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| 4 | We should start sexualizing menI think it is you who doesn't understand. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/25 02:01 AM |
| 9 | We should start sexualizing menI disagree. A very large number of men want to be sexualized, myself included. I want to feel like I have some sexual worth instead feeling like an asexual blob creature, because that's how I'm viewed by women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/25 01:51 AM |
| 18 | We should start sexualizing menWomen already sexualize men, the 5% that they are attracted to. A good question would be how do you get women to WANT to sexualize a lot more men? What can men do to become more sexually desired? I don't think there is anything you can do. Men aren't meant to be the role of being desired. They are the ones who do the desiring and make women feel wanted and special. Most men will never be seen as worthy enough to be more desired and sexualized because we aren't designed that way. Depressing, but … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/25 01:49 AM |
| 2 | The nice guy does deserve to finish lastMy guy, you are wasting your brain cells on this dude. Please stop. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/25 12:35 AM |
| 1 | The nice guy does deserve to finish last/thread No more is needed to be said. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/25 12:34 AM |
| 1 | The nice guy does deserve to finish lastI think people who are obsessed with this trope are absolutely insane, which seems like the whole fucking internet at this point. No one is nice or kind 24/7. No one is an angel. Everyone messes up sometimes. Everyone has flaws. Men who call themselves nice(does anyone actually do this anymore or is everyone just stuck in the 90s/2000s and imagining this shit up) most likely have listened to women and ignorant men who think they "lucked out" with their partners and have been led astray with shit… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/25 12:30 AM |
| 2 | Do you actually NEVER get laid or approached, or are you exaggerating?I did exactly this for a whole year. Some weeks, I went out 5 or 6 times, and it did burn me out in the end. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/25 12:04 AM |
| 2 | Do you actually NEVER get laid or approached, or are you exaggerating?I've done the same. Never been approached or had women interested in me. All men were not created equal. Don't know why people can't accept that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/25 12:04 AM |
| -1 | Do you actually NEVER get laid or approached, or are you exaggerating?No, I am a man. A non-white man at that. Those things do not happen to me. Why? Because I'm not a woman, aka the sexual selector. I have no power, I do not get sexually objectified, I do not get compliments. I am not the prize, women are. I've learned that this is how it works, has always worked in the past, and will continue to work forever. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/25 12:01 AM |
| 4 | Do you actually NEVER get laid or approached, or are you exaggerating?“Women would rather fuck dogs than average men” True for most men. https://imgur.com/a/q6yI78E Women are only attracted to 5-20% of men” This is true. Those men don't necessarily have to be "chads", they could be the drug dealer down the street or the average guy who is the manager at starbucks. They just happen to have some factors that most other men don't have that they are attracted to. “You gotta be 666” I don't think so. “At least women have options. Men have none” This is true. Women are … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/25 11:23 PM |
| 3 | Do you actually NEVER get laid or approached, or are you exaggerating?just from ppl dm-ing me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/25 10:27 PM |
| – | Women preach “confidence” but get annoyed when average men think they have a chance with themI do. Other races don't exist to you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/25 03:00 AM |
| – | Women preach “confidence” but get annoyed when average men think they have a chance with themI'm not bald or balding. But you're fat, do better. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/25 02:59 AM |
| – | Women preach “confidence” but get annoyed when average men think they have a chance with themBrunette and blonde are indicators of white people. No one is referring to a hispanic, black, indian, or asian woman as brunette or blonde. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/25 02:58 AM |
| – | Women preach “confidence” but get annoyed when average men think they have a chance with themYou choose to be fat. You don't need 1 meal a day, you eat too many calories. 3k calories a day is too much. Men don't choose to be bald and a hair transplant is a lot more expensive than eating less and exercising. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/25 02:57 AM |
| – | Women preach “confidence” but get annoyed when average men think they have a chance with themDo you only imagine white people? Other races exist too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/25 02:44 AM |
| – | Women preach “confidence” but get annoyed when average men think they have a chance with themI am 10 pounds overweight That's your choice though. You choose to be fat and tou choose to date balding men who can’t even help that they are balding. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/25 02:43 AM |
| – | Men being single isn't a problem to be solvedThey are complaining bc a man, the sex they claim to be attracted to, said she has a pretty mouth. Imagine a man getting pissed off at a woman for saying that to him. People would look at him like he's crazy. But for some reason...that's considered disrespectful if a man says it to a woman? Aesexual lesbians. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/25 02:41 PM |
| – | Men being single isn't a problem to be solvedYour fictional men end up hurting you, too. Have fun with that fallout. And if most men have a shit personality, then check your shoes. It's you who's carrying around the shit. Aka you have a shit personality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/25 07:50 AM |
| – | Men being single isn't a problem to be solvedWomen need to learn that they aren't attracted to men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/25 07:15 AM |
| – | Men being single isn't a problem to be solvedI'd be happy if a woman told me that. And I'm not imagining an attractive woman either. Different worlds. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/25 07:14 AM |
| – | Men being single isn't a problem to be solvedit's generally unwanted Because you're not attracted to most of us. If it was from the small percentage of guys you're attracted to, you'd be jumping for joy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/25 07:13 AM |
| – | Men being single isn't a problem to be solvedWhy cant men choose to do the same thing? Because we aren't asexual lesbians like most women are. And women get insanely more validation and attention than men do. That's why. I wish I could post a pic of myself and have women thirsting after me, confirming that I'm at least worth mating with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/25 07:08 AM |
| – | How would you feel if your now boyfriend had masturbated to online pictures of you, before you got together?No love for freaky girls from the small amount of men you're attracted to FTFY | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/25 12:38 PM |
| 3 | Where are all these virgin men?Yep. I used to go out and talk to/ask out women but got tired of rejection, so I'm perma at home now, virgin-ing it up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/25 12:01 PM |
| 3 | Where are all these virgin men?To get our hopes up, what else | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/25 11:58 AM |
| 4 | Where are all these virgin men?You already know there's an assload of us over on r/virgin and r/virginityexchange. Most of us aren't lying. Idk that for a fact but just trust me bro 😇👼. At least I'm not lying about my situation... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/25 11:58 AM |
| 1 | Where are all these virgin men?You could be that one he finds. You made the post asking where are the virgin men. Don't blueball the man now after he revealed himself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/25 11:53 AM |
| – | How does it feel like to be hit on/approached by a creepy guy?I get cold approached quite frequently when I’m out alone or with just my kids and I don’t really care, I just let them know I’m taken and they usually take it fine, the ones that persist can be annoying but overall they’re harmless. How does it feel to know there are a lot of men who are attracted to you and desire you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/25 02:37 AM |
| – | It is entirely on men to meet women’s expectations. Women should not have to lower their standardsHave you(you in general, not actually you) tried not being attracted to psychopaths just because they make you feel all tingly inside? It's on you for who you chose. Of course you're damned if you choose a bad partner. Of course you're damned if you settle for a guy you never would have looked at 5 or 10 year's ago. Having "different standards" for different people is not okay. The choice is to be consistent and not make people feel like they are 2nd, 4th, or 10th choice. You have all the power … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/25 09:28 AM |
| 1 | Men who can’t find a girlfriend have simply not dropped their standards enoughThat's how you feel about most men though because you're picky as fuck. Very big difference between how men feel about women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/25 09:20 AM |
| 4 | CMV: Consent is sexyIt's not "simply reading the room". It's playing russian roulette. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/25 12:46 AM |
| 0 | There’s no such thing as an unreasonable standard or preference. Your objective level is who is buying what you’re selling. You cannot deem what makes somebody’s standards unreasonableSo since only morbidly obese women have been interested in me, and women who look better than them/take better care if themselves have always rejected me, that means morbidly obese women are my level? And is that regardless of how much self-improvement I've done but the result remains the same? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/25 06:09 PM |
| 2 | There’s no such thing as an unreasonable standard or preference. Your objective level is who is buying what you’re selling. You cannot deem what makes somebody’s standards unreasonableSo if I'm an average man who goes after average women but always get rejected by them, then that means I'm actually below average or lower? No matter if other people say I look average? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/25 06:03 PM |
| 2 | What do you think of women who ask men out, propose to men and pay for men in the first dates or in all dates?Does that mean men are desperate since they have to make the first move and women don't like the man enough? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/25 11:56 PM |
| 5 | Men who can’t find a girlfriend have simply not dropped their standards enoughI have tried enough, and I'm not socially awkward: https://www.reddit.com/u/ConsistentPieGuy/s/r8ilAL9II5 Morbidly obese women are my level. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/25 08:56 AM |
| 1 | What do you think of women who ask men out, propose to men and pay for men in the first dates or in all dates?It's fine that you don't care. I do, though, so that's why I called you out. I already know you don't care, that's why you're openly biased lmao. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/25 05:16 AM |
| 1 | What do you think of women who ask men out, propose to men and pay for men in the first dates or in all dates?Then those guys are stupid. That's simply the conclusion you come to, just like I did. Doesn't mean you have to stop doing what you did. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/25 05:15 AM |
| 1 | What do you think of women who ask men out, propose to men and pay for men in the first dates or in all dates?You commonly use passive aggression as a deflection when you've been called out, and it gets real old. Trying to live up to your flair, I guess. I'll give you effort points for that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/25 05:13 AM |
| 2 | What do you think of women who ask men out, propose to men and pay for men in the first dates or in all dates?You keep replying this exact thing to others in this comment thread, but the consensus is still the same: You are biased. That's exactly what is gathered from your original comment. You're not really saying anything at all with "I hate that people do xyz, but whatever floats their boat". Like okay? You still have a bias towards it. This is about you because you said "I loathe". I'm not triggered, I'm simply pointing out that you're biased. Call it whatever you like, though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/25 05:09 AM |
