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DiscussionConsistent-Gur6932/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 04:09 PM
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The Western world is not the only place that is free
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 04:05 PM
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So other than a friend circle, what's a way to meet local lowkey women?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 04:04 PM
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When you do not allow yourself to be emasculated you get fun, bubbly, feminine, horny energy. When you allow yourself to be emasculated you get angry, bitter, bitchy energy. I seee So shit tests are real right? What are the most common tests? Thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 04:01 PM
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I agree Body count is a good indicator of failed relationships / her view on sex
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 04:00 PM
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average age people lose their virginity is 17. Body count tells me how many failed relationships or hookups she's had
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 03:57 PM
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What about sliding into DMs?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 03:57 PM
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You want women to be virginal nuns but then complain that you can't get laid. But we are not asking for much. We are just saying we want a long term gf who is loyal and who saved their virginity for us
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 03:56 PM
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Ohh I see So is it mainly the momentum of Western Women getting freedom leading to the first, second and third waves of feminism? Like Western Women got freedom super fast compared to other women, so there was a higher momentum right?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 03:54 PM
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Well why is it hard to find women with less than a 2 body count in the West?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 03:51 PM
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Sexual freedom for women exists outside of the West as well. It exists for men too However, it's usually western women who love hooking up non stop I am trying to figure out why it's Western Women
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 03:50 PM
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The good men who care about those values do not get a voice. What's the reason?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 03:45 PM
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But people have had no problem protesting other issues in the street, and didn't care about losing their jobs or what other people would think because they felt the issue they were protesting was important, so couldn't people be put in that state of mind as other protestors in the past, who thought it was worth it? I agree with you. Society doesn't care about men's issues
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 03:40 PM
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I'm 23 now. In two years I'll be 25 and then 21 will be too young for me. So then I'll have to go for girls 23+
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 03:36 PM
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A 21 year old college student just wants to have fun I wanted to find my life partner at 21
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 03:25 PM
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I used to believe in true love 😔 My worldview was shattered when I found out relationships are just numbers (looks-scale, status, money etc) and people settle. It's like an economy
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 03:23 PM
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I'm from Canada
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 04:57 AM
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I'm guessing you're all for that shit. No I'm not. I don't even like women under 21
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 03:51 AM
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The wall age has gotten higher since historical times
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 03:46 AM
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😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 03:38 AM
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I know it's my opinion. I am not trying to impose it as I said "Yes, it's your right to do all that"
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 03:38 AM
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Looool
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 03:30 AM
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you think youre too good for an asian grandma handjob Men are allowed to deny sex too. Men are not sex obsessed 24/7
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 03:30 AM
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prepared to wait In the greater toronto area, it's pretty common tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 03:27 AM
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But no one leaves their dog if they get bit So that doesn't mean I shouldn't leave a cheater right?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 03:13 AM
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why do you post so often. what mental illness is this. tell me the truth Post-alot-itis Jk, I'm just trying to create debate and discussion
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 03:13 AM
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Yeah just ignore all hits to the self esteem (if they happen) Just never give up before trying irl. Too many guys give up. Maybe you can do a mix of OLD and in person
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 03:07 AM
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I used to proudly proclaim my virginity when I was a virgin. I used to think it would impress girls ​ ​ Sexual escapades are active things you do or, to some people, accomplish, so they talk about it. I don't like when women do it. It's a turn off
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 03:06 AM
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No 1-2 is a low amount of partners. I don't want a woman who dated more than 2 guys lol 10 is crazy high
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 03:06 AM
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I am not hurt by it anymore But I am left with: Women will always have guys on the side subconsciously
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 03:02 AM
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That's facts A gf / wife shouldn't really be a life partner. Can't trust women for that Treat her like a fun romantic friend who you care for, but won't pour everything into Love your wife the same way you have loved that pet. What's your interpretation of this sentence?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 03:00 AM
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Yess
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 03:00 AM
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I think there’s lots of women who have a normal amount of partners. Normal amount is 1 - 2 lmao Most women have like 5 exes and think it's normal. They collect exes like pokemon cards
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 02:59 AM
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I want my LEGO city, my LARP stuff, my books, gaming set up etc What I don't want are those dressers with the mirror. It takes so much space. And I don't want her random stuff like makeup etc I want my washroom private from her without all her makeup and hair everywhere Also, when I wake up in the morning, I don't want her seeing my morning face lol ALSOOOO we can do fun little sleepovers in each other's rooms. It might help a dead bedroom too. Because she will cherish the nights slept together
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 02:57 AM
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I am not a manosphere influencer though I just think it's always good to prepare for cheating Because when a woman wants to leave her man, she is CRUEL. Zero empathy
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 02:55 AM
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If you can afford it, it's worth paying for the service And good luck bro :) Also, make sure you try meeting girls irl after OLD. Just be careful to not let OLD hurt your self esteem OLD made my self esteem zero lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 02:53 AM
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A girl on tiktok listed 100 things she wants in a man, and one of them was "Showers 3 times a day" 😭😭 Like in her mind she's trying to be all hygenic, but she doesn't realize how bad that is for one's skin
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 02:52 AM
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I'm talking about the way the hoes advertise their sexual adventures; as if it's a matter of pride
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 02:52 AM
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Women these days are so shameless. There are no more virgins just walking around. Every woman talks with such pride about her hookups, FWBs etc As if it's something to be proud of that you have a body count gained from outside of a relationship. Wow congrats Gone are the days of "I'm a proud virgin saving myself for a long term boyfriend". All you hear is (with pride) "I hooked up with 2 guys back in college, then I had an FWB for a few months, then I started sleeping with this other guy for a f…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 02:49 AM
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physical act of training in an athletic environment is more motivating. It really helps working out alongside other people. Socializing, can't take super long rests, the movement in the gym reminds you to focus / not zone out and the vibe is nice
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 02:47 AM
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This is a good idea. Honestly, I've thought about it. I don't want my wife's stuff in my room. Like I need my own space and own bathroom It's a very good idea I mean I wanna take it further and not even live in the same home as my wife because women tend to loose lust for the man they constantly live with
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 02:46 AM
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Do you think this is good advice for men: When dating, enjoy the moments. Enjoy the love, lust and every aspect of the relationship. However, don't invest fully into the woman. Every night remember that she is just a few steps from cheating on you, and she would leave if her DREAM man came along. Brace yourself for cheating by having a life outside your partner. Never be the guy that invested everything into a woman and thought she'd never cheat. Be the guy who waas ready to be cheated on and be…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 02:45 AM
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doesn’t give them enough love and attention, they may develop feelings for someone else who gives it to them I've noticed this Is this like instant; he leaves for work and she needs attention while she waits for him? Or is it like when the husband neglects her or works long hours? ​ Do you think this is good advice for men: When dating, enjoy the moments. Enjoy the love, lust and every aspect of the relationship. However, don't invest fully into the woman. Every night remember that she is just a…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 02:45 AM
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I want a loyal woman who's obsessed with me in terms of love and lust. And I wanna control the sexual dynamic in the relationship - as in, she asks me for it
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 02:42 AM
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It sounds like you just want to feel desired but women don’t typically express their desire in that way. Some thirsty women might
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 02:39 AM
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I want that because: - I want to be lusted for intensely by my wife / gf - I heard that it's better when the woman likes the man more - She might not leave me - It'd feed my ego Also she needs my consent to have sex with me, so ofc she has to ask
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 02:38 AM
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Yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 02:37 AM
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Many girls have a hoe phase though because of "empowerment"
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 02:35 AM
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It sounds like you’re just afraid that you can never live up to that fantasy. Yes, that is hypergamy What's wrong with fantasy? It's fantasizing about another man - it's wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 02:35 AM
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Yes. Basically settling means not dating around but entering a relationship with the desire to make it long or forever
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 02:29 AM
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So do the girls search for other men consciously or more subconsciously? It's just sad that women can't attach to men like men can attach to women
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 02:28 AM
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yes but maybe your relationship is different in defining borderline cheating behaviors I don't want my gf / wife even fantasizing about other men
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 02:03 AM
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No, if it makes me fantasize, I will immediately switch my thoughts Why is it hard to believe that I truly stop myself from fantasizing when I have a gf?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 02:00 AM
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are men that like hentai susceptible to cheat with cosplayers?? This is not about anyone but my future gf / wife I wanna find one who won't fantasize
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 01:58 AM
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I mean that was always known There are different levels to the alpha / beta
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 01:57 AM
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Yeah and I'm single
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 01:55 AM
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Will my gf / wife get obsessed if I give it?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 01:54 AM
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By settling I meant entering a LTR
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 01:54 AM
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Factsss Women hate each other more than they hate men Women hating on men is more of a joke or meme amongst them. But they have true wrath for other women
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 12:30 AM
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Yeah I understand. But I'm just saying
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 12:30 AM
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what do people mean by crushes? like do u fantasize about fuckin them? Fucking them and thinking about their attractiveness over and over. Anything more is micro cheating
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 12:29 AM
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If a woman has fictional crushes. she might seek out ways to fulfill the fantasy. Cosplay for example And all I say is that I don't want my wife / gf fantasizing Other women can do whatever they want
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 12:29 AM
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Yes that's true
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 12:23 AM
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Facts we can't compete. I guess then we have to not attach to women 100% right We gotta have other stuff in our life that we can jump to in case a woman leaves us Only us men understand pure loyalty I guess it is what it is. If we want a relationship, we gotta accept that women will cheat if given the chance Just never invest EVERYthing into a woman. Sadly, too many guys invest everything and then when she leaves, they are left with nothing 😔
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 12:22 AM
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It's true though. See all dating apps, it's full of these 30+ mega hoes Some of them are even married 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 12:20 AM
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I see. Thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 12:20 AM
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more aggressive personality, but is that dynamic something you want to extend to the rest of the relationship? Not aggressive like making me feel submissive in sex or something More like begging me "Let's fuckkkk" or "baby pls" I don't want her groping or kissing me randomly and stuff. Just verbally asking me for sex alot
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 12:19 AM
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Beta bux does not mean the richest dude that is a beta Beta bux <---> Alpha fux is a spectrum One can be a beta bux earning only $40,000 as well
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 12:18 AM
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Men are not delusional about their place on the sexual marketplace. We would not talk about hypergamy if we thought that we are the best like women do due to hoeflation. We know there is always a better man than us Unlike women, we men don't hate on Chads. Women hate on other women if they are even 0.00001% above them on the female sexual marketplace. And hoeflation makes women deluded about their beauty like a cult leader is deluded about themself
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 12:16 AM
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, but that 0.0001%? yeah good luck. Yeahhh and that 0.0001% can be accessed through social media Do you think there are women who won't cheat even with their dream man if given the perfect chance?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 12:14 AM
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One a hoe passes the age of 30, she becomes a mega hoe. Like at that point she will just hoe around all her life, have a bunch of relationships, hate men but still wanna fuck them It's like their hoe-ness begins to set in stone past late 20s Some of them start going after guys who are 18/19, which is sus asf They'll never settle down. If they do, they will cheat That's why men prefer women who settle down before 25
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 12:11 AM
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if she met Chalamet she cheats 😔 I think all relationships are only good as long as the woman doesn't have a chance to cheat
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 12:08 AM
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Be hotter! Yeah but women are still unlikely to initiate sex no? Like I want it so my wife begs me for sex even when we both r into our 50s
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 12:07 AM
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Like would gym girls have high T? Also, won't a high sex drive girl just cheat on me?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 12:05 AM
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Okkk Is it true that a woman will be obsessed with a man that gives her oral?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 12:04 AM
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Can't she just find a man even better than me? And that's a good idea tbh Is there a way I can get a 10/10 model type to be obsessed with me and begging me for sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 12:03 AM
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How do I get a relationship where SHE initiates sex most of the time. Like begging me for sex Instead of me initiating, I want her to initiate 80% of the time What are some ways I can find such a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 11:57 PM
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Well all parts of my story can be used as analogies. I never said all cheating happens in a convenience store. Parts of my story can be generalized to represent most cheating incidents
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 11:53 PM
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Because hoeflation and nice guys not getting dates is such a common theme that categorial thinking becomes needed to discuss these things It's not like there is only some hoeflation and some nice guys who don't get dates It's a widespread phenomenon. In that case, categorial thinking just becomes the reality
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 11:52 PM
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Women who "settle down" past the age of 25 are red flags. It's like what were you doing in your early 20s that you couldn't find a man? You think we men want you now that you are desperate?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 10:11 PM
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Analogies can use made up stories as well Analogies use X to compare with Y X and Y are things. Stories like the one I wrote are things So I am correct in my understanding of the word analogy
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 09:57 PM
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A comparison between two things for the purpose of explaining something
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 09:38 PM
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Do you know what an analogy is? Yes. Have I demonstrated not knowing what an analogy is?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 08:43 PM
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Doesn't matter. The point is that despite an uptick in attention, I didn't even think about it But women need the attention
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 07:32 PM
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We don’t want to I never said YOU want to. But most women would if these conditions are met: Horny at work, argument with the hubby, Chad coworker, perfect environment to have sex
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 07:31 PM
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They ain't psychos, but they are naturally hypergamous
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 07:23 PM
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They’re just not likely to ?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 07:21 PM
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Okay so I guess women can't cheat in a workplace
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 07:12 PM
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Cheating is like eating a pint of ice cream after the gym - you know you shouldn't do it but it feels so good Okay and "eating a pint of ice cream" is a scenario as real as my story. No one is currently eating a pint of ice cream, but it happens. Same way my story is not playing out, but it happens ​ I don't know if you're trolling or if the Ontario education system is just really bad but damn. I think I'm very smart and can defend my views, thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 06:56 PM
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Okay, well lets backtrack. Why can't a woman cheat with a coworker?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 06:45 PM
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Actually more girls wanted me while I had a gf
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 06:45 PM
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An analogy is a comparison that you make between two things A story, a real life scenario. Both are things. Both are comparable. Analogies don't have to be between real scenarios. In fact, most analogies are in the form of stories. ​ you just saw two people of opposite sexes working together in close proximity and went ''Now imagine if the woman got all horny and the dude bumped into her'' The event inspired thought, and I used that thought to create a story. The story was used as an analogy. ​ …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 06:04 PM
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She's much more likely to orgasm by masturbating Cheating solved. No women cheat
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 06:01 PM
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but probably not So women don't cheat? My story is a perfect analogy to what happens in real life
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 06:01 PM
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as trolling Because people don't like answering my clear and concise questions - they just get emotional
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 05:59 PM
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Think about who they cheat with. Its the guy who she spend a lot of time with, connecting. At work, My story is exactly about that
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 05:59 PM
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Yes but my point is that men are able to only see one woman, but women will at some point have her attention caught by another man and she will start having cheating fantasies And yes I did have a gf
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 05:51 PM
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She loves him like a "friend" it sounds like. Is this a worthwhile arrangement? Like I understand the man won't be the woman's dream man, but will she make sacrifices for him?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 05:46 PM
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just doesn’t happen. That's like saying women are just morally pure
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 05:44 PM
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What do you mean you stopped watching it for the story? As in I was not inspired by any porno to write my story. My story is an analogy for a very real thing that happens
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 05:43 PM
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But women can definitely cheat with a coworker. It's not that hard for them too Women are not immune from being cheaters
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 05:42 PM
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communicating This one
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 05:41 PM
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What do you perceive the difference is? Okay fine but this is a play on words. When I say I don't want my girlfriend fantasizing about another man, my meaning is I don't want her lustfully indulging in those thoughts Sure, I was "fantasizing" about the convenience store people, but I was not lustfully indulging in those thoughts
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 05:40 PM
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Everyone is claiming a woman can't have sex in a workplace.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 05:39 PM
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Men cannot I could cheat when I had a gf, but I didn't even entertain the thought
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 05:39 PM
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Thank you Almost every woman I know irl tells me I'm one of the most emotionally intelligent guys they have met
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 05:38 PM
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Yes but when I had a gf, I remember girls wanted to get with me. I didn't even look at them But women always drool for celebs even if they have a bf and they justify it
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 05:37 PM
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But what will make her keep interest in me? Like stuff I post on social media? Basically, what do I need to do in order to gather enough interest in the beginning of meeting online to actually get the in person meet up Thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 06:49 AM
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Yes but I used to also never fantasize about other women when I had a gf Women are more likely to cheat. That is my main point
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 06:40 AM
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Too much sharing can be bad for the relationship Sharing things about each other's lives like their day, past etc? Or sharing things they don't like about each other?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 06:33 AM
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Women communicate much more than men do Well I communicate ALOT, even more than the women I know. And I am a man
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 06:32 AM
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They ended up getting married! lol Out of desperation or love?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 06:32 AM
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Wtf!? I’ve never understood how people men and women both can lack so much respect for their partner and still get married. Makes no sense to me 😔😔
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 06:31 AM
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-known each other since pre-k, started dating later This is the most wholesome
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 06:31 AM
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The only goal of texting is to use as few words as possible to meet up. What about if we met her online?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 06:24 AM
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😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 06:23 AM
