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I think it can be confusing, unless you know beyond a shadow of doubt, discussing manipulation. To me it implies that one person is completely not aware of the other person manipulating them. In my personal experiences I can say I was definitely manipulated by the opposite sex a few times for sex, attention, or providing something that benefited a woman at the time. Should they apologize to me? Maybe, but it’s my own fault at the end of the day since I allowed it to happened. Even if it was unkn…
/r/ExRedPill19/09/25 04:26 PM
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Great statement.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 11:06 AM
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It's all about sex not loneliness. Most women are happy being alone because they can get sex whenever they want to fill any void they might have regarding intimacy. Most men do not have that option.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 04:32 PM
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Based on the main question, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 04:36 PM
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That's what I mean. Honor is literally determined by the person and societial constructs. It's all bullshit
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 12:11 PM
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Honor even morality are all social constructs. I mean, how many men on this sub joined the military during 9/11 and then picked a MOS (job) that is directly related to combat. Yeah, honor is straight up bull shit. Live your life the way you want too, screw what anyone else thinks
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 11:26 AM
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Is no one going to focus on how she clearly said she doesn't want to mislead the guy but is, in fact, misleading him? I'll argue that most women act just like OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 07:24 AM
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Both parties will cheat, women just get away with it more
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 10:18 AM
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I'm out of the loop. What happened
/r/MensRights30/06/23 10:25 AM
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Or women have to be done with hot guy stage.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 09:35 PM
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This comment wins, and yet everyone ignores it because it's the truth!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 07:53 AM
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I really think that most people who aren't out in the modern dating world are blind to the fact that women are more willing to get into situationships. In my experience, at least. I believe that women will do it with multiple men or one man they view as a potential mate. But it's a safe way of her not committing and not getting fully rejected if it doesn't work out. That way, her recovery time is quick. She doesn't have to heal and can bounce back on the next one quicker. Yes, men do it as well,…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 09:33 AM
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What do they need you for then?
/r/RedPillWomen14/06/23 05:09 PM
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Whats there to respond about for them? Are you asking for me to clarify what I meant? Would that make you feel better?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 11:16 PM
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I'm not mad, I fully expected someone to cherry pick something they didn't agree with or got triggered from. I think it's hilarious 😂.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 10:25 PM
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Yeah, I'm still suching for this magical career and relationship that everyone preaches about nowadays.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 10:14 PM
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I like how you cherry-picked one thing and ran with it. Good on you! You clearly didn't get the whole of the comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 10:13 PM
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I haven't met one woman who is good at communicating. No disrespect to any women, but y'all suck at communicating. But then again, the reason a woman picks a guy is because she doesn't have to say much to him. He gets the point in the beginning. Basically, just give her attention like you did before you got to smash her. It's draining, its exhausting, and can be frustrating. But this is what all relationships are regardless of what anyone tells you. You have to sacrifice and work for everything …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 09:31 PM
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All these pill forums are ridiculous. It doesn't matter if it's red,purple, blue, or black. The truth lies somewhere in between all those. I think the problem with both sides of the arguments have is that the truth hurts sometimes. People are so insecure nowadays that once they're trigger by an insecurity through someone else, they project out all their bullshit. People and relationships are simple, all you have to do is understand the person that you're with at whatever stage you are in life. T…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 11:43 AM
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I've found that women tend to do this more than men, just my experience
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 10:58 AM
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I disagree with you. Men aren't finding women that they're willing to risk their future for anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 10:54 PM
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News flash you no one deserves a partner, no one deserves anything. If both parties just became happy with what they got it would be better for everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 10:39 PM
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Lmao, I really missed that part that OP said that. No wonder men aren't marrying anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 03:24 PM
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Did they mention anything about RP, I must have missed it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 03:20 PM
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Bro, you mad?!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 12:07 AM
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Lmao, of course I'm an RP guy because I don't agree with you. Wait you forgot to ask me who hurt me.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 11:38 PM
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You mad, bro
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 11:37 PM
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I mean, the whole idea of this forum is a waste of time. Let's be honest
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 05:34 PM
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That's literally what OP is saying ,that women only love you if they benefit from you. Look at how emotional you're getting. Basically said the very samething OP said.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 05:33 PM
