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God, this sub really sucks now. Just a place for delusional fucking idiots to wax lyrical about shite whilst living increasingly divorced from reality Percentage and Prevalence of Age-Gap Relationships Women (20s) with Significantly Older Men: Lifetime prevalence: Approximately 28% of women have dated someone at least 10 years older at some point. Average pairing: At age 25, the typical female partner is with a man 3 years older. Online dating: In successful conversations on apps like OkCupid, r…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 12:58 PM
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Men are lonely because they're behaviourally unappealing but... Example: Dumb bitch drinking a matcha latte look at her! And nobody insist this doesn't happen because it does, and if your going to insist yes it does happen but it's meaningless then you shouldn't participate in this discussion because as we can see on this subreddit yes, every little interaction, every little thing does indeed matter. Do you legit see this in every sub women post to? Because if you do I'm calling bullshit on that…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 04:44 PM
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There are women laughing about men's penises being cut off, but in your eyes thats...better? You're exactly what the OP is complaining about.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 04:07 PM
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As for Sweden, I have to say it's correct on the surface but the reasons are a little different. Above all else it's a conformist, non-confrontational and collaborative culture, and there's some dark edges to that. I'm not going to go too far into it, but the internet is full of anecdotes of people who went here and either loved it, or "have never felt more isolated in my entire life". And that, I think, was a verdict on their own ability to mimic and assimilate (not saying it like it's a good t…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 04:04 PM
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Again, to OPs point, this is what I mean about hypocrisy. The recent data coming from the UK shows that negative opinions on the opposite gender isnt the sole preserve of young men. Two thirds of young women holding a negative view of men isnt positive or lacking cause for concern. Yes, those same women are likely not a direct threat and less likely to commit violent, terroristic acts like they're male counterparts, they're clearly not in a particularly healthy place.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 12:32 PM
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You know, I'm in the UK and I see the "importing American talking points" argument used a lot. But not just in regards to dating but in relation to all manner of social issues, politics, race, gender discourse, LBGTQ rights. It is partially true, America doesnt seem to have a particular toxic and incendiary culture war...but its also kind of misleading. Whilst, yes, we likely dont have the same toxicity as gender discussions seem to have in America, we're hardly some beacon of harmony between th…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 10:59 AM
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Fair enough
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 02:16 PM
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They didnt marry, they just had a kid together...and I'm certain he's complained that she doesnt allow him visitation.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 08:28 AM
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Of course they have, hence why you ignored the other two...who I am certain you've never heard of.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 08:20 AM
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Jesus, can u even read?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 08:19 AM
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Ooh I love easy bets. What did you achieve today? LOL at this fucking clown. "Top 1% commenter" legit trying to pretend she has anything resembling a productive life.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 01:48 AM
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Married because we want to be. Not because we need a man. We like a person to the point of love and wanting to build/have a life with them. I'm married because I want to be, but I'm not silly enough to run around acting as if men dont need women or as if a healthy relationship isnt a boon for either gender. I also think love is a calculated choice by many women and, again, its reflected in the men they often date. I've yet to see a woman say this in this sub. I've seen plenty of men call women's…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 01:38 AM
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yes, also african and muslim men arguing with UMC western women Again with this shit? Honestly you're either a racist, a white girl with a laughable dating history or a black girl whose desperately trying to run from the fact that she's black (but cant, no matter how many white men she dates). You bring up non-white men as if they have some kind monopoly on misogyny when white men in America happily told you they're fine with getting behind a child rapist. Stop it. Reddit is 70-80%, all the blac…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 01:30 AM
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Again this is the problem with a lot working class men on here (hell, men in general). As much as the women/bluepillers annoy me, u dudes just post stupid shit. Most doctors marry other doctors. The fantasy some dudes on here have of some dude making $500k as a doctor and then all the poor hot nurses fawning over him is just that, a fantasy. The idea of a nurse either being "less educated" or whose earning potential capping out at $50k in the states is so hilariously wrong its painful. And even …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 01:25 AM
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I think thats a really astute observation and its probably the reason why I viscerally hate most of the women I engage with online. I meet so many working class/first generation college graduate women who offer far more nuanced and interesting perspectives in real life, but a lot of the upper middle class women just seem peculiarly odious to me. To lend understanding to my perspective, I cite two celebrity examples: Chappell Roan and Emma Watson. The former masqueraded at some trailer park overn…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 01:18 AM
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Interesting. The comments here seem way more "critical" of trans men than trans women. I do wonder if there is some data showing men are more supportive of trans men than they are trans women. Personally I feel way more sympathetic towards the struggles of trans men than I do trans women. I just cant imagine trying to navigate a world after transitioning to male (and likely being shorter, more effeminate looking, weaker) to be easy. I also feel a lot of transfemme identity is wrapped up in sexua…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 05:14 PM
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Supporting trans rights isn't the same as seeing trans women as female. Though, you'd think they go hand-in-hand, but it's not necessarily the case. ????
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 12:36 PM
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LOL you just posted some meaningless fluff bullshit. If you dont believe trans women are women then you're not in line with the trans activists you claim to support. Take that up with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 12:31 PM
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Oh look, another dumbass who cant read. Brigading bot filled, propoganda ridden shitholes like Reddit wont ever make that true in the real world. How are u arguing some shit I literally implied in the comment you're replying to.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 12:28 PM
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Erm... Supporting trans rights often involves acknowledging trans women as women, as it is a core tenet of transgender advocacy and gender affirmation. However, this is not a universal definition; some support rights against discrimination while holding that legal or biological definitions of "woman" are distinct from gender identity, particularly regarding single-sex spaces. Perspectives on Transgender Rights and Identity Affirmation View: Advocates and many organizations (e.g., Human Rights Ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 12:21 PM
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But its also thoroughly fucking dishonest. Sorry but I cant take seriously someone who says shit they dont believe simply because they fear being banned from some irrelevant messageboard.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 12:12 PM
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This is why I think women are mostly are full of shit, dont give a flying fuck if you think that makes me a misogynist: In 2023, Yougov publishes data that the majority of women support trans rights and trans women in womens spaces. https://www.stonewall.org.uk/news/data-clear-most-people-are-supportive-trans-rights Oh, and women. Yes, women are more likely to have positive views of trans people. This is neatly illustrated in the earlier data, where 72% of women said that they were “very” or “qu…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 12:00 PM
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What goalposts? I suppose you’re one of those people who thinks TV and TS are the same. Funny, because they're literally categorised on Fabswingers as "TV/TS". How convenient you've jumped to now claim they're completely different. Either way, doesnt negate the fact that sexually promiscuous transgender women are a dime a dozen and I've posted data to support that. You have not. LOL and what about women who have sex with me and dont advocate for mens rights? Are they misandrists? Does a woman wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 11:44 AM
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And honestly, this entire debate just shows how pathetic and intellectually cowardly a lot of women on Reddit (and in real life) are. I know a ton of them dont support the pro trans stuff being rammed down our throats yet they wont touch this thread with a bargepole. Hell, one literally said "trans women are real women" seemingly not as an actual belief of hers but because she feels its simply the right thing to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 11:32 AM
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I'm speaking about online.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 11:23 AM
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You literally just completely ignored study which literally told you that the reasoning behind cis and trans womens sex work is complete different. And yet you call me delulu? Jesus. As said, there is a reason why trans support as gone down the toilet and its delusional weirdos who dont operate in any flavour of reality are further ostracized. But you continue circlejerking with your fellow loser incels on here if you must. Good thing the world seems to be leaving most of these fruitcakes in the…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 11:22 AM
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Lol there’s a hell of a lot of TVs on fabswingers. Actual trans women, not so much. But I guess a skirt is a skirt right? Oh look the goalposts have changed. And it’s absolutely typical that you will happily fuck us but won’t advocate for our rights or treat us as real women. Textbook transmisogyny LOL I havent "advocated" for the women I have had sex with either. Neither have they for me. Are we all misogynists and misandrists too?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 11:19 AM
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OP is another clown troll probably on their 15th account posting bullshit ragebait. As I keep saying, my mind is blown at the increasing number of women partaking in this saddo, gender war bullshit shitpost pastime. No one is going to buy the idea that being married in a stable home raising children is worse than being some cumrag mistress getting dicked down in some losers car. Even the pathetic losers on Louis Theroux documentary all had long term partners desperate to tie them down/marry them…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 11:08 AM
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Actually it is, because transgender women are still more likely to partake in sex than economically vulnerable women. Transgender women are also significantly more likely to partake in sex work than transgender men (twice as likely). You're also trying to imply that economic vulnerability is the sole reason people partake in sex work (its not). https://www.opensocietyfoundations.org/explainers/understanding-sex-work-open-society In fact a recent study went into this specifically. https://www.uoc…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 10:42 AM
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So many trans women I see online Is this a strictly online based criticism or have you witnessed this in the actual world? Really????
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 10:33 AM
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I dont need to "out" myself because I've never been in denial. LOL even here you exhibit the same commonplace toxic narcissism. I dont deny having had sex with a trans woman, but I also dont consider trans women and cisgendered women the same. I also understand that having had sex with a trans woman doesnt make me straight (I've never claimed to be in my entire adulthood and my wife is aware of my bisexuality...I've been "out" for a long time). But that also doesnt mean I'm some fruitloop who'll…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 10:32 AM
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LOOOL trans women are absolutely nothing like cisgendered women and dont exhibit similar dating/sexual habits...at all. Trans women have considerably higher sexual partner rates than cisgendered women, they're also far, faaar more likely to partake in sex work. Transgender women are disproportionately represented in the sex trade, with studies suggesting they are significantly more likely to partake in sex work compared to the general population or transmasculine individuals. While global estima…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 10:05 AM
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The idea is that women are "whores" for "Chad". They're highly willing to engage in sex with attractive/desirable men and very much unwilling to have sex with average/short men.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 09:58 AM
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LOL trans women are neither that rare or even that hard to have sex with. They're a dime a dozen on any NSA sex site and a metric ton easier to have sex with than cisgendered straight women, I speak from experience on that front.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 09:57 AM
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The article you've posted doesnt say any of that at all. This is what I cant fucking stand about reddit on anything Trans related. The site has become one big advocacy circlejerk where any slight criticism of it gets you banned and silenced. Worst thing still is that there seem to be tonnes of non cisgendered people on this sub lecturing about the dating habits of cisgendered people. Even in this thread you have someone lying and claiming that transgender pornography is the most second most cons…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 09:44 AM
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They do. They just often have trouble admitting it. The key thing men want, above all, is youth and beauty. If you lack either of these then you can make it up with the attributes you mentioned, but they all pale in comparison to a woman he deems physically attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 11:54 AM
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1 in 4 is a minority, but damn sure not a small one. 20% of America is hispanic and no one would call them a small minority.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 11:13 AM
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Negging is a form a flirting. Just a shitty one I have no interest in. I'm not desperate enough that I'll ignore whatever dumbfuck shit a woman says just to get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 02:09 PM
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I'd rather not...
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 10:48 AM
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Then show them to me Easy... "Muscles make you more attractive" Any guy who actually has muscles will testify to this. I think I have literally seen you post that this isnt what you have observed and yet... In a meta-analysis that combined 96 studies looking at 177,000 subjects from around the world, researchers found that strength and muscularity were the male traits that best predicted men's mating and reproductive success. The problem with the "rely on science" types is that, when push comes …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 04:53 PM
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Probably. Doesnt mean it wasn't lame. And this is the problem, yeah it probably was a shit test and there is likely some redpill teaching on frame about how to successfully turn that into a "win". But what does it say when the redpill, which so many claim to be the worst thing on earth, is accurate when it comes to behaviours women display???
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 03:23 PM
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LOL fuck knows, didnt even waste my time trying to figure it out
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 03:21 PM
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Women neg a lot too. Just last Friday, I had a woman comment that my muscles probably would mean I would be bad in bad. Tired of people on here making out as if women are some poor, downtrodden demographic. Negging goes both ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 01:48 PM
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Agreed.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 01:46 PM
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You're kinda making my point for me. I'm a leftist, feminist, hate patriarchal gender roles, and hate misogynists along with any other prejudiced group. You're...not the average guy. You can imply whatever you want about my marriage, doesnt make much difference. I'm seeing a lot of blue pilled guys and if they're not gay/bisexual, they'll often be male feminists or leftists. They're not exactly the average dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 01:22 PM
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Women do not seek out that genre more than men, get real. https://www.mcgill.ca/newsroom/channels/news/are-men-or-women-more-likely-enjoy-aggression-porn-337544 After interviewing over 300 regular pornography viewers in a study published in Archives of Sexual Behaviour, Professor Eran Shor found that while most viewers were not interested in watching sexual aggression in pornography, women were more likely than men to say that they enjoyed aggression in the pornography they watch, including hard…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 01:06 PM
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LOL I'm going to go out on a limb and assume just from the nature of your reply, you kinda know you're not making any fucking sense. There is a fair argument to be made that the outcome isn't all that matters, it may not be one that I agree with, but its a fair argument nonetheless. But your argument pretty much entirely contradicts this: Outcome is the only thing that matters. You're not making much sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 12:28 PM
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Most dont have any success at all, but some of us do. I've had sex with more women than probably anyone posting on this sub. I'm also married. I dont really disagree with redpill stances on some matters, a lot of successful men dont. I've come to notice most of the successful men are either "purple pill" or dont adhere to any pill philosophy at all. I am also noticing a number of "blue pilled" people seem to be on the LGBTQ spectrum. What I am also noticing is a lot of the stances from women on …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 12:22 PM
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You didn't contradict anything i've said. I talked about outcome. He literally did, he is literally saying the exact opposite of what your OP implied. The problem is that from the outside you only see outcomes, not the reasons behind them. And humans are very good at inventing explanations for outcomes they don’t actually understand. He is saying the outcome is the only thing that matters and yet you're implying that much is happening beyond the outcome...but then now you're claiming "you talked…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 12:13 PM
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Observation is as good as it gets. The problem I have these days is that people dont rely on observation enough. They fail to just go outside and make assessments for themselves and instead rely on a myriad of "research" and "experts" they consume online and often paralyse themselves into inaction. I notice this in multiple facets, but one that is really key to me is fighting. I'm a professional kickboxer and watch MMA/boxing/kickboxing all the time. You'll see so many people confidently making …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 11:53 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 11:45 AM
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Honestly posters like OP are part of the problem today with so many young people having cratering self esteem. I tend to find the issue is on two fronts, on one you have the redpill/influencer/altright types spouting their tradcon nonsense. But then you also have the lefty types saying stupid shit like "whY iSnT thErE A mAle bODy pOsitIvIty mOVEmEnt" knowing damn well that when it comes to belittling asshole guys on the right, one of the first ports of call is to use bodyshaming based insults. O…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 11:40 AM
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No they wont. And any who do is very much not a therapist "worth their salt". I did therapy for almost two years. My therapist highlighted that internal self worth and acceptance was built by good behaviours. It wasnt merely about accepting oneself but about building healthy behaviours and relationships which fostered a culture of self acceptance. "Internal self esteem" is a term of no meaning. And TBH you post like someone who only exasperates the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 11:32 AM
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I strongly encourage any man to only date women he’s truly interested in and find attractive and who are also pretty enthousiastic about dating you as well. Dating just for the sake of dating and gaining confidence is a waste of time and energy The fact that you wrote this makes me no for sure you dont have any success dating, the fact that some people are even agreeing with it is just sadder still and speaks to how this sub is just a cavalcade of losers now. TBH its probably always been that. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 02:09 PM
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He read something interesting in my profile, I read something interesting in his, we had a good conversation, and now we hang out once in a while. This is really interesting (as is the rest of the post tbh) I've been really tempted to use the Bumble BFF app as my wife used it and met a ton of good people. Its just a shame, its probably treated with more suspicion among straight men. I legit believe whats hurting a lot of young men these days isnt actually romance at all, but a lack of strong, po…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 02:01 PM
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And what about the 50% of white women who voted for Trump. Where do they fit into things? From just two of your posts, I can already tell you chat absolute shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 01:11 AM
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Is this proof of something? Most of the women he's having sex with are pretty unfortunate looking and seem to be largely on the LGBTQ spectrum. Nothing wrong with that, but it isnt the kind of women most of the men complaining. Yes, men have higher standards than they let on but that doesnt mean we should pretend being 5ft5 isnt a disadvantage.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 01:09 AM
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No. There are not. 99% of swinging events, at least in the UK, are advertised either through Fetlife or a site called Fabswingers. There are not LGBTQ exclusive sex clubs outside of saunas. The UK and Europe also has a way, waay more robust and LGBTQ friendly scene than anywhere in America could ever hope to have and, still, there are no venues that are exclusively LGBTQ outside of gay saunas whose clientele is mostly gay men and trans. Downvoting me wont make your terminally online bullshit any…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 11:31 AM
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LOL most of you are terminally online and often dont understand how real life works so I wont take this comment to heart. Most swingers clubs will have events which are almost always run by third parties who will be responsible for advertisement and ticket sales. The club then provides the venue and infrastructure. Yes, there are plenty of lesbians who run events and still lean on security provided by the establishment. I know of no lesbian exclusive sex club because there obviously isnt the dem…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 10:00 AM
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I agree and disagree with this premise. Swinging isnt prostition. However, at the same time, I've known a lot of male patrons to bring escorts to swingers clubs/venues. And, interestingly, in the UK the colloquial meaning of "sex club" is actually different from "swingers club" with the former being establishments which often have "working girls" who participate in orgies/gangbangs with lots of male patrons who often pay higher entrance fees for the pleasure of "guaranteed action" However, I thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 09:56 AM
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No. I know of two major clubs in Birmingham and Manchester here in the UK, both do female only nights now and the security personnel present is still the same male security you get on any given night.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 09:50 AM
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LOL interesting. I've went to a lot of sex clubs back when I was single. Been to loads across UK and Europe. I wouldnt exactly describe it (or swinging in general) as matriarchy or even anything close. However, what I do agree with that post is that it very much caters to womens comfort and safety. And so it should. Men are more sexually driven compared to their female counterparts and there are always going to be a lot more single men interested in NSA sex than women. And before any fucktard tr…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 09:39 AM
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"Many women do the bulk of childcare because thats what they actually want." I did the majority and that was my choice. LOL jokes write themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 08:53 AM
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As I keep saying, so many women on here are absolute fucking trash. Its like a bunch looked at the Fresh and Fit types and said "whatever you can do I can do better..." "However, what I notice these days is more and more men telling me their wives cant cook, have poor emotional regulation, dont clean..." Oh the irony. Obviously, those men have too high standards and are simply OCD. Men just have completely unreasonable standards. So.... is cleaning cooking etc. work or isn't it? For years, socie…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 04:51 PM
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I think it refers to when women maintain a form of behavioural/emotional regulation and consistency in a relationship/household. Whilst women do more early years childcare, whats often left out is men do significantly more hours paid work. My sister had a baby a year ago and was out for a year whilst her husband continued to work. I also never noticed this proposed fatherly absence during my own formative years. My dad cooked, cleaned, attended parents evenings and arguably had an even greater i…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 04:07 PM
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Jesus, I'm kinda getting tired of dudes here. A lot of you really dont have a fucking clue. And its getting worse. Now, most men for better or worse don't really care Men do care, they just dont audibly express they care. Walk into any Ulta/Sephora and take a look at the women frequenting them, they're the hot ones who get the most attention from the opposite sex. If you legit think women (and men) tbh are completely honest online then its fucking clear you dont know any women in real life. Anon…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 12:24 PM
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TBH I dont think its about men having poor control of their sexual desire, its about men not actually commanding much sexual desire in the first place. The problem is, the vast majority of men I see when I leave the house are unkempt, unattractive, out of shape, hell some of them smell bad too. And yet, over the age of 30, 80%+ of men are in relationships of some form. This means those same men are getting chosen, someone is sucking their smegma filled dick. A lot of women know this too, many ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 12:19 PM
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I think these arguments are pointless. As someone here correctly stated: BP/Feminists oppose anything that favors men and defend anything that favors women. There. Just shortened your OP lol I also see this as a mostly American (and somewhat less so, Anglicized) feminist thing. When the top comment so far is one seemingly explaining away the unfairness of men being expected to pay for dates one cant help but just laugh. If its any consolation though, I'm increasingly seeing this double standard …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 02:07 PM
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Are you seriously pretending that having 3 wives is anything close to a common occurence? Is that shit even legal? The amount of absolute fruitcakes on here trying to make out as if their fruitcakery is normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 10:37 AM
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their concerns are in a leftist frame of reference, capitalism has gotten too severe so their solution is to marry up financially LOL what?? This sentence is so hilariously contradictory, I dont even know where to begin.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 05:13 PM
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By this logic no one has had a one night stand, no one has engaged in NSA sex. Thats obviously not true. Yes, women can indeed have sex with a guy they're not keen on dating. Goes for men too.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 05:06 PM
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Damn. When a lot of you speak, you make it kinda clear you dont know any attractive men or have much sexual success yourselves. If you did (and this is coming from a former sex addict with a partner count in the mid hundreds) you would know that most of the women sexually attractive men fuck dont want to date those men either. And of those who do, very few (at least in the developed west) want to share a home as some kind of concubine. What does usually happen? He lives with his wife and has an …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 12:01 PM
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Attractive men have casual access to many women (for free), having children with them, then women go on to get a more beta provider to help raise them. This is bullshit, the single motherhood rate has been falling off a cliff. https://time.com/5255654/single-mothers-unmarried-parents-cohabit/
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 11:56 AM
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I dont get the obsession with age gap relationships on here. The only things I think which irk me are: Women assume that a 20 year old dating a 30 is some kind of great moral tragedy. You need to pick when you want to be considered an adult. Its so amusing here women crying about men dating younger women but will then insist that even questioning abortion is horrible misogyny or that men disliking the proliferation of onlyfans among college aged women is just jealousy. Are adult women adult or n…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 11:52 AM
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LOL yes indeed this. This is why I feel this is what creates the whole "Chad" effect thing. In truth, a lot of Chads are just young dudes who not only are good looking but also are within the age range of young, attractive women and just happen to find themselves in environments which allow for easy engagement between the sexes. Honestly, never thought I would see the day I would say it but I legit find the way older men delude themselves into thinking younger women are into them as gross and pa…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 01:41 AM
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Because if men's preferences is largely for women in their 20's and womens preferences are for men only slightly older then it means that the men who do the best with the women men are most attracted to are, again...young and hot. Women prefer slightly older men (and that age-gender gap is falling, more men are dating older women now) which is still within their age range. And I say that, again, as someone married to some 7 years younger than me. But I met her when I was 27, hardly some middle a…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 01:36 AM
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Your job is not synonymous with your income. There are plenty of police officers, firemen, even resident doctors whose salaries hardly light the world on fire but still have a ton of interest from the opposite sex precisely because of their occupation. I was in the mating market barely 6 years ago. Its changed, but not that much. And data isnt showing some major shift in the financial expectations women have of prospective suitors. If anything things have gone backwards on that front. A lot of y…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 12:43 AM
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LOL indeed, deluded. None of the links you posted support anything you said at all. No shit, women have a greater preference for higher earning men...since when did that mean they "tend to prefer lean towards middle-aged men"??? but that doesn't erase that many younger women find older men attractive, especially compared to younger men finding older women attractive. Again, even more cope. The average age gap between relationships is 3 years. https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC10367477/ Wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 12:39 AM
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I earn $200k, its never magically made women interested in me. Albeit, I'm married, but when I'm out with my friends its largely my looks and height which get women interested, not some perceived value of my bank account. Money just doesnt work like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 12:10 AM
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LOL utterly delusional. looks most women tend to prefer lean towards middle-aged men Jesus Lord what planet are some of you living on??? This is why so many middle aged men end up getting accused of being creeps. Its not because "me too is out of control" its because so many of them are absolutely fucking deluded. No, women damn sure dont have a fucking preference for middle aged men and its laughable that basing it on the two 4/10s who gave a compliments. Women's preferences are largely the sam…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 12:09 AM
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Yeah, disgusting PDFile freaks. Some audience...
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 03:19 PM
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No TBH, you're not wrong. You're gonna be hard pressed to meet a 35+ year old women who'll get infatuated with some random Tinder date. He needs to, quite frankly, aim 10 years younger if he's looking for that. And, even then, covid and TikTok has changed a lot. Its just not the done thing culturally (at least here in the west) for women to invest heavily in one guy in the casual dating phase. And I dont really blame them either, men tend to not value that which they perceive comes "easily". Als…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 01:18 AM
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It actually says, whether its Maxwell or some fucking 25 year old loser virgin, this place is now inundated with clowns that no one in real life will either take seriously or tolerate for more than 5 minutes.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 01:11 AM
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Just because simply showing up and paying for drinks worked on whatever desperado you deal with, dont mean it will work on everyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 12:06 PM
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He's right though. Its not merely about suggesting activities. You can easily suggest a bunch of shit ones that he has no interest in and the needle wont move. Your comment doesnt really lend much context beyond that so I cant see how you can possibly be right. I don’t need advice on any of this dude don’t worry there’s no need Why is that? More and more I'm noticing most of the women here will gloat about not being single only for one to realise the kind of man most of you are dating is one the…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 11:08 AM
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Are you saying sex is more complicated than can be grasped in one session? There is hardly any activity in real life where much can be gleaned from one session. I mean is this a serious response? Jesus Christ.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 10:48 AM
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So to give context I’m essentially a virgin. Which means anything after this statement is utterly fucking worthless. This is entirely the problem with this sub, and Reddit in general. Its increasingly becoming a haven for deviants, the socially incompetent and the very people you would actually pay absolutely zero attention to in real life. I mean, Ghislaine fucking Maxwell was a fucking powermod on r/ worldnews. If that doesnt tell you everything you need to know about the sorry state of this f…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 11:12 AM
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This sub used to be exclusively male incels making dumb rage bait but now there's a whole crop of narcissistic weirdos with vaginas to get in on the action. And I say that as a married man. Who just got married and is around a bunch of other married couples. I dont think one didnt at least live together before getting married. Hell, I dont even have anything against women who insist that a guy isnt truly committed until they are married. Nothing against women who preach about the importance of m…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 03:00 AM
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Yeah, thats a fair point. I do believe, fundamentally, Americans lie largely in the centre left. Interestingly enough, I can see republicans pivoting in that direction too for some reason. If the Epstein files are bad, I can see them attempting to rewrite history.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 11:36 PM
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I mean, Trumps possible PDFilia not withstanding, I really laugh heartily when people claim that surely, considering the increasing diversity, that Republicans will never win an election after 2028. Conservatives in America have continuously shown an ideological consistency that people on the left just lack. Even in local/municipal elections, conservatives always show out and actually put their money where their mouths are. The fallout from the recent Epstein saga is yet to be seen, but I'll be …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 07:36 PM
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From everything I have seen data wise, men haven't actually shifted right all that much. Women have just shifted increasingly to the left. Which is strange because I cant see how anyone of sound mind in America can legit want to vote for the GOP in good faith. However, I'll acknowledge that Trumps success in 2024 was mostly down to the Democrats running an absolutely appalling candidate, focus on nonsense issues and even possible election fraud. However, still, men aren't actually moving all tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 06:36 PM
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Yes anyone claiming there is a wall at 25 is an idiot.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 01:11 PM
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I say autism because it seems so many of you dont understand linguistics. Or linguistic devices. Its like you've not engaged in much casual conversation with people your age. You sound like the type in a conversation among young women where one pronounces "eugh men are trash 💅💅💅", you'd sit there trying to argue semantics lol. The wall was never meant to be some scientific/statistical reality, it was colloquialism meant to explain how older women wouldnt have the same sexual appeal of their youn…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 12:24 PM
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Again, this is the exact same paranoid fruitcakery that I see from incels. As I've said before, I'm seeing it more and more from women which is...a thing I guess. Would you call someone insane for being cautious of dogs after seeing lots of dog attacks? If said person crossed paths with 200+ dogs and then became cautious after witnessing 2-3 of them then, yes, I would say they're insane. And its not like we dont have data on dog attacks, 80%+ of deaths from attacks are concentrated among 4 dog b…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 12:15 PM
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Women initiate divorce for all kinds of reasons, infidelity, abuse, finances, irreconcilable differences...again, my point is that its not like men are suddenly divorcing their wives because of age. Men are hardly divorcing their wives at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 12:08 PM
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Yes, 40 year old women can be attractive. And yeah it is penetrable. The fact you're asking me which age is the wall specifically... Are you autistic???
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 12:06 PM
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LOOOOL So many of you complain about redpillers but spout the same amount of delusional and inane bullshit that incels/redpillers do. Men who divorce their wives are a minority. If you're genuinely being honest and know six who all happen to fit in that minority cohort then you, my friend, are in a bubble and you need to take a long look at your friends. If that many seem to be getting played by superficial men then that shows your circle may not be a very representative one.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 12:04 PM
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Doesnt matter, point is men dont all suddenly divorce their wives the moments they're on the other side of 30 like the OP seemingly implied.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 12:01 PM
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The wall doesnt mean women post 40 stop being attractive. It just means they dont get the same attention they did at 20. Isnt this obvious???
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 11:56 AM
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LOOOOOL This would be like saying I fear my wife cheating because I read someone bragging about it on the AITAH sub Some of you need to log off, jesus 😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 11:55 AM
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I wouldnt waste your time. That poster has all the earmarks of a bitter manosphere type. Just genderswapped. I'm seeing that a lot on here.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 11:52 AM
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What the hell are non-negative aspects of male sexuality??? This all reads like someone who has next to no experience of healthy romantic relationships. 80% of men dont have a partner count beyond 10 people (in a lifetime). 40% below 30 are in a relationship and this rises to 80% after 30. In these relationships its actually women who are more likely to end it/divorce. Now, do a lot of men pedestalize youth and beauty? Yes. Do a lot of men claim they dont like whores and then enrich onlyfans mod…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 11:48 AM
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It's alien to me. Like I genuinely don’t get it Of course you dont get it. You're not a man. Contrary to popular bullshit belief, men and women are not the same. Meanwhile, men of all ages openly admit that they’re MOST attracted to 18-22 women Think of the highlighted word there: most. Men are most attracted to younger, nubile women. That doesnt mean thats the only women men interact with. Good thing is relationships (and even sex) extend far beyond simple youth and beauty. There is a reason wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 11:41 AM
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Its definitely more common in media circles, but no exclusive to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 11:30 AM
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Fuck outta here with this crap. I literally watch award ceremonies and see women with botoxed faces up the wazzoo. In the UK where I am, there are now 900k age defying cosmetic treatments done each year. Its become a money printing industry. I hate the way women on here try to push people to ignore their own eyes and ears. You cant go outside and genuinely think aging isnt a major concern for many, many women. Maybe you need to stop thinking every woman is some fat redditor shut in who gave up o…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 02:35 AM
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I think there is a particularly western perception of femineity which is often wrapped in youth. Once women move past about 35, I notice this massive shift in how they're treated. They just kinda disappear. Hollywood actresses have spoken about this for years with many complaining how much roles dried up when they were on the wrong side of 30. Problem is, I dont really think women help with this cultural reality. So many young women these days seem to heavily sexualise themselves without sensual…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 02:32 AM
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Its good that you admit you're a minority. I think the problem a lot of dudes have is when women try to pass off being dominant or being into submissive men as some kind of common thing amongst women. Men are very much still expected to adhere to traditional masculinity and anyone trying to say otherwise I think is just a straight up liar.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 10:49 AM
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most people are switches No the fuck they're not. There's plenty of subs, but always a lack of doms. And even far fewer female doms. I used to know a female dominatrix. She charged for her work because men found it so difficult to find good female doms. Lets not be full of crap here. Making out as if there is a good amount of dominant women is bullshit and you know it. Why do so many women on here come and just spout disingenuous/dishonest bullshit? Always on some fuckshit trying to push some no…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 10:43 AM
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Well duh, this is a discussion on open relationships. Try to keep up.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 09:45 AM
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Yeaaaaah... their single despite being semi good-looking Now its semi good looking. Honestly I dont get he impression you actually associate with many good looking men, not with the amount of tripe I see on this sub. A lot of you dont really have any understanding of a decent looking man and it shows. 95% of the time a good looking dude is single its either because he doesnt want to be, his standards are absurd or his lifestyle choices simply arent conducive to a healthy relationship. This idea …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 07:29 PM
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Every woman who has any surgical enhancement is vapid too. LOL yes of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 02:50 PM
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LOL this is just nonsense, have you actually met people who train in the gym. Having muscles doesnt make you more predispositioned to be an asshole. LOL what are u even saying???
