Cookbook_ Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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3	Got remarried 1.5 yrs ago but want out. How? Just have the talk, innitiate the divorce and walk away. Also If your country has weird laws and your trying to weasel out of paying in divorce, then your asking how to commit fraud. Don't be that guy. All men, make prenups or except your consequenses, own up your feelings and wants, and mayby next time think before making contracts.	/r/Divorce_Men	18/04/24 07:33 AM
1	Dating after 1.5 years of being divorced No problem, trying to manage myself on aftermath own divorce. Was a bit harsh, but glad you took it well, I meant only good for you. I have found that in my new relationship honesty and being direct, but respectful about my wants and worries has worked great. The women I now want like emotional maturity. If Clues, hints or suggestions would work, they would have already worked on my previous marriage.	/r/Divorce_Men	15/04/24 12:46 PM
14	Dating after 1.5 years of being divorced Why not just have a honest conversation with her about her needs, and your fears about them, rather than asking strangers guessing her intent on internet based on only few sentences. You are adult man with lifetime of experince, act like it. Have a adult conversation, or two with her. If the relationship is not working for, just you be honest to yourself, and ask if it is not working for her, better to know than fool yourself. If it is working and she means what she says and just needs life of h…	/r/Divorce_Men	15/04/24 04:57 AM
4	Does wife making more than husband contribute to relationship issues? The fact that a woman makes more, or is career orientated aren't themselves causing issues, plenty of people can have that situation. What is important what you both are feeling about it, and are you honest about insecurities it has caused. In my opinion environment and US culture is kind of toxic in this way, persons or mans worth in relationship is judged my their paycheck. You should be comfortable being yourself in relationship, and be mindful if you really want a person who would value you …	/r/Divorce_Men	30/12/23 06:37 AM
1	It's one of "those" days, it WILL get better This is good advice. Had a great christmas in city doing things outside, and went to hang with a divorced friend. Stay strong, it's normal days after this.	/r/Divorce_Men	25/12/23 07:57 PM
7	What did you gain through divorce? My self confidence: it was the relationship between us that was rotten, not what or who I was. I made mistakes, but I was miserable and depressed in the relationship. I can finally do good and feel good again, it was all in me just waiting to have way out.	/r/Divorce_Men	23/12/23 09:24 AM
1	Ex Wife Hooked Up Yeah, absolutely attempt to hurt, or to showto you how over you she is. Both are insecure and immature reaction, and she seeks you to be provoked. Just ignoring it is best, when you just don't care to react then your truly over it.	/r/Divorce_Men	22/12/23 06:21 PM
1	Ex Wife Hooked Up And all details of your ex's sexlife will shock and hurt you, as you picture a person you once loved. But picture this: you wouldn't want to hear how your mother or sister sucks cock either, even though they definately do it and it's perfectly natural and healthy for them. All close loved ones intimate lovelife feels revolting, so it should stay intimate. Don't tortute yourself by imagining things that you haven't seen, it's none of your bussiness anymore, which in itself is freeing, you don't n…	/r/Divorce_Men	22/12/23 10:01 AM
3	Ex Wife Hooked Up Thats TMI from your wife, you don't need to hear that, and I wonder why she thought it would be ok to share, have you been sharing similar and does she think this is how you two share in your relationship as ex's? Set boundaries your comfortable with, even if you had a releationship yourself, you can still hurt hearing and picturing your ex's new relationship. Mayby she's looking an adventure, mayby she's desparate and took what was available, mayby she's way over her head. Thats all mayby, you …	/r/Divorce_Men	22/12/23 09:57 AM
1	Christmas Alone Good food you like to eat, movies you enjoy, and go outside a little. It's my first christmass divorced, so there are always a lot us, so you are not alone in this situation. Worst for me is the good memories that trigger from smallest things, but remember that you can and should grieve the loss of good things, but it's also allowed to enjoy the things you make yourself. Have a wonderfull first Christmass, you're free, there are no rules.	/r/Divorce_Men	22/12/23 05:41 AM
14	Which is the bigger nightmare? I've been there. We shouldn't endulge such masochistic fantasies, it will just makes us upset about things that aren't happening. I was like that when my ex started dating a man she knew while we were still married. I could torture myself with the images I pictured in my mind. I realised I got angry purely about things I imagined. Sure they are having sex, but other people intimate things are always weird to picture, try to imagine your parents or friends doing it and from the revulsion it's cle…	/r/Divorce_Men	21/12/23 12:34 PM
3	There really is no upside to marriage, is there? Everything is easier if you have person you can trust, and is working toward the success of your household. Want hang a painting? Hard on your own, easy by two. Want to buy house, double the income, shared utilities and furniture are half less to pay. We should bring back marriage of convenience. Want to fuck some chunky rando, ok I guess. What I need someone to run to the store when I'm sick.	/r/Divorce_Men	22/05/23 04:42 PM