ConsentIsTheMagicKey Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
3	Never Live With Men Or Become Their Forever Girlfriends The laws regarding common law marriage were actually intended to help women, but they could (and still can) hurt women. However, most US states have abolished common law marriage and those that recognize it generally require more than just living together is required. But in those states that provide for it, a common law marriage can be held as existing without the couple realizing it (creditors!), and it doesn’t have to be three years or any other particular amount of time. Do be careful with l…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/03/22 05:34 AM
38	A message to male lurkers: So what exactly is it about FDS that triggers you? Every time I’ve dated a man I wasn’t very attracted to — trying to be less shallow, focus on personality etc., hoping he’d be different, he was just as bad as the other disappointing men if not worse.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/12/21 07:04 PM
45	Update: I posted here a few days ago about a longtime male (now ex) friend in his 30’s randomly sexualizing my 13 yo daughter (check my post history for more details). Many of you prophecized that he would say “it was just a joke”. And well, received this from a mutual friend tonight. Yes. Most child sex abusers are relatives. My brother sexually abused me. I know many women who were abused. Almost all of their abusers were family members.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/09/21 05:38 AM
20	"You earned my respect by not sleeping with me, actually", said the man who tried to relationship-fake me into banging him Exactly what has happened to me— I try to be careful and am slower to commit than average, but have ended up in relationships like this a few times where I realize he doesn’t even like me, let alone love me as he claimed. And yes, one cheated constantly I later discovered. Another didn’t cheat but I know he tried. Why do they do this? It’s so hurtful and downright cruel.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/07/21 10:45 PM
30	I am so glad I didn’t end up with any of the losers I pined over in my pickme years Yes! A few of my exes ended up being criminals. One is on the ten most wanted list for a neighboring county, one just got released from prison for assaulting and kidnapping a woman among other things, and another has multiple restraining orders against him plus a business is suing him for fraud! And all of these guys appeared to be “catches” — educated, professional careers, etc. So glad I didn’t get picked! I also think that even at my worst I didn’t tolerate as much as other pickmes do. One ev…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/07/21 07:09 PM
5	How old were you when you first noticed men looking at you sexually? Go right ahead. You obviously don’t want to listen to women or even try to understand what girls live with starting at very young ages. You are part of the problem.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/11/20 03:45 PM
15	How old were you when you first noticed men looking at you sexually? That’s some deep denial and extraordinary mansplaining. I had multiple men making sexual comments towards me starting at age 7. It was so common that I came to accept it, as most girls do. My mother and grandmother accepted it also and said to just ignore them or laugh at them. Were these men actual pedophiles? I don’t think so. But they were creeps none the same. And their behavior was very normal. Accepting or ignoring this type of behavior also makes it more likely that children actually will…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/11/20 04:22 AM
0	How old were you when you first noticed men looking at you sexually? Yes, but still, where’s the inappropriate joke?	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/11/20 04:17 AM
2	How old were you when you first noticed men looking at you sexually? 7	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/11/20 04:15 AM