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Fucking thank you. If all these idiots are sure that vast majority of 30M/18F relationships are just grooming, why aren't they fighting to raise the age of consent on women? How are 18 year old women both independent and yet too immature to consent at the same time? If you truly believe that an 18 y.o woman is too young to date who she wants, than you should be fighting to raise the age of consent to 25 at least.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/21 06:09 AM
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Do you genuinely see nothing wrong with males well into their 30s and 40s trying to get with barely legal teen girls? Would you truly be 100% ok if your very young daughter/sister was being pursued by men more than twice her age? The answer should be no. Are 18 year old girls too immature to make decisions for themselves? Should we raise the age of consent to 25? What if the 18 year old wants to have a relationship with the 30 year old? What they fell in love? What if they both just wanted to ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/21 06:01 AM
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Today you can get lectured on the dangers of sexual objectification by people who have a onlyfans link in their twitter bio. I never understood this either. Why do some people market themselves as sexual objects while simultaneously complaining about objectification?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/21 05:48 AM
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Everybody need to leave the morally corruption of the cities, move to the countryside. Grow fucking tomatoes. Trash all the soy-progressive ideology. Cancel porn. Cancel television. Stop simping. Get a non-feminist wife/non-simp,non-porn-addicted husband. Make a bunch kids. And then people start marrying for the sake of fucking until they divorce about 6 months later and your trad wife gets sick of your shit because her housework is a lot more than your shit 9 to 5 and she leaves you. Or you shi…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/21 05:46 AM
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Yes, if we're both working. No if only one of us is working (whoever works does less).
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 05:17 PM
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And this is why we need to get rid of the whole "men should pay" bs
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 05:00 PM
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Actually, no. It's worse than that. I've been told multiple times by women "befriending a girl to get into her pants is manipulative, don't befriend girls your into. Just go up to them and make your intentions clear." Then the same chicks will be fucking their best friend 6 months later. Dating advice from women is inconsistent and it either goes from what I've been told, to what you've been told.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 04:57 PM
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I can't believe this even needs to be said....
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 04:57 PM
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Alright, but if you've gone 6 months into dating and you've not once bought up sex, or how much you want it to be apart of your relationship, you're an idiot.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 05:31 AM
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If your gonna say something is wrong, at least bother explaining why.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 04:57 AM
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Fuck it, I'll be the black sheep. I think the diversity shtick is merited given that its done to help poorer minority communities get into to university, and if they reserve a couple spots for Blacks or Hispanics, why do I give a shit?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/07/21 12:37 AM
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If you knowingly date an abuser, don't come crying to me you get abused. Most people would agree with this sentiment lmao. When you say "most people wouldn't blame someone for getting abused," it's because they're usually talking under the idea that the person getting abused didn't know what they were getting into. If I told you that I got back with my abusive ex, would you actually bend backwards to say that I'm the victim, absolved from all blame? Course not. Same standards here. Difference is…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 11:57 PM
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If you knowingly date an abuser, don't come crying to me you get abused. Grow the fuck up.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 08:52 PM
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Yeah, there are lots of loser men approaching women who they don’t actually have a shot with, at least in the U.S. It’s not really about being alpha or beta but whether a man realistically knows what type of woman he actually has a shot with. The only "loser" mindset here is the one that refuses to ask women out because he doesn't think he's good enough. The guys who take every shot are the ones who get the best outcome they can achieve. Also, whether or not a girl finds you interesting has noth…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 05:43 PM
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Holy fuck. What a cunt.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 05:33 PM
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Imo, if you know a person is bad for you, but choose to be in a relationship with them anyways because they're "exciting," you have to take some responsibility for your choice. So many people complain about dating an abuser. But how many of them have slept with someone while knowing he/she was taken? How many of them overlooked the way he/she treated others because they were "hot" or "exciting." Obviously, no one deserves to be abused. But if you voluntarily went into a relationship with someone…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 05:23 PM
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Fair enough
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 05:10 PM
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Yeah fine, but we shouldn't be encouraging or advising that behaviour. Hitting on taken guys/gals should be one of those things that's looked down on.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 05:07 PM
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Yeah, I agree. But finding a FWB would still be hard as fuck. Reason being that FWB relationships are superficial by function, so unless your above average in looks your chances of pulling one off are slim to none. A better alternative for average looking guys is LTR, because there personality actually matters as opposed to looks. But the point is, FWB is super hard to pull off for the average dude, but incredibly easy for the average lady.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 05:06 PM
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Welp. I can't argue with that. You're solid.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 07:01 AM
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FWB is suuuuper hard to pull off as a dude. I feel like sex would be way easier if I was a woman. Atleast some action is better than nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 06:56 AM
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Okay, but my question is: Do you support the destigmatization of sex work? If so, then you also support the destigmatization of Johns, because then otherwise your being inconsistent. Imo, so long as your consistent with how you treat the clients and the producers, all is fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 06:36 AM
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But all this never address the main question: why should wearing crocs be shamed? Why is okay for a woman to have money for sex, but not okay for men to sex for money? In the case that sex work is legalized, this issue has nothing to do with legality, and everything to do with stigma.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 06:27 AM
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I would like to see all the men using sex workers to just stop using the service and see what the pro sex work people's reactions would be when they indirectly destroy these women's source of income. Or, alternatively, hiring sex workers becomes mainstream, and now fucking a prostitute has become as common as porn. At that point shaming a dude for buying is meaningless, almost every dude has done it at some point. It'd be like trying to shame women for premarital sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 06:21 AM
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So, by that logic, guys who stick their dick in crazy have no responsibility in how the relationship plays out?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 02:43 AM
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Bull. The average dude doesn't get to have casual sex on the regular unless he's way above average.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 02:36 AM
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Approach anyways. A girl won't mind if you ask her out if the end result is her feeling pleasant.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 02:30 AM
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That sounds shitty. Do you want to live in a world where guys are always hitting on your girl?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 02:29 AM
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Goddamn. I was born the wrong gender lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 02:22 AM
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Bruh, I'm just playing devil's advocate. Generally speaking I agree w you.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 02:01 AM
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Yeah wtf? "Wamen need to lower their standurds" is pretty much a male dogma in this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 08:40 AM
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its genuinely funny how a lot of guys on here think women are ever gonna give a shit. Y'all ain't gonna see the opposite sex fight against inceldom, or help the average dude get a soulmate. They're just gonna say men should try harder or stop being an incel.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 08:33 AM
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Just get green eyes and perfect nose bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 08:30 AM
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Alright, but doesn't his just validate the red pill? The 20% of men can pick from the top 80% of women, and low and behold, a fifth off all relationships are from online dating. The top 20% of men on Tinder just picked the top 20% of women to wife up, and the average Becky is still on there wondering why she can't get a guy to commit.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 08:28 AM
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So as a woman, do you want to fuck a hot guy who wants sex, or an ugly guy (who’s also probably shit in bed), who wants sex, but pretends to want a relationship because the opportunity to causal sex isn’t there? Exactly, if you could fuck a 9/10 or a 3/10, and they have the exact same personality, why would you sleep the inferior? Ugly men tend to be bitter, entitled, and angry that they’re not having sex with hot women. This is just mean spirited. Who are you to say all men who can't get laid a…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 08:16 AM
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Me fucking too. I'm gonna fuck every lady that comes my way. I want someone that's worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 08:08 AM
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I tried dating every “type” and “level” of man I could think of. Men are pretty much the same w good and bad men in all groups. The only limitation in this kind of theory is that you might have still dated men who you still found attractive.....meaning they might have been a 8/10 dork, or a 8/10 jock. Obviously those kind of guys still fall into the rule that OP listed in the original post.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 08:04 AM
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Bingo. Couldn't have said it better myself. If you cheat, you're trash.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 07:47 AM
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I don't think its women that have done it. Its Movies and TV shows too, along with jokes men tell about how far they'll go for a lady.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 07:32 AM
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Yeah wtf? "rEdDiT iS GyNoCeNtRiC." Okay, then why are 80% of the posts just men bitching about how they can't get laid?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 07:31 AM
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No one's saying she has to lower her standards for the men she dates. Their just saying that its hypocritical to act like the standards for men are incredibly low, when you have super high standards for men yourself. Granted, I still don't agree with this reasoning because it's not like your personal standards are perfect reflection of societal ones. But in general, I do still think the standards for men are super high, because lately online dating has made dating impossible for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 07:29 AM
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Yeah fair point. But I'm not gonna sit here and act like people aren't shallow as fuck. The Jeremy Meeks thing just goes to prove how good looks are one of the greatest privilege life can give you.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 04:53 PM
