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I'll try
/r/Divorce_Men01/09/25 04:37 AM
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Thanks for asking. I am still on an emotional roller coaster. Days come and go and I mostly float through them thinking I should do a thing, then realize she won't be back in my life to see, or critique, or acknowledge it. Do not know when I will shake that feeling that if she walks in the door I'd be on my knees begging for her to return; give it another chance. I'm neglecting my health as a self sabotage. Maybe a slow coward way to end pain. Every once and a while I'll have a few moments of fo…
/r/Divorce_Men01/09/25 03:39 AM
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I'm trying.
/r/Divorce_Men26/04/25 08:58 PM
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I guess it doesn't matter the cause, the pain of the loss cuts deeply. I briefly thought, while reading your post, "well, you brought it on yourself, I'm not like that." But it doesn't matter; by commission or omission, the regret and suffering still come. My condolences.
/r/Divorce_Men18/04/25 04:11 PM
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Thank you
/r/Divorce_Men17/04/25 06:16 AM
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Holy fuck, dude! This sounds like my worst nightmare for the future possible me. Regrettably I still hope for reconciliation but all the advice from Reddit and the one sibling I have that can relate is that STBXW is done and no going backwards. This is the horrible place I find myself and reading your description of the emptiness left by that ripping away of some thing from inside...hits hard. My only X from a lifetime ago would never entertain a meet up, even if I wanted one. There are so many …
/r/Divorce_Men16/04/25 04:07 PM
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Troll? Maybe, so I'll attempt a comment in my own defense. She was a homemaker and a damn good one (she still does what she wants around the house) but we have always shared equally in the domestic duties and child care. We both sacrificed equally but in different ways. I've retired. She has become the "breadwinner" in a career she loves that she began over 15 years ago, so she ain't makin' sandwiches and cleanin'. I guess that you have made assumptions about my life based on my age. I can forgi…
/r/Divorce_Men13/04/25 09:41 PM
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It sucks. Sorry for your pain man.
/r/Divorce_Men13/04/25 09:26 PM
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Thanks
/r/Divorce_Men13/04/25 08:31 PM
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That's good advice and what I know I should do, but just that intentionality is so far from my mind right now. It's just an emptiness that no comfort but hers could soothe, and it's never going to be.
/r/Divorce_Men13/04/25 08:15 PM
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Thank you for the offer.
/r/Divorce_Men13/04/25 08:13 PM
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I have no idea who the "real" me is. I retired a year and a half ago. I think my increased presence around her set the final straw to her back. I just thought fighting to keep us together (for what we both built) would keep us together.
/r/Divorce_Men13/04/25 07:10 AM
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Of course I want sex. Most healthy average men need it. I just want it to mean more than just a fuck for money. I want her affection. To feel desired by her. I don't see myself as desirable. I don't have any friends outside of her friend group. They will all be on her side. My whole self image is so tied to her opinion of me.
/r/Divorce_Men13/04/25 07:04 AM
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60s here. Yes it is my nightmare. I wrapped my whole identity in my wife and family and now it's being ripped from me. It's all out of my control.
/r/Divorce_Men13/04/25 05:52 AM
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I sympathize. But I'm in my sixties and this same fate has just hit me. I am fortunate that our kids are all grown. The youngest just turned 30. But the hurt is so intense. And I too am hoping as well that she will change her mind, even though as I type this I realize it is hopeless.
/r/Divorce_Men13/04/25 05:50 AM
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