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If you're tactical you can bring the whole group of 7 of them over to your friends. Just walk up and be like "hey those guys over there are my friends and we wanted to see if you would be interested in playing some games/sharing a table/whatever with us." If they say no, your friends can't be mad because you had the balls to try. If they say yes then you're gonna get some mad props from your friends for the W. If your friends rag on you for putting yourself out there, then they're probably jealo…
/r/seduction24/06/22 11:18 PM
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I know this might sound like a stretch but last I checked, the whole point of cold approaching was to meet women. Success if whatever you want it to be. Turning it into some weird ego boost can be successful too, if that's what you're after I guess.
/r/seduction02/05/22 01:58 PM
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"My friends/parents will love you" is just another way of saying they only care about how good you are on paper and not actually building a relationship.
/r/seduction26/04/22 07:34 PM
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Go and tell a woman you've read dating books. Go ahead. I do. They don't care as much as you think. Just don't be awkward and ashamed of it. The fake it til you make it mantra means that eventually if you pretend to be an interesting person by doing interesting things long enough eventually you become interesting. Additionally if you try to acquire personality traits and behaviours you don't have the first step is to pretend you have them and act accordingly. Eventually you'll internalize them. …
/r/seduction07/01/22 01:00 AM
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It's all about phrasing. I've shown women my copy of Models and told them it was a self help book about dating. They've never said anything bad about it. Avoid the pua lingo because it's pretty cringey and somewhat dehumanizing to refer to women and interactions with code words. There's nothing wrong with wanting to learn how to be better socially with women, but if you phrase it like some kind of edgelord playing a video game with women's emotions obviously women are going to question if they w…
/r/seduction26/01/21 11:22 PM
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It depends on what you're looking for in a partner. If a woman get offended by a comment like that it may be more of a bullet dodged than a self sabotage. Perspective.
/r/seduction09/10/20 05:59 PM
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I think if you flip the roles it makes sense. If a girl asked you to hang out two days from now and then doesn't respond to texts the day before you would assume she's not interested. It's too easy to stay in touch with people with modern technology. You don't have to be responding immediately but try and keep a casual conversation going. It can also help break the ice when you meet again for a date since you have a conversation you've already started. As for work schedules it doesn't hurt to sh…
/r/seduction12/03/20 01:24 AM
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People seem to forget that if you're not the one she's texting back, another dude is. This is 2020. If you don't text a girl back for like 10 hours you better have an excuse lined up or she's gonna be looking to a dude that doesn't live under a rock.
/r/seduction12/03/20 01:15 AM
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The type of women you attract with this method are going to be just as fake. But if that's what you're after then go for it I guess.
/r/seduction09/03/20 05:44 PM
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There are also guides on off meta builds
/r/seduction06/03/20 11:29 PM
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I mean girls will never tell you it's okay to touch them in certain areas unless you ask but if you ask it comes off really creepy. You have to take a chance as a guy and touch her in certain areas. If she's not comfortable with it, it should be relatively obvious. There are some dudes out there that can't read/don't read into a girl's reactions when touched which makes them creepy. I don't think that's really what happened here. Maybe she's a bit shy or OP is a bit aggressive but I don't necess…
/r/seduction28/02/20 05:08 AM
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I think this is very true. No matter how far we stray from reality, human connections and the need for physical interactions are built into our DNA. Humans are social creatures. Also meetup groups remove the mindset of being on a date with a stranger. At the end of the day, the only failure in this case is if you didn't enjoy the experience. If you meet someone, you win, if you make friends, you win, if you have fun, you win.
/r/seduction20/06/19 05:29 PM
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Make statements; don't ask questions. "Let's do Wednesday. I'm free at 7. Let me know if something works better for you." Give her the option to change the schedule but don't give her an easy no or a maybe. She can respond easily with a "sounds good" or "let's do it". Don't play secretary with her schedule. If she doesn't help reschedule don't waste your time. Also create time pressure: "I have a few buddies making plans this week so I want to make sure we don't have any scheduling issues." This…
/r/seduction11/02/19 08:14 PM
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Agreed. Often the people who make these decisions to promote content don't really have the data available to support it and make a leap of faith. Big companies are disorganized and often lack the necessary cross team collaboration to make informed decisions every time. I genuinely think the team who developed this ad didn't really consider the consequences of alienating half of their consumers to reinforce their identity politics.
/r/seduction16/01/19 06:17 PM
