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I am divorced for 2 years with 3 kids, oldest one lives with me full time. New GF now and guess what.... i have a bad picker.... met her via facebook, she gave me attention i took the bait. She is great, sex is amazing BUT Axienty, low self esteem, daddy issues, 38 years old wants a baby today and get married yesterday. 8 months in we had a disussion because she want to get married, as we had unprotected sex all week (LDR) Its just another trap, bait and manipulation tactic... Also textbook she …
/r/Divorce_Men19/12/25 07:50 AM
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I also think i found a cheatcode, in my religious communities, there are lot of single woman seeking a religious man for themselves to have kids with they are very sparse. I will explore this when me and my current gf would break up, cuz i am not going to cheat.
/r/Divorce_Men19/12/25 07:42 AM
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facebook dating groups, i met my current GF there in a religious dating group. together for 8 months, LDR though we both live in a different country in europe, in early January she visit my place.
/r/Divorce_Men19/12/25 07:38 AM
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I am currently in a new relationship after my divorce. All these points are correct, why? Long Distance relationship for 8 months, she already want marry 2 months ago, she is 38 wants a kid. We do it unprotected all the time, she is crazy, showed me what she liked and the porn videos she shared were hardcore porn, i was really supprised. I was about to leave to my country last week, she cried, said why you dont marry me yet, why you always say soon, we fucked unprotected we made big mistakes, cr…
/r/TheRedPill18/12/25 08:57 AM
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Yeah with that attitude you will be moaning like a woman here and never progress towards this fake image you try to paint yourself in.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/12/25 02:50 PM
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Yes and no, i have one that cannot say no to anything and is very clingy, has daddy issues and is mega super into me. She does it all and i train her to go beyond to the extremes. I know the drill by now, what buttons to hit, how to hit them and be her emotional rock, listen etc, spending 2 years on redpill, married redpill, reading tons of books and doing lots of self reflection. I will never give up this lifestyle and my new toy, i know what i need to do to keep that going and attract more of …
/r/MarriedRedPill05/12/25 11:21 AM
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You sound like you have a vagina. WTF man.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/12/25 11:13 AM
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You still get butthurt about otherwise you would STFU about it by now.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/12/25 11:12 AM
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Ik denk dat jij meer bezorgd moet zijn om de kanker in je moeder der tietten.
/r/Divorce_Men04/12/25 08:39 AM
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nah its about controlling woman/ex wives under the religious excuse as a man.
/r/Divorce_Men04/12/25 08:18 AM
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Facebook dating group worked great for me, 1 post and still with my girl 9 months later. (1 year into my divorce)
/r/Divorce_Men02/12/25 02:13 PM
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Well if she lives in the west, you cannot expect sharia law on her, better move back to the middle east then. You cannot control her after the divorce, and she clearly not let you either way. I`ll get it, i am religious, my current GF is religious as well, i also would condemn IF she is still actively practicing her faith and act like that BUT what you going to do about it? nothing because in the west you have this freedom. You should really have moved to a religious country earlier on in the re…
/r/Divorce_Men02/12/25 08:25 AM
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aight have fun man, it`s your life homie. But you can see most here are not onboard with your lifestyle, that is ok we do not have to be the same.
/r/Divorce_Men01/12/25 03:20 PM
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Bro your lifestyle is out totally not the norm at all, and people have a hard time adjusting to it because its hard and complicated to understand. So you do you. Nothing that most off us can add. To me it sounds like you like cucking and i get that, i have that low key too.
/r/Divorce_Men01/12/25 07:47 AM
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Why go to the trouble of paying for potential sex, just go to the source pay for good sex and call it a day. Do you need love for validation? You have love from your child, create love from doing volunteer work, a circle of friends. self forefillment by traveling, doing fun hobbies etc. Tinder etc is depressing AF, and like you said why would you jump trhough hoops for one pussy to reply to you out of the 1000s.
