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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | Well guys I can’t believe it happenedGood job for putting yourself out there! Next time, ask for her digits early to midway into the conversation, always a good rule of thumb in case she ends up leaving anywhere. At the bare minimum, you two could become good friends and she can set you up with her friends. | /r/seduction | 22/04/21 09:03 PM |
| 1 | Not getting a response after the first date - why?First date: Yeah, that's what I figured happened here. I'm still pretty pissed at myself for this all things considered, so will definitely work on it. As for pulling before the date, I've actually had got experiences with seeding the pull (planting the idea in her mind, also she literally said in our text that she was down for "Netflix 'n chill" at hers), but maybe she just needed to be more comfortable and see me as a more seductive presence. Second date: Working on the location thing, but no … | /r/seduction | 29/03/21 07:20 PM |
| 1 | Date Report: Recent coronavirus date that didn't go anywhereThat's what I figured too, but then why would she even come on the date? Oh well, on to the next one! | /r/seduction | 07/09/20 03:58 AM |
| 1 | Anyone else depressed about how badly women are destroyed by social media? (srs)It's likely because she has no purpose in her life. I've swiped through Tinder and the level of shallowness is everywhere... But the most important thing is to acknowledge it and then move on with your life. | /r/askTRP | 06/04/20 04:33 PM |
| 2 | Should you kiss on the first date?Yes, if you find her attractive. | /r/seduction | 23/07/18 02:37 AM |
| 1 | Want to confirm some IOIs before moving forwardIt's awesome that you were able to bond with a girl like that at the gym. Maybe it's my lack of female friends in the past and today, but I've made great friendships with males at the gym but not with females. Honestly, I would just ask her to grab a drink or something along those lines. Everyone's usually in their own world at the gym, and a little rejection isn't going to do much. | /r/seduction | 25/05/18 03:29 AM |
| 2 | What to do when your interests are occupied by men only?Yup! | /r/seduction | 13/05/18 11:06 PM |
| 2 | What to do when your interests are occupied by men only?Do cold approach. Walk or run up to a girl on the street and attract and seducer her. :) | /r/seduction | 13/05/18 07:39 PM |
| 1 | All my minority brothers, how do you get over race?The best thing I have noticed (5'7, Asian guy, but lol @ having to categorize ourselves based on race and height) is to just not see it as a problem. Easier said than done if you have years of socially conditioning, but what helps for me are meditation and looking at the benefits and downsides of my race. For example, although I may not be instanteously attractive to a girl I like, I also don't have a family history of heart disease, diabetes, and have really awesome metabolism. My family is ver… | /r/seduction | 13/05/18 07:35 PM |
| 2 | Is it a bad idea when you get in a relationship to somehow reveal intentionally or unintentionally that you never had a girlfriend before? I feel so inexperienced being 22 years oldI am 27 and I feel you completely. However, I don't think it will do you any good to stay in this negative mindset. Just because you were dealt a certain hand doesn't mean you should resign to your fate or not try at all. Casanova wasn't the most handsome guy and yet he still got women. RSDMax is only 5'7 and was extremely nerdy before game. Part of developing your masculine essence is through challenging yourself. And that is what separates you from the rest. Sure, the 9 or 10 guy may have had … | /r/seduction | 20/04/18 12:19 PM |
| 2 | Dates at a bar with alcohol when you don't drink yourselfThat's why I aim for daygame lately. However my first and only date from daygame was a coffee date that I moved to the park. And I almost felt like it could have been more relaxed and sexual if it was in a setting that served alcohol. There is a hipster place near me that is all about coffee and kombucha though. | /r/seduction | 13/04/18 12:10 PM |
| 1 | Completely New To the GameI'm a theory/product/book junkie too, but the best thing for you to do at this point is to jump into the "fire" and walk out of it. Move your body towards the girl and open your mouth. | /r/seduction | 13/04/18 11:40 AM |
| 1 | What’s the best way to seduce women when going out alone?Be positive, fun, and talk to everyone. | /r/seduction | 05/04/18 09:16 PM |
| 3 | Making bro friends for sarging.Bro friends are nice when starting out, but eventually you need to learn to do this on your own. I'm getting back into it, and when I'm out with my so called wings they barely approach and pressure me to approach because of their own insecurities. And when they have the chance they jump in on my sets. So be careful of who you game with. | /r/seduction | 15/03/18 04:28 AM |
| 1 | Why am I not getting girls?What kind of girls are you going after? I would say try to defy stereotypes of your race. Be socially intelligent enough to realize that there are certain quirks for certain cultures that are featured more prominently, some of which may be positive and some of which may be negative. And capitalize on the positives, while going against the negatives. I am Asian, so I definitely have to fight a lot of the stigma behind my race at times. I'd also say that personality beats external factors any day.… | /r/seduction | 22/12/17 04:38 AM |