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Don't focus on doing things for the sake of building your sexual attractiveness. Go and do things you like doing unapologetically. Nothing builds confidence more than living your life the way you want and being content with yourself. Go to the gym with the goal of staying healthy. Pick up new skills and hobbies for practical reasons. Engross yourself in your own life and you will find that people will suddenly find you more interesting. This includes women.
/r/seduction24/10/18 08:42 PM
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Trolls. I think the reality is that there's not much new to the game anymore. The social climate is changing, and there are posts addressing that, but anything you need to know you can find on the sidebar or by searching post history.
/r/seduction10/10/18 06:47 PM
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Half the comments aren't even discussion related. Just generic "good stuff" replies. That's what the upvote button is for
/r/seduction17/08/18 06:35 PM
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Not just that but to "stop thinking (about everything besides the girl and your intentions)."
/r/seduction16/07/18 06:14 PM
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The movie date was more of a mistake than asking her for a ride home tbh
/r/seduction16/07/18 03:52 PM
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Or just go in with no expectations.
/r/seduction01/06/18 04:09 PM
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Do people really have multiple hours a week to dedicate to fucking? Like you don't have more important shit to do?
/r/seduction08/05/18 04:07 PM
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"Hey I really like hanging out with you but I'm not interested in a relationship with you right now and I want to just be friends." Just be honest. Her opening up is a sign that she's comfortable with you but admitting she's jealous is a sign of insecurity. Also getting high all the time is usually a result of someone trying to compensate for lack of excitement in their life, so these two traits match up pretty well. You excite her, so she doesn't want to lose you because it gives her something …
/r/seduction24/04/18 07:10 PM
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One trick if a girl has dimples when she smiles is to poke her cheek and make a comment about it then ask her if I have any and bring her hand up to my face. Forces you to smile, makes her initial smile feel noticed, and makes her smile more. Positive feedback loop.
/r/seduction27/03/18 10:59 PM
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After 4 years on this subreddit all of the advice is a rehash of constant self-improvement, social/economic independence, and being honest with yourself and others. Some people need that point explained in a different way to understand, and some people need to see it again as a reminder. Others use it as motivation and reaffirmation that they're going down the right path. I personally don't read these posts anymore, but there are many others that find it valuable while they're still trying to gr…
/r/seduction24/03/18 06:50 PM
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The apocalypse opener. It works really well in night game when she's giving you obvious signals that she wants you. Otherwise you're asking to wear a drink or a palm shaped tattoo on your face.
/r/seduction13/03/18 05:29 AM
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Would you agree that dating apps 4 years ago functioned differently than they do now, given that they're more widely used?
/r/seduction12/03/18 05:34 AM
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There's a lot of danger to hooking up that people ignore. If you invest time into getting to know them, you can measure the risks more clearly. If you want to truly protect yourself, stop hooking up, having sex on the first few dates, and always use protection. Getting to know someone means measuring them to see if they have any obvious red flags that could indicate this danger. Some examples: If a girl just wants to have sex and doesn't care about you know that you're just another notch. If she…
/r/seduction12/03/18 05:31 AM
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OP isn't interested in getting laid off apps anymore because it is unfulfilling, so the expediency of sex is out of the picture. Getting laid a lot doesn't garner respect and doesn't move you forward in life which is why moving from one pussy to the next is a waste of my time. I don't need to be banging one to find the next better one. Neither does OP. And I don't want to pursue women who use dating apps for the reasons I explained. If anything, that's abundance mindset in a nutshell. Don't need…
/r/seduction11/03/18 12:33 AM
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Are you dating any of them? Has it improved your social life or are you just there for the expediency of sex? That behaviour isn't a sustainable long term strategy and your anecdotal evidence doesn't apply to the vast majority of people. Think about it this way: do you really think 8/9/10s need to be on dating apps to have dudes that want to fuck them hanging around? No. So why are they there? 1) always looking for something better, never satisfied by any of the options, and likely never will be…
/r/seduction10/03/18 09:41 PM
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I disagree. Delete them all. The dependency and need to use them will convolute your view of personal social growth. And a large majority of the women on dating apps lack social skills as well, so you'll gain next to nothing except maybe a low effort orgasm from using those apps. They're a waste of time and energy if you really want to push real human connections.
/r/seduction10/03/18 07:10 PM
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70s porn stache obviously.
/r/seduction07/03/18 04:55 AM
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I interpreted that as her not wanting to get involved with a dude who only wants sex, not that she wasn't open to relationships, but I could be wrong.
/r/seduction07/03/18 01:08 AM