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What's wrong with that? Life's not suppose to be fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 04:11 PM
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🤣🤣🤣🤣, there it is jumping to conclusions with your emotions.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 04:11 PM
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Seems like he is just bringing awareness to men about fundamental truths.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 03:03 PM
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That's so cute
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 01:31 AM
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Lmao, she's young and he is too. She'll learn
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 12:27 AM
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Lmao, that's not red pill. Everything is rated in life how else would you tell the difference between good and good enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 08:26 PM
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Most under rated comment! The game is so stupid now, it's not even worth marrying anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 08:23 PM
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I love the Sopranos
/r/MensRights02/03/23 08:22 AM
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Has your man ever cried in front of you
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 11:18 AM
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It would be so much easier!
/r/MensRights06/12/22 12:16 PM
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I predicted that you'd reply pretty accurately
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 10:33 PM
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No one said that women were complicated. They're not, and neither are men. I mention men because maybe you wont be triggeredd from it. Everything can be generalized to an extent men and women. You can absolutely predict someone's general behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 02:01 PM
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No one said that women were complicated. They're not, and neither are men. I mention men because maybe you wont be triggeredd from it. Everything can be generalized to an extent men and women. You can absolutely predicts someone general behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 01:55 PM
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Truth, but most won't admit it
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 10:02 AM
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Good guys only win once women hit the wall. Until then they all want a bad boy.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 09:59 AM
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What was the point of this comment?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 09:57 AM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 07:25 PM
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Until being a single becomes something that is viewed on the same level as racism, then men won't actually wake up. It's the lack of a man in the household that produces simps. It takes years to break that simp mentality, and even then it might not ever go away.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 03:34 PM
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😂😂😂😂😂😂, this made my week!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 03:31 PM
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Truth, women like toxic men until they're warn out and hit the wall. Which makes them settle for a nice guy that is boring but provides well
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 01:11 PM
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Aww, isn't that cute
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 11:08 AM
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No one cares
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 02:23 PM
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Source: been friendzoned by many women. There I fixed it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 12:08 PM
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Or that either party is faithful. The higher the income more both parties have to lose, so why not just stay together
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 12:10 PM
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If I'm dating someone I want them to have what I need in partner. Why would I want them to have the same qualities I have? There would be no point in dating anyone for me if I was looking for someone like me.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 09:42 AM
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How many people commenting have a child with someone you are no longer with? How many people commenting have been a victim of parental alienation? How many people commenting are successfully co-parenting?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 09:57 PM
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It's probably the same group of men that are sleeping with a majority of women. Women set the male sexual market place rules. All a man has to do is meet most of those requirements to get her sexually or other wise. He can then choose to marry her if he pleases. The same can be said for women that understand their sexual market value. The only major difference is that women have a time stamp on what men prefer, and women do not. It's much harder to except than a height requirement that can be wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 10:30 PM
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I just ended a relationship with a woman that was 10 years younger than me. She approached and made advances towards me. We lived separately. I dated, hooked up, or whatever you call it women who's age ranged from 21 to 25 before and after said relationship. I get approached more often by younger women, 5 to 10 years younger. I do not approach because I understand how dangerous it can be for a man to do so, and I don't want to have a Jonny Deep situation happen me. I'm an average guy that makes …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 10:20 PM
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Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 09:04 PM
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I haven't insulted you once, actually. I was just asking a few questions. No reason to jump to conclusions about my intentions.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 07:44 PM
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Then it should be easy for you to explain how you came to such a dramatic conclusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 07:42 PM
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That's not what I asked, though. I asked you how came to that conclusion based off my comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 05:45 PM
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How did you get this from my comment?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 02:39 PM
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Has this degree helped you become financially independent after your marriage ended?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 02:37 PM
