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The important thing is that people have the choice to get married/have children or not. Historically, it wasn’t a choice, you were expected to get married and have kids. Now, people can decide if it’s right for them. People shouldn’t feel pressured either way: if you want kids, great. If not, that’s okay too.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 02:09 PM
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Completely agree with you on having a registry for domestic abusers - that’s something we should be doing anyway tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 10:45 AM
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Just to add to this, I have far more respect for men who are honest about having a lack of experience or confidence and who are willing to learn/make an effort than men who talk themselves up but can’t find the clitoris. In my experience, far too many men fall into the latter category.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 02:37 PM
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Absolutely. Women really need to stop tolerating sub par sex tbh. I get that not all men are experienced, but they could at least make an effort with foreplay rather than trying to get to sex as soon as humanly possible and then wondering why the woman isn’t very enthusiastic about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 02:33 PM
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I’d love to know where they’re getting this idea tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 08:39 AM
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Not watching porn would probably be a good start. It might also be worth going to a professional about low self esteem/reconsidering medication if necessary (SSRIs are not the only option for depression, they are just one type of drug and you might find another type suits you better).
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 09:07 AM
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Not interested in dating atm, but if I was, I’d be honest about my age (32) and my age range is usually about 4 years both ways (so, between 28-36) because I’d prefer to date someone nearer to my age.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 03:40 PM
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Because he acts like one.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 03:37 PM
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No one should be body shaming anyone, tbh. But I’ve seen far more of it from men aimed at women than the other way around.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 08:00 PM
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Reading someone’s profile before swiping on them is the bare bloody minimum. I have no time/patience for someone who can’t even be bothered to do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 03:33 PM
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Lack of effort/not bothering to read my profile. The worst example of this was being liked by someone who listed their hobbies as hunting/fishing and had a picture of them holding a dead fish as their main photo - my profile clearly states within the first two sentences that I’m a vegan.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 10:51 PM
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As other people have said, men are less interested in women who approach them than the other way round. It’s not worth it to me when I’m fine being single.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 06:17 PM
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Men should probably stop trying to make everything about sex then. I am well aware that not all men are like that, but far too many of them are.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 05:56 PM
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In my experience, men don’t like being approached or the ones I would be attracted to enough to approach generally don’t like me. I also dislike it when random men approach me (outside of social events), so why would I do that to someone else?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 05:53 PM
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It’s made me far more careful and selective about who I’ll date. Any indication of right wing/red pill nonsense is an instant no for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 01:20 PM
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I’m not sure if I qualify (early 30s, no job due to chronic illness but have a Masters degree, no kids, etc) but I’d rather use the time/energy that dating would require trying to sort my life out. I don’t mind being single, but I do mind the fact that my life isn’t how I want it to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 08:25 AM
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I just don’t want to. Having kids has never appealed to me. If I did have kids, I would likely resent them, which no child deserves.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 02:43 PM
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As a bi woman, yes I would.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 05:21 PM
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No ones being forced to date me 🤷🏻‍♀️ I don’t see why wanting to be with someone who has similar ethical beliefs is such a bad thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 07:03 PM
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I’d rather they didn’t consume any animal products tbh, but only dating other vegans would narrow down my dating options quite a lot more than if I were open to dating vegetarians as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 07:02 PM
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Eating meat and fish would be a huge dealbreaker for me - even if they were otherwise perfect, I could not date someone who wasn’t willing to go vegetarian.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 03:18 PM
1

