| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 98 | Dating as a high earner/highly educated woman | STRATEGY | CoolSaucy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/21 04:34 AM |
| 43 | A HVW Anthem! Can never hold a good woman down! | REMINDER 👑 | CoolSaucy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/20 11:29 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | How to not catch feelings for men and protect your heart100 hours is 4 days... is it 100hrs worth of being together or 100 hours in general?? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/21 01:34 PM |
| 10 | "Women don't orgasm during sex because female sexuality is more complicated." If this is true then it follows that women have a hard time orgasming during masturbation as well. How true is that🤔?Not to mention many STIs have more severe symptoms on the female reproductive system including cancer. :/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/21 03:15 PM |
| 4 | Pick me makes sure to give her credit card to her boyfriend so it can look like he payed. I hate this.😬😬😬 he can’t afford CHEESECAKE FACTORY???? 😬😬😬 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/21 03:10 PM |
| 7 | Brother’s school has a bizarre prom ruleWell not just girls, this is a violation of boundaries for guys too being forced to accept unwanted proposals. Also pressure for people to conform to going with someone instead of stag-which is lame. Idk why any school would teach kids to ignore other’s wishes/boundaries. Setting kids up for abusive relationships later on | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/21 03:08 PM |
| 19 | Overwhelming Demand on Sperm Banks as Women Turn Away from LV ScrotesHonestly, I’m 24 and I was thinking about joining the single mother by choice if I don’t find a worthy man in the next decade 🤷🏾♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/21 12:07 AM |
| 1 | Reproductive StrategyThere is non hormonal birth control. And did you take the combo pill or try something progesterone only? Progesterone only birth control don’t have as many side effects as combo forms | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/21 11:58 PM |
| 26 | Don’t let them baby trap you ladies. Very bad things can happen.You forced a person who doesnt want kids to be a parent and expect them to be good at it/happy about it?... make it make sense??? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/21 02:16 AM |
| 16 | "A high value man won't wait 3 months for sex"A HVM would respect your boundaries and not push for sex so.... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 04:06 AM |
| 1 | Weekly FDS Chat / Check-inWow i was permanently banned on r/dating for being on the subreddit..... I haven’t posted or commented on r/dating in years??? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 03:50 AM |
| 2 | Dating as a high earner/highly educated womanHonestly, that sounds like a really good trade-off! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 03:47 AM |
| 3 | Dating as a high earner/highly educated womanWhere do you meet men in your income bracket? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 03:45 AM |
| 4 | Dating as a high earner/highly educated womanTrue 😬 the male med students I have met are either super socially awkward or very thirsty/cocky | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 03:44 AM |
| 5 | Dating as a high earner/highly educated womanHow did you two meet? I only go out to small lounges like once a week if I have time and im pretty much home | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 03:44 AM |
| 2 | Dating as a high earner/highly educated womanBruuuhhhh you read tinder to FILTH! Dang, im wondering how else to attract more men irl then. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 03:42 AM |
| 3 | Dating as a high earner/highly educated womanTruuuee my last ex was 27 and we broke up right before i started PA school. He was a shit bf and would get mad whenever someone mentioned that he was approaching his 30s😬 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 03:38 AM |
| 11 | Dating as a high earner/highly educated womanDo you feel masculinized by being with someone who makes less than you? I feel worried that if I date someone who makes less than me, ill run into the same issue my parents had. Or like another commenter said, ill meet a gold digger. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/21 08:16 PM |
| 34 | Human decency? Don’t know her.When the even the “ugly girl” rejects you, then what? 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/20 05:02 AM |
| 29 | reminder that MEN OVER 30 WHO ONLY DATE YOUNG WOMEN (women under 25) ARE NEVER HIGH VALUE. They may buy you flowers, they may say pretty words. But when an older man is dating a woman during her formative years it is ALWAYS suspect. Remember that men are predatory in ways women just are notI would even lower the age to like 27/28. Dated a guy who was 27 when I just turned 22 and he seemed so put together only to low key be a hot ass mess of a (ex)boyfriend. Dont do it girls. Be suspicious of guys in a different life stage than you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/20 05:21 AM |
| 4 | Why do men think their opinions are always wanted?So where is my $100 since he offered? Hell, multiply it by 10 as reparations for every woman who has had to deal with his salty ass 💁🏾 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/20 05:15 AM |
| 29 | Let's discuss this exchange. What are your thoughts?What a total CHODE. She was right to stand up for herself and kick him out. This guy is a straight up narcissist and when his daughter is old enough to date and starts dating trash men like him, he is going to be scratching his head like an idiot. Its one thing to set boundaries and voice concerns and its another to start insulting someone and attacking their character. Also, is this an example of the whole negging thing people on this sub talk about? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/20 05:13 AM |
| 4 | Men can’t make women orgasm because they don’t “cOmMUniCatE”Omg my ex got so pissed/defensive when I told him as nicely as possible how to rub things. It felt like he was trying to rip off my lady bits sometimes! Upon reflection, it just showed how fragile his ego was and how little he actually cared about my own pleasure/enjoyment | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/20 06:36 PM |
| 69 | The myth of the “honeymoon phase” 🙃I remember my aunt’s friend talking about her husband and how much fun they have together(married for 30 years). I asked her how they kept up the romance and she said that they still date each other. Dude still buys her flowers, takes her out, and they are still putting in the effort to learn new things about each other every day! LVM are full of shit if they’re talking about the honeymoon fading! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/10/20 04:27 AM |