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What do you actually want from her? If it's just the sex it's time to move on because she doesn't want that and trying to mince words won't work much longer. If you actually want to get to know her, then tell her, but make it clear that you're not interested in being her beta orbiter bestie and want it to be tied to romance. You're playing a long game here. Tone down the sexual push to get her more invested and convinced you're in it for her rather than the sex. In other words don't try to fuck …
/r/seduction06/03/18 07:56 PM
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This is better advice than the OP imo. It means she's trying to qualify herself as worth your time.
/r/seduction06/03/18 07:30 PM
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Massage tools seem really extra. Or did you mean stuff like oil defusers and massage lotions? I don't exactly have the desire to clutter my apartment with a massage table. I'd add an addendum which would be to include coffee as an addition to the alcohol list (even though it's not). But otherwise these tips are really useful.
/r/seduction06/03/18 07:24 PM
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I like that this is humbling and would want to take it up for that new perspective.
/r/seduction23/02/18 06:58 PM
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They changed it but that's what it used to be. Now it's just giving guys 20 chicks to look at and women then get to decide from there who they want to match with by only seeing profiles of guys who liked them already. Broke the whole mechanic, so I stopped using it because I was getting way less matches and way more flakes.
/r/seduction21/02/18 08:05 PM
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I actually 100% agree and was thinking of posting something similar lately. One big piece of this is accepting that unless you are in the top 15% of guys online, you actually have a significantly better chance in person, and people will respect you more for being more upfront in person. I uninstalled all dating apps about 6 months ago and I've felt so much worse and yet so much better about dating. Worse because I feel like I've squandered opportunities but better because I know that I need to s…
/r/seduction21/02/18 07:28 PM
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I think vanity to impress people is a bad default because it signals one of two things: 1) you're not that interested in her so you can't find something you want to engage her about or 2) you aren't that interesting yourself and can't actually present something of value in a conversation. I think routines show a weakness in inner game that you're projecting onto those you meet and it makes your encounters with people seem robotic. This is great when you're starting out because it helps you engag…
/r/seduction20/02/18 08:12 PM
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No one wants to be a stepping stone. Using this as a goal is a bad plan as you mentioned. Though if you try to expand your social circle through that woman rather than just looking to meet her single friends, that might be a better strategy that gives you access to friends without pressuring them to turn it into a sexual thing. Also, worst case scenario you have more friends. It's really all about intent.
/r/seduction20/02/18 06:16 PM
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This is a great story. I've been going through some stuff right now and this was a great reminder to start working on myself again. Edit: OP literally inspired me to get back into swimming again and I signed up for a gym barely minutes ago.
/r/seduction12/02/18 07:12 PM
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If she doesn't talk to you in public but feeds you lines about caring about you when you're alone with her and she won't let you stick it in you're just her emotional sponge and she's afraid to lose that by manipulating your emotions for her. If a woman rejects you, you forget her and move on. If she's trying to hold onto you after rejecting you she's turning you into an orbiter that she will go to when she needs attention (if she hasn't already). You already know what you need to do. Go out and…
/r/seduction12/02/18 07:07 PM
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It's not flipping the coin though. In either case you still have control of the outcome. She's trying to shake you up. That's the whole point of a shit test - to catch you off guard. Your answer matters less than the significance of you not allowing her to break your frame. You need to remain unphased and confident. Yes/no delivers exactly that. You can follow up if she asks "why" with something clever. Also suggesting that there's a right answer is just blatantly wrong. If I say yes did I guess…
/r/seduction07/02/18 08:41 PM
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What about a succinct yes or no? Why be clever when you can be bold? Don't paint your answer with words just give a one word response and move on. If she stops to questions it, just tell her not to ask questions she doesn't want answers to. Not every encounter needs to be a clever play on words where you're the dancing jester trying to outsmart her with your stupid smirk (as one of the mods mentioned). Confidence, gentlemen.
/r/seduction07/02/18 06:24 PM
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Would it be presumptuous to claim that this is probably the case for many men, globally?
/r/seduction01/02/18 07:23 PM
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I see you posting a lot around here complaining about your looks so I'm going to drop some hard truth on you in the hopes that it helps you. You're not ugly (I've seen your other posts) but your confidence is shit and you're more than likely projecting that out to everyone you talk to. You need to fuck right off with that attitude. It's not about meeting people or being attractive. Stop thinking about everything as success or failure. You need to stop whatever bad habits you have developed and w…
/r/seduction01/12/17 07:59 PM
4

