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I don't mean any ill, you had a very detailed post about "courtship" and it didn't resonate. I can't answer that last question because "courting" is like everything else. FAFO the world can be fun. Calling it labor is just a mindset
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 03:21 AM
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Of course hun. Generally not a word anyone uses for dating
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 03:00 AM
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With all respect there seems to be a cultural thing here? Not sure where you are but saying courtship is a not north American norm
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 02:28 AM
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For starters, you actually need to enjoy meeting people, let alone women. There is no emotional labor unless its so difficult for you? I juggle an ex who am friends with, kids early 20s, aging parents, new partner of a year, career, my friends, maintaining my home, etc. Its fuckin fun Emotional labor is a fast track to therapy?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 02:21 AM
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This is true, and the outrageous range of variables of humanity is why I can't believe all the "studies" used around the sub. Human psychology and sexuality is a spectrum and controlling for one detail disregards all the unique features and backstories. One can reshuffle their cards often with the obvs fitness/grooming bit, but especially not letting themselves fall into rigid mindsets. Therapy can be very helpful
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 04:46 PM
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Shoulders and chest wider than belly/waist is all it really takes. Cartoon physiques are how men compare themselves to men
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 05:19 PM
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Had me hooked first sentence. Agree!! Im same about my relationship and we're agreed on our agency and dedicated to work when bumps happen
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 02:01 AM
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Def can't disagree! Today i replied somewhere else " people capable of relationships get relationships "
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 05:27 AM
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What people (both genders) don't understand enough is that a relationship is NOT transactional, its supposed to always be evolving and adapting with the communication and agency of both partners. Falling behind or being lazy leads to resentment and degradation of the relationship. Things can get good, things can go in the shitter. Being a grown-up, having your preconceptions and fam of origin shit together is absolutely necessary A relationship is not what you think is "supposed to look like, it…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 01:55 AM
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Boundaries are healthy, and short-term relationships can be rewarding sometimes and learning/growth experiences. There's nothing particularly radical to debate in this post. A healthy relationship is always growing and evolving. Not about ownership. A logical ending could be mutual or unilateral. The magic is when both partners use their agency to keep it good
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 01:47 AM
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Here's the thing. If you're gonna just go for anyone mildly attractive and have zero going on in life, you're probably fucked. All outdoorsy is niche, all partying is niche, all home/mirror is niche. If you have no idea who you are, you're destined to fail, or wait forever for someone into whatever lifestyle you show. You can do a bullshit profile, but you'd better be able to back it up in conversation/on a date. If you're trolling showing or talking about shit you wouldn't even do with a woman …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 03:27 AM
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Demonstrative "masculinity " and calling yourself an Alpha male are jokes right? Strutting douchebags with same old same old beards so played out. Regular fit dude who's fun to be around knows
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 04:01 AM
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Keep in mind theres a difference between a fuck buddy and a fwb. If someone thinks you're hot or share kinks you can be fb and no connection if works for both FWB is more like friends evolve into lovers or a date with no future becomes casual sex but with non romantic connection fun outside the bedroom. Either is all transparent for motive and conceivably takes as much maturity to find and maintain boundaries of as a committed relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 02:20 AM
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Partners take care of business together and as needs dictate. Idk about what man cave has to do with much other than keeping a sloppy space that doesn't wreck rest of house? I have an out building that's a band space/music room but still like to cook clean up do laundry yardwork etc. A partnership has understanding of mutual standards and not a tit for tat of who does what
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 02:42 AM
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Come on. You make a list for a child. If a guy can't pick shit up, or see dishes or laundry to be done, how much trouble is it really to get off your ass? Your partner ain't your mama, and you don't live in a frat house. You looking for resentment and wondering why she's not into you anymore? Make your own fuckin chart
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 12:33 AM
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Did you ever meet someone who was always miserable and if you tried suggestions, they always blew you off...bah therapy doesn't work..or whatever? If I had to guess, ummm, that might be you? Men are not a monolith, nor are women. In the timeless words of Ty Webb, "can't we both pretend we are normal human beings?" Just because you like bright shiny objects you can't necessarily obtain, doesn't mean society is against you. Just because some girl looks good doesn't mean she's a prize for you. If y…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/26 02:06 AM
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Man or woman, its easy to have crazy swing from chandelier porn sex possibly when there are no stakes (situationship, drunk encounter, fling with no future) Relationship oriented adults know that intimate bonding sex is different and can also be crazy fun sex. Gotta say the words, gotta be GGG, can't withhold love or sex for petty grievances or unstated insecurities or resentments (always ok to say no for healthy reasons though) Outwardly boring people don't necessarily have boring sex. Represse…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 02:40 AM
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If youve gotta play ANY kind of game to have anyone stay past a date, they pick poorly and the joke is on you
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 02:10 AM
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Ok buddy maybe 1&2 if you wanna fuck only. But if you are full of shit you will always lose at finding an actual relationship. Fakes are fakes and I hope you find an inauthentic woman to screw up your inauthentic game. Better fodder for this hilarious sub
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 02:03 AM
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Trad women want that boss hubby. High maintenance women want to be told to pack their bags to Paris. Sexually sub women want to be manhandled in bed. Maybe also some younger women want to be lazy like men have become Then there are all the happy women who have nothing to say and are happy with their lives whatever that looks like are not saying anything
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 03:17 PM
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The blue pill, if anything is about authenticity. I don't identify as anything and will tell you this I don't need religion to be a good person. I don't need laws to know how to be a part of society. I don't need a drill instructor to make me a man. Jack of all trades master of none. I can do manual labor, I can do handyman work, I can go a little above basic car maintenance. I can decorate a house, cook all home tasks. I did art, have played in bands, played sports when younger. I take care of …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 05:06 PM
