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Question For WomenCool-Cardiologist544/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 10:59 PM
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Which way is it trending?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 03:48 AM
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Who's having kids? My generation definitely isn't. These are gripes about domestic life that most men of my generation do not have access to in the first place. We're not living with partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 03:38 AM
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The one where women tell everybody and anybody to kiss their ass if they inconvenience or bore them
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 12:32 AM
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It's not a given that she has contributed, and many kinds of contracts have clauses where if you breach the terms of it then you forfeit what you receive from the contract. As the party who's breaking the contract, I'm not inclined to be sympathetic to leaving her without anything. Would I do that to my ex-wife, nope. But I'm not going to act like it's crazy. If you are trying to argue that this is society's view, I have a bridge to sell you. I'm arguing that this is many women's view of themsel…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 05:15 PM
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Because the starting point for many women is to have no responsibility. And you're showing a good example with the excuses for the post marriage and kids lesbians. Doesn't matter what the damage is to other people or how practical the change asked for is, it's too much and it's unfair. Starting the conversation on what women should do will be complemented by the many conversations that have already happened privately and publicly about what men should be doing. We are told to wrap it up, we are …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 01:54 PM
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Women are allowed to stop struggling without being deemed a failure. That's all I meant by working hard. I'm not saying women don't work hard. But nobody expects to you work yourself into the grave just to make other people happy. You can tell them to go to hell, you can cut ties, you can focus on yourself and do whatever you want to make yourself feel better.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 02:23 AM
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Because women are half of society. No one can do anything here without affecting the other. And the impetus for men organizing and improving themselves is often women and their relationships. Men will never do anything in a vacuum and they're not going to pretend that women aren't involved. That's the thing, men aren't apathetic toward women. They feel things, and that has social affects on what men are willing and not willing to do with each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 02:08 AM
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I wouldn't go to a sex tourism spot. But getting out of town would help, getting far out of town.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 01:41 AM
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At some point you have to factor in the elephant in the room. None of this is relevant if people simply want to talk to you. And by people, I mean women. All of this minutiae is only perceptible because women are generally disengaged from this process. And like it that way. They like this world where men don't talk to them because the lighting isn't right and things aren't exactly optimal for making small talk. The perfectionism that leads to ruminating on these things only serves to keep men mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 01:40 AM
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Men have agency too. Yes they do. And they're using it. That's why they're voting for right wing parties and starting their podcasts and sharing their statistics. That's men using their agency, shifting their mindsets and learning to support each other. Using women as an outside force to organize against. Women do not like it when men take things into their own hands without their input being welcome. Hence the backlash to the above. I don't the situation is hopeless, it's just going to come to …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 01:31 AM
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I never said anything about feminism. I'm talking about women. Now go be dense somewhere else.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 01:19 AM
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“look at these women being unsympathetic, therefore stay silent and suffer.” That sounds less like a solution and more like giving up. Do you think men kill themselves because they're bored? They do it because they're beat down and they don't want to struggle anymore. You can’t complain that nobody is helping men and then turn around and tell men their only option is to shut up and suffer. It's not their only option, I was explaining to you why your original question about men's attitudes contri…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 01:18 AM
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I'm not speaking for all men. I'm speaking for the men like me. Who are here, also making comments. maybe you are not as left as you think you are, I'm plenty left. I just don't think men should be doormats for women to wipe their feet on. Socialism is about people standing up for themselves and protecting their right to a dignified life. There's nothing about a dignified life that includes being berated by your peers, blamed for what you've never done, and being expected to make space for griev…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 12:42 AM
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Logistics logistics logististics. And they wonder why guys are in their heads so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 12:39 AM
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There are literally leftist men on this thread telling you this. I am one of them. I vote Green for fuck sakes. You don't get to tell me what other men think if you can't even listen to the one in front of you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 12:34 AM
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You're not who I responded to. The only reason I'm talking to Dana is because I think she might give a rat's ass about a guy on a good day.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 12:33 AM
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- What patterns have you personally noticed in your own experiences? I attract women that don't take care of themselves, in some fashion. I give people that I have many misgivings about chances and once I've fought my own instincts for a few weeks to spare their feelings, I break up with them and take really long break from dating. Because women like that are damn near the only ones that I can find that are interested. And they're not necessarily doing poorly for themselves. Most make good money…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 12:29 AM
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Leftist men understand this concept, so I'm sure everyone can. Many leftist men are also tired of being talked to and around us like this. And there is so much more to men's problems than sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 12:13 AM
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Read the responses from the other women here. You don’t think that contributes to loneliness, isolation, and poor mental health? Giving people a coping mechanism that works poorly and giving people the problems that they have to cope with are two different things. Life for men is about working hard and doing whatever you can to keep yourself working. Shutting down your feelings, especially when the people who you would open up to treat you like *gestures to most of the women's answers on this th…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 12:02 AM
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You really think highly of yourself if you're comparing yourself to dogs.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 11:43 PM
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Men are supposed to be more discerning It's not just this, but also the opposite has become the case for women. Less discerning, less considerate, etc. Men have heightened behavioral expectations, but they're also packaged with the destruction of many of the expectations that already existed for women. Things as simple as basic courtesy when speaking to other people are no longer universally understood as manners. It's seen as unnecessary or even that men aren't worth speaking to in a respectful…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 08:12 PM
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I have elected to keep the argument somewhere productive. I don't think bi women are categorically fake. But I'm not going to fight about human beings possibly being liars. Some people are impressionable and they will say and act whatever way they think will keep them accepted.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 07:46 PM
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Why would hateful men change my mind about hateful women?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 07:44 PM
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I don't watch manosphere content. I just pay attention to how the women that I watch and spend time with interact with and speak about men. They have their favorite males that they make exceptions for and that's it. I'm not brainwashed, I'm tired.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 07:09 PM
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That feminism is also teaching women to hate men… but it’s not. Just cause the casual hatred of men doesn't register to you doesn't make it not real. Women tend to use social violence more than men, so it's easier to ignore and excuse the harm they do, but it's there. From the shunning, to the antagonizing, meanspirited put-downs, the weaponization of systems of authority, to the casual disregard of pretty much any thing remotely concerning men's quality of life, there's plenty reason to say tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 06:57 PM
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rage bating boys into hating women before they have even kissed one. Well it takes so long for them to get a kiss, those influencers have plenty of time to do their work. Also I’m not talking about one man. I am talking about dozens of popular male That's my point. You're right that that is a big problem. But any one of those people aren't a lot on their own. That's all I meant.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 06:45 PM
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One man is a drop in the bucket compared to the cultural footprint of a movement.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 06:41 PM
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Straight people can be open about attraction to one gender, but when a bi person talks about their sexuality, it's for social points? If a straight person has to display how "straight" they are everyone will assume they're in the closet. And sometimes they would be right. Heterosexuals don't generally socialize with one another based around their heterosexuality, and there are not yet straight pride parades around the country. Queerness of all kinds operates as a different kind of identity than …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 06:11 PM
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Why not?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 05:36 PM
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I'm not saying they're lying. Just that they're under a kind of social pressure to claim identities that they'd otherwise probably not speak about much. Their social circles are what makes their sexuality relevant in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 05:36 PM
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Gotta remember too, a lot of people just wanna be “interesting” or “special” so they’ll claim to be demisexual or whatever new sexuality or gender thing is coming out. Not all, but a good chunk. I think it's a byproduct of crowdsourcing their introspection. When you start defining yourself through the spaces you find yourself in and the people there, you place yourself in a position where group and personal identity stop being distinct. And I think that's why so many women end up as half-practic…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 03:27 PM
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I think it doesn't help understanding much that many women can exist at any point of the spectrum depending on who they're talking to, what stage of their cycle they're on, what medicines they're taking, etc. I think this is one of those things where we try to map a male experience of sexuality onto women and it leads to confusion when a concrete definition of a word doesn't capture the reality. I don't know if we'd need a new word or not, but I feel like we only have this particular conversatio…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 03:23 PM
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I see