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Ngl that's kinda funny
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 06:33 AM
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So your basically just saying that women like bad boys because they come off as powerful and therefore attractive? Are you admitting that the dark triad then is attractive? U don't. It's why I have no mercy for redpillers Oh Lord, please spare us.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 06:32 AM
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Why is it that males are allowed to make mistakes & grow from experiences but women are disparaged for doing the same thing? Because there is no archetype of men actively chasing crazy girls. If anything its the other way around. Men put up with crazy chicks for the sex. But its not like they're there for the crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 06:29 AM
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But its ONE girl. Who gives a shit? Even conspiracy channels have put more effort into their arguments than THIS.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 06:27 AM
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Waaaait, didn't Grey stalk the lady, take her back to his place while she was drunk, and threaten her with physical violence? Yeah, no, the whole "bad boy" cliche is exactly that, the dude has a history of violence, aggression, and apathy. To act like it isn't actually bad when their stories are always consistently built that way is crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 06:26 AM
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Pretty silly way to the Hunter Gatherer world as the standard for what is or isn't good. People who sit around thinking about numbers wouldn't have done well either. But we don't sit around, acting Isaac Newton wasn't beneficial to mankind.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 06:17 AM
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This is a pretty good explanation ngl.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 06:15 AM
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Okay, explain this to me. How does you asking a hot guy out, and him finding you attractive, mean that he's settling for you? YOU only think he's settling because from YOUR perspective hes out of your league. But the reality is that he ain't settling because he thinks your hot as fuck, and he's grateful that you asked. Imo, if you think any dude out of your league is settling for you when you ask them out, you must have a really low view of your own self worth. Its possible that people think you…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 08:55 PM
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How would you know? You don't ask men out. And there are tons of good looking guys who would find an average looking girl out of their league. They don't ask women out either, they're massive introverts. They'd feel like they struck a pot of gold if you asked them out. Some of them have never held hands ffs.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 06:43 PM
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Who gives a shit? Guys have been approaching girls irl since the dawn of time. Sure there are some women who don't want guys approaching them. That's unfortunate. But you're not gonna give up asking ladies out just because some women don't like being asked out. I guarantee they won't mind you asking so long as you make them feel attractive enough to be worth asking. There are gonna be moments when you're gonna fail when asking a lady out, and come across as a creep. That's fine. Every dude who's…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 06:05 PM
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I'm talking about a guy whose out of YOUR league, but he thinks your out of HIS league. Makes sense? They exist, your just not asking them out.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 05:50 PM
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Yeah. Don't do Tinder and you'll be fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 05:44 PM
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Just saying "no" and moving on with your life is good enough. The whole "don't abuse men" is being aimed at the women who obviously do (like the ones who will make fun of you for asking them out). This is just being a decent human 101. No one's asking for a rejection blowjob. All the inferences your making here are coming from your head.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 05:39 PM
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The solution is for men to stop bitching about it on Reddit, and start asking girls out irl again. It's no coincidence that sexlessness skyrocketed after 2008. Smartphones and Online Dating have ruined dating for men. Back then, we used to ask girls out in real life. This meant guys were judged for way more than their looks, they judged for how they acted, and what they liked too. Nowadays, with online dating, men are only judged their looks, against the looks of hundreds of other men. Average l…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 05:37 PM
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Outlining The Downfall of Western Civilization Step 1: Men can't get laid
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 05:19 PM
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This means the women who are having sex are having sex with the smaller percentage of men who meet those bolded qualifications and are decently physically attractive (average or above) Honest question, do you think personality/charisma also play a role for the guys that get around? Or do you think this generally just limited to their looks?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 12:14 AM
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Chads Wait so do you think the 80/20 rule is a real thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 12:10 AM
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She's gonna even dignify that with a response......because your right.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 12:10 AM
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What we do carnally respond to is experiencing the man in person, which is why women can say XYZ and then get in the situation and be swept off her feet. Or persuaded differently. Basically why I reject the red pill. I'm easily the most average looking dude you'll ever meet, but I've had success with women without being a "alpha" or a "Chad." I'm not fit, I don't have insane hobbies, I'm not rich, but despite all that I've seen a lot of success just on the account of being funny and exciting. Th…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 12:00 AM
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So Alpha Fucks Beta Bux is all bullshit?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 11:56 PM
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Hmmm. Yeah I guess you have a point.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 11:46 PM
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The point is, no one is saying "turning down men on sex is abuse." Literally no one. The guy literally said "be truthful about it and don't abuse men" which implies that women should just acknowledge their privileges in dating, and be nicer to guys. No one is saying that turning men down on casual sex is abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 11:45 PM
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Or perhaps men can take responsibility for their actions and stop being "incels and deadbeats" Except (according to TRP) they're attracted to violent deadbeats......not being a deadbeat would mean not getting anyone in the first place. And incels don't get anyone in the first place, so I don't know why your even complaining about them....
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 11:12 PM
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I mean, unless physically deformed or unspeakably ugly due to some medical reason, there's no reason an average guy can't get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 11:08 PM
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I lol'd so hard at this comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 11:06 PM
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Alright, but kids who watch porn are pretty much the ones with irresponsible parents.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 11:05 PM
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This. This is exactly the reason why sexlessness has risen. Average looking guys who would normally have no trouble getting laid through personality are now competing with guys on platform where the only thing that matters is your looks. Obviously any woman with brain is gonna pick the best looking guy they can get. But that's because that's the only thing that's being displayed. Average looking dudes need to start asking girls out in real life again. There you shine as an actual person, and not…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 11:00 PM
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I agree with you OP. Why should anybody give a shit if guys can't get laid?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 10:52 PM
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There's nothing women can do about it. How are they supposed to change what their vaginas respond to? They should be truthful about it and not abuse men. How do you read both of these comments and come off thinking that anyone here is saying [no casual sex = abuse]?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 10:48 PM
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Big difference between admitting a wrong in an interpersonal relationship, and admitting social phenomena.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 10:43 PM
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https://imgur.com/0yqyrfO "He had a repulsive personality but he was "hawt" Bruhhhhhhhhh
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 10:33 PM
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This makes no sense. This makes the assertion that the overwhelming majority of men have gone to the bar, tried offering drinks, failed, and went home to play video games. I think its much more likely that a lot of dudes just got hooked to video games before they did to going to the bar and trying to get digits, and prefer the former instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 07:34 AM
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This is a good explanation women unintentionally end up dating shitty guys. It's not a good explanation as to why they deliberately pick shitty guys over the nice ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 07:29 AM
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I'm late but this sounds super blackpilled. "If your not a 10 in the looks department, she'll never wanna fuck you like a 10" would imply that most women are settling.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 02:55 AM
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Globaly Woman are ....economically disadvantaged....pay 70% of child rearing cost apposed to only 30% from fathers.....Boys are more likely to have their hobbies financed then girls... males are given more food and water than females... Bullshit. These are not living standards that women in the developed world actually have to go through. Children growing up in Canada are not having 70% of their future financed by their mothers, are not having water given to their brothers instead of sisters, ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 05:55 PM
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Yeah hot guys who are either dumb as hell or have no self esteem. But most HVM have way more options to choose from, why on earth would they put up with a girl whose making him play all these games, when he could just find someone hotter with standards that he's willing to settle for? HVM aren't desperate. Unless your a total smokeshow with a personality that makes it all worth fighting for (which most people aren't), no one HVM is gonna put up with that kind of bullshit. Not while he's got alte…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 05:11 PM
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Lady, that sub is about criticizing women like those on FDS. I'm asking for a sub like FDS that shits on LVM as much as they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 05:48 AM
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When you find me a subreddit that complains about LVM as much as they do, as harshly as they do, that's as large as they are, I'll agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 04:59 AM
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Abstinence for thee but not for me.....I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 04:43 AM
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They complain endlessly about LVM pursuing them. Reread what I wrote, HVM are not dating FDS ladies unless they're hot enough to put up with the bullshit. And yeah, FDS does complain about LVM pursuing them. Its literally the biggest anti-LVM circlejerk on this site.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 04:42 AM
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I never called you a thot. I was referring to the misandrists on FDS. Yeah, you have a good night too.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 04:40 AM
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And if the majority of HVM refuses to date a chick from FDS, which group is gonna be asking the ladies that peruse FDS? Its all LVM. So it's no wonder why LVM live in the heads of FDS ladies rent free. They're the only ones who are actually desperate enough to try and deal with them. The only ones that get away with a HVM are either absurdly hot, or incredibly lucky. Otherwise most of them wouldn't need FDS to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 04:19 AM