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forget their love for their partner and commitment values if there’s some hot guy around I know but there is a fundamental difference between men and women, and that is women want excitement and fantasy in sex, and they are more driven by their emotions Men can just jerk off and be done with the thoughts
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 06:21 AM
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I acted on it by masterbating. While in a relationship, I acted on it by having sex with my gf. I never would cheat though But I do think women would cheat more
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 06:20 AM
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How can I be a guy where women compete for me, and I choose?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 06:19 AM
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If you keep ignoring all the pinecones hitting your head I don't ignore them, as I admit there are non-cheating women too I see the pinecones. It's just that there are so many cherries every time I reach at the tree
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 06:16 AM
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There are women, in the world, having sex with Chad
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 06:15 AM
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I see, thank you What are ways to show thirst when in a long term relationship? I feel like repeating the same stuff over and over can get boring for the woman
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 06:14 AM
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Yes but they can easily get a guy to have sex with
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 06:12 AM
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Women often don't have the same ambition to go out and actively find sex that men do Yes, but men will come to them. Did you see my story? The main part is when the male coworker is present during a moment she is horny
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 06:12 AM
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Analogies can be stories Many horny thoughts away from fucking Chad in the private workplace where it's just them two Then everything in the world is a story. I gave a proper analogy. Nothing I wrote was fantasy
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 06:11 AM
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If so, by your cheating rules, you cheated. I was single
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 06:10 AM
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All of my statements follow each other in a logical pattern. I reply to comments logically too
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 06:09 AM
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fantasizing 😭 Not fantasize lmao But the scene inspired thought and I thought of this story which acts as a good analogy to cheating women
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 06:09 AM
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Yes In fact, I've seen good looking guys (no homo) at Tim Hortons. Tim Hortons is Canada's Starbucks
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 06:07 AM
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Their comments were literal
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 06:07 AM
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All she needs is some guy more exciting than her husband to get her in bed Facts
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 06:05 AM
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Perfect example: No New Yorker will ever get the rush seeing Times Square for the thousandth time that a tourist will their first. Trueee What things can replace the new relationship energy? Or do we just have to accept that sex will get slightly boring as the relationship progresses?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 03:21 AM
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NOT hundreds of thousands 😭 the post had like 10k views I remember around 300 comments Many of the views could have been from people who don't have accounts to comment with, and also random views
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 03:19 AM
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I know but it's just scary. I don't wanna be cheated on :(
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 03:14 AM
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My totally made up ridiculous scenario is silly, but your totally made up ridiculous scenario is something we should all take super seriously. People don't want to cheat on a bus. Everyone is a stranger on the bus. Bus commutes don't last 8 hours. My story is a good analogy ​ A lot of people who work together are, at most, acquaintances to one another. They communicate at work because they have to, and maybe they'll share some superficial info about themselves at the office party or something. T…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 03:13 AM
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Not a weird coworker. A man she finds attractive and has had a friendship with for months to a year. What if he's a Chad, she had an argument with the hubby, is horny asf at work and the workplace allows for having sex in private What happens then?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 03:11 AM
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What's your opinion on women cheating? Most women would do it with Chad no?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 03:09 AM
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Well sure, then a woman could become attracted over the course of working with him. Exactlyyyy this is step one to cheating. One argument with the hubby and the feeing of horniness will make her consider cheating
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 03:07 AM
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Strange is exciting and heady Is there a way a consistent husband / bf can give her that? I am thinking of just never marrying because I don't wanna be heartbroken
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 03:05 AM
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No because it boils down to men being more innately loyal
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 03:03 AM
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Like how do I balance the Madonna and the Whore? Should I initiate sex daily in all types of locations with my gf / wife?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 03:00 AM
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I saw their profiles. Many of them have bf's Also the fact that they would even comment all that is bad
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 02:59 AM
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Well it's not cherry-picking, it's more like grabbing at a tree without looking and getting lots of cherries. It happens alot and enough that we can't call it just cherry picking
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 02:59 AM
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Okay but the fact that 100s of women comment says alot
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 02:58 AM
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I have had it. I know how foreplay works. Sex doesn't need a bed Two coworkers can easily have sex
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 02:57 AM
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I know a guy that spews misogyny all day and he gets all the women I'm don't even spew misogyny. I just come here to get my beliefs challenged I have never shown aggression to any woman on this subreddit. I just defend my beliefs
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 02:56 AM
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I’ve seen some of the most prudish and/or morally sound people I know do things I’d never expect and they’d never do again when in a bad situation with something like booze involved. Exactlyyy. I think the most prudish women just never "unlocked" the horny part of their brains. The day it's "unlocked" by her dream man, she will cheat so fast. It's like floodgates opening
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 02:52 AM
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This is good stuff. It's real stuff too. Alot of women cheat at work
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 02:51 AM
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This is actually the most depressing place. These people live in a continuous cycle of self-defeat. I wanna reach a stage where the fear of being cheated on no longer phases me
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 02:50 AM
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Co-worker sex: risk career damage if caught. Not if the guy she has sex with is her boss
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 02:48 AM
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Kissing and fantasizing can make a woman wet. Foreplay can be done in a work environment
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 02:47 AM
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If a couple is doing the same thing everytime, then it makes sense why it would get boring. So a woman will want to try a new man. Or take up an offer if another man will satisfy her niche kinks Men are biologically designed to spread their seed to multiple women. Women are not biologically designed to quickly pump out babies from multiple men. If anything, it should be tougher for men to only think of one woman than the other way around. Then why do women cheat?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 02:46 AM
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No, but many people are just acting like what I'm saying is false
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 02:43 AM
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Well I never said 100% of women cheat
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 02:42 AM
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I am single right now. But I am asking for a future long term relationship of years How can I balance the Madonna and the Whore? Is my idea good or cringe?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 02:41 AM
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I understand what you are saying. But in most scenarios to have sex with someone, the following steps are usually present: Feeling of horniness Making horniness apparent to the other person in order to gain consent Sex Since women express their emotions more, then this means more women will have step 2. More men will stop at step 1. I'm not saying men don't cheat, but more women will complete steps 1 - 3
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 02:36 AM
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Have a man stick his dick into her dry vagina? They will kiss. She will get wet while she fantasizes about him
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 02:31 AM
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😂 It's an analogy to real scenarios
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 02:30 AM
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It's an analogy to real scenarios
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 02:30 AM
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I will watch the video. Thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 02:30 AM
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Sex is better than masterbating. Women can get sex easily. It's tempting for her since it's so easy to get
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 02:29 AM
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Okay, what if they work in a gym with change room access? What if they work in a massage place together with beds? Some sex acts don't need much space Having sex while you’re meant to be working is not looked upon well. Nor is cheating, but it happens. A cheating woman isn't going to care that it's work time
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 02:28 AM
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Man, wait till you see people riding the bus, you're going to have a heart attack That is totally different. Why are we comparing apples with oranges? Commuters are mostly strangers. Coworkers are people who spend hours together in the same space. Bus rides are short
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 02:26 AM
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put that enthusiasm into sex with her partner. That enthusiasm stems from her fantasizing about her coworker, which is still wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 02:26 AM
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And why does that automatically mean she wants to have sex with another man instead of her partner? Because women get bored of doing it with the same man ​ In my past relationships I’ve had moments of horniness and it just made me want to go see my gf. It didn’t make me want to have sex with the first attractive woman I saw. Yes because we men are a bit different. We are easily able to just think of one woman ​ Does a person in a relationship thinking another person is good looking mean they are…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 02:24 AM
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What are ways to balance the Madonna and the Whore? I imagine if one day I have to pick up my future wife / gf from somewhere, I text her, "Can you come suck my dick". And she does it in the car Is that cringe or is that a good example of balancing the Madonna and the Whore?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 02:21 AM
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Women cheat anyways because no matter what, "after work sex with the same hubby in the same bed" gets boring to them
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 02:20 AM
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Granted i was feeling like a baller cause 30 people swiped on me in a few hours, but still That's super above average. That means you have really good dating success. It's good, you can definitely get a 10/10 gf
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 02:19 AM
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There is a local singer who recently got famous. Let's call him X. A guy made a tiktok with the caption "Your girl is only your girl until X slides into her DMs" And there were literally 100s of comments from taken girls saying - Omg yeah - I mean it's X - I'd run sooo fast - Tagging their friends in agreement Etc Someone please explain
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 02:18 AM
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Well I wasn't saying you would do it. But many women would
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 02:15 AM
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until you find one that makes you think otherwise. Women always surprise men on this one
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 02:14 AM
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Why do women get bored of "sex with the husband in the same bed after work"
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 02:14 AM
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I could say the earth is flat because anecdotally Minority of anecdotal evidence points to this A majority of anecdotal evidence says that social stigmas are higher for women
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 02:13 AM
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Veryyy true. Why do you think women cheat more? I think it just boils down to them being swayed by their feelings more. And they get bored of "sex with the hubby after work in the same bed"
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 02:10 AM
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Because we can't censor each other I am asking a perfectly acceptable purple pilled question It is pondering on the nature of how / why women cheat, what makes them take action on being horny, what causes attraction in women etc
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 02:08 AM
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Expressive means effectively conveying a feeling or thought. Conveying can be done through action too Conveying a feeling and doing something because of the feeling are two different things. Conveying the feeling that "I feel horny" is the first step towards taking the action to satisfy the horniness. One who does not even convey the horniness will not reach the point of having sex. As we both agree, women are more likely to convey their feelings. This applies to horniness too
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 02:07 AM
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So she needs privacy to masturbate but sex is ok in public? Okay fine. I agree about this then Now if a woman is in a private workplace with just her coworker, and they both find each other attractive and get horny, she will wanna have sex with him. If he offers just at the right time, she will take the offer. Since women are more driven by feelings. That's what it boils down to
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 02:05 AM
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Soap makes your hands dry. It's a fact. The vagina is delicate. Touching it with dry hands can hurt Secondly, it takes women longer to orgasm from masterbating than from sex I did not say anything false or outrageous
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 02:04 AM
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But they prefer sex, and the coworker she thinks is hot can provide it. Especially since they are alone at the workplace
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 02:02 AM
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What if a woman is horny and she works with a Chad who she can fuck at work and get away with it?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 02:02 AM
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Thanksss One time I posted a fake date pic on my instagram, and three girls replied to it lolll And these girls barely gave me attention before
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 02:01 AM
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randomly get uncontrollably horny People can get horny anytime. I'm not saying all women get randomly horny, but my story is talking about the women that cheat. To cheat they must get horny first
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 01:59 AM
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I’m starting to believe you haven’t actually worked for an extended period around women I've actually heard that women talk about sex alot together in the workplace. Also men who are the only man in a female dominated workplace are often the object of desire
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 01:59 AM
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I am starting to believe that the people denying OP's considerations are unaware cucks. They have to experience this first hand to believe it. Yeahhh. Barely anyone is realizing my story isn't just some fantasy novel. It's an analogy to things that actually happen
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 01:57 AM
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OP’s hypothetical isn’t divorced from reality, as it’s a totally plausible scenario. It just seems a little exaggerative for a gas station convenience store lol. Okay maybe for a gas station convenience store. But we can change the scenario to the following: - Two personal trainers tidying up the gym after work. There is change room near by - Two massage therapists working in a tight space - Two delivery drivers working in the same truck - People taking lunch breaks in the same car
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 01:57 AM
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I mean in the situation in my story the woman can get horny
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 01:55 AM
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fingers inside of me are A-OK Condom
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 01:55 AM
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Male masturbation is mostly seen as funny or harmless Exactly so women prefer sex. She will just have sex with the coworker
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 01:54 AM
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It's a scenario that happens in real life
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 01:53 AM
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Fine but women prefer sex over just masterbating. Also what if she can't get away somewhere private to masterbate, but she can have sex with the coworker
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 01:53 AM
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LOOL
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 01:52 AM
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They desire someone much more after connecting. She knows her coworker ​ This scenario of a woman suddenly turning around and fucking a guy who she hasn’t spoken two words to is much more common in porn than real life. Two people in a small gas station with nothing to do will eventually talk to each other, ALOT. My story assumes they knew each other for months or a year ​ Women cheat, but it’s mostly after or during an emotional affair as well. Becoming too emotionally intimate with someone you’…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 01:51 AM
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Do you not have soap where you live? Does she want to masterbate with a dry hand? Soap makes your hands dry Also it takes a woman longer to orgasm from fingering herself She will want to satisfy her horniness through sex
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 01:48 AM
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Is preselection the most important factor in getting a gf?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 01:47 AM
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Thank you 🙏🏻
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 01:46 AM
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Okay true But expressive means an action that makes one's emotions known Won't women more likely take action on their lust / fantasy?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 01:45 AM
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Hmmm Would she fantasize about the Chad?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 01:45 AM
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🙏🏻 Thank you :)
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 01:44 AM
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These days with the internet, women will always find a way to cheat
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 01:44 AM
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Build up enough trust But that's the whole thing. How does one find such a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 01:44 AM
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Should I post "fake dates" on my instagram so girls think I get alot of girls?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 01:43 AM
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Lucia from GTA 6 is soo hot The best gf is a hot badass woman like Lucia who is a ride or die and SUUUPER loyal
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 01:40 AM
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And that boils down to the fact youre a 'nice guy', to pussy shit to change to become the man she wants or lie that youre the man she wants Yes that is true. What do women want?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 01:39 AM
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I stopped watching it for the story But these cheating scenarios happen alot
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 01:39 AM
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but you also need to have the desire But the woman will have the desire. The desire for sex comes from being horny. I explained in the story that she can get horny. All humans get horny, but not all humans want to murder
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 01:38 AM
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Not my feels But anecdotal evidence Anecdotal evidence does not mean "false data"
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 01:36 AM
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It represents women cheating in the workplace
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 01:34 AM
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Have you heard of washing hands? Far cleaner than sex - Social stigma to do it at or near work - It takes longer for a woman to orgasm from masterbation - Woman want a sexual adventure. Slow build up, tension, taboo etc
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 01:34 AM
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Loyal women don't pay attention to other men They doooo. At least if he's suuuuuper attractive ​ Personally, men other than my bf are invisible to me and he's the best man ever (at least to me) You are a good and rare one then 🙏🏻
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 01:33 AM
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Being in a tiny shop like that would probably be horrible and make your skin crawl. What if he's basically a Chad?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 01:30 AM
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She can go flick her bean in the bathroom if she's that horny, though most people can wait until they get home. No because there is a social stigma. She will be worried that people will think "What's she doing in the washroom for so long". Also, it takes women longer to orgasm. Lastly, there's a higher risk of infection due to her fingers being dirty ​ And women's preferred way to orgasm is not through a quicky in the washroom. She wants fantasy, drama, excitement, taboo aka cheating with a cowo…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 01:30 AM
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So is there even a way to prevent emotional cheating? I feel like women would wanna emotionally cheat as soon as she has an argument with her husband / bf
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 01:28 AM
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Not really. There is outrightly a bias in how the data is collected about which gender cheats more We can't ignore the power of social stigma when it comes to exposing cheaters
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 01:25 AM
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Why cant the woman easily masturbate? Social stigma to do it at or near work. Risk of infection from finger germs So the woman prefers sex And no I don't think it's the same. Men are generally more loyal, and even if he's horny, he can jerk off easily
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 01:22 AM
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Thank you 🙏🏻 Some guys invest into one woman too much, and when she cheats, he has nothing
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 01:21 AM
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never come close to cheating. Because no better option showed up and gave her the opportunity Also what if a woman fantasizes about cheating
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 01:20 AM
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STDs are heavily prevented by condoms But if a woman has germs on her fingers from a whole day at work, her vagina can get a non-sexual infection
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 01:19 AM
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Sorry an argument where they haven’t talked in a week isn’t enough What about a month?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 01:09 AM
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You are denying the important of a significant amount of anecdotal evidence
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 01:09 AM
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Men are exposed for cheating more. Some self-expose out of pride, and some are exposed by women because there is no social stigma to exposing a male cheater Women are less likely to be exposed for cheating. Women are less likely to admit it, even anonymously
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 01:08 AM
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But women are more swayed by emotion. We men are more logical and thus less likely to cheat
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 01:07 AM
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That's like saying people working in co-ed workplaces isn't realistic
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 01:07 AM
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intercourse than masturbation Condom vs fingers
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 01:07 AM
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women need more excitement and emotional spikes. I see. So going home to the hubby doesn't do it for women right? Is there a way a husband material guy can give a woman the excitement and emotional spikes? Or this only happens in the honeymoon stage? One idea I have is denying my wife sex so she stays excited and doesn't get bored of it
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 01:05 AM
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most women would feel unsafe being in a situation like that with a man. Well a woman would cheat with a man she trusted in the first place. Cheating happens. So this means there are men who women trust So they can easily take their lunch in the backseat And gym trainers can get horny. Exercise makes people horny
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 01:04 AM
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Thank you :) I guess it's best to just always brace oneself for a woman cheating right? As long as I am ready to move on if my gf / wife cheats, I should be fine right?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 01:02 AM
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You might as well say “the earth is flat and that’s true because anecdotally, I believe that.” A survey would show a minority of people believe that Why is there a widely used phrase "Bro's before hoes" While there is no female version of it. There's only "Fries before guys".
