Constant_Dark_7976 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	Struggling He is a misogynist. Please read “Men who hate women and the women who love them” by Susan Forward and “Why does he do that?” by Lundy Bancroft. I understand you want to fix things but once he put his hands on you, it’s a ticking time bomb. Can you tell your family? You’re going to need help to leave. He is banking on you being isolated and easy to control. Keep all proof of his temper and how he treats you. There are DV shelters that can help you out. As a Christian, I’d even suggest finding a c…	/r/RedPillWives	02/01/26 02:19 PM
-1	At what age do most men “hit the wall”? Because women age worse, and our main value lies in our beauty. Men are just entitled by nature, they also look worse but usually make more money and the age range they are attracted to, stays the same. I'm not here to be a contrarian, I just honestly think both genders start going downhill around the same time.	/r/RedPillWomen	12/04/25 07:41 PM
-1	At what age do most men “hit the wall”? They start looking worse around 31-32, that's when the aging kicks in. It's the same as with women.	/r/RedPillWomen	12/04/25 02:11 PM
1	Husband told me he is asexual and never wants to have sex. Unsure of what to do? Wow, he is really selfish and cruel. I think lying about asexuality would be grounds for annulment (as a Catholic, I don't mean under law), so I don't see it as abandoning a loving spouse. Look, I'm not a lawyer but you need to start thinking strategically. Divorce is traumatic to kids, but doing it before they have memories of mom and dad together is way less traumatic. My brother was 3 when my parents divorced and it never bugged him. They both spoiled him to bits and he turned out great. I al…	/r/RedPillWomen	19/03/25 12:41 PM
1	Seeking advice after dumb decision Nope, your body count is still low, but for a real marriage partner you need to start being serious. I wouldn't tell a man you had a ONS. At 22 you are at your most marriageable age. You could find a really good, faithful man to marry. I would learn your lesson from how much it hurts to be discarded by a dirtbag, forgive yourself and move on. Men are looking for easy sex. All of them. If you don't want to have sex, no more casual dating. They will find a way to get you in bed.	/r/RedPillWomen	17/03/25 09:28 PM
1	A skeptical autistic woman whose trying to open my mind. I think learning the red pill can be very freeing for women, it was for me. Once you get the basics of a man's worldview, you are finally on a level playing field and you can strategize and adjust so that things work out in your favor. I think understanding how important looks are to men is key. As a person who generally doesn't judge others on the basis of their looks, this was the biggest hurdle for me in understanding and respecting men. As for the "trad act", it's pretty hard to commit to li…	/r/RedPillWomen	17/03/25 09:22 PM
1	Weight loss fixed my marriage… don’t know how to feel? Because love and attraction are two separate things. And love between adults isn't unconditional. Life isn't a fairytale. He loves you in that he was willing to stay, but you also sound like you were making things worse with your behavior. It's one thing to stick with a partner who is self sabotaging - whether it be massive weight gain, drinking, video games, being unemployed, and another thing for that partner to also be mad at you. Why should he be attracted to you at size 24/26? He reassured …	/r/RedPillWomen	05/03/25 02:52 PM
1	I need help being more dignified, feminine and hygienic I think short clean nails look the best, try cuticle oil and a nice hand cream. Shower your body everyday. Go in with a bar soap and a wash cloth, then with a nice scented body wash. Get a nice razor. I shave about every 3-4 days. You want to wash your hair every 2 days if you have non curly hair. Have a toilettery bag with you when you leave the house, hand sanitizer, wet wipes, kleenex, lip balm, hair brush, powder, small mirror and sanitary products. Bathing/showering at night can also be lux…	/r/RedPillWomen	07/05/24 05:25 PM
6	Why do husbands have to beg their wife to have sex with them? Women have reactive desire. They need to be turned on. Men are visual and get turned on pretty quickly. If a man learned how to have sex from porn, he is likely to have a very unsatisfactory sex life with his wife because regular women are the absolute opposite of performers. Turning a woman on can happen in 15-20 minutes if a man is smart. Tell her how much you want her, how sexy she looks. Be appreciative. Tell her she's a goddess and you need her. Be descriptive about what you want to do to h…	/r/RedPillWomen	27/04/24 09:04 PM