitimate reason to give two fucks about how many past sexual partners someone has had. Like, oh no, you're going to know what you're doing and know what you like and don't like- unacceptable. But let's be honest, the reason is always rooted in insecurities and self-esteem issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 12:19 AM
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No, no, you haven't. You may have seen and speculated about these relationships, but you weren't in them, you didn't personally experience the dynamic, you could only ever just match up your preconceived notion that women only like bad guys (who are attractive) and despise nice guys. This is 100% always a deflection by dudes who refuse to take personal accountability for their own internal struggles and shortcomings. It will always be somebody else's fault, and it'll always be that women secretl…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 06:12 PM
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The issue is that a lot of people don't understand that they are being treated like shit because they don't have a good sense of their self-worth. Also, nobody starts treating their romantic partner like shit. It's gradual, and then by that point, the abuser has their partner so confused and questioning whether their reality is as bad as it seems. I'm not sure why people are convinced that, in this case, men are just immediately abusive, and women are just down for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 05:07 PM
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The question is no different than, do you hate women, which yes, the majority of the dudes on this board hate women, especially ones that have slept with anyone but them, referring to them as sluts. Pedanticism is a form of dishonesty.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 02:40 PM
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I enjoy the irony of dudes who struggle to find relationships, planning out how they will escape if they ever stumble into one. That's not even putting the horse before the carriage. That's like building an entire highway, then a vehicle, and then maybe some day finding the gas to put in it. 🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 02:25 PM
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Oh, you absolutely were. I explained my position on the word slut, how it's clearly just a word insecure men use to denegrate women they think has slept with too many people and then you go on to ask me if I hate sluts. You can be miard in your own internal misogyny if that is your perogative, just don't be dishonest about the intention of your words.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 02:21 PM
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Kinda like how your decadent fetal tissue should have been purged from your mother's womb?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 12:04 PM
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Just responding in kind.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 05:48 AM
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The fact that there is a word for a woman who has sex beyond what someone might find acceptable but no such word exists for men should speak volumes about the men who use that word. In reality slut says way more about men's insecurities, inadequacies and hypocrisy that it does about the character of women. Secure, confident men do not care about the number of sexual partners anyone else has had. As silly as it is, it's fine if your preference is for less sexually experienced women. But the momen…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 03:00 AM
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Just your mom.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 02:57 AM
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The fact that there is a word for a woman who has sex beyond what someone might find acceptable but no such word exists for men should speak volumes about the men who use that word. In reality slut says way more about men's insecurities, inadequacies and hypocrisy that it does about the character of women. Secure, confident men do not care about the number of sexual partners anyone else has had. As silly as it is, it's fine if your preference is for less sexually experienced women. But the momen…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 12:31 AM
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Not sure what media youth are taking in that would even carry messages about dating. Especially none that would create feelings of disgust. It seems to me that the more likely culprits are these "pill" groups and the nice guy forums that proceeded them pushing ideas like this. Either way, you aren't disgusting for wanting to have meaningful conversations with people, women included, which I feel I need to keep emphasizing - are people too.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 03:54 AM
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What media?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 03:42 AM
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Who drilled this into your head?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 03:36 AM
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Well... one, you shouldn't be hitting on customers, that's creepy unless they were hitting on you first. Two, and most important, you obviously need to address why you feel disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 03:29 AM
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When people make these arguments, does it ever occur to them that most guys that struggle talking to women, struggle with effective communication in general? It should be a surprise to no one that if you don't have basic communication skills, it's going to be hard to talk to anyone. The other issue is that dudes who struggle talking to women think there is some special way they need to talk to them instead of just talking to them like a normal human- because that's what they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 02:29 AM
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Why not, I do because I'm a loving husband, though? The first sounds almost performative, and I don't get that impression from you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 03:00 AM
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I feel like your response contradicts this idea you have of covert contracts. You aren't doing these things because you have to or for the sake of repiricosity, but because you love your wife and want to do right by her. Just because you'd rather not do something doesn't mean you are doing that thing because you have to.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 11:49 PM
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I get what you are saying, but, at least for me, my heart is never not in it, and I can't imagine that not being the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 11:44 PM
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Is this coming from a place of experience, or is this just another case of putting the cart before the horse? Nobody in healthy, happy, functioning long-term relationships thinks like this. Primarily because in life, what we have to offer vs. what our partners have to offer ebbs and flows, and we rise and subsequently fall based on the situations we find ourselves in. For example, my wife has a chronic illness, and there are periods of time where the whole of life falls on me. I don't do these t…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 08:34 PM
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Ummm... there are plenty of young and broke couples. Like, the vast majority of young couples are broke, lol. When I was in the military, there were a ton of us. Once again, this broke men can't find a woman is another convenient excuse to not take accountability and not address the actual issues guys face. Man up or shut up, just stop blaming everything else for your personal struggles.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 06:18 PM
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I don't. People are free to do as they please. I just think it's funny that aspiring passport bros convince themselves they'll have better luck with women in a foreign country. Not mention it's just borderline racist to think they are going to go domestic some woman from what they consider a less fortune country and that she'll be subservient to him. It would seem to me that it'd be much easier and cheaper to fix the issues these dudes have rather than get wrapped up in these fantasies.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 05:56 PM
