TheRedArchive

~ archived since 2018 ~

Constant_West_1506 Archive

View 1 post and 16 comments by Constant_West_1506 on TheRedPill subreddit and various other subreddits related to The Red Pill community.
Search in:
In subreddits:
More
Filter by year/month:
Upvotes Title Category Author Subreddit Date (UTC)
42

Constant_West_1506/r/Divorce_Men20/07/25 05:06 AM
Upvotes Comment on Subreddit Date (UTC)
1

Nope. She has multiple fuck buddies. It’s a little different.
/r/Divorce_Men25/07/25 10:19 AM
1

I play a part in this too. This is both our fault, but I can only change and affect my side- and she didn’t come through on her end…. I truthfully don’t know myself without her. I’m now missing, and I’m learning how to find myself. That’s what I think is the hardest part for me, relearning who I am as a human.
/r/Divorce_Men21/07/25 12:13 PM
3

Shit, mine does… I wouldn’t be surprised if she winds up with a woman. Wild shit, man.
/r/Divorce_Men20/07/25 06:19 PM
8

Yep, I hear that. 200 pushups a fucking day, scrubbing the floors until they’re spotless twice a week, and spending time with my son and dogs have been the only thing getting me up in the morning. The biggest problem is night time…. As soon as I try and relax, it comes rushing to the front of my brain. All that I can think about is how divorce is similar to temporary suicide. Everything you know about yourself, your daily life, your intimate life, all dies. And then you start over…. I keep tryin…
/r/Divorce_Men20/07/25 06:08 PM
1

I bet it’s all he can think or talk about!! That’s a big hit. That’s how you wind up on an episode of “snapped”
/r/Divorce_Men20/07/25 03:44 PM
2

Thanks for this
/r/Divorce_Men20/07/25 03:01 PM
3

Ha! It was with our marriage counselor, who we have seeing for 8 or 9 years. He knows our relationship in and out, and we needed to discuss our next steps. He was our mediator to make sure we did get too far off track and discussed what we wanted out of the relationship.
/r/Divorce_Men20/07/25 03:00 PM
3

Entertainment at the expense of other people lives…. What a wonderful fucking society.
/r/Divorce_Men20/07/25 02:06 PM
2

I don’t even care. He’s my son. He’s 13 (almost 14) now, you could prove it to me by DNA that he isn’t mine- it wouldn’t change a thing. He changed my life for the better.
/r/Divorce_Men20/07/25 02:05 PM
1

Goddamn. That’s insane
/r/Divorce_Men20/07/25 02:04 PM
5

She already has. It was admitted in our mediation session yesterday. I had honestly hoped we were going to talk it through and maybe come out the other side working on our marriage- but she had her ring off when she walked in and admitted to sleeping with other people. We have been apart for about 3 weeks now and that’s what’s been happening. EDIT: I told her during mediation that I hope everything she finds outside of our marriage feels empty and isolating. And I meant it. I wish her the best w…
/r/Divorce_Men20/07/25 02:03 PM
3

Thank you, and I know there’s WAY worse divorce stories and situations than what I’m going through. This still doesn’t feel like a breath of fresh air though… maybe someday it will.
/r/Divorce_Men20/07/25 11:11 AM
5

100% this. Her friends are all divorced and living single, or on their second marriage. They have heavily influenced this behavior, and I just can’t wrap my head around it. I don’t go hang out with my friends and have them tell me “you should get a divorce, be single! It’s the best!” Wtf man…. We have raised a 13yo son together who is a straight A student, built an entire life together, been through hell and came out the other side, and then boom- she lands a great job and literally sees me as a…
/r/Divorce_Men20/07/25 11:08 AM
1

My soon to be ex wife and I have been going to counseling for over five years. And now we’re getting ready to start the divorce…. Take it for what you will- I’ll never do it again.
/r/Divorce_Men15/07/25 07:55 AM
4

Thank you. This helped tremendously, reading it from a perspective that I can achieve. I’ve felt nothing but crazy, and she’s out partying and doing who knows what. “Focus on yourself” is what I keep hearing, but it didn’t really click until I read your post….
/r/Divorce_Men15/07/25 07:15 AM
11

This. My soon-to-be ex-wife got a job in January making twice as much money as I do. For years, I was the provider. We had plenty of rough patches and we both fucked up, but as soon as she became the main provider everything changed. Her friends tell her she doesn’t me anymore, she focused on working out and becoming stunningly attractive, all while I’m told I need to do more around the house because I don’t support her enough (which is completely untrue, I travel 30% of the year). She has check…
/r/Divorce_Men15/07/25 07:09 AM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

© TheRedArchive 2026. All rights reserved.
created by /u/dream-hunter