Controlforever Archive

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2	Some people say that you attract more girls when you're not actively trying to get them, has anyone else never experienced this? Okay how do I explain this correctly. First - Chasing one woman to the exclusion of all others will never work out, she will taste that desperation on the air and want nothing to do with you. Second - While not actively looking for women can work that can't mean sitting in your house playing COD and drinking mountain dew because I can tell you it's unlikely a girl will knock on your basement door asking for a date. You have to still put yourself out there in the world go out go to social events …	/r/seduction	02/03/21 04:45 AM
3	Anyone else have trouble getting back into this subreddit after success? I enjoy this sub because I get to give back to the community. When I was a sophomore in college I broke up with my GF and went on a summer of learning game and seduction and just everything. Now 4 years later I'm successful piled up a bunch of lays had some amazing relationships and I just want to be able to be there for people who were in my same situation looking to improve their lives and gain skills and confidence. So I'm on here pretty often trying to help people out. Plus I'm always learni…	/r/seduction	02/03/21 04:38 AM
2	How to approach this girl in my class? So obviously step one is to catch her before she vaporizes. I suggest making sure you're packed up too and if possible be close to the exit as well. Then catch up to her, now with these sorts of interactions the perfect line is less important than the actual act of opening her. So I wouldn't stress quite so much about exactly what to say. Just get in front of her or at least to the side and just say hello, you can ask about her tattoos, make a comment about something that happened in class, joke…	/r/seduction	02/03/21 04:32 AM
2	Probably in need of a lot of help To start I think the most important step of any sort of self improvement is to admit that you need to work on stuff so Congrats on taking that step! Next up when talking to some of my friends who suffered from a fear of approaching women I always stand by one thing, which is don't start with that. If you send a guy into the fire and he gets burnt to a crisp that doesn't help him at all. You should start by just getting used to activating those social skill muscles that you haven't used for a whi…	/r/seduction	08/02/21 07:29 PM
4	What means to have a good social proof? I have personally found that the best form of social proof is just being vetted by other attractive women. For instance from my life I have a close friend who is extremely attractive, we met at a party in college but I was never able to close as she was looking for a relationship at the time and I was certainly not (I'm a big fan of honest game essentially just being straight forward about what you're looking for probably will make a post about what I mean this week). Basically she friend zoned …	/r/seduction	08/02/21 07:15 PM
2	I have trouble making friends; rebuilding my inner game I always love to hear about people getting out there and improving their lives! Congrats on taking those first steps! In my experience it's always great to have some hobbies or something you're passionate about, I'll be honest it doesn't matter super much what it is, people and women especially absolutely love someone with passion about something. Try to find people that have somewhat similar interests but honestly what's most important is just putting yourself out there and talk to people (I kn…	/r/seduction	06/11/20 03:09 AM
7	How can I overcome shame during moments of anxiety when dating? So feelings of inadequacy are always a struggle, I personally find one of the best ways to overcome the feeling is to focus on things you're good at no matter what that is, good at League, good at Overwatch, good at playing the harmonica whatever, just remember you've learned through focus and hard work to be good at something. Game, seduction, social skills, whatever you wanna call it is a learned ability you get better through practice you didn't start out good at anything you practiced and le…	/r/seduction	05/08/20 03:57 AM
1	cis woman trying to be sexy Let's just answer the question, so I do think the absolute best move is just 100% be open with your partner about what you want or like and ask what they like or want in return. The best sex is always that which happens after you have conversations about kinks, fetishes, and preferences. Communication is legit the sexiest thing you can do in any relationship as a girl or as a guy.	/r/seduction	05/08/20 03:46 AM
1	New to this! What is a good way to re-engage a girl from a few months ago? Eh always tough if it's been a while since the last interaction. However as this is college I always find the best way to recontact a girl is to invite her to a get together for the return to college. Perhaps try to have a party with friends where you can invite her, and if she says she has a thing already set up then try to get yourself into that party and/or set up your party later so she can attend. Basically set something up where while she might not be crazy interested in you because you …	/r/seduction	05/08/20 03:34 AM
4	What do I do on a first date? I think both are great options. I prefer Park personally if it has locations to isolate and just have a one on one conversation with one another which is in my opinion the most powerful part of seduction. If you can remove random interruptions and have a personal close conversation it makes it so much easier to either close if that's what you want or just make her interested enough to be interested in a second date. Depending on her interest and age etc... I would say bring some sort of mild alc…	/r/seduction	05/08/20 03:29 AM
5	Should you express feelings over text or call? Absolutely agree with the other commentors, don't start a feelings conversation over text, this will only lead to her overthinking what you're saying and clamming up. Always begin those kinds of conversations in person where you control the frame and can to some extent read her feelings and how she responds. Just make her feel special and happier with you than alone eventually she will open up and everything will work out!	/r/seduction	26/06/20 02:36 AM
1	How about doing on one date, enjoying yourself so much that you have a blast, as a result she has a blast and wants you even more the next time. Okay I absolutely agree with this sentiment and it is generally how my dates go. However I think people that have a certain mindset and experience in life forget (or never knew) how other experience, sometimes people need a foundation of things to say and how to act because they never learned or practiced them. I don't agree with the whole this method will get you x number of women, but I do like try this next date or practice with this thing because in the end the only thing that will get you a…	/r/seduction	26/06/20 02:33 AM
2	This is the best advice you'll ever get TLDR: This piece of advice is all you'll ever need	/r/seduction	26/06/20 02:29 AM
5	Letting go of the past Okay so I can't say my experience is exactly the same. But I had a long term relationship (3 plus years) that ended on not so great terms (realistically mostly my fault). Obviously this caused me some definite emotional pain. What worked for me personally was just focus on myself for few months, not looking to get laid or anything learning how to live with a new reality. From what you're saying you've already done this changed yourself from the "nice guy" you were before just how I learned to be…	/r/seduction	26/06/20 02:28 AM