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Well first off, I'm not sure who this "y'all" is that your referencing. But I have my own ideal wife that will be different than another man's ideal wife. I asked you that question from original comment because I wanted to know if at any point you were prevented by your husband from pursuing an education or trade skill that would make you valuable in the work force. What did you go back to school for when you had the opportunity to do so?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 12:17 PM
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Your view point also devalues the man's work as well. The problem is that we've been made to think that we need to compete against each other. We don't, we each bring different things to a relationship. If the man is providing a majority of the financial income, there's no way he can continue to that and increase his income while doing 50% of the household work too.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 04:34 PM
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I'm curious, did your husband make you stay home?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 04:31 PM
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Honestly, I fear women more than men. Their ability to avoid accountability and lie is crazy
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 04:25 PM
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Nothing, there's no point for men to marry anymore ik today's society with modern women. They literally created the animal that they hate now. Men are waking up to the sad reality that they have been forced fed as boys.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 05:51 PM
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Everything a woman does is based off how she feels. If she desires you, you'll know in the first few minutes. But that also goes for every other guy that she is interested in too. It's more about seeing how she reacts to someone or you if she's interested. If she jumps your bones quick, then she'd do that for anyone else that she desires at the same level or more. To me, that mea s she's not worth my time. If she shows interest but instead prolongs things, she might be worth my time. But again, …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 12:39 PM
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😂😂😂😂😂, the mindset here is hilarious
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 10:49 AM
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That's nice, but that didn't answer my question
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 01:31 AM
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Sounds amazing, I want that kind of women. I can just chill
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 09:20 PM
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Would she do the same for him or does he put his dreams aside because hers come first?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 09:19 PM
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Tags along after? That sounds bad, explain
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 06:07 PM
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Pain is a good thing, I personally think.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 07:08 PM
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The dad has to be allowed to stay involved. There I fixed your statement.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 07:06 PM
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Keeping it simple, 33M in a relationship. I discovered the Pills after a relationship that broke my heart. I dived into Red Pill and came to realize that it's the truth. After a few years of realizing that Red Pill is actually the truth, but that truth is also really depressing. I started reading more about the other Pills. Still hasn't changed my view, but instead I've come to understand things more. I use Red Pill in my relationship, career, child, and other inter-personal relationships. Purpl…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 01:13 PM
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I agree with you. It's really scary to have a boy now, but this is what the feminist movement wanted years ago. Toxic feminism
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 12:17 PM
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Right, don't blame the parent that had a majority of the interactions with the child. Which resulted in creating an outcome, that only gets changed if the child breaks the cycle. It's the other parents fault, you know the one that was forced to have limited access
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 12:05 PM
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Women are getting more degrees because the system is literally marketed towards them. Boys are lost today and are forced to find themselves. They are also taught to sacrifice themselves for everyone else at a young age too. Women pursing education is glitter glamorized today. Especially if she is a single mom or the mom in a relationship. Not guys though, he needs to provide.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 11:58 AM
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Wretched
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 12:09 AM
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If she wanted him to, he could
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 12:05 AM
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Lmao! Of course it's the deadbeat fathers fault and not the mother that's living with them. I mean it's not like parental alienation is a thing, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 12:03 AM
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This is true. I mean most men today are or were raised by single mothers. That's why we have a lack of men in today's society. This is literally a by product of women raising boys into grown boys.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 11:47 PM
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I think gender roles will begin to regress back to their traditional ways. I see more and more average to above average women wanting to work part time or not at all. They are seeking a mate that is attractive or average, but mostly is a high income earner. Especially once they get past their prime years (25 or 26).
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 11:45 PM
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I wonder if uglier guys make more than attractive guys on average🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 01:46 PM
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No, women want a guy that can provide stability in the long run. That doesn't mean she loves him though. She will just convince herself.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 11:53 AM
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That's the exact reason men won't getted married or committ to most women today😂! Which is probably why it overturned, the powers at be see the underlying trend that occur soon. No flash Karen, you're not a catch either.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 06:33 PM
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"Good thing I got pregnant and married."
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 01:33 PM
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It depends on how much income his earning.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 12:43 PM
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This guy gets it, it's always some guys fault. "My exes were crazy and they beat. I did nothing to provoke it!".