/r/Divorce_Men01/12/25 07:42 AM
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I have a friend who got back with his ex AFTER she cheated on him for months, wanted to divorce him. He still went back, he is a good guy but but he has no self respect.
/r/Divorce_Men25/11/25 12:46 PM
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My ex not quite there, but her additute sure changed a lot after 2 years of raising 2 little kids alone. (our oldest lives full time with me, 2 younger ones with me every second weekend.) Her bf broke up with her, and now her attitude is way more calm and nicer when we have that one email convo regarding the kids every few months. Seems like she cannot handle the 2 anymore cuz she recently told that they need a father figure in their life... I railed her hard in the email regarding the comments …
/r/Divorce_Men24/11/25 12:28 PM
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Yep she is on a work permit somewhere else in the EU. You are right, i had so much more pussy when i was in asia and poor countries. But for now i need to stay near my kids cuz they young and need me.
/r/Divorce_Men24/11/25 12:07 PM
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2 year into divorce. I am mostly doing fine, i wish my social circle was bigger and stronger, and i still deal with a porn addiction. Also financially still a wreck, no savings at all. I am getting closer with renovating my house, once that is done i feel comfortable inviting people into my house and then my focus will shift towards creating strong social bands because i simply cannot deal with everything at the same time and it sucks being financially strapped and making friends. But i keep mys…
/r/Divorce_Men24/11/25 07:55 AM
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I am relationship now, a Long Distance relationship. Started strong, she showed her wild side. Same like my ex. half year in, always tired, pains, etc etc etc.. when we have our daily call she always laying in her bed moaning 50 times looking tired and shit. Health issues, Work stress, anxiety etc. This girl is like me, is divorced, but always complain about her ex being so toxic in the past. She told me a few times that i am perfect and wondered what my red flegs are..... she is seeking activel…
/r/Divorce_Men24/11/25 07:40 AM
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2 years, why push yourself, you can just pay for sex, no strings attached, work on yourself first before engaging in a relationship too soon and making the same mistakes for yourself again.
/r/Divorce_Men20/11/25 03:19 PM
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My point being, you let yourself being married with this person for 22 years, like me you probably gritted through all the shit, just to be the good husband, good father figure. Till she divorced (my case) ONLY then i woke up and started to see all the bullshit i had let myself in with, only out of social pressure and fear that it would harm the kids (It does obviously) You need to learn woman behaviour, how they operate and seperate love, that is exclusively for yourself and between you and you…
/r/Divorce_Men20/11/25 08:40 AM
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Ok 3 years in, but beside blaming your ex, what did you do on selfhealing to prevent you get another woman like that? how did your relationship with kids evolve if you have any etc. This is just a AI analyze dump of some email bullshit between you and your ex. You seem to still hate her 3 years in to the point you need validation you are right and she was wrong. Ai give you a skewed view of what you want to see, clearly you let the marriage last too long like i did for 15 year, eating shit, scre…
/r/Divorce_Men20/11/25 08:22 AM
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Never done it, never will do that, the more kids the merrier, i have 3 with my ex, my new gf want kids, bring them on. Kids will always be mine, i love kids i love being a dad. They are the best friend, family, companion you can ever have, they bring joy to life.
/r/Divorce_Men20/11/25 08:17 AM
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There are females here shitting on guys @ haunting mango 408 is one of those troll accounts.
/r/Divorce_Men19/11/25 12:34 PM
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Can someone boot this troll?
/r/Divorce_Men19/11/25 12:34 PM
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Look its much simpler then that. Enjoy the sex and attraction as long as it last. YOU simply cannot keep up a show your entire life and jump through 10000s of hoops for the same old pussy that loses interest in you. I am completely different, i tell my girl, if she wants to gangbang with some dudes, girls what ever i am cool with that, both a cool experience, but as long as i am there, if not and she breaches my trust she can fuck herself and i kick her out of the house. If she falls in love wit…
/r/Divorce_Men18/11/25 09:47 AM
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She checked out from you, you are her financial safety net for now. She sees you as a business partner. Love yourself, dump her, its better in the end for you and the kids, cuz they ain`t stupid.
