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| 5 | Confused about feminists' prioritiesYou’re not wrong, but a lot of this is tied to liberalism and not actual left wing politics. Liberals and capitalists can’t adequately address the fundamental flaws and struggles so in order to improve their public image and make people think they care. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 14/03/22 01:29 AM |
| 1 | Experiences dating conservatives or leftists - which ones were more sensible in character?Lol yeah it’s interesting and has some good points. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/22 11:49 PM |
| 1 | Does a HVM have anything to gain from dating a FDS woman?I don’t get it. If these women use these tactics, they just come off as antagonistic. They may view it as vetting but really they’re just pushing people away and making themselves lonely and closing themselves off. I would just cut them loose if I catch on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/22 01:46 AM |
| 2 | Getting into a relationship with a woman who is slim and college educated is hard, period.Nooo I don’t only think skinny females are attractive, I just mean having a normal BMI range lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/22 04:12 PM |
| 1 | Getting into a relationship with a woman who is slim and college educated is hard, period.It’s kind of implicit to me, oh please do continue with as hominem attacks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/22 04:07 PM |
| 1 | Getting into a relationship with a woman who is slim and college educated is hard, period.Umm no, being overweight is never attractive. I’m not even a red piller and I think the whole “lower your standards, or your standards aren’t right.” Is a terrible rebuttal, people can have whatever standards they want, it doesn’t mean they can get them. When we say we want a non overweight woman, it doesn’t mean we want an emaciated bikini model with ripped abs which I understand is a body only 1% of woman naturally have or feasibly can obtain. Those women are underweight, not what we want whic… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/22 04:03 PM |
| 1 | How can a virgin explore his sexuality without porn?Great. Shit or get off the pot | /r/ExRedPill | 19/01/22 08:19 AM |
| 1 | How can a virgin explore his sexuality without porn?You just suck If working in Infosec for the DoD and traveling all the time to cool places, doing cool academic research, and dating foreign women and having a ton of hobbies means I suck then sure I suck. Maybe you just happen to be this esoteric, enlightened, Marxist, postmodernist Jean Paul Sartre character that I just can’t comprehend Good responses Being a downer and wallowing in self pity. | /r/ExRedPill | 19/01/22 08:03 AM |
| 1 | How can a virgin explore his sexuality without porn?Oooh we who criticize you are retards or losers or immature no questions asked | /r/ExRedPill | 19/01/22 07:56 AM |
| 1 | How can a virgin explore his sexuality without porn?Make me. Ooooh you’re so intimidating and strong. | /r/ExRedPill | 19/01/22 07:55 AM |
| 1 | How can a virgin explore his sexuality without porn?Have fun being a loser, I tried to help you and tell it to you straight like a guy would but you prefer to be cushioned and coddled. | /r/ExRedPill | 19/01/22 07:45 AM |
| 1 | How can a virgin explore his sexuality without porn?LOL, the doublespeak is unreal, you talk out of both sides of your mouth. You know your worth but you’re insecure about your sexuality. Which is it? | /r/ExRedPill | 19/01/22 07:41 AM |
| 1 | How can a virgin explore his sexuality without porn?Keep telling yourself whatever you need to justify your ineptitude and laziness to yourself. | /r/ExRedPill | 19/01/22 07:34 AM |
| 1 | Question for europeansEven in America most of the crazy behavior you mention is outlier behavior that TRP content creators blow up and pretend is routine behavior. This. I mean I don’t get Fresh and Fit. What do these guys expect, all the girls they bring onto the show are hood rats, in which case why should I listen to them for dating advice if I have no interest in dating these types of women | /r/ExRedPill | 19/01/22 07:29 AM |
| 1 | How can a virgin explore his sexuality without porn?Then why tf are you asking for validation on Reddit, you’re capping so hard. If you just wanted to learn about kinks You could easily get the answer to your questions by googling around and reading articles. | /r/ExRedPill | 19/01/22 07:18 AM |
| 2 | How can a virgin explore his sexuality without porn?Don’t complain and expect things to change if you won’t take action. | /r/ExRedPill | 19/01/22 07:05 AM |
| 1 | How can a virgin explore his sexuality without porn?It has nothing to do with being naive and ignorant to the possibility of failure, just that failure is a part of life and can be overcome. I don’t know what else to tell you other than that the only person stopping you is yourself, the majority of the battle is internal. There’s nothing good nor bad but thinking makes it so, you don’t actually react to events you react to your judgements of them, if you frame them in a fatalistic negative way then they will harm you. If you say to yourself, “Goo… | /r/ExRedPill | 19/01/22 07:04 AM |
