ConsultingGal Archive

Upvotes	Title	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
6	Where does the Red Pill draw the line between 'femininity' and letting a man take advantage?	ConsultingGal	/r/askTRP	14/08/16 12:46 AM
2	Do you agree with my 'how much she makes actually matters' theory.	ConsultingGal	/r/askTRP	21/08/16 12:53 AM
0	Men don't like girls who ride the CC, but how do they feel about the DILDO carousel instead?	ConsultingGal	/r/askTRP	15/08/16 10:15 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Why are we so obsessed with the feminine? Gg	/r/askTRP	21/08/16 01:28 PM
1	Do you agree with my 'how much she makes actually matters' theory. Yeah, absolutely, I agree with the biological bit. But biology does not include other factors of importance in a LTR, such as status (you do not want to introduce a bimbo to your parents, however stunning), and also finances, as you mentioned. So my point was mainly that a woman's career is downplayed a touch too much around here when speaking of LTRs. It's not the first thing a man will look at, but an educated rational man who minds his finances will factor that in, I think.	/r/askTRP	21/08/16 01:23 AM
1	The Sexodus in action: millennials are having less sex. This is quite an interesting analysis and differs a lot from another one I have read in the Manosphere. The other theory was that in general women are attracted only to the top 20% of men. This means that in a free society in which they are not forced to marry, they won't even consider the rest. I must say your analysis makes more sense, because this one I heard of kind of takes the concept of hypergamy so much to the extreme that it is hard to take it seriously if you just have a look around an…	/r/TheRedPill	17/08/16 12:37 AM
1	Men don't like girls who ride the CC, but how do they feel about the DILDO carousel instead? This one made me laugh out loud LOOL. Good to know the bf with batteries is acceptable.	/r/askTRP	16/08/16 04:20 PM
1	Girls who have never had an orgasm Absolute nonsense, a lie brought to men by porn and companies wanting to sell them penis enlargements plus a lingering superstition that women only want a huge horse penis. Size matters because the bigger you are, the more you stimulate the G spot. It feels great, no doubt about that, but it does not give her an orgasm because that is not how female anatomy works. The G spot is fundamentally the back of the clitoris. It feels great to have it stimulated by a good size, but it is nothing compared…	/r/askTRP	16/08/16 03:27 PM
1	How can a guy tell when a girl is romanticly interested vs when a girl wants to have a purely sexual relationship? Okay, that's a good way in between then. Just, remember that the girl is going to want 'the talk' soon because she does not exactly enjoy this part in which you are 'friends' and yet you are sleeping together. So if you want to keep her, saying 'I don't know, let's see how things go, I want a more solid friendship with you first' will have you dumped. Fast. Unless she is a doormat. And you don't want one of those. They get clingy.	/r/askTRP	16/08/16 02:17 PM
1	Girls who have never had an orgasm Yes. Yes, that is true. Don't do that all the time, girls like penetration. But take it from me, the best thing you can do is stimulate the clit during penetration. Because women like penetration more than cunnilingus, but the problem is that men are just not taught to stimulate the clit at the same time, so the only way in which she can come is through cunnilingus, when men finally go there. But they don't want that, they like rough penetration (never believe the gentle sensual nonsense, if a g…	/r/askTRP	16/08/16 02:13 PM
1	Girls who have never had an orgasm Any guy can do that? Are you kidding me? Most men are porn-brainwashed into going for the G spot over and over again and completely ignore the clit.	/r/askTRP	16/08/16 01:52 PM
1	Girls who have never had an orgasm No, domination is important because women do not like a wimp. So the clit is what you stimulate to get the physical reaction. Domination is what you do to put her in the right state of mind. Together, these two things make an orgasm.	/r/askTRP	16/08/16 01:29 PM
1	Girls who have never had an orgasm Yes, true, but remember that she cannot orgasm just by stimulating the G spot. What happens is that she squirts (meaning she pees). Many girls hold back, are embarrassed, and in any case it takes more than half an hour to even get there. The dominating attitude is essential, but go for the clit. Always the clit. She can come in less than three minutes that way.	/r/askTRP	16/08/16 12:56 PM
3	How can a guy tell when a girl is romanticly interested vs when a girl wants to have a purely sexual relationship? 'Nothing before marriage' is not LTR in this century because you want to buy before you try. Imagine being married to someone whom you do not know whether you have any sexual chemistry with! You need to find a good way in between, but what I am saying is that a self-respecting woman would not put out for long if you don't show her commitment. Someone who is 'just friends' with you and you have been sleeping together for a bit but it is all very casual to the point that she has to ask 'what are w…	/r/askTRP	16/08/16 12:41 PM
3	Girls who have never had an orgasm Just 'thinking about yourself' is not going to motivate her to put out often or to prevent dead bedroom syndrome. You need to think about that. Go ahead and just think about yourself if you like, but be aware of the consequences. Very true that some girls are not used to the sensation, but remember that it could be because you are hurting her by massaging the clit too hard. Try oral! But keep your mouth on the clit. That's where the orgasm comes from. Porn does a terrible disservice to men becau…	/r/askTRP	16/08/16 12:31 PM