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You talk about young men and yes sexual maturity/tension happens around same time as forever ago, but used to be could immediately support yourself right out of hs with full time job at the local grocery/factory whatever. Modest spaces were acceptable and respectable. You could work through college or be luck enough average family could pay for it. For starters now expectations are way too high and pay is way too low. College is often unaffordable. Life stages are coming much later, and social m…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 12:59 AM
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Wrong and wrong. Played sports, love a good baseball/football/soccer game. Punk rock guy. I just don't blather on about giant budget teams/boring parsed player stats etc. Im in life for the ride not to be diverted by trading card games hun
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 09:04 AM
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And then they prove that they are immature sticks in the mud
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 09:01 AM
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No hun, she said it was good riddance. Yes she made a bad decision, but dumb jealous no personality men also look like chads
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 08:59 AM
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My sister got married to a guy on the beach while they were both in Navy. They were barely 21. They guy was very attractive tall trad midwest guy. They visited me for NYE like six months later. We went out he was a total bore. Hated my sister was talking to ME! He didn't dance, got drunk, had to call him taxi to my apt and give him my keys. Next day he didn't talk to anyone, he and sis left soon after. She said he didn't talk to her that whole day and when they flew home, six mos hubby split Lat…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 02:14 AM
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This is an adorable sweet bbc clipping actually. Usually the "lonely " guys in this sub say :"oh join a hobby group to meet women, but women don't like doing what men do hurr durr.." Possibly lost on the lonelies, but have you ever been to an adult event singles couples kids, an the bulk of the men hang with whoever is "grilling" or around the sportsball while women mind kids and generally worry about everything else? And there is one couple who is together the whole time, just enjoying one anot…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 01:41 AM
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Whats cringe for $2000 alex? This post for the daily double
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 04:00 AM
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Umm see what you did there ain't working. OP never said unrequited love, and wasn't about wanting to fuck? Better to just dump female friend because you DIDN'T want to fuck, and sad she didn't either? I invited the suggestion she was pushed away by a new douchey bf. That's fair but not germane to this sub They were never partners so pfft, and yes Im friends with previous partner, as well as str partners. Ive plenty if empathy for those in pain, but please re-read the OP topline and post my frien…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 01:34 AM
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If he's not interested in fucking her, then what is the real reason fot the post? Isn't that fair to ask as well as my follow-up questions? This sub is not a "lost friends " space. Sorry OP having a hard time for sure, but is he looking for sympathy from ???
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 01:12 AM
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No, I questioned the authenticity of the motive for the post and ending the "friendship " . Is new bf a jealous douche, or is OP disingenuous?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 01:01 AM
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If that was the case, the whole OP "debate" is off topic for this sub. Begs the question and no strawman
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 12:52 AM
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Of course they can. I love my partner to death and have told them "if you tell me you can't do this, its ok, and I will always respect you" i absolutely mean it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 12:46 AM
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If you can't chat with strangers at the store, in line anywhere, servers etc of any sex, age, attraction, you are not gonna ever succeed hitting on a woman of interest.. The PUA "do you wanna fuck" practice of the old days couldnt and wouldn ever work IRL for people who can't chat up the random clerk ringing up ur energy dribk
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 12:41 AM
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My takea are weird ok? If this isn't about fucking and just a general friend relationship then why was it even posted and trying to say women are xyz?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 12:25 AM
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I think overall if you are boring, expect to be rejected (obvs boring means different things to different people)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 12:20 AM
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Anger is response to fear, not necessarily bodily fear, but lack of control, failure of ego. Angry people start to age with frown lines, become bad partners etc..thx for "spicy" because it involves humor and sarcasm lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 12:14 AM
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Funny hun, no anger here. Life is a marathon, choose an adventure. Falling apart from rejection or loss of friendship is gonna happen over and over. Can you be you and keep going, or do you live as someone elses idea of you?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 12:04 AM
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Idk what basically means. Maybe her bf is one of those guys who controls away other male friends (question would you do that? its toxic af) Maybe good riddance of a fake friend? Maybe you're denying it was about fucking as an end run? Expendable to whom exactly? Life is choose your own adventure. Being defeatist is never gonna be a good look
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 11:57 PM
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Idk anything about you, but as fafher of early 20's autistic son, I totally understand your frustration. What I can say about my brilliant and awkward son is that milestones happen later (driving, self sufficiency etc.) Can also say he's outrageously charming (yes in my mind- but a real adult will see that as well) and he would really work harder to keep relationships (another plus) Young people today they say have later milestones anyway, autistic obviously even more. Its gonna be ok. Take care…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 11:47 PM
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You are feeling like shit, and "dropping her even if it wasn't about fucking" then why do you feel like shit?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 11:34 PM
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Dumping friends because they dont want to fuck you is lame bro, makes you look like a douche. Rejection is life's journey you never must have been very tight if you drop "friends " so easily
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 11:23 PM
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This is pill-incel cakeism bro. You're lonely no friends and you're gonna burn any woman bc she doesn't want to fuck? SMH
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 11:05 PM
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I work in a very bro type culture, and the guys 20s-30s (single or partnered) regardless of their potential "looks" ( and x/10 is stupid in this day anyway) are absolute sheep have zero formed mindset other than status items they're going broke tryna impress, or fantasy football regurgitation, or always in a "bulk" phase big biceps big belly and hurt themselves in the gym yet again...they all roll stupid either scruff beards or some kind of roman/greek beards and look like clones in gymbro versi…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 06:51 PM
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Did DBT class and workbook to support a loved one, people seem to resist because it feels like school but the meta is life skills (being in the present, radical acceptance, and communication skills) that really should be taught in schools
