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Just install urinals for women if they want equality. FFS
/r/MensRights17/08/26 03:43 AM
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Even gay men who are cis are regularly excluded from pride spaces all the while those same spaces cater to cis/hetero women performatively cosplaying as lgbtq. It is a strange how pride in most cities has become an event focusing more on cis heterosexual women rather than the lgbtq community
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/08/26 06:27 PM
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Suicidal thinking isn’t weakness. It is sickness. Don’t be hard on yourself for having those thoughts and don’t be hard on people who have cancer. You can fight your way out of this, but never, ever think of suicidal thoughts as weakness.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/07/26 09:21 PM
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The data is solid. Men crave monogamy way more than women do.
/r/EverydayMisandry30/07/26 03:16 AM
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One of the things I like about our community is that we have more skepticism than feminists do. Just because someone posts something here we don’t take it at face value just because a man said it, but in feminists spaces whatever a woman says is considered true.
/r/MensRights23/07/26 06:58 PM
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That is disgusting. I would tempted to just piss on floor if some place treated me like that.
/r/MensRights23/07/26 04:41 PM
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I assume there is a men’s restroom around the corner and this is just rage bait.
/r/MensRights23/07/26 04:34 PM
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You think vegetables aren’t nutrient dense? You think there isn’t a relationship between vegetable consumption and general health including low body fat and higher T? Dude, I am in my early fifties, have never taken T, squat 455, bench 405, , those numbers are still going up every year … and almost all of that is easily because of good diet and regular exercise. Not because some influencer convinced to me inject T.
/r/MensRights17/07/26 09:41 PM
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https://journals.plos.org/plosone/article?id=10.1371/journal.pone.0294567
/r/MensRights17/07/26 09:31 PM
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Okay. Why not lose weight, eat vegetables, lift weights, and journal instead of taking a drug?
/r/MensRights17/07/26 08:20 PM
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Going on TRT should be a last resort. Homeostasis kicks in and your body loses its ability to make T naturally. Sleep, fat loss, diet, stress management, and weight training should all be considered long before TRT. These days way too many people go shopping for doctors who will put them on juice and they are permanently fucking up their body because influencers have convinced them T injections are a panacea.
/r/MensRights17/07/26 08:08 PM
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Misandry kills.
/r/MensRights13/07/26 11:08 PM
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A couple things - only engage with them if you can calmly handle them provoking you. If you don’t feel centered enough, then just close Reddit and walk away. People always say “don’t care what others think” but I think that is bullshit. Everyone cares what their family, friends, and community think of them. But here is the subtlety - not only do you get to choose whose opinion you esteem you also get to choose whose opinion you think is absolute trash. If a bigot hates you and tries to silence y…
/r/MensRights12/07/26 03:40 PM
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Sure but our society of derivative of those cultures. Man buns and Vikings were just incredibly popular for like 15 years. The 60s, 70s, and 80s all had men’s hair styled long. Fashion is cyclic, short hair is popular now. In a few years long hair will be popular again.
/r/MensRights09/07/26 05:07 AM
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Incredibly “manly” men and cultures have had long hair. What are you talking about “blurs the genders?”
/r/MensRights09/07/26 04:55 AM
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The answer to that is in the first half of my comment - the left and right both offer men deeply unhealthy ways of dealing with our emotions. To society, men are wealth extracting tools. Living an emotionally complete life as a man requires both coming to terms with that and subverting it. Women on the other hand are surrounded with people telling them they are wonderful and powerful, offering them scholarships, easier grades, a world built for them - and they still see themselves as the victims…
/r/MensRights05/07/26 07:53 PM
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This one bothers me too and we get it from both sides. The right is all about being a stoic, stalwart man - completely unshakable and not feeling. The left is constantly selling us talk therapy and mani-pedis with our friends. The emotional weight and trauma most men carry is astronomical compared to women (see suicide gap). Boys are like 80% of the victims of childabuse, boys and men make up a significant portion of SA victims, boys are pushed into fighting wars, we are most of the victims of v…
/r/MensRights05/07/26 03:53 PM
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The headlines hit a month back that 95 percent of new jobs went to women.
/r/MensRights01/07/26 12:37 AM
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And anyone who points out the hypocrisy will be called a misogynist and swarmed on.
/r/MensRights27/06/26 02:13 PM
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I was engaged twice. Both times my fiancée cheated on me. Never again. I have decided to build my own peace and I have a partner who has been with me but I will never get married. It isn’t worth the risk for men.
/r/MensRights23/06/26 08:34 PM
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Friendly reminder that DV statistics show women are equally or possibly more abusive than men.
/r/MensRights21/06/26 02:48 PM
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I finally found a good therapist - a man. I had one therapist that, when I would talk about a problem in my relationship or at work she would almost always say something about: “that is something women go through every day.”
/r/EverydayMisandry21/06/26 03:56 AM
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Gay men have pretty much been thrown out of the rainbow umbrella and replaced my heterosexual women cosplaying as LGBTQ
/r/EverydayMisandry21/06/26 02:01 AM
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Gay and bi men commit suicide three times more frequently than heterosexual men. Men’s mental health is also an LGBTQ issue, but these days men have been kicked out of the rainbow umbrella.
/r/EverydayMisandry21/06/26 01:59 AM
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I wonder if this is one of the reasons 95% of new jobs last year went to women.
/r/MensRights20/06/26 05:07 AM
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It isn’t that men (or women) are garbage leaders it is that leadership attracts garbage people. We need to end career politicians and political dynasties and bring back the proverbial farmer Cesar.
/r/MensRights09/06/26 03:00 AM
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I was battling depression and asked my partner for a hug while she was playing a video game and she gave me some canned response about not being able to do all of the emotional labor in our relationship. To be clear, like most men, I swallow my negative emotions all the time and nearly always am helping her with drama at work and processing the shit world we live in. I have had very few partners respond positively if I just say I need some support or to talk about my feelings. Yet I am constantl…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/05/26 06:38 PM
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I don’t think there is any way to know if women underperform in STEM because of some genetic reason or cultural/interest. Both you and the video assume you have the answer to that incredibly difficult question. We have been funneling women into STEM now for two decades though and they still don’t seem very interested in many of the fields (especially math and computer science). (To be crystal clear there are some fantastic women in STEM and especially computer science).
/r/MensRights25/05/26 08:06 PM
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It is mind blowing that a few years ago it was seen as a fringe, weirdo take that children’s genitals shouldn’t be chopped up and turned into skin cream. We still have a long way to go but it seems like the cultural headwinds we were rowing into are letting up.
/r/MensRights25/05/26 07:08 PM
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If only we could jailbreak society.
/r/MensRights20/05/26 12:45 AM
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I see your modesty and raise you dignity.
/r/MensRights20/05/26 12:45 AM
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Link to the paywalled article to show legitimacy since this is an x post: https://www.nature.com/articles/nature08711 If I can find it without a paywall I will update this comment. Edit: no paywall. https://www.psychologie.uni-freiburg.de/abteilungen/psychobio/team/publikationen/Nature-Testosterone%20and%20social%20behavior10.pdf (I have not yet read it but plan to when I get a break from work. It is a very short article)
/r/MensRights18/05/26 02:38 PM
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Comments on stories like always pretend that men are cheering on the death of women. We aren’t. I have never seen a man celebrate the murder of a woman just because she was a woman. On the other hand, every time a woman kills a man these roaches crawl out of the dark to celebrate women killing men. It is disgusting and people who make these comments need to be locked away and forced into therapy until they aren’t celebrating the murder of innocent people just because their gender. It always proj…
/r/MensRights16/05/26 04:59 PM
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My wife works in healthcare in a female dominated space and at one point in a work chat some women were talking about how men can’t be sexually assaulted because they always like it. I have worked in male dominated spaces for twenty five years now and I have never heard a coworker say something that would be sexual harassment towards women. Women actually act like the lecherous men from mad men at work while cosplaying as the only victims of that harassment.
/r/MensRights13/05/26 11:36 PM
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Your post overlooks the massive gap in suicides and addiction between the genders.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/05/26 02:03 PM
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This is a really interesting watch and they touch on how frustratingly impossible it is to propagate corrections to misinformation. I am a progressive MRAs which is a tricky space exist in and be sane because a lot of progressives have brutal purity tests around things like “if you aren’t a feminist then you are a fascist” or “if you don’t believe that trans women and cis women are the same then you aren’t anti-trans” etc. In the men’s rights space we run into this a lot where we can’t argue aga…
/r/MensRights06/05/26 08:33 PM
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I am shocked that CNN piece is still up on YouTube without correction. That level of misinformation should be criminal for a “news” outlet to push.
/r/MensRights06/05/26 08:33 PM
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This is a really interesting watch and they touch on how frustratingly impossible it is to propagate corrections to misinformation. I am a progressive MRAs which is a tricky space exist in and be sane because a lot of progressives have brutal purity tests around things like “if you aren’t a feminist then you are a fascist” or “if you don’t believe that trans women and cis women are the same then you aren’t anti-trans” etc. In the men’s rights space we run into this a lot where we can’t argue aga…
/r/MensRights06/05/26 07:02 PM
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I will probably piss off both sides with the one but here we go: I am a socialist - intersectionalism is not a capitalist invention. It comes from “my side,” the left. There is a common, thread of socialist thought that oppressed groups deserve to have their turn being oppressors and that accountability isn’t with the individual but inherited. Right wing authoritarianism is nationalism, monarchy, and fascism… there aren’t great words for left wing authoritarianism other than communism (which is …
/r/MensRights04/05/26 07:02 PM
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Nearly every woman wears makeup. Most men don’t own trucks. What are you talking about? And hats! You think wearing something as utilitarian as a hat (sun and rain off your face) is a vanity expense? Compare what men pay for their three lifetime favorite hats that last 30 years and then get passed onto a nephew as an heirloom vs what women pay for hats that they wear to two weddings and cost 130 dollars.
/r/MensRights04/05/26 06:02 PM
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I was groomed by an older woman as a child totally in the open. School, cops, parents all knew and no one did anything.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/05/26 04:20 AM
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Actual systemic gender based repression.
/r/MensRights30/04/26 12:04 AM
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Contemporary feminism is terrible for women too. They go through life constantly afraid of men because of made up statistics pushed in “gender studies” degrees.
/r/MensRights26/04/26 11:00 PM
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I wonder who worked the factory to build that car. To pave those roads. To design that phone. To build the power grid. The roof over her head. The plumbing. I am not saying women cannot also do those things, but I am certainly saying she is clueless about the men who quietly built the comfortable life she leads which affords her the chance to take them do granted.
/r/EverydayMisandry26/04/26 10:11 PM
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Many men are wired to be ready to sacrifice everything for a community or ideal they believe in. Pragmata is the perfect appeal to that part of the male psyche to protect and serve something vulnerable, delicate, and beautiful. Feminists will never understand that part of our minds and it must terrify them. They read books about being fucked by barnyard animals and we play video games living out the fantasy of being loved and a provider and they have the audacity to call us the perverts. They HA…
/r/MensRights22/04/26 10:55 PM
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Al franken immediately comes to mind but there are at least hundreds of headlines of men who have lost their careers over false allegations. The duke lacrosse team was another proven false allegation. Boys have been expelled from universities for spurious claims proven false.
/r/MensRights22/04/26 02:16 AM
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Reddit is saturated with hateful posts from that 62 million article. As far as I can tell, there is no interest by Reddit enforcing rules against hate, misinformation, or threats of violence (forced chemical castration of children keeps popping off in the women in the news subreddit without mods doing a damn thing).
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/04/26 10:13 PM
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The example of this that gets me furious is the OF models that create a twitch to OF pipeline for young men and boys. Get them hooked early I guess.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/04/26 09:47 PM
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Pornhub has released statistics that women are much more I to rape and BDSM porn than men. I wonder how many of those viewing the content in question were women.
/r/EverydayMisandry20/04/26 08:47 PM
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Prison sentences, alimony, the draft, lack of access to family planning, scholarships and federal grants, affirmative action and DEI, … The only systemic misogyny I can think of is in some states and cities abortions are illegal but in those cases financial abortions are obviously also not an option so I am not sure that counts.
/r/MensRights20/04/26 05:42 AM
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Was the rape academy thing disproven? My feed is full of crap about it and I would love to have a little ammunition for the comments. The only thing I really have been going off of is CNC and BDSM are FAR more common sexual proclivities for women than men. It seems like most men’s dirtiest kink is that they want a back rub. https://www.msn.com/en-us/news/world/cnn-reported-on-online-rape-academy-but-62m-men-figure-misrepresents-findings/ar-AA214Dpv
/r/MensRights20/04/26 05:34 AM
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Yes. And so is Russia who is also conscripting men.
/r/MensRights15/04/26 06:19 AM
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The other side of sex based PTO is men have weaker immune systems. We get sick more often and it takes us longer to recover. Should we build extra sick days off for men then too? There just needs to be enough PTO that people feel comfortable using it for health conditions. It is really tricky to start splitting health benefits based on biological traits beyond things like pregnancy and disability.
/r/MensRights13/04/26 06:21 PM
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I hate Sam Altman, but I have objective and provable reasons for it. The era of believing allegations of criminality, especially sexual, just because either a woman makes them or they are about someone we don’t like needs to end. For people who aren’t as powerful as Sam, these allegations alone would be career or life ending. We have two justice systems right now, one codified in laws we agree to through voting and the other the whims of networks of some very unstable women.
/r/MensRights05/04/26 10:28 AM
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You really think the UK is going to crack down on women calling men a: cock, prick, player, incel, etc? I suspect this is yet another asymmetric law either in writing or enforcement.
/r/MensRights02/04/26 06:34 PM
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Almost. Parents definitely owe their children love, protection, guidance, sustenance, etc. But otherwise, everything as an adult is negotiated.
/r/MensRights01/04/26 06:45 PM
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Yes. My very comment is predicated on it being a word. I’m tired of the anti-intellectualism that’s taken over society.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/03/26 10:38 PM
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Not to mention autocorrect often changes perfectly spelled and placed words into gibberish.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/03/26 01:59 PM
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Even as an adult who looks ten years younger I run into this at work. People will treat me like I have 1 or 2 years of experience when it is more like twenty.
/r/MensRights28/03/26 01:20 PM
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Nora Vincent 💔. She was an unlikely ally but became one of our greatest.
/r/MensRights27/03/26 11:25 PM
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Damn I didn’t think about that. Pop really has shifted to being a genre exclusively by and for women. It would be cool to see someone dig into why. In literature men were systematically pushed out by publishers who stopped publishing books that targeted boys and men. Now boys literacy has fallen incredibly behind girls because there aren’t many (any?) publishers that push boys literature. I wonder if something similar happened in the music industry.
/r/MensRights17/03/26 03:56 PM
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Buckle up gentlemen. We have a long ways to go.
/r/MensRights17/03/26 03:54 PM
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There is no shame or punishment for certain groups of people. On the other hand, some people lose their entire careers over problematic, off color, or even just misunderstood posts and comments.
/r/MensRights16/03/26 02:29 PM
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Isn’t this admitting to committing criminal assault on social media?
/r/EverydayMisandry16/03/26 04:56 AM
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Yup. Even women who are my friends are like that. Every time I went through a tough breakup my guy friends would take me out for drinks or play video games or otherwise just hang out. A lot of women viciously attack their friend’s exes in a way that is deeply misandrist. I am friends with a lot of women and I don’t think I have known a single woman who doesn’t engage in this kind of strawmanning.
/r/MensRights16/03/26 04:47 AM
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There is just one or two words I would strike from that sentence.
/r/EverydayMisandry14/03/26 05:39 PM
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The problem is, once they start doing well feminists complain until they let women and girls in.
/r/MensRights11/03/26 02:14 AM
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These companies are so stupid, if they would have just offered men the option to avoid women like women can avoid men they would be safe from law suits. But no, they had to make it brazenly discriminatory.
/r/MensRights10/03/26 03:40 AM
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Yeah. I regularly say I think it is weird to be that obsessed with who someone is fucking.
/r/EverydayMisandry09/03/26 01:07 AM
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My wife, who is incredibly progressive, often speculates about men’s sexuality over little behavioral and emotional cues like this and it makes me so uncomfortable. Some women obsess over men’s sexual orientation and it is just as gross when a woman does it as it is when a homophobic, macho dude does it. Well adjusted people don’t speculate and gossip about other people’s sexual preferences.
/r/EverydayMisandry05/03/26 01:58 AM
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Agreed but the perspective that war is harder on women is so common that multiple, female presidential candidates in the US have pushed it. At least in the west, this sentiment is pervasive.
/r/MensRights01/03/26 02:56 PM
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Controlled opposition to prop up misandry. “They” needed an example of how men should think and behave so they made that sub. It is eerie. Men there really aren’t allowed to say anything that could imply a woman has done something wrong and are rewarded for self flagellating. The result is the circus we all see if we end up there.
/r/MensRights18/02/26 03:59 AM
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One of the signs that we have a long way to go is that if a man did this it would make national headlines. Every few days we get more stories of boys being groomed and raped but the public mostly still sees men as the only gender capable of being sex pests.
/r/MensRights13/02/26 01:03 PM
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Woah. Other than women are poisoning men and getting away with, what could explain these numbers? Suicide? Though I don’t think men often poison themselves to kill themselves. What else? That stat is terrifying and needs needs to be studied.
/r/MensRights12/02/26 05:39 AM
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Historically men have been the provider because women are not capable of providing an equal amount of work as men. Without modern society, women and men move into their niches of providing value: men doing hard physical labor like hunting, fishing, building, etc and women caregiving and homemaking. Men being perceived as the provider is a cultural carryover from those days and possibly some evolutionary biology where women seek men who will provide for them. It isn’t fair. We relaxed the gender …
/r/MensRights05/02/26 06:07 PM
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Math and science aren’t seen as “girl hobbies” but we invest a lot of money and effort into improving women represented in STEM.
/r/MensRights01/02/26 01:02 AM
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I am. And getting downvoted to hell and harassed for it so I came here honestly for a little reminder than I am not alone.
/r/MensRights31/01/26 01:14 AM
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While men may be more capable of inflicting harm when they try, that doesn’t preclude them from being harmed. Be better.
/r/MensRights31/01/26 01:10 AM
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How would they “make men” do anything? It would be comical to watch them try to begin a real war of the sexes.
/r/MensRights29/01/26 06:49 AM
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Men are by far more likely to be victims of nearly all types of violence.
/r/EverydayMisandry26/01/26 08:02 AM
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Well, more specifically we are NOT paying for it.
/r/MensRights26/01/26 08:01 AM
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I was groomed and raped as a teen by an older woman and it took me over a decade to realize the nature of the situation. Boys and men aren’t given a framework to understand victimhood of sexual violence at the hands of a woman. You said no several times and she persisted. Yeah, I think you were raped. This is the danger of every piece of fiction and every government funded service message about SA and rape being gendered with men being the perpetrators - victims of rape by women don’t really rea…
/r/MensRights26/01/26 01:40 AM
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He doesn’t deserve to be stabbed.
/r/MensRights21/01/26 04:41 PM
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It is in the article. The separated but he ended up with the dogs which have behavioral issues. They tried to rehome them several times and failed. He warned her that he would put them down if they couldn’t find a home.
/r/MensRights21/01/26 04:41 PM
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“I blacked out and saw red” makes me think even more than the act of stabbing this women needs to be locked away for a long time. She is just a time bomb waiting to go off again.
/r/MensRights21/01/26 04:39 PM
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I just tune people out who talking about sexualization or the male gaze. Every single one of them is a hypocrite.
/r/MensRights18/01/26 02:45 AM
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Necropost much? Are you okay?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/01/26 08:30 PM
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It is good, prosocial behavior to try and respect the people around you. Someone raised you right. However, when people abuse your natural tendency to try and make them comfortable, you need to shut a door on your concern for her (pronoun choice here is deliberate) comfort and move on.
/r/MensRights30/12/25 11:14 PM
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I have to wonder if they only reached that conclusion because of the racial element. I suspect if OP left out her “friend’s” race the comments would be different.
/r/EverydayMisandry29/12/25 10:46 PM
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I used to work fast food and twenty five years later I still remember the horror of the first time I had to clean a women’s restroom. I have no idea how women got some of the body fluids in the places they ended up. Maybe they need to spend more of their brains on aiming.
/r/EverydayMisandry29/12/25 07:44 PM
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Psychology as a discipline is rotten to its core with misandry. It is hell finding a psychologist who will take men’s mental health issues seriously.,
/r/MensRights28/12/25 03:57 PM
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I am guessing he doesn’t want to go to jail. In a lot of countries if police show up and the guy hits back after years of abuse he goes to prison.
/r/MensRights28/12/25 04:07 AM
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Transwomen tend to be stronger than cis women. There was a study on grip strength I faintly recall and the muscular/skeletal advantage imparted to individuals going through puberty as boys is significant. I know some trans men and women and the trans men I know all talk about an uncomfortable period of adjusting to the psyche that T imparts on us. Trans men and women absolutely experience a change in mood and psychology as part of their transition.
/r/MensRights27/12/25 11:48 PM
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Except for the part where in both men and women T supplementation causes an increase in competitive drive and goal pursuit? I guess science is wild.
/r/MensRights27/12/25 11:38 PM
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Even a cursory google search produces a surfeit of results about the link between T and motivation.
/r/MensRights27/12/25 11:32 PM
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There are some interesting studies that link testosterone to goal pursuit, competition, and drive. Losing masculinity and the reduction of T in modern living should be concerning. I wonder if one of the reasons men are disproportionally represented in history books is simply because testosterone drives men a lot harder. Edit - the downvotes are weird. T’s influence on motivation has been VERY well studied.
/r/MensRights27/12/25 07:17 PM
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There were a lot of fantastic female authors in classic literature. Often I think they were better because they rarely fell into the trap of making a their male characters pathetic and their female characters MarySues.
/r/MensRights27/12/25 05:44 PM
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No. I want diverse options available for all readers. No one is suggesting only men are allowed to publish books.
/r/MensRights27/12/25 05:20 PM
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Men used to read more than women. Publishers switched to marketing almost exclusively to women and pushing out male authors in the 90s. There have been a few male authors who have come forward about it.
/r/MensRights27/12/25 04:23 PM
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It isn’t quite that simple, male authors need publishers to publish their books and the publishing industry has become increasingly hostile against male authors
/r/MensRights27/12/25 04:18 PM
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A few male authors have come forward and said the publishing space now has a strong anti-male bias. I pretty much exclusively read books published before the 2000s because there are so few male authors breaking through these days.
/r/MensRights27/12/25 04:17 PM
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Who is that?
/r/MensRights25/12/25 05:05 PM
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It is even more disgusting than you think. I am going to stare at a wall and wonder if society was a good idea for a while.
/r/MensRights23/12/25 06:33 PM
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The fact that male victims were excluded and harassed out of the conversation tells me everything I need to know. It was a sham and set out to further push the notion that all men are predators and all women are victims.
/r/MensRights23/12/25 04:18 PM
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I don’t have any way to contact them and this was from a few years ago. The damndest thing about these kinds of laws is they have standing but don’t know they were discriminated against so they won’t know to sue, I don’t have standing but know they were discriminated against but I can’t sue.
/r/MensRights22/12/25 05:49 AM
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I am certain that would happen to me. I conduct technical interviews for my company and was explicitly told not to ask a particular candidate technical questions (she also happened to be the only brown woman in the pool of about 8 candidates. She also got the job. She also was fired a year and a half later because she contributed NOTHING to the team in her year and a half).
/r/MensRights22/12/25 03:03 AM
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That all requires “standing” which I don’t have in this case. The people with standing would be the men I interviewed who weren’t given the position.
/r/MensRights22/12/25 03:00 AM
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At my office I saw (was even kind of forced to participate in) this kind of discrimination but I wasn’t a victim of it. I have always wondered if I could/should report it to someone because, legally speaking, I don’t have standing since no harm was done to me AND I absolutely would lose my job or worse for reporting it. Edit: also relevant https://www.bloomberg.com/graphics/2023-black-lives-matter-equal-opportunity-corporate-diversity/
/r/MensRights21/12/25 11:53 PM
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I am not sure how either app could really have verification. It would be wonderful if we lived in a world where neither of these apps are needed.
/r/MensRights20/12/25 02:40 AM
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The link displays a blank page for me. I definitely have a name to put in there though.
/r/MensRights20/12/25 02:28 AM
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It is a statistic that is impossible to know because it requires self reporting. It could be 20 percent of men report they have cheated and 10 percent of women did the same (but men night feel more comfortable admitting to infidelity).
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/12/25 08:29 PM
31

Yup. It is punishment for being a man and not kissing the boot of feminism. I wear my bans as a badge. There is a weird consequence of silencing men like that - AI is often trained on Reddit. The less voice we have the more its bias against men increases.
/r/MensRights18/12/25 09:02 PM
13

Or videoing one interaction of 31 participants in the same city is the kind of methods I would expect from a fifth grade science faire.
/r/MensRights14/12/25 04:15 PM
5

No true Scotsman.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/12/25 06:17 AM
52

Two tiered society in the making. They want so badly to be the patriarchy they pretend to fight.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/12/25 03:29 AM
24

What is the competition? I would love to know for make daily ritual of arguing with feminists online. (God I need a better hobby) Edit: downvotes are weird. I am just asking so I can link to the source when they inevitably ask.
/r/MensRights13/12/25 05:43 PM
92

Delete this post, cut contact with her, right now go write out everything you remeber about your encounter with her especially verifiable facts (and I do mean everything from the beginning of the encounter to the end, even things you don’t think are necessary. If you can capture how long the sexual encounter was. How many times did it escalate. Intimate staring, flirting, touching the arm, shoulder, did cloths come of slowly, did she help with her bra clasp, did she remove all of her clothes? Yo…
/r/MensRights12/12/25 12:07 AM
10

Does this mean women will fight wars, put out fires, harvest lumber, fish, work mines, roof houses, and all of the other abjectly terrible jobs men have always worked?
/r/EverydayMisandry10/12/25 12:17 AM
-2

Interesting. The more I read these replies the more I realize there are vastly different takes on agency and accountability. I firmly land in the belief that I am responsible for the consequences of my own actions. If I am going on a dangerous mountaineering trip, it is on me to learn the terrain, be physically prepared, research gear, etc. I am very surprised that more people don’t have that perspective. But I understand there are some instances where we have to trust experts with our well bein…
/r/MensRights06/12/25 06:01 PM
3

Are they licensed? What you are saying would make some sense if it is a licensed position. If he was licensed in some way then I will concede that there is room for negligence charges. But the news article makes it just seem like he knew more about mountaineering than she did so he is liable for her ignorance.
/r/MensRights06/12/25 08:00 AM
0

Even if I am freezing and have altitude sickness I would still consider it my fault because I am an adult and take responsibility for my own decisions. That is what being an adult means.
/r/MensRights06/12/25 07:50 AM
0

No. Not if I am an adult. If I am an adult I am responsible for my own decisions and the consequences of them.
/r/MensRights06/12/25 07:37 AM
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So if you and I go for a hike together, and you are prepared, while I am not, I become too weak to continue, you press on for help, I die, you think you should be held liable for manslaughter charges? Where I am from adults are responsible for their managing their own risk and wellbeing. What makes this a gender issue is the legal system continuing to treat women as children and not accountable for their own decisions.
/r/MensRights06/12/25 07:12 AM
37

In the article it claims since he knew more about mountaineering than her, he was liable. I don’t think that logic could hold any weight unless you assume she is a child, and often in the legal system, women are treated like children. This case would never happen if the genders were reversed.
/r/MensRights06/12/25 06:44 AM
2

Can you respectfully explain your reasoning? If you and I go hiking and you aren’t prepared, you fall dangerously helpless so I press on to call for help, why should I be charged with manslaughter?
/r/MensRights06/12/25 06:42 AM
40

Perfectly stated as to why this is a men’s rights issue. Thank you.
/r/MensRights06/12/25 05:40 AM
63

There are even comments on this post by people saying he deserves the charges. I cannot imagine if the genders were reversed the woman would face charges. Instead it would probably be an article mocking the man for not being prepared when doing something risky.
/r/MensRights06/12/25 05:40 AM
66

How so? Do you think if the roles were reversed an he died on the mountain that she would be facing charges?
/r/MensRights06/12/25 02:56 AM
2

That is like saying it is misandry to say that “women are better at getting pregnant than men.” Or similarly “women are more flexible than men.” Those are just facts. Just like “men are stronger than women.”
/r/MensRights05/12/25 09:14 PM
1

That just isn’t true. T is a helluva drug. Natural female weight lifters are often eclipsed by untrained men. Most female strength athletes that outperform male amateur lifters are on some kind of gear. Just look up the bench press standards elite female athletes push begins around 200lbs which is the cusp of novice and intermediate for men. It is not the same as saying “men rape.” The science shows squarely that both sexes engage in forcing themselves on partners nearly equally if the definitio…
/r/MensRights05/12/25 09:08 PM
10

Women didn’t work construction before power tools because men are physically significantly stronger. That is biology.
/r/MensRights05/12/25 03:52 PM
78