5	Girls who have never had an orgasm 99% of the time this is because porn and films tell women they should orgasm from penetration alone, and most simply cannot. If you want to make any woman on the planet come in less than five minutes, put your fingers on her clit, press, and rub it. Not too hard or it will hurt, be gentle. And you keep doing it all the way until she comes. The clitoris, remember, is a little penis. It goes into erection, too. Forget about fingering and focus on that.	/r/askTRP	16/08/16 06:30 AM
-4	How can a guy tell when a girl is romanticly interested vs when a girl wants to have a purely sexual relationship? By the way, if she does the above she is no LTR material. No self-respecting woman would have sex with you before even knowing 'what you are' and without even knowing if you are exclusive. If she sells herself so cheaply, move on.	/r/askTRP	16/08/16 06:20 AM
1	Men don't like girls who ride the CC, but how do they feel about the DILDO carousel instead? Yes, definitely, waiting is better. That was my gut feeling too. Good that it was confirmed. Cheers!	/r/askTRP	16/08/16 05:29 AM
1	Men don't like girls who ride the CC, but how do they feel about the DILDO carousel instead? Just a tiny note on your vision on hypergamy though, this might help you in the future: cock size is not the one primary feature guiding hypergamous selection processes. I'm not selling you bluepill fluff, truly. Size matters. But it matters the most to women riding the CC. NOT to LTR types. This is a distortion I see all over the Manosphere. I see men obsessing over their Maxilla, their dick size, cherry-picking random traits that are part of a woman's hypergamous selection yet NEVER stepping b…	/r/askTRP	16/08/16 04:28 AM
0	Men don't like girls who ride the CC, but how do they feel about the DILDO carousel instead? And a proud one at that xxx	/r/askTRP	16/08/16 04:17 AM
-3	Men don't like girls who ride the CC, but how do they feel about the DILDO carousel instead? Most guys here were polite and informative. This one started spouting paragraph after sneering paragraph about weird stuff and calling me 'sweetie'. I have enormous respect for people who take the most valuable thing they have - their time - and choose to use it to help strangers online they don't even know. However, if I sense a challenging, slightly insulting or patronising tone, I won't take it lying down. I am an adult, not a doormat. There is a difference between being polite (and I have be…	/r/askTRP	16/08/16 12:50 AM
-1	Men don't like girls who ride the CC, but how do they feel about the DILDO carousel instead? Ohh okay, so the dildo size is about not getting desensitised to the point that you are not satisfied with 'normal' sex. Okay, now I get it. I was confused about that part! Great post, thanks xx	/r/askTRP	16/08/16 12:10 AM
1	Men don't like girls who ride the CC, but how do they feel about the DILDO carousel instead? Yes, many here were great at pointing that out. So I have given thanks to all xxx.	/r/askTRP	16/08/16 12:03 AM
-1	Men don't like girls who ride the CC, but how do they feel about the DILDO carousel instead? Hey everyone, thanks a lot for the replies. I haven't replied to you all individually, but I have read everything and it's great to see so many of you with a good attitude towards this. Definitely better to be honest and not hide masturbation from a LTR (with whom there should be honesty and trust anyway). Thanks for your help xxxx	/r/askTRP	15/08/16 11:52 PM
-1	Men don't like girls who ride the CC, but how do they feel about the DILDO carousel instead? I think he would be more likely to jerk off. That's what porn (and erotica) is for. Seriously, thanks a lot for these posts because now I am becoming convinced that actually mentioning that you masturbate is a great way to weed out losers with a paper ego. P. S. You have no idea what you are missing out on by not dating girls who masturbate. Those who don't know their bodies won't know how to orgasm and so they will just have sex to benefit you because there is no satisfaction in it for her. Thi…	/r/askTRP	15/08/16 11:43 PM
-2	Men don't like girls who ride the CC, but how do they feel about the DILDO carousel instead? I frankly have problems following YOUR logic. All women are hypergamous, but how exactly does liking Fifty Shades make you think she's more likely to cheat? Do you think Christian Grey is going to pop at her door and she will run away with him? Are you really that insecure? Reality check: Christian Grey is a fictional character. If a woman can't come with a single toy, by the way, she must have some sexual dysfunction because last time I checked female anatomy, we have one G spot and one clit. H…	/r/askTRP	15/08/16 11:24 PM
1	Men don't like girls who ride the CC, but how do they feel about the DILDO carousel instead? Ohhh, okay, so basically the problem there might be is a sense of insecurity in your partner because he thinks perhaps you are expecting sex to be super perfect like in fiction? I never thought about it like that, because honestly I think if a girl is more comfortable with her body, sex gets much better. It means he will not have to work so hard and just magically know how to give her an orgasm because she will know how to have one if she knows her body, and can also direct his touch etc. and in…	/r/askTRP	15/08/16 10:33 PM