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 12:22 PM
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Interesting point. I've spoken previously about a male inlaw of mine who left their partner once his brother started dating a very attractive woman himself. Anyone claiming looks dont matter in a relationship is a fucking liar. However, you need to say this to the women on here who are convinced that "super average people date all the time" as if thats a sign of anything good.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 10:28 AM
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Its funny, because for as much criticism as redpillers are given, it seems most of you are just as anti science as they are. It doesnt fucking matter whether it was due to either male choice or female competition. The FACT is that bigger/muscular men sire more children and have more sexual success.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 10:24 AM
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LOOOOOL I mean both ignoring a meta analysis and then going on to use women on Reddit as a barometer of anything. Some of you really just dont do yourselves any favours. I dont think you could do a better job of seeming completely out of touch. Touch some fucking grass. You clearly dont actually associate with any women in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 10:21 AM
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99.99% of lifters are not roided up meat popsicles. The amount of dedication and drugs needed to be near IFBB pro level is something neither possible or even desired by most bodybuilders.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 10:19 AM
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LOL academic analysis on height is going on 40 year at this point. In regards to attraction, taller men are consistently rated as more attractive than shorter men (Shepard & Strathman, 1989; Melamed, 1992, Jackson and Ervin, 1994). Tall men go on dates more frequently and a majority of women prefer dating a man taller than themselves (Shepard & Strathman, 1989). https://gustavus.edu/academics/departments/psychological-science/files/Anderson.pdf Most of the womanisers I know are 5ft8-10 too. Does…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 05:06 PM
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No. I keep goddamn saying this. Science has debunked this as well. https://www.realclearscience.com/articles/2022/05/18/the_trait_that_best_predicts_mens_mating_success_832788.html In a massive meta-analysis that was years in the making, psychologists from the University of Durham and the University of St. Andrews in the United Kingdom explored how six masculine traits – a deep voice, height, testosterone levels, facial masculinity, finger digit ratio, and strength/muscularity – impacted men's m…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 05:02 PM
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I think I can speak on experience in this field. Back when I was single I used to be a "Bisexual bull" for cuckold couples. Essentially guys would watch me plow their wives and sometimes they would enjoy partaking in a bit of "oral play" or "fluffing" themselves. I think there were a few notable things I noticed from that scene (as someone who probably met up with 100+ couples). Bisexuality really doesn't have political stance or tell. Most of the couples I met were in their mid 30s and up. It w…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 04:50 PM
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Yes, but I'm talking one or two points difference, which would happen in assortive mating scenarios. I dont even see that anymore. Its purely anecdotal but I just dont think I see a woman above, say a 6/10, dating anything significantly below that these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 12:56 AM
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I actually disagree. When I go out to clubs, bars, gyms, "dojos". Its actually predominantly men. I actually dont see women outside all that much these days. I think the poster you're replying to is right, but they're actually behind the curve. The epidemic is literally 5 years away. Women lean on friendships groups more yes, but the rate at which they do so is actually declining. https://www.womenshealthmag.com/uk/health/mental-health/a42165833/friendship-recession/ Covid shook everything up, e…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 12:51 AM
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Most men out here are struggling. Not in the incel sense, but in the same way most people making the average wage in America are struggling to make ends meet. They're not poor, they're not starving either...but the belts are tight. I honestly feel seeing women with less attractive male partners is becoming less and less of a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 12:41 AM
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Its easier and harder now. Back in the 60's it was much easier to meet a woman, have a relationship, settle down and have kids. You could have a home, a car and even a holiday (though foreign travel wasnt much of a thing back then) on a factory worker's wage. I'm fascinated by true crime and I'm always taken aback by the sheer amount of serial killers there were in the 60s and 70s and how it seems to be a phenomenon almost exclusive to the time frame. Its often cited that a big factor was the cr…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 12:38 AM
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Thats fine, seems a lot of women on here dont agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 04:05 PM
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Erm...I dont know. Why not just go out and meet women and find out for yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 10:44 AM
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they were single moms, "post wall" women over 30, and obese women. Sooooo...the wall does exist? Single moms are indeed not as attractive as their childless counterparts??? Its hilarious how in trying to negate redpill points you...substantiate other redpill points.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 10:19 AM
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I havent really bothered measuring bone pressed but I would assume somewhere between 7.5 and 7.75. I always measure with tap measure and dont dig into the pubic area.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 09:26 AM
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Do u not know how stats work ? Did you seriously fucking type that???? Yes. Thats how statistics work. Jesus, how low is the IQ of some of you?? Yes, it is possible to make accurate statistics on 20% of a population, provided that the sample is selected randomly and the total population is large enough to make that 20% a meaningful sample size. A 20% sample is generally considered quite high (often exceeding the required sample size for large populations, which is typically 10% or a maximum of 1…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 09:24 AM
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Listening to what? This isnt a response. Are all of you just committed to trolling too?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 09:18 AM
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99% of the stuff on this sub applies to both genders. Like y'all say the same exact things about each other. Over and over again. Which is kinda ironic given the subject of your post Yeah but I mean this one is just a bit blatant. Sorry but some of these posters just seem really low IQ.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 01:31 AM
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Then there's the topic of sexual assault. So far, I haven't met a man who didn't try to push my boundaries at some point. You ever think this may be the type of men you attract??? Are we seriously sitting here saying if a guy said: "Then there is the topic of golddiggers. I havent met a women who didnt try to get some free meal or gift from me at some point" You wouldnt be screaming bloody murder? And decrying him as some typical PPD redpill gooner evil misogynist?? You cant be that lacking in s…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 01:30 AM
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We are all shallow. We all care about looks. This desperate attempt some women make to pretend as if looks and superficiality arent a major part of attraction always amuses me.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 01:26 AM
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Eh...most of the men she actually likes are like this anyway. There's no point forcing it if you're not that guy. I'm 36 and I've had sex with a lot of women. A lot of attractive ones too. It gets to a point you just...aren't fussed about playing these silly mindgames anymore. I love seeing beautiful young women, but I'm also married. I just take a quick glance, enjoy their presence and go on about my day. You speak normally. Hold eye contact. Tease if you feel like it. Leave fast if its dead. M…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 01:25 AM
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The men you're dealing with aint 9, not even close. And I'm black too. There are whole forums on this, anything above 8 inches is a major statistical anomaly and 9 inches barely exists. Only about 2-3 pornstars have confirmed measurements of that size. This is the second one of these corny posts you've made in this thread. "Oh iM blACk aNd aLl thE gUys i'Ve beEn wItH aRe MahOoSive". Just fucking stop, the difference between races size wise isnt that big. Jesus, its like impossible to get a woman…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 01:15 AM
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OK fair enough
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 04:12 PM
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You know, unless you're just trolling. I have serious doubts someone doing 10 years for sexual assault somehow didnt have any prior convictions or warnings.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 03:30 PM
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Doesnt matter, you're pretty the prototypical "bad boy" dater that most of the redpillers here complain about.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 03:05 PM
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My ex, Shawn, has been in prison for the last ten years for sexual assault. This you? I swear Reddit giving the option to disable peoples post history was the worst thing ever. It was so easy to see through people's nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 02:03 PM
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No, it doesnt. People get bored. Desire matters, but it doesnt matter that much. Have you ever been desired by a bunch of women of the opposite sex? The way some of u dudes treat it like some magical thing which overrides everything else is silly. It helps, a lot, but its not enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 01:50 PM
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Being married means you have experience, and you have enough intelligent, patience and ability to maintain that relationship, especially if you’ve been together for years. And thats what you are now, whose to say these men wont be? Sorry but I'm not really buying that some 23 year old clown preaching about Andrew Tate is doomed to some permanently lonely existence. The data just doesnt support that. And thats also not to say there arent plenty of people in toxic marriages, you're literally sitti…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 11:47 AM
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These questions are just lame now. I'm convinced the dudes who asked them neither: Have a big dick. Actually consistently get laid. I've someone whose literally swung, been to sex clubs, been in orgies, gangbangs, filmed content and all kinds back when I was single. I also have a penis that sits 7.25 inches NBP, measured at least 100 times from the tip with a measuring tape. Its an objectively huge dick. I've also seen a lot of erect penises, calcsd says I'm within the 98th-99th percentile and I…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 11:38 AM
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That's implies being married makes you correct. I'm married too, I definitely wouldn't say my stance on dating and women is the healthiest. Beneficial to certain type of guy? Maybe. But far from correct. And, that's the issue, the fact that you see it as "being correct". I believe dating/marriage and even this debate sub is ultimately about men and women having positions which the other couldnt possibly maintain, because men and women are fundamentally different. There are positions which a man …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 11:11 AM
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I'm gonna keep asking this until I'm blue in the face but... Does anyone else notice there has been a massive influx in dumb ass femcel/pinkpill posters on here??? Because, I swear, I see more toxic, one sided junk from women these days than even redpillers and thats saying something.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 11:01 AM
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Why are women having children with men who are not pulling their weight before marriage? Because a lot of women are desperate losers. Simple as that. I'm married but I dont have kids. I already clean the house more than my wife does, the only reason she's started doing it more was because she was made redundant, even then, she still cant match my consistency. And this is despite me being the primary breadwinner. A lot of women settle. My wife told me this out of her own mouth. This is why I hate…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 10:55 AM
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In the U.S., roughly 80% to 86% of single-parent households with children under 18 are headed by mothers, while single fathers account for approximately 14% to 20%. Thats is plenty to make a comparison and scientific analysis on. Are you just allergic to facts or something? You have to be completely blinkered to make that statement.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 10:47 AM
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TBH personal attacks aren't a thing here, this comment will be removed. However, I do think the poster you're replying to a pretty socially maladjusted (not sure if even saying that is considered a personal attack, you can never tell these days). When I first came on here I thought it was just the black/redpilled/incels who seemed to have a pretty warped grasp of gender dynamics but I've come to notice that a lot of the "1% commenter" women on this sub are a little bit on the strange side too. E…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 10:43 AM
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Again, LOL. Iran literally just shot down 30k+ protestors in like 3 weeks, Israel took out 20000 children in Gaza. U sure about that??
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 06:48 PM
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Pakistan had a female leader too. Not sure it means all that much. Just LOL if you can legit see whats happening in Palestine, Ukraine or Venezuela and think the world isnt become a more of a playground for strongmen.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 06:23 PM
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This is Trumps world, we're just living in it. You could say the same about Putin. The reason why patriarchy isnt going anywhere is because people talk out of both sides of their mouth. In Europe we whine about Putin and Trump and yet absolutely refuse to commit more to our defence spending. In America, people always talk about how terrible Trump is, and yet he still manages to get a huge percentage of the female vote. People refused to vote in a female president, twice.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 04:23 PM
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The hell, women have equal voting rights. Where on earth are u talking about???
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 04:21 PM
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That if you think simply expanding social programs and being happy being a stay at home dad is a solution then you're probably an idiot. A lot of men find pride and meaning in work, hard work especially. I'm also passionate about fighting like Rogan and Tate are, for every 50 guys I've trained and competed with, I've done so with one woman. Also, there are plenty of countries that try to implement the kind of progressive policies American feminists love to praise, they don't work. I live in a co…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 04:15 PM
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you neglect the fact that feminists are MUCH more open to discussion over how fucked up extreme capitalism gets than conservatives are. I dont give a flying fuck about anyones "discussions" on how "fucked up" capitalism is if they dont practice what they preach. Feminists simply want to pretend they care about the "downsides" of extreme capitalism. Absolutely none of them suggest anything to actually improve the lives of ordinary people. Trump? Tate? Rogan? Jordan Peterson? even Scott Galloway a…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 03:19 PM
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Eh, I lurk twoX and AskFeminist and criticism of white feminism gets a lot of pushback in the latter.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 02:02 PM
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From what I've seen askfeminists is dominated by a particular kind of white american feminist which, in actual fact, means its nothing more than a cavalcade of absolutely useless fucking clowns. I dont really enjoy any of those subs, but at least places like twox seem all in on the feminist fruitcakery. I remember reading a thread about why so many white women vote for Trump and a bunch of them seemed offended that someone had even asked that question. It seems there isnt any remote attempt at a…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 12:09 AM
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What does that have to do with my point at all? Its funny, you make the same emotionally charged stupid comments that dumbass redpillers do. Cant say I'm surprised.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 06:55 PM
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What rule? My point is societies are ruled by the conquerors. To conquer you need an army. Most armies were made up of men. Because men are stronger.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 06:53 PM
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"Sounds like if the one most likely to win a war are the ones in charge, then its not really a surprise that men are the ones left in charge." - oh look, you just discovered patriarchy. Yes and my argument is when has that not been the case? When has it ever been the case that people who rule aren't the ones who win the wars. Hence to my point (made in another comment) that "patriarchy" is endemic, not systemic, and a naturally occurring biological/anthropological reality
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 04:32 PM
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So you've listed 3 female ruling figures, how many men do you think i can list? I'll go just from the top of my head. Tutankhamen, Alexander the Great, Cesar, Genghis Khan, Eduard 1, 2, 3, 4. Henry 1,2,3,4,5,6,7,8. Lui 1,2,3,4,5,6,7,8,9,10,11,12,13,14,15,16. Wilhelm the Conqueror. Richard Lionheart. Napoleon. Ivan the terrible. Male leaders dont have a monopoly on violence or cruelty, in fact its been pretty well studied and acknowledged that queens and female heads of state were far more likely…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 04:00 PM
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As much as I absolutely despise Andrew Wilson, I actually think his idea on the "force doctrine" actually makes sense. Its the idea that organised society isnt as much a patriarchy as it one where those with power are able to enact their will on those without it. And considering men, for the most part, are more physically powerful than women then logic would dictate that they are able to enact their will on women. In software there is a phenomenon called "abstraction", the process of managing co…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 03:52 PM
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I'm not single, not even close. But I dont think thats accurate. I follow a UK dating sub on here thats got way less weirdos than there on here. They complain about how hard its been and largely blame the pandemic and lack of third spaces. With that I can totally understand things being materially harder. Dating apps. Many men struggle to get traction on apps. They will say it’s because they are only average looking. But the reality is that the vast majority of men have terrible pictures on thei…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 11:21 AM
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And? So insanely delusional. You yourself use "straight" in inverted commas. So you know they're not actually straight. They bisexual/homosexual, which accounts for 10% of the population. And, even then, many LGBTQ people arent attracted to non-binary people either. Any man having sex with trans women is obviously bisexual/pansexual at best.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 12:01 AM
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When I see the replies here, I just think bluepillers are legit stupid. And I think thats the tragedy. I notice a lot of Trump supporters/conservatives are ignorant assholes but ignorance and stupidity are two different things. I dont think a truly intelligent person can sit there and come to the conclusion that gender roles are somehow "linked" to capitalism and societal control. Its like leftists who think simply taxing billionaires will solve all societal ills. These people just arent very br…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 05:35 PM
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i was simply referencing the well known fact that the korean look is globally very influential both wrt grooming, skincare These aren't feminine. Metrosexual? Maybe. But no, not feminine. These men aren't feminine either: https://www.koreaboo.com/lists/kpop-fans-discuss-male-idols-give-sexiest-vibes/ They're feminine to someone with an ignorant, western centric lense but they still very much adhere to masculine expectations for muscle mass, jaw definition and physical capability. And having a sk…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 05:32 PM
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The data is US data, no? LOL I'm not even the US, I'm in the UK. Do you legit think people here are somehow more open to dating gender non-conforming people? Looks like you not only need to read more but you probably need a passport too.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 05:22 PM
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What does that have to do with what I posted? I mentioned women increasingly joining the workforce in the mid 20th century and you jumped to working class women always working. When did I deny that? And how does that fit into your point of gender norms being a tool of societal control? But they had less rights, they couldn’t own property, couldn’t vote Huh? What are you even talking about? Women in the US gained the right to vote in 1920 with the 19th amendment. The only distinction in class whe…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 05:21 PM
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Did you seriously refute the data I posted with anecdata? Really? In 2026??? And yes all the people who said yes in that survey are just conservatives from North America...
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 05:08 PM
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LOL gender norms are indeed less prevalent now. Are you somehow suggesting that people are less controlled by the "powers that be" today? Feminism gave women more rights? Such as? Wasn't women's introduction to the workforce largely a byproduct of WW2, urbanization and western deindustrialisation? Again, this is another response from a "bluepiller" which is so historically illiterate I dont even know where to begin.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 05:06 PM
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Jesus, what a fucking dumb comment. On so many levels. Firstly Korea has some of the lowest birthrates and relationship rates in the world. So clearly it isnt working for them. And thats even if you're somehow implying Korean men are somehow "feminine" (they're not). They just have their own cultural interpretation of masculinity and, even then, you're framing it entirely from a kpop lense as if Korea doesnt have a bunch of cultural output (and male artists, performers and celebrities). If you'r…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 05:00 PM
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Reddit take. "Plenty" is really subjective. https://www.nbcnews.com/feature/nbc-out/nonbinary-people-struggle-recognition-extends-romantic-relationships-n1038876 87% of people wont even consider dating a transgender or non-binary person. Its so hilarious to me that saying that men prefer femininity and women prefer masculinity is such a controversial opinion on here.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 04:47 PM
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This is a great point but this: That also means you accept any consequences of adhering to, or rejecting, gender norms. No one is obligated to date women or men who reject their gender norms; the only thing that can be expected is basic politeness and social acceptance. Is key. A lot of people aren't willing to accept that. I think thats what gets me the most about all the talk of gender non-confirmity, its the fact that the vast majority of the public wholly reject it. I also think this is what…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 04:44 PM
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ChatGPT will substantiate almost any bullshit you tell it to. Only an absolute fucktard would post ChatGPT agreeing with some shit they said like its some kind of flex.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 10:46 AM
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Yes, very much so. I've mentioned it before though that will be of no use here. Said guys brother just got in a relationship with a very attractive girl who my wife really likes which (I have a strong feeling) is a major factor in their dissolution. And the fact that before meeting his girlfriend, he was friendzoned by a more attractive girl. Maybe I'm just projecting, but I just dont have that kind of faith in people these days. Superficiality is a human mainstay.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 03:27 PM
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And yet they're still giving them money. Only an absolute jackass would sit there, giving a thot money for taking their clothes off and then somehow think they're above the girl doing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 03:22 PM
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Yeah. Same way I assume a guy who cant get a date is likely ugly. However I somehow think if I did say that you wouldn't call that take "misandrist". LOL some of u are so full of rubbish.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 03:18 PM
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Well he claims there wasn't so....yeah. They apparently had "irreconcilable differences" whatever the fuck that means.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 03:17 PM
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Well yes, he clearly didnt want to progress it. The pleasant and peacefulness clearly didnt account for much.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 03:16 PM
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LOL its funny you say that because male obgyns have become super unpopular.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 12:32 PM
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This is the absolute, number one trait a woman can have….way more important than looks. No the fuck its not. I know plenty of men settled with absolute headcases. This reads like incel fueled bullshit. A lot of men like bitches, its nothing more than petty revenge fantasy when dudes think a woman needs to be pleasant, nice or even feminine to make a guy settle for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 12:17 PM
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LOL Most of the women in those subs are kinda ugly. And its pretty obvious too. Thats not to say attractive women dont have their time wasted too, but its often massive lifestyle issues and those women are also trying to tie down dudes of high status/good looks themselves. A womans idea of a "good woman" and a mans idea of a "good woman" are not the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 12:14 PM
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He's right. It never ceases to amaze me just how little women on here understand about the opposite sex. They weren't that attracted or lost attraction to you, your lack of ambition would have contributed to that, but it wasnt the deciding factor.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 12:11 PM
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And it probably isnt why they dumped you looool I mean its hilarious the shit people will say and the fact that people will actually eat it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 12:09 PM
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Eh my in-law just dumped his pleasant and peaceful girlfriend of nearly a decade. I legit think the fact that she isnt all that attractive played a massive role.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 12:07 PM
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If you feel like you have to do it to land a guy I promise you there are just as many, if not more guys out there that would take natural over plastic 8 days a week, and that's before you worry about maintenance and procedure creep. I honestly think this is bullshit, and I dont believe guys when they say this. There has been an absolute explosion is cosmetic surgery and not all of it is bad. Both invasive and non-invasive procedures. Just like women lie and claim they dont like muscles, men lie …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 12:04 PM
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Being hot is more important Hmmmm, seems the women on here are getting smarter... Yes. Being hot is the most important thing for men. The sooner you learn this the better. And this is a modern phenomenon which I think a lot of women dont understand. We can no longer ask or expect women to be feminine/godly/nurturing/good cooks. This means men say to themselves, "well if she's not going to do the things I saw from women in the past, she can at least be hot" and hence you have the proliferation in…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 11:59 AM
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Not sure if its relevant, but my wife has two brothers. The older one has been dating a woman for 8 years. They met on Tinder and she literally looks like the typical redditor, extremely average, not particularly charismatic, big into nerdy shit like Pokemon and videogames. A little overweight. The other, whose slightly younger, is dating a legit stunner. Tall, but also super likeable and sociable. The older brother literally just broke up with said girlfriend, and I feel the younger brother mee…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 10:01 AM
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Yeah and what am I willing to bet in this But, he expects my mom to listen about all his bullshit about work and telling her all his drama and how stressed and upset he is all the time. my dad was so stressed at work and how hard he had it and im sitting there think he us going to lose his job and get fired Interestingly, was he the primary financial provider in this scenario? My parents had a fairly even split when it came to providing and thus my dad couldnt burden my mother with the emotional…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 09:45 AM
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If your wife got sick, you’d stay. There is no guarantee of that. I would like to think I would, but I would like to think I would do a lot of things.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/26 03:06 PM
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The specific women that are discussed on Reddit doesnt actually exist, its a conflation of numerous traits found in many different women. Wasnt this the idea of women not being monolith? You cant now suggest that certain women ARE actually monolith and have a monopoly on the certain shitty traits men complain about. Equally pretending as if there is a exclusive subset of bad men who are shallow and toxic is pretty silly as well. You're likely to meet people dont you gel with who may have a toxic…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/26 03:00 PM
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Essentially, yes?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/26 02:55 PM
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Well considering 50% of people divorce, they're clearly not the be all and end all. Vows dont give me carte blanche to put my wife through the ringer.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/26 11:25 AM
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My argument was that women who have causal sex don't typically struggle to find high quality partners In a discussion yesterday about attraction, this was literally one of the most upvoted replies: I think part of it is a result of men’s behavior. I used to be very open to casual sex or sleeping with men quickly. The problem is, these men only cared about their own pleasure and generally didn’t treat me well. So yeah, when you realize that if you sleep with a man, there’s a 70% chance he will be…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/26 11:12 AM
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Based.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/26 10:50 AM
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lol Income is highly important in a man's mating success, particularly for long-term committed relationships like marriage, and its significance has increased over time in modern societies. This pattern is observed across different cultures and is consistent with evolutionary psychology. https://www.tandfonline.com/doi/full/10.1080/19485565.2023.2220950 https://link.springer.com/article/10.1007/s00265-022-03209-2 Saying women dont care about income is kinda wild.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/26 10:48 AM
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The rate at which women divorce their partners rises significantly is said partner loses their job. Sounds cruel, but depending upon how long that situation lasts, I couldnt expect in good conscience my wife to stick around as our living standards deteriorated for a significant period of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/26 10:44 AM
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Eugenics would be forcing people to breed depending upon whatever is deemed "good genetics" which has always been entirely asinine.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/26 10:42 AM
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Thats fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/26 08:57 AM
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Thats fair, but I also think a lot of that is a survival instinct.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/26 08:55 AM
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Yes, and TBH I wouldnt even call it shallow (I actually hate that word). We're all pretty superficial. And its actually good for the species.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/26 02:09 AM
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Genuinely blue pill women and men I think the bolded is key here. I kinda believe very few people are legit blue pilled.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/26 02:04 AM
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The real "tea" is that being materialistic or even having rigid standards doesnt automatically make you a bad person. My bro in laws girlfriend is legit beautiful and has a taste for the finer things in life, is legit one of the seemingly nicest women I've met. My wife herself is very pretty and feminine, most of the dudes she's dated are 6ft2+ athletes and womanisers, she's also a very kind and giving person. My issue with Reddit is that its full of really off-key, judgemental people who also t…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/26 02:03 AM
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TBH I remember FDS quite vividly, I dont think it was much of this either. Much of it was framed from "well if men are gonna treat me like shit, I might as well find a tall and attractive one in the process". And despite the population of femcels, a lot of the advice from there was pretty legit too. It wasnt framed from a place of antagonising men as much as it was from a position of men are the enemy, and here's how we beat them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/26 01:57 AM
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I'm gonna just keep it a buck, sleeping with women isnt that hard. The only issue is a lot of men are aggressively unattractive. I dont deny there are a lot more pitfalls and complexities to modern dating, but finding a woman for sex really isnt anywhere near as difficult as men here make out. Women dont put any effort into sex because sex is hardly rewarding for most women unless they're with a guy who actually prioritises their pleasure. The good news is, as a guy, you can get better at this. …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 03:24 PM
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Fixing air con is HVAC, a pretty lucrative field these days. If educated women are dating blue collar guys, those guys usually are making a pretty good income themselves. Data supports this. https://www.nationalreview.com/2019/01/dear-educated-women-blue-collar-men-can-earn-great-livings/
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 12:49 PM
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LOL take your incel projection bullshit elsewhere, literally none of what you posted is based on anything factual https://ifstudies.org/blog/high-earning-women-are-more-likely-to-marry- As it turns out, for women ages 25 to 39, higher incomes are associated with higher marriage rates. ACS data from 2019 to 2023 shows that, among women who had never previously been married, 10% of those in the highest income quintile reported getting married in the past year; meanwhile, only around 5% of the lowe…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 09:45 AM
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Thats true but teachers and nurses are both well paid (at least nurses are) educated professionals. It seems like I did overstate how much men want to date someone in the exact same profession, but the need for them to be educated, stable and well earning remains.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 01:22 AM
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Its funny, I actually feel I somewhat buck the trend as my wife is very much a feminine homebody. But even with that she has a masters, writes books, has numerous certifications and only recently lost her role as a business analyst due to the company she worked for making her redundant.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 01:13 AM
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Women who are making more money are dating men who also make good money. Those men dont actually want to date women who aren't in the same socioeconomic strata. Female doctors dont struggle because there's a plethora of male doctors who only really want to date doctors. Female lawyers wont struggle because male lawyers will likely end up dating someone in the legal profession. And data supports this too. https://www.bloomberg.com/graphics/2016-who-marries-whom/
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 12:56 AM
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I find this entire discussion pointless because, as someone earning well into the six figure salary range (around the $250k mark), I can comfortably say I dont know a single person whose within this salary range who isnt also dating an educated professional who, whilst not earning the exact same salary, is well within a position to do so. In fact, high earning professionals dont even discuss salary in such binary terms...because its unbecoming. I earned 250k this year, but thats likely to be wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 12:47 AM
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Eh...is this even true? I havent been on OLD in a long time, but from what I can remember seeing from friends perusals on Tinder/Hinge, a lot of the profiles looked pretty wholesome. Yeah you had the Instagram/Influencer wannabe types but I also felt that gen Z at least had a few aesthetic choices if they didnt want to go down that route. There's "clean" girls, "goth" girls, "alt" girls, "urban" girls. I think this can also be seen in the proliferation of skincare lines (in lieu of purely makeup…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 12:30 AM
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lol what kind of dumb shit is this?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 02:31 PM
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This isnt insecurity, its low self esteem. A 30 year old dating a 23 year old virgin whom rejected you initially makes me think that you probably dont think you can do any better. You need to stay single and work on yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 10:04 AM
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Thats a yes then
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/26 11:18 PM
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Did you seriously make a new account just to post this? Thats pretty pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/26 11:15 PM
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I'm 36 but ok
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/26 11:08 PM
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Maybe. I think it men are more willing to accept it if the wife is someone worth the "drudgery". I proposed to my wife because I knew, if marriage was due to be a ball and chain, at least it was a ball and chain with someone whose somewhat tolerable. Problem with a lot of these rituals is that the average woman is a self serving asswipe. I've literally had people telling me that gender roles are sexist. Only to have a bunch of women in this thread claim they actually kinda like gender roles. Its…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/26 10:51 PM
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The redpill definitely doesnt have a monopoly on belief in adherence to gender roles.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/26 10:36 PM
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Are gender roles sexist though?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/26 05:31 PM
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TBH I think its the opposite, its people forgetting that we live in a society and desperately trying to rewrite the rules or reinvent the wheel. “women are supposed to be nurturing emotional caretakers,” The problem with this is that, how many people genuinely want to be around women who dont have a sense of nurturing or emotional intelligence? When I see autistic or neurodivergent women speak of their experiences with other women, they sound awful. I know its not fair, but the different genders…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/26 04:58 PM
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TBH I think this is it. I think now, more than ever, so many people (in the west at least) are convinced that they need to be provided for. I think a big contributing factor to this is the nature of capitalism. And thats not me saying capitalism is some terrible system, the opposite actually, its become a victim of its own success. Many of the richest/most powerful people are largely there because they've built a product or service of convenience. And there's so many these days. Doordash to brin…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/26 04:49 PM
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Oh get the fuck out of here. Its funny how all the leftist fucktards who cry about sanctions would never be caught dead in any of these territories they love so much. Iran's recent protests were actually kicked off in Irans commercial hubs due a loss of purchasing power and heavy inflation. Something experienced across the developed world. Same with Venezuela, they ran a massive fiscal deficit and spend absurdly on social programs during the oil boom years. Of course, considering the cyclical na…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/26 10:37 AM
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Its not the right time though, for something to be at the "right time" two people actually have to agree on it. I also dont see "she wanted to spend the rest of her life with me" as a good thing if its not someone I particularly want to spend the rest of my life with. Honestly your way of thinking is entitled and kinda sad. Someone doesnt owe you commitment. If I proposed to my wife, and she said no, what should I do? Be offended by that? She doesnt have to say yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/26 10:12 AM
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Because of why I mentioned previously, its a sign of impatience and being unconventional. I've never seriously dated unconventional women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/26 12:30 AM
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One study says that, the others dont. Did you just completely ignore those? Regardless this: Reminds me of that "lesbians commit more domestic violence" study which says no such things. It says that women in sapphic relationships were more likely to have ever been the victim of domestic violence at any point in their lives. That's it. It says nothing about the gender of the perpetrator. Is absolute rubbish, there is clearly data suggesting lesbian women are subject to more IPV, just that there i…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 11:05 PM
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TBH this seems like a post covid thing. I've definitely noticed a shift somewhat from what I see from people around me or when I venture on nights out. There's a lot less give and take. I'm seeing so many people (men and women) who think relationships are entirely about what they can get out of it. Thing is, this strategy is a DOA for most men. Unless you're Chad, you're setting yourself up for failure by being purely transactional in your dealings with women. I also feel most of these men have …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 10:58 PM
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Good. I just wanted to make sure I wasn't talking to a hypocrite completely lacking in self awareness. Provided you're aware you're just as DANGEROUS as the guy in question, we're all good 😊
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 10:41 PM
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Huh? https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC6113571/#:\~:text=Despite%20the%20myth%20that%20IPV,et%20al.%2C%202012). Despite the myth that IPV is exclusively an issue in heterosexual relationships, many studies have revealed the existence of IPV among lesbian and gay couples, and its incidence is comparable to (Turell, 2000) or higher than that among heterosexual couples (Messinger, 2011; Kelley et al., 2012). While similarities between heterosexual and lesbian, gay, and bisexual (LGB) IPV wer…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 10:37 PM
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LOL, you legit saying you've never had a violent/negative thought? Really???
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 10:23 PM
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TBH I have to agree with the post from GridReXX. I feel the issue is men dont display kindness enough, when they do its entirely self serving and purely for the purpose of sex. And its so fucking gross. Truly kind men/people are wonderful. Dudes who are assholes who only display any kind of virtue/generosity when the opportunity of pussy or female validation shows up are absolutely revolting. And it carries through in how you perceive the world around you. The fact that women are treated somewha…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 10:06 PM
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Yeah but thats not the case, I cant really work off of a hypothetical like that. I wouldnt talk about a woman proposing to me because its not something I would ever feel comfortable doing. If a woman did propose to me it would be something I neither wanted nor expected.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 09:47 PM
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People dont need a murderer to tell them murder is bad. The opinion of a murderer has no weight. We dont let them outside, let alone offer opinions on how they feel about murder.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 01:49 PM
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They're great friends. They're not full of shit though. You may learn how important people like that are in your life. A woman proposing suggests she's impatient, unconventional and non traditional. All three are pretty much a death blow to a successful marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 01:38 PM
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This is why most people see christians as fucking clowns. No, you cannot promote virtue if you're not a virtuous person. No, people dont want to hear about virtue from grifters/criminals/people who lionise a president who SAs children. Jesus, literally spoke on this in Matthew 7:1 and 3-5. OF, like most sex work, fucking sucks. The difficult of, say, being an escort isnt that its materially more challenging than physical labour, its the fact that whilst you do said work, you're constantly in dan…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 01:24 PM
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This sub resembles 2xchromosomes more and more by the day. Seriously whats up with this? This place no longer feels balanced.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 09:37 AM
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Yes. Massively embarrassing. TBH I already proposed and married a year ago. It was a good proposal that came along with a nice 3ct ring. TBH all my guy friends would laugh at me if my wife proposed to me too. Interestingly though I can see why a lot of guys wouldnt mind it though. A lot of women dont want to adhere to traditional expectations of femininity or gender roles...so why now should you be okay with those when it comes to coddling of your own ego through a romantic/lavish proposal?? Its…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 02:20 AM
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Society should promote virtuous livestyles provided said promotion is being done by the virtuous. Problem with tradwife content is that much of its proponents are the same people who'll criticise an onlyfans girl from one side of their mouth and then lionise a pedophile president from the other. Also lol at onlyfans being hard. They must truly have it bad having to take pictures of their butthole online. The only people who say this shit most of the time are losers who havent been successful in …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 01:57 AM
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I'm happily married and I'm in the top 1% threshold of yearly income. If this marginalization then sign me up.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 01:52 AM
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TBH I'm not even sure if its that. I think we've just become more honest about who is willing to play those roles and who isnt. There are still a ton of women into the conservative, tradwife shit. There are just many others who no longer have to adhere to a lifestyle they never had much desire for. Thats both a good thing and TBH thats on them, because living life as a truly independent women is fucking hard. Hence why so many give up and settle down with any half decent man who'll give them the…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 01:26 AM
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It isnt. Men are meant to be female centred. Thats the entire point of our species. To multiply. If anything, whats super weird is men not trying be female centered and consuming toxic redpill/culture war junk. Every statistic out there also supports that men who are in relationships/married/have kids perform markedly better than their single male counterparts. The societies where women are educated, free and prosperous (Norway/Canada/UK/Germany) are all markedly better places to live than those…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 01:12 AM
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Problem with this is conservatism isnt the dominant culture, especially not so in the urban centres, mass media, colleges or among women. I wont pretend as if being LGBTQ is wholly accepted, but its a lot more of an accepted reality than it was 20-30 years ago. And that still doesnt explain why incels are actually more likely to be on the left politically.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 11:46 PM
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LOL I cant find a lick of data to support any of this. Statements like this are why u see a bunch of men on Instagram crying every time a white girl is posted up with some foreign dude on her arm. There is a 5% point difference between white and non white men response rates on that age old OKCupid study, please dont use that as a way to extrapolate out that nordic traits are somehow "ideal", you'll be sorely disappointed in real life if you run around believing that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 11:36 PM
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In that case, everything is liberalism then. That makes no sense considering conservative governments have overseen significant investments in human capital too. I get the spirit of your point but I'm not comfortable with placing all social progress at the feet of progressives. History just doesnt support that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 11:19 PM
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Yeah and I dont think that stance is actually all that moronic. Increasingly I'm noticing just how few "liberal" societies actually employ that much liberalism. People often use nordic countries as an example but they often forget outside their generous welfare systems (often funded by high taxation...on everyone, something I always wonder how many american liberals are actually comfortable with) are market economies, highly capitalistic and often reliant on north sea oil or exploitable natural …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 10:26 PM
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TBH I kinda agree with him. Liberalism clearly doesnt appear to be working. In my country we have a pretty left leaning government. Nothing has improved and the economy has materially gotten worse. It sounds good on paper, but it rarely works in practice. For instance, where I am, the bill for social welfare has reached nearly 100 billion each year. Much of that is covering the cost of people on disability benefits. Only issue is, compared to other G7 countries, we have an outsized number of peo…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 10:12 PM
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LOL is that so? Please enlighten me.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 10:02 PM
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And that reference makes no sense. Why not just admit that you dont know how to spell babble and have done with it? This pointless response and trying to remove my comment (which doesnt contravene any rule on here) is just hyper lame.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 09:55 PM
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LOL seems like you dont understand the meaning of babel either. I cant exactly say I'm shocked tbh And trying to moderate the fact I called out your word misappropriation is even worse, oh dear.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 09:51 PM
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I'm not sure that explains why incels are more likely to be left leaning? Maybe because they dont adhere to traditional markers of masculinity? Conservatives adhering to gender norms doesnt explain why they also seem to be happier adhering to those same gender norms.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 09:47 PM
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Probably because conservatives likely fall into normative clusters where the women naturally express the traits of femininity, and the men naturally express the traits of masculinity. What the fuck does this even mean? This sentence makes no sense. "Normative" clusters where they "naturally" express femininity? I thought being feminine wasn't natural??? And where did anyone mention gender roles?? You also mention them being "born like that"...does that mean that gender roles are actually "natura…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 09:20 PM
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For me the real question is why do conservative men consistently show to have better dating outcomes than their left leaning counterparts?? Conservatives report higher relationship satisfaction: https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC8266382/#:\~:text=Controlling%20for%20age%2C%20college%20graduation,with%20relationship%20adjustment%20or%20commitment. Incels more likely to be left leaning: https://www.swansea.ac.uk/press-office/news-events/news/2025/05/major-new-study-reveals-key-insights-into…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 07:53 PM
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Which seems to suggest to men that a lot of your male friends are orbiters. I have indeed had and have female friends that I would not want to have sex with because it would ruin the vibe. Makes me wonder if you're projecting your inability to associate with men who dont want something sexual from u.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 07:43 PM
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Wait, you think most men want to fuck their female friends? Do you think most men actually fuck their female friends??? Honestly, do u even have friends???
