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I'd like to see a cite on this if you have one.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 07:16 PM
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Its usually pretty obvious from the getgo.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 03:28 AM
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Why do women hold serial monogamy as the paramount way to date and have sex? Because we like to actually like the people we have sex with. It is just hoeing around on a longer timeline with no end goal for the future. Gross. And we don't plan on serial monogamy. We hope to find someone to go the distance. Sometimes it works, sometimes not.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 12:06 AM
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I guess we need to discuss what "high n-count" is. I don't expect men to be monks. On the other hand, if he is going out and picking up a new woman every week, he is not in a category in which I am interested. I completely get that many men are more comfortable with casual sex than many women. But if sleeping around is a major preoccupation of his life, well fine, but that's not for me. |Also as many women, you are missing the important point that a high n-count |men on average has many good qua…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 11:58 PM
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Well, you are changing your definition as you go. You said that if a man was attractive, then women would like him even if he had a high N-count. I'm saying a high n-count is unattractive. You can't have it both ways. I get to say what I find attractive. A high N count means a lack of maturity and depth to me. That doesn't mean jerk. It is just something many women don't want.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 11:18 PM
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Besides If a man that attractive asked you out. You wouldn’t say no. The last thing on your mind would be his body count Sorry, but this is not true for me *at all*. But I am probably a bit older than you. If a man is attractive, it might draw my attention and appreciation. But any average looking guy, if he is clever, charming, and confident, *becomes* attractive. And any handsome guy, if he is arrogant, full of himself, or is known to have a high n-number, well, that is pretty much an instant …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 04:16 AM
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I find it a bit sad because I know of men who used to have lives like that, and as they have gotten a little older, they see that as a very shallow, artificial sort of life, where you don't have a real relationships with anyone. I'm not saying that young men shouldn't ever enjoy some fun. They should. But feeling superior because they have a high n count is not impressive to most women. It might be impressive to shallow, immature women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 04:01 AM
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Let's get back to the main point you made. |So basically you want an attractive man who hasn’t used his attractiveness to |gets sex despite having a high sex drive Again, women want men who have had sex with *a few women*. Men who are intelligent and mature enough to engage in actual relationships. If men have slept around a lot, then they clearly aren't interested in relationships. I'm sure there are some women who like high n-count men. But I think they are probably rather immature and shallow…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 03:50 AM
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I didn't say they were disgusting. I just find it rather sad. If it is in their past, it wouldn't bother me. I don't find it admirable though. I respect men who feel the same way I just described about women's n-count.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 03:10 AM
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There are so many holes in this logic, i don't know where to start. No one said anything about attractiveness. If one just wants to get laid, it is usually possible. Attractive people with attractive people, less attractive people with less attractive people. And women do want men who has used his attractiveness to get sex. Sex with a few women. It is called serial monogamy. I'll wait while you look it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 03:02 AM
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Bwahahahahahaha!!! You keep telling yourself that!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 02:49 AM
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Yes, but what are *you* going to do? Just keep complaining on Reddit? I am not trying to pick on you, just asking. For example, I know there are a lot of men who aren't great, a la Harvey Weinstein, Bill Cosby. But that doesn't stop me from wanting to find a good one. As I said, I am a researcher. I am new to this "pill" idea, and trying to figure out where this "movement" is going, if anywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 10:53 PM
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Kudos to you for being mature and open enough to see and work on this. And to help a kid.
