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| 6 | Majority of "misandrists" are men.White knights and simps enable awful behavior from women. It doesn’t require a PhD to understand what they are doing. They are acting the part male feminist in a attempt to win female affection and they hope sex Feminist see them as useful idiots. They divert attention and blame away from awful behaviors of women. Especially feminists. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/25 03:21 PM |
| 0 | WOMEN ARE THE “MAIN ISSUE”IN MODERN DATINGStop confusing them with math ! Don’t you know math and logic are part of the all powerful, super secret. Patriarchy TM ! Sarcasm. You are right of course. But we are supposed to pretend it’s the Patriarchy TM and of course Trump . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/24 03:30 PM |
| 1 | WOMEN ARE THE “MAIN ISSUE”IN MODERN DATINGThat’s starting to happen. Especially the single mother part. What you go a little wrong is genetics. Men get the majority of their DNA from their mother . Women get the majority of the their DNA from their fathers. It gets really complicated but you can figure out the general idea . Wimen could have children with Chad that doesn’t mean a son will br a Chad . He will have more of his mothers DNA . Here a example. A couple both right hanrd with brown hair and brow eyes have a son . He is left han… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/24 03:25 PM |
| 10 | WOMEN ARE THE “MAIN ISSUE”IN MODERN DATINGA significant percentage are dating the same men . Some are aware some are . There’s Are We Dating the Same Guy online groups in every city , That’s not a accident . Women have the ability to stop doing this . They apparently don’t want to. There is a saying If it’s too good to be able true it probably isn’t true . Why women do realize they are being used for sex by a small number of men is hard to understand. It is obvious to almost all men and a lot of women who don’t buy the feminist nonsense… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/24 02:56 PM |
| 1 | Young (<50) Democratic men think feminism does more harm than good. Only 4% of old Democratic men agree. Are they out of touch?You bet they do. A lot are left psychologically and emotionally devastated and in financial ruin . Men 35 and up have to move back in woth family to survive after divorce. Thrn they wake up. I am glad I never got married. Never will either. You have to be insane to get married. But yes men have been dealing with this for decades. You just have a leger platform with more people comfortable using it . I think a lot of t men 35 - 60 feel exactly as you do. They’ve seen too many men ‘s lives ruined … | /r/MensRights | 10/11/24 02:18 PM |
| 1 | Young (<50) Democratic men think feminism does more harm than good. Only 4% of old Democratic men agree. Are they out of touch?This . Be careful. That can get you banned and worse . Why do you think feminist and many women are really scared about changing no fault divorce and cutting public assistance??? We’ve fucked over veterans, the disabled and young men big time . Yeah boomers over 70 haven’t really been as affected. Life was very different for them . Relationships fell into their laps they didn’t have to compete. Women didn’t have Chad on her contacts do he can pump and dump . Life is very different if your a sing… | /r/MensRights | 10/11/24 02:09 PM |
| 1 | Young (<50) Democratic men think feminism does more harm than good. Only 4% of old Democratic men agree. Are they out of touch?This has been going on for the past 50 - 60 years. The easy access to the internet and multiple platforms amplify the hate, vitriol, misandry , demonizing and dehumanizing of men . Many men over 35 / 40 are aware of this . The manosphere originated with Gen X men around 2000. It was different Nobody really paid attention. Men from gen x millinials and Gen z all have been harmed by feminism. It’s a vile hateful anti human ideology. The fact we all have a computer with a camera in out pocket makes… | /r/MensRights | 10/11/24 01:34 PM |
| 1 | I was thrown in prison because I had consensual sex with my girlfriend.You have no idea how accurate that is . All we need is the right person. No It isn’t Trump hr is too stupid , ignorant and narcissistic. Hitler reincarnated with fill knowledge of the way we use language and the socioeconomic and political environment would have made both Trump and. Harris look like complet idiots . We definitely are falling apart like the Weimar Republic. Its frighteningly similar. | /r/MensRights | 10/11/24 01:01 PM |
| 1 | I was thrown in prison because I had consensual sex with my girlfriend.That prison with guns . I encountered them. . In a unnamed Islamic hell hole . I was not really comfortable with them . They did their job , but there eas something not right . They didn’t really come across being a cohesive team . It was obvious many were criminals trying to escape their past . It’s not easy getting in . Thrn they self segregate by ethnicity . Lots of Eastern Europeans with really shady pasts . I get the wanting to escape a past amd have a chance at a new life. The Legion gets … | /r/MensRights | 10/11/24 12:42 PM |
| 3 | 20-year-old Oxford student found dead by suicide after female student told his friend group their sexual encounter was 'uncomfortable'Interesting I don’t like being touched by random people. My friends and family know not to touch me without me being aware or consent . Combat does that to you. Many veterans have to express very clearly Do Not Touch Me without my permission. Getting groped sounds awful. Not fun. I don’t touch people unless she’s my girlfriend. And then it’s with her being fully aware. She reciprocates knowing I don’t like being touched without knowing or being asked. Usually people including women can read me e… | /r/MensRights | 10/11/24 12:12 PM |
| 8 | 20-year-old Oxford student found dead by suicide after female student told his friend group their sexual encounter was 'uncomfortable'Women do that . They discuss in much more detail than men . It’s a verbal romance novel. I’ve had the displeasure of overhearing a few of those conversations. You think men are graphic! They will go into every detail from the minute they met to the sex thrn the guy leaving or her going home in very graphic detail. They judge each other. All it takes is one person with psychological problems , low self esteem and self respect. to twist the conversation into something ugly. Maybe a “ friend “ is j… | /r/MensRights | 10/11/24 12:04 PM |
| 1 | Sex is not a virtue. A man shouldn’t complain about the self improvement or the requirements/needed to have sex. Instead a man should solely focus on attaining/obtaining sex inherently and for its own sake.Care to elaborate? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/24 11:44 AM |
| 6 | Men are not obliged to empathize with womenDon’t give them any ideas. Though to be honest women boycotting social media??? Seriously. Thats never going to happen. Women love social media. Thats free attention and validation. Attention is the coin of the realm in woman world. Getting some women off their phones is likr asking a drug addict to quit . Oh wait that dopamine hit is like a drug ! | /r/MensRights | 10/11/24 11:42 AM |
| 9 | Men are not obliged to empathize with womenThe stupid 4B movement was a obscure fringe movement in South Korea. It only became known here after the election. There will be a few women who do that. Most people have no idea what it is . As it should be. Does anyone really think women are suddenly going to cease being human? We all want companionship , affection and intimacy. They are basic human psychological needs . Ok men can say we refuse to help women who are not our family or girlfriend / wife . Couples with relentless simp , white kn… | /r/MensRights | 10/11/24 08:31 AM |
| 3 | Most men and women are cowardly in dating and relationshipsAsk men over 35 . Women do the same things as teens and early 20 somethings . I have gotten some strong reactionz when I have said . I don’t see us as a good match before things escalate into physical and emotional intimacy. There’s some men who act in very frightening ways . Most men would be disappointed but walk away . Yrah it stings but it’s not the endof the world. There’s plenty of women who are interested. It takes time and effort to find and meet them . This childish Idea that men cannot… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/24 08:15 AM |
| 16 | 20-year-old Oxford student found dead by suicide after female student told his friend group their sexual encounter was 'uncomfortable'They were hoping for a chance with her or her friends. White Knights are never altruistic. They always hope to be rewarded. I have a image somewhere that shows a guy by a computer in his knight in shining armor. Tapping away . Behind him there a list checked off Fair Maidens I have saved on the internet Lots marked off Fair Maidens who rewarded me with sex. 0 The meme is not really a meme it’s is something that happens all the time. They really believe that they will get sex if they come running… | /r/MensRights | 10/11/24 08:05 AM |
| 2 | 20-year-old Oxford student found dead by suicide after female student told his friend group their sexual encounter was 'uncomfortable'That’s up to prosecutors. Until they can file and secure convictions that are appropriate. False accusations are going to happen. The appropriate sentence is the maximum sentence the falsely accused would receive. The victims of false accusations should also receive at minimum a million dollars tax free a year for life and the same health care the representatives snd senators receive. His life is still going to be ruined by the mere fact he was accused . Do you seriously think men falsely accuse… | /r/MensRights | 10/11/24 07:49 AM |
| -2 | Not men's fault (re-upload due to lock, reason has been rectified)They need the wokies to get elected. If they were to tell them to get lost , the will not get elected. Wokies are the New Democratic base . They managed to alienate everyone else in less than 10 years. The last four years were a Stalinist purge of epic proportions. If you didn’t agree with every single issue many are contradictory or are conflicting. The wokies would ruin your life one way or another. So people shut up and kept their true beliefs to themselves. They might agree with one thing . … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/24 06:11 AM |
| 2 | Women Will Be Sexy For Money, Attention But Not For LTR LoveWanted to add I explain to especially young men why Only Fans is bad for everyone involved. It’s not a healthy relationship. It’s not real. Those women cannot really enjoy whatever sex acts for the type of man who is willing to pay for a virtual pseudo relationship with what amounts to a virtual prostitute . She does not care about him only his credit card. He doesn’t see her as any thing but virtual sex on demand. That’s really screwed up. How the hell did we get to this point. I might disagree… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/24 05:53 AM |
| 1 | Women Will Be Sexy For Money, Attention But Not For LTR LoveThe certainly do. I genuinely feel bad for her. I cannot really imagine how she feels about herself and her now adult child. She definitely has serious psychological problems and doesn’t get appropriate treatment. The mental health system is a disaster. Many people are refusing care because it’s so dysfunctional. There’s reason for that . It’s not politically correct. That’s for sure. I know she has problems with healthy boundaries. Self esteem, she is a people pleaser and doesn’t take good ment… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/24 05:25 AM |
| 1 | Women Will Be Sexy For Money, Attention But Not For LTR LoveDo you think those women find ways to avoid sex ? I would bet a million if I gambled they do. I saw this in real life . A woman married a man because he was secure, had a big house in a good neighborhood. He was 20 years older than her . The short , overweight, unattractive balding guy . He isn’t a bad person. If anything the opposite. A kind decent man . He probably knew at some level that he would never have been in a relationship with the woman a younger attractive 36 year old woman if she di… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/24 05:13 AM |
| 1 | Women Will Be Sexy For Money, Attention But Not For LTR LoveThis is also true. They are broken. There’s a reason. They never saw and learned how to have a relationship. They become desperate for that safety and comfort that guy provides. I would bet the men are more than ten years older fairly well established particularly owning a house . Especially if they have a child from a previous failed unhealthy relationship. I saw this . I posted about it in this thread. I sm not sure I can post what many people say when safe from the thought police . But there … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/24 04:42 AM |
| 3 | Women Will Be Sexy For Money, Attention But Not For LTR Love“Having sex with someone you don’t like feels like a chore or even worse.” I agree with you about having sex with a person you’re not attracted to. There’s a woman friendly with one of my sisters. She was very young (18 ) when she got married to a man 22 years older than her and then had a child. The guy was a womanizer. He was screwing around before and throughout the marriage. Shr divorced him Then a few years later met a man . He too was 20 years older. The stereotypical short , fat , unattra… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/24 04:29 AM |
| 0 | Women Will Be Sexy For Money, Attention But Not For LTR LoveThe last sentence is the key . Poor or no male - female relationship to learn from and model . I noticed this with a woman I had a LTR with. She struggles to this day having relationships. She literally has no idea that once you are in a committed LTR or marriage. The relationship becomes the priority. She has problems with setting boundaries and gets mad and hurt when people in general set them. How do you do something you never learned ? That’s the problem. I agree that there are women and to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/24 03:50 AM |
| 2 | US women are not at any significantly higher risk of maternal mortality than the rest of the developed worldThis is why we don’t want socialized healthcare.. Canada is a prime example. Thats crazy being unable to find a PCP in a major city. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/24 03:40 AM |
| 2 | US women are not at any significantly higher risk of maternal mortality than the rest of the developed worldIf you can north east Massachusetts has excellent health care. Well all of Massachusetts does. The only real issue I have with MA is the current Governors virulent anti second amendment stance. I am a 2 a absolutist. Ma has a lot going for it . It’s wealthy, has a tech industry, access to all kinds of educational opportunities, Modest taxes and did I mention excellent health care? If you are in southern Maine It’s worth checking out. It’s difficult to find good health care in any rural area. Wit… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/24 03:38 AM |
| 8 | “I want a man that takes the lead” doesn’t free women from taking initiativeExactly. If someone wants to spend time with you. They will find a way . Maybe not exactly what you want. But they will spend time together with you. If your in a relationship you should be each other’s priority. I tell men . If you are not getting a enthusiastic Yes ! It means no . Women and men for that matter, are perfectly capable of making plans to spend time together. It takes two . When A woman uses busy , soft next and meet other women. It’s not that difficult. Maybe meeting them doesn’t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/24 03:29 AM |
| 10 | “I want a man that takes the lead” doesn’t free women from taking initiativeI suspect that wasn’t going to help in this case. She could have said I am free A,B and C days after 4 pm Or something like that. If a woman is really interested. She will move mountains to be available. Every woman who has been really interested, was no longer “ busy”. When I gave her times and days I am available. It’s amazing how fast they are no longer “ Busy “ . Busy is woman speak for please go away I am not really interested. But I enjoy the attention and validation when needed . . Don’t … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/24 03:02 AM |
| – | The hypocrisy of womenI noticed that . It’s not only Reddit . It’s social media in general. They are blaming Elon Musk and X formerly Twitter. The problem is most people are not on X / Twitter . I know why Musk joined the Trump bandwagon. His contracts with the DOD and other government agencies. He is making a business decision. Had Harris been more likely to increase his various corporations bottom lines he would have supported her . The Democrats went after him for daring to buy Twitter. Then exposing the coordinat… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/24 12:41 AM |
| – | The hypocrisy of womenLatinos are not progressive. We tend to have be somewhat socially conservative . Progressives ignore the fact Latin America is 95 percent Catholic with some evangelical religions making inroads. You cannot deport citizens imagine that MotHispanics are proud citizens . Yes this insisting Hispanics are all a monolithic block and are all immigrants is racist. I am a third generation citizen! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/24 11:37 PM |
| – | The hypocrisy of womenBecause black men like us Hispanics are told we are supposed to vote for democrats as a monolithic mindless block that cannot do a thing without big brother federal government , endless yet useless government programs that only create a vast unaccountable bureaucracy . Black men work and noticed their paycheck was buying less and less . It should not be that difficult. It’s the broken economy and yes illegal immigration. Emphasis on Illegal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/24 11:04 PM |
| – | The hypocrisy of womenPeople have no idea how the fact 45 percent of women voting against Harris is mens fault. I was visiting elderly 75 80 year old family. I had to ask them to shut the television off or at least change the channel to something else. Some guy was going on as if Hitler, Himmler Goering and Heydrich were marching on DC with their black and sliver uniformed guards to start the fourth Reich . It’s insane. They cannot grasp it’s the broken economy , illegal immigration, The endless attacks on everyone n… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/24 10:58 PM |
| 1 | Accountability Crisis: Why Feminism Needs to Rethink the Blame GameIt seems to be a theme here. There’s people who claim that Biden and Harris didn’t do enough for them. Then most people are clueless about what goes on outside their bubbles and or echo chambers . When people who fought terrorists tell them about the atrocities and using human shields. We are called war criminals! Racist Islamophobe ! . Yeah I am afraid of a death cult with leadership that openly says kill all infidels. A lot of people under 30 in particular have bought into propaganda. The whol… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/24 10:05 PM |
| 3 | Accountability Crisis: Why Feminism Needs to Rethink the Blame GameYes , most people find your support of Iranian terrorist proxies repulsive. Conflating fighting back against terrorists who engaged in mass rape, brutally killed civilians, raping and killing teens at a music festival was a atrocity, wR crime and crime against humanity. The Jewish people are not ever going to tolerate that . Perhaps you forget what happened 80 years ago. Then to equate warfare where Hamas and Hezbollah use human shields . With one of the most ghastly and horrific moments in huma… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/24 04:27 PM |
| 1 | Accountability Crisis: Why Feminism Needs to Rethink the Blame GameTo be fair it’s impossible to separate Harris from the Biden administration. She was his Vice President. Biden was already disliked when it was impossible to continue pretending he wasn’t suffering from some type of dementia and losing his mental faculties. The pro Hamas stuff was simply too much for a lot of people. It was disgusting to see. Especially for active military and us veterans . We were betrayed. There’s no getting around it . The constant attacks on ordinary people alienated enough … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/24 04:18 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Passport Bros should not be allowed to marry foreignYou really are deliberately trolling. Guess what Islamic men hace gotten past customs with a child bride . It’s not all that difficult. We have one of the worst border control systems in the world. It would be very difficult in Colombia. They actually check people on entering and the passport is read digitally . They caught a terrorist trying to eventually illegally enter the US . A irregularity on his passport gave him away. I have entered the US on a Colombian passport the customs agent simply… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/24 03:56 PM |
| – | Contrary to the sentiment here, progressive women should spend no more time catering to conservative men's feelings in an attempt to garner support for liberal causes.No I didn’t. I said I am not a Trumper. I don’t believe that is true. The Democrats are deliberately misleading by conflating illegal immigrants with legal immigrants. It’s not hatred to say we cannot take care of all these illegal immigrants. There’s a huge difference. If you don’t understand that U don’t know how to explain. Why are US taxpayers responsible for the world’s problems? We cannot afford it . We have been cutting budgets for veterans and disabled people to give illegal immigrants f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/24 06:35 AM |
| 5 | Love doesn’t really exist and it’s detrimental for most people to seek after itNo they don’t . It’s sad and ehy do many relationships fail often traumatically. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/24 06:04 AM |
| – | Contrary to the sentiment here, progressive women should spend no more time catering to conservative men's feelings in an attempt to garner support for liberal causes.I don’t think you understand why people voted for Trump or against Harris. Conflating illegal immigrants with legal immigrants is a sick cruel woke progressive dirty trick . Your conflating Hispanics with immigrants legal or illegal is equally wrong and offensive. I am Hispanic I was born to a dual citizen mother and citizen father.In Colombia. I could easily have been born in the US . I am not a immigrant. This condescending sneering at Hispanics is disgusting and offensive. This os why we are … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/24 06:03 AM |
| 6 | Love doesn’t really exist and it’s detrimental for most people to seek after itI like your last sentence. It’s true! Also difficult for many people to fully grasp. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/24 05:28 AM |
| – | Contrary to the sentiment here, progressive women should spend no more time catering to conservative men's feelings in an attempt to garner support for liberal causes.Well I am not. Trumper. Didn’t vote for him or Harris. Wrote two words in Spanish that roughly translate into not these idiots. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/24 05:24 AM |
| – | Contrary to the sentiment here, progressive women should spend no more time catering to conservative men's feelings in an attempt to garner support for liberal causes.You do know there’s a difference between illegal immigrants and legal immigrants? A lot of us Hispanics are really getting tired and frustrated with being associated with illegal immigrants. Hispanics are a incredibly diverse demographic. I might share the same language. But I guarantee Colombian culture is very different than Mexico, Even Neighboring Peru is different. For example a delicious beverage called Canelazo is unique to the Colombian Andes. We have a very different chorizo, Churrasco,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/24 05:16 AM |
| – | Contrary to the sentiment here, progressive women should spend no more time catering to conservative men's feelings in an attempt to garner support for liberal causes.What do you mean? It’s still a huge vast black hole for taxpayers money. Until I see a president zero budget it I won’t believe what a politician says . I hope by now you know all politicians lie and promise things that they cannot do. That includes fat ignorant narcissistic octogenarians . He cannot do things he promised. He needs the house and senate They might be Republican but that doesn’t mean they are going to let him do whatever he wants. He could not do the stuff he wanted in his first t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/24 04:05 AM |
| – | Contrary to the sentiment here, progressive women should spend no more time catering to conservative men's feelings in an attempt to garner support for liberal causes.I think had a different Republican lets say Nikki Haley had been the candidate. There might have been a 48 - 50 state sweep. Biden was that unpopular. Harris was just more Biden and the divisive identity politics. The economy, illegal immigration, identity politics, Biden and Harris being weak and cowardly Internationally, The mishandling of Covid that required the Supreme Court to rule Biden’s tyrannical abuses of executive orders unconstitutional. The hate of men in general was enough thave vo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/24 03:34 AM |
| – | Contrary to the sentiment here, progressive women should spend no more time catering to conservative men's feelings in an attempt to garner support for liberal causes.You do realize that the demographic that pushes this men must suffer because of real and imagined mistreatment and out right abuse of women In a very different time and culture by men and to be honest women who no longer exist is never going to give a millimeter . They need that narrative to justify their policies . Feminism is about power and wealth. Which they have in abundance. Women control our educational system. Just look at how vast and powerful the department of education has become. It … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/24 02:33 AM |
| 1 | The debate on men and women's positions on infidelity and divorce needs to be settledGood luck with teasing that apart. It’s a real ethical and legal mess. There’s a number of wealthy special interest groups that make billions from the convoluted and usually highly biased against men divorce and family courts . There’s NGOs for various “ social safety net services “. There the ABA Then s number of feminist organizations. Law schools . Mental health professionals It a really screwed up mess. Start by figuring out who benefits financially from this . It’s rarely men . The statisti… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/24 12:40 AM |
| -1 | A man should self improve only to attain sex or starting a family. A man should not self improve for love or friendship.No he gets to say anything he wants. He asks questions . That’s not a invitation to insult and humiliate the guy . There’s a reason that the blue pillers are in full meltdown. Perhaps people in general have said We have had enough. We are not going to take being bullied, demonized, humiliated, called awful things and dehumanized any more. That should be the lesson of the year. If not the past four years. He seems like a decent young guy who has been burnt badly. I would rather show empathy and t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/24 12:13 AM |
| 0 | The debate on men and women's positions on infidelity and divorce needs to be settledThis makes sense. Humans are equally inclined to be unfaithful. Not one sex or the other. Men and women are emotionally and physically unfaithful for different reasons. That’s a slightly different topic. No one should be rewarded for infidelity of any sort. You have a emotional or sexual affair. You get nothing and pay you ex to reduce the harm . Thats what a attorney would call infidelity and the effects on people. Legally it’s called harm . If Joe does $ 1,000 worth of damage to Bobs house . N… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/24 12:00 AM |
| 7 | The debate on men and women's positions on infidelity and divorce needs to be settledWhy reward them. Knowing you get nothing if you have a physical or emotional affair is deterrent . If you want to sleep around. Don’t get married or have a committed relationship. Instead of infidelity. Work on fixing the relationship. You got together for a reason. Work on that . Divorce should not be easy. Ma that will make people think very carefully about life choices. You choose to be unfaithful emotionally or sexually. It doesn’t just happen. I know plenty of people who are capable of sayi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/24 11:40 PM |
| 4 | The debate on men and women's positions on infidelity and divorce needs to be settledI believe 13 are true no fault states . The majority allow for fault and let you bifurcate the divorce. You get the divorce then battle over assets. In many states infidelity is cause . It should not take a PhD to understand that infidelity physical and or emotional is devastating to a relationship especially a marriage. Who ever causes the marriage to fail should be held accountable. You lose all martial assets and have to pay alimony for a set number of years. Why should someone destroy a marr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/24 11:29 PM |
| 1 | A man should self improve only to attain sex or starting a family. A man should not self improve for love or friendship.Yeah doing thin for yourself is a perfectly valid reason. People do it all the time. I hike alone for part of a day a few times a month for myself no one else. I need the quite and solitude to recharge. If you need to frame it . Women find doing things for yourself that you enjoy extremely attractive. I have gotten dates and a relationship because I spent time hiking alone taking pictures. Women found that attitude very attractive and appealing. You have to do things for yourself. It’s really im… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/24 11:07 PM |
| 1 | A man should self improve only to attain sex or starting a family. A man should not self improve for love or friendship.What is your major malfunction! Your insulting the guy isn’t helping. You are part of the problem. Let the guy express what he wants. You are not going to succeed at what you’re hoping to do. Leave the guy alone . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/24 09:13 PM |
| 0 | A man should self improve only to attain sex or starting a family. A man should not self improve for love or friendship.Why can’t you enjoy something because you enjoy it ? Self improvement isn’t all about getting sex or a relationship. I choose to continue to learn about digital photography and videography, because it is rewarding. I choose to exercise and operate the property management side of the business with my sisters. I enjoy being outdoors, running equipment, cleaning a few trees, planting new Azaleas or Rhododendrons. Even using the brush cutter , skid steer and more . I eat healthy because it makes me … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/24 09:05 PM |
| 1 | A man should self improve only to attain sex or starting a family. A man should not self improve for love or friendship.They refuse to accept that love and freedom are not enough. We have been sold a false narrative that it is . My parents as much as they love each other have more than love and companionship. I really cannot easily explain in a post . Relationships require you make tjem the priority and put aside selfish wants for a bigger better good both parties get . I have seen a elderly couple care deeply about each other . The husband has Alzheimer’s. She is devoted to him. Sure they get assistance from a a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/24 08:28 PM |
| 0 | A man should self improve only to attain sex or starting a family. A man should not self improve for love or friendship.What are you disagreeing about? You are saying people change and move on in life. Why do you care who someone marries or has a relationship with? You are supposedly married and have a life and responsibilities? No It’s none of your business who a person falls in love with. There are a lot if highly educated women in South America. I live in the US and Colombia. I see this all the time. My GF is Colombian and a very good Attorney in the US ! She despises feminism and feminists . I wont translate … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/24 08:16 PM |
| 6 | CMV: Passport Bros should not be allowed to marry foreignIt’s easy. They lose their orbiters and simps . Those guys get to meet a woman that actually wants to be with them. This is nothing new . Humans have been mating with a different , group , tribe , ethnic group for hundreds of thousands of years. When tribe or gruop A decided they would explore and send a group of you guessed it men out to see what’s beyond their valley. They meet women from a different ethnic group or tribe. Nature takes its course and a new group is being created. This is the T… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/24 06:51 PM |