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 01:56 PM
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As I keep saying until I'm blue in the face, its becoming more and more apparent that the women on here really dont engage with many men in real life in anything meaningful way. There's more and more femcels popping up and the giveaway is questions like this. Just how a couple years ago, it was all the rage for redpillers/incels to claim women "dont really love men" or "dont really enjoy sex" or "orgasms arent real". Everything from people like that is some weird "men/women have it so much easie…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 01:47 PM
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Right, so unattractive/chaste women dont have any male friends then? I find that slightly hard to believe. Some u really tell on yourselves with your statements. I somehow doubt the only male-female friendships are out there are the ones where the women let the men hit.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 11:03 AM
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Its not even about listening to people on the internet, as bad as that is, its about listening to women on Reddit. Most women on Reddit are fucking losers. Seriously. I think people really underestimate just how low women who post here are on the social totem pole. Its amusing that men on reddit somehow get the fedora wearing stereotype but people think somehow all the women posting here are well adjusted normies. Doesnt add up. My experience with women in real life and those on here is like nig…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 10:04 AM
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Yes for trans women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 02:06 PM
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Here in the UK breast augmentations and vaginoplasty are indeed covered by the NHS if deemed an adequate part of someones gender affirming care.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 01:10 PM
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Nope. Finasteride isnt in any way covered by the NHS.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 01:06 PM
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LOL its hilarious considering you're the one who claimed that there are totally women into guys who play warhammer... ...guess its just not the women most guys would actually want
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 08:20 AM
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It shouldnt be the metric of worth. But I am willing to bet, the first thing you're willing to call an Andrew Tate enthusiast is an incel so its not like we're all not using the same unit of measurement.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 08:15 AM
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I wasn't quoting you dumbass.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 01:13 AM
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Dude you need to seriously touch grass. You're seriously questioning the idea of knowing who to approach and that short men actually have sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 01:03 AM
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LOL of course being Reddit this reply was almost expected. If you legit think the amount of female interest a singer in a band and the warhammer enthusiast are the same then we need to pack it in right now because PPD officially became redundant.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 12:01 AM
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But 85% of men on the planet are below 6ft????
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 11:58 PM
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I honestly struggle to recall experiencing discrimination from women Are your words, not mine. And they kinda contradict: I never said women aren’t bigoted Again, your words. Not mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 11:52 PM
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Yes of course because no short/ugly man has ever had sex or been on a date.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 11:50 PM
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You're being too literal and obtuse at the same time. Take sales, the ability to effectively sell a product is a skill but so is being able to source potential buyers or clients. Any decent sales professional will drill into you how important their sales funnel/client list is. In many cases, it can make or break a business and many orgs will pay top dollar for a salespersons access to certain potential buyers. A guy who gets the game knows how to differentiate between the women wearing headphone…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 11:49 PM
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Depends a lot on the talent. Singing? Playing guitar? Professional ball player? Yes. Good at board games? Good at writing code? Playing chess? No. One thing millennial and gen Z men are having to contend with is the fact that being good at their job doesnt really cut it much anymore. You'll likely eventually find an average woman to marry, but you will by no means be successful.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 11:44 PM
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The key point is that they're both racist. Do you legit think black people see the racist white woman who raised the white man who goes on lynchings as any different? FYI they dont. Also, it shows you clearly didnt read the link I sent you. Which isnt surprising either.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 11:38 PM
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I've engaged with many homophobic women here. I just advise women and girls not to touch these guys, it's a lot simpler. Here's one for you u/TinyFlamingo2147
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 11:35 PM
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Are women who reject bisexual men biphobic now? Half this sub tried to convince me they weren't last time. I swear I cant keep up.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 11:32 PM
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Yeah, as said, you dont associate any actual black people and its obvious. Try saying racist white men have a monopoly on anti black violence in any black space and get laughed out of the room. https://psmag.com/social-justice/segregations-constant-gardeners/ Its like a whole thing now. No legit "ally" sits there trying to classify certain forms of racism is better or worse. Whether its those lynching black men or those screaming at bussed in school kids. To consider one of the other "worse" is …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 11:29 PM
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Which is an absolutely pathetic stance likely coloured by your own bias. I've seen discrimination/racism/bias from just about any colour, creed and gender there is. Thats kind of how human nature works. No one really has a monopoly on being an ignorant dick. Yeah, the violent type of discrimination maybe reserved for the men but even then I cant honestly say I've never heard a woman shout a racist/homophobic/bigoted ephithet or statement. What world are some of u living in???
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 11:24 PM
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Shouting slurs and threatening violence is indisputably worse than women who hold racist or queerphobic opinions. No the fuck its not. A middle class racist woman who denies minority couples access to loans for say, a small business or a mortgage is infinitely more damaging than a working class racist man who shouts slurs and ephithets from pick up truck/van. I think this is my issue with the whole "allyship", a lot of you dont get it. You've had someone say shit like "queerphobia" without reall…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 11:19 PM
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This is also true. I think it would be better if women just say that they dont really like the idea of gay sex or fraternising with someone who partakes in it. The pointless rationalisation is what irks a lot of people. Besides, women (and men) have a right to reject someone for any reason they want. Its their bodies after all.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 06:33 PM
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The reason you haven't been attacked verbally by a woman is because women dont attack people verbally in general. Its like saying "well women haven't hurled the n-word at me, but plenty of men have so women are definitely less racist". Tell any black/brown person that and they'll laugh in your face and recount plenty of experiences where they suffered discrimination at the hands of women. Thats largely where the whole "karen" meme appeared from.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 06:32 PM
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I'm a bisexual man. I wouldnt even say bisexuality has hurt me that much. I've told quite a few women I've dated that I am so. BUT, I also feel that me exclusively being a top and having pretty limited experiences with men has assisted in that lack of concern. It makes me think that its not so much about fear of STDs/infidelity (which are understandable) but fears that I'm ultimately submissive. Essentially my hypermasculine presentation eases the harm done by my bisexuality to how women perceiv…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 06:27 PM
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Dont really understand how this is the top post. I felt that way when dating a bi-dude as well. It always felt like a new secret or realization was emerging, it always felt like a new request/desire was being exposed that wasn't what I would want or feel comfortable dealing with or in some ways with my partner wanting. I think this simply comes with having a less solid sense of self that often goes along with more open sexuality. This reads like conflating bisexuality with some form of polyamory…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 06:19 PM
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I had a similar issue with my wife. Also, like you, I have a large penis. TBH I actually remember a girl I dated years and years ago casually mentioning some other random guy she slept with who had (apparently) and enormous. I was a lot less experienced back then and never really though much of it but I do wonder if she was trying to make a point with her comparison. I read a study some where that the men with the most penile insecurities arent just the ones with smaller endowment but often well…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 06:07 PM
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I maintain that women do not care about penis size as much as men do. Women only hurl size-related insults because they know it’s a sore spot. And thats...better??? "Oh, men dont really need women to be that thin. Guys actually prefer women with healthy bodyfat, especially in the boob or butt area. We only hurl insults about women weight because we know its a sore spot for many..." I mean...great. I'm sure thats so much better. Its crazy how a lot of women here, really really tell on themselves …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 05:54 PM
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Anyone with any sense should be avoiding tiktok brainrotted women like the plague
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 10:52 AM
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True. But its also why so many women are dating bums. The rate at which men either provide or earn the lions share of the income has fallen off a cliff. Why? Because if you actually want a man worth a damn, there is a good chance that a bunch of other women want him to. Meaning? He's not really going to be one to worship you either. Its ironic actually, guys often complain about hypergamy on here without realising that women often have to pick between hypergamy and a man who worships the ground …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 10:36 AM
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Notice how most of these hobbies include just about any male interest period. It would like if someone asked me to list female hobbies I dislike and I wrote: Makeup Romantasy Horse riding Painting Tennis/Field Hockey/Netball Disney Social media/reality TV TBH it would start to seem less like I just dislike those hobbies and more about me not actually liking the female condition. Thats the problem I have with most women on this sub, they dont actually like men. They've never had any experience wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 10:31 AM
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LOL some of these responses say so much. Its like most women here are dating warhammer playing shut ins. Not surprised tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 10:17 AM
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From all the condemnation of Americas actions, I've seen next to no real condemnation of Maduro among left leaning types and even less ackowledgement of the 7+ million who fled Venezuela already.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 10:08 AM
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This is all framed from this false benevolent brovado I was talking about. There is really no difference between your "dynamic" and OPs "selective traditionalism". The point is men are largely chastised for holding women to any kind of gendered behavioural expectation. Be it cooking, acting feminine, cleaning, raising children or appearing in anyway "nurturing". And yet, men are still largely expected to do things like provide and pay for dates. You do so because you know not only that it works,…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 11:05 PM
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I hate traditionalism. The whole idea makes me sick But I go on a ton of dates and I always pay, I initiate first moves, everything. Did you really fucking post this???? The highlighted is very much a gendered behavioural expectation. How can you say you hate traditionalism but that you also pay for every date that you go on??? I'm not even redpill, but dudes like you are part of the problem. Its like you're so desperately, pathetically afraid of critically analysing women's behaviours that you …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 09:13 PM
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Women dont care that much about equality, at least not in the context of dating. Neither do many people who act like they're "progressive". I've seen that recently in a recent political context. The first being the recent capture of Venezuela's president Maduro. Its kind of hilarious watching left leaning types act as if this (albeit highly provocative) act provides some kind of proof that Maduro was some plucky upstart challenging America's imperialistic hegemony when, in reality, he was largel…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 09:07 PM
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Its not even that. A lot of women front, a lot more than men. I tend to find when a dude is struggling with the opposite sex, he's far more likely to admit to himself. Its whats made me always doubt those "men report themselves as more attractive than women" studies I always see. Take a look at much of the data people use to prescribe this "male loneliness epidemic", you'll often find much of it only reports men struggling up until 30, and then the rate of singledom drops off a cliff. What is in…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 10:49 AM
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LOL you speak as if France is some nadir of cultural expectations but I am pretty sure the rate of single parent households is both higher where I am (UK) and where many of these debaters are (US). So actually many « high earning desirable men » are single dads too and are looking for women who can take care of their kids and they are not looking for young irresponsible hotties who will want more kids down the line (except for ONS/ sex). I mean, maybe? I dunno, cant find any data which gives a d…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 02:20 PM
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There are plenty of attractive women. Are they supermodels? No, but I can find at least 5-10 young, pretty fit women in any gym in my city of 1.3 million people. And thats not even to speak of the larger, wealthier metropolises like London where pretty women are a dime a dozen. LOL again some of you really tell on yourselves. Pretty women with remotely decent standards will happily tell you that they're not swimming in options.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 01:35 PM
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TBH I'm making the assumption that you're not particularly attractive and you dont know any particularly attractive men either (in their 20s/early 30s). Its an assumption, but I like my batting average on my assumptions. Because, as previously said, any dude who actually knows any high earning/middle class/desirable men knows how many silly expectations they have about frivolous shit let alone something as impactful on ones lifestyle as a child. And lol at you desperately defending single moms h…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 10:03 AM
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None of this addressed any of what I said and when I spoke of high earning desirable men, I was actually speaking for myself (since I am high earning and desirable) and my friends and my wife's friends. When I was single, I never entertained single mothers for anything serious and neither have my friends who are all good looking and high earning. Even on my wife's social circle, she actually is really good friends with a single mother who struggled a lot to find another guy after the relationshi…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 09:56 AM
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TBH this is the problem with a lot of u guys on here, you clearly dont know many desirable men. Find any high earning, remotely decent looking guy and you'll realise that the pool for single mothers is actually narrower than first perceived. No, they're not all going to die single and miserable but yes, a lot of men are not going to seriously date an 8/10 with serious lifestyle flaws. I've ghosted a whole host of 8/10+ women who didnt fit within my expectations. A lot of men are starving, but a …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 09:41 AM
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TBH it kinda depends on the single mother too. My wife's friend is a single mom. She a nurse but pretty modest, she had a kid during covid with her boyfriend (who was a police officer) and it eventually didnt work out (probably more his doing tbh). She ended up meeting a new fella eventually and he seems like a decent dude too. I think the key barrier for her was weight (she blew up after having her kid) but she lost a lot and seemed to find a new guy pretty quickly. There are plenty of single m…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 09:34 AM
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LOL again, some of you really need to evaluate your bubbles. I've literally had people in real life complain that their phones were made from cobalt mined by poor children in wartorn congo and the response was always resounding support. Who on earth are u hanging around who gets annoyed about informing others about poor peoples suffering? Some of you kinda make me wonder if you live in hicksville or some shit. What next? You gonna tell me people give u jip for disliking the fact that innocent ch…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 08:51 PM
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My wife is extremely social, has tons of friends and a big family. But I can also acknowledge that it increasingly isnt the default for a lot of women. And I can see that in how many social and third spaces are empty these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 08:46 PM
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You dont know the difference between lean and less. "Lean muscle". They both have lean muscle. Peaty just has less. You literally aren't intellectually capable of grasping basic concepts of human anatomy and insisting you're correct. Dauda, the bodybuilder with the unattractive physique has even more lean muscle. All you top 1% commenters are fucking embarassing. You should spend less time on here and more on Wikipedia. Never met one person with "top 1% commenter" on their bio who wasnt a comple…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 05:22 PM
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like the fact that child laborers in the global south Who are u hanging around that this pretty benign fact makes them uncomfortable? And sorry, but these opinions are actually fairly milquetoast. You're hardly the first young woman to rail against the evils of globalised capitalism and you wont be the last. Tell me you're a TERF in real life or you've voiced your prejudices against minorities and then I'll be impressed....
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 05:18 PM
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Nah. Not quite. Online? Yeah maybe but there is no social downside to doing so? I've met some real autists males who'll say the dumbest, most off the wall shit. Women will be off putting, bitchy even. But there definitely seems to be more calculation when they do it. I cant say I've ever seen a woman completely alienate herself in a public setting where there is a clear female social hierarchy. Also, if I'm being for real, the few women I met who did say some off the wall shit were almost always…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 05:12 PM
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Most people adhere to a herd mentality. Myself is included in that. Hell, I watched Knives Out 3 last night. Was really good. I then admitted to my wife that I actually preferred Star Wars: The Last Jedi (made by the same director) the most out of the sequel films but I spent years telling people otherwise simply due to the peer pressure of people insisting that the movie was completely irredeemable (its deeply flawed, but its the only one of sequel trilogy that at least attempted to take the lo…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 05:07 PM
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Nope. The data disagrees. A lot of young single women dont have particularly vibrant social lives either.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 04:54 PM
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Yeah but the women you're replying to didnt merely experience an affair, their ex left for the new partner. Thats not all that common. You're conflating cheating with an uggo with leaving for the uggo. 57-75% of marriages that experience disclosed fidelity ultimately stay.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 12:57 AM
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LOL rubbish, its often the opposite. People I meet who've never dated often do so because they just have no interest in it. Man or woman. And why would they? If they were serious about finding a partner they would have put a concerted effort into it. When I see people who are truly single and happy/unbothered, they were never even really that sexually/romantically inclined in the first place. Its often the ones who perpetually cycle through dates/short relationships who tend to be the ones who s…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 12:48 AM
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Some of the happiest, healthiest elderly women I’ve known have been the nuns in the convent up the road from mams house & 2 seperate old ladies I’ve known who never married & farmed. 1 of them formed a platonic domestic partnership with her clearly gay brother. TBH even I would never push it upon anyone but I can imagine living in a convent actually being pretty fun. A lot of your expenses are covered and, despite the vow of poverty, I cant imagine any going hungry considering how wealthy the ch…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 12:44 AM
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LOOOL Ashley Madison? You do know that entire site was fake right? https://www.theguardian.com/technology/2015/sep/09/ashley-madisons-terms-and-conditions-told-users-it-ran-fake-accounts Not sure it can be used as a gauge of much.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 12:36 AM
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They do hang around with convicted child abusers and brag about being attracted to their daughters tho
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 12:34 AM
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The difference between a bodybuilder and a swimmer is literally height and weight. Are you slow??? Adam Peaty - Olympic Swimmer - 6ft3 95kg Samson Dauda - Mr Olympia runner up - 6ft 125kg
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 11:02 PM
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Sorry, I dont engage with anti scientific idiots. Read it and weep.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 08:55 AM
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Society itself still places a lot of value on mating success. Men with little of it are judged very harshly. Douchebag redpill gurus are successful for the same reason a truly evil, disgusting human being like Trump is successful...they're authentic. Dating success actually matters to a lot of people. I have a friend who very much leans into the redpill stuff, on the surface he's pretty annoying with it...but when you dive deeper I've actually found he has more progressive attitudes about the op…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 08:42 AM
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Sorry, I dont engage with anti scientific idiots.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 08:27 AM
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lol yep, none of them engage in good faith
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 08:25 AM
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No ones triggered, just think you have little understanding of human anatomy.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 08:24 AM
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What the hell does any of this have to do with men being muscular?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 01:55 AM
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TBH you wrote this: Dude, I've lived it. I'm considered physically "attractive" by societal standards. Your words, not mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 01:47 AM
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Doesnt matter. You're not playing in the big leagues. You're probably an adjustable 6-7 at best. A legit hottie isnt even entertaining a dude who dates obese women. Especially in any urban centre. There's just too much competition. You may be considered higher than that in Wisconsin or some shit. But you may need to venture to Miami/NY/LA for a reality check. I mean, you said your ex called you "hot", the same ex who left you for an obese women? Doesnt really sound like a reliable source of info…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 12:41 AM
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???? The kpop idol is just...smaller Does being a kpop idol make your muscles leaner??? I legit wonder how some of u passed even high school biology.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 12:39 AM
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Ah yeah I forgot the pregnancy aspect as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 12:37 AM
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My ex left me to be with his previous ex: An obese, unemployed single mother. I shit you not. It was downright humiliating. And I am willing to bet my house that you are nowhere near as attractive as u think u are. The fact that you even had an ex who was dating an obese single mother shows me you aint actually playing in the leagues most legit 8/10s are playing in.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 12:36 AM
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Yep.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 12:19 AM
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??? Joshua is still jacked.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 12:07 AM
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Women wanting certain body types means they're just as carnal as men and not above the perverted fray that religion and gender roles force them to be. Yes, you see for me, this is one of the key tenets of what I've come to understand about male and female dynamics. I think women are indeed as carnal, lustful and sexually driven as men. The only thing which stops their raw drive from being as high as men is less testosterone and (justifiable) fears for their safety. I think what gets me about a l…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 12:06 AM
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Physically attractive. If you legit dont think being physically attractive comes first for most men then god help you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 11:59 PM
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One would suspect so. But then it begs the question why it seemed so much easier with those who claimed to have a preference for less muscle. Anecdata and all that. But food for thought nonetheless.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 11:56 PM
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No, I'm not reading some fucking cherrypicked study over a goddamn meta analysis. Quit whilst you're fucking behind. It literally tells you what mating success is influenced the most by but you're still gonna sit here and legit say "ignore the analysis of multiple academic studies and instead take a random study I desperately scoured the internet for on "self ratings" from Australian undergrads in order to substantiate my bullshit". Jeez louise.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 11:54 PM
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and im ignorant? Yes. Because you literally cant grasp that your muscles actually grow in size when you have a pump in the gym. Jesus, why do you keep dodging my statement??? Have you ever actually been in a gym before? Like...ever????
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 11:38 PM
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Thats Markus Ruhl. One of the greatest and most muscular IFBB pro bodybuilders of all time. Why on earth would you use that as an example of anything??? He has a level of muscularity that even most bodybuilders on a whole cocktail of drugs could never dream of achieving.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 11:28 PM
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Men would prefer their wife to be hot. Everything comes after that. I personally preferred a low N count wife, but thats just me. For a lot of men it isnt a big deal (within reason).
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 11:25 PM
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Also FYI, I think there is a class based/racial/social component to this. When out in real life, I've never seen black/hispanic/working class women ever say they dont prefer tall, masculine, muscular types. Whenever I do see pushback its always from white/east asian/middle class/college educated types. But you know the worst thing? The latter demographic was always way, waaaay easier to smash than the former. These same girls claiming they like dadbods would be going to your hotel room the same …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 11:21 PM
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And yes, the article is also talking absolute shite. The concept of a "pump" is gonna blow your mind. Go on, keep posting. Its clear you have absolutely no knowledge or competence in the realm of physical exercise and havent seen inside a gym a day in your life. So again, YES, there is good chance those two pics could have been taken the same day. I just dunno how women, dating hank hill lookalikes are trying to lecture dudes who stay in the gym about what dudes who also go to the gym look like.…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 11:16 PM
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Low body fat with muscles 👎 Low body fat with lean muscles 👍 The hell is the difference between these two??
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 11:11 PM
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You really analysing the physical preferences of a 7 year old????
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 11:09 PM
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If he lost 60lbs he was probably obese, dont think anyone is trying to convince anyone they're attracted to that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 11:09 PM
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the difference between those two photos isn't just a bit of 'water weight'... Yes. Jesus, the fact that you're posted completely ignorant nonsense and dont have a hint of shame. You literally know absolutely nothing about bodyfat, sports science or bodybuilding in any capacity. Yes, not only is the difference between those pictures merely water, but there is a good chance those two pictures could have been taken on the same day. Again, this would be like me dating a 4/10 hog and trying argue in …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 11:01 PM
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And this is the problem. This isnt the general consensus. Women definitely arent choosing "normal bodies" before these guys. Hence why they're all getting paid millions of dollars. The least a lot of you could do is admit your opinion has no weight compared to that of 99% of women out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 10:58 PM
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But I'd pass them on OLD
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 10:46 PM
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I think studies have shown women much prefer regular built in relatively good shape. No, the studies dont say this. You literally pulled that out of your ass. https://www.realclearscience.com/articles/2022/05/18/the_trait_that_best_predicts_mens_mating_success_832788.html Stop fucking trying to speak for all women and then complaining when redpill types complain at you about all women. You're a minority within a minority. Men on Reddit tend to be out of touch and the women even more so. Good lor…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 10:43 PM
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because i can't date chris hemsworth im not allowed an opinion on what i find attractive..? Nope. Same way no one wants to hear incels complaining about Jennifer Lawrence's chubby cheeks. hemsworth usally isnt completely ripped. like in this picture he's got toned arms and pecs, but not ripped, and its a perfect example of what i find more attractive LOOOOOOL Thats simply bad lighting, that physique (especially at his 6ft3 height) is better than 99.999% of men and 99% of gym goers. Jesus, what a…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 10:36 PM
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Pray tell, are these men on steroids? This guy Or this guy Or this guy LOL this should be amusing. Also, as a bonus. Please tell me whether women would consider any of these men unattractive. LOL please, I'm curious.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 10:24 PM
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This lends credence to the redpill/incel idea that most men are invisible to women then. I think Sydney Sweeney is pretty, but I also think she kinda has an odd face. But I'm also well aware that she's better looking that 95% of the women I see when I step outside. If you think someone like Chris Evans is of "average" muscularity then it kinda shows you're not paying much attention to the men you interact with on a day to day.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 10:19 PM
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Again, no. Look at what people are saying about the Jake Paul fight. I just dont know why women insist on trying to convince men of this shit. Hardly anyone finds shredded guys like Hemsworth or Joshua unattractive. Just stop. The cats out of the bag. Problem is this is just simply operating on a wavelength/frequency that you're absolutely not privy to. Its like the first time I went to a high end club which cost a bomb to get in and I actually got to experience a night out which wasnt a complet…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 10:16 PM
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The guy who beat Jake Paul is all over social media being thirsted over by women. https://www.google.com/search?safe=active&sca_esv=f34f7d9e35b45ae5&rlz=1C1FKPE_en-GBGB1164GB1166&udm=2&fbs=AIIjpHxU7SXXniUZfeShr2fp4giZ1Y6MJ25_tmWITc7uy4KIeqDdErwP5rACeJAty2zADJjYuUnSkczEhozYdaq1wZrEheAY38UjnRKVLYFDREDmzxDQH5cf73Nv5SUwLly1WG01kd0x6xwqRzi4OBnEW65tn62XvLTlOVUiuqU_-c52rQSPbzBVwa4gwPo8bjR3cgzknkm5OeDockKv0WDUfN-v0gyB1Q&q=anthony+joshua&sa=X&ved=2ahUKEwjz1az4nNeRAxXdTkEAHewnKa4QtKgLegQIDxAB&biw=1490&bih…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 10:03 PM
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LOL just by looking at your profile pic I can tell you're someone who confuses men looking for an easy lay as some kind of flex.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 09:52 AM
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Because white women support Trump by far and away the most of any female demographic. Its also fucking ironic how this sub seems to be filled with white women arguing their political virtue when over half their demo clearly doesnt buy into their shit considering they happily voted for a pedo who pushed back abortion rights.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 09:49 AM
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The dude in question is 36... Almost all the heartthrobs you see on TV are closing in on their 40s All this talk of "peak attractiveness" is for the birds and it sounds like nonsensical rationalising of both redpill and women's sensibilities.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 09:46 AM
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No it doesnt. And everything about your posting gives me the vibe of a friendless oddball who doesnt even venture outside. I was out last weekend in London, a pretty progressive city. Some of the clubs I went to dont even allow certain clientele if they're overweight or not willing to pay $2k for a table. We decided against it and venture to somewhere else which still turned away people. It was full of attractive people and all the men with women on their arm were tall and well dressed. These da…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 03:49 PM
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Looks matter a lot for men. A lot. I was watching Jake Paul get his shit pushed in by Anthony Joshua on the weekend and the amount of thirst comments from women should really put to bed any notion that women dont care about looks...or muscles. Dude is 6ft6 250lbs, the very definition of "too big" and yet social media has been lit up with thirst comments. I suppose the dude is an edge case, but still that edge case flies in the face of women who love to claim how muscles and height isnt that impo…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 03:41 PM
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No it isnt. Simply for the fact that you dont engage in good faith.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 11:23 AM
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Aren't u the women who claims to be polyamorous??? (Or am I confusing u with someone else?)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 05:58 PM
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LOL at this weak bullshit. I've had plenty of great one night stands and plenty of women have too. Do you legit believe women when they say relationships are a requirement for good sex???? LOL its really sad how some of u have really drank the koolaid.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 05:39 PM
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One thing Patrice O'neal (the true godfather of the redpill) speaks about is the importance of men being able to "womanize" before settling down. Thats often about learning how to flirt, escalate, tease, entice and fuck in a way that gets women excited. And yes, these very much are not traits that are indicative of a good relationship. I've literally learned this myself. In the 8+ years I've been in a relationship I've had to learn the art of compromise, patience, self control and conscientiousn…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 05:36 PM
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They could be right, but that still doesnt negate the fact that much of the chagrin comes from a place of competition anxiety. I wouldnt be surpised if a 40 year old wanting to date a 20 year old had some level of arrested development...but why insist on it being some terrible indictment on either ones character?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 05:15 PM
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This is one I'm gonna have to give to the redpillers, I think I get why a lot of them prefer being "Chad" rather than being boyfriend material. Being good in bed is super subjective. I remember about a decade ago I was seeing this girl who claimed the other guy she was seeing was better than me in bed. Keep in mind, I have a huge dick, it was clearly the biggest she had taken (and she said so too) so its not like that made a difference. I very much believe just like men have women who are wife m…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 03:35 PM
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Gen Z's are also broke losers who struggle to communicate with their fellow citizen, live at home and belief in socialism. They're not really possessing opinion worthy of respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 03:27 PM
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No. But clean your room.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 02:21 PM
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LOL that coming from someone who ironically claims to be "blackpilled" is hilarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 02:10 PM
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Yeah and this is when I realise I'm talking to a "top 1% commenter" who, again, doesnt fucking venture outside and spend way too much time online imagining how relationships work instead of actually living through them. A metric ton of relationships exist where people dont 100% communicate completely openly. Thats called being human. Yes, a lot of women fear the aging process and what it does to their desirability. The multi billion dollar beauty industry exists for a reason. Try talking to actu…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 02:09 PM
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Yes because its not what she said. Pray tell, do you assume when you ask a frowning women what's wrong and she says "nothing", do you legit just assume it was indeed, nothing? Thats often not how people work.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 01:53 PM
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Why do you think her disapproving of those men mean she wants to date those men? You said that, I never said that. You're putting words into my mouth. Competition anxiety doesnt mean you want to date the men younger women are dating explicitly.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 01:42 PM
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It comes up all the time because they happen all the time. There is almost always a story in the news/socials about some aging celebrity dating some younger model. The most recent was a meme she sent me about the guy who played Spiderman dating some 20 year old. Its nonsensical seeing my wife complain about age gap relationships seeing as she married the older guy she was dating so it was hardly some traumatic experience for her.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 01:26 PM
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Yes that is exactly what I got out of that. Similarly, someone who claims to be a "blackpill man" probably isnt someone who is particularly successful with the opposite sex. For example, if she wants a clean and tidy and picturesque home, that's fine, but I don't have the time or energy or inclination to contribute. That VERY much sounds like someone who is incapable of cleaning up after themselves. And it sounds seriously pathetic too.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 01:19 PM
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This is a great point. I'm earning in that 200-300k range but this is several tiers below the level you're talking about. And even here most men will be dating women in similarly professional fields. I have one friend who does the "passport bro" shit but he is legit terrible with women. And I keep telling him if he brings the columbian girl he likes around his professional peers he'll be considered a laughing stock. I mean, I sometimes just follow men of significant prominence in the public eye,…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 12:32 PM
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LOL prenups count for fuck all in most jurisdictions.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 12:24 PM
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He's right. I earn even more than he does and fight professionally on the side. I'm still somehow capable of cleaning my own home. And some of u wonder why women dont want to touch you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 12:18 PM
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It depends on how you define success. I am 6ft4, earn 250k and probably in the 99.999th percentile in physical fitness. TBH I'm already married and have been in a relationship for a very long time. What I was looking for when I was single was someone feminine, tall, with big hips and who was chaste and came from a good parent home (I was very promiscuous tho). It wasnt that hard to find in 2017 when we got together though now may be a different story. Thing is tho, I'm...hot. If I'm being perfec…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 12:12 PM
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Complaints about age gap relationships come almost exclusively from a position of competition anxiety. Once you understand that you wont even waste your time arguing with anyone about it. I notice this from my own wife despite her being 7 years younger than me. There is hardly any data supporting the suggestion that age gap relationships lead to abuse, there's also some data which say they're actually protective. Its often just women who notice they're aging out lookswise and dislike the idea of…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 11:56 AM
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Raping a child isn’t a risk to the public? No it isnt considered a threat to the public. Especially abuse involving family members. The judge clearly didnt see it that way either considering his light sentence. LOL this is exactly why you dont get it. You act incredulous to that question and yet LOADS of people walk free for sex offences because the perp wasnt deemed a wider threat to the public. First time child sex offences and consumption of child abuse material isnt custodial sentence for fi…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 11:36 AM
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LOL OP is another terminally online female weirdo in a growing phenomenon of terminally online female weirdos. I swear bizarre posts like these used to be the preserve of the incel/redpill dorks so its interesting to see women on here level the playing field on that front.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 05:55 PM
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No. https://www.ojp.gov/ncjrs/virtual-library/abstracts/gender-differences-sentencing-felony-offenders Of all cases, 98.1 percent were resolved through pleas. Females were more likely to have outcomes determined by pleas to reduced charges than were males. Fewer women (17 percent) than men (28 percent) were incarcerated, but sentence dispositions varied greatly across the eight major offense categories. While the percentage of males incarcerated for each category always exceeded that of women, w…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 05:46 PM
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And a lot of sex offenders aren't an active risk to the public either. Sorry but I see this idiotic rhetoric coming from those who have no experience of crime, criminality or incarceration. I have. I've heard a guy tell me about how he blanked out and nearly beat his wife to death, another who told me he "had sex" with his son. Neither were violent or an active risk to any of the other inmates. LOL tell me more about how we should just let them out because prison is not rehabilitative enough. Th…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 05:42 PM
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This is the rank stupidity I was talking about. In the US, approximately 63% of inmates in state prisons are incarcerated for violent offenses. Where the nonsense stat you spoke comes from is in the federal prison system where the percentage is much lower, with only about 7% of inmates incarcerated for violent offenses; the majority (47%) are incarcerated for drug offenses. In the UK its still 1 in 3, 20% of prisoners are in for sex offences. You legit think prison should be abolished for sex of…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 05:25 PM
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Now I’ve seen influencers openly committing sexual acts in public videos and not one has gone to jail that I know of. Funny you should make this point. I just saw a reaction video to a woman flashing her panties that was taken in a nursery. The side effect is an interesting one, as I cant really complain about it. But I do feel that much of the population will struggle to adjust. Also, interestingly enough, I see this argument often play out in politics as well. I've noticed, in the UK and US es…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 05:20 PM
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That's just flat out not true. Every case is different, so there may be mitigating circumstances that go either way meaning a man could get less time for the same crime. Are we really doing this? Just flat out talking complete bullshit on here? There is literally an entire wikipedia on this https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sentencing_disparity#:~:text=A%202020%20study%20shows%20that,to%208.5%25%20of%20convicted%20women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 05:10 PM
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Yes cause its entertaining seeing men cry. Yep, those are definitely the words of a socially well adjusted person...
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 09:22 PM
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"Entertaining" this sub? You've posted like 30 times in the last 24 hours. A lot of u are shut ins.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 04:05 PM
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Shout out to u/BigMadLad for posting this gem: We essentially have a big chunk of dudes like you, And a bunch of old ladies who are married. The few young women we do have all had personal post histories of femcel sub, participation, clearly troll posting, or lesbian or asexual it still speak on straight relationships, or my favorite a handful are proven sex workers. Its an important post because it bugs me how many people dont seem to get this. There are very, very few normal women/"stacies" on…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 11:05 AM
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Well in that case I stand corrected, but that still doesnt negate the fact that bad behaviour is not exclusive to men. Saying that though, I really am not gonna die on the hill of single men in swingers clubs as I know many are indeed, shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 03:47 PM
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The men you hang out with trash because you're probably trash too. But then you said you went to sex clubs yourself. 95% of the time I tend to find single women will go to events, get gangbanged and fucked by multiple men in a night and then run back to the vanille dating scene and expect a guy who isnt that way sexually inclined to just be a-okay with a partner who experienced that. LOL and then have a surprise pikachu face when they realise most normal, well adjusted dudes dont want to date a …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 03:22 PM
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No. This is why I tend to get put off by equally promiscuous women. Because a lot of you tend to be insanely manipulative. A significant number of gen Z and millennial men experience abuse or unwanted sexual contact from women and even more report being harassed. Do we hold all women accountable? No, women dont get traumatised in swinging scene, they often try to lockdown a male partner, fail and then dip out. Either that or they often have their fill of sexual attention and then move back into …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 03:19 PM
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Someone said that demisexual women and hypersexual women arent the same. I think that statement has some truth, its more like a venn diagram. With significant overlap. I've met a few women who legit would wait before having any kind of sexual intimacy, but they were very much the minority. I definitely felt like most women I met would bend the rules for someone they were that attracted or simply could easily be pressured into sex and only learnt to pushback against said pressure when they were o…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 10:22 AM
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The US does not subsidize freeloaders to the extent Europe does and it has been absolutely disastrous for EU economies. None have the experienced the rate of growth post 2008 that the US has. They're also gripped with high inflation, crumbling public infrastructure, stagnant economies and immigration woes. UK and Canada are also absolutely fucked economically. They're the absolute last examples any right thinking economist would follow.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 10:10 AM
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There is no contradiction. It just requires reading comprehension from a non stupid person. You clearly fail that test. I thank the Gods I MET my wife when she was 21 The keyword being "meet", yes you should really have met your partner by the time they're 25 to 28 at the latest.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 10:07 AM
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Eh... A lot of cuckolds (you call yourself that) are indeed gay/bi. And I say that as an openly bisexual bull. I am not of the belief that being a swinger somehow precludes you not having insecurities about your sexuality or perceived masculinity.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 08:38 PM
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Yep, I think education all the way to masters level should be free.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 02:52 PM
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The problem is that, increasingly, these stupid online opinions are starting to affect real world social discourse and public policy. I was on youtube and got recommended a video from asmongold. Cant say I'm a fan but he was covering an interesting topic, it was about the art subreddit and how it went dark due to backlash from users who were unhappy a mod had deleted the post history of an independent artist who accidently solicited his work. What you had was an artist, who commissions art in th…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 01:26 PM
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People MARRY at 30 years old, but they dont meet at 30. Often times an engagement is about 2 years and that doesnt include time within the relationship. So I assume a lot of people find their partners at about 25 or so. I myself met my wife at 21 but we didnt get married until she was 30.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 10:43 AM
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I do. I thank the Gods I met my wife when she was 21. I wouldnt even say the window is up until 28, more like 25 really for most. I know this is PPD so a bunch of bad faith contributors are going to make out as if women aren't incredibly shrewd about their mating choices but a lot of us actually go outside so the desperate attempts at selling women as these pure kind souls is really a fools gambit.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 01:13 AM
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I'm glad y'all are fans. But it's weird to expect everyone else to be a fan. Jesus, get a life
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 03:28 PM
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They don't approach because of fear and ego. This is the reason most people dont end up doing most things. Women are no different. I think one thing that I do find slightly hilarious in some circles is this commonly held belief that women somehow cant be either afraid of failure or massively egotistical. There are plenty of men who women would like to approach, most dont for the same reason men dont...the fear of failure/rejection. It used to be that women were perceived to not care about romant…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 03:27 PM
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Its not redpill content, Akaash is part of one of the popular podcasts out there and is a well known comedian. As said, you're irritating and dont ever debate in good faith. Just another one of the "top 1% commenter" fucking losers who almost always are a net negative when it comes to quality discussion on here.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 03:19 PM
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Most women I know would love to date their gay best friend. Yeah I guess that changes everything... I mean all this time I didnt even see it :o
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 12:59 PM
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Most women u know are gay then. Seems like u know that, so why didnt u say that initially???