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Any group of women that refer to men as scrotes, are bunch of hoes if you ask me. Thanks. Moving on.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 04:11 AM
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Although in your scenario, well I’ve never met a man who splashes massively on a one night stand, he’s more likely to do that with the “wife material” woman that he wants to date. Exactly, which is fair. A girl's whose wifey material deserves to be treated like royalty. But in your original proposal, a guy whose hubby material doesn't get the luxury of having sex with you, but the guy whose in a one night stand does. Holding out on sex only makes sense if your not having sex with anyone on the s…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 04:09 AM
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So would TRP and WhereAreAllTheGoodMen. Lets not pretend anyone who spends all day arguing in the manosphere has anything good going on in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 02:03 AM
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Its also named after the bluepill. Its not a "men good, wamen bad" circlejerk. The top post of all time is literally just making fun of men on here who can't get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 02:00 AM
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When your starting your argument with "so what, X does it as well," you already know your argument from a moral standpoint is total shit. Infact, I coulda also write an entire essay on how TRP helps men, but every thot from FDS would have aneurysm about how how constructive advice doesn't justify misogyny. Well....the road goes both ways, sis.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 01:57 AM
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Just gonna blatantly plagerize this from u/insertcredit2. What men want is a women who makes their life better, but the whole idea in FDS is to actively make the guys life worse. I don't understand how that works with any man who has options and isn't desperate for any female attention aka actual low value males. PRO TIP it doesn't. That's why you're all stuck on FDS and why there's a huge cross over subscription to r/datingover30 r/datingoverforty & r/survivinginfidelity source If a guy is HVM,…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 01:53 AM
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I'm sorry, I thought these discussions were referring to dating in the developed world?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 01:48 AM
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Literal proof that Alphas Fuck and Betas Bux.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 01:44 AM
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Being a housewife is a 14 hour long job. Every kid you two have is an additional several hours of work, crammed into the 14 hours you're already doing. Its not too much to expect the average man to do a little bit of cooking and cleaning on the side. Your girl will live longer, and happier, and your relationship will be significantly better.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 01:41 AM
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Its old "one's dying of the thirst, the other's drowning in the ocean" type deal. But the general point is, women (on average) have the capacity to play "pick the right one" whereas men don't get that privilege until they become HVM. And if your an HVM, why the fuck would you bother playing a minigame of the Bachelor? The HVM isn't gonna bother with the hypergamy bullshit, he's got tons of options and will pick the lady that's hot and has standards he's willing to settle for. Not the one that si…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 01:40 AM
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FDS has done much to damage my view of women. Me toooooo. That sub is what made me purple pilled.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 01:30 AM
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I have more women friends that have done this to their current boyfriends than I have fingers and toes. And then they ask why so many guys just wanna pump and dump. Well idk, if your willing to put out for the guy who wants no commitment, but are gonna hold out for the guy who does, don't be surprised when it blows up in your face.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 01:13 AM
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One is consistent sex AND consistent abstinence with two different people, Imagine a guy goes on a date with a woman to a low key restaurant. Splits the bill, doesn't pay for her travel or Uber, doesn't treat her in anyway special. Then that same guy goes on a weekend getaway to Paris with a girl he met on Tinder a day ago. Pays for 5 star hotels, expensive restaurants, buys her designer clothes, etc. The original girl finds out about this a few days later, but when confronted, the guy says, "I …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 01:11 AM
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I could write a horseshit essay saying the exact same thing about the red pill too. Would you also consider it a positive place for men?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 12:56 AM
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Does misogyny being worse than misandry make misandry acceptable to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 12:53 AM
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yeah But at least TRP and MGTOW gets quarantined for misogyny. I don't see the same shit for FDS.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 12:50 AM
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Yeah but in political subreddits, it makes sense to shit on the other. You don't need to good, you just need to be better than the alternative (which is them). Its Libs vs Cons, they're both alternatives to each other, so obviously it makes sense for both of them to hate each other. What doesn't make sense is FDS and MGTOW shitting on men or women all day. That's different from the intrinsic purpose of both subreddits.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 12:49 AM
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I’m not sure if the guy who would rather be FWB or ONS is the kind of guy a woman wants a relationship with though. The guy who would rather be a FWB was just an example of something a dude would rather be instead of a guy whose being held out on sex while his girl has fwb. Its not that he wants to be an fwb, its just that there's no value in being a LTR if your being treated worse than the fwb. But overall, I agree with everything that you've said.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 12:41 AM
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Totally agree. The only caveat I would add to that is that your going to make a guy hold out on sex to see if he's relationship material, you shouldn't be having fwb on the side. All your doing is telling the dude that "sex is something you get as a reward for being LTR" while simultaneously giving that reward away to fuck buddies and strangers who aren't LTR material. Most dudes who are being made to hold out would rather be the guy hitting it on a ONS rather than the guy who has to wait months…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 12:24 AM
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Yep. All that and no brains.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 12:19 AM
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And its fucked because 5 ft 9 isn't even short. Its average height in most places. Nowadays short often just means "not tall enough."
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 12:17 AM
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Its all good bro. I guess I just read it differently. I guess what you meant when you said "Thank God I'm caucasian" was that statistically speaking when it comes to dating, being white and tall helps yours chances.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 12:13 AM
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Thank god I'm intelligent. Thank god I'm arrogant. Thank god I'm Caucasian and thank god I'm 6ft. That's all I'll say. Why am I getting "white power" vibes from this?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 12:08 AM
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See, I don't expect the woman I'm not attracted to to hamster my worse treatment of her as actually being better treatment. Thank you! It's not guys who are going around acting like the pump and dump scheme is the better treatment that earns the LTR. But for some reason, the ladies in this thread wanna act like the guy whose being held out on sex, IS the winner in this scenario. And the Chad who gets laid is "just the loser whose being used as a vibrator." It's completely nonsensical. If your ho…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 11:56 PM
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Holding out on sex implies a knowness that sex is valuable and has to be earned through a long term relationship. Having sex on the side with a stranger immediately devalues ALL of that from the male point of view.....after all she's holding out on YOU because she want you to earn it through an LTR, but she has no problem giving it away to stranger. At that point its pretty clear she values the stranger over you. Basically, making your loved one hold out on sex only makes sense if you don't fuck…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 11:25 PM
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"You mean so much to me, so I'll make you wait months for sex while the other guy gets to fuck me right away because he means nothing to me" LITERALLY. I straight up feel bad for the dude that landed anyone who thinks like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 11:18 PM
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That is ridiculous, and so incredibly fucking stupid. Also I'm sorry you had to go through that. I gotta ask, did you stick through with her when you found out? And if you left, how did she react when all that went down.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 11:11 PM
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So basically, the moral of the story is that if your gonna hold out of the one you love, you probably shouldn't be fucking anyone on the side. Honestly, I kinda miss the old days where when you started dating someone, it was assumed that you were exclusive until you went your separate ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 10:59 PM
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Starts fucking the school janitor
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 10:55 PM
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I know I’ve been treated better by men because of my looks and personality, been taken on dates where men insist on paying (even if I offer), been bought flowers, etc etc. I’ve also had guys vanish after a sex, suggest casual hook ups only, be mean or cruel. I was the same woman, the difference was the role these men assigned me in their eyes. BUT: Men pointed out that it’s not fair to treat THEM differently, to fuck the Chad while making a guy being considered as a bf wait etc. They said if Cha…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 10:49 PM
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Eh, that's true.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 09:05 PM
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If hostility and agression are what women find attractive, why are they always the main source of mockery by women on r/IncelTear.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 08:25 PM
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Men are taught: be aggressive, be tough Women are taught: be nice, be agreeable, Some variability to this. Lots of dudes are raised to not be aggressive, always be nice, to tell teachers if they're being bullied, to not fight back, etc. I don't think I've ever seen a dude raised to be aggressive, with the exception of maybe stereotypes pushed from TV.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 08:22 PM
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Not all women that was dark triad, muscular bad boys are insecure or damaged. If you believe that TRP is correct, than you have to believe that this are qualities that attract most women, not just the crazy ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 08:18 PM
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TRP goal is to be the FWB guy she fucks on the side while making the dude she's dating wait 3 months. Wait....is that actually a thing. Does FDS actually recommend holding out on a guy for three month while fucking on side? Oh my Lord, I feel so bad for the dude who held out and stayed with this chick for three months, while not dating anyone else, only to find out she was fucking others dudes on the side that whole time.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 08:00 PM
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The subreddits and online communities are cesspit. The actual concept itself is good.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 07:44 PM
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Yeah, of course. They don't give a shit if guys they aren't attracted to get off Tinder, they want em. But, this isn't ain't for the ladies, its for the guys. Unless you look like a model, being on Tinder is a waste of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 07:43 PM
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Your right. A better statement would be "if you don't look like a model, stay off Tinder."