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 04:57 AM
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That's exactly the point. Sorting the genuine from unhealthy coping skills
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 04:37 AM
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Im 6' 170 at 57 years old. Guys half my age at work don't get out half as much as me. Therapists dont treat shit, they CHALLENGE YOU TO DO IT FOR YOU. Im fit, eat well, active as hell, and healthy libido.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 04:30 AM
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Yea absolutely this
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 04:21 AM
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Vety cute. Glad you can read my emotions from a random comment when, what % of communication is body language? If you felt like replying says more about you. I hope following yourself is working, if not, doesn't hurt to ask questions is about all i have to say
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 04:17 AM
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Hun that's bullshit. Go copy someone else's idea of how to live your life? Figure your own shit out. Whomever you follow doesn't give the remotest fuck about you
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 04:05 AM
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If who you are isn't providing a life adventure that you're enjoying then figure out why. Its as simple and as complicated as that
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 03:59 AM
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Therapy is not for getting laid. If you go asking you'll be disappointed Therapy is about you figuring out who and why you are you. Why you feel lonely, or overwhelmed, or underappreciated, or whatever, and why your strategies or coping might not be effective for YOU You have to be willing to question yourself. There isn't a "pill" for thought or a one size fits all advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 03:42 AM
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If you actually don't like women, not really interested in a mutual relationship, and can't really afford to buy some coffee/drinks/food whatever, by all means knock yourself out. Most women will be immediately tired of boring cheap misogynists anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 01:54 AM
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Its not bitterness, its about curating an authentic life, and stop making choices based on what others expect/think or more conspicuous consumption.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 02:47 AM
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They are indeed self-induced. Moving to "safe" suburbs for "newer, bigger " spaces. Not socializing with neighbors. Wasting inordinate amount time commuting to/from said spaces. Ordering your shit, groceries, or prepared food online. Hiding from "strangers " , especially those different than you. Not frequenting local establishments. Not being seen as a "regular " anywhere. Dont even need to touch the endless crap influencers and late capitalism people waste time on. Yes take care of your body, …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 02:38 AM
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I will normally argue that dating is not a linear process like career, but in career you dont automatically succeed like " i got my degree who wants me" same as dating "i cleaned up my look, who wants me" is absolutely not some kind of automatic "in" Entitlement, insecurity, and unrealistic expectations will always doom that mindset to fail
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 03:06 PM
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What country are you from? In america "bootstraps" and "walk it off" or "you'll get over it" IS a conservative narrative. So is the idea of exploiting others in a ruthless climb to "the top of the heap" If you select to fall in to current capitalist propoganda, and looking for a similar partner, hot tip:you most likely will never have any or "enough" of what you think are important I'd imagine some may appreciate your assembly of a treatise, but it feels more like a notebook found in Elliot Roge…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 01:25 AM
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Anyone who has traditionalist views and has voted in that way has made their own beds and must now gtf over it. I don't care how well employed you are, you are a "human resource ", a "raw material " simple as that. The agenda pushed by society falls into capitalism. Everyone single or partnered with or without kids needs big dollars for roof overhead and belly full. Fear of public spaces, fear of "the other", political ads about "crime" or "illegals" or homeless taking from you are total bullshi…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 08:57 PM
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Anyone who has traditionalist views and has voted in that way has made their own beds and must now gtf over it. I don't care how well employed you are, you are a "human resource ", a "raw material " simple as that. The agenda pushed by society falls into capitalism. Everyone single or partnered with or without kids needs big dollars for roof overhead and belly full. Fear of public spaces, fear of "the other", political ads about "crime" or "illegals" or homeless taking from you are total bullshi…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 08:57 PM
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Why can't you be happy in or not in a relationship? The healthiest partner already has their own shit together, simple as that
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 09:26 PM
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You don't understand what boundaries are. You dont push your own boundaries, and if you violate another's (assuming they have any) do expect to be told to fuck right off. I think you are trying to talk about your comfort zone, which falls fully on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 05:10 PM
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Hun only the super trad, rw, thin blue line guys think they're "protecting" anyone. Embarrassing imo. They live a life in more fear than any.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 10:55 PM
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True not inherently related to men or women. Otherwise late stage capitalism. Chasing higher and higher pay for smaller returns. Commuting an hour each way to the "newer, bigger, safer" places social media sells as desirable. Too exhausted to go out after all that. Ordering crap on Amazon instead of getting your own shit. Streaming movies instead of going out. Excited the crappy suburb with the big barely code "modern floorplans" gets a wild wings or whatever crap for the few times the frighteni…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 01:53 AM
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I reject even the premise of the title. The world is just what it is. Has zero to do with male/female sexuality. You've got to find a way to navigate in a way that works for YOU. Choose your own adventure. You can live a stable comfortable life by figuring out your own orthodoxies. Don't let expectations of riches, or showing off what you "have" based on media/capitalism. Dont let religion or politics or life coaches or "pill" advice tell you what you have to think Figure out what you need to do…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 02:23 AM
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💀 haha
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 01:09 AM
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Women help me here, but if I gottq say its not the "bad boys" so much as the "wolf in sheep's clothing " types, jealous uptight controlling types. Prone to emotionally and physically abuse. If I had to guess, the vast majority of women do not frequent areas with a large bloc of felons and drug dealers lol?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 01:02 AM
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Idk what that point in your life is, but if casual sex is a turn-off, you'd better look for women in communities where casual sex is not the norm? Do you have no history and seeking same? Are you suddenly looking for some pure princess? Gets complicated
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 11:28 PM
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Even better just go to r/sex and scan for all the misery of the trad crowd and "waited til marriage "