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 12:35 PM
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These dudes literally hosted Trump during last years election cycle she knows exactly who he is, she's just a fucking liar As I keep saying, I think the redpillers are bozos but a lot of the women here (I'll exclude the redpill and pink pill types) are just cretins who operate in bad faith. Not a lick of integrity between five of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 12:31 PM
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Akaash Singh is one half of a podcasting duo who literally hosted the president of the most powerful country in the world a year ago. I know you've heard this dudes name before today but like most of the dishonest cretins on here, we're now forced to go through a back and forth pointlessly. LOL someone who literally has "top 1% commenter" literally proving they're terminally online also claiming they dont know who said person involved in a popular online discourse is... yeah, sure...
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 12:30 PM
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Oh great, just realised this is a waste of my time.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 12:20 PM
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Women like you, with your opinions are the problem. You're literally why the gender discourse is so fucked. Most women I know would love to date their gay best friend. No they dont. Because most women arent fucking gay. Only on the dumbfuck sub will you have someone try to convince you that most cisgendered straight women ackshually want to date a gay man.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 12:06 PM
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Yeah, I cant say for sure but I just feel continental european women, whilst being more promiscuous, carry out said promiscuity in a more self serving way. Which sounds odd, but it actually makes sense when u think about it. I used to be big into swinging and used to venture to sex parties/clubs. The UK has a big swinging scene and a number of different venues. What you'll always hear from someone whose participated in the scene in Europe is how much classier, cleaner and better the venues are. …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 12:40 AM
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British women are probably the most slutiest female cratures on this planet British women actually dont rank all that high when it comes to promiscuity. Interestingly enough, the UK has an average partner count less than Japan. Whats complicated about it is that whilst UK women are fairly sexual, they're not particularly sensual. Take for instance a country like Brazil, where the partner count is very high, women are very sensual and often express their sexuality openly. In the UK on the other h…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 04:53 PM
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I mean thats kinda fair. I dont think British men rank particularly low, but they're not high either. They're largely unremarkable compared to many of their European compatriots.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 04:48 PM
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LOL yeah I agree. I'm currently in Birmingham but was raised in London and went to uni in Manchester. I love the city a lot and I felt it was way easier having casual flings up there compared to London, but the quality of women in London is really something else. And I feel its kinda diverged a bit too. London seems to be a lot more welcoming of its diverse population whereas a lot of northern england seems to have become a bit more insular. Hence I feel you see less women willing to experiment …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 11:01 AM
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I actually disagree. And I dont think it applies exclusively to women. The UK just doesnt have a strong dating/romance/courtship culture. It there means that vast swathes of the young male and female population are unattractive, both physically and behaviourally. I often see this interpreted as UK women being delusional, but I dont think its that, I just dont think a lot of British women know how to be the attractive...especially outside of the wealthier middle classes. Thats not to say I havent…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 10:49 AM
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LOL interesting seeing comments like this from someone who also grew up in the UK. It makes sense, right. British people (women in particular) are, sadly, just not very attractive. In their formative years British girls grow up in a hierarchy that simply does not match the environment they will live in as adults, particularly if they move to a more cosmopolitan city. Care to expand on this? Sounds interesting as a guy who grew up in London.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 10:41 AM
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This is not really a common thing. Again, bull. https://www.cbsnews.com/newyork/news/seen-at-11-study-shows-many-havent-ended-up-with-true-loves/
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 10:29 AM
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I think its post covid and the cost of living crisis which came after the inflation spike following the Ukraine war. It was really a toxic mix which meant that you have more and more people (who aren't just the typical radicalised young males) being sucked into ideological pipelines. Honestly though, I dont think women being radicalised is as dangerous for society as is whats happening to young men. Women have a tendency to internalise negative feelings whereas men tend to externalise them. A bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 10:23 AM
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I’m a retired professional athlete. I’m also in school to be a pastor. ok
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 05:34 PM
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Yeah and how does you having cancer stop him from working if you're also working???? And medical school dropout is still a dropout.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 05:24 PM
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LOL a female PPD poster dating a bum, name a more iconic duo.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 03:45 PM
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Selflessness isnt a factor. Its interesting seeing u downvote and try to make no point when its clear from the studies that you're chatting complete rubbish.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 03:37 PM
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LOL at a "few cherry picked studies" Why is it this sub has so many who flounder and contort themselves when presented with obvious data that flies in the face of their stupid points. Single men perform worse than there coupled counterparts. Its really that simple. There's been entire meta analyses done on this, its not even really disputable: https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC11505278/ Furthermore, a different study found that not having an intimate partner was a significant risk factor …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 03:02 PM
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TBH I dont even know what stupid point you're trying to make. The chore gap is closing because men clearly want to be doing more chores.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 02:51 PM
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It isnt. And I say that as an engineer. There is no reality where I can imagine my remote job is more valuable than a teacher prepping the next generation. I understand my work may contribute more to a company's bottom line (and even that is disputable) but there is no reality where I am willing to accept that my time is somehow more valuable than a teachers.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 02:49 PM
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Well how does this not apply to men who still work more hours than women? Both the chore gap and the wage gap are minimizing. To complain about either gender doing more of either is idiotically blinkered and one sided.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 02:43 PM
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Yes, I am calling you losers because you are losers. If men checking out and being incels were all high performing, self aware and emotionally balanced individuals then yeah I would take your point, but they're not. They're largely neurodivergent, academically and economically incompetent and predisposed to attaching themselves to toxic online movements. Even beyond the online echo chambers and radicalisation, single men perform worse in just about every metric. Financially: https://wol.iza.org/…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 02:33 PM
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We're not slowly getting to minimizing the chore gap because men want to clean more Yes we are, you're talking complete shit (as usual among bluepillers here). https://www.sciencenews.org/article/married-men-doing-more-cleaning-laundry https://www.nbcnews.com/data-graphics/men-do-housework-women-still-do-more-rcna216748
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 02:09 PM
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The problem here is society putting pressure on men to follow the gender roles in the first place. That's the problem, so don't get it twisted it here. Our capitalist system also puts pressure on us to make money too. What you gonna do? Revel in being broke? Thats pretty pathetic to me. Society forces us to contort in a variety of different ways. Tough shit. Most men are checking out in society at high risk. And they are happy with their lives. Who would've thought men worrying about gender woo …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 02:00 PM
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The irony of calling a post about not forcing rigid roles on men is an incel post. PPD man lol. You read “men shouldn’t be boxed into protector roles” and somehow jumped to “incels!!!!!” which only proves the point, some people genuinely can’t imagine masculinity without cosplay caveman roles attached to it. Yes I did, when Googling why men are incels, all these come before men being forced into gender roles: Mental Health Issues: Incels report extremely high rates of mental health struggles, in…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 01:45 PM
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LOL this honestly reads like a loser incel rant. Its also the reason why I lol when women try and attribute inceldom with right wing beliefs. The data has already shown that incels/blackpillers often err more to the left politically and are often overrepresented by marginalised/minority groups. I see a bunch of dumb fuck women rallying behind the trans cause often forgetting how many in those same movements actually detest women and their right to association among those within their gender. Thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 12:11 PM
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Wait, wait...didnt Akaash say that they were both virgins when they met??? I always thought the "popping my pussy in white frats" was just ragebait but this legit makes it seem like she lied to him about her sexual past. That story is oddly specific.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 10:08 AM
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TBH one thing I've come to notice is that a lot of the kinds of women I dislike heavily post on this sub. Or they cluster together on tiktok/Instagram accounts that push misandrist/"pink pill" agendas. For the most part, women are actually pretty balanced and often pretty willing to call out womens bullshit. I notice this among my wife too, the only women I would say she's overly protective of are those within her friendship group.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 04:58 PM
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Its gone from 4 to 10 percent. That is a significant shift.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 12:03 PM
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He says the guy has normal social skills. Honestly, when I see shit like this online I dont even believe it. As said, I pay attention to jobs/employment subs on reddit and there is always talk of some lucky sod who got a job despite having fuck all skills/education. Whenever those stories are posted it always turns out the poster was leaving out a ton of context. I actually leave the house and always notice tall and rich guys are the ones walking around with the most attractive women. I also hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 12:00 PM
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Sorry, but I tend to find posts like these are tantamount to someone claiming they have a 100k job but dont have any qualifications and barely work. You actually used to get that a lot. Until the recession came and then all those posts quietly disappeared. Like the job market, dating also has markers of success that tend to be pretty objective and consistent. Just like a good education, a good CV and marketable, tangible skills give you a leg up in the job market, height, physical fitness and mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 11:53 AM
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Dating apps arent approaches. Their usage is falling off of a cliff and no one is happy using them. Men complain that they're ignored but then women also complain that the men who are on there dont take them seriously. What makes me laugh about you types is that you'll complain about men not wanting to approach to do typical/traditional "man shit" often failing to realise that the modernisation of the dating sphere works both ways. I am seeing so many lonely, desperate, perpetually single misera…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 07:15 PM
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Women have more degrees but the graduate job market has been decimated. Yes, the graduate job decline hasnt affected women but thats largely because women cluster around education and healthcare, far removed from the cyclical boom and bust nature of many STEM fields which men are drawn to. Problem is a lot of healthcare outside of nursing and medicine just isnt that well paid. Yes, women only contribute 37% of global GDP. An alarming number are leaving the workforce when they children. They also…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 07:06 PM
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There is no injustice or unfairness here. Men are equally free to boycott approaching women, and either women will be forced to start initiating or go without dates. The fallout has already happened. 45% of young men have no approached anyone in the past year.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 06:50 PM
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Pink pillers are insane, but they're not stupid. I largely agree with her sentiment.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 10:39 AM
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Honestly, its kinda that a lot of the positive statistics I hear about women (and minorities) are often attached with major caveats.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 10:36 AM
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I'm not actually so sure. I dont think a lot of the online denigration comes from a place of wanting men (or women) to be better, I feel it comes from a place of bitterness in regards to ones own romantic lack of success.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 10:34 AM
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I agree with your sentiment, not this though. been on this sub a few months and imo average PPDer is as you detailed. i will add that there are above average PPDers who seemingly are genuinely trying to help, debating in good faith etc. they tend to be mostly women - do with that as you will. one of them i've talked to in DMs and she's one of the nicest people I've ever known. I think women here are by far and away often the worst posters here. Problem with most redpillers/incels is they're ofte…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 03:09 AM
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I think you're right. I dont think anyone really comes here with good intentions. Myself included. I'm someone who has had an absurd amount of sex, whose been unfaithful and who generally hasn't really seen women as equals. I've been pretty "successful" (in that I've gotten laid a lot and had a few decently successful relationships) but I think much of my engagement with women has come from a very adversarial standpoint. What gets me about Reddit is that I wouldnt be surprised if it turns out th…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 02:56 AM
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TBH I dont think I disagree with this. I have a lot of physical attributes which definitely make more sexually enticing than my job ever could. And those have definitely been more beneficial to me getting laid. I legit had more sex when I was broke than when I had a stable income and good employment prospects. For me, what I do find I agree with from the redpillers is that women will very much ride the "cock carousel" in their youth and then complain about guys not wanting to commit once those s…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 04:23 PM
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Macaque's also have a habit of rape and abuse their young. They're hardly an example to follow. LOL at anyone thinking females are I'm no redpiller, but I dont actually feel a lot of discourse comes from a place of anger at women. I actually think it comes from a place of cynicism.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 03:15 PM
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Of course you dont fucking read. according to new research from Norway This should be the first red flag. But I digress. Another alarm bell: The researchers found that female targets were generally evaluated more favorably than male targets. And then this: Regarding the sexual double standards, the researchers found that a woman’s promiscuous behavior was appraised less negatively than similar behavior by a man. In other words, people generally judged women with an active sexual history as more …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 01:38 PM
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I have a low body count partner. And my partner count is absurdly high, can pretty much guarantee its higher than anyone else in here. But I'm also hot. And successful. Being hot and successful as a man will make almost every woman put away her preferences for low body counts. Thats if she even has them at all. Its just not the same for men and women. But then its a difficult thing to explain to the mostly loser shut ins on this board. When my wife met we had a strong sexual chemistry and she wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 12:18 PM
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Its true, stop with this sky is green shit. I'm not going to pretend as if either gender is particularly hung up on promiscuity, but only a fool would pretend as if women are penalised for sexual promiscuity less than men are. And for men, being promiscuous just doesnt factor as much when it comes to what makes us attractive. I'm promiscuous and have dated sexually experienced and non experience alike.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 12:10 PM
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Money doesnt work like that. I earn well within the $250k region. It doesnt completely change my lifestyle, it equates to about $12-15k a month. I lose about $4k of that on rent, my car note and other household expenses. Unless I chose to live well beyond my means, my lifestyle isnt that radically different from many earning less than me. As said I'm closer to a minimum wage worker than I am to a millionaire. Most women dont automatically open their legs of express deep interest just because of …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 12:01 PM
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LOL again, easier said than done. Brock Lesnar is a two time NCAA champion, former UFC champion with a 5-3-0 record. I've wrestled extensively but dropped it to focus on my boxing and K1, the first time I wrestled an intermediate wrestler I twisted my knee so bad it required surgery. You literally have no fucking idea how fucking fast a lot of these dudes are, and then take a genetic freak like Brock who is literally 280lbs. As said, most people dont understand violence. Even with a knife, if yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 12:28 PM
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Again lol, no. Its one thing having a gun, its another using it. Problem with violence is, being the intelligent creatures we are, many of us realise that the violence we give out can also be received in kind. People feel safe because of the social contract which not only determines that we cant meaninglessly mistreat others but that we also cannot have violence meaninglessly inflicted upon us. As I say to many, sign up for a boxing/MMA gym and spar a heavyweight and let him punch you in the fac…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 12:22 PM
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A knife weilding child could kill Brock Lesnar. Keyword being could. There's a reason why the vast majority of stabbing victims are often those of similar age or were often attacked by surprise or in groups. Its one thing having a knife, its quite another using it. To be ready, willing and capable of repeatedly plunging a knife into someone not only requires a level of anger/hatred but a level of commitment I just dont think the average person will have in the face of someone like Brock Lesnar. …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 12:16 PM
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We do so all the time, often at a subconscious level.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 11:07 AM
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OLDER white women. These are clearly young white women 40% of white women 18-29 voted for Trump. And thats just the 18-29 cohort. You're nakedly full of shit. 7% of black women OVERALL voted for Trump, among 18-29 year olds that number could likely be even less. You're just nakedly full of shit. Trying to sit here and act like white women are somehow "extremely liberal" is just typical redditor bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 11:13 AM
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Black culture is almost entirely hood culture though. I mean, what? This is legit one of the dumbest comments I've seen here in some time. Step the fuck away from the computer and go the fuck outside. Tired of absolute useless loser fuck rejects sitting there on Reddit arguing with a bunch of white suburban shut ins about how "black people behave". Even among black women, thuggery is far from some popular desire. LOL you're not even black and clearly haven't been around black people in any meani…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 10:47 AM
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I am. He most likely was trying to find a white girl and didn’t realize that most white girls are extremely liberal, that means standing up for trans women when they’re being disrespected. If you were to act all that way, he should’ve waited to have a lineup a black women. Like...what? White women by far and away were the most likely of any female demographic to vote for Trump. Most white women aren't any variety of "extremely liberal". The fact that you types this dumb shit and then went on to …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 10:41 AM
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Shout out to u/Specialist-Age9387, its refreshing to see a woman here actually be honest. I'm not here to argue about the whole "which gender is less shallow" because its a pointless debate. I think the only thing that gets me is how increasingly pathetic women are when it comes to admitting their physical preferences. Its like we're in a time when there is more pressure than ever on men to be physically appealing, hence why the gyms are full and male fashion brands are more successful than they…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 10:32 AM
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LOL to be a virgin and think like this is....something. The tragic irony is that most dudes I saw in the swinging/kink scene who insisted on not being into monogamy were often neurodivergent and not much to look at either. I've come to realise that unless you're a cuck or get off on your woman smashing other men then the reality of such a thing is going to hit your like a train. Women are far more sexually enticing to both genders than men are and you'll be hard pressed to find one whose exclusi…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 03:45 PM
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I tend to find men NEED marriage and family more but women WANT it more. In reality, men tend to desire to play the field way more than women do. 18-30, a lot of dudes dont really desire anything beyond casual...hence why the stats are the way they are. 30% more men than women are not in committed relationships and I think a lot of that is a choice on mens part. Woman claim that they dont desire relationships but I tend to find thats just shit they say online, its actually rare to find a half wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 03:28 PM
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Its not about eroticizing the assault, its about taking back power. Since the victims of those crimes often feel a loss of power/agency, the hypersexuality is often an aggressive attempt to recapture the agency lost in said traumatic experience. What makes it so compelling/addictive a trauma response is probably due to the fact that physical response/stimuli from sexual interaction (consensual or otherwise) often feels pleasurable.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 01:26 PM
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No I didnt. I said social status matters and that asking a man about his profession is very much assessing his social status. I, at no time, implied that asking a man about his profession is bad. You're so full of shit and I'm pretty lame trying to carry over debates from other discussions, especially if you're going to do so dishonestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 05:00 PM
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LOL "non shallow" women. This is you of course right???
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 04:28 PM
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I am, I dont waste anywhere near as much time as u do though.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 04:11 PM
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I mean, you're literally a "top 1% commenter". I dont think I can take someone who posts on here 20-30 times a day seriously on anything. If you feel thats a personal insult fair enough, but thats just me being honest. I was trying to but then you started mentioning race mixing shit in a discussion about private members clubs. That makes me think the person I am talking to probably doesnt venture outside a whole lot. I'm really not interested in wasting my time arguing why people socialise with …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 04:04 PM
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Idiots will shame women for breathing. Same way weirdos will negatively judge anything men do, I dont base my discussions on what the fringe idiots of either gender think.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 03:52 PM
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Well I'm 6ft4 and not 5ft7 so I'm already way ahead of your husband. LOL he's shorter than my wife too 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 03:51 PM
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I'm married and I've been in a relationship for almost a decade. I have no idea what you're even talking about. I've never once even implied I've needed to pay for sex, but if you want the company of attractive people? Yes, in many cases it wont be cheap. Being laughed at by PPD users isnt something thats gonna make me lose sleep at night.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 03:46 PM
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If you follow a bunch of people you don't actually know, we use social media very differently. I have my profiles set to private lol Ah yes, of course lets now sit and pretend as if most people on places like Instagram or LinkedIn dont follow people they dont know explicitly in real life. Yeah, sure thing... Half the content on your feed comes from people you dont follow. But this is all besides the point, are you going to sit here and pretend women asking to see a friends suitors instagram is s…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 03:37 PM
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Is it a moral failing or irrational? When you understand human beings is perfectly rational, just wish women would stop pretending they dont do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 03:22 PM
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How can you claim to have social status when you live in an urban area where most people don't know who you are? Are we seriously doing? Because LinkedIn/Facebook/Instagram doesnt exist... Because expensive restaurants/private members clubs/exclusive venues dont exist... Because luxury goods dont exist... I saw a top flight soccer player when I was out in a high end shopping mall here in London. Most people on the street would have no idea who he is on first glance, despite parking in a 7 series…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 03:06 PM
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Nah I'm married but... My daughter made the comment about her friend’s boyfriend. which means, yes: women do evaluate their friends partners choice And yeah I will never, EVER make the claim women should EVER go for men perceived as "nice". I feel women do indeed want "Chad" (or whatever placeholder one wants to use for socially and sexually desirable men) and need to spend less time pretending they dont and just date the men they truly desire. I'm hot and successful, my wife dated me because I …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 02:50 PM
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No, I think its great that women date with intention and ambition. But you implied OP speaking about how important social status is as some kind of example of men living in teenage perpetuity, but then you're also claiming that there is nothing wrong with women enquiring about a partners occupation...as if occupation isnt tied almost intrinsically to ones social status. What honestly are u even trying to argue?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 02:43 PM
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They dont. As many people have already said, men are very upfront about their shallowness. Women not so much. You'll have a bunch claim they love guys who are nice and sensitive knowing damn well they themselves get hot for people exuding dark triad personality traits. Outside of the incels, a lot just want women to be more upfront with their preferences that arent as politically correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 12:44 PM
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Men have a fetish for hot women, if she's crazy then thats merely a bonus point for some. There is also an idea among some men that hotness and craziness are somewhat interlinked. Pretty sure there's a well known joke from the How I Met Your Mother sitcom which highlights this. Hotness and sexual desirability is everything for men. A lot of men will overlook terrible personalities to downright criminality just because of it. I dunno why so many of you choose to be deliberately obtuse. This isnt …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 12:38 PM
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Wow. Reading comprehension really aint your strong suit.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 12:34 PM
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Your daughters friend even mentioning that she was unimpressed by her boyfriend makes my point, women do evaluate their friends partners choices. And, again, 20 years married to some 5ft5 virgin (which seems to be the story of most women here) is again not something to write home about. Men here want to attract the "Stacies". The 6/10 minimum with a healthy social life, those women do very much care about the social status of the men they date. Having a bunch of women on Reddit who date dudes wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 12:34 PM
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Am I wrong though. Downvoting my posts like some lame wont make me wrong either. Are you legit telling me women dont use a mans social media footprint to evaluate things about his lifestyle? That they dont ask about their job title/employment status/occupation?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 11:32 AM
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LOL it shouldnt be any surprise that Reddit, a social media site with one of the poorest user demographics, doesnt grasp the concept of social status. Its amusing as a lot of you make it clear you're fucking brokies who would be better served getting a better paid job than wasting your time on here arguing with incels. Yes, social status matters. I went to London for a friends birthday. Spent $1k on a table at a central London club. The ratio? 80% women, beautiful women too. Almost unheard of in…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 10:42 AM
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Actually the friendless losers sound the way you do. Its amusing when the female shut ins on here try to make out as if they're any different than the male clowns posting on this sub. Most of you are as romantically incompetent and low status as the men you laugh at. And yes, the FIRST thing your female friends do when evaluating a new partner is asking for their social media. From there you evaluate a number of things about his lifestyle. Of course this being PPD and Reddit you're going to act …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 10:34 AM
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Riiiiight...because we all know if large urban metropolises where wealth flows, no one cares about someones job/title/wealth. Some of the pathetic shit a lot of you post makes it clear that a lot of you dont venture outside. Or it just makes it clear that most of you hover among that 3-5/10 range. If you want a woman who is anywhere half decent looking/educated then yes, your social status (reflected through your job/social media/friend groups) matters and it matters a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 10:23 AM
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LOL at this pathetic incel level shit. By wife is confident, outgoing and extroverted...shes also personable and highly empathetic. Its unbelievably lame to present being attracted to desirable/confident/charismatic men as some kind of moral failing. Being a quiet introvert (man or woman) provides no kind of predisposition to someone being a more upstanding person.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 10:20 AM
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But you also say most hetero couples dont have anything in common. You seem lost. Its like someone whose trying to push back against redpill musings but doesnt have any real life experience to touch upon either lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 04:04 PM
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Golly, it must be bad of the bluepillers are noticing this. In truth, I think its happening in general. Whilst I still feel lonely men are a greater societal issue, I'm noticing more and more socially maladjusted women out there. I'm also noticing way less women just out and about doing normal social things. I think the oddball musings here reflect a change in the wider culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 09:44 AM
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Not sure if its relevant, but people need to stop separating out overweight women as if they're some different species. I'm very much the definition of the "hot guy" people on here talk about. I'm 6ft4, jacked, high earning and good looking...but I've slept with a ton of bigger women. Yeah my wife is definitely on the slimmer side (size 10 UK), I can honestly say the sex I've had with bigger women has often been better than the ones with slimmer women that I was more physically attracted to. You…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 03:32 PM
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LOL always love listening to these nonsensical socialist diatribes from gen Zers. There are plenty of third spaces, public libraries, parks, hell you can sit in most cafe's for free. Its just that most of you dont fucking use them, hence why they're closing left and right. And your talk of public transportation is also nonsensical. I'm in Europe. You legit dont think its expensive and overcrowded here too? Public transportation works so much easier here in Europe because the landmass is smaller,…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 10:03 AM
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Why would I waste my time with some whose is as big of a loser to claim they've "bested someone" in an anonymous debate on Reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 11:23 AM
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I always find it hilarious when people sad enough to be earmarked as "top 1% commenter" on here act as if they're suddenly above the discourse.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 10:15 AM
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I know its very early days (barely been married a year) but I definitely feel happier. BUT (and its a big but), it depends a lot on who you're marrying. I tend to find two types of people who get married, they're either <35 and within the top 20% bracket (of both genders), educated and middle class or they're 40+ and often marrying because they're each other's only option. They're often in the lower percentile looks wise and often already have kids. The idea that marriage is the preserve of the …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 09:34 AM
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Not really https://metro.co.uk/2020/04/13/apparently-women-tattoos-sexually-open-according-study-12548682/ The study found that women with tattoos reported greater willingness to engage in uncommitted sexual relations, as well as higher endorsement of egalitarianism and sensation-seeking, relative to non-tattooed women. As I always say, redpill is exploding in popularity for the same reason people like Trump, despite his unpopularity, still polls higher than democrats. His antagonists are thorou…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 09:22 AM
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No its not, why are deliberately misrepresenting well established data? https://ifstudies.org/press-release/married-moms-twice-as-likely-to-be-very-happy-than-single-or-childless-women https://slate.com/life/2025/08/happiness-marriage-rates-women-taylor-swift-engagement.html What you're attempting to cite is Peter Dolans data based on the American time survey, information thats been thoroughly debunked...by major news outlets no less https://www.vox.com/future-perfect/2019/6/4/18650969/married-w…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 08:56 AM
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And? If you're legit coming into contact with anyone who uses the word "redpill" in real life, you need to seriously evaluate the company you keep.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 08:49 AM
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What does this idiot discussion among a bunch of podcast morons have to do with the actual data that shows that, yes, incels and sexually/romantically unsuccessful men often lean left. You didnt even engage the point, just posted some unscientific horseshit. This is what frustrates so many people with this debate. You're not even trying to engage the discussion in good faith.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 12:00 PM
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LOL how do you legit even come into contact with a guy who admits to being "redpill" in real life??? Some of you legit make it clear you're just as socially maladjusted as the incel weirdos who post here.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 11:51 AM
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The birthrates in Nigeria being what they are is...better then?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 03:32 PM
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Does love not play into it at all for you? Not when debating with you, absolutely not. You've sat here talking about how terrible men are collectively and then want to talk about love being the reason you're married to a man who cant provide for himself? Strikes me as a little lacking in self awareness. Most women dont want to be "head of the household", if you cant be convinced of that then there is nothing I can do for you. As said, a lot of you seem to be dating aint shit men and then extrapo…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 12:21 PM
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Oh., so you are married, your comments confused me. Even so, you actually mentioned people consider you married down and you claim to be a breadwinner. This isnt an enviable situation, no matter how you sell it. It may be shocking to you but there are plenty of women out here not married to dudes their friends/family dont consider below them nor are they married to men who cant provide financially. In fact, many women (even more educated then yourself) are married to men far, far more successful…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 11:54 AM
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I cant say I'm the biggest fan of indian culture, and I live in a place dominated by south asians. But the problem is I know plenty of white people in even shittier romantic situations, if anything, they often seem worse. At least in those more traditional cultures there's some expectation for the man to provide. The amount of brits I've met living with an aint shit bum really made me question whether its even a superior alternative. From an outsider it seems India's issues have as much to do wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 11:49 AM
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China, Japan, and South Korea are significantly worse places for women than say France, UK or America? News to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 11:42 AM
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This is nonsense, high trust societies are more about the strength of the institutions therein. Western nations always score highest on this metric.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 11:41 AM
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China already reached 1.4-1.7 billion and Japan 200m+, they could probably do with tapering down. Its also largely due to people living longer, unless young people have 3+ kids, its difficult to keep up. Economically and socially, both countries are on a far better trajectory than many of their other western counterparts, precisely because of their colectivist cultures. Problem the west has is that there are fewer and fewer countries in the global south to easily exploit. Emergent economies such…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 11:40 AM
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I always like having a gander of post history when seeing fruitcake takes on here. You claim u want to be married Yes? I am trying to get married once to the man of my dreams. I’m not trying to spend the entire rest of my life with someone I’m not obsessed with. The whole package. 99% of men are not going to be for me for a long term partner. We are only compatible long term with a few people But then you're also married to someone people consider below you? You need to work out shit in your own…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 11:28 AM
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Sounds like you're desperately trying to convince yourself. And its pathetic really.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 11:12 AM
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The thing that really cemented by position on this was seeing my sister who recently had a child at 40 using IVF. Despite a respectable career as a specialist consultant doctor she was miserable, the kid changed all that. She does a lot of traditional stuff and shes supported by her husband who is also a medical professional. I think the saddest (and lamest) thing about the anti traditional women is so many will preach that shit until they find a suitable partner and then do a massive 180. Most …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 11:00 AM
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I'm 36, turned down a 19 year old on my birthday. All that matters is looks. Either you look good or you dont. Especially for men. No, a 23 year old incel/dork isnt going to automatically get more attention than a 35 year old who looks good. Its really lame when women on here try and sell this shit, unless we're talking about serious relationships or OLD, most people just dont care. I can easily pass off as under 30 anyway. Attractive men are rare, I cant say I've had women stress about my age b…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 02:58 PM
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The advice is bad for the same reason redpill advice to men is bad (and much of the dating advice aimed at gen Zers these days), it precludes you being very attractive and desirable...most people are not. Sure, I've literally seen women play the field and settle with a guy who "waited for them". I literally had an ex tell me thats exactly what she planned to do. Thing is though, when I actually had a look to see what those men were like, it was obvious the women in question was "settling" for so…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 08:30 AM
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And where the hell did the OP allude to them being in an open marriage?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 08:20 AM
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Not sure many would state that benefits the majority of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 02:45 PM
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I dont use the term fake feminist.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 02:44 PM
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She said she was in an open marriage? So how is that cucking her husband? In other words, not only are feminist women not punished at all but they actually get to cuck their husbands with no problems. Some of you seriously make me wonder. Its literally right there man, come on.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 02:38 PM
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He's getting confused with Gloria Steinem, whose links to the CIA through the Independent Research Service (IRS), an organization funded by the CIA.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 11:23 AM
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Normal men don’t find feminism gross. Hmmmm https://yougov.co.uk/international/articles/45362-who-feminist-west-2023-all-depends-question
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 11:20 AM
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Well at least you're not silly enough to argue I'm justifying my position whilst posting your living situation anymore. I am arguing about women who do not work and do not want to work and think they shouldn't have to work Again, since you clearly dont seem to remember your own comments. It's also not entirely that no women have been disadvantaged by feminism. Some women unfortunately lack the qualities required to do well in the workplace or survive independently. This has nothing to do with fe…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 11:14 AM
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And why does the same race demarcation not apply to women??? Some women (land owners) had the right to vote as early as 1776. In 1920, 19th Amendment passed, giving women the right to vote in both state and federal elections. Despite the 15th amendment where right to vote cannot be denied by the federal or state governments based on race, states still prevent the voting rights of many through arbitrary measures such as voting taxes and literacy tests. Its almost as if the rights of citizens cant…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 11:04 AM
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The greatest force in modern politics is narcissism Based.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 10:57 AM
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If a system oppresses 90% of people for the benefit of 10% (patriarchy) then that's an oppressive system LOL so 90% of us are oppressed now? You need to read more. Your posts are laughable. Who are the 10% being inconvenienced by feminism? The stuff you write literally makes no sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 10:55 AM
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I really think you're strawmanning here because I never said this. I'm referring to women who do not work and think that women should not work for bullshit reasons like "it's against nature" or "it's unfeminine" - I'm not referring to how much a woman earns, whether she's the breadwinner or whatever. Say I'm strawmanning and then push a ideological position that doesnt exist. Please show me widespread conservative thought which says women "shouldnt work", how does this even track with the same i…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 10:53 AM
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Riddle me this, in pre 1968 civil rights southernmost unites states, who had more rights. A white woman or a black man??? Answer to this should be fascinating...
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 10:38 AM
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Indeed. Good to see pushback from a woman too. Honestly this is no different than those fresh and fit scumbags who preach redpill being about men openly cheating on their partners. Unsurprisingly they're both turds who cant find a functioning relationship at all. One concerns me on the left is how many people seem to be preaching this "oppressed people have a right to be morally bankrupt", its deeply concerning and contributing to the pushback we're seeing from traditionalists/conservatives alik…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 10:36 AM
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By that logic, patriarchy offers an upside to privileged white women, just not all women. Suppose thats fine then...
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 10:30 AM
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Men as a gender, have never been oppressed X to doubt.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 10:30 AM
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Pretty much, be it redpill. manosphere, alt right...people have clocked on that many of its critics dont operate at all from any moral high ground. They may say things that sound more principled but a lot of people realise the other side doesn't have anything to offer in terms of moral leadership...so might as well just run with the open assholes like Trump/Farage/Meloni/LePen.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 10:28 AM
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Again, you're framing women who have higher earning partners as 'tradwives' or 'conservatives' which makes no sense. If we're going to go down that road then I can equally say you're likely a breadwinner out of necessity rather than choice (we can see data for that here and here) and that your breadwinning is borne out of your male partners lack of economic viability than your desire to financially "lead" your household. Again the problem I have with many women here is you backwards rationalisin…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 10:23 AM
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Some women unfortunately lack the qualities required to do well in the workplace or survive independently. do shitty meaningless work that makes no difference to anyone These are contradictory, as often independence is derived through doing shitty, meaningless work. The problem is you're framing being financially successful and marrying a man as somewhat mutually exclusive when most data points to women who are better educated and in more "critical" professions actually being more likely to main…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 10:09 AM
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This woman married a guy who was more high status at the time and had two kids with him. She became famous writing feminist-coded memoirs about female sexuality. Then in her 50s when she became more famous than her husband she started advertising open marriages and wrote about her experiences as a 50 yo woman on Tinder. In other words, not only are feminist women not punished at all but they actually get to cuck their husbands with no problems. It is the traditionalist women who face an endless …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 10:02 AM
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This is all well and good and its hardly something I feel badly about. But note two things. The rate of singledom among women below 30 is 30% and below 45 is 15%. If women were so keen on "going it on their own", you would think more of them would be actually doing it. The rate of cohabitation has actually risen among gen Zers, again if singledom was something most women were keen on more of them would actually be doing it. Interestingly, you also have this: https://www.theatlantic.com/family/ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 02:30 PM
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I think everyone is acting worse than before, I think the lockdowns had a catastrophic effect on peoples social habits.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 08:46 AM
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Hmmm, I dont agree tbh. I would have if this was 2018, but post covid? No. I actually think even attractive men are having this issue. Ask many of them. Is it impossible? Absolutely not, but the proportion of women comfortable expressing interest has fallen off. People also aren't binary. My friend is a good looking guy, dated around a lot. He's now seeing a woman he met in a club. They've already had sex and she made it easy initially, but in recent times she's become a lot more flakey. I helpe…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 01:13 PM
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Yep. Again, I made comment about this a few days ago. I legit think things are worse now. There are "rules of engagement" in dating which many women dont want to play by. Whereas before women seemed to give men a lot more signals of interest now there's nothing. Men are expected to be both super understanding of womens emotional desires and even more forthright when expressing interest or approaching. The only time a lot of women are willing to openly express interest is when the man is so far o…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 12:49 PM
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Lets turn it on its head. Do men like women with purely feminine traits without a hint of masculinity?? Well what makes a hyperfeminine woman? Its obviously not an exact science but I often think its things like large eyes, round faces, high pitched voice, social submissiveness. Now are these traits valued by men? Obviously yes. When you look at hollywood starlets, the women who seem to rule the roost are people like Sydney Sweeney, Taylor Swift, Sabrina Carpenter, Anya Taylor Joy...all of whom …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 12:20 PM
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What the fuck does this have to do with approaching? Jesus, the amount of you who just spout utterly stupid shit is mind boggling
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 08:12 AM
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Whats the spin? Women indeed say they dont care about looks. They also say most men are ugly. Its contradictory...but thats humanity for you. Have u ever hung out with women before? You've never seen this take???