I would do that if I wasn’t scared they’d then call the number to ‘check’.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 03:00 PM
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Because I don’t know how that man might react if I tell him to go away? Unless I’m in a crowded or public place, I could be seriously risking my safety. But you’re a man, of course you’d never understand that 🙄 despite women telling you this ad nauseum.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 03:15 PM
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I would rather men gave me their number than ask for mine tbh. It means I have a choice whether or not to contact them. Also, my experiences of giving random men my number was usually to get them to go away/ended up with them harassing me.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 08:10 AM
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Yes. Do you have any journal articles that prove that women lie in this context?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 11:51 PM
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I’ve genuinely lost patience with these men. They have no real experience with women, they’re just spouting RedPill BS.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 11:07 PM
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Provide evidence that isn’t regurgitated from a RedPill source. Preferably from a scientific journal.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 11:06 PM
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Sounds more like you’re lying to yourself tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 09:41 PM
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I will never not find it hilarious when some random man thinks he knows women better than actual women do. If you’re talking to a woman and one of her friends intervenes, there’s usually a good reason for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 02:51 PM
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Same I get abusive vibes from a lot of the men on this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 02:11 PM
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This. I don’t know many people who settle down with someone they hooked up with. Generally they have much lower standards for hook ups than relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 01:54 PM
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In my experience, men don’t tend to like being asked out. So it’s easier/less painful for me to let men approach first.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 12:22 PM
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Giving a fuck is the bare minimum tbh. Men who have the attitude described by OP usually aren’t the type anyone wants to date.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 10:32 AM
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Totally agree with this. I’m well aware my standards are probably far too high, but I’m also happy enough staying single. If anything, I prefer having the freedom and flexibility that comes with being single rather than having to worry about someone else. I’m also not that interested in sex (I would rather do literally anything else) so I’d rather be friends with other people.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 12:18 PM
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There’s a lot wrong with it, actually. No one who has actually studied child behaviour/psychology would ever advocate spanking as a legitimate form of discipline - at best it is highly ineffective and at worst it can be seriously detrimental to the child’s psychological development. I don’t have the time to cite every single article about it, but here are a few: https://www.apa.org/monitor/2012/04/spanking https://www.winchester.ac.uk/news-and-events/press-centre/media-articles/smacking-children…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 01:13 PM
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All I’m getting from this is that these men are desperate to be able to hit women children for some unknown reason and upset that they can’t. Also: hitting children is always abusive. If you are incapable of getting your children to behave without resorting to violence, you have failed as a parent.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 12:27 PM
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Finally. Someone who gets it. Bad ‘options’ are not legitimate options.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 02:08 AM
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It’s a stupid analogy. If you’re stuck in the middle of the ocean, you shouldn’t drink the water without processing it first because the level of salt will cause dehydration which will kill you faster. If you’re in a desert, you’ll probably still die from dehydration unless you’re well prepared or extremely lucky. Anyone with a basic knowledge of science would know that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 10:18 PM
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The brain doesn’t actually finish developing until around 25 (some scientists believe it may take longer, but 25 is the general consensus) so there is a huge difference between someone who is 18-20 and someone 25 and over. I’d also be seriously worried about the potential for abuse/manipulation given that the older partner generally has more power/experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 03:31 PM
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As someone who was groomed by a paedophile when I was a teenager, it comes from a place of genuine concern for me. However, once someone gets past their early to mid 20s, I don’t care which other consenting adults they choose to date.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 12:07 PM
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I’d like to know where men are getting this nonsense from, because I’ve never met any women like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 03:26 PM
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The fact that a lot of men expect sex on the first/second/third date or bring it up before I’ve even met them. If I’m going to have sex with you, I want to do it when I feel ready, not on some arbitrary schedule. I also hate it when guys pretend to want commitment to get me to sleep with them and then disappear afterwards. Which is part of the reason I prefer to wait before having sex with someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 03:23 PM
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That’s not okay. No one deserves to be treated like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 09:37 AM
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Making less money than me is fine, as long as we can afford a comfortable lifestyle between us. Unemployed would be a dealbreaker for me - I’ve actually put dating on hold for now as I am also unemployed (due to chronic illness) and feel it would be unreasonable to expect my partner to have a job when I currently don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 09:40 AM
