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DiscussionCool_Ranch_2511/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 05:39 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 06:13 AM
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it's not that deep it's fun to dunk on fat women and simps online
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 05:01 PM
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The only exception is when the man is a billionaire Sometimes I wonder what goes on in women's heads. Imagine thinking it's worth it to suck an old man's wrinkly ballsack just because the guy has money.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 11:07 AM
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Women just refuse to accept that there could be possibilities beyond being a slut or a time waster, but women make their own choices with how they handle their sexuality and they practically always put themselves in one of these. Also men are acutely aware that many time-wasters are actually sluts deploying a strategy to get commitment, they have said it out loud a few too many times and men noticed.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 03:06 AM
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ALL interactions are transactional, by that definition. That's what OP was saying. I presume he's included partnered couples as an example because they're the are the type that, evidently, people feel the most uncomfortable admitting to being transactional. I think the discord, here, is that people who experience love don't think of it as "transactional". Love literally feels good. yea but we already established that enjoyment doesn't negate the transactions are taking place.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 06:27 PM
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ok so you agree that by OPs definitions, relationships are transactional then even for couples notice he wasn't saying relationships are transactional therefore you should feel bad
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 06:18 PM
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"Mutually enjoyable" doesn't negate that the relationship depends on the transactions continuing (in other words expectations)
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 06:06 PM
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so this would mean that 80% of women are either post-wall, too fat, single mothers, sluts, etc? Honestly, it could be! Maybe men are collective overestimating how desirable the average woman actually is. I've personally never seen it argued that the average women is undesirable, this is a narrative I've seen aimed at men only.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 05:30 PM
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this is a little more realistic but I don't see how "less than half" or "less than the majority" would be unreasonable, and quite desperate especially on the lower end of that. Especially given that men are notoriously forgiving of 10-20lb of extra fat which would put a large % them from the "overweight category" into what they find acceptable. What you're saying rings true but then it deflates the OPs argument that men are desperate for "top percent" of women, unless she meant top 40-50 percent…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 04:55 PM
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I just naturally like to dance <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 04:34 PM
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As I see it, redpill influencers (male and female) are generally grifters who have a conflict of interest in riling men up and no interest in helping. I hope this is the end of Brett Cooper's career, she's taken enough money from the more simp-inclined redpillers.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 04:21 PM
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It's fun for me to argue in good faith and still defeat your own bad faith arguments. That takes a kind of skill that you will probably never attain.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 02:13 PM
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I think he's right that it's practically the only way to find out if you're desirable, but personally the women are not bringing enough to the table to warrant selling my soul. A man should find out early, do some reasonable "self improvement", and if it's not working then the system is stacked against him. He should figure out how he's going to handle that (self improvement treadmill, go MGTOW, lie to women, passport bro, looksmax, troon out, etc).
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 02:09 PM
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if true this sub should really be called Plump Pill Debate
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 01:55 PM
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It just seems like a misunderstanding of how priorities determined on a personal level become priorities of larger groups. How many men have been casualties of logging accidents, like 0.01%?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 01:23 PM
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Fair enough, I don't see these terms as interchangeable like that but probably closely linked enough to treat it as if they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 01:04 PM
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Was he saying you should put all of your self worth into it?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 12:53 PM
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The title of a post isn't just a throwaway sentence, it's going to be treated as part of your overall point because that's exactly what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 12:37 PM
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Men are spinning narrative about them being desperate but they are desperate for top percent of women it's literally the thesis of your post
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 12:09 PM
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ok but this would mean most women on PPD are single mothers, fats, and sluts
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 12:02 PM
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the point is that OP says these standards would reduce men's options to the top percent of women. Is that true?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 11:37 AM
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ok changing goalposts but no problem. Let's also tack on: old, entitled to men's effort, demands payment, makes him wait If you're saying women who don't do this new list belong in the top %, along with the group you originally listed, then you're right.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 11:31 AM
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If women who aren't single mothers, fat, sluts, etc can only be found in the top percent, then you're right.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 11:16 AM
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no single mothers, no fat women, no sluts, no gold diggers...No desperate women who want to settle My mind could be changed here. Willing to concede the point if you're ready to admit this is the overall state of modern women except the top percent
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 11:09 AM
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The cues are enough to be highly reliable, they were never made to be perfectly infallible. If you find a woman attractive but she's barren, nature doesn't find it to be such a big deal in the grand scheme of things
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 10:25 AM
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It's not an opinion, there are medical descriptions of having fully undergone puberty. Probably the most significant ones happen towards the later stages: increased fat in hips and thighs and fully developed boobs, widening of the pelvic bones.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 10:12 AM
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Wouldn't the "marker of fertility" be the point when a girl starts menstruating might start menstruating at 9, ok but there wouldn't be any perceptible markers of fertility, so how would that even work?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 10:02 AM
