CookyMcCookface Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	If you hate women nagging about cleanliness, just date slobs. I never found a clean one. Ended up marrying a slob 🤷‍♂️ 😂	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/08/25 11:51 PM
0	Why would a woman marry young if her husband will eventually end up lusting after younger women? I didn’t conveniently leave anything out as it wasn’t a question that was asked. I was simply addressing the commenters suggestion that old men are pushing their wives out the doors so they can get younger women. I’m sure that does happen, but it isn’t the primary reason for divorce. And men aren’t the ones initiating divorce in most cases. THAT was my point. There’s lot of additional data I could provide, but I’d be moving the goalpost around like the commenter (and you), but that generally sho…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/23 03:27 AM
2	Why would a woman marry young if her husband will eventually end up lusting after younger women? That’s a conclusion you’re drawing on your own. I was just pointing out that your original statement wasn’t based in any form of reality; the divorce stats simple provide support (see use of the word “modicum”). They don’t prove anything on their own. Men and women aren’t monoliths, but you (and the OP) seem to want to believe they are…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/23 12:18 AM
-3	Why would a woman marry young if her husband will eventually end up lusting after younger women? I never said the person who files for divorce is the cause of the divorce. The data to dispute the basis of your argument(s) exists, but you seem to want to operate from a position of feelings versus fact.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/08/23 07:42 PM
2	Why would a woman marry young if her husband will eventually end up lusting after younger women? Who hurt you? But again, your most recent statement would have a modicum of truth to it if infidelity were the dominant reason divorce was initiated (hint: it isn’t). Or if men and women didn’t experience infidelity at similar rates…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/08/23 07:27 PM
10	Why would a woman marry young if her husband will eventually end up lusting after younger women? That “theory” of yours may have a modicum of truth to it if 70% of divorces were initiated by men…but, ya know…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/08/23 06:49 PM
12	Article Minimizing Male Survivors: "Male Survivors of Abuse by Women Can Heal Without Misogyny" I noticed that as well. I’m always amazed by how “all over the place” these statistics are and how it just comes down to who’s website you’re looking at. It’s amazing how “malleable” statistics can be if you’ve already formed your conclusion…	/r/MensRights	07/07/23 03:19 PM
1	We Want Equality, Until It's Time For Equality You’d agree that there are different variations of feminism, yes? Based on what you’ve written, you seem like the old school “equity feminist.” I personally have no issue with equity feminist because they don’t vilify men and they argue for equality, not advantage. It’s “gender feminism” (or radical feminism) I take issue with. And while this subreddit has its share of narrow-minded viewpoints, one thing I appreciate is that people like yourself can come voice your opinion without immediately be…	/r/MensRights	23/05/23 02:33 AM
2	ContraPoints blames everything on men, because some things never change. Interesting data, thanks for sharing. I couldn’t find a reason/theory for the decline in male homicide versus female since the 70s. What am I missing? Edit: I saw your context in another response in regards to shelters and reducing escalation and it makes sense, but is that your theory or something someone else is proposing?	/r/MensRights	19/04/23 02:16 AM
1	ContraPoints blames everything on men, because some things never change. Can you share where you’re getting the data regarding the 70s IPV homicides? I’ve never come across data that supports that. And as far as serious injury, ER stats support that notion. And from a logical perspective, it makes sense. In a fight between a 5’4” 120lb person and a 6’2” 210lb person…who are you gonna put your money on ending up on a stretcher?	/r/MensRights	18/04/23 08:55 PM