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 08:56 AM
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Honestly, it's for the better. That was her blueprint type. It's so much easier now to see these things on women. Low interest gets nothing from me now, no point in wasting my energy
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 12:35 AM
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Hoes do though
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 11:45 PM
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I mean sex workers might
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 11:43 PM
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Women past their prime care if you're a piece of shit. Once they've been pumped and dumped enough as well. Single moms where you at?!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 11:39 PM
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She's your ex for whatever reason. I'm willing to bet that she never really had a burning desire towards even after. You were honestly probably just an option, sounds like she wanted the other guy more
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 11:37 PM
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Everyone settles in almost every aspect of their life
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 11:32 PM
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😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 09:56 AM
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That is 💯% the truth. Why would anyone work a job they don't get paid for doing?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 03:07 AM
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By no means am I saying that, but there's point for me to elaborate any further
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 04:31 AM
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Tell me you might be toxic without telling me you're toxic
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 03:55 AM
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Stop acting like you're this amazing catch, and start owning up to your flaws. Just like men have to do in order to improve themselves. That literally is it, I don't see why it's so hard for women to understand this concept. Lower standards in terms of this mythical creature that you think you deserve when most of the women don't even bring much to the table. Not only that but why can't you deal with ownership regarding your own flaws. Instead women tend to wear it like some badge, no honey you'…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 01:45 AM
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This!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 06:43 PM
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I think the competition age gap is more like 5 to 10 years. I'm 33 and I've dated a 22 year old, but I've also dated a 40 year old too. I'm not worried about competing against guys 10 years older or younger than me.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 12:18 PM
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😂😂😂😂......I have a few women that have been my friend for years. The absolute truth that I've found about a majority of women is that they have no idea what they want in life let alone men. You can be the best provider, and she can still want whatever her alpha blueprint is or was before you. You can be her alpha blueprint. She will still leave or cheat for that beta provider just to make sure she is well taken care of in the long run. She can be happy for years, and then at a moments notice she…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 08:57 AM
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It's pretty ridiculous, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 08:47 AM
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I think all men want respect over submission
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 12:35 AM
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Absolute truth! If she says different, she's just not that into you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 01:21 PM
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This guy gets it
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 01:18 PM
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I bet a lot of y'all are assuming I'm white, based off my last comment. I'm Hispanic and I grew up without a father. Typical minority shit, right. Now I'm one myself. It's been a long road of self reflection over the years that has helped me realize how much better off I would've been had I had a man teach me how to be a man as I grew up. NO WOMAN CAN EVER TEACH A BOY HOW TO BE A MAN. THE SAME CAN BE SAID FOR GIRLS LEARNING TO BECOME WOMEN. We ignore this fundamental truth in our society today. …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 01:18 PM
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Yeah, that's not at all the type of men archetype that most guys refer to when addressing Red Pill. What you described is toxic for both men and women
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 07:41 AM
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Your community has these problems because of the lack of leadership on the male side of the relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 07:40 AM
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😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 03:51 AM
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Masculine men don't give a fuck about what anyone thinks. They just do whatever their purpose is in life. They understand the world based off logical thinking. They know themselves and value themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 02:33 AM
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What about the ones that believe it and know it?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 02:17 AM
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That's a nice opinion
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 11:46 PM
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In your opinion
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 09:15 PM
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Truth
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 09:06 PM
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Whatever they say when you straight up ask them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 03:22 PM
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Women have a friends list of men that are waiting to be the first round draft pick. It's only once she sees value in him that she becomes interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 11:29 AM
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I do it based off how I want to be treated. Be honest, if you're not interested in me why waste my time and lie. Don't lead me on. If I react immature feel free to react accordingly. Be grown.. pretty simple
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 04:56 AM
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Why is it better to reject a woman softly
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 01:18 AM
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So their cucks basically. I mean they do can do them. Doesn't mean I have to agree or like it
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 12:41 AM