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Out of curiosity, what women abroad would you be interested in marrying that you think meet your "standards"? Usually, dudes talk about East Islander women like Taiwaneese, Korean, Phillipino, Malaysian, etc. They think they are just docile subservient women, and a lot of them will act like that until the marriage certificate is signed and those citizenship papers are finalized. And then they will absolutely beat your ass for even looking at them disrespectful, lol. Those are some of the most st…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 12:41 AM
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Terminally online brain will hopefully be added to the DSM-IV when they get around to writing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 03:45 AM
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It's not your standards that are the issue, my friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 03:41 AM
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Likely a woman who meets his superficial standards while not being allowed to have any standards of her own.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 01:16 AM
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Some men are able to take accountability for their shortcomings and develop healthy goals, hobbies, interests, and passions and understand that women are just people worthy of grace, empathy, and respect. Far too many men blame everyone else for their shortcomings and failures, refuse to develop any sense of direction or goals, think they are entitled to standards, but everyone else should accept them as they are and treat women as if they are no more than tools for unmitigated hands-free master…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 01:07 AM
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Women are excited by normal dudes who aren't creeps and perverts. Any dude that's like " all women want Chads" these non-existent men they obsess over, have a severe lack of accountability.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 12:48 AM
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Why would I justify this hairbrained notion that your height is the root of your issue and not your (by virtue of your comments) shit personality? How about this, the majority of married men or men in long-term committed relationships are shorter than me. You can not both blame your height for your struggles and simultaneously admit that the vast majority of taken men are closer to your height than mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 07:49 PM
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There's a difference in putting in effort and building your own roadblocks that make dating impossible- shit thinking like this might as well be the equivalent of building mountains in front of yourself. Dating wasn't effortless, but I also didn't determine women are all bitches and exactly the same after getting rejected by a few. When I got cheated on or broke up with, I didn't spiral into despair and self-hatred. And I certainly didn't get wrapped up in these nonsensical arguments about women…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 10:38 AM
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Admittedly, I didn't read the entire post. But what I did read, read like every other post here about all this silly terminology and its implications for men and their ability to date. I'm sorry you felt like I was attacking you, but I was primarily addressing the dudes that would even engage in this nonsense. The intent was also not to self glaze but to point out that this red pill mindset is the issue, meaning the only dudes that have these issues are the dudes that think like this. I agree it…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 01:29 AM
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The finest of essays developed in one's (or their mom's) basement after not seeing natural sunlight for days. Hyperbolic, sure, but genuinely, where do you all come up with these thesis' on dating? Most people who have normal, well-rounded meaningful relationships and sexual experiences don't ever and will never ponder any of this nonsense. I would go even farther and say that anyone who does think like OP, don't have those things, in part, because this is their mindset. I am 42 years old, I hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 01:11 AM
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It's really weird that every single woman I have ever slept with, sex was never a topic of discussion (unless that was the point). I wish dudes would get it through their heads that just talking to women like they are actual human beings and being genuinely interested in getting to know them will ultimately lead to intimacy and sex more often than not. You don't have to seduce them, you don't have to be overtly flirty, love bomb them, incessantly compliment them, use idiotic POA tactics, etc. Ju…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 06:51 PM
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I don't know, ask OP. The rest of this is just drivel. Just because someone tolerates something doesn't mean they are okay with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 06:17 PM
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Bruh, the issue is that far too many men first and foremost look at relationships as access to sex. They see women as tools for hands-free masterbation before anything else, and that is the issue. If you base your self-worth on the ability to have sex then you aren't only on the wrong path, you're on the wrong planet. And the thing is, women can sense this. It's blatantly obvious when the time some dude is putting into her is just a ruze to get into her pants. Your motivations for getting to kno…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 06:03 PM
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In what way are relationships important to you? What is your experience with relationships? Do you think hormones and the impact they have on bonding have any real practical application in long-term committed relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 07:28 AM
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Because these men state it's all women's fault, they can't find someone, when that's clearly not the issue. Otherwise, no man would ever find someone to date if women are the issue. It's the severe lack of accountability and constructive introspection that is at fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 06:59 AM
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Any argument that starts with x group is this- automatically is an irrelevant statement. Whether your experience is based on shit you read on Reddit or these are your actual real-life experiences, that experience is invalidated by the experiences of the next who did not share that experience. The difference always comes down to perception, humility, and personal accountability. If you have, for instance, the same experience and outcome in a romantic relationship, in all liklihood, you are the da…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 12:39 AM
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I'm sorry you're miserable, brother (based on your miserable statements). I hope you find your way through it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 05:51 PM
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It's because they don't see women as people. They are objects to them, and most that talk about them being in their prime years or whatever have not and will likely never know the touch of a woman of any age.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 04:56 PM
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Data? Or is that just a feeling you have? And I guess I'm very lucky because she makes more than me, has a land inheritance, we don't have kids together, and she'd be perfectly fine without me. Maybe she uses me for my handiness I guess, lol. Or, and hear me out here, we love one another, enjoy one another's company, and we compliment each other very well. And oddly enough, it's the same for all of our married family and friends. W E I R D.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 04:52 PM
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Lolololol, I've been divorced and remarried. Divorced on good terms, split up amicably, no drama, no ass-raping. Toxic divorces are always the result of toxic relationships and almost always toxic people. The ass-raping is an inevitably when you can't figure out how to be a decent human being to someone you "love".