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 07:42 PM
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I absolutely agree. If your not in the top 10% of looks, being on Tinder is a waste of time. Your much better off hitting on girls irl.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 07:42 PM
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Lmao. "Almost" is still even a bit of stretch.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 06:18 PM
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Yeah, pre med rn.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 04:45 AM
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Yeah but misandry gets a pass because "muh patriarchy" and "muh suffrage." Men haven't really been oppressed on the basis of being men, contrary men have a history of deliberately oppressing women. So any talk of misogyny gets treated way more severely (ie: look at how reddit treats misogynistic subreddits vs. Misandrist ones).
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 06:07 PM
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Thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 06:02 PM
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I dunno. Same reason I'd get upset if I saw a lady go back to a cheating ex, or friend get into a relationship with someone who just wants to use them. I live in a society and care about the well being of my fellow citizens, so I tell them not to do dumb shit where I can. Same reason anyone gives advice on reddit I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 07:34 PM
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Eh. JP himself is pretty benign. A lot of men find him helpful. To be honest if men look up to him and follow his advice, that's probably not the worst thing in the world. For self help advice? Sure. He's a brilliant in that regard, no doubt. But I'm referring more so to his opinions regarding culture and politics, opinions that he always mixes in with his psychological advice. I think there's something to be said for the idea that the left wing deconstructs things and breaks down barriers but i…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 05:55 PM
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You honestly telling me you can have a world where most men aren't virgins but most women are? Explain how that works.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 05:46 PM
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That sucks. Ngl I feel like I been lied to.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 05:27 PM
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Yeah I don't see the same arguments being made for fat men. The reality is that if your fat, it eats into your face, your jawline disappears, and your face widens.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 07:54 AM
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Absolutely. The problem is all women are expecting 6/6/6 when only like 10% of the male population meets that requirement, your setting yourself up for failure if your not able to bring enough to the table. Me, calling that out, doesn't mean I disagree with women having standards, its me saying that the standards just statistically impossible for the overwhelming majority of men to accomplish. You can't change your height or your dick size. But guys don't get cry about societal beauty standards …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 07:45 AM
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What's more interesting is that none of the men bitching are, IMHO, as good as they seem to think they are. Whether someone is "average" has nothing to do with standards. If a majority of men are shitty, a majority of men are shitty. But....how would you know this? This would be like me saying the average chick on FDS is fat and ugly....but I have no way of proving that. It sounds like an assumption more than anything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 07:42 AM
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I mean, honestly I guess you're right. If you don't care about being single and can't find a man who can meet your standards than I guess your good. I'd also prefer being single than settle as a dude. So I kinda get your point.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 07:35 AM
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Maybe you're right. But can you explain then why said women might leave a better partner to go back to an abusive ex? Or why some women might find those kinds of traits attractive to begin with?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 07:26 AM
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One, where? I took it to mean that bad character disqualifies him from a date or relationship. r/Tinder. A female user thought women were too good to sleep with men who might be dicks. Its hilarious. Your comment here: And why would being an asshole disqualify him for casual sex? We're using him for his dick. We don't need him to be nice. is exactly what I was looking for. Asshole basically being limited to what you just said right here.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 07:14 AM
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I’m pointing out, that the way they’re going is essentially nowhere. It’s just misery. So they’re essentially abandoning “traditional female expectations” to essentially live in misery. But why are assuming that the abandoning of female expectations leads to misery? If you ask any of them, they'll straight up tell you the opposite. Abandoning female expectations have made them happier, otherwise if it didn't they wouldn't have bothered going their own way in the first place. Women aren’t worse o…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 07:06 AM
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Okay well when romantic attraction gets a dude laid, let the rest of us know when its worth going for.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 06:59 AM
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You're arguing against something I never said. Holistic interest likely includes physical attraction and thirst as well. It doesn't have to be mutually exclusive I wasn't trying to argue against a figment of my imagination or projecting. I was trying to answer the question of whether or not guy chase women out of thirst . The hypothetical question was basically asking: "do girls do it as well?" which was to show that if girls do it than it should be clear that guys are really no different. Also,…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 06:56 AM
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Different reasons. JP because he mixed his individualistic self help advice with American politics which mixes them together push an active movement for Conservatism. TRP and FDS both suck because they prioritize getting laid/commitment over human morality. Both of them will talk about either gender like a means to an end. Misandry because its more mainstream but what people don't realize is that it just fuels the fire misogyny, so its a never ending cycle.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 06:49 AM
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Non western men are usually conservative and traditional. They have certain expectations from women and relationships. Not true. Unless you were literally raised in Asia, chances are if your raised in US your probably mix of Asian conservatism and American individualism but lean more towards American individualism. But Non Western Men raised in the West don't grow expect arranged marriages or following Asian traditions nearly as much as they would if they grew up back home. Just visit an Asian s…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 06:13 AM
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I’m gonna state AITA as an example. Almost every post about making someone homeless results in a “NTA”, because “no legal obligation”. I know AITA isn’t fully representative of American values, but it’s scary how many people think that way. I KNOW RIGHT. The way people are so nonchalant about kicking out their kids or their parents blows my mind. Like, yeah, legally speaking you don't owe them anything, but come on, thats your son. Unless kicking him is for his own sake, doing it because you don…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 01:44 AM
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Its a hot topic nowadays because times have changed. omen have started arguing against traditional gender norms on the basis that expecting something from a certain sex, just because it was them, was wrong. Men said "hey that should apply to men too" and that's why I think its wrong for guys to pay. We don't live in the 20th century, both parties agree to the date, and women are equal to men, so why should men pay? It seems to me that people just want whats best for them when it comes to gender …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 01:30 AM
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Can't wait for the men's walks and protests to raise awareness of the very important issue of paying for dates. I fucking wish. All real life discussions for Men's Rights end up getting muddled by misogynistic assholes that want women to go back to kitchen and that basically ends up sullying almost the entire movement.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 12:49 AM
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Your not in the dating market but your encouraging women have a price tag? Goddamn. Do you fill your end of "traditional gender norms" and cook and clean for him too? Or do you only care about that kind of stuff when it comes your way?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 12:44 AM
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bottom line is there is a pool of women you will never have access to if you want to act like a cheap loser who’s only looking for sex... Don't you think the reverse is also true? That there's a certain number of desirable men who you also want to sleep with, but by holding onto 20th century gender roles your excluding yourself out of a relationship? And I mean, let's be real here, if your asking him to pay, your signalling it to him that you probably weren't interested in him from the start. Af…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 12:30 AM
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I sympathize but I'm not a free therapist and I'd rather date someone not so broken by the dating market, why should I suffer for his bad lunch-buying choices in the past? How is paying for you own meal "punishment?" And a guy gets ripped off for a free meal is "traumatized" or "broken" he's just learned that its not worth risk on a first date. If you consider that "broken" than I don't wanna see what you think of men who've been abused.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 12:22 AM
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This is dumb. If guys can complain about outdated sexist gender norms, than so can guys. This "hurr durr, just don't date them" is unproductive to solving the problem and keep the problem is place. The only way we stop this stupid custom is to raise awareness of how bullshit it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 12:14 AM
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Now we're going in circles. I'm gonna try one more time, and if you still don't get it, I'm done. Does Beauty and Beast and many different messages, themes, and subtleties, that can be recognized by men? Absolutely. I'm not denying this. But are 7 year old noticing these more subtler themes about what women or are they noticing the far more grand overarching themes about men? I would argue it's mostly the latter. Sure B&B can push the message the chicks looking at the inside end up getting studs…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 10:40 PM
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I'm saying that secondary assertions don't matter because the overwhelmingly majority of all men off watching the movie with one message: that its the inside that counts. Otherwise, why aren't all guys here making the same point as you, if it was just so overwhelmingly obvious?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 09:13 PM
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I don't care. No amount of lessons from english class are going change the fact that the overwhelming majority of guys get the general takeaway that "its inside that counts." You can sit there and talk about metaphors and symbolism all day. It doesn't mean shit in the context of what men actually learn.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 08:46 PM
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Are you saying that women avoid dating asians because it hurts their reputation? Does the opinion of other women really mean that much to them?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 08:38 PM
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And then there's me, who hates JP, TRP, FDS and misandrists. Men's lib is where its at. Fuck yall (not you specifically OP), I'm just here to tell yall that everyone here fucking sucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 08:16 PM
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You can be the hottest person out there, if you’re annoying to be around or retarded, good luck getting anything meaningful. There are so many guys out there that stick dick in crazy, knowing fully well what they're getting into, but do it anyways because they just want sex. So I'm kinda doubtful of this line tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 08:11 PM
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But everyone should treat others how they wish to be treated, and live up to the standards they expect from a potential partner. Yeah but dating doesn't work that way. We don't date ugly people because we wish they would have dated us if we were ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 08:10 PM
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Yeah I mean that’s possible if she was already into you, but otherwise you need to be really friggin good at game to get out of the friendzone. Just cut it off. Relationships of unrequited love sour like milk over time. And imo, your not just doing it for yourself, your doing it for her. She might think it sucks that a friend is now a nobody cause they ain't compatible, but its better than what would happen if he stays. I agree that women’s dating/hookup advice is fuckin abysmal because they are…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 07:26 PM
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And not every fat person is depressed and not every short guy has body dysmorphia. I'm saying this person in particular did and he was taller than me (like 5'11/5'10). It was his stomach he hated most Oh shit sorry about that rant. I totally misread your post. I'm saying his body dysmorphia affected his confidence and he tried to compensate for it in other ways when he could've just dealt with the issue head on. Yeah but honestly for those kinds of dudes, no amount of cheating will ever fix the …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 07:17 PM
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And yet, stories of ladies dating their friends are all too common. Stories of "creeps" approach women for their number is all too common. Your advice isn't wrong, it's contrary to what often works and it falls in line with what women complain about (always being approach by creepy men). Do have any idea how confusing it is for guys? "Don't approach, your better off befriending them to let them know your a safe and genuinely good dude so that you don't creep them out when a total stranger asks."…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 06:28 PM
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Men date down. Women date up. Its not even up for debate, studies have shown this.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 06:12 PM
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You don't know that. Your just assuming that he doesn't because he didn't ask you out, when in actuality the guy might be thinking "wait, SHES asking ME out!? But she's SO out of my league." Shoot your shot lady. Why wait for the right man, when you could be the one picking him for yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 06:07 PM
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Romantic feeling require sexual attraction first. If Romance worked TRP would full of advice saying "Here's how you guys can swoon a lady into having sex with by being romantic."