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if the age of consent was 21, would you also not find 20 year olds attractive? you're answering your own question here. Men find markers of fertility attractive, not age numbers.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 09:37 AM
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It's so disappointing how guys like OP come at it from the angle that older women are just failing to accurately describe reality, when really they're saying whatever necessary to undermine their enemies. It's a wonder that team woman is dunking on men in the gender war.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 04:25 PM
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when i ask how men are going to compete if they understand that women are getting way more attention than them. And men act humiliated that they have to do anything. ok but we're not competing with women, we're competing with tens of thousands of other men. If a guy actually manages be selected he's already outcompeted all of them. It's kind of like winning first place in a marathon and at the finish line they say you have to do an obstacle course by yourself, and there's a judge evaluating if y…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 01:36 PM
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hah GOT'EEEM
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 06:59 AM
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ok but, does it or not?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 10:38 AM
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Lying to your boyfriend about being a smart guy is not something women do. it's in the OP
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 07:28 AM
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I feel like no one at our age goes all-in like that romantically This is not true, so yes you're wrong. Men and women can become infatuated and obsessed at any age, for the right person. Your friend is not tolerating lukewarm interest. You see it commonly among women rather than men, but this is something that people with many options can easily afford to do, and it can be optimal for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 06:56 AM
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Ah yes, ignorance is bliss. Who wants to be like your boyfriend who you lie to about being the biggest and smartest guy, if it's not true? If romance has to be built on lies, it deserves ruin.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 06:40 AM
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From personal experience, having an exclusive fuck buddy is great, but near impossible to find a chick who's down with it and when they do it doesn't last long. If enough women were actually down with it more dudes would opt for it, but as it stands most guys are pragmatic about the realities, so trying to make a relationship work and all the extra effort that comes with it (for men) tends to be the approach.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 02:30 PM
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most women are perfectly capable of understandnig deductive reasoning roughly on par with men, but when they have no good response they do overwhelmingly resort to feigning confusion a lot more
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 11:34 AM
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You're missing the real complaint here. Average women have gotten half of what they want: to largely stop the average men from approaching them. They seem pretty happy about this. The unspoken problem is that now nobody is approaching average women, and for some reason, they think the attractive men should be. But attractive men aren't giving them the time of day. This is what they're really complaining about.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 04:59 AM
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Would you rather they tattoo DO NOT MARRY ME!! DOMESTIC LIFE WITH ME WILL BE A LIVING HELL! on their forehead?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 04:05 PM
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serious question, is this subreddit infested with bots, or are some people just copy and pasting from a list of their favorite comments? edit: also does the constant guilt tripping over sex trafficking and raping that you've never participated in actually work on anyone?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 02:59 PM
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I'm not sure offended is the right word, try amused
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 02:23 PM
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you're right we should ALL be wasting our time trying to answer your question and just for you say "that's coherent"
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 02:14 PM
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This is you earning the downvotes
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 01:52 PM
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do you have any thoughts on that answer, because I keep seeing "blue pill is just about disagreeing with red" and it comes off as very disingenuous from bloopers, including the mods who wrote that sidebar text on their subreddit
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 01:33 PM
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most of them don't have the opportunity to just pick up and go elsewhere, they have to either embrace the suck or troon out
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 09:00 AM
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perhaps Reddit women are not very attractive so the men that they are involved with including their friends men I've seen it going undercover at irl reddit meetups, and it's 100% true. Reddit women mostly fall on the spectrum average all the way down to jabba the hut, and zero baddies
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 07:27 AM
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f your version was true, it would be a valid argument
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 03:22 AM
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You are just being gaslit, it's a preferred tactic used in all kinds of situations. Men have this innate need to make sense / logical congruency but lots of women on PPD will say whatever they think they need to win whether it makes any sense or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 04:00 PM
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they should make it pay what you want based on how much you want to date her and then all the women will get spammed 1c swipes, shit would be hilarious
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 03:40 PM
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You are just being gaslit, it's a preferred tactic used in all kinds of situations. Men have this innate need to make sense / logical congruency but lots of women on PPD will say whatever they think they need to win whether it makes any sense or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 03:24 PM
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You'd need a 6000 word OP for standards that are "not high in the least"?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 02:55 PM
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women date all kinds of terrible men all the time. Just wait for Valentine’s day and you will see plenty of women saying their man did nothing for the holiday for them and never do. so you think women's standards are based on how considerate men are? nice bait post
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 02:30 PM
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wrong, it's a moral high ground compared to women who are shitty and also lying to paint themselves in a good light
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 01:58 PM
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You're in no place to call us out. We have the moral high ground. Women can be shitty and they constantly (badly) gaslighting us about it, men can be shitty but at least honest about it. You want men to examine their behavior stop lying about yours, until you do you're in no place to call us out (I know I need to say this -- general "you").