| 2 | Men who can’t find a girlfriend have simply not dropped their standards enoughSo, my league is morbidly obese women who are either childless or single moms, regardless of what I look like, my self-improvement, and life situation? Because those are the only people who've ever made their attraction known to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/25 05:04 AM |
| 2 | Men who can’t find a girlfriend have simply not dropped their standards enoughI don't see FA men in those communities talking about or implying that they ignore their looksmatches. The most important thing, though, is that women rarely approach men or give attention to men in the first place, so there's nothing to ignore. But as I've done before, I can show visual proof of women doing so. It's hard to find a man "ignoring" a woman who's into him because it's very uncommon. The gender reverse isn't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/25 05:00 AM |
| 1 | Men who can’t find a girlfriend have simply not dropped their standards enoughDoes that actually mean he is a bad driver or just a bad driver in the eyes of other humans? 5 inconveniences(be it financially, physical harm or death) to another human out of 1,000 is too many? If so, does that mean other people's opinion of you is what matters the most, regardless of the situation or actual impact? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/25 04:56 AM |
| 1 | Men who can’t find a girlfriend have simply not dropped their standards enoughThis is a woman's freshly made account larping as a male. Even blue pilled men don't say this. This is just a classic take from a woman who hates men. Most likely, your other account is a user of this subreddit or adjacent subreddits. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/25 04:50 AM |
| 1 | Men who can’t find a girlfriend have simply not dropped their standards enoughWhy is it not insane? Or are you asking out of genuine curiousity because you actually don't know? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/25 04:45 AM |
| 1 | Men who can’t find a girlfriend have simply not dropped their standards enoughHonestly, though, I don’t think most of these guys approach women at all. Why did you say this? Should men approach women and abide by gender roles as if women are prizes to go after? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/25 04:43 AM |
| 0 | Men who can’t find a girlfriend have simply not dropped their standards enoughThat's fine, as long as she finds attractive some of the men on her level. If she doesn't, then that means she has high standards. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/25 04:34 AM |
| 0 | Men who can’t find a girlfriend have simply not dropped their standards enoughDrop my standards to who? Because the next level is morbidly obese women who are sometimes single moms. Are you telling me I have to date morbidly obese women who may or may not be single moms? Can you honestly say with a straight face that those people are my match? Because if that's the world truth, then I'll gladly either stay single forever like I have been all my life or commit sudoku. I think it's realistic to want average women to be attracted to me. I'm an average man. I swiped on averag… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/25 04:26 AM |
| 1 | What do you think of women who ask men out, propose to men and pay for men in the first dates or in all dates?Damned if you do, damned if you don’t. How would you be damned if you communicate that you enjoyed your time with them and want a second date with them? Wouldn't that negate that first signal? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/25 04:21 AM |
| 1 | What do you think of women who ask men out, propose to men and pay for men in the first dates or in all dates?I wouldn’t propose to a man. How come? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/25 04:19 AM |
| 1 | What do you think of women who ask men out, propose to men and pay for men in the first dates or in all dates?I personally don't think that I could propose to a man. Why is that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/25 04:18 AM |
| 8 | What do you think of women who ask men out, propose to men and pay for men in the first dates or in all dates?gave her 14 orgasms in one night. 8 in another one. 7 in another one. I showed her a lot of physical love and intimacy. Understand her and etc etc. she claims I changed her life and showed her etc | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/25 04:17 AM |
| 2 | What do you think of women who ask men out, propose to men and pay for men in the first dates or in all dates?Why is it not your cup of tea? Why do you prefer to pay on the first date? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/25 04:12 AM |
| 2 | What do you think of women who ask men out, propose to men and pay for men in the first dates or in all dates?Irrelevant. You're clearly biased and want men to "rummage on the ground begging" and that women are above that, regardless of their attire. You can't mask your gender role biases with a thin veil like that. It doesn't work. But I could give you some tips if you want. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/25 04:11 AM |
| 1 | What do you think of women who ask men out, propose to men and pay for men in the first dates or in all dates?What were some of the circumstances/situations in which they made the first move? How did this come about? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/25 04:08 AM |
| 2 | What do you think of women who ask men out, propose to men and pay for men in the first dates or in all dates?I would never ask a man out though. Why? I lowkey look down on women who make the first move. Why? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/25 04:07 AM |
| 8 | What do you think of women who ask men out, propose to men and pay for men in the first dates or in all dates?Hmm...what dynamic does this remind me of? Oh yeah, 99% of heterosexual couples because most of them involve a passive woman who doesn't like the man a lot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/25 04:05 AM |
| -1 | Women are upset and hypocritical about men having access to sexual content because it threatens their power dynamicsThey aren't correct at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/25 10:06 AM |
| -3 | Women are upset and hypocritical about men having access to sexual content because it threatens their power dynamicsBeing a fellow woman doesn't make them correct. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/25 06:03 AM |
| 2 | Porn watching is more morally wrong in men than it is in womenIf it's morally wrong to watch porn, then give me some pussy. Because no pussy is the reason I watch porn. If you don't want to do that, then it's morally wrong for you to complain while doing nothing to give me a different outlet for sexual needs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/25 05:58 AM |
| 92 | Men trying to make connections should stop caring about potentially offending women.I don't want to boost women's ego or give them the satisfaction of rejecting me for the benefit of their own self-esteem. I'm done approaching women. They have never made me feel desirable, so why should I keep doing it for them? That decision means I'll be alone forever, and atp...it's whatever. So sick of dating culture revolving around women and how much of a prize they are compared to us. Everything is all about how they feel and making them comfortable, and safe, and dancing like a monkey f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/25 08:56 PM |
| 1 | Men need to stop chasing women.You're right. Women will always have mating power over men. We just create fantasies like this wishing the status quo could change for us, but we all know it won't ever change. Depressing, really. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/25 07:16 AM |
| 1 | Men need to stop chasing women.She's right, despite her ego and arrogance. She knows she has all the power over men with her pussy so she can say things like that and it not affect her. Because enough men will continue to be hypnotized by her regardless. We've always been fucked. Technology has just made the scale of how fucked we are more fathomable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/25 07:12 AM |
| 1 | Men need to stop chasing women.Women are the prizes and men are disposable monkeys who dance for them. What else is new. It'll never end, so your post is pointless and a fantasy. Men are humans, humans are animals, and animals are slaves to their biology. Women will ALWAYS have all the power when it comes to mating and nothing will EVER change that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/25 07:08 AM |
| – | Men who complain about being friendzoned mostly just find women boring and annoyingThis is called female entitlement. If you want to play this game, her rejecting him means she doesn't care about his happiness either. Turns out, both people want different things but you want one party get over their emotional pain and put aside their wants, and put the wants of the other person first, self-sacrifice essentially. And have the other party...do nothing. Which is typical for a woman to want from a man. Can't even be surprised anymore at the selfishness anymore. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/25 09:14 PM |
| 0 | Do you think men who can’t attract women are losers?Yes I did. Why did you say this anyway? Idk, I'm just being mean lately. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/25 11:37 AM |
| 0 | Having dysfunctional parents growing up, might’ve affected your future dating prospects.Some people struggle a lot more than others, and it's mostly men. Idc that you want steak and asparagus, but only salmon and broccoli are available. I'm just wanting some damn french fries! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/25 09:50 AM |
| 1 | Do you think men who can’t attract women are losers?I know a guy who is the sweetest person and would make a lovely partner Have you tried to date him yourself or do you have a reason that prevents that, such as already being in a relationship? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/25 05:04 AM |
| 0 | Do you think men who can’t attract women are losers?Hit dogs sure hollar, though. You can always tell when it's a black woman if she says this because only BW use this stereotypical, lame ass line. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/25 04:59 AM |
| 3 | Having dysfunctional parents growing up, might’ve affected your future dating prospects.Most women don't have to put in half the effort I have to get attention(which I still don't get btw) just from even posting a pic online, let alone getting likes and matches, dms from men, men approaching them irl. They get enough validation to last 5 lifetimes. maybe he should do things that are attention worthy. Be a jester/clown, we know. And it absolutely matters on who is suffering the most. I refuse to let women or men downplay the struggles of men and act as if it's no different for women… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/25 03:57 AM |
| 3 | Does it matter what kind of porn a guy watches?When you get a boyfriend, he will watch all types of women in porn and you'll never know about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/25 11:08 PM |
| 2 | Red pillers don't understand the "female gaze" at allAgain, your words don't matter. We will just watch what you do because we've heard it all before, many times. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/25 11:03 PM |
| 1 | Men would not make the decisions they want women to make if they were us.Wouldn't it be better to get beaten up by a woman than a man? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/25 10:58 PM |
| 0 | Men would not make the decisions they want women to make if they were us.If I were a rich person instead of in my position now, I'd take full advantage of my privilege. There's nothing shocking about that. Unprivileged people are jealous of privileged people, who knew... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/25 10:57 PM |
| 1 | The reason why some people decry OF is the same reason why I'd never date I guy if I knew he watches OF.That's valid and I think no woman should date a guy who pays for onlyfans. But it's also valid to say that a man shouldn't date a woman who uses the word "ick". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/25 10:54 PM |