| 0 | CMV: Passport Bros should not be allowed to marry foreignYep then you won’t have a civilized country. Men do the work that makes a civilized society possible. But don’t let that stop you from trying to create a woke dystopia. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/24 05:59 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Passport Bros should not be allowed to marry foreignWrong. Your post is extremely offensive. I am a dual citizen of the US and Colombia. There are lots of highly educated women in Colombia. We have colleges and universities . From what I have seen soon our requirements for graduation will surpass the increasingly lowering standards in the US . Where math is racist, history is misogyny and racist. Physics is bad and wrong. When you are at the point of having to agree despite observable facts 2 + 2 = whatever we say instead of 4 . There’s a serious… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/24 05:57 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Passport Bros should not be allowed to marry foreignHe does. Only problem is he doesn’t give commitment. She cannot figure out why . Because that man has options. Many options and can pick and choose while having fun with women he has no intentions of any thing but recreational sex with . Then the taxpayers are expected to pick up the tab for her pump and dump fun whrn she has a child and no father. This has been going on for decades. We are reaping what we sowed 60 years ago. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/24 05:45 PM |
| 7 | CMV: Passport Bros should not be allowed to marry foreignThis . They want to have sex with Chads , a bunch of simps orbiting and then Billy Beta Bux. to marry and take care of her financially. This is simply un restrained hypergamy . Its not a conspiracy. Its using threat of government violence so some women can do whatever they want with zero accountability. There are women who find this as disgusting as men do . They are everywhere. You have to do what is necessary to find those women. Many are afraid to speak out . They know the consequences have b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/24 05:38 PM |
| 8 | CMV: Passport Bros should not be allowed to marry foreignThose are already crimes . You could not bring a child bride into the US without getting arrested and spending a very long time in prison. Livestock ? What is your major malfunction? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/24 05:26 PM |
| 3 | CMV: Passport Bros should not be allowed to marry foreignLet people do what they want to unless it causes harm to you. Who cares if someone marries a person from another country. This is nothing new. It’s been happening for thousands of years. I am a dual citizen V2 of the US and Colombia. I get to date, have a committed LTR and if I choose marry whoever I want and is willing to do so . These women are mad because women in developing countries prefer western men who treat them like humans and not a indentured servant or property. Imagine that . They l… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/24 05:23 PM |
| 1 | Will the recent election in the US change how you choose your sex partners?Sure. They can . They don’t get rewarded for doing so . What is the problem. You get your divorce. What you don’t get is rewards for breaking up a family and ruining lives . That’s selfish. It should be more difficult to simply walk away because you want to party. Go ride the carousel again. I don’t care. What you don’t get is the marital assets. Thats perfectly reasonable. Men would be on board with that . I think divorce is a awful thing a c should carry a stigma if you are not being abused. Y… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/24 08:09 AM |
| – | The 4B Movement isn't going to happen en masseNo sure they will make some minor changes. But major changes. Not happening. How many times have either party had control of the House. Senate and Presidency yet failed to deliver on their promises. The Republicans from the North East are going to disagree with the Republicans from the south east. They both will disagree with Republicans from the Midwest. Lets use the Midwest. Republicans from the north east and Southeast want to end the ethanol subsidies and mandate . The Republicans from Iowa … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/24 07:53 AM |
| 0 | Will the recent election in the US change how you choose your sex partners?What Texas did was bifurcate thr divorce process. You get the divorce. Then battle in court over assets. Who ever is the cause if the martial breakdown will get less or no assets depending on each individual case . People should not be able to detonate a marriage . Make life hell for their spouse thrn walk away with most of the martial assets. You cause the marriage to fall apart. You accept responsibility. No more I sm bored , I need to find my self ( back on the C carousel). That’s wrong. Mayb… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/24 07:09 AM |
| – | The 4B Movement isn't going to happen en masseIt is becoming a serious meltdown . People who are that emotionally invested in a politician havr serious psychological problems far deeper than a lying politician. The irony is the woke progressives pushed everyone else into the Red column. Alienating everyone then demanding they vote for you is delusional and psychopathic . These people are not well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/24 04:11 AM |
| – | The 4B Movement isn't going to happen en masseWhat universe or supposedly mathematically possible other or alternate reality are you messaging from ? That’s not remotely possible. I can think of at least 10 states that have passed laws that protect abortion with reasonable restrictions and have extremely harsh sentencing guidelines for rape. As in life without possibility of parole being the maximum sentence. Damn life in prison as a sex offender is rough. The thought of never leaving a prison is beyond depressing . With the billions the ph… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/24 04:03 AM |
| – | The 4B Movement isn't going to happen en masseThe last sentence. The rest of the country is going to move on with their lives . Come January 21 I will wake up hopefully to a pleasant day and like I did on January 20 , shave , shower, eat something, Then go about whatever I have to do . The world is not going to end . The sun will rise , other people will be going about their lives . With the rare highly unusual exception of Biden’s unconditional face mask and Covid mandates . A new president is not going to change your life much . He can sa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/24 03:08 AM |
| 1 | Misandry hurts women.Do you lack reading comprehension? Us veterans and currently active service members are what kept and keeps you safe . I suggest you take Irans offer fir a free college education up . Go live in a Islamic hell hole . We tried as best as we could. You are clueless. How the hell are western men responsible for the atrocities of Islamic terrorists? Men. do the dirty work that make it possible for you to be offensive and a ungrateful to those that sacrificed their lives , bodies amd minds so you can… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/24 09:43 PM |
| 4 | Misandry hurts women.Now you are reaching . That’s ludicrous . Hamas is a equal opportunity hate snd terrorist organization . Not one western feminist organization denounced the atrocities they committed. Feminists along with their woke allies did everything in their power to ensure Hamas snd Hezbollah were able to obtain weapons and supplies. Israel repeatedly asked to be able to search UN and in particular UNWRA deliveries. Which we now know we’re bringing weapons snd equipment into Gaza . Weapons supplied by Iran… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/24 03:36 PM |
| – | Would you rape a woman if it was guaranteed you’d get away with it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/24 10:44 AM |
| – | Women can't complain that men voted for Trump, men are just sticking up for themselvesNo it’s a disaster because it is designed to help men. Mental health outside if psychiatric care which is medication. Fails men utterly. Men don’t sit and talk about their problems without getting advice and solutions. It has nothing to do with this feminist nonsense about all men want is sex . Which really is men that women isn’t attracted to find her sexually attractive and that might mean Im nit as attractive as have been lead to believe. Its her hypergamy filter not working perfectly. How da… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/24 10:42 AM |
| – | Would you rape a woman if it was guaranteed you’d get away with it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/24 10:29 AM |
| – | Would you rape a woman if it was guaranteed you’d get away with it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/24 10:08 AM |
| – | Would you rape a woman if it was guaranteed you’d get away with it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/24 09:51 AM |
| – | Women can't complain that men voted for Trump, men are just sticking up for themselvesIt was Democrat JFK who said Ask not what your country can do for you. Ask what you can do for your country. You can start by serving in the military . Volunteer to help disabled veterans. Volunteer to help disabled people. Guess which demographic does those things. Men. You can run for local office and better your community. There’s a lot you can do . Women reversed that .Ask not what you can do for your country. Ask what t government handouts I can get because I exist and didn’t use easily obt… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/24 09:12 AM |
| – | Women can't complain that men voted for Trump, men are just sticking up for themselvesMath is misogynistic! Progressives have changed how math is taught in a California. They have been trying in the North East with no success. Trump would not have won without women’s votes . That should be obvious. They are mad because a larger percentage Hispanics voted against Harris. But their ideology prevents them from saying this . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/24 08:52 AM |
| – | Women can't complain that men voted for Trump, men are just sticking up for themselvesYou’re joking right? Mental health care is a disaster. It isn’t designed to help men. Sitting and talking about your problems with out any solutions or useful information is useless to men . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/24 08:48 AM |
| – | Women can't complain that men voted for Trump, men are just sticking up for themselvesThose men don’t date . Those are the simps , white knights, orbiters and enablers. They are far worse than and conservative or libertarian man . Woman prefer conservative or libertarian men . They would never publicly admit this. While a small amount of women are having a meltdown over Trump . Mostly because he crudely said what everyone suspected. If you are rich and famous women will do whatever you want . Trump being his normal vulgar narcissistic self blurted out what many many men ling susp… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/24 08:44 AM |
| 1 | Misandry hurts women.Never heard of him. A anglo telling me how to vote Ja ja ja ! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/24 06:49 AM |
| 1 | Tragic Story: A Texas man who wanted his wife to be a tradwifeNo it needed a explanation! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/24 06:48 AM |
| 1 | Misandry hurts women.The women that need to hear that message and understand that men and women are complimentary and meant by hundreds of thousands of years of evolution to work together doing different things. Refuse to acknowledge this . They are having a meltdown because people have had enough of being bullied by a bunch of coastal elite academics telling us they known what is best for everyone. The ghastly irreversible mutilation of children with drugs and surgery is a atrocity. Telling us the biological men ar… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/24 06:47 AM |
| 4 | Misandry hurts women.Im Hispanic who is this comedian ? BTW . Us Hispanics despise the Latinx term and these woke idiots trying to butcher our language. Using a X instead of a A or O renders Latin languages incomprehensible. Harris was especially good at insulting Hispanics. It’s as if we are landscapers or cleaning services . Nothing else. They cannot comprehend that Hispanics and Latinos are a incredibly diverse ethnicity. The progressives stereotyping all Latinos as helpless and stupid is highly offensive. Biden … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/24 06:05 AM |
| 10 | Misandry hurts women.Don’t confuse them anymore rhan they already are . This was explained many times. The same people that vote against Harris voted to protect with reasonable regulations and restrictions abortion in many states. After Dobbs and in the election Tuesday. If women want a abortion they can go to NY ,CT , MA and even deep red Kanas . I don’t believe Texas allows for ballot initiatives to change their constitution. Each state will vary. Feminism isn’t about equal rights It us about power , privilege and… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/24 05:53 AM |
| 1 | Tragic Story: A Texas man who wanted his wife to be a tradwifeNot true . This hate needs to stop . You cannot blame men for everything. Very few men or women are wealthy and powerful. Perhaps start there instead of blaming men who work at dirty dangerous jobs that allow you to live a comfortable safe , if you choose healthy, life in a civilized society. You are welcome to go to Cuba , China , Venezuela, Russia, North Korea , Iran is offering free scholarships to westerners! I spent time on a base in Saudi Arabia. I hated every second. Woman cannot leave a … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/24 12:50 AM |
| 1 | Tragic Story: A Texas man who wanted his wife to be a tradwifeWrong again. 48 percent of DV victims are men . Anyone can become violent. Women are more likely to use a weapon or object. Knives or a blunt object are common. Ask any first responder . The idea woman are incapable of domestic violence is a harmful lie that makes the problem worse. Blaming only men solves nothing and alienates half the population. That should not be difficult to understand | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/24 11:00 PM |
| 1 | Tragic Story: A Texas man who wanted his wife to be a tradwifeYou have to be deranged to do that . It has nothing to do with whatever he read on the internet. People have been blaming everything but the person who committed a atrocious act long before the internet , television, radio , or the printing press were invented. Less than 1 percent of prisoners in the US committed murder or took a life. This is no different than blaming heavy metal in the 1980sand 1990s The great Satanic panics of the early 1980s . Blaming books, We can go back to the inquisition… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/24 09:50 PM |
| 1 | Tragic Story: A Texas man who wanted his wife to be a tradwifeThis is complete nonsense. Most people including men don’t murder or abuse others. In fact homosexual men have the lowest rate of Intimate Partner Violence and psychological or emotional abuse. On the other hand lesbian women have the highest rates of both. You can extrapolate what you like from that . This idea that only men can be violent is not rational or possible. Humans are capable of incredible violence. Go move to a nice socialist country or Islamic country then we can talk . It is this … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/24 09:33 PM |
| 3 | Tragic Story: A Texas man who wanted his wife to be a tradwifeExactly none . Plenty of people have different political beliefs and have relationships. In general men tend to be more conservatives or libertarian and women tend to be more collectivist . In experiments men will divide resources according to merit while women will equally divide them regardless of how much a person contributes. This has been part of human behavior for hundreds of thousands of years if not millions of years. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/24 09:25 PM |
| 4 | Tragic Story: A Texas man who wanted his wife to be a tradwifeI think they are saying he is a very disturbed person. He would have done it regardless of the Red Pill . He hopefully gets the death penalty . Texas isn’t shy about executing garbage like him . Put him on death row and forget him until his date with his anti criminal vaccination arrives.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/24 03:20 AM |
| – | Abruptly learning about female standards can lead to mental disarrayIt is a crime in 14 https://www.newsweek.com/map-shows-16-states-where-its-illegal-cheat-your-wife-1887307 Infidelity causes permanent damage psychologically qbd emotionally. The financial costs to the victims and the taxpayers is in the billions. Both emotional and physical infidelity cause tremendous pain. Many people who have had a spouse or a LTR engage in either sexual and or emotional infidelity suffer severely . Thry struggle with trust beyond intimate relationships, anxiety disorders, de… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/24 04:41 AM |
| -2 | Social skills/friendships platonically leading to increased sexual activity is a lie and bad adviceI don’t think you understand the analogy. It means eventually there’s a price . It is different than there’s no such thing as a free ride . It comes from a time when you paid the minstrels after they performed. It was expected that you would pay. If you didn’t then the minstrels crew of swordsmen would ensure payment. I really believe that we are not teaching our youth very well at all. Then schools are now made for girls and young women. The whole restorative justice programs where the bullies … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/24 05:19 PM |
| 1 | Social skills/friendships platonically leading to increased sexual activity is a lie and bad adviceFirst Describe what toxic is to you . I notice that it is starting to mean different things to different people. Especially women. I sort of agree this whole friendship nonsense women go on about. Is mostly nonsense. It’s to their advantage. They get something while men get aw that’s nice or nothing. Social skills are more than interacting with women in order to get a relationship . We have some that are hardwired through eons of evolution which is still happening. We have the ability to learn t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/24 02:15 PM |
| -1 | Social skills/friendships platonically leading to increased sexual activity is a lie and bad adviceYou don’t understand math . All things end . Nothing is free. Stop with the childish use of incel . Oh there party is ending. I will let you figure it out . Or tou can dwell in your self imposed prison and despair. There’s a reason people made the saying You have to pay the piper if you want to dance. The piper for this insane dance is going to be very expensive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/24 01:15 PM |
| 1 | Social skills/friendships platonically leading to increased sexual activity is a lie and bad adviceIf you are 37 and have not had a relationship. Do you think that maybe a different attitude, and changing what you are doing might make some difference? This doesn’t excuse the often cruel , hypocritical often insanl delusional entitlement mentality and attitude a lot of women have ? That yes they are very wrong. Their party is starting to end. They will be paying the piper a very high price for this dance. But you have agency and can do things to have relationships or if you choose just sex . T… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/24 05:15 AM |
| 3 | Social skills/friendships platonically leading to increased sexual activity is a lie and bad adviceSocial skills are or were important for navigating life . Knowing when yo be tactful or not say anything. When to be direct or maybe a little less direct and hope the person got the cuetor hint . For example I know of a woman who is extremely needy , cling, uses drama shr has a crisis almost every week . She’s very superficial and needs to be the center of attention , is deliberately late , and doesn’t seem to taje a hint It’s endless. I have since learned she is a cluster B with HPD and NPD . W… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/24 05:00 AM |
| – | Do we have to pin women down to a science.He can be a sex offender released from prison and get offers of all kinds of sex . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/24 12:11 AM |
| – | Do we have to pin women down to a science.Being emotional doesn’t equal emotionally intelligent. Some of the most emotionally intelligent people Ive met are badass SF operators. If we did not have empathy and emotional intelligence we would not be able to function as a team and accomplish incredibly high risk operations . I saw incredible empathy and compassion while in combat during a hostage rescue or after combat taking care of casualties. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/24 12:07 AM |
| – | Do we have to pin women down to a science.Well you could learn Spanish. There’s a entire continent to explore. Though Brasilians speak Portuguese. Latinas in South America are very different than norte Americanas . This seems to be much more of a problem in North America. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/24 12:03 AM |
| 0 | CMV: The "Mike Pence Rule" is sexistIt was explained. By having a camera, not sharing a room or traveling together, always making sure there’s a wittiness to your interactions. Document everything snd secure in a SCIF area. Due process where the accused can introduce evidence and witnesses . No more unconstitutional rape shield laws . That make false accusations very easy. Allow the accused to cross examine the accuser , allow the defense to make the accusers past known. If she made false accusations before that should be known. I… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/24 11:31 PM |
| 1 | If you had the option to get plastic surgery at little to no cost would you?I would really reconsider a hair transplant. The advertisements might look good . But reality is a different matter. Hair from a different part of the body is going to look different and grow different. If you have thinning hair , early male pattern baldness try minoxidil. You can get 3 months supply for around $ 35 - 40 USD . Try retinol with hyraluronic acid . It’s much less expensive and lasts longer. Exercise, cardio and resistance, a healthy diet, sleeping well , reducing stress , All help … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/24 06:48 PM |
| 2 | Women should be taught that they too can find joy in providing for their partner.It’s difficult to fully explain what has been happening for the past 50 -60 years with out appearing to go off topic. Government employees and agencies are a voting block unto themselves. They are dependent on constant conflict and a victim class . The more the better. You are correct identity politics is socialism. Socialism is the express lane to a homicidal dystopian nightmare . It can only exist if people are pitted against each other. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/24 05:08 PM |
| 2 | Women should be taught that they too can find joy in providing for their partner.You are right westerners live lives that people in hell holes cannot imagine. They would laugh in our faces if we were to talk about our problems. They are willing to pay humans trafficos a lot of money to risk their lives to go to a western country. I frequently was involved in stopping that. Of course in our own special way . You did not want to be a human trafficker in my scope . I could explain how zoning and gentrification grants make housing expensive . Section 8 does as well . I don’t car… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/24 02:33 AM |
| 0 | Women should be taught that they too can find joy in providing for their partner.It’s Colombia nor Columbia. Pro social does not mean taking from responsible people snd giving away free stuff to irresponsible people. The only reason women are almost always awarded custody is a misguided belief women are better caretakers. Section eight should not exist. It should be simple. If you not disabled or a disabled veteran You work . If you want help you accept a job doing things like clearing brush in public parks , maintaining infrastructure suxh as water treatment, water departme… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/24 01:13 AM |
| 1 | Women should be taught that they too can find joy in providing for their partner.That’s the idea . To confuse people. They use made up important, sounding words to Cause confusion and gain a advantage. Then resort to personal attacks and more word salad and gibberish. This has been a growing pattern since about 196O Though the liberals then would be far right . I look up Cloward Piven . We have been seeing that happen over the psst 60 years. Part of her ideological strategy is to confuse and conflate. She has been doing this for a ling time. It’s actually amusing to watch . … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/24 12:04 AM |
| -2 | Women should be taught that they too can find joy in providing for their partner.That doesn’t happen. That’s the problem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/24 09:53 PM |
| -4 | Women should be taught that they too can find joy in providing for their partner.That’s the problem. We were taught to provide and protect. Be responsible, accountable not to expect a government handout. Women are taught they are strong ,fierce, independent and successful women. As ling as theres a government program or policy to make sure they never fail Men don’t get public assistance for having children we can’t afford . Men get a prison cell for that .While women get a condo, free food , clothing allowance, phone, moved ahead of disabled veterans and disabled men for Sec… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/24 07:03 PM |
| 0 | Women should be taught that they too can find joy in providing for their partner.What word would you choose. This constant demand to change a language is getting out of control. As a Hispanic I am told using male and female adjectives, noun’s, pronouns , verbs and adverbs is sexist , misogynistic and hateful. You would render my language incoherent. We give ir provide pleasure. I have no problem with a woman saying that about me. Damn women enjoy sex as well and enjoy their partner giving or providing pleasure. This language policing is insane. It makes communication impossi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/24 06:17 PM |
| 6 | CMV: The "Mike Pence Rule" is sexistIt called protecting yourself. In firearms safety courses , the first thing I teach and reinforce repeatedly is always treat every firearm as if it has a round in the chamber and full magazine if applicable. Which is all but a few firearms today . Of course not all firearms have a round in the chamber ready to go . But all it takes is one to kill you or someone else. Until you make sure by clearing the chamber and removing the magazine you are not safe .. Many women will not make a false accusat… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/24 03:28 PM |
| 19 | It has begun, dun dun dunShe will get all kinds of sympathy and consolation as well . | /r/MensRights | 24/10/24 02:46 PM |
| 10 | It has begun, dun dun dunMen are deliberately being pushed out at the college , university level. Some colleges are 80 percent female undergraduates and 95 plus percent graduate student . That has to stop . Feminist kept demanding more and more. They now hold positions of power throughout or educational system . We can start by working to eliminate the Dept od Education which makes a lot of this possible. We don’t need Title IX We are seeing a small but noticeable change since Affirmative Action was ruled unconstitution… | /r/MensRights | 24/10/24 02:38 PM |
| 4 | Don't ask for relationship advice on RedditI understand about men not having few people to talk with about things like this . We are no have close communities. We are scattered across the country and even legally restricted from having mens only club or facility. That decision was wrong it violates our right to free association thats the first amendment. Maybe it’s time to revisit it. I am not at all surprised by the attacks. All it takes is one feminist and she will get her friends to pile on . It’s called brigading . It is supposed to … | /r/MensRights | 24/10/24 02:31 PM |
| -3 | Men are just as irrational/emotional as women. (If anything, they are arguably more so on average.)Nope I avoid progressives like the plague. I don’t want STIs , infidelity, entitlement mentality, drama and chaos. All women are turned off by whiny beta behavior. I am not liberal and definetly would not get along with a progressive. We are worlds apart . Women don’t want a weak whiny beta who talks about therapy . Thry already do that with female friends. I’ve seen a relationship fall apart after a man went to therapy. He became suicidal. Then after recovering he said never again will zi go to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/24 09:05 AM |
| 2 | Men are just as irrational/emotional as women. (If anything, they are arguably more so on average.)But they are a minority of inmates. Most inmates are incarcerated for drug trafficking, financial crimes , the having a firearm while committing a felony. Joe drug dealer carries a gun for his protection . Gets arrested. Gets a minimum of five years added . Break and enter and steal over a certain amount or steal prescription medication and your looking at a lot of time. Most criminals are aware they are committing crimes and accept the risk of arrest as oart of the deal . This doesn’t mean they… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/24 08:50 AM |
| 6 | Men are just as irrational/emotional as women. (If anything, they are arguably more so on average.)All too true. A man getting laid off from work though no fault of his own . A man getting severely injured and unable to work until he recovers . A chronic illness increase the odds of divorce dramatically. Women are even called brave , fierce, independent and empowered when they keave a man whose been injured or get sick ! Men are shamed if they so much as mention leaving . Or consider a prostitute for occasional sex and stay . Men are supposed to sacrifice and be of service . Women do whatever… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/24 08:35 AM |
| 0 | Men are just as irrational/emotional as women. (If anything, they are arguably more so on average.)Just don’t tell women this . Keep it to yourself. If you want to have a lot of female friends and never have a relationship go right ahead . No disclosing vulnerability is trauma dumping especially when men do it with women. You are making yourself her girl friend. Women talk about there problems with each other . Not men that are not family or they have established a relationship with. If a woman asks me what combat , jumping into a hot LZ or hostage rescue is like or similar things. I describe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/24 08:23 AM |
| 1 | Most dating problems in men's life arise from the fact that they are condition to reward bad behaviour.Beta is a mindset and placeholder. You can choose whiny beta behaviors and attitudes . No one is forcing you to be beta . Yes the laws , public assistance programs , divorce and family courts , social pressure to a degree all favor women , enable bad choices and the entitlement mentality we deal with. You can choose to be a whiny beta or not . You don’t have to spend hours each week at the gym, you don’t have to earn $ 250,000 , be over six ft tall to have a alpha mindset. You can be a introvert… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/24 07:40 AM |
| 2 | Women don't like bad boys any more than men like bad womenYikes. I cannot imagine being in the same room with her unless I had my 1911.45 ACP . She’s truly barking at the moon crazy and dangerous. I posted a short clip . The full interview gets really disturbing. By the end she’s talking about going to heaven and talking with Jesus. Maybe one of the guards was named Jesus ( pronounced Hey sus ) lots of Hispanics in Florida I believe it’s Hispanics majority especially in Cuban areas . Great empanadas , chorizo and Churrasco if you know what to look for … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/24 07:03 AM |
| 1 | The legality of abortion is not a gendered issue and "men trying to control women's bodies" is a bad explanationNo right wing in Europe would be left of center in the US . Western Europeans are generally agnostic or non religious. It is a moral issue for them. At some point we have to accept that a fetus is not just a clump of cells but a human life developing. The horrors of the Holocaust also are going to play a much stronger role in Europe. You can visit concentration camps It’s very somber and moving. It will play a role. Eastern Europe has a large Catholic and Orthodox Christian population that will … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/24 06:53 AM |