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 01:53 PM
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Why would we lie just to paint men in the best light? That's female coded.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 12:58 PM
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gaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaayyy stop being so gay
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 11:58 AM
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I know for sure there are some men you'd be sold on but they want nothing to do with you, that's why you're on reddit yapping
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 07:56 PM
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treating her like a human. Treating her like trash seems to yield better results
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 07:26 PM
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if they didn't want to settle down why would OPs question about age matter to them? You're just arguing for the sake of it, and pretty mindlessly at that
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 07:20 PM
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I didn't say all women want to get married either
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 06:45 PM
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in other words you're out of touch with the realities of the dating landscape. But this is the typical millenial mindset and it's the reason most of you are ending up single and giving up
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 06:27 PM
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I didn't say get married as a young woman, I said start seriously looking at your best options sooner.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 06:20 PM
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sell me on men, who I've already preordained to be cheaters and abusers no I'm good, where you're at right now I'm pretty sure single life is the better option for you
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 06:16 PM
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Noooo! You must not listen to Hilltop Hag young zoomers she is corrupting your brain, let me control you!! come on, I literally just said everyone should make their own choice but don't expect men to change.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 05:37 PM
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ok then, women must be making optimal choices already but I'll reserve just a bit of skepticism about this
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 05:33 PM
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I have no idea who you are, I don't care about you personally, I mean general "you" here sorry if it wasn't obvious
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 05:29 PM
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That's always an option. If you're going to have fun, then own that choice whether or not it works out. You can also get mad at men later on, but we just won't care after we were so honest about how differently we view younger vs older women. It's becoming a real leopards ate my face situation with older women who are unhappy with the results of their own choices but somehow it's men's fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 05:21 PM
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fair, I think it's good advice for most young men (not all), but I was particularly directing that towards young women who really hold all the cards in their youth
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 04:32 PM
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ok sure, great point and all, doesn't change the original advice
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 04:15 PM
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"something that sucks for you" is a false assumption. Young women have tremendous leverage when they're young to meet the right person but instead they waste it fucking around for a decade+ and then decide to get serious once most of that leverage is nerfed by age and a shrinking pool
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 04:11 PM
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^ zoomers, adopt this mentality if you want to be like your single millenial auntie
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 04:03 PM
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jokes aside, it's men who hate their wife who say that, not because she's older and less atractive but because of how she treats him
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 03:32 PM
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don't wait until you're 26 to start thinking about maybe one day finding "your person". If you're older, your age and history is going to be an obstacle to make a guy emotionally attached to you (and vice versa, your own age and history will make it harder for you to become attached to him).
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 03:02 PM
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Absolutely, jokes are dangerous in that sense but only if they're actually funny. If people become annoyed by the joke being repeated I think it has the opposite effect. I think in general the attitude has begun to shift in the right direction, even if society is just as hypersexualized as it's ever been.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 08:40 AM
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Nope, they just cycle through. The two prime sexpat destinations of the modern age South America and Southeast Asia were once powerful empires. Poor foreign regions and poor women have always existed and will probably always exist somwehere in the world, unless humans transcend the need for civilization.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 08:35 AM
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Most men, even sex driven ones, understand that children are fundamentally different from adults. The many men you are describing just don't care they just want to make their joke.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 08:11 AM
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Even with this over-valuing framing you're still wrong. Over-valuing something doesn't mean you're unable to make ethical discernments for adults vs children. For example, many smokers for whom cigarettes could be the most important thing in the world, will intuitively get pissed off if they see an adult smoking out children. Others won't care and might joke about how lucky they are. If you don't make these child/adult discernments it it's not because you're "over-valuing" something it's because…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 08:02 AM
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No sorry, valuing sexual access is categorically different from condoning child rape. There's no debate here you're just wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 07:36 AM
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Sorry but your logic is bullshit. Men can value sexual access highly without resorting to stupid boomer jokes about child rape -- these are 2 completely different things.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 07:32 AM
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reddit is a massive mainstream site where the proportion of attitudes of people 25-45, except for small niche subreddits, can be expected to map pretty well over to almost any city in the US that isn't a small off-grid community. People who pretend that there is a huge disconnect between reddit and real life are too retarded to understand that at a certain point a sample becomes large enough to approximate a broader population. And if they're not retarded then they're just lying to you
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 05:39 AM
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This just seems obvious to me, and I don't get why when I say women's opinions are not worth taking seriously it's like a huge problem
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 04:12 AM
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What short men should do with this behavior, if they care, is that they need to be ruthless and underhanded to get sex or pass on their genes, preferably within the law. Only the most conniving, deceitful, and selfish short man genes are being rewarded by nature right now. Don't get mad, I'm not making the rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 12:11 PM
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Speaking for a large segment of men, we wish it were more women who had this mentality. Many men would be over the moon to be lusted after by a woman than evaluated on the peripheral things we bring to a relationship. It's actually a huge turn on if a woman, in spite of her anger and disapproval, still can't help but jump your bones .