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 06:00 PM
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No my standards are completely reasonable but the majority of men can't reach them so of course they will cll them ridiculous. Lmao. Okay sis, whatever you say. I can't imagine your face when you find a dude who hits all the right marks, but then you have to turn him down because he watches porn once a week. Anyways, good luck finding the perfect dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 05:58 PM
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Nah, he's just a victim of body dysmorphia. I couldn't disagree more. There absolutely is a bias against short men when it comes dating. Every short dudes who gets laid will still admit that he's been turned down on account of being short. Just saying "nah you've body dysphoria" is like telling a fat lady being fat wouldn't have any sort impact on the guys she wants to date, because you once saw a fat girl with a chad. Its ignorant at best and gas lighting at worse. The least we could do as a so…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 05:53 PM
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it’s men who think average dudes aren’t capable of treating you as badly as “bad boys,” “chads,” and “tyrones.” women already know it’s not true because we’ve dated these guys to know they can be, and many times are, just as bad. I think there's some merit to this. You don't know what your going to get, even if you date an average dude. That being said, you downloading Tinder. Your getting 200 matches. Somehow, out of all the dudes on that statistically likely to be normal, you just happen to pi…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 05:36 PM
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A virtuous man should be able to provide assistance to others (resources, in goods and labor) be kind and caring (makes people feel good) and strong enough to stand up for himself and those he cares about (makes people feel protected). Explain then, why do some women date guys who don't give a shit about them? I keep hearing it virtue is what matter, but really the only thing that all guys who are getting laid have in common is their looks and charm.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 05:32 PM
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Holy fuck dude. I'm so sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 04:51 PM
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So you don't want a porn addict, you just want a guy who doesn't watch porn at all. Okay well then this is like me asking for a woman who doesn't use a vibrator. Your standards are ridiculous, and despite what FDS has told you, watching porn once or twice a week doesn't have any of extreme side effect your post cries about. Also guys have been watching porn since the 70s. So its not like this is a "new" disease thats causing the downfall in men. Your standards are just dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 04:38 PM
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Does the title "All Men Are Trash" work instead? Women do say that by the way. It trending on twitter this past year.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 08:30 AM
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Unless you wanna befriend them first, and then ask them out on a date. Oh but no wait, then your being manipulative about your intentions, or making the woman feel bad for losing a friend. So you can't cold approach them, otherwise your creepy. But you can't befriend them first either, because that's that's manipulative and shitty. Point is, women don't have good advice for men. They're inconsistent, and they make these rules for betas, which they then break for Chad. At the end of the day, eith…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 08:27 AM
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MGTOW then I guess? Bro, does being a doctor not help your chances? Am I going to med school for aspiring career, just get to get nothing out of it (in terms of status and datin).
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 08:21 AM
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Might as well pack it boys. This guy pretty much dropped the truth pill on this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 08:16 AM
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None of that disprove my point, or OP's original point that movies by and large mislead men as to what women want.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 08:06 AM
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Yeah but the whole topic of thread is the take home message that gets sent to boys. Sure you could make the argument that at the end of the story the chick lands a hottie. But that doesn't discount the fact the Beauty and the Beast teaches men that its inside that count. So your counterexample is still meaningless.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 07:34 AM
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This is some pretty impressive mental gymnastics I'm seeing right here. Do you honestly think a boy watches beauty and beast and doesn't think it's inside that counts? No one gives a shit about the meta. We're talking about the impressions it has and teaches to men. And its undeniable to most men that Beauty and Beast taught them its not about the beast, but rather the beauty on the inside.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 07:21 AM
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Lady, how have spent 2 year of PPD and not ever read up or learnt about the red pill? Goddamn.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 07:17 AM
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Because think emotional intelligence + kindness = sexual attraction Couldn't be farther from the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 07:12 AM
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They all got good looking people, after valuing and recognizing what the good on the inside. Your not gonna change my mind that Belle only cared got the good looks when she cared about the inside of the beast. By that standard, its fair to say kids look at the messages in the movies and take those not to. Not the attractiveness of the partner at the end of the movie. Like, literally no kid will tell Beauty and Beast taught them that attractiveness is the end reward. Its antithetical to the main …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 07:11 AM
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Slow clap
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 07:01 AM
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Intimacy doesn't get you laid, or even a date for that matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 06:59 AM
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look at Disney films the Prince is always tall & handsome, look at trashy tv.. when asked what they like women say tall, dark & handsome Disney princess films weren't the ones aimed at women when asked about attitude women openly say funny charismatic & high social status. They also always say they want a dude that is nice, kind, and sensitive. But they really mean is attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 06:56 AM
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Godamn, almost a thousand comments but only 76 updoots. This threads gonna be a battle ground.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 06:54 AM
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Exactly. Thats what I was telling another dude. Your expecting every girl to be a virgin before guys start wifing her up? Do you not realize that if dudes sleeping around, theres gonna be a significant proportion of women who are also losing their virginity to em? Finding a perfect virgin with perfect looks and perfect body is literally gonna take celebrity status of wealth and fame to accomplish.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 06:50 AM
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Its too extreme. Guys are gonna want a low body count for sure. But literally 0? Your gonna have to at the top of the pyramid to get that kind of treatment. Its a unrealistic standard to set in the modern day world of dating. For every young dude whose been in a relationship before marriage, there's also at least one woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 06:43 AM
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Do men only approach women because they are thirsty and not because of interest in a person holistically? I don't know. Do women agree to have FWB with hot dudes they don't really care for instead using a more holistic method? Everyone is shallow sis. The worlds always been this way and always will be. No one gives a shit good you are on the inside, if you don't meet a certain bar for attractiveness your never gonna get any sort of relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 06:39 AM
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I don’t want you to say yes to me just because I asked. Then you will be stuck in a relationship with someone who isn’t fulfilling to you cause you took the first person to come your way. I want someone to want to date ME, not want to date anyone. If they aren't interested in you are just saying yes to please you, it'll become apparent throughout the relationship will it not? Also, if you approach, there's an infinitely better chance for a LTR than there is if you just walk by without asking.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 06:34 AM
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Alright, but what does any of that have to do with dating? If automation forces men out of work, its not men that have failed in society, its more that society has forced them out. Also automation is waaaay bigger than anything related to dating. We could have a generation of the greatest men ever born, and automation would still replace them. If vibrators have taught us anything it's man can't beat machine.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 06:21 AM
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Imo, even without porn, we'd still be in the same place. Yeah dating a teen would be easier. But most of the current sex balance is due to hypergamy, not guys jacking off in their teens. Its not like concepts learnt from porn at 14 are whats stopping guys from getting laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 06:13 AM
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I think that you need to be happy before you meet someone in order to meet someone that make you happier. Yeah but online dating as a dude is depressing. Even the most accomplished dude will feel worthless after an hour or a month on Tinder. Basically, for a lot of happy dudes, women ain't worth the effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 06:09 AM
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You're so close, but you kinda missed the point. Those guys are angry because they're only valued for what they can give and their actual needs are never discussed. You never considered weather any of these men are actually happy with this scenario. Facts. Could imagine having society not giving a flying fuck about you? Not caring about your depression, your sadness, your misery. But then when you work your way out of it, suddenly everyone cares about you, and now suddenly every girl that turned…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 06:05 AM
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Did you not complain about guys doing nothing but watching endless porn, playing video games, and not self improving without being misogenistic? Well here's two parking lots full of guys who (statistically speaking) are by majority not lazy porn addicted misogynists. I'd argue your post is taking a minority subset of under achieving, loud men, and is strawmanning the overwhelming majority of guys as being that way. And the fact that your doing this despite there being so many normal guys there w…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 05:59 AM
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If men continue on their current trajectory, the vast majority of men will be living in poverty, with depression, with little to no support. Why would they be living in poverty? How does not dating women make them more poor?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 05:50 AM
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Holy fuck. Incredibly well written. You should turn this comment into a post. One thing that really touched with me in this is the part about men being a problem for just existing. One thing gals don't realize is that for every confident funny dude who entertains them and asks them out, there was once a "creep" who asked them where they lived before asking for dinner. The point is, in order for men to be socially attractive, they have to risk being socially creepy. Because your going fuck up in …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 05:48 AM