2	ContraPoints blames everything on men, because some things never change. You are absolutely correct that IPV related homicides skews heavily toward women. And it’s a serious problem. You’re also correct that social-economic status plays an important role in IPV in general (very much related to exposure during childhood). However, your statement points to something I touched on earlier - it’s how we talk about this that highlights what we care about. Like I said, many many studies have pointed out that IPV is pretty symmetrical, yet that’s NOT the narrative anyone hea…	/r/MensRights	18/04/23 08:16 PM
10	ContraPoints blames everything on men, because some things never change. His IPV stats aren’t off. IPV violence statistics are tough to pin down on purpose. Depending on where you look, they’ve likely cherry-picked the data to fit whatever agenda they’re after. Gotta secure those federal $$$ ! There have been many, many studies that have indicated IPV is gender symmetrical. Serious injury is skewed toward women just given the physical differences between men and women. Sexual assault is also skewed toward women. I THINK this is the study he’s referencing: https://www…	/r/MensRights	18/04/23 03:52 PM
13	What happened to evidence based advocacy around domestic violence? I was blown away to find out my own state also allows corporal punishment in schools. Even more blown away to discover that about HALF the states in the US still “allow” it. “Allow” because most don’t exercise it (district rules), but still…how have these not been overturned throughout the country?!	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	15/04/23 03:05 AM
2	There's a big Difference Between Misandry and Supporting Women Unfortunately, that’s been true 99% of the time…	/r/MensRights	12/04/23 03:34 AM
2	There's a big Difference Between Misandry and Supporting Women Without checking, I can assume as much given the vague, generalizing comment. But I‘ll never turn down a good, healthy debate/discussion! And it says a lot about a person who is unwilling or incapable of backing up their position…	/r/MensRights	11/04/23 10:09 PM
2	There's a big Difference Between Misandry and Supporting Women What’s disproportionately men? And what does that justify?	/r/MensRights	11/04/23 08:20 PM
21	Has the field of psychology failed men? Anyone here watched “Stutz” on Netflix? It was eye-opening as far as how different some therapists are. I’ve been to dozens of therapy sessions with a handful of therapists and I had never heard of the tools that guy breaks out in the FIRST SESSION! And I always ended up quitting therapy all-together or switching because I didn’t feel like we were doing anything other than talking. And as anyone who has switched therapists knows, it’s a daunting task realizing you have to “start over” every time…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	27/03/23 03:27 PM
37	Why is it so hard to discuss men's issues in left spaces? As the political left and right have gone more and more extreme, anyone who doesn’t “toe the line” is vilified. Gender/radical feminism is the name of the game on the extreme left of the political spectrum, so you better repeat the rhetoric if you want to be part of the club. Otherwise, you’re the “enemy.” I tend to avoid the topic in real life, but will always correct people with statistics/facts when certain things are brought up; I’m just never the one to bring the topic up…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	20/03/23 01:54 PM
0	Men are not oppressed by women, they feel entitled to women You’re suggesting that judgment about physical attributes is something that only women experience. And its almost laughable how misinformed that is. You’re also suggesting that men are the only ones who judge - they don’t. A research study about BMI showed that women were the harshest critics across both genders. And labias? I’m a dude and I have never, in my entire life, ever heard another man discuss labia size. I don’t doubt that those folks exist, but generalizing that across “men” is extrem…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/03/23 05:22 PM
71	Comedian Katherine Ryan reveals why she won't stop calling out the likes of James Argent and Leonardo DiCaprio for dating younger women Her previous boyfriend was 41 years younger. 23 years old. But no one should care about ANY two consenting adults dating…	/r/MensRights	09/03/23 12:43 AM