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 07:59 AM
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I don't like women as people all that much, but I'm wired to be very attracted to them physically. So I really like the ones that have it, just this one thing alone is almost enough to make up for everything they lack in other areas.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 06:43 AM
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Female support for men as a general population has long been gone if it ever existed at all. We really need these damn simps to snap out of it and finally start taking their own side.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 06:27 AM
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I have a theory that it's a survival strategy and if they dropped the gaslighting and misdirection, most men really would hate most women and they'd feel completely justified about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 02:37 AM
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Don't let these people lie to you. Blue pill is mainstream Western neoliberal views of gender dynamics. And yes, mainstream views do exist since the standard is general agreement among the normie population, not unanimous consensus.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 02:12 AM
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you have 3 other people saying the same thing as me, just try to be a little less annoying and people won't be mean to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 01:38 PM
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yes I know, he wants to be humiliated but I'm ruining it by not allowing him to be humiliated. Don't give him what he's after. 🧠
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 01:19 PM
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Don't let these people lie to you. Blue pill is mainstream Western neoliberal views of gender dynamics. And yes, mainstream views do exist since the standard is general agreement among the normie population, not unanimous consensus.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 01:13 PM
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Here's a hint: we can assume the awkward phrasing was unintended, but missing the substance on purpose just to nitpick the awkward phrasing is just annoying.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 01:07 PM
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You're treating women as if they come from a different species and have their own genetics, that's total pseudoscience garbage. Arguably, adornment the biggest differentiator in what makes women sexually lucrative to men and vice versa, stuff like push up bras, makeup, high heels. Adornment used to be male-coded for thousands of years, it used to be men who wore makeup, they wore jewelry and bright colored clothes. It was a display of power and status, so even if it's hard to imagine it made wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 12:40 PM
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ok try 10%
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 11:36 AM
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sorry OP, he's not really into you
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 04:29 PM
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It's social validation. You're not going to make any bitch wet by being incredibly good at ping pong, or riding a unicycle. You need competence in something that's been approved.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 05:01 AM
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being single knowing you have tons of options is definitely underrated being single with few viable options is the same old "single and happy" cope you see women over 30 doing
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 09:22 AM
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I honestly don't know why you'd go through all that trouble just to cite a source that contradicts your personal definition of the word
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 04:34 AM
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A prude is someone who is genuinely a prude. But I guess some of you just need to humble brag, so alright.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 06:34 PM
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Haha I love how you only elminated 2 of the 3. Yes, time wasters usually are "turned off" by men not letting them waste their time.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 01:32 PM
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Prude women are a major red flag for dead bedroom marriages. Marriage works best with normal and high libido virgin women, not low libido prude women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 07:50 AM
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No, you really think men are this impractical? Those days are long gone. We're dealing with a reality where we already know we wouldn't be thrilled by most women's sexual histories who we might have some kind of a shot with, and the strategy I described is just adapting to this realization.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 06:54 AM
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it's a strategy to filter prudes, reformed hoes and time-wasters. Get used to it
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 02:44 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 08:37 PM
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Well then we've established how much dating is based on luck: not that much apparently
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 07:49 PM
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So, most men don’t like women this is kinda true, I'd say men don't like MOST women but a small percentage of you are naturally charming.. Not on PPD but they're out there. They're trying to gaslight you because if women came to find out, unlikeable women who make up the majority would just make it impossible to get sex from them. Part of our schtick for easy sex is pretending we are intrigued with a lame chick. Sad but true.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 06:25 PM
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Oh absolutely. At this point we should include doing your fair share of the chores as an explicit clause in marriage contracts, so that men know what they're getting themselves into and women can have their contractually obligated male bitch in the house to boss around that they desperately seem to desire.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 02:29 PM
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So then just shut up and do the chores. Or if you're too tired but still want the chores to be done then hire a housecleaner.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 02:20 PM
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It depends on if she wants to cook or not. I can cook, I can order takeout. She has to want the sex also. I can't just demand that she put in her "fair share" of doing the sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 01:47 PM
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good luck with that
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 03:29 AM
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All the actual good subs for guys to discuss these topics got banned, this craphole is what's left of it
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 02:57 AM
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presumably you want the chores done, so just shut up and to them. It's simple
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 02:46 AM
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women need to shut up and do all the chores
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 02:23 AM