| – | Would you rather date an extremely hot woman who posts a lot of provocative photos on social media, or a less attractive woman with zero social media presence?A less attractive woman with zero social media presence. Question is...what's the understanding of "less attractive". Like in comparison to the extremely hot woman? If that's the case, then the less attractive woman could just be hot instead of extremely hot. Or above average. Or average. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/25 10:51 PM |
| 0 | Would you describe yourself as an autosexual?Most women are narcissistic so yes, this is the case for them. Their sexuality is centered around being praised, admired, catered to, how you make them feel. They don't get turned on unless you make them feel hot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/25 10:49 PM |
| 1 | Modern men hate women so unreasonably considering they have literally 0 reason to interact with us if they don't want to.You're the definition of the pikachu face meme. It's so funny. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/25 09:06 PM |
| 1 | Modern men hate women so unreasonably considering they have literally 0 reason to interact with us if they don't want to.And you deserve to keep having nightmares of some homeless man licking his lips and touching you. Looking forward to reading the outcome of that in your next post! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/25 08:24 PM |
| 4 | Modern men hate women so unreasonably considering they have literally 0 reason to interact with us if they don't want to.This person has significant issues where they don't understand the definition of hate and they spend all their time taking screenshots for online arguments. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/25 08:04 PM |
| 0 | Modern men hate women so unreasonably considering they have literally 0 reason to interact with us if they don't want to.Again, it never happened to you. For you to make such an emotionally charged, out of touch post about mean internet comments, I'd say you're much worse off than most people here. Sum wrong w u 2. Hope 4u to git bedder ❤️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/25 08:01 PM |
| – | Modern men hate women so unreasonably considering they have literally 0 reason to interact with us if they don't want to.You can't read for shit, wow. I said "dumbass comments". Are you a comment or are you a human? Choose one. It's easy to find many comments where you have broken the rules but most of us aren't whiny kids who run to their parents every 5 seconds. If you think it's against the rule, then report me instead of being a brat about it. You are a grown adult, at least act like it for one day. And saying ugly women don't want ugly men isn't hatred. The fact is that the reverse is true. You have a whole p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/25 07:55 PM |
| 2 | Modern men hate women so unreasonably considering they have literally 0 reason to interact with us if they don't want to.That never happened to you. Otherwise, you'd have included it in in your OP. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/25 07:48 PM |
| – | Modern men hate women so unreasonably considering they have literally 0 reason to interact with us if they don't want to.We can post little dumbass screenshots too. You already know I'm ready anytime, any day to shut you up and have in the past. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/25 07:42 PM |
| 3 | Modern men hate women so unreasonably considering they have literally 0 reason to interact with us if they don't want to."No longer" when did men of today ever do that to begin with? This argument makes no logical sense and it's ridiculous everytime it's said. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/25 07:37 PM |
| 7 | Modern men hate women so unreasonably considering they have literally 0 reason to interact with us if they don't want to.its literally just the average man when given the opportunity of anonymity, nice cope tho. You assume this because you hate men yourself. "Man in the mirror" moment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/25 07:36 PM |
| 4 | Modern men hate women so unreasonably considering they have literally 0 reason to interact with us if they don't want to.Modern men hate women so unreasonably Every day I make the mistake of getting online Lol how about you put the phone down and go outside to the real world. You know, the one that actually matters? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/25 07:34 PM |
| – | Men need to work on being attractive as much as women doI'm not dating morbidly obese women. That's not being picky. You people are crazy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/25 07:29 PM |
| 1 | Women advise men to be confident, but also get annoyed if a guy has the audacity to think he has a chance with themI didn't say you said it. Did you not see the question mark or something...because that's what makes it a question. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/25 10:56 AM |
| – | Men need to work on being attractive as much as women doYeah I've stopped trying to date since 8 months and just play games, go to the gym, go for walks at night, and go to therapy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/25 06:47 AM |
| – | Men need to work on being attractive as much as women doWell, at least I can agree with you on this. Surprising though, coming from a woman herself. You sure you aren't a man? Either way, if I’m a man, I wouldn’t trust what women say they like but work on improving myself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/25 06:45 AM |
| 3 | Women advise men to be confident, but also get annoyed if a guy has the audacity to think he has a chance with themSo basically he endured so much rejection and pain until he find a woman who said yes? Do you think it's reasonable to that every man should put himself through this, even knowing that all men aren't created equal? That includes mental health/toughness, varying personalities, etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/25 06:43 AM |
| 1 | Women advise men to be confident, but also get annoyed if a guy has the audacity to think he has a chance with themGo tell this to women who bring up rape and murder statistics 3 times a week. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/25 06:38 AM |
| 1 | Women advise men to be confident, but also get annoyed if a guy has the audacity to think he has a chance with themCan all men do that though? We aren't all 5"11, 220lbs of muscle. A lot of us are 140 lbs, 5'10. And less than that too. Do they really perceive every single one of us as a nuclear threat to their safety? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/25 06:36 AM |
| – | Men need to work on being attractive as much as women doWell I never mentioned attractive women. And I'm not referring to them. Other women exist too, like average and above avg women. And they will never make the first move either, unless you're hot. But again, that's the problem as he said. Women aren't doing those things to him, and that's why he said improving his looks didn't help. Same thing for me tbh. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/25 06:28 AM |
| – | Men need to work on being attractive as much as women doPerhaps. I just think it's unfair that I do all this shit to become an average looking man, and still get...shit. I just want to date average women, don't see why that's so much to ask for. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/25 06:25 AM |
| – | Men need to work on being attractive as much as women doBecause women on the internet en masse say they prefer dad bod, don't care much about muscles, and "personality matters so much more". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/25 06:20 AM |
| – | Men need to work on being attractive as much as women doHave done all of this and the only women IRL who have shown interest in me were 2 morbidly obese girls when I was 19, and a morbidly obese, 26 yr old, single mom when I was 20. It's the honest truth and I wish I were lying. I can get up to 8 or 9 matches on an app like FacebookDating, tinder, badoo, and OKC the first few days of making an account if I'm lucky. I've used the Hiki App for neurodivergent and autistic people and admittedly I've had the most success in terms of numbers on that app an… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/25 05:45 AM |
| – | Men need to work on being attractive as much as women doDark and handsome aka white and handsome. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/25 05:04 AM |
| – | Men need to work on being attractive as much as women doI'm genuinely confused on how this would affect women being attracted to him though. Women don't approach us and rarely show signs of interest. Even if we want certain types of women, how would anyone inherently know that without us telling them? If they were attracted, at least some would show signs. Unless the implication is that he is lying and just doesn't want the women who have shown interest in him? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/25 04:44 AM |
| 3 | When you ask a girl out in Social Circle, you're not just risking rejection. You're risking your reputationHalf the people here fit that description. You can tell by the comments. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/25 02:27 AM |
| 3 | CMV: Men should listen to women's desires and stop prioritizing decency in datingI've never dated anyone before, but I've sung to many women that I was in contact with longer term(like longer than 2 or 3 weeks of knowing them ig). From my perspective, it never influenced their attraction/willingness to be with me. When I had my first job at a restaurant as a teenager/very early 20s, a lot of my coworkers knew I could sing well, especially the female servers. And including one that I asked out. It didn't affect her lack of attraction for me. Open mic nights, karaoke, etc. Wom… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/25 05:35 AM |
| 2 | CMV: Men should listen to women's desires and stop prioritizing decency in datingThis is why men like Chris Brown are still adored by thousands of women, despite having previously abused women- men like him are what makes them wet. Chris brown has good genetics of a nice face, tall, a great singing voice, and years of validation and attention from women. There's no way I could become the non-celebrity version of him. The best I can do is having a nice singing voice myself, and that has never benefitted me with women. Ever. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/25 03:55 AM |
| 1 | When a man asks, “What do you bring to the table?” I immediately get the ick.Men are natural-born providers for women, full stop If you can come up with biological research that without a doubt backs this claim, I will fold. Until then, this mentality gives me the ick. People telling me what I'm supposed to naturally be without any concrete evidence is insulting. That's one thing I talk about with my therapist, the expectations placed on me as a man, by women and men alike. My "role", per se. But if you can show me scientific evidence that shows men are born to be provid… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/25 03:46 AM |
| 1 | If you don’t see the point in having female friends, you’d absolutely despise dating themDo you ever walk them to their car? Or whatever the gendered equivalent of that is? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/25 10:08 AM |
| 1 | If you don’t see the point in having female friends, you’d absolutely despise dating themMen want romantic relationships. Did you forget that exists and is a core and very important part of the human experience? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/25 10:07 AM |
| 3 | If you don’t see the point in having female friends, you’d absolutely despise dating themBut going out of your way to explicitly find female friends that are purely platonic is silly. I've found it's much harder and less natural to develop organic friendships with women who are also single themselves. How in the hell are you even supposed to do this, is my question. Just get some female friends bro! Sure I will, if they stop thinking every man wants to sleep with them or date them when he asks to hang out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/25 10:05 AM |
| 1 | If you don’t see the point in having female friends, you’d absolutely despise dating themDo you think this is the reason why all men who are struggling are struggling or just some? It sounds like you think it's the former. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/25 10:00 AM |
| 7 | If you don’t see the point in having female friends, you’d absolutely despise dating themMaking female friends is a lot harder than making male friends. You can hang out with a guy one on one, you can't do that with a woman without her assuming you want her pussy or to be your girlfriend. Imagine having to preface "Hey X, you seems pretty chill, want to hang out sometime? Totally platonically btw, I'm not trying to hit on you I promise!" You can't just say you have to come across as being genuine because that's a crock of horse crap when women constantly complain about men pretendin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/25 09:56 AM |