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They're seeking non-sexual attention, I'll argue that if it's the right guy it'll turn into more. To me, it shows that they care way more about themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 12:40 AM
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So again, I should lie to them? Still pay for my half only? Text them later regarding my lack of interest? Why is rejection so hard for women? Men have to deal with it all the time, but no one defends there reaction to rejection. I'm literally letting down the person in person as gracefully as I can.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 12:38 AM
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That's my whole point as well. I mean, the women that I mentioned didn't even see anything wrong with what they were doing. They felt entirely justified.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 12:33 AM
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💯
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 08:09 PM
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To be fair attractive women behave badly and are accepted more by men as well
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 05:02 PM
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Did they fail or wake up to their own reality
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 04:57 PM
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Lmao, there's plenty of human connections. I just summarized past all the bullshit. I have noticed my dick getting thinner🤔. Hmmmm...How do you view the women I just described?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 04:53 PM
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😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 04:36 PM
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Example one: Met one women around my age through a mutual friend at work. We exchanged numbers. Shortly after, same night, she invited me over. We talked and eventually had really good sex. After a few weeks and a lot of hooking up, it felt like she was trying to get me to settle down into a relationship. But we already established how I wasn't looking for that before we started hooking up. Long story short, she ended up still using me for sexual attention as she started dating other guys. We go…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 04:36 PM
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But that proves that it worked though. Red Pill at it's core is about seeing the world for what it is, not what you want it to be. It's about owning your shit and maxing out your strengths! It's about putting yourself first then allowing everything else to fall into place once you understand how the world really works. Why is that so hard for people to understand? Rational Male clearly lines that out in the book. Richard Cooper highlights the same points as well. Take away all the fluff and its …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 04:13 PM
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It's worked so well for me that it's depressing. It's hard to go back once you see the truth. It's sad really, how brutal the truth is and how much we all try to lie about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 03:57 PM
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But what if chemistry is really nothing more than a signal sent to our brains. Telling us that reproducing with this person will produce healthy offspring that will help our DNA survive? What if chemistry is what we use to find mates as we men age, and chasing women in our youth based off their looks is what we us as we're younger?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 03:54 PM
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You're fucking killing this post! I love it😂! I'm just sitting back reading thinking, "How are women and some men this naive"! I can honestly say Red Pill changed my life and made me see the world and people for what they are and not what I want then to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 03:46 PM
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I fucking love you, bro!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 03:42 PM
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It's not that he can't get a girl because he is 5.7. It's that women are less attracted to him and will therefore overlook him because he is 5.7. Being an asshole works very well in all aspects. Wait hold on, let's replace asshole with setting boundaries. Let's be honest most of what people perceive as being an asshole is really just someone being honest and set boundaries.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 03:39 PM
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Fucking this!!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 03:30 PM
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The story's taking shape now. What was your reaction to him after that?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 08:39 AM
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So them lashing out is an acceptable response? As a mature adult, I have been rejected during a date. I didn't get mad or lash out, I just took the rejection in a mature. Who cares! Rejection is apart of life. "Hey, this isn't going anywhere for me. I just don't feel a connection. I apologize but I want to be honest with you. I'll pay for my half"....I literally said almost the samething everytime I felt like the date was bombing. I mean I guess I could've just lied to these women about my level…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 08:37 AM
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😂😂😂, what?! I like how you cherry picked what I said. So again, let me clarify. When there's no connection in the date I pay for only my half of the date. Unless of course there are pre-established ground rules in which I said I'll pay for the meal. But I have never done that. If you're courting someone would it not be for both non sexual and sexual attention? Do you ask people that you have no intent to be intimate with out on a date? Isn't the whole purpose of courting to determine if there is…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 08:26 AM
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I get that but if that happened to me, I would've told the bartender no I'll pay for it. Additionally, I would've left the money for my bill either way and told the bartender to tell him thanks but I got it. Then, knowing how most people are in those types of situations. I would've left. Boom, no drama.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 05:23 AM
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But you let him pay for your bill. Why not pay him back once you realized that he did it as a form of courting? Wouldn't that let him know that you weren't interested and ensure he felt no entitlement towards you?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 03:34 AM
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When I was single, if I felt like the date wasn't going anywhere I'd just pay for half. Let me tell you how hilarious and entitled the reactions always ended up being😂! Let me clarify what I mean by "going anywhere". If there was no sex after or no connection between us. I'd simply ask her if she was good with paying for half, explaining how I felt. If she mad a scene, I'd literally laugh as I asked for a split bill and paid for my half. Details tell you so much about a person. How they treat th…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 03:31 AM
1