4	How can people so clearly see discrimination in history, but not see how they are doing it to men right now? I give up. Boys aren’t born “masculine,” whatever the hell that even means. Testosterone DOES play a role, however, because it effects the way boys’ brains develop. Boys develop more slowly in just about every stage (before and after birth). Boys in utero are more likely to be effected by their mothers stress levels and even if she suffers from depression. After birth, boys’ brains don’t come equipped with the same level of emotion regulating chemicals, thus they tend to require more attention, care, etc. …	/r/MensRights	03/03/23 12:16 AM
3	Mothers are 2x more likely to commit child abuse, and far more likely to commit fatal abuse (Repost as I had to remove my other account) Ah, so that makes the discrepancy clearer; these stats are looking at different things.	/r/MensRights	02/03/23 11:25 PM
6	Mothers are 2x more likely to commit child abuse, and far more likely to commit fatal abuse (Repost as I had to remove my other account) But no word on what “offenses” is comprised of? Or what “family” entails? …I’m having a hard time understanding the HUGE discrepancy in just the number of cases. We’re talking a 400k+ difference…	/r/MensRights	02/03/23 10:29 PM
3	Mothers are 2x more likely to commit child abuse, and far more likely to commit fatal abuse (Repost as I had to remove my other account) I figured it included IPV, but even that doesn’t jive with the other stats from 2021. 2021 stats total up to over 500k just for abuse, but “offenses” that includes family AND children is only 82k in 2012? The 2012 list is “arrests,” but I figure the original stats have to be based on that too, no?	/r/MensRights	02/03/23 08:34 PM
15	Mothers are 2x more likely to commit child abuse, and far more likely to commit fatal abuse (Repost as I had to remove my other account) This, as a whole, is depressing as fuck… But it definitely highlights the generational impact of fatherless homes and extreme poverty. Those kids are going to be more likely to be homeless, attempt suicide, do drugs, end up in jail….the list goes on…	/r/MensRights	02/03/23 08:27 PM
6	Mothers are 2x more likely to commit child abuse, and far more likely to commit fatal abuse (Repost as I had to remove my other account) Just curious why we’re looking at data from a decade ago? Also, this says “offenses against family and children,” which leads me to believe that is different criteria than what is being discussed above. I’m not sure what “offenses” means in that context and I can’t find anything on that page that explains it. Do you know?	/r/MensRights	02/03/23 08:21 PM
2	Real talk: War and generational trauma There’s some truth to this, but the results of combat vary WIDELY, person-to-person. I know people who have seen and experienced things in combat that are unimaginable-and they’re fine. I’ve also met people who never left the FOB, but a rocket impacted 1km away and they’re a mess. One thing that seems consistently true, however, is that people who’ve never experienced combat are at a disadvantage when trying to help those who have experienced it, as they try to continue on with their lives. Talk…	/r/MensRights	01/03/23 08:26 PM
4	Real talk: War and generational trauma I think you’ve watched too many war movies. In the last couple generations, US service member deaths at war were rare, when compared to the number who served. Even World War 2 was less than 1% service member deaths… I’ve lost more battle buddies to suicide back home than I did in combat. So, this post has a lot of truth to it…	/r/MensRights	01/03/23 07:55 PM
2	why is it only men that have to go through induction haircut in bootcamp 😕 Valid point. I can see why shaving everyone’s head occurs, but there is no real valid reason it isn’t done to women. I know WHY they don’t do it, buts it’s not for reasons that make for a good argument…	/r/MensRights	01/03/23 06:33 PM
56	why is it only men that have to go through induction haircut in bootcamp 😕 That’s incorrect. Anyone is capable of a combat role. HOWEVER, the standards should be the same. And if the standards are the same, the number of women will naturally be less because combat roles require a level of strength that is not as common in women. If you can’t pick up and fireman carry a 200lb person who’s wearing an additional 70lbs worth of kit, I don’t care what genitalia you have - you don’t belong. I’ve trained with a handful of women that were FAR more capable than some of the guys…	/r/MensRights	01/03/23 06:27 PM