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Realistically you have to cheat or exploit some kind of hack. "Self improvement" is more of a meme at this point. passportmaxx and you'll be the one doing almost all of the rejection. Won't necessarily apply for everyone, but this has been my experience
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 03:59 AM
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yeah I don't see the point anymore either tbh. We're speaking past each other
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 02:31 AM
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A man being willing to NOT have sex with her for a certain length of time is a better indicator of interest. But according to men here, that means she isn’t attracted, which I don’t agree with at all Well they're right. See, you quietly switched the genders to make your own logic seem stronger, but this just points out how "waiting as interest" is true for women -- not for both. A woman being willing not to have sex with a man for a certain length of time is actually an indicator of tepid intere…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 02:01 AM
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The great thing is that women's sexual validation is incredibly exclsionary and selective, so it's a great metric to choose women by. It just makes finding it nearly impossible. As a result, men's sexual validation has to be broad, so it doesn't make sense to choose men by it because it's "cheap". Sounds fair to me, honestly. I know that wanting exclusionary desire from a man who was also extremely selectively chosen would be amazing for any woman, but this is the definition of having your cake …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 05:05 PM
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I don't really agree, what people consider "nuance" in a discussion to me reads like a bunch of platitudes thrown together, but nuance is a completely separate issue anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 10:17 AM
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The dumb people are the ones saying "not ALL women" "not ALL men", because they can't tell the difference between a generalization and a categorical statement. Stupid people treat generalizations as categorical statements. OP your challenge is to make a categorical statement about men because you saw a guy making generalizations about women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 10:05 AM
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they do prioritize it but it's not a singular priority, it's just one of many high priority things for them. Money looks status you definitely need at least 2 out of 3 to get anywhere
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 05:27 AM
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she still doesn't realize probably never will 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 05:02 AM
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are you kidding me? lol Are you guys seeing this shit? he could be a midwit. I can't handle the insane irony of women on this sub smh
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 04:51 AM
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it will only keep getting worse lets fucking gooooo!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 04:39 AM
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all that lecturing and the question wasn't even if they were more attractive than the guy
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 04:36 AM
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Hypothetically, the man will want to be around you to de-stress and elevate his mood. Being around you feels rewarding for him, rather than neutral or draining. He finds himself needing to pull his attention away from you to take care of life. I say hypothetically because most guys are settling for draining, and neutral (chill / not a bitch) is widely considered wife material. Never seen a dude be captivated by his SO except during the honeymoon phase but this makes sense because most guys 'drea…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 04:00 PM
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If you had just not listened to them you wouldn't have this problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 01:25 PM
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Maybe I'm misunderstanding ☕
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 05:41 AM
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I love how the "satire" comment is the only one that's not too far from truth
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 02:01 AM
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Unfortunately "reasonable" by definition means more like rational and proportionate given the circumstances. Reasonable doesn't mean merely having your own justifications and explanations for something, which seems to be your misuse of the term. And considering a tiny minority of men are actually dangerous, it's neither rational nor proportionate. Hence unreasonable, hence bigoted and prejudiced. The accommodation I'm referring to is tolerating and not daring to call you out. It's no pressure si…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 03:11 PM
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Sorry that falls short of the reasonable nuanced take that you were aiming for. Many people have had bad experiences with a certain demographic or another, but if they went around justifying their paranoia based on a mixture of their bad experiences and stories they read online, they'd be admitting to simple bigotry. Oh I don't hate X people but if I see them I'm crossing the street, but I don't hate them! In fact some of my best friends are X! Yeah ok, that's just prejudice with your little nar…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 02:09 PM
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I agree, scale matters and we could be doing more. Encouraging PPBros to bring more women into the humanitarian pipeline makes marginal difference but it's not enough. In the end, despite our best efforts, I don't think we'll be able to rise to the level of meaningful global effect until there's institutional backing. NGOs, foundations, coordinated support structures to help us make a difference in the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 11:47 AM
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If increased safety and economic stability for women isn't a "win for humanity," I'm not sure what is. What are you some kind of misogynist?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 05:20 AM
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During COVID, women were getting sucker punched in the face in the streets of NYC and no one could figure out why. No sane person condones this behavior, but I guarantee it's much easier to follow through if you operate under the script that the people on the receiving end of your knuckle sandwich regard you as inherently worthless and themselves with a sense of inherent worth. It's an incredibly destructive mindset to be putting in men AND women's heads. And also, these are narratives pushed by…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 10:11 AM
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I receive: a guy with 6 figure salary You get: 6 figure student loan and credit card debt to help me pay off Oh, they're planning alright. Women's financial situations are as much or more a hindrance to the goals you listed but it's all about the guy putting up the cash.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 07:17 AM
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I had once read something like blackpill is when you take redpill to its logical conclusions, at least for the majority of men. It stuck with me as a fundamental truth that few would manage to attain the level of looks, money, and rizz/game necessary to become a Chad, which is the entire goal of all the self-improvement side of redpill.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 06:04 AM