| 1 | Setting up a date and closingUnfortunately, it turns out she never texted back and flaked. However, I do feel that I also messed up in the process too. I did not build enough rapport. Maybe the attraction was there from going direct in the daytime alone, but I needed more teasing and to be real with her. | /r/seduction | 02/08/17 01:51 AM |
| 2 | Setting up a date and closingAwesome tips, I'll be sure to try them out. On the day of, should I try to confirm the date several hours beforehand? She said that she would be free, but I think she is unsure of the location. There is a possibility of a flake because the conversation wasn't terribly long and she had to leave for work (she was on her lunch break), but she did text me back right away when I texted "Nice to meet you." | /r/seduction | 01/08/17 05:27 AM |
| 1 | Gym game? Is it ever acceptable?Yeah, I have this issue myself. There's a girl at my gym who goes literally every day and I'm almost always there when she is there. She sometimes makes incidental eye contact, and has even sat on a bench next to me, but have never talked. On the one hand it's good that I'm focusing on the workout, but I do feel that maybe I should just ask her "Hey, I've seen you here all the time. You look like you're training for a competition." | /r/seduction | 11/07/17 05:21 AM |
| 1 | Your #1 mistake right now. You aren't approaching enoughDefinitely true. And another one I would say is showing intent. Especially during the daytime. I am struggling with this myself, and usually at night I have very little problem with this. | /r/seduction | 11/07/17 05:18 AM |
| 1 | Reading "The Way of the Superior Man" and it is making me wonder, what is your highest purpose?I think your life purpose comes with a lot of experimentation. If you don't try new things, you'll never know what you like and don't like. I know that I love it when I reach a new PR in powerlifting, and learning about how to improve certain lifts. I just find the idea of improving yourself over time very fascinating, and it's amazing how some people can lift 2 times their body weight. | /r/seduction | 08/07/17 02:16 PM |
| 1 | Can't F****** approach. Feeling depressed.Find a local PUA community. It will make approaching a lot easier. Trust me. | /r/seduction | 31/05/17 09:12 PM |
| 0 | How long do you wait before you ask her out?I would have asked what her schedule was like for the entire week, so you could gauge what days she was free. Therefore, you wouldn't have to keep on asking and could have scheduled something in advance. | /r/seduction | 02/06/16 02:40 AM |
| 1 | Ive found my problem: figetingSlow down when you talk. Pause appropriately. Look at yourself in the mirror and see how you move. | /r/seduction | 19/03/16 01:17 AM |
| 2 | Going out solo: an observationI have noticed that when I go out with a buddy or a group of friends I tend to stick within our own group even when I want to meet new people/women. Often I am looking around for my friends (they are my ride usually and even though the bars are only a ~30 minute walk from my place I would rather not ditch them). However, all of this changes when I go out solo. I find myself interacting with many strangers and going for the number more often than if I was with a friend. I don't have the best post… | /r/seduction | 29/02/16 02:26 AM |
| 1 | I can't cold approach. I hate it, and sarging for hours just brings my depression to the surface. Seddit, what are some tips for building a big social circle and mastering social circle game?I just keep them at my sides, but not have them appear stiff but just hanging relatively loose at my sides. I am not the best at gesturing, but I attempt to gesture with my hands when I'm talking to make a point. If there's a commonality or something about the other person you like you can always high-five her or give a fist bump. Lately, I have been trying to turn the high-five into a spin and depending on comfortable the girl is she will go along with it (especially if she is into dancing). | /r/seduction | 29/02/16 01:38 AM |
| 1 | I can't cold approach. I hate it, and sarging for hours just brings my depression to the surface. Seddit, what are some tips for building a big social circle and mastering social circle game?Find your sticking points and work on those. For example, one of my biggest sticking points is my voice. It's hard for me to project my voice in a loud environment and it can be faint even in a quiet atmosphere. My body language also is not the best due to bad posture from youth, but I have tried to avoid putting my hands in my pockets and crossing my arms, and I generally appear more confident. Smile when you go out -- that way, even if you aren't having fun at least you appear like you are and… | /r/seduction | 28/02/16 07:40 PM |
| 1 | How many of you have no friends?Video games, while fun, are escapism at best. It can be social if you're playing with friends, or even with a significant other. Right now, the only video game I really play is DDR at arcades. It's a great date idea for girls, as you can show them how to play (shows leadership), and also a great way to burn calories/train the cardiovascular system. It's also less addicting than other forms of video games because when you progress in difficulty, you get exhausted after three songs (especially if … | /r/seduction | 25/01/16 04:40 AM |
| 1 | How many of you have no friends?Go out. Be proactive and ask for numbers of guys/girls (ex: "Hey, you seem like a pretty cool guy. We should exchange contact information."). And call/text them for plans. Not hard at all, especially if it's just getting a guy's number. And if you find a girl you're not attracted to and you just want to get her number for friendship, you can let her know your intentions behind asking for the number and I'm sure she'll be willing to go with it. | /r/seduction | 25/01/16 04:35 AM |