| 2 | How can a virgin explore his sexuality without porn?Then don’t complain. Besides, what’s the alternative? Even if the risk outweighs the reward, if you really want something it shouldn’t matter. | /r/ExRedPill | 19/01/22 06:57 AM |
| 1 | How can a virgin explore his sexuality without porn?It’s also a limiting belief that society is simply stacked against you no matter what. What if you simply had the belief that you can and will win no matter what? Even if you get kicked down at first. I used to be just like you, until I read Awaken the Giant Within by Tony Robbins and learned his Neuroassociative conditioning and brainwashed myself with mental leverage to feel that I would rather die than give up. Yeah the potential risk outweighs the reward, but what is the alternative?!?! | /r/ExRedPill | 19/01/22 06:51 AM |
| 0 | What are the physical traits of men you find the most important inorder for the men to qualify as your partner?Strange that people here fixate on those outliers. I hardly ever see guys under even 5’8. You pill guys talk as if the “bottom 80%” are just walking around like dwarves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/22 03:53 AM |
| 1 | Blue Pill is benevolent sexism. Red Pill is hostile sexism.Fair enough. I’d prefer to take the lead myself, I just misunderstood. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/21 10:56 PM |
| 1 | Platonic social skills and “game.” Have some overlap.Yeah I’m not disputing that, it’s just that you can’t be good at flirting and escalating if you can’t handle yourself in platonic interactions well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/21 10:23 PM |
| 3 | Blue Pill is benevolent sexism. Red Pill is hostile sexism.Fine, but do you ever take her thoughts or feelings into account when making the decision or do you just bulldoze. Successful leaders listen to their advisors who have expertise they don't. Any CEO has a ton of working relationships. How a lot of red pill guys view leadership would be seen as incredibly toxic and counterproductive in the workplace and would lead to missing deadlines and shitty results. Leadership is not about dominance and control, it's about bringing people together to solve pr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/21 10:02 PM |
| 2 | Blue Pill is benevolent sexism. Red Pill is hostile sexism.That doesn’t mean they are saying yes wholeheartedly. That statement is fucking entitled. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/21 09:04 PM |
| 2 | Blue Pill is benevolent sexism. Red Pill is hostile sexism.I’m all for going out at night and being social and having fun, but you can still approach women by being authentic. Having lots of casual sex won’t heal your wounds or fix your underlying problems. You should start by actually having masculine frame and charisma come naturally to you in all areas of your life, and be confident in your own skin. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/21 09:03 PM |
| 2 | Blue Pill is benevolent sexism. Red Pill is hostile sexism.How can you be sure the woman you’re interacting with is giving real consent if you are misleading her? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/21 09:01 PM |
| 2 | Blue Pill is benevolent sexism. Red Pill is hostile sexism.Wow so you’re just prioritizing your own sexual pleasure over ethics. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/21 08:55 PM |
| 3 | Blue Pill is benevolent sexism. Red Pill is hostile sexism.Why does a woman need to submit to you totally like a slave? I really like intelligent, witty, resourceful women, the fundamentalist religious types are boring as shit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/21 08:44 PM |
| 1 | Blue Pill is benevolent sexism. Red Pill is hostile sexism.I don’t see very many dudes like this walking around, yet red pill comment sections allude to the majority of men being like this, I don’t get it. Dudes like that are people who haven’t grown up and learned adult life skills. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/21 07:46 PM |
| 1 | Platonic social skills and “game.” Have some overlap.Women almost never approach directly IRL that’s correct, I don’t think anyone denies that, at best they give a ton of IOIs, I just don’t think they are all from another planet and you can’t expect to have a masculine frame and charisma when approaching women if you can’t maintain it in other areas of your life. You may be able to close a club hoe every once in a while with parlor tricks but if you’re constantly being someone you’re not you will ultimately fail | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/21 05:38 PM |
| 1 | Platonic social skills and “game.” Have some overlap.I just found that my progress improved when I fixed underlying issues I had. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/21 04:05 PM |
| 1 | Platonic social skills and “game.” Have some overlap.Not arguing there, and I’ve found a lot of benefit to some of this content, I like Todd V and Bulldog Mindset, I’m not trying to give the impression that all pill content is useless. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/21 04:04 PM |