| 1 | If you don’t see the point in having female friends, you’d absolutely despise dating themWomen say things like this, but women don't make it easy to befriend them. The only way as a heterosexual male to get female friends is to let them come to you(which will never happen) or befriend them only in a group. And even then you can never just ask a woman to hang out because she will always think you have a motive beyond platonic. You cannot win. If you cannot stand the idea of just hanging out with a woman without sex always being relevant I can, but can she as well? Will she be suspici… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/25 09:48 AM |
| – | The female orgasm is a mythIs it supposed to be shameful if you're not a vagina pleaser? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/25 06:46 AM |
| – | The female orgasm is a mythTell us you still haven't found the clitoris without telling us ಠ_ಠ Patriarchal expectation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/25 06:45 AM |
| – | Straight men on this subreddit, would you take a magic, gene-altering pill to become gay? (Not a satire question. Be serious.)No. Because the idea of me being attracted to a man is repulsive to current me. I wouldn't want that for that version of myself, even if that would lead to happiness. It's not the happiness I want for myself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/25 05:58 AM |
| -11 | Why do women so often get traumatised through sex even if it’s not anything crazy?So basically women are cowards who have no backbone, have a perma victim complex, and are easily manipulated like children? Got it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/25 07:19 PM |
| -1 | Female Sexuality: The Power Nobody Wants to Admit Exists (Until It Stops Working)Seems your age is actually catching up with you. You still look relatively young but your brain can't even remember your own words. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/25 08:36 PM |
| 0 | Female Sexuality: The Power Nobody Wants to Admit Exists (Until It Stops Working)Imagine lying for internet points. That's you. And even if there were rude comments, saying Every one of the comments is just straight up false. You're just hoping people are too lazy to open the links and will take your word for it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/25 04:51 AM |
| 0 | Female Sexuality: The Power Nobody Wants to Admit Exists (Until It Stops Working)You wish that? Just a comment ago, you seemed really proud of getting attention and validation from men. You must mean that you wish men left you alone when it comes to calling you out on hypocrisy or lying. Silly me, my bad for misinterpreting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/25 04:43 AM |
| 1 | Female Sexuality: The Power Nobody Wants to Admit Exists (Until It Stops Working)None of you men want to think about an ugly woman with a butterface as a woman anyway. When you hear or see "female sexuality" the first thing that comes to mind is a sultry Instagram model. You guys need to frame these arguments around attractive women more. Otherwise the arguments lose all meaning and can be defeated by a simple: "well, this only applies to attractive, or even halfway attractive women, right?" Nope, applies to women in general: https://imgur.com/a/jM6utMG https://imgur.com/a/r… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/25 11:31 PM |
| 2 | Female Sexuality: The Power Nobody Wants to Admit Exists (Until It Stops Working)Didn't you just say in another post about how men are ignoring you to go flock to younger women? This is why I said what I said. Because you knew as well as I did that men were still flocking towards you. I'm not dumb. That's your privilege, which you already knew that but wanted to act as if you didn't have any. So hilarious... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/25 11:25 PM |
| 0 | Female Sexuality: The Power Nobody Wants to Admit Exists (Until It Stops Working)Why would we do that either when males had no control over their biological makeup? This is just how things are. Without that unruly high testosterone you speak so fondly of, the human species would be, at best, almost extinct right now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/25 11:22 PM |
| 4 | Female Sexuality: The Power Nobody Wants to Admit Exists (Until It Stops Working)Women having sexual power is just a product of Patriarchy No it's not. It's called human biology. This dynamic has existed long before any governmental/political or social system that we created as humans. It's definitely a real power. You're privileged, accept that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/25 11:17 PM |
| 14 | Female Sexuality: The Power Nobody Wants to Admit Exists (Until It Stops Working)I'm a physically unattractive woman. I often danced with men who wanted to dance with me because they had fun! I occasionally met a man who did find me attractive This is still the case now I'm older. Perfect, you should be a hero and go tell r/foreveralonewomen or the women in r/ugly this who keep lying about no one wanting them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/25 11:15 PM |
| 5 | Women lie about their "low" standards and the bar in hellWomen love dating apps like an addict love a shot of heroin. Yeah idk why you said this. Very confused. If this were true, women would be flooding the apps, which they aren't. Quite the opposite actually. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/25 08:27 PM |
| – | Women lie about their "low" standards and the bar in hellWell regardless of life isn't fair, someone who already had their time to shine shouldn't complain anyways. But, you still fit societal beauty standards so idk what you're going on about. Your privilege is still in active mode sweetie, don't worry 😒... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/25 08:22 PM |
| 2 | Women here give wildly contradictory answers depending on who they want to defeat in a argumentThere aren't 4 billion women though. Children and teenagers aren't women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/25 08:09 PM |
| 13 | Women here give wildly contradictory answers depending on who they want to defeat in a argumentYeah but you can't always just grow a beard. Having the right genetics is important. Lots of men will never be able to grow one, unfortunately. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/25 08:08 PM |
| – | If dating dynamics were changed, women would not use the same argumentsFrom a PLUS SIZE DATING APP SO YOU HAVE THE NICHE POPULATION AND YOU INSIST THIS IS THE NORM FOR MEN And yet there is no plus size dating app for men. Wooplus is for plus sizes women, it's only marketed as such with ads. Regardless, half of the USA population is fat so it's not niche seeing fat women in relationships and desired by men. Already posted this too(from meetme.co.m) https://imgur.com/a/OklUQHC But you'll just give the same regurgitated, baseless reply as usual. And a NEURODIVERGENT D… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/25 03:51 AM |
| – | If dating dynamics were changed, women would not use the same argumentshttps://imgur.com/a/kyodGmH | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/25 02:12 AM |
| – | If dating dynamics were changed, women would not use the same argumentsIt's not fetlife. Those screenshots are from facebook dating groups, a dating app called WooPlus, meetme.dotcom, and the Hiki App for neurodivergent and autistic people. Fetlife doesn't even have UI anywhere close to shown in those screenshots. You can easily go to fetlife website and compare it yourself. Ofc your mind jumps to a fetish site...not even surprised. But you clearly seem to think that gooners on fetlife truly are going to want eternal commitment. You asked at the beginning of your c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/25 02:04 AM |
| – | If dating dynamics were changed, women would not use the same argumentsBe young https://imgur.com/a/jM6utMG https://imgur.com/a/rX294AV https://imgur.com/a/POxtiqu Be slim https://imgur.com/a/OklUQHC https://imgur.com/a/kH1wS2c https://imgur.com/a/pzEsc7M Be beautiful https://imgur.com/a/DVxAe72 https://imgur.com/a/Y3F2vEE https://imgur.com/a/ky1183P https://imgur.com/a/60WWHZU Your anticipated NPC response: "Those men only want sex from those women, they don't actually like them 😡😡😡" My response to you: Prove it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/25 01:46 AM |
| – | It's not mysogynist for guys to tell their gf not to wear revealing clothes or not being comfortable with her going to clubs with her girlfriends.Lmao you think saying bullshit is uncivil. That's so hilarious. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/25 01:54 AM |
| 1 | Women don't care if men can get sex, Men don't care if women can abortionsI think a lot of men care if women can get abortions. Don't birth a baby into a bad situation. No one asked to be born and it's only through the will of others that it happens. If the parents are poor or just don't want the baby, I believe it's better that they aren't brought into this already shitty world made even shittier by being born in a bad circumstance. A lot of times when women are prompted with the fact that men can't get laid, they respond with "so? why do I care? Keep on living witho… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/25 01:44 AM |
| 1 | Would you like to have a husband who is still a virgin?If you're confirming that with only a quick glance, then that's called having unrealistic standards. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/25 11:51 PM |
| 1 | Would you like to have a husband who is still a virgin?It's not hard. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/25 11:44 PM |
| 0 | People need to stop throwing the word "predator" aroundClassic | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/25 11:43 PM |
| 1 | Would you like to have a husband who is still a virgin?That may be true, but they definitely aren't hard to find. r/virgin | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/25 10:32 PM |
| 0 | People need to stop throwing the word "predator" aroundIt is definitely creepy if 20 year old women are dating 30 year old guys! Are the women 20 yr old women creeps? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/25 10:28 PM |
| 1 | People need to stop throwing the word "predator" aroundIt's creepy to you because you hate male sexuality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/25 10:20 PM |
| -1 | People need to stop throwing the word "predator" aroundEh, this is because men are hypergamous by nature and aren’t attracted to their looksmatch. https://imgur.com/a/K7rd8xc https://imgur.com/a/D2Uc2c2 https://imgur.com/a/Y3F2vEE https://imgur.com/a/DVxAe72 Now show evidence of women being attracted to their looks equivalent. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/25 10:16 PM |
| 1 | People need to stop throwing the word "predator" aroundFor starters, I'm not some popular asian guy with pale skin. I'm a black man and makeup will never look good on me. Not to mention, everyone would assume I'm gay and makeup does not bode well for your skin in the long term. I'm not famous and it's not normal for everyday men to wear makeup. It's better to just take care of your skin and work with what you got instead of being fake. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/25 09:48 PM |
| 4 | Men are judged for pretty much any perceived lack of independence, but women are allowed (and sometimes encouraged) to be independent at their convenienceIf a man is 30, living at home with his mom, then he's a lazy manchild. If a woman is the same, she's just saving money and her mom is her best friend. Was talking about this with my mom earlier this year because my cousin who's same age as me lives with her parents and I live by myself. My mom told me yeah it wouldn't be a good look for you because that's how it is. I agreed that sadly that's how people see it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/25 12:22 AM |
| 5 | Men don't take enough responsibility for male lonelinessI'm not trying to playing into genders wars or shitting on men I'm just generally concerned how many men think it's okay for a boy to be molested by an older woman or even a girl if she's attractive enough. Think about it though. Men know it's not morally okay, but sex is very desirable to men regardless. And being desired by a woman is rare for men. For a woman to risk herself for a man, it's so validating and aspirational because it never happens to. And especially to risk her career for someo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/25 12:06 AM |