"Who can get arrested first" challenge?
/r/seduction21/11/17 09:12 PM
1

OPs account is only 6 days old and he talks like he already knows everything looking at his post and comment history. As far as I'm aware, thinking you know everything is about as bad as not knowing anything.
/r/seduction03/11/17 06:15 AM
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That's not what he's saying. He's saying to observe her and make guesses about what she's interested in rather than just interviewing her. You're trying to make a conversation feel natural. That doesn't mean you can't ask questions, but you want to avoid the generic shit questions about what they do for a living, where they're from, what they do for fun, etc.
/r/seduction02/11/17 08:41 PM
5

Either that or doing things that you actually care about, like hobbies, work, gym, meeting up with friends, etc.
/r/seduction25/10/17 11:34 PM
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He's literally just using you as a human flesh light, which is not healthy for you. Are you sure you like this guy enough that you're willing to give up parts of your own happiness to make a relationship work?
/r/seduction13/07/17 08:06 PM
4

You can also just tell her you're too busy to stop what you're doing to text back and that if she wants to talk to you she should do it when you can make time for her i.e. in person.
/r/seduction23/04/17 06:08 PM
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Bouldering too. I love chatting with other people about how to solve a puzzle. It's like an exercise puzzle.
/r/seduction17/04/17 06:52 PM
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Set no expectations and you'll never fail this test.
/r/seduction13/04/17 09:27 PM
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I have mixed feelings about these types of workshops in general.
/r/seduction11/04/17 11:17 PM
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I have mixed feelings about talking to people unnecessarily at the gym. You're there for you, not to meet people. I mean, you can meet people, but you're sacrificing you time for social time, and it could negatively impact your workout. An alternative might be to join some kind of physical activity club like climbing or krav maga or yoga because you'll have more scenarios to socialise and meet people who all have a common interest. That'll give you a better starting point than risking interrupti…
/r/seduction01/07/15 08:14 PM
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Your example is an exception to the rule, AND it's a scripted scenario. Likely your interest in the male character in this particular piece of writing is because he makes himself vulnerable to her by demonstrating that he's genuinely interested in her opinion. It's also pillow-talk, which is sexually tense anyway. The scenario is scripted in such a way to create sexual tension in a scenario where you aren't really expecting it. The writers also created an underdog character (someone that gets fr…
/r/seduction23/05/15 09:33 PM
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I also think they use it as a means to avoid getting solicited for sex constantly. Girls want to filter out the creeps and weirdos too. They also might want some level of courtship i.e. something besides "Netflix at your place" I think; though that's never stopped people from hooking up with a "no hookups" girl over Tinder before. Edit: personal pronoun, grammar
/r/seduction18/05/15 06:09 AM
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Just be honest. "Because I wanted to."
/r/seduction06/05/15 03:13 PM
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Cold reading and commenting on their photos/bio work well. Although I highly recommend making shit up and spewing it out at a girl as an opening line because you can recycle it on multiple girls, and it doesn't take more than a few seconds to come up with it. My favourite example.
/r/seduction08/12/14 05:45 PM
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This is exactly what I would do, and exactly what is expected to happen.
/r/seduction29/11/14 12:18 AM
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The number is only the tip of the iceberg! Keep working at it and don't let your balls fall off!
/r/seduction22/11/14 08:27 AM
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Actually I had this problem for a while. Still do. Didn't know why until someone came and told me I'm a really negative person and that negativity might not be the best approach to life. I instantly realised that it was affecting a lot of the women I was approaching which is what resulted in me not being as successful. A quick introspective helped me reach this conclusion: When you're an overly negative person, you spend a lot of time subtracting value from everything you see because, well, you …
/r/seduction09/10/14 01:28 AM
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Some chicks aren't into it and some chicks love it.
/r/seduction21/08/14 10:28 PM
1