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 03:15 PM
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Oh, absolutely, no question about it. I'm talking more about dudes who think the way they are going to find a woman is by incorporating some poa nonsense to win them over. Just be genuine and a decent person who has their shit together, and your options are essentially endless. No seduction is necessary. Inside a relationship, though, it's a blast.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 03:12 PM
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It has nothing to do with the quality of potential husbands. It has everything to do with women (and vice versa for women with this mindset) not having to suffer through these guys as they currently are. As a side point, people shouldn't be entering into committed relationships with baggage. It's one thing to have struggles and trauma and issues that you are managing and / or have overcome. It's another thing entirely to carry that unresolved baggage into a relationship and inevitably sit it at …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 03:10 PM
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I don't know where all these women that hate sensitive, vulnerable, and emotional men. I'm a 6'5" built teddy bear that will shed a tear just thinking about something sad. I've never been dumped or rejected for it, it's never been turned around on me, and most have found it an endearing quality. I'm convinced this idea does, in fact, come from dudes wallowing in self-pity and/or using those emotions to be manipulative.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 06:13 AM
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Tell those men that there's no formula to seduction because trying to seduce women is one of those creepy things that turn them off. Between my first divorce at 30 and my second marriage at 38, I dated/slept with many, many women and not once had to seduce them. It was super simple, be respectful, don't say creepy shit, don't expect sex or anything else, and have a good time. You have no idea how refreshing that is for most women to just have a normal interaction with a guy. The bar is truly in …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 06:04 AM
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I'm not sure it's a good idea to be encouraging men who have this attitude to give it another shot. They generally develop this mindset after it has be determined that as they currently are, they are not capable or ready to be in a relationship. Case in point, my wife's ex has been single for the seven years we've been married. He has tried and failed again and again and has given up, blaming women for why he can't find someone. The issue is like three of the women he has dated are now married. …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 05:44 AM
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This and that most of these goobers think crippling their ability to provide for themselves makes it less likely that they will leave. The whole trad wife thing is just an idiotic ploy to keep women trapped.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 07:04 PM
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I'm sorry I hurt your feelings, kiddo. Have a better day.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 06:41 PM
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More silliness. Practically all of us have mental health issues. It has nothing to do with the mental illness and everything to do with how you deal with that illness. I'm bipolar and my wife has borderline personality disorder (bpd). If we didn't take accountability for these things and do everything possible to mitigate challenges and control the symptoms, life would be a shit show. I think most people understand that mental illness is common. Some might prefer not to date anyone with a diagno…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 02:48 PM
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You're forgetting the fact that many men will fuck anything and treat them right until they do. I.e. you can stop at the pretty, no other qualifier is necessary.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 02:41 PM
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Just another case of some dudes being upset that women won't settle for them, but they should not have to settle. Why wouldn't someone's career and earning potential be considered, especially later in life? Like, the 18 year old soldier raising one kid with one on the way life was fun but I would not be down for anything like that in my 40s lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 01:59 PM
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"Cheaters" is such a weird misnomer. There are obviously serial cheaters that don't take any relationship serious and are just in it for the fun and thrills. The vast majority of "cheaters" wouldn't consider themselves as such, as the cheating is almost always situational. Cheating is also overused as almost any action taken outside of a marriage that involves another person can be considered cheating, and it's generally defined by the one being cheated on. In the case of men, one guy will think…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 01:35 PM
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To be fair, the perceived superpowers women do have are explicitly given to them by the guys that can't seem to figure out how to approach them, talk to them, respect them, have a conversation with them or date them. My question to you would be if you had 100s of women approaching you, would you not be particularly selective about who you are interacting with? Her response was harsh, to be sure, but that doesn't make it any less accurate. I think your issue and the issue a lot of guys on this an…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 12:43 PM
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