| 5 | 'Men going to fuck everything' is a hate speech.We don’t tell them every man is a sex pest that will have sex with anyone. We tell them to vet men carefully. We go so far as to describe the men they should avoid. If a man says he will fuck anyone that should be a huge run as fast as you can warning. It’s insulting and degrading to hear that Many women are also taught sex is something they give to men and can be used as a weapon to manipulate men . That all men want is sex and nothing else. Which is almost completely divorced from reality. Yes… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/24 06:42 AM |
| 2 | Women don't like bad boys any more than men like bad womenWould you have sex with Aileen Wournos https://youtu.be/K6a5gmbPV98?si=XDXIdewbOzCfgun_ She was executed by the state of Florida for killing 6 men . There’s a reasonable debate about her being insane. Though I think she refused to let her attorneys use thst argument. I would choose the skinny nerdy awkward shy woman . I would avoid the serial killer or any woman with s violent history. Most likely the shy awkward bookworm is a really interesting person. With a bit of encouragement can come out i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/24 05:05 AM |
| 2 | Women don't like bad boys any more than men like bad womenTo be fair often they don’t know that she is crazy until it’s too late or she stopped taking her meds. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/24 04:53 AM |
| 12 | Don't ask for relationship advice on RedditWhy did you ask that question? Im curious. Them calling your child a clump of cells is repulsive . There’s an many valid reasons people openly despise feminists . That behavior is one . Avoiding DC during the election is a good idea in general. With the current age of rage environment where the slightest usually imagined insult can cause a riot and a hyper polarized political climate .DC is not the smartest of places to be . Regardless of who wins there going to be chaos. Did any men stand up fo… | /r/MensRights | 24/10/24 04:28 AM |
| 4 | Men are just as irrational/emotional as women. (If anything, they are arguably more so on average.)That gets really interesting. Not all or even most psychopaths are not deranged serial killers . There’s psychopaths running multibillion dollar multi national corporations. They simply don’t care if layoffs ruin a community . They don’t care they wasted shareholders investments on Buying out a company. I would bet a million that a lot of politicians are psychopaths. Women can be psychopaths . Instead of the cover all ASPD diagnosis that both psychopaths and sociopaths get . Women get BPD HPD an… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/24 02:51 AM |
| 6 | Men are just as irrational/emotional as women. (If anything, they are arguably more so on average.)In what alternative universe is this ? While multi universe theories are interesting and a great material for science fiction books and movies. So far they are just that theories. I am sure there’s mathematical geniuses who have done the math and say it’s possible. But on earth! Not A Chance . Men who admit to s mental health issue are less likely to have a relationship. Including Chad . He might have a slightly better chance than the average man . But his chances are greatly reduced. It’s irrel… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/24 02:17 AM |
| 3 | Let's say women's standards are too high. Now what?Make that three generations of men . This has been going on for at least the past 50 - 60 years. It started with reasonable things and kept going. It’s a perpetual employment machine . Think about all those government agencies the department of education is a big one . Then HHS , there’s all sorts of departments and offices with agencies that are utterly useless or redundant. Who benefits from a massive expensive powerful government ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/24 01:54 AM |
| 1 | If women were truly as horny as men, it wouldn’t only be for some small subset of men. They would fuck men who were on their level or below like men do, and most men wouldn’t struggle to get laidThe blank slate argument, that infers its all mens fault. Besides saying little snd lots of word salad That everything is a social construct. No one taught me sex . I figured it out together with a girlfriend What did humans do before the printing press or photography then motion pictures we now call videos? Once again woman have agency. They can use words to express themselves. They can and do say I really like that wow how did you know doing X feels amazing. I have had women in one way or anot… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/24 02:53 PM |
| 9 | The male to female transgender rate as well as suicide rate in the US is around 3x higher in men than women. When will society simply accept that men have it much harder?War is hell . I saw a lot of really disturbing things in Iraq,Afghanistan, Syria and other must not be mentioned Islamic countries. I highly edit a lot of what I post because it would definitely be NSFW . I saw things the Taliban and ISIL did to villages that fought back or refused to help them. The things that in particular ISIL did to captives was repulsive. Lets say when we rescued hostages unless a intelligence agency from the US or other NATO countries asked nicely. For prisoners . We did n… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/24 02:18 PM |
| -2 | If women were truly as horny as men, it wouldn’t only be for some small subset of men. They would fuck men who were on their level or below like men do, and most men wouldn’t struggle to get laidFeminists come up with some crazy ideas . They use lots of word salad with words that sound or look important and scientific . Intersectional , systemic , internalized gas lighting , are common . That is a less than honest and definetly not academically rigorous. I would have failed a college statistics class if I used such a study . It’s ridiculous the whole orgasm gap nonsense. I would blame women if it exists. It is their body they know what feels good. They have vocal cords , nerves attached… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/24 10:27 AM |
| 2 | If women were truly as horny as men, it wouldn’t only be for some small subset of men. They would fuck men who were on their level or below like men do, and most men wouldn’t struggle to get laidExactly. The women who don’t use their words and make a effort have bad sex then complain its all mens fault . I always askor can tell she enjoys x . It’s not difficult. Sex is always much more enjoyable when you both make efforts to pleasure each other. They are worse than toddlers. The toddler learns X. Causes Y. Y is good I will do z and get more Y . Sometimes ther insanity and entitlement goes to extremes that you just have to laugh. I am beginning to think the passport bros are onto somethi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/24 04:24 AM |
| 3 | If women were truly as horny as men, it wouldn’t only be for some small subset of men. They would fuck men who were on their level or below like men do, and most men wouldn’t struggle to get laidI have met women who asked . Saying something like I really like it when you do X or do that again or more. Maybe I am lucky . It doesn’t bother me if a woman asks do that or uses non verbal communication to convey her desires . Why wouldn’t they ask to do something that feels good . Why not say hey I really liked ir whrn you xyz . Men are not mind readers . I know i know. We are supposed to just know . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/24 03:46 AM |
| 10 | As a red pill or purple pilled man, what do you think about feminism?The debate is complex. Not this either or narrative that feminists like to push . Most people agree abortion should be available with increasing restrictions past the first trimester . Wether they like it or not at some point the fetus is a human life . It gets really ethically troubling for a lot of people especially during the second and third trimesters. It’s not men telling women what to do . There’s birth defects. Some are horrible . When we would arrive in a village in Afghanistan. Inevita… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/24 02:42 AM |
| 11 | As a red pill or purple pilled man, what do you think about feminism?Don’t tell her that the majority of the people who want a total ban on abortion are women. You can find them leading anti abortion organizations online. Republicans are simply pandering to the religious voters. The majority of that demographic is women. Women are more likely to be involved with a church and or religious organizations. Men are more likely to be agnostic or atheist. There was no right to a abortion. Roe v Wade was a fourth amendment case . It should have been dismissed and Re liti… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/24 02:07 AM |
| -1 | Q4W: What is a creep?Of course they do that . There’s definitely a number of siimps , white knights and enablers here. They are always ready to charge to the fair maiden’s rescue. They will do this in the ral world also . Occasionally getting their asses kicked . The idea that men are going to instantly morph into a deranged maniac and kill thrm is stupid. If this were happening. We would know it. Yes a few so called men become angry when rejected. They say offensive stuff and leave . Then there are women who do thi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/24 01:18 AM |
| 1 | Kamala Harris is clueless about the situation of half of the people she plans to gouvernWell people act as if that’s not a real thing. I haven’t personally seen mines in Africa. I have seen pictures. In Afghanistan boys as young as 6 or 7 were sent into mines by Taliban and other terrorist organizations. The minerals were sold to China. Yes we neutralized those human traffickers. A lot of minerals mined in 3rd world countries are used in devices the people living in them cannot afford. I saw things during my military career that would bother any human who has a ounce of compassion.… | /r/MensRights | 22/10/24 07:28 PM |
| 1 | Kamala Harris is clueless about the situation of half of the people she plans to gouvernComercial??? . What comercial? | /r/MensRights | 22/10/24 06:31 PM |
| 1 | Kamala Harris is clueless about the situation of half of the people she plans to gouvernI don’t think you understand. People are aware that carburetors are a relic of a different time. They are gone with a few exceptions. Everything depends on some electronic or digital technology. That requires rare earth minerals. No one cares about carburetors in vehicles outside of collectors . The device you used to post uses rare earth minerals . Wars are fought for resources , land and yes woman. Access to women. EVs require lots of rare earth minerals. There’s a limited supply. A substantia… | /r/MensRights | 22/10/24 04:49 PM |
| 0 | Q4W: What is a creep?Get a grip seriously. I am not here tonwriteca novel or autobiography I have many other things to do bedside posts . Maybe there’s somethings ghat are very private . People are not requires to disclose their life online | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/24 03:53 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: What is a creep?No I served many tours . Because of people like me you get to sleep safe and comfortable. If you cannot handle more than 240 character perhaps as eval for ADHD would be a very good idea . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/24 03:21 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: What is a creep?I learned a long time ago women are far less empathetic than men. Thry can put on a act or know that they should act in a particular way . But it’s often a insincere act to accomplish something or avoid consequences abd accountability Women are much more solipsistic than men . I had been clearing fallen trees after a powerful storm and fell . I could not easily get up not knowing I had also briefly lost consciousnesses for a few minutes. In the security video, women looked and laughed. Ha ha yea… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/24 02:22 PM |
| 2 | It doesn't make sense that men complain about promiscuous women but also complain that women's standards are too highI don’t know if the women here are being willfully ignorant, obtuse or are that promiscuous woman and sre trying to claim theres nothing wrong with their behavior. Mostly as a ego preservation method. It’s been a thing for a very ling time thst men want a lady in public to ludt after him and only him in private. I don’t know if the moderationaka censorship . will allow the saying thsts been around for a very long time. We want a lady in public and a whXrF between the sheets. We don’t want a who … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/24 01:23 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: What is a creep?I agree. It’s not really that difficult. Once they trust you. A lot hsve been badly bullied and sadly abused by parents. Once they get a good neuropsychologist and are getting advice if needed medication. Often a benzodiazepine for severe anxiety. Thry do better. Not perfect. Many women have been taught by society thst they are entitled to mistreate men and they are always right or should never be uncomfortable. Thats asking for a lot of problems. A smslll number of women acting entitled and arr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/24 12:41 PM |
| 0 | Q4W: What is a creep?Well the foot thing is unusual he probably has a foot fetish . Not my thing . But that needs professional treatment . He is going to really srcew that up . I thbk some of the men called creepy are unattractive men who never learned how to interact with people not just women. We really need to stop putting women on a pedestal and falling for the women are wonderful effect . Women are humans and perfectly dcapable of doing terrible things Humiliating a neurologically impaired man is cruel.. it nee… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/24 12:18 PM |
| 0 | Q4W: What is a creep?Usually if told directly I am busy please let me do this or something like that . I learned from Officer Training School. Be direct and to the point with out being rude, is very effective. Yes giving comands while in combat is not the same. The Autistic people I have known appreciate you being direct. Instead of a often misinterpreted by us neuro typicals. . Be polite but direct. I really have to findhbZ project . I cannot talk now. Because of lots of very loud noises in my military career. I ha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/24 12:08 PM |
| 0 | Q4W: What is a creep?Yes they are. Many need encouragement and assurance they won’t be humiliated further if they get thst help . I feel bad for them . One of my closeest friends is a autistic man . He is now married and has a perfectly healthy daughter. His wife is a normal really caring and compassionate, empathetic woman’ . I was surprised because of the dramatic differences in careers. A engineer and a nurse practitioner who specializes in cardiology . But if it works for them that’s great. I wish more people we… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/24 11:54 AM |
| -3 | Q4W: What is a creep?Why are women unable to ask that person to leave them alone. Yiu know. Say “Hey I am really busy , I need to pay attention to this project . Have a nice day “. Women are not a separate fragile species incapable of speaking. We have a second amendment. If you are not in prayers or permanently court ordered to a psychiatric hospital after going before azjusge , having a attorney and presenting your case . If course the right to appeal. Women don’t need special privilege’s. A creep usually is a una… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/24 11:35 AM |
| 1 | Kamala Harris is clueless about the situation of half of the people she plans to gouvernThen we should not vote for her . Trump is bad.snd will be a problem Harris snd the progressives want to slit your throat . What do you do? We need none on the ballot. | /r/MensRights | 22/10/24 11:07 AM |
| 0 | Kamala Harris is clueless about the situation of half of the people she plans to gouvernChina bought roughly 70 percent of the mineral rights in Afghanistan . Rare earth minerals used in EVs batteries snd component’s . This would including minerals for digital devices. Including thing lime GPS and Comuncation equipment militaries around the world . This was a Biden give a way . Thrn Bided used executive orders to all but close any type of mining or collecting the same minerals here in the US. There are mines in South America . China is being more aggressive than Comrades Biden and … | /r/MensRights | 22/10/24 11:03 AM |
| 8 | Men ignore conventionally unattractive women (they aren't even on their radar), so they assume that all women are privileged in datingYes they could. They believe they are entitled to the top men . The hypocrisy and disconnect from reality is stunning. It used to be we generally dated , married fairly laterally. Yes hypergamy is real and it gives women tremendous but brief power at the height of their SMV and RMV. Whichbas we know drops rapidly after about 30- 35 for women. Men hit their peak at about 38 and it slowly drops after about 60 . But the bell curve for men is much more spread out and gradual . Women would do well to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/24 07:17 AM |
| 12 | Men ignore conventionally unattractive women (they aren't even on their radar), so they assume that all women are privileged in datingShe’s trying to say without being direct. The unattractive women want and believe they are entitled to the very attractive men. The average to slightly above average women might get Chad for a night or two during a dry spell . They will never have Chad as anything more than a pump and dump . But the average and. unattractive women now believe that because Chad had sex with them in a dry spell . They are entitled to a Chad. They don’t think that all they were was a live masturbation device . Whic… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/24 07:07 AM |
| 3 | Safe Option: Good or BadPossibly because there’s disconnect between what women say they want and what men they have sex with. Why would anyone want to be a option or worse a wallet . Being that pleasant, comfortable safe guy is not desirable to men . All men assuming heterosexual want to be desired and seen a special. Not boring starfish passionless lying there until the guy finishes. Thats a awful feeling. Do not think those guys are not aware of what is happening. If I had a daughter. I would explain to her about men… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/24 04:56 AM |
| 1 | For those on dating apps, do you prefer more matches or better quality?I think most men are aware that the only reason they are having sex is because they paid for it . Though it is not surprising that they develop a client , provider relationship. Many legal prostitutes in interviews havd said the men will pay dor thr time and want to talk . A lot are men in dead marriages or are very lonely . They lack any intimacy. You can have a lot of friends snd family but the intimacy with a romantic partner is very different . I don’t have the same level of intimacy includi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/24 04:17 AM |
| 1 | For those on dating apps, do you prefer more matches or better quality?No they are not . Match Group ruined OK Cupid. They made it into Tinder with more questions. They ruin every app they buy . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/24 03:53 AM |
| 0 | For those on dating apps, do you prefer more matches or better quality?Thats why swiping is not the best way to find a match . It does however make Match Group billions. It’s easier to simply keep searching . Instead of swiping. People can simply bookmark a profile only they would know, then have say 10 to go through and either send a message or save a few and the next day do the same there’s a better possibility of meeting someone also a nope could become a yes . The reason those guys swipe right on lots of women is they are using the shotgun approach and hoping o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/24 03:51 AM |
| 1 | For those on dating apps, do you prefer more matches or better quality?You are not going to find that person if you don’t have lots of profiles to go through . A saying wrongly attributed to Stalin though he might have used it to explain horrific loses to the Wehrmacht . Quantity has a Quality of its own . I would prefer to sort through a lot of profiles and be able to have a idea of who is available. Where my best chances are then narrow my choices further. You’re unlikely to find a person who you like and likes you with a limited number of profiles. Ideally the a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/24 03:30 AM |
| 5 | Safe Option: Good or BadWe do have standards. Men also have a dual mating strategy. The easy to have sex with women who are essentially for recreational purposes only Then the woman who we really want the low count intelligent , kind, compassionate , pleasant to be with and share a life with woman. The man who tolerates no sex while giving attention, validation and boyfriend, husband services. Is a simp . We actively call him out. Which we should do . Many men have tried to help these men . A lot of them have deep psyc… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/24 11:37 PM |
| 1 | Do women on here understand why men don't like being seen as the "safe" option?Reality bites , you do understand sarcasm and using slang to make a point . You are aware that men are not going to think oooh a woman made fun of a man . I think I’ll. revert to not exercising, not making more money one way or another. I won’t dress better or get a better haircut . Nope I will just be myself. We all know you will have sex withb The the hot attractive guy you met 2 minutes ago in Cancun . I happen to speak fluent Spanish. I understand every word the hotel staff in cancun says . … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/24 10:37 PM |
| 4 | Do women on here understand why men don't like being seen as the "safe" option?No he knows this from experience. He sees this all the time . You had no problem fucking the HAWT guy you met 5 minutes ago at the beach on spring break while he gets told. But Billy I need to be comfortable. Yeah sure.. When I was finished with my advanced Ranger training I was in better shape than Chad. It was pathetically easy to pick up women on spring break. If we could we went where there were lots of young willing coeds. to pick them up . Just be that in great shape HAWT guy . Funny how a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/24 07:31 PM |
| 2 | Do women on here understand why men don't like being seen as the "safe" option?This ! A lot of men under 40 , maybe 45 are getting caught in this false narrative and double bind . Men should be AF and BB . It’s becoming extremely difficult. It used to be the norm for a very long time. As in hundreds of thousands of years. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/24 05:53 PM |
| 2 | Do women on here understand why men don't like being seen as the "safe" option?They need to learn not to be the safe comfort guy. I am extremely fortunate my sisters helped me avoid that trap. I have often with incredible frustration tried to help men out of the friends first, be safe and comfortable mindset . It’s extremely difficult. They have been taught from a very young age to be that safe comfortable guy . Then are angry because they do exactly as they are told and fail every time they try to have a relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/24 05:49 PM |
| 2 | Do women on here understand why men don't like being seen as the "safe" option?Women made themselves for recreational purposes only. They rode the carousel, then expect Billy Beta Bux to accept starfish duty sex . Billy Beta Bux knows you had wild crazy passionate sex with multiple Chads . Then lay back and say are you finished with him . Thats not going to create a healthy relationship. He knows you fucked the HAWT guy 5 minutes after meeting on Spring Break in Cancun . Now you expect Billy Beta Bux to cough up lots of resources in exchange for boring starfish duty sex . … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/24 05:44 PM |
| 5 | Do women on here understand why men don't like being seen as the "safe" option?You either don’t understand are willfully ignorant or are being obtuse. Anyone can be fun as you put it . barring a psychiatric or severe neurological disorder it’s not that difficult. It is a choice, a learned behavior. Men are taught to be safe and comfortable. They need to learn a different way of navigating life and stop being that safe comfortable guy. Then more women will find him a potential partner. It’s that simple. Certainly there’s men amd women who are always going to be unrealistic … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/24 04:15 AM |
| 2 | Do women on here understand why men don't like being seen as the "safe" option?Then they need to stop being a doormat for those fun women. Most women are capable of being fun . They are not interested in the safe comfortable guy . He isn’t fun . He is not any different than her girl friends . He needs to stop being a girl friend. He can choose to meet other women and stop his unhealthy behaviors . Then eventually he will have fun with a fun woman. He needs to do what it takes to get what he wants. Not so what women want him to . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/24 03:37 AM |
| 0 | Do women on here understand why men don't like being seen as the "safe" option?The problem is the allegedly safe comfortable man isn’t even a option. He isn’t seen as a potential relationship. He us like a teddy bear , until cuddling clothed of course. Safe comfortable guy gets a erection . Then he becomes a creep and incel in a fraction of a second . Safe comfortable guys don’t have relationships. They go shopping and watch her favorite rom com. While sipping Pinot . That’s no different than being one of her girl friends. No it’s not a compliment at all. It’s humiliating … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/24 03:16 AM |
| 4 | Do women on here understand why men don't like being seen as the "safe" option?Do you really expect a answer? This is where pay attention to what they do not what they say is very helpful. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/24 02:32 AM |
| 13 | Do women on here understand why men don't like being seen as the "safe" option?That’s hard to do. Being the safe comfortable guy is to make a analogy. A flawed subroutine that’s been embedded at a very young age. I have seen it. Trying to help a young( 20) man understand this . He had reason after reason why he couldn’t do something Buy better clothes, nooe too expensive! Ok gym thots are a problem. Amazon has all kinds of home gym equipment. You don’t need a lot to look good. Nope can’t go to physicians, too far to drive ! Co pay too high! Then the why can’t women change.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/24 02:23 AM |
| 1 | There is no excuse to be attracted to shitty women, especially when you berate bad boy chasers.Ah ok I understand. Sometimes we miss that in text . Oh yeah we do that a lot. I don’t think a large and growing number of women get thst at all . They have a very different way of communicating . Women are much more covert . They would gossip or make a comment thst requires reading between the lines and then some to avoid being seen as the bad guy . They might use social punishment such ostracizing or avoiding the target. Men we say hey idiot stop that It’s not good . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/24 01:21 AM |
| -1 | There is no excuse to be attracted to shitty women, especially when you berate bad boy chasers.Saying no to pussy is difficult for all but a tiny fraction of the to . 1 percent of men. As in 99.9 percent of men are not going to say no. After being flown to Germany after the severe wound were stable enough for flight. I would have said hell yeah despite a the bullet woundsin my spine from S1 to L5 . Ok the morphine helped.. I would have accepted a casual lets have fun tour Europe activity partner during my recovery from multiple 7.62 x 39 AK rounds and a permanently damaged arm. . I said a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/24 12:31 AM |
| 0 | There is no excuse to be attracted to shitty women, especially when you berate bad boy chasers.Because men don’t expect that fantasy to be real. The overwhelming majority don’t get a night with Stacy and expect another random man to pay for the resulting child. Yes there are deadbeat dads . Most are criminals or cannot afford the gynocentric count mandated 80 percent of his income and she gets the house, car and no responsibility. That’s what men deal with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/24 07:55 PM |
| 1 | There is no excuse to be attracted to shitty women, especially when you berate bad boy chasers.Yes they do. I would not want them banned. I am a free speech and firearms right absolutist . I want most drugs legally available OTC . It’s when people cannot understand or grasp the difference between fantasy and reality. In a fantasy I would have a willing harem that truly desires me. A arsenal of every weapon. Every book , scroll and cuneiform ever made. While being a extremely benevolent dictator who allows this . ( a oxymoron). . I suppose I could write a book . It’s when people cannot und… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/24 06:55 PM |
| 1 | There is no excuse to be attracted to shitty women, especially when you berate bad boy chasers.It is banned in mostly Islamic countries. State prison systems can legally ban it. No Stalin was a brutal dictator. I would have to explain how Fascism is National Socialism. Mussolini coined the term. It was the Idea after his fantasies of a New Roman Empire. The term comes from fasces . Which translates into a bundle of wood. The symbol of his party was a bundle of wood slabs and a axe . Mussolini was a communist . Thats not taught anymore. The Bohemian Gefreiter. Was not stupid at all . Many … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/24 06:29 PM |
| 2 | There is no excuse to be attracted to shitty women, especially when you berate bad boy chasers.You really honestly don’t understand. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/24 05:15 PM |
| 1 | There is no excuse to be attracted to shitty women, especially when you berate bad boy chasers.I take it you are not from the US. 50 shades was not banned outside of prisons . Which have a constitutional right to do so Oh Antifa goes crazy when their masters cynically manipulates those useful idiots as Stalin called their ilk . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/24 05:12 PM |
| 3 | There is no excuse to be attracted to shitty women, especially when you berate bad boy chasers.Reading comprehension is fundamental. You are not going to get only responses you want on a open forum . Plenty if men avoid those awful women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/24 04:49 PM |
| 9 | There is no excuse to be attracted to shitty women, especially when you berate bad boy chasers.We should! . I have frequently said the WTF were you thinking! She’s howling at the moon crazy! To more than one man . We aren’t shitting on them. We are saying wake up ! That’s not good for you! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/24 04:47 PM |
| -2 | There is no excuse to be attracted to shitty women, especially when you berate bad boy chasers.What would be the reaction to a male version of 50 shades? The outrage, wailing and gnashing of teeth , endless screaming misogyny! Rape culture! Smash the patriarchy! Pedos ! Incels ! Arrrghhg ! Would be reverberating across the country . Perhaps the white knight brigade known as Antifa would have skinny , simps burning down buildings and throwing rocks , small explosives and O/C spraying cops and random people trying to avoid left wing orgy of violence? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/24 04:36 PM |
| 24 | There is no excuse to be attracted to shitty women, especially when you berate bad boy chasers.If a man does date crazy it’s either he thinks he can get away safely , he is himself crazy or extremely desperate. Yes we call that out . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/24 03:51 PM |
| 4 | There is no excuse to be attracted to shitty women, especially when you berate bad boy chasers.I am not attracted to awful women. Usually their behaviors give them away before any emotional or psychological attraction developes . You can find someone physically attractive and be disgusted with their behavior. Or is this seen more in men . The leading reasons men divorce are Substance abuse. criminality, disrespectful entitled, behavior Abuse Infidelity emotional and sexual. Those are behaviors of awful people. Those behaviors turn men off . Who wants those people in their lives? Perhaps m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/24 03:48 PM |
| 1 | Yesterday, men used women as their therapist. Today, too many men are in therapy.This is where I tactically withdraw.. i know you set a trap . It’s unfair and a extremely harmful tactic. This question is asked in bad faith. If free speech actually existed. I could openly explain the severity of the crisis. But we cannot do this . Which is not freedom. The mental health care professions are dominanted by women. The standards for a degree were changed to make things like statistics and the scientific method are not as important if required at all. I have a niece who is a psych… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/24 03:09 AM |