For decades the media, from reporting like hers, has been telling women to be afraid of men. This is the result.
/r/MensRights05/12/25 01:41 AM
5

There are few more universally male experiences.
/r/MensRights05/12/25 12:06 AM
4

That last sentence isn’t entirely accurate. There are a lot of places that pay for strippers, dancers, sex workers, etc. There IS a pay gap there but it doesn’t favor men.
/r/MensRights02/12/25 03:42 PM
26

Isn’t Maddow one of the if not the most well paid journalist? She can stfu.
/r/MensRights02/12/25 04:30 AM
26

Women’s beauty standards require them to have a salad every now and then. Men’s beauty standards require steroids, the gym 5 days a week, and a diet of boiled chicken. I am so sick of hearing about women being victims to beauty standards when they are the only benefactor of the healthy at every weight movement AND even the most cynical take on female beauty standards just requires diet and exercise compared to men’s which require drugs and dedicating hours of every day.
/r/MensRights29/11/25 07:02 PM
12

I like how she thinks the word “misandry” was invented after the internet.
/r/EverydayMisandry24/11/25 02:22 AM
1

We can hope. Recent events in the news have emboldened pedophiles. They need to be quietly seeking therapy or too scared to crawl out of their basements.
/r/MensRights19/11/25 01:20 AM
0

Times and culture change. I don’t think it is appropriate to naively project modern sentiments on historical figures but I also think it is important that society agrees on when adulthood begins. Generally speaking, in the West that is 18. What two consenting adults do, regardless of age gap is no one’s business but children should be protected. Part of childhood is not being developed enough to make adult decisions about things like sex and drugs. I was groomed by an older woman when I was a ch…
/r/MensRights18/11/25 04:45 AM
1

I will try to give you a scatter shot of authors that I have enjoyed but have very different styles. Most of the books will an element of directly subverting that tasteless: women are X and men are Y attitude that infests many modern books. Ursula K LeGuin’s EarthSea series is fantastic for a fantasy series that both offer strong male characters who avoid violence. The author is a famous feminists but her portrayal of masculinity in the first book of the series is fantastic. Ray Bradbury, anythi…
/r/MensRights15/11/25 06:32 AM
29

I agree, but isn’t one of the core tenets of progressivism that diversity is valuable? Obviously Mamdani IS a male voice though.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/11/25 07:47 AM
0

I get the impression you are looking for an argument where you aren’t going to find one. I will say it for the third time: “privilege” just means belonging to different populations gives you a higher chance of certain conditions or traits. Nothing about it is absolute at the individual level. I am white and grew up with parents who were poor and fought their way into middle class, but I also have some cousins who are Asian Americans and were born into fantastic wealth, the kind where they will l…
/r/MensRights07/11/25 05:34 PM
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I don’t know if you experienced any of these but generally speaking some advantages people receive from being white - more likely to have been raised by middle class or wealthier parents, your parents probably spoke something closer to “proper English” than a black family, you were more likely to have a father around, etc. Black people have the privilege of being sought after for employment, they tend to have better community and larger support networks, they are more likely to receive scholarsh…
/r/MensRights07/11/25 03:37 PM
6

Men have privilege. Women have privilege. White people have privilege. Black people have privilege. Straight people have privilege. Gay people have privilege. Every part of your identity comes with benefits and costs. The type of those benefits and costs change from group to group. All that said - individual experience is usually much different from any intersectional privilege and the post modern obsession with shouting privilege at one another is exhausting. People are complicated. Generally s…
/r/MensRights07/11/25 05:46 AM
3

There is a pretty famous story of an American kid who I think littered in Singapore and they caned him. It brought to light how brutal the cannings are and was a little diplomatic flash point in the early 90s.
/r/MensRights07/11/25 04:16 AM
28

Hate watching a sub is pretty pathetic dude. Take care of yourself.
/r/MensRights07/11/25 01:25 AM
60

Bragging about excluding a gender from politics is a really cringy take. This is the systemic oppression that feminists pretend is happening to women.
/r/MensRights07/11/25 12:47 AM
3

Glorifying violence is a quick way to get a 7day site wide ban.
/r/MensRights06/11/25 08:31 PM
23

Women who say this kind of thing are just admitting they prefer harems.
/r/EverydayMisandry05/11/25 09:55 PM
16

The 18% number no doubt comes from the problematic definition of rape which excludes “forced to penetrate”
/r/EverydayMisandry02/11/25 10:03 PM
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Similar situation for me. I was groomed and raped by an older woman when I was a child and I have received nothing but ridicule and hate when I try to tell my story anywhere but MRAs spaces. The double standard of the meToo movement made me start seeing the many ways society uses and disadvantages men all the while gaslighting us into believing we have a mountain of privilege and are the only sex capable of violence.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/11/25 08:15 PM
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I exclusively see male psychiatrists because feminism and intersectionalism is now built into the theory of psychiatry. Having a male helps temper the institutional misandry.
/r/MensRights02/11/25 08:05 PM
14

The Tl;dr from the conclusion - “ A conjoint analysis of swiping behavior showed a large, causal effect of profile picture attractiveness on selection probability, which drowns out the small effects of intelligence, height, homophily, and biography attractiveness”
/r/MensRights02/11/25 03:20 PM
1

Ah yes, the one anecdote to rule them all.
/r/MensRights02/11/25 02:57 PM
23

I have the same compulsion to begin my conversations about men’s rights and women’s privilege with a defensive apology. We have been conditioned to do it.
/r/MensRights01/11/25 05:24 PM
75

We have lost the mission when we can’t have conversations about gender dynamics without beginning them with: “I am not an incel but….” Say your piece and don’t be ashamed as long as you say it in good faith.
/r/MensRights01/11/25 05:13 PM
8

Just scroll the sub or ask ai for a summary.
/r/MensRights01/11/25 04:06 AM
9

Oregon courts are hearing a case about male genital mutilation.
/r/MensRights31/10/25 10:10 PM
1

I don’t have a choice. I don’t believe gender is a choice. Did you choose your gender. Even the hypothetical doesn’t make sense because gender identity IS identity. If I was a woman I wouldn’t be me. Would I like the privilege that society offers women and still be me? Hell yes. Unequivocally yes!
/r/MensRights31/10/25 12:23 AM
1

Everyone has different kinds of privilege. I think most people would agree men are dealt a better hand by biology since evolution never selected them for their ability to carry a child. I don’t understand your question. I am a man, I didn’t choose it.
/r/MensRights30/10/25 10:03 PM
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Considering almost every member of that community is the type to die on the hill that misandry doesn’t exist, I think you are right. I am surprised even know how to spell misandry.
/r/EverydayMisandry30/10/25 04:01 PM
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I am pretty sure 95 percent of the people who post there don’t think misandry exists.
/r/EverydayMisandry30/10/25 03:59 PM
5

You responded to a comment I didn’t make. I didn’t say that I didn’t feel cared for or loved, I said women in my life struggle with the basic skills all adults should know. In my relationships, my sister, my friends’ relationships I see men doing more home care, child care, dog care, cat care, cooking, cleaning, all while continuing to be providers, mechanics, carpenters, plumbers, accountants, etc. I am not expecting perfection from anyone, but adults should know how to do their laundry, change…
/r/MensRights29/10/25 02:43 PM
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Thank you. You are giving me cover to post something that has been on my mind for a few years, but I worry would come across as a total shit post without context like this. I am an older millennial, raised by a feminist mother, with a feminist sister, who has dated quite a few feminists. In my limited experience, women who are millennials and younger generally struggle to fulfill either gender role. They are not homemakers, nor breadwinners, nor caretakers, nor protectors. Men in my age group ge…
/r/MensRights29/10/25 12:40 AM
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These historical arguments about “the patriarchy” need to die off. It is absurd that we live in a society where sons are openly held to account for the “sins” of their great grandfather. It is really disheartening to see a politician generally as fearless as Bernie cower from the truth probably because he know if he says it is time for policy to address men’s issues that his base will turn on him. We still have a lot of work to do.
/r/MensRights28/10/25 03:22 PM
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I think that is the crux of it. One gender is raised as hyper accountable and the other hypo accountable. The result is exactly what you would expect: one gender struggles endlessly with loneliness and mental health problems and the other expects (and often receives) handout.
/r/MensRights28/10/25 01:28 AM
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You might be thinking of Norah Vincent. She is a legend in MRA communities for her work exposing the double standards and quiet suffering men deal with.
/r/MensRights28/10/25 01:26 AM
1

Who are the streamers?
/r/MensRights27/10/25 10:00 PM
375

Men are dealt a fantastic hand by biology, but a horrible hand by society. Thank you for sharing. The experiences of trans people can be really illuminating on modern gender dynamics. Both trans men and trans women regularly report that they were surprised by how harshly men are treated. Edit - this post is clearly getting brigaded. There are some gross takes in these comments. Be kind.
/r/MensRights27/10/25 09:41 PM
7

Oh look, actual structural sexism. Maybe we’ve been a matriarchy all along.
/r/MensRights25/10/25 09:46 PM
8

Why can’t i care about both the fight he had with depression, ptsd from his brother’s suicide, AND the false accusation made against him just before he killed himself?
/r/MensRights23/10/25 05:34 PM
7

Tragic. Byron (Reckful), probably the man the most responsible for establishing professional esports, would probably still be here too if it wasn’t for “believeAllWomen” and the accusation against him that was later proven to be false. Once men gain fame they seem to have a target in their back (or wallet).
/r/MensRights23/10/25 04:58 PM
3

Oh my god. We’re brothers!
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/10/25 06:37 AM
4

Here is one: https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/11731348/ see the results: “ A high percentage of male subjects abused in childhood by a female relative became perpetrators. Having been a victim was a strong predictor of becoming a perpetrator”
/r/EverydayMisandry17/10/25 02:38 PM
17

I have always heard it was Sally Gearhart from her essay about culling the male population down to ten percent, but googling it now shows it began to be used earlier but Gearhart popularized it.
/r/EverydayMisandry16/10/25 09:23 PM
19

One of the explicitly stated goals of second wave feminism was to dismantle male only spaces. We still see that sentiment pervade society today that women are given gyms, clubs, shelters, etc but there is virtually no space for men to go and not be around women.
/r/MensRights16/10/25 03:07 PM
27

One of the darkest statistics relevant to “educate your sons” is that the greatest predictor of a man becoming a predator is him being the victim of sexual assault BY A WOMAN when he was a child. The single greatest thing we could do to stop making predators is for women to stop raping boys.
/r/EverydayMisandry16/10/25 01:43 AM
15

No. Never “all women.” This is horrible language and a hateful ideology. We have women in this community who support and help. Be better.
/r/MensRights15/10/25 01:16 AM
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Sure, but that isn’t at all what the shoe on head video was about. Women read porn. Men watch it. Women brag about gooning. Men are shamed for even a little tug.
/r/MensRights10/10/25 11:02 PM
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Shoe on head just dropped a fantastic takedown of women shaming men for using pornography while women openly use and discuss pornography in public and all over social media. It is definitely worth a watch if this is on your mind.
/r/MensRights10/10/25 10:29 PM
19

It should be disturbing how often politicians say things like “short man,” “little dick,” “bigger balls,” etc. Unfortunately I hear it A LOT more on the left despite the face that we brand ourselves as the party that doesn’t body shame. That subverts gender norms and the patriarchy.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/10/25 12:40 AM
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In movies cheating wives are usually seen through the lense of a woman empowering herself through exploring romance and sexuality with a new partner that “gets her.” It is one of the cultural realities that spiked my drink with a bit of redpill. As a man who had been in two failed engagements because my partner couldn’t keep her legs closed, I have no stomach for it. I am so sorry for what you are going through.
/r/MensRights07/10/25 04:10 PM
27

In my opinion, the case for rape is pretty difficult if the “victim” said “yes enthusiastically” but never said “stop” even weakly. I have had sex with women where they say it hurts, I always check in, and pretty much 99 percent of the time the response is to keep going but slow down or even she likes it. It is definitely good to stop and check with your partner if they express even a moment of discomfort.
/r/MensRights04/10/25 05:38 PM
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I think it depends on how long. It can take a moment to understand what someone is saying if the mood shifts that quickly, but the ability to withdraw consent has to be respected. If it was a few seconds and he didn’t know she said stop, I think he acted reasonably, any more than a few seconds or if he recognized what she said and kept going, that is definitely rape.
/r/MensRights04/10/25 05:00 PM
15

Revenge or standing in divorce court are probably the two most common. An abusive ex of mine told me if I ever “hurt her” she would tell everyone I raped her. After we broke up that is exactly what she did.
/r/MensRights04/10/25 02:31 PM
26

She is a prostitute. She is being coy but she is selling sex to men.
/r/EverydayMisandry03/10/25 08:43 PM
21

https://www.npr.org/2023/10/09/1204620268/nobel-prize-economics-claudia-goldin-women-gender-gap Tldr it is pregnancy, not a cabal of men oppressing women, which accounts for the gender pay gap.
/r/EverydayMisandry02/10/25 08:29 PM
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These are the same women who think most men make 500k a year and don’t realize a woman just won the Nobel prize for economics for debunking the gender pay gap.
/r/EverydayMisandry02/10/25 05:11 PM
8

Her claim proves she is very disposable.
/r/EverydayMisandry25/09/25 04:25 AM
5

We are all just meat tubes.
/r/EverydayMisandry24/09/25 04:58 AM
17

Don’t forget the Tulsa massacre was started by a fake rape allegation.
/r/MensRights19/09/25 08:01 PM
6

There is maybe more context before this, https://youtu.be/bs9KtC-aYf4?si=61TCEYCojG_bHNZt , but he did not say anything about violent or dangerous, only that we have spent millions on the homeless.
/r/MensRights14/09/25 03:41 PM
10

One of the other anchors goes off about reopening mental health institutions and Brian just blurts out to euthanize them at the end of the clip. There really is no missing context.
/r/MensRights14/09/25 02:07 PM
15

I was falsely accused but my accuser never went to the police, she just stalked me for a year and systemically destroyed every relationship in my life. Our culture has to abandon #believeAllWomen if we are ever going to address the male mental health epidemic.
/r/MensRights09/09/25 12:29 AM
26

Feminists have basically co-opted every civil rights movement as theirs and regularly try to position themselves with actually oppressed minorities while wielding the power of the most privileged class in history.
/r/MensRights08/09/25 04:26 AM
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Wow. I had no clue. I have been a Linkin Park fan since the early 2000s. RIP. His voice got me through some really dark times. There are a million people who would have given him a hug and a guest room or couch so he didn’t have to be alone that night.
/r/MensRights03/09/25 04:55 AM
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I was groomed and raped as a teenaged boy by an older woman. It seriously messed me up for the rest of my life and in ways I really didn’t realize until I started unpacking panic attacks that started a few years ago. Male victims of SA are ignored, shunned, isolated, and even told that they are “lucky.” It is a deeply disgusting double standard. I often wonder how many male victims don’t come forward because they are told boys can’t be victims or do come forward like I did and just get met with …
/r/MensRights03/09/25 01:27 AM
2

That last sentence is getting at a men’s rights issue. I was thinking about that right after posting my response to you. Women are allowed terribly vitriolic subreddits but similar men’s sub are shutdown real damn fast. I shouldn’t gatekeep, it just seems complaining that fat women try to catfish doesn’t seem like it is a good fit here. (Though again, I get it. I don’t use dating apps anymore because they are like 30 percent bots, 50 percent OF models selling content, and 20 percent women I woul…
/r/MensRights30/08/25 01:07 AM
3

Wrong sub bro. I feel your pain though.
/r/MensRights30/08/25 12:52 AM
2

To be clear, I think fem Nazi and gold digger can be used as slurs too. I provided you with my definition of a slur now in two other threads and I stand by it. But to deny the contemporary use of “incel” is a slur is incredibly naive of probably 09 percent of its use these days. It is almost always used to dehumanize.
/r/MensRights28/08/25 06:43 PM
3

And incel is being used just against men for being men. The person who says “ngr” uses a similar justification to what you just said earlier about it is a term that fits. It used to mean involuntarily celibate, but now it is just a way to try and shut up a man who disagrees with someone online. I can’t figure out if you’re really this innocent and have never seen this happen to someone or you this obtuse and won’t admit that you have seen it.
/r/MensRights28/08/25 03:32 PM
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I responded to you with a pretty simple definition of a slur and distinguished it from just an insult. It was a reply to your comment so you should have gotten a notification about it. Here you go, I will paste it below for your convenience, I gotchya bro: https://www.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/1n1rpm4/comment/nb1ss4o/?context=3 “ Who decides when it becomes a slur? I generally think of a slur as a derogatory term based on a protected class (like race, sex, religion, disability) meant to d…
/r/MensRights28/08/25 07:29 AM
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That is like saying “the n-word” isn’t a slur because it is specifically referring to a black American who is stupid and uppity. Or that “the k word” isn’t a slur because it refers to someone of Jewish descent who is greedy and manipulative.
/r/MensRights28/08/25 07:22 AM
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Since I changed my post history to private, my posts and comments in every sub are suddenly getting a lot more upvotes. Weird how that worked out.
/r/MensRights28/08/25 06:34 AM
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Who decides when it becomes a slur? I generally think of a slur as a derogatory term based on a protected class (like race, sex, religion, disability) meant to dehumanize and degrade the target. By at least that definition it fits perfectly.
/r/MensRights28/08/25 12:41 AM
20

Incel is absolutely used as a slur. It is awesome that you have not encountered that, but I have been called an incel quite a few times despite very very definitely not being celibate.
/r/MensRights27/08/25 11:56 PM
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The term incel needs to be put to rest or, like with the n word, be shamed from anyone else using except actual incels. It has become the stupidest slur that is thrown around all the time for disagreeing with a woman online.
/r/MensRights27/08/25 10:05 PM
12

Totally agreed. If you just told someone there is a governing council with representatives from each country of the world to provide a diplomatic platform to address global issues - great! But then you start to look at what they “do” and who is in charge of each of the councils and you realize the UN is just a farce.
/r/MensRights27/08/25 04:19 PM
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Cultural expectation for men to always take on the risk of initiating dating in a world of social media and “meToo” where some women claim being asked out is assault.
/r/MensRights27/08/25 12:03 AM
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Get out of your echo chamber and you might be surprised by how rational the other side is. A few years ago I forced myself into conservative spaces (I am progressive). It was really eye opening to get to know conservative thought as more than just the meme that leftist gotchya media shows. I suspect a conservative entering progressive spaces would experience something similar. Yup, I still see cringy takes, but I know “my side” also has people who push cringy takes. On the whole though, I see a …
/r/MensRights26/08/25 03:15 AM
6

Yup. I didn’t put together just how misandrists my mother is until later in life but here are some highlights of how she defeated my male privilege: I paid for my degrees, she paid for my sister to drop out THREE times; i lived out of a van, in trashier apartments than most people can imagine, but clawed my way into full time work and school; she bought my sister a car, paid her rent for like 10 years, and bought her a house. I have never been married but with the same woman now for fifteen year…
/r/MensRights25/08/25 04:46 AM
4

All of the answers I see posted here are great, but let’s be real - if you are arguing with someone that tribal and detached from reality, nothing you say is going to get through.
/r/MensRights24/08/25 04:57 PM
20

More agency than men in most cases. Men have the draft still, no options in family planning, less of a social safety net, worse health outcomes, ….
/r/EverydayMisandry22/08/25 07:55 PM
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It is funny, the one thing feminists and men’s rights groups agree about is that women have no accountability. Feminists just see this as the way things should be and men see it as a continued form of discrimination.
/r/EverydayMisandry22/08/25 07:53 PM
5

Are you okay? That seemed like a bit of a crash out.
/r/MensRights21/08/25 06:52 PM
5

There are a lot of women and girls who enjoy cheering though. I don’t really watch cheer, but had several friends who were very dedicated to it and learned a lot from their time in high school and college in cheer. Seems like a pretty simple tradition to hold onto and it clearly gives a lot of young women joy.
/r/MensRights19/08/25 06:41 AM
14

The answer is different for everyone with the exception of this one rule - “know yourself.” Meditate. Journal. Read. Workout. Travel. Meet different people. And always reflect on what kind of life makes you happy. How much money do you need? Do you need a family? Do you need time with the boys? What hobbies bring you joy, fulfillment, escape, etc. Know which tool to reach for depending on what you need. Do you need to escape? Play a video game, read, go hangout. Do you need to feel accomplished?…
/r/MensRights19/08/25 03:02 AM
10

The notion that cheating should be punished by mutilation I suspect wouldn’t hold up if he caught her cheating and cut her clit out.
/r/EverydayMisandry14/08/25 04:14 PM
16

I am also a survivor of being groomed by an older woman when I was a child. It took me a long time to realize the damage that woman did to me. All of the narratives around abuse are gendered and protect women pedophiles at the expense of victims.
/r/EverydayMisandry11/08/25 10:35 PM
1

You are being downvoted because you think that pattern of a hundred women per man didn’t have an impact on development.
/r/MensRights10/08/25 03:54 PM
8

What a gross take. Lol. Pro-harem? Anti-family.
/r/MensRights10/08/25 01:02 AM
32

When women were given the most choice in mates of any time in history they all flock to the same 10 percent of men. I understand that is an inconvenient truth for both men and women, but the data is glaringly obvious.
/r/MensRights10/08/25 01:01 AM
2

It is pretty obvious the person you are responding to makes their living from therapy and somehow feels attacked that some people don’t respond positively to therapy. If therapy isn’t working for you, find other solutions that do and don’t listen to the weirdos. Edit: looking at her post history, they are pretty brazenly a feminist troll. Pro-circumcision, believe women have been oppressed throughout history, believe women are mostly pro choice and men mostly prolife, believe women aren’t allowe…
/r/MensRights09/08/25 04:48 PM
0

There is a plethora of studies that show talk therapy is less likely to be effective for men and studies that show talk therapy can have negative outcomes for some patients. It is a powerful treatment that everyone with mental health problems should try, but some patients don’t respond positively to it. When that happens, we should not try to coerce them into talk therapy but instead look at other treatment options. I staunchly disagree with the notion that if someone is having negative outcomes…
/r/MensRights09/08/25 03:29 PM
3

It is a cuck femdomme fetish sub.
/r/EverydayMisandry09/08/25 12:52 AM
26

Not to mention, old school medical experimentation is not something someone would want done to them. Infirmed and diseased soldiers who had nothing left to lose were often the subjects in these experiments.
/r/EverydayMisandry09/08/25 12:51 AM
14

I see a therapist and find it useful, but there is some very compelling evidence that you are correct. Talk therapy works well with women but not with men, which makes it heinous the way feminism shoves therapy on men. Try therapy and see if it works for you, if not, stop. Don’t let anyone convince you that you are the problem if it doesn’t work for you.
/r/MensRights09/08/25 12:37 AM
3

Keep putting in the work. Frankly I find the opposite is true - the men in my life are way better about being supportive, listening, and helping me out if something is wrong.
/r/MensRights06/08/25 10:40 PM
21

Talk therapy doesn’t work for everyone and men in particular often do not have a positive response to it. Everyone who struggles with mental health problems should try therapy, but no treatment is for everyone and men often have therapy shoved on us. I am in therapy and have found some help from it, particularly CBT. I will say there is MAJOR stigma around men in therapy that needs to stop.
/r/MensRights06/08/25 10:38 PM
34

Gold digging is prostitution and we need to just call it that. There is virtually no difference between a woman demanding you pay for everything on the date and you paying for sex with a prostitute other than the terms are clear with the prostitute.
/r/MensRights05/08/25 02:58 PM
1

Allegations of DV or SA end male athletic careers. In this case she was captured on camera abusing her boyfriend and she still has a career (for now).
/r/MensRights05/08/25 03:21 AM
34

I wonder how celebrities like their faces being put on these hateful posters.
/r/EverydayMisandry02/08/25 08:59 AM
33

Definitely understood. There may be a federal government institution (FTC?) you could file a complaint with too. The current administration famously doesn’t have much of a stomach for misandry.
/r/MensRights01/08/25 11:45 PM
80

Depending on where you live, that could be grounds for a lawsuit.
/r/MensRights01/08/25 10:47 PM
35

You will be taken a lot more seriously by this community by posting from a Reddit account that doesn’t look like it is trying to sell porn. I understand you may mean well but know we get flooded by people posting like you did but are just trying to sell porn. We are pretty welcoming but have no tolerance when it looks like someone is trying to take advantage of us.
/r/MensRights31/07/25 02:55 AM
29

It is deplorable seeing women come into this community trying to sell sex to men.
/r/MensRights31/07/25 02:34 AM
4

It happens all the time. Often by OF models trying to peddle their wares. If that is what you are doing it is very unwelcome in this community. However, if you really are just here to listen, thank you. If you want to be taken seriously here I suggest posting from a different account that isnt trying to push for “followers.”
/r/MensRights31/07/25 02:30 AM
32

I am really suspicious this is OF bait.
/r/MensRights31/07/25 02:13 AM
115

The bar really is that low. Edit: looking at her profile this just looks like OF bait. Please don’t encourage people to come into this community selling porn addiction.
/r/MensRights31/07/25 02:12 AM
26

Can’t risk losing The Narrative.
/r/EverydayMisandry26/07/25 05:52 AM
5

Report it to iOS. Apple may not do anything, but they have gotten in trouble in the past with the government for ignoring requests to take down harmful apps. https://reportaproblem.apple.com/
/r/MensRights25/07/25 04:46 AM
8

If you are on iOS here you go: https://reportaproblem.apple.com/
/r/MensRights25/07/25 04:04 AM
26

What are you talking about? Feminism by its own definition is the coordination of women to change their legal and social standing and change the legal and social standing of men.
/r/MensRights23/07/25 09:26 PM
95

Shouldn’t that mean this judge needs to recuse herself from all cases involving women going forward?
/r/MensRights23/07/25 12:08 AM
22

Almost every post in this person’s history is a low effort inflammatory comment.
/r/MensRights22/07/25 10:26 PM
36

Has everything that anyone has ever said about you true? I didn’t think so. This violation goes much deeper than privacy.
/r/MensRights22/07/25 10:10 PM
32

Isn’t that legally actionable? He is claiming he knows which claims are true and which aren’t. If that is true, why does he allow the ones that aren’t true to stay up? Most of the posts on these apps are simple he-said she-said situations. Corroborating them would be impossible, probably even for law enforcement. What does the tea app do that the police can’t?
/r/MensRights22/07/25 07:27 PM
7

It is even more sinister than that. Men are demonized for going to the gym on social media and even traditional media as “gym bros,” “jocks,” even called “fascistic” just for lifting weights.
/r/MensRights22/07/25 07:24 PM
86

Does she realize this is just her “ending her lineage” while we all go on with our lives?
/r/EverydayMisandry21/07/25 06:00 AM
2

No way. If I think anything is the core of MRA it is a return to people being totally accountable for their own actions and beliefs.
/r/MensRights15/07/25 07:49 PM
24

Menslib is just a cuck, findom fetish subreddit. Don’t kink shame.
/r/MensRights15/07/25 01:18 PM
–

One of the tenets of 4b is don’t support businesses owned by men. That is blatant misandry. Do the gender flip, what if men only supported businesses run by men?
/r/EverydayMisandry15/07/25 12:10 AM
209

Pretty much a rite of passage. Welcome to the brotherhood.
/r/MensRights14/07/25 03:06 AM
1

It was literally originally used in a feminist paper about culling the male population down to about 10 percent.
/r/MensRights13/07/25 03:23 PM
12

Some of the content includes full names, addresses, pictures, nudes, employers, family members, intimate secrets, sexual identity/orientation, etc. These groups would be shutdown in an instant if the genders were reversed.
/r/MensRights12/07/25 04:52 AM
26

Nope. I mean intersectional feminism. The idea that some classes of people should and some should not be protected based on a crude estimate of the number of intersections of certain traits like gender, race, ability, etc is deplorable. All people should be protected from hate and harassment.
/r/EverydayMisandry12/07/25 01:42 AM
45

This is the consequence of their policy that only women can be protected from hate speech and harassment. When intersectional feminism is used to create policy it, by definition, enables hatred and discrimination.
/r/EverydayMisandry11/07/25 07:18 PM
40

It is a derogatory slur at this point and should be treated as such.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/07/25 04:55 AM
20

As long as feminism keeps making these arguments that women are not accountable for their own actions, feminism is perpetuating the notion that women don’t belong in leadership roles. One of the core tenants of being a leader - government or corporate - is the ability to take responsibility when things go wrong. Feminism is literally the greatest force holding women back from being able to be treated as adults at the table and every woman should be railing against feminism the way they rail agai…
/r/MensRights05/07/25 05:05 PM
53

If this is America isn’t this straight up illegal since sex/gender is protected by the civil rights act?
/r/EverydayMisandry04/07/25 08:14 PM
0

Sorry bro, but I see AI and I tune out. I would love to hear you say it in your own words though.
/r/MensRights04/07/25 04:59 PM
10