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 01:00 AM
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Is it true that women don't cheat as long as no better options exist?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 12:53 AM
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No, I am pointing to anecdotal evidence Anecdotal evidence does not mean "can never happen evidence" It's like a survey. A survey is just an official way to say "collection of anecdotes" So based on anecdotal evidence, men are more loyal ​ Now you might say I am tripling down on "trust me, bro" But I request that you consider my anecdotal evidence
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 12:52 AM
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Exactlyyy It's just the nature of the world Might as well enjoy relationship in the moment until she cheats
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 12:51 AM
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Damn 😔
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 12:51 AM
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- It usually takes women longer to orgasm from masterbation - There is more social stigma; she might be more embarrassed that people will wonder why she went to the washroom for so long ​ Also, once the thought of having sex with the coworker sets in, she will either want to try or replay the scenario when having sex with her husband
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 12:48 AM
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Men have gone to war together, hunted together, and men always band together more. Men protect their families more, provide more etc Women don't even stay loyal to their own gender So I'm just saying, men are innately more loyal
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 12:45 AM
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Women are less likely to masterbate because it's easier to get infections. During work our fingers might get dirty and full of germs. Also social stigma will make a woman less likely Plus women prefer to get off slowly, so the presence of a male coworker will add to that build up women desire in sex ​ Close proximity, long-hours, feels good to flirt again after being in a LTR Why do women do this despite having a man? Is there even a point to LTR?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 12:44 AM
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I heard that women need variety in sex. Because to them going home and doing the same positions, in the same location etc gets boring right?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 12:43 AM
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They usually have to be "pre-attracted" to the man What if the coworker is a Chad? ​ our scenario sounds like something from a porn movie. This workplace scenario happens alot though in real life. There are alot of businesses that have just two people working there. Convenience stores, donut shops, small clothing store etc
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 12:41 AM
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Nope. Men are more loyal innately Sure men that cheat exist, but overall the male is more loyal than the female in humans
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 12:40 AM
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Even seen religious and married women cheat. Yeah 😔 What does it usually stem from? Is it the years of not being "allowed"? Is it the taboo aspect?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 12:40 AM
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Yes most women don't work in a confined and private workspace with a male coworker But this workplace scenario is not rare and similar ones are even less rare This can be replicated with two work friends (opposite gender) taking their lunch break in the back seat of the car
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 12:38 AM
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that’s not true Like to orgasm aka relieve herself. It's harder for women to masterbate in public because there is a risk of getting an infection (dirty fingers). So she might opt for the sex option
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 12:37 AM
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I see How does the fear of cheating have anything to do with childhood?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 12:37 AM
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I don’t think you understand most women’s sexuality It's fantasy based. Like erotica. Risky, taboo, mysterious etc Fine, let's say she finds the coworker attractive, and her and her husband have had an argument and haven't talked much for a week. Then she gets horny at work and my scenario plays out. What will happen then?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 12:36 AM
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😔😔😔😔😔😔😔😔😔😔 So would a relationship / marriage always have a big likelihood that the woman will cheat if given the perfect chance?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 12:34 AM
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why do you care what women would tell the man online? Because it's unfair
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 12:30 AM
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Stock market is fake I tried so many times to "conquer" the NVDA stock, but it's too smart for me 😂 and always does the opposite of what I thought it would do
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 12:29 AM
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Not witnessed because I've always worked remote But I've heard about it alot It can also boil down to how men and women orgasm. If a man is horny, he can just go jerk off in his car If a woman is horny she will need to actually have sex
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 12:27 AM
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Is it true that women get super horny from that?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 12:26 AM
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Nopeee She will only response to who she wants Even though women have endless options, she can only talk to one person at a time That's why I think it's better to only chase a little, but anything more is a waste of time I don't mind double texting, and sometimes triple texting, but after triple texting I'll stop
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 12:26 AM
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If a woman becomes a penis doctor, people will find it funny If a man becomes a vagina doctor, people will think he's weird Both are sus 😂 but why are men judged for it more
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 12:23 AM
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, you're but merely treating symtoms. Elaborate please
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 12:22 AM
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They are on their phone 24/7, if shes not talking to you, shes talking to someone else Exactly. EVERYone has their phone. People need to have their phone on them in case something important comes up
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 12:21 AM
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One time I went to a small town in Ontario. The gas station convenience store was LITERALLY the size of a small kitchen. No joke. The cashiers were a man and a woman. They were pretty much squished up there together. They were not married to each other That got me thinking. Imagine that woman is married. Now imagine it's a long day at work, barely any customers coming by and she is suddenly horny. Since it's a very tightly packed convenience store, the man and the woman will be close to each oth…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 12:18 AM
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Some people associate themselves with their work though. I just wanna know her as a person. If her work / school experience relates heavily to who she is as a person, I'd love to hear about it But as a career, I don't really care because I don't like to associate people with their careers. And I don't want a woman that might betray me for the sake of career
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 12:06 AM
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Well scammers scam people of all income brackets. A scammer wanting $500 isn't gonna think whether the person is a billionaire or a 75k earner So yes, women can scam
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 12:04 AM
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ignoring her question or lying is weird If a woman were to ignore a question, and a man were to think it's weird, then all of the women would tell that man off ​ And yeahh that's a good idea - keeping it very vague
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 12:04 AM
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It's fine, as long as they don't pry too much or make comments about how much I earn. Or they should accept it if I say "I don't want to share that information right now" ​ FFS -_-
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 12:02 AM
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Mine? It's 2.2 The 0.2 comes from just putting the tip in twice. But I stopped because I didn't feel the moment was right But now idc anymore. I'm fine with an fwb cuz true love doesn't exist
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 11:48 PM
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I always get worried when a girl asks me "So what do you do for work?" Of course I know it's a normal introductory question, but I try to ignore it and make her forget. When she asks a second time I get worried what if her long term plan is to somehow scam me out of money I know it's probably an innocent question, but many guys would agree it's a worrying one Now the women will say "OMG ITS JUST A QUESTION". Yeah, so is "What's your body count"
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 11:42 PM
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Women have so many options at any age that the steady decline isn't even noticeable
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 10:27 PM
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I understand What if a man that a woman wants is not surrounded by hotter women; will the woman be satisfied and not insecure once she is the hottest woman in that man's life?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 10:12 PM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 10:11 PM
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Well I've noticed most archetypes of GenZ women are the same in some ways
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 10:09 PM
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Fine, I guess I'll have to accept my girlfriend / wife looking at other guys But what about when she's stalking his instagram etc? Isn't that sus asf Also, watching porn and erotica is too much, because that's other people ​ You could find someone with similar views if you target women who consider watching porn as cheating btw. Truee, what are some filters to find them? Religious girls?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 10:07 PM
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Thanksss What are some less than obvious examples of women choosing men? Other than sliding in DMs or dating app matches
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 10:05 PM
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Just to be clear when I offer a correction like that it isn't to be mean or anything Yess I know :D
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 10:02 PM
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But cheating is a HUGE part of relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 07:59 PM
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Not non stop but at some point they can
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 07:59 PM
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Very true
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 07:58 PM
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Okay but then what's the point of having these discussions within a certain group? Wouldn't we just all be shouting into an echo chamber? We all obviously want some real world knowledge from these subreddits. Also, we use real life examples
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 07:18 PM
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I guess my main fear is just the cheating part
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 07:17 PM
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Sorry I used the word wrong, I meant when they are overly open about their sexual desires
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 07:12 PM
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You want to spend time guessing whether they’re into men or not? Well, to each their own. Sorry I used the word wrong, I meant when they are overly open about their sexual desires
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 07:12 PM
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Oh sorry, you're right. The word isn't sexuality I meant like when women are super open about their sexual desires
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 07:11 PM
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Oh yeahhh, that's very true. I guess the internet is full of so many echo chambers that any thought we put out there can be validated and disagreed with the same And that's true, in real life we don't see most of the stuff from this subreddit. However, I'm trying to figure out do we all think it though? And you weren't rude haha no worries :) And I realize I was indeed spamming too much
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 07:06 PM
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For me obsessed means in love and lust. Some women can 100% be in love, but they might cheat. But I want both. Her being in love and in lust with me
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 07:04 PM
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Ohhh yeahh makes sense. Thanks! Are there any day to day ways to show a girl that your time is valuable?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 07:03 PM
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so women are crazy and send people after guys when their ego is bruised. but toxic guys win all the time by bruising egos. I've seen it happen. Women are capable of evil too. I'm talking about how to avoid these crazy + evil women
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 07:03 PM
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But as they say, never stick your dick in crazy. Oh yeahh. Some girls can be crazy and the guy won't even know until later. It's hard to vet ​ Its the women who do after they test you and you pass and you call them out that are the keepers. Very interesting. How does one call out a woman? Like do we have to insult them back, leave the date or just remain stoic and literally not react? ​ And do these tests happen in the beginning stages of a relationship? Or even deep into marriage? Thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 07:02 PM
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GenZ women are mostly the same
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 06:59 PM
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Not really. All of my statements follow logic. I remain aware of previous statements I made - aka I don't contradict myself. And I have never swore at anyone on this subreddit. But women have swore at me lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 06:59 PM
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Yeah but reddit is slowing reaching the "mainstream" population too
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 06:58 PM
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Thank you for sharing 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻 I'm really happy for you that you achieved all that, and it's very inspiring :D I can't wait for when this happens to me And it's truly shocking whenever women show a slight hint of their sexual nature. I used to think they were all good and never thought of sex What are some masculine things women like? Thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 06:54 PM
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I see. Thank you. What about those women who have HUGE egos and they know dangerous guys they can send. Like it's not just an artifact of paranoia. Some women are actually crazy and can spread rumours and get a guy that rejected her jumped
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 06:48 PM
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Sorry I got carried away. I'll watch my spamming
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 06:47 PM
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Do women literally think men are non-stop fantasizing about beating up women? It seems like women think men are constantly thinking of women in a negative way. Like if you read our thoughts at a random time of the day, I bet you it won't be about women
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 06:46 PM
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I see. But shouldn't a narcissist think they are the best in the world? Like a cult leader
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 06:45 PM
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If my girl got stranded, I'm out the door in 2 mins. Should a guy always do this? Or will the girl think he's a simp? And by stranded I am not talking about a dangerous situation, I mean more like having to walk or take a bus home type of stranded
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 06:41 PM
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I'm sometimes afraid to be rude to women, even though toxic guys win the most, because I'm scared if her ego gets bruised she might send people after me 😭 cuz there's alot of stories of women being rejected and them going CRAZY
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 06:40 PM
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So for a man it's better to just let the woman choose him? Rather than trying all these tricks to "win her over", it's better to just have the following attitude: If she likes me, she'll show me, if not, that's fine, she can leave
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 06:24 PM
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It's such a turn off for me when women are so open about their sexuality so early
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 06:23 PM
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I see. But many many women pass the threshold and still are insecure. Why does that happen? Don't they objectively see that they have achieved the beauty they wanted. Or is it because there is "always a more beautiful woman" out there? Or a man she can't get etc?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 06:17 PM
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Yeahhh. 9-5 life Is there a way a 9to5 dude can give a woman that instability? I have a few ideas: - Start arguments over little things - Ignore her when she is rude
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 06:10 PM
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Oh trueee So if a guy kept the balance, would you get super obsessed with him?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 06:09 PM
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Oh yeahhh. But then there's another theory that man people claim and that I've heard from women themselves "Women don't want a man that's nice to everyone. He should be a little rude and only nice to those who earned it" Women want their man to be rude or closed off to most people, but specifically nice to her. Like she wins over him
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 06:07 PM
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I see that he dates around alot? Hmm, so do women think he looks handsome? Or they are just attracted to him and can't really explain why - aka attracted to his vibe?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 06:04 PM
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So then your original statement is complete bullshit Which one?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 06:03 PM
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Men cheat more based on the data. Men are exposed more for cheating because there is more social stigma to exposing female cheaters That's why the data seems that way
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 06:01 PM
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I always wondered if women like the money and status itself, or if they actually find the guy attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 06:01 PM
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How is your diet going so far bro? One advice, eat the healthy amount you need to loose weight, but after you ate a healthy amount and still feel hungry, just drink water. Also have vegetables and stuff - they are healthy and fill you up ​ I apologize for anyone who thought I came across as whiny today. Todays just one of those days where being maidenless hits hard af. You're good bro, don't worry. Keep up your diet keep working hard. Also bro, just for some extra motivation: you are 6'1, never …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 06:00 PM
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Are you a man and posted on r/PurplePillDebate ? Well if so, here are some symptoms you may be experiencing: - Worry that your post will be removed - 10 women circlejerking and bullying you! - Blue pillers ATTACKKKKKK
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 05:57 PM
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Exactlyyyy If we switch the genders, women would say the first girl is "so sweet and what more can you ask for" And that the second girl is trying her best to communicate but "maybe she's going through some stuff right now"
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 05:51 PM
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Ohh nicee Does posting poetry online work to get women chasing? Like it kind of proves "game" right? Or noo, do I need actual in person social skills
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 05:50 PM
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Source? Men are more loyal by nature and women are more emotional and they like attention more because they have been socialized to like attention from men
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 05:49 PM
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Would girls be able to tell if a guy is genuinely nice or just a "nice guy"?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 05:49 PM
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What if he was ugly, but was super rich, super famous and had the most poetic speech?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 05:48 PM
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Men don't cheat more because men are more loyal by nature Women cheat more
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 05:48 PM
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I seee Does he get alot of women?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 05:30 PM
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A lot of men here claim men are only as faithful as their options. Men can get prostitutes though, but men don't cheat with them. So I don't believe this. I think men are naturally more loyal. This stems from history when men would fight, hunt, etc together ​ So knowing that, women shouldn't feel bothered about cheating on a man, because he very likely would cheat on her if he could... Women outrightly cheat more
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 05:29 PM
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HOW are women the more attractive gender, yet they're all insecure about their looks 24/7 We men can stop grooming for a month and still thing we look good. Actually, we don't even think about it I feel like women are too emotional to realize the logic that they are objectively more attractive and aesthetic looking
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 05:27 PM
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I literally coincidentally met a girl from my uni on reddit, and later we found out we can see each other's houses It was crazy lmao I got scared she might think it's like a Hollywood movie and start getting obsessed with me, so I stopped talking to her to test her "craziness". Luckily she didn't do anything. But I don't wanna meet her anymore cuz I don't wanna risk her falling in love with me
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 05:24 PM
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Ohh this makes sense How can we rank the following variables in men: looks, status, money, social skills I don't think looks is #1, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 05:23 PM
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No, because we men are mostly good. What I said applies mainly to women. Historically and now, women have never really publicly expressed their opinions. So they do it within their circles and online We men have always been more open about our opinions. And in real life we can see that what women claim men are, is false. Most men are not walking around with boners wanting to fuck everything
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 05:22 PM
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People here forget that all of us are also real life people Don't think when you talk to people here that our beliefs are just limited to Reddit. These same pilled beliefs can be shared by your friends, neighbours, coworkers, etc This subreddit lets me "enter" the mind of women so I can have a better judgement of the women in my life. So yeah, I don't separate people into "real people" vs "Reddit people". I know all of the toxic things women say online, they believe irl too
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 05:18 PM
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Would women thirst for a super attractive man, but he was poor, low social status (no friends, people don't like him), super rude to women, etc
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 05:16 PM
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I see. Thanks for sharing So are women really as thirsty as we are? Like can glowing up get us alot of women or do we still have to put in alot of work into our social skills, status, money etc?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 05:13 PM
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Thank you so much, this is absolutely true and I have noticed it. Basically the opposite of a male-simp-relationship ​ ​ Finally, in general, it is probably better most of the time if the girl likes the guy at least a bit more than the other way around. Nothing is ever completely equal. Or, if the affection is basically too close to call, it is better if the male holds enough of his back most of the time so that day-to-day it seems like she likes him a bit more. This is due to the core hypergamo…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 05:12 AM
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That is very true, thank you What are some examples on how to balance the Madonna and the Whore I always end up assuming the girl I like is a Madonna
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 05:03 AM
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What's the reason even in shows and movies the nice guy wasn't the one who got the girl? And you are blue pill. Does blue pill believe that nice guys win?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 12:41 AM
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Which is what the first example is. Is the first example a simp or nice guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 12:41 AM
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Ohh so it's more just humour, not lust inducing?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 11:28 PM
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Girls like these types of guys right?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 11:21 PM
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In the past I used to ask one question EVERYtime it was my turn to text a girl. My texting style was: Reply to what she said. Ask a question I noticed this caused me to get REALLYYYYYYYY close to girls to the point where they would call me their best friend who understood them like no one else. When I would tell them my feelings, I'd get rejected However, when I learned to chill out and not ask a question everytime, I would actually have good back and forth convos, and THESE were the girls I'd h…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 11:16 PM
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So if she finds me physically attractive, can I text anyway I want?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 11:05 PM
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What about keeping it the same as the beginning of the relationship. Aka what got her attracted in the first place
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 11:01 PM
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Maybe not on the surface, but they validate the woman and she likes the guy less
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 10:52 PM
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What about the best friend zone?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 10:24 PM
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But women go for the guys who don't give them attention Not the nice guys who reassure them
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 10:23 PM
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If it makes you feel better, I actually have a story of how I turned down a local C-list celebrity because I didn't want to cheat on my ex. Yes please, tell me. But was he attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 10:13 PM
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Yeah but they fantasize while staring
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 10:11 PM
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I can’t ever see why anyone would want to cheat on you! Well they shouldn't cheat. They should just break up
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 09:30 PM
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😔 I really wish dating could be easy and I could just be best friends with my girlfriend But the reality is that we guys have to do this stuff Thank you btw
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 09:13 PM
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Some women won't admit it though
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 09:02 PM
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What % of women do you think would cheat with a celeb crush?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 09:01 PM
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Ohhh This makes sense Thank you What are some more examples of having push pull energy to keep her chasing?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 08:56 PM
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What if there is mutual attraction? Then what
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 08:53 PM
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I guess it comes down to self esteem and knowing that you deserve to be the one that has her and no one else. That's true, but when the woman is actively putting herself out there for other men to lust over, then she is micro cheating
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 08:51 PM
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Oh yeahh, because women love the chase right? What are ways to give a woman the mini victories she wants but have her keep chasing?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 08:49 PM
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No more likely than if a man could cheat and knew he'd never get caught. but women are more swayed by emotions
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 08:48 PM
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But if they meet their celeb crush, most women would cheat
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 08:47 PM
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But they are using lust and showing their beauty to other men
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 08:45 PM
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How would the 87% figure change if women could get away with it
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 08:45 PM
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So the reality of cheating is often plenty reason to not want to attempt to live out fantasies. But if women can avoid the reality by never getting caught, wouldn't they cheat?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 08:44 PM
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Like how many guys swiped right on you
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 08:41 PM
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thoughts just happen Those are intrusive thoughts. But indulging in fantasies is willfully doing it
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 08:40 PM
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Yeah I can't really judge another guy And this is what I believe and want someone to confirm or denyu: women would start fantasizing the day her dream man comes along
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 08:38 PM
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Both
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 08:37 PM
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Ohh this makes sense. Thanks Why do women like indifference? ​ Don't say "you're doing nothing" either. ​ Why not?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 08:35 PM
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The nice guy isn't meant to sound sarcastic in this example. Also, don't women like the second type?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 08:34 PM
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I'm talking about women though. I don't say anything to men because it's not my place to say anything. All I can say is that I personally won't cheat
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 08:27 PM
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Not just "women" but 30+ married women, lol. Women tend to cheat more after 30
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 08:25 PM
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Well then it's good no one is siding with the cheater, but everyone thinks fantasizing about cheating is fine
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 08:23 PM
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Yes, even if its not daily, it's still wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 08:22 PM
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If the second guy texted her more, would she like it?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 08:22 PM
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When women have cheating fantasies they really indulge into them and want to do them
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 08:21 PM
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Trust me, women would start fantasizing the day her dream man comes along
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 08:20 PM
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Women fantasize about cheating though
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 08:19 PM
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Why is she chasing then?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 08:19 PM
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There are so many best friendships where only one person has feelings
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 08:19 PM
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Okay but I do see it and I'm not lying And some influencers are also married women, and they post so many thirst traps
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 08:18 PM
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Posting thirst traps is micro cheating. It's a signal for men to come
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 08:16 PM
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What is the next directive. I want people to confirm or deny this story. It represents most married women
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 08:15 PM
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Why is it if you don't want something, everyone should not want something? It's just that most women do these things, so i am trying to figure out if it's possible to find a woman who won't do these things
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 08:15 PM
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My story represents most married women
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 08:14 PM
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But those women believe that they aren't desired by men. The day a super attractive man gives her attention, she will want to cheat or at least fantasize
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 08:13 PM
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Then they thirst trap in real life
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 08:11 PM
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Yeah but how do I find a woman that won't do these things?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 08:11 PM
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Yeah but I want to find a woman that doesn't fantasize
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 08:08 PM
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I meant why do married women in monogamous relationships wants to cheat
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 08:08 PM
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Women find commitment unattractive Why so? I agree, but why so?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 08:05 PM
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I click to see if they are married so I can find out the truth about most married women and confirm my beliefs
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 08:05 PM
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No but reddit isn't really like tiktok
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 08:04 PM
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It's not an imaginary woman. My story represents most married women
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 08:02 PM
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Becoming a cat for a day is not bad as cheating is
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 08:02 PM
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If grown ass men don’t understand how social media influencers make money by 2024 then o don’t k la what to tell them. Indeed, but they are using the power of lust. I wouldn't want my gf / wife to have an only fans for example, nor would I want her to make content that induces lust. I'd not date her then
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 07:59 PM
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Married women who have tiktok accounts and their profile pic is a thirst trap or they post them too
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 07:59 PM
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Any content that appeals to a general audience. It's once I click on their profile I notice they are married women posting thirt traps 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 07:58 PM
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Why have the fantasies if the women wouldn't act on them?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 07:57 PM
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I imagine a few started for the validation/attention Many married women do this. It's micro-cheating
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 07:57 PM
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But fantasies mean that women would act on them if given the perfect chance
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 07:54 PM
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I'm talking about straight men and straight women. Straight women get bored of the same man fast
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 07:53 PM
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No I mean in comments' sections I see this
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 07:53 PM
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And to get attention
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 07:52 PM
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Best friend orbiter is a close person
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 07:51 PM
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I wonder how much energy I could have if I consumed caffeine. At least before I got addicted. Maybe try water or if you sit down alot, walk for 2 mins every 20 minutes. I sit down alot, but I get instant energy if I drink water and have a short 1-2 min walk every 20 minutes
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 07:50 PM
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Why do soooo many married women post thirst traps on TikTok / Instagram? No woman can even deny this What is their goal? To get validation from men right
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 07:49 PM
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Guys actually like being clingy, and we don't care if our partner is all dressed up But women get bored of the same man
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 07:49 PM
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i had a tinder for a month or two in the last year and i didn't get any simps How many likes did you get?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 07:39 PM
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I don't want to date someone who fantasizes about other people because then my fear is that they would cheat given the perfect opportunity
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 07:36 PM
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do women have hours long conversations with simps? Well it's literally a thing. Aka orbiters
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 07:35 PM
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What about fantasies?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 07:34 PM
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This is very true What if it stays like a young adult relationship all their life?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 07:34 PM
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Yeah facts 😭😭 Women justify cheating sooo much
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 07:33 PM
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Yeee it works right I've noticed guys who write super short texts get the most women
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 07:32 PM
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“nope. You’re beautiful” or “wanna talk about it?”. Isn't this borderline simping tho? Wouldn't the girl loose interest because the guy is validating her too much
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 07:31 PM
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It's kind of cheating. At least I want my gf / wife to not think of other men lustfully
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 07:30 PM
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Yes however lustful fantasies mean that women would act on them if they could get away with it
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 07:26 PM
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Should a guy get more and more clingy as the relationship gets deeper and deeper? or nah?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 07:26 PM
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Okay fine then not a local celeb. But if a married woman goes to a real celeb's concert and gets autographs, and after eye contact they both feel the lust, then she will cheat if the celeb offers
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 07:25 PM
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Not the brain police, but I don't want to date someone who fantasizes about other people because then my fear is that they would cheat given the perfect opportunity
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 07:24 PM
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Yes but when we avoid obsession, then there is a middle ground where cheating fantasies arise in women
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 07:23 PM
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No but the children of the previous generations are influenced by the modern world
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 07:22 PM
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That's platonic I'm talking about married women wanting to do lustful things with celebs
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 07:21 PM
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i dont have a simp, where do i get one? Create a tinder, and you will get 10 within a week
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 07:21 PM
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These "fans" are generally minor models, actors, entertainers in their own right. Not just ordinary married women. Married women can make a tiktok account and with some effort, if they get local fame, they will catch the attention of local celebs ​ Do these people have concerts and take autographs? Some can have fan meets. Or maybe these local celebs work a normal 9-5 somewhere and the married women can find them there in order to hookup etc
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 07:20 PM
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What did I get from imagining all of that? Cheating on your spouse is bad, including with a celebrity? Yes. I just wanted to see if women would defend the wife and say "Omg but it's a celeb!"