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 07:23 PM
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So you trusted him after getting to know him over a period of time?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 07:16 PM
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It’s hard to ‘choose well’ when you are so naive I think I have a hard time accepting that it's not normal to be self aware at younger ages, in the way I'm accustomed to anyway. Like, there were things I didn't know how to do or didn't have experience with, because I was young. But the idea that I would be okay "dating" anyone significantly older than me just feels like bad news on its face. I never quite get how it ever seems like a good idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 06:30 PM
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Yes you're outliers. Edit: And that's not a bad thing, I feel I should add. But seriously, most people aren't wired like this. Dating wouldn't be this broken if this was what men were dealing with.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 04:59 PM
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Puberty doesn't make you more mature. It just makes other people treat you that way. And you know what stunts people's emotional growth? Being forced into roles they're not ready for. There's nothing about body hair and your voice changing that makes you more mature. It just means adults start looking at you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 04:22 PM
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I think everyone complains too unconstructively. Myself included. If there's not a practical ask you can make of another normal person, your complaint is probably wrong headed.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 04:15 PM
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You don't think your partner would do the same for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 08:55 AM
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I'm trying to be nice, cause I obviously have a screw or two loose for coming back here again and again.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 08:49 AM
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Mutual sacrifice is what makes lasting relationships function. Not just romantic ones. Familial, friendly ones too. You don't have to sacrifice a life, just some extra time, some extra effort. Support those you're close to when life is hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 08:48 AM
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They exacerbate the universal issues, basically. Women don't lose relationships because they're poor.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 10:09 PM
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Economic and social ones
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 11:18 AM
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I think it's hopelessness from having their struggles in life go unsupported and knowing just how little help is on the way for them. Some of it does come from the women in their lives. Women like the original comment definitely push men to suicide. Could you imagine having your life fall apart and the only people you know is someone who talks like that? You're screwed. It's more than just "women", but the more women there are who end up like this, the more they contribute to those numbers. Wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 11:02 AM
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I guess all those men killing themselves are just checking out for nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 02:09 AM
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That's fair
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 09:29 PM
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You're attacking an idea that I didn't propose. I never said that women shouldn't be able to talk to each other. I would like them to be more conscientious in the conclusions that they come to. But unfortunately, that isn't happening currently because it spreads faster than critical thinking can keep up with. The Kill All Men types aren't cautious, they're provocateurs and they revil in belittling and attacking men. That's not learning from other women's experiences, it's using them as a justifi…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 09:22 PM
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If anybody has more than like 3 posts on this sub, I start thinking they're a fed
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 08:58 PM
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You never learned that pride comes before a fall?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 08:49 PM
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Well don't take what I've said as me excusing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 08:43 PM
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Men accept the differences in other men both because we are men and because other men's motivations aren't a mystery. You've got to be a really strange man for us to have no clue why you did something. But all women have to be is a normal woman for us to be just as in the dark People are afraid of what they don't understand and women don't explain themselves well.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 08:25 PM
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No, no you won't sis.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 08:20 PM
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Just because Black People have been slightly less sexually repressed doesn't mean that we weren't still held to these standards and expectations
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 08:20 PM
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Yeah, I think the point OP was making was that new age misogyny is so vitriolic because it reflects the attitudes directed at young men. Not that saying that women should be slaves is just men being men. But I can't speak for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 08:14 PM
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I don't think that behavior is inherent to men if that's what you mean. It's part of human nature obviously, given that we do it, dependably and repeatedly over time, but no I wouldn't define those things as part of being a man. I think you're misreading the comment. But let me re-read it
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 08:08 PM
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Are you talking about the stoning etc. Comment? Cause that's the parent comment that I'm seeing
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 08:03 PM
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If women's anger was directed at the men responsible for those things then you would have a point. But it's not. If you're a man. You're always as good as the worst of the worst, and there is no way for men to defend themselves from that. And because of the ways women socialize, they can't get away from it either. Because every prejudice women have becomes a social contagion. People who've never had a negative experience with a man in real life will vicariously take on the grievances of other wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 07:52 PM
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Because they realize open ended empathy on this front is a recipe for disaster. Men have to kill the part of themselves that cares how you feel upfront in order to approach.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 09:57 PM
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I think that's because we trust needs more than wants because in women wants change with the day but needs are consistent.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 09:53 PM
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Words aren't worth as much as actions. When they do end up with someone, what do they look like, what do they have?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 09:31 PM
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There's this thing called society, and it affects you no matter how disengaged you try to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 09:24 PM
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You realize that this just says that none of the women you've met have been attracted to responsible men who invest time in their families
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 09:23 PM
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Sis, we don't have a way to know if you'll be uncomfortable. And if you paid attention to what men have to say about the subject, you'd know that talking to someone is much more than enough to make someone uncomfortable.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 09:10 PM
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You meet a whole lot more people by talking to them. If you categorically avoid talking to women unless prompted, you're going to alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 09:06 PM
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That's the thing. It's only loser and winners when dating is dominated by the kinds of sociopathic dating norms we have currently. In a more healthy environment people would have more room to maneuver, try new things, end bad relationships, start new ones. It's only zero sum when we're all chasing the same goals, same people, judging ourselves based on the narrowest metrics. If we lower the tempo and build more trust, there's more room for people to try things out instead of doubling down and hu…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 07:11 PM
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Touching each other wouldn't hurt either. Everyone's too afraid of each other for a healthy outcome.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 06:44 PM
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I think a solution would have to start with dismantling the institutions that keep pushing people toward those extremes. Like, I think the reason why so many men's sexualities are disregulated/dysfunctional is because the threshold for engaging with women is so high and finding reciprocal attention can take years for some guys. And the apps only make that worse. The less online we all are, the more healthy things can get. It doesn't fix anything on its own, but so long as online is a factor, peo…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 06:36 PM
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Yes ma'am, now we're getting somewhere
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 06:19 PM
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I skipped eating on my lunch today, so I'm taking this is as a sign to go eat
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 05:47 PM
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It's not because of different experiences. It's just mental capacity. Empathy is for bridging the gaps between people's experiences. That's its function. But you have to have it to use it. There's more than enough of people's experiences and emotions getting thrown back and forth for those that are capable of empathizing to do so. Most just don't have the inclination or desire to use what little they have, if they have any. Edit: Men don’t like dating because it involves exposing themselves to p…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 05:36 PM
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Paint the picture
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 05:25 PM
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I agree with you here. There's a lot of negative perceptions that men have for other men that are rarely born out. Men aren't perfect, but we're not just takers either
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 05:22 PM
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Oh, that's something different. I thought you were talking about something more...ambiguous. Helping a classmate is just neighborly. Sorry he blew you off
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 04:53 PM
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Thank you. Honestly, I just don't get how you're supposed to find good people. Cause I know it's not like this for everybody and I know there are women who don't have a complex about this stuff...somewhere. I just don't meet them. So long as it doesn't involve dating, it's easier to find people. But there's just something about a man wanting a partner that's offputting to the people I've called friends. Is that not your experience?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 04:51 PM
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No, it's step 2 and ignoring step 1 is why these conversations go in circles. More men want to date than just the ones you think deserve to.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 04:40 PM
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That light going out was him mentally preparing to put his time and energy elsewhere. We don't find love by sitting around waiting for random acts of chance. We have to go make it happen. That takes time and energy. Time and energy that continuing to talk to you uses up. That's not your humanity being disregarded, that's him reorienting where he puts his effort. Cause his effort is the only way he's going to get what he's looking for. And talking to you isn't going to help him.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 04:37 PM