/r/Divorce_Men18/11/25 09:41 AM
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Yeah man but my ex is too smart, free money from the goverment and me, and get dicked by other guys no strings attached, they are sluts for a reason.
/r/Divorce_Men17/11/25 09:18 AM
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I have not seen my ex in nearly 2 year, i bring the kids to her door but stand 1 stair lower (flat) so she not hear and see me, when the kids come to us i have my oldest son open the door (lives with me) i have perhaps 2x email contact with her to arrange stuff for the kids visits/holidays and that`s it. No whatsapp, no calls, nothing. She recently broke up with her AP, luckely no monkey branching or anything, i have a new GF and happy and satisfied sexually that i do not care about my ex in any…
/r/Divorce_Men17/11/25 09:16 AM
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I have my own house now post divorce and a new GF who wants to move in. I am good with that, i clean my shit, i know it takes max a hour or 2 like twice a week max to get it all done. If she ever like my ex start to bitch about things like that, she is on the streets, not talking cool/tough just spitting facts. Household cleaning is easy as fuck. Parenting is only tough for the kids first 4 years after that kindergarden, regular school etc you have tons of time to do shit with your life at least…
/r/Divorce_Men17/11/25 09:10 AM
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She is out and makes a checklist of bullshit in her mind to warrant her divorce. They are all the same.
/r/Divorce_Men17/11/25 08:45 AM
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It`s not a choice, we are not ok with that. But we men collectively around the globe getting fucked by inequality rights between men and woman.
/r/Divorce_Men13/11/25 07:28 AM
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i play paintball.
/r/Divorce_Men10/11/25 08:55 AM
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You should always be in shape regardless having a sexless bedroom.
/r/Divorce_Men10/11/25 08:53 AM
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It was the same for me BUT lot of things were MY problem, and lot of men need to accept that first and address that for themselves for the next relationship. 1: I have severe anxiety, cannot handle work stress well and a very low self-esteem. 2: financial stress, trying to raise a family of 5 by yourself when the wife wants to play housewife but even that was too much for her alone and demanded you help her too with everything. 3: my boundries were not firm she walked all over me. 4: i did not l…
/r/Divorce_Men10/11/25 08:42 AM
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Nevermind this guy is not honest to us, he has a 10k dept not 2k..... https://www.reddit.com/r/Separation/comments/1oeduum/comment/nn2bb4x/?context=3 You are a weasel. You probably burned through all the savings from what i can read and your wife had enough of it. The issue here is its your money, she works? then she has her own money easy, if not it was your fault for not putting her to work. I been there buddy, paid my ex over 40k never worked a day in her life.
/r/Divorce_Men07/11/25 02:33 PM
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Yeah but love is real also for woman, just temporal when it serves all their tingles and they need to have tingles forefilled by the best and the latest and greatest.
/r/Divorce_Men06/11/25 02:15 PM
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I set clear boundries from the start and make it clear what i want, need, like. I like submissive girls, my current gf understands that and performs that role. The problem is when you start noticing that they have "locked" you in with sweet talks, good sex etc it starts to go downhill. Basically breaking down everything slowely because they are moving in on you and you are the one that become submissive. That ruined my last relationship to the point my ex got abusive with me, i cannot let that h…
/r/Divorce_Men06/11/25 01:30 PM
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ahaha yeah good one
/r/Divorce_Men06/11/25 12:45 PM
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I am all onboard for more kids, i have 3 from my previous marriage and i want more kids. But i am afraid her biological clock is stronger then her love for me and it blinds her because she needs this now due social pressure more then ever as a woman. And that is factual.
/r/Divorce_Men06/11/25 12:31 PM
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The "I love you" is litterly only in that time frame. Any men here can attest that as soon as they divorce they are completely different and they put you out of their mind and soul within minutes. Even love is conditional for them as long it serves their feelings at that moment.