| 2 | If Spongebob didn't teach you marine biology, you shouldnt be using fiction to talk about women’s attraction.But how else to keep simps , simping and giving free attention, validation and boyfriend, husband services for free ? The mass delusions must be kept alive! I don’t understand how blue pill men , simps , white knights and other enablers fall for this . When reality shows that women in fact have lots of sex with hot , wealthy bad boys. Then Billy Beta Bux gets duty starfish sex and spends his hard earned income on Chads kids. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/24 07:30 PM |
| 3 | Yesterday, men used women as their therapist. Today, too many men are in therapy.Like I said . I don’t think you understand the irony. Hint It has nothing to do with sex . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/24 03:20 AM |
| 1 | Yesterday, men used women as their therapist. Today, too many men are in therapy.Not a problem. You are causing cognitive dissonance amongst the women here. The responses are very telling. Go to therapy but we won’t date you if you do. men with mental disorders are dangerous. Women are in meed of understanding and of course not being responsible for their behaviors . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/24 03:06 AM |
| 4 | Yesterday, men used women as their therapist. Today, too many men are in therapy.A lot of people go to therapy for years . Many manage to date and have a relationship. If you use the fact a person needs therapy a a way to avoid your role in a relationship. That’s not good either. That happens. Where one partner will Say you’re the one in therapy! Not me! Im fine, nothing wrong with me ! Avoiding any responsibility as usual. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/24 02:58 AM |
| 2 | Yesterday, men used women as their therapist. Today, too many men are in therapy.Actually a psychologist cannot prescribe in the US and Canada. I believe in much of the EU they can. They can ask your primary care physician to prescribe if you have given permission for them to communicate. A psychiatrist prescribes and dies some therapy as well as medication management. You don’t need a psychiatrist for mild symptoms that a benzodiazepine , SSRI or other medication for insomnia , mild to moderate symptoms of a disorder. A LCSW can also be a therapist. My niece is a psychiatri… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/24 02:52 AM |
| 2 | Yesterday, men used women as their therapist. Today, too many men are in therapy.I don’t think she will understand the irony. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/24 02:32 AM |
| 2 | Q4M: How many of you would be less inclined to help a female stranger in trouble, than a male stranger?Ted Bundy had a fake cast and would pretend his VW had problems. He would target young women at college campuses. They were similar in appearance. I think they were all brunettes and had similar facial features. He was considered attractive , charismatic and friendly by people who knew him . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/24 01:57 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: How many of you would be less inclined to help a female stranger in trouble, than a male stranger?You need to relocate if possible. Chicago made it’s own problems with it’s far left policies and anti 2 A laws . Maybe rural Wisconsin is a option? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/24 01:22 AM |
| 2 | The fact that the majority of blue pillers not only downplay but outright deny that women have become delusional in their standards or that there is a serious issue in dating is a huge red flag and tells you they are not interested in an honest debateI would not bother with her stupid tests or whatever. Let her do whatever she wants. Eventually the party years end . Usually badly . If you don’t take care of yourself physically, psychologically and emotionally. It will show . This getting a hooking up no relationships , hedonism and or nihilism is not good . You know she’s got other options and continue to play the game? Why bother, the risks outweigh the rewards. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/24 09:56 PM |
| 2 | The fact that the majority of blue pillers not only downplay but outright deny that women have become delusional in their standards or that there is a serious issue in dating is a huge red flag and tells you they are not interested in an honest debateWomen have always been competitive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/24 07:44 PM |
| 2 | The fact that the majority of blue pillers not only downplay but outright deny that women have become delusional in their standards or that there is a serious issue in dating is a huge red flag and tells you they are not interested in an honest debateYou are fighting or competing with 90 percent of men for whatever you can get . The top tier men are not competing. They are getting whatever they want. They are not competing with you . They get a harem of willing women. Who are willfully ignorant of consequences of their actions. Women who are aware of this are also not competing and are carrying on as usual. Many so called “top tier “ men are refusing to take part in this madness and getting on with life as they always have . There is have no… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/24 07:39 PM |
| 2 | The fact that the majority of blue pillers not only downplay but outright deny that women have become delusional in their standards or that there is a serious issue in dating is a huge red flag and tells you they are not interested in an honest debateIt’s actually the opposite. You are competing, not just for men but almost everything. That’s a feature not a bug of a free society. There’s such a thing as friendly competition. Men engage in friendly competition all the time. We actually enjoy it . You are in direct competition with other women for everything now. Jobs , men , pay or income of any type, housing, access to status and much more. Feminism went to a extreme and said men and women are not just legally equal but are nit different in… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/24 07:16 PM |
| 9 | “Woman were the perpetrators of one sided Domestic Violence 70% of the time in heterosexual relationships.” Study.The term for this abusive dynamic has a unfortunate name. Reactive Abuse. You are pushed to the point of eventually reacting. If she uses physical violence such as throwing objects. , using a a weapon, physically assaulting you . Men know that regardless of who is the actual aggressor, who deliberately used emotional and psychological abuse to force compliance. Women are rarely held accountable. They know they can do whatever they want and when a man becomes frustrated and hurt He is not free to… | /r/MensRights | 18/10/24 05:07 PM |
| 2 | Porn is not cheatingIf you are willing to do that . Each performer has informed consent, STI testing and agree to a mutually beneficial exchange and relationship thats not governments business. I have no interest in porn . To me it is like being in a desert for days without water. Then a liter of cold water is placed in a transparent container that doesn’t allow me to drink the water and is constantly being moved beyond my grasp. I want the real thing a woman who is truly interested and desires me . Not watching pe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/24 06:40 PM |
| 17 | 'Female' is considered dehumanizing and offensive but 'Persons with uterus' isn't?Yes it does. It’s poor grammar. The correct sentence is “ There’s a lot of good looking women in here tonight.” The woke crazies have taken off and run with it . So that using female in a grammatically correct way is now misogyny. The terms woman and female can often be used interchangeably. When we are at the point of attempting to force people to say birthing person or chest feeder . It becomes insane. | /r/MensRights | 17/10/24 12:29 PM |
| 6 | 'Female' is considered dehumanizing and offensive but 'Persons with uterus' isn't?Person with malfunctioning synapses? | /r/MensRights | 17/10/24 12:09 PM |
| 31 | 'Female' is considered dehumanizing and offensive but 'Persons with uterus' isn't?Ironically feminist started the whole trans insanity. They thought that transgender people are their natural allies smashing the imaginary patriarchy. They wanted this bizarre new speak . Until of course it didn’t benefit them. The only good thing is woke progressives are a circular firing squad. Eventually they will fight each other over victim status , who gets more special privileges and of course government assistance and or funding for their insanity. We cannot use female and have to use co… | /r/MensRights | 17/10/24 11:52 AM |
| 1 | Is there anything a woman could do to get you to say with her after she cheated on you ?A good loving girlfriend doesn’t have emotional or physical affairs. Good people don’t engage in infidelity. I would walk in a heartbeat. She is showing you she doesn’t respect you, the relationship or herself. People who engage in emotional and physical infidelity are not making you or the relationship a priority or a important part of their lives. Infidelity is a form of abuse. I f you tolerate it. It’s going to get worse. No one should stay in such relationships. In the case of divorce. if a … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/24 11:15 AM |
| 0 | How do you think the world would look if there were more absent mothers?You do know the majority of US states allow abortion with few restrictions. You can go to NY or CA , Colorado, Massachusetts, all come to mind . All will provide abortion at taxpayers expense. Even Deep Red Kansas voted to make abortion a constitutional right in Kansas. Among other places. You should not need abortion as birth control. The educational system and or your parents , parent failed you at that point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/24 12:48 AM |
| 10 | UK: Men are refusing to give lifesaving CPR to a women - because they're afraid to touch their breasts OP: Cannot blame them.That has resulted in litigation. Men should stop rendering aid . Unless there’s laws preventing this insanity. Be grateful someone saved your ass. | /r/MensRights | 16/10/24 10:38 PM |
| 3 | Who you associate with reflects on you.I’d have to re read about hybristophilia . I don’t think everything is caused by abuse. I suspect there’s other deep issues going on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/24 05:56 AM |
| 0 | Why do some women behave to attract sexual attention from men and lie about it?Sort of . We would prefer a LTR with a decent woman who has that sex with us and avoid crazy . There’s a saying . Don’t put your dick in Crazy . It exists for a reason. That crazy or bad girl is not likely to be a good mother . Before we had medications for psychiatric disorders. People who had serious psychiatric disorders tended not to survive long . The people who were criminals also didn’t survive as well . Of course some did . But a crazy , irresponsible, disrespectful, possibly criminal an… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/24 05:53 AM |
| 4 | Most women don’t pick men based on their status or moneyThose gigs lack status. It’s that simple. Status is not just wealth. While many people with high status are wealthy. It’s not required. Does the felon who is seen as having status in his neighborhood have wealth? Status is in part access to power and privileges. Legally or illegally. A attorney has status because of their access to the courts and knowledge of the law . A professional athlete has status because he is showing his prowess and access to privileges. The star high school quarterback g… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/24 04:47 AM |
| 3 | Who you associate with reflects on you.A few years ago, I was visiting a army buddy in Texas . We had gone to a range and had stopped to get some steaks to grill. I Noticed a number if women obviously not from anywhere near east Texas . Many of them were European. I asked him what is here besides pine trees and a lake ? He laughed and said that massive prison we drove by is the Polunsky Unit . Death Row is there. They are groupies, they are getting married by proxy and going to visit their new husband tomorrow. A guard from the priso… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/24 04:26 AM |
| 3 | Why do some women behave to attract sexual attention from men and lie about it?No no. Few men want to expend the time , money and emotion effort to turn a bad girl into a good girl. How about have a really good time with the bad girl . Have a committed relationship with the hopefully good girl who will be your bad girl in private. We really don’t want the drama , chaos and insanity of the bargirls . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/24 02:48 AM |
| 2 | Most women don’t pick men based on their status or moneySome of those self appointed life coaches and relationship experts make over 100K . They usually have a education beyond high school . All they need is to be photogenic, articulate and somewhat charismatic. If I could make $ 50K - 100k in addition to my current income by saying stuff that “ inspires “ people. Why not set up a studio and have people pay me for a few hours of my time to say stuff. I have no idea what a twitch streamer makes . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/24 02:36 AM |
| 4 | Most women don’t pick men based on their status or moneyYour HVAC job was blue collar . You never were. From a socioeconomic standpoint you are from a wealthy white collar or higher social class. There’s more to being in a socioeconomic demographic than income. Your values , education, how you socialize , dress , talk and more are part of that . You can become very wealthy yet retain the values , education, beliefs of the socioeconomic demographic you were in before becoming wealthy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/24 02:25 AM |
| 3 | Most women don’t pick men based on their status or moneyJust like Jimmy Pages girlfriend is into his music. She wasn’t alive when he was performing https://www.grunge.com/243420/the-truth-about-jimmy-page-and-scarlett-sabets-relationship/ He was able at 71 o to walk up to her and start a conversation after her poetry reading. Does anyone believe the average 70 y- 80 year old man could do that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/24 02:02 AM |
| 0 | Most women don’t pick men based on their status or moneyI generally am probably more so called red pilled though there’s some stuff that got twisted around over time . I can’t become really cynical. That would alienate everyone I know. . Of course women want status . It’s in their DNA quite literally. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/24 01:58 AM |
| 3 | Most women don’t pick men based on their status or moneyThen he is not blue collar . There’s plenty of blue collar careers that pay very well. If a man owns a landscaping company but comes from a wealthy family he never was and isn’t blue collar. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/24 01:36 AM |
| -1 | Most women don’t pick men based on their status or moneyYou would be surprised. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/24 01:33 AM |
| 0 | Most women don’t pick men based on their status or moneyThere’s all kinds of groupies . There’s police groupies firefighter groupies , When I was in the army . There was always a number of women who could identify your rank, read all your awards, known what division , regiment , battalion, etc. . My units insignia is unusually distinctive. We don’t always wear it . They would give this away in conversation. I remember the so do you like HALOs ? Oh how’ did you know that I do that . She checked out my uniform . It’s obvious I was Airborne, but HALOs a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/24 01:01 AM |
| 1 | Women Discriminate Against Single Dads Much More Than Guys Do with Single MomsThey usually get worse in prison . There’s a reason they are generally kept separate from other inmates. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/24 10:14 PM |
| 2 | Bars are one of the only real social spaces left where one can meet women. But they’re problematic for so many reasons.To be fair you have more than the majority of 20 something men . They don’t yet understand that you have to work hard to get that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/24 08:58 PM |
| 1 | Bars are one of the only real social spaces left where one can meet women. But they’re problematic for so many reasons.It was a random choice i used to show the absurdity of the ick | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/24 08:24 PM |
| 1 | Bars are one of the only real social spaces left where one can meet women. But they’re problematic for so many reasons.Some women get Iick because you have a blue shirt on . Their favorite social media guru and self appointed expert said it means . Insert meaningless gibberish and word salad | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/24 08:21 PM |
| 2 | Bars are one of the only real social spaces left where one can meet women. But they’re problematic for so many reasons.Roughly 20 percent of the total US population earns over $100 ,000 . Never mind a single man who is interested in any particular woman. The median income in the US which is not the average or mean income is about 48,000 . It’s ridiculous to expect anyone to earn that much | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/24 08:18 PM |
| 6 | Bars are one of the only real social spaces left where one can meet women. But they’re problematic for so many reasons.The saying what’s yours is ours what’s mine is mine. This mindset has caused many divorces . Some of the best dating and relationship advice comes from divorce attorneys . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/24 07:36 PM |
| 1 | Most Women Use Dating Apps Like Men Wish They CouldHow does only fools which hopefully both parties are aware that there is a mutually beneficial exchange happening . OF thot is exchanging sexually explicit video with her clients for money. Both are aware that without that financial exchange. The thot would not be making sexually explicit videos for the guy . OLD is marketed as a way to connect with people who are looking for a relationship. Not a woman making a profile, to get a ego boost , attention and validation with no intentions of interac… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/24 07:24 PM |
| 18 | Most Women Use Dating Apps Like Men Wish They CouldIt safe attention and validation. They don’t have to do anything at all. For example In the physical world you have to respond in a conversation or be seen a extremely rude. When a man says that shirt looks great ! It really brings out your blue , brown, hazel eyes. Usually he is flirting mildly and you have a choice, reciprocate , a neutral thanks in some situations, or drop a very obvious I am not interested cue into the conversation. They don’t have to work for attention and validation . Beha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/24 07:07 PM |
| 2 | If Women Don’t Know Who They’re Attracted To Until They Get To Know Them (Demisexual), Why Don’t Women Give More People A Chance?It’s similar to a addict in withdrawal. Eventually they become stable and start changing their behaviors in a healthy way. We have a few simps , white knights and enablers. One guy is in for a very difficult time . When inevitably he is deeply hurt . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/24 03:49 PM |
| 2 | Rejecting anyone for any reason is fine, the end, dating is inherently selfish, discriminatory and judgemental.Wow TL DR ! You are not getting a date from some random woman thousands of miles from you by being a good little enabler . Seriously. It is this kind of behavior that’s a problem. You personally attack and insult men you don’t know routinely here . The blue pill as it’s come to be called is a false narrative. Its built on the discredited Blank Slate theory. That everything is a social construct. Plenty of highly educated people have throughly discredited your ideology. You are not going to get a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/24 02:58 PM |
| 1 | Male sexuality wouldnt be demonized if men werent using it to excuse bad behavior.Like I said it’s endless. People don’t like this behavior. . Being oblivious or willfully ignorant is part of the problem and doesn’t help. You don’t seem to understand or choose not to understand. Life isn’t what is taught in gender studies or other grievance studies classes. There’s a whole lot of people who have either been driven out of academia or canceled for incorrect think or being ungood . Worse if they dared to teach out side the increasingly authoritarian, illiberal, anti western narr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/24 01:15 PM |
| 3 | Rejecting anyone for any reason is fine, the end, dating is inherently selfish, discriminatory and judgemental.They would not have any more difficulty . What you don’t seem to understand is the dual mating strategy of women. They want Chad for short term fun. Then Billy Beta Bux to take care of her and Chads children . In the current climate that is. This doesn’t mean every woman does this. Many attempt it . Many so called Dating Coaches, especially those with a good education have openly said far too many women have unrealistic and often delusional expectations.. The other problem is large number of wom… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/24 12:38 PM |
| 1 | If Women Don’t Know Who They’re Attracted To Until They Get To Know Them (Demisexual), Why Don’t Women Give More People A Chance?Yes it does now that you mention it . There’s often overlap. Makes sense. One question inspired another. Many women didn’t like that thread . Letting men know reality vs Blue Pill Let us pretend. . All women are incapable of anything but pure kindness and her intentions are never malicious or deceptive I prefer reality over a fictional world . That destroys you when the illusion is shattered. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/24 05:03 AM |
| 9 | Guys who did escorts - did/would you tell your SO?Never under any circumstances disclose the number of women you’ve been with . That’s asking for problems in a relationship before you grt started. Unlike when criminals get arrested the officer reads them their rights . He will say You have the right to a attorney. The right to remain silent anything you say can be used against you in a court of law Women can and will use anything against you, regardless of what or relevancy at a later date . I will say a gentleman never kiss and tells. Or somet… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/24 04:52 AM |
| 4 | Q4W: How would a guy know if she is taking her time versus. stringing him along?Were you expecting any ? We are supposed to be clairvoyant and just get it . Trust me , she fucked the Hawt guys on spring break in Cancun five minutes after meeting. Be him Get in good shape, be friendly, and as good looking as possible. Remember the sex is never worth the wait .. If a woman wants to have sex she will. If it means waiting until you finish work at 12 am drive home shower and clean by 2 AM she will be patiently waiting.. The best relationships I have had all started with sex on t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/24 03:59 AM |
| 4 | Rejecting anyone for any reason is fine, the end, dating is inherently selfish, discriminatory and judgemental.He gets to do that. Actually it called discussing hypocrisy , catch 22s Kafka traps , Double binds and bizarre speech codes that change as needed by woke progressive Stalinists . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/24 09:48 PM |
| 2 | Rejecting anyone for any reason is fine, the end, dating is inherently selfish, discriminatory and judgemental.Very true. Thats when things get interesting. When it happens to a large number of people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/24 08:09 PM |
| 3 | Rejecting anyone for any reason is fine, the end, dating is inherently selfish, discriminatory and judgemental.Women think they want them. Thats why they are there. I would limit them . Let people see as many people as there are available. I fully understand why some women go ballistic when a random man not fitting their unrealistic expectations sends a like ! The idea that a man less attractive or desirable than they feel entitled to or “ Deserve “. Causes cognitive dissonance , anger snd disgust. If you can get HAWT Chads . What makes short a bit overweight, balding Billy Beta Bux think he can get me! … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/24 08:06 PM |
| 1 | Rejecting anyone for any reason is fine, the end, dating is inherently selfish, discriminatory and judgemental.This should be simple. Anyone can reject a person for any reason. They should to be willing accept without complaints the result of their actions. I think the real reason you are asking is a little different. Let me reword Women can reject anyone . They can be entitled, unrealistic, have delusional expectations. Women are also responsible for their actions and need to stop complaining there are no good men . Something has changed to cause these unrealistic, entitled, delusional behaviors.. That … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/24 07:57 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: Which of these dating preferences is acceptable?Ah yes time to call the brigade .As usual. I cannot win so my allies , simps , white knights and assorted enablers will charge to the rescue. Who cares what happens to them. They are as Lenin and later Stalin said useful idiots. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/24 05:15 PM |
| -4 | Q4W: Which of these dating preferences is acceptable?Yes such polls are useless . There’s ways to word the question and get a different answer or different percentage of answers to questions. I think we already know what the answer is. If men were to do the same you know we would be called misogynists, incels , insecure, immature, and more of their favorite insults and derogatory labels. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/24 01:52 PM |
| 2 | Hypothetically speaking, even if taking the blue pill had a 100% success rate, you would still be unable to find a meaningful relationship worth pursuingI would rather stay single and date different women if that’s what it takes . Marriage is a awful and potentially dangerous option for men . You can be litigated into poverty in family court depending on state, who initiated the divorce and reasons . Usually the court wants to know why the marriage irretrievably broke down. This can be important in division of marital assets. Men gain nothing and can lose every. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/24 11:27 AM |
| 2 | Hypothetically speaking, even if taking the blue pill had a 100% success rate, you would still be unable to find a meaningful relationship worth pursuingAbuse doesn’t happen overnight. It a insidious process. It frequently starts innocuously. Bound testing and broaching . Little by little. By the time the the victim is aware of how bad the relationship has become. They have a investment in the relationship. Try couples therapy then mediation, a few calls to law enforcement or leaving for a few days. Eventually if the victim has good family and friends they get enough support to leave and end the relationship or divorce. Both are psychologically … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/24 08:40 AM |
| 4 | Hypothetically speaking, even if taking the blue pill had a 100% success rate, you would still be unable to find a meaningful relationship worth pursuingNo we learned to stay out of it. A man jumping into a fight between a couple is a goo way to get into a physical fight and get arrested. Possibly accused by both parties Maybe she started it by verbally abusing him, he trys to stand up for himself . She escalates . Soon ge is angry and now the fight is because he is angry. No thanks .I will avoid that . Cops now arrest both parties , bring them to a ED for a examination. Then jail . They let the prosecutors and attorneys sort the mess out. How m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/24 08:29 AM |
| 2 | Male sexuality wouldnt be demonized if men werent using it to excuse bad behavior.Con gusto! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/24 07:09 AM |
| 2 | If Women Don’t Know Who They’re Attracted To Until They Get To Know Them (Demisexual), Why Don’t Women Give More People A Chance?How do you learn about a person without them being physically present . I genuinely have a difficult time with the idea of not seeing or hearing a person. I cannot have a sense of who they are . Up to 80 percent of our communication is non verbal. I want to see if words match how a person is acting . I can say yes , I would like that . Multiple ways From a neutral tone , to a enthusiastic response. That will not be read correctly without seeing me . I know hearing loss due to lots of very loud n… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/24 03:52 AM |
| 3 | If Women Don’t Know Who They’re Attracted To Until They Get To Know Them (Demisexual), Why Don’t Women Give More People A Chance?Endless texting does not help . It’s text . Not in person interaction. No body language, no ability to hear a voice , and be in same place at the same time. Text can give a false sense if intimacy as well. A few text then video chat . That way everyone can see each other . Filters or hiding behind text . Then meet . Don’t drag it out . Most of us are not looking for a pen pal. That’s a different topic thst gets discussed . It was recently. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/24 02:06 AM |
| 1 | If Women Don’t Know Who They’re Attracted To Until They Get To Know Them (Demisexual), Why Don’t Women Give More People A Chance?Correct! Thats code for I like you but I want to explore my options. But we can “ get to know each other “ ! Tell her , you are polyamorous and need to have many partners as you have so much love to share with all of them! Lets see how that goes over? We all want to have some connection. Unless you are a psychopath or other Cluster B Personality Disorder. You want a human connection. We all are sexually dimorphic . Men and women have dual mating strategies . Evolution made this possible. We had … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/24 01:52 AM |
| 4 | Feminists dehumanize men and it's time we admit itThere where you get it wrong . Men are routinely labeled as misogynistic, creepy incels for the high crime of daring to say anything to a woman. In any way inconvenience a woman. Standing up for their rights especially Due Process , freedom of speech , equal rights , men have bern losing rights. Try opening a mens only gym waych radical feminists demand women are allowed while simultaneously demanding government fund womens only gyms . The blatant hypocrisy and abuse of power are blatant. Femini… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/24 02:46 PM |
| 0 | There’s nothing wrong with high standards.It could happen, will if . That depends on a number of things . If Harris wins and continues abusing executive orders to impose woke progressive ( regressive) authoritarian policies. Unelected administrative government at all levels continues to try forcing woke progressive administrative rules . A charismatic person who isn’t Trump , emerging gaining popularity and power. Who knows. It doesn’t take much . There’s a lot if frustrated people outside of the bubbles or echo chambers of the politica… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/24 02:11 PM |
| 2 | There’s nothing wrong with high standards.We are approaching what’s needed. I eas trained to conduct asymmetrical war among other things. We have everything starting to fall into place . A underemployed , angry, lonely, humiliated ,frustrated population of military aged men. A really distorted economy. Men are being told in one form or another they are useless , bad people, not wanted, not needed. We might have a continuation of one of the most anti male administration in history.. Think queen Kamala is going to give a rat’s ass about m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/24 07:10 AM |
| 2 | There’s nothing wrong with high standards.Those did not have what is needed for a larger scale civil strife. Lots of lonely , angry, underemployed, sexual frustrated , humiliated men and a charismatic leader. Boom ! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/24 05:48 AM |
| 1 | There’s nothing wrong with high standards.This . No Trump is no Hitler. It would be someone unexpected and relatively unknown. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/24 05:46 AM |
| 1 | There’s nothing wrong with high standards.Who said that ? They will become violent in the US it would be civil strife | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/24 05:33 AM |