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 01:18 AM
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Interesting you ignored the middle part?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 02:33 AM
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For starters these both have to do with human rights. Your argument is a poor argument politically, as well as a poor topic of this subreddit. Ill just say those who might agree went to public schools, probably state colleges if at all, use public roads, expect police, fire, and emergency services, benefit from courts, proud of their military mighy lol...think those just exist as a given. Also adherants to your view more often want to quell sex education of males and females, deny any variation …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 01:53 AM
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Saw this late and don't need the link because you already said it and the pill peeps don't get it! Haha made a slogany rhyme But you are totally right. I've got my spaces that I love and it would be horrible to meet someone there and find out they actually hate that scene and resent you for wanting to keep going!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 11:02 PM
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I refuse to subscribe to anything. Made bad decisions made good decisions. Had intense joy and intense pain. I have as many IRL experiences as possible and select what works. Sometimes FAFO is awesome Pills, rigid politics, religion, life coaches/strategies, living by analytics all fucking bullshit! Ive got my spot in the world and most of it gives me satisfaction and meanwhile I am generally respected in all my circles. Id prefer to live my life thank you very much, fitting into a neat peg is s…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 05:43 PM
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My barely 20's kids tried to raise no shame. Both came out as gay (male n female). Don't think my daughter likes any alcohol/drugs hope she meeting girls. Son aspie is a little lonely but really tries to connect, has experimented with drugs already doesn't like just will have a couple beers/white claws sometimes. Covid was a setback for these kids. My son has spent fhe last few years minimal screen time which I am proud of
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 04:21 AM
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Supposedly the case, and that's partly a good thing if younger people have healthier ideas, or maybe a bad thing because screen time has limited IRL skills? Hard to tell
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 04:04 AM
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Very cute lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 03:34 AM
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How is this blame shifting exactly? People have always had sex? Art and pottery were not exactly items easily hidden? In times human life was half what is now, puberty was when manhood/womanhood was celebrated. Im NOT advocating for ANYTHING. Especially fucking pornography to children ffs! The human body exists. Sex exists. It is NOT healthy to sexualize children (which includes "oh shes such a princess " or "oh he will be a heartbreaker") Its also NOT healthy to instill shame, NOR deny age appr…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 03:26 AM
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Hun sex has been forever. From cave painting to pottery of "fertile" women to pottery of big dicks. Straight and gay thousands upon thousands of years . Puritanical cultures tried to hold it back, create shame, create arranged situations what the fuck ever. Bikinis outrageously controversial, Elvis' hip shaking has pearls clutched. Get the fuck over it If you're clicking into the algorithms that feed you porn guess what? You get lots of porn. Click on lonely guy misery? Same buddy Your life is y…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 03:03 AM
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Confidence is about moving through spaces with comfort. It involves social skills. Can you fit in your work environment? Can you get along with your neighbors? Can you chat with randoms in line at a store? Be conversational with cashiers/servers? This leads to the dating thing. If you try to meet/hook up, you'd better like and be comfortable in that environment. For instance, if you want to meet someone at a club, you have to like the vibe, its gotta be fun for you because whoever you talk with …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 04:58 PM
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I think some younger women like older guys because maybe they have their own place, don't live like theyre still in their dorm, frat, and know how to take care of their own business. Older guys generally don't care about body counts, etc., not because they've necessarily given up on their "madonna" but because they are grownups not immature As for they guys who dont want the suburban rat race, lots of successful men and women figured out that lifestyle is dull and unfulfilling. Others might be l…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 08:35 PM
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Was later in life that I did therapy, my childhood was the get lost until dinner, get lost again until the streetlights came on, my teen years in the 1980s were just like the movies from that time where the rich kid throws keggers in their parent's big house and everyone trashes the place. Thankfully never had my face shoved in a screen lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 10:17 PM
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It's interesting you said went to 1+ years therapy? Nobody seems to have caught that? If women started to tell virgin/lonely men to get a year or two of therapy the outrage would be insane with defensiveness etc I've not had social/dating issues but have done therapy here and there in my lifetime for various reasons and think most people probably should. Oh yeah should touch some grass as well
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 09:20 PM
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Here's the thing though. It's never the garbage literally, in order for something stupid like taking out garbage to matter there's way more going on. It's gone toxic Maybe one was bad at communicating maybe one just didn't listen or follow through. Doesn't matter which man or woman whatever it's NEVER really about the trash!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 03:10 AM
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Id say they are two sides of the same coin. Plenty of guys nonchalant or lazy with their partners/spouses as well as with themselves (dont take care of themselves, unmotivated to go out) AND THEN try to tell the women what to do/how to dress
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 05:46 PM
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In middle school the "cute " guys and the early puberty jocks were "popular " IRL the cute ones didn't necessarily age well, and many of the jocks are still living that HS football win lol Most men and women become a totally different person (ugly duckling to swan, intellectually rounded, find their niche) after leaving the grade school format
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 11:48 PM
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No idea who these people might be and prefer to keep it that way Non verbal consent might be sustained eye contact to say hello/chat or perhaps if the other leans in to touch or kiss? (please comment anyone here) Anything beyond that (ever see the "ok, not ok" touch charts) need to be discussed beforehand. Consent is obvs revocable any time and any reason. Even if things getting heavy. Even in a relationship, no means no for whatever reason even if previously fair game (deeper convo about health…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 11:34 PM
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Black and white thinking is toxic to relationships, politics, asthetics, you name it. Rigid ideas are results of unquestioning boring people Plenty of mean men and women (see rigidity) lots of boring "pick me" men and women (see boring). Both are symptoms of insecurity
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 02:14 PM
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You most likely don't know these imaginary guys, and you wouldn't be interested in the kind of women they get with anyway. The men and the women in this scenario couldn't care less about your judgment nor your situation