| 2 | Platonic social skills and “game.” Have some overlap.Fair enough, but most dudes who spend their time on pill forums and sending super chats to red pill you tubers aren’t that fine socially. Most normal dudes have never heard of the red pill, in fact a lot of them kind of understand some of the tenets naturally. Whether TRP is valid or not, the people who tend to find it are the people who want or need it and search for it, it’s very biased in that way and can devolve into echo chambers and cultish behavior. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/21 04:00 PM |
| 1 | Platonic social skills and “game.” Have some overlap.If you were to have started learning game prior to building the social skills you have I guarantee you you would do much worse. I’m not denying that there are unique quirks to women but 90% of your results in game come from stuff that’s also important in platonic interactions. For the most part it doesn’t matter what exactly you say to a woman if you aren’t very confident, easygoing, playful, cheerful, vivacious, strong posture and body language, in the interaction. No amount of technical game o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/21 03:53 PM |
| 1 | Platonic social skills and “game.” Have some overlap.It doesn’t matter how confident, or funny or assholish you are if you can’t look them in the eye, stammer over your words, can’t read their body language, can’t hold a conversation. It’s putting the cart before the horse. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/21 03:44 PM |
| 2 | Platonic social skills and “game.” Have some overlap.Yeah for sluts and/or Drunk girls with no brain, maybe that kind of is the name of the game. But for Daygame without any logical antecedent to the conversation and just approaching out of the blue, when a girl is on the subway to work or trying to walk to class, the odds of closing are so minutely low. The odds are a bit better when you’re at a social event, or are at some place like a bookstore or coffee shop. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/21 03:41 PM |
| 1 | Platonic social skills and “game.” Have some overlap.As the one developed the other, I hope so. Yeah, you can’t go around claiming to be such a slayer if in mixed gender social situations like parties you’re a wallflower. Yeah there are some quirks about women you can learn but that’s putting the cart before the horse But have large audiences of women… Yeah maybe, but not college girls, that are “peak SMV.”, JAL has like 50k subs, I can’t imagine any typical college girl trying to search him up or the algorithm recommending him to them. AJ/21 Stud… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/21 03:37 PM |
| 1 | Platonic social skills and “game.” Have some overlap.Whatever man, almost all those success stories seem grandiose and fake to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/21 03:29 PM |
| 2 | Platonic social skills and “game.” Have some overlap.Lmao yes. No one can ever seem to flat out define exactly what game is, and because it’s such an amorphous concept, people can always say without fail “you’re game isn’t good enough.” To sell another program. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/21 03:28 PM |
| 1 | Platonic social skills and “game.” Have some overlap.Exactly, so in the process of getting better, up to a certain point, it’s a matter of social skills in general, the flirting and escalating is the icing on that cake. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/21 03:27 PM |
| 1 | Platonic social skills and “game.” Have some overlap.That’s not what I said. I wouldn’t buy a man a beer if his personality doesn’t rub off on ME the right way. And there’s a measurable difference between being cocky, funny, and playfully arrogant, and being someone like Myron Gaines. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/21 03:25 PM |
| 1 | Platonic social skills and “game.” Have some overlap.If you’re brand new to FPS games and have never played any FPS before, the smart thing to do is play campaign first. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/21 03:16 PM |
| 1 | Platonic social skills and “game.” Have some overlap.Yeah there’s no hope for people who still buy into the bs. As soon as they started uploading podcasts involving girls I knew it was a trash reality TV show with no good information for self improvement. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/21 03:15 PM |
| 1 | Platonic social skills and “game.” Have some overlap.It doesn’t matter if you have the best flirting and escalating protocol in existence. If you deploy it without also having a buffer of social skills making you a normal likable person, you’re gonna get into legal trouble. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/21 03:14 PM |
| 1 | Sexual partner countEven if your logic is sound with that claim, you’re never going to get an honest answer. | /r/ExRedPill | 20/10/21 04:06 AM |
| 1 | I made a comment by mistake. Now I've emasculated him for his current financial situation. How to move forward?This whole situation is ridiculous. You aren’t in a loving relationship if you have to suppress your all thoughts and feelings and set zero boundaries for yourself you aren’t being a “feminine virtuous woman.” By doing this. Number two this 25 year old dude your with is not a high value man if he’s so insecure and can’t handle any criticism, no you aren’t an alpha male for giving zero thought to what other people think or feel, you are an insecure manchild. Obviously he’s hemorrhaging money. Bot… | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/10/21 06:43 PM |