| 12 | Men don't take enough responsibility for male lonelinessHere's what I think: men are lonely because men don't care to meet and build healthy, supportive, platonic relationships with other men. So you're saying this right here would get rid of men's natural desire to have intimacy and emotional bonding with a woman who loves them? Because it seems you and the plethora of others who think like you, aka all women and some delusional men, don't understand that men want romantic love and sex. Hanging out with guys is great, but I want to be around women t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/25 11:50 PM |
| – | How come women dont realize how hard is it for men to get laid ?So you're women saying have no power or control? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/25 03:59 AM |
| – | How come women dont realize how hard is it for men to get laid ?You have yet to have sexual intercourse with me so opinion invalid. 20 years of having sex with men and yet somehow you purposefully avoided me. So yes, it's hard for men to get laid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/25 03:57 AM |
| 4 | Women only care about men's issues when the ramifications of it starts affecting them directly. Men at the same time are expected to acknowledge female struggles and if men show an indifference towards plights of women, they ae shamed and guilted into conformingWho would humans rather protect, a puppy or an adult bulldog? The puppy. Humans see women as puppies, innocent, cute, harmless, infantile. They see men as bulldogs. Liked or tolerated by some, hated by many. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/25 03:46 AM |
| 0 | 4B movement after Trump's victory did not last long lastThose women aren't lonely. They are lesbian'ing it up with their friends. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/25 03:43 AM |
| 3 | People will fight to the death to make sure the social expectation for men to approach to women is still kept as a social standard. Despite the many women complaining about creepy men.How am I not calm? I'm just talking dawg lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/25 01:24 AM |
| 44 | People will fight to the death to make sure the social expectation for men to approach to women is still kept as a social standard. Despite the many women complaining about creepy men.You're not wrong and I agree. But this: So it's crazy how the amount mental gymnastics a lot of women would do to make sure this social standard is still uphold in society. It's also men that do these same mental gymnastics. Can't tell you how many times guys will try their best to convince others that men are "hunters" or should be pursuing women because that's our nature. Of course if you don't want to, then you're accused of being lazy, want a girlfriend to fall out of the sky, etc. And the w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/25 07:05 PM |
| – | "It's not your job to fix people" has been a disaster for datingI don't bitch about child support. Why would they ask that? I wouldn't ask that because I'd have protected sex if I didn't want a child. Did you ask them what they'd do if you got pregnant? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/25 06:53 PM |
| 0 | Should men try to get into/initiate relationships?And how do they even know? They weren't even born then. And plus anyone who dated in the 1950s would be like 85+ years old now. Where would you even find some old ass granny or grandpa to talk about this stuff with? It just sounds like people saying stupid shit they don't know about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/25 01:20 PM |
| 2 | Should men try to get into/initiate relationships?You cannot be externally pressured into doing something you don't want to do unless there is a threat you desire to avoid. Yeah, none of those teenagers who start doing drugs and drinking alcohol couldn't have been externally pressured because no one threatened them! Peer pressure is a myth. /s | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/25 05:35 AM |
| 4 | Should men try to get into/initiate relationships?the issue is not having the wife and children the 50's promised them I was born in 1996. No one who dated in the 50s has told me anything like this. Where in the hell do you people get this shit from? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/25 05:24 AM |
| 7 | Should men try to get into/initiate relationships?Funny how every woman that uses this ridiculous "word" bangmaid tends to have vitriol for men. Remember, you're the ones who describe these fantasy situations with this insane, dehumanizing language. Just like "cocksleeve" and "cumrag". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/25 05:19 AM |
| -3 | "It's not your job to fix people" has been a disaster for datingWe accept it's our fault or we will blame that guy for not taking preventative measures. My cousin did this and I, along with other men in our family, have held him responsible for it. That's the difference, we take accountability or hold each other accountable for it. Women don't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/25 08:25 PM |
| 3 | If you want to avoid the “friend zone” be honest about your intentions early onDoes the phrase "he used me 😭😭😭😭" sound familiar? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/25 08:19 PM |
| 0 | "It's not your job to fix people" has been a disaster for datingWell you guys are the ones who have these amazing personality radars that can detect when someone is a bad person. You use those radars all the time on reddit by looking at a person's reddit history. So when you turn off your personality radar when in the presence of a man you're attracted to, that's your fault actually. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/25 08:10 PM |
| 2 | Root cause of male loneliness crisis?A. Play Video Games A lot. Dunno how much because even though I'm on my computer from when I wake up to when I go to sleep, I'm browsing internet, looking at streamers and videos for games I play, random shit online. Maybe 8-10 hours total of actual playing. Can't be sure though because I get sidetracked a lot whole playing. B. Look at porn and beat your meat Maybe 30 min combined for the whole day if I even do it, sometimes I skip days. But yeah it doesn't take long to beat ur meat xD. Brain se… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/25 07:11 AM |
| 5 | Is it true that men who are more awkward introverted non-charismatic types are more likely to be creeps and only want sex?Yes, it's true. But not in a real world sense, just in a "x things that women aren't attracted to" kind of way. Like when someone who's ugly is assumed to be a predator. And someone who's attractive is assumed to be a good person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/25 04:02 AM |
| 7 | Root cause of male loneliness crisis?Brother I feel you. I've done all this shit and I still can't find a partner either: https://www.reddit.com/u/ConsistentPieGuy/s/y0uonaP00z Nowadays I just play video games, beat my meat, and go to work. I don't have the desire to try right now, don't know when I will again. But I'm enjoying my video games a lot, so fuck it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/25 03:19 AM |
| 3 | Nice guys naturally gravitate towards queen bee types. No, it's not a case of the girl leading them on. They CHOSE to like girls like that.Damn I moved her furniture and for some reason she still won't fuck me You too?! Man, it's hard out here fr 😞 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/25 03:11 AM |
| 1 | Men need to have higher standards.Increasing my standards from matching with morbidly obese women who sent me likes on dating apps to only wanting women with a normal weight, a mildly decent looking face and a few mutual interests did nothing for me. It's been 6 years, nothing has changed except my disgust for obese women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/25 01:32 AM |
| 2 | Men need to have higher standards.Then I guess by that logic since female simps are so rare, that means very very few women are actually straight and actually love men. In other words, nothing changes. Men still love women more than women love men. As has been stated many times in this sub. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/25 01:25 AM |
| 1 | Men need to have higher standards.Most women are lesbians, yes. Just look at how they interact with each other vs with men. Full on homosexuality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/25 01:20 AM |
| 1 | Men need to have higher standards.Just so you know, there aren't 4.1 billion women. Your lazy math just straight up transforms kids and babies into women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/25 01:13 AM |
| 2 | Nice guys naturally gravitate towards queen bee types. No, it's not a case of the girl leading them on. They CHOSE to like girls like that.Then I can only assume you have a cuck fetish. Those poor, stupid men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/25 12:59 AM |
| 1 | Nice guys naturally gravitate towards queen bee types. No, it's not a case of the girl leading them on. They CHOSE to like girls like that.Make it sexual favors or cut those guys off. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/25 12:58 AM |
| 0 | Women are basically miny celebrities. Which is why the dating climate is badBad faith argument. No one said anything about harassment. If you're not attracted to someone who approached you, that does not mean it's harassment. Their actions thereafter are what can make it harassment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/25 09:38 AM |
| 1 | Women are basically miny celebrities. Which is why the dating climate is badI don't believe it's exactly because of endless opportunities for sex, though knowing someone finds you somewhat desirable vs not desirable at all does offer some semblance of validation. You can say all you want that it means nothing, but you have no experience of what it's like for no one to desire you. That's a privilege. Now if you personally hate being desired, fine. But that's not a universal feeling. And if a woman does have an extreme desire to get intimate with someone, the ease of acce… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/25 09:36 AM |
| 7 | Women are basically miny celebrities. Which is why the dating climate is badWho's "you guys"? And what classifies as "all the time"? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/25 08:59 AM |
| -1 | Women are basically miny celebrities. Which is why the dating climate is badHumans are animals, literally. You have instincts and inclinations. You can supress them, but thinking that it's logical for everyone to is ridiculous and ignorant. This argument is funny to me because it's like other humans expect each other to have god tier restraint and honestly be perfect. And ofc you're going to say you don't expect perfection, but that's exactly the road you're on with this "we can control ourselves" shtick. Everything is to a degree. You will give into your impulses, inst… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/25 08:57 AM |
| 1 | Women are basically miny celebrities. Which is why the dating climate is badNone of that will happen for majority of men because wanting people to have an abundance mindset even though they've never or rarely been desired and have been told since birth that it's their job to pursue women is not realistic. Obviously grow your own brain and stop being controlled by social conditioning but you can say that about literally everything else. Humans are weak minded. So really, chicken or the egg? Men didn't become desperate out of thin air. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/25 08:39 AM |
| 1 | Why do men stare?If you really want to entice a man, try slamming the burger on your car and wipe it like you're washing the car, while playing Milkshake by Kellis. Go watch Date Movie if you need some tips. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/25 08:28 AM |
| 5 | Why do men stare?Idk why some men think this. Guys have proved that men simp for most women but yet these dudes keep acting like women's bodies just turn into mush at 30 or 40. The wall isn't really a thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/25 08:26 AM |
| -5 | Why do men stare?Sounds like homosexuality to me. Which is fine, but I'd rather you all just admit it. Not only to us but to yourselves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/25 08:22 AM |
| 23 | “Men are looking for clean water in a desert while women are looking for clean water in a swamp” is the most misandrist analogy I ever heardThere are more bad men then bad women. Your "women's ingroup bias is 4.5 times higher than men's" bias is showing. Aka women are wonderful effect. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/25 01:07 AM |
| 1 | If you somehow managed to convince women to universally lower their standards you’d just have much more competition and the relationship would be awfulFinally someone with a brain. I agree with you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/25 06:08 PM |
