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Most straight guys admit they mostly want to pursue female friends sexually. A good indicator is “are these female friends attractive? Why doesn’t he have any unattractive female friends?” A man can decide how serious about a woman pretty quick. My husband and I only had four dates before we got married. I don’t recommend anyone getting married that quick. But four dates is enough for a guy to know whether he’s prepared to do what it takes to get married to you
/r/RedPillWomen29/11/25 11:27 AM
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You don’t need to think it’s crazy or controlling. You just state your expectations to be with you. You’re not trying to control what he does. You say “this is what is a dealbreaker for me.” If a man is trying to negotiate your boundaries before even commitment, that’s a major red flag. There are plenty of fish in the sea if that is an issue for him. I told all my potentials my expectations of no female friends straight away and none had an issue with it. Of course, some guys will just say what …
/r/RedPillWomen29/11/25 10:03 AM
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Call me old-fashioned but I don’t think anyone needs to have friends of the opposite gender once you’re engaged (I don’t believe in having a gf/bf). The only situation I think it’s okay for opposite genders to hangout is if you’re couples hanging out. Like my husband’s best friend has been with his wife for like 10 years and my husband and I hang out with them. I make it clear to my potentials that I won’t have male friends and I expect them not to have female friends. If they aren’t cool with t…
/r/RedPillWomen29/11/25 09:48 AM
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Why do you need to put him in your TikTok? He’s older than me and I know this older generation doesn’t like putting everything online. Just do it by yourself if he doesn’t like it. As for stop nagging, you are like 20. I was a mess when I was your age. It will come with maturity. But this is why you need a stable partner who will help you mature (or stay single and work on yourself).
/r/RedPillWomen15/11/25 10:55 AM
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Sounds great. Keep it up 😊
/r/RedPillWomen30/09/25 11:42 PM
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Yeah that’s good then. It’s better to put the energy into other things if you can. But for me personally, I had trouble doing that. Even though I had heaps of interests and goals, I was very male-centred so the only thing that worked for me was looking for a husband. I didn’t have much family or friends (not by choice, I just had a really messed up childhood) either so my main support system has always been romantic interests. That was a different life stage for me. I don’t think being male-cent…
/r/RedPillWomen30/09/25 11:28 PM
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It’s not about being genuinely interested. It’s just about keeping your energy from being too focussed on one person who hasn’t even committed yet. It’s just about protecting your energy. The guy you’re talking to sounds more on the avoidant side so giving him too much energy will not go well.
/r/RedPillWomen30/09/25 11:00 PM
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It kinda sounds like you’re chasing him. I know it can be difficult to rein it in when you really like a guy. I would suggest talking to some other guys so all your energy is not on him. There’s nothing wrong with that until you’re exclusive/engaged in my opinion (I don’t believe in exclusive dating but maybe you do and that’s okay). My thought is, if a guy wants you exclusively then he needs to commit otherwise keep your options wide open
/r/RedPillWomen30/09/25 09:48 PM
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Religious beliefs is a big thing to disagree on. Particularly when you have children. I am a big believer in choosing someone with the same religious beliefs. Period. That was one of my first requirements when looking for marriage. Even if you marry someone with those differences, it comes out in the end. Even if years down the road. Why don’t you try to find a guy from your church?
/r/RedPillWomen30/09/25 10:17 AM
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I am not sure what you mean he is setting boundaries? All I can suggest is try to remember your black cat 🐈‍⬛ energy. You need to make them work for it. I know it can feel kinda weird like, if you both like each other why do you have to pretend you don’t want him? Also why can’t we just be selfless and loving creatures and men just appreciate it? Also what if he doesn’t chase you? (He might not chase you but that just means he was never meant for you). Well some men might appreciate a selfless w…
/r/RedPillWomen30/09/25 01:20 AM
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I did not think red pill is about women being housewives and not having careers or education at all. I think there are many ways to do things. For example, I am working for now but my husband and I don’t do 50/50. I know if I really don’t want to work anymore, I can stop. I eventually am aiming for a less traditional career (not a 9 to 5) I think the whole idea of having a traditional provider man is that he is not relying on you to work. You can still have a career and goals outside of the home…
/r/RedPillWomen18/09/25 01:09 AM
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I did and most of your post is him basically saying you’re not good enough for him because of your past and he won’t even commit to a monogamous relationship. For any high value woman that would be a instant nope. It seems the only thing you’re getting out of it is money and if that’s the case, take what you can, invest it and make yourself available for a man who values you.
/r/RedPillWomen29/08/25 01:34 PM
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Assuming this is real, you haven’t really mentioned anything he brings to the table except money. He has literally told you he values you much less because you’re not a virgin and you made videos with your ex. He considers you beneath him and he has made it clear he would drop you like a sack of doo doo. That being said, this relationship would not be for me and at the most I would use him for his money but I wouldn’t be able to put out for a guy I know is not my forever partner so if I had to p…
/r/RedPillWomen29/08/25 09:06 AM
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I think he met a woman on the trip or an old flame came back in the picture. That’s the only reason a guy would go suddenly quiet after actually meeting you. Just move on.
/r/RedPillWomen26/08/25 10:37 AM
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As a woman married to a man who earns double what I earn who has a personality disorder. I would much rather be with a man who earns half as much as he didn’t have a personality disorder. I am sorry if I sound invalidation but that’s just my perspective
/r/RedPillWomen18/07/25 02:38 AM
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As a woman married to a man with severe psychological issues and absolutely zero self awareness about it (probably some kind of personality disorder or on the spectrum), I would love to just be with a man who can actually connect emotionally, not be a manipulative/emotionally abusive turd/not be on a constant power trip. I would love a man who actually felt comfortable with me. My husband seems constantly on edge and constantly sabotaging our relationship. If a guy can actually have good passion…
/r/RedPillWomen04/07/25 12:28 PM
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