This can relate so well to your earlier analogy. Fuck up? Change key and keep going. The crowd will forgive and forget that it happened a few seconds later.
/r/seduction12/08/14 06:09 PM
1

Gotta mix it up. First picture should be enough to get her attention. No just face pictures, no selfies and no shirtless pics. Something that a girl would be able to identify with if she saw you in public. I like candid photos for this. The rest should be similar. Avoid photos taken with other girls. You aren't trying to brag and a lot of girls will swipe left for that alone. As has been said before, Tinder is purely a numbers game. Not only do you have to wait for a girl you find attractive to …
/r/seduction07/08/14 06:20 AM
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Holy fuck when casuals use Tinder. Like I'm not on here to make friends with you I have plenty of those. I want someone date-able/willing to go home with me. I feel like it's the result of Tinder going somewhat mainstream with the college community and every girl and her friends telling each other to get Tinder.
/r/seduction27/07/14 07:39 PM
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You also fucked up the quote in your earlier reply. you're not wrong, Walter, you're just an asshole
/r/seduction25/07/14 10:33 PM
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You can totally get away with this. Turn taken women into stepping stones. "Oh I have a boyfriend." "Do you have girlfriends as good looking as you too?"
/r/seduction03/07/14 06:59 PM
1

Cast your level 8 penis of the infinite and slay her?
/r/seduction23/06/14 05:59 PM
1

The only reason I said that is because actually not giving a fuck is vastly different from outcome independence (/r/howtonotgiveafuck). If you actually didn't give a fuck you would have sent that text saying all you wanted was sex. The OC interpreted it as the latter, which is why I made my comment. I appreciate you trying to judge my IQ though. Definitely a good measure of intelligence. ;)
/r/seduction20/06/14 07:46 AM
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I'm pretty sure OP was talking about outcome independence when he said not giving a fuck.
/r/seduction19/06/14 08:31 PM
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This is interesting. I actually am fairly open about seduction and none of my friends seem to mind. I've been doing the self improvement thing for about 2 years now and the only person to ever laugh at me was a 17 year old girl who doesn't get out much (who I'm no longer friends with). I was 19 when I started. I actually got some of my close friends into it and discovered some other of my friends who were already into it. Maybe I just have better friends.
/r/seduction19/06/14 06:40 PM
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I enjoyed the point about asking girls to buy you drinks. I will use that one.
/r/seduction16/06/14 08:43 PM
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Super smooth moves OP!
/r/seduction14/05/14 11:26 PM
2

This must be more common than I thought. I also reddit while on the toilet.
/r/seduction02/05/14 05:03 PM
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Well you don't know that. He might chat with her casually on occasion because they share a class. I agree though that this isn't necessarily a successful approach because he got a phone number that anyone might have given.
/r/seduction29/04/14 05:39 PM
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I see high protein intake in your future
/r/seduction21/04/14 09:14 PM
1

