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/r/askTRP30/05/20 02:07 PM
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I mean if it was a guy she had something with couple months back when we didnt even know eachother I would be ok but not 1/2 weeks before and texting him/etc. So basicslly she saw him 3x and of those occasion she made out with him and once aparently didnt because we were already together than..
/r/askTRP27/12/19 10:19 AM
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Could you elaborate on what you mean by CNF?
/r/askTRP19/07/19 02:31 AM
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To be honest, that was me a while ago. Didn‘t want to hurt girls, didnt wanted to tell them directly that I am not attracted but after reflecting a bit they would do exactly the same and if she wasn‘t attracted to you she wouldn‘t be as nice. Just imagine an „incel“ showing her attraction and how she would shut him down,etc. Nowadays I just lead them on, or show complete lack or interest/ignore messages til they get the message.
/r/askTRP28/03/19 10:03 PM
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Hmm it seems generally accepted by guys here where I am from to let their gfs go party without them and if you are against that you are looked down on/too controlling.... ​
/r/askTRP30/01/19 10:13 PM
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Hmm I understand the thing is I want to do them as in show her more affection but then realize that will make her less attracted or atleast thats what I think so I don‘t do it. Maybe i will start with being a bit sweeter to her with the occasional compliments and see how it goes. Got to be careful though and not let my guard down and keep giving her what she wants all the time
/r/askTRP28/01/19 12:39 AM
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I dont know man currently I prefer LTRs instead of casual hookups like in the past
/r/askTRP22/12/18 11:49 PM
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I guess I am just really upset right now and trying to find ways to make it work even if it is illogical.. Have to move on but I still don't understand what might have happened since she finds me attractive and we had a good time together... Maybe its so hard to understand for me due to "falling in love" rather fast when its somebody attractive and we hit of well..
/r/askTRP22/12/18 08:39 PM
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Yea but I am curious if I can somehow make her develop feelings for me. Or if that is pointless..
/r/askTRP22/12/18 08:25 PM
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I am not anymore. Since today we are officially friends...
/r/askTRP22/12/18 08:07 PM
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I guess I am just blinded. I still don't understand why she would keep on meeting with me, having sex, being normal and talking about how we need to go to festivals in the summer/vacations together. If am that into a girl I definitely wouldn't be talking about a relationship/future together. ​
/r/askTRP22/12/18 02:14 PM
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I know but at university its the same. Mutual friends same. Tinder same. It just looks to me that's how it is for most
/r/askTRP30/11/18 10:33 PM
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Understood will probably do it like this. I thought in the beginning its good to act a bit colder but I guess not next time I will react as if nothing happened, try to make a date happen and if it won't work ghost :).
/r/askTRP03/09/17 10:11 PM
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Only once, she told me she will have time for sure but then next day when I asked she told me unforunately nope.
/r/askTRP03/09/17 08:35 PM
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? I dunno you could also see it as not being completely forgiving when she behaves "bad". Like she behaves "bad" I lose attention, and if she behaves "good" I give her more attention. Atleast thats what I hoped to do with answering more cold.
/r/askTRP03/09/17 08:33 PM
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I mean it was more like she told me like a day before she will be able to come over the weekend and when I asked her the next days she said (she has something else planned,etc.) It wasn't ever like she flaked 10 min before the date but always told me atleast 6h or so before but still.
/r/askTRP03/09/17 08:30 PM
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