| 0 | At what point does sexualization become objectifying and dehumanizing?At what point does sexualization become objectifying and dehumanizing? From the very beginning, which is if the woman isn't physically attracted to the man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/25 04:33 AM |
| 1 | If you somehow managed to convince women to universally lower their standards you’d just have much more competition and the relationship would be awfulMen don't have to lower their standards. People always say they see broke, ugly men with beautiful wives and girlfriends all the time. We all can achieve this, considering it's so realistic and common. You believe that's true, don't you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/25 04:02 AM |
| 1 | If you somehow managed to convince women to universally lower their standards you’d just have much more competition and the relationship would be awfulThe thing is I’m really hot and I attract everyone. So I’m just playing with the cards I got I wish I could snatch that card from you and burn it. Then you'd be closer to my life experience. Some people are so privileged, all because of genetics. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/25 03:57 AM |
| 1 | If you somehow managed to convince women to universally lower their standards you’d just have much more competition and the relationship would be awfulYou: "I went through all this fucking crazy shit in my life, people are treated me like garbage. I got hot and people were attracted to me but fuck them anyways" Also you: "I'm now happily married 🥰" Me: "I went through all this fucking crazy shit in my life, people are treated me like garbage. I tried to self improve, but still ugly, and no one is attracted to me, but fuck them anyways" Also me: "I'm still single and never had a relationship" Crazy how 1 chromosome is the difference. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/25 03:53 AM |
| 1 | If you somehow managed to convince women to universally lower their standards you’d just have much more competition and the relationship would be awfulIronically I do what a lot of men claim they want women to do. I sleep around and say yes to most guys who ask me. You haven't said yes to me so it doesn't count or matter. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/25 03:44 AM |
| 3 | Stating that things are "the bare minimum" is just a way to get out of being grateful.Any woman who has the phrase "bare minimum" in her vocabulary is an oxygen thief and should not be entertained. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/25 03:32 AM |
| 9 | Men not getting matches on dating apps makes sense🤡 clown shit fr | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/25 03:29 AM |
| 9 | Men not getting matches on dating apps makes senseWho has zero education and can't provide for herself and her kid with her shitty part-time job. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/25 03:28 AM |
| 36 | Men not getting matches on dating apps makes senseMeanwhile your friend: In her 30s and STILL doesn't even have a high school diploma A single mom Lives with her parents Doesn't even have a full time job How is the bar in hell for men again? She wants a man who is better than her in every way despite her being the scraps in a trash dumpster. And that says a lot about you too, for you to even make this cartoon-ass post. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/25 03:26 AM |
| 5 | Men not getting matches on dating apps makes senseYes, because the woman in question is a high school dropout with zero education in her 30s, is a single mom, lives with her parents, wants a man with a good job, yet she doesn't even have a full-time job, let alone a good one. I guess you missed all of that in the OP though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/25 03:22 AM |
| 3 | Men not getting matches on dating apps makes senseHow much of a simp could you be though? Like this is a new low for you. "Normal guys like me" buddy you're not normal, sorry to break it to you. Normal guys aren't bragging about cleaning up with singles moms in their 30s who still haven't graduated high school yet and lives with their parents. Dawg that's pathetic as hell, even for you. Go enjoy your bottom of the barrel women. Peak cuckholdry. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/25 03:17 AM |
| 3 | Women's advice to men here is to keep them guessing, single, guilt tripped until they're so old they'll get creepshamed anywayhttps://metro.co.uk/2019/02/22/men-regardless-age-will-always-attracted-women-early-20s-8718590/ "And it is scientific evidence backing the anecdotal theory that men always prefer to chase younger women" HOWEVER "The same study found that the age range of women men say they are most interested in tends to fall within their own age range. So it is not all about looks. The findings show that despite older men finding much younger women extremely attractive, they were highly unlikely to actually me… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/25 02:20 AM |
| 6 | Women's advice to men here is to keep them guessing, single, guilt tripped until they're so old they'll get creepshamed anywayShow this data. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/25 11:13 PM |
| 3 | Finances, career and success are overrated for menThe only issue here is that you see that as an abuse of power. The woman is also abusing her power too then by that crazy logic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/25 07:55 PM |
| – | Finances, career and success are overrated for menSad to pretend that you have a husband, let alone laughing and having fun, but I understand how necessary that is nowadays. We all have our copes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/25 07:53 PM |
| – | Redpill women, what should a man do or be to be (more) desirable and good marriage material?Asking women for dating advice is just hilarious. Guess you'll have to learn the hard way like we all did. Them being redpilled makes no difference. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/25 07:43 PM |
| – | Finances, career and success are overrated for menYou and your imaginary husband. Have fun buddy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/25 07:39 PM |
| 3 | Finances, career and success are overrated for men"Abuse of power" Man, you women really love to reduce women's brains to that of a child's whenever it's convenient huh? Those women chose to be with that man. Might as well say women abuse their sexual power with every man then because that power is always there. But then men would be victims and we can't have that now can we? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/25 07:11 PM |
| 2 | Finances, career and success are overrated for menPs - I'm not single. But cute try. Yeah you and every other woman here apparently when you're caught in an argument lol. Chur bud. Chur. Women use this "I have a boyfriend" card for everything at this point . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/25 07:06 PM |
| 1 | Finances, career and success are overrated for menAlso men: "choose better" We ourselves are the exception. They can date us if we are losers, just not other losers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/25 07:03 PM |
| 3 | Why don't men want to date single moms?The difference is that I am a man and she is a woman. I can have those opinions, she cannot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/25 02:47 PM |
| 3 | Why don't men want to date single moms?Financial reason. Kids are expensive. The kids will eventually be my responsibility too. I don't want a woman who has been impregnated by another man. I don't think I want kids in the first place, even more so not someone else's. And men say that raising another man’s child is cuckoldry.But what’s wrong with that? Are you seriously asking what's wrong with being a cuck? Jfc. So sometimes I wonder: why risk it? Why put myself in a position where my "value" decreases in the eyes of others? Then da… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/25 04:27 AM |
| 6 | Q4M: Do you maliciously withhold compliments from women when out in public?Because they are women. They are special and are worth the risks, didn't you know? /s | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/25 09:21 PM |
| 6 | Q4M: Do you maliciously withhold compliments from women when out in public?Women aren't a monolith, but yet we should still risk everything for women anyways, amirite? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/25 09:19 PM |
| 2 | Q4M: Do you maliciously withhold compliments from women when out in public?I never get complimented by women, are they are all being malicious by refusing to boost my self esteem too Edit: Nice ragebait btw m8. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/25 09:13 PM |
| 2 | Why don't men want to date single moms?There's no such thing as fragile masculinity. His masculinity is whatever he wants it to be. Sad that you feel the need to disrespect your fellow man and attempt to shame his identity/choices based on your preconceived notions of what masculinity is supposed to be or look like. Toxic femininity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/25 09:03 PM |
| – | Men have no options.Ask anyways. I will not give any woman the satisfaction again. They would never ask me, so I refuse to acknowledge them as romantic/sexual beings and boost their ego by approaching them. Nobody is going to issue you a girlfriend Fine by me. Been alone for 28 years, I won't die if I don't get a girlfriend for another 28. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/25 11:26 AM |
| – | What’s the point of asking women for their opinions if you’re just going to dismiss them right away?I thought women can see the signs and tell when a man has a bad personality? I mean you all are so good at reading a man's comment and post history and determining that's the reason he's a kissless virgin with his dick in his hand. So why so easily fooled by a man pretending to be someone he isn't IRL? Maybe women's intuition isn't so intuitive after all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/25 12:17 PM |
| – | Women’s Sexuality is More “Selfish” Because Men’s Perspectives Are Baked Into Our Brains From BirthIt just so happens your establishment is the 0.0001% 😪 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/25 11:51 AM |
| – | Women’s Sexuality is More “Selfish” Because Men’s Perspectives Are Baked Into Our Brains From BirthThat never happened but keep living in fantasy land. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/25 10:25 AM |
| – | Women’s Sexuality is More “Selfish” Because Men’s Perspectives Are Baked Into Our Brains From Birth99.9999% of men aren't telling female coworkers and random female strangers what they rank as and who they compare to. And those men at work would get sent to HR if they did that. Make that make sense. Men's fault again for women's actions I guess. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/25 09:00 AM |
| – | Q4M: Would you date a woman who took "How to talk to men" classes?Well it's great that there are wonderful things called exercise and dieting at their disposal that can change being fat then. But the reality is that most women are too old or fat for most men. How can that be true when 18-40 year old women exist and 18-40 men exist? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/25 08:14 AM |
| – | Women want men who are kind , Emotionally available , considerate but they will throw away all of that for a guy thats just tall , funny and good in bedWomen want the same men. confident charismatic funny smart How can every man be these things? Edit: According to this person, most people aren't funny: https://np.reddit.com/r/socialskills/s/QyNOVo573w Being funny is a high standard. And most people you come across aren't charismatic either and charm their way into your heart. High standard. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/25 08:02 AM |
| 1 | Both genders would be happier if women did the approachingSure bud. If that's what you need to think to get through life, go for it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/25 04:08 AM |
| 1 | Both genders would be happier if women did the approachingYou're not a very nice person if you get a kick out of searching through someone's comments just to one-up them, all because you're upset about a previous, unrelated conversation. NicegirlTM alert. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/25 02:17 AM |
| 1 | "Chad" is less likely to be misogynistic than a sexually inexperienced man: A study found that the more sexually experienced a man is, the more biased he is towards women.Seems like your hobby is making pointless judgemental assessments of random people online. You don't seem like a very nice person yourself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/25 10:39 PM |