| 1 | how much of an age gap is too much?You seem to have autism #1 #2 modern medical technology can make up for fertility and pregnancy issues, none of you guys have ever heard of or seen an OBGYN. This isn’t medieval times. My grandma had my dad at close to 40 and he is a Wall Street millionaire and this was in the 70s before OBGYNs were super good | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/10/21 03:51 PM |
| 1 | The Wall or never learned to compete for men?Yeah look at Roman Abramovich and his ex wife, that same ex wife who is a 1% woman is now married to a man younger than her who is a filthy rich Greek shipping magnate | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/10/21 03:50 PM |
| 1 | The Wall or never learned to compete for men?Plenty of women in their 30s and even 40s because they learnt those skills and behaviors and took care of themselves and avoided vices look like they are in their 20s. And have plenty of youthful energy, Eva Green, Candice Swanepoel, Dasha Zhukova. | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/10/21 03:45 PM |
| 3 | Male rape victim here. Red pill took advantage of my trauma induced insecurities. Feminists have also helped me way more with my ptsd than MRAs and red pillersAny ideology that takes anecdotal evidence and cherry picked studies that have not undergone meta analysis as gospel and constructs a sweeping generalized worldview that sets 50% of the population as an enemy to be thwarted and duped and that is at odds on the very basis of social strategy with the other 50% is a damn cult. You engage in loads of the exact same tactics as some of the most notorious cults in history. Information control, hazing, us vs them mentality. I’m happy you have a steady j… | /r/ExRedPill | 16/10/21 03:42 PM |
| 3 | Male rape victim here. Red pill took advantage of my trauma induced insecurities. Feminists have also helped me way more with my ptsd than MRAs and red pillersI am but it’s obvious with the slightest inference that you’re still trapped in the cult and it’s impossible to reason with let alone have civil discussions with cult members. | /r/ExRedPill | 16/10/21 03:17 PM |
| 3 | Male rape victim here. Red pill took advantage of my trauma induced insecurities. Feminists have also helped me way more with my ptsd than MRAs and red pillersActually, looking through your post history you seem to just be an orthodox redpill man that wants to meddle in the affairs of people who have genuinely been hurt by this extremism and prevent them from healing. Screw you and get off this sub, this isn’t a place for red pill guys to try to pull people back to it. | /r/ExRedPill | 16/10/21 03:08 PM |
| 1 | Male rape victim here. Red pill took advantage of my trauma induced insecurities. Feminists have also helped me way more with my ptsd than MRAs and red pillersVery insensitive for you to ask that but I’ll still view you in good faith. A bigger older boy. I was borderline anorexic, he was tantamount to an Icelandic Strongman Powerlifer. | /r/ExRedPill | 16/10/21 03:04 PM |
| 1 | 80/20 and SMV Debunked (Studies and Data)I don’t need any studies to know it’s bullshit. It’s epistemologically fucked in the first place to draw declarative sweeping conclusions about the human experience and society based on ONE OK CUPID STUDY no matter how good of a study it is. Shit like this makes me question the average iq of someone in the red pill community, it’s possibly lower than 100, average. | /r/ExRedPill | 14/10/21 01:49 PM |
| 1 | When red pill men say “genuine desire” is the most attractive trait in a woman it reeks of unresolved trauma or childhood lonelinessWell not at the expense of personality holy shit. It seems so selfish. | /r/ExRedPill | 03/10/21 09:11 PM |
| 1 | Curious about the manosphere in other countriesOk ok ok didn’t know. | /r/ExRedPill | 30/09/21 11:14 AM |
| 1 | Curious about the manosphere in other countriesAre you referring to Aleksandr Dugin? | /r/ExRedPill | 30/09/21 10:55 AM |
| 2 | When red pill men say “genuine desire” is the most attractive trait in a woman it reeks of unresolved trauma or childhood lonelinessThen why are men like Harry Styles and Robert Pattinson so lusted over, they are rather effeminate pretty boys and they are objectively speaking the most attractive men to women these days. | /r/ExRedPill | 23/09/21 06:19 PM |
| 1 | When red pill men say “genuine desire” is the most attractive trait in a woman it reeks of unresolved trauma or childhood lonelinessIt can be accurate for other women. Not all lonely men are red pill though, and people like Richard cooper and Donovan sharpe really phrase it in a one sided way. | /r/ExRedPill | 23/09/21 06:08 PM |
| 1 | When red pill men say “genuine desire” is the most attractive trait in a woman it reeks of unresolved trauma or childhood lonelinessWell I’m glad I understand it a little more. It’s funny how they do indeed wish some of these concepts didn’t exist. | /r/ExRedPill | 23/09/21 02:58 PM |