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This would mean finding women our age that aren't bigots who actually want us to succeed in dating. Most women either don't give a damn or actively repulsed by the idea that you would ever ask for even the most basic form of support. Helpful women are a positive. You're not always going to find that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 04:33 PM
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Funny how the conclusion always circles back to women being at fault. Well what is women's fault then?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 03:15 PM
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I'm not the guy who started this thread!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 03:15 PM
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Every time a man does something that women reward, that's an incentivized behavior
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 03:02 PM
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We've established that they can do better. And their unwillingness to do so is a failing.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 02:58 PM
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If you stop making things that aren't ducks quack, you'll be able to figure who the real ducks are
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 02:28 PM
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It's better than assumptions, which is what the norm is
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 01:43 PM
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Yes, an educated guess based on years of experience is a pretty good system. If you are actually paying attention over time. If you just expect people to pop into your life from the smoke and fog, then yeah you're going to be pretty blind. What have you been doing all your life? Do you understand the social dynamics around you? Do you have any concept of people's potential motivations? Can you tell what kind of life someone has had from how they talk, or dress, what they spend their money. Can y…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 12:37 PM
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You've got to be really right-brained to think that observation, comparison, and thinking are being psychic. Study people. That is not psychic.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 11:53 AM
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Learn how to read people. Compare/contrast. Use your eyes and pay attention to them Use your mind and try to figure the world around you out.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 11:49 AM
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The same goes for women. Women assume their fellow women are decent upstanding people who anyone would be lucky to be with.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 11:47 AM
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Why do some of you act like all these “nice and good men” are approaching women all the time and women are just turning them down? We act like they're there and you're not talking to them. They don't need to approach you. Go approach them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 11:45 AM
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Do you think that saying the n word when you’re 12 years old permanently defines you as a racist? Racism is more complicated than that. And the amount of people that are just a more experienced version of the person they were when they were 12 is damn high. Most people do not undergo a massive transformation from that age to adulthood, they just go through puberty and starting working/go to college. They're still as immature or mature as they were always going to be. Temperament matters a lot mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 11:26 AM
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When we stop focusing on our differences and instead focus on what connects us That would take empathy and a desire for understanding, rare things.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 11:20 AM
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And since when did most people grow up? Children aren't a separate species.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 11:18 AM
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Nah. Some people are just adaptable and do what works.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 11:16 AM
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Girlypop, go buy a gun
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 11:13 AM
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Feeling afraid, Complaining about feeling afraid, Talking shit about men in general, and Having enough faith in male humanity to keep trying to find safe ones to date anyway. My point is that any woman doing all of these at once isn't handling things well or in a way that makes sense, and they should stay home (which you are taking incredibly literally, I might add) until they figure their shit out to resolve their contradictory feelings and behavior. You have to take some precautions to mitigat…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 11:12 AM
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Power is meeting your oppressors with enough force that they'll never be able to put you in a camp. Spiritual strength and power are not the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 11:08 AM
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Keeping yourself safe is not a punishment. If you cannot understand the argument, then you need to read it again. Women who are afraid of men and dating should stay home if they are so afraid. I know a guy who got mugged and beat up a bit a few years ago, he still admits to being a bit nervous and jumpy, especially when he's walking around alone at night. Should he stay the fuck home? If he can't handle being in public, yes he should stay home. If your fear makes you dysfunctional, then that is …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 01:42 AM
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I'm aware, that's why I gave a serious answer beneath the quip. But drawing the attention of people that can hurt you when you cannot defend yourself from them isn't power. Simply isn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 12:28 AM
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Nah, these girls are just like this. They will transition from being antisocial and single, to selectively social with whoever they make an exception for and leave the dating pool. There is no dating slump to get over. This is just how it is. A joyless grind trying to find one person in a million who'll give you the time of day who isn't a complete mess themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 12:12 AM
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If she cared to understand this or had the capacity, she wouldn't have wrote what she wrote.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 12:09 AM
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This is true, but there's a reason why the term sausage fest existed before apps. It's hard to find a decent ratio of women to men no matter where you go or do.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 11:55 PM
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a cool bar is still going to be packed. They're packed full of cliques.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 11:42 PM
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In video game terms, it's aggro. But seriously, the capacity to be provocative is not power. It's useful for bonding with one another, it can spur on cultural changes or birth new ideas, but it's not power.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 11:01 PM
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Dude you sound like you relax to the smell of discharge scented candles
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 04:50 PM
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Man hating women who think they're covert rapists date all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 02:06 PM
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This is why so many of us stay now. You will never get your way, this way. Have at it. You're projecting onto me if you think I care about "having my way". Most men just want a social dynamic between them and women that doesn't make everyone miserable. I don't need to win. You don't have to lose. Or vice versa. There really is no negotiating with conditional humanity How is a lack of courtesy denying your humanity? We don't expect any consideration from women, that was my whole point. It wasn't …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 02:03 PM
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And if I need to take me time getting to know a girl, and demonstrate "extra" effort to make her aware she's safe... That's fine. You lack self-respect. That's your call if you want to go through all of that, but there is no placating pathological fear. Psychologically, there's no amount of "effort" that's going to make a woman that is marinating in these emotions give you an actual fair shot. That energy is better spent on a woman who's not an anxious wreck. If she just ISNT INTERESTED in my tr…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 12:38 PM
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And? If he could get sex he would most likely enjoy it. Simple friction. You do realize men can have bad sex too right?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 12:32 PM
1

How old is she, this sounds like the before times
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 12:29 PM
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If that was the case, why bother arguing with women in the first place? The act of argument is an acknowledgement that another person has a mind worth changing.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 12:27 PM
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I'm not defending this guy's language. But women don't give a damn about men regardless of how the point is made. It's up to women to incentivize men to speak respectfully. Because men get the same responses regardless. Your mind isn't going to change, your behavior isn't either. That's the whole point of speaking to another person, to spur on a change of actions. Women like how they handle things with men, they have no reason to change as they already do what they want. Why should women feel fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 12:23 PM
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By your logic, locking your front door would mean you should never leave your house. I'm not complaining about how dangerous leaving the house is. And I'm not trying to coordinate with other people not to open their front doors. Consistency isn't there. Their mouths say one thing, their actions say another. And men are expected to weigh the two equally and take those disparate complaints and concerns into account. As if we can do anything about any of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 12:09 PM
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Where in the world are you pulling that number from
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 12:05 PM
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I don't like agreeing with you, but seriously. Men's goodwill toward women is a society stabilizer. And when it doesn't exist, things gets bad. The Taliban is a prime example of what happens when the special affordances to women are consciously dismantled. And I'm tired of women on subs like these taking these observations as a threat themselves. The threat comes from empowering the kinds of men who genuinely do not give a shit if they breathe or not to spread their worldview.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 12:01 PM
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That isn't power.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 11:55 AM
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Participating in an activity doesn’t prove the risk isn’t real. When you participate while also speaking about men in the ways that are normal among women, it does disprove it. Because if we're so dangerous, and we're not worth shit, why the hell are you dating us? It's the misandry that makes men call out the hypocrisy. It'd be different if women actually had good things to say about relationships and dating, but there's an endless list of complaints. There's resentment, there's trauma, and fea…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 11:52 AM
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They picked the bear because they lack self respect and have an obsequious desire to placate women. You can acknowledge real fears without letting people equivocate yourself with a wild animal.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 11:47 AM
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That is not true for the ages that are most relevant to conversations about dating. If you're under 30, most have nothing or something close to it. Relationship/sexual experience is scarce for young men. Y'know, the age range that's supposed to be gaining experience, having kids, starting long term relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 11:45 AM
