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As long as you are not black pill, you'll be fine. I'm more of a red pill man myself. I used to be more blue pilled before these terms were even a thing but I could never seem to attract the people I was into, those that were in to me were never my type. I think it's about being who you are as well as being the person your desired partner is looking for. But you have to be genuine. Purple pill is maybe a bit more balanced, selecting ideas from both red and blue pills communities to shape your wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 07:51 PM
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Absolutely not in my case. If I were to discribe what I don't want in a woman, I would be discribing my narcissistic mother. Both physically and personality wise.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 06:28 PM
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It gives me hope that there are still more modarate people in this polarized internet world that can have a debate and healthy discussion (mostly) in peace with people who have opposing views and maybe tone down a bit on more their extreme views and thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 06:20 PM
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the one to set appointments, do paperwork, keep schedules Wait, what? In my relationship as well as in my parents relationship, it's more like the opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 06:05 PM
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Bald might be fixable with the right products No, it's mostly just snake oil. Most baldness is mainly genetic and even if you can slightly reduce going bald by supplements, you will be bald faster than you think. Hair transplant is probably the best option but you'll never have full thick hair like most attractive men do. Short can be fixed by dating shorter than yourself. You'd still be extremely limited and have a lot of competition. I'm 5'6, last time I was rejected was by a women who was 5'5…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 05:05 PM
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I wonder if it's race, or height.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 06:40 AM
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Look into keto/low carb diet and intermittent fasting. Those last pounds will be hard. I've been there before. Got a bit off track with covid19 and became fat again in the past 2 years but I'm 15kg (30lbs) down again. Losing weight is "easy". It's just a matter of calories consumed vs calories used. The big gains (losses in weight) is achieved with reduced calorie intake. "You can't outrun a bad diet." The math is simple but dieting is all about hunger management IMO. For me the low carb/keto (v…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 06:25 PM
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It isn't okay nor it's a normal behavior. It's indeed not okay and shouldn't be normal. But unfortunately I can relate too much to stories like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 05:54 PM
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My direct personal experience is the opposite. My dad's mother died at a very young age, he only had brothers and my grandfather never remarried. It were only boys/men doing the household work. My mother was a "stay at home mom" but lazy AF and a hoarder. My dad who worked a fulltime job AND a part time job as well, did about the same amount of household work as my mother. Now my girlfriend isn't exactly a net possitive contribution to the household work either...
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 12:21 PM
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Are you a guy and if so, how tall are you? And what's the main difference between the two versions of profiles?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 06:38 PM
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I'd prefer to date introverts, being an introvert myself extroverts can be... exhausting. Problem is that in-person places to meet people, such as bars, tend to attract mainly more extroverted people making it very hard. But I'd highly prefer meeting in person over chatting and other digital ways of communication.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 04:57 PM
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3 months to get 25 conversations that will lead to only 1 actual date. Sounds about accurate.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 04:51 PM
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How long does it even take to get 25 matches on a dating site?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 04:39 PM
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Pills are not the answer to mental issues such as loneliness, you should look up some documentaries about antidepressants. Less than half of the people taking them benefit from it, for some it's neutral and for others it makes things even worse. Porn or prostitution will never replace the need for love, for emotional connection, for feeling wanted and desired. I had a dead bedroom relationship for many years, I must admit porn made the relationship last longer but it could not fill the void for …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 12:35 PM
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As someone who doesn't want kids, I surely don't want to be involved in raising someone else their kids. In the beginning they might say you don't have to get involved, but it will always turn into that. As a grown up, just being in the same house as your partners kid, you ARE involved. You are a responsible adult. You can't just always say "ask your mom" when a kid asks something. You have to be a resposible adult example. And before you know it you have to watch the kid from time to time becau…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 12:16 PM
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In my late teens, early twenties I was in healthy shape and young. I partied a lot in those years and this was before online dating and Tinder were really a thing and messed up womens expectations because they now have so many choices. Still, would have taken a 100 women before finding someone that was slighly sexual interested. 9/10 that I approached or wanted to, would have rejected me just by their eyes or a word or 2. Those 10/100 flirts rarely lead to anything and those that did end up in k…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 05:43 PM
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I'm not, I was in decent shape for a while (not fitness boy, but long distance runner type). At my best I had a 15% body fat percentage. I worked my ass off in the hopes to fix my dead bedroom (with my partner). Getting in shape didn't fix anything and I got demotivated. Now I'm fat... but on the right track again, halfway my weight goal.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 05:35 PM
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And the higher suicide rate with men are those dying of thirst looking for clean water in the desert.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 04:13 PM
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Yes, in total you'll have a higher success rate if you include that age group as well just because it makes your target group bigger. However, my experience with single women in their mid 30s to mid 40s is that they are extremely picky. They were already picky in their 20s, is a common reason for not having settled yet. Many have "hit the wall" without realizing it and they think they are as attractive as their 25 year old selves. They have dated the tall guy, they have dated the rich guy, they …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 05:19 PM
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Fertility declines rapidly in your thirties. Personally I don't want kids, but if I would be open for kids then I first would want to be in a committed relationship for several years before I can be sure enough I want kids with a certain person. So being in your thirties would be a big dissadvantage (for someone that wants kids). I'm early thirties myself and I'd probably date up to mid thirties IF they also don't want kids. ​ if so, is there anything I can do to improve my odds of success? You …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 06:30 PM
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If you are out of shape, you should focus on that first. I've been obese... twice... aesthetics are always my main motivator to start doing something about it but once you get in shape you realize that's probably the least important benefit of being fit. You will have A LOT more energy, both physically and mentally when you are fit. Brain-gut connection and all that. Getting in shape will help improve all your other areas in life. That's why it should be #1 priority. Some things that really help…
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/22 05:52 PM
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