| 1 | When red pill men say “genuine desire” is the most attractive trait in a woman it reeks of unresolved trauma or childhood lonelinessIn a healthy relationship, no one person should be “chasing.” | /r/ExRedPill | 23/09/21 02:39 PM |
| 1 | When red pill men say “genuine desire” is the most attractive trait in a woman it reeks of unresolved trauma or childhood lonelinessI guess that makes sense. I guess it can be good to search for when filtering out people you’re dating in the short term. | /r/ExRedPill | 23/09/21 01:59 PM |
| 1 | When red pill men say “genuine desire” is the most attractive trait in a woman it reeks of unresolved trauma or childhood lonelinessOf course, I just think it’s one sided if it’s all they look for in a woman without caring for her personality and character and dreams and passions. | /r/ExRedPill | 23/09/21 01:58 PM |
| 1 | When red pill men say “genuine desire” is the most attractive trait in a woman it reeks of unresolved trauma or childhood lonelinesshttps://twitter.com/beachmuscles/status/1440852113114877953?s=21 https://images.app.goo.gl/4uzhbWnYZgiCZz2p8 https://images.app.goo.gl/v15yHYBs5LvnDYpK6 I’m sure it’s not all black and white and there are good apples and bad apples, some parts of TRP changed my life, but some of this stuff is troubling and I only meant to address some instances of this. Perhaps I should have been more specific and have said “some” | /r/ExRedPill | 23/09/21 02:44 AM |
| 2 | When red pill men say “genuine desire” is the most attractive trait in a woman it reeks of unresolved trauma or childhood lonelinessHe’s kind of a wannabe Steve Harvey. | /r/ExRedPill | 23/09/21 02:20 AM |
| 1 | When red pill men say “genuine desire” is the most attractive trait in a woman it reeks of unresolved trauma or childhood lonelinessOk maybe there are some who want to connect with women in good faith but they are drowned out by people like ADJ, Donovan sharpe, Kevin Samuels. | /r/ExRedPill | 23/09/21 02:07 AM |
| 5 | When red pill men say “genuine desire” is the most attractive trait in a woman it reeks of unresolved trauma or childhood lonelinessSubmission and traditionalism can be constraining and demeaning, most women have dreams and passions beyond being a housewife. This doesn’t mean they have to be working 80 hours a week as a partner at a white shoe firm in NYC, and I definitely appreciate when my gf makes me a nice breakfast, but you have to be able to give and get, and in no way can that be achieved by buying a woman off by saying “I’m providing for you.” You should take the time to help your woman develop her hobbies and intere… | /r/ExRedPill | 23/09/21 02:03 AM |
| 3 | When red pill men say “genuine desire” is the most attractive trait in a woman it reeks of unresolved trauma or childhood lonelinessI’m not a feminist per se either, I do think that men and women in most of the world are completely equal under the law and I do see some misandry but that’s only a subset of all feminists and I do think that the red pill blows it out of proportion. Have you seen Anthony Johnson’s Twitter? It’s fucking insane, completely alt right and radical. | /r/ExRedPill | 23/09/21 01:48 AM |
| 4 | When red pill men say “genuine desire” is the most attractive trait in a woman it reeks of unresolved trauma or childhood lonelinessWell I’m not from America so some of the slang I don’t understand at all, so if what they mean by seeing yourself as a “king” is having self confidence that seems fine. I just don’t like how many people in this space disdain the notion of equal partnership and instead want a woman to fully submit, I hear Donovan sharpe constantly bragging about how his wife Devon submits and surrenders control to him. I also constantly hear Anthony Dream Johnson bitching about how feminism will destroy civilizat… | /r/ExRedPill | 23/09/21 01:46 AM |
| 2 | When red pill men say “genuine desire” is the most attractive trait in a woman it reeks of unresolved trauma or childhood lonelinessWell it doesn’t seem to be your fault so don’t beat yourself up. | /r/ExRedPill | 23/09/21 01:42 AM |
| 3 | When red pill men say “genuine desire” is the most attractive trait in a woman it reeks of unresolved trauma or childhood lonelinessInteresting. My only guess is he had other baggage you weren’t aware of. Maybe he wasn’t fully open with you, maybe he had a bad experience with another woman before you. | /r/ExRedPill | 23/09/21 01:39 AM |
| 5 | When red pill men say “genuine desire” is the most attractive trait in a woman it reeks of unresolved trauma or childhood lonelinessI don’t see any discussion around that at all. I see plenty of shit like “a woman has to treat you like a king.” though. What these guys don’t realize is that one of the biggest erogenous zones a woman has is her brain. | /r/ExRedPill | 23/09/21 01:33 AM |
| 6 | When red pill men say “genuine desire” is the most attractive trait in a woman it reeks of unresolved trauma or childhood lonelinessOr rants about how feminism is the absolute scourge of the world that will annihilate the human race. Comparing feminism to hitler, Stalin, and mao is fucking ridiculous. | /r/ExRedPill | 23/09/21 01:29 AM |