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question: will we be able to see her naked?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 10:35 AM
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It depends where these standards are coming from. If she clearly was lowering her standards, like model tier looks or a beautiful wealthy heiress I'd be in mild disbelief but I'd feel like a lucky SOB. If it was someone who's nothing special herself, it would be the same as her telling me she's deulsional and retarded.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/26 04:50 AM
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I know irony often escapes the autist, but come on.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/26 03:22 AM
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If you leave a huge skid mark on her bed sheet and she's refuses to give you a sloppy later that morning, you're the backup guy. EDIT: I don't make the rules, It's women's behavior that makes us brown pilled.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/26 03:20 PM
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The MeToo shift happened while a lot of millenials were still in their 20s. Aging is also drawback but an entirely different one. Also that passive agressive millenial girl sarcasm, please just stop. People can see right through it. It doesn't make you look as invulnerable as you're hoping.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/26 03:01 PM
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MeToo really changed things. For better or for worse, when I see a 20s chick I still think they could be nice, since they were too young during metoo and I've met plenty of cool GenZ chicks. Whereas with a millenial or older now I just assume she's probably a massive bitch and she never gets a chance to prove otherwise. There's probably cool millenial chicks out there too it might just be my own confirmation bias.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/26 05:58 AM
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Inexperienced men aren't any more likely than experienced men to accept a woman who's been promiscuous. Regardless of their own experience, men generally hate it when it's revealed that girl they're seeing is a hoe. I think men from both groups have grown to see it as a fact of life that somewhere around 70-80% of women will have had 10+ partners that they performed at least one sexual act on.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 08:27 PM
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OP it's because women hate being critical of each other where relationships are involved, unless they've done something truly reprehensible. That's it. Sorry for being a guy and answering your question but otherwise you'll never get a straight answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 04:49 PM
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ok if you say so, I'm not in the mood to debate something so obvious
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 03:17 PM
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You're not paying attention. I'm not talking about cases where the person flat out refuses but when they say the're not ready yet but would continue the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 03:13 PM
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I was talking about cases where the other party isn't ready at that time. Usually it's not an implied ultimatum when a guy asks. If she's not ready yet a guy will take that at face value and try later without much damage to the relationship. Usually when I've heard of female proposals in the age range I'm talking about it's more of a take it or leave it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 03:06 PM
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do YOU have anything of substance? So far it's just been insults that fail to land EDIT: spelling
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 12:03 PM
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Are you ok? I'm not sure why you're getting so emotional I'm actually engaging with the ideas and not making personal attacks like you are If this is how you respond to good faith replies I'd hate to see how you'd respond to getting trolled!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 11:55 AM
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Not weird or embarrassing, the right word is "coercive". On paper, a woman proposing is just an invitation to get married. In practice, considering women and rejection, it's really a demand to either start moving things along in the relationship or end it. Only applies if this long term girlfriend is in her late 20s or 30s which is when women start using this strategy, not referring to young marriages (unconventional but heartwarming) or 50+ boomer marriages (who cares)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 09:29 AM
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Well I've de-centered women like you advocate, so yeah I don't give a fuck about how they've been treated
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 09:14 AM
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ok but I don't want to live in a mud hut just to fix these problems
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 09:06 AM
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A world where men de-center women won't survive long. This is how civilization manages to keep functioning. I would rather (other) men continue making women the center of their lives; it may be bad for them personally but it's needed to uphold civilization.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 08:50 AM
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lol let's take a step back because my argument is getting obliterated in the comments
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 07:11 AM
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In a lot of these countries, the local men are known for beating their women to the point where it's just a normal everyday thing. Just the fact that this just doesn't happen with (western) passport bros is a huge win for humanity. Insread of trying to find ways to cockblock them, we should all THANK passport bros for all the good they do in the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 06:50 AM
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Because the signal it puts out to other men is that you're sexually available. Even if that's not the intention, it's still a choice to be in a marriage and still send these mixed signals to random men. Why is this choice being made? To feel sexy in an outfit. On the flip-side if you just stayed uncommitted there wouldn't even be a husband's opinion to consider.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 09:48 AM
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anecdote disregarded I could have added an anecdote where I saw a woman approached by 1000 men in a single night because she was dressed slutty. Anecdotes about one individual person that no one can confirm one way or the other are just useless.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 05:07 AM
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the implication that a horny guy will often perceive of a woman dressed sexually is that she's sexually available
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 07:03 PM
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dressing more sexual doesn't automatically make someone a baddie
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 06:36 PM
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duh that's why I said in my comment "If she's dressed modestly, horny men will still approach just fewer of them."