| 1 | There’s nothing wrong with high standards.That Soviet era hardware is falling apart. I would refuse to get in a Russian tank. They blow uo because the ammo is stored in the vehicle. NATO uses a wet container that will detach Those T 50s are doomed whrn Javlins fly .. No one knows what most other Muslim countries will do Jordan will at minimum help defend Israel. Egypt will hope to avoid conflict. Syria is mess . There are Russian troops and aircraft there. You talk tough about men avoiding the draft. In flyover country they will go . In… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/24 05:26 AM |
| 1 | Why don't women care about promiscuous slutty men?Reading is good for you. TLDR versions rarely convey enough information. Kind of difficult to shorten . Lots of context gets lost .. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/24 04:39 AM |
| 1 | There’s nothing wrong with high standards.No one is getting anywhere near a sitting president . Depends on where you live . In rural and semi rural areas they will respond. Riots . Those will be brutally put down. I am a combat veteran. I would not tell someone to join the military as it is currently Z This current administration has screwed it like every thing that demented idiot touches . We have two narcissistic idiots running for President. A bunch of self important wing nuts of all types in or running for the House and Senate. We b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/24 02:56 AM |
| 3 | There’s nothing wrong with high standards.Romantic love is a relatively new concept. About 300 or 400 hundred years give or take. Marriage was a contract . But don’t think that women were powerless . Many were very powerful. Depending on their socioeconomic class. Many marriages were a way keep wealth in extended family. Read about the Haspburg empire. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/24 02:21 AM |
| 7 | There’s nothing wrong with high standards.That’s what happened in China, they favored sons . They have a problem that’s not well known. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/24 02:14 AM |
| 8 | There’s nothing wrong with high standards.They did just that after WW 1 in Germany. We know how that ended . Being humiliated and angry was what drove millions of young men to join the Bohemian Gefreiter’s little party . That didn’t end well it managed to rampage across much of Europe and into Western Asia . Yes they decided that genocide was part of tbe solution to their problems. ISIL, Al Queda ,Taliban, had and have genocidal, ideologies. Now Iran’s proxies Hezbollah , Hamas and Houthis all have genocidal ideologies, snd engage in ma… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/24 02:05 AM |
| 0 | There’s nothing wrong with high standards.It is a bit difficult to imagine. I sm sure technology advances . These sex bots would be human like with AI? I have no problems with people using sex robots . If that’s what makes then happy and reduces the probability of the really lonely angry frustrated young men becoming radicalized and violent. ThoughI can see a stigma around the use of sex robots.. There has to be a better term the marketing research departments will come up with. I hope they are a vocal minority. They created a monster t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/24 01:20 AM |
| 2 | There’s nothing wrong with high standards.Been there saw that . It was called ISIL , Al Queda and the Taliban at the time. Now they are Hamas , Hezbollah and Houthis. I have no doubts once again western men will be sent to remove or eliminate the terrorist incel army . They had no problems blowing themselves and anyone within the blast range of whatever explosives they decided would help send them to paradise as martyrs each getting 72 virgin brides. I used my preferred firearm the Barrett M 82 or Styer SSG 69 . To dispatch the nice ter… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/24 12:53 AM |
| 2 | There’s nothing wrong with high standards.I don’t think sex bots are the answer . Thats in the distant future . By then we will be debating if AI is a sentient being. If feminists had their way sex bots would already be illegal. If they could they would make masturbating illegal for men. Thats mind rape! Creep! How dare you be human! / Sarcasm , ok maybe sarcasm who knows with them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/24 11:59 PM |
| -2 | There’s nothing wrong with high standards.Many women are willfully ignorant of that fact . They learn thr difficult way. If they learn at all. The Blue pill narrative has women being able at any age over 18 to conceive, be as attractive, and physically fit without exercise and a healthy diet at any age . We are sexually depraved, perverted vile misogynistic , insecure, jealous , incels if we disagree! Stop complaining and date that 5 ft 300 lb BBW . If you cant make yourself attracted to her your a sex negative! No we will not let insur… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/24 11:42 PM |
| 2 | There’s nothing wrong with high standards.You can have whatever standards you want. That does not mean they are realistic or rational. It does not make it easier to have or find a healthy relationship . It means to have standards. They might or might not be rational , realistic standards. It doesn’t assure you will find that over sux ft tall, earning over six figures, buit like a adonis man or his woman counterpart. The five ft five , 36 D blond 24 yr old who is your personal sex machine. Both are a impossible caricature that exist in y… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/24 11:16 PM |
| 2 | Why don't women care about promiscuous slutty men?I Think agree there’s a better way to discuss! . I definitely would be interested. . Might actually cause heads to explode we actually can actually discuss those topics with out attacking each other! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/24 06:53 PM |
| 2 | Why don't women care about promiscuous slutty men?I would enjoy a really good intellectual conversation! I actually think we are closer than you think on many things. The format doesn’t allow for nuance and complexity . I find somethings challenging because of the polarization and lack of ability of some people to see beyond their particular grievances. I suspect we probably would make everyone angry . I enjoy a good intellectual discussion. I know about genetics but not at the Phd level. I spent many hours reading all kinds of academic books a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/24 06:14 PM |
| 1 | Why don't women care about promiscuous slutty men?Oh I get part of it . Women most certainly do want men who have other women. It’s very simple. They see a man who gets lots of female attention as highly desirable. He must have something going on to have all those women ! I will also be sexually available to him! Women want to obtain the best possible genes. By being desired by many women. Chad is showing he “ has good genes “ This might or might not be true. We did not have the technology we do today. All humans had was what information was av… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/24 05:32 PM |
| 0 | Why don't women care about promiscuous slutty men?Then if women don’t like that type of man don’t have anything to do with them outside of day to day interactions . No one is forcing women to have sex with those men . It is a choice. There’s lots of men who want a committed monogamous relationship. Many women are not interested in those men . Women have agency. They can choose not to be involved with the men who will not commit to them if they want commitment. As the saying goes women are the gatekeepers of sex . They choose when and with who s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/24 12:58 PM |
| 2 | Why don't women care about promiscuous slutty men?No you should be fully informed and make a decision based on that . I am aware of hormonal both controls nasty effects. It’s not my responsibility to provide your health care. You should be able to choose what birth control is best for you. Abortion should not be birth control. Here’s a hint want to win the abortion debate, Don’t ask fir abortion on demand, instead frame it as a last resort . There’s definitely a need for it. Especially if there’s serious problems with a pregnancy. But as birth … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/24 12:31 PM |
| 1 | Why don't women care about promiscuous slutty men?Unable, unwilling or doesn’t have to in order to have casual sex ? All of those apply. In order for a man to have casual sex he needs a woman willing to have casual sex . Certainly some men lie. There are men who can easily get casual sex whenever they want . Very few women are unable to get casual sex if they want .It’s easy , don’t expect Chad and or commitment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/24 11:51 AM |
| 0 | Why don't women care about promiscuous slutty men?Women who are getting public assistance. They can learn how to run daycare and then set up their own Private daycare and charge the going rates . That can be part of public assistance. Spreading your legs for random guy and not using birth control should not be rewarded. Disincentivizing poor choices will reduce the amount of people gettIng public assistance. We treat people who make poor life choices better than disabled veterans and people who are born ir become disabled. That’s disgraceful an… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/24 11:35 AM |
| 1 | Why don't women care about promiscuous slutty men?I addressed that. She can get workfare. We can cut government by eliminating many redundant positions, and require a 40 hour a week work such as DPW work , sanitation, sewage system maintenance, picking up trash clearing roads in storms . . They can assist the elderly with shopping, chores at home, . The disabled with the sane . This should be mandatory for any benefits. We could say no public assistance . Get a job. There’s no constitutional right to public assistance. Because we realize people… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/24 11:09 AM |
| 3 | Why don't women care about promiscuous slutty men?It’s not your business what anyone does in private. The only time I care about anyones sex life is if the government is extracting taxes from me to subsidize their poor choices. I don’t want to pay high taxes because people made a poor life choice and had sex then a man refuses to be financially responsible for the child. Unless he is able to give up all rights and responsibilities and never claim them. Taxpayers should not be subsidizing poor behavior and irresponsibility. Government can disinc… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/24 09:54 AM |
| 7 | Why don't women care about promiscuous slutty men?Thats exactly what they see. If a man is in a relationship other women , will wonder, what dies he have going on . Women are very aware that it is more difficult for men to find a relationship than women. They make the assumption that a man in a relationship must have something worth having. Yes it validates their desire for a man if other women are interested in him. That makes sense . If a lot of people buy a product. It isca form of advertising the product must be good . Putting eye catching … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/24 09:02 AM |
| 1 | Women's "pickiness" really isn't that deep as it pretends to beNope not anymore. There’s tremendous pressure on men as well. Yes it is a wall . It can be seen . Face book is a great time machine. If the person keeps pictures of themselves over the years. You can see it . There’s no chance a 35 year old woman is going to look the same as a 25 year old woman. Its not a slight decline. Estrogen levels and production drop rapidly after 35 . Which is why having children after 35 increases risk of birth defects. There’s mountains of biological research into human… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/24 01:30 AM |
| – | Should average men complement their dating life with escorts?Ah yes the girlfriend experience. In which the prostitutes pretend to really be into the guy who pays them , some buy a nice condo , car , phone and pay other bills for her in exchange for sex and her providing the illusion of being a girlfriend. Those are not average men not remotely average. Earning under $ 250, 000 would make that difficult. Wealthy men have hired prostitutes for a very long time. They pay for different reasons. The average man doesn’t have the money for a escort. The average… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/24 12:57 AM |
| 0 | Women's "pickiness" really isn't that deep as it pretends to beRetinol would not be a multi billion dollar chemical if women didn’t age especially after 35 . Men now use it as well. It’s one of the few OTC medications or products that actually work . Correct use will make you look younger. People spend billions trying to look and stay younger. If it didn’t work, the product would not sell as well as it does. Nope estrogen levels decrease much more rapidly than testosterone. Which is a big part of what makes us look as we do. This is why feminist and their s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/24 12:22 AM |
| 1 | Men being stay at home dadsDoesn’t he have to find her attractive also ? There’s men who are in the financial industry who during and after Covid lockdowns discovered they can work from their home office. They are usually in the upper income brackets. They could if they choose be SAHDs . The woman who that man will be interested in is probably going to be attractive, intelligent, highly educated and has a decent paying career. Most likely in a field related to his. Proximity and having something in common are involved in … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/24 10:02 PM |
| – | Should average men complement their dating life with escorts?A lot of very wealthy, high status, men such as professional athletes, CEOs , actors , high powered attorneys and other men that can easily date a attractive woman. Hire prostitutes. There’s apps for that . There are men who are “ amazing “ that pay for the girlfriend experience. They are not the average man . They are paying for her attention, time and at least appearing to desire him. Many prostitutes have said their clients frequently want someone to talk with and listen to them as well as se… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/24 08:15 PM |
| 2 | The question shouldn't be "why do women want powerful men?" but instead it should be "why don't men want powerful women?"Sadly they are often teens . They have been taught from a very young age to hate . In Afghanistan the Taliban forces young boys into madrassas . Terrorist training and indoctrination schools. They are using the threat of violence and carry it out . In western countries I have rarely felt any need to resort to violence. If I had to I am certainly capable. But there’s rarely a need . I avoid putting myself in situations where it’s needed | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/24 01:18 PM |
| 2 | The question shouldn't be "why do women want powerful men?" but instead it should be "why don't men want powerful women?"Oh they were terrorists. Rebels fight against their government. Terrorists attack innocent, relatively defenseless people. The idea is to inflict terror and subjugation of people. You definitely would not want to live in any of those places . I have never been seen as insane. I know when to be compassionate and when to use violence if needed. Which is very rarely. Most empathy varies. Obviously we have more empathy and compassion for people close to us and are part of our community. Empathy is a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/24 11:14 AM |
| 1 | The question shouldn't be "why do women want powerful men?" but instead it should be "why don't men want powerful women?"That makes no sense. I was a SFOD operator. Which means capable of incredible violence. We had to be . We also had to care about our buddies, in Ranger School you get a Ranger Buddy . This is to create a sense of teamwork , responsibility to others , empathy and compassion. You are not going to survive as a team if everyone is a psychopath or sociopath that lacks empathy and compassion. You cannot always be the dominant leader. You cannot always be this badass SF operator. Thats not normal. Whrn… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/24 05:08 AM |
| – | Women should not compete with each otherYes far to often us libertarian leaning people are confused with right wing conservatives. Mostly because we are pro 2 A absolutists . Thanks for being civil and polite. No humans should be forced into any relationship business or interpersonal. Except if you are a prisoner and have caused harm . Which of course then you are no longer free. Health care is a business I have no right to a physicians labor. Just like I have no right to a personal relationship. I do however understand why people bec… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/24 03:44 AM |
| 2 | Q4M: Do males actually hate sluts?I am not surprised. A lot of men who are simps , white knights, nice guys have little or no relationship experience at all . They never learned when they were young and are thrilled a woman shows any interest and what they think is affection and love . It’s not . When I joined the military there were guys who would be what’s called simps . After Basic, other training the of to their MOS training. They changed. I was selected for Ranger School. Which is tough . We have a Ranger Buddy . Mine was a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/24 03:12 AM |
| 3 | Q4M: Do males actually hate sluts?Have you considered relocating if that’s possible? I agree finding a person who isn’t a mess over 40 is difficult. You would find more CF men in the North East . Many are decent. Maybe a man with a adult child that’s independent or mostly independent. I know about people who seem to pop up or are always seeking attention and having drama and chaos . I usually tactfully disengage . Occasionally if needed will be direct. A suggestion maybe look for men a bit older . There’s a better chance of at l… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/24 02:13 AM |
| 3 | Women hate sluts more than men doI’s agree with everything but the kinks stuff. Outside of things such as asphyxiation, violence, psychological , emotional and physical abuse. There’s all kinds of people doing all kinds of things. As long as you don’t harm anyone. Do your thing. Don’t expect others to enjoy them and respect boundaries. I actually think the thirst traps are really degrading to both men and women. Plenty of people have had sex during a first date and gone on to a life long relationship. Usually there’s not a whol… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/24 01:24 AM |
| 7 | Q4M: Do males actually hate sluts?I agree, men who accept thst type of woman as a LTR or anything more than recreational use are simps . Simps and simping are part of the problem. How many men at a bar would run to help a attractive women like her in hopes if sex ? Even men who are supposedly alpha males will trip over themselves to rescue the slut in question . Not thinking that she is a awful person and deserves being called exactly what she is . Those men are not good men. They encourage , enable and incentivize the behaviors… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/24 12:36 AM |
| 8 | Q4M: Do males actually hate sluts?No no, some men like sluts like her. She is making herself sexually available to them. Those men have no intentions of anything but sex with the woman described. Plenty of good men over 45 world be thrilled to have a low count, child free women as a LTR , life companion or whatever term you wish to use. I am introverted and the extremely extroverted so called social butterflies can become extremely annoying. I really don’t need to yak with everyone and waste my time in meaningless chat . It beco… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/24 12:17 AM |
| 1 | "Game" is just dilluted PUA. One is derived from the other. And its all gambling addiction motivated by lack of sexual successHe needs to go back to the 1950s when computers were being developed for wider use. Game comes from Game Theory. Its a mathematical theory about making choices. To really simplify for the more than 200 characters is beyond their attention span . It was around long before PUA was a thing. If anything many of the early PUA types were the men who could not get dates easily and would study what did and didn’t work . TRP is a whole different thing . It’s a result of third and fourth wave along with r… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/24 11:59 PM |
| 3 | "Game" is just dilluted PUA. One is derived from the other. And its all gambling addiction motivated by lack of sexual successYes true . Here’s a big reason why. Men have been doing the dirty dangerous work that until very recently was often fatal . Men fought wars , hunted which was often fatal, exploring for more resources, defending against predators like the now extinct saber toothed cat . Men have done this for a very long time . If you as most evolutionary biologists , psychologists and anthropologists consider Homo Habilis our direct ancestors. That’s millions of years of evolution at work. In WW 2 the Soviet Un… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/24 11:41 PM |
| 4 | Q4M: Do males actually hate sluts?Why be bitter? She sounds like a awful person. You are better off without someone like her in your life. People like her make other people miserable. Until they end the friendship. I would venture a guess if you tried and maybe re thought some deal breakers . You could meet a real good man . It might take a while . There’s plenty of men who would be really happy to have a woman your aged who is child free and never married. AA is not the best place to meet a partner. There’s some seriously distu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/24 10:55 PM |
| -2 | Q4M: Do males actually hate sluts?Notice a trend with her. She’s choosing bad partners. Children with multiple men , having sex outside her marriage. She doesn’t sound like a stable person and probably isn’t very happy if you dig a little more than the superficial level. You might want to re examine deal breakers . Of course some are good . Like not having a substance abuse problem for example is one of mine as is smoking and being overweight or a entitlement mentality. To mention a few . For others it might be not having childr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/24 10:47 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Do males actually hate sluts?Men enjoy sluts . While we don’t see them as a LTR or marriage material. We certainly enjoy them . Some men more than others. Depending on what they are looking for . I a heated argument a man might call a woman a whore or such . When you are angry and the person causing you to be angry refuses to acknowledge their actions are hurtful or refuses to have a meaningful, rational conversation and resolve a problem. It extremely frustrating , disrespectful, degrading and hurtful. You lash out . Women… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/24 10:34 PM |
| 2 | People should stop caring that some women want to fuck serial killers.Like I said normal healthy men . That’s not normal or healthy. I am sure there’s disturbed troubled men who will contact Jodi Arias . The phenomenon is mostly seen in women. Jodi Arias is not even ONS material. She is where she belongs. Think about spending the rest if your life in prison. The idea is enough to to be despairing and depressing. Never having freedom and much autonomy is frightening to me . Eventually she will fade away and be forgotten . Those troubled groupies will fade and eithe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/24 05:54 AM |
| 2 | CMV: In the wake of finding out he’s not the father, anything a paternity fraud victim does (short of physical violence towards others) is the fault of the mother.That’s her responsibility. Let the state go after the biological father. She engaged in fraud. I cannot engage in fraud with a business. That gets me prison time or a extremely expensive settlement in s civil case . Why should a man be held responsible for a child he didn’t want or father. She deserves a felony conviction and work for any assistance. Bio dad garnish his wages or make him serve in some work release facility. Why force taxpayers and innocent men to be responsible for poor choices … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/24 05:35 AM |
| 1 | Attractive men don't have better skills when talking to women, they often never had to develop themYou said RP and PUA are all about getting sex Game is a RP idea . Long before you were a marijuana twinkle in your parents eyes . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/24 04:47 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Gynocentricism was created by and exists mainly because of religious/conservative menMost simps are among the most misogynistic. They essentially worship women. Let her do whatever she wants, spend endless time and energy on her. Make a huge investment before a relationship. Simps will try everything in their power to sabotage a relationship their women “friend “ has . The are among the most disrespectful people I’ve seen Yes it is a woman’s responsibility to make it very clear that there’s never going to be a relationship and limit or end contact. Some of these guys will go bal… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/24 04:44 AM |
| 0 | CMV: Gynocentricism was created by and exists mainly because of religious/conservative menI nice guys can be assholes . Usually they are the guy who never learned not to simp , orbit or white knight. I did not need some Red Piller on the internet to tell me If you’re not fucking her you are her girl friend. Don’t simp, don’t be always available, do be free therapist and endless source of attention, validation and a emotional tampon. Go live your life . This was my mother and fathers advice . My sisters helped as well . That was more a we help each other deal . Do families do this any… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/24 04:31 AM |
| 1 | What do you think of the comments in this podcast?No it’s not . It’s a serious problem that has long term implications. Its not difficult to exercise, no you don’t have to live in a gym. You can buy all you really need to stay healthy at home . Its the diet thats a serious problem too . A lot of people have really bad diets. There’s going to be a cardiac disease epidemic in 10 to 20 years. That should scare people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/24 04:14 AM |
| 3 | What do you think of the comments in this podcast?That always been true . There’s a reason Hoe math is a thing . Less than one percent of men would come close to their ideal . Telling a woman that most men don’t earn $ 100k USD Euros or British pounds is eye opening. That most men are not 6Ft tall and built like a greek god . Becomes really interesting. The woman in the podcast are plain average women. They are not on Chads radar for a partner. Maybe. ONS or FWB until he neets a woman he is really interested in. That’s where everything really g… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/24 04:09 AM |
| 6 | What do you think of the comments in this podcast?Apparently they do lack self awareness. Average woman being clueless about what dating is like for men . They don’t get it . Then cry foul when Chad pumps and dumps them . They rant about incels then fight over the hot guy . This is not new . There is going to be a lot of cat ladies in about 20 years or less . They are oblivious to the fact the party years end and end fast . They didn’t have a adult teaching them to find a good partner because eventually you will run out of a good opportunity. T… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/24 03:50 AM |
| 1 | Attractive men don't have better skills when talking to women, they often never had to develop themYes it is . It PUA. There’s a difference a huge difference. TRP is about maintaining a healthy relationship and mental health for men PUA is purely about sex and picking up women. PUA will never get you a relationship. It is only useful if you are already at least reasonably attractive. All men and women want sex . It’s a human need in a very primal way . TRP is a response to things like feminists and what feminism has become. A hate group. Go read their subs if you have the stomach for it . The… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/24 03:37 AM |
| 1 | Most men are what Esther Vilar called 'The Manipulated Man'.You’re blue pill ???? Seriously. Thats a Red Pill talking point ! I’ve tried explaining that . Do we not teach basic biology anymore? This is one very good reason why men chase women. There’s others in Evolutionary Psychology and biology. But it is a primary reason. Another part is we are all seeking the best possible partner. I think the current environment is a anomaly and will change. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/24 03:23 AM |
| 2 | Most men are what Esther Vilar called 'The Manipulated Man'.I agree with you . I understand the thought or fantasy of infidelity. I don’t get the actually doing it . You stand to lose a lot . It’s throwing everything you worked for away for some fun and possibly validation because sex is extremely validating . Even emotional affairs are devastating. It is throwing away the best parts of a relationship . Oh divorce is more than shitty . I watched as it ruined a good friend whose wife was sleeping with other men . She is a vile person. . She pretended to b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/24 03:18 AM |
| 1 | Attractive men don't have better skills when talking to women, they often never had to develop themNo PUA is as another person stated manipulating and usually dishonest. It’s all about sex . It’s uses some Red Pill ideas Game is using your strengths to your advantage. Yes you have to recognize them . You will have to work at it . There’s over lap but they are not the same . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/24 03:05 AM |
| 2 | Attractive men don't have better skills when talking to women, they often never had to develop themIt’s well known attractive people are treated better and get away with more . It’s called the Halo effect. There’s plenty of people who where attractive and did not take care of themselves, partied constantly and became unattractive. There’s “ late bloomers “ who become more attractive. More so men than women. They tend to be more understanding and less arrogant. I suppose I was something of late bloomer though I did have a girlfriend at 16 or so then shortly later joined the military and around… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/24 03:01 AM |
| 1 | Women should not compete with each otherThats really cynical. Damn they can work and do whatever they want . Just limit government assistance. They want everything with out responsibility or accountability. At least many here. You will find women who are not like that . Its good to take a break from this and enjoy life away from the internet. I might respond occasionally sometimes I don’t bother with the internet much . It would get extremely depressing and frustrating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/24 02:51 AM |
| 3 | People should stop caring that some women want to fuck serial killers.Before being selected actually volunteered for More advanced training and SF operations. We were extensively screened for psychological problems . I still remember some the questions snd tests . The last thing you want in those types of operations and missions is a sociopath or psychopath . Being able to work together and help each other is critical to the mission. We got cross trained in everything. Being capable of being extremely violent is different that enjoying or getting off on it . The c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/24 11:34 PM |
| 1 | Women should not compete with each otherOh it’s going to stop. Voters will stop some of it by voting people who cut or make government assistance for their poor life choices less pleasant and require work at low or no skill jobs such as mowing the park, picking up trash , cleaning the storm drains and septic system. There is a reason married middle , upper middle class and especially upper class women vote more conservative . They don’t want their resources going to this madness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/24 04:22 PM |
| 8 | CMV: In the wake of finding out he’s not the father, anything a paternity fraud victim does (short of physical violence towards others) is the fault of the mother.No she is told get a job. If not we have plenty of low skill service you are able of doing . Anyone can push or drive a mower . Most anyone can drive a one ton dump truck . Anyone can pick up trash . Want to provide day care we will do OJT . No more sitting at home smoking weed watching television and free food at taxpayers expense. Find biological father , haul his ass into court give him a public defender and garnish his wages or send him to a work release prison . Make people responsible for … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/24 04:10 PM |