/r/Divorce_Men06/11/25 11:00 AM
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Its timeless and its all the same! My new GF shows all the flags you have to watch out for, the difference is this time i am prepared and ready to walk out. A lovely girl, very attentive, really into me. 1: Long distance relationship, which is great gives me space and time. 2: she is 38 want to get married and has a child wish (biological clock) 3: She want to get married because she hate her job, she is a cleaning lady and always complain it being heavy and hard. 4: she want the passport of the…
/r/Divorce_Men06/11/25 10:37 AM
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In that point of time they needed you for either financial stability, child wishes, meet social standards amongst her married friends, a combination of it. Till it no longer serves a purpose, relationships are very ulitairian to them for most part, the feelings lead their decision making, and those feelings change a lot based on what friends tell her, age, and becoming bored with what they have obtained in the current relationship, and they have the grass is greener mentality. Learn her "love la…
/r/Divorce_Men06/11/25 09:55 AM
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Once you went trough divorce and dabbled into redpill, marriedredpill, divorced groups you will truly wake up and see the love chemistry of woman is completely different then the romantic view of men. We have been duped into sacrificing all for love and family, woman do not have this concept they always choose themselves first. I no longer hate woman for that, i embrace it. I have no more morals.
/r/Divorce_Men06/11/25 09:48 AM
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So far took me 2 years into the divorce to feel more complete and the freedom i have. so far 41k euro in depth with the bank but could keep my house. paying child support the next 10 years also roughly 50k euro. Got a great new GF now (LDR and for now i am happy with that distance, we plan to have her move in with me eventually) I have a way stronger social life, i resumed my hobbies again, the social contacts i have now are great but none of them are personal real friendships but it is ok, i ha…
/r/Divorce_Men03/11/25 11:50 AM
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I am free, no one yelling at me in public, hitting me, belittling me anymore. When i am home and do not want to clean that day because i am tired from all day at work, i simply do not do it and no one scold me. I was a asshole too do not get me wrong, i am happy we no longer together, i really do not miss a single day out of my 15 year relationship with this woman. Zero!
/r/Divorce_Men03/11/25 09:29 AM
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Thats really uncommen for jews to convert to the new testament, especially because we only believe in one god and do not see jezus as the son of god.
/r/Divorce_Men03/11/25 09:25 AM
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My current GF does it all with pleasure, she begs for certain things and it made me unease at first because i always wanted a gf that is submissive like that. I very quickly overcame my ex who in hidensight was just not for me at all. You will find many more woman like that especially when their on the biological clock.
/r/Divorce_Men03/11/25 09:06 AM
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2 years divorced, ex cheated too during final stages, her bf recently broke up. Low key i want her to try to come back, off course never will accept that haha i have a new gf who is amazing. But it would be a nice ego boost ngl.
/r/Divorce_Men31/10/25 02:47 PM
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Woman are like that they wash their hands in innocence and throw it all on the man. My current GF also cannot stop calling her ex husband toxic, abusive etc.... I am like why did you endure it so long then, how did it change from the start till then. I care for her a lot but i am vigilant. flipping the switch can be done by me too these days, i am no longer value myself based on my relationship/love i get from someone.
/r/Divorce_Men31/10/25 07:44 AM
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Yes, i have so much freedom, i drop "friends" in the same way if they are i need, fuck them, i cut of all ties with my family except my kids. No more stress, no more drama, no one is there except for me so i take real good care of myself and enjoy life for me and my kids. No longer mad or angry but realistic and grounded.