0	That guycry subreddit is complete utter feminist trash Dad as the “scolder in chief” is actually a misconception. Studies show moms play the disciplinary role more often. Definitely true in my own life 😆 Either way, its up to interpretation, that’s just how I saw it. Seeing this letter and seeing how the dad’s behavior contributed to this girls’ suicide broke my fucking heart. Can’t imagine being so cruel to your own kid that it would contribute so significantly to them taking their own life… I just can’t understand why the OP is so bent out of shap…	/r/MensRights	01/03/23 05:11 PM
0	That guycry subreddit is complete utter feminist trash Alright, well good luck with that irrational anger, sport.	/r/MensRights	01/03/23 04:41 PM
-2	That guycry subreddit is complete utter feminist trash You must not be a father. Good thing… You know, you have a lot in common with radical feminists. One of the biggest issue’s with radical feminists is that they don’t call out toxic behavior because the toxic person shares their set of genitalia. Think feminists rallying behind Amber Heard. Here you are, going off the fucking rails because someone pointed out toxic behavior by a father. GOD FORBID! You’re the opposite side of the same coin. It’s the horseshoe theory before our eyes!	/r/MensRights	01/03/23 04:30 PM
1	That guycry subreddit is complete utter feminist trash There’s nothing wrong with the post. Not sure why calling out shitty fathers is “anti-men,” as the OP suggests. I saw the post when it was first made and, as a father of a daughter, it certainly affected me. This OP is just angry about everything - biggest victim complex I’ve ever seen. The scary thing is the amount of upvotes this stupidity is receiving.	/r/MensRights	01/03/23 04:15 PM
-6	That guycry subreddit is complete utter feminist trash Holy Christ, my guy. You win the victim Olympics. Happy now? The letter specifically mentions the shitty treatment from the girl’s father. Was it only his fault? No. But that’s not what the post says. It simply suggests that men be good fathers; making it clear that fathers are an important part of children’s lives - we have an effect! Does MRA mean you can’t call out shitty fathers and calling on men to be good fathers? Isn’t that good for men, in general? We can’t criticize men or call them ou…	/r/MensRights	01/03/23 04:01 PM
6	How many of you are left wingers? I’ve always leaned left, but I dropped my “Democrat” voter registration status a couple years ago because they’ve gone off the fucking rails. …proudly an “unaffiliated” voter now…	/r/MensRights	27/02/23 10:04 PM
2	100 million reasons not to, "Believe women." Not just Fridays. Days that end in ‘y’	/r/MensRights	24/02/23 07:40 AM
6	Could transphobia be somewhat rooted in androphobia? This whole topic is a nightmare driven by politics and emotion, more so than science. Since I have no skin in the game, I try to steer clear - it isn’t worth the headache. One case that doesn’t get a lot of attention, which I find interesting, is the case of Quinn. A Canadian National soccer player. Came out as transman in 2020, yet was permitted to play on the women’s national team. The “pick and choose” seems contradictory… https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Quinn_(soccer)	/r/MensRights	24/02/23 07:17 AM
6	"Patriarchy hurts men too!" I kind of see it the same way I interpret older generations saying things like: “back in my day, I worked 18 hours, 7 days a week! You young people are just lazy!” It’s the “I suffered, so must you” mentality. I do think that life as a woman 50-100 years ago came with some serious, important inequalities. But those inequalities have been, for the most part, eliminated through social and legislative change. But that change has now highlighted inequalities in the other direction. But instead of be…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	23/02/23 10:09 PM
28	"Patriarchy hurts men too!" I think that’s the point made in a few of the slides here (especially the last ones). Any attempts to address any men’s issues (by men) is met with disdain and pushback. Just look at that tweet by the “Head of the National Union of Students, Women’s Officer.” That’s the challenge in a nutshell.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	23/02/23 08:48 PM
14	Kavanuagh Rape Accuser Confesses She Lied, Was Never Raped, Never Even Met The Man Fuck no it isn’t. And posting stupid shit like this isn’t helpful or productive. OP is posting this in the wrong sub…	/r/MensRights	22/02/23 03:44 AM