Garbage was around when it was okay to be critical of anyone and everyone. And it was obvious the song is about a very specific girl.
/r/MensRights04/07/25 03:35 PM
87

Someone needs to write a single called “Stupid Bitch” and watch the media scream.
/r/MensRights04/07/25 12:05 AM
11

Buffy as misandrist? It is a show with some strong female characters but Giles, Xander, Oz, Angel, Spike, Robin, …. And many of the villains are women. I don’t see it.
/r/MensRights30/06/25 03:50 PM
24

Yup. Ironically she sees emotional intelligence as agreeing with her, which is the exact opposite of emotional intelligence.
/r/EverydayMisandry27/06/25 11:09 PM
18

Take a moment to appreciate the irony of her both positing that men lack emotional intelligence while doing two things that betray a gross lack of emotional intelligence: generalizing a trait across a broad population and being catty and passive aggressive.
/r/EverydayMisandry27/06/25 11:08 PM
1

I don’t mind you using AI, I always people use their own voices to express their opinions, but please be upfront with it if you are using AI.
/r/MensRights27/06/25 06:29 PM
5

AI?
/r/MensRights27/06/25 11:45 AM
4

Why aren’t their daughters held to that same standard? That take sounds both misandrist because it removes the boy’s autonomy over his own life and misogynistic because you/Michelle are implying their daughters can’t be expected to fill those shoes.
/r/MensRights22/06/25 12:36 AM
2

What is the context. It sounds pretty damning. Say what you want about Obama but he was a charming, intelligent, and passionate political figure. I cannot imagine thinking it would be bad to have more politicians like him.
/r/MensRights21/06/25 11:01 PM
17

Raping men is usually a punchline in movies, so literally “yes” raping men is treated as a joke.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/06/25 09:57 PM
33

Just remember we are the emotionally immature sex.
/r/EverydayMisandry19/06/25 05:27 PM
42

Almost daily I get trashy OF bait.
/r/MensRights19/06/25 10:44 AM
1

The data is pretty solid, throw out the outliers and women date far more partners at once than men do.
/r/MensRights17/06/25 08:55 PM
5

Certainly society will get right on fixing this inequality right away.
/r/MensRights14/06/25 10:09 PM
23

I know a lot of cis-bi/gay men who hate the way women are openly misandrist and expect us to play along.
/r/MensRights14/06/25 06:27 AM
64

They still aren’t. Straight women have taken over lgbtq spaces since the 80s. They regularly sexually assault gay men and think it is funny. And they constantly try to complain about “cis men” to gay and bi men, like me, who are “cis” without a modicum of self awareness.
/r/MensRights14/06/25 06:25 AM
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To me it comes down to the continued expectation from women that men fill our traditional gender roles only so far as it enriches them, meanwhile they have shirked off any obligation to the contract of tradition while demanding special treatment.
/r/MensRights14/06/25 06:20 AM
70

Misandry is very fashionable with the younger generation. It is terrifying.
/r/MensRights14/06/25 03:13 AM
24

I don’t doubt you, but do you have a source for that?
/r/MensRights12/06/25 11:16 PM
4

What is “sexual victimization?” If it is the same as being the victim of a sexual assault this study is shocking because the most feminist estimates say 33 percent of women are victims of SA.
/r/MensRights08/06/25 12:09 AM
1

Pride has become a corporate celebration of cis and trans women. Almost everyone I know who gets crazy about pride are cis heterosexual progressive women.
/r/MensRights04/06/25 05:42 AM
1

It is incredibly unethical to not even state what organization is conducting this “research.” Who are you? Edit: looking through the post history this looks a lot like a purchased or hacked account. Suddenly the account started spamming this survey all over reddit a few days ago. I strongly suggest no one participate or click on the link.
/r/MensRights28/05/25 12:20 AM
1

No reputable study uses online polls. (But also, much of the studies used by gender studies come from trash like this) Anyone can anonymously write a script to skew the results, there is no proof the survey taker is who they say they are, AND self reporting is almost always problematic in research.
/r/MensRights28/05/25 12:18 AM
3

The definition of assault and battery varies by location but in most places in America you cannot touch other people in a menacing way. For example, if you throw your drink in someone’s face they aren’t likely to be scared but you still committed assault.
/r/MensRights27/05/25 04:48 AM
13

We don’t know the context but from the expression on his face when is looking back at his wife (before he realizes the cameras caught the interaction) it REALLY looks like that was unwanted and aggressive and therefore assault/battery.
/r/MensRights26/05/25 04:39 PM
17

The guy you were responding too didn’t seem angry, it just seemed like he was making a point that AI is trained on content so it will reflect the values of the content it was trained on. I hope you are okay dude, that was a really unhinged response to a very innocuous comment.
/r/MensRights26/05/25 04:05 PM
21

The use of the word patriarchy erases the experience of 99.99999999 percent of men throughout history. Most men were slaves, soldiers, sailors, miners, serfs, etc who lived and toiled in hardships almost no one can appreciate. It is like evaluating the historical and contemporary privilege of all women using Queen Elizabeth as the standard. There is no patriarchy in the West.
/r/MensRights23/05/25 09:28 AM
6

OP is giving the guy he argued with a very kind portrayal compared to what the homophobe said. I was skeptical at first because the term -phobic is thrown around a lot in online discourse, but in this case, the shoe fits.
/r/MensRights23/05/25 09:04 AM
1

I don’t agree with what that guy said to you at all but it also doesn’t sound like homophobia. Maybe there was some subtext in phrasing that is being lost here but it just sounds like he disagreed with you. From what you said, in my humble opinion, you two are both welcome here.
/r/MensRights23/05/25 08:57 AM
45

Tell me that if I left her she would tell all of my friends I raped her. I left her. She did. I lost like 90 percent of my friends.
/r/MensRights22/05/25 05:49 PM
62

There is (or was?) a sub I bumped into about three years ago that was a network of women teaching each other how to seduce married men, fleece them for money in gifts or extortion, then destroy their lives and move onto the next. They would post date ideas, body language, how to get him to fall in love instead of just lust, and it was seen as a trophy if they broke up the home. I think it was jezebels or something like that? I watch some of the rougher misandrist subs, but that one was too dark …
/r/MensRights19/05/25 08:20 AM
10

“He had a drink, She had a drink, They had sex.” Before 2005 was a good date. Now it is considered rape. That alone explains the change in the data.
/r/MensRights18/05/25 06:06 PM
7

The only hissy fit I see in these threads is yours. People disagreeing with you is not a “hissy fit,” and you also don’t “win” by accusing people of being emotional and then not responding.
/r/MensRights17/05/25 10:07 PM
8

You are saying this in almost every thread to replies that rarely look the slightest bit emotional. It seems like you use it as a rhetorical escape hatch when you can’t find a way to respond to what the other person is saying. It is a troll tactic and deplorable.
/r/MensRights17/05/25 10:05 PM
10

I am not “emotional.” This sub is constantly flooded by feminists who think they will say the feminist talking point we have all heard literally thousands of times before and, not surprisingly, the sub has canned responses to all of them. If you live in the West, every single day you hear or see feminist talking points - they are in our movies, commercials, books, TV shows, billboards, music, etc. Meanwhile MRAs need to stay in the shadows when we talk about things like - the draft, MGM, female …
/r/MensRights17/05/25 09:45 AM
16

Many of those comments I don’t agree with, but you are really stretching the definition of misogyny if you think it is misogynistic to say there is an epidemic of women seeking validation online today (there are literally exhaustive studies about the role that Instagram and TikTok plays in young women’s mental health because they are seeking validation). Some of those comments are more generic “men are from mars women are from Venus” type comments which are rarely misogyny but more so a product …
/r/MensRights17/05/25 03:07 AM
11

Downvote and report misogyny. I rarely see misogynistic posts gain traction here. Can you link some examples?
/r/MensRights17/05/25 12:19 AM
17

Men and boys are also assaulted daily. What is your point?
/r/MensRights17/05/25 12:17 AM
13

Report misogyny as you see it. I do. I find most misogyny gets downvoted pretty quickly around here. Can you link examples?
/r/MensRights17/05/25 12:14 AM
22

This post is incoherent. What are you talking about? Specifics instead of vibes would help.
/r/MensRights16/05/25 11:06 PM
31

Do you have a link to the study? Edit: OP delivered. https://www.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/1kmzwv6/comment/msehwq3/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=mweb3x&utm_name=mweb3xcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button
/r/MensRights15/05/25 04:57 AM
72

It is deeply problematic the hole we have to dig ourselves out of where advocating for men to have equal protections from the draft, GM, and sexual assault/rape/DV laws is seen as misogyny.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/05/25 03:42 PM
52

I thought your title was satire. No. That is actually the title of the article.
/r/MensRights06/05/25 12:01 AM
109

For the number of times TwoX starts circlejerking killAllMen it really reveals Reddit’s extreme feminist bias. That sub is a cesspool but remains one of the default subs everyone gets when they create an account for “reasons.”
/r/MensRights05/05/25 11:03 PM
9

Bro. Punctuate.
/r/MensRights30/04/25 01:14 AM
4

And nothing of value was lost.
/r/EverydayMisandry21/04/25 11:47 PM
6

The only place we disagree is Kamala’s campaign. Her message of hope was fantastic, however, the way she tried to use race and gender to coerce men into voting for her was vile. Her ads targeting men were a bunch of sexist cliches followed by something like: “I am man enough to vote for a woman.” Patronizing, heteronormative filth. Gender flip that. Imagine a campaign ad of a bunch of women cooking and cleaning and then saying how happy they are to be voting for Trump. The left, progressives, my…
/r/MensRights16/04/25 07:12 PM
7

Broadly speaking I find the language from the left and the policy from the right are horrid for men. Much of the left openly demonizes men, Kamala basically thought she could cuck men into voting for her. However, some parts of the left at least have strong support for labor and workers rights as well as support for veterans. Pick your poison I guess. The party that blames you for the world’s problems because you are a man or the party that subverts and destroys the support systems that would be…
/r/MensRights16/04/25 06:23 PM
1

Are you okay?
/r/MensRights16/04/25 03:16 AM
7

When rape includes “forced to penetrate” there is not much of a difference between the sexes according to the FBI.
/r/MensRights16/04/25 01:03 AM
35

It seems more like a kink.
/r/MensRights13/04/25 08:40 PM
12

Anyone who claims to know what goes on in that 83 percent is lying and trying to sell an ideology. In almost every case when you pressure people citing the outrageous rape statistics it comes down to them claim that 83% are provable.
/r/EverydayMisandry13/04/25 04:51 PM
80

That 12% admitted false state is terrifying. I want to know how many of them faced charges.
/r/EverydayMisandry13/04/25 04:03 PM
14

How? In the physical sciences you lose your career if you make up data the way you are.
/r/MensRights10/04/25 02:19 AM
1

What is hilarious about this is that testosterone is associated with many traits and behaviors associated with leadership - pursuit of goals, confidence, executive function, etc. I do not think men or women are better leaders though.
/r/EverydayMisandry10/04/25 01:14 AM
26

I don’t think there is a way there could be an academic understanding of the rates of false rape allegations though. There is simply no way to collect that data. Edit: I have my PhD in a physical science and my partner designs studies for medical systems. Study and survey design is regularly “dinner table talk” for us. I know, we are nerds.
/r/MensRights10/04/25 12:33 AM
30

How do you know which rape allegations are real and which aren’t? You would have to be omnipresent to know the statistics you are citing.
/r/MensRights10/04/25 12:09 AM
7

I am really glad you have never been in a violent situation. I have. 🤷‍♂️ within reason people should have the right to feel safe, even if that means carrying a flashlight.
/r/MensRights09/04/25 11:03 PM
4

Any other IcyMike fans in here carrying their self defense flashlight?
/r/MensRights09/04/25 05:42 PM
3

Pepper spray is going to do significantly more damage to someone’s eyes than a flashlight. Also, with the flashlight the person chooses to keep looking or not. With pepper spray, they are going to have a miserable six to twelve hours after exposure. You may way to carry both, but of the two, a flashlight is significantly better in most self defense situations. The exception where pepper spray really takes over is on a multiple opponent situation where you need to quickly neutralize several threa…
/r/MensRights09/04/25 05:41 PM
3

Same. I forget how many lumens my barrel light it is small enough that I can easily carry it even when I am not strapped (it almost disappears in my palm) and it is a major tactical force multiplier in any confrontation whether I hold the beam on them while I fend them off to escape or blind them so I can engage.
/r/MensRights09/04/25 05:32 PM
2

No. Epilepsy is caused by strobing effects.
/r/MensRights09/04/25 05:29 PM
-1

You can’t walk backwards? Or stand in one place until they leave or the cops arrive. Certainly you know more about this than one of the most respected voices in the self defense community. If you don’t believe me, get the highest powered flashlight you can find on YouTube, give it to a friend, then spar with them.
/r/MensRights09/04/25 05:22 PM
4

Pepper spray can kill people by messing up their ability to breath. A flashlight does not effect people’s ability to breath. I am not sure how to be more clear.
/r/MensRights09/04/25 05:21 PM
5

Having a high power flashlight in your eyes, even in daylight, is debilitating. I am not talking about your average flashlight. Check out IcyMike’s YouTube videos about it.
/r/MensRights09/04/25 05:17 PM
3

Don’t club them unless you need to. Having a high powered flashlight shined in your face is debilitating and completely harmless. Check out IcyMike’s videos on flashlights. The best part about a flashlight is they are totally legal.
/r/MensRights09/04/25 05:15 PM
20

Pepper spray is more so rarely lethal than non-lethal. I think it is worrying how comfortable most people feel spraying people with it. Though if you need a weapon for self defense it is reasonable. Honestly, a high powered flashlight is one of the best nonlethal self defense tools. Edit: IcyMike on YouTube is one of the most respected voices in the self defense community. Check out his videos about using a flashlight for self defense. A high powered flashlight blasting in your pretty much oblit…
/r/MensRights09/04/25 05:10 PM
1

Jean luc Picard. Uncle Iroh.
/r/MensRights09/04/25 02:17 AM
1

Definitely my dad. Glad you had a good one!
/r/MensRights09/04/25 02:16 AM
9

Why did you bring race into your statement?
/r/MensRights08/04/25 08:38 PM
7

Boys are chastised for showing any emotion except anger, then men are chastised if they show any anger. It is not surprising that men who try to play by the rules end up an emotional wreck.
/r/MensRights08/04/25 02:59 PM
9

This is almost certainly happening at my company. The last five years it seems like 70 or 80 percent of leadership openings have been filled by often objectively under qualified women.
/r/MensRights04/04/25 07:47 PM
47

The burden of proof is on the prosecution for every crime except SA, rape, and DV where it is instead placed on the man (whether victim or alleged perpetrator). For other crimes, the standard of evidence is high enough that the legal system is very hard to weaponize.
/r/MensRights03/04/25 12:48 AM
54

The bullets are literally in men’s heads proving the loneliness epidemic is real.
/r/MensRights02/04/25 07:04 PM
10

From a cell.
/r/EverydayMisandry01/04/25 11:31 PM
2

Immigrants are given many protections under the constitution. Boumediene v. Bush 2008 even extended habeas corpus rights to criminal aliens being detained outside of the US borders.
/r/MensRights27/03/25 02:57 PM
5

Totally agreed. The tribalism loads so many people up with intellectually dishonesty and OP is as guilty about exaggerating as many of the responses. In my opinion the two biggest threats to American democracy right now are money in politics and tribalism.
/r/MensRights27/03/25 12:37 AM
5

Then let the courts settle it. It is wild to me to see how quickly people want to burn the constitution to ground just to deport some people a few weeks faster than if you just let the American government do its thing. Edit: as of 3/27 the dc federal circuit court of appeals upheld the stay
/r/MensRights26/03/25 11:12 PM
0

And Judge Boasberg temporarily blocked that invocation pending judiciary review.
/r/MensRights26/03/25 11:04 PM
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The commenter implied this is a partisan issue promulgated by progressives. Bringing up that the judge is a conservative Bush appointee seems relevant to show whatever your party affiliation, hopefully you can agree that abiding by the law and constitution is good for everyone. It is fine if you or the Trump administration wants to deport people who are here illegally, but do so in a way that progressives and conservatives all agree with by respecting the role the judiciary plays in the immigrat…
/r/MensRights26/03/25 10:56 PM
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Determining legality of their claims of citizenship is the purview of the judiciary though. In America, the way we reduce the number of “mistakes,” as you put it, is by using the judiciary. That is how our government works. If the accused doesn’t have proof - fine, deport them. But at least enforce the laws in a way that is legal. Judge Boseman is a conservative appointed by Bush. This isn’t a partisan issue. This is basic American civics and a group of men in America are being denied a right th…
/r/MensRights26/03/25 10:20 PM
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The constitution provides protections for all people, including immigrants and people charged with crimes, which guarantee due process. This is foundational in American democracy. By all means, advocate for ending sanctuary cities or for better enforcement of immigration laws, but people need the chance to go before a judge to prove that they have not committed a crime. This is basic American civics. Cops are not judges. Judges are not part of the executive branch. We have system built on three …
/r/MensRights26/03/25 10:01 PM
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This is a men’s rights issue. Men are literally being denied the RIGHT of habeas corpus while women are not. Whatever your perspective is on illegal immigration, the determination of the legality of an immigrant needs to be done by the judicial system. Edit: downvoting me doesn’t change the constitution. Do yourself a favor and learn how the American government is designed to work if you think the executive branch has the sole discretion on the legality of imprisoning and deporting people.
/r/MensRights26/03/25 09:55 PM
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The problem isn’t the “long overdue enforcement of our laws,” the problem is “not providing constitutionally protected habeas corpus rights.” The judge who is in a scuffle with the Trump administration is a GW Bush appointee. Judge Boseberg himself has clarified this point.
/r/MensRights26/03/25 09:52 PM
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Defending the constitutional right of habeas corpus should be a bipartisan. Edit: there are a lot of you who need to take a basic American civics class to understand how our three branches of government work with one another. It isn’t always pretty but the American constitution is an incredible document. It has its flaws but if we all agree to work within its framework society is much healthier. If you want immigrants to be denied due process that would require a law (or likely constitutional am…
/r/MensRights26/03/25 09:48 PM
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By your definition the fact that most research on mental health was done on women means we live in a matriarchy. A list of grievances isn’t the same thing as sweeping systemic discrimination.
/r/MensRights24/03/25 08:35 PM
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Having a few inequities is not what the word patriarchy means. There are similar lists for injustices against men.
/r/MensRights24/03/25 08:27 PM
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A comment asked why people are openly recommending feminist books that don’t question misandry and points out the outrage they would feel about an openly misogynist book and the response reveals the kind of people we are working with: “ For "I'm a misogynist, what's a book I'll enjoy" That'd be American Psycho.” American psycho was a condemnation of misogyny and American materialism but these people don’t have a modicum of ability to read or think critically. Edit: reminder to NOT brigade. Do no…
/r/MensRights24/03/25 03:31 PM
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Okay, you clarify in other threads you only accused him of “spreading hate.” Can you explain how it is spreading hate to point out that some people hold the two contradicting points of view OP stated?
/r/MensRights24/03/25 04:54 AM
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Which assumption?
/r/MensRights24/03/25 04:19 AM
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Assuming OP was talking about “all women” in the sentence above that begins “women say…” is pretty disingenuous. I agree we should be cautious about ever saying “women X” without qualifying which women, but in this post OP is tacitly qualifying that he is only talking about women who engage in saying the two conflicting points illustrates above. There was a respectful way to make your point which seems to be about language, but instead you assumed OP is “hating women.” Either way, stay kind and …
/r/MensRights24/03/25 04:09 AM
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What patriarchy?
/r/MensRights24/03/25 02:28 AM
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Can you think of a kids show with a joke about a woman’s vagina being too loose? https://youtube.com/shorts/1VfsTlaeMAg?si=LR53XgbC_jrVKkaO
/r/MensRights23/03/25 05:31 AM
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Sure, I cannot remember the name of it but someone might be able to figure it out from the description. There was a Netflix animated movie about a young kinda bratty girl with superpowers that came out a few years ago. I think the movie was named after her. Early in the movie she is running or falling supernaturally fast and passes a guy getting out of the shower and makes a comment or gesture to indicate she found it funny how small his dick was. If it comes to me later I will edit the comment.…
/r/MensRights22/03/25 08:07 PM
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There are also examples of underaged boys being raped, the woman impregnating herself on the boy, then successfully suing the boy for child support once he was 18. https://www.usatoday.com/story/news/nation/2014/09/02/statutory-rape-victim-child-support/14953965/
/r/MensRights22/03/25 03:12 AM
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Arousal is not consent.
/r/MensRights22/03/25 01:17 AM
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“Big or little Dick energy” “big balls” “being a dick” it is all gross. It baffles me how commonly accepted it is to use male genitals as a metaphor for status or strength. It is so common you can find these phrases used by teachers and politicians and kids shows.
/r/MensRights22/03/25 12:33 AM
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These people are so stupid that they actually think there is a worse scenario than being slowly eaten alive for an hour while you pray to a god you never believed in for death.
/r/EverydayMisandry21/03/25 02:09 AM
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This guy is proving your point. He is saying a mob of accusers is enough to validate guilt of the convicted. This is exactly what happened in Salem. He is being a member of the gullible mob at the witch trials.
/r/MensRights17/03/25 12:09 AM
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American law is rooted in the presumption of innocence and the burden of proof is on the prosecution. What you are describing is the opposite, you are challenging OP to prove his innocence when there is no evidence of guilt (other than testimony which I presume could not be corroborated). It shouldn’t matter how many people accuse you of a crime if there is no evidence that you violated the law. You are making OPs case for him by saying hysteria by accusers alone is enough to show guilt. In the …
/r/MensRights17/03/25 12:05 AM
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4B goes farther than MGTOW and calls for women to not support businesses owned by men. I am all for people dating and socializing with whoever they want, but boycotting a gender is psychotic.
/r/EverydayMisandry13/03/25 11:34 PM
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It is against Reddit’s TOS to say those things about women, but they are acceptable to say about men. Reddit’s hate policy ironically only protects certain groups from hate. Edit: https://support.reddithelp.com/hc/en-us/articles/360045715951-Promoting-Hate-Based-on-Identity-or-Vulnerability It looks like they changed their language a little bit in the last year or two but I still suspect Reddit sees a carve out to allow hate against men. They still use language about “vulnerable” being a qualifi…
/r/EverydayMisandry13/03/25 12:51 AM
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If you happen to be in America, for what it is worth, I don’t think a draft is likely though geopolitical instability lately and the upheaval of the world order is certainly increasing the chances of a world war. However, a draft would be outrageously unpopular and likely put most people in the street. The US still has by far the strongest volunteer fighting force in the world and it is based on the doctrine of being able to win on three consecutive fronts. The cost of levying a draft is probabl…
/r/MensRights12/03/25 03:31 AM
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Draft dodging is illegal. Many men did it during the Vietnam draft though. Your chance of a medical exemption aren’t great unless you have a disability or have an influential connection. It is hard to guess if psyche exemptions would be more acceptable now that mental health is more broadly accepted as health. In the past psyche exemptions were almost unheard of.
/r/MensRights12/03/25 03:15 AM
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Conscientious Objectors will still be drafted but serve non-combat roles. Medic is the most commonly used example but it could be administrative or logistical. Draft dodging is unfortunately very difficult if you aren’t wealthy. Though many dodged the Vietnam draft by fleeing the country across a land border (significantly more difficult now) or just hitchhiking and working odd jobs off the grid (also, very difficult now). My only older words of wisdom to you on this subject is to try your best …
/r/MensRights12/03/25 02:43 AM
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For the majority of history, the majority of men suffered in ways that the majority of people today cannot fathom. People fall into the trap of thinking most men were lazy aristocrats, but 99.9999 percent of them were slaves, soldiers, lumberjacks, sailors, miners, farmers, fishermen, factory workers, etc. My problem with the word patriarchy is that it erases those 99.999 percent of men’s lives and only focuses on the 0.001 percent of men (and women) who lived fat on the labor of others.
/r/MensRights08/03/25 09:47 PM
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We are less beholden to a “team.” When everyone rejects you it is pretty is to do and say what is on your mind.
/r/EverydayMisandry06/03/25 05:30 AM
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Commit or be prosecuted for? Those are two very different statistics.
/r/MensRights06/03/25 02:01 AM
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I agree with your vision of masculinity and I don’t agree with the content of what he is saying or his let’s call them “principles,” but I don’t think he is floundering aimlessly in the political waters. This is a calculated message to his base and one that is successful because the democrats cannot deliver even the most basic messaging to men let alone put together a policy strategy that makes them feel included on the democratic platform. Frankly, machoism is a smart play here because Vance an…
/r/MensRights02/03/25 06:48 AM
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I think he knows. The way the left treats men is a major chink in their armor and Vance and Trump are attacking it. Frankly, Trump probably won 2024 because of how unpopular the leftist identity politics is. (My bias: democratic socialist).
/r/MensRights02/03/25 06:04 AM
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That is an insight that is obvious I have overlooked. The definition of a right is that it doesn’t require payment or exchange. Men literally exchange their bodily autonomy to the state for access to the ballot box.
/r/MensRights28/02/25 04:16 PM
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Fight racial discrimination wherever it happens regardless of whom it happens to. Anything less is another form of racism.
/r/MensRights24/02/25 03:14 AM
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Even “in the us” there have been a lot of white men who fought like hell and died for the civil rights movement. Don’t erase them just to push race war BS.
/r/MensRights24/02/25 12:09 AM
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Make racists scared again.
/r/MensRights23/02/25 11:56 PM
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This kind of thinking betrays that you are racist. Skin color doesn’t make someone think, believe, or do anything. White, black, or brown people are not monoliths. Anyone who thinks “X race does Y” is by definition racist.
/r/MensRights23/02/25 11:37 PM
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“ the girls are usually better behaved than the boys, but still, that doesn't mean that the whole gender should have to suffer.” Children often act up when they feel negative emotions that they don’t understand. Punishing a group of boys because of their gender is a formula for getting them to act up. The more the act up, the more unfairly the teachers treat them, the more they act up. You and the other teacher need to have a hard conversation about some of the most basic child psychology. I hat…
/r/MensRights23/02/25 09:18 PM
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We told men they are violent and problematic and even walking down the street behind a woman was an attack against the woman. So men became hyper vigilant not to harm or threaten women. Simultaneously we told women they are victims and never perpetrators of violence. So women stopped learning how to regulate their antisocial behavior. This is the result. We have gendered the narrative of violence to the point that only women are seen as victims and only men are seen as perpetrators. Women often …
/r/EverydayMisandry22/02/25 06:56 PM
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I agree with everything you said, I just thought I would give you that piece of information to contextualize why they have that characteristic edge of adolescence in their posts and they keep positioning themselves as an expert in male or female puberty when they have never experienced either, but have the unique experience of transitioning during puberty.
/r/MensRights19/02/25 06:15 PM
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Look at the person you are engaging with’s post history. They are a teenager. They have all of the bravado that comes with the sharp wit of adolescence and an under developed frontal cortex (I don’t mean that to be an insult either, we were all kids once) but none of the life experience to round out the perspectives on big cultural issues. Also keep in mind what that means for them positioning themselves as authoritative on people who go through adolescence as women who then transition to becomi…
/r/MensRights19/02/25 05:28 PM
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“She took “a whole year off” to focus on herself.” There it is. She is rich. That makes most things in life easier.
/r/MensRights19/02/25 12:25 AM
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Do they act like predators? Do you walk down the street and see men lurking in bushes and jumping on women? No. And we don’t do that because men teach boys both explicitly and implicitly how to regulate their inner world (which is a point I made above). T is incredibly powerful and most people don’t realize how sophisticated the adult male mind is at regulating impulses. it is an essential survival skill set for us.
/r/MensRights18/02/25 06:33 PM
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Think back to when you were thirteen and maybe you will have a better idea of what he means when he says even a xerox machine turned him on. Men learn, explicitly or implicitly, thousands of little ways to deal with how powerful of a drug T is. When a trans man is transitioning, she never learned those skills. So as an adult he is experiencing what we all did as little boys when we had a lot less agency and a lot more freedom to screw up. But your salient point that a woman being given T to tran…
/r/MensRights18/02/25 06:11 PM
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Trans men give a really unique insight into the male experience through the lense of a female upbringing. I often feel like society in the 80s or 90s stopped seeing boys and men as they are and started seeing them as dysfunctional women. The trans man in this documentary really highlights how hard someone with the upbringing of being a girl has it when he has to learn the thousand little skills and tools boys are both directly and indirectly taught to focus their energy and tame the power of mal…
/r/MensRights18/02/25 05:00 PM
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It is literally by design. Hate against any other group is banned, hate against men isn’t. The result is not surprising.
/r/MensRights16/02/25 10:21 PM
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I can’t stomach any content about masculinity that begins with the notion that The Patriarchy is real without showing that it is. We absolutely do not live in a patriarchy in the modern west. The people who push this narrative I often find are the ones who are chronically online and don’t actually interact with men in the real world on a regular basis. His concluding point: “masculinity can be beautiful” exposes how his concept of masculinity is derivative of the dribble that we are forced to fe…
/r/MensRights16/02/25 08:17 PM
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Hate is bad. That is pretty axiomatic.
/r/MensRights16/02/25 06:06 AM
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They just burn bridges with this kind of stunt. Gender is not a good predictor of support for abortion, it is mostly religiosity and political party. But that interferes with their fantasy that they are surviving Gilead.
/r/MensRights15/02/25 01:58 AM
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Not to mention the probability nocturnal emissions skyrockets if a guy isn’t releasing regularly. I would much rather it be on my terms than on my sheets.
/r/MensRights15/02/25 01:53 AM
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If you want more sources my suggestion is to go to askfeminism, pose as a feminist writing a paper about it, ask for sources. Might as well go straight to the source to get their sources.
/r/MensRights14/02/25 07:06 PM
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I am in my forties and never in my long dating life have I received anything from a woman on Valentine’s Day. Valentine’s Day is mostly buy something for a woman day. How romantic.
/r/MensRights14/02/25 06:22 PM
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I also wonder if the article considers unsolicited OF models spamming men’s DMs sexual harassment
/r/MensRights12/02/25 01:04 AM
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Sure, I just don’t think those changes came from Trump. Those seemed more like grassroots resistance to me. Gamer Gate in particular predates Trump getting involved in politics.
/r/MensRights11/02/25 06:24 PM
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Time will tell. There is a suit for an injunction on the DEI executive order. Even if he “bans DEI” in the public sector, the private sector is insulated from those changes without extreme overreach from the executive branch. However, the fed has already indicated contractors who engage with DEI practices risk their contracts being ended. This one, like many of the recent executive orders are going to the courts. Regardless, it is way too early to say “Trump ended DEI.”
/r/MensRights11/02/25 06:01 PM
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Nike regularly brands itself to black Americans while using literal chattel slaves to make their products. It is disgusting.
/r/MensRights11/02/25 12:33 AM
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Usaspending.gov has been around since Obama. The “receipts” have always been public even before that website was put together through FOIA requests against the OMB.
/r/MensRights10/02/25 05:42 AM
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Before DOGE you could go to the USAID website and see how every penny was spent. You are being played if you think DOGE has uncovered anything about USAID.
/r/MensRights10/02/25 05:32 AM
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Murder. Hahahaha, please buy our cars because we think about murdering men as much as you do.
/r/EverydayMisandry09/02/25 01:15 AM
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Yes. The sexualization of platonic male relationships in literature is antithetical to encouraging men to develop deep friendships.
/r/MensRights08/02/25 06:03 PM
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Yes. These are often the same people screeching about how men need more close friends but then also say that Frodo and Sam were gay. Not to mention there is their need to do this with UNDERAGED characters.
/r/MensRights08/02/25 04:00 PM
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I respect that. Consider making an anonymous email to the administration about it. It would be easy for them to corroborate the event with the teacher and other students.
/r/MensRights08/02/25 12:53 AM
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I don’t expect autistic men to do anything in particular. Their diagnosis is their business, I am just pointing out that there is a social media trend for women and girls to post their diagnosis (probably self diagnosis) online.
/r/MensRights07/02/25 08:05 PM
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I know all of that, your use of a very specific number made me think you had a very explicit source.
/r/MensRights07/02/25 08:03 PM
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I think it says everything that social media is full of women claiming to have or bragging about autism, but there is silence from the autistic men despite autism showing up MUCH more prevalently in men and boys.
/r/MensRights07/02/25 04:50 PM
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For my records, is there a source on that 4.5x bias?
/r/MensRights07/02/25 04:48 PM
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Feminism helps men! (Sorry, some of you missed the /s that I thought was obvious).
/r/MensRights07/02/25 04:37 PM
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I think for years the only gift I have received is some cheese package from my parents over the holidays. (Maybe even over a decade)
/r/MensRights03/02/25 06:07 AM
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If he committed a crime, she should have gone to the police, they can investigate and then we would have some idea if any of this is true. I am done with these civil suits that rally gender warriors from “victims” who don’t go to the police.
/r/MensRights21/01/25 11:50 PM
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To say the least i have to admit that post ruined more of my day than any social media post should. She trivializes the male suicide epidemic as “incels not getting laid,” two friends of mine have committed suicide. Both of them were far from incels. I am going through a hellishly difficult time and on the edge myself and sex is definitely not the issue. I am in therapy doing all of the things I am supposed to do, the diagnosis is CPTSD from an abusive woman and from a few of my friends wives wh…
/r/MensRights21/01/25 12:26 AM
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I am livid. She dismisses male loneliness as being sexual in nature. I am going through hell right now and it has nothing to do with my sex life. I have known two men who committed suicide and neither were incels. Any analogous post about women’s issue would be torn down and accounts would be banned.
/r/MensRights20/01/25 10:00 PM
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No. Misandry is rampant and normalized. One of the most insidious things misandrists do is try to gaslight us about its prevalence of risk. And I mean “gaslight” in the original use of the word - not just lie to us about it but try to subvert our sense of self and reality to manipulate us. Through all of this remember too there are forces trying to turn us misogynistic because it validates their worst impulses. Stay true to our values and trust your instincts.
/r/MensRights20/01/25 09:48 PM
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Probably worries about brigading. One of the dark truths of misandry is that it permits glorifying violence and hate against men and Reddit is horribly misandrist. Mods here have to walk a fine line allowing us a space but keeping Reddit admins happy.
/r/MensRights20/01/25 09:45 PM
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No way. We all need to help each other. We should, and have, worked as a society to bring down the rate that women die in childbirth. We should also work as a society to reduce the number of people who die by suicide.
/r/MensRights20/01/25 07:47 PM
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I can’t believe mods are leaving up a post that basically says male suicide victims are perverts. Misandry is so normalized that people think that drivel isn’t hateful or glorifying violence. Edit: I just saw the mod sticky calling criticism of the hateful post makes someone an “incel.” Edit2: someone made another post in rant basically advocating for mgtow which was taken down by mods and I caught a permaban for a pretty innocuous comment: “ So a post that says that victims of suicide and menta…
/r/MensRights20/01/25 07:28 PM
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Hijacking into top comment for visibility. OP claims in the linked thread below that her post here is being met with misogyny and outrage. The article posted is a very important mens health issue, but note that she has a clear agenda. https://np.reddit.com/r/WomenInNews/comments/1i4mfue/comment/m7yemo1/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=mweb3x&utm_name=mweb3xcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button
/r/MensRights20/01/25 02:00 AM
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Make racists scared again.
/r/EverydayMisandry20/01/25 12:28 AM
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They were oppressed by being forced to raise kids while men were oppressed by being forced into mines. Stop perpetuating the myth that working as a miner, lumberjack, fisherman, or soldier was a “privilege.”
/r/MensRights20/01/25 12:23 AM
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That is because instead of believing what men tell them they keep asking women or feminist men which inevitably leads to blaming Andrew Tate and Jordan Peterson.
/r/MensRights17/01/25 10:40 PM
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Absolutely. The salient point I was trying to make is that the west’s decision to openly embrace misandry (along with other forms of identity politics) makes us easy to manipulate by foreign actors.
/r/MensRights17/01/25 10:17 PM
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Mods in some of the MRAs communities have brought up that the gender culture war is a flashpoint that foreign actors use to divide The West. They can sometimes see foreign influence campaigns from Russia and China targeting subs like xy and men’s rights . Keep in mind when you see that content you are both seeing people’s open misandry and, likely, a foreign actors exploiting that misandry to stoke both misandry and misogyny. The gender war is a major, exploitable gap in the psyche of the west. …
/r/MensRights17/01/25 09:11 PM
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If she honestly couldn’t tell the difference between her handwriting and her husband’s, she needs to see a neurologist asap.
/r/EverydayMisandry17/01/25 02:21 AM
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Do not brigade! But look at this: https://np.reddit.com/r/Advice/comments/1i2wovm/comment/m7ie5jr/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=mweb3x&utm_name=mweb3xcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button Someone proposes the hurtful words were a “trap,” people swarm in saying it is juvenile to place such a trap but completely miss how juvenile it is to read someone’s most intimate thoughts.
/r/EverydayMisandry17/01/25 01:40 AM
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“Inadvertently read his journal?” How the hell do you do that? I have a zero tolerance rule when it comes to my journals: you read them without permission, I don’t care who you are you are out of my life for good. No drama. No discussion. It is just over.
/r/EverydayMisandry16/01/25 11:59 PM
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It was two women and three men. Misandry all the way down though.
/r/MensRights16/01/25 11:53 PM
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Body dysmorphia isn’t rational.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/01/25 07:42 AM
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There is no patriarchy. If you remove the billionaires there is virtually no wealth disparity. Women have access to leadership and government in most countries and companies. Historically .0001 percent of men have had disproportionate amounts of power, but most men led lives with similar to worse conditions than that of women. Most were fisherman, farmers, lumberjacks, miners, conscripts, labor, servants, slaves, etc.
/r/MensRights16/01/25 07:35 AM
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As long as there is inequitable prosecution for IPV any stat, like this one, which depends on IPV crime stats is going to be flawed. There is reason to believe men end up jailed because they defend themselves because of the studies prevalence of female IPV vs male IPV being slightly tipped towards women being the aggressors. But very bluntly, male victims of IPV are often charged with IPV and victims of IPV are probably more likely to commit suicide (I don’t have a source but I suspect we could …
/r/MensRights15/01/25 06:20 PM
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About ten years ago when I was dating I did this too. Despite running in very progressive circles and dating women who had careers that pay well, that filtered out like 2/3 of potential matches. The one woman who stands out in my memory was a feminist who, on the date, insisted men have run the world long enough so now it is time for women to have all of the power for the next few centuries. She had two masters: one in social work and another in something like political science but wasn’t and sh…
/r/MensRights11/01/25 07:15 PM
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This is terrifying. LA is burning down and senior leadership at the LAFD has explicitly said men don’t deserve to be saved. I hope this opens LAFD up to lawsuit for any men that die with the FD nearby.
/r/MensRights10/01/25 09:46 PM
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Advocating for violence against any group of people based on their identity is abjectly deplorable. Seek help. I mean that sincerely, please consider therapy.
/r/EverydayMisandry09/01/25 10:19 PM
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What do “we” have “coming to us?”
/r/EverydayMisandry09/01/25 10:00 PM
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I am a principal engineer and regularly conduct technical interviews. I have a similar story. We were interviewing for an opening, conducted several interviews using our usual script. Then a candidate came along that we were told not to ask her technical questions. Frustrated, we did the interview how management asked and they hired her. She claimed she had a masters in computer science but didn’t know what a string or json was let alone how to actually write code. It took two years for my compa…
/r/MensRights09/01/25 08:41 PM
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Subpoena her social media accounts and phone records then. I disagree with “hate crime” laws but I wish they were applied equally.
/r/MensRights09/01/25 05:16 PM
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Despite her only targeting boys out of hatred for men, it looks like she is not yet being prosecuted for a hate crime. I wonder why.
/r/MensRights09/01/25 05:31 AM
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When are feminists going to admit that their rhetoric that men are to blame for everything that is wrong in the world and men cannot be the victims of crime perpetrated by a woman is creating monsters like this?
/r/MensRights09/01/25 05:30 AM
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Now that we know the “men don’t ask for help” talking point is wrong I am certain people will stop saying it. Right?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/01/25 05:59 PM
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Happy cake day. The fact that you participate in this community makes me think if you have a son you will do the best by him you can. It is a very hard time to be a boy.
/r/MensRights08/01/25 03:04 AM
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It is GuyCry. A pinned post from the mods. I saw it earlier, here is a quotation from the mod to a woman: “I care about these men deeply. I care about society deeply. And as a true man, I'm obligated to care about what you think.” “As a true man.” Anyone who says that like should be dismissed out of hand for gatekeeping masculinity. The people who use that language are always either deeply misogynistic or deeply misandristic.
/r/MensRights08/01/25 03:03 AM
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What would you change about, say, Thomas Jefferson’s political philosophies? (To be clear, I don’t mean this to be a gotchya. I generally think of governments on a spectrum from authoritarianism (heavy handed government control of individuals) to libertarianism (government protecting individuals). It sounds like you maybe see another axis in that continuum.
/r/MensRights05/01/25 10:14 PM
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I respect your point, we are really just disagreeing on semantics I think (I warned you this was pedantic). I just loathe the way the term liberal/liberalism has come to mean its exact opposite.
/r/MensRights05/01/25 09:48 PM
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In America, the term liberal and liberalism has been co-opted to mean its opposite. It is a very real example of double speak and why you and so many people think the word liberal means progressive. Liberty. Libertarian. It is a political ideology that is rooted in the belief that “all men are created equal” and using government to protect the rights of the citizens. When our founding fathers use the term liberty, they were not talking about a collective or about the sins of ancestors. They were…
/r/MensRights05/01/25 09:34 PM
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Warning, this is kinda pedantic: Feminism is sort of the opposite of liberalism. Liberal means valuing the individual and giving them liberties (which is where that root of liberal comes from) with the belief that society at large is better off by empowering individual citizens. Feminism is overtly the opposite, and instead of focusing on giving individuals liberties it focuses on giving a subsection of the population more power.
/r/MensRights05/01/25 08:43 PM
23