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 12:57 AM
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Dating (especially app-dating) is all about taking the opportunities as they arise. Casual dating is just that. To decide to start focusing on one eventually stopping others is how adults looking for a relationship can do it. Thinking you're being settled for, or that you would settle are both losers gambits.. Meeting people IRL is not a moral nor immoral it's socialization and life.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 04:58 PM
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Here's the funny thing about men. Way too many learned to be "tough" by abuse from family, bullies etc. Then many think to "be a man" you need to be bullied by the military, or hazed by a fraternity or whatever the case. "Alpha " classes more abuse and hazing. I've never figured out how so fucking much submission makes anyone a "man" Physical abuse stopped in my home at about 12, as I was taller and stronger than my dad for all practical purposes. I "kept him happy " while having a fun sneaky ch…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 04:40 PM
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If your "Bill" example judged his worth by pill thinkers opinions he'd feel unworthy of anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 05:30 PM
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If you think you need to use your one and only life by someone elses plan or ideas which you have never questioned, chances are low you will ever find what you want bro Bill the neighborhood cleaner probably has more social/life skills than the average pill whiner. If you talked to Bill he probably has a life balance you'll never understand and is more interesting than a typical finance/tech whatever guy. Make yourself different. Nobody cares about your super perfect boring conventional life. Di…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 05:04 PM
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The problem with any manosphere thinking is following anything makes you average. Millions of bitter angry fake "alphas" lol. Always someone taller, stronger, richer, smarter ad nauseum. Pillers follow orthodoxies and random studies like life is a corporate job, then are miserable they're not getting promoted. They think they wanna be a/the boss, but don't kbow how to function without a boss. Its all so stupid Its ironic there's a subgenre for every interest and taste in life, but men think they…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 12:39 AM
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You obviously have multiple paragraphs of words for this. The real question is what do you bring to the table other than yearning? Be different or be better. Different is way easier, fake alphas, lazy "bulking " occasional gym bros, dollar chasers, and the same old sports bros are a dime a dozen and will never climb to the top of the heap of sameness to be better What's your different? Is it attractive to others? Can you project it to stand out? Its not a pill or a blanket idea to be addressed
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 04:43 PM
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Being a good partner is about good communication, healthy boundaries, and not being boring Boring may vary, but look at all the singles who say " i worked so hard and now I got xyz why am I single?" Because its so one-dimensional and success doesnt necessarily show character. Boring is poor communication, not having the chutzpah to speak up before resentments become ingrained. Boring is not addressing your own insecurities with a totally open mind. Boring is humorless laziness. Boring is not sha…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 02:03 PM
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If you think "finding a partner" or even just getting laid as some kind of logical process like getting a formal education or getting a job, you're already delusional. Being a human being out in the world and just goddam being able to relate to others older, younger, richer, poorer, weaker, stronger, "the other" (other ethnicities, sexual orientations etc) is just understanding what is around you and basic fucking social skills There's not an ideology nor a program. Its called being a genuine hu…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 05:34 PM
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Youve said nothing but blanket vague statements and judgment
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 09:31 PM
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Youve still never defined your view of selfish hedonistic and apathetic lemme guess Selfish=wont have sex with you Hedonistic =have more fun than you Apathetic =don't care about the same things you do Am I getting close?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 08:29 PM
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Haha. Its not selfish to work hard by day and live full IRL life. Being active, social, and having experiences in a world that can be fun and good behind the ugliness is only hedonism to the repressed
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 03:58 PM
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Selfish, hedonistic apathy means what? Some people work hard to build a fortress around themselves. Some work hard to obtain a modest level of comfort and go out and have experiences. The alt/dive clubs are well attended on weeknights and the weekends with social friendly people, many of whom are very attractive. Even the trad "hot chicks" know these are safe fun places when they want a night with their girls when they're feeling a lil edgy. The dress to impress joints are mostly weekend places …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 02:18 PM
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I don't think children necessarily do better with both parents. I joke if my parents weren't older boomers, they probably would have divorced my dad is kind of a dick. My marriage was lousy, finally broke it off after 18years and 23 together kids were like 8 and 10. I was a responsible coparent with time as well as money. Divorced as is where is ten years separated. Too many have unrealistic expectations, unresolved issues , lack of adulting, or too rigid orthodoxies. Especially marrying young. …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 12:49 AM
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It seems to me it would be the more experienced partner who has more to offer and would wonder why the other didn't get any of this thought itd be all farting rose petals
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 02:06 AM
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That is exactly my question. Bad relationship decisions are made by younger inexperienced partners. Older inexperienced partners may have the unrealistic expectations that others are done with
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 01:21 AM
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Yah latebloomers indeed still carrying mommy and daddy baggage who knows what more immiturity coulda been discharged a decade ago? wishing they could have dragged their woman down first . Just pick the old maid at church and be done honey
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 12:43 AM
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Pill thinking is just another false orthodoxy as a security blanket. There's an entire world of variation which is way too frightening to those who have a need a neatly sorted world view.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 12:18 AM
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Ding ding ding ding ^
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 06:59 PM
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If you don't like dating in general, you'll never find out. Hot tip, people on dating sites want to GO ON DATES. This is not about talking things to death first. This is not a lifetime mate interview. This is about getting yourself out, meeting otherwise strangers who have a few checkpoints other than just hot. Could be horrible, could be fun but a dead end, who knows if you don't just do it. Resenting the opposite sex or hating going out is a bad look anyway. Nobody will fall for you before mee…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 03:09 PM
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I don't even know what that means. I believe in equality but also individuality. Idgaf what society thinks im "supposed to be" and somehow have managed to thrive while negotiating ups and downs in my life. Groucho Marx said "Id never join a club that would have me as a member"(paraphrase?)