| 3 | When red pill men say “genuine desire” is the most attractive trait in a woman it reeks of unresolved trauma or childhood lonelinessWell I simply haven’t seen it, all I see is rhetoric like “men only want three things, sex, sandwich, silence.”, however I will try to take what you say in good faith, can you give an example of a red pill influencer going in depth into how to connect with women and support them in their dreams and passions? I would love to see it and be proven wrong. I’ve simply only seen rants about submission and traditionalism but if I’m missing something, enlighten me. | /r/ExRedPill | 23/09/21 01:28 AM |
| 2 | When red pill men say “genuine desire” is the most attractive trait in a woman it reeks of unresolved trauma or childhood loneliness“Obey the will of the people.” -Al Gore | /r/ExRedPill | 23/09/21 01:26 AM |
| 7 | When red pill men say “genuine desire” is the most attractive trait in a woman it reeks of unresolved trauma or childhood lonelinessYeah but you should also have reciprocal interest in the woman and want to get to know her passions and dreams and support her. I don’t understand why red pill guys don’t just hire a maid, a chef, and prostitutes if all they want is a tradwife, wouldn’t that be a much more rational strategy than staking it out in the dating game in hopes of achieving a 1950s fantasy? | /r/ExRedPill | 23/09/21 01:24 AM |
| 5 | When red pill men say “genuine desire” is the most attractive trait in a woman it reeks of unresolved trauma or childhood lonelinessYeah but I think the way the red pill views leadership is completely wrong. Leadership isn’t about dominance, leadership is about interdependence with those you lead. A leader is nothing without his followers. “A leader is a dealer in hope.” -Napoleon. Yes it’s perfectly fine to be the leader in a relationship, but by no means does that mean that you make every single decision and give the woman no agency. You also aren’t infallible and need critical feedback, and I don’t mean by that having the… | /r/ExRedPill | 23/09/21 01:21 AM |
| 4 | When red pill men say “genuine desire” is the most attractive trait in a woman it reeks of unresolved trauma or childhood lonelinessWell I think that can be easily explained. If you were deeply intimate with and loved your ex with all your heart of course you will develop long term emotional wounds regardless of your upbringing, by trauma I don’t necessarily mean that all TRPers had abusive parents but I am pretty sure that they all have experienced significant loneliness. I first got red pilled when my first love that I grew up with and thought of marrying and saw as the love of my life cheated on me, I came from a good hom… | /r/ExRedPill | 23/09/21 01:18 AM |
| 3 | When red pill men say “genuine desire” is the most attractive trait in a woman it reeks of unresolved trauma or childhood lonelinessOf course you should be with someone who wants to be with you, but it shouldn’t be one sided, you should be wanting to develop a mutualistic relationship, not just have a woman cook and clean all the time, and fuck you like a porn star on demand like these red pillers want, often what these guys mean by genuine desire is having a woman be obsessed with them and it’s pretty power trippy. Also to think that any woman would behave that way in exchange for protection and provisioning is completely d… | /r/ExRedPill | 23/09/21 01:11 AM |
| 14 | When red pill men say “genuine desire” is the most attractive trait in a woman it reeks of unresolved trauma or childhood lonelinessIt’s a selfish thing because they are giving the woman nothing in return, denying her own agency, and refusing to notice other personal qualities, it’s all about how a woman serves them and there’s no reciprocity. I’ve never heard a red pill man compliment a woman on her strength of character or her sense of humor or anything related to her personality or intellect or moral compass. | /r/ExRedPill | 22/09/21 10:16 PM |
| 4 | I wonder if it is the city that people live in?Yeah Florida is kinda a shithole, so is much of Texas. Tons of these Red Pill Gurus tend to live in florida for some reason. | /r/ExRedPill | 13/09/21 03:49 AM |
| 9 | I cannot believe my fucking eyesI can’t believe this shit exists. Hahaha high value alphas my ass. | /r/ExRedPill | 26/08/21 05:50 AM |
| 1 | Despite having your own reasons for leaving TRP, do you hold onto any values/ideas/beliefs from the community that you still go by?Putting your purpose before women and knowing your worth. | /r/ExRedPill | 25/08/21 09:19 PM |
| 1 | Discussion PointsLet’s build a full on wiki for the sub. | /r/ExRedPill | 25/08/21 08:56 PM |
| 2 | Any book recommendations?Lmao, tons of red pill guys love to parrot stoicism, like bulldog mindset but they misinterpret it so badly. They take the parts about being a hardass but then conveniently ignore the 95% of the philosophy which is about cultivating virtue and philosophy and being a selfless, compassionate person. | /r/ExRedPill | 25/08/21 08:54 PM |
| 1 | True or False QuizIt’s not even a question…. | /r/ExRedPill | 25/08/21 08:06 PM |
| 3 | I really like this YouTube channel it does a great job discussing men’s issues. But Richard Cooper acted like a 12 year old in this debate.And that a single statistic or metric means nothing, it needs to be understood more deeply than that. Why a number is the way it is. Also “I’m not here to solve the problem.” He admitted to just being a crybaby about women and feminism. | /r/ExRedPill | 19/08/21 10:04 PM |