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 07:18 PM
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Sure he can be
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 07:18 PM
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But most married women would fantasize about it right?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 07:18 PM
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Trueee. Thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 07:17 PM
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Is the wife in question 12 years old? No, she is over 30 And fantasizing is cheating too!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 07:17 PM
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No 😅 but I think that's because women of the previous generations are good compared to the modern era
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 07:16 PM
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Oh okk, thank you And I never tried the short and simple method. I always did the long and simping method
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 07:16 PM
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Celebrities do indeed hookup with fans. Also, what if someone is a local celeb. Or an internet celeb. Those people are pretty easy to talk to with some effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 07:15 PM
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Ohh trueee Is it good to pull back attention too sometimes in the obsessed stage? I used to simp for my ex so much, like we met 5x a week for 3 hours each time minimum. Is that too much?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 07:13 PM
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Oh I see, so a mix of guy 1 and 2 is what women like right?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 07:12 PM
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Wouldn't she eventually take him for granted and loose interest?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 07:11 PM
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Oh I see. But yeah, most women can find a guy they want to at least have sex with
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 07:11 PM
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It's a reality tv show for all married women
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 07:10 PM
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you'll see when the time comes Yes but my beliefs that married women wanna cheat will always come up
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 07:09 PM
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Most women would cheat with their celeb crush if NO one would find out
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 07:07 PM
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obsession is bad Obsession is much better than cheating
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 07:06 PM
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or you have sudden creative inspiration and think of them one by one? I just write it as it comes to my mind. Usually they come one by one. If I am not on Reddit and have a thought, I put in it my mind's "notepad" to post later I am still trying to figure out the true nature of women and ultimately decide if a long term relationship / marriage is worth it for me
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 07:05 PM
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Imagine this A wife fantasizes about a celebrity everyday. She doesn't tell her husband this One day her friend invites her to that celeb's concert. The wife feels butterflies in her stomach and decide to go She arrives there and enjoys the concert. After the concert, the celeb takes autographs. The wife thinks about it, she wants to go but it feels wrong. She goes anyways The celeb and her hold eye contact. She cheats on her husband with the celeb She feels super guilty and promises to never do…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 07:04 PM
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Every guy I’ve been crazy about was a short-and-sweet texter What would you have felt if they texted too much?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 07:00 PM
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most men don't give any women the "talk for hours" kind of attention. most men don't want to be that emotionally vulnerable. (granted, i live in a place where men are more a little stoic than average). What about simps though? Each woman has at least one simp in her life
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 07:00 PM
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So what should a guy be like in that text convo?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 06:59 PM
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What about the countless number of simps that chase all women. TRP also says that any woman can go on a dating app and get 100s of likes at minimum
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 06:57 PM
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It seems pretty consistent to me that it's always "the wrong women" any time a man has literally any problem. Even if these are problems noticed by a large amount of men even outside of places like these. Yeahhh. I've noticed too much that simps are ignored, while guys who don't give women attention are chased
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 06:55 PM
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ay they want their boyfriend to be a simp and obsessed with her. But why don't women go for simps then?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 06:55 PM
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But then why don't women like simps? There is an abundance of simps
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 06:49 PM
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Average women receive alot of male attention
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 06:46 PM
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I’d think that women would get bored of Guy 2 really quickly unless she’s already attracted to him in real life. Physically attracted or like they have a good bond irl too? ​ unless there a guy who is just as attractive as him giving her more attention, which is sometimes the case. But don't women loose interest when a guy gives tooooo much attention
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 06:32 PM
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Is a mix a good method to get a woman interested?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 06:30 PM
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What about when you are in a long term relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 06:28 PM
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Yeahh like the baddies or model types right Do they chase these men more in order to "win them over"?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 06:27 PM
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Women always say that they want a man they can talk to for hours, but women already believe that they can get any guy to give them that much attention. It's very rare for a woman to experience next to no attention from a guy ​ True or false?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 06:25 PM
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So I noticed when I text ALOT with a girl, in the beginning stages it's really good and me and her get obsessed with each other But as a relationship settles, women start to find the attention from their man to be too much Women always say that they want a man they can talk to for hours, but women already believe that they can get any guy to give them that much attention. It's very rare for a woman to experience next to no attention from a guy
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 06:23 PM
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Yeahh, I genuinely believe women think they are the better gender and have a cult like sisterhood. And that women think they can't be friends with men without the man wanting sex What are some examples of women being rude to each other?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 06:21 PM
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Yeah but alot of the 87% would want to cheat if they could get away with it right?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 06:20 PM
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Ohh I see So if the right man shows up in her life, a married women would most likely cheat right?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 06:08 PM
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Hmmm true
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 06:07 PM
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Ohh I see I'm interested to know about women being rude to women. I currently assume that women are super nice to each other because of female unity or like "girl power" or something
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 06:06 PM
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That makes sense. Thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 06:03 PM
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I see Honestly I used to make female friends, but I always wanted them to like me just for an ego boost. I only have like two purely platonic female friends
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 06:02 PM
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Noo higher desire to cheat A married woman has a higher desire to cheat right?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 06:01 PM
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Wrong gender Correct gender :)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 06:00 PM
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Do women get shocked when a man is rude to her? Because most women assume all men wanna fuck So when a man is rude to a woman, do women think "Omg but I'm so hot why doesn't he like me??"
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 06:00 PM
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Could you give an example of how such a man is?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 05:59 PM
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Hmm I see There are less opportunities in a marriage for sure However, which woman has the higher desire: married or gf? I think married
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 05:58 PM
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Okk thank you! Should I pretend that I got a girlfriend. Basically post about a girl on instagram and fake dates etc for about a month in order to peak the interest of all of the girls that follow me Of course I'll use the help of a female friend without showing her face Then after one month I have a "breakup" and now all of the girls want me?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 05:55 PM
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If I end up liking her, then I guess I will be at risk of heartbreak. I already am afraid of being cheated on, so maybe I will have to find a new fwb
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 05:54 PM
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Oh, so be stoic? I think I have power in being stoic - as in her words can't affect me But I don't know how to use my words to insult someone so badly they stop insulting me. I find verbal battles pointless I think it's better to ignore them Is that a good idea? If my gf is swearing at me, I just ignore it stoically like -_- Or should I leave?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 05:53 PM
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But did you ever try a nice guy? Like a super nice guy
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 05:52 PM
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If you are hooking up with someone long enough, someone is gonna catch feelings. If both do: then it’s now a relationship. If only one person does then it gets messy. I guess then it's time to gently distance from the fwb right
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 05:51 PM
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The main difference between a girlfriend and a wife is that you tend to live separate from your girlfriend. This allows you to always look your best before meeting her I think married women cheat because when they live with a man, they start to see the normal parts of him. Bad breath in the morning, eye bags, sleepy hair, etc etc A girlfriend is less likely to cheat because her man isn't available 24/7. A wife can't really take a "break" from her husband. If she is having a bad day, and she goes…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 05:50 PM
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Ohh I see, that makes sense What about chatting to other women? Like in a friendly way. Like if me and my gf are at some social event, and I'm talking with some woman, should I let the convo go on and on and on. Ofc just talking about platonic stuff, but still
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 05:44 PM
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Thankss
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 05:43 PM
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Ohh I see. Thanks What does it mean to put a woman in her place? Let's say she swears at me, then I "put her in her place" by saying Hey never say that again, and then she swears at me again. Then I'm defeated no? What do I do then? Do I leave the date? or what Thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 05:43 PM
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I see Can you please elaborate a bit. I really wanna do the fake preselection trick, but I also wanna understand the psychology behind it Thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 05:40 PM
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Ohh, so basically the girl sees "Wow this other girl chose him, so he must be good?"
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 05:39 PM
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I don't wanna be a jerk to anyone tho Is there any way I can be a nice guy to everyone and still have women like me?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 05:38 PM
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Makes senseee. Thank you What are some ways to be subtly toxic?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 05:38 PM
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Okk thank you. What is the reason preselection works?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 05:37 PM
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What's the reason pre-selection works?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 05:34 PM
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Showing your bank account "leaves little to the imagination" ykwim Ohhh facts. That's a good idea, thank you Should I post like random expensive stuff? Like fake pics from google loll
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 05:33 PM
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When bad boys and fuckbois get girls, are they supposed to stay the same throughout the relationship? Or are they slowly supposed to transition into nice guys? Many girls complain that their boyfriend changed, but they also complain about bad boys. However, they tend to stay obsessed with bad boys while complaining, but they cheat on nice guys So should a guy always stay a bad boy or slowly turn into a nice guy in order to have the best relationship where the girl is obsessed? Thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 05:30 PM
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Oh trueeee. What about fake screenshots that make it look like I have alot of money in my bank?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 05:27 PM
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So one time I had asked my female friend if I can post her to my story and pretend like she's my date, and THREE girls replied to my story. One of the girls called her a hoe and got jealous, another girl remembered her for MONTHS and another girl just went: Who's dat 👀 What's the reason girls are like this lol? It's like they have an algorithm in their head that they start thirsting over a guy if he gets girls 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 05:26 PM
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Should I post the following on my Instagram: - Picture of me hugging a girl without showing her face so other girls think I get so many girls (pre-selection) - Picture of a bunch of cash that I withdrew from the ATM so it looks like I'm rich - Fake screenshot that makes it look like I have a secret YouTube channel and I have a few 100k followers? (status) ​ I don't see what could go wrong with the plan
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 05:23 PM
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Women always pretend like they are the better gender, but literally EVERY woman of the modern era is a slave to her emotions. Every married woman will at the very least have the thought to cheat, and most of them will if given the perfect opportunity I'm never getting married
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 04:53 PM
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I see, this makes sense Do you think a husband can do ANYTHING to keep the wife excited and feeling special / young? Or will she eventually get bored of him and seek other other guys?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 03:56 AM
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I live in the suburbs and cheating is big here. I slept with more married women than single women. Why do suburb women cheat so much? Are they bored of the suburbs and assume that their husband is the cause of the boredom? While the husband is at work and the kids are at school, they cheat. :( ​ Is there any point to getting married? I feel like all married women wanna cheat. Did the women tell you any reason they cheated?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 02:47 AM
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It's too sexually aggressive. It also often comes off like you're narcissistic (think like the literal Greek myth of staring into your own reflection).It also makes you seem like a fuckboi Don't women like narcissistic men and fuckbois. Isn't there a whole debate in this sub about nice guys vs fuckbois ​ But don't pretend it is about appealing to a straight female audience. I see. Why are men more attracted to shirtless women, than women are attracted to shirtless men? ​ If you want to appeal to…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 08:56 PM
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I see, thank you Why don't they like shirtless pics though? What about a picture of me doing something like rock climbing or the gym (while showing off my muscles)? Thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 08:06 PM
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Factsss Thank you bro 🙏🏻 this is really good advice
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 06:45 PM
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So we can't escape female + attention, since we are dating women, and men will give them attention Is there a way to avoid the hypergamy? Live in a suburb with no rich dudes? Or what?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 06:29 PM
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If a man doesn't allow that behaviour, then is she just being stopped from cheating or will she actually change herself?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 06:03 PM
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What if it's worth it, will most women cheat?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 03:41 AM
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Exactlyyyy. Thanks :)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 03:37 AM
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Do you know how guys simp though?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 01:55 AM
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That risk isn't worth the "reward" What if the reward is very very very very very high?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 01:55 AM
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Why can't a top 5% guy be insecure though
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 01:33 AM
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Aren’t you setting yourself up for failure by assuming women are gonna cheat on you? Because many do so I am trying to prepare myself
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 12:14 AM
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Yeah they are ignoring my DMs because they think I just want sex
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 12:14 AM
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Gal pals is fine I am a man who posted a shirtless selfie, and she had a boyfriend and sent me that
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 12:13 AM
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women sliding into his DMs. I want that one day
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 12:12 AM
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It's "sus", not really cheating. It's micro cheating. She wanted to test the waters to lead the convo to more sexual stuff. She would even ignore me to talk to this guy
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 12:12 AM
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the top 10% is vanishing small What does this mean? ​ Most of the differentiation is between personalities, styles, and shapes of women and men. This gives the truth in "people have a type". Kind of like niche-maxxing right? ​ men need a significant boost in comp to change jobs across the country. So women would cheat if they knew they could get away with it and have an amazing guy to cheat with?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 12:09 AM
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Saying that you would "smash" someone is just commenting that you find them attractive. Not a big deal. But she was in a relationship. It's wrong to think about other guys sexually ​ Yeah, sometimes you're drunk with your friends and it comes up. it's talking about sexual stuff with another guy
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 12:06 AM
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don't you get unattracted to a woman when you have to play father? Yes I get unattracted
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 10:41 PM
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She shouldn't think of smashing dudes when she's in a relationship And the talk with her guy friend about masterbating was at 2 AM
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 10:40 PM
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😍 is also lust
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 10:39 PM
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Not trust me in which way?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 10:39 PM
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Wouldn't they be impressed and think "Wow he's so sweet"
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 10:38 PM
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He is family. That is different But this girl doesn't know me well at all
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 10:10 PM
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How so?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 10:09 PM
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The answer to the flair is "Yes"
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 10:09 PM
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I understand I've heard that women mostly have sex to get the guy Is it true women don't enjoy sex as much?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 10:02 PM
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I don't want to have sex with women like that tho. Only a gf that I dated for at least 2 months I'm from Canada
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 09:57 PM
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You gotta learn nuance and context. I have to learn context? The context is me posting a shirtless picture in dim lighting in order to attract single women
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 09:54 PM
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SORRY typo. I meant smash
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 09:47 PM
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What generation are you from? I'm 23. I think the generations between GenZ and Boomers are the most liberal. GenZ is quite possessive in relationships tbh So maybe we have a generational difference
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 09:46 PM
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Basically, flirting is cheating is what you're getting at. Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 09:25 PM
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Those girls probably like having the security of a consistent bf, but still desire that dopamine rush from other guys letting her know she is attractive, and an option Most women right?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 09:25 PM
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I want my girl to use social media, but just not too much where she is getting 100s of DMs a day. Girls with 0 social media can end up being too desperate for male attention
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 09:24 PM
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No man you will be cucked time and time again Why do so many guys like me try to save hoes?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 09:23 PM
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Did she “cheat” by maintaining eye contact with a man for more than 2-3 seconds or was it not averting her eyes when there was a sex scene in a movie?🙄 She talked about her masterbation habits with a guy on instagram and when her friend asked her about a guy "smash or pass", she said smash ​ Edit: She said smash I made a typo
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 09:22 PM
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Also trying to save hoes is a very dangerous game your getting yourself into Yeahh Why do so many guys become Captain Save A Hoe
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 09:20 PM
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story of the cookies I made. That's different This girl reacted 😍 to a story of me SHIRTLESS after the gym. She has a boyfriend. Why isn't that bad?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 09:10 PM
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Introverted women aren’t a different species with their own habitat. Some of them are. They don't leave the house
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 09:05 PM
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Do any other guys here like to go for "bad girls" and try to change them with your love? My ex stopped drinking all together because I encouraged her to stop. And she was a hoe so I thought my love could change her But she cheated on me I want a good girl, but I'm also afraid of dating a good girl because I don't want to give her a heart break in case things don't work out and I think she's too good to be true
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 09:03 PM
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then maybe there is a certain type you are subconsciously attracted to, because not all women are like that. Okay I won't lie, I like to go for "bad girls" and try to fix them with my love. My ex stopped drinking all together because I encouraged her to stop. And like she was a hoe so I thought my love could change her
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 09:01 PM
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Did you simp as hard as male simps?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 09:00 PM
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Do women feel power over their man since they get 100s of DMs
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 09:00 PM
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I've been fooled too many times each time thinking shes different because in most respects they were all different I was just thinking about this. It's just that most girls are good at hiding who they are or they haven't had the opportunity to show their true nature yet ​ And yeahh even the traditional reserved ones cheat. They all want the same thing
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 08:56 PM
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Where. What about introvert girls who don't go to events?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 08:56 PM
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Oh yeahhh, very true
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 08:55 PM
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You've already played your part in letting the man know. You can't help him if he can't even help himself. The only thing you can do is make sure you and your sons don't fall down the same path, so that you don't contribute to the epidemic. Factsss 🙏🏻 ​ It is, but the man has been brainwashed like most modern men into letting their woman be a slut. Are most guys scared to lose their girlfriend / wife and that's why they ignore slutty / cheating behaviour?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 08:51 PM
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So if I define those small behaviours as cheating, is it healthy? Or no
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 08:44 PM
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With modern social dynamics and laws, the risk of mating Why is the risk of mating higher in modern times? Wouldn't it be higher in the past?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 08:43 PM
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So how do I meet these women to date?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 08:42 PM
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male
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 08:22 PM
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Yes but they don't really know any single girls I have one friend who is a girl and she knows alot of single girls but she never helps me for some reason lol idk why
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 08:20 PM
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Well if they are there for lustful purposes, then they might just send the message in a desperate way If a woman's celeb crush DMs her, she will want to cheat
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 08:18 PM
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Why are there no female simps?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 08:16 PM
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😔😔😔 Do we men just have to accept that most women will cheat on us? Or is it possible to find good women?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 08:15 PM
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don't pursue women with instagrams who post thirst traps or collect orbiters Most women have instagram The women who don't assume all men are bad so it's hard to talk to them too
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 08:13 PM