10	Ukraine violates men's human rights. The articles leave room for national defense and military service, specifically. It’s why many countries can have conscription baked into their constitutions. No one is arguing that it’s unfair only men are obligated, but it’s still not violating “international law.” It would make more sense and be truly equal for countries to mandate “able bodied individuals” for drafts versus just men. Women can pull triggers and push buttons just as effectively…	/r/MensRights	17/02/23 08:26 PM
16	Ukraine violates men's human rights. International law does not supersede an individual countries law. The UN Declaration is not binding…it’s more of a “suggestion.” It’s used as a foundation for fundamental values.	/r/MensRights	17/02/23 07:05 PM
14	Fitness influencer’s gym creep battle divides men and women I follow this guy and this is just an example of the media trying to make a mountain out of a mole hill. He has overwhelming support from men AND women. There’s just a very VERY small collection of people that criticize him; but it’s the same group of people that take offense to damn-near everything. He calls out everyone for doing stupid shit in the gym - man or woman.	/r/MensRights	17/02/23 04:51 PM
5	Most men are not loyal, they just have no options Well that’s a dumbass generalization.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/02/23 12:20 AM
23	Sharing an apartment to half costs only applies to men.... I’m confused. Unless she’s living rent free somewhere, wouldn’t it be a cost savings for her too? 🤔	/r/MensRights	16/02/23 12:13 AM
2	How do we start to analyze Male Suicide if men are not studying mental healthcare degrees? Well, the right answer is to put focus on these career fields and encourage more men to enter. We passed legislation and institutions enacted programs to get more women in STEM; we should do the same for men in underrepresented fields… …but we all know that’s unlikely to happen anytime soon.	/r/MensRights	14/02/23 12:52 PM
2	The Echo Chamber It’s pretty clear you’re not here to “learn,” you’re here to troll. Are you always this close minded? If you’re unable to watch a 20 minute video for a start, it’s clear you’re not willing to put in much effort to learn. Seems you “have it all figured out” 😂	/r/MensRights	10/02/23 02:08 PM
2	The Echo Chamber Negative. This is a Richard Reeves video. He’s about the most balances expert on this subject. That response tells me a whoooole lot about that person, however… https://youtu.be/DBG1Wgg32Ok	/r/MensRights	10/02/23 07:11 AM
39	Keep getting mixed statistics. Who is more often bullied boys or girls? Last thing I read showed it was pretty even overall. But if I remember correctly, it differed in the TYPE of bullying; boys experienced more physical bullying and girls more cyberbulling/rumors.	/r/MensRights	09/02/23 07:56 AM
123	I’m a women that’s an avid supporter of men’s rights.. but some discussion here is concerning… Yes, I notice it too and push back at every opportunity. I don’t want this to turn into the other side of the misandry/ultra-feminist coin, but some commenters absolutely go that direction.	/r/MensRights	09/02/23 07:27 AM
2	Patriarchy or Matriarchy? Yeh, I noticed that. Some of these replies read like the opposite side of the uber-feminist/misandry coin…	/r/MensRights	08/02/23 04:59 AM
2	Men crying in front of women What I’m trying to say is that humans have emotions, regardless of sex. But women learned the same lessons as men when they were children: boys don’t cry. Interestingly enough, there’s a study showing that that stereotype is more often reinforced by mothers versus fathers.	/r/MensRights	07/02/23 11:43 PM
4	Patriarchy or Matriarchy? My dude. You seem to be so desperate to be the victim that it’s clouding your rationale mind. Do this: Go to Afghanistan and enroll your daughter in school. Then come back and report on your findings about how patriarchal societies don’t exist. Or have her try to become a cardinal in the Catholic Church… There are ABSOLUTELY societies that oppress women. It’s just happens to be something I don’t believe occurs in the US anymore. Women here have the same opportunities men do. As it should be. Adv…	/r/MensRights	07/02/23 06:38 PM
1	Patriarchy or Matriarchy? That we can agree on.	/r/MensRights	07/02/23 06:13 PM
112	A man is a sexual predator if he dates an adult woman with a considerable age difference. Is a woman also a financial predator if she dates a man with a considerable wealth difference? Just as I don’t care if Madonna dates someone almost 1/3rd her age, I also don’t care what Leonardo DiCaprio does. I will never understand why strangers feel the need to judge consenting adults about their dating habits…	/r/MensRights	07/02/23 06:06 PM