1	Has anyone studied women with excellent Father figures/Male role models? Both girls and boys with a good father figure do better. Boys raised without a proper male figure have huge issues too. Another factor to consider is the general environment a child is raised in. Why hasn't a child got a father figure? Was he raised by a single mother? What kind? J. K. Rowling was a single mother because her husband beat her, so she took her daughter and left him. She did a very good job with her daughter, seeing as it is known she went on to become a scientist. But what about t…	/r/askTRP	14/08/16 08:59 PM
1	Have any of you men met women seriously into personal development/self improvement? I can tell you that I as a nearly 24 year old woman do try to improve myself, but the thing is that women are expected to work at different things. For instance, your goal as a man is to have a well-paying career. A woman perhaps (unless it is her personal goal) does not need to be as well paid, but she needs to appear independent and in control of her life, yet at the same time not so much that her man feels unwanted because she has too much going on. A good line is: 'men love independent women…	/r/askTRP	14/08/16 04:49 PM
2	Where does the Red Pill draw the line between 'femininity' and letting a man take advantage? I am not looking for perfection because I am not perfect either. I am fit and take care of myself, but I am not a super flawless beauty. I have a weak chin, for instance. Can't do anything about that. I do want to work on myself to provide all those things you describe, but it is not easy to pitch it right, if you see what I mean. I have to be caring, but not clingy because that obviously is a huge turn off and a sign of instability. I have to obviously be independent so that I am not clingy, bu…	/r/askTRP	14/08/16 04:29 PM
2	Where does the Red Pill draw the line between 'femininity' and letting a man take advantage? The best way I can explain this from a female perspective is that a woman, especially a modern one with a career, an education etc., wants to be recognised in her full competence as a first mate. She wants to feel like the Captain's top lieutenant. If you were first mate on a ship, would you like it, would it make you feel validated to think your Captain thinks you are a helpless little wimp and is put off when you try to show off your full strength and potential? And why doesn't the Captain und…	/r/askTRP	14/08/16 04:02 PM
1	Where does the Red Pill draw the line between 'femininity' and letting a man take advantage? Thanks a lot for all your help and replies xx	/r/askTRP	14/08/16 04:30 AM
1	Where does the Red Pill draw the line between 'femininity' and letting a man take advantage? Okay, but then imagine I go to three dates with someone and we need to have sex. I don't want to, of course. We are still half-strangers and I would have to pretend to know what's up with penetration because as you pointed out I am a Limbo Middle-Virgin who's had fingering but not intercourse. Who hasn't got a hymen yet has not the benefit of being experienced with penetration that comes with that. And explaining that I got to this state at almost 24 because my ex was ok with extreme BDSM but no…	/r/askTRP	14/08/16 04:17 AM
0	Where does the Red Pill draw the line between 'femininity' and letting a man take advantage? You mean making him feel in control in bed? Or in life in general? The discussion we were having above was about this. About how it's not that simple to be yourself and at the same time make a man feel in complete control. To make him feel in complete control at times would mean faking, pretending to be less than you are. That's not going to work because I don't want to lie and it'll damage us both. Alright, because this is a redpill forum, I think it is fair to point out that what you say is go…	/r/askTRP	14/08/16 03:44 AM
1	Where does the Red Pill draw the line between 'femininity' and letting a man take advantage? I live in Edinburgh, which does not make dating very easy if you do not drink because of the pub culture and the Scot are hesitant to approach you for pure, simple cultural reasons. But yes, those are my problems to work around and I want to do my best.	/r/askTRP	14/08/16 03:23 AM
1	Where does the Red Pill draw the line between 'femininity' and letting a man take advantage? I think the problem here is that different men have different ideas on what a 'first mate' should be like. And of what their role as a Captain is, too. My ex (again, not representative of the whole male population) would get super defensive if he suggested a book to me, and I read it and I told him I did not like it and why. He said I was 'throwing away his suggestion and being dismissive of him'. That's the kind of psychological masturbatory hamster which drives me crazy, because it's not as th…	/r/askTRP	14/08/16 02:56 AM
1	Where does the Red Pill draw the line between 'femininity' and letting a man take advantage? Although it makes sense to ask a fisherwoman how to catch a fish rather than a fish itself, you should first see whether you are into fish at all, see what I mean? That's why I asked you. I won't lie, I am genuinely uncomfortable with this 'submission' thing. I am not going to judge men for their natural sexuality, but it is not pleasant to think that the man I respect dreams of fucking me in the most humiliating ways and is even turned off by me actually being full, adult me and he wants me to …	/r/askTRP	14/08/16 01:58 AM