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FundamentalsConstantlyDoneDuck/r/seduction24/03/21 02:21 PM
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Then it sounds like the place you’re living at has most nossy in your business/judging girls. Try looking for girls somewhere else maybe. Or wait for someone to enter naturally.
/r/seduction06/04/21 01:58 AM
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Try sitting by others and strike up conversation. It’s really awkward and uncomfortable during the time, but people will respond. Also I know it’s a you time, but try to watch your reaction when you’re cycling since it may be your face that scares them initially. Let me know how their response goes.
/r/seduction06/04/21 01:49 AM
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How old are you in you don’t mind me asking? How old are the girls? How old are the instructors? How old are the other people? I’m in a exercise class too so I think I can help. I rarely look at others appearance wise, but I look at others. if I’m zoning off, then my eyes can’t help resting on people not floor or roof since that’s uncomfortable for neck. Sometimes I watch some people’s reactions to another person because that person is doing something different from others. Also, can you describ…
/r/seduction06/04/21 01:35 AM
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you’re comfortable, but feeling you don’t need to date and you can remain single makes the person seem more comfortable. It’s a subconscious thing where our actions seem so laid back people want to get to open up to them.
/r/seduction06/04/21 01:17 AM
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Not sure how many girls rejected you, but perhaps don’t think about dating so much. It’ll make you seem more natural and open to be comfortable with. Or, wait for someone to enter your life then ask them. Don’t go out your way to date some stranger you think looks or seem great.
/r/seduction06/04/21 01:09 AM
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Framing is a general term to take control of situation before you loose it and it’s opportunities. If you’re asking how to frame in a discussion with a date, then the person leads the conversation and does not leave the other party in silence or moments of hesitation to decide. You help her out and further the topic or situation.
/r/seduction29/03/21 05:38 PM
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ask in person if you’re able to catch him alone. If you never seem to find a moment the next day, then at the end of day ask your trainer for help when he’s off. I’m sure he’ll help.
/r/seduction28/03/21 10:31 PM
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Well, you could ask your trainer when the person is off.
/r/seduction28/03/21 10:25 PM
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Go for it!
/r/seduction28/03/21 09:09 PM
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You must be doing something right haha, you should try whenever then pal.
/r/seduction28/03/21 08:59 PM
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No, I was finishing running and didn’t think much of it then shortly left. It was only when I was driving I was like oh man, should’ve asked for his number haha. 🥲
/r/seduction28/03/21 07:28 PM
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She may just one of those girls who don’t care and has no particular reason. Message, wait, then drop. You at least gave her a second chance knowing it isn’t you, but her.
/r/seduction28/03/21 04:46 PM
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Message her to clarify if she would like to go on Sunday at the same coffee place or somewhere else. Ask what time best works for her. It’ll be a clarification or check-up message without being too needy. If she reads it again, then her job has to be really busy. However give it another day. After that, it means she isn’t ready to date or she doesn’t care anymore.
/r/seduction28/03/21 04:20 PM
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Haha, your moment asking for the mall reminded me of a guy at a gym asking how much a track lap distance was. There was a sign in front of him saying one lap is equal to 1/8 mile. And good for you going out of your comfort zone to try.
/r/seduction28/03/21 03:49 PM
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What about babies
/r/seduction26/03/21 06:50 PM
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She did say yes already, and you did note she was working 6 days and first date went well. She may just be one of those rare people who isn’t good at online communication. Confirm again, saying you’ll like to check what time and location best works for the date and if needed, push it further back if she is busy or unable to go tomorrow. If you already checked those yesterday, then just say you noticed she seemed a bit tired so do you want to push it back to another day?
/r/seduction26/03/21 04:11 AM
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Yea, I couldn’t recognize it because I often don’t look at posture first. Posture is one of the most important things, also displays your confidence even when you don’t feel like so.
/r/seduction25/03/21 05:39 PM
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Some of the “staring down” might be all in your head. For example, sometimes I have stared at someone or in distance then looked away and grimaced. I realized person might misunderstand or was caught. It’s best to assume it’s a simply misunderstanding and they are looking at something around you, not at you, or thinking intensely. Also you look fine so I doubt it’s your appearance. Perhaps smile )of course you can’t right now at least), nod, wave or some acknowledgement. It’ll catch them off gua…
/r/seduction25/03/21 05:38 PM
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How do you know they look at you badly? Do they or do something afterwards showing aggressiveness?
/r/seduction25/03/21 05:23 PM
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Stared down like someone actually stares at you or they judge you?
/r/seduction25/03/21 05:18 PM
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Mhm, nice comparison!
/r/seduction25/03/21 10:30 AM
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That’s what I was thinking too! I just know some people’s tolerance varies like you said so I always wondered what some people might consider fine even when others call it not.
/r/seduction24/03/21 10:04 PM
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Thank you for response!
/r/seduction24/03/21 03:08 PM
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Was this suppose to be a long term relationship? If so, then maybe you guys were going to have sex too soon for her. Startled her. Maybe she wants to wait till after marriage or till you guys know each other more. More she has body-image fear or something making her hesitate toward sex. Talk to her about this somehow. Direct to point, but sound concerned. Don’t sound clingy or needy.
/r/seduction23/03/21 06:21 PM
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Ask her somehow and subtly if she wants a relationship where a person is financially stable. or cut to chase this is about you and you want to date, but unsure she’ll be happy with you not financially secure yet.
/r/seduction23/03/21 01:53 PM
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Understandable I was just confused why so long as my initial reaction haha. Is this a rant or do you want people to read this and respond?