Being confident, well dressed, prepared and relaxed makes a huge difference. As someone who is quite successful with job interviews, I can say that most of my rejections come from factors out of my control (i.e. specific candidate qualifications or a really poor interviewer - yes they do exist) and not because of a poor interview.
/r/seduction19/04/14 06:24 AM
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"Give me all your cash and I'll show you how to randomly grab girls mid conversation so you can make out with them without getting slapped." This guy must be a wizard
/r/seduction18/02/14 06:54 PM
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It's not rude. You could start with boring small talk if you're that concerned but no I think texting like that out of the blue is totally fine. I've never really had bad reactions from this because it's about as simple and direct as it gets.
/r/seduction03/02/14 09:58 PM
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Ask her when she's available before asking her out instead. That way you're the one in control of the schedule and planning. The only way she could say no would be via a straight rejection since you know she's free then. Edit: if she gives you a flakey maybe response just assume she's going or make sure you're doing something in which her presence isn't necessary (like going out for drinks, bowling with friends etc.)
/r/seduction03/02/14 09:09 PM
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That's solid text game right there. I am impressed OP.
/r/seduction24/01/14 06:07 PM
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I can relate to how you feel. I'm a 20 year old in college, but you and I, we live very different lives. I went away to college, I actively pursue internships in different parts of the country, and even though I'm deadlocked during a school semester, I still make time to go to the gym on campus 3 times a week, diet properly and I make smart lifestyle choices (interpret this as you may). I'm currently studying engineering too. Don't make excuses. That's part of your lack of inner confidence. You'…
/r/seduction24/10/13 04:57 AM
1

If your friend was a dude, would you bring your female friend? If he was a guy he would feel totally third-wheeled as well as not important because you've decided that he's not enough fun on his own without your bringing along a girl you're seeing. Now turn that male friend back into a female and imagine how she must feel. It really depends the girl, but some of the female friends I know would be totally insulted if I ever did something like this. Tread lightly, brother.
/r/seduction22/10/13 02:55 AM
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I agree with the confidence thing. I think it's more of an inner game issue. If there's something that you want, you have to go get it. If you really like this girl and she seems responsive enough, tell her you want to take things further. If you can't do that then you need to work on your confidence and practice your ability to express your intent with complete honesty. To solidify my point you mention how you aren't a sexual or vulgar person but you sexually desire this girl. You don't really …
/r/seduction29/09/13 06:33 AM
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An enormous part of attraction is physical presence. She can't read body language, and you can't display intent without using words. You also can't use other forms of physicality to create attraction (kino), and it's hard to convey words in a proper context (if you're telling her a secret you can't whisper it in her ear). Too much text also makes you look needy (you aren't busy if you're responding to her texts every 2 minutes). What /u/gravelmuncher is trying to say is that you're basically sho…
/r/seduction14/08/13 02:12 AM
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I've seen one of my buddies kicked out of a club for fingering a girl on the dance floor, so be careful escalating that much in a public place.
/r/seduction10/08/13 10:48 PM
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The information in the book is interesting when it comes to understanding the logic behind pickup and game and it also discusses some of the more high level concepts when it comes to attraction and seduction but it doesn't really give you any insight into how approaches should work and it doesn't teach you much about inner game. All in all twas a good starting block for me and helped me decide where I needed to start if I wanted to learn seduction. It isn't good reference material and is really …
/r/seduction10/08/13 10:16 PM
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Take her to the city and explore. Make sure you have a few stops in mind so you're still leading. This demonstrates similar traits to hiking but in a different way.
/r/seduction09/08/13 06:56 PM
1

My friend has an unexpected phrase and it doesn't work in all cases but he sometimes likes to say, "I don't tell everyone this but I have a pancake dick," if the conversation seems to be running dry.
/r/seduction05/08/13 04:42 AM
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One of the things mentioned in the side bar for building yourself up is 100% honesty. If you don't like something then man up and say it! Who knows? She might not want what you think.
/r/seduction05/08/13 02:45 AM
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I found one of my female facebook friends on there. Caught me by surprise and I almost cried laughing. I can only imagine the consequences if we somehow got matched (even though I passed her).
/r/seduction04/08/13 06:39 AM
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I've thumbed through a few workout books myself, and most of them tell you in the introduction that the gym isn't meant for meeting people, it's for putting in work. In short, if you really care about your workouts you shouldn't be trying to game, but it's entirely up to you what you would rather spend your workout time doing.
/r/seduction01/08/13 12:33 AM
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