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| 3 | I think I may be starting to doubt the 80/20 rule and I may be more attractive than I think.Who told you that? Human attraction cannot be boiled down to such black and white rules. There are no hard and fast rules for attraction. Human connection is unpredictable and although a scientist can determine that something like a symmetrical face or a certain hip to waist ratio (for women) will make you more attractive, the reality of human life is not that black and white. It cannot be controlled - plenty of thin and attractive people are also single and struggle to date! Maybe they also see… | /r/ExRedPill | 11/12/25 11:30 AM |
| 1 | I think I may be starting to doubt the 80/20 rule and I may be more attractive than I think.THIS | /r/ExRedPill | 10/12/25 10:31 PM |
| 2 | I think I may be starting to doubt the 80/20 rule and I may be more attractive than I think.OMG dude you don't need to CONDITION yourself into liking people your size. Skinny women like big boys, skinny men like big girls, people of all shapes and sizes like different things. Get off these subreddits and get into the real world. | /r/ExRedPill | 10/12/25 10:29 PM |
| 3 | I think I may be starting to doubt the 80/20 rule and I may be more attractive than I think.Look around you in the real world - not just at yourself. Is every man in a couple you see on the street in the top 20%? No! Beauty is SUBJECTIVE and in the eye of the beholder. Man I have found some men who I think are SO handsome and my friends have totally disagreed, and men who my friends have fancied and I disagree. There will be objectively attractive people I could say yeah they're good looking, but I don't actually find myself attracted to them. Of course there are shallow people out the… | /r/ExRedPill | 10/12/25 10:26 PM |
| 2 | The crossroad between what's considered attractive versus what's considered a good person is at the heart of why Incels existYou keep avoiding my question - do YOU connect with anyone? Have you actually had feelings for someone beyond wanting to use them to "get experience"? Hobbies, gym, etc are a step in the right direction, but only if you don't engage with them superficially. Being a well rounded person starts from within. I refer to my original point, plenty of people who on paper don't have it all find love. It's because ultimately, love isn't a maths equation or a business strategy. Gym + hobbies + good job = s… | /r/ExRedPill | 21/11/25 09:39 AM |
| 2 | The crossroad between what's considered attractive versus what's considered a good person is at the heart of why Incels existSo you're just gonna stop being a well rounded person because that didn't find you a woman?? What about my point about all these sub-standard women you've managed to pull? Did you connect with any of them? Have you actually developed feelings for someone and meaningfully tried to pursue it in spite of using them for sex? Do you actually meet women that you LIKE beyond just "they're hot, I want to fuck them?". | /r/ExRedPill | 20/11/25 09:59 AM |
| 3 | The crossroad between what's considered attractive versus what's considered a good person is at the heart of why Incels existI find this fascinating because RP would lead us all to believe that ONLY attractive, successful people find love. But look around you. There are people in extreme poverty who find love, people with disabilities, people are aren't "conventionally" attractive. People who are assholes. Modern dating through apps and whatnot makes us feel like this is something we have control over. Single? Lose weight, hit the gym, get a hobby and you'll find love. That might get you more initial matches, but true… | /r/ExRedPill | 19/11/25 01:54 PM |
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