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 04:16 PM
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Insecurity is the wrong word here. It implies your husband has some irrational fear, or is imagining threats that may not materialize and is acting from a place of low self esteem and mistrust. Actually it's not about whether you might cheat, it's about other men approaching. A lot of horny men approaching a scantily clad woman at a nightclub is just an eventual outcome. If she's dressed modestly, horny men will still approach just fewer of them. It's just understanding this is how nightlife set…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 12:20 PM
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Have you told him how much you like talking to me?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 10:49 AM
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ick
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 10:42 AM
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I keep saying this because I really think it's true, I don't truly believe most men like most women's personalities, only their bodies (for the most part). This is definitely true for me and from a lot of male behavior that I see toward women. Then I get both men and women accusing me of being gay or an incel.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 10:33 AM
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It's too late for that lame ass comment, women have already touched my peepee so it's worked out just fine for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 01:41 PM
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yes, and especially if the criticism is valid
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 01:08 PM
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ok maybe there's nothing to add to the original discussion but if you're trying to change the subject to these old rehashed talking points you're on your own
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 12:53 PM
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Honestly, not much. At this point I guess coming up with linguistic coping mechanisms is where we're at especially with women entering this phase. It's been interesting to witness howthe tune about settling down later in life has changed among this cohort.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 12:28 PM
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ok but there's just a couple of dismissive labels, not much of a counter-argument to respond to here
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 12:23 PM
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This is what I mean about narrative shaping. "Happier single" is ambiguous enough to sound as if, for a large chunk of average mid women, single is plainly better than a relationship, even with a man who did fit requirements. The point is, happier single but compared to what is the part conveniently left out "Happier single than being with a guy who's equally average as me, but damn I wish it worked out with those guys I dated in my 20s who I was hoping I'd marry some day" is often a lot closer …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 11:00 AM
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By good men I meant just men who meet women's relationship desirability standards, so yes absolutely incredibly limited supply according to women. Your last paragraph is where your "logic" breaks down. The OP references the almost now cliche'd "happier single" mantra, but you rationalize it into a much more convoluted "as happy as you can be when good men aren't available anymore", but at least it's a lot more honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 10:44 AM
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It's more of pre-emptive narrative shaping given that singleness is definitely in the cards for many women as they enter middle age, and all the good men are taken, and they were passed up for, generally better women than them. When you press them on the lie, it quickly shifts form to "happier single than men who are single" or "happier single than in an abusive relationship". That's why the small group of unattractive women who never had a shot don't matter. There's a narrative to push to make …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 09:59 AM
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The outrage in this thread is proof that you're hitting on something real, OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 08:39 AM
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I asked her if she needs a green card from me and she said she only needs my love so idk what to tell you
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 04:09 AM
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Alright great let me ask my Philippines expat gf if she's going to 4B me edit: she thought it was so dumb and we laughed at you
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 04:06 AM
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If it happens to negatively impact terrible men, that’s just a bonus. Like I said, it's the goofiest revenge fantasy by a bunch of goofy people. It's not going to impact these "terrible men" aka republicans since you were already presumably not fucking them. If anything 4B maybe has a chance of backfiring on your politically aligned / ally men, and that's good because fuck em. I sure hope those guys learn their lesson.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 03:55 AM
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I don't know or particularly care about your personal motivations, but a lot of this 4b talk is being used as a threat / revenge against men in general in response to the election results, which since I belong to "men in general" would make it about me.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 03:51 AM
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I already find most men totally undateable so it’s not that far fetched to me. In other words this 4b sillyness will change absolutely nothing in most men's lives anyway. Wow, you sure showed them! American 4B has got to be the goofiest revenge fantasy I've ever seen by a bunch of helplessly goofy people.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 03:46 AM
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They're not that stupid. The strategy is already decided to flood young men with toxic positivity and deflecting from their problems. All the while heaping accusations to anyone who points out that they continue to offer no real solutions. See the sub r/bropill for reference, it's already started in response to this massive disconnect between young men and progressives. Look for it to become a default sub in the next few months.
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/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 10:13 PM
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I don't see your point. You didn't get results, so this must mean others didn't?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 07:35 PM
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I think people notice the gradual decline of men approaching women and they're desperately trying to find ways to normalize it again.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 07:29 PM
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pro tip: putting your height as 6'1 really pushes the right buttons of the feminine gaze
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 07:19 PM
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In my 20s, I had no problem giving mediocre chicks a chance because at least they were young, there's a valid excuse.. I'll still be easy on women in their 20s, but I am definitely not doing this for women in their 30s or beyond. Male
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 03:36 PM
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aren't you like 94 years old though? The question might be directed at younger chicks.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 05:55 AM
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Do we all want a return to cold, brutal darwinism for women too? or is that just for the men in this society As long as we do everything according to nature, then ok. Women will pick the strongest men however they can, and men will regain a massivly unfair imbalance of power in the political and economic realm. What I don't understand is why we need to even the playing field for women. But it's always full throttle evolutionary pressure, survival of the fittest type shit for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 06:58 PM