Quick, give them more scholarships and priority enrollment!
/r/MensRights05/01/25 08:39 PM
2

BYOD is very common now. Apple in particular switched their paradigm from securing a personalized device to managing identities and roles effectively on a device. Devices now sandbox apps so well that it is pretty common to securely use a personal device for work. I don’t work much with MDM but my company does.
/r/MensRights05/01/25 09:20 AM
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Respectfully, you and I have opposite takes on this. I will never open my partner’s phone and expect the same from her. I trust her. She trusts me. But she is allowed to have conversations with her friends and family with full privacy even from me. I respect that a lot of people aren’t like that though and instead it is a showing of trust to just give each other access to accounts and devices. Also I work in IT/security so I need to keep my devices locked down.
/r/MensRights05/01/25 05:04 AM
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Jesus. That reads like a gleeful codex in how to be psychologically abusive to a spouse.
/r/MensRights05/01/25 02:16 AM
308

Mostly just start listening to men’s issues with the same respect and empathy with which women’s issues are handled.
/r/MensRights04/01/25 07:02 PM
13

The most popular literature genre with women is romance. This battle of the genders article overlooks how much of women’s reading is the equivalent of men getting in The Hub.
/r/MensRights04/01/25 09:49 AM
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OP: I am worried our society is becoming hostile towards boys. commenter: that is fine because I can raise my boys. Me: you should care about how other boys are being raised too. You: ????
/r/MensRights02/01/25 10:16 PM
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So you love your kids enough to raise them in a positive environment but not enough to advocate for them to live in a world where people are treated fairly? To me “loving” children is giving them a world that is awesome to be in, that includes wanting society to treat men, women, boys, and girls well.
/r/MensRights02/01/25 08:56 PM
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Women absolutely expose themselves online to men all the time, it is just seen as advertising for their OF instead of harassment.
/r/EverydayMisandry30/12/24 06:57 PM
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Women don’t perform better academically, they get better grades. It is a subtle but important difference. Blind grading slightly favors boys. Boys still out perform girls on standardized tests too which indicates the impact of that bias in grading is having on access to college and scholarships.
/r/MensRights29/12/24 11:05 PM
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Yes! We need to end people’s compulsion to virtue signal that they are a simping white knight. It is okay to talk about men’s issues without constantly indicating that “women have it worse” out of fear of chastisement.
/r/MensRights29/12/24 03:59 AM
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By almost every objective metric men (in the west) have it much worse: suicide rate, work hard jobs, less access to education, homelessness, social support, government and institutional support, conscription, reproductive autonomy, alimony, penal system biases, legal system biases, grade inflation, women raping or abusing men is often a punchline …
/r/MensRights29/12/24 03:57 AM
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Men absolutely do not support men no matter what either. Men have a very famously and well studied outgroup bias. Women have an in group bias. It is always projection.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/12/24 09:55 PM
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Feminism ruined the minds of a generation of women who are now both the most entitled any gender has ever been and yet still believe they are victims of some boogeyman.
/r/MensRights26/12/24 01:31 AM
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Anyone who looks back in history at the role most men played with envy needs to be on medication. Most men died in wars, farm fields, saw mills, factories, mines, ships, ….
/r/MensRights17/12/24 05:09 AM
218

“The kids” after a divorce.
/r/MensRights16/12/24 05:57 PM
7

Yeah! That is the most insidious part of it all. There are cookie cutter opinions that the left is allowed to have, and once we disagree with them on anything we are kicked out of the party (I am progressive/liberal).
/r/MensRights16/12/24 09:38 AM
27

Woah? How can someone be so broken that they think all PIV sex is rape? Are you serious or being hyperbolic?
/r/MensRights16/12/24 04:40 AM
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Articles like this and campaigns like Hillary’s and Kamala’s is why I think democrats are only going to keep losing support. All they can talk about race and gender.
/r/MensRights15/12/24 10:18 PM
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Fiction for female audiences is saturated with stories about women cheating or stringing along multiple men at once. Feminism “liberated” women from monogamy but has locked men into it.
/r/MensRights15/12/24 10:01 PM
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I love this sub for not going down to the level of some of the other gender issue subs and for rejecting posts that are rage bait (OP probably meant well).
/r/MensRights15/12/24 07:11 PM
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In the article it talks about a man in a similar situation “Mr Kay” also having his suit dropped mysteriously. Was there something in the article that makes this about men’s rights?
/r/MensRights15/12/24 11:26 AM
19

If a toddler punches me, I am not swinging back. If a man punches me, I am laying him flat.
/r/MensRights15/12/24 06:59 AM
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There is a rare time and a place for violence against adults. There is no excuse to hit a child. Restrain, sure, but hit? - never.
/r/MensRights15/12/24 03:51 AM
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Adults should not hit children.
/r/MensRights15/12/24 02:56 AM
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Certainly this will spread like wildfire and be all over social media and news cycles for two months like her false allegations were. Right? Edit: “Mangum cannot be prosecuted for perjury now because statute of limitations on perjury charges in North Carolina only lasts around two years.” The statute of limitations for a woman ruining a man’s life with a lie is two years. Yikes.
/r/MensRights13/12/24 03:54 AM
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That matches my personal experience with abuse. I didn’t have a cognitive model to understand that I was a victim of abuse until years later. I was groomed as a child by a woman in her early twenties, sexually and physically assaulted, and alienated from my friends and family. While that was going on I couldn’t see it as abuse because I was a boy and she was a woman. Also, I have to wonder if someone from the outside would have intervened if I was a fifteen year old girl being groomed by a man i…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/12/24 02:06 AM
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Boys perform better on standardized tests than girls and perform better overall when the teacher doesn’t know whose paper she is grading. Other comments hit on the points of improving boys performance in school but I think we also need to take a hard look at teacher and institutional bias.
/r/MensRights11/12/24 04:37 AM
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As a life long Democrat it has been really hard seeing my part devolve into the party of flagrant racism and sexism that it is now. If democrats want to stay relevant they have to ditch the identity politics and return to economic populism and labor policy.
/r/MensRights08/12/24 07:27 PM
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The group with the highest suicide rate is not vulnerable to online hate? That is an interesting take.
/r/EverydayMisandry07/12/24 10:00 PM
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A man might be marginally stronger our hypothetical woman, but the bear is astronomically stronger. The man vs bear meme just shows how horrible some women are at determining risk.
/r/EverydayMisandry06/12/24 09:36 PM
12

The irony that SPLC hatefully applies its rulings based on sex and race.
/r/MensRights03/12/24 03:49 AM
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And literally considered a hate group by the SLPC
/r/MensRights03/12/24 03:09 AM
6

Either way, let’s face it, “man and dog forever.”
/r/EverydayMisandry29/11/24 11:15 PM
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Huh, you take that to be gendered? I always thought “man” in that sentence was the old English use of man which wasn’t gendered and just meant “human.”
/r/EverydayMisandry29/11/24 11:09 PM
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Is there is a better love story than old man and dog?
/r/EverydayMisandry29/11/24 11:08 PM
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There are a lot of women who aren’t misandrists and a lot of men who aren’t misogynists. Let’s be better than the crap this sub calls out.
/r/EverydayMisandry28/11/24 11:00 PM
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Reddit will never give up twox, their investors depend on Reddit keeping its misandrist, femcel bias.
/r/EverydayMisandry27/11/24 11:26 PM
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One of their top rated posts right now is a tirade that says since a teenage boy ate lasagna humanitarian aid shouldn’t be given to men. This the result of no one telling these people they are wrong.
/r/EverydayMisandry27/11/24 10:57 PM
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Well, we found that “systemic discrimination” they always talk about.
/r/MensRights27/11/24 05:04 PM
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When I was in grad school one professor in my program would advocate for “blind grading” grade the students work without looking at the name. Almost no one did it, but it is a fantastic solution to the accidental favoritism that everyone knows happens.
/r/MensRights27/11/24 06:59 AM
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There is a word for a woman who trades access to sex for services. 🤔
/r/MensRights24/11/24 02:47 PM
1

Access to investor and advertiser funding.
/r/MensRights24/11/24 02:14 PM
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There were some male subs that were similar to twox and they were taken down a few (maybe five?) years ago.
/r/MensRights24/11/24 02:12 PM
8

This was actually how I lost my virginity, but it was horrific because it was the first time my foreskin had been pulled all the way down. I didn’t realize really that it was rape until years later because, especially as a kid, the gendered narrative of rape was so strong.
/r/MensRights23/11/24 04:35 PM
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Thank you. People are being so obtuse about what is an obvious play on words of “my body, my choice” which should immediately set the context up to be about the abortion debate. Nick and other Nazis are vile, and his victory lap on social media with YBMC was also vile. But the responses from women’s and feminists subs have been horrid. One that Reddit still hasn’t taken down was a bunch of women coming up with pithy ways for a posters child niece to threaten violence against a child bully if he …
/r/MensRights23/11/24 04:29 PM
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A Nazi. Like a for real Nazi. Edit: Nick Fuentas fans in here? That is not a good look. Edit2: it is funny watching the votes on this comment go up and down. The word Nazi is used incorrectly 99 percent of the time, but every now and then it is correct. This is one of those cases.
/r/MensRights23/11/24 04:18 PM
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Some of the most influential men in history have been lithe, intellectuals dreaming about life and meaning. Don’t let people tell you masculinity is only muscle and blood. Shakespeare, Joyce, Yeats, Byron, Rilke, Lao Tse, Martin Luther King, Jung, Jesus, Marcus Aurelius, etc. Your way of being masculine is the path many of the most famous men in history followed. Own it and never let someone gatekeep masculinity.
/r/MensRights22/11/24 01:55 AM
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If you aren’t adult enough to take responsibility for what you do when you drink then you aren’t adult enough to drink. This notion that no one can consent if they are drunk needs to die. You are responsible for everything else you do when you are drunk, and rightfully so, why is sex somehow an act that only can be willfully engaged in while sober?
/r/MensRights22/11/24 01:00 AM
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There is a misandrist meme going around right now where a woman posts herself doing something that she thinks guys do or get away with that women don’t (#womeninmalefields). So a guy used the same meme and flipped the genders and caught a bunch of heat.
/r/EverydayMisandry22/11/24 12:55 AM
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I used to think it was deplorable to use tactics like ignoring women or treating them coldly to hook their interest, then I tried it. It works. Disturbingly well. Switching from enthusiastically being nice and accommodating to their feelings and schedules to apathetic about their attention and time had a profound, positive change in the way women interact with me. I hate it. It flipped my whole world view on its head. I want to believe in a world where people value and seek out kindness, but whe…
/r/EverydayMisandry22/11/24 12:53 AM
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For the love of god learn good privacy and social media hygiene then engaging with someone on twitter won’t “destroy your life.”
/r/MensRights20/11/24 07:43 PM
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Don’t flatter them. It is more like when you see a pile of vomit you don’t stop and make a vomit castle.
/r/MensRights20/11/24 04:58 PM
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They don’t realize when they are bragging about trauma dumping on all of their female friends about abuse that male abuse victims don’t have anywhere to go. We just have to suffer in silence and we get mocked and invalidated if we ever reach out for support. I am glad they have support but it isn’t the win they think it is to boast about how much more support they have access to than a male victim.
/r/MensRights20/11/24 05:08 AM
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It is probably an unpopular take but I think it is more selfish to expect people to keep being in pain just because someone likes their company. And yes, a family member and friend of mine have committed suicide. It hurt of course but I don’t think they were vile people for succumbing to illness and pain.
/r/MensRights19/11/24 11:33 PM
13

I had similar experiences in couples therapy. Now I will only see therapists who are men which makes it uniquely challenging to access mental healthcare.
/r/MensRights18/11/24 05:26 PM
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I am listening to a YouTube video while getting ready for my day and you might find it interesting. It is by a feminist who is a therapist and social worker who challenged herself to empathize with men: https://youtu.be/oFHbyUAQqE0?si=XFjsftd8qzmXuWT9 .
/r/MensRights18/11/24 05:08 PM
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Intersectional feminism has been the greatest gift to the wealthy. Ironically Marxist thinking is abused to protect the ruling class by convincing the ruled class to fight themselves. They keep getting richer and more powerful while the rest of us squabble endlessly about which genitals or skin colors are to blame for the worlds problems.
/r/EverydayMisandry17/11/24 06:03 PM
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Don’t tell children to stab each other. I can’t believe internet discourse has reached the point where that needs to be said.
/r/MensRights16/11/24 02:08 AM
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I posted in everydaymisandry one concerning screenshot. The “your body my choice” trolling , a deplorable way to bully someone, kicked off a firestorm of people saying they will shoot or stab anyone who says that to them. Reddit has taken a few of those posts down but some are definitely still riding high (see one in my post history. I have the original post bookmarked and it is still up).
/r/MensRights16/11/24 12:37 AM
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Since the election it has been really bad. I reported a bunch of comments six days ago of a bunch of women coming up with violent “comebacks” to tell one of their nieces if a boy in her class says “your body my choice.” Literally advocating for a child to threaten another child with a gun or knife over some idiotic classroom bullying. Reddit left it up. I posted it in everydaymisandry if anyone is curious. Edit: the other thing I have seen a lot of is women talking about how they are going to st…
/r/MensRights16/11/24 12:29 AM
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It is more online than IRL and some of us have the privilege of social circles that are less saturated with misandry.
/r/MensRights16/11/24 12:25 AM
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It is a good time to take a break from social media then. It is good to take a few days off from time to time anyways. Uninstall Reddit, Instagram, fb, tiktok, whatever from your phone and throw yourself into a book or video game or tv series. Fill your cup.
/r/MensRights16/11/24 12:23 AM
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Take a break from the internet or control your feed to limit exposure to the misandry. It is bad right now. All over Reddit I keep seeing posts openly calling for violence against men. Take care of yourself man. You are worth more than their hate. <3
/r/MensRights15/11/24 11:49 PM
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That is absolutely not true. It is well documented that talk therapy is one of the few branches of medicine which is not well tested on men and the tests that are performed on men show it yields worse results than it does for women. DrK has an entire episode about how therapy is now evolving from a therapeutic designed solely for women, to something that works with both genders, to now realizing men and women have different needs from mental healthcare.
/r/MensRights15/11/24 11:23 PM
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With some sources on this, it would make great copy pasta for other threads.
/r/MensRights15/11/24 05:47 PM
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The left will never get traction while they ironically have a zealot’s obsession with original sin for having the wrong genitals or skin color. That is my “side” and I am ashamed of what it has become.
/r/MensRights14/11/24 11:30 PM
2

Can you link me to a comment where someone said that “threatening rape” is a joke? I think people aren’t answering you because no one said what you claim was said.
/r/EverydayMisandry14/11/24 09:52 PM
3