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So how do I find those good girls to talk to?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 08:12 PM
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What is the evolutionary reason?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 08:03 PM
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Factsssss This comment is so good it should be it's own post 🙏🏻
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 08:02 PM
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Because its the majority of the female population Exactly!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 08:02 PM
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It generally isn't. Most women aren't getting these messages and those that do generally ignore them. You're focusing on a small subset that confirms what you want to believe. I feel like most women would answer the DM of a top 5% man
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 08:01 PM
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you should vet for it. How so?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 08:01 PM
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She's not a friend She just follows me because her boyfriend is my friend I accepted her follow request out of politeness
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 07:59 PM
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She can say "Wow bro, keep it up" But reacting with 😍 is a clear indication of lust What if a man with a girlfriend reacted 😍 to a girl's story
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 07:57 PM
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She used an emoji that indicates lust
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 07:57 PM
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Especially if her partner is comfortable with it. Which he clearly is Okay fine, in that case yeah But what would you say if a guy said he wouldn't want his girlfriend doing that
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 07:55 PM
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And you turn around and say you post SHIRTLESS GYM SELFIES AND THIRST TRAPS!? While I am single, in order to attract my type of girl
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 07:54 PM
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Microcheating is not a thing. It's an actual term
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 07:51 PM
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If they are in a relationship, and the relationship defines it as micro cheating, yes And not all men do that lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 07:50 PM
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The vast majority of people do not share your opinion I am seriously so confused. Reacting 😍 to a guy when you have a boyfriend is fine?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 07:45 PM
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So the girl who reacted 😍 to my story, what more would she have to do before it's micro cheating?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 07:44 PM
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Your comments are fine. "OMG GO KING!!! 😌💅" is very friendly Your gay friend saying that to you is platonic But this is a straight woman who is reacting to MY shirtless gym selfie (thirst trap) with an emoji that indicates lust What would you say if a man with a girlfriend was reacting: 😍😍😍 to girl's stories
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 07:43 PM
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I'm a man, she is a woman. She has a man Did you think I'm also a woman? I need to get a flair for this subreddit
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 07:40 PM
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You feel you were cheated on because of these very rigid and strict rules you have made up to control the women you are with. Hmmm, this is true How can I stop caring about these little things OBVIOUSLY if she is holding hands with a dude, I'm out of that relationship though. That's more than micro cheating
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 07:39 PM
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Women do it more
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 07:39 PM
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I'm a man though
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 07:38 PM
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Facts In almost every religion marriage is seen as the union of two souls But women these days don't care
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 07:38 PM
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🙏🏻❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 07:37 PM
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sequester No one said one has to sequester away with their gender I am talking about engaging with the opposite gender in a lustful way
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 07:33 PM
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Youre going to go a bit over every now and then. But that's a mistake though, and the agreement to not speed isn't as strong as the agreement to not micro cheat
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 07:31 PM
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A taken person shouldn't react like that to the gender they are attracted to
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 07:30 PM
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What if a guy was reacting: 😍 to girls' pics And that girl wasn't my friend, more so just followed me because I know her boyfriend
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 07:29 PM
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Eye contact if it's lustful
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 07:27 PM
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Even if I date down, she can find someone better than me
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 07:26 PM
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I'd tell my wife she can do it, but I'd leave her
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 07:26 PM
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I did it for my gf out of my own free will
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 07:25 PM
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Then you are a good one 😊
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 07:25 PM
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They’re probably still laughing about you. Her boyfriend is a simp
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 07:21 PM
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Because the good girls don't even accept follower requests so we give up
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 07:20 PM
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Bro men don't get unconditional love from anything but their mom,kids,or dogs..... Exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 06:58 PM
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But what about top 5% men
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 06:57 PM
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If I am in a relationship and there is a sex scene, I won't look in order to respect my gf
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 06:57 PM
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What if they have to interact because of work or they’re friends? Still need to do creepy eye contact avoidance stuff? Platonic is fine ​ Can she watch the news if the anchorman is attractive or should she look away and just listen? What if he has a sexy voice? Just read newspaper? Yeah but if she fantasizing about wanting to have sex with him, that's cheating
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 06:56 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 06:52 PM
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She shouldn't be talking about other men's physical appearances though. She should do it to women I wouldn't want my girlfriend doing that
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 06:51 PM
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Yes of course
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 06:50 PM
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we’d decide what to do next together. Like to be friends with them or lustful purposes
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 06:49 PM
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What about instagram
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 06:43 PM
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It's an emoji that can be taken a hundred different ways. Okay come on That's like saying if a guy says "Come over to my bed and chill 😉" can just mean "Let's play video games together and sit on my bed because it's comfy. Totally platonic".
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 06:42 PM
1

Why are women so easily swayed? Why can us men not need female attention 24/7 but women always need male attention?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 06:41 PM
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Personally, I don't entertain anyone besides my man Then you are one of the good ones! 🙏🏻
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 06:40 PM
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Eye contact is cheating??!! If it's: 😍😍😍 yes, It is cheating Yes porn is cheating
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 06:39 PM
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Never in a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 06:38 PM
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But isn't 😍 an indication of lust? If she has a boyfriend, she shouldn't message me that
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 06:38 PM
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Sometimes it’s because women don’t like the men they date I always notice this. Why do women do this?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 06:37 PM
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Why is it okay for a girl to like a guy's shirtless pic even sometimes? And by long stare I mean: 😍😍😍
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 06:35 PM
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Meet them irl. Cold approach? Because introvert girls don't go to events
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 06:33 PM
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people engage in a lot of minor mate seeking behaviors :( Why tho?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 06:31 PM
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But isn't it just another form of communication? Do women think all men who slide in the DMs are just horny? Many of them want relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 06:30 PM
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Adults who have any morals just don’t act on them But willfully watching porn in a relationship is acting on it
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 06:28 PM
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I've seen it
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 06:25 PM
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Depends on the DM for me. Is he commenting on my dog, saying something like funny dog or what ever. Yes I would answer. I do this too from a genuine place but don't women assume that the guy is faking it?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 06:22 PM
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I seeee How do I meet these girls? Because that is my ideal girlfriend
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 06:22 PM
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How so?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 06:00 PM
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How do I find them? Should I slide in the DMs or like meet irl
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 05:59 PM
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Talking to people is cheating? Non-platonic talks, yes ​ Eye contact is cheating? Lustful 😍 - yes
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 05:57 PM
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Yup Micro cheating, lol It's a real term
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 05:56 PM
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Yes. That’s what they’re supposed to do in strict religious cultures, for example Monogamy* I'm not even religious, I'm spiritual
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 05:56 PM
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Are women supposed to stare at the ground when in the presence of another male? No, but definitely not hold lustful eye contact. I would never look at other girls for more than 1-3 seconds when I had a gf
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 05:55 PM
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But it's not right How do I find a woman who won't do that
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 05:55 PM
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I have noticed mostly girlfriends are loyal to their boyfriends. I've noticed that after marriage the guy turns super docile and unhealthily worships his wife, and she ends up cheating Also, I'm 23 - I really should know more about relationships by now. So idk if I'm young in terms of the dating space
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 05:54 PM
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She reacted with this: 😍 I posted a selfie of me after the gym That is totally inappropriate for her to do when she has a boyfriend
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 05:53 PM
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Do you talk to or make eye contact with other women when you’re in a relationship? When I had a girlfriend, I would do two things - If I looked at a girl who was attractive, I'd quickly avert my gaze within 1-2 seconds - If I fantasized about another girl, I'd quickly switch my thoughts and only focus on my girlfriend's physical beauty and fantasize about it I guess you could call me a "1-2 second" micro cheater But seriously, even you know that my efforts to respect my partner are way above ave…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 05:52 PM
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First one: Liking guy's stories. It's fine if it's platonic, but you know what I mean If a guy posts a shirtless story, and my gf likes it, that's fine? No way ​ Second one: Holding eye contact with guys they find attractive This is literally engaging in lustful behaviour with another person
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 05:50 PM
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Yes! 100% It's being turned on by other people
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 05:49 PM
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Do you think women in relationships would answer the DM of their celeb crush? And thank you for the kind words :)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 05:48 PM
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Those men should stop. Why is it so hard for taken women to ignore other men who show interest in her?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 05:47 PM
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Yeeee
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 05:43 PM
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Truee. Thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 05:40 PM
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But it's still microcheating Why can't the woman get the attention she needs from her man? If she has agreed to monogamy, how can she justify talking to other dudes who want her
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 05:40 PM
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Why keep believing all women do this ? Answer me that. I meant like most women I will come across. Most of the women that guys go for. ​ Why do you blindly believe people on the internet? It's hard to detect echo chambers. But even people I know in real life support stuff I read on reddit, so honestly it's hard to detect if this red pill stuff is an echo chamber or truth
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 05:39 PM
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I've never seen a guy say they would date anyone I guess it's more normal for guys to be "desperate" because by nature guys get less girl attention But for girls to be desperate, there must be a reason OF COURSE it can go the opposite way, I'm not denying it, but mostly guys being desperate is more normal and doesn't mean the guy has anything wrong with him What's your opinion?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 05:36 PM
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Engaging in inappropriate behaviours or interactions that border around the edges of intimacy or attempts facilitating intimacy with other people Examples: - Liking guy's stories. It's fine if it's platonic, but you know what I mean - Holding eye contact with guys they find attractive - Planting seeds to cheat. Like asking for the number of an attractive guy at the gym and guising it just as friends Stuff that isn't total cheating, but it's setting up the platform to cheat ​ Opinion?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 05:35 PM
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Okay but like 50%
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 05:32 PM
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there is a woman out there that would happily date most men What do you mean? Like a desperate woman or a woman who genuinely finds most men attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 05:32 PM
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Maybe 80% of men. But women will entertain the DMs of the top 20%
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 05:31 PM
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Would a non-ho3 eventually do it?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 05:31 PM
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Yes. Micro cheating counts
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 05:30 PM
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🙏🏻❤️ You're a good one then
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 05:29 PM
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How do I find a girl that won't talk to other guys who show interest, but only talk to platonic guys
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 05:28 PM
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:( Sad, but true What is the reason women like to upgrade
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 05:20 PM
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But they all do it eventually. Every girl I've dated
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 05:20 PM
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:( Bruh Why can't these women get attention from their man?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 05:19 PM
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Then you are one of the good ones! But why do most women answer those DMs when in a relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 05:18 PM
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see them semi-regularly This is the case where they are not total strangers. So they don't want to risk you rejecting them. However, how many of your followers are total local strangers? I'm sure they slide in your DMs, no? At least 3 new DMs a day ​ I'm absolutely within the distance that they could think they "have a chance" with. But some do try right? ​ rage fantasy. I'm not angry though :D
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 05:12 PM
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But what if both are in their upper 40's and he's the best she can get? I agree, but all it takes is one friend of her's to suggest she downloads Tinder or one "better" guy to message her on Instagram. In fact, a man's SMV rises with his age, especially to women his own age ​ What if they are the only Haitian couple in the city/town? All it takes is one guy learning the culture of Haiti, or Haitian Creole, and he can get the platonic attention of the Haitian woman, which can eventually turn roma…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 05:03 PM
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But I think this could be because your followers can be from all over the country / world. So they know there is no point in sliding in your DMs since you two may live too far away But if a girl has a social media account that's popular locally, then she will get alot of thirst because the men know they have a chance to date her since they live in the same area
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 05:00 PM
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I want to get the therapy to get over these thoughts, but should I get a male or female therapist? I would feel really judged by a female therapist, and a male therapist might just share my views and keep me unintentionally trapped in my beliefs - since we both believe this
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 04:58 PM
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I never watched porn when I had a relationship And I never checked out other women
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 10:09 AM
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If you want to go into the extreme to test your partner's loyalty, you should have a friend who's a super attractive womanizer that can seriously pull women, and introduce your girlfriend or wife to him at a function and just pay attention to how she acts. Yesss ​ But seriously, if you think every woman is a hedonistic liar with no virtues then why date or even be friends with them? Well I do want love. It's like gambling. We want money, so we gamble, but we can lose it. We want love, so we date…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 03:43 AM
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Are your followers mainly women?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 03:37 AM
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borderline personality disorder Is this an umbrella term? I have full empathy, I even cry for people when feeling empathy
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 03:33 AM
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On the assumption that most of the members in here have not had a loving relationship (or any relationship) here’s how it works I agree ​ If a woman who is model hot suddenly took an interest in you, and she was rich so she never asked for money, you guys would drop your submissive girlfriend who does everything you say, and you’d go for the model even if she was a feminist who was “masculine” by definition because she pays for everything. I would never, but I see your point. I accused women of …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 03:04 AM
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Why do women in relationships message guys? Don't these women have any shame
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 12:00 AM
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No but I feel like if girls have over 200 followers, they get DMs daily
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 11:15 PM
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But the women fantasize about cheating though I assume And what about Gen Z girls, I feel like they will cheat
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 11:06 PM
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Why do girls do that though
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 09:22 PM
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Not fixated in a creepy way, but fixated in a "I want everything to go right, and I hope it doesn't go wrong" As soon as a woman gives me any type of heartbreak feeling, I loose feelings so fast and never wanna speak to her again, due to fear of further heartbreak. This is because my ideal world view gets shattered ​ In the context of our chat, I do enjoy thinking about them as the One and I want to give them all of my love, care etc so I also stop myself from fantasizing about other girls in or…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 08:03 PM
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Hmm truee Let's change it to 95% and 5% then
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 08:01 PM
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So one thing people say is that online dating makes everyone look a bit fake since most people take bad seflies Do women realize this and give bad selfie guys a chance? Or does the nature of online dating make women go for the best selfie takers
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 08:01 PM
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But women cheat more
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 07:53 PM
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They are real. There are many situations like that
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 07:53 PM
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self-fulfilling prophecies are reaaaal Why so?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 07:52 PM
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Yes but not all woman will know those likes aren't genuine. When their ego is inflated they will assume they can get thousands of men daily
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 07:51 PM
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In a relationship? No way I didn't even fantasize about other people, except my gf
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 07:49 PM
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It's not unlikely at all So again, what would happen in this scenario
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 07:48 PM
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The ones that cheat, could be But women cheat more on average
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 07:29 PM
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If she meets a man better than her boyfriend. If he likes her back Two if's Now please tell me
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 07:28 PM
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Because women are more emotional and get swayed by men more
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 07:27 PM
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Only if I knew about her fantasies somehow. But I will always assume she has fantasies
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 07:13 PM
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How can I do the opposite of pussywhipped Basically make my wife worried about me leaving her but in a healthy way
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 07:10 PM
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What if he likes her back?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 07:09 PM
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Why is it called functional?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 07:06 PM
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If she mentions her fantasy to someone or me. Eventually I can find out For example, we are watching a movie and she says "Ouu that celeb is hot" I would want to leave the relationship right there and then
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 07:05 PM
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Experience and what I hear and see from other's
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 07:04 PM
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😊 Well this was nice, thanks I guess I need to not be afraid to leave. Are there any ways I can show a woman I'm not afraid to leave?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 07:02 PM
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Cheating is defined per relationship. I never fantasized about other girls when I had a gf, so I expect the same from my gf
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 07:01 PM
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I never checked out other girls when I had a gf though
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 07:01 PM
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It would be a relationship that goes on until she cheats, then I leave. It's just a sad reality I have to accept, since as of now I believe women will always cheat if given the chance. Fantasizing is cheating imo
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 06:54 PM
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Okay so maybe they don't have social media attention But imagine my girlfriend knows how much attention she can get through a dating app
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 06:53 PM
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I see. So forgetting money, is it true that it boils down to: looks and status?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 06:52 PM
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I agree. However, one key word I used: fantasizing Women can honour the agreement to not cheat with a "better" man, but they will still fantasize. And I want to know if there is a way to find a woman that won't fantasize. Yes, to me fantasizing is cheating and I never did it when I had a gf
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 06:51 PM
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What are the other options?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 06:50 PM
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What I mean is, I think women on average have less respect for men on average since "men can be seduced so easily"
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 06:50 PM
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I want a relationship with a woman since I'm a straight man. But is it also the nature of women to cheat so I guess it's a dating risk I gotta take
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 06:48 PM
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I seee. How do you get approached? Like cold approach or in a social setting?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 06:47 PM
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But proportional to her follower count, she definitely gets alot of attention Eventually she can find a guy "better" than her bf and want to cheat
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 06:47 PM
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Approach in real life or social media?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 06:43 PM
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Yeah but there will always be someone better than me. I have no issue with that but I still wanna date
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 06:42 PM
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Do you feel power over men or see men as less since they can be easily seduced? Please be honest
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 06:39 PM
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girls dont get that much attention unless they seek it out So are these girls easy to get?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 06:37 PM