/r/Divorce_Men30/10/25 08:12 AM
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First 2 year it sucks, my little flat was completely stripped, i have been slowely buying all furniture in the past 2 years. Oldest son lives with me, younger 2 with their mum. I see them every second weekend of the month, i miss them very much, they very young so i cannot talk to them on the phone etc during the week. Things are getting better, in a new relationship, doing my old hobbies again and got a new gf since a half a year who is lovely. I travel another country every 2/3 months. I final…
/r/Divorce_Men30/10/25 07:45 AM
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cmon man, you parted, in her mind she no longer have to hide her schemes but can openly enjoy the dick carousel.
/r/Divorce_Men28/10/25 08:01 AM
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She was already on her way out, we men have a hard time spotting the trends, changes to lead to it, we need to be more on our toes and boot them as soon as we sniff shit is going down at the top of the hill not half way because then the ball rolls too fast anyway to make it change direction or at the bottom like i did which breaks you.
/r/Divorce_Men27/10/25 09:35 AM
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Fuck and dump
/r/Divorce_Men24/10/25 08:18 AM
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Thanks for this post, how i see it for myself now after my divorce and a new gf is that i have learned through redpill and other sources to see i have to put up boundries and love myself and always put myself on number one. Now i do that, and if my gf starts to change from the current super sexual latina that she is to the same as my ex, i boot her, but this time i get to keep my house, finances etc It will not stop me from my ambitions, hobbies, friends and things i enjoy. Woman are not evil, t…
/r/TheRedPill23/10/25 07:58 AM
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I skateboard and play paintball most weekends, 99% males only. It`s great.
/r/Divorce_Men23/10/25 06:59 AM
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haha yes so true, and they hate being called sluts.... lol
/r/Divorce_Men21/10/25 11:03 AM
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Yep haha, It is really true with divorce, men go through a rough spot but spring back much much better in life then divorced woman. All you have to do is keep taking your own accountability, something alien to them and you fix your life up for the better. I really enjoy my life progressing forward and see her digress in life, i have no moral issues with that anymore as well. Fuck these cheating exes.
/r/Divorce_Men21/10/25 11:00 AM
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Its true. I dont mind it though, the likelyhood dying in old age alone is extremely high anyway.
/r/Divorce_Men21/10/25 07:14 AM
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I been there too man, we sacrifice so much for happiness, that we do not see how they mistreat us because we kept living that fairy tail of high standards for men needing to be perfect fathers, husbands and work our asses off to be discarded when they get bored.
/r/Divorce_Men20/10/25 01:36 PM
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No matter what bro, you tolerated it, its on you to stick out with someone for 10 years that mistreated you. Never let that happen again.
/r/Divorce_Men20/10/25 01:30 PM
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You cannot control anything happening behind the curtains in their home. all you can do is be always available for your kids, and when things go sour hopefully the lawyers are behind you and you get your kids placed in your house.
/r/Divorce_Men20/10/25 12:37 PM
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haha yep but also cuz she wanted to raise a 3 and 5 year old by herself so she needed money cuz she does not work. lol But yes it sucks because a carusel of dick will enter again, but who knows that happen already i mean, i litterly have no control over her life and what happen in her house. So i better keep sane and try my best for my kid and make them happy when they with me.
/r/Divorce_Men20/10/25 12:29 PM
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Yeah we let a lot of things slide because we assume its the norm, the problem is no one is there for men, not even other men till they experience this kind of stuff and you find solace in other men experienced the same. Also woman do not start out toxic, narcissistic, crazy, they find weaknesses in your loyalty and kindness but also in your annoyances, we are not perfect men. Now you know the secret sauce in life you just have to focus on yourself, love yourself, have all your shit on order for …
/r/Divorce_Men17/10/25 02:10 PM
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Just see her as the hole that you needed to get your own child, thats it, she carried your semen. Now she carries it of 10 other dudes. You got the most valuable thing in life your own kid. Who care what she does, she was and is for the streets.