No one said that but you.
/r/EverydayMisandry14/11/24 07:37 PM
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I am surprised I have to say this but judging by some of the comments below, here goes: yes, bullies as horrible, but adults should not be advocating for children to stab, shoot, or threaten to stab/shoot other children. If a child asks you for advice on how to handle bullying do NOT tell them to be or threaten violence.
/r/EverydayMisandry14/11/24 06:09 PM
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It doesn’t matter what the genders are, if you tell a child to stab or threaten to stab another child I have problem with you.
/r/EverydayMisandry14/11/24 06:04 PM
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To me the difference is one foul statement is bullying and mean spirited, the other is a threat of violence and the “adults” in this situation might have accidentally sent the niece out the door to school with an endorsement to shoot or stab a bully. I hate bullies as more than most people but this puts both the niece and bully in physical and legal danger.
/r/EverydayMisandry14/11/24 05:41 PM
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Sure, but the post in question is sending a child into a confrontation with a bully with the tacit message to use or threaten deadly violence instead of appealing to authorities to intervene. I think there is some nuance there, because bullies deserve consequences, but telling a kid to shoot or stab a bully (or threaten to shoot or stab them) not only puts that child who is bullying at risk but also puts the “niece” in danger of violent retaliation or even criminal charges.
/r/EverydayMisandry14/11/24 05:37 PM
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Maybe I am old fashioned but if a kid drops a line like “your body my choice” to bully another kid, I don’t think the bully should be shot or sliced. He should be suspended, expelled, or arrested.
/r/EverydayMisandry14/11/24 04:20 PM
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The proper response to someone threatening to hurt you is to call the police. You don’t hand to hand a “side” in this. Furthermore, if men started a chat about murdering and maiming women who said some pithy and vile slogan, what do you think Reddit would do? Edit: just to be super clear, I think Reddit should take down posts that glorify assault regardless of who posts them. Stochastic terrorism is real and there has already been at least murder related to this “movement.”
/r/EverydayMisandry14/11/24 04:14 PM
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Okay. The more interesting question is how would you respond to someone online venting to you about being SAed and someone venting to you about being falsely accused of SA.
/r/MensRights14/11/24 07:47 AM
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Sure. But that isn’t a response to what you asked. You just slid that “friend” detail in now. Want to move the goal posts further? I will take a shot at it whenever you finish setting it up.
/r/MensRights14/11/24 07:42 AM
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It is okay to not believe or disbelieve either party and depend on a proper investigation and a fair trial if one is necessary. Social media has rotted peoples brains to think we always have to have a “side” on every headline.
/r/MensRights14/11/24 07:38 AM
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This is terrifying and stochastic terrorism. Fortunately I haven’t been able to find any of this content outside of reports about it which gives me hope that social media companies are actually taking these death threats seriously.
/r/MensRights13/11/24 10:31 PM
1

Which country? There is still a draft in America and I believe almost every (if not every) western country.
/r/MensRights13/11/24 01:39 AM
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Sexism and racism are getting REALLY trendy since the US election.
/r/MensRights12/11/24 07:29 PM
74

I think in some states if you demonstrate someone is mentally unwell in a way that they could be violent towards themselves or others the state will confiscate their firearms. This is probably passes that bar easily.
/r/MensRights12/11/24 07:28 PM
8

And MGTOW has already been labeled a hate group: https://www.splcenter.org/fighting-hate/extremist-files/ideology/male-supremacy
/r/MensRights11/11/24 04:47 AM
2

I am sure they do. My statement was about people I know and I am progressive so most of my friends don’t follow traditional gender roles. I suspect most other couples settle into more traditional gender norms which likely leads to women doing more cooking and cleaning and men doing more home maintenance.
/r/EverydayMisandry11/11/24 02:57 AM
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Yesterday my feed pushed me towards a post about women ramming into men on the street. Social media companies need to take some responsibly here and ban these posters. This is stochastic terrorism.
/r/MensRights10/11/24 03:38 PM
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That is what really gets me. I am progressive, most of my friends are feminists. Most of the women I know depend WAY more on the men in their lives for domestic labor like cooking, cleaning, and child/pet care, but feminism has them so brainwashed that they don’t see how self sufficient the men in their lives are. What is worse is how often they will joke about how “well trained” their husbands/boyfriends are, but “well trained” is just being a goddamn adult and doing the things life requires.
/r/EverydayMisandry09/11/24 04:44 PM
1

Not to mention most of the people who consume more violent porn are women.
/r/MensRights09/11/24 03:11 AM
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They won’t. I worry this will only make them resent men more and run more misandrist campaigns.
/r/MensRights06/11/24 02:29 PM
13

Check out /r/malefashionadvice
/r/MensRights04/11/24 05:37 AM
2

That is not the Trump campaign, that is Fox News. (Just to be clear, I don’t think republicans have a good platform for men either).
/r/MensRights04/11/24 03:54 AM
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I agree completely. I am a Democrat but the Harris campaign highlighted how out of touch the left has become. They are playing with fire to try to degrade men into voting for them. It would be so easy to come up with a platform that is pro-labor, reforms the draft, and focuses on improving schools for boys that aligns perfectly with progressive ideals. Instead we got: “vote for a woman if you are a real man” and “if you don’t vote for Kamala, women won’t date you.”
/r/MensRights03/11/24 07:10 PM
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I am a progressive, leftist, liberal in my early forties. Economically progressive but socially libertarian. The left has gone off the goddamn rails in The West though.
/r/MensRights03/11/24 07:05 PM
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Yeah, the democrats have already been trying to coerce and shame men into voting for Harris. If Trump wins I suspect the “gender war” is going to hit a fever pitch because of the narrative being spun by the Harris campaign.
/r/MensRights03/11/24 07:01 PM
51

Have you ever met a Russian woman?
/r/MensRights30/10/24 08:13 AM
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Isn’t that already happening? Gay bars and clubs are saturated with cis women who go to grope gay guys because they think it is okay or funny. Pride has turned into a space for cis/hetero women to cosplay as gay.
/r/MensRights26/10/24 03:41 PM
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I would be shocked if science left it up.
/r/MensRights26/10/24 02:56 PM
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I don’t know this, but I always assumed it was based on hospitalizations. Women often overdose or cut which often don’t work but still result in medical care. Men tend to blow their brains out or hang themselves, which sends them straight to the morgue. There is something to be said about the difference between self harm and attempted suicide.
/r/MensRights25/10/24 02:59 PM
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It is a lot easier to learn now than it was back then. I tried to teach myself to program in the 90s and skimmed along the surface, got a computer science degree, and have been an SE now for about twenty years. There are some fun sites to learn on if you want to pick it up as a hobby again. It is all gamified and kinda fun.
/r/MensRights24/10/24 02:49 AM
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Sure, but I prefer this tweet from Genghis Kahn: “That Lincoln guy is wack and everything he says is a lie.”
/r/MensRights24/10/24 01:22 AM
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Which play? The first few results I see online says “African proverb” but, you know, internet is known to lie. Edit: this reddit thread explores the origins. Though the highest voted response includes a broken link. https://www.reddit.com/r/answers/comments/gync1j/whats_the_origin_of_the_phrase_the_child_who_is/
/r/MensRights24/10/24 01:10 AM
126

The software industry is falling apart right now too. It filled with people who lacked skills but had the right “boxes” now the whole industry is burning. Turns out it is difficult to write software.
/r/MensRights24/10/24 12:18 AM
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For anyone else who wants to know the source of that quote: it is apparently from an “African proverb.” That is a powerful sentence.
/r/MensRights24/10/24 12:17 AM
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There are SOO many easy policy wins right now for men it is absurd neither party is willing to try: alimony reform, right to paper abortion, a new title 9 for boys, boys education, equitable access to shelters, veterans issues, labor, … fucking anything?
/r/MensRights23/10/24 04:04 AM
46

90 percent of divorces are initiated by the wife. Seems relevant.
/r/MensRights21/10/24 03:42 PM
103

Gneiting said. “And then after I got the gun, I just pulled her into a hug because I thought, this little girl has a mom somewhere that doesn’t realize she’s having a breakdown and she’s hurting people.” … That is a school shooter and murderer she is talking about.
/r/MensRights20/10/24 05:07 PM
33

The fanfic community, which is mostly women, is saturated with content sexualizing underage male characters.
/r/EverydayMisandry17/10/24 10:27 PM
1

What hard science do you have your graduate degree in? Science as a process is the most effective framework for modeling the behavior of systems. Without science, you wouldn’t be able to type that comment and communicate with people around the world, to fly across the ocean, to treat illnesses.
/r/MensRights16/10/24 07:20 PM
20

By artist she means painter (I assume). I know so little about modern painting i can’t really contribute much more than to point out that most of the renaissance mastered painted deep into their golden years. In fact, many of the the most timeless pieces came from masters working deep into their 60s.
/r/MensRights16/10/24 05:18 AM
6

If someone tells the average man in crisis to keep going because people depend on him shows it shows how gravely they don’t understand men’s mental health struggles. Most of us feel like our only value in many relationships is as a wallet.
/r/MensRights16/10/24 12:26 AM
289

“Bodily Autonomy.”
/r/MensRights14/10/24 01:06 AM
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Correct. At no point in there did I say democratic policies emasculate men. The clause about emasculation refers to the video that this post is about.
/r/MensRights13/10/24 07:16 PM
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None that I can think of. Why?
/r/MensRights13/10/24 06:01 PM
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Yes.
/r/MensRights13/10/24 04:48 PM
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I get that 500 internal server error too. Copied and pasted it again here: https://www.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/1b142j7/study_shows_fifty_percent_of_men_self_report/ Not sure what is wrong above. I don’t post much so it is pretty easy to get to in my history if this link doesn’t work either.
/r/MensRights13/10/24 05:38 AM
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The democrats have a slam dunk with men if they would do the bare minimum and appeal to them with policy instead of trying to emasculate them. I am progressive and it is becoming really difficult for me to find the will to keep voting for these misandrists.
/r/MensRights12/10/24 11:26 PM
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And there are some women who cosplay as autistic, meanwhile it is an agonizing diagnosis for boys/men.
/r/EverydayMisandry12/10/24 09:03 PM
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Stop trying to compare and sort people by suffering. One of the blights of intersectional feminism has been the need to compartmentalize people by their gender and sex then sort them into a list of who deserves compassion and who deserves ire. People are complicated. Much more complicated than their genitals and pigment. There are systemic advantages to being a man and systemic advantages to being a woman. That has always been true. Scrub that crap out of your brain. You will be much happier.
/r/MensRights12/10/24 05:00 PM
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Take a break from the internet. This is going to be a long fight and we need you. Offline misandry is more subtle.
/r/MensRights12/10/24 04:17 PM
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“There has been a lot of justifiable concern about low attainment among boys, but we really need to move on from looking at averages, and ask which specific groups of boys and girls are falling behind.” There is the money shot. This was about making sure that as a society we shift towards helping boys who are falling behind in school that keep it about the girls.
/r/MensRights11/10/24 03:16 AM
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If this included town hall style sessions with men, I think it could be successful. It won’t though. I am bracing for a bunch of cringe takes that imply I am a misogynist if I don’t vote for Kamala.
/r/MensRights11/10/24 01:40 AM
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Paid leave for a call for political violence based on gender. I can’t wait to hear how the patriarchy is to blame for this one.
/r/MensRights10/10/24 08:56 PM
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Any details on what they are doing or why? I have been doxed in the past from things I posted on Reddit and it was a rough a ride because I didn’t have my social media profiles locked down very well. I strongly suggest you rotate all passwords, set accounts to private where you can, remove profile pictures that include your face, change displayed names to be initials or other obfuscated values, etc.
/r/MensRights10/10/24 08:07 PM
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My partner is a professional medical researcher who designs studies and her and I reviewed one of the seminal papers pushing some of these outrageous rape and SA claims (in this case I believe it was a study that concluded some egregious percentage of men have committed rape) and posted about it here. https://www.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/1b142j7/study_shows_fifty_percent_of_men_self_report/ The Tl;dr in this case is they modified a standard questionaire but didn’t disclose how. They incl…
/r/MensRights09/10/24 09:06 PM
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Anyone woman who talks about man flu needs to be shamed for bleeding every month and not being able to open pickle jars.
/r/MensRights07/10/24 11:22 PM
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If you are in America this is textbook sexual harassment, if you complain and they fire you without some other documented reason you have a sturdy lawsuit available to you for compensation. I get the impression that you, like me, are really averse to “rocking the boat” though, so I really respect that you may not play that card, just know it is available to you (if you are in the US). Even if you don’t complain, document it and save as many records as you can about it. If this becomes a pattern …
/r/MensRights07/10/24 09:17 PM
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Boys are diagnosed as autistic four times more often than girls, yet on social media it seems like every other woman claims she is autistic. Erasure of a predominately male disability is disgusting but then women glamorize it and use it as an excuse for antisocial behaviors (all the while it is still easy to find feminist spaces talking about the “ick” of male autism). I feel bad for man dealing with that crap.
/r/MensRights06/10/24 11:09 PM
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Silver lining, I reported two comments literally cheering on the murder and Reddit took them down promptly.
/r/MensRights05/10/24 03:55 PM
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You are right. I go out of my way to have my ears in both of the political echo chambers and both sides only really talk about women’s votes. I think we have lost the culture war so much it isn’t seen as appropriate to discuss men as a group unless it is to villainize us.
/r/MensRights05/10/24 05:37 AM
3

Da fuq?
/r/MensRights04/10/24 10:10 PM
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For anyone not sure what this is, like me: this is an expansion of Canadian laws “against hate” which includes speech to possibly carry a life sentence. The link provided by OP includes the Conservative Party’s warning about the bill passing. I don’t know the details, but thought this would be helpful to other people like me who don’t have context. I am an American progressive and this looks like an authoritarian power grab by the left in Canada.
/r/MensRights04/10/24 09:08 PM
187

What a lucky pedophile. I wonder how the pedophile got so lucky?
/r/MensRights04/10/24 09:44 AM
139

It is thinly veiled prostitution.
/r/MensRights03/10/24 11:43 PM
49

And pushing out the members if those communities in the process. They are the actual cultural imperialism that they decry.
/r/MensRights03/10/24 12:57 PM
37

Men probably make up almost 100 percent of the state sponsored killings because of war.
/r/MensRights03/10/24 06:07 AM
169

Pride is now mostly for cis women to virtue signal and cosplay as being gay. They invaded every space in the last ten or twenty years.
/r/MensRights03/10/24 06:03 AM
3

Wow, thanks for this. I see the nurse pay gap brought up a lot but didn’t know the context.
/r/MensRights29/09/24 09:06 PM
17

This is your daily reminder that despite the narrative in movies and on television, men are more likely to be victims of violent crime than women.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/09/24 09:04 PM
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I don’t like this. Relationships and breakups are too messy to pick a side in most cases. Go to the police if a crime occurred but otherwise these gossip circles devolve into doxing and witch hunts. Not my jam.
/r/MensRights29/09/24 12:00 AM
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That Facebook group gets taken down, if you change two letters it will stay up though.
/r/MensRights28/09/24 11:58 PM
95

HeForShe. Who thinks of this stuff? That hashtag or slogan removes the idea that masculinity can be about men creating an identity that works for them, not an identity that is convenient for a woman.
/r/MensRights26/09/24 11:43 PM
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Look at corporal punishment rates by gender, it is the clearest example I can think of that boys are disciplined significantly more and harder than girls. https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/20976255/ “ Overall, boys were more frequently punished corporally than were girls, and mothers used corporal punishment more frequently than did fathers.”
/r/MensRights26/09/24 03:19 PM
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I am not great at identifying fallacies but I think you might be committing the “no true Scotsman” fallacy.
/r/MensRights24/09/24 06:34 PM
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Men stop dating and start supporting each other which provokes the SPLC, and many other platforms, to label those men a “hate group.” A man complains about the lack of mental health support for men and people screech “men need to help men,” also, men start to help other men and they screech “misogyny!”
/r/MensRights24/09/24 04:03 PM
1

Why is that?
/r/MensRights23/09/24 11:00 PM
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Looking at OP’s history, OP is probably a karma farming bot.
/r/MensRights23/09/24 09:37 PM
10

Naw, as bad as the situation is, I firmly believe people should have full autonomy over what is done with their life’s savings when they pass away, even if it isn’t “fair.” I appreciate you looking out for me though. I am even the executor on my parents will because they know my sister is too irresponsible and frankly evil to be trusted. Kinda a fucked up situation.
/r/MensRights22/09/24 10:07 PM
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I am not close to my family and I have completely cut my sister out of my life because she is incredibly manipulative. She is getting completely wrung out in divorce court right now because she cheated on her now exhusband while he was deployed. My dad is a veteran, I get the impression he is incensed by her decision. My parents have given her obscene amounts of financial support too, so this divorce is effectively emptying their wallets too.
/r/MensRights22/09/24 07:31 PM
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That is terrifying. If her claims of her mother having a favorite child are true, I feel for her. My feminist mother has told me that my sister will be getting significantly more from my parents estate. My sister has had four divorces and is unable to hold a job despite her masters degree my parents paid for (I had to pay for my three degrees). My point in making this personal is you better believe there is NO WAY I could take my sister to court because my mom’s feminist ideals interfered with a…
/r/MensRights22/09/24 06:29 PM
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“Soft sciences” have a major credibility problem right now due to the lack of reproducibility of studies whose results are still esteemed as axiomatic and fallacious results from poorly conducted studies. In my short post history you can see one case where the conclusion of a study was that nearly half of men under the age of thirty five self reported committing sexual assault, so my partner (medical researcher) and I dug into the methods on the paper and it was absurd. I won’t go into the detai…
/r/MensRights22/09/24 07:15 AM
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Snoop served time. Like literally his first call with Dre was from prison.
/r/MensRights22/09/24 02:08 AM
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Why oh why didn’t I take the blue pill.
/r/EverydayMisandry18/09/24 08:54 PM
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You necroposted a manifesto? Interesting move. Make a post about all of that on this sub and I will talk to you there if you want. Edit: also, I didn’t post about suicide awareness which makes me wonder if that is just copy-pasta or just some AI drivel.
/r/MensRights17/09/24 07:13 PM
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Men are hyper accountable in our society. This sort of made sense when men had more access to resources and power, but now men have the same (even less access to resources), but we are still held to higher srandards
/r/MensRights17/09/24 02:21 PM
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There is a really interesting story about some researchers who got a grant to study restoring American the American Great Plains, and one of their conclusions is that bison were an ecological keystone, that, since removed the best equivalent we have are cattle. While not perfect, land that is well maintained and allows cattle grazing was significantly easier to restore than prairie lands isolated from domestic livestock.
/r/MensRights15/09/24 09:28 PM
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I am certain this journalist is going to write a piece about how women’s addiction to fast fashion is also a leading causes of climate change (and slave labor). Right?
/r/MensRights15/09/24 07:45 PM
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What country are you in? Most countries don’t draft women.
/r/MensRights14/09/24 09:38 AM
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Conscription. Men are legally compelled to kill and die for the state.
/r/MensRights14/09/24 09:13 AM
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I adore this sub that this, even headed, factual take is the highest voted. Stay on the high road.
/r/MensRights14/09/24 01:50 AM
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Thank you for what you do. Keep letting us know how to make it easier to keep this community safe.
/r/EverydayMisandry12/09/24 05:11 PM
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This was one of the hardest parts of living through false allegations for me. I knew I couldn’t confide in ANYONE about the mental health hell that came with the harassment.
/r/MensRights12/09/24 04:52 PM
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Are we dating the same guy. It is a Facebook community which basically gossips and doxes men.
/r/MensRights08/09/24 10:45 PM
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I am progressive and I completely agree. Republicans seem to be ambivalent towards men’s issues while democrats are actively undermining men.
/r/MensRights08/09/24 06:41 PM
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I don’t think either party has an iota of space for men’s issues on their platform, it is making it really difficult for me to bother to vote this year.
/r/MensRights08/09/24 06:11 PM
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I wonder if it is time to start calling legislators. I am in a progressive state so I doubt my legislature would do anything.
/r/MensRights08/09/24 05:08 PM
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We are entering dangerous territory here where men need to pay to not be doxed and harassed. I feel for OP, but turning AWDTSG into a revenue stream for Facebook terrifies me.
/r/MensRights08/09/24 04:38 PM
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I have nothing to give you except the promise that if you are ever in my town I would buy you as many of whatever beverage you choose. Godspeed brother. Edit: and upvotes. I offer you upvotes.
/r/MensRights08/09/24 02:06 AM
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There is a tapestry of reasons. From a very young age boys are taught one of the worst things that could happen to them is to be “beat up by a girl.” Because boys may be more violent by nature but teachers, coaches, and parents work tirelessly to teach boys to control their anger; when girls are violent it rarely has a modicum of the consequences. Beating men is accompanied by laugh tracks in most tv shows and movies, beating a woman in one of the most horrific things that can be depicted in fic…
/r/MensRights07/09/24 06:43 PM
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There is an irony here, if everyone you meet has main character syndrome, it sounds like you are the one who doesn’t realize they aren’t the main character.
/r/MensRights07/09/24 04:53 PM
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Contemporary society is architected to make girls the main characters: teachers have a pro girl bias, the education system is designed for girls, boys spaces have been systematically dismantled, kids are taught masculinity is bad, men are perceived as predators by default but women caregivers, many scholarships are set aside for girls despite them making up 60 percent of college admissions, …. Hate to be the bearer of bad news, but girls ARE the main characters in our clown society, and many gro…
/r/MensRights07/09/24 04:19 PM
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What do you mean proven rape cases is impossible to determine? By them being “proven” rape cases they are by definition easy to determine accurately (confession, security footage, etc). There are three statistics here: rape allegations that were proven correct, rape allegations that were proven false, and rape allegations that cannot be proven correct or false. You are making the assumption that all of the unprovable allegations of rape are correct which is fallacious at best and quite possibly …
/r/MensRights07/09/24 12:33 AM
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The first sentence of your own bbc source proves you don’t understand the study those numbers come from: “Over the past 20 years, only 2-10% of rape accusations (Prof Ford's lawyer says she believes this was attempted rape) are proven to be fake, argue the authors of a 2010 US study.” There is a difference between a proven fake allegation and an allegation that is fake but not proven. That number of allegations that are fake but not proven fake is likely impossible to determine. I am not going t…
/r/MensRights07/09/24 12:00 AM
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Where does that statistic come from?
/r/MensRights06/09/24 10:24 PM
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AWDTSG misses those days.
/r/MensRights06/09/24 09:28 PM
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Seriously? Menslib is basically a left wing cuck fantasy sub. Those boys aren’t allowed to say anything unless their mommy-mods let them.
/r/MensRights06/09/24 08:13 PM
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Maybe a lawyer will consult for free? Make sure you keep a VERY good record trail of all interactions like that.
/r/MensRights06/09/24 05:19 PM
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First, hopefully the sentence will actually match the crime. Second, this is the first I heard of this story so I googled her name and holy hell this should be a wake up call for all of us about how effective filters and makeup are: https://static.foxnews.com/foxnews.com/content/uploads/2022/11/Courtney-Clenney-split.jpg
/r/MensRights06/09/24 05:05 PM
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The metoo witch hunt. An ex from five or ten years back stalked me, found my ex gfs, convinced a bunch of them that I was a serial rapist, and they all, independently started sending me harassing and threatening messages. An ex that I thought would be the last person to have my back, sent me a message telling me what was going on. I lost a lot of friendships because “believeAllWomen” and I barely have sex anymore. I don’t have a lot of friendships either because I saw how quickly people will thr…
/r/MensRights05/09/24 01:37 PM
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It is absolute hell. I don’t want to overstate this because this comparison falls apart in some obvious ways, but there have been many other times in history where a privileged class is above reproach because of the influence inherent in their race or caste. It is disgusting and dehumanizing. The most vile periods of our history are prefaced with elevation of one class at the cost of others until violence against the oppressed class is normalized. Men who advocate to equalize college admissions …
/r/MensRights05/09/24 01:18 AM
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It is hell, but ignore it. Do your best to keep your focus off of the personal crap that happened and is happening between you and her. Talking to her about it has a pretty low chance of resolving anything but a high chance of blowing up in your face, especially because most HR departments have a bias towards women, and management often values “diversity.” Do your best to be excruciatingly professional whenever you deal with her directly or indirectly. If you have a coworker you can trust it mig…
/r/MensRights04/09/24 06:52 PM
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The research was published in 2007, so, any day now….
/r/MensRights04/09/24 01:35 PM
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What do you mean?
/r/MensRights04/09/24 12:43 AM
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Some of the early leaders in second wave feminism published papers and books that involved treating the Y chromosome as a disease and culling the male population down to manageable 5 to 10 percent of the population. “The future is female” was not a quote about equality.
/r/MensRights02/09/24 04:42 PM
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Don’t brigade. Reddit admins have a strong anti man bias and they will tear down our spaces in a second if we brigade. Yes, it is a hideous double standards, but we should do the best we can to take responsibility for this community and help the mods. Please take this post down or remove the explicit mention of the sub you are talking about.
/r/MensRights31/08/24 04:10 PM
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I never understood the hate for dogs. They are one of the most fiercely loving and protective creatures. They are one of the most intelligent species on the planet. They organize in social structures very effectively and form complicated and deep bonds with us and one another. It just reveals how vile someone is if they think comparing me to a dog is an insult.
/r/MensRights31/08/24 11:08 AM
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Oddly pre1800s that sentence was more acceptable than 1800-2000. The Victorians overhauled much of language, including prohibiting they/them as a singular pronoun. From the eighteenth to the twentieth centuries using they/them in the singular was incorrect. When I was in school in the 90s English teachers would dock points for doing it, I had English professors in the 2000s do the same. Language evolves.
/r/MensRights31/08/24 02:02 AM
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How old are you? He/him and man/men have been used as gender neutral and gendered terms in my lifetime. When I was an undergraduate some of the most brilliant feminists I know were grading my papers and telling me to not use they/them as a singular form. They weren’t correcting me to protect the patriarchy, they were correcting me because as recent as 2010, in academic settings, it was still being taught to never use they/them in the singular. Language evolves, the return to they/them as a singu…
/r/MensRights31/08/24 01:08 AM
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I am not “defending” anything except maybe giving grace to people who used he/him as a gender neutral singular pronoun in the past and people who still do it today. Intent matters. There was no linguistic tool in English so most people used he/him without an iota of malice or misogyny. Appeal to tradition fallacy would be me saying “since we have always used he/him for gender neutral singular pronouns, but I said no such thing. There is another comment thread where I even say it is a natural and…
/r/MensRights31/08/24 12:21 AM
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How is it misogynistic to know the that they/them wasn’t used in the singular until the early 2000s? Or is it misogynistic to believe intent matters in speech?
/r/MensRights30/08/24 11:47 PM
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Language takes time to adapt. I find they/them for singular to be really clunky, but I am in my mid forties with a obscene amount of years in college where I was told to never use they/them in the singular. I have no doubt in a few more decades when people like me have died off they/them as a gender neutral pronoun will be much more common. Edit: and to be really clear - I think this is a good evolution of language. English has needed a gender neutral singular pronoun. I just have A LOT of condi…
/r/MensRights30/08/24 11:45 PM
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“ Fairness, now; if that's discriminatory to males, wouldn't defaulting to male pronouns (like English has done for centuries) be discriminatory to females?” That is the thread I am replying to. “Like English has done for centuries.” Though the question in the thread is about present tense.
/r/MensRights30/08/24 11:41 PM
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Historically that is not true. They/them was exclusively for plural pronouns. It wasn’t until the early 2000s or maybe 2010 when they/them became either plural or gender neutral. Here we are talking about historical use of language, so, before 2000 there really wasn’t a gender neutral word for a single person.
/r/MensRights30/08/24 11:37 PM
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I disagree. I believe intent is almost everything when it comes to offensive speech and I don’t think the default to he/him was to belittle women or esteem men but just a natural consequence of English lacking gender neutral pronouns for people. The default to she/her often, though definitely not always, is done to esteem women. It is too bad that there is a massive linguistic hole in English like gender neutral pronouns for a person.
/r/MensRights30/08/24 11:30 PM
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The problem we face is many of us need to maintain anonymity because we could lose our jobs or family for advocating against MGM and the draft or for paternity tests. Until we can achieve not losing our livelihood over our political beliefs, we really can’t accomplish much more than to keep improving awareness.
/r/MensRights28/08/24 11:38 PM
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There are strong biases in enforcement and prosecution of DV. Women have been shown to be the most likely instigator in mutual violence, but the man ends up in jail when he hits back and she ends up with the house and kids, and lesbian couples have by far the highest rates of domestic violence. Those facts combine to paint a picture that contrasts starkly with the conviction rates of DV by gender.
/r/MensRights20/08/24 11:33 PM
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I am still working on that. I used to be a male feminist, an “ally” and some of the damage done when I clung to communities that despised me for my gender is still present in my psyche. It gets better every day and every time I stand up for myself and men.
/r/MensRights17/08/24 05:05 PM
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I am progressive and I struggled with this quite a bit from around 2010 until 2021. I, of course, understood that there was no reason to feel ashamed of being a man or masculinity, but felt dissonance because my echo chambers and my friend groups all felt very comfortable saying the most heinous things about men. I used to enjoy crooked media’s podcasts, but around 2020 they started becoming brazenly misandrist and anti white. Being exposed to all of that jejune dribble got in my head and I stil…
/r/MensRights17/08/24 05:02 PM
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Attraction to attractive people in normal, but the people “objectifying” these men (autocorrect just changed men to women, JFK), are many of the same that demonize “the male gaze.”
/r/MensRights16/08/24 08:01 PM
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A subtle form of the blue tax is that men need more calories than women. If we start subsidizing tampons because women need them just for being women, we should be subsidizing an additional 400 calories a day for men who need that food just for being men. We all have to pay for somethings outside of our control.
/r/MensRights14/08/24 06:42 PM
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Unless there is a leak or whistleblower I doubt we will know. Basic corporate greed, like Boeing, could also be the cause.
/r/MensRights13/08/24 02:27 PM
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I have been adjacent to blatant gender and race discrimination hiring. I am a principal software engineer and regularly and responsible for administering the technical component of interviews. This involves the candidate solving some simple coding problems and me asking them about their solution. Really standard stuff that I have done for about five or ten years. Anyways, my company was hiring for an QA SE II (junior engineer responsible for writing code that tests code). There were several cand…
/r/MensRights12/08/24 10:56 PM
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It is deplorable and most social media has similar policies that protect misandry and bigotry so long as it has the “correct” victims. Edit: I refused to swallow that double standard and instead swallowed a redpill.
/r/MensRights07/08/24 11:48 PM
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Apologies if it seemed like for a moment my comment was anything other than a sardonic exposé of the irony of “white male privilege” and the fact that it has become not just acceptable but glorified to hate on them. Really it is hideous that we live in a world where we only protect certain groups from hate.
/r/MensRights07/08/24 11:47 PM
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The content policy on Reddit for hate specifically says it only protects “marginalized groups.” “White male privilege” at its finest.
/r/MensRights07/08/24 11:25 PM
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That is a mighty nice gate you are keeping. There are plenty of progressives that hold to egalitarianism over feminism and have more nuanced perspectives than the very broad brush with which you are painting us. You might be surprised how many guys in this sub are progressive.
/r/MensRights05/08/24 03:10 AM
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ShoeOnHead the YouTuber is the only one I can think of. She isn’t exactly pro-male as much as she just isn’t anti male and regularly calls the left and feminism out for being anti male. Edit: a link for you https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=rQv8VuLpKN4
/r/MensRights04/08/24 11:55 PM
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That data simply doesn’t exist and you should be skeptical of anyone who says they have it. People who falsely accuse rarely recant their accusation. This means almost every data point has an enormous error bar. You might be able to find fbi crime stats about the number of reports of DV have proven to be falsified (like the false accuser exposed themself via text messaging or on camera) but it is reasonable to assume that rarely occurs.
/r/MensRights30/07/24 11:37 AM
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This is one of the darkest things I have found on the internet in a long time.
/r/EverydayMisandry29/07/24 12:08 AM
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Yup. I am looking into tooling now to erase my Reddit history and leave the platform for good. It is a constant drain on my mental health. The MRAs communities here are really the only thing that keeps me on this horrid site. Edit: the irony that this post was taken down.
/r/MensRights27/07/24 04:55 AM
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The dates on some of your sources are painfully old, but it wouldn’t surprise me if research into female on male DV has been totally defunded at this point.
/r/MensRights19/07/24 10:01 PM
1