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 05:13 PM
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I mostly seem to see men complaining here. OP said women do not have the problem of having to be alpha or whatever. If all men are supposedly striving to be most alpha, most rich, most built etc etc, there's ALWAYS going to be someone more of any of those things, and the rat race getting there makes men look stupid. Whatever the unrelated side is, i am in favor of total reproductive rights
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 04:58 PM
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Sounds like a personal problem when straight men don't have the stones to be different and tell those who might "shame" them to piss off. Being another generic rando for "society " then whining its not working to get what one thinks they want or can't have? So how's that orthodoxy working for the pill crowd?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 04:39 PM
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Men absolutely do hold themselves and each other to what they perceive to be traditional roles, and the results are millions of dull bros
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 04:13 PM
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How can they pick from the sea of ball caps with oakleys on top, badly curated tats, and bellies excused by the "dirty bulk"? Most men have zero branding to stand out
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 04:05 PM
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Im going with straight men hold themselves (and one another) to traditional gender roles, and many make fools of themselves trying to be "alpha"
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 03:55 PM
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Good for you. I bow to the angry god lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 11:20 PM
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Open your window and shout at the sky all you want. Im totally down with all the speech you like How's that working out for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 11:07 PM
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Society is only lying to those who fall for all the tropes. I was separated/single for 12 years after almost 25 together and 19 married and coparented my kids. My divorce was we both walk away where we are at now. Neither of us "won" anything. Who cares about tits? Btw smaller ones stay perky longer . Once again I couldn't give a rats ass about junk talk shows or trash manosphere. Men choose to buy into a false narrative where failure is the only option. I will only participate in the parts of w…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 10:57 PM
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I avoid negativity outside my world, and fix or punt it from inside my world. Sorry you surround yourself with rhat
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 10:41 PM
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To see men or women as a monolith is already toxic on its face. The world can be a very good place when you relax and create a unique persona. Shitty people live angry shitty lives. Please feel free to cover your head in the color blanket that matches your pill bro if you cant find a place
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 10:27 PM
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Problem. You live and apparently choose to die by media? So watching others real or fictional has created your mindset of failure? Comparison is the thief of joy. Lots of everyday people enjoying everyday people.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 09:49 PM
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With cost of living today, I'm not jealous of anyone coming up trying to make a life. What I do see is people are so fucking unrealistic about where they are supposed to be. No you probably won't be better off than your parents. Your parents or grands didn't need big "new" house, or luxury cars, or newest phone, or game consoles. They didn't have a million subscriptions for media or shopping. Women need to be successful to be independent as well as contribute to lavish expectations of social med…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 09:37 PM
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Serial monogamy can also be healthy way to learn more about what will or won't work with a potential future partner. Til death do us part is bs unless both partners use their agency to stay
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 12:46 AM
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People who are savvy, introspective, and have a little experience know and understand what kind of situation would probably work best at a particular time, and where a potential partner might fit into their lives at the time. On the other hand there are very experienced people who are flat out toxic, or just need huge body count for validation. There are also very inexperienced who have already smugly found a comfortable worldview where they can project their real or perceived failure
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 03:13 AM
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This is strong mind excercise, digging it
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 04:27 PM
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I approve of OP's statement! Not questioning orthodoxies is toxic, and countering lack of success with counter-orthodoxies (red pill) even more toxic. Human behavior is never a monolith and psychological studies should always be taken with grain of salt, as there are way too many moving parts to why people do whatever they do!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 11:35 PM
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Waiting for OP to respond to his own " discussion " How do you define your so called bad boys? There is a giant pushback from what currently is considered "religion ". Men and women are exhausted and bored with the idea that 1950's white culture means anything. Its way past out of reach. Option one: be a crybaby that "traditional " culture is long gone Option two: live a positive life while bullshit outside your control tries to drag you down
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 12:00 AM
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The only people who take a hardcore stance on anything here are the ones who walk around with chip on shoulder or have given up just haven't figured out that cleaning yr ass up and being sociable leads to a more rewarding life If I had to guess, women are a little tired of the tatted muscle guys who think they need to pack a firearm or kick someone's ass to prove their "alpha.. lmfao" status What was "good looking " is played out all the balding Heisenberg look-alikes with their gym bods and bad…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 09:14 PM
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I don't envy anyone getting established now. Old enough to have a mortgage payment on a modest 3br house in a safe desirable "in-town" neighborhood that you couldn't get a nice safe 1br apartment for anymore. Jack of all trades master of none here. Make 80-90k on commission and can afford my lifestyle. I work to live fuck living to work. Too many people have too high expectations. If they taste the "better life" its clouded by debt and dull repetition. There is a simpler social world, and there …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 08:48 PM
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I think on one hand the expectations of "traditional life" and "keeping up with the Jones' " is rather financially out of reach for many. On the other hand, I think many have decided that being indebted to the hilt for "new" large square footage in a boring HOA hood and dragging kids around to activities mostly to impress others is done. Technology and late capitalism is so fake and over. Buying into that lifestyle is no longer a key to happiness, its a fake end game. Sorry "Leave it to Beaver" …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 05:07 PM
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There are no rules beyond consent. Attempting to be someone you aren't is transparent af. Telling someone else who they are is ineffective and toxic I choose the things that work for me. Hard pass on someone elses playbook
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 04:39 PM
