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Rules I've had drilled into me by everyone have been to: 1. Always give an exact location 2. Always give an exact time 3. Never waste too much time building up to asking them out, ask them quickly and if they don't seem interested you move on and stop wasting your own time 4. Fuck calling them, get to know them in person 5. Waiting too long to set a date makes you look like you're scared to and wastes both your time
/r/seduction02/05/18 03:09 PM
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You could maybe go out with your friends separately and then just message her on the night saying you're at a particular club and ask what she's doing. She may either propose you meet up since you're both out or you can work your way to asking her from there.
/r/seduction02/05/18 03:05 PM
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That's all well and good. I'm worried more about her seeing me with the other girls and either getting upset and making a scene or getting angry and making a scene after I've acknowledged her.
/r/seduction02/05/18 11:00 AM
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Love the response. It ticks all the boxes for creating interest and handling a shit test. Will also be using this bad boy hahaha
/r/seduction30/04/18 04:14 PM
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Fake it till you make it
/r/seduction30/04/18 08:10 AM
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In my experience raves are too loud to talk to a girl and too packed with people. Dancing with a girl out of the blue is only gonna really work if she finds you more attractive than ever other man who tries it and you can't sell yourself because she can't hear you. I'd say a smoking area is your best chance if you're really wanting to game or else I'd just enjoy the rave. If a girl you're dancing with isn't interested don't press further or else risk becoming "that creep who won't leave me alone…
/r/seduction28/04/18 08:10 PM
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Doubt Terry Crews gets upset because someone makes jokes about him at the gym, maybe he should be a role model for you.
/r/seduction28/04/18 08:03 PM
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I don't think you'd need to give any effort in turning this around. She clearly wants you and her friends are trying to sell her on otherwise. You hung up when her friend took the phone and when you hung up on her friend her heart probably dropped. She'll come back to you without question and things will go on with you in a stronger position.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/18 05:34 PM
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Is this a joke post or have you been drinking after a hard break up haha? There's more to life than women. You should become a better you for yourself and the women will follow.
/r/seduction27/04/18 07:34 AM
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I have her on Snapchat so we've been talking on there a bit. I'll try cutting it down a little. Thus far we've been back and forth constantly referring each other music and talking about the songs a lot.
/r/seduction26/04/18 03:27 PM
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I'm in England and I completely agree with you on that the opinion opener is a bit weird on approach. I find it's much more effective once you're talking a little and need something to get the ball rolling.
/r/seduction26/04/18 03:26 PM
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Just find something to say. Neil Strauss swore by casual conversation openers like "my friends and I were just debating something and wanted to get your opinion..." Etc. I tend to look at the girl, find a quick topic to talk about like her clothing choice, maybe make a joke or two to tease and then follow up with the blind date opener or something. Then you can seduce from there once you have their attention. Protip: tell them you can't stay for long because you have to get back to your friends …
/r/seduction26/04/18 03:11 PM
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Stop watching porn, your sex drive is probably way too low because of it. Also, foreplay is important for you both. Even if you don't think so, you'd be surprised what a little touching, kissing, etc can do to either of you.
/r/seduction26/04/18 07:44 AM
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Just ask him if he wants to get a drink on a particular day. This will let him know that you're interested and then he will likely take the lead if he likes you. It could just be that you've given him no indicators of your interest in him and so he hasn't moved the relationship on from anything other than a friendship.
/r/seduction24/04/18 05:26 PM
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She must like you a lot. Some of your texts, as others have said, were a bit intense with the lovey dovey stuff. You're all over her and some girls would've pulled out by now. You did well at the start I seen, even leaving her to double text you to keep the conversation going. You need to give her a chance to chase you a little or she's going to find you a bit too much. Don't go too drastic on anything though because what you've been doing has clearly worked thus far. Maybe just dial it down a s…
/r/seduction23/04/18 01:45 PM
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The Game by Neil Strauss, The Art of Seduction by Robert Greene. They're not specifically about "boyfriend destruction" but I can confirm that in The Game, he does get a bunch of girls who already have boyfriends and how it doesn't make that much of a difference if you play your cards right. Whether or not he's right is up to debate but that's for you to decide when you read it.
/r/seduction23/04/18 01:38 PM
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Read The Game by Neil Strauss. He talks a lot about approaching women in it. Some examples of openers: http://www.neilstrauss.com/neil/the-key-to-easy-approaches-2/
/r/seduction22/04/18 05:56 PM
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You mean a 600th opinion? You've posted this like 10 times on multiple boards
/r/seduction22/04/18 02:07 PM
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Stop spamming this. Nobody truly knows if they were laughing at you, you're taking this too far.
/r/seduction22/04/18 01:30 PM
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Nah I meant if I were in her position I'd want to make you come to me if you didn't seem interested. However, if you've been saying you miss her too then you probably do seem interested so that may not be the case. I do think if you have been seeming disinterested that she's likely to do the same so she doesn't feel like she's chasing you too much. These sorta things need a balance of both keeping her interest with compliments and what not and keeping her on her toes by not seeming too crazily i…
/r/seduction22/04/18 12:16 PM
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Tell her what you want. If it needs more tongue then just say so. It's not gonna be you critiquing her, it's gonna look like you want her to indulge your preference.