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It’s bold of (most) men to assume they’d be better company than a cat, tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 02:20 PM
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Why do men always assume that we’ll feel that way at 40/50? You do know there’s more to life than romantic relationships, right? I’d rather be single forever than settle for someone I’m not interested in.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 02:18 PM
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Do you actually have a point, or are you just here to be patronising?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 07:56 PM
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Depends how long ago he cheated tbh. If it was a one off that happened over 10 years ago then I would give them a chance. If it was recent or something they did in multiple relationships then no.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 07:48 PM
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Is changing as a person/learning from past mistakes not allowed any more then?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 07:23 PM
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I feel a bit divided on this one. I generally agree with you in that I’ve found that having other goals and interests outside of romantic relationships (PhD, art, violin, learning languages, learning in general, etc) has done me a lot of good and has made me feel much better about being single, but I also get that it might not be as easy for some people to just get on with things and be okay with being single/feeling like no one wants to be with you. It’s kind of like telling someone with depres…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 07:56 PM
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Hair color: don’t care Eye color: don’t care Height: taller than me (I’m 5ft4) Build: don’t mind as long as they aren’t massively obese Earnings: enough to support themselves/comfortably live on Job status: must be employed Minimum and max people they dated: don’t care Minimum and max people they slept with: don’t care Religion: don’t care as long as they respect my beliefs/don’t try to force their religion on me Sexuality: don’t care as long as they’re attracted to me Age range: 26-34 (I’m 30, …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 06:36 PM
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That’s probably a good thing, because you sound insufferable.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 12:04 PM
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Do you even like women? Like seriously, it’s not that hard to do the bare minimum to maintain a relationship. If you can’t even be bothered to do that, you probably should stay single.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 12:03 AM
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They dress well and actually bother to take care of their skin/hair. In my experience, very few men bother with either. I get that K-pop stars have access to things that the average man doesn’t (stylists, dermatologists, plastic surgery, personal trainers, etc) but you can still make an effort and look good without spending that much money - have a healthy lifestyle, get a good skincare routine/wear SPF, get a good haircut/look after your hair properly if you prefer to grow it longer (no 6-in-1 …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 12:43 PM
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If we both earn enough to live comfortably, then yes. I’m also childfree, so no kids is a huge bonus for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 06:01 PM
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If you want to exchange money for guaranteed sex, hire a sex worker. You aren’t entitled to anything from women just because you bought them drinks. I’ve stopped accepting drinks from guys because I’m so sick of them feeling entitled to sex from me afterwards.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 07:46 PM
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Yeah, if I felt like my partner was only touching me to initiate sex I’d cringe as well. My last relationship has pretty much put me off sex altogether tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 01:47 PM
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They do if they make an effort (stay in shape, practice proper hygiene, eat healthily, use moisturiser/sunscreen, etc). In my experience, very few men actually do this. I don’t think I’ve met a single man who uses moisturiser.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 01:24 PM
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Leave them alone, maybe?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 08:13 AM
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Preferences are fine, just don’t be a dick about it. As in, don’t pretend you want a serious relationship, then use someone for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 05:04 PM
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That is worrying. You’d think women would care more - even if you’re not worried about pregnancy/are on the pill, STDs still exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 12:28 PM
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In my experience, most men will try to get out of wearing condoms. It’s quite pathetic really.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 11:57 AM
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The men on this sub have an unhealthy obsession with women’s body counts.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 11:51 AM
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No. I’d rather not lose IQ points, thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 12:46 PM
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Because it literally shouldn’t matter. The only part of someone’s sexual history that is your business is whether or not they have STDs/have committed sexual assault.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 08:57 AM
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You make it sound like enjoying sex as a woman is on a similar level to murder.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 08:56 AM
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In my experience, the guys who are obsessed with n count are the ones who aren’t high value. Most HVM I’ve met don’t give a toss as long as you don’t have STDs and get regular checks.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 02:04 PM
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That bothers me much less, as no one is being exploited by it. I’d still prefer that he didn’t expect me to do stuff (anal, threesomes, etc) just because he’d got turned on by it from reading erotica.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 09:24 PM
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Huge turn off. I find porn degrading and there’s far too much exploitation/trafficking in the industry. I also hate it when men order me around/expect me to perform like a pornstar in bed rather than us both enjoying ourselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 08:49 PM