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First off, fuck that guy. I hope he sticks his dick in a blender since he clearly can't keep it in his pants. But secondly, I agree that we all need to help each other. But the whole point of the finger pointing is to show the double standard. There are some guys/girls out there who can't empathize with short dudes, despite claiming that they are super anti body shaming. The whole point of bringing up weight is that it helps show how we wouldn't accept it for one thing, so we clearly wouldn't ac…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 05:35 AM
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I want to root for you because yeah your standards fuck what others think! But that would make me look like an idiot to others too But that's exactly my point. A girl can tell a guy his standards for big tits and a perfect ass are stupid and unreasonable, and she'll be hailed for 'fighting against toxic beauty standards.' But a guy can't tell a girl her standards for a 6 inch dick, income, and height is being unreasonable without being called pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 05:25 AM
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Look at this brainlet take. The quality of good men haven't decreased, the standards of women are too damn high. There are tons of guys out there who are sexually interested, who don't play video games 24/7, who don't hate women. It's just that if those dudes aren't attractive enough so you don't wanna date them. But to act like this is due to moral failing on men, when there are so many normal guys out there is fucking insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 05:13 AM
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Gen Z are still under 24. This is all speculative, but the point I'm trying to make is that its too early to definitively tell.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 04:58 AM
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This is factually true. Just look up the pretty privilege.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 04:55 AM
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Also if you really want to leverage kindness as an attraction feature (not a great idea) then you need to be prepared to just be kind for the sake of being kind, be kind to every single person you come across, and never expect any reciprocity: this signals to people that you don’t have ulterior motives and that you are just a great guy. (Shows maturity & demonstrates value) but personally I don’t think this is a good strategy to bag women if that’s the desired outcome Okay but in your heart of h…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 04:53 AM
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But genuine altruistic behavior is a sure path to failure. Disagree. Genuine altruistic behaviour isn't a disqualifier, it's just irrelevant to the topic of attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 04:47 AM
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Chad already displayed his attractiveness in some manner, hence him getting laid and the girl willing to have sex to get it. Makes no sense. If your being disingenuous, your being manipulative. Sure, she might not care because he's got and they to fuck. But its still manipulative.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 04:46 AM
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Well, there's an upper limit to that. You super fit and have great hygiene, but there comes a point where your limited by your genetics. Ie height and face.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 04:43 AM
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Ngl Black women are gorgeous. I guess that means more matches for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 04:33 AM
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Yeah I noticed that. Its also why I call Female Dating Strategy "The Red Pill but reprocessed and packaged for women." Its ugly, makes both parties more depressed. Gets us all nowhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 04:32 AM
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Yep. Asian dudes and Asian chicks get opposite treatments. Its weird as fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 04:30 AM
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But I've never struggled to date so they are reasonable by definition. I mean, do any women? The standards for being attractive female is literally just being skinny and not being fucking crazy. You could easily get Chads to date you, they're just looking for easy sex, the hard part is keeping them around for commitment.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 04:07 AM
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Exactly. If I want a girl big fat tits and a perfect ass, I can say what I want, and any jealous chick calling me unrealistic is just being pathetic. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 04:03 AM
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Yeah but that still doesn't disprove the thesis that fat women get more love than fat or short dudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 04:01 AM
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It shouldn't be transactional thing where a woman would have to clean the house in order for a man to give her an hour of his time. I mean, he's also giving her 8 hours of his day at work. He's the one financially supporting her. But that being said, I agree with your general point. 14 hrs of housework, cooking and cleaning, for 8 hours of work on his part? That ain't fair. Dude should help should at least shoulder some of the housework to make it fair. Like do his own laundry or some shit, or h…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 03:18 AM
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I couldn't disagree more. Its not sexist to have expectations for your partner unless said expectations only exist because of gender norms. Otherwise if you want a relationship without expectation, you might as well date your right hand. What your describing is literally just a game of "nope" until neither side wants to do anything for the other until neither of you are in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 03:13 AM
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Physical touch includes everything from cuddling on the touch to 69, back scratches to blow jobs. So, if a man is "I just want to fuck," he's probably just horny. We all get horny. Okay but it's still okay to hold sex as a requirement in a relationship if your a man/woman. Whats the point of being in a relationship if its just a dead bedroom?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 03:03 AM
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I'm saying that it wouldn't be worth it for the dude. Being in a relationship with a woman from FDS would be hell. A chad can't be a doormat in redpill they'd be called a beta That's personality wise. If you look like Chris Hemsworth but you act like a doormat, FDS would fucking love you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 02:33 AM
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Bro, I'm sorry. That sucks. I hope life gets better for ya.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 02:29 AM
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Simply being Indian. Or specific attributes? I’ve seen attractive Indian men just as I’ve seen attractive all ethnicities. Not just Indians but Asians in general get the least number of swipes on dating apps. Western women (on average) tend to find Black or White men more attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 02:28 AM
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I'm sorry yo. That sucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 02:27 AM
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"Look at what he does, not what he says" Its funny cause TRP dudes say the same thing about women to disprove the original post.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 02:26 AM
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That's his point. Being decent has nothing to do with getting laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 02:20 AM
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Man, I didn't think hypergamy was real. But honestly, the amount explaining why they date, who they date, basically tells me the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 02:14 AM
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And why would being an asshole disqualify him for casual sex? We're using him for his dick. We don't need him to be nice. Yo, could I use this comment as evidence to say women don't mind having casual sex with shitty dudes? She was saying that a man's bad character would disqualify him from the bedroom. Your the perfect example for otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 01:44 AM
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Damn. So hypergamy really is a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 01:34 AM
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Safe spaces are valid but if they become an echo chamber for the dehumanization, hate and detriment to an entire sect of people they need new management or just to out right go. Regardless of who they are. Absolutely. And it's a cycle. Guys go on FDS, see that shit, think of themselves "wow, these ladies really hate men" and then they find a circle jerk for incels and get radicalized into thinking that all feminists hate men. FDS might seem like a nice place to "get back at men" but goddamn, it …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 01:24 AM
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If a man tried to be the FDS ideal, they'd attract most kinds of women. He'd attract the worst kinds of women. All the thots on there want a Chad that's also a doormat. Also no one can truly meet all their ideals because what FDS wants is often inconsistent.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 01:16 AM
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The problem with the USA is not the land, it is the people. Well... half the people. You know, the ones that oppose the welfare state, and actually buy into all the bullshit that is corporate culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 01:08 AM
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LMAO. "The rise in sexlessness among men is a threat to society. Its only a matter of time before this chronic illness goes too far, and then a civil war will break out and society will finally collapse." This whole thread is Grade A copium. No one has to give a fuck if men can't get laid. Do better in life and try again next time.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 01:04 AM
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LMAO. "The rise in sexlessness is dangerous, a chronic ill in society. It;s only a matter of time before civil war and societal collapse." This whole thread is grade A copium. No one gives a shit if you can't get sex. Try harder in life and then try again.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 12:59 AM
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Yeah, but that's more of a hindrance when it comes to online dating, which is just shallow by design. A lot of those 80% physically unappealing dudes become more appealing the more you get to know them. It's a big part of the reason why male sex rates were higher before social media, its because people were more interactive irl and improved mens chances vastly. I know this sounds like boomer shit, but we actually need a service or societal function that can bring people together irl.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 09:46 PM
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Irrelevant but I love your flair.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 11:57 PM
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That doesn't make any statistical sense. In a bell curve if 50% are below average, the remaining 50% wouldn't suddenly be considered partly ugly because they don't how to groom. They've already been accounted for in the lower half of the bell curve. Unless you define ugly as "everyone who isn't physically attractive to women on first glance" than sure, 80% of dudes are ugly. But the logic your pulling with stats doesn't make any sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 11:54 PM
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instructions unclear: Told her that her dream career was garbage first date, told her I wanted to give the sex to her as she cried at my advice, and then made eye contact as she came back tearfully from the bathroom. She then slapped me in the face as I aimed for a kiss. please help me op, i'm thirstier than a guy dying of dehydration in desert and no matter how many women I tell, I keep getting another restraining order.