All that sensation you have that is uncomfortable when it is exposed, those are nerves that are still alive. Circumcised men’s nerves have “died off” from the constant abrasion. That discomfort you feel, that they don’t, is also a measure of how much more sensation you feel during sex.
/r/MensRights17/07/24 01:01 AM
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There is a double standard for this kind of rhetoric. Some women are absolutely allowed to make posts like yours and not qualify with “some men.” Remember now notAllMen was villainized. The same rhetorical courtesy is not returned to men. We aren’t allowed to say “women X” when we mean “some women X.” Yes, it is a misandrist bias.
/r/MensRights15/07/24 06:37 PM
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Dv and sa staying gendered is crucial for the fifth wave feminist movement. They have constructed a narrative that is deep in the zeitgeist that men are abusers and rapists and women are victims, any threat to that narrative threatens buyin from the public and funding from governments.
/r/EverydayMisandry14/07/24 09:11 PM
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I saw a YouTube video recently about how cults use language to control members, and one of the techniques they use is to have a rhetorical device designed to shutdown problematic conversations. “The Patriarchy” meets that need perfectly. In arguments it is used as a cudgel to force criticism to stop and shifts the discussuon to an ineffable fiction.
/r/MensRights12/07/24 09:35 PM
1

I saw a YouTube video recently about how cults use language to control members, and one of the techniques they use is to have a rhetorical tools designed to shutdown problematic conversations. “The Patriarchy” meets that need perfectly. In arguments it is used as a cudgel to force criticism to stop and shifts the criticism to an ineffable fiction.
/r/MensRights12/07/24 09:34 PM
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For the left, identity based hate is so mainstream they don’t see it. In the right, identity based hate is almost entirely on the fringe. And I say this as someone who is extremely progressive.
/r/MensRights12/07/24 01:00 AM
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It has been taken down, what is the tldr?
/r/MensRights11/07/24 02:59 PM
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This commenter is 100 percent right. I want to say one more thing to prep you in the off chance you end up with the police: they are TRAINED to get you to talk when you intend not to. Any little response you give, think of it as a box that finally opens a crack, r they will then use that crack to get leverage and pry you open. Stick to your script, don’t even pay attention to what they are saying. Just relax and know as long as you say your lines, eventually you will have a lawyer and then you c…
/r/MensRights09/07/24 02:10 AM
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The reason why only adults are allowed to engage in sexual acts is because they require everyone involved to exercise agency (something minors and some disabled people lack). You are expected to speak up if you want something and speak up if you don’t want something and as long as everyone involved either consented or didn’t dissent and was given the opportunity, it is a greenlight and everyone involved hopefully has a good time. People need to stop having opinions about other people’s sex lives…
/r/MensRights08/07/24 11:29 PM
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Yeah, things sure have gotten better since then /s.
/r/MensRights08/07/24 10:35 PM
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I learned how to cook when I was young too. My parents worked hellish hours but I at least got to spend some time with my mom prepping dinner most nights. Some of my fondest memories were of harvesting herbs and chopping veggies. Everyone should know how to cook. My personal definition of masculinity is self sufficiency which necessitates I know how to homemake. What surprises me isn’t that women aren’t cooking for me, it is that there are women (or men) that just don’t know how to do the basics…
/r/MensRights08/07/24 03:44 PM
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I was thinking about something similar yesterday, I remember how much more genuine and slow everything felt before social media. The cruel irony of being connected to everyone is now it feels impossible to connect to anyone.
/r/MensRights08/07/24 04:16 AM
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I think you are talking about women that don’t like eachother. Male friends will call each other out if one of them is getting boastful or losing touch with reality. (At least mine do in the several groups of friends I am in). Women friendships on the other hand depend on validation. They tell each other things they want to hear even if it is out of touch with reality.
/r/MensRights08/07/24 02:08 AM
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It is common for men to check each others egos. It is common for women to inflate each others egos.
/r/MensRights07/07/24 09:21 PM
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If you read my other comments you will see I pretty much entirely agree with you. I am not sure if she blundered into those scathing critiques of modern women or inserted them on purpose. But she does identify as conservative (and has been embraced and supported by a few prominent conservative pundits) so it wouldn’t be absurd that she has some takes on gender that are more nuanced than the 99 percent of feminists who are progressive. I agree she has the intellectual and artistic capacity of an …
/r/MensRights07/07/24 03:58 PM
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“ However, Gerwig is also – not-so-secretly, but perhaps surprisingly – conservative. This characteristic of her work has been overlooked, namely because she is a female filmmaker and her very existence within the industry poses a subversion. What is more, her conservatism does not take away from the richness of her work. It makes it hers – specific yet relatable. “ https://blogs.ed.ac.uk/thefilmdispatch/greta-gerwig-the-progressively-conservative-woman-in-film/ Someone can be conservative and a…
/r/MensRights07/07/24 03:14 PM
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I am incredibly progressive and I loathed the movie. Despite what I wrote above I think it was rage bait and had the intellectual depth of a 15 year old girl’s theater class final. I have heard people say the movie was trying to portray the Barbies like men are portrayed in movies and the Kens like women, but that metaphor breaks down regularly in the film and at best provides a smokes screen from criticism about its abjectly horrid portrayal of men. I really appreciate your point that women rea…
/r/MensRights07/07/24 03:16 AM
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I saw it. I have a hunch the movie was received differently than Greta Gerwig, a rare conservative working in Hollywood, intended. There were some sharp barbs in it cutting into the role women play in gender dynamics that may have been unintentional or overlooked to keep it cast as a pure girl power movie. Ken is the only character with growth in the movie. Anthony Burgess once said the only way a story comes to a conclusion is when the protagonist has grown. None of the Barbies grew or changed.…
/r/MensRights06/07/24 10:37 PM
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People think they live in the world of books and movies where women are the victims of predators because it invokes that very human response to try to protect women. Crime statistics paint a VERY different picture yet we (The West) invest a fortune to make women feel more safe while neglecting that men are the ones in more danger. We literally create legislation for the world described by Hollywood instead of the real world.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/07/24 08:02 PM
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It has reached the point where whenever men “organize” past a threshold they are considered a hate group. Redpill, mgtow, MRA, “the manosphere” etc.
/r/MensRights06/07/24 07:03 PM
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It has happened to me at bars and clubs. Never the gym. But, despite being a pretty sweet guy, I have serious “don’t interrupt me” energy at the gym. I had one girl clearly get into my space because she wanted to flirt with me and she got angry when I called her out on setting up right underneath me.
/r/MensRights06/07/24 03:43 AM
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Guys usually get downvoted into an oblivion for suggesting women can be lascivious.
/r/MensRights06/07/24 03:40 AM
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That would make more sense to me than suggesting we repeal women’s right to vote. He may just be trying to make the point that women should be drafted like men are, but we should all think very carefully about how we respond to a post that suggests removing women’s voices in democracy. Foremost, I think it is a deplorable idea, but also, this sub is watched by people who want reasons to take it down. Statements like that are a quick way that we lose this space.
/r/MensRights05/07/24 11:10 PM
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I am getting lost in your metaphor. Are you advocating for women to lose the right to vote?
/r/MensRights05/07/24 10:25 PM
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Reddit’s hate speech rules only protect people with “vulnerable identities,” which excludes heterosexual cis white men. Ironically their rules against identity based hate hate based on identity.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/07/24 09:54 PM
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I even see this gap celebrated as a win for women’s health.
/r/MensRights03/07/24 10:08 PM
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It is funny you say that because there has been a post up on LWMA for three days now by a woman saying she wishes heterosexual men were all dead.
/r/MensRights03/07/24 02:40 PM
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Same. It grates on me so much that I don’t have an outlet to complain about it because most people assume she does most of the work.
/r/MensRights02/07/24 03:11 AM
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Almost every man I know can cook. Maybe half or a third of the women I know can cook. I don’t believe my experience is universal, but generally I find men almost always know how to cook. Women in the other hand, not so much.
/r/MensRights02/07/24 03:04 AM
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Fair enough. I can’t disagree with that.
/r/MensRights02/07/24 01:41 AM
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I appreciate the pithy riposte but we shouldn’t go there.
/r/MensRights02/07/24 01:34 AM
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Yes.
/r/EverydayMisandry02/07/24 01:09 AM
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There is a post now on a MRA sub of a someone coming into the space to better understand why MRAs needs to exist. Her post turned into a manifesto in which she said she wishes she could “delete all het (heterosexual?) men.” I am skeptical it will come down despite it violating one of reddits hard lines about calls for violence.
/r/EverydayMisandry01/07/24 09:59 PM
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If someone posts and calls for people to be killed, the top comment absolutely should be to call them out on their hate.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/07/24 08:30 PM
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I can’t believe this post is still up when it has an overt wish to kill people in it.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/07/24 08:24 PM
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And take it straight to therapy. Wishing to kill a large group of strangers is not okay.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/07/24 04:54 AM
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I don’t think I have seen any recognition of men’s mental health month outside of this subreddit. While I think it makes sense for there to be gender parity in the duration, the only “month” celebration I see going on is Pride and it is everywhere. Oddly, I still see signs up all over my city celebrating Mother’s Day (a month afterwards) and absolutely nothing mentioning men’s mental health month.
/r/MensRights30/06/24 07:37 PM
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The term “patriarchy” needs to go. By design it stops complicated conversations about power and gender dynamics. The reason there weren’t more women leading is basic evolutionary biology. From an evolutionary point of view, women evolved to birth and raise kids, men evolved to hunt and protect. Later on the hunt and protect “build” went on to be the ones waging wars, which is where almost all of our government structures evolved from. Chiefs became kings became emperors became presidents.
/r/EverydayMisandry29/06/24 09:33 AM
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Hate just keeps getting more and more popular.
/r/EverydayMisandry27/06/24 07:16 PM
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Flip the genders. One hundred percent it would be taken down as “hate.”
/r/EverydayMisandry27/06/24 05:51 PM
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Too bad those links are broken. I would love to see the source. Edit: I found this but it is not a study but just a summary. Maybe we can chase some data down in his sources. http://www.498a.org/contents/dv/WomenNeverLiesMyth.pdf
/r/MensRights26/06/24 11:20 PM
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There are TikToks and YouTube shorts of women gleefully admitting to this kind of thing, but it is always unclear if those are staged or not. The problem you will run into for this is how challenging it may be to find documented cases because of the stigma against the victim and the general unwillingness of the legal system to prosecute female sex offenders.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/06/24 03:09 PM
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Combine a crazy woman and a crazy therapist who justifies all of her worst traits and things get wacky for the people around her.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/06/24 03:36 AM
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I see your therapist turning your GF against you and raise you I have an ex gf who got blackout day drunk at my place and just vomited in my sink all afternoon. Her therapist used “hypnosis” to unlock the “memory” that I raped her during her hours of pouring stomach acid into my sink. This lead to a shitstorm of a false rape allegation against me that thankfully never went to the police, but did lead to me losing most of my “friends.” Therapists are quacks.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/06/24 03:32 AM
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One of the hardest parts of advocating for men’s rights as a progressive is realizing how many people on the left don’t want equality or compassionate policy for all people, but instead they want to keep the narrative of men (white, cis men specifically) as a Big Bad villain to combat. What surprised me, is how when I start talking to another MRA on the right about men’s rights, that we can find a lot of middle ground on other political topics.
/r/EverydayMisandry18/06/24 02:46 PM
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Classy as hell of you to post an update. I respect the effort to stay focused on truth instead of outrage circlejerking. It is a vibe this sub does pretty well and certainly better than most similar subs for women.
/r/MensRights17/06/24 11:31 PM
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Thank you. I hope these links were just broken in some sloppy IT work, but that is probably naively optimistic
/r/MensRights16/06/24 04:16 AM
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What was it about the reports that were so valuable for MRA?
/r/MensRights16/06/24 04:09 AM
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Kiddo, the whole world treats men like they are disposable. His “central point” is spot on. From the draft, to horrid working conditions, to asymmetric assault and rape laws, to asymmetric incarceration rates, the list goes on. And your argument that feminism cares about men is facile. To this day “the future is female” is still on t shirts and bumper stickers and it is a call for the culling of the male population to 10 percent so we can still be used to breed. Many women and feminists care abo…
/r/MensRights14/06/24 01:42 AM
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All of those other subs are feminist spaces (yes, menslib is a feminist space that tries to teach men how to better facilitate the feminist agenda), this is the only sub from your experiment that deals with men’s health and rights. The other subs are famously strictly moderated, here, mods tend to allow conversation as long as it stays civil and doesn’t devolve into hatred. We welcome diverse perspectives partially because we are a very politically diverse group. I am on the far left, many of th…
/r/MensRights14/06/24 01:35 AM
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“I am a feminist woman.” Your post history contradicts that statement. What are you doing here?
/r/MensRights13/06/24 10:29 PM
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I am sorry you are gong through a dark time. Even if mods take this down I think I speak for pretty much all of us when I say we wish you well man. There is a darkness that is part of coming of age as a man that is lonely but very common. It sounds like you are there now. Is there anything you can do to just get through the night? A video game? Movies? Even though may feel alone, and we don’t know you or your pain, we see and recognize the hardships you carry and it is okay if you turn into a cl…
/r/MensRights13/06/24 04:02 AM
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Imagine if that picture was gender reversed. The man in it would be in prison, no questions asked assuming the mob didn’t kill him.
/r/MensRights13/06/24 03:01 AM
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When you find love, friendship or romance, it really feels like there is more at work than psychology can explain. I haven’t felt that way in a long time to be honest, I think trust is required for that level of intimacy and, even though I am getting by okay most days, my ability to trust people feels gone. I have my dogs. We love each other in a way I don’t know if I have ever found with a person. The three of us are a pack who take care of one another. I fill the bowls and take them out on wal…
/r/MensRights13/06/24 02:37 AM
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That is hell. I respect that you have built what you have even if that dream of family and community remains out of reach. Your situation sounds familiar. I was brutally bullied too, had fanatic friendships from my teen years until early thirties, then everything fell apart when an ex of mine launched an aggressive smear campaign against me. I lost almost all of my friends and am struggling now to make new ones. It is hard. I am not past the suicidal thoughts but I have more good days than bad n…
/r/MensRights13/06/24 01:39 AM
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Is there an actual legal right that men have that women don’t? (In the west) The draft is the only example I can think of where one gender has a right and the other does not.
/r/MensRights13/06/24 01:21 AM
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I agree with everything you said, except I don’t think women are the paragon of mental health. Their rates of neuroticism and narcissism is significantly higher than men. We will never have access to the levels of validation and support they have. But that doesn’t mean we can’t have support and community. Find what works for you, my advice is simply to build an internal foundation of resilience. Ironically, when you are a calm, confident man, people are naturally attracted to you and friendships…
/r/MensRights13/06/24 01:15 AM
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There is a difference between bottling it up and accepting that friendships and relationships are ephemeral. Both stoicism and Buddhism allow for and the even empower deep connections with people, they just build your acceptance that all things, including relationships, are transient. There is no promise that life won’t hurt and be difficult sometimes, quite the opposite. Both sort of begin with the precept that life is suffering, but through acceptance you separate your “self” from the sufferin…
/r/MensRights12/06/24 11:43 PM
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Yourself bro. Buddhism and Stoicism are the two philosophies that consistently help people cultivate happiness and strength. Both focus on subverting attachment and embrace impermanence. Enjoy what you have, but know it won’t always be there.
/r/MensRights12/06/24 09:02 PM
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Go inward for your strength. Meditate. Read. Journal. Workout. Run. Do whatever it is that gives your life meaning. Focus on building friendships with men but don’t emotionally depend on them, just appreciate them. Build a well of internal strength and learn to laugh at the audacity of the circus.
/r/MensRights11/06/24 06:41 PM
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She sites those sources in the paper (the link is a short science journalism piece). I don’t endorse her work at all, but here are sources she sites for that claim: “ Indeed, studies have typically found gender to be a consistent predictor of empathic behaviours and sentiments, with women displaying higher levels of self-reported empathic attitudes and behaviours towards both humans and non-human animals (Paul Reference Paul2000; Heleski et al. Reference Heleski, Mertig and Zanella2004; Herzog R…
/r/MensRights11/06/24 04:56 PM
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Social sciences are totally scientifically bankrupt. 81 men clicked on a link in Facebook or Twitter then took an online quiz. That is their data. This is junk.
/r/MensRights11/06/24 02:37 PM
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Consult with a lawyer. You might be able to get a judge to step in but I wouldn’t count on it especially if the mother of your child won’t play ball.
/r/MensRights10/06/24 06:43 PM
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This is the first year I knew of it too. Today I was thinking that pride has been taken over by “anyone-but-men” as well. Around me it is more an event for cis women and the trans community and others are not really welcome anymore.
/r/MensRights10/06/24 08:13 AM
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He has a legal leg to stand on because he is a veteran which is a protected class. Unfortunately, I think many of us don’t have access to this type of lawsuit.
/r/MensRights07/06/24 05:03 PM
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Pretty much. It should be listed as an nsfw fetish sub for intellectual pay pigs to be milked by dommies. It is amazing how long the posts can be and they are beefed up with obsequious, jejune gibberish and vacuous, virtue signaling
/r/EverydayMisandry05/06/24 11:47 PM
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That is a generous description of MensLib. It is a borderline psyop with how tightly they regulate what people say.
/r/EverydayMisandry05/06/24 10:08 PM
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I worry I would be fired if my employer found out that I am against MGM, against the draft, for alimony reform, against asymmetric assault and rape laws, against title 9, etc….
/r/MensRights05/06/24 07:57 PM
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I think it is the fear of being called a misogynist that keeps a lot of men from openly discussing the topics in this forum in real life. Talking about MGM, the draft, the inequities of title 9, etc with the wrong person can ruin your social and professional lives for some of us in the West. Edit: a personal example is I lost a lot of friends because I didn’t attend one of their weddings because they invited an abusive ex of mine. I had known them for twenty years, they met her in person maybe f…
/r/MensRights03/06/24 12:47 AM
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I am pleasantly surprised this article doesn’t seem to have blown up in some of the problematic feminist subreddits.
/r/MensRights02/06/24 10:05 PM
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Wow. This is the first I have seen this sub. About every tenth comment is wishing men would die which is a quick way to get a sub shutdown if people report it.
/r/EverydayMisandry02/06/24 04:15 AM
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This incredibly dark. I pray this fails horrifically so it doesn’t spread.
/r/MensRights02/06/24 03:31 AM
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That is heinous. Not just barbaric but scientifically speaking she is using datasets that are centuries old while claiming to have normalized for socioeconomic status?! How? Fortunately, the post I saw in the news subreddit about it didn’t really have any misandrist takes but I am nervous to see what twox has to say about it.
/r/EverydayMisandry01/06/24 03:48 PM
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There are some great parts about being a man that I feel like we don’t get to talk about the same way women get to celebrate womanhood because it is seen as misogynistic. One thing VERY little thing I notice living in a big city about men is without knowing one another, we are so damn good at being aware of others in space. Guys are fantastic about sharing sidewalks, holding a door for someone who needs it, respecting elderly or handicapped people with the right of way, and moving effortlessly i…
/r/MensRights01/06/24 03:43 PM
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I would attend especially if it was done playfully and fun. No spite. Make the whole event about cool parts of being men and working in tech. Have some serious talks about how to establish mentorship programs.
/r/MensRights01/06/24 09:19 AM
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I feel a little too seen in some of your description of men in the modern world. For most of my life I have considered myself a feminist. Without meaning to, I spent decades crafting an identity around women. I was proudly a white knight. This led to a crisis a few years ago during the fever of meToo when I saw how people will use social media and my better angels to manipulate me to be part of their mob. The last year I have been haphazardly deconstructing the pieces of my identity that I let o…
/r/MensRights01/06/24 08:58 AM
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I don’t think they are comparable, I would take one of the most painful natural processes of life over being forced to kill, see my friends get killed, and likely be maimed or killed myself.
/r/MensRights30/05/24 11:35 PM
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Nothing says quality sampling for your study like astroturfing reddit with links. I hope you don’t plan on publishing this because the methods section of your paper should raise red flags to any reviewer.
/r/MensRights30/05/24 08:11 PM
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“Feminism is about equality!” /s
/r/MensRights30/05/24 03:28 AM
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Even in movies and television it is very difficult to find examples of positive male role models. Society has expunged the idea of a strong, protective father figure and now everyone has daddy issues.
/r/MensRights28/05/24 09:21 PM
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The lack of male teachers also contributes greatly to the lack of male role models. Along with the dismantling of boys only spaces like the BSA.
/r/MensRights28/05/24 09:19 PM
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Yeah, there is another post that is about to make me quit Reddit for a while calling for the forced sterilization of men. It is wild how much misandry is accepted on Reddit.
/r/MensRights27/05/24 11:41 PM
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Recently there was a very popular post on Reddit from a woman trying to say women have it just as bad in the loneliness epidemic while ranting about how all of her friends can only find hot guys to hook up with, none of the hot guys want to settle down with her and her friends. The layers of tone deaf absurdity in her post were myriad.
/r/MensRights27/05/24 08:24 PM
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This looks like a great idea. I regularly want to talk to this community about something that isn’t really about men’s rights, but don’t want to give the mods more work to do.
/r/MensRights27/05/24 06:01 PM
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I skimmed it, I don’t recommend doing the same. Almost every mention of abuse of men is stipulated with “women have it worse,” the “patriarchy” is assumed as fact, there are a lot of stats thrown out with no citation (there is no way my advisor would have let me get away with that in grad school), and some of the stats are put forward as rate of occurrence instead of rate of reporting (which is a major problem because men tend to under report abuse and women tend to over report it).
/r/MensRights26/05/24 06:10 PM
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I think intent is what makes something a slur and I certainly have heard people, both online and irl, use cis as a slur. Mostly I am against demonizing words because they make some people uncomfortable but am for speaking carefully. If I offended you, that certainly wasn’t my intent I just needed language to show that trans men, by my company’s new definition of harassment, can be targets of harassment but cis men cannot. That is a difficult point to make if I avoid using the word cis.
/r/MensRights26/05/24 05:56 AM
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I just went through my company’s quarterly compliance trainings and there was one significant change to the harassment training. Now victims of harassment must belong to a protect group or class. The harassment policy at my company now excludes cis, white men. This is the stupidest dystopia.
/r/MensRights25/05/24 11:56 PM
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Sorry your gym sucks. The gym still feels like a haven for me, most of the guys there seem to just want to get a good workout in and be left alone.
/r/MensRights24/05/24 11:26 PM
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He is “not like other men” and wants everyone to know it.
/r/MensRights23/05/24 05:31 PM
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One of the worse things I ever did was open up about being raped as a boy by an older woman. Most people I have told just shut me out of their lives or told me I was “lucky.” The trauma I still carry isn’t from the event but from how quickly people throw male victims out of their lives. I wish I would have never told anyone. You have an uphill battle to fight if you want male victims to come forward.
/r/MensRights22/05/24 02:49 PM
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https://support.reddithelp.com/hc/en-us/articles/360045715951-Promoting-Hate-Based-on-Identity-or-Vulnerability Rule 1: Remember the human. Reddit is a place for creating community and belonging, not for attacking marginalized or vulnerable groups of people. Everyone has a right to use Reddit free of harassment, bullying, and threats of violence. Communities and people that incite violence or that promote hate based on identity or vulnerability will be banned. Marginalized or vulnerable groups i…
/r/MensRights21/05/24 08:34 PM
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Some countries don’t have hate speech laws. America is probably the most “famous” of them. Companies can platform or deplatform anyone (for the most part). I generally think absolute free speech is better than the alternative, but asymmetric laws about hate speech which are common in the EU are vile.
/r/MensRights21/05/24 04:58 PM
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Technically, Reddit’s hate speech policy only protects women and minorities. Subs can enforce their own rules against misandry but Reddit’s policy say nothing about hate speech against people who are cis, straight, white, or male.
/r/MensRights21/05/24 03:17 PM
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As far as I know any sub that gets any where near “anti feminism” gets shut down fast. The mods here know they have to tread carefully because of the double standards from Reddit about hate speech.
/r/MensRights21/05/24 03:12 PM
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The credo from meToo wasn’t believeAllVictims. It was believeAllWomen. Don’t try to rewrite history we all lived through.
/r/MensRights21/05/24 03:00 PM
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It sounds like you know some changes that you need to make but are struggling to find the will to do so. I generally agree with your therapists that since social media is so saturated with misandry, it is a major trigger. That said, I find social media more addicting than pretty much any other addiction I have ever faced. A few suggestions: carve out time where you do things that you enjoy and are removed from social media, movies, video games, or other sources of misandry. Journal. Go to the gy…
/r/MensRights21/05/24 01:18 AM
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Glancing at OPs post history it looks like he speaks English as a second language. Make sure to give him some grace to explain what he means. I am curious what he means by “patriarchy” because it is such an abused term.
/r/MensRights20/05/24 12:05 AM
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They are not after gender equality.
/r/MensRights18/05/24 10:02 PM
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Fair enough, I guess “the future is female” is more of the misandrist dog whistle. Its origins involve culling the male portion of the population down to about 10 percent and using them as slaves.
/r/MensRights18/05/24 06:33 PM
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It is a dog whistle.
/r/MensRights18/05/24 10:07 AM
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Don’t troll feminist spaces. Don’t troll anyone.
/r/MensRights17/05/24 06:20 PM
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The fact that dismantles the oppression Olympics the quickest is: the single most powerful predictor of success in life (in America) is… your zip code. Grow up in a wealthy neighborhood and you will do well. Grow up poor and the deck is stacked against you. Almost all other variables fall away in comparison to how strong the signal of zip code is in predicting success.
/r/MensRights16/05/24 07:54 PM
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What language? I mostly hear them use language from intersectionality. Maybe you could say they use language from Marxist dialectic but that is just there are oppressor and oppressed classes which seems pretty self evident (though feminists insist on splitting those classes by gender and race instead of socio economic status like Marx suggested).
/r/MensRights16/05/24 07:01 PM
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Because someone is really into Jordan Peterson.
/r/MensRights16/05/24 03:23 PM
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This is now at the top of my list of obvious things I should have thought of, but never have. Great post.
/r/MensRights13/05/24 11:39 PM
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The DA’s reluctance is the double standard between when men and women are prosecuted for the same crime.
/r/MensRights13/05/24 06:26 PM
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It is important for context that the husband asked told the court he didn’t want her to go to prison. She should be in prison though. Letting a murderer go is definitely a double standard, but also puts people’s lives at risk. Edit: from the article - “ Her husband is divorcing her, but he told the court that he didn’t want his wife to go to prison.”
/r/MensRights13/05/24 02:31 PM
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I skimmed that little white paper. They talk about advocating for platforms to have stricter policies against these creators, de platforming and defunding channels, using shadow ban techniques to lower engagement, and using AI to follow the content as it surfaces and is discussed on other channels. These aren’t channels I enjoy but it is creepy how deliberately and methodically this group is trying to deplatform them.
/r/MensRights12/05/24 08:46 PM
2