| 23 | When the Universe talks to you....you better listen! I found a Susan B Anthony coin today while ordering my morning coffee. Thank you Susan for your work you did for us.Im glad someone said it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 04:09 PM |
| 0 | Levelling Up As A Brown WomanI think “brown” should be defined here. Because there are light/brown skinned black women with femininity channels. If you mean latinx, asian, indigenous, etc. then it is important to make that distinction. As for black women, I know that the uptick in our femininity channels have become a cultural movement. We notice how we are treated masculinely and these channels have popped up to change our image with corrective promotion. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 01:20 PM |
| 2 | Married at First Sight shows that marriage/couples counseling is a scam.He is pretty awesome! I definitely learned a lot watching his stuff(especially on Darcy from 90DF). Him, FDS, and Pink Pill are my golden trifecta for self-improvement tips haha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 01:36 AM |
| 1 | Married at First Sight shows that marriage/couples counseling is a scam.Ahh i see. I thought you were speaking along the lines of “all marriage counselors are trash” like some of the comments. I recommend watching Dr. Kirk Honda on youtube. He’s a therapist and picks apart MAFS and 90 day fiancé. He gives really good relationship advice and tries to offer coaching for the scenarios that he watches. Interestingly enough, a lot of what he says is echoed on here when it comes to differentiation, standards, and boundary setting | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 01:31 AM |
| 1 | Married at First Sight shows that marriage/couples counseling is a scam.Well this is a TV show. They want to stoke the drama, not actually produce healthy relationships... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 12:58 AM |
| 2 | Until you’re engaged, when you make plans for the future, always start your sentences by “if we are still together by [ insert month/year], we could go to xxx“Thats so true! I guess it’s a conscious effort to keep up the queen energy with someone you like :/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 05:09 PM |
| 3 | Until you’re engaged, when you make plans for the future, always start your sentences by “if we are still together by [ insert month/year], we could go to xxx“I literally used to do this without thinking early in my first relationship. Tbh before hr became my first boyfriend, i had major Queen energy! I was finishing up my bio degree, didnt take shit from him, studied abroad, but threw that all away once we became “exclusive” and he started treating me badly. Ladies, keep up the same energy from dating-> marriage and beyond!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 04:13 PM |
| 1 | A Washington Post article subtly warns about the dangers of building a manIronically enough, he could have just become an NP, finished school in 2 years, made 6 figures, and opened up his own practice. He decided to switch his field seemingly on a whim instead of making a practical choice that was still fruitful | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 12:45 PM |
| 32 | Ladies don’t ever support a man through med school/law school, etc. Came across this Reel and you should see all the pickmes in the comments. I wonder if she will be making these same reels in 10 years when he leaves her for a younger woman ☹️It does for some. As a black woman in medicine, I have come to the realization that I can only help my community by refusing to date down. Black women are often pushed to date dusty/broke/uneducated LVM. The only ways we can build more wealth and power for our community, is to marry up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 12:42 PM |
| 42 | Ladies don’t ever support a man through med school/law school, etc. Came across this Reel and you should see all the pickmes in the comments. I wonder if she will be making these same reels in 10 years when he leaves her for a younger woman ☹️Im going to tell you all what an older ex-coworker told me right before I started PA school. Medical professionals(Mds/Do/PA/NP) will date blue collar workers while in school, but once we graduate, we end up leaving them for other high-income earners. I didnt think it was true until now. My LVM ex was a teacher who would always “joke” about me being his sugar momma once I finished school and I realized that with how cheap and disrespectful he was, it was not a joke-he was telling me of his shady… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 04:28 AM |
| 3 | I’m black and I love black men but they’re re so hard to find.Men in ATL are traaassshhhh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 03:10 AM |
| 2 | Reminder that a good partner should support you through your bad times as well. How many men drop their wives as soon as it gets bad?Finally someone said it! She is the female version of the very LVM Bums that FDS tells us to AVOID LIKE THE PLAGUE! Ive had depression before and it can make you do stupid/selfish/toxic shit. Was a a HVW back before I got help? NO- I was an asshole and I can admit that. Now, I got therapy and learned how to progress as a person so im not an angry mess all the time. She may have changed, but i dont like the idea of taking someone back to left you and your kids to party, even if later on she got h… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/20 01:43 PM |
| 3 | This. This is what I am working on with myself at the moment. Trying to get to the bottom of why I accepted what I did. Ladies it’s very useful to look inwards and see what is going on internally! Why are we allowing subpar shitty behaviour or traits?The need to be loved and feeling like I was a loser for not having a BF by 22. Yeah, I was WAY out of his league and luckily learned my lesson. No more dusty 28 y/os for me 💁🏾 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/20 02:49 AM |
| 2 | How to date young and avoid forever gf territory?Dont perform wifey duties 💁🏾 no cleaning up after him, cooking for him, doing his laundry. You can maybe take him out every once and a while, but make him still chase you. Both you and him need to know that YOU could easily find someone new and live your best life. If he isnt talking about marriage on his own with/about you... thats a red flag | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/20 01:27 AM |
| 1 | What do you do when a man is late?Anything past 5 minutes without a heads up PRIOR to the meeting time is a red flag to me. Im very punctual and I dont FW guys who make me late and trigger my anxiety 💁🏾 if its been over 10 minutes and I hear nothing, you hear nothing back lol and I take myself on a date! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 09:55 PM |
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