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 04:33 PM
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LOL not an incel but thanks for making my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 04:31 PM
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Woman SAY they value personality over looks and "vibes" and Except she's also saying that women SAY most men are ugly Are not contradictory statements. Women say they value personality because most men are ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 04:26 PM
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I've learned that pick me's on here will call napoleon dynamite hot so I'm not convinced. You all tend to be silent when it comes to the raw details of the men u date and its telling...
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 04:25 PM
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It said to apply to the women more than the men tbf
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 04:24 PM
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Y'all be saying this and then admitting in other threads that your husbands look like quasimodo in the face
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 04:03 PM
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Funny you say that because the same Europe comes begging cap in hand when they want someone to fight their wars. Even despite Brexit, 1.3 million EU nationals live in London. And I've been all around Europe, didnt see anything there which was better than anything in London tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 03:38 PM
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I'm from the biggest, wealthiest, most globally renowned capital city in Europe. London. And yes, there are not plenty of attractive men to go around. And using the barometer of someone you cross paths with on the train, is not the same as men you interact with day to day. Things have gotten better but miss me with this idea that there are just a plethora of tall, well built, well dressed, professional men to go around. Because y'all be saying this shit and then admitting your husband is 5ft6 an…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 03:29 PM
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He’s barely 5’9. He’s chubby, used to be more overweight. He doesn’t have a lot of money. Yet he’s had several relationships and a couple flings. However, he is very social, genuinely caring, comes across as very happy and easy going, and is a ‘people person’. My friend’s partners are very similar to this. Yes and thats because you have low standards and your friends probably cant do any better. The cat is out of the bag, hence OPs point and why this sub even exists. Men know that muscularity ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 03:24 PM
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They are though. Because if they aren't where are the women validating those men who dont look traditionally masculine? Why do so many average men sign up to dating sites and not get a single match??? I cant believe people are arguing this. I've gone out with dudes and seen the visible difference in the amount of women who approach and approach them. There is clearly a discrepancy. Again this is whats pissing people off, this idea that women look at a 6ft3, jacked guy with a healthy head of hair…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 02:56 PM
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Are you white? Asian women seem to be have a preference for white men which makes me side eye due to how terrible the men tend to look. But then I hear people say asian women aren't nearly as docile/meek as they make out.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 02:49 PM
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Nah. A lot of dudes looks straight up terrible, I run into even more who noticeable smell bad too. Its actually crazy the amount of dudes I see in the gym whose BO is noticeable from a distance. Its why I laugh at redpillers complaining about women standards. Womens standards are not high. There are not plenty of attractive men. I walk around and hardly see any young men in good shape outside of the gym. Also, sorry but male attractiveness is pretty damn objective, if you're not slim/muscular, w…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 02:44 PM
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Also I'm a white woman from East europe LOL close enough. You're from a culture which still values masculine expression. I'm not cultural chauvinist or "traditionalist" but its kinda sad how many women in the west will speak about freedom and still date guys who they're not truly attracted to out of fear of being alone. Its actually somewhat worse these days. Its like, how can you expect us as man to be better when you cower out of raising your expectations for men?? A lot of my wifes exes are d…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 02:41 PM
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She makes total sense. Woman SAY they value personality over looks and "vibes" but then you're on social media and you read the thirst comments over traditionally masculine men or you see women scoffing at natural physiques not realising how much steroids has warped perception or you sign up to a dating app and learn that men who dont have good pictures displaying height/musculature.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 02:28 PM
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LOL I actually agree with u OP. I remember my wife admitting it once too in an argument. I'm an overly musclebound freak but I notice, despite what people proclaim and myself going way beyond whats considered "jacked", I'm always surprised by the attention I get. But then I feel its not simply about my muscularity but more about my unambiguous masculine (dare I say, hypermasculine) physical expression. Being fit, clean shaven and sporting a full head of hair goes a long damn way and its annoying…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 02:16 PM
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I disagree. I think younger women are easier to manipulate and then to have lower standards in general. BUT, I feel older women often struggle to go back in terms of preference (Chris Rock made a really good joke about this a few years ago - essentially mentioning that men cannot get back sexually and women cant go back in terms of lifestyle) which often leads to them tolerating things they shouldnt in men they deem "on their level". I feel when women are younger they're actually a lot less rigi…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 03:43 PM
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I'm questioning whether the "redpill men" she knows actually exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 08:44 AM
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while top men usually welcome women and treat them much better. Eh...I find it amusing the way so many posters here either lie or try to weave in bullshit into their arguments. Also, quite frankly, you mention them being academically unremarkable and working shitty jobs...but I'm also willing to bet they're either in college or gainfully employed, they also seem to not be distinctly physically disadvantaged. These men sound average as hell. And it says a lot that you demean them, but they're als…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 08:42 AM
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LOL says it all doesnt it...
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 08:19 AM
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Thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 08:17 AM
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Well its a stupid expectation. If I thought like you and discounted my wife because she liked Disney it would mean discounting someone who I'm super physically attracted to, who is kind, loving, has plenty nurturing tendencies and comes from a great family...all because she occasionally likes to watch the lion king... LOL and some of u legit wonder why your dating lives absolutely suck.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 03:54 PM
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You said this about a subreddit for women to talk to other women and bond with other women about shared experiences. That's one of the core parts of socialization No its not. You bond with like minded individuals in real life. LOL its crazy because women here were claiming that using TikTok as the barometer of the gender war was a sign that people were falling victim to the algorithm but then I see shit like this. If you want to talk to people, you do so with people you can actually see and whom…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 03:27 PM
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My wife (as do a lot of women) has a pretty healthy relationship with her mother, they talk everyday. Even my mother and sister, who clash a ton, have linked up a lot to help raise my newborn niece. If one cant find a single female maternal figure to help ease the burden of children then it speaks to said individual probably not being very effective at maintaining social bonds. And I think thats something that a lot of women on reddit suffer from. A lot of you seem to struggle almost as much as …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 02:44 PM
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You make an interesting thread, but I'm actually going to counter this and say keeping with the Jones actually can be useful. I spent between $70-90k on my wedding, about $6k on my engagement ring. And I honestly dont have any regrets. Whilst I found the day to be a nightmare logistically, I'm glad everyone I knew, my family and my wifes people were able to have a great time, eat good food and make some happy memories. A big part of why the wedding went so well was the venue alone. A beautiful h…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 02:38 PM
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No it isnt. Divorced women often have terrible health and financial outcomes. https://psc.isr.umich.edu/news/research-shows-economic-consequences-of-divorce-in-the-us-vary-by-gender-race-and-ethnicity/ https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S0277953624004490 Rich women are also less likely to divorce. https://ifstudies.org/in-the-news/why-wealthy-people-are-less-likely-to-divorce I am willing to bet your wealth (probably accumulated by a man, 70% of HNW women's wealth is generated thr…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 02:26 PM
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OP. Is. A. Woman. I know some posters are slow, but jesus I didnt know it was this bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 02:20 PM
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OP is a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 02:19 PM
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Most women consume some form of this trash content. Seeing it as a red flag would be like seeing men playing videogames/sports or watching marvel movies as a red flag. You'd be eliminating a significant chunk of the population. I know some female redditor will now claim they dont consume any of this because they're indeed a speshul snowflake but I honestly wouldnt read too much into a woman watching love island or liking disney movies or romantasy (my wife is big into all three). Another big iss…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 02:17 PM
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"Its the problem with this sub, and much of this debate in general, women often absolutely refusing to debate this in good faith." - pointlessly gendered. Like men here all debate in good faith. Many dont, but I criticise them often enough. This debate is about women. "leaving the workforce to look after children, pray tell, who exactly is paying the bills in this arrangement???" - well i assume a man, because it's typical for sahm arrangement. Its also "typical" for a woman to clean and cook, b…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 02:11 PM
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Again, women on here acting as if they dont know what OP is talking about. And then from the other side of their mouth complain about the number of men adhering to more conservative attitudes or listening to men like Andrew Tate. Its the problem with this sub, and much of this debate in general, women often absolutely refusing to debate this in good faith. Numerous data in the UK speaks to young mothers increasingly leaving the workforce to look after children, pray tell, who exactly is paying t…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 08:20 AM
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What you said is all true, but you're fighting the tide. I can count on one hand the women on here who are brave enough to say what you did.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 10:46 PM
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LOL the women here are gonna run interference and say its all online and none of it is happening in real life. I think you make an interesting point but it actually moves beyond the scope of provision and long term mating strategy and actually figures into every aspect of male-female gender dynamics. Women are just not playing by any set of rules anymore. I went out last night and wingmanned for my friend. I noticed the same thing I noticed the last few times I was out, the complete lack of will…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 01:27 PM
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I mean you speak about about delusion and then use Tim Tebow as your example. A 1% NFL player whose virginity is highly linked to his religiosity. LOL please, for the love of christ, dont try and compare yourself to a 6'3 240lbs NCAA winner married to a miss universe winner. What example are you trying to imply? That Tebows experience is replicable among most male virgins???? Really??? Is this a joke lol btw "low count" women who dont add oral to their count, dont count 🙃 My wife doesnt add oral…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 01:08 PM
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LOL this is the kind of just world fallacy bullshit that comes from dudes who often have little to no sexual experience. And it shows from your posts. I'm highly promiscuous, my wife had...a lot less partners than me. She knew this going in too. I dated a bunch of other women who also had partner counts lower than mine. Unless they're paying, most promiscuous men will either be physically attractive/charming/highly sociable/high status. These are traits women place far higher than simply being c…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 12:34 PM
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I'm always in two minds about this. Whilst I do legit believe more and more women are living for themselves, I do also become more sceptical of womens claimed independence when they make threads like these. All the data points towards men becoming more and more disinterested in long term commitment. I look at my male friends and my wife's female friends. All of them bar one have a partner, among my male friends, half are single. The half who are single arent even doing that badly in life. Data a…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 11:35 AM
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Nah. Because being in shape correlates strongly with a solid personal sense of style and good hygiene. If someone is putting in effort in the gym, they're often more likely to put some effort into their appearance as well. Also people need to realise that the autistic gym bro whose only appeal is the fact that he has muscular arms despite his pizza face and lack of social skills is largely an internet/reddit phenomenon. I'm someone with an insane physique, the type that people sit up and notice …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 10:16 AM
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LOL posts like these really just highlight how stupid a lot of you are. I wont deny that a good chunk of young men voting for Trump are just bitter losers turned on by his misogyny but to reduce the entire of his voting demographic to people "voting against their own interests" honestly just makes it clear why so many gen Zers perform so poorly in a number of different metrics, which I often attribute to many having a severe lack of ability to think critically. Trump is already talking about a 1…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 08:39 AM
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He's still right, an endless catalogue of women of any variety willing to participate in any debased sex act you so desire is not conducive to building healthy relationships with either sex or women. Probably what causes you to end up identifying with the redpill in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 02:59 PM
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He's right and the point you're making is a stupid one. Porn isnt actually free. You're the product. Through the endless advertisements on any decent porn site and then, on top of that, you have many of the videos not even being full length and often merely a funnel to paid content. And then, on top of that, nearly all porn sites simply have a free "tier" and then numerous subscription models for in-house paid content.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 02:57 PM
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https://yougov.co.uk/health/articles/35836-physical-appearance-and-sexual-attractiveness And the fact that the OKC blog post which incels love talking about actually showed mens messages mostly clustered around the most attractive women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 10:58 AM
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Well the take is a garbage. Fit and curvy women arent remotely on the same level, the former will get several orders of magnitude more attention than the latter. Data supports this too.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 10:49 AM
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Muscles do not equal success at dating They literally do. https://www.realclearscience.com/articles/2022/05/18/the_trait_that_best_predicts_mens_mating_success_832788.html
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 10:46 AM
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LOL when people say colleges are producing morons, comments like these really kinda help make their case. I'll let u in on a little secret, AI is massively overhyped. Its a bubble meant to mask catastrophic financials and an economy which still hasnt overcome the hurdles that materialised during covid. Companies arent hiring graduates not because of AI but because of the perilous financial landscape which will continue for at least the next 18 months. The majors women choose still pay the square…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 10:08 AM
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What is the point you are trying to make? ...that european queens were just as war mongering as their male counterparts... Thats literally all I said I only hope for your sake that this is just an elaborate troll job. Because if not you need both therapy and a chance to touch grass.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/25 11:05 AM
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It is a fact. Its pretty well established that european queens were more war mongering than their male counterparts. https://qz.com/967895/throughout-history-women-rulers-were-more-likely-to-wage-war-than-men https://www.thecut.com/2016/01/european-queens-waged-more-wars-than-kings.html
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/25 10:59 AM
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So why doesnt this apply to women then? Why is it anytime someone states anything about "pair bonding" or promiscuous women struggling with commitment, its shot down? This is whats bugging a lot of people out, this ridiculous attempt to rewrite the realities on the genders especially in places like Reddit. Now apparently its men who want to have kids and get married and be stay at home dads. The sad reality is women dont adhere to this at all and still actively discriminate against men who dont …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 02:06 PM
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Do they? It really depends. I've been with women who are into gangbangs, cuckolding and all kinds who have partners. Literally witnessed a woman get a train ran on her in the club whilst her husband either watched, joined in or egged her on. There are plenty men who love sluts. However, me personally, I've done the dating the slut thing and not wanted to do it again. I feel they had expectations that didnt fit around my own desires in a relationship. But thats just a preference thing. I think wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 01:48 PM
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You're not far off. 7+ is actually exceptionally large, I've been to a lot of swingers resorts/events/clubs and even done some stripping. I've seen a lot of erect dicks. Even in swingers clubs, where the patrons skew a lot larger than average, 7in penises arent common at all. Its literally what the data says, anything from 6.3-5 is in the bigger than average/large range. There is also girth. I've seen plenty of women consider penises not as long as mine just has perceptively big because of their…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 10:21 AM
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What does this even mean? Even if the vast majority of people do believe it. Do you think this is the reason why certain women fraternise with black men? LOL seriously? Some of u need to badly touch grass, I can already tell I am talking to a pornbrained incel.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 10:00 AM
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TBF, you're wrong again. Plenty of decent data on this... https://www.forhims.co.uk/blog/what-size-penis-do-women-prefer Seems like the preference was 6.3in to 6.4in, which is comfortably above average. As much as the insecure men on this sub annoy me, so do the women like you who insist on bullshitting them. Especially if you're going to claim to be a "proud slut". Go to any NSA sex site/feeld and you'll notice many, many women have a preference for larger endowed men. Now obviously that doesnt…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 09:53 AM
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Then why even make this discussion in the first place? Jesus so many insecure non-black male losers on here.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 09:46 AM
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I was black and into swinging. Women into "BBC" were very common. Nights/events catering to these women are popular in just about every well known swinging club in my country. Just LOL when seeing some insecure dweeb trying to lecture about "respect" as if a bunch of people having random sex with people they just met (often in some sex club) wasnt already not the most respectable pastime as is. Whats even more pathetic is the non-black men so deeply concerned with the respectability of the men h…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 09:45 AM
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This response (and the ad hominem) make it kinda obvious you're not capable of arguing from a mature or objective standpoint.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 01:10 PM
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Just stop, u have no idea what you're talking about My wifes partner count is 3 and mine is in the hundreds, I made her aware of this from the day we met. Its not a big deal to women, never will be.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 11:11 AM
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LOL I'm not even a redpiller, but its amusing to me seeing women and "bluepillers" say shit like this ultimately because they're upset and frustrated a lot of men seem to be bucking the system and refusing to commit to nonsense women. The top thread here is a guy who self proclaims to be "non-monogamous" trying to lecture people about why being called husband material is actually a good thing. So essentially a guy who, for all we know, could actually be a cuck, is telling cisgendered straight me…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 08:07 AM
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Anyone who jumps to accusations of misogyny isnt really worth wasting time debating with. The original premise to this thread was raised due to a widely held understanding that bisexual men's bisexuality often serves as a penalty when dating. This is supported by data. https://bi.org/en/articles/bi-men-are-not-considered-attractive-new-study-says https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC10035584/ I'm simply giving reasoning for that based on my own experiences, seems some bi men in here support …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 07:46 AM
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And again in what way does this comment pertain to Trumps masculinity (or lack thereof) in any way?? Christ, to think you posted this as some kind of gotcha when it literally negates what you're talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 01:49 PM
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And I dont give a shit about Trumps perceived masculinity in your eyes either. Trump is there to protect conservative, traditional values and that why they vote for him. Every single one of his policies reflects that desire too. And I never edited my post either so fuck off.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 10:08 AM
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Well you're going to have your mind blown when you learn there is a whole subcommunity of people who literally identify is "dom" or "sub". People have all types of perceptions that may not make sense but they're not going to stop having them anytime soon.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 09:54 AM
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I dont have an issue attracting women (I literally said my hypermasculine presentation offsets concerns with being seen as feminine). And I've never, ever once purported to having an issue attrating on here either. I simply outlined my experiences with women, also note I never actually said those women who asked my bisexuality didn't date me because of such, just that it was clearly a concern they had. I also have a very, very high partner count (thus I've never disagreed with any women who stat…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 09:49 AM
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Its not hard at all, mostly because being bisexual doesnt actually form much of my identity. Its a sexual preference and thats about it. I'm married and my wife is well aware of it too. Its once you start letting it dictate your personality is where it probably starts becoming a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 09:46 AM
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😭🤣 You guys should do standup Again, this is what I mean about bad faith argumentation. A lot of u in here are addicted to it. Thankfully, I listen to actual political commentators and not clowns on Reddit and its abundantly clear that Trumps appeal is based on his "strongman" rhetoric. https://www.eunews.it/en/2024/11/06/now-the-whole-world-is-in-the-hands-of-strong-men/ https://www.latrobe.edu.au/news/articles/2018/opinion/the-rise-of-strongman-politics Yes, it doesnt take a genius to realise …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 09:40 AM
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Again, the fetishization is often watching gay porn or have a fling with a bi guy. I dont even think there is anything wrong with that. But I also think there is a marked difference between that and actually having a full fledged relationship with someone who is bisexual. There are definitely women who can do it, but they're not exactly that common and they will judge you for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 01:07 AM
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You know by just asking. I mentioned it elsewhere here but I feel when women/bluepilled types feel they're losing an argument, they start resorting to playing dumb. If you're bisexual and admit that, it wont take long before a woman (or man really) will then proceed to ask whether you're a top/bottom. You're definitely seen as more of a submissive if its the latter. Even its just subconsciously.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 01:04 AM
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No redpiller has ever "yelled slurs" at you. You know damn well this is an internet/shut in phenomenon so quit the bullshit. Like yeah, I ran into some women for whom it was a problem, but most didn't care. Eh, again I feel this statement is often at the mercy of your own biases. I just kinda get the impression you're severly underplaying just how many women took umbrage with your sexuality, and your flair just doesnt convince me that you can be transparent with this.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 12:57 AM
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One thing I find amusing about bluepill types is whenever you have no legit rebuttal u choose to just not even bother engaging with the point whilst opting for snarky bullshit like this. Its one of those super lame reddit things.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 12:54 AM
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It literally says, on the very first line: The Office for National Statistics has published its analysis of the divorce rates in 2018. Are you fucking for real? Not being married is consistently coupled with poorer relationship outcomes. This is further compounded by the fact that marriage is the only legally bounding definition of a relationship. I know u desperately want to be full of shit, so I have cited two more sources showing bisexual mens poor relationship outcomes which dont pertain to …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 12:51 AM
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It would be by coming to terms with ones own sexuality and not operating through the prism of said sexual identity being your entire being. By that I mean acknowledging and being open with your bisexuality but not allowing to preclude some kind of behavioural nonconformity. It would also mean choosing partners who neither are completely turned off by bisexual men nor ones who think they score brownie points for fraternising with bisexual men either.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 12:45 AM
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regardless of if they try to pretend otherwise This bit is key as to why the discourse is so fucked up now. Somewhere along the line women started thinking it was okay to lie to men about what actually turned them on. And now instead of guys focusing on bettering themselves, become more competent/masculine, you have a bunch of women running interference to tell them how great it is to put on a dress or to be in touch with their feelings. Knowing damn well they wont touch those men with a ten foo…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 11:19 PM
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LOL u actually believe women avoid fuckboys????
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 11:16 PM
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Rubbish. https://bicommunitynews.co.uk/2023/10/05/youll-never-marry-bisexuals-partnerships/#:\~:text=The%20recent%20Office%20for%20National,simply%20hasn't%20happened%20yet. Bisexual people have the worst relationship outcomes of any sexual identity, by far the least likely to marry. Christ, the amount of redditors who just peddle feel good garbage from their nothing bubbles. Just LOL at anyone thinking bisexual means "better in bed". And I say that as someone who is bi. So many clowns who think…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 11:15 PM
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Never forget that most people voted for Trump. Most white women did. Here in the UK even, the conservatives used to be a party that appealed mostly to women. Subs like twoX are a modern phenomenon where certain women go to find likeminded ideological counterparts or simply pretend to be something they're not. Plenty of women like traditionalism. Plenty more kinda pretend not to like it for a time only to up and do a complete 180 once its time to settle down and pop out babies. Women. Like. Mascu…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 11:04 PM
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Its nothing to do with changing behaviour, its simply acknowledging that talk of being nice or agreeable or egalitarian have nothing to do with dating success despite what women say. Consideration of needs or feelings dont really relate much to it too. There is nothing wrong with those things and having them will probably contribute positively to a good relationship, but they're not conducive to getting in one.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 02:14 PM
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Wouldnt be convinced reading this sub. And even if they do, doesnt mean they like it...hence why marriage, relationships and families are all in decline.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 02:11 PM
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Shitty behavior can make hot men icky Interest in my brain, consideration of my needs and feelings and personal talents can overcome ugliness This was probably OPs point. I just dont think a lot of men are buying the quoted anymore. I think a lot of men are starting to realise women date very strategically and, often, if she's entertaining less desirable men, its due to the fact that she's compromising. Just as womens standards have risen, so have mens. A lot of men dont want to be settled for a…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 09:29 AM
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L-O-L Women definitely do not have any kind of solidarity with each other. You've been had by the online gender discourse u see on Reddit. And thats because this site encourages hive minds. Go to mumsnet/tattle/lipstick alley and learn that women dont actually have solidarity with other women at all. There is a mutual understanding among many about challenges faced by their gender but thats about it. Also read what many womens opinions are of people like Bonnie Blue/Cardi B...it aint flattering.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 09:23 AM
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Eh...I'm torn. I'm a STEM major. Didnt even go to an impressive uni but I've made an immense amount of progression in the 5/6 years I've been in the field. Now earning in the top 1-2% income wise. Yes, its largely been down to my soft skills and not my technical knowledge (I've never been that good an engineer) but I also dont believe these technical/"high powered" roles are requiring of any specialised/impressive intellect either. I think the biggest thing I've noticed the higher up the ranks i…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 09:04 AM
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On the one hand, I wont deny that online redpill discourse is dominated by social media grifter types, but thats largely whats happening with all social media discourse. Its not like our political discourse online is dominated by political scientists and economists either. At the same time though, I now work at an investment bank. About the 30th in the world in terms of assets under their management (900 billion or so) and whilst I definitely dont see anyone espousing redpill-isms, you would be …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 08:51 AM
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Yeah tbh women around me are better with money, but I'm starting to realise those women are actually the minority. Most women actually have terrible financial and spending habits.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 02:36 PM
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lol what are u talking about? 60% of women under 30 are in relationships, this rises to nearly 80% above 30. Who is actually going it alone?? The contingent of women freezing their eggs is miniscule. In the UK, 4200 women underwent egg freezing surgery, thats 0.0128% of the population. Even fewer actually used their frozen eggs. A lot of you make it more clear you're delusional femcels. Women are still pairing up a lot and many are dating down in order to do it. https://www.theatlantic.com/famil…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 10:10 AM
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Eh...I gotta be honest my wife initiates sex with me multiple times a day (not everyday actually) and rarely ever rejects my sexual advances. In fact she's complained about me just lazily jerking off instead of having sex more times than I care to count. Their paranoia is justified. I'm a sexually desirable guy, there really is a night and day difference in how someone who looks like me is treated, and someone who doesnt. To further test this theory a few years ago, I used to be into swinging an…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 09:21 AM
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They're just talking shit. 40% of GEN-Z women voted for trump. Thats nearly half, in Trumps least favourable demographic. The number jumps even higher when broken down by race. There's a certain kind of woman who posts on here, they're not at all representative. I think what annoys me is that despite probably being the most unappealing kind of female (are we seriously trying to make out as if Reddit is inundated with "Stacies") they try to push this idea that men are oh so desperate for their at…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 08:46 AM
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LOL you clearly dont fucking understand the concept of academic study nor do you understand the concept of "correlation not equaling causation" either. No study on earth is going to confirm the reasoning behind promiscuous people being more unfaithful/depressed. Thats entirely not the point of the study, its merely to confirm a given hypothesis.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 08:37 AM
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What an absolutely stupid statement. You dont even understand what it means, I've posted multiple studies literally linking increased promiscuity to a number of high risk/negative behaviours and somehow...correlation doesnt equal causation. So, multiple findings showing promiscuous people being less faithful, more depressed, having a higher rates of STDs is just happening by accident?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 08:32 AM
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Kirk, who I'm definitely not a fan of, is survived by his wife and two children. The same wife who came on TV yesterday to vow vengeance for her husbands death. I say that to say that conservative ideals are not as divided on gender as OP would like to believe. I do find it interesting just how few replies there are from many of the "bluepilled" female posters on here. I also read somewhere that incels actually lean left politically a lot of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 01:31 PM
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The average woman is actually better at managing money than the average man is. Hell, I read somewhere that there are more single female homeowners now than male ones in their 30's. They're not: Women have lower numerical and financial confidence: https://www.nationalnumeracy.org.uk/news/new-research-reveals-financial-confidence-gap-between-women-and-men Women save less: https://www.cnbc.com/select/why-women-dont-save-as-much-as-men/ Women invest less: https://www.femaleinvest.com/en-gb/magazine…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 01:22 PM
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It literally does: Promiscuity linked to increased marital dissatisfaction: https://spark.bethel.edu/cgi/viewcontent.cgi?article=1005&context=psychology-students Promiscuity linked to higher rates of divorce (though its highest with two partners weirdly enough): https://ifstudies.org/blog/counterintuitive-trends-in-the-link-between-premarital-sex-and-marital-stability/ Link between promiscuity and depression: https://www.harleytherapy.co.uk/counselling/promiscuity-and-depression.htm I mean there…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 01:08 PM
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Eh, if a redpiller was doing the same u would be crying bloody murder. This is intellectually dishonest.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 12:58 PM
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Rates of coercive control are comparable if not higher in LGBTQ relationships. https://compass.onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/10.1111/soc4.13239 Research indicates that many identities within LGBTQ+ communities carry a greater risk of victimization for IPV than found in straight relationships (Brown & Herman, 2015). In the same 2016–2017 NISVS survey, the annual estimates indicated that 56% of lesbians, 69% of bisexual women, 48% of gay men, and 46% of bisexual men experienced IPV in their lifetime…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 03:21 PM
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There is a woman here LITERALLY claiming resolutely that blonde men are unattractive Is a personal opinion now? That was literally my opening sentence. So not only do you make stupid arguments, you clearly cant read either. Its not my fault that you're not smart enough to realise a comment like that would likely mean I'm referring to another comment. I've seen plenty of comments mention other posts in a discussion without directly quoting them. Unlike you though, I'm not stupid or delusional eno…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 08:04 AM
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Promiscuity linked to increased marital dissatisfaction: https://spark.bethel.edu/cgi/viewcontent.cgi?article=1005&context=psychology-students Promiscuity linked to higher rates of divorce (though its highest with two partners weirdly enough): https://ifstudies.org/blog/counterintuitive-trends-in-the-link-between-premarital-sex-and-marital-stability/ Link between promiscuity and depression: https://www.harleytherapy.co.uk/counselling/promiscuity-and-depression.htm
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 07:59 AM
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Blonde men are not considered attractive. Tall DARK and handsome is a stereotype for a reason. This is literally her comment. Are you fucking slow??
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 07:41 AM
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Who gives a shit if men do it more? Again this is what I mean by shut ins who bring everything down to gender. A guy saying "I think blondes are hot" and a guy saying "brunettes are unattractive to most men" are two different things and you know it. Doesnt matter which gender says it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 07:23 AM
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I mean, you are correct again but still, you need to manoeuvre accordingly. Yes, the US has wide industries and manufacturing compared to the UK, but many of them also operate within the UK. My latest role is at an American firm...plenty of whom using the UK as a base of operations when working in the EMEA region. I never said it would be easy, the UK job market is tough as hell. But its not impossible either.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 01:11 PM
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I dont, you've stated a position first and then I've called it out for being dishonest. There's plenty of discussions I've had with people on here who I believe are in good faith, I just dont think u are.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 01:08 PM
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50%+ of women also werent into brown hair, does that make black hair unattractive to women? Jesus, this is making me feel stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 01:05 PM
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And this post makes your original one completely redundant. He was blonde in those 4 years. Seriously do you even read your own posts?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 01:04 PM
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I'm in the UK, with an even more entrenched upper class and a country of nearly 70 million where the monarchy still charges tax paying citizens for use of the land. Problem is, they've been around longer than capitalism. We actually dont see the same tax cuts for the rich (taxes are actually the highest they've been for high income earners) and yet the economy is still flat and inequality is still as bad as its ever been.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 12:19 PM
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LOOOL funny you say that because my MIL has an old female cockapoo who absolutely cant stand other dogs 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 09:30 AM
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I'm married but my friend is single, I go out and wingman for him occasionally. From what I can glean getting laid has never been easier, like its crazy how willing women are to sleep with random men. Thing is though (and what the redpillers/incels forget) is that you need to be in the right environments. Whenever I'm out, I notice the vibe absolutely changes when it gets closer to 12 and everyone is a little bit more drunk. Thing is though, despite what the redpillers claims, they dont actually…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 09:28 AM
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Women arent as hard working as men. This is just statistical fact. https://books.core-econ.org/the-economy/microeconomics/03-scarcity-wellbeing-11-gender-working-time.html Arguing against this is like arguing that the sky is green.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 09:04 AM
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Agreed. This is why I dislike this forum. Both my wife, and even moreso my mother, have described women they absolutely despise. And the way they describe them genuinely sounds like those people are truly awful. In fact, if anything, my mother taught me more about being more wary of other women than she ever did about other men. I think the difference is, women who have no issue criticising their gender often have little issue forming bonds with other women. Their in group bias is inevitable, bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 08:59 AM
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LOOOL, I am in the UK. 250K is the dollar conversion of my 185k salary (excluding my bonus). I mean I dont really deny that the government is actively importing a slave labour class but then I also dont think its entirely hopeless. If you're earning 45k with anything more than 3 years experience as a software engineer, you're doing it wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 08:52 AM
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Because hair colour doesnt make anyone attractive or otherwise, people may have a preference for hair colour (or a preference against it) but resolutely announcing an entire hair colour as unattractive is stupid as all fuck and you know it. Its sad how committed you are to agreeing with women even when they make super low IQ points like this. Seriously. How fucking dumb are some of the posters here???
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 08:46 AM
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Its almost like this is a debate forum or something...
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 08:43 AM
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Thank you for thinking I’m such a unique snowflake that I alone hold those opinions. Its not even about being a unique snowflake, its that I dont even really know if I can trust your opinion in general. Same way I wont take someone proclaiming how unattractive they find a supermodel. I mean, it could be true? But when I walk outside and see how these same people are treated? Why even take said opinion seriously? I think thats what a lot of women desperately want to believe, that we see them as o…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 04:19 PM
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And what about when my elders told me not to talk to strangers as a child? Are they just projecting themselves onto random men driving ice cream trucks? Were they all actually pedos???
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 03:35 PM
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Yeah but who cares about you? You're a nobody on Reddit, a site which I say has tons of losers all claiming in their own way how the sky is green. Your opinion is as redundant as some clown incel on a messageboard complaining about how Margot Robbie is flat chested. Do you legit think pronouncing your preferences against these dudes means anything? When I walk outside and see these same men grace the covers of magazines whilst being lauded and admired by women? Backstreet Boys, One Direction, BT…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 03:22 PM
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Actually the comparison is apt, and can be applied in a multitude of directions. I see it in the job market all the time. Why is it a graduate from an Ivy League with a 3.9 GPA is taken over one from a community college with a 3.5 GPA? Its because we deem certain institutions and grades as better than others, even though there is no guarantee that the Ivy League grad is a better worker than the community college counterpart.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 03:06 PM
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27.5 percent of the women said yes to men wearing a blond wig, 30 percent accepted invitations from the men with brown wigs, 35 percent accepted invitations from men with black wigs and only 13.8 percent for men who donned a red wig. This is what you're using to determine that blonde men are unattractive? A 2.5% difference? Are you mentally okay? You clearly seem to be wrestling some deep insecurity/trauma relating to blonde men. Your posts seem completely unhinged.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 02:53 PM
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Leonardo dicaprio is HIDEOUS. The guy from Titanic who helped catapult a movie into billion dollar status and spent years as a hollywood heartthrob... This is what I am talking about, when dudes sit on here calling women like Margot Robbie ugly they're rightfully called incels, why dont we do the same for women? Its kinda pathetic how many women try to pretend as if visibly desirable men are unappealing. It all comes from a place of insecurity, trauma and petty penis envy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 02:49 PM
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LOOOOL this is exactly what people are talking about. Jon Hamm and Benedict Cumberbatch are both 6ft1+ dudes who are visibly in good shape, successful actors and the latter comes from immense privilege. Claiming preferences for either says anything about women liking attractive men would be like me comparing Megan Fox and Sydney Sweeney as an example of how varied mens tastes are
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 02:44 PM
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I think this is what so many people dont understand. I'm pretty conventionally attractive. Without sounding like a dick, my wife kinda worships the ground I walk on. And she's always considered herself to punching. And tbh I look good but I don't look that good. Its funny because I've had sex with an insane number of fat women and I didnt feel the need to commit to any of them. Didnt really make much effort to do so either. I also have a friend who whilst isnt as tall as I am, is a good looking …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 02:15 PM
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There is a woman here literally claiming resolutely that blonde men are unattractive. I'm not even blonde, but even I can see how insane that statement sounds. Even sadder still you can see from their post history that said poster is littered with a bunch of issues and seems to be incapable of having lasting relationships with the opposite sex. I think this is my issue with a certain subsection of women, and many of them tend to post religiously on sites like these. They're just...sad. Like real…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 02:08 PM
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Blonde men are not considered attractive. LOL yes because we all know Brad Pitt, Leonardo Dicaprio and Paul Walker were all considered uggos in their time. I mean, seriously what planet are people here living on.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 02:00 PM
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Based.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 08:41 AM
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There are 24 million millionaires in America and 1.24 million people with a net worth higher than 10 million. This idea of "ruling classes" has always seemed economically illiterate to me. Wealth consolidation is largely a result of an increasingly homogenised cultural landscape and sophisticated and globalised supply chains and financial systems. Most of the ultra wealthy have their wealth tied in stocks, a market heavily buoyed by institutional investors packaging your mortgage into tranches o…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 11:12 PM
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I think its entirely overstated, the concept of men falling behind seems to rely heavily on the idea that mens lack of college education is somehow the sole determinant of ones life prospects. I think men below 30 are finding it more difficult than ever but this dissipates somewhat after men reach mature adulthood. I also think AI, offshoring (and subsequent reshoring of manufacturing) is going to have profound effects on the labour market and possibly reverse many of the changes we've seen in t…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 11:03 PM
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LOL the more you speak the more I kinda lol at you claiming anyone elses masculinity is fragile. And yes that number is very real, and its amusing having it questioned by a self admitted furry.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 05:42 PM
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The Bodi tribe are nomads, there are similarly nomadic tribes in Nigeria where my parents hail from. They marry off their daughters at 9, refuse to integrate with the wider population and routinely kill people who roam onto their lands. It would be like basing dating habits off of gypsies. The fact that people actually post this stupid shit just blows my mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 05:38 PM
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That poster has this on their bio: binary (femboy) gamer fond of music! (acts like nergal Jr here and irl) 💚 and I'm the devil's child 🖤 (satanist) This is someone who wouldnt be taken seriously in any real world debate, and yet here we are on Reddit substantiating nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 05:36 PM
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LOL this is the amusing bit. Its like its a binary between Jay Cutler and Timothee Chalamet. When, in reality, women are straight up obsessed with dudes like Chris Hemsworth/Chris Evans/Anthony Joshua. All dudes who are visibly on roids.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 05:33 PM
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Also women don’t want the ultra buff muscle man that men think we do. You need to give your sisters the memo. I have a partner count within the 400+ range. Yeah I can blame a lot of that on sex addiction, but my physique has contributed to the ease in which I raised that number. I'm not really interested in convincing anyone that being super buff is attractive to women but I will say that its an absolute tragedy just how many women say things they dont actually adhere to under any circumstance. …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 05:30 PM
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You cant edit the sources genius.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 05:25 PM
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Or maybe, just maybe....women just like dudes...