/r/ExRedPill25/01/22 01:54 AM
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Yes, she did give consideration to sample bias *in the strip club*. That's why she is taking a survey here on purple pill, *not a strip club*. Just saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 01:07 AM
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We can say "this is popular" or "that is popular" indefinitely. Let us say you are right. All women are as you described. Now what? What are you saying men/women/anyone should do? What will you do? Never date? Just hang out with guys and complain how messed up women are? I guess don't understand the point of these arguments in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 12:52 AM
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Back when Germaine Greer was writing, marriage roles were still much more traditional, and many women, were saying, hey, we are getting a raw deal here. In many cases women were expected to do all of the not-so-fun work, i.e. laundry, cooking from scratch, cleaning. And because women were often dependent on men financially, if the guy turned out to be bad news, an abuser, alcoholic, etc., it was incredibly difficult to leave. Germaine Greer was not/is not representative of all feminists, not by …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 06:29 PM
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Regarding the Atlantic article, you said, "Martin argues that if you want a happy marriage, women should be given a free pass." But she actually said: "...we should acknowledge...that they could benefit from a gray-zone hall pass, too." What she is proposing is on an equal basis. You were concerned: This leads me to think that feminist do this for bargaining, to...maximise their sexual strategy and, frankly, hedonism, so that the primary role of married men is to look after their children. Now, …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 01:08 AM
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I am not trying to pick a fight here. I was just asking a question about what people thought modern women were looking for, because it seems nothing like when I was beginning my career. You made a fair point about age in general. However, if you are going to compare men to women, you don't compare those who are married to each other, but men at a certain age, and women at the same age. And, the age at which a woman can have a child continues to increase, there is in-vitro fertilization, and ther…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 11:20 PM
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Right...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 01:25 AM
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The poll was not just 45 year old women. We can call it even if you wish.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 11:26 PM
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No. Are you? You apparently do not understand how statistics work?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 04:23 AM
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That's fine. I still don't know any women who sit around socializing and going to yoga class. It's nice that you do. And the earnings argument is most certainly not entirely debunked. That is one POV though. No respectable woman I know turns 18 and says, wow, I'll go out and get a man so I can sit on my ass! Perhaps you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 04:20 AM
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|You can protest all you want and say that women aren't looking for providers |and yet the majority of women marry men who make more money than |them. When men and women marry, men tend to be slightly older. Also, men are paid more for the same work. So statistically, that argument doesn't hold IMO. I certainly agree that women want a man who can be at minimum a full partner economically. On the other hand, I don't think *anyone* wants someone who isn't capable of doing their part in whatever wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 12:02 AM
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You make a lot of big statements, and use a lot of internet lingo. Do you have research to back this? Or is this your personal experience on Reddit? Also, someone said you are Russian. Is this for Russia you are talking about, or do you have some kind of global data, or other particular countries? There are a lot of women in college here in the US. Are you telling me none of them aspire to any kind of career? >Or is this part of the sexist backlash where some men accuse women of every >evil char…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 04:19 AM
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Given it is common for older men to marry somewhat younger women, that point does not invalidate the poll. I am a researcher, and what people often think is "the majority" or "common sense" doesn't always hold. There are so many comments about what "men" do, or what "women" do. But in reality, there are great men and great women, and crappy men and crappy women and everything in-between. And unfortunately, a lot of men are saying, oh, well women do X! Which is usually completely untrue. *Some* w…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 12:50 AM
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I resent you saying "you're lying"; you are missing the point. I'm not dissing on women who choose to stay home and raise children. Not at all. Raising kids *is* labor, and I believe the person who cares for the kids is doing their half. But there seems to be a lot of discussion around the boards complaining about women who get to "sit around all day and have men support them." And I am wondering, is this the case? *Are* the there a lot of spoiled, entitled women sitting around pools sipping dri…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 12:28 AM
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Cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 12:07 AM
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Actually that makes some sense. But I don't hold her personally accountable for the condition of her country.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 11:52 PM
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Well here's the thing. For me, and the men I sleep with, intellectual conversation is the best foreplay in the world. But, you are right. Trying to discuss something with someone who refers to aspects of a relationship as an "upgrade" isn't worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 11:41 PM
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Not sure what you are saying about marriage per se, but, at least back in 2011 and 2013, more men wanted kids than women. https://www.thecut.com/2015/03/when-men-want-kids-and-women-arent-so-sure.html
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 11:11 PM
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I keep hearing about this "providing for women" argument. Funny, because I am 54, and none of the women of my acquaintance have, nor have ever had, any interest in having men "provide" for them. So, have we regressed 30 years? Or is this just sexist backlash male fears? Or is your experience entirely different than mine?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 10:53 PM
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Are you kidding? How old are you? Did it ever occur to you that it is just *possible* that the guy could be immature/not interested in commitment, etc? And that she may be getting out shortly because she doesn't want that type? I'm not saying that all women are perfectly fabulous. They're not. But all men certainly aren't either.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 10:44 PM
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