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Same here, a lot of the time I’d rather do anything but have sex. I genuinely don’t get why people on here are so focused on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 08:43 PM
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No. I’d rather wait until both of us are comfortable. Until marriage would be a bit excessive, but I don’t mind waiting a few months. Sex is kind of overrated tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 08:37 PM
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Two. Both were guys I was seriously dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 06:41 AM
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This. Men who leave after getting sex are not high value.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 05:47 PM
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My only preference r.e. height is that I’d like them to be at least the same height as me (5ft4) or taller. I’m not bothered if someone is 5ft4 or 6ft as long as we’re otherwise compatible.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 03:07 PM
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Same. Fat men are just not attractive to me. I’d rather be single than settle tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 03:40 PM
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I mean, I’d argue that the draft should be abolished altogether. No one should be forced to fight if they can’t/don’t want to.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 03:40 PM
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I would say that’s accurate. Hence why I’m not bothered anymore - I’m open to being proved wrong, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 02:16 PM
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Almost 4 years I think? I’m not really that bothered tbh, I find sex boring and a waste of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 03:26 PM
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No I wouldn’t. I’m childfree and that includes other people’s kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 10:56 AM
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Because consent is important in this situation. The reason women don’t like unsolicited dick pics is because we didn’t fucking ask for them. No one should be sending unsolicited nudes to anyone. I don’t see why that’s so hard for some people to understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 02:50 PM
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Consent is key here. Most women object to dick pics because they are often sent without asking if we actually want to see that first. It also implies that we’re expected to send nude pictures in return, which a lot of us aren’t comfortable with.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 01:51 PM
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Yes, I would. Unless they’re a serial cheater/have sexually assaulted someone, I’m not really bothered what someone’s sexual history is as long as they get tested regularly/are clean.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 10:29 AM
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Finally, someone who gets it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 12:30 PM
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I get that, I stopped shaving down there for the same reason. It’s annoying that we’re expected to shave everything tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 08:50 PM
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I found using a safety razor really helped with preventing irritation from shaving. YMMV, but could be worth a try if you did want to shave (not that anyone should have to, really).
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 08:36 PM
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Starting it in your 20s is still well worth doing. I’ve seen very few men my age (late 20s) with good skin, and it’s usually because they don’t take care of it. It sounds like a small thing, but small things like good hygiene/skincare/grooming/eating healthily add up.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 06:31 PM
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Good hygiene and skincare. So many guys I’ve been with/known don’t practise that, and it’s frustrating. You don’t need a full 10 step routine/expensive products, just a good cleanser, moisturiser and sunscreen + occasional exfoliation.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 01:03 PM
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It’s near impossible to find a man my age (28) who doesn’t already have or wants to have kids and who likes cats. Those are my only firm standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 07:47 PM
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If you were really as intelligent as you claim, you wouldn’t need to show off about it. Also, Jordan Peterson’s YouTube channel isn’t a legitimate source - you should be citing proper journal articles and studies.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 11:30 AM
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Just out of interest, have you ever actually studied psychology/counselling? There are all sorts of reasons why someone might need therapy that aren’t serious mental health issues - dealing with abuse, bereavement counselling, helping someone else with mental health problems, etc. Also, IQ is total BS - having a high one doesn’t mean anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 09:33 AM
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It’s more of a positive sign. Being in therapy can mean anything from needing someone to talk with to serious mental health issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 09:28 AM
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No, that’s a green flag if anything. What would be a red flag would be if he had mental health/anger issues and refused to deal with it. Being in therapy is a great sign.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 08:55 PM
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I’m aware of that, I’m also a woman. My ex used to behave like that sometimes and it was irritating as hell. I was just pointing out that these things can sometimes be difficult for those of us who aren’t neurotypical. In my case (autism), I need things to be clearly communicated otherwise I may misunderstand or not pick up on everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 12:38 PM
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I think expecting someone else to automatically know what you think needs doing all the time is unfair. I’m neurodivergent and often don’t pick up on subtle things. A lot of these problems could be solved by politely asking the other person to help. Having said that, it does get annoying when you have to ask someone multiple times to do a small thing (my ex would promise he’d do something, then fuck around on his phone for the next hour despite me repeatedly asking him to do said thing during th…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 10:45 AM