| 0 | Everything I've learned from my online dating experience. Maybe this can help you too:That’s part of the problem. It used to be the norm before 1946 . When government started subsidizing houses . Those vast suburban areas with mini mansion developments are a direct result of government subsidies. I see we don’t teach history any more and people have little time with their elderly family members. Who would tell you how they built those triple deckers you see in cities , over the years as families grew . Outside of wealthy western countries living with family is the norm. Because t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/24 03:03 PM |
| 2 | Women should not compete with each otherBut coercion is socialism. The Blue Pill narrative is in part. huge just world fallacy . Then this idea women are incapable of doing wrong . Yet need government to enforce equity which is not equality. Yet women want all the “ good things “ With out responsibility or consequences. Feminists demand government step in and intervene , choose winners and losers Then complain when some random men engage in a thought experiment of government coercing relationships. I am be against forced relationships… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/24 02:54 PM |
| 3 | Women should not compete with each otherActually I do . All relationships are transactional . Hopefully in a romantic relationship for the better. You are using the false blue pill narrative. Some how people meet magically fall in love and have this relationship where no one brings anything to it . If my gf was a layabout and did nothing, didn’t talk with me, enjoy some similar interests and just took . I would become resentful and end the relationship. Health care doesn’t want or not want. Humans who provide it do. If you don’t compe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/24 02:27 PM |
| 0 | People should stop caring that some women want to fuck serial killers.The dark triad character is the main male character in Romace porn , novels . The heroine is the only woman who can tame him , make him become a good person. Of course he is tall, handsome, ripped . Willing to be violent for her and only her . Has a fortune and is sexually aggressive. To the point of sexual assault. I believe high profile criminals are inspiration for some of the character as well as the author’s imagination . Women are the main consumers of true crime and prison “ documatairies… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/24 08:09 AM |
| 1 | Covert contracts aren’t actually bad within relationshipsAbsolutely, this feminist , woke progressive nonsense is harmful to your mental health and society as a whole . All relationships are transactional. Mostly mutually beneficial. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/24 07:36 AM |
| 2 | People should stop caring that some women want to fuck serial killers.Why not veterans of war ? We have shown the capability to be violent and provide protection? Why a deranged rapist killer. Combat is nothing like what you usually see in movies. Maybe because we are not famous, are normal humans placed into harms way ? We don’t seek out innocent people to commit atrocities that would make Gestapo men blush . They get off on being the person who “tamed “ the deranged violent psychopath. M Violent crime is a predictor for high number of sex partners . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/24 05:44 AM |
| 1 | People should stop caring that some women want to fuck serial killers.Most men don’t rape and murder. They are less than 2 percent of the population. Of course famous men not in prison get a lot of attention from women. Men know that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/24 05:32 AM |
| 1 | People should stop caring that some women want to fuck serial killers.Here ya go . https://www.sfgate.com/news/article/No-shortage-of-women-who-dream-of-snaring-a-2689657.php | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/24 05:27 AM |
| 4 | Women should not compete with each otherNeither is health care, housing, transportation, having a job , education, even food or fuel . I am not responsible for poor life choices. Get a a job ! Don’t tax successful people into poverty . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/24 05:12 AM |
| 1 | Women should not compete with each otherAbsolutely . I know this perpetually single women outside of random hookups, who attempts to sabotage relationships . She looses friends and jobs because of her attempts at interfering with other women lives and relationships . I cannot explain more than extreme jealousy or some psychiatric disorder. But it happens a lot. How many women call their friends who are with their boyfriend late at night with a made up crisis to cockblock ? Thats a dirty trick they use . I have a no calls after 8 pm ru… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/24 05:06 AM |
| 3 | Women should not compete with each otherWhy not ? Blue pillers are all for socialism when it comes to almost everything else . Why not sex ? What makes that different? By definition socialism is using government violence to force people to provide goods and their bodies via work for other people. Who choose not to work or lack skills or education to obtain a better paying job . It is a form if forced labor which is one reason why the Soviet Union failed spectacularly. Of course I am against government distribution of sex . Thats repul… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/24 04:47 AM |
| 1 | Women should not compete with each otherYou can join the military. Then its legal . I don’t recommend joining for that reason. Combat is something you want to avoid.. It is nothing like movies usually. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/24 04:34 AM |
| 0 | Women should not compete with each otherEven Chad has to be carful. He is in competition with other Chads . Very few men have everything needed to do this . Looks and a charming personality only get you so far . He needs money, the expensive house in the really high end neighborhood, the expensive cars , ability to buy her things like the newest I phone and trips to exciting places . There’s always a chad with something more . Women figure this out . Chad eventually does as he gets older . Though I have seen many a chad become invisib… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/24 04:31 AM |
| 2 | Women should not compete with each otherBeing made to actively compete is really close to abuse if not in some instances . Leave and block such people. Man or women. Being made to compete for attention is abuse . It can be extremely painful and psychologically, emotionally abusive and devastating. The damage to your self worth, sekf esteem, confidence, even general decision making can be damaged. This is a comnon behavior seen in Cluster B personality disorders. Run for your life . Seriously. Suicide is a outcome of these dangerous re… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/24 04:12 AM |
| 1 | Women should not compete with each otherUnless that man is I the top 10 percent or less of men . He is not able to make woman compete with each other. Women are competing with each other for a small percent of mens attention. Men are competing for womens attention. Women pick snd choose the winners . They might try to attract the top men as best as possible. Very few men can get away with dating multiple women or spinning plates . Thats not only draining its expensive. You better make sure they are at least 150 - 200 miles apart . Tha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/24 04:07 AM |
| -1 | Everything I've learned from my online dating experience. Maybe this can help you too:Why cant they get a decent hotel room for a few nights . Friday — Sunday nearby and have privacy. Its not that expensive. And yiu get to really enjoy the weekend. When I was in the military I would meet a GF each weekend off base and take a room or we would go to interesting plsces . Exploring different plsces even a hour a or less away having privacy maybe bringing food you can reheat in a microwave or hot plate . You get privacy and quality time together. On stormy weekends well have fun stayi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/24 03:32 AM |
| 2 | Women's "pickiness" really isn't that deep as it pretends to beYes there’s a wall. All women hit it around 28 - 35 . As they don’t produce as much estrogen their appearance changes . Social media can be sort of a time machine if thry don’t remove older pictures. I have seen some stunning changes in five years. The wall is when a woman’ peak sexual market rapidly declines . Women are born with all the eggs they will have . Men produce sperm from puberty until death . Quantity will vary . This is evolutionary . Look at pictures of a 35 year old man and 35 yea… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/24 03:18 AM |
| 5 | Why are there such different responses from telling men to have realistic standards vs women?Thats exactly what happens especially in assisted living facilities. Even family tend to forget. It is very sad . Yes they have friends at the facility or may the senior center. After 75 - 80 life changes dramatically. Most elderly get primary support from adult children. Go to a assisted living facility you can see this . Go to housing for seniors . You see family as support. This is not a state secret . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/24 02:37 AM |
| 3 | Why are there such different responses from telling men to have realistic standards vs women?Very true, my niece worked in a assisted living facility with varying levels of care Everything from semi independent to needing 24/ 7 nursing care. The men seemed to accept it much better. Especially the dinning service and for those able they could drive . Women would argue with staff , nurses, physicians about everything . They hated being told. NO ! The stories were both sad at times and hilarious. Some of her favorite patients were men . They were polite and rarely argued about medication o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/24 02:32 AM |
| 2 | Covert contracts aren’t actually bad within relationshipsIt used to be understood. It’s not necessarily a bad thing . In my large Colombian family there’s lots of transactions . If I do X my sisters do. Y and we agree to do Z with our property. It happens all the time . Marriage once was understood to be transactional. Nothing just happens . If husband is good at A and wife B they combine resources and abilities to get something better than either has alone. This is now a somehow bad . Feminists have done a great job at tearing civil society apart . T… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/24 02:01 AM |
| 0 | CMV: In the wake of finding out he’s not the father, anything a paternity fraud victim does (short of physical violence towards others) is the fault of the mother.Yeah I see. That unfortunately happens here . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/24 01:13 AM |
| 3 | CMV: In the wake of finding out he’s not the father, anything a paternity fraud victim does (short of physical violence towards others) is the fault of the mother.WTF . What issues . Infidelity is infidelity. There’s nothing else to discuss. I have never been involved with it directly. I have been involved in a divorce in which the woman was unfaithful. It was ugly. The poor guy was devastated. That should be more than enough for a therapist. Blaming the victim is not helpful. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/24 01:12 AM |
| 7 | CMV: In the wake of finding out he’s not the father, anything a paternity fraud victim does (short of physical violence towards others) is the fault of the mother.The state will make you responsible for being cuckolded . Many men don’t have a option out . Thats wrong, paternity tests should be mandatory. That would solve a lot of problems. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/24 01:06 AM |
| 2 | CMV: In the wake of finding out he’s not the father, anything a paternity fraud victim does (short of physical violence towards others) is the fault of the mother.Yes you do. They are often far less than a womans options. But that doesn’t mean a woman has lots of good options. Many women are terrible at vetting a partner. Then cry foul , demand government assistance and more for their poor life choices. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/24 01:03 AM |
| 2 | CMV: In the wake of finding out he’s not the father, anything a paternity fraud victim does (short of physical violence towards others) is the fault of the mother.No problem, I learned to state sarcasm. It’s not always easy to notice in text . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/24 01:00 AM |
| 7 | CMV: In the wake of finding out he’s not the father, anything a paternity fraud victim does (short of physical violence towards others) is the fault of the mother.There’s no such thing as dating leagues. Humans are not sports teams. That part of the false narrative men and women have been sold . It awful and dehumanizing . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/24 12:56 AM |
| 3 | CMV: In the wake of finding out he’s not the father, anything a paternity fraud victim does (short of physical violence towards others) is the fault of the mother.Anything is really vauge . Try when a man finds out he is not the biological father. He should not be held responsible in any way for the woman and another mans child. The divorce should be easy. She gets nothing and in states where adultery is a crime , sentenced accordingly. Infidelity emotional and physical is abuse. It should never be tolerated . Leave the relationship. Seek appropriate mental health care. See a attorney for appropriate legal advice . Never do anything you are unsure is lega… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/24 12:52 AM |
| -3 | People should stop caring that some women want to fuck serial killers.How many times does this need repeating from multiple men . Those deranged killers and sexual predators get more attention from women than a above average looking man with a above average income and in better shape than average. That speaks for itself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/24 12:37 AM |
| -1 | People should stop caring that some women want to fuck serial killers.Until they add rape and murder to their rap sheet . Then they get groupies! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/24 12:29 AM |
| 1 | People should stop caring that some women want to fuck serial killers.Her crime was shocking and repulsive . She certainly does not get much male attention. Who would want her as a wife or partner? She has shown she is dangerous. Yes I believe she killed her child because the infant got in the eY if her party lifestyle. Thats sick . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/24 12:23 AM |
| 2 | Women's "pickiness" really isn't that deep as it pretends to beThose are the exception . There’s always outliers. Thats basic math . At least when I learned statistics. Almost everything about humans is related to biology. The blank slate myth has been throughly debunked as nonsensical. The best book on that is Steven Pinkers . The Blank Slate . It was part of required reading in my graduate courses . We evolved to reproduce. What gender studies and intersectional grievance studies teaches is garbage. It should be seen as such or fir entertainment only . We… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/24 12:21 AM |
| -4 | People should stop caring that some women want to fuck serial killers.I am sure. But they are a much smaller number of the population. They have serious self esteem, self respect problems. They cannot have much self regard to waste time and their lives on a incarcerated woman . Who in all likely hood is never going to have a real world relationship. Those men need appropriate mental health care. Not a inmate to scam them and further damage them . Men want that physical intimacy and actually being able to see and do activities such as go away for a long weekend . W… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/24 11:50 PM |
| 2 | Women's "pickiness" really isn't that deep as it pretends to beThe reason men are attracted to women particularly younger women is reproduction of the species. While we all enjoy companionship and intimacy. Which we evolved to desire so we pair bond and raise children long enough for them to biologically be able to reproduce. Evolution is cold and amoral like that . I know full well when I was in the military and women figured out my detachment. It has a distinctive insignia dating back to the Allies invading Italy in WW 2 . Those women saw a apex protector… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/24 11:39 PM |
| -4 | People should stop caring that some women want to fuck serial killers.Can you not understand sarcasm or joking. It is satire . It is not the same as actually sending graphic letters , thousands of dollars hiring expensive attorneys, spending your vacation visiting your inmate with bullet resistant glass separating you. Never having any physical contact never mind sex . Men just don’t do that . Maybe a small number of men with no self respect, no self esteem and serious mental health disorders might . I don’t know any one who would. That includes women. Why would y… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/24 11:02 PM |
| -1 | People should stop caring that some women want to fuck serial killers.Gacy had groupies. Because he was executed by Illinois in 1994 we don’t hear as much about him . He did not get thr media attention Bundy did . Both had lots of women writing them The Texas prison system TDCJ , had serious problems with women trying to get items such as pubic hair , toe and fingernail clippings . Then some psycho wanted tracing of a erect penis. That got attention and fast . Now their mail is completely examined for all kinds of things . You really do not want to know . Men don’… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/24 10:54 PM |
| 11 | People should stop caring that some women want to fuck serial killers.Wrong, they are those women. Where do you think the serial killer groupies get their food and household supplies? What part of hypocrisy can you not understand. You don’t get to control a person chatting to you, other than saying I am busy and walk away . No need to attach a camera wear deliberately provocative clothes , waste peoples time while trying to “ catch “ men looking at your strange behavior. That should not be difficult to understand. Normal people don’t attach cameras to grocery stor… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/24 10:35 PM |
| 14 | People should stop caring that some women want to fuck serial killers.Try this. . What sane person supports a sexual predator who deliberately sought out women to rape and kill in horrific ways https://nypost.com/2024/07/17/us-news/letters-to-judge-beg-him-to-spare-the-life-of-wade-wilson/ The sick freak gets more attention from women than a chad lite or even regular chad on OLD ! Will women send me money for my vacation or to buy new cameras, that new hybrid 1 ton pick up ? That small solar and wind generator to reduce electric bills and have a source of power sh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/24 09:27 PM |
| 6 | People should stop caring that some women want to fuck serial killers.I tend to look very unfavorable at anyone who abuses animals . What sane person defends that ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/24 09:12 PM |
| 5 | People should stop caring that some women want to fuck serial killers.Men don’t particularly care if a woman is attracted to serial killers or other dangerous criminals. It is because those men are serial killers or other dangerous criminals they get lots of attention from women. Often more attention than a reasonably attractive man . Women will send them hundreds in some cases thousands for prison commissary, explicit pictures of themselves masturbating and extremely graphic “ love letters “. Hire expensive appeal attorneys, and spend thousands on a two hour visi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/24 08:43 PM |
| 0 | Why are there such different responses from telling men to have realistic standards vs women?Once again you are confusing or conflating physical attraction and even liking a person with wanting a committed relationship. A woman can be physically attractive , fun to be around, yet because of her promiscuous behaviors not seen as anything but recreational use only . I can find a woman physically attractive and enjoy spending time with her and sex . That doesn’t equal a LTR or marriage. I don’t do that with overweight, ugly women. I don’t give them any attention or false hopes . Thats wron… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/24 04:31 PM |
| 3 | Everything I've learned from my online dating experience. Maybe this can help you too:Thats fairly accurate. Though there’s a lot of single men under 35- 40 who are doing well and have through family access to resources. Even with serving the full 20 years in the military and having a decent side gig . With out the resources I have access to because of my families success I would be considered “ poor despite my military pension exceeding the median income . I would have had to buy a tiny condo with no property. My sisters and I run a family business. Eventually their sons and dau… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/24 02:24 PM |
| 1 | Everything I've learned from my online dating experience. Maybe this can help you too:It is destroying communities . Has been slowly for a long time . Only now the costs are becoming real and felt by a growing number of people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/24 02:07 PM |
| 3 | Women's "pickiness" really isn't that deep as it pretends to beYes they are . Men are refusing ti marry. Why when they have a choice of carousel riders to amuse themselves with. Those women are not marriage material. Men in western countries will choose women who come from more conservative immigrant families . Because hypergamy is real the women from those less well off families will choose to upgrade. Passport bros will be much more common . This is the other side of hypergamy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/24 02:05 PM |
| 11 | Everything I've learned from my online dating experience. Maybe this can help you too:Many already are. They have , Are we dating the sane guy online groups . If they were not dating the same guy that would not be happening frequently. It is simultaneously sad , pathetic , hilarious . They get what they deserve . Broke and unwanted. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/24 02:00 PM |
| 1 | Everything I've learned from my online dating experience. Maybe this can help you too:Interesting. This seems to be a western issue. I spend time in South America. You don’t see this there either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/24 01:49 PM |
| 1 | Everything I've learned from my online dating experience. Maybe this can help you too:Are you Hispanic? You sound like my moms family. Yes Im part Hispanic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/24 07:26 AM |
| 1 | Everything I've learned from my online dating experience. Maybe this can help you too:Just irresponsible. If you cannot afford a place don’t rent . Its throwing money away . Eventually either prices drop or people return to building a apartment for family. Like the did before 1945 when government began subsidies for houses . Now its unaffordable.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/24 07:25 AM |
| 8 | Everything I've learned from my online dating experience. Maybe this can help you too:We are already seeing that . It is actually the norm for humans. Before 1945 and the FHA and various government subsidies in the US housing was a family deal . It’s returning to that . The market is unsustainable. Government cannot subsidize everything. No one is entitled to a house . Yiur family can help . I agree . Women have no problem with saving money and living with family. Elderly parents are moving in with their children, this saves them from losing everything to a assisted living facili… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/24 07:20 AM |
| 1 | Everything I've learned from my online dating experience. Maybe this can help you too:Actually Latinas in South America would admire that . You would have women strongly hinting they are interested. Family is incredibly important in the culture. They would imagine you being willing to take care of a sick , injured or elderly parents and them as they age . Many men and women live with family and build onto the family home or property. My mothers family In Colombia has a large finca . My sisters and I each have a house in our finca . Um Actually building a swimming and grilling are… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/24 07:11 AM |
| -5 | Why are there such different responses from telling men to have realistic standards vs women?No I did not focus . A woman can be attractive and not be LTR or marriage material. I never said that . Your playing Cathy Newman . Jordan Peterson wiped the floor with her . I an not into Jordan Peterson. But he didca grrat job . I have seen attractive women who, I would not have the slightest interest in . You are conflating attractive with being a suitable partner. Those are two different things. A attractive woman with high count or former sugar baby can be a fun time but not marriage or LTR… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/24 06:39 AM |
| 5 | Are men who never had sex immoral?Your dad is typical of his generation . They literally had relationship fall into their lap . There wasn’t anything remotely close to the internet. There were plenty of jobs . The US and Canada being the only real industrialized nations not reduced to rubble. The British Empire fell apart . So who else was going to produce goods ? Most likely you married someone living within a 20 - maybe 30 mile radius. A high school diploma got you a decent job . A man could easily afford a car , modest house,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/24 05:22 AM |
| 2 | Are men who never had sex immoral?No , I mentored autistic men . A autistic man is a very good friend. You can learn. Maybe not perfectly. Many high functioning people on the spectrum can learn. It is exhausting for them. I get that . Im introverted and find people exhausting. I simply excuse myself and recharge away from all the noise and people. I would always tell my friend. Taje a break don’t kick the crap out of yourself. There are clinicians who specialize in autism. No it cannot be cured its not a disease . You can learn … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/24 04:32 AM |
| 0 | Why are there such different responses from telling men to have realistic standards vs women?No they dont. Thats the problem. More men do than women. You should know that after a few days here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/24 04:23 AM |
| 0 | Why are there such different responses from telling men to have realistic standards vs women?No not physically unattractive. Thats the woman who rode the carousel and now wants a committed monogamous relationship with Billy Beta Bux . She can be attractive and still fir recreational use only. There’s lots of single men who would be happy if a average woman was interested. I would say If you want a fit athletic person be a fit athletic person. Average women are not interested in average men. Why is this difficult to understand. Yes men prefer younger women. Always have that’s nothing new… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/24 04:22 AM |
| -2 | Why are there such different responses from telling men to have realistic standards vs women?Yes from men over 40 -65 or so . She still wants hot young men . Who do not want her. In Colombia and Brazil. Ive noticed a something very different. While women tin those countries tend to prefer men about 10 years older. They are also more realistic. A 40 year old will date a 45 - 60 year old man . Especially if no children are involved. Women in those countries tend to stay in shape. There is not a problem with gym thots . As there’s no problem with a mens only gym and a womens only gym. It w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/24 03:56 AM |
| 2 | Are men who never had sex immoral?I would agree. Did you have any help learning to do that. I would explain to the men about talking endlessly about their interests , helped a clinical psychologist model how to moderate your voice. How to better read body language and subtle social cues. It was really rewarding. Helped me with recovering from some serious injuries and stuff I saw in the middle east . I remember modeling different facial expressions . It was really interesting to me. I learned as well. I think. The learning tone … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/24 03:32 AM |
| 4 | Women's "pickiness" really isn't that deep as it pretends to beYes they can do what they want . There’s also a consequence for doing whatever you want . After they hit the wall and those hot wealthy men are no longer interested , have either married or moved on to the next group of young party girls . Then the epiphany phase might start to set in . Might being the operative word . Some women have a incredible capacity for denying reality. Then do you really want a relationship with a woman who lives like that ? Red Pill would say for recreational use only. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/24 03:17 AM |
| 3 | Are men who never had sex immoral?I believe people can be creepy and not commit any crimes . Creepy doesn’t equal criminal. Though masturbating in public is generally a misdemeanor. Usually that gets you a vist to a psychiatric hospital. Not jail. Perhaps if you’re in probation or parole . In NYC the cops probably would not arrive unless they were within walking distance. They have a lot more problems than a mentally ill man masturbating. Depends on where you live. Also mental illness doesn’t equal being a criminal many western … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/24 02:58 AM |
| 3 | Are men who never had sex immoral?I think her definition of creepy is different than most women posting here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/24 02:38 AM |
| 1 | It seems like males slow to commit AND slow to break upThis has been going on for a very long time. It gets old fast . When simps , and other assorted Blue pill men use this trope It gets really frustrating andc annoying really fast . The simps , white knights , nice guys ect . Desperately want sex . They mistakenly believe that pretending they don’t or will “ wait for it”’will magically make sex happen . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/24 02:36 AM |
| 1 | It seems like males slow to commit AND slow to break upI doubt that. Vegan guy creates a very different mental picture than butcher guy. I have a difficult time seeing vegan guy as a friend. I imagine a man bun , sloppy clothes, hates firearms, smokes weed , is politically woke progressive . Hates the military . Of course there’s stereotypes . We really wont get along at all . Men are not very different than women in how we socialize . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/24 02:31 AM |
| 1 | It seems like males slow to commit AND slow to break upWas staying in the relationship worth it ? If you’re in a bad or abusive relationship. Staying is the worst possible option. I would rather be alone than in a awful abusive relationship. Sex and companionship are not worth sacrificing your mental and physical health for. I have no idea of your age . But a relationship were you are being disrespected, your boundaries violated, you as a human disregarded is dangerous to yoir health . More than one man has blown his head off because of a abusive re… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/24 02:23 AM |
| 1 | It seems like males slow to commit AND slow to break upMen are more likely to be happy to have a relationship and at least from what I have seen sort of expect that the relationship is a committed monogamous relationship if thats what is happening. If both of you are acting like you are a couple . Then to that man you are.. I never had the what are we talk . Never needed to. I made my intentions clear from the start. I cannot speak for every man . I suspect I speak for a lot. I think women want reassuring that they are not wasting time and are in a … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/24 02:10 AM |
| 3 | Are men who never had sex immoral?Well yes. Thats more than creepy. Thats our failed mental health system. I haven’t see that . I have seen homeless people. Its heartbreaking. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/24 01:44 AM |
| 2 | Are men who never had sex immoral?Well you’re not a man right . Obe can safely conclude that it is your experience as a woman . Just as you can safely conclude some of my experiences are from a exclusively male experience. I generally don’t think of people as creepy. Perhaps I have a different idea of creepy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/24 01:08 AM |
| 3 | Are men who never had sex immoral?Feelings are not facts . They are subjective . What you feel is not what every one else feels or thinks . That includes other women. Feelings are often wrong . Especially the mythical women’s intuition. I e seen that fail spectacularly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/24 12:55 AM |