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There's no rulebook. There are individuals and there is consent. No one person is a neat statistic. Inflexible people double down on their own comfort level and miss out by their own choice. Life and dating/partnership is not a game or a quest, it's a unique adventure
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 04:25 PM
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Im def old enough to have had to figure shit out IRL on my own. There wasn't the world at my fingertips and nothing to pull me into rabbit holes. Exploring niches and ideas in life was an all analog experience. I think I'm savvy and street smart enough to not need solace in what anyone else thinks
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 03:55 PM
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I hate where America is going, and don't dig the capitalism and division current government has gone. But I recognize its ok to live here and that most people are fucking good and safe. Im gonna die with smile lines on IRL or online you can tell in most cases who already rolls a permanent frown. Many are way better off financially than me, have more youth...will never be happy
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 04:03 AM
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Blushing thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 03:37 AM
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Im partnered. The adolescence show and Lost Boys by James Bloodworth as well as listening to the older (and younger) pervs and the younger fools at my work led me to this subreddit. Im aghast of expectations online media and rigid orthodoxies create today. Its so interesting to me and I'm no genius but savvy enough to live my life as I please
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 03:35 AM
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IMO this is all I want to get laid and/or have a partner, and I'm frustrated. Obviously there are things in one's control, and things which may not be Often looks like " I see super attractive men/women online and Im not that/can't get that. Seems to me there's a picture in one's head what things are "supposed to look like" or what physical or other traits a partner is "supposed to have" to satisfy what one sees on the internet (social media), or could be a rigid (limiting) ideal of what life is…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 02:47 AM
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Most baggage is due to rigid orthodoxies and rather complicated. Family of origin, religion, capitalism, ahem pills etc... Loss of ability to question self and orthodoxies. Important to set healthy boundaries, develop bullshit detector, stop people pleasing get out of the boxes you let yourself be put into You do not have to be jaded or angry that in itself is baggage. Both women and men need to understand this
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 02:15 PM
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This is all hysteria. If you don't actually enjoy dating meeting people as an activity worth spending a few bucks on, you have unrealistic expectations. If you are the asker and name the place, then pay. If you think that involves quid pro quo for anything its delusional Its only an interview if you make it one, or allow it to be one, that's on you. A date should have just enough background beforehand, and be about a vibe. The idea of bullet points cmon, I'd assume you know how to be an adult in…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 06:47 PM
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Look around you. Most people are pretty much in the average dept looks wise. Probably as many have marquee star looks (plenty of not very attractive famous in show biz as well) as are notably unattractive in this world Meeting many of all walks in my retail past, and my current sales position, I must say regardless of looks, there are way too many angry, hateful, stuck people I have the (mis)fortune to have to deal with. I can't imagine what any remotely attractive woman might have to go through…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 12:27 AM
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By many of those metrics, I could be that bad boy. Id never expect someone to blow off their responsibilities, but fuck a boring life. Now in my 50's still go to shows at indie clubs on weeknights, dancing on weekends, drink when not driving, smoke/edible weed...love my partner I also make decent money, have a modest home in a very desirable area, raised good kids, fit/healthy etc.. in downtime I can cook a fantastic meal, kick it and netflix and cuddle. Ive never changed who I am for anyone
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 11:38 PM
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Consistently sexualizing strangers is pathological bro
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 10:54 PM
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I hope you are living your best life because this is a fantastic take imo. Relationships have so many moving parts and way too complex to parse especially to statistics. Polls and studies all cute for marketing and PR purposes but while its easy to Coke vs Pepsi, it's impossible to one human of 8 fucking billion.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 04:37 PM
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I totally get that. Couldn't conrol bad treatment in public schools despite countless meetings and having kiddo stigmatized. If anything had to play damage control for allowing my kid to be in the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 11:06 PM
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Yawns. Get off my lawn
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 10:06 PM
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Aww puddin, go back to roblox and robotussin
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 09:41 PM
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As a father of high functioning autistic son, must say EVERY milestone just comes later! Fixed thinking patterns are a thing. Even with best support confidence is difficult and different. I can't know it but I get it Imo autistic people have an amazing charm, and even late blooming can figure out a path to fulfillment
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 09:33 PM
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Most women are as terrible at giving dating advice as red pill FTFY You almost have some nuance there but geez aren't individuals free to speak their mind and be open to the results? Doesn't matter male or female Anyone can "believe " anything they want, but when it isn't working for your life, time to examine the thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 09:25 PM
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Bro, your post history is drugs, video games, and bitching about the wife. As a man I'm rooting for the wife. If you can't prioritize a relationship you seemingly have little interest in, be prepared to lose it This ain't a pill thing this a you thing
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 06:53 PM
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That's exactly the mindset (going along with the crowd) that pins vapid high maintenance men and women as the goal and kills confidence. Growing up and becoming genuine "you" is more difficult to attain but easiest to maintain I get plenty of validation from myself and the other people in my life (family, friends, neighbors, co-workers). I very much enjoy dating/meeting new people, but meeting my partner took me off the apps in a week and I have zero social media presence
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 03:52 PM
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Being canny enough and comfortable in your life makes you jettison the noise, the BS, and the fake ai and algorithms of the internet. GenX here no boomer. Met my partner online (7 mos now!) and IRL within a couple days. Internet is a tool when needed. You dont need to always have a hammer in your hand it makes you less effective
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 12:42 AM
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Should it please the flair gods, male, no fucking pills The irony is many men who were successful young don't age well, can't impress with their HS athletic prowess anymore or whatever in later 20's-early 30s. Lotsa big fish in small ponds going nowhere Meanwhile lots of ugly ducklings become swans same age growing into their faces adult bodies maybe just stayed a nerdy guy into success. No idea what to do w lack of experience but potentially solid Meanwhile: those who pair early think they got …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 01:54 AM