26	One of the biggest mainstream media in the world casually insulting and body shaming men for having long hair I wonder if he has an article about how short hair just doesn’t look very good on some women. Just let people do whatever the fuck they wanna do, yeh? What a dumbass article 😂	/r/MensRights	07/02/23 06:04 PM
0	Patriarchy or Matriarchy? I can’t tell if you’re purposefully being obtuse, but I’ll assume the best in this case. I was speaking metaphorically about the US in particular. Women didn’t have all the rights men had 100 years ago. Shit has changed since then, which is why I find the “crush the patriarchy” shit here so dumb. But I fear we’re trying to swing the pendulum in the other direction to make up for shit this generation of citizens had nothing to do with.	/r/MensRights	07/02/23 06:00 PM
-5	Patriarchy or Matriarchy? Again, you’re focusing on something more related to class than gender. It’s modern day slavery and there are indeed women (mainly in domestic service industries) that do this too. Unfortunately for men, most of the “jobs” available require strength because they’re the shitty manual labor jobs. Even if a woman could do those jobs, a country like Saudi Arabia is extremely gender role oriented and won’t even hire women for those roles. Look man, I’m not here to play the victim Olympics. There are s…	/r/MensRights	07/02/23 05:43 PM
5	Patriarchy or Matriarchy? That is patently false, especially if you consider basic freedoms as part of the “better” equation. Quality of life is a lot more than simply “surviving.” It’s not to say that men don’t suffer in those places too (class is always an important factor), but it’s about the rights afforded; men simply have more freedoms/rights in many of those countries.	/r/MensRights	07/02/23 04:59 PM
6	Patriarchy or Matriarchy? I’m gonna have to disagree with the assertion. There are plenty of examples throughout history of patriarchal societies; many Muslim countries exist that way today. Hell, the US had remnants of it until half a century ago (ie women couldn’t open credit cards without men’s approval, women couldn’t serve on juries, etc). A lot has changed in the US since so the “crush the patriarchy” argument is pretty irrelevant.	/r/MensRights	07/02/23 03:47 PM
114	Men crying in front of women Correct. Because despite what women say, they’ve been conditioned by society the same way men have. Now, it’s not to say that ALL women react negatively, but in my own experience, it’s always been an unpleasant experience. Awkwardness, infantilizing, silence…I avoid at all costs…	/r/MensRights	07/02/23 07:32 AM
1	Journalists reject OBJECTIVITY & TRUTH as an 'outmoded,' 'failed concept:' 'World view of middle-aged white men' I sometimes wonder what the media landscape would look like if Reagan didn’t veto the “Fairness Doctrine.” Better, worse, no different?	/r/MensRights	05/02/23 06:36 PM
13	False rape accusation. Same thing as always. She (Alice Pacquet) lied and ruined his life (Gerry Sklavanous). Nothing happened to her. She's living her best life posting on instagram whereas Google has purged all information regarding this case. I’m gonna need someone to explain that hairdo during her interview… But I’ve learned anyone with BPD should be met with EXTREME skepticism right from the start…	/r/AntiFeminists	03/02/23 05:10 AM
2	Who has it worse Men or Women? Re-read, my dude. Life doesn’t discriminate. Life is suffering for everyone. It’s governments, institutions, and societies that discriminate.	/r/MensRights	02/02/23 03:44 AM
3	You cannot have a monopoly on 'gender equality' I could definitely see that interpretation being a potential influence now that you mention it…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	01/02/23 10:22 PM
14	You cannot have a monopoly on 'gender equality' “I don’t believe men and women are equal” had a higher percentage of woman reporting in the affirmative? Not gonna lie, that one surprised me…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	01/02/23 06:21 PM
6	Who has it worse Men or Women? I’m tired of playing the victim Olympics. This isn’t a competition. Life is suffering….it doesn’t discriminate. We just need to get people/governments to stop discriminating too…	/r/MensRights	01/02/23 02:52 PM