| 7 | Are men who never had sex immoral?Until they talk to you. Asking is that Xxxx Street or can you tell me where the parking garage is. The map app has me going in circles. Then he becomes a creep . Should have the audacity to ask you to go out . All hell breaks loose. I am aware of people around me. Perhaps more than most, I certainly don’t care if anyone looks in my direction or asks me a normal question . Most people are just going about their day and are oblivious to you other than you are in their proximity. That includes the … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/24 12:50 AM |
| 7 | Are men who never had sex immoral?Well now we have a problem. Roughly 30 percent of men under 30 report never having sex . That’s not a good trend . At some point it reaches whats called critical mass. Thats when a certain amount causes a particular actions or outcome. We really really don’t want a lot of lonely , angry, underemployed, sexually frustrated young men. I saw that and it’s not pretty what ISIl and the Taliban did to humans. They used the fact a lot of men in Islamic countries were unable to get married to recruit. I… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/24 12:33 AM |
| 4 | Are men who never had sex immoral?Hopefully things work out well . I would not wish the emotional and psychological pain that often goes hand in hand with autism on anyone . People especially women can be extremely creul. As I am sure this sub makes obvious. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/24 11:14 PM |
| 2 | Are men who never had sex immoral?Awesome!!! That shows you can find love and be autistic! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/24 10:59 PM |
| 1 | Are men who never had sex immoral?No it is not only toddlers cannot control their emotions. You mist certainly can if you choose. Humans have the intellectual capability to do so. Cognitive Behavioral therapy would be worthless if we could not control our emotions. DBT for PwBPD would not have any effects if evdn people with a highly dysfunctional emotional system could not learn to control them. Stop shirking responsibility and accountability. Unattractive men and women are nkt creeps . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/24 10:58 PM |
| 8 | Are men who never had sex immoral?I am not autistic, I have mentored autistic men. I was recovering from severe combat injuries and was asked. Why not. I became very good friends with a high functioning autistic man . It really is offensive to me when people all but say people on the spectrum are by default creepy and have no social skills. I know differently. My autistic friend has often had better social skills that so called neurotyoicals . With some coaching and advice he has found a really wonderful girlfriend, now wife . T… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/24 10:54 PM |
| 3 | Are men who never had sex immoral?Yes you can . I can get mad at a person yet not beat him to a plup , have a stupid shouting match or demand someone with authority remove or punish that person. Unlike some women . Who call random men creepy and demand their removal from a area. Just because that man checked them out . That happens routinely. Just ignore the guy . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/24 09:44 PM |
| 22 | Are men who never had sex immoral?Creepy is another term for I don’t find him attractive. Be honest. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/24 09:40 PM |
| 3 | Women's "pickiness" really isn't that deep as it pretends to beThis is called hypocrisy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/24 05:16 PM |
| 15 | Women's "pickiness" really isn't that deep as it pretends to beThis . Women saying one thing then doing another. The incongruent behavior vs words is painfully obvious.. Men have been taught from a very young age a false narrative. Then are frustrated when they do exactly what they are told will get them a relationship. Only to see it fail repeatedly. They never had a chance. They need a good male role model and to see a healthy relationship when they are growing up. Many. People never see this . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/24 05:14 PM |
| 1 | Approaching women in a limited pool of your social circle poisons this pool for youI do to a point . What do you do when simple suggestions such as get out and exercise, you don’t have to make the gym your second home. Dress better when going out. It really makes a difference. Lose weight, get a flattering hairstyle. Is ignored? When you say stop simping for her ! She’s using you, there’s plenty of women who are interested. Only to hear ; “ She’s the one for me! I do not know why she dates jerks ! “. Let her date jerks stop listening to her and tormenting yourself ! It is that… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/24 02:07 PM |
| 13 | A case study into AITA’s gender bias (favouring women) and how it aligns with TBPI do not think they do. That’s the definition of what Blue Pill means. You’re living in a false narrative sort of like a drug induced mass delusion.That keeps you trapped in a false narrative . The analogy is very accurate. You can live in this nice safe fake world or the world as it really is . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/24 04:56 AM |
| 29 | A case study into AITA’s gender bias (favouring women) and how it aligns with TBPThen we are doomed . If matriarchies were successful. Humans would have matriarchal societies. We don’t have a patriarchy either. That’s just as nonsensical We did have much more feminine and masculine spheres of influence. Men did grueling physical labor , hunting, fighting invaders, building. Made tools and weapons. Explored Women would raise children, clean and butcher, gather food , maje some clothes. Cooked ran the house . It wasn’t perfect but is helped us survive for most of human existen… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/24 04:51 AM |
| 1 | Would you date an absolutely mediocre person?The vast majority if humans are mediocre. They might have qualities that are important to you . Most people live ordinary average lives and do ordinary average things. You can be meh sexually with one person or find it meh while being really into another person. Thats hard to know before hand . Im introverted, quite and don’t really enjoy small talk . I know it can lead to more. I prefer a intelligent meaning full conversation. I know this can be seem as aloof or antisocial. I try to move a conv… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/24 04:18 AM |
| – | The idea of men needing to be "nice" really needs to die alreadyInmates on death row in states that have the deaths penalty get lots if very graphic letters and pictures from women There’s sites dedicated to prison pen pals where you too can meet the love of your life ! Serial Killers even get married! https://allthatsinteresting.com/women-who-loved-killers | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/24 02:14 AM |
| -2 | Are more women excited by non-'chads' than people think?Umm our president’s pervert son . Who should be rotting in a nice cold federal prison. Daddy saved him from a court martial and dishonorable discharge from the Navy forc cocaine use . Most people in the military would get the Dishonorable Discharge, reduction in rank to enlisted and time in a disciplinary barracks aka military prison. The POS had pictures of himself smoking crack with teenage prostitutes in a south East Asian country. What a family! Crime corruption , sexual perversion! It makes… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/24 01:48 AM |
| 2 | Are more women excited by non-'chads' than people think?Yes the men are currently monopolizing women. You do realize there men who have a huge rotation of women. There’s a reason why every city has a Facebook or other platform group titled Are we Dating the Same Guy . You are right there are very few tall , 6 ft plus , very attractive, earning over $ 100k who are built like adonis. Less than one percent of the population fits that description. Many women will reject perfectly decent men because if their 500 point check list and really believe thst th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/24 01:43 AM |
| -2 | Are more women excited by non-'chads' than people think?Not that I know of . Though the despicable POS Hunter Biden did take advantage of his sister inlaw . Who destroyed him while testifying against him . I suppose step siblings have had relationships. They are not related genetically. Not that it’s a good idea. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/24 01:29 AM |
| 3 | Are more women excited by non-'chads' than people think?Unm I think he is referring to a very small sub set of women who are aroused by gay men having sex . You will have to ask him . I don’t think he is sure . But hey as long as you don’t hurt anyone in anyway go to it . Just don’t announce your kink to the whole world. It’s not making sense to me either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/24 01:26 AM |
| 0 | Approaching women in a limited pool of your social circle poisons this pool for youWhat do you mean? Some people are unaware of why they are struggling. Thry might well have good social skills. Though social media and exessive use of text does not help. There’s something happening that’s causing men under 40 to struggle with finding a romantic relationship. It cannot be just poor social skills, which are in part learned. In part something we inherently know as humans. We evolved neural pathways that allow us to interact socially over two hundred thousand years. I cannot be aut… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/24 01:18 AM |
| 4 | Too many men conflate sexual frustration with depressionShe really does not understand. For most women it’s easier to find a partner and have a relationship. It’s incredibly easy for all but the most unattractive women to find a willing sex partner. That doesn’t mean they find a relationship. They really cannot understand as they don’t experience what men do in the current relationship and sexual market. There’s a reason there’s lots of are we dating the same guy Facebook or other platform groups in every city. They are dating the same guy ! There’s … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/24 12:36 AM |
| 0 | Too many men conflate sexual frustration with depressionYou are describing solipsism . This because I feel X means it’s true for everyone. It’s like me saying because I liked jumping perfectly good planes at 50,000 ft at night. Everyone does . Actually it’s very peaceful. Especially looking at stars . This is typical of blue pill conditioning. This idea if I X is true for me it is for everyone! Humans are social animals. I am introverted, which is not shy. I still enjoy the company of others. I. Just need time to recharge. I am aware extroverts usual… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/24 12:28 AM |
| 2 | Too many men conflate sexual frustration with depressionFwiw there’s no such thing as a sex addict . It isn’t in the DSM or ICD . There’s various sexual dysfunctions and disorders. Those usually are treatable with Cognitive therapy and medication. There’s a direct correlation to not having a partner and healthy sex life and depression, anxiety disorders, increased symptoms in bi polar , psychotic disorders , Cluster A and C personality disorders with lack of a companionship , emotional and physical intimacy. Sex is incredibly important. You really do… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/24 12:13 AM |
| 11 | Too many men conflate sexual frustration with depressionI actually served in hell holes Afghanistan for example where people have no access to clean water, they have subsistence level agriculture. They manage to survive. Although not as comfortably as western people. About the only thing they really wanted was medical care. My particular detachment would bring medical supplies . If jumping the loadmaster tossed a pallet or two of medical supplies, we filled a IFV , APC with them . A helicopter would occasionally bring in medical personnel if we could… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/24 11:51 PM |
| 6 | Too many men conflate sexual frustration with depressionMost people who have healthy sex lives have good self esteem. Most people with no intimacy have poor self esteem. Intimacy and a healthy sex life go hand in hand . Which is why people who don’t have healthy sex become vocal about it . Those are going to primarily be men. It’s been know long before the internet existed that it is much easier for a woman to find a romantic partner. Sex is incredibly validating. Masturbating is not validating . It is self pleasuring . There’s almost no oxytocin rel… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/24 11:32 PM |
| -4 | Approaching women in a limited pool of your social circle poisons this pool for youI don’t think you have dated in a while . I sincerely hope you never get divorced. Plenty of women with poor social skills have boyfriends. Men put up with a lot more bad behavior in a relationship and from women in general. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/24 10:43 PM |
| -1 | Approaching women in a limited pool of your social circle poisons this pool for youSocial media plays a huge role in that . As does our education system that has become designed for girls by women. Men are not meant to sit in neat rows and raise their hands to ask a question. They do better with activities. Then there’s single parent mostly single mother families. Both men and women grow up without a male role model. They don’t see a couple having to compromise and even flirting mildly . We made divorce a profitable industry. You should not get to detonate a family then be rew… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/24 10:41 PM |
| 0 | Approaching women in a limited pool of your social circle poisons this pool for youWhy is it only men need “ better social skills “ ? There’s a lot of women who have awful social skills. Women are not some different species that are all but perfect. They are humans. This idea only men must change or the over used do better has to stop . Woman are not any better than men . There have been lots of women who did horrific things throughout humans existence. 48 percent of DV victims are men . We need to stop the Women are Wonderful mentality and effect . They are equally at fault . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/24 10:31 PM |
| 3 | Approaching women in a limited pool of your social circle poisons this pool for youThis rarely works. If you approach woman A and become “ friends “ hoping that woman A will tell her friends you’re a great guy and thry should date you . You are sadly mistaken. Women B and C are going to ask if he is such a great catch why isn’t woman A his girlfriend. It’s difficult when you are single and would like a relationship. The why is he single question comes up . This was less true before the widespread use If dating apps and earlier OLD . Both men and women were limited in potential… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/24 10:24 PM |
| – | The idea of men needing to be "nice" really needs to die alreadySimple you try to put yourself in their position. Then use that to explain why you disagree. You can say I understand how you might think that . Did you consider this ? Abortion is both emotional and political . It’s extremely easy to become polarized. I understand why the in particular pro choice extreme can easily manipulate the debate. Most people have voted to keep abortion legal if not protected in state constitutions. There’s a whole lot if people who also think abortion od demand , with z… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/24 09:49 PM |
| – | The idea of men needing to be "nice" really needs to die alreadyLife doesn’t work that way . Often it’s not only polite but a smart decent person accepts they might be or are wrong. When all the evidence or facts show you to be wrong . Which is most of the time for blue pillers now. It wasn’t not long ago . No you don’t get to conflate every man who disagrees into Andrew Tate . Thats ridiculous and shows just how you have no real argument. So does personal attacks and insults . You quickly notice the attacks and insults come primarily from one side on this s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/24 09:18 PM |
| – | The idea of men needing to be "nice" really needs to die alreadyThere is arguing and debating . When your view is not rational, offensive, harmful, intolerant , misinformed . No its not wrong Isn’t this a debate sub. Not a feminist , woke progressive echo chamber? If you wish to hear only what you want and be told how wonderful you are for having those views, there are plenty of platforms for that . I find that tedious. When people make outrageous, incorrect statements people are going to correct you. A lot of so called blue pill beliefs are inconsistent wit… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/24 09:06 PM |
| – | The idea of men needing to be "nice" really needs to die alreadyPablo Escobar was kind to local people. He had playgrounds, clinics, even roads and churches built out side Medillen and Bogata. He went to weddings, paid for the many holiday celebrations that are part of South American culture. Trust me they really get into them. He was seen as a sort of Latino Robin Hood. He kept his brutality hidden . He was also a Murderous , ruthless , criminal who had no problems with killing real and usually imagined enemies or gusanos who gave information to law enforce… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/24 08:47 PM |
| – | The idea of men needing to be "nice" really needs to die alreadyIf anything the nice guy often unknowingly turns himself into a doormat and emotional tampon. M He doesn’t know anything different. As you said he was taught from a very young age to be nice, of service and always be “ respectful” of all women all the time . Regardless of her behavior . I am eternally grateful for my sisters and mother teaching me differently and to stand up for myself. Not go running to the rescue every time a woman finds herself in a mess. It saved me a lot if problems. And ye… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/24 08:05 PM |
| – | The idea of men needing to be "nice" really needs to die alreadyTo be fair those are mostly me so deeply blue pilled . Stooping their blue pill behaviors causes withdrawals as if they did not get their regular drug . The original meaning of TRP was different than it is now . The idea was the blue pill was like in the Movie, a drug that kept you blissfully unaware of reality. TRP was supposed to be unpleasant and show you reality . Unfortunately it got mainstreamed and twisted into something different. Nice is basic human behavior. Kind is genuinely being a g… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/24 07:59 PM |
| – | The idea of men needing to be "nice" really needs to die alreadyNot true nice is basic human politeness so we function as as a civil society. I am “ nice” to the overworked cashier at the local Home Depot . She doesn’t deserve to be treated rudely because there’s lots of people . I am kind to the elderly couple whose drive way was blocked by a tree that fell in a thunderstorm. . I took my chainsaw and removed it. The guy offered me a six pack . I politely thanked him and said If you need help let us know we will try as best we can . There’s a lot if overlap.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/24 07:30 PM |
| – | The idea of men needing to be "nice" really needs to die alreadySomehow even that’s seen as being a doormat and pushover. Saying . This is a worthless, you are not listening or I don’t have any to say is seen as being weak , and cowardly. It’s stupid and another double bind , damned if you do damned if you don’t trap . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/24 07:14 PM |
| – | The idea of men needing to be "nice" really needs to die alreadyThis. There’s a difference between nice and kind . Too many people mistake kindness for being nice . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/24 07:09 PM |
| 9 | A case study into AITA’s gender bias (favouring women) and how it aligns with TBPNo women’s delusional. ,entitled ,expectations and irrational demands have increased. Mostly because they hooked up with Chad in a dry spell and now think they are entitled to Chad . In reality all they were was a live fleshlight . As cold as that is . It is what happened. Women are not anything special. They are humans. Humans want companionship , love , affection and to be validated that they exist. Women are gettIng what they deserve. You ignored decent men for the Hot guy who used you . Now … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/24 05:16 PM |
| 3 | Do most men really want “traditional women” or to receive treatment they imagine top tier Chads receive from women?Thank you for the compliments ! Lets say I served my full 20 years in the military and was very young when I joined . Fell free to ask any questions you mi have. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/24 03:20 PM |
| 1 | Women shouldn't defend women who are obviously wrong just because they are women.That’s why you continuously find yourself disagreeing and not understanding why people are frustrated and tired of this radical blame everyone and everything but yourself entitled attitude . That’s why once you hit the real world life is going to be grim . You don’t get to insult and offend people in the real world where there’s no one to protect you and come running to the rescue. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/24 02:58 PM |
| 1 | Women shouldn't defend women who are obviously wrong just because they are women.You know exactly what I mean . Normal people don’t go grocery shopping and put cameras on their grocery cart then talk to it trying to “ catch “ men looking at them . Thats not normal behavior. . I would have at minimum spoken to the store management and said . Maybe she is paranoid and having a psychotic break . Talk about not reading the room . The man in the video was annoyed and frustrated with her wasting peoples time while talking to the camera. Focus ! Do not take what people say out of c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/24 02:28 PM |
| 2 | Do most men really want “traditional women” or to receive treatment they imagine top tier Chads receive from women?Oh yes . The interesting part is you get to be part of it . That finca in Colombia is worth millions in the US . But you are spending a fraction of that. It is mutually beneficial. You get a pleasant second home . If you do it right tax free and also all thr benefits of being a US citizen. I am a dual citizen so. The tax part requires a very creative collaboration between attorneys in the US and Colombia. Out side of Bogata and Medillen its a safe and in the Andes a permanent spring climate. The… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/24 06:15 PM |
| 3 | What do we do about the fact that men are drastically overrepresented as murderers, rapists, and criminals?I would agree about parenting. The explosion of single parent families is a problem. There’s no getting around it . We don’t discuss the problem at all . I haven’t looked at statistics from the Biden administration . But previously the surveys showed the majority of prisoners male or friends came from single parent families . Almost entirely single mothers . Having two parents makes a huge difference . Even divorced parents that shared custody and took responsibility shows it matters. Out highly… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/24 02:15 PM |
| 14 | Do most men really want “traditional women” or to receive treatment they imagine top tier Chads receive from women?It’s not that simple . I have family in Colombia . I visit a few times a year. I sm probably not the best example as part of my family is Hispanic . I am 6ft and about 180 , in good shape, and am considered attractive. I did not understand why I would get lots of compliments and have a easy time dating . One night I noticed the woman I am with was staring at my eyes. I’m thinking WTF is wrong . Then shes vamos a casa ojos azules . Lets go home blue eyes . She keeps calling me cariño con ojos azu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/24 03:28 AM |
| 1 | Women shouldn't defend women who are obviously wrong just because they are women.Simps cause this . If simps didn’t make it possible to earn money on only fools . They would not do it. Simps , feminist enablers , and em white knights are worse than the thots and entitled narcissistic women. Trauma, really. Go serve in the sandbox. Get shot while your buddies brain matter is covering you. No big deal . It cannot be close to a random guy checking out a woman . The horror . ( sarcasm) Actually I should say man she doesn’t find attractive checking her out. Thots don’t care if th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/24 02:47 AM |
| 1 | Women shouldn't defend women who are obviously wrong just because they are women.We just can’t kill people because of a accusation. Sex crimes don’t carry a death sentence. Now if you rape and kill like Wade Wilson. In death penalty states like Florida. You will get executed. Interestingly he has a number of woman sending him graphic letters and publicly supporting him. Hybristophilia is a real sexual disorder. Primarily seen in women . There’s sites prisoners can advertise for pen pals . Women make up the overwhelming majority of the sites users . A bit off topic . But hey … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/24 02:30 AM |
| 3 | Women shouldn't defend women who are obviously wrong just because they are women.He is getting really annoyed at the entitled, narcissistic thot, wasting everyone’s time . She is deliberately seeking attention and getting it. Who the hell puts a camera or phone on a shopping cart ? There’s something seriously wrong with her . This is not normal behavior. Tik Tok is causing mental health problems. You don’t record yourself grocery shopping while trying to catch men staring at you. Obviously people are going to stare as you talk to the camer or phone attached to the cart . I w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/24 01:34 AM |
| 3 | Women shouldn't defend women who are obviously wrong just because they are women.You are right. The hypocrisy is at a all time high. Actually I believe both are cause for civil litigation. A few men have successfully sued these gym thots . They don’t think deliberately seeking attention. Then Getting it but not what they want is wrong While making a video in a private business . Then posting the video on their Instagram and Tik Tok to get views is going to go over well in court ? Do they not see the stunning hypocrisy. Men cannot record them in a public setting yet they can … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/24 12:46 AM |
| 2 | Women shouldn't defend women who are obviously wrong just because they are women.We kill them . Thats why. No need to call them out . You do know we have to keep sex offenders separated from other inmates right? There’s a visceral human response to sexual predators. That doesn’t mean men checking our the e thot wearing next to nothing to attract attention while recording herself to show potentially millions of people how traumatic being leered at while deliberately wearing clothes or lack of clothes in a public place . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/24 11:53 PM |
| 3 | Women shouldn't defend women who are obviously wrong just because they are women.Well ok go walking around naked. It probably will not end well . You will probably find yourself in a ED getting a psychiatric examined held for 72 hours to make sure you are not having a psychiatric crisis. Most people should keep their clothes on . We have been wearing clothing of some type for two hundred thousand years at minimum. Neanderthals and Denisovisns long before Homo sapiens existed . We wear clothes for a reason. Lots of things are natural and extremely dangerous. Natural doesn’t e… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/24 11:47 PM |
| 1 | What do we do about the fact that men are drastically overrepresented as murderers, rapists, and criminals?We already so something . We have laws . We have law enforcement agencies. We employ police officers to arrest suspected criminals. We have prosecutors, defense attorneys and judges who hopefully ensure due process and uphold our rights. When convicted we send them to prison or lesser offenses get probation.. Some states execute people who commit the most heinous murders. We send these criminals to prison. Most murders are men killing other men engaged in criminal activity. In the US we have the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/24 11:13 PM |
| 2 | Women shouldn't defend women who are obviously wrong just because they are women.Not wearing a shirt is seen as very disrespectful. You usually are told to put a shirt on or leave. Many gyms require you to clean the equipment after using it and provide bottles of disinfectant to spray with . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/24 09:10 PM |
| 2 | Women shouldn't defend women who are obviously wrong just because they are women.Where is this ? Perhaps you wandered into a private place catering to gay men ? Men including gay men don’t wear the clothing you describe in public places including gyms. If you don’t like getting stared at do not do that cause people to stare . It’s that simple.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/24 09:05 PM |
| 1 | Women are poor communicatorsNo one is always right. Some people know to stop when they are wrong or don’t know a answer. A lot of women are unable to to accept any responsibility or accountability . I blame parents who let their brat princess, do whatever she wanted and didn’t have consequences for bad behavior. Along our gynocentric society. That enables horrible behavior and entitlement mentality. We refuse to hold women accountable or make them responsible until they do something like Jodi Arias and kill a boyfriend for… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/24 08:58 PM |
| – | There is a difference between showing weakness and wallowing in self-pity all the time.Most people are not in open or whatever the term of the week is for sleeping around with other people. I suspect most men in these relationships are Bi sexual. There’s nothing wrong with that. Who cares. In the military we really didn’t care as life as you did your job . Who you have sex with is not our business . Your experience is a outlier . Most people are not ok with a partner or spouses opposite sex friends. Men know exactly what those “ friends “ are trying to do . Woman know exactly what… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/24 06:36 PM |
| 0 | What do men wantMen want a woman that respects them and is able to make him and the relationship her priority . Just as he makes her and the relationship the priority. Having empathy and compassion. Which are critical to a healthy relationship. Being attractive to him . Men find a much wider range of women attractive. This is for genitic diversity and a better opportunity to pass on genes snd procreate Which is the prime reason human exist . To have sex and propagate the human species. We want a girlfriend oe w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/24 06:34 AM |
| 1 | Women are poor communicatorsThey are not . No one said they are . There’s a lot of women who behave as if they are always right and refuse to accept any responsibility or accountability. There’s a lot of women with a entitlement mentality. This is I get what I want , when I want it , how I want it . Regardless of reality, other peoples rights, feelings and boundaries . That becomes very disrespectful , frustrating, stressful, discouraging, and turns good men off . No one wants a entitled narcissistic jerk in their life to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/24 11:34 PM |
| 1 | Women are poor communicatorsUnfortunately it doesn’t go over well when you try to point out to many people they are in fact wrong. Somehow being able to have a adult conversation and listen to each other has become unacceptable . Especially some women. Who seem to think they and only they are correct. Denying people their basic humanity never ends well . Feminism as it exists today does exactly that . Denies anyone who disagrees their humanity and human rights. It never ends well . History had repeatedly shown that . Despi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/24 09:16 PM |
| – | Q4W: Are you aware that most young men these days are deeply ashamed of their sexuality?The mental health system fails men badly. Its becoming dominated by women. Who really dont understand men. Sitting and talking doesn’t work as well with men . We would be better doing a activity ,a sport, even just using a elíptical machine and talking. When we ask for medical help we want a solution or at least a way to minimize the damage or problems. If my back injuries act up. I explain what’s happening and want a direct answer and possibly a change in medication. I don’t want to talk about … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/24 01:55 PM |