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Flip this on its face Do guys lift and gym to impress women or just circle jerk guys? Who are they trying to impress? Is anyone at all interested in extra meaningless tats as some kind of decor? Inability to validate one's self sounds like a personal problem to me regardless of sex Authenticity is always key, and sometimes makeup is good for self and sometimes muscle is good for self Trying to be the tiktok d'jour is always unhealthy
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 12:05 AM
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Hey if monogamy aint in the script Ive no problem hooking up or dating others, and open to already dump you if something better came around As for cheating? Immediate fuck off. I let all relationships know its just fine if you can't do it, parting ways is np. Might hurt but obviously better down the road. Inauthentic people of either sex or whatever "pill" they claim are trash hun
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 11:08 PM
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If being down for low esteem women works for you, who am I to bother keeping up this discussion?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 05:19 PM
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Do you think having a negative mindset about women is attractive? Is it successful in your life?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 04:51 PM
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Nice simple reading of my response. Please refer to questioning your orthodoxy as well as the bigger picture Angry closed minded people live angry lives in the echo chamber of angry closed minded people who have a million reasons rationalizing why they are unsuccessful
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 04:27 PM
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Self improvement should not be seen as a means to an end for romantic success. Taking care of one's body is important for long-term health. A normal range BMI and healthy diet is important for cardiovascular and digestive health. Not being worn out or bloated feeling is good for self esteem. I don't personally like that mens fitness is so centered on roided heavy lifting its actually difficult long term for health Taking care of one's mind is important for long-term happiness. Questioning the va…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 03:12 PM
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I learned early on the coolest people are at the alt/dive bars. Easy vibe. No meat market really. No dumbasses fighting esp over women. Problem with the pill crowd is they want flashy expensive objects while the easy convos for all looks, ages, orientations, financial status are around. Make friends! Be recognized! Social geeks have a blast! The whole SM culture and pill people have no clue how to just have some fun! Promise I can have more fun in Cleveland (random) than some posh trip most try …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 02:03 AM
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Just saying gamer and tik tok in this post is all the tell needed. Children in their 20's abound and despite the trends seem to be breeding Its financially difficult for young people/parents today AND they're totally unrealistic basing life on social media. If you're waiting yes this genx will quietly ask you to get off the lawn. I can't believe the ridiculous standards people think they need to consume anymore. Has zero to do with women to tie back in
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 07:07 PM
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Ive thrived with a fwb situation. Ive had a wonderful fling with someone six hours away (an all day and night in my town, and a fantastic three day weekend at a resort halfway..both knowing long distance out of question) im not averse to enjoying what I can when it presents? My partner of six months was averse to monogamy but thats been the case now for five months. I trust them and we do have the serious conversations in between how much we have fun in all ways together. We are all individuals …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 05:55 PM
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You expect nothing except getting yr ass clened up and getting out of the house. Then its your job to be genuine. If you're casually acquainted or have been chatting on apps, you have something to talk about/explore. Buying a meal or whatever for someone when probably you asked and agreed on a venue is an investment in IRL experience. The outcome will be the outcome and you will be an adult who can look at where it goes from there. You will do this from a "who am I what am I looking for" lens no…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 05:21 PM
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I think that (while having some knowledge of autism from my son and a previous relationship as well..i give you that appreciation and space) often expectations and how one think things need to "look" and our ideas have to be the only ones can be "right" can create a barrier. I think its interesting the last part (-or someone who isn't certain) is interesting though. Doesn't it take time and work and some vulnerability before anyone is certain? Even then, don't both parties have agency to decide …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 04:35 PM
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So completely right! For all the keyboard warriors who are all sooo enlightened by cut/paste of whatever studies or theories or god forbid life coaches just trying to grasp at how "right" they are generalizing how a world they are unsuccessful at, actually don't allow themselves a whit of curiosity about others as individuals.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 02:35 PM
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I think there's a danger the way you say this. Some people are obviously emotionally stunted, otherwise is it possibly unfair to judge your version of emotional intelligence ( perfectionism is an avoidance tool)?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 02:45 AM
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In the words of the great philosopher Ty Webb "Lets pretend we are both human beings " Why do, why don't indeed. Problem with "pills" is it assumes everyone is a statistical monolith. Touch grass yo
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 02:06 AM
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Uptight people hated the "free love" the conservatives, the Christians, the "straights" . This was counterculture often involved drugs Today the orthodox old fashioned religious etc hate it even more the easy hookup scene. The idea of getting laid (others not them). They also hate gay culture which is often hedonistic. Everyone repressed socially sexually or bound by religion hates all this shit
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 02:04 AM
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What I am saying is someone who is genuine and generally likable in non dating/non sexual situations and therefore have better access to dating situations and better outcomes with potential dates/partners. There are many "average " people who are generally liked and have rich love/sex lives Jumping through hoops gives the impression of insincerity and insecurity. Prescribing to methods, rigid ideas that put people in categories, and listening to the pharisees of the manosphere of the moment is t…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 10:38 PM
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One doesn't "jump through all those hoops" and be everything for a woman in that moment...whatever you said You need to become a person who others in general find likeable. Someone who can be a little social. Make small talk with strangers. Be comfortable in public including when you're alone (you're not alone in public ahem). Know the people who live around you. Have some universal interests. Many "average" people have some very attractive features physically. So called average people can be ve…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 01:32 PM
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And meanwhile guys who type bizarre treatises will continue to live in an echo chamber of self hate, not get laid as usual, and become even less desirable as they turn into bitter trolls with RBF. Manchildren
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 12:49 AM
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