/r/Divorce_Men17/10/25 07:01 AM
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I have the same issue, i relied on my ex for friends etc, i had a few from a hobby back in the day but he moved further away so i stopped seeing him weekly, now i am back in my country. I had one friend but he trauma dumped every week on me and was severely depressed. He wanted me on his toxic level, after a incident i canned the friendship. I have lots of "Friends" i know through paintball and a few through skateboarding but i only see them during my hobbies and also my religious community i am…
/r/Divorce_Men16/10/25 06:54 AM
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Same, yesterday in bed i really mised my 2 youngest boys, they visit me every second weekend, the oldest son lives full time with me. It sucks real hard but if i cannot handle it, i cant be there for my sons, i just be their best parent till they 13 and like my oldest one are able to choose which parent they want to live with, and i hope they switch to me. Till then i double down on enjoying life in a healthy way, with lots of hobbies, fun activities, friends.
/r/Divorce_Men14/10/25 07:40 AM
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Everyones ex-wife was a narc, instead of this mindset you need to blame yourself for choosing this type of woman as a girlfriend, this default behaviour for lots of woman. Just accept she is a bitch, you made the mistakes to live with her/marry her and get kids with her. learn from it, do not stay a victim in your mind, get out of it stronger and better then ever. That is what really worked for me, people are programmed to have a certain behaviour, i have have a saviour complex and i am to kind …
/r/Divorce_Men14/10/25 07:31 AM
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I am based in the EU, we get 2 marriages, one religious one and a civil one due our religion. the civil one is more of a formality. But that is the plan for now, we are not there yet hehehe.
/r/Divorce_Men14/10/25 07:08 AM
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just keep living your life, if you had nothing but her and you put her on a pedelstel and you made your life around her you are doing it wrong. You need to have your own life in order have fun hobbies, your own friends, working on your ambitions etc, she is a nice to have addition not the center of your life. Move on get a new one, every relationship hones your skills for the next one.
/r/Divorce_Men14/10/25 06:49 AM
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We guys need to really understand this goes both ways, and guys need to start loving themselves more and value their own time and money for themselves. Do what you want and if she likes you enough she will follow your lead, at the same time you put in the same effort as they do into the relationship, if its none you do none and move on because you have better things to do, if she gives you equal love, attention and sexual desires then you give that same energy. If she always bitch and moan, you …
/r/Divorce_Men14/10/25 06:32 AM
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I am about to re-marry, i will pren up everything in my possession. i can handle a broken heart for a bit but will never financially dig out of a deep hole anymore, done it once never again. Dont feel to sorry, she is lost, she was broken to start with, you most likely ignored red flags and tried to fix her. I am in a similar boat, but not living together yet nor married yet. Woman and instant gratification is the same as for men and online porn, addictive. The mindless scrolling/socialmedia who…
/r/Divorce_Men13/10/25 09:50 AM
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Do not forget, you can totally reverse uno card this in your benefit, live the same type of lifestyle and you simply fuck around have your own money time and hobbies. This is not a mutual exclusive lifestyle for woman.
/r/Divorce_Men13/10/25 08:31 AM
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My ex got her new lover just before/right after the divorce, and honestly 2 years into the divorce and having a new gf myself, its the last thing i care about, i went No Contact bring the kids to near their door, when kids come my house my son opens the door i have not seen my ex for 2 years in person, not spoken to hear but only via email 2 times per year. i LOVE IT.
/r/Divorce_Men13/10/25 08:26 AM
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Same but once you find a nice girl, it comes back, it took me a few weeks to be into her sexually but now i am all into her haha. It is normal and yes it require some efforts to see her as something sexy.
/r/Divorce_Men10/10/25 07:58 AM
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Yes, you first hate her, then you find redpill hate all woman, then you start see how they really are and the fantasy stories we have been indoctrinated with since young boys. Then you start using that knowledge to your benefit. All the while you keep working on yourself and fixing yourself for yourself. Suddenly you are aware of covert contracts, sexual manipulation, love bombing, redflags and yourself worth and you become healthy and have healthy relationships that benefit you, till they dont …
/r/Divorce_Men10/10/25 07:39 AM
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There are no dreamgirls
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