Why should the dynamics of a party revolve around your preferences? If you show up at a party and it is something you don’t want to participate in, leave. The same should be true for these gendered spaces, if you don’t want to be at an all male gym or club, don’t go to one.
/r/MensRights11/05/24 05:00 PM
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You are talking to a troll. Look at their post history. They don’t engage in conversation with a modicum of intellectual honesty and usually seem to just be trying to lure the conversation into misogyny and hate (probably so they can report people).
/r/MensRights11/05/24 04:44 PM
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I’d like it if we didn’t take how wide spread this misandrist bear meme was and think that it means misogyny is okay. It isn’t alright when they do it and it isn’t alright when we do it. The double standard on enforcement of “hate” policies frustrates me, but this isnt the way.
/r/MensRights11/05/24 01:18 PM
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Are you trying to troll your way into making the point that it is misogynistic to say that if someone can’t hold a conversation then they don’t have a personality? I would say the same thing about a man.
/r/MensRights11/05/24 12:30 AM
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Okay troll. Have a good day.
/r/MensRights11/05/24 12:18 AM
40

“No game.” More like no personality.
/r/MensRights10/05/24 08:38 PM
4

Both AI gf apps and OF are degrading. Most models make money from “customized” content, not subscriptions. The product on OF isn’t the porn, that is free all over the internet, the product is the “attention” of the models which costs way more than ten dollars a month and is usually just someone hired to pretend they are the model (likely a man).
/r/MensRights10/05/24 06:53 PM
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I think AI gfs is only going to cut into the market for OF which I see as a win. I would love to see dating go back to a more traditional form, but if a guy can choose between an OF model charging hundreds of dollars a month or an AI gf for 15 bucks a month, I think good for him (though I would rather he figure a way to not need to pay for fake human connection).
/r/MensRights10/05/24 05:02 PM
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It comes from a time when war was much more taxing than it is now. Physically. Pragmatism and survival immediately usurp ideas about equality so only men were (still are) conscripted. The right to vote was offered by the state as negotiation for registration in the selective service. Citizens earned the right to vote, states knew they had a military they could draw on during an emergency. Feminism eventually argued women should have the right to vote, but left out the part about military service…
/r/MensRights09/05/24 02:23 PM
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Oh hey! That is me! I just replied to her. My virginity was raped out of me when I was 15 by an older woman. The only place I have been taken seriously about it is this subreddit.
/r/MensRights09/05/24 02:57 AM
12

Yeah, now try being a male victim. Not only will the police laugh at you, but so will your mom, dad, sister, friends, teachers, coaches, therapists….
/r/MensRights09/05/24 02:53 AM
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Agreed. I would pity them if they weren’t actively harming people with their delusions
/r/MensRights08/05/24 03:39 PM
13

Sure, knowing what is actually dangerous is something people struggle with, but part of being a well adjusted adult is being able to discern what is worth worry and what is irrational. Many of these women have been pumped full of propaganda to believe they are always in danger. I almost pity these people the same way I pity the crazy guy on the street who thinks the FBI is coming for him. The difference is the crazy guy on the street is harmless, and, ironically this narrative that men are dange…
/r/MensRights08/05/24 03:19 PM
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A couple things: risk involved both probability and cost. In this case, any sane estimate of risk would conclude the chance of SA is lower than the chance of being eaten alive (in this little fiction of being alone in the woods with a grizzly or a man), and two, a slow drawn out death while the bear eats your organs while you are alive is a lot worse than any SA.
/r/MensRights08/05/24 02:53 PM
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Many of my friends are geologists, so they regularly go into bear territory for days or weeks for field work. All of them, including women and feminists, think the man vs bear thing is either a hilarious troll just to make guys angry or the women who pick the bear have never laced a hiking boot in their lives. I agree with the later, these women would have a panic attack if they lost cell signal and were alone with their thoughts for fifteen minutes.
/r/MensRights08/05/24 02:51 PM
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Did you go through scouting when it was coed? I am curious to know what it was like. If the troops are really split then I think this might not be that bad. I, and probably a lot of guys here, think it is valuable for boys to have space and activities for just boys. Just like it is valuable to learn to socialize in coed groups and groups where men are the minority, it is a skill to socialize in a group of all men or boys. I was into the arts so I had a lot of spaces that were coed or predominate…
/r/MensRights08/05/24 09:07 AM
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It is a dog whistle.
/r/MensRights08/05/24 04:20 AM
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Do boys these days even have a single space where they can go and just be with other boys? Serious question. I was in the BSA. It was a very flawed institution but it did a lot for giving me a space with just other boys.
/r/MensRights08/05/24 12:38 AM
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this is one of those times where everyone has a different vernacular for right and left and liberal and conservative. I think we completely agree, but I see the retaliatory, reparations identity politics as being leftist. Reparations and DEI quotas are decidedly new idea in politics coming from the left (or resurrecting very old racism and sexism). I hope you stick around this sub. Men’s rights issues span political affiliations and I think there is room for us to rediscover solidarity across th…
/r/MensRights07/05/24 11:16 PM
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On issues other than race and gender, the democrats are centerist or even right of center when compared against other countries’s political parties. They rile their base with these idiotic culture war issues and identity politics which are rooted extremely radical, left wing feminism. The result is progressives who are sick of the democrats obsession with skin color and genitals have no where to go.
/r/MensRights07/05/24 10:44 PM
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We all need to do more to break out of our echo chambers and talk to one another respectfully. I am incredibly progressive, an exfeminist, and I don’t always agree with people on this sub. That is okay.
/r/MensRights07/05/24 10:39 PM
3

We have to take wins where we can find them.
/r/MensRights07/05/24 08:02 PM
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I am not defending him, but do you remember the national protests over Brock Turner’s six month sentence over rape? Where is the outrage over no sentence over murder?
/r/MensRights07/05/24 07:39 PM
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I want out. I am tired.
/r/MensRights07/05/24 02:55 PM
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I think they are terrified of the Reddit shutting this sub down. I share your frustration about the double standard on Reddit and the asymmetry of what Reddit deems “hate,” but I don’t envy the mods of this sub. This is pretty much one of the last subs where men have a modicum of the level of expression afforded to women.
/r/MensRights07/05/24 02:53 PM
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I had no idea there was a word for this. How often do we hear: “if you don’t agree, then you ARE the problem.”
/r/MensRights07/05/24 01:14 AM
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As a parody of feminists reframing of history, I “agree” with your post. There is kernel of truth in your post that we can frame the traditional gender roles to be oppressive to either side for a significant number of cultures and time periods. The rarely told reframing is that men have had to break their bodies as labor or soldiers. The problem with the feminist reframing is that it loses touch with reality in that almost all men were subjugated in ways just as brutally, if not more brutally, t…
/r/MensRights06/05/24 03:07 PM
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As someone who was out of high school by the time columbine happened, I NEVER expected someone to say something about school shootings in 2024 that I haven’t already heard. This is a thick read but a fantastically new way to think about the school shooter/lone wolf/white terrorist narrative. It even explains why mass shootings are only getting worse in the west, we have decided to demonize men’s mental health struggles instead of helping men.
/r/MensRights05/05/24 04:34 PM
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Sure. I talked about it too. But just because a few people in your life talk about it doesn’t mean the vast majority of people are. You and I are probably both pathologically online and around people who are. Most people who are on social media a lot are talking about this, but most people aren’t on social media that much. I asked a few friends of mine about it (women mostly) they all had no idea what I was talking about and thought it was stupid. Granted three of them are geologists and actuall…
/r/MensRights05/05/24 02:24 PM
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I think the point is the people participating in trends like the bear meme small and vocal subset of people. Most people don’t think about this stuff and certainly don’t post about it. We should take women at their word in how they behave online, but don’t assume most women think about this bear meme or have even heard of it.
/r/MensRights05/05/24 01:19 PM
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It is only some, brainless women who aren’t worth your time. Do NOT buy into this and start thinking this is what most women think. These misandrists want men to radicalize on this crap so they look more sane. Don’t take the bait.
/r/MensRights04/05/24 10:36 PM
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It is a dog whistle. If the context of this was about any other group other than cis men, it would be purged from the internet as a Xist dog whistle.
/r/MensRights04/05/24 07:54 PM
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Of course there is some but for the most part I disagree. I show people in this sub the same compassion and criticism I show people in any other sub and of any gender. For the most part, i think other men here do the same.
/r/MensRights03/05/24 10:48 PM
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What drives me nuts is that men who are struggling are shamed for it. So as you get depressed, you are shunned by the people around you, which makes you depressed. If a man loses a little ground in his battle for mental health it is the beginning of a struggle only other depressed men will understand.
/r/MensRights03/05/24 10:28 PM
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Women have a strong in-group bias. Men have a strong out-group bias. This means both men and women will defend and esteem women. This is one reason feminism is so effective and men’s rights activism is not.
/r/MensRights03/05/24 10:07 PM
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I agree with every thing you said, I will just respond of all of the options dating apps are the absolute worst. They are designed to wear you down until you pay for their premium services instead of helping you find a match. And even once you pay they aren’t incentivized for you to find a match that you settle down with, but instead just feed hookup culture where your “matches” will likely use you for free meals and theater tickets. If you just want to pay for sex there are other ways to do tha…
/r/MensRights03/05/24 08:31 PM
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I will check it out, thanks. I am due for deep psyche cleanse. The internet trend OP referenced really got to me too.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/05/24 04:06 AM
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Get offline. Put down social media for a few weeks. This is a fun mirror distortion of society and culture. Spend time with your friends, have small talk with the barista, call your parents.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/05/24 04:01 AM
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Leave dating apps. They prey on men and try to drive down your self esteem until you pay for premium services. Invest in social hobbies and work on talking to women there. It is scarier, but you will get used to it and that confidence will make you a much more attractive mate than the guys that are still furiously swiping.
/r/MensRights03/05/24 02:19 AM
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She is the incarnation of all of the things she claims men are because it morally justifies her abjectly horrid behavior if she believes men really are the inhumane, evil meat she thinks we are. Her psychosis is not difficult to understand.
/r/MensRights02/05/24 07:53 PM
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What kills me is your last sentence is the double standard. Your post would like be taken down in any other sub, and there is even a high chance moderators here will take it down, but it is TAME in comparison to the bear or man meme.
/r/MensRights02/05/24 06:12 PM
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I think it just highlights how bad people are at evaluating risk. It is the classic, “most crime is committed by black people so racial profile is okay,” but flipped to appeal to the brain dead progressives instead of brain dead conservatives. For any other identity group except men it is terrible form to assume all members of a group are X because some are X. People are complex. Statistics are difficult to understand and context is everything. What kills my mental health on this issue is how ac…
/r/MensRights02/05/24 06:10 PM
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It really isn’t privilege, it is how 99 percent of the world live their lives. I mean this delicately and as someone who also suffers from mental health struggles: there is a large difference between perceived threat and danger. You likely suffer from those two being significantly discordant. If you truly live your life afraid of men every day - get help. Spend the time you are now online meditating and journaling and in therapy with a directed care plan at rehabilitating you. I have several fri…
/r/MensRights02/05/24 05:03 AM
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I think that might be a you problem. It is not normal to go through life and have every person/man you meet seem to be hostile. That would be about 200 people harassing me in person every day. If you really experience that much perceived harassment, you need to seek help immediately. There are better ways to live life and I hope you find the help you need or move out of whatever area you are in.
/r/MensRights02/05/24 04:23 AM
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You have to be trolling. I tutored math through undergrad and taught science and math in graduate school. I don’t think I ever encountered someone who cannot understand that the average person sees way more people than bears without incident. If you are actually trying to understand risk, look up how conditional probability works.
/r/MensRights02/05/24 04:15 AM
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Askfeminists has a very active mod with the flair: sisterhood of the sharpened knife or something cringe like that. That is the most thinly veiled threat of violence. Can you imagine a mod here having flair like: “brotherhood of the ever bludgeoning switch?”
/r/MensRights02/05/24 01:16 AM
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People are famously bad at understanding probability, so don’t feel bad. You should look up conditional probability. In this case it is the probability of being attacked by a man or bear given you have “run into” them. Let’s say you are within 15 feet of a bear, the probability of being attacked is significantly higher than if you are within 15 feet of a man.
/r/MensRights02/05/24 12:47 AM
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One of the best things you can probably do for him is just appreciate his strength and masculinity. It is really emasculating to be doing twice the work of women while receiving little to no praise AND hearing about how great it is to have women at that job. Whatever feels natural to you, give him a resource of deep appreciation because i doubt he receives any at work.
/r/MensRights01/05/24 03:37 PM
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Mods have been taking down all of the posts on this sub about the man vs bear trend probably because they know posts like this one have a good chance of getting this sub shutdown. Meanwhile, it is completely acceptable on Reddit to unironically say that men are more dangerous than bears. I don’t blame the mods of mensrights, but the hypocrisy is the crux of the entitlement feminism possesses.
/r/MensRights01/05/24 08:43 AM
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This is hilarious. What is so stupid about this is that this post could get this sub into a lot of trouble, meanwhile….
/r/MensRights01/05/24 02:29 AM
4

The last few months I have been getting a surge in text messages from people pretending to be looking for someone else. They are always posing as an attractive woman but not selling OF or premium Snapchat or whatever. They always seem to want to build my trust. I wonder if those were attempts at sextortion.
/r/MensRights30/04/24 05:29 PM
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Not just death but one of the most horrific deaths imaginable. Being held down, helpless with claws sunk through your shoulder muscle and hooked onto your clavical so you can’t move while the bear luxuriates tearing the muscle from your chest. Chewing it slowly and completely ignorant of the god you somehow started praying to for death despite never going to church.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/04/24 03:48 PM
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I have noticed the mods have been taking down some pretty tame posts lately. It makes me think they are worried the axe is about to fall on this sub which makes me worry.
/r/MensRights30/04/24 02:38 PM
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Tinder has introduced a tool for that top ten percent of men to have access to more women than before too. I find modern dating dynamics interesting even though I am removed from them: regularly feminists lament that men used to have multiple wives and concubines as a women’s right issue, but with the rise of dating apps and polyamory many women are choosing to be concubines again.
/r/MensRights30/04/24 12:18 AM
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I would argue a mugging is a better approximation, but yes, we regularly hear in discourse that some dude was in a rough neighborhood wearing the wrong thing, with earbuds in, and he was mugged. There were things he should have done differently and we hear about it in the discourse about the event. The blame isn’t on the victim for the crime, but there is still a statement that his decision to enter a violent part of town flaunting wealth was a bad decision. We can flip this a little maybe, what…
/r/MensRights29/04/24 10:42 PM
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I think we see this hypocrisy for other crimes that are deeply traumatizing which often have a male victim. Guy wearing nice clothes walking in a rough neighborhood gets mugged, a common, and not incorrect comment is he should know better. I appreciate your point that victims of violent crime deserve a little sensitivity, but if it is just online discourse, and not directed at the victim directly, I don’t see a reason to avoid difficult conversations about how people can protect themselves from …
/r/MensRights29/04/24 10:10 PM
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One of the plagues social media has brought about is the inability for people to accept fault and innocence can be spread around. People’s need to virtue signal and simp causes dog piling and the result is society cannot accept that sometimes victims can make mistakes that lead to them becoming victims. Yes, teach people about consent also, teach people about basic situational awareness and self preservation. One reason I love this subreddit is that many conversations here allow more nuance than…
/r/MensRights29/04/24 09:57 PM
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This reads like a simp’s manifesto.
/r/MensRights29/04/24 10:52 AM
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“It sees men rejecting the outmoded sexism,“ that quote caught me too, ironically being sexist in your decry against sexism. This is definitely pleads he is “not like other boys.”
/r/MensRights29/04/24 10:51 AM
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Sure, but companies make money off of keeping people in prison in America and private prisons can lobby politicians to be “tough on crime.” The result is inflated sentencing for all crime.
/r/MensRights28/04/24 03:12 PM
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For profit prisons.
/r/MensRights27/04/24 02:19 AM
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I am a pretty average dude who takes consent very seriously. I went through a false metoo allegation that was never criminal but social. It was hell. I lost about 90 percent of my “friends.” I lost access to a hobbies and their communities. My accuser was an ex that threatened to ruin my life if I broke up with her and that is exactly what she did. All we can do is be careful, but even then it can be hard to know what someone will do when she is desperate. I don’t think anyone in this sub needs …
/r/MensRights26/04/24 06:10 PM
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Men’s desires and preferences are regularly villainized for some reason. It is absurd and it is a tool simps use regularly to virtue signal they “aren’t like other boys.”
/r/MensRights25/04/24 07:03 PM
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Beware the grifters. They prowl these subs looking for men who want a quick fix.
/r/MensRights25/04/24 02:48 PM
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Not that I am aware of.some subs might require that, but I don’t this one will.
/r/MensRights25/04/24 01:35 PM
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It looks like MLB is doing everything they can to protect their one, up and coming female umpire including letting her sexually harass coworkers. The article mentions Cooper has video evidence of the misconduct and was let go, I hope he has that footage and wasn’t just bluffing. One of the challenges that come with DEI initiatives is it creates an inflated value of retaining certain employees at the cost of others. In this case, it looks like the MLB chose to protect a sexually abusive employee …
/r/MensRights25/04/24 03:17 AM
2

Why grape? I know why YouTubers use that euphemism but why are we using it here?
/r/MensRights24/04/24 08:57 PM
2

I hope you are doing okay man, these days it is hard to be a man and getting harder every day. But this post is a little too close to misogyny for my liking. It is one thing to be critical of social norms, feminism, and the cultural zeitgeist, but a few too many times you direct your ire directly at women.
/r/MensRights24/04/24 04:30 PM
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Didn’t we just go through a period where a bunch of powerful men lost their careers for exposing themselves to their subordinates? I will just settle in here and wait for those people to get outraged again…. Any minute now….
/r/MensRights24/04/24 12:19 AM
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Boys who grow up to be men playing video games get shamed by society for their 30 dollar a month hobby. Girls who grow up to be women playing dress up get elevated by society as fashionable for their 500 dollar a month hobby.
/r/MensRights23/04/24 02:18 PM
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In the 90s and 00s there was a surge of women’s gyms. As feminism pushed the narrative about how dangerous men are more women said they didn’t feel safe, entrepreneurs opened women’s gyms across the country. None of them could pull in enough business to stay open and all tanked.
/r/MensRights20/04/24 10:54 PM
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Well boys, our problems are being taken seriously enough that the grifters realize they can make money from our suffering. This is progress?
/r/MensRights20/04/24 10:53 PM
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Well boys, our problems are being taken seriously enough that the grifters realize they can make money from our suffering. This is progress?
/r/MensRights20/04/24 10:37 PM
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In the 90s and 00s there was a surge of women’s gyms. As feminism pushed the narrative about how dangerous men are more women said they didn’t feel safe, entrepreneurs opened women’s gyms across the country. None of them could pull in enough business to stay open and all tanked.
/r/MensRights20/04/24 10:31 PM
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The first attempt at this led to a lot of experimental women’s only gyms going out of business because despite how many women said they wanted them, few actually bought memberships. Let’s see if anything has changed.
/r/MensRights20/04/24 10:24 PM
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I don’t think you read what I typed. Self reporting tells you only the likelihood of someone self reporting.
/r/MensRights20/04/24 03:05 PM
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Self reporting isn’t exactly garbage, but you shouldn’t conclude the statement that the person self reports is true, instead you can only conclude that it is true that they self report that statement. Culture biasing self reporting is prevalent and something medical and social scientists struggle with all the time (my partner has her doctorate in a medicine and designs studies for medical devices).
/r/MensRights20/04/24 02:52 PM
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“ it's safe to assume most people who aren't addicted to porn wouldn't falsely claim they were.” That is not a safe assumption at all. People can be convinced they have problems that they do not by steeping them in a culture that tells them they have or might have that problem. I have a PhD in a physical science, my partner has her doctorate in a medical science and designs studies for a living. We regularly talk about her work and a major obstacle for her is to find ways around how poorly peopl…
/r/MensRights20/04/24 02:44 PM
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In this case, I would assume men are more likely to self report porn addiction because we have a culturally installed cognitive framework for understanding that men get addicted to pornography. The opposite is true too, women are less likely to self report porn addiction because they don’t have a similar cultural narrative telling them that they are addicted to porn. Culture biasing people based on their place within it is a constant struggle with self reported data.
/r/MensRights20/04/24 02:41 PM
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I also think AI will end thots and maybe we can have an internet that isn’t saturated with women trying to sell their OF in the most random men’s spaces.
/r/MensRights20/04/24 01:08 AM
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Imagine what it must be like to be considered innocent until you are proven guilty. That is a privilege we can only afford for half of the population
/r/MensRights19/04/24 11:48 PM
1

Pay walled. Is there more to this than the headline?
/r/MensRights19/04/24 12:21 AM
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One way OP might run into this though is by using a VPN or being part of demographics that make him appear prone to clicking on those ads. The Algorithm is usually pulling data from many sources to curate your content, not just your browsing habits. These include things like marital status, gender, income, political interests, spending habits, browsing, apps you use, … The list is long. All that said, the best way to guarantee you will see Thots in your feed is by looking for them on any browser…
/r/MensRights15/04/24 05:48 PM
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The article is mostly her trying to get people to buy her book. She didn’t reveal much in the interview.
/r/MensRights14/04/24 10:12 PM
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I think her target demographic is women who want to explain to what is wrong with masculinity and why it is so easy to “fix.”
/r/MensRights14/04/24 09:16 PM
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HR is all women. DEI is a major company goal and tied to bonuses. It is a quick way to get fired or denied promotion.
/r/MensRights14/04/24 08:36 PM
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The last thing we need is yet another woman trying to define masculinity and “fix us.” Though I agree with a few of her points, mostly about how the left embraced identity politics and demeaned men for decades (she says just one decade). I don’t agree with her that this was some inevitable fix for “the patriarchy” though, culture was naturally moving towards egalitarian ideals and then the left went off the rails in the early 2000s and brought racist and sexist talking points back. Props to the …
/r/MensRights14/04/24 08:35 PM
3

I am an engineer and, like most companies, around 2018 decided to turn up the temperature by probably 3 degrees or so. It is horrible trying to write code while sweating profusely for eight hours a day AND hear sanctimonious people gushing about how nice it is to not need to wear a blanket over their low cut blouse while at work. Everyone can bundle up to warm up, but only women can strip down to cool down. There was no way I was going to complain.
/r/MensRights14/04/24 05:42 PM
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No clue who he is, but Google says he identifies as: “The Secretary of the Circumcision Academy of Australia.” That is all I need to know.
/r/MensRights11/04/24 11:22 PM
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Bars do “lady’s night” all the time though, so it must be legal. I just don’t know what loophole lets businesses get away with it.
/r/MensRights11/04/24 09:05 PM
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Isn’t it actually illegal in the US to charge more for a service based on gender without being able to demonstrate one gender costs more? Gender/sex are protected classes by the civil rights act.
/r/MensRights11/04/24 08:55 PM
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There is no chance a pro wife beating post doesn’t get downvoted into oblivion here and removed by the mods. For better and for worse men hold each other accountable. There are certainly examples of posts celebrating women harming men in other spaces though. Off the top of my head a few days ago there was a post by a childfree women in a feminist sub saying she was grossed out by how much boys eat and wouldn’t be able to feed her hypothetical boy and receiving applause for it.
/r/MensRights11/04/24 02:43 PM
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One out of three women surveyed say their corpses was raped. #yesAllMen
/r/MensRights11/04/24 02:31 PM
1

What book? Googling the quote didn’t get me anything.
/r/MensRights11/04/24 02:29 PM
6

You son of a gun.
/r/MensRights09/04/24 05:27 PM
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Reddit’s rules about hate are gendered and racial. Basically the only people Reddit admins won’t protect is hate against people who are straight, white, or men. Individual subs may vary. It is ridiculous to me that we live in a world where it is okay to hate a particular gender and race on most of the social media platforms.
/r/MensRights08/04/24 01:58 AM
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The number of times I see posts in feminist spaces that are coding for #killAllMen is alarming. There is a mod on one community that has flare that is something like: “the sisterhood of the sharpening knife.” The veil on that threat is really damn thin and that is a very active mod in one of the most trafficked feminist subreddits.
/r/MensRights07/04/24 10:34 PM
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We are a diverse group but I generally find heinously discriminatory language gets downvoted into oblivion here. There are of course exceptions but, my bias is obvious, this space is much less hateful and more likely to push for an egalitarian perspective than the popular feminist subreddits.
/r/MensRights07/04/24 09:57 PM
5

Same. Gay men seem to be the happiest couples in this dating hellscape
/r/MensRights06/04/24 10:49 PM
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Legit question especially for men who have served with women: Is it maybe that women simply are not as effective on the field? Women in the military looks great on paper, but at wartime decisions become a lot more pragmatic. Maybe this is a calculated move on to maintain the leanest but most effective fighting force. (But also, fuck the draft and conscription. It is state sponsored slavery and murder)
/r/MensRights06/04/24 10:42 PM
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The intention to marry is not often economic, but the consequences of marriage are completely economic.
/r/MensRights06/04/24 03:09 PM
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The will to harm comes from somewhere completely different than the will to compete. You may have never learned that, but I promise you that you are the minority. Boys who engage in violent play are probably less problematic than boys who are prohibited from it. Go to a boxing or bjj gym. Guys who regularly and academically engage with violence in a safe way understand it in a way you don’t. We know pain in a way I hope you never have to. We know what it feels like to be knocked out. To have you…
/r/MensRights04/04/24 02:17 AM
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I am very progressive but without a doubt the left, in America, is full of simps and white knights clamoring over one another trying to virtue signal. One of the reasons why the left is losing young men is because they do nothing to support men and actively push the narrative that we are dangerous rapists.
/r/MensRights02/04/24 04:17 PM
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Oh wow, brand new account and it already has mostly removed posts. If this isn’t a troll this person needs help (I guess even if they are a troll they need help).
/r/MensRights02/04/24 08:34 AM
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Are you lost? Your take looks like what twoX thinks we sound like here. I can’t imagine something better than men helping men with relationships and dealing with life. Men face some unique challenges that, frankly, only men can understand.
/r/MensRights02/04/24 03:02 AM
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The sexualization of serial killers a few years ago was part of the beginning of me taking the red pill. That was a weird time on social media.
/r/MensRights01/04/24 08:15 PM
5

Maybe I am not understanding your question, but I don’t think it is provable or disprovable, scientifically, what cultural forces motivated DV and SA. But I am generally very critical of psychology and sociology as sciences.
/r/MensRights01/04/24 08:00 PM
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Do not let anyone gatekeep masculinity from you. Spend time introspecting on what being a man means to you. This is something we should all do because it gives you a core of gender identity that isn’t set by social media, feminism, or Andrew Tate.
/r/MensRights01/04/24 04:23 PM
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I think he is talking about sex strikes. Regularly feminists will get each other excited by saying they won’t have sex until X happens. It is stupid because it is rooted in the “misogynistic” idea that women don’t enjoy sex and that men are helpless drones. I think it does nothing but to hurt us to get involved in the gender war crap. Focus on making our lives better and walk away from people throwing tantrums.
/r/MensRights01/04/24 04:17 PM
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Al Franken’s entire career ended over way less.
/r/MensRights31/03/24 09:19 AM
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It is really telling that it is viewed as “hateful” for a man to just stop being a wallet for others and enforce the most basic boundaries to protect his dignity.
/r/MensRights30/03/24 10:46 PM
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There should only be one side. This is battery and should be condemned. If you feel in any way like this is okay you don’t belong here.
/r/MensRights27/03/24 06:11 PM
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I think most men are fed up with thots on twitch and wish they would stay in adult spaces. Not to mention, a lot of parents trust that twitch doesn’t have pornography on it because it is rated 13+.
/r/MensRights25/03/24 11:18 PM
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If it was for women too it would be all over the news and there would be international outrage.
/r/MensRights25/03/24 09:20 PM
2