/r/seduction07/06/21 03:58 AM
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IMO simping is wrong for a woman to do as well. But simping is way more common in men, so it gets called out a lot more because men tend to be the chaser and women the choosers.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 05:43 AM
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I personally like girls too much to just be comfortable not having them as long as I had friends and family, though I do admit I wish I wasn’t like that. That's the thing. When you put people (women, celebrities, geniuses) on a pedestal, you are putting them above you, which is wrong. Like, I'm not saying that you need forgo having a relationship, or women in your life. The goal here to just be independently happy. So you can chase after hot women all you want, just don't do it under the pretens…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 03:15 AM
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What you're describing is lust. People see the opposite sex that meets their personal standards for the look requirement. Then they either want to sleep with them, or get to know them better to see if they're LTR material.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 12:21 AM
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Because its a form of appeasement. Guys who simp are ultimately depriving themselves from meaningful relationships with real people. Its upsetting that people have to suck up and give alms to someone who doesn't even know their name in order to even feel some of similitude of female attention. Also when you simp, you put another person on a pedestal. And putting someone on a pedestal means putting yourself below them, which is a disservice to yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 12:18 AM
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I know I'm gonna sound like one of those hippy bullshit self help gurus, but ultimately it all really comes down to you're attitude and mindset. You can either sit back and weep about how missed the genetic lottery and how you don't have people simping for your looks, or you be appreciative of what you do have and accept that what you lost was never really in your control in the first place. For me, personally, I love myself and I don't need the validation of men or women to prove it. So long as…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 12:11 AM
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Yeeeeeep. People in general will bend backwards for you when the blood flows from their brain directly to their genitals. Although, I will argue this concept is associated with men much more than woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 12:01 AM
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Absolutely. Its not even a question.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 11:48 PM
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Weird how just admitting you've had boyfriends in your early 20s makes TRP losers think you're a predator.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/21 05:55 AM
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That's most people ain't it?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/21 05:48 AM
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Yeah but we're talking about how a unattractive decent guy can get laid. The only reason I'm even bringing morality up is because its part of the question. If the dude has to be indecent to get laid, wouldn't that mean it's impossible for decent unattractive men to get laid?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 10:34 PM
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He would just have to fake a good enough personality while turning her on and he will get it. Yes but then would he still be moral? It'd be like falling in love with someone only to find out they're just a completely different person.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 07:53 PM
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You say it like its obvious but there's a thread asking this same fucking question every month.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 08:14 AM
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Every woman on this sub says that physical attraction matters again and again every time this subject is brought up. Its not that they aren't saying "looks matter." Its the fact they're still saying "its the inside that counts." The inside has nothing to do with with sexual attraction. Its fine if women aren't attracted to the inside, men aren't either. People should just be more honest about this simple fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 08:06 AM
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Well shit. Could anyone from the Blue Pill or FDS please refute this? Let me know how all of this can somehow still tie back to the patriarchy?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 07:57 AM
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Yep. It all comes down to attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 07:50 AM
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Exactly. Human decency really has nothing to do with sex. The babe next door would sooner fuck a good looking psychopath if he turned her on when the moral guy didn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 07:47 AM
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If their doing it to their public platform? Definitely flexing. The humiliation fetish but appease some simps, but it also runs the risk of driving other away.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/21 04:33 AM
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She was never demeaning but that part of her I saw I didn't like. I think being dismissive of them is a way to dehumanize them so they don't feel like they are taking advantage of actual people. Its a way to turn off the moral compass from their "business" side. Is it really taking advantage of them? They want nudes, and the girls gottem. Sure it's sad and pathetic, but if that's how they choose to play.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/21 04:29 AM
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Okay, a 6 ft 4 tall guy telling short people that being tall doesn't mean anything is like a pretty person saying "looks don't matter." Its easy to think a privilege doesn't matter if you born with it. You've never had the disadvantaged experience of living without it. Also I completely agree that just being tall in and of itself isn't gonna get you anywhere. You need to actually put some effort in yourself to see results. But it is absolutely a cut off for a lot of women in online dating, and a…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/21 04:20 AM
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Where are you going to meet people during a pandemic? Aside from work, I just stay home all day because my area doesn't allow anything.
/r/seduction04/05/21 06:05 AM
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Yeah and I can sit here and cry about r/FemaleDatingStrategy and use it as excuse to not support feminism, but where does that get us? Ultimately, if both genders fully believe that misogyny and misandry are wrong, than both are obligated to call out sexist behaviour from their respective groups. Its up to men to call reject misogynistic worldviews like those in the red pill and hold each other accountable, just like how it's up to women to reject misandrist worldviews like those in FDS. Otherwi…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/21 01:17 AM
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Well, we were talking about misandry, because misandry is the crux behind the narrative of "the attack on boys and men." If you actually ever listen to these outlets, a large part of their segment is about how "man hating feminists" want to degrade and abuse men while enjoying all the gender privileges of being women. You're not helping helping your argument in proving the war on men isn't real, if you're simultaneously bending backwards to say that misandry isn't all that bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/21 12:42 AM
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I don't understand. How does a amoral Chad banging a girl reinforce her false standards? Am I missing something?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/21 07:47 PM
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Whatever they say about men, its about 100 times more tame than what incels, TRP, and other misogynists say about women. So that makes it okay? By the way, almost all the hardcore incel subreddits are either quarantined or banned. That's pretty much incomparable to major trends that take place on the fourth largest platform on the internet (twitter). Where misogyny is stomped out, misandry is paraded as being "female empowerment." But my overall point is, your shouldn't be condoning any form of …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/21 07:20 PM
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This is so fucking stupid. You're telling me misandry is okay because it doesn't kill? That's not how morality works. You don't just get be sexist because your particular sex doesn't commit as many mass shootings as the other. If anything, people like you do more to promote misogyny than actual misogynists themselves. You're literally the parody incels use to justify their own feeling of self victimization.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/21 07:08 PM
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I'm happy to hear that Keep it up, your awesome bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/21 04:31 AM
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See, I'm in a really hard spot. Because on one hand, I completely agree with you. In the real world, no one really goes out of their way shit on men for being men. I think concept of that is just being used to promote conservative political agenda. On the other hand.....fucking twitter. Misandry on twitter (and reddit) is so common and overlooked that it easily serves as political ammunition to convince young men that they are being oppressed. Terms and slogans like "Big dick energy" or "#AllMen…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/21 04:26 AM
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So why not be the change you want to see in the world? Why did Jordan Peterson write a book targeted at an audience deprived of positive attention, and not tell said audience to solve their problems by going around and complimenting each other? Granted, it's not as fruitful as self help. But honestly, it would be a great start. Tell your homie he's looking great.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/21 04:15 AM
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Weird. I always thought the folks on TRP would love him. They always came off giving Conservatives vibes that I would get from MGTOW. Guess this thread proved I was wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/21 04:02 AM
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Thanks for the response. I keep hearing from dudes that they've seen the red pill work in person, I honestly don't understand how. Like, how does being selfish, narcissistic, or unavailable lead to better success in dating? I honestly can't wrap my mind around how a woman finds an detached asshole attractive unless the dude looks incredibly handsome. In my experience, I'm a pretty funny dude and super extroverted so I've always had a fair bit of success with women. Granted I don't look like a Gr…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/21 03:09 AM
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As someone whose new to concept, have any of you dudes seen it actually work out?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/21 12:27 AM
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Not gonna lie, this is a pretty garbage analysis. You could the same thing with women and come to the conclusion that men like bitchy, mean, scandalous women and that wouldn't be true in the slightest.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/21 12:24 AM