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I'm assuming they mean escorts. Something most men will never think about using.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 04:08 AM
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I think there are some men who want children for a sense of control, some for a sense of future, some simply crave authenticity. There's an honesty in the relationship between a parent and child that doesn't exist almost anywhere else. You have to understand, an honest relationship where you can simply push someone else to be their best, to grow, and to learn as much as they can, you can't get it anywhere else. Mentorship is an emotional need that we seldom get to satisfy. I just want to guide s…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 04:04 AM
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Men have existed longer than the United States. I'm not changing the frame, I'm acknowledging it. Women on here make vast claims about what's effectively human existence on this planet. If she wants to talk about US History. Then she needs to say that. And in her reply she did so, and I responded to that. There's more of a point there but still I don't think it tracks.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 04:02 PM
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Ehh, I can sort of see what you mean. But only if you're being very limited in how you're making the connection. We cannot vote if we're not signed up for the Selective Service. Whether there's an active draft or not, our political participation is dependent on having our name in the manpower pool for the US Military. One of the many justifications for giving Black men citizenship/the vote was that we had fought in the Civil War (with distinction). Likewise, part of the justification for further…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 02:26 PM
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No, that's called pursuit. Building rapport is part of approaching people
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 12:16 PM
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....The foundation of the concept of western citizenship is rooted in citizen militias. Free-born, landholding, right-having, citizens with a say in government were literally the only people allowed to bear arms in the past. The world you live in is built on the ideals that civic participation carries obligations to the state. It's only in the last 300 years and I'm being very generous, that this ideal has been challenged or dismantled. (((Reminder that men’s rights like voting were never contin…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 11:44 AM
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This is a very "You hate waffles" response to that statement. The average man of normal dating age is single with low to no experience with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 11:35 AM
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I have only ever paid a few bucks for an extra super like, and that was because I saw a girl I used to know in High School and wanted to shoot my shot. That was years ago. As a matter of principle I will never buy a subscription because paying doesn't guarantee that someone will want you. I can get likes and matches when my account is new, that means people like me enough without an artificial boost. I can work with that. And while I don't like approaching in real life (not a lot of organic reas…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 08:37 AM
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So women should take everything Andrew Tate says or Nick Fuentes or the dudes on the flesh and fit podcast as an active threat? I have been saying this a million different times on this sub across multiple accounts. YES YES IT IS A THREAT. THEY ARE GOING TO HURT YOU. The urge to reduce every threat to a joke is going to be the death of a lot of people in this country, because they can't take shit serious. Nazi misogynists (Fuentes) are not a benign internet subculture. They are an incubator for …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 12:21 AM
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I wouldn't see it as "strange" I'm not really wired for random gifts but it's not strange. I'm more of a spontaneous generosity rather than giving you objects kind of guy. I don't collect knicknacks or buy things I don't really need the vast majority of the time. The ways some people just spend all their money on interesting baubles stresses me out sometimes. But that's because I'm very aware of money and how much I need it for basic life things. I notice that people who grew up more comfortable…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 07:20 PM
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Haven't seen that about Obama. But yes, Clinton is a rapist yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 03:04 AM
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What's a solution that you can think of?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 01:40 AM
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I have found him guilty
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 12:25 AM
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He's a rapist. Litigating this at this point in time is not worth any one's time. Either you respect the mountain of evidence and testimonials, or you don't. He's a rapist. At least
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 12:19 AM
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My fingers are crossed for you, sis. Trying to fight “the cunt that lives in my head” Got any tips? I've got a couple in mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 03:03 PM
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Obviously you’ve heard the stereotype of the fat white woman and the black guy. I’ve had a black guy ask if I’ve been with other black men before. Because he also had been treated like a thing to “check off.” I had. But not in any sort of oh yay he’s black kind of way. I asked if he had ever been with a fat white woman before. He had. Almost exclusively. I swear this needs to be studied. Like, as subject of the study, this needs to be studied. Big women are not my only relationship experience, b…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 02:50 PM
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But I’m also a women and know that men will fuck things they don’t find sexy. It's more complicated than that, but I don't think the complicated answer is any nicer to hear. But I understand what you mean now. I should hope that you don't see yourself in terms that harsh. I don't always think that radical/delusional positivity is the answer, but you do owe it yourself to see your own humanity and worth as a person. You don't deserve to get treated like that. And I say that as a guy who has broke…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 02:30 PM
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They're not the outliers anymore, is my point. I just don't see a reason to highlight that fact because it doesn’t actually mean anything at all It does mean something, that normal no longer means what you think it does.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 02:04 PM
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Women wanting a useful man is a lot more common than a man wanting a live-in maid. Men are more on board with sexual equality, in practical terms, than women. That means lifestyle, expectations, what you think your spouse is for. giving all credence to husband material negative implications for the husband’s lived experience and zero the wifey material negative implications for the wife’s lived experience That's not what I'm doing. I'm saying that the negative experiences are still within the re…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 02:02 PM
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think so. I think communication is a big part of it. Introspection is part of it. Taking accountability is part of it. Being willing and able to grow and learn and adapt. Finding what works within the individual relationship instead of what you think a cookie cutter good relationship is “supposed” to be. It’s not easy. And not everyone will find people that are good matches. The internet makes people think the world is a lot smaller than it is. Most relationships start because of luck. I like ho…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 01:53 PM
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I didn't say that women are more mentally ill than men. Just that they are more diagnosed, which you agree with. This a very pedantic subreddit where people are very quick to say "What's your source" so I'm basing my argument in what statistics can show. I think we're all going nuts, but I can't prove that, only extrapolate. Because there is literally no logic in that. I'm not going for the low hanging fruit here and I'll just say that the world is full of people who do things that make no sense…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 01:42 PM
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From what I’ve heard and read, these are the reasons some guys think “husband material” isn’t a compliment: “Beta” “being used for money” “just so she can say she has a family” “she doesn’t lust after met the way she does Chad” “she’s already fucked other guys before marrying me” “retrospectively cucked” Based on that definition of it, to men it sounds like a humiliation ritual. But fine, I'll respond to this. You must first understand that bad marriages are still marriages, and many bad marriag…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 01:39 PM
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Sister isn't an insult, brother. “husband” now exclusively means a married man and not the master of the household, there is no situation where husbandry means “the practice of being a husband”. Then what is the word for the practice of being a husband then?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 01:31 PM
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My question would be, are we capable of giving the same things to each other?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 01:29 PM
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Because most of the population of this country is mentally ill, it's not an avoidable part of life. We're losing our minds here, there is no fully sane dating pool. There's just varying levels of functional mental illness. Some people are medicated, some people aren't but there's no getting away from it. We have the most medicated population on the face of the planet, and the women are more diagnosed than men are. It's just how it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 01:27 PM
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I didn't say most. And there's a sliding scale here. Intimacy mismatch is a very common problem in relationships even if people do have some sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 01:23 PM
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We also care about how men treat other people. It shows their character. We care about character. How a man interacts in the world. I've known a lot of women. I'm not going to argue with you that "no they don't". I'm just going to say, person to person, I've seen too many women disregard the character of the men they've found to trust those words you said here. But I know that not everyone is like that. So I'll accept it. Some women end up feeling more like therapists, social secretaries, person…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 01:21 PM
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Because this is a conversation about men and what they expect from marriage with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 01:08 PM
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There are more definitions of a word than show up on your google search, sister.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 01:07 PM
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Also true, but does not disprove my point, only generalizes it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 01:06 PM
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You lack experience with the depths of dysfunction that people are capable of. That is absolutely a possibility. Some people are that idiosyncratic, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 01:05 PM
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Having sex with a man doesn't make them leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 01:03 PM
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That is not what is said.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 01:02 PM
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So women don’t have sex with their husbands? They don’t want to spend the rest of their lives with them? It's not a do or do not, it's always a maybe. No man can ever be sure how a relationship with a woman will look over time.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 01:01 PM
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You should go to the Dead bedroom subreddit before you say things like this. Most relationships are dysfunctional and leave someone involved unhappy or unfulfilled. That's why most relationships end.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 12:59 PM