| 10 | "Chad" is less likely to be misogynistic than a sexually inexperienced man: A study found that the more sexually experienced a man is, the more biased he is towards women.I mean you aren’t a very nice person. You know him personally IRL? And what's with you and this "nice" shit you keep accusing people of? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/25 04:07 PM |
| 16 | "Chad" is less likely to be misogynistic than a sexually inexperienced man: A study found that the more sexually experienced a man is, the more biased he is towards women.That leads to women avoiding you even more Well fuck them too then. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/25 04:03 PM |
| 1 | Both genders would be happier if women did the approachingThis can't ever happen. They think they are too good and above it all to do this. Men are the ones who should put themselves at risk for m'lady. They are the special ones, men are the peasants who should beg for breadcrumbs. And so many men agree too. Men don't even think highly enough of themselves to go do something else. Being a hetero male is so fucked. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/25 01:35 AM |
| – | I've tried helping a few younger guys get dates, something is wrong here.Yeah I am, I'm a man. Edit: Just checked rule 3 and it says no trolling or saying extraneous things to get a reaction, so I guess I'll have to end it there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/25 04:50 AM |
| – | I've tried helping a few younger guys get dates, something is wrong here.Men have the power to do it. We've done it for most of human history, we can do it again. It's why I don't care about y'all lol Who cares, we are men! The world will revolves around us if we so make it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/25 03:51 AM |
| – | I've tried helping a few younger guys get dates, something is wrong here.Women aren't obligated to give men a chance when those men don't meet standards. It's a fact that they indeed are obligated. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/25 03:49 AM |
| – | I've tried helping a few younger guys get dates, something is wrong here.it's not something to be "solved" that women aren't choosing men. It is though. Sorry you can't accept that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/25 03:47 AM |
| 1 | Men, what’s something you love about being a man?Sounds like coddling and infantilism to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/25 03:34 AM |
| 2 | Men, how many times have you asked a woman out over the past 12 months?Why did you say flirting when that guy asked where to meet women? Those other ones are just for more organic, slow burn type interactions. And regardless, why gloss over speed dating and singles events even if you feel the others aren't viable... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/25 04:55 AM |
| 6 | Men, how many times have you asked a woman out over the past 12 months?No, that's not the same at all. I sense no belittlement or aggression in your comment, unlike the one I replied to. Call them pathetic cowards like you do to the men. Anything else is a sugar-coated slap on the wrist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/25 04:51 AM |
| 3 | Men, how many times have you asked a woman out over the past 12 months?Just link the comment | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/25 04:30 AM |
| 4 | Men, how many times have you asked a woman out over the past 12 months?You nor the women in this subreddit represent any meaningful part of the general population. We all know women generally don't want to approach or ask out men and want us to do that. You know that's the truth. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/25 04:29 AM |
| 4 | Men, how many times have you asked a woman out over the past 12 months?Do you tell women they are pathetic for never asking out a man? I doubt it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/25 04:27 AM |
| 2 | Men, how many times have you asked a woman out over the past 12 months?Most foreveralone women are a meme, and that post you linked is hilarious. I wish I got 70 dms from women, I would try my best to turn one of those dms into gold. But for some reason, women think shit is supposed to happen like some fairy tail where prince charming knocks on her door and whisks her away. Imagine if women just came to me. Like a slap in the face for all the men who get nothing. I'm certain not all of those men want what she wants, but it can't be that all 70 dms are garbage. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/25 04:24 AM |
| -1 | Men, how many times have you asked a woman out over the past 12 months?Meetup groups for one. Singles events, speed dating, or just regular groups like board gaming, hiking, sports related, language learning, tech groups, etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/25 04:16 AM |
| 2 | Men, how many times have you asked a woman out over the past 12 months?And women don't try at all and just sit and wait for men to do everything. At least men actually do something. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/25 04:15 AM |
| 0 | Men, how many times have you asked a woman out over the past 12 months?In the last 12 months, 8 women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/25 04:13 AM |
| 2 | Men, how many times have you asked a woman out over the past 12 months?Since April 2024? Probably 8 or so women IRL. Singles events from meetup.com. Haven't asked anyone out since October though and don't plan on it anymore. Tired of rejection and never feeling desired. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/25 04:07 AM |
| 3 | Cold approaching is the answer to every man's problems when it comes to dating but most men don't want to put in the work it takes to get to the point of being able to do it.It's a bad thing in 2025. Humanity has evolved further to the point where we don't need mating as much as before in the past and the current dating atmosphere in 1st world countries is horrible. Japan is a good example of that. It's a lost cause. We should all just accept that it's a lot harder to find someone special to them now and should be considered a luxury. Men need to let women go and do something else because it's not worth it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/25 04:58 PM |
| 3 | Cold approaching is the answer to every man's problems when it comes to dating but most men don't want to put in the work it takes to get to the point of being able to do it.I think people like you need to stop trying to persuade men into continously dating. We need to be telling men to stay single and find other joys in life instead of how to "WOW" a woman. They would never do the same for us, quit promoting this clownassery behavior. Men don't need to be with women, we can all survive just fine being alone. It doesn't matter if they want women, tell them to go do something else because dating is fucking shit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/25 04:46 AM |
| 0 | If you’re an average NPC, becoming “sexy” is about shifting your behavioral mindset more than anything.Most of us have hygiene and looking the best we can as part of our regular routine Most women worldwide are definitely not staying healthy and fit. That would be included in the "looking the best we can" part. So false. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/25 03:39 AM |
| – | Men should stop lying about having low standardsMaybe look the title of the post and understand why we are talking about this here in the first place? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/25 01:54 AM |
| – | Men care about body count because they're jealousYou don't understand the logic. Some men simply don't want a woman who has had many men touching, kissing, licking all over her, has had their parts in her mouth and inside of her. And a woman who has done those same things to the men. The knowledge of that is gross to a lot of men. The fact that you don't value only having those experiences with one or very few men is a huge, in women's words, "ick". But women can't respect how we feel about this because they feel men should only have standards… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/25 01:47 AM |
| 0 | Are all or most women attracted to women?Yes man, it's definitely super gay. But crazy how women saying these ass-backwards things are accepted by people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/25 03:02 PM |
| 0 | Are all or most women attracted to women?I truly believe most women are homosexual. This is not a troll comment. They enjoy cuddling with each other so much. They compliment each other way more than they will ever compliment men, they sex they claim to be attracted to. Almost as if they think complimenting men is beneath them. They prefer grinding on each other in nightclubs instead of dancing with men. They find very few men to be attractive Bisexual and demisexual women often have higher dating requirements for men than women. Women … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/25 02:52 PM |
| – | The real reason behind the male loneliness epidemic is that there are more happily single women than menAt full volume? You mean online, the websites and forums you choose to look at? Because if you go outside, literally no one talks about this shit. I play games a lot, and in none of the discords servers I'm in or subreddits I'm in mention male loneliness or whatever the fuck. So my suggestion is for you to touch grass or stop frequenting those websites and forums just like this one if you think men complain about this non stop at full volume. It's a you problem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/25 11:34 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: do you consider yourself a gentleman?I wouldn't tell someone "I want to take you x place" in the first place. It's a mutual activity. I'd suggest it/invite them, if they accept then they should pay for their own. I would take a child to a concert, because children have no form of transportation and typically very little to no access to money. And I'm responsible for them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/25 11:09 PM |
| 3 | Q4M: do you consider yourself a gentleman?I'm not reading your ass backwards logic again. You want free shit, we get it. Own it and stop trying to twist it into some moralistic crap/shaming men and we're good. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/25 11:05 PM |
| 3 | Q4M: do you consider yourself a gentleman?And if he does pay for your date, you're still technically a prostitute so you will never win unless you...gasp be an adult and pay for your own stuff? Whoaaaaa!! Women will never stop infantilizing themselves. Want to be independent and powerful, viewed as equals, but also want men to treat them like princesses and do shit for them for free just for existing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/25 10:44 PM |
| 4 | Q4M: do you consider yourself a gentleman?It's so funny when you guys use sex against men as an insult but hate to be sexualized and viewed as sex objects. It's so goddamn funny. It's as if you already think that sex is all you're good for so you project these hypocritical attitudes onto men. Then bitch about it later on. Cycle repeats. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/25 10:41 PM |
| 2 | Q4M: do you consider yourself a gentleman?I'm sorry, is she a child? This is what a lot of men mean when they talk about accountability. You went on the date because you wanted to. No one forced you. Should someone always go places and expect others to pay for them? Simply foolish behavior. Pay for your own shit, it's mutual interest. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/25 10:34 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: do you consider yourself a gentleman?I think the term gentleman is sexist and the expectation of a man to be one is sexist. Chivalry and doing things for someone just because they happened to spawn into this world with a vagina still amazes me and angers me. Entitlement is just absolutely disgusting to me, especially when it's directed towards total strangers. Why on earth does anyone think "I want a man who does stuff for me, treats me like a princess, makes ME feel like I'm important" is okay and a positive thing? It should be eq… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/25 10:29 PM |
| 3 | "Male romantic loneliness is due to women not putting up with shitty behavior anymore" take is pure BSin the past this was easy for them as women needed the to have a house etc, today this doesn't happen I guess you forgot the late 70s, 80s, 90s, and 2000s existed. Amazing how people like you always think right after the 1950s ended, we just timeskipped all the way to 2015 or some shit. Men had to be likable in those decades I listed too. Just say you hate human men and love strawmen. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/25 10:38 PM |