/r/seduction23/03/21 01:47 PM
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Wait, why is this so long with sources too like an essay for school and presentation. •~•
/r/seduction23/03/21 07:18 AM
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Agreed with other comments plus you might even be asexual type to feel no physical sexual attraction (sorry y’all I forget the type name).
/r/seduction23/03/21 07:10 AM
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That’s so good, but I hear it a lot now even between friends.
/r/seduction23/03/21 06:38 AM
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All depends on amount of dates and connection you feel. If you think you can, then yes hug. A bit more dates then try holding hands and kissing. That’s my vague timeline to not be too soon and being a creep or rushing it.
/r/seduction23/03/21 05:20 AM
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Haha, I was about to edit my response because I thought it was too harsh. Thanks for thinking they’re humbling, never had anyone say that! And you’re welcome, wish you luck in enjoying your life and someone naturally enter your life through the same passion(s)!
/r/seduction23/03/21 04:48 AM
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drop expectations. She’s only a dream. Moment of silence for your broken heart, but it’s only going to damage relationships. You loosing interest in your gfs and not having friends could mean you need to focus on your social communication like you said. When you do more activities or go out for even a walk, you can still find or get found by someone who’s sharing the same passion. Focus on yourself first, and people will enter your life. The effort to go out and person at right time correlates.
/r/seduction23/03/21 04:35 AM
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I’m not confident to say I know what that means, but I assume this is based on something between you two that has happened. flirt, if it doesn’t work she’ll just laugh it off and still think you’re funny for trying.
/r/seduction23/03/21 04:24 AM
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Her being an old friend can help out a lot!
/r/seduction23/03/21 04:14 AM
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Do you know anything about her you can continue to compliment or lightly joke about?
/r/seduction23/03/21 04:10 AM
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Ask some questions where the answers you can flirt with, no matter what. Unless you mean how to even flirt itself. Then flirting is making her seem she’s special and unique.
/r/seduction23/03/21 04:09 AM
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First, you’re only 16 years old with 2 relationships. Most teenagers and even young adults don’t have a relationship at the time despite the popularity or common occurrence to hear about it. Second, don’t focus on romance. Focus on yourself, do what you like to do and join some activity. Let someone enter naturally for now.
/r/seduction23/03/21 01:26 AM
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Well, they are humans learning too so if they make a big mistake don’t allow them to escape and go unnoticed. Comment on their negative impact on yourself. They are adults so they shouldn’t care about your good or bad opinions so don’t give people your advice unless asked. Same with your opinions and life choices. Again, they’re adults so let them figure it out on their first unless asked. If you’re asked and you need to go or you can’t, then simply tell them that and let them say that’s fine, a…
/r/seduction23/03/21 01:22 AM
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Yea that’s weird. Maybe she one of those types who attempted to act mysterious and make you follow her. I’d just go on your date and for now, don’t care about that girl. If her cold attitude continues, then you need to either flat out ask her if she worried or needs help because you noticed you guys were distant now. You would like to remain friends if possible and figure it out.
/r/seduction23/03/21 01:12 AM
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Was your guys plan to meet up close to when you were planning to have a date?
/r/seduction23/03/21 01:05 AM
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She’s not intentionally being one. Rest of your points I agree with.
/r/seduction22/03/21 10:06 PM
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tell her the communication between you two is important for you and you would like to call or at least message more. If she is worried to or hesitates any way, can’t hold it, then you need to her you no longer feel the relationship will work out. And yes, I think possibly afraid how to end it nicely or even further the relationship.
/r/seduction22/03/21 10:04 PM
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Then yes, drop her. She obviously has time after and before work to respond.
/r/seduction22/03/21 09:19 PM
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Well some people are meeting online and can not meet in person yet. Distance or not comfortable enough to yet.
/r/seduction22/03/21 08:57 PM
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Rarely, there’s someone who doesn’t hold a phone a lot. I know one person only has a computer for people to email him through. Another person who lives with their parent still and not allowed to be on their phone at night. They have so much work and need to sleep they respond a week or two apart. ask her opinions on technology and whatever she living by herself. ASK If she seems to be living by herself and not bothered with using her phone a lot, then it is best to drop her. She is not putting i…
/r/seduction22/03/21 08:56 PM
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The one girl telling you this has to talk to the other one not you if she disagrees. the other girl needs mind her own business even though it isn’t appropriate to flirt with a lot of people in a work environment. It’s honestly their problem for now mate since they actively talking to each other, it’s not your business to step in or interfere like a parent. They need to be mature and figure it out between each other. •~•
/r/seduction22/03/21 07:10 PM
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The other girl feels threatened with you speaking to her? Or to the one girl you originally spoke about?
/r/seduction22/03/21 07:01 PM
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Sounds like you already doing well! It’s really up to what you’re comfortable, continue flirting with her for at least a good week. If you already done that for a week, then ask her out already!!She clearly interested, that’s not mere friendship moves. When you do ask her out, ask her at some point to keep the relationship privately for now since work relationships are indeed frowned upon. How long until you guys feel it’s safe to be publicly open up to you two. As you know, just ask her out pro…
/r/seduction22/03/21 05:58 PM
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When did she tell you the distance may not work? Was/Is she allowed to communicate with people through her phone or something often each week?
/r/seduction22/03/21 06:31 AM
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You said she loves you and told her family, and you’ll be seeing her in about 2 months so... By 5 years, do you mean after Christmas break she went to the military for 5 years? And before that, she told you the distance may not work or during her time? Is she still in the military right now? When did she leave or will leave?
/r/seduction22/03/21 06:17 AM
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