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Yeah, until you realize this isn't 18th century England and now you have to pay child support. The real Chad move would be to just donate sperm to a jizz bank. Be fruitful and multiply n all that shit. But have everyone else do the work.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/21 11:52 PM
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The net result is that 80% of men tend to not be viewed as human when it comes to romance. Damn. Talk about a hyperbole, but I see your point.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/21 11:28 PM
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OP never said that women who like the dad bod don't exist at all. He's saying that most of em are just in it for the low maintenance. Obviously there's gonna be some ladies who are actually into it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/21 05:03 AM
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I think the point is that no woman chooses a guy with a dad-bod because of the dad-bod. Case in point: this thread. Out of every defense for the dad bod here, almost none are tried to resort to its sexual appeal.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/21 04:56 AM
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Muscular guys who get hit, especially if they're already good looking, are also going to have a VERY low tolerance for bitching, shit-testing, wokeism or any other bullshit. Unless he's insecure or doesn't believe he's good looking. Lotta gorgeous dudes are like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/21 04:46 AM
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A tit for tat. I'll be careful next time.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/21 05:32 PM
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Bruh. This is ridiculous. I've literally provided you with video tape footage of a mob. I could show you the same video, from a different angle on multiple other unrelated platforms, and you would reject ALL of them. Because they're all from "MaIn StReAm MeDia." Where's your evidence to say that the pictures, video tapes, accounts from senators, and the fucking international news is all fake? Even Mitch McConnell came out and called the insurrection horrendous and said Trump was morally responsi…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 08:26 AM
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So MSM is just making up this footage of a mob trying to break into Capitol Hill? How about this video of a mob inside capitol hill? Bro, there were mobs. Literally 420 people have been arrested and charged for breaking in. Are all of these folks just paid actors too? 420 people. Arrested. That's more than "a few individuals" lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 07:38 AM
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Funny. Why isn't election fraud brought up each year then? I'll tell you why it was a big deal this time. Its cause your president and every conservative media outlet told them it was stolen. Imagine comparing this to CHAZ.... If BLM tried this, they would have been tear gassed and arrested....kinda like in the example of CHAZ you just gave. And also, the picture shown isn't just "a few people." It was a fucking mob. Y'all are so full of shit. It's incredible. I'm not even from America and its h…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 07:17 AM
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How little you get paid? Are you talking about the thoroughly debunked myth of "77 cents to the dollar"? Let me tell you something. The woke crowd doesn't give a crap about women, POC or any other marginalized group. All they want is fame and attention. Period! Thats...not what I was talking about at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 06:59 AM
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Women don't really care about cheating as long as she's the main girl and gets his resources. Women caring about their husbands fucking other women are just abusive wives/girlfriends I honestly don't think anyone could actually hold these beliefs without being a either a troll or a total moron.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 03:20 AM
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The only behavioural psychology I see here are delusions of grandeur you must have while behaving like a troll.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 02:53 AM
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Where is the science behind the statement: "Men can't cheat?" The only behavioural psychology I see here are delusions of grandeur you must have while behaving like a troll.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 12:35 AM
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I've had to serve forced labor for around 1-3€ an hour for 9 months of my life. By law. Welp. Can't argue with ya there. That's fucked.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 12:25 AM
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Instead of hanging out with white supremacists, find egalitarian MRA movements. I’m sure you probably aren’t one, but a lot of the MRA movements these days have ties to the alt-right and white supremacists. Yeah, kinda weird how all these dudes who go around saying "men are being oppressed" tend to also overlap with the "whites are being oppressed" and the "feminism is bad crowd."
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 12:22 AM
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Better question, out of the past 20 years a good 12 of them were run by conservative governments. How exactly did that do anything to help the situation for men? It doesn't take a genius to tell that conservatives just like to LARP around as men rights activists in order to get elected. Then when they're in power don't do jack shit for anybody except the rich.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 12:18 AM
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You mean lying about election fraud, telling people covid isn't a big deal and causing an insurrection? Complaining about the woke crowd is like crying about your neigbour making noise while the guy inside is blowing your house up. I'll take the woke crowd over the MAGA crowd every fucking day. At least the WOKE crowd will give a shit about how little I get paid.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 12:14 AM
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CMV: The woke crowd is doing little to nothing to address the legitimate grievances of men. Even if they were on the mens side of this, what do expect to happen? Their efforts to fix this problem would be complaining about it on twitter, which is about as productive as you making this post on reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 12:06 AM
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it doesn't make sense. :/ In their mind it's as simple as it is fucked. If she's been passed around than she'll be all used up, and not really mine. On top of that, I don't want other guys to find out I married a hoe. But every dude in this scenario would absolutely high five another dude for banging a ton of women and therefore being a stud, and every dude wants to be a stud. But what they don't realize is that in order for "studs" to exist, women have to be willing to put out. And if you put o…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/21 10:57 PM
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Yep. Every man wants women that's easy for him, but in the same breath will condemn easy women as being whores. Makes no fucking sense. An entire generation of women have to grow up with contradictory societal messaging. Its "don't be a hoe," along with "your a stupid bitch for not putting out." You're damned if you do, damned if you don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/21 10:14 PM
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Cheating doesn't justify assault. Breaking up with them is the proper response.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/21 10:04 PM
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Again, name calling, idgaf. Not illegal, not nice, but whatever. FDS TRP is not about being nice. None of the following stuff you brought up is in the handbook. I don’t see any of that behavior through the vast majority of posts. It’s a space women can’t go, which I think is where the transphobia discussion came from? I’m pretty sure we are all in agreement that trans men are men. If that mod is actually Transphobic, he needs to GTFO. If those users are violating the sub rules, ban them. The sub…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 09:45 PM
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Good luck finding a a good person who never makes mistakes. If any good person comes your way, I hope you don't block them before you ever find out that their good. Otherwise you just might up asking "Where have all the good Men Gone?"
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 06:03 PM
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“men need to step up, men are broke/cheap/abusive/etc, I don’t want to date them if they aren’t good enough, lol check out this dusty scrote” Hahahahaha Men are "the fucking worst," "trashy, overly sexual, disrespectful ass garbage," "too timid," "intellectually brain dead," "boring," "uncreative and lack curiosity," "unattractive," "shit as sex," and "negligent." FDS going overboard with their hate: brigading a post by a rape survivor and calling her a "pickme" Just some classic transphobia fro…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 05:57 PM
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Not blocking someone over a small mistake isn't loyalty. Its called giving them a chance. Allowing for small mistakes is important, because its not the mistakes that define a guy but how he reacts to them when he's called out. But if you block him right away, how will you ever find someone whose capable of growth?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 05:16 PM
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So by that logic, incel subreddits should also be allowed then, right? If your going to allow missandry, you might as well also allow misogyny. Its not illegal, so who cares? Both have terrible real life consequences. Its not like misandry has to lead to murder in order for there to be real life consequences of said behaviour. Otherwise if you allow one but not the other, you're just condoning double standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 05:09 PM
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Talking about TRP/PUA =/= Condoning TRP/PUA Both are pretty fucking terrible imo, and no one here is pretending that either of them is moral.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 05:06 PM
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I know I'm late, but if you block and delete, how on earth are you ever gonna get to the point of commitment? The benefit of the doubt isn't reserved for long term relationships or marriage. Otherwise you'll just end up antagonizing everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 05:03 PM
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Except in Islamic countries they're not allowed to vote, can be killed for having premarital sex, and will get the shittiest of treatments if they don't wear their scarf. You can look it up online if you want. Its all there, no one's stopping you from a doing a little bit of research.
/r/PussyPassDenied01/02/21 08:26 AM
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Fucking hell. You explained so simply what I could not put into words for fucking decades.
/r/PussyPassDenied01/02/21 08:00 AM
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Wait, what does this post have to do with male feminists?
/r/PussyPassDenied01/02/21 06:57 AM
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This isnt really a "well its not as bad" case because that implies calling this lady actually right about one being worse than another. Insulting a woman is no different than insulting a man. Just because women were oppressed doesn't mean I can't call a lady a bitch when she's being one.
/r/PussyPassDenied01/02/21 06:56 AM
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