That’s strange then. Where I live the black ladies that are in shape (~20%) do really well, but the overweight ones (~80%) are basically invisible. I live near a black Mecca though so that might have something to do with it.
How lean is the limit? Say 120ish lbs and 5’7” but like <10% BF, so not underweight but on the lower end of healthy. Would that be unattractive? I know some women get insecure if the guy is smaller or weigh less.
Huh? I’m in my mid-20s and virtually my girl friends not in a relationship are hooking up like crazy. Been like that since college and still are. A good 1/3 of my dates off OLD have just been looking for casual, yet I’m a dude looking for something serious.