/r/seduction22/04/18 11:55 AM
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You need to see if she has ANY interest in you first because trying to make a move if she sees you as nothing more than a friend, even while drunk, sounds like a recipe for disaster. If I were you, I'd just hook up with a stranger and then establish that relationship as a recurring hookup (aka friend with benefits) once you know them better. At least you can afford to ruin this relationship if it doesn't work haha.
/r/seduction22/04/18 11:53 AM
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She clearly wanted more than a hook up by her earlier texts saying she missed you. Maybe when she saw you not saying it back she got a little disheartened and decided to reign in her efforts a little. I wouldn't jump straight to her being with someone else. If a girl didn't seem interested in me, I would also reign in my efforts to try and reverse the power play.
/r/seduction22/04/18 11:44 AM
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Talk to her in DMs a little, talk about something interesting that'll show your worth maybe, then say "I'll show you, what's your Snapchat?"/"I'll show you, here's my Snapchat"
/r/seduction22/04/18 11:39 AM
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It sounds like a birth control that won't be very effective. I only know of the artificial birth control that we have all tried and tested (pills, IUDs, implants, condoms). Don't let her make you think that it's safe to finish inside. Never take the risk. If you do have to go unprotected - pull out. Edit: To also answer the question, it does sound like she's thinking about you as a recurring sexual partner and thus exclusive. However, you'd need to delve further into it because currently it's to…
/r/seduction22/04/18 12:47 AM
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I agree, I'm always shit at taking the initiative but definitely a good way to go. Give her an opportunity to join you, then she doesn't even have chance to ghost you about it because you're already going haha
/r/seduction21/04/18 09:29 PM
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The misspell is top notch, I loved it hahaha
/r/seduction21/04/18 09:15 PM
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Based on what I know you're currently on the push of the push/pull technique. You've pushed her away a little by turning her invite down so now if you like her, you need to keep her interest and pull her in slightly. As far as we know, she was sad you didn't come so she clearly wants you and thinks you're out of her reach. I can't say for certain but showing you're interested by saying you'd like to hang out should, in theory, make her jump at the chance to get what she thought was out of reach.
/r/seduction21/04/18 09:14 PM
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I'd say something along the lines of "I'd still like to hang sometime though" Edit: I am aware this is too ambiguous, I make this mistake too often. Set the date, set the place, let her come to you.
/r/seduction21/04/18 08:54 PM
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Is that the end of the saga? Now seems like a good time to arrange something because you're the prize and she's the chaser.
/r/seduction21/04/18 08:48 PM
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Are you able to grow any facial hair? Could help if you're concerned about looking like a butch woman
/r/seduction21/04/18 05:08 PM
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I think he's definitely right with not paying a lot of attention to women, especially attractive ones, at first. I wouldn't say to act like the King of England though or people would just see you as self righteous eventually. A healthy mix of not caring and investing a little bit of interest is the way to go. This guy clearly has the "push" nailed in the "push and pull method" but unless he gives the girls attention at some point, they're going to give up.
/r/seduction21/04/18 10:11 AM
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If you feel you can handle it, it can't hurt. It often happens because you end up ignoring girls and that makes them interested haha.
/r/seduction20/04/18 06:01 PM
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A lot of people say "don't stick your dick in crazy" and they're usually words to live by. If she's hot I'd maybe talk to her a bit more, she'll probably calm down with the stalking when she has your attention. Then just meet up with her on your terms and give her the D. Sounds like a definite no for LTR though. On second thought, giving her the D might only make her more crazy about you and you might have trouble getting rid of her. I'd still do it haha.
/r/seduction20/04/18 05:31 PM
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I categorise my nights out into two categories: game nights and party nights. A game night is strictly just alcohol and my focus is getting girls. A party night is anything goes and getting girls is something that either happens or it doesn't, I don't make it a goal. I know all too well how drugs, even alcohol in excess, can effect your game. I'd say next time just don't smoke weed or do smoke weed and don't second inhale it so you don't get too baked if you decide that you want that night to be…
/r/seduction20/04/18 04:18 PM
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You need to neg and ignore the one you want initially, focus on the less attractive friends first. Make the most attractive one confused as to why, for once, she's not getting the attention. Slight negs to her when she tries to get your attention work well, then you gotta pay small compliments to keep her interested when you neg too much haha. It's called push and pull technique. You also need to give yourself a fake time constraint. Nobody wants some random stranger barging in on their group so…
/r/seduction20/04/18 04:07 PM
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Bars and restaurants are always good. They're interesting, provide a lot of opportunities to talk and they're sources of alcohol which can help make you both more relaxed and confident.
/r/seduction20/04/18 02:56 PM
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I'd look for IOIs (indicators of interest). Here's a list I found: https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/cortx/heres_a_little_list_of_iois_feel_free_to_add/ Maybe you need to ask her directly to hang out, don't necessarily call it a date but make it one and then work from there. When a girl is unsure or having doubts you have gotta show that you respect that and work your way from there. When yous go on your date, look for the IOIs and then decide if she's sufficiently interested. Don't le…
/r/seduction20/04/18 02:23 PM
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Don't have her number as we only exchanged Snapchat names. She must've disliked how quickly I jumped to arranging the date or something. Think she might need more ground work first, make her want the date more.
/r/seduction19/04/18 10:31 PM
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