15	Woman went on six dates a week to save on food: ‘I didn’t buy groceries for two years’ Definitely a more popular thing than ever realized. Have a friend who’s female co-worker told him recently “I don’t cook, I date.” She’d go on at least 3-4 dates a week so the dudes would buy her dinner.	/r/MensRights	25/01/23 02:29 PM
21	Woman who impregnated self with stolen semen from billionaire wins child support battle This particular story isn’t real.	/r/MensRights	25/01/23 01:44 AM
2	Thought You All Would Enjoy This Hypocrisy On the bright side, the vast majority of people commenting are in agreement with the OP and the ones trying to downplay the issue are getting down voted to oblivion.	/r/MensRights	24/01/23 11:13 PM
14	Men Reveal the 'Final Straw' That Led to Filing for Divorce Wow. My wife (working on the ‘ex’ part) checks 9 of these boxes. Kind of a gut punch to see this all on one list and how much of it is applicable…	/r/MensRights	23/01/23 05:47 PM
12	What are your opinions on powerful men being the main instigators of false accusations? Is data provided to back this claim, or is she drawing a conclusion based on what she WANTS the answer to be? I can see the desire for prosecution playing into this (gotta get them conviction numbers), but that also makes it seem like women are spectators just being pulled along; like the author doesn’t think much of women…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	21/01/23 06:13 AM
19	Are men less willing to engage in traditional talking therapy because therapy has been feminised? My opinion: it’s plausible. I’ve been through individual and couples therapy (with wife). My wife has been going to therapy for years, but it’s new to me. One difference I noticed is that we each look for VASTLY different experiences out of therapy. I HATE just sitting there talking. I want an action to take when I’m done. Talking about shit is fine and all, but I want (no, I NEED) to leave with something I can do until our next meeting. I need to have a goal and I need to be working toward it. …	/r/MensRights	20/01/23 11:41 PM
20	If feminism promotes female independence and self-suffeciency, why are men expected to still "adult" much faster than women? Because society wants you to hurry up and start providing so you can have “value”….	/r/MensRights	17/01/23 06:51 PM
5	UK:Mother-of-three, 28, who groomed a 15-year-old boy into a sexual relationship after plying him with cannabis and alcohol is spared jail What in the ever-loving fuck are you arguing about? 😂 The Daily Mail is, indeed, a mediocre source, at best. But just like Fox News and CNN, even a broken clock is right twice a day. It’s EXTREMELY easy to fact-check this article, so does it make you feel more comfortable if it has “msn” in the url? And that it was written by a local reporter? If so, here you go: https://www.msn.com/en-gb/news/world/ramsgate-woman-avoids-jail-after-having-sex-with-underage-boy/ar-AA16nH7I Now you can actually di…	/r/MensRights	17/01/23 02:10 PM
58	New research questions if pornography is degrading to women, or if we only say that because of unfair stereotypes about men Oh man, imagine writing the grant application for this study… “So, ya see, I wanna look at and study cumshots. Specifically facials…”	/r/MensRights	13/01/23 05:03 PM
2	"What barriers?" "your question is hostile" Glad she stuck to the question and kept coming back to it with every sidestep. And no one’s answered yet 😂	/r/MensRights	05/01/23 05:03 AM
4	Has the political left failed men? I remember reading an article about this based on some dumbass comment by Sheryl Sandberg. Tracked it down. 6% higher rate of military conflicts initiated by women leaders. I guess genitalia doesn’t dictate temperament and judgement. There was a separate article that went back to king/queen days and found that Queens did the same thing… https://www.forbes.com/sites/kimelsesser/2022/03/08/sheryl-sandberg-says-female-leaders-dont-go-to-war-heres-what-research-says/?sh=556d30661fa7	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	05/01/23 12:25 AM
8	How is it that this subreddit has 35% more memebers than r/feminism subreddit? Mostly true, but the last stats I saw for worldwide Reddit was a nearly 50-50 split. But it is dominated by men in the US	/r/MensRights	02/01/23 05:33 PM
2	I am slowly starting to despise Andrew Tate You’re JUST starting to despise this guy? Tate is, and always has been, a fucking tool…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/12/22 12:52 PM