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Citation fucking needed.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 03:25 PM
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I don’t care - it’s not my business what other people want to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 01:00 PM
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Agreed. I’ve not met anyone recently that I’d even be vaguely interested in. It would be pointless to pursue a relationship for the sake of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 11:58 AM
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I’m asexual and introverted, so perfectly fine being on my own 🤷🏻‍♀️ I like being able to do what I want when I want and not having to worry about pleasing a partner. The last relationship I was in was exhausting.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 11:21 AM
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The men here also don’t seem to realise that for the few men here who would be bothered by my past + me deciding that casual sex is not a good idea anymore, there are plenty more men who would respect my decision and be okay with it. If they have a problem with it, they aren’t right for me, and they certainly are not high value.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 11:15 AM
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This exactly. I would much rather stay single than be with someone who isn’t right for me. Settling is a waste of both my time and that of whoever I’m settling for. Not to mention incredibly unfair when they could have used that time to find someone who doesn’t see being with them as ‘settling’.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 11:12 AM
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They seem to be all over this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 11:08 AM
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I have a lower libido due to chronic illness and mental health issues/trauma as well as possible asexuality. I ended my last relationship because I was sick of feeling guilty for not being as into it as my ex + a lot of other issues like him being awkward if I didn’t want to do sexual things with him. Right now, I would be happy never having sex again tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 03:45 PM
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This. It’s not worth the risk. I’d rather avoid them altogether
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 01:40 PM
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Not from what I’ve seen online + the ones I’ve met in person. It’s a huge glaring red flag to a lot of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 04:54 PM
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No. I’m probably too old for them (28) + I’d rather be with someone who’d actually treat me with respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 11:47 AM
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I would say no. I’ve not had sex in over 2 years, and am far happier not having it. Out of my friends, the only ones having frequent sex are in committed relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 01:37 PM
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Some of the replies to this post are making me feel glad I’m single. Sex outside of a committed relationship is a big nope for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 01:29 PM
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Are your parents my parents?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 12:22 PM
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I wonder when they’re going to realise that red pill nonsense is a massive turn off to a lot of women. They’re literally just screwing themselves at this point. They’d be better off seeking therapy and dealing with why they feel insecure/women aren’t interested and working on that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 11:04 AM
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And I suppose you’re an expert in how women behave/think? Some of the men on this sub are delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 09:06 AM
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Uncontrolled mental illness would be (not attending therapy/getting other relevant help, using it as an excuse for abusive or otherwise shitty behaviour, etc). If they have it under control/are actively seeking help for it, it would not be a dealbreaker, and I know many awesome people who have mental illnesses (I also have severe anxiety/depression, but it’s under control). I’ve been abused in the past and am not going through that again.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 03:02 PM
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Those aren’t men I’d consider dating, tbh. I’d rather be single forever than be pressured into sex earlier than I was comfortable with. If anything, it puts me off dating altogether.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 02:48 PM
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This. Women not jumping into bed straight away doesn’t always mean they aren’t attracted to you. Some people don’t feel comfortable doing that straight away, and that’s fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 02:42 PM
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Sounds like you’ve completely missed the point. This isn’t about you, this is about the fact that many women have had shitty experiences with men and are sick of it. If you know you’re not like that, you shouldn’t be so offended.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 11:43 AM
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I’ve known some men who I’d consider to be decent (my brother and my close male friends, for example) but they do seem to be rare. I’ve also lost count of how many men seemed alright at first and then suddenly turned months or even years later.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 11:33 AM
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More like she’s frustrated by the hypocrisy/the fact that we literally cannot win with you people. You complain if women put out early, you complain if we want to wait a bit before having sex. Most women don’t hate men, we hate the bullshit that often comes with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 11:28 AM
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I’d be concerned and want to know what was wrong/how I could help. Crying is totally normal, and a very healthy way to express emotions.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/21 07:33 PM
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No, I’ve never done that. I could very well be talking about ‘average size’. All I know is that bigger ones hurt more.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/21 10:28 AM
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I can’t speak for all women, but I prefer slightly smaller penises. Big ones hurt too much.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/21 10:25 AM
1