| 2 | The fact so many Gen Z men and women have complaints about the dating market proves it is a widespread issueYou're too old be acting like this. For real. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/25 10:32 PM |
| 1 | The fact so many Gen Z men and women have complaints about the dating market proves it is a widespread issueI guess porn sickness was also the reason younger men in the 90s and 2000s hit on older women huh? It's literally as simple as they are sexually attracted to you, my god. It's more like you're the one who's obsessed with porn by thinking other people are. No need to be a toxic butthead about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/25 10:10 PM |
| 1 | The fact so many Gen Z men and women have complaints about the dating market proves it is a widespread issueGet rid of social media which includes purplepilldebate, limit internet usage. There's your fix. On the more realistic side that doesn't incite rioting, I don't think there is an actual fix. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/25 09:56 PM |
| 10 | "Male romantic loneliness is due to women not putting up with shitty behavior anymore" take is pure BSgenerally an outcome of increased female financial independence. Less the need for a husband to survive No it's not. Shit was the same in the late 90s and 2000s for women. They had houses, jobs, college degrees 20-30 years ago. But you know what did change? The internet, technology, easy access to convenience and entertainment like netflix and YouTube, gaming, amazon..com, social media, and then dating apps. The change is really noticeable after 2009. Podcasters are making things worse too. None… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/25 09:42 PM |
| 2 | If hypergamy exists, why are there so many couples which disprove it?I have too. Those men were usually average and their women were below average. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/25 03:52 AM |
| 14 | What do women even offer?Really dumbass question tbh. A decent woman will offer the same thing as a decent man. And if you're not an idiot, you'd know that includes mutually shared interests to bond over, someone to spend time with, be intimate with, enjoy whatever with. It's like saying "what do humans even have to offer?" Uh, companionship, ya damn jabroni. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/25 03:45 AM |
| 2 | CMV Women are overly dramatic about viable dating options."Oh women did this thing I disagree with, pff yeah right" Aka "women are wonderful effect". Of course you think this, women can do no wrong and have pixie dust shoved up their arse 24/7 in your world. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/25 01:02 PM |
| – | Dating for women is a swamp. Dating for men is a desert. Neither can ever sympathize with the others complaints, because we (say) we want want what the other has.I cannot just choose any man I see who is single and know he’ll date me. Fuck me maybe. But date me? Treat me well? Be a compassionate partner? No. Absolutely not. I’ve been pretty attractive and I’ve been fat - this has never been my experience. Maybe not any man, but you absolutely have extreme powers of choice. The men you're attracted to just don't want you. The men who would be those things you want, you're not attracted to them. So what you're really saying, is you can't easily find men yo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/25 03:47 AM |
| – | Dating for women is a swamp. Dating for men is a desert. Neither can ever sympathize with the others complaints, because we (say) we want want what the other has.Your son is an incel/future incel. Have fun with that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/25 03:41 AM |
| – | Dating for women is a swamp. Dating for men is a desert. Neither can ever sympathize with the others complaints, because we (say) we want want what the other has.Men in Ukraine are giving up their bodies for someone else. Don't see you being pressed about that. And if it's because of men(like I know you're going to say), women can do something to help change that. Don't see them doing anything to help. Because it benefits them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/25 03:39 AM |
| – | Dating for women is a swamp. Dating for men is a desert. Neither can ever sympathize with the others complaints, because we (say) we want want what the other has.Women: "Women are learning personal security. Be prepared. We aren't backing down" Also women: constantly whining on the internet about how dangerous men are and clutching their pearls like cowards Also women: "We are no where near as violent as men are. Men are a lot stronger than us. Imagine having to live amongst your natural predator" Lady, your ass isn't intimidating anyone. Sit down, wimpy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/25 03:33 AM |
| – | Dating for women is a swamp. Dating for men is a desert. Neither can ever sympathize with the others complaints, because we (say) we want want what the other has.Women: "Women are learning personal security. Be prepared. We aren't backing down" Also women: constantly whining on the internet about how dangerous men are and clutching their pearls like cowards Also women: "We are no where near as violent as men are. Men are a lot stronger than us. Imagine having to live amongst your natural predator" Lady, your ass isn't intimidating anyone. Sit down, wimpy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/25 03:32 AM |
| – | Dating for women is a swamp. Dating for men is a desert. Neither can ever sympathize with the others complaints, because we (say) we want want what the other has.This is why men choose the bear. Your anticipated response: "Well, it's not like women are choosing you in the first place" My anticipated reply: "Majority of you are fat anyways so again, the bear." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/25 03:24 AM |
| – | Dating for women is a swamp. Dating for men is a desert. Neither can ever sympathize with the others complaints, because we (say) we want want what the other has.You didn't fight for anything. Women held up signs and complained until men, the actual people in power, allowed it to happen. Any fighting women did was taking it out on their children. Too pussy to bare arms, form a militia, and actually fight for your cause. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/25 03:18 AM |
| – | Dating for women is a swamp. Dating for men is a desert. Neither can ever sympathize with the others complaints, because we (say) we want want what the other has.Then women start saying you're not a real man, men want to be princesses, men are in their feminine era, "just say that you're broke", "I avoid men who go dutch", and other shit. Of course you'd excuse women's bad behaviors though because, "Women's in-group bias is 4.5 times higher than men's in-group bias". But yeah, it's optional. I will stay single forever before I pay for an adult stranger's food as if they are some infantile child. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/25 03:16 AM |
| – | Dating for women is a swamp. Dating for men is a desert. Neither can ever sympathize with the others complaints, because we (say) we want want what the other has.What does that have to do with the present day? Were you one of those women who didn't have a choice back in 1805? Do you have immortality? You also have a choice today. At least you have a choice when many women used to not have a choice long ago before any of us were born. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/25 03:10 AM |
| – | Dating for women is a swamp. Dating for men is a desert. Neither can ever sympathize with the others complaints, because we (say) we want want what the other has.The men of today didn't exist in the 1930s and experienced none of whatever power and leverage they had, and that especially depended on the race of the man as well. Remember, we aren't all white men, but I understand that's hard for people on the internet to conceptualize. So, what equal footing is there now in dating? Talking about people in the current year, 2025, not time travelers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/25 03:04 AM |
| – | Dating for women is a swamp. Dating for men is a desert. Neither can ever sympathize with the others complaints, because we (say) we want want what the other has."Women's in-group bias is 4.5 times higher than men's in-group bias" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/25 01:54 AM |
| 8 | I’m a man and I can see it. Why are women’s standards considered problematic and isnt it hypocritical for guys to complain about them ?Because "looks don't matter as much to us" "Personality is key" "Women are attracted to confidence more than anything else" "Where are all the good men at?" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/25 06:42 PM |
| 10 | Shy and socially awkward women are as disadvantageous in dating as shy menI'll never understand this logic that women use about dating apps. So what if you think there's a stigma of hook ups? You want a compatible boyfriend don't you? Then download some apps, and create some profiles! Literally no one wants to use those shitty apps but sometimes they work for some people. You not giving it a chance because you're worried about what random people will think is just an excuse. I had to download them. I failed, but at least I gave them a shot. You should do the same, esp… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/25 10:15 PM |
| 7 | Shy and socially awkward women are as disadvantageous in dating as shy menWho cares if they know or not, you're still able to meet up with them and let them be the judge. Shy men don't have opportunity, that's the point. But if it matters that much to you, then include that in your bio. I've seen an ungodly amount of women say they are shy in their bio. Still swiped on a lot of them if they seem cool to me and I like their looks. Your problem is continuously self-inflicted. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/25 10:02 PM |
| 15 | Shy and socially awkward women are as disadvantageous in dating as shy menLOL. It's hilarious that you realize you have to exclude a huge part of modern dating that serves men on a silver platter to 99.999% of women just to even have an argument to debate. Dating apps translate to real life. You can't complain about how hard you have it when you actively choose to ignore the men in your dms. Forget shy men, men as a whole don't have that privilege. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/25 09:58 PM |
| 12 | 'Manosphere' tactics don't work- They destroyed my relationship with the love of my lifeYeah, most men are sick. Sick of women's bullshit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/25 05:59 AM |
| 1 | I’ll Answer the “Why Don’t Men Read Our Profiles?” Question.I very often read women's profiles. What you're saying is true for a lot of guys, but maybe only half. Matching with a woman who has disdain for men, is condescendingly sassy in her bio, only has weak and generic crap, says she isn't looking for anything serious, chooses to write negative things instead of positives, entitlement, expresses that it's hard for her to trust men yet for some reason is still on dating apps looking for men. Reading bios is for dodging bullets, regardless if they'd swi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/25 11:32 PM |
| 6 | Women Don’t See Themselves as Abusers—Physically or Sexually.Women's 4.5 times stronger in-group bias isn't changing. They will always believe in "women are wonderful effect". Men too. No one sees it as a problem. No one cares. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/25 01:58 AM |
| 9 | Women Don’t See Themselves as Abusers—Physically or Sexually.It always boils down to this: Humans see women as puppies. Humans see men as pitbulls. And we all know how controversial pitbulls are. Thing is, no one gives a fuck. That's why women are often infantilized, coddled, and given the benefit of the doubt despite being grown ass adults. Crazy how no one has a problem with how insane women's in-group bias is, as well as men's bias in favor of women as well. Because they see puppies. Another answer? Women are wonderful effect. /thread | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/25 01:32 AM |
| – | You can't complain about women not being nice to men and then justify men being creepy to women that are nice to them.Little boys told each other that niceness would get them a harem. You seriously think 10 year olds and 15 year olds are the ones who just created this idea about being nice gets you girls, and not adults, especially women such as their moms? Anything to blame males huh, even little kids. That's really pathetic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/25 09:36 PM |
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