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I pick my battles on here and 've talked to you before. If I write too much you check out of the argument. I answered the title of the thread first, then I worry about what you wrote in the post.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 12:57 PM
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Chris Brown literally has women paying money just to get picked up and have their pictures taken.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 12:55 PM
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You're really glossing over the strong mind part. I want someone smart, wise, someone I can plan with and talk about things in depth. I don't know if you've been to America, but that's not a lot of people. But most women just say they want a man who won’t make their lives harder. Yes, and it's a condescending and demeaning expectation to have of another person. That's a reason to buy a kitchen appliance not build a life with another person. They want someone they enjoy spending time with. And th…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 12:54 PM
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I'm confused at your response here. I answered your question about why men see "being a husband as being used" and nothing else. I’m asking you guys to imagine how the opposite sex views it What I'm seeing is that women do not update their perception of a concept with the reality of how it is experienced. They fear the lives of their grandmothers because that's the most potent impression of what "marriage" is for them, even when that's the farthest thing from what they have to worry about. Based…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 12:47 PM
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If I were to keep it really simple. Strong mind, healthy body, kind soul. Someone I can trust, someone who keeps themselves up (if you're healthy, you will look your best), isn't a mean bastard. Good teammate. Someone I can trust and want to be with for life, someone who feels the same for me. Mutuality is what wifey material is to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 12:34 PM
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I’m not sure how you view husbandry as men “being used” but not wife cognate as women being used? Men are expected to make the happiness of their partner their obligation. It's not mutual or balanced. If a man is not happy in a relationship, he doesn't deserve a partner. If a woman isn't happy, she deserves someone better. And those dynamics are only more consequential and pronounced in marriage. Between divorce, capacity to cheat, division of wage labor (most relationships men are working more …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 12:29 PM
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How old are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 12:21 PM
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No, because wifery in our current society is not defined strictly as being useful to a man in the way that husbandry is. The reason why husband material is seen as an insult is because it reduces a man to their utility. Being in a relationship with them is convenient, they're useful. If husband material was associated with being attractive, desired, important, valued for their own sake, it wouldn't have that connotation. “He must think I’m going to be a bang maid. Nobody talks like this but the …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 12:16 PM
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You've funny idea of what can happen in the world
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 10:47 AM
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It's an exposure game, and the only way to get decent exposure for most guys is to run up the numbers. But it's not enough and doesn't really work that well. Most guys are not going to meaningfully or visibly improve their social standing/profile enough that it will draw women to them but ideally that's how attraction works. Men that are visible and impressive don't have to try that hard to find women because that's what the vast majority women are attracted to, "impressive in public, looks nice…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 10:42 AM
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I tend to avoid dyed hair women, that used to be my go to. But it was fairly easy to unlearn it cause so many are just straight up not attracted to men or hate them outright.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 01:59 AM
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Any woman that feels a need to test in these ways is too hyperfeminine for me. Pathological indirectness, a lack of theory of mind, narcissistic bids for attention. These are not behaviors I want in my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 01:30 AM
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Do you believe that everyone should be “consistent” over their lifetime? So basically, if a woman tries a sex act at like 19, and she hates it; to be consistent with her future lovers she should do the same act that she hates? No and no. IMO, when people talk about consistency. It’s consistency within the relationship. Consistency in character matters as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 06:02 PM
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TL;DR: Anything on this question is about consistency. And the further you get away from that the less you'll understand. People want to know what to expect from others and the less predictable you are, the more friction there will be. ----------- I think the basic assumption that most men in those spaces have is that women's preferences are all contextual. (And depending on the subject/individual woman, they're either 100% correct or they're off the mark). And given that first assumption, whate…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 04:43 PM
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How would that be more logical? How can we shape the behavior of people that generally don't want us? You just don't want to think about women's effect on men.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 02:11 PM
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Why is desire as legitimate as love?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 01:06 PM
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I hate the idea of being a fucking trophy. Don't act like one you won't be treated like one. Women condition men into these mindsets by how they choose partners. If the only men who get a shot from you are men who are doing well in life, then the two things will become correlated. If you're passive and wait for men to come to you, don't be surprised when your input doesn't matter to them. If you want to be seen as an active person, you've got to be active. Don't want to be prize? Don't make gett…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 12:38 PM
1

That doesn't feel vulgar to you? That's just as bad as cracked if you ask me.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 11:29 AM
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No, I don't. This is what you're arguing. Not sure I would call it “slamming” lol. What would you call it then?? Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 07:30 PM
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It is not a coincidence. Sex involves slamming our hips into yours repeatedly, it often involves you telling us to go harder, faster. This is a rigorous activity that takes a lot of energy. It's intense. A semi-violent expression is accurate to the experience. It's about as violent as hitting the gym, cause that's what sex is. A very emotionally charged workout .
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 05:40 PM
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You come up with a cool way to say "had sex" in one syllable
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 05:26 PM
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Lady, those are idioms.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 04:54 PM
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Vending machine? You got honey buns or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 04:53 PM
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And what are those conditions?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 11:49 AM
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That only works if the woman in the relationship can accurately perceive the balance in a relationship. There are plenty of women who think they do everything in a relationship because they don't appreciate their partner, take everything they do for granted, and actively put their contributions out of mind so they can justify being judgmental and dissatisfied. Many women are sick people and they cannot engage with the reality of the relationships enough to tell this difference you're speaking ab…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 11:47 AM
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Of course men suffer these things too but no where near at the numbers women do You don't know this. Men don't talk about what hurts us, we push through and move on. There's no room in our culture for men to dwell on their pain and make it other people's problem. Guys can't even get sympathy for loneliness. Everyone of any demographic can be lonely. What do you think might be driving those statistics and attitudes? Could it be that those women have been harmed emotionally or sexually by men, som…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 01:19 AM
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The worst part about it is that the snowball is already halfway down the hill. We're kind of past the point where this isn't going to manifest in something nasty. It really doesn't take that many people to make society a worse place for everyone, but especially women. And there's armies worth of burned young men who'd love a chance to make their lives miserable, and they will be in government if they're not already.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 12:14 AM
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Whaaat, you don't hate the world? How do you pass the time without brooding
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 09:29 PM
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I will say. As a fellow black clothe enjoyer, it's hard to tell whose good people and just express themselves differently and the people who are really mentally ill with no safety net.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 05:47 PM
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Coming from the gender of dogs and peanut butter that's a bit rich
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 05:42 PM
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I am describing it as predictable. You're thinking normatively and it's getting in the way of understanding the point. Litigating the morality of something will not fix it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 03:43 PM
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Ma'am, rape is still rape if he's hot. Assault is still assault. And murder is definitely still murder.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 03:19 PM
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By your logic, every bad behaviour becomes someone else’s fault because “they created the incentive.” That’s not accountability, that’s outsourcing responsibility. No. It's more that any negotiation done between two inequal parties will incentivize the disadvantaged party to find a way to balance negotiations. If you insist on having an advantage in every deal you make, people are going to cheat you. Nobody likes a hustler, you can't keep counting cards and expect the casino to stay open. It's a…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 12:24 PM
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Dude. I have been friends with nearly 90% women. The only ones who don't do this are asexual or have been raped in the past. I'm not arguing that it's a non-factor in every woman's life. But it's not the baseline. The baseline is a kind of selective promiscuity. Most men don't cut it, but the ones that do will have these women on top of them the first night they meet.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 03:55 AM
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Exactly. Women don't recognize the level of power they have within society and acknowledging any of it immediately shifts the conversation to a place they don't want to be in. It stops being about "What men did to me" and turns into "What you do to men" and they can't stand it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 02:12 AM
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Nobody argues that it removes responsibility except for those with your position. Men are capable of admitting that something is wrong while also engaging with why it happens. Cause why is important. And the general you are the why. Also, calling women “responsible” for men’s dishonesty is backwards. It's not, you're literally the source. If your behavior changed, the lying would go away. What is there not to get about this. It's wrong for them to lie to you. But you are going to be lied to unti…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 02:00 AM
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Men aren’t raping women? Says who????