I think that’s fair. I’m hoping to find a much higher standard of man than I’ve dated in the past, so I’m currently trying to get myself up to the standard I want to attract. Would rather wait a bit longer and find the right person than settle for whoever right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 12:35 PM
9

‘The Wall’ only exists to make men feel better and manipulate younger women. I have seen far more attractive and high value older women than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 06:18 PM
2

The whole ‘if she asks you to wait but slept with someone else sooner she must not like you as much’ is complete and utter nonsense. Same goes for if we’ve done certain sex acts for previous partners but won’t for later partners. If we didn’t like something/it didn’t work for us/we got hurt, why would we keep doing that same thing? It just sounds like you have no respect for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 12:45 PM
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I don’t expect my partner to do anything for me that I wouldn’t do for them. I’m just sick of giving and giving and getting fuck all back/getting hurt.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 12:42 PM
2

Could easily say the same about men 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 04:15 PM
4

I did wonder when someone would mention the Uncanny Valley. Even with robots that look almost entirely human, there’s still something clearly ‘off’ about them. I’m not sure if people would ever be able to move past that tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 04:48 PM
1

I could deal with that if he respected me being a leftist, tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 03:00 PM
1

When you say ‘leans politically to the right’ do you mean mostly centrist but slightly right leaning or full on right wing? Because person B is literally my perfect partner otherwise 😂 I’ve met very few men who are also into art/art history.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 04:38 PM
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Also, my ex was a short Chinese guy. People aren’t automatically less attractive because they are short/a certain race.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 07:37 PM
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This may come as a shock to you, but I have better things to do than mess around on dating sites. Also, no one is entitled to sex or a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 07:34 PM
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Do you have an argument?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 04:29 PM
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I’m guessing over-reliance on technology/social media in the west + extra pressure to look a certain way likely has something to do with it. Human psychology is incredibly complicated and we don’t know much about the long term effect of things like the aforementioned on it, so I may be wrong there, but as a trainee psychologist it wouldn’t shock me if that were the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 04:28 PM
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I wouldn’t waste your time trying to reason with OP tbh. Anyone who unironically self identifies as an incel or red pill is beyond help.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 03:39 PM
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They look like normal guys to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 03:37 PM
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It’s the other way around. Whoever said women prefer flings knows nothing about women. ETA: if your female partner is being a ‘starfish’, you’re probably bad at sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 10:40 PM
1

Can the ‘wall’ myth just die already? It’s not true. If anything, men hit ‘the wall’ long before women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 01:17 PM
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Meh, any man who believes something so ridiculous isn't someone I'd want to date anyway 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 02:21 PM
1

Are we not allowed to learn from previous mistakes, then? Part of the reason women make men wait after having had casual sex or sex on the first date in the past is because we’ve been hurt by men pretending to want serious relationships, and then disappearing after sex. So it makes a lot more sense to wait a bit until having sex with someone. It has absolutely nothing to do with how ‘hot’ you are or anything like that, it’s literally a defence mechanism.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 07:20 AM
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I do feel strongly that a lot of these men have been failed by society to a certain extent. Not enough is done to help people with mental health issues (men especially). I do empathise with people feeling lonely and understand how awful it feels, though. I’m in that situation myself, and it’s really painful sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/21 09:44 PM
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Going to have to respectfully disagree here. It’d be fine if they were just venting and helping each other, but it turned into straight up hate speech and inciting violence. One of them shot innocent people (including a child) in my country a couple of weeks ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/21 08:56 PM
13

I’m not sure exfoliating every day is necessary - especially with scrubs. Your skin needs time to recover. I only exfoliate twice or three times a week - my skin would get horribly irritated if I did it every day.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/21 09:21 PM
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Nope, don’t find him attractive at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/21 06:13 PM
15

Agreed. One of my exes only washed his beard/face once a week and never moisturised. Good personal hygiene and skincare can make a huge difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/21 06:12 PM
2

I’d be majorly put off by incels attitude to women and society tbh. One of them shot 5 innocent people (including a child) in my country last week. So I don’t blame other women for wanting to steer clear tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/21 09:34 AM
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Or maybe more people just don’t want kids 🤷🏻‍♀️ it’s becoming more accepted for people to opt out of starting a family now.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/21 03:37 PM
2

Probably night classes, another degree, volunteer work, travelling along with other hobbies outside of my job. Assuming we haven’t been completely screwed by climate change by then, that is.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 03:31 PM
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Neither. I don’t want kids and I’d rather be single than with someone I’m not aesthetically attracted to (am asexual so don’t experience sexual attraction).
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 03:51 PM
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Congratulations, you missed the fucking point. Judging by the absolute nonsense in your post history (assuming you aren’t an elaborate troll) your opinion is invalid.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 01:58 AM
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As someone who was taken advantage of by a 27 y/o man when I was 19, I agree with this. There’s just too much of a risk of the younger person being abused/exploited. Also, most of the time if someone can’t get someone their own age, there’s a bloody good reason for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 03:30 PM
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I’m sorry, but that’s BS. Just because someone isn’t taken up as soon as they end a relationship doesn’t mean they are ‘non-committal’ or want to ‘date/sleep around’. Some people need time after ending a relationship and that’s okay. I’ve been single by choice after ending a LTR last year because I don’t feel ready to start dating again.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 09:14 AM
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Both seem to come from anger and resentment toward the opposite sex. As a woman, I have found some aspects of FDS helpful (building confidence, being independent, having high standards, etc) but I do think that a lot of it is unrealistic. However, FDS is aimed at helping women protect themselves and screen for abusive men, whereas TRP is more about getting HVW.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/21 07:34 PM
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Why does it matter?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 05:15 PM
1

Obese, bad hygiene, bad teeth, doesn’t take care of their hair/skin, bald, long beards - that’s all I can think of. Some of that probably sounds shallow, but I’m fine being single so I’m not bothered tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 05:33 PM
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