| 2 | FEMCELSA) Prostitution is illegal in most of the world, and the majority of prositutes are trafficked, also almost no prostitutes are male so the solution wouldn’t apply to femcels anyway, to add to that, people want connection. B) Yes lower them, basically ask yourself if you would date yourself and if not, you may be the problem in dating and need to improve yourself. However if someone is a 5 they should be able to have 5 be the minimum standard, I can imagine it’s patronizing for a sub 5 to hear “l… | /r/ExRedPill | 16/08/21 10:40 AM |
| 1 | Quit Initiating Conversations with Women You Don’t KnowYes if it’s totally random, but i tend to approach in places like bookstores or coffee shops where women sit down or stay a while and approach by commenting on the environment and it turns out okay. But on the street and in malls, 9 times out of 10 she’s trying to go to work, or get home and just has no interest in meeeting new people | /r/ExRedPill | 11/08/21 12:06 AM |
| 3 | Trying to find myself againGlad you mentioned stoicism. TRPs coopt stoic principles in misguided ways though and follow the philosophy when it comes to being mentally tough and a hardass but they disregard the 75% of stoicism that talks about cultivating virtue and being a selfless good person. | /r/ExRedPill | 10/08/21 01:45 AM |
| 5 | Grifters getting rich by teach men with red pill ideologies EXPOSED.And they disregard the myriad of personal preferences people have. And personality and compatibility | /r/ExRedPill | 10/08/21 01:42 AM |
| 2 | Quit Initiating Conversations with Women You Don’t KnowYeah it’s common social sense to not do shit like that at night when the woman is alone. She didn’t say anything about daygame or parties, clubs and bars. | /r/ExRedPill | 10/08/21 01:40 AM |
| 8 | Adam ruins everything video on alphas debunked?Men still fight other men for females, just not physically but politically, socially, and economically. | /r/ExRedPill | 27/07/21 03:05 PM |
| 1 | No Jordan Peterson?Yeah idk why the rule is there | /r/ExRedPill | 21/07/21 03:24 AM |
| 1 | Male improvement communities that aren’t red pill.Men have their own unique issues | /r/ExRedPill | 16/07/21 03:16 AM |
| 1 | Who are some good YouTube creators to watch in order to detox from Red Pill?He’s not a YouTuber but a redditor and has a great Facebook and telegram group but Pierre Tan u/hunterpua is great. His dating philosophy is around being yourself, building a personally fulfilling life for yourself and attracting women who genuinely want to be with you based on that. He’s a cold approach PUA but don’t get it twisted, he’s still very respectful. I think he’s a good “gateway drug” back to normalcy from TRP because he’s still a PUA into cold approach. I also like Andrew Ferebee, he… | /r/ExRedPill | 14/07/21 09:20 PM |
| 1 | Who are some good YouTube creators to watch in order to detox from Red Pill?Yeah he’s great. | /r/ExRedPill | 14/07/21 09:16 PM |
| 1 | Who are some good YouTube creators to watch in order to detox from Red Pill?Are you fucking serious? That guys an evangelical Christian nut job. | /r/ExRedPill | 14/07/21 09:16 PM |
| 1 | Does a man's value really go up as he ages?I look better and more rugged and have more success dating now in my late 20s than I did as a teenager 18-19. I’m dating one 21 year old but she’s the exception not the rule, and it’s not a 20 year age gap like the red pill promotes. The other two I’m seeing are 26 so only a few years. But I did definitely attract more women as I matured, but frankly maturity is important, you want to be with someone at your maturity level. I enjoy my time more with one of the 26 year olds than the 21 year old w… | /r/ExRedPill | 14/07/21 08:08 PM |
| 1 | Wasn't Keanu popular because of John Wick movie? Is this just another social skill/dating cult on youtube?This channel is pretty good. It gives sensible advice on how to improve your social skills without being manipulative. In fact on their podcast they even had Rollo Tomassi on and they were completely baffled and perplexed by everything he said like “wtf?” | /r/ExRedPill | 14/07/21 08:01 PM |
| 1 | I'm creating a new pill alternative.We need to discuss men’s issues and dating in a healthy way. | /r/ExRedPill | 14/07/21 06:39 PM |
| 6 | Narcissistic abuse and manipulation in a nutshell“She must give you sex regardless of how she feels.” That is disregarding the need for consent. This is ridiculous. Also, “She must always cook and clean for you.” I live with my cousin and my girlfriend, generally speaking whenever we make a mess via eating or anything else, we clean it up ourselves right after we are done which eliminates the need for deep cleans. If it’s beta to not be a slob then I’d rather be beta. Also cooking is an excellent way to impress ladies and I enjoy the process o… | /r/ExRedPill | 23/06/21 03:21 PM |
| 13 | Narcissistic abuse and manipulation in a nutshellThis podcast is so stupid. It’s not about self improvement like they claim it is. It’s a trashy late night reality tv show where they mock and belittle women and kick them out for laughs in order to then say “look how well we held frame and how alpha we are!” Smh | /r/ExRedPill | 23/06/21 03:59 AM |