Pay wall. What is the tl;dr?
/r/MensRights24/03/24 10:51 PM
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The best thing you can do to “be a high value man,” is stop thinking about people as high or low value. Introspect. Learn what you love. Chase that. Ironically, you become “high value” by giving up on playing the high or low value game and follow your passions.
/r/MensRights24/03/24 07:57 PM
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I think the “men cheat more” narrative comes mostly from studies being skewed by older men who are partnered with post menopausal women. Our sex drive stays as we age, women’s tends to go away. It is biology, but it deals men a very bad hand. Most studies on infidelity show young women cheat slightly more than young me and elderly men cheat way more than elderly women.
/r/MensRights24/03/24 04:21 PM
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When the rules aren’t fair, stop playing the game. It isn’t easy, but stop letting people gatekeep masculinity - especially women.
/r/MensRights24/03/24 02:01 AM
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I am a leftist and I agree with this completely. Most of the left are abject hypocrites when it comes to solving systemic problems that affect men.
/r/MensRights22/03/24 01:17 AM
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It is insane to me that men are not allowed into them to know if there is a hate campaign brewing against us.
/r/MensRights21/03/24 01:40 PM
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The moment of discussion you are at with her is exactly the hard discussion society needs to have around abortion. The cost of pregnancy is biologically asymmetric, and it is good for us as a society to try to figure out how to balance that cost, or, at least give everyone an equal opportunity to opt-out of parenthood. This is one of the perspectives this sub has changed for me, I used to believe since the onus of pregnancy or having the abortion was on the woman biologically, men can’t really d…
/r/MensRights20/03/24 12:23 AM
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For what it is worth, your point is painfully obvious to me when I read this thread. I don’t know if OP is being obtuse or really can’t follow what you said.
/r/MensRights20/03/24 12:11 AM
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She may have had good intentions but it is pretty easy to see the flow of familiar talking points, then she hits a wall and gets personal or abandons the thread. Oh well, I doubt any minds were changed this time.
/r/MensRights19/03/24 11:25 PM
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“They think they speak for me, black people, poor, etc. they've co-opted actual minorities to stay in power longer.“ I am very progressive, childfree, lgbtq, and, as a result, am in many feminist spaces. My experiences parallel yours in that much of contemporary feminism involves casting all class and identity struggles as theirs at the expense of the communities they co-opt. If there is any one thing that I think the current iteration of feminism does wrong it is how often it tries to speak for…
/r/MensRights19/03/24 10:48 PM
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The prevalence of paternity fraud is significant though not well known (estimates range from 5 to 30 percent). It is a significant men’s rights issue because there is a cultural stigma around asking a woman for a paternity test (it is viewed as an accusation of cheating) and at least one western country has completely outlawed paternity tests.
/r/MensRights19/03/24 10:24 PM
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You were the one who said there were so I thought I would ask to give you the chance to tell us what you were referring to.
/r/MensRights19/03/24 10:05 PM
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Which demands for female rights have hurt men in the past years?
/r/MensRights19/03/24 10:00 PM
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Neoliberalism is not the same thing as cryptocurrency. I am not sure where you got that idea. If there is some peer reviewed science to astrology, please link me the paper. I would happily read it (I have a PhD in geophysics). Neoliberalism has a surfeit of academic engagement. As far as I know, there hasn’t been a paper “published” about astrology in decades or more likely centuries.
/r/MensRights19/03/24 09:44 PM
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Fair enough, Adam Smith is not a NEOliberal, but his economic philosophies undergird the neoliberal movement. I responded directly to your quote: “Neoliberalism is astrology for men!” I loath neoliberalism and extreme free market capitalism, but I would never say it has the same intellectual muster as astrology.
/r/MensRights19/03/24 09:24 PM
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Women’s beauty standards require them to eat a salad, wear sunscreen, and go to the gym. Men’s beauty standards requires them to do all of those things and take steroids and have surgery to extend their height.
/r/MensRights19/03/24 09:15 PM
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So you think Adam Smith is on the same intellectual caliber as Miss Cleo?
/r/MensRights19/03/24 09:11 PM
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What do you think about the beauty standards placed on men?
/r/MensRights19/03/24 09:07 PM
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OP can’t speak for all women.
/r/MensRights19/03/24 08:42 PM
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What questions did you expect to be asked? There are many women in this subreddit already and your post, no offense, comes across as having a bit of a savior complex.
/r/MensRights19/03/24 08:41 PM
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There isn’t any that I am aware of. I don’t know why that is relevant to what I said.
/r/MensRights19/03/24 06:34 PM
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I am not sure why you are giving Putin/Russia a pass on this. Both sides are using conscription and this war was an act of aggression by Russia. Edit: I have family in Moscow some of which are military age men. You all are really out of touch if you think Russian has a volunteer army. The notion that Russia is not also effectively enslaving soldiers is being sold to you by someone with an agenda.
/r/MensRights19/03/24 05:24 PM
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There is a major influx of young, male door dashers in my area that speak Russian and it breaks my heart. I know they are probably from one side or the other of this stupid war and they didn’t want to be forced to die for some rich prick’s power fantasy.
/r/MensRights19/03/24 05:11 PM
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People will use the term masculine to try and manipulate you. Come up with your own definition (if it is important to your gender identity). For me, masculinity is about doing what needs to be done be it lifting, meditating, writing, hugging, cleaning, fighting, whatever. Find your own definition.
/r/MensRights16/03/24 03:28 PM
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What is the necro post about? Are you okay? Edit: oh wow, you are not okay. A post you made in the last hour was hoping for people to die. That is a quick way to get a ban from Reddit. I hope you get some help, wishing harm on others is definitely a sign you need professional help. Get offline and spend some time with friends and family or something. Nothing is worth the amount of hatred you hold onto.
/r/MensRights16/03/24 03:01 AM
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I am in my forties and have dated a lot. I don’t know where these women are that do all of the cooking and cleaning. In every, EVERY relationship I have been in I end up doing most to all of the domestic labor: cooking (most women I have met have no idea how to cook), cleaning, pet care, home improvement, shopping, etc. there are many studies that suggest there is a surfeit of women who do more domestic labor than men, but they are not in the dating pool.
/r/MensRights15/03/24 10:35 PM
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I think women’s ability to carry children is a privilege of being a woman. And I think women have significantly more privilege than men do. What is your point? Privilege is something everyone has in some ways.
/r/MensRights13/03/24 03:27 PM
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Every single person has some ways they are privileged. It doesn’t mean it outweighs any negatives. I think men are significantly less privileged than women, but that doesn’t mean there aren’t privileges we enjoy as men.
/r/MensRights13/03/24 03:03 PM
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Peeing standing up. Having a stronger body. Not having to risk of pregnancy and childbirth. Being less “emotional.” Fewer STIs…. That is about all I can think of right now. Just because there are some privileges associated with being a man doesn’t mean it is an enjoyable experience.
/r/MensRights13/03/24 10:11 AM
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I don’t have anything constructive to tell you except fuuuuuck bro. I would buy you a beer or coffee if I could. That is a lot to go through and all I can do as a total internet stranger who lacks the skills and knowledge you need, is say I hope you find your way past that nightmare.
/r/MensRights12/03/24 02:14 AM
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I wonder the same thing. The screenwriter is openly conservative so there is a good chance some of those statements about the way women are as culpable (or even worse) than men in the dysfunction gender dynamics might be intentional.
/r/MensRights11/03/24 05:51 PM
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I second this. This movie was heralded as a takedown of the patriarchy but it felt more like a South Park style takedown of everyone. Barbie’s literally used the promise of sex to gain political power.
/r/MensRights11/03/24 05:49 PM
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I went through a false accusation that never went to the police but through my social circles. I lost about 95 percent of my friends and access to hobbies I had enjoyed for a decade. It messed me up for life realizing how one word from a woman can completely ruin a man’s life. My suggestion is for him to get out of that town and start over asap. The longer he waits the more damage it will do to him.
/r/MensRights11/03/24 04:34 PM
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Obligatory comment pointing out it is ONLY men who get shouted down when we use the defense “not all men.” Black people commit the most violent crime, but unequivocally “not all black people” is rightfully accepted as a rebuttal. But for some reason men are held to account for the actions of every other man, pretty much in history.
/r/MensRights11/03/24 03:49 AM
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I think there is something more insidious happening there. Humans have famously terrible memories, not just because we lose details but we skew based on our desires or the pressures of society. We raised generations of women to see themselves as victims, so many of these women aren’t “lying” but instead lost their attunement to reality by a movement that told them men are constantly trying to hurt them.
/r/MensRights10/03/24 05:49 PM
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Then they will flip the script if a man says he was SAed or discriminated against.
/r/MensRights10/03/24 05:46 PM
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I have seen articles about this a few times but none of them provide examples of what the men in these groups actually said.
/r/MensRights10/03/24 05:29 PM
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Accountability towards males. By that I assume you mean women are not being held accountable for what they do to men?
/r/MensRights09/03/24 07:17 PM
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That is definitely more from women’s ingroup and men’s outgroup bias. I think you may have just mispoke but men tend to be held hyper accountable, even as young boys. Edit: the study concluded there are probably about the same number of psychopathic women as men. Previously it was thought psychopathy was almost exclusively present in men.
/r/MensRights09/03/24 07:14 PM
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America has a similar definition. I was recently in a thread with a moderator of askfeminism who kept insisting the US federal definition of rape was symmetric. Her comment was upvoted like crazy while me and another guy tried to get her to provide a source and linked to a few dot-gov sites showing, by US law, only men can be charged for rape. It is very important for the feminist narrative that men are sexually violent that people believe crime statistics about rape have no selection bias betwe…
/r/MensRights09/03/24 06:16 PM
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For stuff that old I never assumed we knew the gender of who invented it. Why assume it was men or women (with the exception maybe of arrow heads because we know men were much more commonly out hunting)?
/r/MensRights09/03/24 04:16 PM
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Men are just soldiers and wage slaves to the UN.
/r/MensRights08/03/24 11:06 PM
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She brazenly films him, then freaks the hell out when he looks at his phone because she thinks he took a picture of her. Hypocritical much?
/r/MensRights07/03/24 02:55 AM
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They can also get your pictures from social media. If you are really worried about these groups, leave social media.
/r/MensRights03/03/24 11:39 PM
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This is your best bet to avoid this toxicity. Lockdown your social media profiles or just leave social media and get off dating apps. Don’t let a woman have pics of you until you really trust her.
/r/MensRights03/03/24 11:34 PM
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No, I was correct. No one is arguing that women have had an equal role in government. i am not. The guy that you replied to first is not. OP is not. No one is making that point. Yet you are emphatically arguing against it. So, good job, you won the argument you are having against literally no one.
/r/MensRights03/03/24 06:15 AM
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Talking to MyHouseOnMars is like arguing with an AI sex bot about geopolitics. They are confidently proving a point that no one made is wrong.
/r/MensRights03/03/24 12:59 AM
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No one is arguing that women have had equal representation in government. You are debating against a phantom. People are saying the state kills men and makes men kill. I don’t know what else I can say to you if you are too busy responding to comments that no one made to read what I am saying.
/r/MensRights03/03/24 12:50 AM
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I am more interested in equally protecting people from oppression because that improves the lives of like 99 percent of the population. It seems like you are more interested in equal opportunities to oppress which is just kind of a vile take, but also, this thread was not about those few oppressors but about the many oppressed. You are trying to derail that with some facile point that overlooks the millions who have suffered and are instead focusing on literally a handful of dicks.
/r/MensRights02/03/24 11:34 PM
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You are conveniently ignoring my second point. Why?
/r/MensRights02/03/24 11:25 PM
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First, that is erasure of the women who led nations from history, but more importantly, who cares who did the enslaving? When 99.9 percent of men are being forced to kill and be killed by the state, why does it matter what the genitals of that .1 percent are?
/r/MensRights02/03/24 11:19 PM
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I straddle both men’s rights and feminists spaces. Both in good faith. I am a childfree progressive who was raised by a feminist who walked the walk who organized protests, lobbying groups, and was involved in a group of women who would protect women who dire situations that needed more than a shelter. In my experience, and I am cognizant of my bias, most feminists spaces allow significantly more hatred of men than men’s spaces allow hatred of women. A recent post here was a great example where …
/r/MensRights02/03/24 05:33 PM
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Sometimes people are hypocrites, that definitely is not a gendered phenomenon. Though, I am suspicious you are looking at subreddits as a single entity instead a heterogenous group of people. If you create a space for many people to talk and hold that entire group to be intellectually consistent, there are going to be contradictions. What do you mean by submission to the opinion? That is an interesting turn of words that evokes a group of people supplicating their identity to world view or opini…
/r/MensRights02/03/24 03:56 PM
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I am interested to hear more, that is pretty cryptic. Tell me what I am fighting against and for? That might help me understand you. I appreciate your last point that most people want to be left alone. I might change that to just say most people have good intentions, we are posting on Reddit so it seems like we don’t really want to be left alone.
/r/MensRights02/03/24 03:34 PM
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Why do you think this sub is run by monkeys in a lab? (Look at Due-Apples post history)
/r/MensRights02/03/24 03:28 PM
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I am waiting for “longer hair on men is cultural appropriation” from someone.
/r/MensRights01/03/24 10:34 PM
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A couple of them were: 1) she is familiar with Wayne University publishing sensational papers like this in the past. 2) without disclosing the modifications to the questionaire, it is not a reproducible study. 3) despite the large sample size it is restricted to inner city Detroit. 4) the results show 43 percent of men met some threshold but in the abstract and in the headlines they “rounded” from 43 percent to half. 5) self reporting is always fraught with problems, you should never assume beca…
/r/MensRights01/03/24 07:13 PM
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No. Me too was mob justice. I want nothing to do with this.
/r/MensRights29/02/24 06:28 AM
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I am in North America and they differ by gender to match the screen shots of OP.
/r/MensRights29/02/24 05:01 AM
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I was brutally bullied as a kid (burn scars healed in my thirties, some stab wounds from thumb tacks are still barely visible). I don’t wake up in the middle of the night thinking about what was done to me, I wake up thinking about what was said to me.
/r/MensRights28/02/24 09:26 PM
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To me, masculinity is about doing what needs to be done no matter how difficult it is. There is even a little science that supports this in that men will engage in more risky behaviors and can even feel pleasure in discomfort and pain when it serves a mission. Need to infiltrate a compound, we got that. Need run an oil rig for four months in the arctic, look no further. Need a diaper changed, pass me the bag. Cook a meal. Break down a complicated philosophical idea. Run a class. Carry the grocer…
/r/MensRights28/02/24 07:15 PM
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The word incel needs to go away. It has morphed into a hateful slur based on gender.
/r/MensRights28/02/24 07:03 PM
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I don’t know about “logical,” but I don’t want to get bogged down by semantics. I think you are describing that as a population women are more neurotic than men (easy to find papers that support that) and have a strong ingroup bias. Those two combine to create an asymmetry in discourse around gender issues. Men’s lack of an ingroup bias and tendency away from neuroticism allows us to police our own. It probably behooves us to move away from considering ourselves more logical, because logic has i…
/r/MensRights28/02/24 05:09 PM
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Romance is porn for women. People who consume porn or romance both need to make sure they know they are engaging with a fantasy and know how to set the fantasy down when they close the book or browser.
/r/MensRights28/02/24 03:52 PM
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I don’t see hatred for women in his post, I see him lamenting that in an era where we decided to start keeping score by gender men aren’t allowed to talk about their hardships without being shouted down with slurs.
/r/MensRights28/02/24 03:49 PM
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My experience in this sub has been the opposite. There certainly are some posts and comments that deviate into misogyny but the sub usually polices itself well and drives those comments and posts down. A recent example was a post about a wife divorcing her husband over secretly using her position at BP to engage in insider trading. The post was about how women will divorce over the littlest thing, but guys came out en masse to shutdown that circlejerk because the husband put the wives career at …
/r/MensRights28/02/24 03:26 PM
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The irony is this sub is usually one of the least toxic subs I have been to on Reddit. Mods are very light touch but this community generally disagrees gracefully and checks misogyny organically.
/r/MensRights28/02/24 03:21 PM
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We don’t hear from them honestly. My mother in law still calls occasionally but she says they don’t talk about the war. I had an interesting moment visiting a Russian friend who has been living in the states for twenty or thirty years now. She cooked an amazing meal and I was drinking wine and cutting vegetables when she asked us what we thought about the war. I hedged because I strongly support Ukraine, and she got a distant look in her eyes and talked about how she remembered living outside of…
/r/MensRights28/02/24 11:07 AM
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I think for the right woman, in the right world, I would enjoy being the provider. I don’t see it as being an ATM or a simp if she is making a home for me and enabling me to build the life we both want. I don’t think that woman exists anymore.
/r/MensRights28/02/24 04:35 AM
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Many are. It is impossible to know for sure in a state that controls speech as aggressively as Russia does how many. I have in-laws in Moscow.
/r/MensRights28/02/24 03:19 AM
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They don’t disclose the questions they asked. This would be like me trying to publish a paper when I was working on my PhD in Geophysics about a sensational result that the interior of the earth is made of marshmallows using my secret equation, but then not disclosing the equation. Without disclosing their methods this is cannot be reproduced and therefore should not be considered remotely scientific.
/r/MensRights28/02/24 02:58 AM
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The situation isn’t good in Russia for men who avoid conscription. I have compassion for the Ukrainian soldier forced to defend his home and for the Russian soldier who was forced onto the front line.
/r/MensRights28/02/24 02:53 AM
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Then when you get into their data you find out they rounded 43 percent up to half, then when you look for the questionnaire it isn’t present so you don’t even know what 43 percent of men said yes to.
/r/MensRights27/02/24 03:17 PM
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Self identified feminist, but ideologically she is an “equalist.”
/r/MensRights27/02/24 03:06 PM
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I found the SES questionnaire but not their modifications: https://scales.arabpsychology.com/s/sexual-experiences-survey-ses-perpetration-version/ they did not make it easy
/r/MensRights27/02/24 07:27 AM
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My partner designs clinical trials for a living (and she is a feminist), I sent her the article and she is ripping it to shreds. She is even familiar with the university involved in the study and says they are known to publish horrible work in the medical sciences. All of the researchers are associate professors, which is pretty close to being an intern professor.
/r/MensRights27/02/24 06:52 AM
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I have been doing some digging and it looks like this includes any form of seduction, like, she says no but still wants the date to continue, and eventually she says yes. That is sexual assault by coercion according to this study. Also there is the mess about how if two people get drunk or high and then have sex it is assumed the man assaulted the woman. I don’t understand how feminism can simultaneously advocate for women to have authority over their lives but abdicate any responsibility for th…
/r/MensRights27/02/24 06:02 AM
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I can’t find a damn source for it anymore but it is hate speech. Literally it was intended to be a call to cull the male population down to be ten percent or so of the population and only use us for reproduction. I will edit this with a source if I can find the damn link. Edit: here it is: https://www.reddit.com/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates/comments/126mzmg/the_future_is_female/
/r/MensRights27/02/24 04:43 AM
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I have been a martial artist for twenty years, I don’t know if there is space where the “fans” are worse offenders than combat sports for pretending they can give advice to elite or even amateur athletes. It has nothing to do with gender. I love to see this. Stop letting all of the air in the conversation from being taken up by people fetishizing victimhood.
/r/MensRights27/02/24 12:03 AM
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It is unfortunate that the level of science education is so low that people cannot understand a non-linear relationship like this one.
/r/MensRights26/02/24 09:58 PM
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I thought mood changes with T had more to do with deviation from “natural levels” than T causing aggression. This headline and many of the comments here assume more T means more aggression but I am almost positive there is a surfeit of studies showing T increases and decreases have to be contextualized against the subject’s baseline of T and possible deviations from a healthy “natural level.”
/r/MensRights26/02/24 09:52 PM
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While the divorce might have been extreme, her husband doing that could be a big deal. Insider trading is crime and he could have put her whole career at risk.
/r/MensRights26/02/24 03:57 AM
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Banned from this sub? There is very little it seems like the mods remove here let alone ban anyone for
/r/MensRights25/02/24 06:13 PM
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Yup. Just imagine if it came out that labia skin increased muscle size and men were using it to get jacked. People would probably be actually murdered.
/r/MensRights22/02/24 04:28 PM
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Let’s not overlook the terror that is women using the foreskin produced by MGM in their beauty creams: https://www.cosmeticassociation.org/foreskin-in-beauty-products/#Ethical_Concerns_Surrounding_Foreskin-derived_Beauty_Products
/r/MensRights22/02/24 03:57 PM
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I am sure the answer is complicated and varies from woman to woman. For sex workers, I know a few strippers, cosmetic surgery is basically an investment that pays for itself in more clients and tips. I know some women just get cosmetic surgery to feel empowered like they have control over their bodies, I would imagine it is pretty similar to why some guys end up on steroids. I have not talked to a woman who had cosmetic surgery to “get power over men,” but I have known one or two busty women who…
/r/MensRights20/02/24 05:09 AM
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It is a rallying cry often used to rabble rouse in regards to sexual assault and domestic violence. The implication, which is wholly misandrist, is that only men commit these crimes.
/r/MensRights19/02/24 11:54 PM
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It enrages me the double standard in covering stories like these. If the genders were reversed there would be a weeks long media cycle and endless social media posts about the story. The only way I know men are victims too is from this sub.
/r/MensRights17/02/24 06:05 PM
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This is actually the most powerful way we can improve the lives of men (and women). Just raise the next generation to treat each other well regardless of gender (and skin color). Most people over twenty are set in their ways.
/r/MensRights16/02/24 08:23 PM
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Young women pair with older men which leaves young men in a difficult spot finding a mate.
/r/MensRights16/02/24 05:50 PM
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tough is not toxic. Crying is not toxic. Stop trying to tell men how to be men. That actually is toxic.
/r/MensRights15/02/24 01:19 PM
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Honestly he just looks like a bro who lifts and is taking a pic of a good pump. I associate thirst traps as more sexual than that.
/r/MensRights15/02/24 02:52 AM
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I am curious to know if this is doubly true online where social media both attracts individuals with and enhances narcissistic traits.
/r/MensRights15/02/24 02:19 AM
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It is not just people simping, but governments and institutions. Women’s shelters receive significantly more funding than men’s shelters.
/r/MensRights13/02/24 07:57 PM
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The messy truth is the error bars on data this complex will always be high. Convictions is a better place to look because ideally the law requires a level of substantiated evidence. But we also know victims may choose not to prosecute and innocent people end up being convicted sometimes. Courts are sometimes left with a he said vs she said. An interesting set of statistics might be how many women report being raped and how many men admit to raping a woman. Repeat by flipping the genders. I don’t…
/r/MensRights13/02/24 04:32 AM
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We shouldn’t take self reported studies at face value regardless of the gender or race or age of the participants. I don’t. You shouldn’t either. That doesn’t mean you ignore them, it means you look for explanations for the self reporting. Look at social pressures. Look at cultural psychology. Look at the study itself for the language it used. For this specific example, women have been told they are victims of male aggression their entire lives. Men, on the other hand, are shamed for reporting b…
/r/MensRights13/02/24 03:43 AM
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She may not believe she is lying. But that doesn’t mean she was raped. Or she may know she is lying but still feel like part of her identity is bound up in that lie. Regardless, no researcher looks at self reported studies like this and takes them at face value.
/r/MensRights13/02/24 03:17 AM
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My partner designs studies for a living. Self reported studies should almost never be taken at face value. There is a difference between twenty percent of women have been raped and twenty percent of women, when asked such and such question, said they were raped. I can look at the study more later and give a more thorough look at it.
/r/MensRights13/02/24 03:05 AM
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We have all seen rage bait articles like this, do you have a link to one in particular? I have never heard the quote that is the title of your post. Frankly it is just cringy and doesn’t deserve an iota of attention
/r/MensRights13/02/24 02:08 AM
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Totally, I may not respond tonight though.
/r/MensRights12/02/24 04:13 AM
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2500 employees or so. International. Most companies and many governments use our software. We are a major player in corporate, healthcare, education, and government security. My team was working on authorization and the API of our flagship product with an absolute grifter running QA for us. Almost every week I complained to my manager about it for a year, not just because it made my job challenging but the consequences of a bug in the code that handles authorization could have major consequences…
/r/MensRights12/02/24 04:05 AM
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I have not but I work for a company that I can say with certainty has turned away qualified men for unqualified women. I am a software engineer and regularly give technical interviews for candidates. A coworker had two friends apply for a position that were very qualified for a quality engineer position, HR screened them out and the candidates we received to interview were all women with disappointing technical credentials. To make matters more peculiar, usually I participate in interviews to as…
/r/MensRights12/02/24 03:08 AM
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What is maybe the most shocking to me is the guardian is reporting on this.
/r/MensRights11/02/24 04:26 PM
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Do you have a link to one of the more successful women’s groups completely this course. Or one of the men’s groups struggling? I am curious to see how cherry picked this is.
/r/MensRights11/02/24 02:31 AM
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I have definitely experienced it outside of the Reddit bubble, to the point that a friend of mines wife would lie to my partners to get them to leave me.
/r/MensRights09/02/24 06:35 PM
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It never did. The wealthy benefit from getting us to squabble with one another over gender and skin color instead of the real and obvious systemic discrimination.
/r/MensRights08/02/24 12:27 AM
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This will be my last post on this thread. I don’t mean this to be offensive, but I get the impression you are trying to win an argument while I am trying to teach you about research methods and statistics. I used to teach earth science to undergraduates, which often meant teaching business majors statistics. You are hung on some fundamental concepts in stats that elude very intelligent people if they don’t have training in research methods. “Men who are married live longer” is a proven correlati…
/r/MensRights06/02/24 09:24 PM
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It is way simpler to assume wealthier men have access both to better health care and partners. Edit: there is also the simple explanation that healthier men likely have more access to mates. We may both be “speculating” but access to partners being regulated by income and health are well understood. Some X factor from being married is not understood other than there being a strong correlation between marriage and health.
/r/MensRights06/02/24 06:57 PM
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A clue to a much simpler explanation for this correlation is that married men make significantly more money than unmarried men. Edit: I used to be a professional researcher (geophysics) and my partner is a medical researcher. Understanding causal relationships is tricky. As a general rule though, when there are differing outcomes across groups it is usually best to begin by looking at socioeconomic explanations rather than behavioral or environmental factors. This is likely one of those cases.
/r/MensRights06/02/24 06:21 PM
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Sure you are tough guy. Thank you for your service little man. Dinner will be done in a half hour. Your mom would appreciate it if you could bring the dogs in with you.
/r/MensRights06/02/24 03:54 PM
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Sorry to be that guy, but this is definitely a prime example of correlation is not causation.
/r/MensRights06/02/24 03:18 PM
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I want off this ride.
/r/MensRights06/02/24 02:40 AM
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Never let people tell you that you should or shouldn’t cry. People gate keep masculinity in both ways on this issue. If you need to cry , do it. It feels good. I would say if you are sensitive to what people think about you, like I am, you do it alone and be careful who you tell. Either way, there is nothing more manly than just doing what needs to be done, and sometimes that is crying. Take care of yourself. For what it is worth I, and I suspect a lot of this community, hope you find a path thr…
/r/MensRights05/02/24 07:20 PM
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Diet makes a huge difference too. Just like it does for men.
/r/MensRights04/02/24 11:28 PM
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Maybe UK courts are different from American courts, but I think this would have to be a civil trial, not a criminal one.
/r/MensRights02/02/24 11:06 PM
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First, my heart breaks for you and your son. I agree with a lot of the advice here to “get him out,” but maybe have a different suggestion for how you do it (assuming directly confronting him has been fruitless). I went through something similar when I was in my early twenties, my first “real” relationship was with a woman who slapped and threw things at me. The physical abuse is usually just the tip of the iceberg. She also managed to wedge herself between me and my friends and family and becam…
/r/MensRights02/02/24 03:42 PM
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What are you seeing as “mature” behaviors that girls exhibit and boys lack?
/r/MensRights02/02/24 04:28 AM
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It is like any other content market, there is a small percentage of very successful people. It isn’t the pink gold rush OF wants women to believe though, there are some easy to find thorough take downs of OF.
/r/MensRights31/01/24 01:15 AM
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Men need to leave these spaces now. We all need to help our brothers get out.
/r/MensRights30/01/24 05:22 AM
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This immediately makes me think of that men vs women survivor series.
/r/MensRights30/01/24 02:36 AM
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Go inward. Journal. Meditate. Workout. Read. Find value and strength there. It hurts and is difficult but it is the way.
/r/MensRights29/01/24 05:54 PM
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Your content is amazing. Nice work.
/r/MensRights28/01/24 02:27 AM
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Some people don’t have the maturity to just say “I am flattered but not interested” so they say “creep” instead. There was a scientific paper a few months back that popped in my feed basically verifying this. I suspect the other factor in play now is the rise of narcissism.
/r/MensRights27/01/24 10:47 PM
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With the ingroup bias of women, the outgroup bias of men, and the way social media favors the mob I don’t know how men will ever “win the narrative back.”
/r/MensRights27/01/24 08:15 PM
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There are so many posts on Reddit or tropes in movies or phrasing in the news where if you reversed the genders, it would be removed as hate speech. Most days, I acknowledge it and am okay. Today is not one of those days.
/r/MensRights27/01/24 05:08 PM
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Yes. I tried to break up with a girl and she threatened to tell everyone I raped her if I left. I left. She told a bunch of my friends that I raped her. I lost a lot of friends. These days, I don’t really trust anyone.
/r/MensRights24/01/24 08:16 AM
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The controversy over porn stars on twitch is a perfect example of this right now. We have reached a point where women can sell nudes on a website which is predominantly used by underaged boys and be applauded for being brave.
/r/MensRights22/01/24 11:40 PM
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