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 05:25 PM
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So you want through highschool never being taught the concept of citation? Damn education really has declined... autistic furry non binary (femboy) gamer LOL this is why I am wasting my time arguing with. Having a autistic furry trying to tell me what the majority of women like really is peak reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 05:23 PM
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You're very likely not getting more play than me, I have a disgustingly high partner count. Thankfully I'm married and thats behind me, but u didnt really address my statement. The complaints from men here are largely from men who desire attractive, cisgendered, heteronormative and neurotypical women. If you're trying to sell to me the idea that they're all fawning over feminine men then, again, X to doubt. I can be as fragile in my masculinity as u want to believe, doesnt make me wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 05:22 PM
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Yeah women also love gay bars, they're the only bars which seem to be surviving the post covid nightlife decline...and yet women arent clamouring to fuck gay/bisexual men. If anything, they've become even more selective about their male company. And then one learns that dating apps are largely the preserve of the top 20% of men...do you think those men are mostly feminine? I kinda doubt it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 04:50 PM
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Then you should probably take that up with the person I'm responding to.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 04:48 PM
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Dont struggle and pretty active means different things to different people. If you're trying to tell me attractive, normative, cisgendered women get excited at feminine men then I'm going to select X to doubt.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 04:47 PM
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LOL the fact that u dont wanna say kinda says it all
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 04:46 PM
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https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Physical_attractiveness#Male-specific_factors LOL Wikipedia literally tells you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 04:37 PM
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LOL this, its hilarious they're downvoting me for stating the obvious.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 04:35 PM
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This is the thing though. I live in the UK, our cities (in relation to America) are pretty damn liberal across the board. I'm also from London. Whenever I go out with my friends, I see who the women gravitate to. Its the tall, dark features, muscular, visibly successful/affluent (good clubs here will charge you $1000+ for a table for entry) who women gravitate to, and in large liberal metropolises, the expectations for masculine competence are even higher. Even whilst being into swinging/ENM bac…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 04:34 PM
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LOL the vast majority of women are not into femboys. TBH women's desires arent that complex and arent that unique. The women who are into femboys are in the minority, hence why so many of you struggle so severely on here...so many Redditors are convinced with selling this idea that the sky is green. Even the male heartthrobs who air on the more effeminate side have distinctively masculine traits like facial hair, muscle mass and height. People need to stop using closeted lesbians and aspies as t…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 04:20 PM
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LOL this is the insanity today, men and women getting convinced by fruitcakes that there natural sexual dimorphism somehow is "wrong". In my own culture cleasiness is sometimes seen as gay and some men migh avoid showers because they think the smell makes them manly and it is attractive to women. And which culture is this? I bet its one where the men are largely considered unappealing and sexually unattractive. It shouldnt really be a surprise that the cultures where men are deemed more exotic/s…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 04:16 PM
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LOL there is a meta analysis which says literally the opposite of that: https://www.realclearscience.com/articles/2022/05/18/the_trait_that_best_predicts_mens_mating_success_832788.html
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 04:16 PM
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I spent my twenties in the doldrums, whilst I never really had trouble dealing with women I had a real struggle professionally. I struggled when it came to focusing on my goals and I spent a lot of that period failing exams and failing to keep a job. I'm now in my thirties, married and earning within the top 1% salary wise in my country. What changed was when I resigned myself to the fact that everything is transactional. And thats a good thing. What separates us from other primates is our abili…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 11:45 AM
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Of course he's still thinking about her, she's literally the mother of his child. And you say you've moved on, but here you are mentioning her in posts and tagging yourself in her pictures. You're out here stalking his profile and analysing why he's tall looool This is a bit of self drag. She's sounds like a hoe who trapped an irresponsible dude whose tried and failed to play house. Without sounding rude I think a lot of unattractive dudes who get attractive pussy fail to realise just what terri…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 11:29 PM
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Incels are 30 times more likely to be autistic. Autism is a deeply unattractive trait in men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 11:20 AM
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LOL I literally was a freelancer. Most contracts in tech are in six month blocks, changing every six months to a year just showed that u never got your contract renewed and meant you probably weren't a good employee. Just stop.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 09:04 AM
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There are more beta males than ever. Yet, marriage and fertility rates have fallen through the floor. Ever wonder why? "But what about dead bedrooms"? Are you a child? Do you think the patriarchal men of the past were having porn star sex with their wives? At most they had missionary position boring sex that their wives felt coerced to give them. CHILDREN are the goal of marriage. Period. If you hate it so much just get a sugar baby or fuck escorts once the kids are a little older. This is what …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 08:14 AM
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What a dumb comparison. A much more logical one would be jobs, and taking an employee with a great CV, good interview skills and capable worker. Should be easy for them to find new roles. Having three jobs in four years? Eh, employers may side eye but ultimately, you're just an employee looking for the best opportunity out there and maximise your salary. 8 jobs? Nah, now you're likely a liability whose probably hiding a firing or two.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 08:10 AM
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Its funny that your flair is "patrice o'neal" pilled because I think, despite Patrice being a swinger and dating a reformed hoe, you fundamentally dont get Patrice O'neal philosophy. I wouldnt be massively fond of a woman who had an extensive history with the same sex, yes it wouldnt have as big a visceral impact as one with the opposite sex but it wouldnt exactly fill me with confidence either. The point of penalising extensive sexual history is not merely the idea that a woman has been with a …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 08:06 AM
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The key is MOST women. Same way MOST men watch some form of male centric entertainment in the form of sports/comic book movies/videogames. All three have certain tropes that are meant to appeal to men; violence, physicality, danger. Just like watching WWE or movies like fast and forious is worth criticizing and pathetic. Aaaaand this is why I keep saying that Reddit is really not a place for well adjusted takes, shit like this shows why its obvious most of you dont have friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 07:56 AM
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Yeah NYC has a gender ratio in mens favour. I dont know what these dudes are doing. I suspect she was actually hot tho
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 10:57 PM
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Link to the debunking?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 10:53 PM
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Oh good god its real. Believe me, its real. I've lived it. The shit I've seen...
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 10:46 PM
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You're not wrong but the only thing about promiscuous women is that I used to be big into swinging and the amount of women in that scene running around with ugly ass partners was...concerning.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 10:45 PM
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Just find a good employer. I earn $250k+ and often days I barely do any work. But thats due to the fact that I have accumulated years of domain knowledge, education and professional best practice which opens up the opportunity for better employment options. Yeah I placate my boss and act friendly with people I may not actually get along with outside of work, but whats the alternative??? And what exactly is unfair about? Have any of you actually worked manual labour or undertaken a passion? They'…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 10:37 PM
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This is what kinda blows my mind. You have women on a subreddit which debates dating claiming they dont care about the opinions of men. I mean...just lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 10:27 PM
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"Good literature" aimed at women is still romance a lot of the time. Maybe a true crime thriller thrown in there too. I mean, this is reddit of course so I'm now going to sit here and listen to social failures tell me romance, reality TV and beauty dont figure largely in the pastimes and interests of many women. Here's the thing though, what morons on this sub dont get. There is nothing wrong with being in romance or reality TV. I'm into gacha games and WWE, they arent any more intellectually st…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 10:21 PM
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Again this is just rubbish. I was playing Stellar Blade the other day. Its popularity is largely down to the looks of the character. Only an idiot or clown would pretend they wouldnt go gaga over a woman who looked like that in real life. And whilst she'd an idealised character, I see women with her proportions everyday. I'm not talking about what these characters are like, I'm talking about their looks. And they all fit within a very specific niche.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 10:16 PM
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LOL I dont think you know what nuance means. An argument not applying to the entire population doesnt mean its a nuanced one. The assumptions matter a lot because a lot of you's post history makes it apparent y'all arent operating with a full deck. No, I'm not going to listen to opinions on monogamous dating from someone into furries or someone with two boyfriends.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 06:43 PM
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Dude, its abundantly clear you dont actually know any women. If you think my wife is an outlier for reading Sarah J Maas and watching Love Island, you really need to touch fucking grass.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 06:04 PM
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Its the same for all works of fiction. If its not romance books, its romance movies, if its not that its Love is Blind/ Love Island. Everyone enjoys the community aspect of every form of media out there, lol are you sitting there pretending as if male gamers dont also enjoy playing with others online and conversing about them in person?? If I want to sell to men, I wont do it using romance. Porn works though, but thats because its sex. Sex sells to men in the same way romance does to women. My w…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 06:00 PM
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LOL tell me you know about women without saying you know about women. Of course, I'm now going to see the usual stream of "top 1% posters" come in to tell me just how much women dont care about the opinions of men whilst they spend all day pushing back against the opinions of societies lowest men. Just look at the top 10 womens best sellers on Random House...almost all romance. But this is it. I think women and men care equally about their perception among the opposite sex, but because men are m…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 04:56 PM
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Yeah I would assume Sudanese men are not...but this is your problem, you're using dating app data (which is likely the 10 year old okcupid study). You know the reply rate difference between black and white men was 8 percentage points right? That means that for every 10 messages a black guy sends, he'll got a response to two of them and a white guy three of them. I mean...big whoop. I gotta be honest, the fact that you even think the there is a crisis of single men tells me everything I need to k…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 04:37 PM
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I mean I dont disagree with those points, but that doesnt mean the people in charge do. There were 1.2 million people who entered the UK in 2023. I also agree that the male loneliness epidemic is overstated but that doesnt mean that we're not also experiencing a potential demographic imbalance which could play out in the years to come.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 04:22 PM
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As a black man in the UK in 2025, I would legit say my race benefits me dating wise at this point lol. I cant say I've seen black men or black subreddits complain about any particular poor treatment from women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 04:12 PM
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OP may very well be an incel but one thing I do find very interesting is the immigration debate framing, especially in Europe. The term FIGHTING AGE MEN is used...a lot when talking about recent illegal immigrants. When you actually think about it, I dont think OPs stance is all that unfounded. There would definitely be less chagrin I think if the large number of migrants coming into places like Europe were women and not men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 04:10 PM
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For real, how many times are u going to tell this story??? Its almost like you regret it or something. I could imagine telling people on an anonymous forum multiple times about some ex I rejected over my wife. Its weird as hell.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 02:22 PM
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There are more single women than ever. And its a point women on here often drill into. Average women are increasingly not dating average men. We all know this, you've probably argued it too but you're now going to pretend as if the decline in marriage rates and birth rates is not happening for the sake of the current argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 02:07 PM
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When are some of you going to learn that a lot of the females posters on here are full of shit. She's a top 1% commenter who somehow never had heard of either Bonnie Blue (she claims to not know who Lily Phillips is either), names that have been bandied about specifically on subs like these for the better part of two years. But this is the same place I legit remember someone trying to argue that Andrew Tate was a fringe figure that very few people have heard of. The same Andrew Tate who has been…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 02:03 PM
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Lets not be stupid, Americans dont have a monopoly on toxic attitudes or a lack of morality and preaching this shit coming from eastern europe of all places is the height of fucking irony.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 01:47 PM
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The hilarity of this post being made by someone who posts there "diagnosis" (likely given by a doctor in a socialised healthcare program) is hilarious to me. As some of the, albeit annoying, bluepilled posters say a society breaking down into might is right is the very last thing you soyboys want.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 01:45 PM
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LOL you mean a continent made up almost entirely of failed state shitholes? Hilarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 01:44 PM
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Even renting out the space to say "I do" in the registry office isnt free. Unless you literally want to get married in a diner, weddings are going to cost you. Half of that amount just went on the venue. A hotel in the english countryside which wasnt a complete shithole. Shock, horror, nice things arent cheap. I know thats hard for Redditors to grasp.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 12:22 PM
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I have never had a celebrity crush in my life. I'm attracted to men who are fit in an outdoorsy way (like me), taller than me, wear glasses, have good style, and have kind smiles/faces. I also love brown eyes. I am turned off by "jacked" men. Defined muscles kind of gross me out. My physical preferences are not outlandish, and many of my friends have different preferences. To me, most celebrities look artificial and don't fit my criteria of attractiveness. I'm sure there are many women who share…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 07:43 AM
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given all girls are brought up being inundated with the idea that finding your Prince Charming is the default Again, this is what I mean by this sub being full of fucking weirdos. My wife is big into romantasy. Books full of smut and male identified female protagonists, written by women, for women. Some of the genres biggest authors are Sarah J Mass, Rebecca Yarros and Holly Black. All women. Maybe, just maybe, they're not being brainwashed and they're catering to what their gender actually want…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 07:35 AM
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I've seen it even with this sub. It's far more extremist than it was 8 months ago. And it's a safe bet it will get far worse by the end of 2025. 80% of the relatively normal people who were somewhat active in January have either deleted their accounts or stopped contributing. Holy shit, I thought I was the only one who noticed this. This sub seems to have taken an extreme turn in the very last few months.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 07:26 AM
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"Compulsory heterosexuality" Ever thought that a lot of women may just...like men? This is the problem with Reddit, its catering more and more to mentally unwell/unstable female losers (plenty of male losers too but we know about them and they've been around for a while) who seem to want to drag everyone else into their misery, delusion and poor life choices. You claim to be bisexual but you've posted several threads in the last 48 hours (never a good sign) all focused on men, decentering men, m…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 11:29 PM
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I mean thats great, a lot of my friends did similar. Nothing against smaller weddings at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 11:14 PM
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You know gemini literally appears at the top of every google search now? Just stop with these low IQ talking points because you're mad that you feel offended by my stance.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 11:12 PM
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They're not. Men are largely having problems when they're either 1. Poor or 2. Below 30. I've stated many, many times that the male loneliness epidemic is massively overstated. What Reddit is, is a conflation of the bottom 20-30% of men who are projecting their experiences onto most normal men. And, as cruel as it sounds, the reason why those men are in that lower percentile is often due to their neurodivergence.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 10:58 PM
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Boom.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 10:53 PM
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I have a STRONG feeling she does.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 10:53 PM
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I've another 100k saved for a downpayment on a house. You can save your sympathy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 10:51 PM
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I mean, where do I even begin with this... I honestly wont take financial advice from someone whose flair has "top 1% poster" on this sub of all places.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 10:51 PM
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Did you actually pay for it? I paid for 90% of the wedding, I'm entitle to not plan the whole thing too.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 03:36 PM
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I earn like 5-6 times the median US salary despite living in the UK (where the cost of living is cheaper) so no, not really. I could of bought a 10k Honda instead of the 100k BMW I drive now but, hey, here we are.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 03:35 PM
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LOL at this many can’t even get a girlfriend let alone a wife 75% of 30-49 year old men are in relationships. Jesus, stop listening to fucking incels, most men beyond 30 are not struggling to find dates. This is a terminally online take. Most adult men are not struggling to find a partner willing to settle with them either. And most are not falling over themselves to get married. Some of you seriously show the calibre of men you fraternise with is through the floor, if you know any decently attr…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 03:34 PM
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TBH it probably wasnt that high but it was at least in the 70-80k region. That tends to be what they cost these days if you want anything resembling a half decent venue. Even the church has $2k fee.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 03:30 PM
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TBH she did, shes been super thankful consistently. And she did a ton of the planning. The day still was a pain tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 03:28 PM
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Its not chatGPT, you're just being full of shit now. I dont waste my time debating with people who act like children. I've posted the quote and the link to the study. Insisting this is just chatgpt makes me know now to waste time engaging with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 03:00 PM
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ChatGPT literally cites its sources in the post. LOL this is a mind bogglingly pathetic way of attempting to bat away something you're obviously wrong about. ChatGPT is literally quoting womens health: https://www.womenshealthmag.com/uk/health/a46646653/sexless-relationships/ Research backs this claim up: one 2018 study published in the Archives of Sexual Behavior found more than 15% of married folks hadn’t had sex the previous year. But the actual statistics may even be higher than these number…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 02:46 PM
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Its not my fucking special day. I literally got married a few months ago. There was nothing "special" about it for me. It was a chore and cost me loads of money, nearly 100k to be exact. It was nice to see my family and friends in the same place, but it was all about my wife. I'm happy to have done it and happy she had a good time but weddings are very much the focus and cater to the women and anyone trying to convince people otherwise is full of hot air.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 02:34 PM
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Again this is what I mean, if this was a woman complaining that she did a lot of the chores and child rearing and she got cheated on you would not be saying that "its just relationships" and I bet cash I could legit find posts of your complaining about women doing the bulk of housework/child rearing. Are we being for real right now???
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 01:03 PM
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as if men in here and knights in shining armour Point to me where I even implied this?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 11:23 AM
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Yes you dont. And you bloody well know it. You know damn well that if you were frank and open to people in real life about your open relationship they would laugh you out the room (or just behind your back). You know damn well people dont take polyamorous people seriously. Women even less so. And thats not me saying ENM are terrible people, but their lifestyle choices mean they definitely aren't in a place to tell monogamous people what the solution to their relationship woes are. The only reaso…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 11:21 AM
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Why does your sympathy depend upon what men say here. LOL this just shows how lacking in personal integrity many of you here have. My stances dont change because women on here think a certain way. Most women I know in real life actually air way more on the side of traditionalism and conservatism, even if they're politically liberal. Does that mean I should come in here and claim I'm non-traditional because a bunch of female redditors arent keen on it? You need to gain some damn perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 11:15 AM
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Absolutely. Hence why I told my wife that I dont expect her to work for at least 1-2 years after having kids and I expect to pay the way (she barely pays for anything now). I also have made it clear I will cover costs for a personal trainer to help her cut the baby weight. But you know the funny thing? Unlike you, I dont sit here pretending I'm "egalitarian" or that I give a fuck about equality. I'm open about my expectation of women to adhere to gender roles and the fact that I'm pretty misogyn…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 11:13 AM
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A person who is polyamorous is the last person who should be lending any insight into anything relating to a monogamous marriage's dissolution. Because polyamory completely warps the nature of any relationship, its a deviation within a deviation. And I would bet fucking cash you would be critical of a redpiller who "spins plates" telling men how to date. What am I willing to bet if I was to browse your post history, that you haven't done that already???
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 11:10 AM
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Well...yes, in the context of this discussion. Thats why I brought it up. Duh.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 11:00 AM
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Responses like that should be eye opening when it comes to showing a lot of you who you're dealing with. They'll claim that people need to "touch grass" and that redpillers are just delusional but when you actually throw out scenarios like these, you learn that a lot of these people are straight up misandrists. The only women on this sub who I see offer any kind of legit perspective is the redpill women. There is one mod who seems to be one of the few who gives more reasonable perspectives even …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 10:59 AM
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Meh, I'm married. But I also spent years knee deep in the polyamorous/swingers community. I met some fascinating people, but its hardly a place where I would seek the counsel on matters of virtue. No matter how much many want to dress it up as "ethical" its deeply shallow, self serving and chock full of people with a litany of mental health issues and character flaws. What I dislike is women from that community trying to teach men how to have healthy monogamous relationships. Because if they leg…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 10:35 AM
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So your response to a guy bringing in 100% of the income, splitting chores and childcare (and then being cheated on) is that...he should have brought her flowers too?? God forbid a man whose paying his way and doing his part in the household may not have the time to be super romantic too. Hmmmm... As I say until I'm blue in the face, the people on the other side of the redpill arent interested in making men better, they're interested in getting their way. I mean you call yourself "polyamorous", …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 10:18 AM
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That sounds like a values thing, your partner needs to ensure that the man she's attracted to is capable of having a mature and loving relationships. Thats not a lot of women though. A lot bounce through situationships and one night stands and then like to front like the reason they aren't attracted to their partner is because he doesnt adhere to a set of behavioural expectations when they very same woman seemed to have none of those when she was fluttering from one pointless relationship to ano…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 07:52 AM
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Literally from chatGPT "Dead bedroom" relationships, where couples have significantly reduced or no sexual intimacy, are surprisingly common. It's estimated that 15% of married couples in the US have not had sex in 6-12 months, and when including relationships with infrequent sex, it's possible that 1 in 5 American couples experience a dead bedroom. Surveys suggest that over a quarter of respondents in relationships report a sexless or near-sexless situation, with some experiencing infrequent se…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 07:46 AM
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A lot of women dont prioritise love or even desire, I actually think many prioritize their ego. They end up settling with men who wont rock the boat and ones they dont have fear of straying or playing away. Dont let women on here bullshit you. Sadder still is I've seen a lot of women on here say that they love their partners but they wish they could have dated someone taller/better looking/more ambitious/more hygienic (the amount of women here who claim their ex couldnt wipe their ass is as hila…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 07:38 AM
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https://www.ipsos.com/sites/default/files/ct/news/documents/2024-02/Ipsos-GA-Love-life-satisafaction-2024.pdf There's literally global data on male marriage satisfaction and its at 83% of men feeling satisfied with their relationship. More data showing 79% of men are satisfied with their marriage: https://www.americansurveycenter.org/newsletter/is-marriage-better-for-men/
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 02:58 PM
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This is my wife. I dunno if I would describe her as homely tbh (she has a better body than 90% of women despite never attending the gym) but shes feminine, docile, cooks and is keen to be a housewife. She had difficulty getting me to settle and she was one of a roster of about 4-5 women I had before I committed. All the while she’s supposed to be happy and appreciative that he’s staying with her after she hits the wall since he’s still “providing” for her, even though in 2022 only around 50% of …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 02:47 PM
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I meant more in the sense that a working mother of 3 probably isnt single in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 02:35 PM
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America has the highest spending on maternity care in the world. I'm not a fan of repealing abortion laws myself but saying Americans hate childrens healthcare is just utterly wild and insanely ironic coming from someone who also says people have "very American take". Jesus christ be some self damn awareness.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 01:02 PM
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The idea is that you're ready to settle down before you hit the wall. The average age of engagement here in the UK is 30-32. That means a lot of women are off the market in their late twenties, which should be a decent time before they hit the proverbial wall. Marriage is largely the desire of the woman, and thus it means men have more leeway in the calibre of woman they choose to commit to. I think, increasingly, men are becoming more steadfast about committing to an older, world weary, potenti…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 12:19 PM
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The point isnt whether women or men are more accepting of trans people, its simply that the Trans lobby have lost significant support among the genpop because its become clear advancing the rights of trans people seemingly comes at the expense of the freedoms of others.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 12:11 PM
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If gay/LGBT rights come at the expense of the wider majority then it doesnt work. Equally, if feminism seeks to raise women by ignoring the plight of women then it doesnt work either. Civil rights activists fought for the right for African Americans to be seen as equal in the eyes of the law, however, MLK's advocacy for socialist policy positioning and an end to American foreign interventionalist was well known, and its Malcolm X who said, "This is why I say it's the ballot or the bullet. It's l…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 10:39 AM
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Again, expand your circle beyond incels. Most guys arent ranting about women choosing to be single. Women being sluts/fat/rude? Maybe. But not single. In fact women being single tends to work in those mens favour.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 01:52 PM
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They're not. The only reason u think its guys ranting is because you spend an outsized amount of time on a sub full of incels.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 01:09 PM
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Yep and even worse than this is when they claim women dont care about getting married or having kids. I wasnt even a big marriage guy myself. My wife literally said if I didnt have it on the table then the relationship was a non starter. The whole industry is just built off of women flexing on their friends with outsized proposals, rings and events. I met even more of my wifes friends where the fiancé literally said her boyfriend had to propose in front of a fucking waterfall. Again...why??? Thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 12:56 PM
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Women are more single now, but its just in their 20s. I think that its simply that people are having kids later and marrying later too. Doesn't mean people actually want to be single. I think young women are more happy playing the field until their late 20s and then rush to settle down. This is why the rate of single men collapses once you get to 30+. Also look at the demographics, the largest cohort of single people are black. I say this as a black person but, trust me, its not because these wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 10:16 AM
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Since the thread this was meant for got deleted: I dick around online all the time and yet it was my former university friends who made me aware of Andrew Tate. Its not even gender based entirely either. Whether its my wife, or one of my former FBs I ran into a few years ago, I was...shocked about how unpopular feminist rhetoric has become. If anything, I notice that form of gender/identity based liberalism/leftism has largely become the preserve of the socially hopeless. With more mainstream/po…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 01:47 PM
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LOL my wife possesses more integrity than most of your combined. For one she doesnt spend inordinate amounts of time arguing with men online.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 12:19 AM
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Again its hilarious watching you make out as if a shitty alcoholic husband who could barely string together money for holidays is somehow the norm.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 03:47 PM
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Your grandmothers treatment wasnt indicative of the times, it was indicative of the shitty behaviours of your grandfather. And I'm not your mate.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 03:42 PM
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Agreed. "top men" usually settle young. Either that or they kinda just sit out of the game and settle later. Their standards tend to be extremely high though if thats the case (almost too high). Without being conceited (I mean, I am conceited...but I digress), I'm probably what one would class as a "top man". I'm tall, lean, muscular and earn, including my bonus, $287k (£212k) which is well, well within the 1% in my country. I've been making within the 150-300k range for the last five years. I m…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 03:28 PM
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Your gran doesnt exist within a vacuum, foreign holidays werent completely out of the ordinary for your grandparents either.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 02:55 PM
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Yeah no shit, they likely dont have anywhere close to the patriarchal expectations placed on women either.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 02:54 PM
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Come on lets use our brains here. There are people who have visible abs who also look big in clothes. I have visible abs and look big in clothes. I guess you live in some fashion-less American strip-mall nightmare? LOL what? I live in London, one of the most fashionable cities in the world. We've had 4 months of consistent t-shirt weather. Its plenty easy to see if someone is muscular/lean whilst being clothed. Being well dressed doesnt prevent you from looking muscular either.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 02:53 PM
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Abs have never improved my chances….my chances remained flat. I live in a cold country where people tend to keep their clothes on. Maybe in beach communities it’s different? There is having abs and then having abs with visible muscularity when clothed, if you're not the latter then yes, people largely wont care before you're naked. Also, compliments do not “always” work. That’s absurd. They have to be calculated and meaningful. Not really, and there is good amount of data supporting this too. So…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 01:29 PM
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Between this and you claiming that "abs dont matter", I'm starting to think you're not that well versed with women. https://evidencebasedliving.human.cornell.edu/blog/the-psychology-of-compliments-a-nice-word-goes-a-long-way/ Compliments always work, no matter the context. The problem guys like you have is that you pedestalize beautiful women, and its pathetic. They're not special, they're not different, they're not unique. They're just...beautiful. Which, for a woman isnt some grand achievement…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 11:28 AM
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Thats your insecurity and poor self esteem speaking. Compliments almost always work well, provided they're not creepy. It may not gain you anything, but it wont cost anything either.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 11:19 AM
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Its not a man thing, its a people thing. I'm a guy. Have a lot of the genetic traits people claim are great for guys to have. I get negged by women a lot. Again, not a man thing, an insecure people thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 11:15 AM
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My parents weren't even close to wealthy either. That poster is legit one of the worst on here, mind bogglingly dishonest. And when you call them out on their lies they just scurry off to another thread to spout more disingenuous nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 10:05 AM
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Foreign holidays have been commonplace in the UK since the 70s, its one of the big reasons places like Blackpool and Cornwall have seen decades of decline. Ryanair has been around for almost half a century. https://familyholidaycharity.org.uk/our-story/how-times-have-changed-social-history-holidays By 1979, for the first time in history, Britons spent more on overseas holidays than on holidays at home. For £50 you could spend a week in glamorous Majorca with hotel bedrooms that had balconies and…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 10:04 AM
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At least 50% of my parents friends are divorced, these are all Nigerian immigrants which is a deeply patriarchal culture where hardcore catholics are commonplace and divorce is seen as a shameful failure. And yet, many are still divorced. A lot of the rhetoric you post on here is deeply dishonest/disingenuous and this is no different. Unless your grandmother is 90-100, she was likely middle aged in the 80s, when divorce rates were at their highest. She is simply an example of your own family's d…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 09:59 AM
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Pretty much. My parents are in their 70s and are very much the "grandparents" age many on here talk about. My mum was super dominant, had an affair and threatened to leave my dad multiple times. This idea that women before the internet is really just another lie sold by many feminists. Even the whole "women couldnt open bank accounts before 1970!" is largely bullshit too. Its based on the 1974 ECOA law added enforcement mechanisms to prevent discrimination with the specific language "to require …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 09:54 AM
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Nope. Men who are tall/have good physiques legit operate on a whole different plane of reality. I know this because I would ask people on here a few years ago whether they had been catcalled/groped/stalked and the answer was a resounding no. I kinda pity the fact that dudes legit have no idea just how visually and physically driven a lot of women actually are. When people talk about abs, we dont mean on a guy whose 140lbs soaking wet, we mean on someone who actually has visible muscularity. If y…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 09:37 AM
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I spent $2k dollars on my last suit, $2k on perfumes and have double the amount of clothes than my wife does. Style and grooming are massive to me, BUT they will not overcome bad looks or a poor physique.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 09:33 AM
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No. And this is the key take away and the very thing I HATE about female posters on here. I legit think a lot of you misdirect and lie to men about how much looks dont matter because you either cant compete with the women who can actually get good looking men or you want a steady stream of betas to date after you've ridden the so called "cock carousel" and I say that despite being a man whose been in a relationship for years. I care about actually empowering the men around me not filling their h…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 09:32 AM
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Well there u go. I'll happily take "you're handsome" over "your shoes are nice".
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 09:29 AM
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LOL no you dont. I legit dont think men understand just how much of difference being overweight and being in shape is. I've been fat in my youth and I'm in good shape now. Its literally night and day. No amount of good wardrobing can ever match being fit/having abs. And thats coming from someone who cares a fuckload about how they dress.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 03:27 PM
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LOL and the bulk of regular church goers are women too
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 08:40 AM
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I find that very hard to believe, though I never like denying another persons lived experience. Anyone else have any insight on this???
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 08:31 AM
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Yes. The redpill content literally shows up on peoples TikTok/Instagram feeds which every Tom, Dick and Harry uses. The weirdos are people like you. Even from your post history, its abundantly clear you dont have any real world friends. The crazy thing, I didnt even know who the fuck Andrew Tate was in 2022 until a friend from real life told me about him. Its when you delve into the clown ass Reddit subs where you find this left leaning gender neutral bullshit which no one IRL really abides by. …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 08:29 AM
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This should be obvious. After a long stint away from gaming, I bought a PS5 in late 2022. Since then I've probably completed about 20 games. I'm a sucker for character driven action games but something shocked me about the western variants of these. So many of the female characters were just...bleugh. Like aggressively masculine and ugly. The character models were off, they were often bald headed and so many were lesbian. It blew my mind that it was something that even other gamers noticed. Peop…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 08:25 AM
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Yes its an observation based on my feelings, claiming you're coping isnt exactly an intellectual stance. I've said a couple times on here now man, I've not been single in almost a decade. Y'all really need to stop thinking a guy being in a relationship is some kind of anomaly. What kind of men are y'all around???
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 08:10 AM
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I'm not single I'm married so...no. LOL would be ironic if it turns out the one whose single here is actually you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 08:08 AM
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I never made any inference towards Stacy so who exactly are you arguing with? You're out here shadowboxing ghosts. I merely said attractive men are treated better, I made no inclination that being Chad suddenly means you can secure the loyalty or appreciation of a highly attractive woman/"Stacy". Again, where in my posts did I mention anything about "Stacy"??? Learn to read better.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 09:48 PM
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Your posts are indicative of the stupid inane drivel I'm seeing just endlessly here now. I mean you're sitting here taking an MLB star and one of the most famous actresses of a generation as an example of anything? And then saying those are the people you need to use to make a point that resonates??? No shit he couldnt an A list actress and oscar winner (whose had a string of failed relationships I might add) to treat him better. You really think you're flexing with this???