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Not every man no. Could you elaborate please and thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 06:19 PM
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You definitely do NOT need money. What if someone isn't a bad boy and doesn't have social status, then will having money be a good alternative?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 06:13 PM
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i feel like there are dozens more choices youve not listed Like mixes of being a simp and fboi?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 06:12 PM
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Yeahhh that's good. It's because pics barely have any information, so it's always good to invest into good pics Bad pics just blend in with the rest. I'm happy to hear your success dude Also try Hinge bro, because you can add some more personality stuff on your profile, which will supplement your pics
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 06:11 PM
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I understand. Do you think young men of the future will have a harder time dating than Gen Z ?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 06:10 PM
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Yeah. I think they assume they can seduce any man in any position with enough time
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 06:09 PM
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But this is assuming that women are the more "good" gender. But they aren't And why did my super hot ex cheat on me, while also talking about marrying me within the first two months into the relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 06:03 PM
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Beta thinking: Happy wife, happy life I've noticed so many men turn so docile after marriage and have some weird desire to worship their wives. Are these guys scared she will leave them? A marriage never becomes: Woman is scared of her man leaving. It's always the guy worshipping her and her being dominant asf What's the reason for this?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 06:00 PM
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Do women believe that they can seduce every man and have him do anything for her? Anytime they have a friendly interaction with a man, do women assume that the man wants to get with them? Do women get shocked when a man treats her like any other human - for example he is rude to her if she is rude to him etc I rejected a girl once and she started sending me nudes and I was like ummm, and she was shocked that I rejected her because "No one has ever rejected me". She is a high body count girl btw
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 05:58 PM
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What is stacy chasing? Like going for models who have too many options?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 05:51 PM
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Trueee Is a uni campus a good place to approach? I graduated like a year ago
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 05:50 PM
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Noo, I fear rejection On social media I get 0 girl attention
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 05:41 PM
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😅 My bad But aren't my questions good though?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 05:41 PM
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Oh yeahhh I know what you mean. Women always assume that we men are up to no good And yeah there's such a cult-like following for her
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 05:40 PM
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I have abs, girls rate my face a 7/10 but I don't have money I get 0 girl attention right now
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 05:38 PM
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Should a guy eventually become a simp? When the relationship is deep?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 05:38 PM
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I just put out a few questions at a time. But I don't spam all day
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 05:37 PM
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Am I recognized on this subreddit? Do you guys recognize my name and avatar? I'm just curious.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 05:28 PM
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I've noticed that men get banned out of female dominated subreddits SO fast. As soon as a female dominated subreddit gets a whiff that a man has posted, they'll start hating on him and over analyzing everything he says, eventually banning him Women never admit it, but they have a very toxic mob mentality against men
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 05:27 PM
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Is it worth it being a simp and waiting at the finish line? Or should I act more like an fboi? But if I get a girl being an fboi, do I slowly transition into a nice guy (who I really am) or do I have to maintain the fboi essence?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 05:25 PM
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Yeee I've noticed that Why did the hottest girls usually find a LTR early on? Is it because they met exactly the guy they wanted? Or did they go for a nice guy after being bombarded with less than ideal male attention?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 05:24 PM
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Why do so many hot girls have such low body counts? I'd expect they have the highest since they have unlimited male attention
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 05:03 PM
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I see, thank you So worship is good or bad? Also, by showing my will to leave subtly, would an example of that be: She is mad at me for some petty reason and I just ignore it right? May I please get some more examples
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 05:01 PM
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I'm in Toronto, Canada. It's kind of the same here right?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 09:40 PM
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Can I find a woman to settle down with me before me and her are 25?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 09:30 PM
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Truee. Thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 08:19 PM
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Factsss Thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 07:56 PM
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How do we get over the guilt of breaking a heart?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 07:55 PM
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You're forcing someone to feel a certain way, just to avoid you yourself experiencing icky feelings. But don't I spare them the heart break?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 06:05 PM
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Wasn't dating good back then? Like people would marry their first partners?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 05:55 PM
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How can I know if a woman has settled for me?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 05:52 PM
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What if she gets dangerous?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 05:50 PM
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Factsss Cultures that value modesty, have really modest women
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 05:47 PM
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But why don't people settle earlier then?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 05:46 PM
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Mostly women or men?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 05:40 PM
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If I want to break up with a girl that might be super heart broken (like next level) or become super dangerous towards me, should I just slowly change my personality so she herself breaks up with me? This way I don't have to initiate the break up. I just slowly start behaving different so she just gets annoyed by me and looses feelings and she doesn't feel any heart break
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 05:37 PM
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😊
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 05:25 PM
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relationships will become more and more based on enjoying each other's company than on mutual support But why do women not go for their best friends then? Why are so many guys in the friendzone while girls go for emotionally unavailable men?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 05:24 PM
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Ohh that's good she understood. Some girls can get aggressive or dangerous though In those cases is it good to fizzle out slowly so she breaks up?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 05:21 PM
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Yeah the guilt of breaking a heart, and the pain of having your heart broken And trueeee. Thank you. I will try to date then How do you deal with the guilt of breaking a heart? Is it better to fizzle out of the relationship? Because it's really hard telling a girl to her face you wanna break up
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 05:08 PM
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Do women think guys don't cry and go through heartbreaks?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 05:08 PM
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Ohhh that makes sense It's sometimes easy to spot those women. They are very lowkey on social media and usually take a while to connect By dead bedroom do you mean barely any sex or no variety? I personally don't mind doing just vanilla stuff all my life. The peace of mind would be priceless
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 05:00 PM
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Yes 100% I did it with my ex If I would see a hot girl, I would look away within 1-2 seconds If my mind started thinking about a hot girl, I'd switch my thoughts I'd only fantasize about my gf This is why I hope so much I find a girl who can do this. But it really hurts that a girl will never do this for a man
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 04:55 PM
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Yes you are right. I've noticed some women stay away from casual sex because they don't want their partner to perceive them badly Whenever I express the desire to want a woman with a 0 or 1 body count, women get so mad
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 04:52 PM
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I see, this makes sense Honestly, I think if my wife fantasizes sexually about other people, it would be cheating for me. Like if she told me, I'd feel so hurt and want to leave her Is there anyway I can find a partner that won't fantasize about other people? It's not a big deal to find someone else attractive, but how can I find a partner that won't dwell into fantasy
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 04:41 PM
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Okkk Does it hurt alot going through this cycle? Because I stayed away from dating due to the fear of heartbreak
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 04:37 PM
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Factsssss
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 04:33 PM
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human nature 😳😳😳 Whaaaa- So there is always a chance my future gf or wife might wanna cheat if they find someone "better"?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 04:30 PM
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Some couples I know go ghost from social media. Mainly instagram. But those are the types who were husband-wifey from day one. It's quite beautiful
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 04:17 PM
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Ohhh okkkk Makes sense
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 07:56 PM
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Why do women leave when a man looses his job? But men wouldn't
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 07:55 PM
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Ohhh this makes sense Thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 07:52 PM
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What are real worlds examples of feminine being chaos and masculine being order?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 07:25 PM
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Like a "social" natural selection Women who start picking good men, will also raise their kids to be good people. And the next generation will be slightly good However, bad women also get to pick and choose who their partner will be, so then their kids will be bad. Then the next generation gets some "badness" too So then what happens
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 07:21 PM
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This is why I have never understood the argument for patrilineal inheritance, other than strictly for control of reproduction. I see your point
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 07:18 PM
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you can't tell someone's gender even quite roughly from a personality test for example. Trueee So are men and women the same except physically?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 07:15 PM
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feminine is chaos and masculine is order. Could you please elaborate on this? Thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 07:14 PM
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So it comes from our biology right?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 07:14 PM
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It definitely doesn’t feel natural which is why it’s a fantasy. Doesn't feel natural in terms of what? In terms of a human having that much power or a woman having that much power?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 07:07 PM
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I agree, for both of the points women want someone to match them at the very least So I guess it is in our natural for men to protect and provide Do you think a woman would try to protect her man though if he was in danger, or would she feel weirded out and leave him?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 07:05 PM
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Neither one is bad Are they equally good? Equally bad? Or just random in their good/bad ness
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 07:02 PM
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Why do men do this though?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 06:59 PM
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As for your bit about single moms, they provide themselves because they have to - most times, they’d rather have it be a shared effort. If a woman got super rich, would she want to provide? Or would she want a man richer than her to provide? ​ Again, even in a modern context, in most heterosexual relationships the man is expected to protect the woman. If the woman had gun training, and the man didn't, would the woman still expect the man to provide, or would she take the protecting role? ​ So I …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 06:58 PM
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We're in the middle of discovering what natural selection in humans actually looks like Oh that's interesting. You mean that women will choose certain men, and their genes will be passed on And men who are not chosen will be naturally selected out right?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 06:55 PM
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Why do men turn into babies when the woman provides? I've noticed this too
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 06:44 PM
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Yeahh you're right. It feels like we are the babies of the world, rather than being men who can make our own way in the world Do you think men of the past felt like they were also trapped in a matrix? Or did they feel like they had control over their local environment Like for example, we can't even build anything on our own properties without the permission of the local government
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 06:37 PM
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What are some examples?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 06:30 PM
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Does this mean that gender roles are imposed by society? Or are they in our nature?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 06:29 PM
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I'm sorry to hear you went through that And yes, I feel that too. It's a unhappy place being emasculated Do you think that is because when men are emasculated, we compare ourselves to other men and thus get unhappy? Or is it against our fundamental nature to be emasculated?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 06:28 PM
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Even aside from that, a very masculine man can be nurturing and caring to his kids, a feminine woman can be fierce and aggressive to protect her family. Do you think it's just that men and women don't NEED to take on the opposite gender role, and so we see it less? ​ Before the known gender roles where in place When do we think they were in place? Why did so many societies have men go out and hunt, expand etc? Was it because women become pregnant and in need of protection? ​ Also, do you think o…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 06:27 PM
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Are men more insecure about genetic paternity/maternity than women, or are women simply so incredibly unlikely to ever have that be in doubt to begin with? I think no matter who the sperm came from, it's still the woman's biological baby. So I think women wouldn't care as much. For the man, there is a chance that the baby is NOT his at all. But, the woman knows it's always her baby ​ Are men more abusive than women, or are women simply judged by different societal standards as to what constitute…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 06:24 PM
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I suggest you watch Queen of the South, The Glory, and Miss Sloane. When you watch those shows, does it feel natural to you? Like a woman who leads a cartel etc
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 06:20 PM
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RDR2 and really enjoy playing the male character How did it feel being the male character? Did you gain any form of empathy for men? Did you learn anything etc? I'm just curious
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 06:20 PM
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but I did feel the kicks of when he at first started asserting himself because that's a pretty universal power fantasy - underdog to someone in control, puttting idiots in their place. Everyone has those. So women also have the desire not to be underdogs right?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 05:52 PM
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more of a very human story about achieving it all and then losing it all due to one’s own humanity. Which is why it’s very relatable to all people and so popular. I see, so Walt just happens to be male, but the story is more for humans who achieve it all and lose it all due to their own humanity?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 05:51 PM
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Ohh I see I've heard girls say they don't like it when guys are nice to everyone What if I'm a non-sociopath, but I don't be overly nice to everyone?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 11:01 PM
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Thank you Could you explain the second two
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 11:00 PM
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No, we are equal
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 10:55 PM
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Sorry, I meant like in a few sentences could you explain how to succeed in dating knowing that dating really just boils down to: looks, status, options
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 10:55 PM
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Why do men do this?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 10:54 PM
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So I am claiming that since it's hard to look like a super handsome man, there are more average men on earth However, there are wayyyy more hot girls than average looking guys So won't average dudes be paired up with hot girls?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 10:53 PM
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What's a theory about this
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 10:52 PM
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Why exactly sociopathic? Why don't they like hot, nice men who can fight etc
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 10:52 PM
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So what's a theory about this
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 10:50 PM
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This is very interesting, thanks for sharing! ​ I lack physical strength and testosterone to assert myself the way tough guys do Do you wish you had the strength and assertive nature tough guys do? Of course still as a female and the same size etc ​ the helper suitable to the man was so fitting to what I was working on becoming! Is this because of gender roles? Or would you rather want to be the leader and have a man be your side kick
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 10:46 PM
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I see. Do you fantasize to do the same "male power things" like taking over, standing up for yourself, epic fights etc
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 10:44 PM
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I see. Do you fantasize to do the same "male power things" like taking over, standing up for yourself, epic fights etc
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 10:44 PM
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Media made with the male gaze. Main character is a man. Doing stuff to appeal to men Most video games and shows
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 10:41 PM
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might even be harder to look good as a men So then there's a scarcity in men's looks. So doesn't that mean average dudes can more easily get with super hot girls?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 10:32 PM
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Does dating really just boil down to: looks, status, options Although I am 100% spiritual so I believe in soulmates and all, I still know we are animals Love can happen between two humans no matter what. Friends, family, etc Dating is just ONE way to get to love. Dating isn't love So, do we humans just follow the same stuff animals follow when picking mates?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 10:27 PM
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whoever is more willing to leave. What if both people are? ​ If you worship her for her looks How would she know? ​ not give a shit if she leaves, then you have the power regardless. That's the only way to do it. Are there ways I can show that I am not afraid to leave ​ And she will always be insecure because a big part of why you like her is how she looks. There's no getting around that. She'll be insecure? So is that kind of a good thing? As in, she will try to impress me ​ ​ Thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 10:23 PM
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Why does it seem like women are the more "moral" gender? They don't get into fights, they don't have the desire to conquer land etc
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 10:21 PM
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But I've seen hot girls with not hot guys
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 10:18 PM
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Truee So what's step one to have super hot girls chase me? Thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 10:17 PM
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How do I stop thinking about the value thing It's just that all over the internet they talk about it
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 10:16 PM
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Hey are you from town? Hey have I seen you around (if you guys are in a local bar) - Compliment their outfit - Look at the TV and make a comment to them about it. "Looks like the news is crazy these days" or "Do you watch this sport" ​ My experience: Getting numbers from girls and having lengthy 30 minute convos. I never got a gf from it, but they were into the convo and nicely exchanged numbers
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 02:26 AM
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Man: What a hoe Women and blue pilled guys: HEY U CANT SAY THAT OMG FUK U WHAT A BAD MAN DONT EVER CALL ANYONE THAT EVER AGAIN! UGH I HATE MEN. STAAAPPPP SLUT SHAMING!!!!!!! ------------------------------------------------------------------ Woman: What a fuckboi Women and blue pilled guys: OMG YASSSSS GIRLLLLL YASSS HE IS! UGH I HATE MEN!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 02:24 AM
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But oohhhhhhh boy did I ever want him. I understand that in a love way But did you lust for him that much?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 02:23 AM
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Yes, I want to improve it and be super confident with girls and believe that I can get hot ones consistently
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 02:15 AM
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Do you think the hot women want to cheat with hotter guys? Or they look down on their husbands? Or do they lust for their husbands as much as he lusts for them?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 02:09 AM
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Basically protected sex only right. What about oral?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 01:47 AM
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To have a certain bond, friendship and to prevent stds
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 01:47 AM
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Why not?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 01:47 AM
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Me specifically would be dependant on if we have a friendship and find each other attractive, but we aren't romantically compatible
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 01:46 AM
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I want an exclusive fwb to be able to be somewhat important to the person, be their friend, and most importantly to prevent stds
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 01:24 AM
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I guess being rejected doesn't really matter I'm scared if being rejected over and over will ruin my self esteem. Some guys say it helps you to be fearless, but I'm scared what if I become suuuuper insecure
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 01:24 AM
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No I mean a friend I have sex with exclusively A relationship is more deep
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 01:18 AM
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Yeah so based on that, do hot women on average go for average looking guys?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 01:17 AM
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Thank you so much How do I initially meet and attract a super hot girl
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 01:17 AM
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Because I'm scared of heartbreak
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 01:08 AM
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Well same reasons as mine
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 01:07 AM
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I wanna approach them but I'm scared of being rejected
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 01:05 AM
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I want a girl who is 10/10 even if I'm not
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 12:56 AM
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Why is it so hard to get an exclusive fwb without putting in effort I can find women willing to have an fwb without effort, but they always wanna do it with other guys Why is it harder to find a woman who will agree to be exclusive
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 12:55 AM
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Have your fun with the initial lust then move on. Move on to love with the girl? Or move on to someone else?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 12:23 AM
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seemed really hard to deal with How so? ​ Lol any not overweight girl can do this I see, that's true. But don't super hot girls have more access to their celeb crush for example
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 12:20 AM
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Trueeee Aren't women more beautiful though because men don't need to look as good
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 12:18 AM
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Thank youuuu Some women get mad at me when I say that I want a woman that's much hotter then me. It's not like I'm complaining about women dating hotter guys I'm just saying what I want
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 11:28 PM
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How much do men's looks even matter? Most girls look like art, very few men look like art So there is a "scarcity" in male beauty because our gender doesn't really value that as much So wouldn't we see more super hot girls with average dudes?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 11:17 PM
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Ohh trueeee Thank you bro I want to find a girl that's with me while I have no money and is impressed when I do
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 08:51 PM
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I am just being honest I want a hot girlfriend. Being honest is better than lying So I am just wondering how I can get a hot girlfriend who has good morals and an amazing personality Yes, while I am average Again, I am being honest, which is better than me lying