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 01:51 AM
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Men becoming liars is women’s fault? If telling you the truth always means something bad for other people, yes it's your fault that other people lie to you. Take accountability for the incentives you create. If a guy yells at women all the time and nobody wants to be around them, you're not going to tell the people being yelled at that they need to take accountability. You treat people a certain way, you'll get a certain reaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 01:30 AM
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I don't hate yall and I do care. Its just that in dating we are harmed more than men are harmed in dating This line of reasoning doesn't hold up when you look at the men women take for partners, how quickly they have sex, etc. When women think a man is attractive, they don't give a rat's ass about safety. These are post-hoc rationalizations, not reasons. Women are not careful.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 01:27 AM
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It be like that. Most women who can expect men to approach them never do it themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 12:58 AM
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60%+ Single from 18-30. What does that mean if not average men can't date
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 12:53 AM
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Respect is the farthest thing from what women want. This whole post is about the consequences of respecting women. They either don't notice, don't care, or actively look down on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 08:18 PM
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If I could communicate one thing to women, it's that apathy and hostility will make them more enemies they can handle.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 08:16 PM
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It's here to piss people off
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 11:37 AM
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I don't hate yall and I do care. Its just that in dating we are harmed more than men are harmed in dating You don't know that. Men don't report women because of the risks that poses to ourselves. And nobody's keeping track of women's abusive habits and behaviors. You're not the ones who have every manifestation of a negative emotion demonized. I can get arrested for someone's feelings. Women are not under enough scrutiny for you to say what you are. Nobody's checking on the damage you leave on o…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 11:36 AM
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I find the preoccupation with whether feelings are "justified" or "valid" very male-brained. It's important to be able to justify emotions, that's how you keep track of whether you are connected to reality, whether you're sane. Is it male-brained to care about sanity?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 11:33 AM
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The Garden of Eden is a story
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 11:29 AM
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You aren't dating a tribunal of women. You haven't been single in a while.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 11:16 AM
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In the past I've made excuses for "emotional" cheating because I thought talking to an ex was a bit ambiguous and wanted to give the benefit of the doubt. But at this point, zero tolerance. Forgiveness is irrelevant, I can forgive someone and never talk to them again, not that I would, but what happens to the relationship is the same regardless. I will leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 10:54 AM
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Ehh, most men know this, not so much understanding on the other end.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 12:02 AM
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Why would I do something that's easy
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 05:49 PM
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That is the only comment I've made, I'm not the guy you've been talking to.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 12:54 PM
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You're motte and baileying.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 11:54 AM
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Your mom is one woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 02:36 PM
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You genuinely need to to know better women. I've seen it before. It can happen
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 01:35 PM
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Fallacy
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 12:41 PM
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If 70% of women have had experiences that negative, what's going on in the country that doesn't effect the 30% left over?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 01:05 AM
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No, access to options, cultural power to dictate the terms of engaging with them and the power to punish people who deviate from whatever norms they set. That's power. If a guy can get expelled, fired, or arrested because a woman doesn't like how he approaches her, that's not exercising a right to refusal, that's a power to destroy that can be abused against people who've done nothing wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 02:03 PM
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Thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 09:45 AM
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I'll qualify this opinion. What men need to do is leave women alone. Stop chasing them and stop trying to impress and get their attention. The problem comes from putting in an order of magnitude more energy into the dynamic than what's received. Men, for a whole host of reasons, are in the position to be the primer for relationships. I don't like it, but it is simply the case that things aren't going to happen 8/10 times if a man doesn't start it up. But, we can perform that role without exhaust…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 08:47 AM
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On one hand, the situation is comically over the top. On the other hand, rich people are genuinely that weird and worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 06:28 AM
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However, going by what this sub says, men dont really feel the urgency to avoid shallow women. That's like avoiding the open air or the sun. Personally, I would stop talking to those women because their lack of judgement puts me in danger even if they themselves are not dangerous I agree. behaviors, and social environments that regular women would step away from. When women are inseparable from those things, then there's no way to salvage a social existence without tolerating some part of what y…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 05:00 AM
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I think we got off on a misunderstanding. Women tone police both in public and private life. In public life, you're right, you're simply not going to reach people if you don't engage with their sensibilities in mind. But in private life, tone policing the people you live with is narcissistic and manipulative. You shouldn't have to negotiate basic cooperation with your partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 06:31 PM
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I understand that fine. I just don't think you should have to strategize around how you talk to your partner. You're speaking politics, I'm speaking domestic life.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 06:00 PM
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If I feel like I have to market the truth to you, we're well past the point of a respectful exchange of information. If I have to baby someone I'm taking to, then you're right. With that said, it they don't want to hear it from you there's no reason to say it in the first place. But I and any man that actually has some basic respect for who they're talking are going to try to speak plainly and straight.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 05:50 PM
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Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 05:31 PM
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Oh I'd hate it. And I would not like it at all. I'm not defending this guy's position, I'm just chiming in that men often don't have this zero tolerance for their partners disappointing them. Depending on what it is they're not listening about, I don't think I'd break up over it. But it would depend.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 01:32 AM
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That's a hard example to translate. Women can often be pretty awkward with sex acts. And they're usually too sensitive to take any feedback in the first place. We let a lot of dissatisfaction slide
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 12:55 AM
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The way your perceive someone impacts what you think matters. And no, there's no way to tell someone something that they don't want to hear if they don't want to hear it and have them receive it well. It's not other people's job to tailor the information they give you to fit your delicate sensibilities. It's emotionally manipulative of you to start a conversation with the base premise of "If I don't like what you have to say I won't listen and that's your fault" Narcissists think like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 12:49 AM
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You post here though
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 12:42 AM
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That's literally what TERFS say
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 12:38 AM
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Lesbians and bisexuals aren't the contradiction to these trends that you think they are. If anything, it's a reflection of just how bad the selection pressure against men has become that women see other women as more viable than almost any men they come across. And let's be real here, Bisexuality isn't fake by any means but we know that Bi women often do end up with men long term, not all the time but much of the time. And I hypothesize (spitballing here) that it is because there is some thresho…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 12:32 AM
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Depending on what you mean by Western Civilization, the Black Swan is just organized religion. Religious communities will outbreed the rest of the population and while the majority of society will be going into a population spiral, the zealots will have a baby boom.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 12:24 AM
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He will be mainstream, but I had a double take when I saw him mentioned as a normie podcast.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 12:22 AM
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And you mean courage is not inportant to women? Most women have no concept of it in the first place. Anxiety and apprehension are instincts that they accept completely, not try to fight against. If they're scared to do something, they just don't do it. Doesn't matter what it is. It could be trying a new food, it could be introducing themselves to a stranger. Never met a woman that consistently tried to be "brave" because they don't value any of the things they demand of men in themselves. Heck, …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 12:21 PM
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How do you think we got them in zoos before tranquilizers. Nets and sticks.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 04:40 AM
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Though to be far, in Western countries, there's a lot of crosspollination between the left side of liberal spaces and the social democratic spaces that the Mamdani's and Bernie's appeal to.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 12:58 AM
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I've been more concerned with how clean they are or how they smell. Honestly, never cared much for oral, given or received. But If I had to choose an ideal? Large (I like mature looking), taste neutral (nothing strong), and a clean bush. The less I have to second guess what I'm working with, the better my work will be.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 11:48 PM
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I agree, a distinction should be drawn between tenable and untenable effort. And also, there should be an understanding of the different dispositions in partners that men find themselves with. There are women who become bored with consistency regardless of the quality, and there are women who are grateful to be treated well and don't change their minds if/when they get used to it. Find a woman whose sensibilities reflect what you can give and still remain healthy and yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 02:05 PM
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I've never came in a woman's mouth, precisely because I don't think it's acceptable.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 03:38 AM
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Because male disrespect can be handled much more freely than women's disrespect. And no one tells men to let disrespect from men slide. It's only women that men are punished for raising a word or a hand against. So you have to speak to men about women in particular. If I can't hit you, and I can't argue with you, and I can't get you punished by some sort of higher authority, the only options left are to proactively remove myself from the situation. And this is a situation that most men are going…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 02:18 PM
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Not everybody lives a life where they can afford to be a target. Some people work with and around women who will take out their frustrations and prejudices on them professionally if they seem like they're weak. Happy for you. But no, that's not an "insecurity" that's how you survive socially. If a woman is disrespecting you openly, that's a space you need to leave or take control of (leaving is the more likely option 90% of the time, you can't take control of hostile HR or management). It's not …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 12:06 PM