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 09:36 PM
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A decent man is noble, always wants to do the right thing snd doesn’t expect rewards. He walks away from lost causes but he never blames the individual. He doesn’t humiliate, he doesn’t judge, it’s simply a matter of being compatible with that person or not. Most redpill men call that kinda man a simp. LOL thats wonderful. Are these the men you associate with? Maybe, maybe not. I dont know you. But I do legit wonder if women here believe that they truly do enjoy the company of the noblest of the…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 09:31 PM
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Again its women self servicing marketing bullshit. I mean maybe I'm wrong but I legit barely see decent looking men with overweight women at all. The only community where being overweight isnt a massive penalty is in the black community and, even then, the rate I see overweight black gen Zer has fallen significantly (at least here in the UK). Just like more educated men are opting for similarly educated women, good looking men often opt for equally good looking female counterparts.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 09:23 PM
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You've told this same story about 5+ times in the last month. Kinda makes me feel you're trying to convince yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 09:18 PM
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Thats fantastic and all but it isnt my point. There's plenty of 5ft6 dudes walking around making it abundantly clear women are obviously still breeding with shorter men. Its similar to the job market. I'm an engineer and work in a field where there is a pretty high barrier of entry, there is a massive amount of technical and domain knowledge expected. Are there people who coast by this field on bullshit and manage to weed their way into roles despite their lack of competence? Of course. Do those…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 09:17 PM
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And yes, decent men do walk away from shitty women, ever heard of high maintenance? Pillow princess? Honey trap? And what exactly is a "decent man"??? Again, attractive women perform better on nearly all metrics determining mating success: https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC3000557/ In women, attractiveness predicted higher reproductive success in a nonlinear fashion, so that attractive (second highest quartile) women had 16% and very attractive (highest quartile) women 6% more children th…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 04:46 PM
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I'm married. But yeah for sure you make it obvious why you cant maintain a functioning/healthy relationship with balanced individuals of the opposite sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 04:24 PM
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That would make sense, larger informal friendship groups of men often end up not being up to much good.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 04:12 PM
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Yikes, are you really quoting pick up artists??? LOL as said, delusional, there is no amount of seduction thats going to improve an 11th percentile man's standing. As said trying to sit here and convince people that a guy who is among the 10% least attractive men has a similar experience to the top 20% is just insane levels of delusion. Thats not living under a rock, its living under a boulder.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 04:11 PM
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TBH a lot of men dont want the same treatment as Chad, they just want women to be honest and acknowledge that they treat Chad differently. I actually think a lot of men are fine with not being seen as the stereotypical "hot" guy, what they dont like is women pretending as if they're not discriminatory of everything from height to face to bodytype. Yeah the incels/blackpillers are silly, but so too are the bluepillers. There's legit posts I read on here that try to make out as if a man who is 5ft…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 03:58 PM
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Its funny that you complain about being single when your comments make it clear why any man with even half a brain would not want to touch you with a three foot pole.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 03:18 PM
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LOL rubbish, yeah women are encouraged into waste management roles, but its mostly front office/management roles, hence it being one of the few industries where women earn more. https://www.letsrecycle.com/news/women-in-waste-sector-earn-more-than-men/ The waste management sector is one of three sectors across the UK in which women earned more than men, statistics have shown. However, looking at the data broadly, it has been suggested that this is because within the waste management sector, many…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 03:16 PM
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Absolutely not. Women's sense of male attraction is pretty damn rigid. I can find a 5ft2 woman and a 5ft10 women and both will get similar amounts of attention. A 6ft2 and 5ft7 man? Absolutely not. Similarly I can take a woman who is slightly overweight with large tits and ass and a slim petite gym girl and both would get similar amounts of attention. A physically fit guy with a six pack will have orders of magnitude more sexual attention than a guy of similar height who has a dadbod. Thats the …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 11:35 AM
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Nah. Young women have a more acute sense of their placement than ever. They just front more than ever too. The whole "oh my gosh girllll you're soo beautiful" is just intragender marketing and they all know it. Hence why just about every half decent beauty product/retailer is a money printer these days. If anything I've noticed people are even more self selecting into their respective attractiveness groups.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 11:27 AM
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LOL yes this is way more accurate.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 11:12 AM
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This is...a peculiar question and this statement: I was reading an X thread about under a woman's mug shot for sex crimes, and some of the comments were joking about how they're "safe" from her because she probably only "targeted chdas". Then there was an argument started by someone rebutting "no, the abuse is about power not attraction". Obviously as you can expect on that site people are not always serious. But the topic is interesting so that's what I want to ask here. Is starting show that s…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 11:09 AM
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I thought this would be well known. The problem with attempting to claim men are lonelier than women often requires assumption that mens friendships occur within the same frame that womens do. Men's friendships are more often transactional and involve activities. https://www.psychologytoday.com/gb/blog/happiness-is-state-mind/202112/exploring-the-differences-between-male-and-female-friendships Further to this, there is a pretty in depth study which examines intergender clique sizes and the prope…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 10:53 AM
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Its not even .5. Its not true at all. It was a completely botched study. https://www.catholicworldreport.com/2019/05/29/are-single-women-actually-happier-study-misinterprets-data-researchers-say/#:\~:text=39.%E2%80%9D,sign%20up%20for%20our%20newsletter.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 08:51 AM
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Sadly this discussion has devolved into another partisan shitshow where men lament their lack of dating options and women on here once again fall over themselves to tell us how how wonderful and righteous they all are. And, to be fair to them, I wouldnt even call it "shallow", simply self serving. But ultimately this the problem I have not only with this sub but with Reddit and social discourse in general. In the west we've consumed this bizarre culture where we pedestalize the victim/oppressed/…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 10:56 PM
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Quite frankly, yeah. And its not simply about "vetting", its about standards and how one is raised. My parents were pretty gung ho about us not dating people who would take advantage of us. I'm married to a pretty girl from a good family whose very feminine and my sister has been with the same guy since she was a teenager whose a good dude. A doctor currently studying for his PHD. They're attractive people, but they dont look like influencers. The problem I see a lot of women have (especially in…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 11:18 AM
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They're just talking shit. I've been out and about with women who look like that. The way men so pathetically kowtow to them needs to be studied. Looking at the absolute dregs making money on Onlyfans, no one should take anyone seriously when they claim xxxx movie star looks "mid".
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 09:03 AM
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LOL again, OP, I've said this before. You're not an experienced person and dont know much about women and it fucking shows. The past is NOT the past. My credit history lists every single piece of debt I've held in the last six years because no lender treats the "past as the past", no job hires without asking for educational transcripts or proof of past employment, so why do we expect men to just accept women as they are??? This is the big issue with women in the west. When I got married recently…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 08:28 AM
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A lot of black people are, quite frankly, bad at relationships. And I say that being black. I love my people and I would never want to change it. I also think Reddit is a generally anti black space. BUT, I also think that a lot of black men and women have serious difficulty progressing onto adulthood and maintaining healthy, mutually beneficial relationships. And it reflects in the sheer amount of black women who are perpetually single and black men who struggle educationally and professionally.…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 12:57 AM
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I always tell people, just look at a troll OPs post history and it will tell u everything u need to know.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 12:50 AM
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Its interesting, potential far right propogandist aside, I think Sydney Sweeney is legit beautiful. Very much has that old school feminine Americana look going on with the big breasts and doe eyes. BUT I also feel the her recent stunts are starting to hurt her image. When pandering to the male gaze, its important to keep things understated. Even onlyfans models will say shit like "do you like redhead girls???" Sweeney's recent bathwater and AE stunts have her looking rather cynical and if there …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 12:23 AM
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This is a really interesting post. I dont agree entirely with it but I deeply respect this line: I like my men territorial. The type who would have enough self-esteem to leave if he can’t be the one and only. I legit think women these days, increasingly, struggle to deal with men with a good sense of self esteem. I'm definitely not anti polyamory but, the issue I have with it (as one of these former degenerates lol) is that so much of the "scene" seemed to involve men (and women) who clearly did…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 12:07 AM
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Eh... Looking at OPs post history, they come off as another socially maladjusted weirdo. As I keep saying this sub has as many women as men these days who seem to bare the same weirdo redditor traits.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 12:01 AM
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God, what is it with weirdo shut in women on here trying to encourage shit thatg makes next to no sense. Women largely arent into polyandry. I noticed this the most when I was into swinging. Despite being filled with female nymphomaniacs, 95% of the time you went to the club single men are largely ostracized and the only men who do well either already have female partners or are exceptionally good looking or benefit from a night where there are simply not many males on offer.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 11:58 PM
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An interaction with an onlyfans model is not a relationship, it is just a transaction. If you don't think paying for sex is a relationship Onlyfans isnt paying for sex. Are we talking about prostitution as well? Then say that. You're all over the place. You should learn how to follow through your own points before downvoting posts. You clearly dont seem capable enough to do this.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 11:35 AM
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Also, downvoting my posts wont change the oxford dictionary.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 11:09 AM
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hypergamy/hʌɪˈpəːɡəmi/noun the action of marrying or forming a sexual relationship with a person of a superior sociological or educational background. I mean Jesus, this is a damn Google search away. Some of u have seriously questionable IQ. Onlyfans is a service, you cannot be hypergamous to a fucking service offering/product. It would be like saying someone is hypergamous because they pay for a ticket to an NBA game or a boxing match because they participants are rich. This is legit one of the…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 10:59 AM
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No its not. Consent isnt relevant in talking to someone. Even in a sex/kink club, discussions/rules about consent are largely about touching. Sexual or otherwise, approaching someone doesn't require any particular consent.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 04:29 PM
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No its very much about attraction. Being in a sex club doesnt suddenly negate looks, actually men who look good do extremely well. Its shallow.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 04:27 PM
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LOOOOL Its crazy. I literally used to attend these groups/clubs, pretty damn regularly. One thing, that actually has to be noted is that single men are often treated pretty poorly. However, what was often a big differentiator in treatment was how one looked. When I went to those clubs I did really well, but thats because I'm 6ft4 and jacked. The only other guy who was even remotely as "successful" on a given night was a guy who had a dick bigger than most pornstars. TBH that scene made me really…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 04:26 PM
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fair enough
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 08:58 AM
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I've said before but whilst I find redpillers/incels on here often show idiotic belief systems, when bluepillers are dumb they seem super dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 08:09 AM
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Whenever you see a black woman dating a white guy on social media, the comments are full of black men disparaging her. I've also seen numerous posts of black women discussing the hate they receive over dating a white guy. This is just straight up fucking bullshit and you know it. How some of you can be so nakedly full of shit is mind boggling. A lot of you have a fucking lying problem. Its crazy how often you just spout mistruths. Literally every video featuring a white/non-black woman saying an…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 08:00 AM
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LOL these takes are hilarious because always show how fucking out of touch left wing Americans are with Europe. Yeah, we dont have the nonsensical gender war bullshit (and even thats a stretch...Andrew Tate is half british after all and spent the bulk of his time building up his cam model empire in Europe) but most European societies are riddled with social and economic issues. The redpill boom in the US isnt simply down to "voting against ones self interest", its because America is largely a wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 07:36 AM
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Of course the women/blue pillers are going to be deliberately obtuse but, as I've said repeatedly, I think a lot of "bluepillers" operate in even more bad faith than normal women do. They're like those freaks who think shouting epithets or assaulting right wing grifters is right because of their moral stance. If you go to a lot of places, among men and women, theres a fair bit of agreement that a mans mileage may vary when it comes to being vulnerable with partners. Gender expectations die hard …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 01:51 PM
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All healthy relationships have a degree of conditionality. And so they should. Last thing I want is a hopeless romantic partner whose codependent and tolerates all my faults and shortcomings.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 03:00 PM
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LOL you're seeing what u want to see, probably because of cope. Age gap relationships are the decline everywhere, if anything, its age gap relationships with women being the older partner which are becoming more common.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 11:55 PM
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Whats with al the influx of "ENM"/swinger/kink women on this sub? Has it always been like this? I say that to say its one thing trying to argue against redpillers if you're a sexually inexperienced/long term commitment type. I honestly dont get women who literally have side dick trying to sell to men the idea that women are driven by personality and good nature. I was into kink/swinging and it seemed shallow as all hell. Maybe thats the perspective as a single man but having been to dozens of cl…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 08:53 AM
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Very, very early into a marriage myself. I'm 36 and she's in her late twenties. I spent about $75k+ on the wedding. I would never do this for anyone who wasnt my wife because she has certain qualities which were very wifeable. TBH though, whats interesting is that I have a lot of the qualities that women talk about wanting. Tall, good looking, very high income, spent a lot of time studying the emotional requirements of a long term male mate. But meeting a desirable wife material woman was a pain…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 10:31 PM
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Good thing I dont give a shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 10:19 PM
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I don't have a Facebook account (or any public social media). LOL yes because people totally cant use Reddit to determine what your interests, preferences and political leanings are.... Your points have no refutation because they're absolutely junk. Low IQ stupidity in text format. I know PHDs and classically training musicians who are heavy into the gym, you're legit shocked to see a gymbro who enjoys classical music? You make that point as if you've made groundbreaking discovery about human be…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 10:16 PM
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I used to think I was a liberal myself until I went to one College Democrats meeting at my undergrad with liberals from other states and realized "I barely have anything in common with these people." Well no shit, you didnt grow up with them. Did you legit think having similar political beliefs would automatically make you resonate with them? Are you 12? I actually don't have to pretend, I knew a dude during his "exploring my gender identity" phase who still had girls fighting over him just as h…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 10:08 PM
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Yes, people's interests, hobbies and styles make them similar. And that paragraph you wrote makes you extremely predictable and basic. I mean, jesus christ you think being into the gym somehow means you cant be into classical music??? Seriously????? Jesus, you literally sound incredible surface level in your thinking and perception of the world. https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/technology-21699305#:\~:text=Sexuality%2C%20political%20leanings%20and%20even,as%20gay%20marriage%2C%20for%20instance. Jesus,…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 10:02 PM
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It is. But its also in one of the richest, shallowest states in America too. Its laughable people sitting here and pretending as if good looks and wealth dont end up being massive factors in one dating success there.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 09:59 PM
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As a man I know there are plenty of "types" of men who often fall within similar cultural, artistic and social preferences. To argue against this is to argue against the very nature of focus testing and marketing. Some of you need to quit the special snowflake shit, it actually makes u seem basic as hell. You likely have behaviours and interests that are extremely typical of people in your demographic.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 05:59 PM
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LOL if you're a woman claiming you dont know any "normal" girls then you're likely the shut in OP is describing. In the UK we have something we call "Fiat 500 twitter" which is used to desscribe the basic, english, female, genZ to millennial love island viewer. We all know exactly what this woman looks like and what they tend to be into.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 05:56 PM
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I agreed with a lot of your premise but this one was...eugh. I dont think I've ever met a woman whose frowned at a man having a skincare routine. I also think this might be a white thing. In black/hispanic community men who are "ashy" literally get torn to pieces. I just cannot imagine an attractive women being okay with her man having dry/flaky skin unless she's one of the those hyper insecure types who only gravitates towards unattractive men.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 05:52 PM
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No. I'm from London, far more progressive than 95% of America could ever hope to be. The successful guys here are the guys who would be successful anywhere. Tall, "dark", athletic, good head of hair. The only real differences are in cultural/political attitudes with guys from cities being on the more progressive side. You speak of the "bible belt" as if Georgia and Texas doesn't have massive purple cities like Houston and Atlanta where men are expected to adhere to more modern ideas of masculine…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 05:48 PM
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Most are.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 07:25 AM
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So, pray tell, what about the 52% of white women who vote Trump? Who are they running from?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 10:05 PM
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little guy. taller than u tho
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 05:56 PM
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I think Trump is a filthy pedo. But looking at the subs you post in, its clear you're not even on planet earth. I mean, Incelexit? Seriously??? Some of you are so locked in your echochamber of incels, u dont even know the sky is blue. Fucking lol if u think the average women is rallying against dudes who listen to Rogan or watch UFC. Attractive women (who actually go outside) lean more into that machismo bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 05:54 PM
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The difference in certain demographics is negligable. More white women voted for Trump than Harris 37% of hispanic women voted for Trump too. You have to be pretty wildly delusional to think anyone is "running away" from maga men.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 05:51 PM
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Liberals get divorced less and conservatives more. I mean can some of you ever just refrain from being so consistently full of shit? This is just blatantly untrue. https://news.gallup.com/poll/646793/why-marriage-became-partisan.aspx https://news.virginia.edu/content/study-challenges-which-political-party-linked-happier-marriage “Republicans are more likely to be married, less likely to be divorced and they’re more likely to say they are happily married,” said Wilcox, also a visiting scholar at …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 05:48 PM
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a tech twink Guilty. achievement I mean it does, and you know it. Hence your reply.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 05:27 PM
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Yeeeah. Except no one is buying it. Its like the whole "waiting to wed" sub. You cant have a place dominated by women expecting men to commit to them and try to sit there and convince people that marriage is a thing men want. I honestly think though we should all throw a lot more fancy parties that don’t have to be weddings. You can just have a bomb-ass party without a marriage, if you want to. There's nothing stopping anyone from doing that. Hell, there's even things that kinda replace it now l…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 05:25 PM
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This is it really. As mentioned, its only unsuccessful redpill dorks who see education or career attainment as some kind of negative, if anything, its the opposite. A woman without an education/tangible skill is a MASSIVE red flag. Especially in this day and age where education is so catered to women and college education is so beneficial for women. Every girl I met who didnt have one (or at least some kind of tangible, marketable skill) was often a perpetually single bum. Dudes will come on and…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 03:32 PM
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I mean, yeah thats true. But it also doesnt make the idea that women who are in fledgling/high flying careers dont/cant marry.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 03:24 PM
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Thats all fair, I respect your posts. But it was something that I think you may have acknowledged yourself. As mentioned, you said you were married early and then again. You probably have a good understanding of what it takes to maintain a strong long term partnership. But I think understanding that and understanding how women operate in the dating sphere are two different things. I also think you're right about the declining fertility rates, but again I think thats largely built out of necessit…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 03:23 PM
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But there is a lot of money to be made anywhere as a physician in America. 250k for them is actually on the modest end over there.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 03:16 PM
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Nope. Single rate of female doctors: 11% Single rate of dentists: 20% Single rate of nurses: 20% Soooo, no. Its very much not careers women dont care about. https://www.theladders.com/career-advice/want-to-be-married-these-jobs-have-the-highest-marriage-rate
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 03:15 PM
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I'm in the UK but where was this rural town? I'm assuming either in oil/mining rich state like Texas/Nevada because for many in rural towns, the earning potential often doesnt reach 4-5 times the national average income.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 02:31 PM
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But this sub does exist and it seems to have more women than men these days. And yes, women do initiate divorce far higher than men. Doesnt mean they dont want to get married though.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 01:47 PM
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You're saying a whole lot here and its all over the place. But yes, men who drop out the workforce and are addicted to porn arent marriage material either. But thats not the topic of discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 01:35 PM
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Marriage is still a massive advantage and a lot do want to do it, sorry but from your own posts you gave the impression you didnt gain much experience with the opposite sex until 30+. I think this may be insight into why you take womens words so literally. A lot of women say they dont want to get married, doesnt mean they actually dont. I got married not to long ago, what struck me was how massive the industry is and how much of it is still predicated on women. Like myself, nearly every groom I …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 01:13 PM
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I mean you are based, but my only disagreement is that the waiting to wed types are just those who admit to it. I think there are a lot of women who front about not wanting to ne married but they're purely incapable of finding a guy worth a damn.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 01:09 PM
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I agree strongly that women arent marriage material but this: Women who focus on their man not their career, are women who are well liked by men for marriage. Case and point, my older male cousin who's a hotshot lawyer in Calgary strung along some career girls for fun, but when it came time to settle down, he found a nice receptionist gal to marry. Is absolute grade A bullshit. Women who are educated with good careers marry more not less. A good career is a big indicator of a woman being wife ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 01:07 PM
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Nah. Avoid honesty. You need to realise redditor is an unsuccessful swine enamoured with their own fake sense of morality and integrity. Of course everyone here just loooves virgin men. How many of these same people have you met in real life? Why do you think you're 24 and yet to get laid in the first place? I really pity men who ask women here for advice because its like asking a hobo in a bus station for investment tips. Successful people arent common on Reddit, let along successful women. Do …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 12:58 PM
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They dual income because of necessity, not desire. https://civitas.org.uk/2023/05/10/mothers-preferences-over-childcare-and-work/ ‘If I could afford to give up my work, I would prefer to stay at home and look after my children’. 32 per cent agreed, this is an estimated 1.5-1.6 million mothers. ‘If I could afford it, I would work fewer hours so I could spend more time looking after my children’. 60 per cent agreed, this is an estimated 2.8-2.9 million mothers. ‘If I could arrange good quality chi…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 02:28 PM
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For me, this is kind of the issue. Too many women these days saying unhinged laughable shit without a hint of irony. This is the equivalent of a guy saying he's in love with his anime waifu. It would be laughed at, why should this be any different?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 10:34 AM
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Eugh. Your post history is literally a doozy. You're not a reliable source at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 08:06 PM
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Marriage rates, sexual frequency rates and fertility rates are all on the decline. Other than sex addicts, most men dont want to entertain women with her attitude. Even less so if those men are attractive (the ones she clearly aiming at). And then she's talking about a club environment, any half decent club environment has a slew of attractive women many of whom wont come off as unhinged as she does. I think a lot of people, men and women, have taken the skewed and unrealistic online discourse t…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 04:50 PM
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Most men aren't 5ft2.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 04:43 PM
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Yep. And tbh its already happening. Look at marriage/singlehood statistics, look up phenomena like "golden penis syndrome" experienced in college campuses and workplaces. When men do level up, they often find themselves not actually wanting to commit.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 01:20 PM
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This is a fair point but this is the issue a lot of people have with trans women wanting to be in womens bathrooms and sports. I dont think people actually care about a trans woman who's legitimately living and passing off as a woman wanting to use a womans bathroom. Its the freaks like OP who we know will abuse it. And, trust me, as man we know these dudes exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 12:20 PM
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I'm not being stubborn, you're just blatantly mischaracterising data.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 12:04 PM
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The problem men have is that despite people knowing how massively beneficial self improvement is, there are actually a ton of bluepillers here to tell you how much it doesnt matter. I started working out at 18, by 20 I was 300+lbs and "swolefat", I then had a drastic cut to about 245lbs. The difference was stark, in between that time I was heavily into dale carnegie and pick up, but the physical improvements I made were so vast I didnt even really need to employ the pick up techniques so much. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 11:54 AM
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What on earth are you talking about? The "last 12 month" statistic is clearly incomplete considering it doesnt actually list statistics for men on that website. Also your link focuses on victims of crime within the year of 2011. 95%+ perpetrators of sexual violence experienced by women are male and only 70% of the perpetrators of sexual violence experienced by men are female. There is no "summary painting a different picture", you're talking completely out of your ass. I dont need to afford peop…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 11:32 AM
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Dude, what the fuck? Did you even read the link you posted? For female rape victims, an estimated 99.0% had only male perpetrators. In addition, an estimated 94.7% of female victims of sexual violence other than rape had only male perpetrators. For male victims, the sex of the perpetrator varied by the type of sexual violence experienced. The majority of male rape victims (an estimated 79.3%) had only male perpetrators. For three of the other forms of sexual violence, a majority of male victims …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 10:46 AM
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You cant just make statements without any factual backing. I can just say the sky is green too. Doesnt make it true.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 10:41 AM
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Glad I'm not the only one who realised from OPs profile that he is a complete weirdo.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 09:57 AM
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Negative personal experiences with sorority members ???
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 09:55 AM
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And your feelings are based on your crippling insecurity and low self esteem. Deal with that first before declaring that female only spaces have no need to exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 09:51 AM
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Wrong. When you adjust for underreporting, the gap is statistically insignificant. No. The vast majority of sexual assaults are committed by men, with statistics consistently showing that over 90% of perpetrators are male. Specifically, 98% of adults prosecuted for sexual offenses are men, according to Cambridge Rape Crisis Centre. Arguing anything else is just insane, and your posts seem unhinged as is. Name 3 male only places and 3 male only subreddits r/ menslives, whatmendontsay, and mensrig…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 09:49 AM
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LOOOL OP reveals himself. Jesus, this sub has become inundated with so many fucking losers. Seriously, you still havent gotten over high school level trauma about being rejected by "Stacies". Fraternity brothers and athletes are significantly more likely to commit alcohol related sexual assault so just lol at whatever point you're trying to argue. https://www.jimhopper.com/pdf/foubert_2019.pdf
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 09:39 AM
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Also, SA is just as likely to be female-on-male as it is male-on-female. NO THE FUCK ITS NOT. There's literally a boatload of statistics on this too. The gap between male and female SA perpetrators is so vast, even the real phenomena of underreporting of female culprits wouldnt make up for the gap. Honestly OP, dudes like you legit concern me. Its one thing to be a redpiller/misogynist but its another to wrap said misogyny in this veil of male victimhood. Its so untoward. There are plenty of mal…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 09:34 AM
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I mean there is a big difference being a guy barely scraping by paying for a girl he cant afford and a rich guy introducing a woman to an already privileged lifestyle.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 07:09 PM
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TBH I've approached women directly with sexualised compliments and slept with them within the same day/week. It depends massively on the environment. A gym? No. A club? Abso-fucking-lutely. Approaching without being somewhat sexual in a social environment cant often be a way to have women not interested in u.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 07:05 PM
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The problem is leading with your wallet only works if you're leading a life which is enticing to someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 06:32 PM
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Yeah, I agree but its legit hard. In order to sexualise your interactions, you need to be able to see yourself as a sexual being. This isnt 1973 anymore, womens standards have increased drastically and thus the average dork isnt going to be able to just rock up to a woman and start dropping sexualised innuendo without being seen as a creep. Its far easier to drop your voice, enter a woman's personal space or bite your own lips when you actually take care of your body, skin, clothing and avoid se…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 06:13 PM
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Eh... Every women I met from a "third world country" was a fucking handful. Smart as shit, obnoxious as shit, combative as all fuck. Just LOL at this post, the average Ukrainian/Russian/Nigerian/Brazilian woman would tear the average american PPD poster to pieces. Cunning as all hell and often raised in countries where there is no government safety net or backbone which forces women to be world weary and educated. And I mean a real education in shit like Science, Medicine, and Engineering. Whats…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 05:54 PM
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TBH this is what I commented on, OPs experience is precisely because he's in South America. The US government literally put out travel warnings alerting foreigners of the dangers of meeting women in countries like Colombia and Costa Rica on dating apps. The higher rates of crime in latin america means women are far more comfortable with violence, violent male counterparts and using violence as a means of extracting profit. There just isnt the same respect for westerners as is experienced by thos…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 05:37 PM
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I kind of agree. Not all passport bros are created equal, neither are passport bro destinations. I think what you say takes place in South America but not so much in southeast asia. My friend went to Colombia and flew a colombian girl out to Europe. She was stunning, but she was also well educated and ambitious. My shocked when he realised he couldnt leverage his high income for her desire but I had to explain to him that Latin America is a region with cultures that pride themselves on machismo …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 05:27 PM
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Its not though. "Lifestyle being the same" makes no sense and legal protection are a BIG thing. You'll understand this when your mind actually reaches a stage of adult maturity and you begin to understand the binding nature of codified laws.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 10:52 AM
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LOL so now we're just pretending stats dont exist. As I keep telling people, the blue pilled women on here just as big socially hopeless losers who deny statistics, operate in false realities and live in delusion. Just like their redpill counterparts. You're all one bowl of incel/femcel soup.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 10:50 AM
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I mean this is just wrong, you're sitting here arguing with Pew data. So many of you are so stupid and blinkered, its getting to the point that you're proverbially arguing that the sky is green at this point. Women are significantly more likely than men to be in relationships. Unless all those men are incels (interesting because I see women argue against this point) then it means women clearly want to be in relationships more than men. Leosandlattes has literally posted this study multiple times…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 07:30 AM
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Again, rubbish. Why are so many delusional women on here committed to being wrong? Married women live longer, make more money, and have a lower death rate than single women. https://www.nber.org/sites/default/files/2020-08/orrc11-07.pdf https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC7452000/ https://www.cdc.gov/nchs/data/hestat/mortality/mortality_marital_status_10_17.htm#:~:text=For%20women%2C%20age%2Dadjusted%20death,(569.3)%20(Table)%20(Table)) You're literally just talking complete shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 07:26 AM
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Its one thing to complain about misogyny/redpillers but to sit there pretending as if women arent the bulk of the people demanding commitment is just... As said, people complain about the male loneliness epidemic but I actually think its women who are becoming more of an issue post pandemic. The increasing amount who are socially maladjusted, incapable of forming relationship and increasingly sitting online trolling messageboards needs to be studied. That tiktok showing more and more of them rea…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 07:16 AM
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LOL and yet here you trolling just as pathetically as any garden variety virgin male loser
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 07:13 AM
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Monogamous LTRs and cohabitation isnt a marriage. Even in the most progressive states they dont have the same right as a marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 07:12 AM
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Yes, many women value commitment but so do plenty of men. No they dont, thats why there is a 30 percentage point gap between men and women when it comes to singledom below 30. I mean just LOL, I think this sub has reached peak delusion among the female commenters. I mean are we really doing this?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 07:11 AM
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Says the 71 billion dollar wedding industry. TBH though I think arguing with femcels like yourself is a waste of time
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 12:23 AM
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The "tea" is that most women who actually have good careers also marry men with good careers. Its actually the women who are the most successful who date men who are even more successful. My sister is a surgeon and she was engaged at 20, my wife has a masters and is a project manager at a large IT firm. This idea that successful women are running around as single city girls is nothing more than a femcel fantasy. Getting a good career as a woman isnt an "alternative", its part and parcel of being…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 12:20 AM
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The point is it should be clear that commitment, particularly marriage, is clearly more of a desire for women than it is for men. I mean just type in "why dont men want to commit" and "why dont women want to commit". See the differences in results. To sit here and pretend as if women dont desire commitment more than their male counterparts is some insane level chronically online delusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 12:14 AM
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Christ. Based as all hell.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 12:11 AM
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Fair, but the average spend of an onlyfans user is $42. And only 4% of onlyfans users are spending money. I spent $75k on my wedding and $10k on my wife's ring. And thats already on top of the fact that she doesnt pay rent and drives around in my $100k car. I know which life she would rather lead. Credit to the women that make it on onlyfans but that shit is hard and is in no way a viable alternative to being a bride to a well educated man with a good career. You need to be what? Top 1-3% to be …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 12:07 AM
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There is literally a whole subreddit of pathetic fucks called waiting_to_wed. Just LOL at OP
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 12:00 AM
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The average yearly income on onlyfans is $250 and its a business that works mostly on volume. I would rather be the wife than the sex worker tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 11:58 PM
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For any woman to sit there with the cheek to say they dont demand commitment from men is wild as hell
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 11:23 PM
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Nah. This is what I believed when I was younger/not as experienced. But as someone who was in the world of sex parties, NSA and swingers clubs...I was shocked just how not true that was. In swinging what you are "unicorns", women who are single and are on the scene purely for sex. They NEVER last. Every woman, every single one, who partakes in polyamory/swinging/ENM has some type of long term partner. 95% of the time the relationships are always super finite too. You'll see a single women, she'l…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 09:25 PM
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A lot of you need to leave this saddo attempts at getting a rise to the redpillers/seasoned trolls. Most of you are just bad at it. You post here like 20 times a day. Dont start trying to make out as if you actually have a life and are above pointless internet arguments now.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 09:15 PM
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Well TBH swinging tends to skew "heavier" anyway. There was an event at a club where I was a regular called the "BBW night". It would be absolutely rammed.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 09:11 PM
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Couples skew older but there were plenty of 30 year old guys who would attend. And to pretend otherwise is to be full of hot air. There was also tons of events aimed specifically at younger guys, many of them were run by people I know. Every swingers club in the UK has some kind of "interracial" event which would be chock full of "BBC" types. There was also a whole bunch of "hotwife club" events, again, aimed at women seeking out younger male clientele. In fact, a popular one at a club called "V…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 09:10 PM
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A lot on here are gonna say no but what blew my mind when using NSA sites and attending swingers clubs were just how many of the women there were overweight/older. Sounds messed up but it definitely let me use the fact that I was more attractive than what most of women typically experienced. I noticed the same when I was on Tinder and how, a lot of time, the less attractive the women, the less willing I was to commit to dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 05:35 PM
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Do you know what also isnt malpractice? Failing to diagnose various ailments and diseases and it happens all the time. When it does, a significant amount of time and intellectual investment is put into understanding why these things happen. And in doing so, questions are asked as to why these failures happen. I'm not talking about "malpractice" and negligence doesnt wholly encompass malpractice either. I never mentioned malpractice in the field of psychiatry and psychology either. I am indeed ta…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 02:25 PM
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I've been to therapy. Loved it. But he is completely right and you're arguing in completely bad faith. Its pathetic and makes you look like a lightweight intellectually. When people speak about negligent doctors or bad practice within the field its not shushed away with "oh well plenty of professionals are bad". When people argue about certain demographics poorer outcomes in, say, maternal care or the fact that womens complaints of pain are often overlooked no one accepts "oh well some doctors a…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 02:11 PM
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Nah. I had a therapist last year, probably the best decision I made for my mental health in my life. You need to be strategic about it though. Most therapists are bad, the few that are good aren't cheap and have years of experience and accreditations. I also think its important to aim for specialisms like psychotherapy and avoid general "life coaches" and mandated psychologists. The reason I went to my therapist was that my wife and I were having massive fights and I was getting more and more ag…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 08:17 AM
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I do. LOL if you knew how much gymfit/BWC/BBC/VWE/tall came up in personals on NSA sites you would scoff that anyone who claimed the lifestyle wasn't deeply "redpilled".