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 08:42 PM
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Thank you So even to get a good girl, i need some money right?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 08:41 PM
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I agree, it's weird However, I am just asking advice on how I can get a woman who is a 10/10 to settle for me I am simply being honest
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 08:38 PM
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Okkk :) But also why can't a 10 just find a dude from instagram. Even if an average guy cold approaches, she'll eventually forget that and if a dude she wants messages her on instagram, she will just go to him
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 08:28 PM
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I don't want my wife to be tempted either. I want her to be obsessed with me Is that possible?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 08:21 PM
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So why invest in marriage if most women will want to cheat?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 08:18 PM
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Will they want me for the MONEY or will they think I'm attractive if I get money
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 08:16 PM
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fighting the fact she have the entire group of guys better than you at the snap of her fingers. So why invest in a woman if she can cheat in a second?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 08:15 PM
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Realistically, why would she? Love, personality, charisma I want to know how to build the charisma for her to chase
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 08:14 PM
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But how can I find one that will
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 08:12 PM
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But some guys can do it. Through friendship or something. So how can I get the chance
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 08:11 PM
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What is a 10/10? Looks? Attitude? Looks, morals and personality ​ This mentality that a woman is going to come pre-packaged and ready to go already kind of tells me you’d fumble the bag anyways. You're right, I always think this. I keep searching for the perfect girl but never find her ​ Start inflicting your will on the world. Get experience. Give no fucks. Cold approach? ​ Thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 08:10 PM
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What about the ones who are hot in real life
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 08:09 PM
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Hey thank you for the reply I do have good morals and my personality would be a 10 for the right girl who likes my personality. Looks wise I am a 6.5 to 7 However, I heard that looks don't matter that much for men, so then I wonder if I can find someone who is a 10/10 in looks Thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 08:04 PM
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I see. Thank you The do women find the actual MAN with high status and money attractive, or just the benefits of the status and money
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 07:59 PM
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How do I get a 10/10 girl in looks, with amazing morals / personality And yeah I understand what you mean
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 07:45 PM
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Because of love Also, I want to know how I can get that
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 07:40 PM
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at least you are honest about it Is that a good thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 07:40 PM
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I wanna find a 10/10 before me and her are 25
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 07:39 PM
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Because of love
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 07:27 PM
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I don't want to looksmatch. I want a hotter girlfriend because I have seen "average guy, 10/10 girl" couples alot
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 07:27 PM
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Why not?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 07:26 PM
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Before it was uni Now I guess it would have to be social media because I live in a suburb and most of them don't leave their homes. Because there are no third spaces in suburbs And I am loosing out to guys on social media. i don't like to post on social media though
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 07:25 PM
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Ohhh truee I didn't think of that Hmm I don't know what to do then. I would ideally want a girlfriend who is a 10/10 in looks, has an amazing personality and amazing morals
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 07:21 PM
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Yeah I keep getting bullied by the women
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 07:16 PM
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Why is there even such a thing as dating down. Where does love factor in?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 07:14 PM
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I wanna work for it
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 07:12 PM
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If I marry a nurse, doctor or any profession where men usually lead the group, will my wife want to cheat?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 07:12 PM
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you'll lack the ability to create desire in her, and she won't be pleasant to be around Could you please elaborate on this. Thank you And honestly, I have a bit of blue pill hope that I can get a super hot gf
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 07:11 PM
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THANK U LE HUG MONSTER hahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 07:09 PM
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OMG then are they just gonna stay single forever? Or settle with a dude and always want to cheat?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 07:00 PM
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Yeah there are ways to monetize YouTube / TikTok accounts
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 06:55 PM
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🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻 So factss After a physical glow up, what are some personality things I can do to get 10/10 women to chase? And yeahhh true, women abroad are the same, it's just that there is less inflation Thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 06:52 PM
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I just want to know what things I can improve on to get a 10/10
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 06:51 PM
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Yeahh I understand But I have seen hot girls with average looking guys. How do they do it?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 06:48 PM
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Because I did that many times, and I got my heart destroyed. So then I realized maybe it's all just a status and looks game. So now I just go for 10s I want love from a 10/10 So how do I do it? Thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 06:45 PM
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What are some attributes I can work on other than wealth and status to get a 10/10
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 06:37 PM
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Trueee Are these women sexually attracted to these men or they just want their power?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 06:35 PM
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Like the super hot instagram ones
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 06:34 PM
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anything in terms of primary attraction. So with my looks at 6.5 or 7, what things can I improve on to get a 10/10? Thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 06:27 PM
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They don’t know what they want but they respond to attraction triggers. Status, social proof , social status, etc. I seee So if she sees that, she will start craving that guy right?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 06:22 PM
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:( I just want love, I don't wanna be loved for my possessions
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 06:17 PM
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Key word: Love Why can't she fall in love?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 06:17 PM
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Yes. But I want to know how I can improve my chances to get a 10/10 Why can't an average guy and 10/10 girl be in love?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 06:16 PM
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Why am I downvoted? I just want to know how I can get a 10/10
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 06:15 PM
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He can. In fact I have many many times deeply. Most men can love like this But so many women date up and break hearts, so I decided to just go for 10s
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 06:14 PM
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Don’t bother with a YouTube channel. I want one to make a business though. Once I make that, will women be attracted?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 06:13 PM
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Ohh okkk Thank you I am funny in my OWN niche way, I am confident in who I am, but I'm not charismatic yet - I'm just nice, and I'm interesting in that I can talk about alot of things But I still don't get women yet
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 06:12 PM
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I just want to learn ways in which I can improve myself to get a 10/10 woman
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 06:10 PM
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But what about love? If we are talking numbers, then relationships are just transactions What about a 10/10 woman falling in love with an average dude I don't want to be settled for. I want a 10/10 woman to chase me
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 06:03 PM
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Ohh yeahhhh Thank you for responding Then is there an issue in the hyper feminist women? I used to think maybe as a man there is something wrong with me and my gender, but then people like you exist who see us as human So now I wonder, is it just the hyper feminist women who are living in their own bubbles? Likewise, there are women hating men too. I'm not just pointing the finger at women
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 05:57 PM
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Thank you What other attributes? Because I'm willing to work on it
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 05:54 PM
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Hmmm What are ways to do this?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 05:53 PM
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Super hot Good morals Amazing personality Lover girl
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 05:52 PM
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Oh okkk So is courage itself attractive in terms of a relationship? Or is it just attractive in a "cool way" ​ And secondly, if I truly make a youtube channel, but I don't do a face reveal (as in, no one knows I'm famous), will a woman find that attractive or nah
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 05:49 PM
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Ohhh that's good to know! There is some hope then :) Do these women ever think of cheating if a higher status man comes along? Thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 05:46 PM
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What about the "average dude, 10/10 girl" trope?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 05:44 PM
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I don't say anything to women who want 10/10 men because it's their choice. They don't bother me, they are polite to me, so why should I judge those women?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 05:43 PM
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I can never do option 2 unless I have no more hope So the option 1 dude doesn't have to be rich / have status? Thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 05:42 PM
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I am 23 and my instagram only has 100 followers. But that's more because I don't like to post anything and I just follow people I know I've noticed some really rich guys who get girls are usually lowkey on social media
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 05:41 PM
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Hmm, in looks I am a 6.5 to 7 / 10. I'm 23 and 5'8. Almost have abs and a good body Secondly, I am trying to get rich. So ambition is there Other than that I am working on being more masculine and assertive ​ What I can offer? Mainly I think love and a best friendship. And some of the above But I really do want a 10/10
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 05:37 PM
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I want a 10/10 woman So get rich? What is status exactly? Also, why is love never mentioned. Why can't a 10/10 woman fall in love with an average dude Thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 05:27 PM
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Yeee like I know some local guys who got tiktok fame and now get all the girls
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 05:26 PM
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Because she can fall in love with me. Lot's of women date down I simply am asking for ways I can strive to attain a 10/10 woman
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 05:25 PM
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Yes I am dreaming But I want to achieve this dream So what are some tips on how to achieve it
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 05:24 PM
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How do I show them that I got $$$ when I get it
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 05:24 PM
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How do I show this off? Social media? Because I need a way to show the woman
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 05:21 PM
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But then why do we not see women date down in the modern world as often?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 05:20 PM
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Thank youuu In terms of the approaching 10/10s, what goes on in a woman's mind when an average dude approaches her? Does she think wow he must be something. I know it works, but why does it work? And secondly, should I pretend I'm famous. Like I can tell a woman "I have a YouTube channel with 10 million subs but I haven't done a face reveal yet so I can't tell you" Thank you!!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 05:15 PM
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Ohh I see So it's more based in the economy right? I'm wondering, do I need to fight two battles: 1 Win over dating 2 Win over the economy Or do I just need to win over the economy Thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 05:08 PM
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but they were top 20% in the high school they and their now wife went to, and they locked her down quick. Ohhh this is interesting So do these kinds of wives then start thinking of other men? Or are they fully in love and only have eyes for their husbands? I'm 23, and a 6.5-7/10 in looks according to women. And I almost have a six pack and I'm 5'8 So is it possible for me to get a 10/10 who will always love me forever and never think of cheating? Because I've noticed women start to cheat in thei…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 05:02 PM
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I don't want to looksmatch
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 05:00 PM
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I see So why is attraction based in need for a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 05:00 PM
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shouldn't expect to date 10/10 people unless they're willing to put in intense effort in doing so. I want to learn how to put in the effort. Sure, I may fail, and it may be hard But I'd really appreciate advice So other than wealth and social status, what else could I do? Thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 04:55 PM
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I don't know if its cope, but some guys have pointed out the "average dude, hot girl" trope And I'm like a 6.5-7, can I date a 10/10 girl?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 04:50 PM
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Everyone knows men's intentions. I'm a man and my intention is true love
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 04:44 PM
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What are some exceptions to hypergamy? Bad boys? Girl-guy know each other since childhood? Guy cold approaches and the girl thinks "Omg this is like a movie, I never get approached"
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 04:35 PM
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Truee. So how can the good food in the buffet present itself?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 05:57 AM
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Oh yeah very very true And if there is a hidden food that is good for her, and she'll like, she'll be too distracted by two factors Her desire for lobster Her thinking everything in the buffet is bad Right?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 03:06 AM
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Non-stop as in: Anytime they open their social media, they might have at least one flirty message a day. Of course if they are easily seen by men on social media. Not small accounts (under 200 followers) Secondly, many men will start friendly, and eventually let out a compliment or flirt Also, lot's of men stare. It's not good to stare because it's not nice, but it's men giving attention regardless ​ What's your opinion?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 02:30 AM
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Okkk. Thank you Should I like put on my social media: "Looking for a serious relationship" Or how so? Because I can't just approach a woman and say "Hey let's date" I gotta start with a platonic friendship
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 02:28 AM
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Cold approaching when the opportunity presents itself yes What do you mean? Bus stop? School? Standing in line? Afternoon walk at the sidewalk? Park?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 02:13 AM
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Largely, regardless of how attractive the guy is, I’d take a compliment and say thank you and move on. The only men who make it really aggravating are the ones who feel entitled to my time and attention - the ones who have to make it creepy or sexual which is simply vile, or the ones who don’t stop at ‘thank you’ and keep pushing. So it's fine to attempt a conversation right? As long as I leave after she shows disinterest. I always keep it friendly as if I'm talking to another man
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 02:09 AM
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But there are women who do things too, and when I mention that to women, they get mad
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 01:54 AM
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I seee Makes sene So if I don't give a woman too much attention, I'll stand out? Or, how can I make my attention stand out amongst everyone?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 10:51 PM
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So how can the vendors the women want stand out?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 10:50 PM
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Ignoring is fine, it’s the silencing (i.e. downvotes until the comment is hidden) that angers me. Yeahhh Once the upvotes are negative, that comment just gets bombarded into being silenced
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 10:48 PM
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Factsss
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 10:23 PM
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Yeahhh I appreciate that this subreddit allows us to say alot of things though without our posts being removed And thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 09:41 PM
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It can put itself in the front instead of hanging back while the sus food is advertising itself. So cold approach? ​ The best any of us can do is learn to identify which is which. Agreed but the dating market's dynamic doesn't really match people well
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 09:37 PM
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What are examples of masculinity And what lack have you noticed Thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 09:36 PM
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Say what you want and ignore them. Yeahh It's so hard to have a proper debate though without the slight bullying
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 09:34 PM
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Like whenever I say good stuff about men, alot of women start generalizing. Then they get annoyed when guys general about girls
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 09:33 PM
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But this subreddit does not represent all men And why wouldn't men have standards? We are equally as human as women
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 09:32 PM
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Why does this sub always become men vs women or red vs blue pill Like I can't even say anything without being bullied by the women and the blue pill guys
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 09:29 PM
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How will I know the car salesman is selling me a car and not tampons again So my analogy asks, how can men prove themselves from afar and be given a chance
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 09:16 PM
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So yeahhh, based on this How can a man with good intentions make this known to a woman? Woman have SO many men talking to them, so they might not even give a good guy a chance even if she's attracted to him If she is talking to 10 attractive guys, 1 of which is a good guy, it's not likely she will end up knowing about the good guy's good intentions as she may stop talking to him early on, or after the other men ruin her trust in men
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 06:54 PM
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Ohhhh Thank you, this is a really good explanation What are some ways to be like those guys who don't give attention freely. Basically make a woman chase. And how can a guy know if he's giving too much
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 06:48 PM
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I got downvoted because I refuted the statement that men would fuck anything and anyone I explained that men have standards
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 06:45 PM
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I'm referring to the quote you gave
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 06:45 PM
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Okk, thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 06:41 PM
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I think it's worse being bad at sex with a girl you are emotionally connected to But again, why is there an implication that men will sleep with anyone I got downvoted because I said men have standards
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 06:39 PM
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Well this can tie into something called preselection I would go to a restaurant based on how the food looks, it's ingredients and reviews However good that looks good and has good ingredients can taste bad So I will use reviews from other people and my experience eating similar food to make a decision Now how does the food / guy get reviews? I don't want to date 20 girls just for the sake of having girls who can "review" me to other girls. I want one girl. Do my reviewers have to be friends?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 06:37 PM
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I see. This makes sense So what is the solution? How does the good looking food that tastes good advertise itself to the woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 06:34 PM
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Most women aren't posting social media thirst traps. But then how will they attract the small percent of men? I promise I'm not being rude, I hope I don't sound rude I'm just wondering, if most women do indeed go for a small percent of men (which is totally fine, it's their choice), why don't they all start posting thirst traps to get those men? Because technically those men will choose a woman who "traps their thirst" right
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 06:31 PM
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Ohhh that is interestinggg And that's good to hear you choose him based on moral and political compatibility Thanks for sharing! :)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 06:29 PM
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Okk, makes sense Thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 06:19 PM
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Noo Like let's say a bunch of guys you don't like are in your DMs like "Heyy you're so pretty" But a guy you like says the same Would you be too used to this compliment?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 06:19 PM
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But I made a good point no? How can we say men would do it with a mcchicken too. I know that's just a metaphor, but I disagree. Why would men not have standards?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 06:14 PM
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Even if the compliment is worded the same as the "thirsty men"
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 06:11 PM
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But that doesn't mean men would have sex with anyone. That can't be. Men are humans just like women
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 06:08 PM
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So when do compliments matter? And could you please elaborate on: There is nothing new about women being attracted to a small percentage of men
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 06:03 PM
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So if a woman keeps experiencing good looking food that taste bad, how will she trust the food that both looks good and tastes good
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 06:02 PM
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Yes I meant the food smells bad. So then is it true?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 06:00 PM
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True 🤔🤔 But for women, those men don't announce their intentions right away It's more like a bunch of nice women who talk to you for a bit and then ask you to be their sugar daddy
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 05:59 PM
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"I don't care if men say I'm hot. Men would fuck a mcchicken." -audriana Lima But then why are there so many virgins? I know so many guys who tell me they are waiting for a woman they have somewhat of an emotional connection to. There are many hookup sites but many men stay away I've actually stopped half way during sex twice and told the girl I want to wait And I didn't want to make out with another woman, and she didn't get shocked. She understood. She never said "Wtf but men love this". She w…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 05:54 PM
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and men never fail to remind women they will fuck almost any willing woman. I don't think this is the case to be honest. Because then we would see less virgin men right I know so many guys who tell me they are waiting for a woman they have somewhat of an emotional connection to. There are many hookup sites but many men stay away I've actually stopped half way during sex twice and told the girl I want to wait And I didn't want to make out with another woman, and she didn't get shocked. She unders…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 05:53 PM
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Okkk thanks! Do you feel butterflies?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 05:53 PM
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You gotta be bored, but I'm bored too but anyway. What do you mean? ​ Women don't want it from random men. They want it from a man they know and deem "strong." How do we meet a woman though without her thinking we are like all of the guys being thirsty in her DMs ​ Most the time, if your not strong to them. How can a man be strong?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 05:35 PM
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This is silly, you’re fine saying someone is pretty Yeah I just wanted to make women think "Wow he's so pure". I thought they would like me more
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 05:13 PM
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Oh this is very interesting Does it benefit the social constructionists (media, government, corporations) if women don't like tame men?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 05:12 AM
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Ohhh I see So how should a man be?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 08:23 PM
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What do women like more?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 08:22 PM
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You follow this advice and keep pretending to be this big bad dude someone will test your jaw for it off the rip. Very true! It's better to avoid conflict and just be strategic right. Because I can NOT fight I live in Toronto, Canada