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Some very weird rules here 2 seems to me to be more a sign of insecurity than anything else. How is self-respect a sign of insecurity.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 11:58 AM
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Nasty then, love that for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 03:52 AM
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Either he's really nasty or you're really clean. Bless you both
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 03:41 AM
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You can like someone and still not want to drink their crotch fluids.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 03:34 AM
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Progressivism simply has nothing to say about the pursued-pursuer dynamic still existing And that's because it would require engaging with women as a conservative social element. And I think it's because modern left-liberal discourse has no acceptable concept of "traitors" or collaboration. Say what you want about patriarchy, whether you think it's important or not, any honest observation of society would tell you that this concept is very much enforced by the same women that would be considered…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 03:29 AM
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How do you think we think about your discharge in our mouths?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 03:13 AM
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Not the same people, and these are usually meanspirited jokes regardless of the types of people saying them. They're taking the piss out of men for their insecurities and shortcomings.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 03:02 AM
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I also think that the death of normalcy is why we see so many "Women/Men say X but they also say Z, So Y are they hypocrites, why are they lying?" type conversations.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 02:56 AM
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Straight dating doesn't work because most straight people are terrible matches for each other and the roles they're placed in. And I don't think the death of the monoculture that once existed before the internet but after the introduction of mass media has helped. The one thing that keeps gender relations stable is shared culture. It doesn't have to be healthy, but it does work. There was a time when the prevailing attitudes of most people were largely in alignment. And that spares most people t…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 02:48 AM
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Yeah, that would be helpful
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 05:27 PM
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A pick-me, like every term on the internet, has its meaning changed in every context its used. Some use the way you're speaking. Others use it as a derogatory term for any woman with a healthy hetero relationship. It varies. Specificity doesn't exist anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 04:45 PM
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That's how many women define a pickme, a woman that doesn't hate men and would like to live with one.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 01:24 AM
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You know what, that actually might have something to do it. Smells
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 05:37 PM
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Thank you ma'am
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 05:35 PM
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I agree, I wrote most of this to get over the minimum word limit for the post.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 09:52 AM
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Why are you asking someone that isn't Red Pill about what Redpillers think? Why do they still ask for a traditional virgin woman when the lifestyle they chose will push them away further? This isn't a very common desire. Most adult men want women with a reasonable amount of experience. A few partners, some relationship experience. People that know what they want and what they like. Not so much that they're jaded and don't know how to be with a man, not so little that they're figuring everything …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 09:28 AM
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That's not pretty privilege problem. It's a worldview problem. Just being unattracted to someone doesn't make them worthless. But that's how women tend to see men that they don't find sexually interesting. Men are not disgusted by women we don't want to be with, certainly don't have contempt for them. There is a hostility that women have for the men they don't want that is beyond the pale. It's not something that any self-respecting man is going to like if he sees it close up. We genuinely do no…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 09:24 AM
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The kinds of women that Red Pillers are focused on are representative of a wide section of the broader population. It's not every woman, but the ideas apply to enough women that it's always going to be useful for some men. Normy women who don't think hard and fly by the seat of their pants and do whatever their instincts urge them to do will line up with these ideas. It's for id-driven people.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 09:16 AM
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I loved She-Ra
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 08:08 PM
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I think it's because men generally don't see women as a step above pond scum. Men's disgust is usually directed at a person's actions. Women tend to be more holistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 02:48 PM
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Men do not have control over what women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 12:29 PM
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You're a woman saying women shouldn't be discussed. It's your post. Of course I'm going to discuss you. And anyway, whining, mocking and being cruel isn't discussing anything. Calling you out is none of those things.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 12:10 PM
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If women are part of the problem, then their role in it must be discussed. And to actually raise the issue men have to have....agency and responsibility. This is textbook projection.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 11:59 AM
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Maybe this is a Black White thing
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 11:42 AM
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I like that story, I've always wanted to get a full treatment head massage. And yeah, if people just rake their hands through my hair, they're going to pull and snag on it. Which definitely hurts.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 06:57 AM
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No, I like my women independent, cooperative but not beholden to me. I find it's more fulfilling to try and raise a woman's self esteem than to put it down. For some women that have been through a lot, they can foster certain kinds of dependence. And I try to push back on that before I have to cut things off.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 06:55 AM
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Hands get nasty during sex and I don't want sex crust in my fro. I think it's easier for straight haired people to just rinse everything out, but I'd have to deep clean my hair after sex. I like having my head and hair touched, just with clean hands.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 06:50 AM
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My buns, my back, my lips, my cheeks, all can beg to differ. My hair could do to, but I don't let them touch it
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 08:28 PM
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I can see an argument for it. But I think that's more of a reflection of what works for them than just what they're drawn to. Women like men that are bigger than them, so who's easier to date for the average man? A woman who's close to 6 Feet in heels or a woman who's not even 5'8 with six inch heals? Women shape men's preferences through their own. I don't know who's the chicken or the egg here, but I know who's rejecting most. it's sweet I'd like to think it's just healthy, but I appreciate it…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 02:47 PM
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Who are these men you're referring to? The one's on this sub? I like a woman that looks like an adult.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 02:28 PM
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I live in the south, I don't think waifish with a baby face is most people's types. It's not even mine, but I would make exceptions for those people in a hypothetical
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 02:22 PM
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thin, pale, white with small facial features (with big eyes) isn’t conventionally attractive? Not where I'm at. Nope. Some people would think they look weird, not cute. Fiona Apple is another good example of this. Emilia Clarke is probably a less extreme version of this. Emma Stone. Meryl Streep I said young Meryl Streep. Some people think a strong jaw is mannish. I would like to hear what you consider a regular attractive woman Margot Robbie, Megan Thee Stallion, Cardie B. Alicia Keys Billie Ei…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 02:19 PM
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Anyone that rage baits this hard needs a hug
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 02:10 PM
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The other guy on the thread is right, you can't stop yourself from attacking a strawman. Andrew Tate is an international criminal rapist. Charlie Kirk was a racist shock jock (but here's the clincher, he's still very well loved in his own circles, so this example doesn't work). No Lilith, you have to be right first for people to agree with you. Talk to men, learn from their experiences. And pay attention
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 02:03 PM
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Those are not conventionally attractive women. Attractive. But not conventionally. Also, David Bowie is more conventionally attractive than Tilda
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 01:55 PM
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Women aren't treated better because they are more agreeable. They're treated better because they're women, and both men and women afford women much more social room on every front. Any agreeable man could tell you that. Being a disagreeable curmudgeon actually gets you disrespected less even if it means having less "friends". Guys have to learn how to split the difference and have a backbone while still being pleasant to be around. But that's not a lesson a woman can teach them or understand ful…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 01:49 PM
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I think it's hard to lighten things up because so much of what brings people here is pain and fresh pain at that. But my hear me outs are women with interesting but cute faces Christina Ricci, Lilly Newmark, Aime Lou Woods. Or women that are a bit...handsome/androgynous in certain ways. Hannah Waddingham, Tilda Swinton. A young Meryl Streep. I won't talk about fictional characters. I don't think it's good to feed fixations like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 12:29 PM
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This is true, but it doesn't then follow that men are more affected in the aggregate. I can understand the argument on a personal level because yeah, you're right. You can't get much more comphet than being forced to only engage with women. But still, men who have an orientation that's more mixed than strictly heterosexual, they will act on those urges at some point. Comphet is only at play when you're suppressing your natural orientation. Guys don't do suppression well over time.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 04:14 PM
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I think women are more sensitive to the social standing of male representation. Nothing is less attractive than being a "loser" of some kind. And most men in fiction, if they are not the paragon hero they're some form of mediocre, weak, comic relief. Safe to laugh at, safe to disregard, not worth thinking about beyond that. That's the mold in fiction that most men fall into if they're not dangerous or they're not impressive. I think how "sexy" they come off is second to that. Women will sexualiz…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 04:00 PM
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Comphet is for women that aren't heterosexual at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 03:53 PM
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Y'all gotta stop just saying stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 03:52 PM
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Comphet, hormonal imbalances form medications and birth control, sociocultural conditioning, the general state of a society where having the time to go to the gym is a luxury for many people. Some of it is the women are messed up in a lot of compounding ways, some of it is men not taking care of themselves, some of it is an inflation of how many women are actually attracted to men in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 02:17 PM
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By 2040 I'm halfway convinced we'll be living through Threads. We won't have a dating culture, we'll be lucky if anyone has babies that come fully to term and develop properly. Sporadic, chaotic, lots of abuse, emotional stuntedness and impulsivity will be the norm. We'll all be hurting each other a dozen different ways while society falls apart.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 02:17 AM
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Cause it's been hard for them and it's never been easy. From the ages of 11 or 12 up until whenever they happen to login to a site like this, they've met innumerable setbacks. Also, I thought we couldn't make same-gender-as-questioned threads.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 10:56 AM