| 2 | How to reengaging with a girl that you "fucked up" onMove on, learn from your mistakes (specifically, hone in on what exactly needs improvement, and spend a great deal of time improving those areas). | /r/seduction | 03/01/16 08:06 AM |
| 2 | Picking up girls in collegeIt's less about what you say but how you say it. In other words, body language. They say 97% of all communication is nonverbal and this is largely true. Also, proper dressing/grooming and staying fit helps a lot too. | /r/seduction | 12/11/15 04:31 AM |
| 1 | Any body around Columbus, Ohio area?Haven't really checked out Hilliard much, so I'd be interested in seeing what it has to offer. So you live all the way out in Hilliard? I live near campus, I'm literally right near all the frat houses and 4th St Bar and Grill. | /r/seduction | 02/11/15 04:50 PM |
| 1 | Any body around Columbus, Ohio area?I'm a karaoke fan myself, so I like to go to Mickey's Bar on 5th (it's somewhat ghetto at times though), but I hear the Red Club is a solid nightclub and the bars in Short North are always filled with college kids. Park St./Cantina is usually pretty crowded on the weekends too. What about you? | /r/seduction | 01/11/15 08:26 PM |
| 1 | Any body around Columbus, Ohio area?Yeah, I'm in Columbus, OH. Haven't had much time to go out due to grad school, but I'm definitely down to go out with like-minded people and hit on women. | /r/seduction | 01/11/15 07:12 PM |
| 3 | How can I stop being the nice/sweet guy?Read No More Mr. Nice Guy by Robert Glover. | /r/seduction | 24/10/15 02:08 AM |
| 1 | Any guys in the Columbus Ohio area?No worries, and cool, that's not terribly far from me. Did you turn 21 in the last couple of months so that you can now access more of the nightlife? | /r/seduction | 12/10/15 06:15 AM |
| 1 | Any guys in the Columbus Ohio area?Does anyone here go to OSU? And did you guys still want to meet up? | /r/seduction | 12/10/15 05:24 AM |
| 11 | Well, totally broke through my AA today and did it!Props for the balls to directly open her like that. Keep it up! The more you get outside of your comfort zone, the easier it becomes. | /r/seduction | 11/10/15 10:56 PM |
| 1 | Can I get some speed dating advice?Try to differentiate yourself from the other suitors, but don't try to be someone you're not. Rather than asking her a question, do a cold read. For a girl at this speed dating event I went to recently, I said "You look like you're Native American." to which she chuckled and explained that she was actually a mix of European and Hispanic. | /r/seduction | 11/10/15 10:53 PM |
| 1 | Any guys in the Columbus Ohio area?Rad. I'm not too far from there, I live on E 15th near the railroad tracks and a walk away from 4th St Bar and Grill. Lots of frat parties going on near me. | /r/seduction | 06/09/15 02:03 PM |
| 1 | Any guys in the Columbus Ohio area?Hey, are you guys still in Columbus? I was in Cincinnati for the summer, but now I'm back in Columbus and I'm down to practice and get good at this. | /r/seduction | 05/09/15 07:59 PM |
| 1 | How do I become person everyone wants to hang out with ?Get outside of your comfort zone, and ask to hang out with some of your coworkers. Make a specific plan, or even ask to join in on what they're planning on doing. | /r/seduction | 09/07/15 03:56 AM |
| 0 | If you don't take the chance, someone else willI know exactly how you feel. I was talking to this girl on and off and we were planning on hanging out this summer. Until I friended on Facebook and noticed that she's now in a relationship with another guy. Granted she wasn't super attractive, but it was still a chance I did not choose to take. And because of it, I lost out on opportunities because of it. | /r/seduction | 07/06/15 09:30 PM |
| 9 | Going on my first ever tinder date tomorrow. Any tips?Yes, go for the hug when you guys first meet. Touch early, and touch often. That way, when you two hold hands, kiss, or further escalate it won't be weird. | /r/seduction | 31/05/15 09:41 PM |
| 1 | Going on first date tomorrow - How to be fun ?First off, congrats dude. If she agreed to the date, she clearly already has some level of attraction for you. You should try to speak your mind and not over analyze what you should or shouldn't say. One thing not many guys realize is that girls not only want a man but also someone who is vulnerable. It's good to be funny but also good to be real and take a genuine interest in the girl. | /r/seduction | 18/05/15 05:53 AM |
| 1 | Any guys in the Columbus Ohio area?That's okay! We can try other venues. Malls, coffee shops, campus, what have you. | /r/seduction | 08/05/15 12:56 AM |
| 1 | Any guys in the Columbus Ohio area?What's your number man? I'm Alan by the way. I probably won't be available anytime this week or month, but maybe next month. We're gonna make it happen! | /r/seduction | 05/05/15 07:32 PM |
| 1 | Any guys in the Columbus Ohio area?Yeah, I'm in Columbus, OH, although during the summer I will be going back and forth between here and Cincinnati. I have friends who are the same way, and when they do go out, they almost never approach women. That is not to say that my game is great, but it would definitely be awesome to have a wingman, especially one who knows game. | /r/seduction | 05/05/15 04:32 PM |
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