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 11:44 PM
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I've spoken to may couples I've "played with" (popular swinging parlance) about the dynamic and I dont think I've ever seen a functioning relationship where the children were aware of their parents proclivities. Whenever children were aware that their parent was a swinger it was almost always a single mom dynamic (there are a lot of single mothers on the scene). Eh...its interesting how so much of this sub is made of female gaslighters now. The types who want to piss on men and tell them its rai…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 11:42 PM
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Thats literally what it is. I find any women trying to advocate polyamory (when not partaking in it themselves) is often just a bullshit merchant. I've literally dealt with these couples. Whilst it may not strictly be "alpha/beta", its definitely something where the woman wants to access the physically attractive men she wouldnt normally be able to gain commitment from. Hell, what was even more amusing was seeing the racial dynamic play out too. I cant even begin to count the amount of white wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 11:39 PM
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LOL whats amusing about this thread is that its mostly guys saying that open marriages are "exceedingly rare" (TBF they are) and, from what I can see so far, at least two women seem to be advocating for open marriages/open to exploring them. Of course thats on the women's side of course. TBH whilst I'm not in an open relationship, I have had sex with a number of women in hotwife/swinger/cuckold scenarios. A couple things I have learned. The best way to do it is to be monogamous for a few years a…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 11:35 PM
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Interesting you use that comparison because the TV market has been completely flooded by Chinese manufacturers like TCL and HiSense. They've been undercutting the Japanese and Korean players like Samsung, Sony, LG and Hitachi. Problem is, despite the cheaper prices, the quality hasn't taken much of a dent either and, in some cases, TCL's actually show better performance than their Samsung made competitors. The only time legacy competitors outcompete their Chinese competitors is on niche technolo…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 11:14 AM
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Nah, there are a lot of complaints about a lack of marriageable men. https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-40504076 https://www.psychologytoday.com/gb/blog/meet-catch-and-keep/201909/do-women-face-a-shortage-of-men-worth-marrying https://www.theguardian.com/society/2023/apr/23/motherhood-women-freeze-eggs-male-partners-men-fertility Dont swallow the koolaid, online passport bros are incels, but best believe there are legitimately educated men who are looking towards either foreign women or women who are…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 11:07 AM
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Passport bros online are mostly losers. But I am seeing a growing contingent of men looking towards other cultures for spouses. And its not even because western women are harder to date, they're a lot easier actually. Women from places like east asia and eastern europe have tons of familial baggage that you'll be forced to deal with and, from personal experience, I found the EE women are dated were even ruder and more confrontational than women from the west. But some men prefer that. I equate t…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 11:00 AM
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Both you and the commenter you're replying are indicative of the annoying ass involuntary celibates who now dominate discourse on this sub. Her with her annoying misandry and you with your whiny, insipid, false ideas of male dominance. Oh and FYI, the precursor to the WIFI you're using was invented by a woman, as was the compiler, which pretty much birthed the foundation of modern programming languages.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 04:55 PM
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LOL This is what I mean, I can literally think of a sight right now, lipstick alley. Its definitely chock full of gendered violence and aimed at women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 04:37 PM
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The internet allows you to see everyone's unfiltered thoughts. Not really. Its repressed thoughts in a vacuum, often held by those who are deeply insecure and low self esteemed. Trust me, the truly dangerous people aren't sitting on the internet writing their fantasies or negative sentiments against different demographics. I used to think this way because I used to be even more insecure than I am now and my self esteem was in the gutter, so of course I thought everyone was out to get me and the …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 03:44 PM
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Nah... This reads like confirmation bias. Sorry but a lot of you are actually super into this shit yourselves and seem to want to project this onto men. And its kinda dubious when I see it. Male doms,Daddy Dom's, punishment rapes Forced oral, choking hair pulling Reddit is heavily moderated these days and communities like these really aren't all that visible unless you're really going out of you way looking for it. Even in regards to pornography. I'm somewhat of a connoisseur and most mainstream…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 03:39 PM
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Holy shit, I thought u were exaggerating but that shit happened. Fuck me. BUT whilst I think its true that the real world consequences of redpill/manosphere communities are infinitely more dangerous than those of, say, FDS or radical feminists, its important to remember these are still niches within niches whom should be treated as the radicalised terrorist freaks they actually are. In that, in the same way we dont condemn all men for the actions of a few scum, we dont condemn all muslims for th…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 03:34 PM
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I actually kind of disagree. I definitely think there are women's equivalent of "locker room talk" which is probably vulgar and casually misandrist, but men are the same. And thats fine, both genders need a chance to vent. People like OP and those who partake in the more pathological, incendiary gender takes often have deep, deep issues and you only need to have a peruse of their post history to see they're often riddled with mental health issues, neurodivergent, struggle forming healthy relatio…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 03:25 PM
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Or because I'm... a normal, average person. Who hangs with normal, average people. In normal, average spaces. The normal, average person is not a sex pest who hoards around the nearest pretty woman he sees. The normal, average person doesn't spam random women's DMs. If you're partaking in ENM/swinging/kink, you're not normal. These are very niche activities. 100 attendees, events like Anthrocon, (the biggest furry convention in the world, in which, like most major furry conventions, is known for…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 04:11 PM
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Yeah, as I said, that's a you problem. I don't run in the communities that do that. I wouldn't say those communities don't exist, just that they aren't the average. The average community is average people. Ah yes of course, because you're so special and unique and honorable and pure. LOL and lets just make out as if the places and communities I've mentioned are some of the most well known in the scene. Of course you live in a utopia where people who seek out sex with strangers and multiple partn…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 02:40 PM
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Attractive and young women are also more prone to getting spammed by men who just throw out hundreds of DMs randomly to see what will bite. No, as in I've literally been to clubs/parties and watch men literally surround attractive women to the point they had to complain about the sheer veracity of the attention. Even more who used to same sites/communities as farms/funnels to their onlyfans. As anyone knows the scene attracts a ton of creators too. But, if the thing you want is just to have sexy…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 02:22 PM
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I never said they're young and beautiful, just said they were equally shallow. In fact, even more so. I'm in the UK, we have a healthy kink/swinging/ENM scene and I visited about a dozen different clubs when I was single. Attractive men and women always did better...a lot better. In fact I was kinda taken aback by just how much people would thirst over hot guys and even more so for hot women. The latter demo would always have a story about some guy offering them money for sex too. The fact that …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 01:59 PM
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A lot of women were interested in free love back before the surge in STDs got people to stop. People were having so much sex, that we had to legalize abortion and develop all these types of birth control. No they weren't. You're literally not speaking from ANY experience. "Core hippies" were said to be less than 0.2% of the US population. We're in the most liberal time society has ever been and finding "unicorns" (single women) is a challenge now. So much so that half the events out there let th…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 09:11 AM
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"Key parties" are uncommon as hell now let alone in the goddamn 50s I literally was in the scene for years and finding a good house party was like nails on a chalkboard. God, there are way too many fucking irritating sexually inexperienced porn brained men on here.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 09:03 AM
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There is still plenty of "free love" to go around, its just not attached to the hippy communes and super left leaning politics anymore. It went mainstream. Plenty of 9-5ers now partaking in swinging, ENM, cuckolding, partner swapping and all other manner of subversive sexual behaviours. The idea you have of "free love" never really existed, it was a collective term for a number of north american and european intellectuals attempt to normalise non-normative sexual and romantic relations. Be they …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 08:55 AM
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I was in that world, those communities have lots of sex but they're also heavily stratified with the most attractive/well endowed men often having the most options. Also most popular sex/swingers/kink clubs arent really redditor fests, they very much sell themselves on meeting hot couples and "unicorns" who often pay less and then single men (often the lifeblood of most establishments) paying often 2-3x more for entry. All the guys I knew in that scene who were super successful were tall/muscula…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 08:35 AM
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Its relevant to everyone. You're not the first person in a nonmonogamous relationship no matter how much you want to convince yourself you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 11:42 PM
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LOL I mean this is it, you dont even really sound all that self aware. You're just going "nuh uh" everytime someone presents the rather obvious idea that maybe people are ghosting you because they have a better option (or maybe you're just turning them off...funny how that doesnt seem to compute for you). As I said before, ENM types make me fucking laugh. And I've met a lot of you. Mind boggling people think they're going to carry that sexual baggage as a woman on Tinder of all places and think …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 11:35 PM
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Again, he's not brining you down. He's right. As I mentioned before, I tend to find women from ENM/poly/swinging are the most deluded when it comes to where they stand in the "marketplace". I used to dabble in that scene and had a reputation for being "arrogant", but thats because I looked good and knew that a lot of the women I was fraternising with were not women I would necessarily want to be seen out in public with. Maybe that makes me a shitty person, but thats how a lot of good looking men…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 11:31 PM
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It could be a 100 for all I know. But I trust her, thats why we're married. Your mentality and approach to life is pathetic and the calling card of every FandF/redpill follower damn near 40 years old and living in a state of arrested development. And lord knows I'm not tradcon. But we all gotta grow up eventually.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 11:24 PM
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The people you're replying to are right, they have better options. Doesn't mean they're not attracted to you, but they do have better options. You list yourself as ENM, the "E" means you should be mentioning in your profile that you're polyamorous. For a good chunk of men thats going to take you down a notch. Like it or not, dating apps (like any form of dating) will favour the majority and those more "milquetoast", whilst there will be plenty of men open to that kind of dynamic, plenty more wil…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 11:20 PM
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I see your point but its too basked in misandry and bitterness to truly catch on. Its weird, I feel women's beauty is kinda simultaneously overvalued and undervalued. Its overvalued in the sexual marketplace, you'll often see fairly average women making bank from things like Onlyfans despite not exactly being supermodels. This is what inflates so many young women's egos. However its also undervalued in the long term relationship marketplace. For all redpillers/incels whine, it never ceases to am…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 11:11 PM
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Oh gosh. I mean I dont even know where to begin. Your attachment mentions Rollo Tomasi, I hope for your sake you're quoting him ironically. The only women you're capable of attracting is 304s, we're not in the same paygrade.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 10:54 PM
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Again, I probably air more on the side of redpill according to many on here but OPs entire attitude towards dating is fucking gross. Hey, its one thing to accept that maybe dating these days is more frought. I'll even accept that maybe women attitudes towards men can be contradictory and unfair, but this idea that women somehow owe OP their time because of his "effort" is just laughably toxic. I think the one thing men who are even remotely successful with the opposite sex understand is that wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 01:18 PM
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I would rather talk about my ego than listen to laze irritating incels whine that they can no longer force women to sleep with them. And yes, every single thing that makes one successful or worth dating does not come overnight. You would know that if you actually had any of those things. Career success does not come over night. Good physiques arent built overnight. Game is not honed overnight. Of course you're now going to probably hit me with the idea that the only men who are ever successful a…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 01:12 PM
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I'm pretty high on the male attractiveness scale. Its hard work for a woman who is actually attractive/decent/morally sound and pretty damn easy for everyone else. Whenever I have found it really easy, lo and behold, every other half decent looking guy found it easy as well. At the same time, it took my 6 months to sleep with my wife. As expected considering she only had like 3 partners before me. But then, I'm handsome and successful. No shit, I get laid easier than a guy whose out of shape and…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 01:05 PM
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I'll give a little bit of anecdotal for myself and reply it back to other men. I'm not some guy who is opposed to put it in work when it comes to getting women. I am very lazy but I am willing to put forward some effort because sometimes I feel like I won't be able to get any success unless I put the work in... Because that's actually what my reality reflects. This is the attitude of every lazy incompetent fuckwad I've ever met. Competent/hard working people never have to see results before they…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 12:43 PM
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I'm actually surprised by the men disagreeing. This is largely true, I just dont think most men want to believe it because it compromises our egos. A lot of women out here have rosters and are being shared by men. I ran into this multiple times in the normal dating scene and even more so when I was into casual encounters through swingers/polyamory apps. It shouldnt really be a surprise either. Women have control of the sexual market and men, the dating marketplace. This means that, on places lik…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 11:14 PM
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I find looking specifically for money has more to do with ethnic or non-western culture, rather than socioeconomic level. True, but thats because ethnic culture is far more honest about socioeconomic realities. White/western people are far more "discriminatory" when it comes to every aspect of dating but thats because so much of our socioeconomic demarcation is abstracted by things like geography, education, cultural/artistic interests and political beliefs. Its also because social class and wea…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 03:34 PM
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I used to be on a swingers site and peeps could literally post pictoral proof of their endowment. That and when I went to a club everyone was naked which meant that you could pretty much show off if you were blessed. A guy having a big penis has little to do with whether or not a woman orgasms. TBH this is not entirely true. Size definitely helps, its just not a requirement. Vaginal orgasms are helped by additional girth.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 03:26 PM
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There is literally no data to support this at all. https://www.psychologytoday.com/gb/blog/insight-is-2020/201401/short-men-why-women-arent-attracted-enough-to-date-them This is why I think men are starting to turn on women, and society it turning on liberal/left leaning ideas in general. I think people may be a little tired of being gaslit. I leave the house and see short jokes at least once a week, I've seen plenty of people lambast short men. But now I'm meant to believe their insecurities ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 01:28 PM
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You've quoted a rubbish article from someone who doesnt list their name which offers no cited sources on anything and you're using that to dispute a dictionary definition and a bunch of studies that I've posted. I've had more stimulating disagreements with middle schoolers, you're laughable.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 10:26 AM
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I remember lurking this sub for a while, its sad how its just devolved into out and out dishonesty from bluepillers/women and men are often banned for going against the tide: Women significantly effected by mens income: https://www.famcap.com/2018/08/wealthspike-gender-wars-wealth-and-attraction/ Lower class men more likely to be single: https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/business-40894089 On Internet Dating Sites, Women Prefer Men With Higher Incomes and More Education: https://ifstudies.org/blog/on-in…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 10:23 AM
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No its not, hence why EVERY study literally disputes the garbage you're writing. The very definition of casual sex is: Casual sex refers to sexual activity outside of a romantic relationship, often without the expectation of commitment or emotional attachment. It can encompass a range of behaviors and may be a one-time encounter or ongoing, such as in a "friends with benefits" situation. The term is often used interchangeably with "hookups," "booty calls," or "one-night stands". LOL I knew peopl…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 10:10 AM
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This was your statement. It’s something like only 20% of the population that do casual sex This is factually incorrect, as the data proves. Frequency is not a requirement for sex to be casual. As said, just stop. Its teetering into making yourself seem like you're full of shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 09:10 AM
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LOL if its not that deep why did you make this thread whilst replying to every reply in here? Be for real. As said, your three one night stands with 4/10s dont count for much.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 09:07 AM
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LOOOL what the hell is the real world? I've probably known more women than you have too. Come on. What are you basing this on? Nothing you've written makes it appear you've had an outsized experience with the opposite sex. A lot of you would have slept with like 5 women in your life and have settled with an average women and now thinking you can speak of what its like for dudes with large amounts of status/height/wealth/physical attractiveness. You cant. Unless you've actually got experience of …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 07:21 AM
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No it fucking doesnt. Since when did 20% become 78.2%? And, again... https://www.psychologytoday.com/gb/blog/the-mating-game/202004/gender-differences-in-casual-sex#:~:text=Most%20of%20our%20sample%20(aged,)%20as%20women%20(15)%20as%20women%20(15)) Most of our sample (aged 18-82; roughly as many men as women) said they had had casual sex (73%) ever. About 12% refused to answer, and 4% were unsure. The rest said no. Not surprisingly, there was a huge gender difference, with men reporting nearly t…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 07:16 AM
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First, wouldn't your opinions fall more into 'red pill' territory (saw that your label was purple) I refrain from redpill because its main proponents tend to be weird religious/political fruitcakes online and I dont agree with that aspect. Also because redpill culture has largely been overrun by the "redpill rage" phase and has really just devolved into a women hate fest. Whilst I think women arent trustworthy, I definitely dont think they're inherently bad. what do you think about the suggestio…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 07:13 AM
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He's right. TBH I've probably slept with more women than you likely could have done in multiple lifetimes. I tend to find its men who've actually been around the block who understand just how much of a leg up things like looks/height/physique give you. I too am also married. Its the unattractive schmucks who still let their mid girlfriends convince them that they totally get the same treatment as she gave Chad. Its sad how many men are in denial.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 07:03 AM
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Good points. I equate it to boxing and MMA. Where people would see looks as the equivalent of good cardio and personality as the equivalent of skill. Where so many talented fighters fall is thinking their skill will make up for a lack of cardio and then they lose to a guy way less experienced who far younger/fitter. In the same way better cardio allows for one to adequately display said skill, better looks allows one to better convey a positive personality. Its a positive feedback loop. As menti…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 07:00 AM
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No. Maybe if you're a gen Xer, but definitely not as a millennial and even less so as a gen Zer. I honestly think personality is overrated. People on here talk about personality but its really a sad as fuck cope. What amuses me is seeing people claim that they worked out or "looksmaxxed" and still dont get any play. Problem most of the people who make these comments are deeply socially maladjusted in the way most people are not. And those people shouldnt be on a debate sub, they should be in the…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 06:53 AM
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LOL its funny because I literally lived this scenario. Girl I dated 9 years ago was still living with a psycho ex (who eventually got a year in prison for revenge porn - one of the first prosecutions of it in the uk) whilst we were seeing each other. She simply stayed a month until she secured her own place then left.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 10:50 PM
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Because they can find a new man, but your scenario is entirely different. Since when did finding a new man become synonymous with crashing at a random new guys place whilst you wait to resolve your domestic dispute??
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 10:33 PM
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I'm just shy of 6ft5, muscular, well endowed etc... The shit I've seen women do makes me laugh when anyone claims women are demisexual. Sadly its something most men will be closed off to. I've had women admit they've partaken in gangbangs. I literally discovered the world of sex parties through a elementary school teacher. Ive had women admit they've paid for and fucked escorts. I've had women plenty women admit they've slept with strippers. I've had women with STDs lie and pretend they were cle…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 07:44 PM
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LOL its an amusing phenomenon. Its what makes me kinda blow my mind when women on Reddit talk endlessly about demisexuality. Whilst I definitely dont think women are as sexually driven as men, there are still a lot of sexually driven women and its hilarious how often women online will talk about demisexuality and then act incredulous when a man suggests he doesnt want a woman with a high partner count. And TBH this is a conversation which cultural critics and analysts have been commenting on for…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 07:32 PM
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LOL one thing I've started to notice is a lot of "bluepillers"/women have devolved into just being completely full of shit on here. >It’s something like only 20% of the population that do casual sex I mean you literally pulled that completely from out of your ass. https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/full/10.1177/0265407517706419 A recent U.S. study found that 78.2% of adults aged 18-34 claimed to have had casual sex with someone they met online. While it is extremely difficult to accurately measure…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 07:27 PM
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Its not something "we love to hear", its supported by data: https://www.psypost.org/study-finds-women-including-feminists-attracted-benevolently-sexist-men/ And this data has been around for a while. This used to not be disputed on here, dont know whats changed.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 03:37 PM
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5% is killer. When people make it seem like 5% as some kind of indicator of failure it makes it clear they've never done anything resembling a successful endeavour in their lives. So many ventures and businesses are built off of a 5% uptake. His immunity to rejection (if he's actually improving mind you) makes him insanely effective (and daresay dangerous).
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 03:32 PM
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Nope. I know too many absolute goobers who have little going for them other than being tall and goodlooking. As I keep saying, look up king68thegreat, really glad to see guys like him blowing up because it really shows that looks account for so much when it comes to your outward perception. The shit you say is the typical shit I read on here and its just tiring and untrue. I walk out the house and see decent looking women under their 30s and they're almost always dating guys who are clearly in s…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 03:29 PM
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Nope. Invest in your appearance. I have very good game. I've slept with women I first met within an hour, let alone a day. I've cold approached tons of times in random places, slept with half a dozen women I hit on in the gym. What I've come to learn is that looks are underrated for men and overrated for women. The question is why do women/people keep denying the importance of physical appearance in men? I legit feel its because physically impressive men are more threatening than their female co…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 03:23 PM
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I'm very masculine and she's super feminine. She's a little less feminine sexually but thats about it. I legit feel people who eschew gender roles are nuts, but hey, I'm not one to shame people's lifestyles. I think people are trying to reinvent the wheel because, ultimately, they often struggle to live up to societal expectations placed on either sex. If you're struggling to pay the bills or take control or express strength then just find a woman who wont shave her legs or take care of the home…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 01:26 PM
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Flexing that your husband also posts on here is...a thing I guess But do you missy
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 04:02 PM
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TBH I dont even think having a husband alone makes one centered on men, but yeah if you're claiming you never cared about dating whilst posting on a sub about dating (and being the top poster on it) whilst being married is, as said, hilariously lacking in self awareness.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 03:51 PM
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Ignore the poly bit, I'm probs getting mixed up with another poster but yes, 2x is very much not entirely about dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 03:41 PM
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There literally is, its called TwoX and it has at least five popular alternatives. But you've seemingly never posted on any of them. Some of you are so hilariously transparent. Its like you have negative zero self awareness lol I mean you literally have posts from today talking about your preferences in the opposite sex... EDIT 2: Jesus, wait are you poly? A poly person claiming they dont centre men? Heavenly lord...
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 03:14 PM
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She's not entirely wrong. Men can be supremely shitty. But you're right, this would be downvoted if it were said by a man and its becoming a bit of problem. I'm seeing more and more women (often from minority groups) knocking out this incelish spiel and they're not receiving the adequate pushback to make them really challenge their own ideas. Its starting to get quite dire but I dont think people are going to realise until its nigh too late. We're losing entire demographics of women due to their…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 03:11 PM
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Never really cared about dating and yet is the top 1% commenter on a debate sub which discusses...dating/relationships/attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 02:57 PM
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She's actually 30 now, we met when she was 21
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 02:55 PM
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I settled at 28 with someone who was 21, she didnt have anywhere close to my sexual experience. This idea that men ONLY date women who are equally promiscuous is femcel cope. People date on socioeconomic, attractiveness and education, not promiscuity.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 12:53 PM
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Eh. I'm torn. I'm tall and very muscular. I've been hit on, catcalled, stared at, groped, ass smacked...you name it. There were times when it felt a little dehumanising but, admittedly, it often was dependent on how attractive the girl was. I was speaking to a girl in the gym recently and she was kinda...looking my up and down. Like, almost oogling whilst she was talking to me. I gotta be honest, I didnt really know how to feel about it. A part of it felt a little eugh but a part of was also emp…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 04:11 PM
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LOL its not being aware of the pills. Strategising about dating has been around a lot longer than "pills" have been.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 01:14 PM
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LOL I just knew this question would come from a damn "pink pill". But its funny because (and I expect to be downvoted to oblivion lol) but I kinda agree, I went to a few sex parties before I met my wife and 95% of the time, the women there were often fat/older/unattractive/single moms. If they were young and pretty, they were almost always leveraging their beauty through things like onlyfans. I do legit believe a lot of women these days try to barter sexuality for intimacy. I tend to find, prett…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 12:47 PM
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Eh...I dunno I've had a lot of one night stands with a lot of stunners. I've got to be honest, whilst I definitely think attractive women experience the same rejection that lesser attractive women do, its definitely not to the same extent. When I hear from attractive women who lament about men its almost always a guy who they're casually seeing and the guy isnt taking them seriously. Like it or not, beauty is currency, and men will try to hold onto it for as long as they can.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 12:44 PM
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Yes! FFS why is this so hard for people to understand?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 12:25 PM
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Bitchier people win in all spheres of life Again, this is bullshit I'm talking about. I work in an investment bank and, on the side, I'm a pro kickboxer. I've brushed shoulders with millionaires fund managers and I've trained with world class fighters. NONE of the successful ones gave off the vibe of obnoxiousness/bitchiness. They may of had their moments, but one of the key aspects of a lot of successful people in either field was an ability to cooperate. In my corporate life it should seem obv…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 12:24 PM
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I actually trust people less if they act incredulous about ultimatums. Life is a negotiation, we need to negotiate, cooporate and compromise with pretty much everyone we come across.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 12:19 PM
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Again, is this even true? What is "evil"? Even if we're talking about Machiavellianism, women who exhibit machievellienism actually report lower relationship satisfaction: https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC5590532/#:\~:text=Women%20with%20high%20levels%20of%20Machiavellianism%20reported%20lower%20relationship%20satisfaction,to%20persist%20with%20the%20relationship. Psychopaths and sociopaths also dont fair well in relationships either.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 12:17 PM
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STRONG disagree on the second, but then not surprised its the most upvoted comment. Though its amusing that it is on a debate sub about dating strategy. Both my partner and I read extensively before finding each other. I think strategy is important in just about every facet in ones life and is part of the reason why so many people end up in shitty, unfulfilling and "go nowhere" relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 11:57 AM
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Nope. I definitely think the key here is strategically bitchy. Problem is, I meet so, so few women who are able to pull this off. The reason being, its not really about being bitchy at all. Its about having expectations and boundaries even at the expense of how people perceive you. I started off in my twenties never wanting to be married, I actually found the idea of getting married kinda gross. And yet here I am in my 30s probably having sunk too much on the day and not regretting it for even a…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 11:52 AM
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There is no way you regularly talk about sex and have never heard utterances towards "BBC". Just stop. Be for fucking real. Some of you need to stop this "I'm such an innocent speshul fairy" schtick. Its really tired and lame.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 10:15 AM
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LOL regardless of whether one likes big dicks or not the comment you replied to was so utterly stupid. Its like saying women prefer average height men with average height men being between 5ft7 and 6ft4. Its really silly bordering on deliberately disingenuous.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 10:13 AM
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Eh I dont even know if there is such a thing as too big. I have an acquaintance with a dick literally the size of shane diesel. I met him when I was in polyamory, he's like 50 years old and had a ridiculous amount of attention. And plenty seemed to have no issue taking it either. A lot of women talk a good game until they actually come across a well endowed guy. Shit I mean even when I'm just wearing my gym gear and you can barely see my print I have tons of women staring at my crotch area. Its …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 10:09 AM
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As I've said here before, I have a very big dick. Very much in the standard pornstar range but not in the "Dredd/Danny D" range. I've had some women comment on it, most havent. However, I actually think women definitely like the idea of a big penis. Anyone telling you otherwise is lying. Is it a requirement for sex? Not really, I've made more women cum from my fingers than I ever did with my penis. BUT I wont deny women very much attach a sense of achievement to having a big one. I also think it…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 10:05 AM
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To think it took me scrolling this long to get to your reply. I gotta be honest I dont vibe with redpill, but at least many come off as somewhat intelligent, despite the risible ideas on gender. A lot of the bluepilled/women on here legit make me question the education system.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 07:48 AM
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Its really gotten bad. It feels like the mods arent even remotely hiding the bias on here.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 07:42 AM
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There is nothing to critically evaluate. You come off as a complete idiot. You're talking about not wanting to date an old man whilst dating a 50 year old. Like, huh? I'm so goddamn lost, how are you complaining about age gap relationships when those complaints apply to yourself? Is this a word of warning for people to not repeat your mistakes? It doesnt read like one.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 07:36 AM
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So you're complaining about age gap relationships whilst...only indulging in age gap relationships... I mean, wtf?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 07:35 AM
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How are you sitting in this thread claiming that women dont want to take care of old men when you're with a near 50 year old man yourself???? You're with a man even older than many of the men who talk about age gap dating? I can guaran-damn-tee his dick barely works, he's out of shape, he cant climb a flight of stairs without being winded and the sex you have is utterly mediocre. Are you not willing to take care of your partner? Or are you the exception? Of course you are right? Everyone PPD fem…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 07:30 AM
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Yes because no woman in history has ever had an affair... I mean yeah, be blue pilled if thats what you're into but a lot of you are starting to diverge into fruitcake delusional territory. "iTs mEn wHo aRe tHe pRoBleM" I mean...what? Do some of you even venture outside. Arguments are starting to devolve from "redpillers and incels are stupid" to "WOMEN ARE PERFECT ALWAYS AND NEVER COULD EVER POSSIBLY DO ANYTHING UNTOWARD EVER!"
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 04:08 PM
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Its always good to acknowledge attractive people. I look good and stand out a lot but, even then, my wife still acknowledges other men who look good. All the time. She also gets approached a fair few times too. Last time she did was when we were in a suit shop and one of the customers struck up a conversation with us. He was this good looking mixed raced guy, had a real "young Obama" energy to him. Really carried his suit well too. Whats sad is when women kinda do this thing where they pretend (…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 03:59 PM
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"It's only creepy if he's ugly." Is bullshit often said by creepy as fuck incels with no self awareness. Most men are neutral to most women and many will act indifferent/slightly bemused when approached. 95% of the time a man is accused of being creepy its because he's legit...being creepy. I get a lot of female attention and get hit on a lot too. I've been catcalled a few times and have had women touch me inappropriately. I've had my ass smacked by attractive women but that was more obnoxious t…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 08:31 AM
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LOL "done alright", your post history makes it seem that you're severly lacking in the way of real genuine connection with the opposite sex tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 10:21 PM
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Based.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 10:18 PM
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A man who is in his mid thirties and a man who is in his mid thirties and desirable are not the same. From your post history, I'm possibly gauging you that dont have much in the way of extensive sexual success with the opposite sex. For men who do, fertility will be a factor, and this means dating younger. Not significantly younger, but younger nonetheless. If you're someone whose standards arent that high then yeah, being 35 doesnt mean much. Except women damn sure arent chasing men whose stand…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 04:42 PM
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I kinda disagree. I think a woman who is your equivalent would date you. Hypergamy isnt that common anymore, men of the 0.1% income/wealth bracket are either dating models/famous people or the daughters of other wealthy people. Hypergamy only exists as to some womens delusional expectations, not the reality of things. I also dont think there is even a supply and demand dynamic in place either, that stat claiming 60% of men under 30 as single was dubious as hell and, even then, showed that this d…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 03:35 PM
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Nah. Well yes and no. I do think women are inherently more valuable sexually than men are. I also think women have a baseline attractiveness thats higher than men. But the keyword is baseline, I think things like makeup, complimentary fast fashion and skincare are so commonplace now that only the most physically debased of women aren't capable of maintaining some kind of upkeep to enhance appearances. However, I feel this is starting to shift as more men are into looksmaxxing now than ever befor…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 03:27 PM
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Cold approach is fun. I've done it a lot myself. But its never been a way to meet people and its not even one I would encourage to meet people. If I'm being honest, its most a thrill thing. A percentage of women would be open to it but, for the most part, the only kind of women into hitting it off with strange men is one whose already likely pretty promiscuous as is. I think maybe the only place this would slightly not count is cold approaching on a university campus being that university is a p…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 06:46 AM
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This sub has gone downhill. There is clear and obvious bluepill female bias compared to what I remember a few years ago. Reddit really seems to be eating itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 11:47 AM
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A bipartisan body I literally wrote that in my last reply. Is this how fucking stupid posters here are?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 11:38 AM
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Again with the blatant fucking untruths, the censoring of violent/sexualised content was introduced by the PMRC (Parents Music Resource Center) in 1985. A bipartisan body set up by Tipper Gore. Al Gore's wife. This is the same circular bullshit the typical clown on here always does, when people ask legit questions about censorship its always just swatted away as some preserve of right wing republicans. You can literally Google to see why that isnt remotely the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 10:37 AM
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Chris Browns audience and staunchest defenders are predominantly women and, even then, he's still treated as persona non grata by mainstream cultural media.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 10:17 AM
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I think OP is a clown but that doesnt mean that there isnt a slither of truth about Carpenter's problematic messaging. TBH this is why I sometimes lurk subs which are more women centric and yet arent twoX. There is a discussion there right now about how contradictory and full of shit, Carpenters lyrics seem to be. I kinda feel the issue I have with Carpenter is the same issue I have with a lot of women in this sub. Brains so addled by incelism that many of you are completely incapable of nuanced…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 10:15 AM
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LOL Tate has been debated numerous times in the UKs parliament and was literally flown to the US on behest of the Trump administration. To claim he is anything resembling "niche" is insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 10:14 AM
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If you think hip hop, hasnt (sometimes deservedly) come under the ire of many a cultural critic/politician/activist then you're a fool.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 10:11 AM
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This is just nonsensical. You cant look at the existence of people like Tate and claim that misogyny isnt a thing. This is what irritates me about this sub. A lot of y'all are weak. Both sides can have problematic elements. I can acknowledge misandry among mainstream media content whilst also acknowledging the toxic effect men like Tate or FandF are having on boys. And yet you're now going to tell me there is nothing wrong with Tate, a man accused of rape and human trafficking in two jurisdictio…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 10:06 AM
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LOL I think I saw a discussion the other day on one of these celebrity gossip subs side eyeing her use of pretty sexualised imagery to promote herself. I think Sabrina speaks to a lot of the sexual confusion and self commodification common among gen Zers. I can imagine her fans will be the first to complain about misogyny and "the male gaze" whilst stanning a singer who simulates threesome poses and makes crude references to "BBC" on stage. A lot of young people are confused, they've always been…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 09:52 AM
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It is a "win" because you conveniently left out "some groups". Those being mostly poorer and less educated. And yes, no shit, poorer people have a worse time having children. As said, some of you are hilariously full of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 02:21 PM
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Its not entirely due to people marrying and having kids later, the exasperation is because people arent settle/committing/having kids period. I literally wrote the above in my previous comment. Reading really isnt your strong suit.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 01:49 PM
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LOL amusing that you limited to entry level positions. I wonder how long you had to fish for that stat. There is data which also shows that women apply for less positions and yet are actually more likely to be hired: https://www.linkedin.com/business/talent/blog/talent-acquisition/how-women-find-jobs-gender-report So are they actually getting rejected more? Or just applying to them less? As said, its about women's choices contributing to their lack of presence. Same way, much of the pay gap can …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 01:46 PM
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>Because if anything, I think most people prefer the older stuff. Which is exactly what Iger is saying, you even call it "the old stuff", what on earth are you even on about? >Do you think the only thing people watch from Disney is the stuff they’ve made in the past 10 years? When it comes to company performance, this is the only thing that matters. Disney's forecasts and performance is based on the expense of making new content offset by the revenue from said content. Outside of royalties and I…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 01:30 PM
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LOOOOL Are we really doing this? No, people dont care about whatever disney put out 80 years ago. Disney's shareholders and Iger clearly dont care about it either, hence why reports are done for the last quarter and dont include IP made half a century ago. When Disney mentions its output, they mean their CURRENT output. But you know this too, you're stupidly trying to argue a point that makes no sense. No one bases their assessments of an organisations current health/viability on their legacy pr…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 01:17 PM
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Not really, a lot of people on here are pretty predictable. There is no narrative, there is only really data tbh. https://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/10.1111/jomf.13116 >But child free women also don’t get into higher levels of management, and that’s not a skill issue. Yeah its a choice issue, in more egalitarian societies, women choose more lower paid, "women centric" roles like nursing and teaching.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 01:12 PM
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AGAIN. This is what I mean about deliberate stupidity and intellectual dishonesty on here. Yeah, thats right, let me cite 30-80 year old animations when discussing Disney as if the vast majority of people complaining about Disney's output arent complaining about the stuff they see on Disney+, Star Wars and the MCU. Lets pretend as if people are talking about 1959's Sleeping Beauty or 1942s Bambi and not 2024 slop like The Acolyte, Fantastic Four and Ms Marvel. In fact the absolute flop which was…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 12:55 PM
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But the women arent likable either. This attitude is precisely it. Again, it would be like me claiming that men can now choose to date women who aren't overweight... "But y'all are mostly overweight though" Which then begs the question, what about the ones who arent. There is this pervading narrative that women are just all hard done by because every guy in this market is just...awful. But thats erroneous. In reality whats happening is mate assortment. The vast majority of viable men and women a…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 12:48 PM
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No actually, this is what I thought too. Hence in my previous comment, the decline in birthrates can no longer be attributed purely to women having less kids. Its because many arent forming the kind of relationships to have kids at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 12:12 PM
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I agreed with you up until this point. I actually feel there is an element of truth to what is being said. A lot of women these days do feel like they're settling, hence the falling partner rates among both genders.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 12:08 PM
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I mean this is what I mean by people spouting dishonest nonsense on here. The literal CEO if disney, just admitted this very fucking thing. https://www.nbcnews.com/business/business-news/bob-iger-interview-after-shareholder-battle-nelson-peltz-rcna146276 It does kinda blow my mind that people on here legit pretending as if the messaging people are complaining about isnt a thing when this conversation has moved beyond the pointless messageboards and is now being had by billionaire and market move…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 12:07 PM
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>I don’t see women making excuses for being single. There’s no female loneliness epidemic. Is there a male one? Because I can almost guarantee if I actually delved into your post history, I can find something where you argue with redpill types about how erroneous the stat on 60% of men being single under 30 is (and it is indeed erroneous). Again, what you've done is sat online arguing with incel losers and extrapolating that out for the wider male population. There isnt a male loniliness epidemi…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 11:40 AM
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>you mean like most men? Because most men aren’t particularly successful financially. But we all want to have jobs even if we aren’t surgeons I never said most men are successful, but you dont men claiming that their success is why they cant find partners. Its the opposite actually. >your sister is very abnormal, at least in the US. Most college educated - and yes dear that includes the doctors and lawyers and nurse practitioners and economists etc get married in their late 20s. It is - accordin…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 11:28 AM
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This is a perfect example of the utter delusional nonsense I am talking about. Spouted from what is most likely a weirdo without any actual real world accomplishments to speak of anyway. I've used the example a few times but my sister literally gave up having kids young to do so at 40 and through IVF, it was a painful, harrowing and expensive experience that she mentioned she wouldnt wish on anyone. Despite being a pretty damn good ophthalmologist shes made it abundantly clear none of that is as…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 11:21 AM
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LOL I literally just said my sister is a doctor, a field where half the graduates are women too. But the point still stands, there is a BIG line between graduating college and actually spending 10+ years building a career. And, even then, only 11% of physicians (women who have actually built up a career) report being single. And the men (who often work longer hours, earn more, and move up the career ladder faster) report a single rate of 5%...its even lower. So, again, whats the excuse. >Meanwhi…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 11:06 AM
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Women are busy building themselves. They're not though. This is what so many like to sell themselves. AT BEST they'll get a mediocre degree and work a mediocre job earning the square root of fuck all. My sister is a leading surgeon and she managed to get engaged when she was 21. And that goes for most women I know who are actually successful. I wouldn’t want to waste my time with a guy who wasn’t going to get a good job and learn how to save money. I wouldn’t waste my time with a guy who was bot…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 10:43 AM
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Yes and no. The is definitely a maturity crisis among young men. But I also know a contingent of pretty financially successful dudes who all have college educations. These dudes are by no means perfect, but they're decent catches too. We went out a couple months ago and I was kinda taken aback by the lack of attention they received. I got a little more but thats because I'm nearly 6ft5 and very muscular. I stand out in a crowd and it feel, unless you do that, women treat you like you're lesser. …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 10:35 AM
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I strongly suggest checking out both Patrick Boyle's analysis on this topic. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ispyUPqqL1c&pp=ygUYcGF0cmljayBib3lsZSBiaXJ0aHJhdGVz0gcJCbIJAYcqIYzv Its almost entirely from the perspective of some who spends his time doing economic and (pretty unbiased) political analysis. Even then, he still reaches the conclusion that a lack of relationships is the likely real reason why birthrates are collapsing world wide. Like it or not, it appears redpillers/incel/manosphere ty…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 10:28 AM
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I think you're right too. Womens standards arent that high because they settle, the onus is on men to level up themselves to avoid dealing with women who feel like they're settling by being with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 05:23 PM
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Hmmm, but what about ONS. Are all those guys only 6ft too?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 05:21 PM
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Weighted resistance training is the most efficient way of putting on muscle mass. This is not really up for debate. God, what is it with Reddit and trying to debate whether the sky is blue
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 05:08 PM
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Whilst you comment (and the one you replied to) are correct, they're also kind of missing the point. You indeed miss the shots you dont take and thats the issue, most of these people arent taking any shots. Gen Zers really arent going outside like that. I pass my city's "downtown" and its empty most days.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 05:06 PM
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