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Remarriage is not the same as "next relationship"
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 12:58 PM
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This is evidenced by the fact that men jump right into the next relationship exponentially quicker than women. What world are you living in?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 12:54 PM
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Women excuse a lot of narcissistic behavior in one another, and that phrase reflects a few of them. If being with your partner isn’t better than being single That goes without saying. It's like saying every time you go in a restaurant that the food better be good or else I won't eat here. The act of professing your preferences publicly is an attempt to have other people's actions cater to your own. It's already understood that dating is a reflection of your desires, if you don't desire it you do…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 12:52 PM
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I don't usually like the reductive universality, but it's valid here. The internet is real, but it's a fun house mirror. It can't distort anything that's not there, but the proportions will be exaggerated or minimized depending on what you're looking at.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 07:51 PM
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Of course there is. There's just not an ethical immediate solution. We need a cultural overhaul. And that takes a generation once it starts. It won't save you, but it can stop the hemorrhaging
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 01:45 AM
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We're using like in two different ways. I mean like in the sense of wanting them physically. That's always going to come down to moods and hormone levels. Yeah, hookups don't reflect a woman's opinion of you. But again, what does that mean for the average guy but to double down on finding women that find them sexually attractive? Cause thinking you're an interesting or trustworthy person doesn't make you more attractive to women. Women love to have good people around, as friends. What they think…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 10:29 PM
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Sure
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 09:49 PM
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Women's sexuality is already because of hormones. There's not much different. That's why these men are so hung on hookups in the first place. There's no other lane, they either like you or they don't
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 09:45 PM
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Aspirational Middle Class. Which probably makes you a bit more conscientious than the average household.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 06:48 PM
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Women lack self-respect in the way that men understand the concept. It's not considered shameful to be directed by another person so long as you aren't literally ordering them. As a guy, there's very little difference between a unilateral suggestion that's expected to be agreed with and an order. Respect for myself and my own autonomy in the relationship would demand that I be consulted for my opinion. Not even because I'm going to disagree, but I'm not going to be party to decisions that don't …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 01:05 PM
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Seeing them as "human" also discourages men away from courtship behaviors that are needed to get most women's romantic intention. If you tell a guy to treat a woman like a human being and not a "woman" it means treating her like he would want to be treated. And that just doesn't work with women. Because women don't respond to that. They respond to being treated like the recipient of desire. You just have to look good yourself, first.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 12:55 PM
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The real kids are planning hiking trips together You're in a middle class bubble.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 12:51 PM
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If a man is behind the 8 ball, he's not going to gain any points anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 12:47 PM
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Askmen is tired of seeing the same kinds of threads over and over. The cookie cutter responses are from exasperation
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 12:45 PM
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That's how it always is. This is not a process that entails a lot of thought on their part.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 12:41 PM
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It's not a big jump. Drafts are literally for increasing manpower. They are a measure to put more men under arms and into the military. Takes Congress Have you seen what's been happening this Administration? Congress has abdicated most of its authority and if he comes out and says we're starting a draft, they're not going to vote against it. trying to fix recruiting without blowing everything up politically. Yes. That is true. But you can't fix the recruitment issues without blowing everything u…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 02:06 AM
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Except we all know, or used to know that those convos are tiktok or reddit online hysteric, When you're of an age where your peers are the people having those tiktok, reddit, online hysteric conversations, the line between reality and the internet isn't much of a line. Turning off my computer and getting perspective has often meant dealing with women who absolutely think like what I see online. They have other things going on, hating men isn't their only job, but they genuinely think and repeat …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 11:12 PM
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With other little girls, maybe.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 11:03 PM
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They're slow-rolling a draft as we speak. Look, you're usually one of the more cogent people here and I respect that. But we absolutely could have a draft here. It would be poorly organized, likely to have massive draft dodging, legal challenges, etc. But it can be done. And the way we're headed it's more likely than not. You don't raise the age of enlistment just for shiggles. The US military has been hemorrhaging manpower over the last 20 years and those deficits will be made up for if they co…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 11:01 PM
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What country do you live in? I can give you my two cents on how likely it is that you'll be invaded.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 10:56 PM
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Yeah, being more self-possessed/directed would be an improvement. It wouldn't change things as much on what they like, but at least the communal judgement could change to something more private. They're still going to like tall guys, but they wouldn't feel the need to talk about it all the time in mixed company.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 10:45 PM
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Reciprocity is something that most women I've known have issues with. Either they overextend for people that give them nothing, or they give nothing/little to people who give them a great deal of something. Something can be attention, it can be help, it can be emotional support. I have more of an issue with the latter because it's not hard to tell someone that they don't have to do so much, much harder to tell someone that they're not doing enough. There's a lot of women who expect you to be Sup…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 10:18 PM
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You realized you wouldn't be a good boyfriend for various reasons I realized that treatment that I considered the bare minimum was more than she had ever experienced with a man. And I realized that I couldn't be in a relationship long term if her expectations for me were going to be that low. I figured we'd be better off as friends. It'd be easier to keep a healthy balance that way, and hopefully I could help her have some higher standards. Your boyfriend is supposed to like you and treat you li…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 01:52 AM
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Policing the anti-social behavior of other women rather than publicly celebrating it. This is a complex social problem that no woman can fix on their own, but the least that can be asked of everyone is to stop putting their weight on the scales. You can't save everybody, you don't have to be a saint, just stop laughing while men's lives get worse will go a long way to lowering the temperature in the room. It's way too easy currently to poison young men against women now, and it's because there's…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 01:11 AM
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Most women are not taught to think of society in terms of power dynamics that are both changeable and potentially life threatening. Which is ironic given how many of the narratives in their spaces around dating and men revolve around those exact same concepts. They just don't feel that they're part of the balance of society and they resent the responsibility for their own condition and perception within society that comes from being part of it. Like it seems to be on a lot of subjects, women en …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 01:05 AM
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I was with you until the nasty attitude part. Misandry is very mainstream, it's just moderated by the necessities of life
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 12:46 AM
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That's not always emotionally satisfying for women in a way that will keep them coming back for more. Sometimes when women want to have sex with a man, it's specifically for a kind of sex that men who are on the smaller side can't give.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 02:42 PM
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Think I'm not Invincible, and my name's not Mark
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 03:03 PM
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Bots are often the first to a post, they wouldn't be very useful if they didn't show up early. The whole point of troll farms and bots is to shape discourse. Negative, hateful discourse is usually the goal. So they show up early.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 01:37 PM
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That's because men are valued for utility. People will assume that there's something they're missing about a guy when they see a couple that doesn't make sense to them. They still think it's weird. They just don't think a guy's just going to be lucky, there has to be a reason. So they'll make up one to feel better about what they're seeing. Also, if you're in the south, being a bit fat down here is just normal. So long as you're not morbidly obese, you're just heavy. And most of the people here …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 01:33 PM
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Why don't fat males receive death/rape threats on dating apps? Because women don't want to interact with them in these ways. They don't want to be perceived by unattractive men. Why would they threaten them? There's no motive. Why aren't fat men constantly reminded that no one ever gonna love them and that they have no value They are, on dating apps, where nobody talks to them. The silence does the speaking for you, sis. because the one value they would have, their looks, isn't there because the…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 01:27 PM
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Since when are people nice to any demographic of men. There's no concerted effort to tear down what people already don't value. You can't take subtract from zero. They get no love and they will continue to get no love. Fat women are attacked to strip them of the privilege of womanhood, that's the expectation to be defended in public life by strangers. It's a way to say "she's not worth protecting like the other women". No such privilege exists for men, and they already know that if they do somet…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 01:08 PM
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Poor impulse control, low conscientiousness. Some people just don't like to think hard and make healthy decisions for themselves. Weakminded people are everywhere, and they will put the whole bottle of their dressing on a salad and get confused why they're blowing up like a balloon. A mindset where you don't think about consequences until you already have them is how people gain weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 01:06 PM
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I will indulge your question, but not your premise. Fat women are attacked because they're one of the least protected kinds of women. They're the least cared for or respected. Some of it is because of cultural values, we associate larger women with sinful, negative qualities like gluttony, sloth. And that's an open door to other kinds of judgment. If you feel justified in attacking someone's character, there's not much holding you back from attacking other things. If she's lazy, if she's ugly, i…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 01:01 PM
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Bots are widespread. Try again.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 12:54 PM
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President Clinton, I see you've left the island
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 12:44 PM
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Online comment sections are for bots and anonymous venters. This isn't "men". Your question starts from a false premise.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 12:37 PM
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Not as common, but common enough. Since that's the threshold we're working with these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 01:31 AM
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