I thought we couldn't compare sex and paying for dating though?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 03:15 AM
0

Do you offer to pay or split it on the first date?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 03:13 AM
1

Did you pay him back the money or offer to pay it back?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 03:12 AM
1

Winner winner chicken dinner
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 03:11 AM
2

Ooookay
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 03:09 PM
2

Fucking this!!! You hit the nail on the head!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 07:51 AM
1

An example of a low value man is the guy that doesn't make good money (below median average for their state), has no purpose, emotional, focuses on pussy or a female, doesn't not seek oit excellence in his life. Basically a Simp, as much as I hate that word.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 07:49 AM
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Nope, I'm talking about women in their prime years. 21-25.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 06:27 AM
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Here is the truth....Average women (scale of 1-10 would be a 6) get their pick of average to above average men. Above average women GET WHATEVER THEY WANT IN LIFE. Average men get average to below average women. Above average men get average women. RARE MALE SPECIMEN (think celebrity status) gets average to above average women. Those RMS (Rare Male SPECIMEN) will eventually get dropped or cheated on if they are with average to above average women. This happens if their Sexual Market Value declin…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 04:54 AM
22

That's average in the USA.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 04:31 AM
1

Very high! Especially considering what they bring to the table or what the guy has to deal with from them. I think it's all down to the culture and what is being taught to both boys and girls at a young age.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 04:09 AM
1

Everyone thinks they are better than the average person
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 04:08 AM
9

Qualify😂😂😂. Women just wait at the end of race for "winners". The best part is that men don't have to race. Why run a race that really brings no rewards to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 12:21 AM
1

It's more beneficial for them
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 05:13 AM
1

Morality is just something we made up on order to control each other
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 10:48 PM
2

Dwyane Wade can afford to take that kind of financial risk.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 10:22 AM
0

Yeah, I'm not sure what where the hell these comments are coming from. The system is blantly designed to make fathers into tax cattle in custody and divorces. It's extremely hard to get custody from the mother or even 50/50. Seeing this post and the majority of comments on here really shows how much everyone discrimination against men in general. At this point in our society, it is scary how oppressed fathers are on so many levels. I could go into more detail or even give my own personal experie…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 10:18 AM
1

This is spot on. In my experience, I've dated or hooked up with women 10 years older and younger than my age. I'm in my 30's. Women in their 20s want the same kind of masculine looking man as they do in their later years. This is just going off my own experience and just sex mostly. Dating is more about maintaining my masculine frame, which keeps the attraction going. Best rules I learned: 1) You don't own her. 2) She'll never be yours. 3) It's just your turn. It doesn't matter if its a year or …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 11:26 AM
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