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 07:43 PM
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But doesn't nature dictate that women should find masculinity attractive, and men should find femininity attractive? Or is masculinity not as attraction to women as femininity is to men?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 07:13 PM
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That's still considered more masculine, but women tend to not like extreme masculinity during times of resource abundance as it's no longer beneficial. What do they want when resources are abundant?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 07:11 PM
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Call me a conspiracy theorist but the government and the media have made being helpless "hip" and "cool" so that men don't rise up. 100% Even something like approaching a cute woman. In real life they don't say anything, but on the internet it seems like if you talk to a woman in real life, she will call the cops
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 07:10 PM
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Oh I don't actually have eye shadow in real life. I just picked a random avatar and didn't realize it's eyeshadow. I thought it was just a blue glowing thing loll
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 07:09 PM
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so men are on a shame tightrope. Yeahh 😅😅
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 06:56 PM
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sounds like you don't express your "masculinity" because you're terrified of other men Both. Afraid men will challenge it and I'll not be able to defend it leading to my embarrassment, and worried women won't find it attractive Any advice for me? Thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 06:41 PM
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Woman can even be aggressive people, their not called Karen’s for their friendly nature Oh yeah very true! I got the words mixed up. Yeah, a Karen is aggressive. ​ These guys are never single and it’s common to even see them doing the school runs in the morning Yess, and I am wondering what does that come from? Is it the controlled violence of the sport? Like their physical abilities etc ​ You are right, aggression is not the same thing. Rugby wouldn't be aggressive in an uncontrolled way, it's …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 06:19 PM
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Competitiveness Would me having a side hustle and working towards a six pack make me competitive? Or is competition more aggressive than that? I'm not actively competing against any other men. I'm simply just working on my own goals without being in competition with anyone. I'm not rich, my side hustle isn't making money, but I'm trying. Does that count? ​ Most men are by and large spinless they're like a blob with no real personality to speak of and are agreeable to anything. This is especially…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 06:08 PM
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Could you please define assertiveness? I'm using my terms wrong ​ Sounds like you are hiding yourself away? I WANT to be assertive, but I don't have it in me. Due to never having practiced it and also the fact that I don't want women to think I'm "bad" ​ Is it because of what you think women want or because you fear rejection? Hmm, I don't fear rejection, I just don't want women to perceive me negatively. As in, "how, what a typical aggressive man". Some media also tells us to not be aggressive,…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 06:04 PM
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No, masculinity is being able to get stuff done in the world and being assertive. I never want to be aggressive. I used the word wrong. By aggressive I meant NOT docile
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 06:01 PM
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Thank youuu And yeahh, when I zoom out, all of the masculine guys are most successful with women. I used to think women are "grossed out" by them, but noo
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 05:59 PM
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Thank you so much. I'll keep this advice in mind I'm just worried about the taking up space thing, what if another man challenges me, then I'll get scared and stop. It's happened once. I was taking up some space, and manspreading, and a random guy pushed my legs and said "Move little b*tch" I just got worried for my safety and didn't say anything
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 05:56 PM
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And as for telling your female friends that you think their friends are attractive I mean talking about women in general. Like this Female friend to me: Hey do you know this actress. She's so pretty Me: Yeahh she's really pretty ​ I'd be ashamed to say that, so I'd just say "Yeah she is an amazing actress". I'd compliment abilities over looks to seem like I'm "good" and not "sexual"
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 05:55 PM
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Yeaahh What exactly is the lack of masculinity? Which exact things should there be? I have noticed men from my parents' and grandparents's generation are super masculine and don't simp, and they never complained about not getting women Guys in GenZ have alot of trouble with this
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 05:49 PM
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do you think weak, meek, shy men are getting the most women? First of all, thank you for replying back properly To answer your question, I do think that. I think that in modern society, women prefer men that are closer to them. More feminine men. NOT men who act like women, but men who are distant from their masculinity
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 05:48 PM
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😭 I just realized that
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 05:46 PM
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What are some healthy ways a guy can be more aggressive / assertive?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 05:45 PM
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Sorry I think I have the wrong definition of aggression. I've never been aggressive. I just meant being assertive and using my strength in sports and in the gym etc And I do not tell my platonic friends they are hot. I don't even think about my platonic female friends as anything more. I am saying, I don't tell my platonic female friends that OTHER girls are hot because I feel ashamed
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 05:42 PM
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Wait women can be sexist AGAINST women?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 05:40 PM
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I've always noticed this. Women say they don't like these men, but they DO But it's crazy how much men are being emasculated :\
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 05:40 PM
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I see. I just thought most women don't like assertiveness and being "strong" etc
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 05:39 PM
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But why did WOMEN like me more when I was sexist against WOMEN
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 05:38 PM
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I just want help to get over this It's not that I don't play the sports I play, but I think they won't like it if it's too "aggresive" I would love to have a huge beard, but I'm worried women will think I'm an "aggresive" man And by the last one, I mean I'm scared to say stuff like "I find her hot etc" to my female friends
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 05:36 PM
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I just want help to get over this It's not that I don't play the sports I play, but I think they won't like it if it's too "aggresive" I would love to have a huge beard, but I'm worried women will think I'm an "aggresive" man And by the last one, I mean I'm scared to say stuff like "I find her hot etc" to my female friends
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 05:36 PM
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Like I'm trying to improve my sexism, but the point is, when I used to be open like "Men are better at this" or "She's a hoe" etc women would be like "Staaappp don't sayyy thattt" and they would like me When I started hiding my thoughts and being more liberal, I started to get friendzoned alot Why is that?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 05:28 PM
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I see So do women like aggresive men?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 05:24 PM
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Yeah, it's so crazy. The only people I can express my masculinity with is other men, but I'm scared to show women because of the "toxic" culture Any advice? Thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 05:24 PM
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I would be assertive, I would proudly tell women about the sports I play, I would keep a beard style I want (not overly groomed), I would be open about my attraction to women Do you have any advice for me? Thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 05:23 PM
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By aggressive I meant like a benevolent aggression. At the gym, being assertive to defend yourself etc
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 05:21 PM
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Ohh yess, I understand That's also why people in highschool are more naive to dating. As we get older, we see that the other gender can be capable of malice too
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 08:07 PM
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Because modern men, having been the first group of men to really be exposed to how women talk and think when men are not around, and to take it seriously, wonder if their girl truly desires them or enjoys having sex with them. Or is she thinking of someone else? Interesting. Could you elaborate
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 07:49 PM
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I think cold approaching is the way Hobbies and friend circles are hard to maintain, and even if you find girls there, there is no guarantee of you two being compatible Also, if you want to date an introvert, you won't find them through hobbies and a social circle - you need to cold approach them to even come into contact Who agrees?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 03:13 AM
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Yeahh some guys 100% think that. Some girls definitely become trapped in relationships and it's horrible Is there a female equivalent of "He'll never leave me because he does X"?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 01:11 AM
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I agree. I think the men who want a woman to only have feminine traits only want that because they believe that she won’t leave him. I personally find it so UNattractive when some women get unhealthily obsessed with their man. And it's also very risky to date such a woman for her own sake What do you think?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 08:26 PM
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I see Why are men more masculine than women usually? Does it boil down to strength and the role of the male homo sapien in society?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 07:53 PM
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What are some feminine traits that are good in men and what are some masculine traits that are good in women?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 07:53 PM
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How many men from how many countries have spoken about this to in real life? Every guy I know. I've only had two guys say they don't care about a woman's body count Other than that, all sorts of guys from ALL sorts of lives: gym bros, "alpha" types, emasculated, nerds, guys who girls love, guys who get no female attention etc ALL told me they want a woman with a low body count
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 07:47 PM
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Well Andrew Tate has alot of young followers But they are still men from different countries Why do they all worship him for the SAME stuff? So I'm wondering, why is there so much similarity
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 07:46 PM
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Wow that makes alot of sense In the end, people can do whatever they want without judgment I have two follow up questions You mention that we will need some sort of reenforced norms, what would these be? Are you referring to law stuff like "don't murder etc" or are you referring to dating stuff like "Don't be promiscuous", "Be monogamous" If a philosophical renaissance does occur, what things do you think men and women will never stop doing? As in, what stuff will always remain as dictated by bi…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 07:43 PM
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I agree with that, but I would say most men have a slight red pill approach no? Because why do guys like Andrew Tate gets followers from all countries?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 07:38 PM
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I agree with that, but I would say most men have a slight red pill approach no? Because why do guys like Andrew Tate gets followers from all countries?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 07:38 PM
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I agree with that, but I would say most men have a slight red pill approach no? Because why do guys like Andrew Tate gets followers from all countries?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 07:38 PM
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I agree with that, but I would say most men have a slight red pill approach no? Because why do guys like Andrew Tate gets followers from all countries?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 07:38 PM
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I'd say all of them can agree on wanting a low body count woman
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 07:31 PM
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Risk taking, aggression etc. they manifest as men being both the highest number of CEOs by far and also being the highest number of homeless by far. This is interesting. There are definitely more homeless men than women too
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 11:19 PM
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While both men and women fare better financially when married, men tend to recover and become successful more after divorce. What's the reason? Is it because a woman can easily find a new man to provide for her? Whereas the man lost a big part of his life, so now he wants to focus on another part: his status aka money? Also essentially men run a broader spectrum. Is this based in men having more opportunity in society? Or is it based on risk taking?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 11:10 PM
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I'm born and raised in Canada. Wbu? And did you expect me to say some other place? Honestly, I think North America still has too many opposite gender misunderstandings
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 10:33 PM
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Trueee Thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 10:18 PM
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Probably not Why can't women do that to the same level?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 06:35 PM
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By success I mean stuff that doesn't rely on the modern economy Like a group of men can venture into the wilderness and create a small settlement But can a group of woman do that to the same level? Or they don't have the same level of biological abilities
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 06:22 PM
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There are, but way less even in free countries. So I am wondering it's that's due to patriarchy or due to some biological difference
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 06:12 PM
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Do you think that we have achieved this already? No we haven't Do you think to achieve this equality, men and women need to share masculine and feminine traits 50/50? Because as of now it seems as if society wants to make men more feminine
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 06:12 PM
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you dont start school until 5. that's a lot of years of being socialized before you even start. Should boys and girls be socialized in the same ways?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 06:04 PM
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There is no way millennial men were raised to be more ambitious than millennial women. Do you think this is a good step forward for humanity? Or should the men have been raised to be more ambitious than the women?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 06:04 PM
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By getting ahead I meant, men can pave their way in the world by being alone, even far from civilization. Like just a group of men can still tend to all their needs and earn the money they need in the world. Even a single man can become the next CEO But I'm wondering do women have the ability to also become rich from scratch while being alone and only having female support?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 06:03 PM
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Also think about how in WWII most of the men went to war, and the jobs in US were done by women. Ohh trueee. Sorry I didn't realize. But yeah when I first learned that, it was very impressive
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 05:58 PM
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Ohh I see, thank you! Do you think men should be 100% masculine and women should be 100% feminine? Or do we both need some aspects of the other thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 05:13 PM
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That being said, your caricature of not even trying to make shelter and find food and water is too much. Women also have an urge to survive and have a brain lol. I see. I imagined that a woman would get too flustered in the wild and would just give up or something. Would a woman be as aggressive about survival as a man? Like if an angry animal showed up, that both a man and woman can fight, would the woman more likely try to escape? Or would she feed into her fear and use it to fight aggressivel…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 02:40 AM
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Ohh I see. Thank you for answering without judging me :) What are some advantages/disadvantages to men taking a feminine role, and women taking a masculine role. I can think of one disadvantage, and that's unused abilities. Men's strength, and women's nurturing nature What could be some advantages? If any? I ask because many women seem to like being masculine
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 12:31 AM
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Ohh I see! Would you say a healthy male-female couple allows for a better division of labour? As long as the gender roles are not oppressing anyone. And while single, both genders can do the same stuff, it's just that humans work better in pairs? The dad does all of the "tough stuff", and the mom raises the kids and does the important but "non-tough stuff"
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 12:27 AM
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With regard to survival skills, it seems likely to be situation dependent. Young males appear to have a wired predispostion for exploring - they roam further, build forts (yes, that is an observed phenomenon), and organize into hierarchical groups. So, a group of coordinated men are likely better suilted for a difficult expedition, but when surviving as part of the tribe, social skills would serve women well. Why do they do this more? Without gender roles, would girls also do this?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 10:55 PM
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And do you wonder why men sometimes get flustered in survival situations? They do but not as often as women. That's a fact, usually women get more flustered Men would always do what exactly? They would do the heavy lifting, chopping wood, fighting dangerous animals etc
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 10:46 PM
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I understand. Thank you for your reply For number 4, do you think men are NATURALLY better at dealing without of moving parts and creating logistics to handle it all. Like creating a shipping company, make war plans, marketing plans etc? As for you saying the hunt for resources is not feminine. If a woman was single and could not rely on anyone to gather her resources, would she be able to do it herself as well as a man could? Finally, I understand that you practice wilderness survival (which is…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 10:29 PM
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I have noticed this too But why are we men just better at thinking about the tasks and achievements we need to accomplish? Does it boil down to how society defines gender roles? Men are expected to pave their own way in the world, whereas a woman is expected to be closer to the family and foster relationships Or is it in our biology like testosterone or something? Thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 10:25 PM
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Frankly, nobody has. But women can survive in dire conditions, see Juliane Koepcke Why don't humans have them naturally?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 10:22 PM
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But in all seriousness, why don't humans have natural wilderness survival skills?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 10:22 PM
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I'm just wondering, why do sometimes women get flustered in survival situations? Is it because they never got that training because men would always do it?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 10:21 PM
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A society full of women would collapse and die very quickly. No one to do any underwater welding, heavy lifting, dangerous jobs, and protection. That sounds like a literal hell. What would cause women to not want to do those things? Is it based on minimum strength requirements? ​ ​ I have a baby to take care of and dinner to get on the table. My husband can work that stuff out. Do you think as a woman you would find strategizing and stuff more difficult compared to your husband, or just that as …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 10:20 PM
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Ohh I understand. Thanks! What about women wanting to inflict violence? Nothing crazy, but more like school yard violence. E.g. "Let's beat her up" etc And what about survival skills in the wild? Do you think a woman can survive in the wild without a man by her side? Or as well as a man? Thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 10:16 PM
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Thank you so much for answering!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 10:09 PM
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Yeah I understand that completely Sorry you have to face that
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 07:53 PM
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What if two men are walking towards someone versus two women
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 07:40 PM
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Ohh I understand Because he might stare in a weird way right?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 07:39 PM
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your assumption that a woman would just roll over and die in the wilderness instead of trying to survive which is a very basic instinct of all animals, not just humans. Could you elaborate on this please. Thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 07:28 PM
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i dont even go to a male cashier. What do you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 07:27 PM
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No I mean if a group is walking towards one single person. Expressionless Is it more scary if they are men or women
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 07:27 PM
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I see, this is interesting Why don't men do silent acts of heroism? Is it based in praise and pride?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 07:19 PM
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1) Why are men less allergic to responsibility? Is it due to how society is structured? Or something biological? 2) How would a woman's inflated ego manifest itself? Would she seek to hurt those who offend her? Or what? 3) Do women think of violence as a good punishment LESS because they are weaker than men? Or is it some other reason? 4) Are women truly as smart as men? Like can a man and a woman learn the same stuff to the same capacity? Or would men on average always be a few percent better? …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 07:16 PM
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2) You mention women would rather have a husband who can do things. Does that come down to nature or nurture? 4) What's the reason women are worse at strategy and long term planning? Also thank you for the rest of your answers. Also, I'll watch that video, seems interesting!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 07:13 PM
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Thank you so much for answering! ​ #1 Does women being less competitive statistically boil down to nature or nurture? #4 Why are less women interested in those things? #5 What different troubles? ​ Thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 07:10 PM
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I see, thank you! Based on how our society is: What would be more scary to see, a large group of women walking towards someone, or a large group of men walking towards someone?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 05:58 PM
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I am genuinely trying to learn about how big the gap truly is between men and women. Because in animal species, it seems as if the men and women can be equally strong, but patriarchy is very easy in humans because men are stronger So I am trying to understand
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 05:52 PM
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That's facts 😭 I need some more approach motivation pleasee Thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 05:09 AM
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I know a girl who works in a woman dominated workplace. She told me other than apps she has no chance in dating But what if someone doesn't want to use apps?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 12:44 AM
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Yess I understand 100% Those women don't take accountability. They would ghost a guy in a second for something way less than hygiene, but when we guys have legit concerns like hygiene, those women go crazy
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 10:31 PM
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I understand. Thank you How do introvert girls find guys then?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 10:02 PM
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Yess exactly Entitled women these days think only they can have standards They think that any man that dares to leave them is a horrible person We men have equally complicated needs too in a relationship, but these women think that all we care about is one thing And if a woman is heartbroken, all of society will support her and say: "It's okay, that's how these men are" Also, if a woman is seen crying over relationship issues SHE caused, society will first assume that the guy did something
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 09:22 PM
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That's true, because a truly bad man would trick a girl with a fake relationship just to get sex. But pump and dumps at least don't string along a girl for a long time only to leave her heartbroken. He just realizes he's not compatible with the girl Right?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 07:57 PM
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What about a university campus? And what counts as an inappropriate setting? Thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 07:24 PM
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Yeah. I've noticed "fuckbois" are more protective of their sisters, than non-fuckbois
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 05:47 PM
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What's been the case? Men thinking other men are mostly good? Or men thinking other men are mostly bad?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 05:46 PM
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I see. Thank you I feel like a "follower" or "worshipper" when I approach girls. But do most girls think that?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 05:41 PM
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Very true! How attractive do girls find being blunt?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 05:41 PM
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I see. So confidence fuels the ability to talk to a woman in the first place? Is that all to it? I heard a theory that confident men are seen as competent because they "must have something going for them". And biologically women seek competent men. But I don't know how deep the "Biology-Pill" is haha. What do you think? Thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 01:20 AM
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Ohhh that makes sense So confidence is something attractive that can lead to romantic attraction? Like it's a plus point in a guy, which can act as the final straw in a woman finding him romantically attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 01:08 AM
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entertaining if men just dropped their " women good and men bad " mentality . You're right It feels like women hate men, and it's hard to get out of my head
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 12:58 AM
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