| 23 | Narcissistic abuse and manipulation in a nutshellA lot of this bullshit reminds me of how my NPD dad treated me as a kid. No normal person would think this stuff is okay. Emotional dependency is not healthy and you shouldn’t seek to manipulate women into being emotionally dependent on you. “Respect comes from a fear of loss.” No, respect comes from principles, honor, staying true to your word, intellect, shared interests, etc. | /r/ExRedPill | 23/06/21 03:53 AM |
| 8 | What do you think of categorizing people as high/low value and rating people on a SMV?Social value is dependent on context. A famous comic book artist like Stan Lee would be at the top of the food chain at comic con but would be insignificant at the World Cup, and the footballers at the World Cup wouldn’t have much social capital at comic con. There is no one grand unifying hierarchy in human society. We form many hierarchies that are localized. | /r/ExRedPill | 20/06/21 05:23 PM |
| 2 | How Much Do Most Men Today Really Care About Traditional "Feminine Virtues"?There's this consistent overarching hypocrisy in TRP. They hate feminism and want women to be tradwives and think the sexual revolution in the 60s ruined western civilization, yet they all want to be libertine PUAs and sleep with hundreds of women. I'm sorry but that directly contributes to those things you see as problems, it creates single mothers, CC riding women, etc. You can't have it both ways. They want virgins who will sleep with them on the first date. Frankly also what I see in discuss… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/21 07:43 PM |
| 7 | If we want to stop boys from being radicalized into certain groups then we have to stop demonizing their sexualityYeah wtf? Men are lionized for their conquests. When a woman wants to try her own exploration or do polyamory she is seen as a whore, exactly. | /r/ExRedPill | 12/06/21 10:17 PM |
| 1 | Dating has always been this way, the internet just lifted the veilOh absolutely. If TRP men have such a hard time attracting “slutty liberal girls.” How do you guys expect to get with the sort of tradwives you want if they are even more selective and engage in even more vetting? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/21 05:30 PM |
| 1 | How Much Do Most Men Today Really Care About Traditional "Feminine Virtues"?Yeah I see in Mormon Utah people living the TRP fantasy day in and day out. Culture is the biggest factor of all and in Miami or LA for example, the dating marketplace is emotionally draining and damaging. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/21 05:26 PM |
| 1 | How Much Do Most Men Today Really Care About Traditional "Feminine Virtues"?They economy isn’t set up anymore to allow for one breadwinner and one stay at home parent anymore in the first place. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/21 05:24 PM |
| 2 | How Much Do Most Men Today Really Care About Traditional "Feminine Virtues"?Eh, I’m a dude, I’m into entrepreneurship and personal development and stuff like that, so I’m pretty sure I’m not a “soyboy beta cuck mangina”. I find that kind of woman to be boring as fucking shit. Boring me to tears. In this day and age I can use modern technology or hire a maid without having to deal with the extra hoops to achieve the goal these guys want while having non commital hookups and FWBs. If it’s achievable doing that I don’t get why they obsess so hard over this bullshit. I don’… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/21 05:11 PM |
| 2 | Seems like men are wanting a woman with a low N count who will sleep with him on the second date...wait, what?Frankly also what I see in discussions around “spinning plates.” Like on Richard Coopers coaching calls that he publishes, I see men who always ask, “so I’ve been seeing this girl non-exclusively for about X months now and she’s about to ask me where we stand. How do I convince her to allow me to sleep with other women while she remains exclusive to me?” First of all, Cooper has never been a Hugh Hefner playboy and never will be, second of all that’s a completely unrealistic fantasy. In the deve… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/21 04:59 PM |
| 3 | RP's Obsession with Female Fertility is Weird and GrossMy mom had me at 36 and my sister at 39, neither of us have birth defects. | /r/ExRedPill | 28/05/21 01:58 AM |
| 1 | RP's Obsession with Female Fertility is Weird and GrossMaybe in the middle ages age 30 would've been concerning for childbearing but with modern medicine that is fully negated and if a woman in her 30s wants to get pregnant, in most cases she can with no issues. I think the medicine is called Clomid? | /r/ExRedPill | 27/05/21 09:03 PM |
| 1 | RP's Obsession with Female Fertility is Weird and GrossMaybe in the middle ages age 30 would've been concerning for childbearing but with modern medicine that is fully negated and if a woman in her 30s wants to get pregnant, in most cases she can with no issues. | /r/ExRedPill | 27/05/21 09:03 PM |
| 4 | Kevin Samuels?He doesn't provide any helpful advice to me, it just seems that people get off on him DESTROYING women. It's revenge fantasy. | /r/ExRedPill | 28/03/21 11:05 PM |
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