7	Taiwan to extend conscription to a year for all 18 year old males (only males). Females are more than capable of being in combat roles. In my opinion, however, whereas an average to above-average man could function effectively as an infantryman, it would take an exceptional woman to effectively function in that same role. There are always outliers when it comes to physical strength and the female outliers are who could function just fine in a combat role…	/r/MensRights	28/12/22 12:20 AM
16	Taiwan to extend conscription to a year for all 18 year old males (only males). As I said, all military service come with risk, but it varies SIGNIFICANTLY based on one’s job. Front-line, “boots on the ground” combat type work, which is historically dominated by men, carries a lot more risk. It’s a fact, not a feeling. That’s why the US opening combat roles to women was a big deal - it’s ultimately going to lead to more casualties that aren’t just men.	/r/MensRights	27/12/22 08:53 PM
25	Taiwan to extend conscription to a year for all 18 year old males (only males). All military service comes with inherent risk. But let’s not pretend that being a supply clerk on a base or a nurse in a hospital is just as dangerous as being a frontline infantry soldier. This is why the US military opening up most combat roles to women was a significant move…	/r/MensRights	27/12/22 08:35 PM
4	Working wives and sharing living expenses I supported my ex for 12 years, through dating and marriage; even put her through school. She didn’t work when we had our kid, but worked before. Never asked for a penny. After the kid, she completed another degree to get the job she wanted. 2 months after she started her job, I had the “time to contribute discussion” and you woulda thought I was asking her to donate a kidney. I’ve always handled all finances, so when I told her what “half” was, she just about lost her mind. 6 months later she d…	/r/MensRights	16/12/22 03:02 PM
13	No, Andrew Tate is Not Some Kind of Martyr for Men's Rights - Woke Father Tate is a tool. Should be ignored.	/r/MensRights	15/12/22 04:34 PM
44	Look guys, it turns out your every problem has already been addressed with the Feminism 101 approach, but you didn't even realise it, of course! BREAKING: Hardcore feminist thinks hardcore feminism is the bees-knees!	/r/MensRights	12/12/22 04:42 AM
6	A post from our favourite sub (sarcasm) about why men should not try to defend themselves against physical violence of women. barely any good points which also contrdicts themselves. My favorite comment: “I think what really frustrates me is the endless comments of woman-hating that immediately arises on Reddit when there is any kind of woman doing something wrong” Ya don’t fuckin say, Becky? It DOES suck when an entire gender is demonized for the actions of a few…	/r/MensRights	12/12/22 04:22 AM
2	Ex wife calls kids everyday If she is forcing them to talk to her, it’s dumb and selfish. I always ask my kid if she WANTS to talk to her mom. If she does, they Facetime for 15 mins. If not, I explain that she doesn’t that night and maybe the next night. Same routine when she’s with her mom. Either way, the kids need to be brought into this decision…	/r/Divorce_Men	11/12/22 09:10 PM
4	Julia Fox is pretty sure all pdph*les are male She seems totally mentally stable….	/r/MensRights	29/11/22 05:27 PM
1	What will you tell your sons about emotions? The Macho Man answer is the way: https://youtu.be/wz-VJl7UkB8	/r/MensRights	08/11/22 05:27 PM
24	This woman thinks that men are to blame for commiting suicide. "How does the consequences of your own actions taste?" Seriously?? Ironically, a study showed that it was mothers who showed bias when it came to their children expressing emotion. So, perhaps this lady should do some studying before she draws conclusions: “Results indicated that mothers show more favorable attitudes toward sadness and anger expression by girls versus boys. Fathers showed no preference in either IAT, suggesting a lack of bias about the expression of sadness and anger. Mothers’ performance on IATang was negatively associated with supportive sadn…	/r/MensRights	01/11/22 09:19 PM
2	My wife insists she is done, Ooooooh man if this ain’t the most accurate suggestion….	/r/Divorce_Men	22/09/22 04:44 PM
2	My wife insists she is done, Good call. I was going to suggest looking into BPD as well. Wont necessarily help the overall situation (I’m going out on a limb and assuming she won’t be interested in hearing about it), but it sure does help to knowing wtf is going on with someone around you…	/r/Divorce_Men	22/09/22 03:00 PM