ControlTraditional48 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Stress is getting to my SO - then a tree fell on the house last night…		ControlTraditional48	/r/Divorce_Men	08/08/23 02:46 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
5	Wife says she wants a divorce because I sound like Donald Trump Agreed on the assessment that you both need to work on concise communication. As well as listening to each other. However, clearly your opinions struck a cord with her and yes this is probably the proverbial last straw. Try listening and hearing each other instead entrenching yourself further in your perspective. But frankly she is entitled to not want to be married to someone if she feels there is a fundamental difference to. And respectfully I think you are way off on that whole Taylor Swift a…	/r/Divorce_Men	01/02/24 12:55 PM
4	The r/ask post about "why so many dads abandon their kids" is outright nonsense I’m so sorry you are going through all this.	/r/Divorce_Men	16/09/23 03:37 AM
6	I felt guilty thinking about leaving her but then Agreed lawyer yo first!	/r/Divorce_Men	13/09/23 10:35 PM
3	Dealing with a vindictive ex Your kids are smart and perceptive. Give them a chance to see that whole picture. Maybe not today but I promise they will see all the effort and hold it in their hearts. (As a child of divorce myself) it’s hard but keep the line of being the best dad you can be and fuck her projections. Those are her projections, her feelings. Feelings are not the same as facts. Remember that. She is having emotional responses. That doesn’t make you and your parenting style the enemy.	/r/Divorce_Men	11/09/23 07:35 PM
3	Dealing with a vindictive ex My bf’s ex is the same. Just keep your comms to the kids and let the rest go. People like that expose their own toxic traits. Be the best dad you can be!	/r/Divorce_Men	11/09/23 04:57 PM
2	This isn't about you being right. A message to those in the early stages and a reminder to the grizzled vets. Thanks for sharing! Trying to remind my SO of that everyday.	/r/Divorce_Men	09/08/23 03:36 PM
1	Stress is getting to my SO - then a tree fell on the house last night… Thank you! That is super helpful and something to point out during this time.	/r/Divorce_Men	08/08/23 05:53 PM
3	Boyfriend is getting chewed up and spit back out by ex-wife in court I don’t know because I am on the earlier side of a very similar situation and I’m so worried for my BF. But you aren’t alone! Praying someone has legit advice!	/r/Divorce_Men	06/08/23 08:47 PM