| – | There is nothing wrong with not being selected by womenYou are absolutely correct. I rescuered some hostages in a area occupied by. ISIS, we got the hostages and a few surprises I was asked nicely by British Intelligence services to please don’t kill everyone not s hostage . I had a reputation as a lethal sniper whi doesn’t miss . Well we got them A few European men . I was feeling generous. When we heard his story that he was online gaming and chatted with some guy . Who radicalized him . One of the ways terrorists recruit is to promise wives . We … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/24 01:36 PM |
| – | There is nothing wrong with not being selected by womenMost anthropologists, evolutionary biologists and psychologists . Would say women created monogamy to get men to buy into society and have a opportunity for a better man than who ever could afford to own you. With out men buying into society. That society descends into chaos and civil strife and violence really fast . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/24 01:14 PM |
| – | Men need to understand the rules of the game they are playing PRIOR to joiningI agree. But thats not realistic yet . There’s a lot of money involved and a lot of special interest groups chasing those dollars. Think of all the government programs that primarily benefit women. Think DEI , Title IX and Public assistance. Just having various deans of diversity , a womens affairs , womens health and safety deen and Vice Presidents then all kinds of assistants. The bloated HR departments . The DEI departments.. My family business deals with this nonsense. We had to prove a fami… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/24 01:08 PM |
| – | Men need to understand the rules of the game they are playing PRIOR to joiningNo he was a administratorvonna forum . He might have had overlap in some ideas . He has never been a fan of PUA . I get the idea he is like me more libertarian. You do your thing . I don’t care as long as it doesn’t hurt me or cost me. He does have interesting topics . Though I think he could do even better. I don’t know that I could do podcast like that . I don’t consider him a bad guy . There’s some real crazy people saying crazy stuff on the internet and making a lot of money doing it . Crazy… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/24 12:51 PM |
| – | Men need to understand the rules of the game they are playing PRIOR to joiningWatch his pod casts . He frequently explains why PUA is not going to get you s girlfriend. He has done this for years. He is one of the few Red Plilers worth listening to . He actually has a education in psychology and does research about his tipics ., You don’t have to agree with him . He is interesting. His clips are easier than the full podcast. Lots of red pillers all but repeate from. The Rational Male Books . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/24 09:20 AM |
| – | Men need to understand the rules of the game they are playing PRIOR to joiningIncels can learn . They are not idiots, certainly they have some serious problems . I have mentored men struggling with finding a relationship It really isn’t that difficult. First I disabuse then of the must be 6 Ft plus tall , earb 100K or more, hace the physique of a adonis . It’s not easy and takes years of a really dedicated workout routine. I teach them To exercise at least 3 days a week and do both cardio and resistance exercises . How to lose weight healthily. Many diets can be dangerous… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/24 09:10 AM |
| 7 | Women are poor communicatorsIt’s called solipsism . They believe everyone thinks , feels and communicates exactly as they do. Try correcting them . It only gets worse. This seems to be worse in feminists , who are indoctrinated to think they and only they are right . There are women who are aware there’s different methods of communication. Most people get non verbal cues right about 50 percent of the time You’re right not only men but most people don’t care about a conversation between friends. We have other things to be c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/24 11:02 PM |
| 2 | American women are way more toxic than most other womenYou really don’t understand what oppression is . They cannot speak out. If you paid attention to the news when a Iranian woman was killed by the religious police in Evan Prison because she had the wrong head dressing on. The ayatollahs had the protesters gunned down with machine guns. You have no idea who will denounce you to the government for incorrect ideas . We really tried in Islamic countries. When you know some terrorist thugs are going to kill you with no fear of consequences. Unless by … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/24 04:42 PM |
| 2 | American women are way more toxic than most other womenWe have accomplished that many years ago . Now activists on the left are demanding extra privileges backed by threats of government force and violence. Equal rights and equal opportunity doesn’t equal equal outcome. That’s the problem. Progressives conflated equality and equal rights with equal outcomes . The two are not the same . If anything they are not compatible. If government forces equal outcomes then by definition the government is using force ro deny equal rights. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/24 02:38 PM |
| 1 | American women are way more toxic than most other womenHe does. I know from experience as a young guy . If I were to say no let’s go out to eat . She would be offended . It’s like saying I don’t like her the meals she cooks . Occasionally I will take a latina girlfriend out . I have to know when to do that . Usually when we are taking a drive or a weekday get away . Considering we both can cook very well. We don’t usually go out . Now I want to make some Papa Rellenas , empanadas and mango con agua and asado . I find Latinas much more respectful and… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/24 02:25 PM |
| -1 | Question for men. If you could fix men's biggest issuesYour wrong about what they did . Women left Eastern European Countries until Stalin built a militarized boarder preventing people from leaving. People in general tried to escape Eastern European countries . It’s a poor example. Men and women alike were forced in to poverty. There wasn’t much opportunities. They were busy rebuilding Europe with was all but reduced to rubble by the US Army Air Force . When a country or region loses the amounts of people the Soviets managed to wipe out . There is s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/24 05:12 AM |
| -1 | Question for men. If you could fix men's biggest issuesThey tried to leave and live in western nations. For a few years post WW 2 before Stalin could fully control much of Eastern Europe. There was a steady stream of people fleeing The Soviets. They built a extensive militarized boarder system. It wasn’t called the Iron Curtain with out good reasons. Germany lost millions of men and recovered . Maybe you don’t remember there being a East and West Germany . West Germany recovered well with assistance from the US . Which has been paid back . Poland is… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/24 04:05 AM |
| 2 | Question for men. If you could fix men's biggest issuesBuilding those as you call them McMansions provide employment for a lot of people. My family buys and renovates properties. I do things like cut down trees, supervise landscaping services, Deal with the materials we order, and other what could be property management. There’s all kinds of employment. People have to drive the trucks , provide fuel for the trucks and equipment . People do the landscaping, plumbing, electrical work all get paid well maybe not the 100 k or more But thats about 20 per… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/24 03:39 AM |
| 10 | American women are way more toxic than most other womenTypical Latina . They can be wonderful girlfriends . It takes getting used to . Part of my family is Hispanic and I speak fluent Spanish and Portuguese. It makes dating much better. I date mostly Latinas. They have their cons . But those are nowhere near the drama, chaos and bizarre double binds , impossible standards , catch 22s and dambs if you do damned if you don’t of many western women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/24 02:31 AM |
| 25 | American women are way more toxic than most other womenI served in a number of Islamic hell holes . You are right about somethings . Women don’t have Much of a choice who they marry . The ideal is your father’s brothers daughters. AKA your cousin.. There’s serious problems with genitic drift snd birth defects especially in rural areas. Its not nice to see. Women are property for all practical purposes. They cannot vote if there are elections, they cannot own property, go to schools beyond grade school in most Islamic countries. Cannot drive in many … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/24 02:23 AM |
| 3 | There is a difference between showing weakness and wallowing in self-pity all the time.Absolutely. Over the past 60 years government has made it increasingly easier for women. To the point of making yhe behaviors we see today not only possible. But punishing men for existing. I agree we treat our veterans and disabled disgracefully . It disgusting and needs to stop . Western women are the most privileged, protected and entitled demographic on the planet. Travel out side western countries. Some are awful misogynistic undeveloped hell holes . Especially Islamic countries. We live in… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/24 10:53 PM |
| 1 | There is a difference between showing weakness and wallowing in self-pity all the time.I noticed this trend with women humiliating , being disgusted and increasingly ending a relationship or divorce when a man shoes any emotion out side of mild happiness . First it was through my real life friends and family. A buddy mentioning Something like Joe’s wife is divorcing him . His mom dying in that crash really got to him. Don’t blame him . She says he’s pathetic and needs to get it together. My response Thats crazy , he was close with his mom , he helped her out when his father had to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/24 03:24 PM |
| 2 | There is a difference between showing weakness and wallowing in self-pity all the time.I cannot imagine most people in general being ok with their partner going hiking with a opposite sex “ friend “ . If a man did that , he will no longer have a relationship with his girlfriend or the divorce papers will be waiting for him . Yeah I suspect most men into being cuckold are Bi . There’s probably some sexual turn on . I cannot imagine a girlfriend having sex with anyone else but me . In studies , asking a person M or F to imagine their SO having sex with someone else causes autonomic … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/24 02:45 AM |
| 1 | There is a difference between showing weakness and wallowing in self-pity all the time.Very true . There’s a mountain of research on this . Then go look for women’s posts on multiple subs and sites asking how to demand their boyfriend not have women friends. They know exactly why those women are his “ friends “. Thry are hoping to at minimum bang him more likely be their boyfriend instead. The thinking is if she is with him. He must have something good going on , I want it . Men know exactly what their girlfriends male friends are up to . We have seen men try mate poaching many ti… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/24 02:24 AM |
| 2 | There is a difference between showing weakness and wallowing in self-pity all the time.Lack of empathy is seen in cluster B personality disorders. It is a part of the diagnostic criteria. She shows zero empathy . Reading it brings back bad memories from a service I attended for a soldier. a sergeant who should never have been in a the convoy delivering supplies to s fire base . The guy would somehow find whatever you asked for. He was always joking and “ organizing “. Items such as a pallet full of case so of beer . Frozen steaks . A bunch of movies on a random laptop, I wanted th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/24 12:51 AM |
| 5 | There is a difference between showing weakness and wallowing in self-pity all the time.I despise the labeling normal human emotions as insecure . Jealousy is a normal human emotion. We evolved ot over hundreds of thousands of years. Millions if you as I do consider Homo Habilis humans. Insecurity and jealousy do not just happen. They are not a personality trait or flaw . They happen for a reason. In a healthy relationship there will always be some mild jealousy . All humans are insecure at times. Only a psychopath or sociopath is not . This is madness . They don’t want to give up … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/24 11:34 PM |
| 4 | There is a difference between showing weakness and wallowing in self-pity all the time.I bet you were love bombed . The sex was amazing. Until you inevitably failed and showed you are a human who is not perfect and has real emotions, thoughts, values, hopes, dreams and most importantly boundaries. Then all hell breaks loose. She will try everything in her power to destroy you emotionally, psychologically , financially and physically. Cluster Bs are dangerous. There’s a reason men with ASPD formerly known as psychopathy or sociopathy , frequently spend much of their( psychopaths ar… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/24 11:22 PM |
| 2 | There is a difference between showing weakness and wallowing in self-pity all the time.You mean . Don’t be human . You are describing a extremely abusive relationship. Imagine if men were to demand women not show human emotions! The outrage would be heard a million light years away . The mindless vitriol and hysterical screaming of misogyny, rape culture , the evil ( imaginary or fictional) patriarchy , oppression , racism, Trump , the Russians, Republicans, Libertarians , men , and all the other usual scapegoats . Would be loud and endless. When did men stop becoming human? Some … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/24 11:13 PM |
| 7 | There is a difference between showing weakness and wallowing in self-pity all the time.WTF . There’s something seriously wrong with any woman who doesn’t tolerate a human showing sadness because his mother died . Thats what I would expect from a psychopath or Sociopath, Cluster B personality disorders. Not a normal healthy woman. That’s seriously disturbing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/24 03:00 PM |
| 14 | There is a difference between showing weakness and wallowing in self-pity all the time.If a woman is turned off by a moment of vulnerability or a weakness, which we all have as humans. You are probably dealing with a cluster B personality disorder. They cause serious problems, psychologically, emotionally, financially and often criminally . This is your cue to take Iron Maiden’s lyrics Run to the Hills. , Run for your Life! seriously. Healthy women will find being modest and showing that you are human and have vulnerabilities attractive as a personality trait . Am I not supposed t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/24 02:56 PM |
| 0 | q4w: what advantages do you think men have over you in dating? Why?It’s rude to ask bluntly. I would be offended if a woman asked me how many women have I had sex with. If you are starting a relationship. Especially a committed monogamous relationship. Discussing your sexual history is important. There’s health reasons, . Honesty is one foundation for a healthy relationship. Eventually your past will catch up with you. A few drinks or if cannabis is your thing a little too much when a friend or evrn family is visiting and opps ! Maybe you thought you deleted al… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/24 05:50 AM |
| 1 | To the female losers here, why won't you date a male loser?Seriously she is a prostitute and pornstar . That’s not a person suitable for a marriage or LTR . Mia Kalifia isn’t going to fuck random white knighting simps who defend her on the internet. She will however fuck you for her going rate . The average man cannot or will not pay that . She really is not extremely attractive. She’s not bad , I have had sex with much more attractive women. She’s a 6 at best . She will of course fuck for her current going rate . Which is dropping all the time. Anyone … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/24 05:18 PM |
| -1 | To the female losers here, why won't you date a male loser?No Mia Khalifia is a prostitute. She gets men willing to pay her for the “ girlfriend experience “. No self respecting man will marry or LTR her . She has been whining about this for a least 2 years. Since her second divorce in less than ten years. Maybe some wealthy simp is willing to spend money pretending to be her boyfriend. I would not fuck her . The thought that the night before she was fucking some other man is repulsive. She is a porn star and prostitute . She gets exactly what she deser… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/24 03:09 PM |
| 1 | Only telling men to self improve is bad adviceOh I is a lot and would turn off almost everyone. It is possible, Having a very high BC is a huge red flag . It speaks volumes about that person. None good. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/24 01:55 PM |
| -4 | To the female losers here, why won't you date a male loser?No desperate , thirsty men with low self esteem do that . Most men don’t want those women as anything but a good time . Maybe after 40 and a divorce a single mom might be a possibility. I would not want anything to do with a pornstar . The idea of being with a woman who fucked random men while being recorded is repulsive. See only fools starts like Mia Kalilfa who cannot find a stable relationship. Multiple divorces before 30 ! Yikes . NonI would not have sex with her . I would not enjoy being a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/24 01:00 PM |
| 3 | To the female losers here, why won't you date a male loser?I somewhat agree with you. I don’t call most people losers. I think he the OP means not very attractive , has a average job and life , isn’t as social , exercise and a better diet, learning to dress better when being social. Maybe saving some income to eventually invest so you can have a better life. Things within your control. Those lists you mentioned are very accurate. Though older divorced or never married people can be a good partner especially after 35-40 . I don’t think virginity is as bi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/24 12:42 PM |
| 9 | Only telling men to self improve is bad adviceIt would not be that difficult. Especially with OLD . Thats 3 women a day . You could ask 6 women out one week 2 the next and so on . Using OLD how difficult is it to send messages to 10 women in a day or two days . Not that doing any of this is a good idea . It would get frustrating really fast unless you are very attractive. Which is why men who ask lots of women out in a short time get frustrated and start down the black pill road . Thats a really depressing, road . Just reading it is sad . T… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/24 04:23 AM |
| 18 | Men are worse off than women in all developed countries. This is so controversial that UN falsifies the Gender Development Index to hide this factIran does that now, The Taliban is doing it in Afghanistan. Saudi Arabia, UAE , Yemen, also cone to mind . There’s others too , When I served in the sandbox. Women did not have rights in Islamic countries in any Islamic country I spent time in . Including countries that we have bases in . I think maybe Jordan does ok compared to other Islamic countries. It is ironic how woke progressives support the places that would have them executed for existing. They don’t disperse a protest. They go full St… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/24 02:07 PM |
| 10 | Men are worse off than women in all developed countries. This is so controversial that UN falsifies the Gender Development Index to hide this factHaving spent time on and off waiting for various reasons in King Khalid air base outside Riyadh . There are no human rights in Saudi Arabia. I remember the air force personnel telling us army guys everything not to do. A man new to Islamic countries asked if we could now get beers . Nope don’t think it . Don’t even bother leaving base. There’s nothing to do. I suppose you can roam around the endless desert. Women and men are legally kept separate. They have religious police who have vast powers … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/24 01:27 PM |
| 2 | Widespread internet usage killed romance, not feminism or the economyI suggest they go live in those Islamic countries. Most would not last very ling or find themselves in a hellish prison. It really is hurtful to see them excuse and defend the brutality , misogyny and bigotry of many Islamic countries . I didn’t serve so far left radicals could bring that hell here . Thanks! I wish more people would listen to what us veterans have to say about the hell holes we were deployed to. Oh definitely visit South America. It’s very beautiful, everything from 6,000 meter … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/24 05:40 PM |
| 2 | Why is there such a significant disconnect between what many women say they want in a man and what they actually pursue?Try reading the Halo effect. Your appearance and how attractive you are is directly related to how people in general treat you . Well lobbying government to require cosmetic surgery as a needed mental health treatment is a strart . I know it gets more complicated. A society with a growing number of angry , frustrated, lonely people especially military aged men is asking for violent civil unrest. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/24 04:48 PM |
| 3 | Widespread internet usage killed romance, not feminism or the economyFortunately most people don’t live according to TikTok or other so called internet influencers . Its a good way to ruin your life . Anyone who is reasonably photogenic and can string sentences together can become a self proclaimed expert. There’s interesting videos on how to cook a different meal, fix random things that break, and similar. But actually living according to a random guru or influncer is insanity. They don’t have all that many followers. Even a few hundred thousand is not remotely … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/24 01:04 PM |
| 3 | Widespread internet usage killed romance, not feminism or the economyYou really really don’t want to live in those countries. Very few countries don’t have some internet. I served in a few where there’s minimal internet. One is Afghanistan, the others are also Islamic countries. All are awful places. Afghanistan has next to no infrastructure. The roads are generally not paved . I preferred using a IfV over a Humvee . The ride was better and having lots of weapons to choose from helped . When everyone wants to kill somebody sometimes for the hell of it being able … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/24 12:54 PM |
| 1 | Women Who only Date men who cold approachIf course she would not be averse to a very attractive man approaching. I have seen this frequently. Ots amazing how fast thr earbuds come out and the ever present phone vanishes ! You had better be uber chad to pull this off . Even Chad gets creep shamed for cold approaches frequently. As Chadlite I don’t cold approach women. I might ask a question if I need a human to reply. Thankfully our phones can provide most information without inconveniencing our entitled princess who is the main charact… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/24 02:08 PM |
| 9 | Why is there such a significant disconnect between what many women say they want in a man and what they actually pursue?You’re right, they mean a nice man who looks like the hot celebrity. It in part is how women interact. They are much more verbal, there’s plenty of studies showing young children allowed to freely interact with minimal adult intervention. Boys are much more physically active , their communication is more direct and informative seeking or sending. Women form groups, cliques, talk and are less active. They use covert communication much more. Men are now expected to know this by osmosis apparently.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/24 08:07 AM |
| 1 | How to reconcile: [Lying about sexual past] X [Men who care are not worth relationships] X [Sexual past does not matter]?I agree with everything. I really don’t get that a person will deny reality when it is painfully obvious. You are right if a woman is ok with your high BC you bet she has one too. I avoid talking about a ex never mind a BC . I don’t want to hear about a ex , why would a woman want to . I have tried to tell a few men about their umm nice sweet girlfriend. Who’s been with a lot of guys especially when I was in the military. You can find lots of women with 100 - 1,000 BCs near military bases. It’s … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/24 05:57 AM |
| 1 | How to reconcile: [Lying about sexual past] X [Men who care are not worth relationships] X [Sexual past does not matter]?Actually they do . They are not repulsed by sex itself. Just like humans are not repulsed by normal eating. We do find overeating disgusting. Most people could careless if you have sex . They do care when you want commitment and have been sexually promiscuous. I served many years in the military. There’s prostitutes easily available at almost every military base . With a few notable exceptions especially in Saudí Arabia snd Qutar . I found the idea of sex with a prostitute rather repulsive. The … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/24 05:36 AM |
| -1 | How to reconcile: [Lying about sexual past] X [Men who care are not worth relationships] X [Sexual past does not matter]?You would have to search . Try regret open relationships or. Husband or wife regrets opening relationship. Usually it is men who stupidly push for a open relationship then discover women have a much easier time finding a willing partner. Your account isn’t unusual. I would have warned hum . Recreational use only . Many men find themselves in that unenviable position. Eventually he will figure it out and the marriage will end in yet another divorce. This is why count matters. No one wants to be o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/24 04:45 AM |
| 1 | How to reconcile: [Lying about sexual past] X [Men who care are not worth relationships] X [Sexual past does not matter]?Until they discover her much more sexually liberated past . Which is almost inevitable now . One day he might find those videos f her party years . There are some threads on Reddit and elsewhere about this . It must be devastating to learn the woman you were led to believe was sexually inexperienced and only had vanilla sex missionary style. Then sees her videos from the party years. Maybe a friend after a few drinks brings up her wild past or a ex posts something on social media. It would destr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/24 03:38 AM |
| 1 | How to reconcile: [Lying about sexual past] X [Men who care are not worth relationships] X [Sexual past does not matter]?Where on earth do you get violence snd control? No one mentioned that . Explaining why most humans find promiscuity disgusting is not control or violence. These and all emotions are hardwired or if you want evolved in our brains . There’s thousands of studies into human emotions. Which area of the brain process them and what causes them . Obviously we don’t teach evolution anymore. If your ancestors over 200,000 plus years did not evolve emotions and autonomic responses you would not be here. Di… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/24 02:57 AM |
| 5 | Inexperienced men should not be very forthcoming about their sexual historyThis , I would advise men to be somewhat vague about their sexual history. Something like I don’t kiss and tell in their own words. It has always worked for me. I really don’t like discussing past relationships. Sometimes it is very painful. For whatever reason some women often turn it into a Gestapo like interrogation. Others are very respectful when I say . She’s a good person, unfortunately things didn’t work . It us a difficult conversation. I really don’t enjoy and need . Men can say I have… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/24 02:15 AM |
| 1 | How to reconcile: [Lying about sexual past] X [Men who care are not worth relationships] X [Sexual past does not matter]?Disgust is a autonomic response. It has very little to do with what being insecure. Which is not also not some magical emotional state that just occurs . Both are based on evolutionary biology and psychology. We are disgusted to avoid becoming sick . For example the odor of rotting food disgusts us . We don’t eat the rotten food. We evolved this . Our ancestors who over 200,000 years avoided rotten food lived long enough to reproduce. Those who didn’t died and usually failed to pass on genes or … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/24 01:14 AM |
| 6 | How to reconcile: [Lying about sexual past] X [Men who care are not worth relationships] X [Sexual past does not matter]?Trust and honesty are critical to a healthy long term relationship. If you cannot be honest and lie either directly or by omission. You will eventually have serious problems and your dishonesty will be exposed. If you know you have to lie . It is better to end the relationship. That’s called a failed relationship. If people don’t want to lie or hide in comfortable past behavior. Do not engage in it . Most people by 20 know full well certain behavior will cause problems in life . We all know a fe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/24 12:38 AM |
| 1 | How to reconcile: [Lying about sexual past] X [Men who care are not worth relationships] X [Sexual past does not matter]?The women responding here don’t understand that . I learned many years ago. Woman slut shame. Not men . Why would men ? We get easy sex without committing. Women slut shame because , they lower the cost of sex . Forcing women to lower their asking price and increasing their risk . It is economics , women would offer sexual exclusivity in exchange for commitment. A slut reduces the price. If Joe can get sex for a cheap dinner and wine instead of committing to one woman he now had options. He can … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/24 09:44 PM |
| 1 | How to reconcile: [Lying about sexual past] X [Men who care are not worth relationships] X [Sexual past does not matter]?I cannot imagine anyone being ok with a relationship with someone who had sex with over 100 people. If I were to have done that and told a woman Hey BTW ,I have slept with over 100 women , I would not br surprised when she got up and walked out. No one wants to be one of many or just another good time . It’s dehumanizing. When I was in the military and sent to various bases mostly US or NATO around the world. There are prostitutes available at almost every large military base regardless of count… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/24 08:59 PM |
| 5 | How to reconcile: [Lying about sexual past] X [Men who care are not worth relationships] X [Sexual past does not matter]?No relationship will last if it begins with lies and or omitting important facts about yourself. The relationship is based on lies that eventually are exposed and destroy the relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/24 08:03 PM |
| 0 | How women train men to be angry (Dr. Orion Taraban)In this context. Listen means shut up, let me disregard you , your boundaries, limits, needs and wants . Only what I want matters . Let me engage in selfish, manipulative, entitled , disrespectful behavior. Let me walk all over you. When you politely and respectfully set healthy boundaries . I am going to argue, create drama, cause stress and chaos. Should you show any anger regardless of how . The problem is now you are angry! Who cares that my behavior caused you to become angry. Your angry th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/24 02:26 AM |
| 1 | What advice would you give to a young guy who formed the belief that women find bad men exciting to prevent him from swallowing the redpill?There’s a difference between adventure and drama. Adventure is usually fun, interesting, often a great way to learn about yourself and the world. I never expected that I would find HALO jumps from 30,000- 40,000 ft fun even when jumping into a hot AO . It’s actually very peaceful at night until of course you land . While that might be a bit extreme , traveling , trying new food, trying a new activity can be a great way to learn , grow , become a better version of yourself and gain some confidenc… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/24 02:06 AM |
| 2 | How women train men to be angry (Dr. Orion Taraban)No offense, you are sort of right if he only encountered one person who didn’t respect boundaries or back off before getting angry and frustrated then he is incredibly lucky or lives in a bubble isolated from society. I sincerely hope that most of the people who pushed you or anyone are not close family. All of the people who have pushed me that far have not been close family thankfully. I would want nothing to do with anyone that doesn’t respect my boundaries and limits. Being put in the double… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/24 12:04 PM |
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