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Basically see the kind of small talk that happens with a male love interest in a chick flick or in girl literature. Sorry to tell you but this is generally what women want. I hope you have an incredible writer because you'll get less banter from her to work with, and you'll have to think up of what to say on the fly.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 02:47 PM
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duh, who would want to marry unattractive and post wall just because she has her own money?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 08:36 PM
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You claimed that to avoid accusations of infidelity, a man can discreetly run a paternity test to determine if the baby is his. Yes. My point was exactly that getting a paternity test discreetly will avoid accusations of infidelity. I rightly pointed out that in certain states, the "discreet" running of a paternity test postpartum will not absolve the husband of child support even if the paterntiy test reveals the child is not his. this is the strawman right here. YOU are the one simultaneously …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 06:22 PM
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As if all of you are such angles. Exactly. I wish more women understood that just because they are obtuse doesn't automatically make them an angle!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 06:18 PM
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those states, a postpartum paternity test is leaving it up to discretion of a judge. It's not an ironclad absolution of child support. The strawman arguments continue. Nobody said a paternity test is intended to be an ironclad absolution of child support.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 06:00 PM
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Even in the states that assume the father, every single US state has a process for contesting paternity after the child is born. You might still want to make 100% sure first before filing a petition to contest. So the solution to the problem you're posing begins with getting a paternity test done discreetly.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 02:00 PM
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I don't think it's necessarily personal in most cases. Lots of them intuitively know there a lot of little bastard children running around, and they are trying to protect each other from men finding out. The in-group bias is insane among women, I'm actually surprised you're not being called a pickme for questioning the consensus.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 06:03 AM
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People don't like to be accused of infidelity. This is a non-problem. Men can (and evidently -- should) get a paternity test discreetly, to avoid making anyone feel accused. And take it to the grave unless the results bear out that it's not his child after all. Is anyone going to FINALLY offer a coherent response to this?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 05:15 AM
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People here love to squeeze this subject until there's nothing else to discuss. They squeeze the subject for as long as they can set up their own strawman arguments to knock down. Nobody was promoting paternity tests as a way to prove infidelity, OP and the rest of the blue pillers piling in are arguing against an imaginary group of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 12:52 AM
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Some mental illness does pretty well. Psychopathy and narcissism tend to score quite well with women. Functioning manics and hypomanics probably do well also. Guys with ASPD can definitely find a niche of women into that. But yeah it's over for men with autism, depression or anxiety. It's interesting to see which mental illnesses manage to get laid and which ones are the dealbreakers.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 08:11 PM
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Why would I waste my time knowingly arguing with an AI. Are you going to do deal with the argument or gtfo if I start feeding you AI generated responses? This is why I said, maybe this board should just be 100% AI generated, just AIs arguing back and forth with other AIs.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 03:51 PM
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You're welcome to copy and paste your AI generated comments all you want, but people are most likely going to think they're crap and just scroll past them without reading.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 03:45 PM
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People leaving dating apps doesn't mean people are cold approaching more. That was exactly my point. Dating apps weren't what caused the decline in cold approaching. Reducing the reliance on dating apps doesn't result in cold approaching to return. Your point about dating apps causing the issue is wrong. There's also been a drop in IG usage with other platforms becoming more popular, again, that hasn't led to anything new since the issue wasn't IG either. And with the pivot to warm approaches we…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 03:09 PM
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There has been a pretty signficant exodus from dating apps recently. Rest assured, cold approaching is not on the rise because dating apps aren't what caused the problem to begin with. Remember the "I choose the bear" nonsense, and the droves of women jumping on THAT bandwagon, with the same notion that all men are potentially dangerous predators? Do you think any guy knowing this is what women think of them, actually wants to walk up and introduce themselves? Women keep fucking it up for everyo…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 03:02 PM
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Nope it wasn't dating apps. It was women. The cold approach stuff started in the mid 2000s. That doesn't mean it ended in the mid 2000s, it continued into the mid 2010s alongside Tinder and Bumble. It built up over the years but the final nail in the coffin that people hate to bring up was the MeToo movement. Remember that? It was around 2017. Women turned MeToo into such a shit show that men were pretty much like "ok fuck this" almost all at once. It started as awareness for legitimate abuse ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 02:34 PM
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Yeah I'm serious. I already addressed the point about manipulation. Pump and dump is something that emerged later as a conclusion to the realities of the dating landscape and modern women's behavior. And it remains absolutely the correct response especially for millenial women in their 30s, most of whom have used their "education" to become so disagreeable as to make marriage a living hell. If men were approaching these days, it would just be to pump and dump anyway unless she proves to be a kee…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 01:10 PM
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Yes, a lot of it was. I mean, they did try to systematize the flirting into tips and canned lines, so instead of appreciating the effort women ended up screeching about manipulation and whatnot. If you have a problem with PUA, let me remind you that the alternative the bluepill side offered at the time (and probably still does) was useless unactionable shit like "just be confident" and "talk to her like a human".
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 12:58 PM
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asking for a paternity test just mean the woman doesn't deserve to be trusted to begin with, leading me to question the quatilty of the choice and ask myself why should one entertain this kind of relation to begin with Your main point has already been addressed numerous times in countless other similar posts. The type of responses there are going to be the same responses you'll get here because you're just rehashing the same point. You could have just read the responses that were already present…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 12:17 PM
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Nope, it was women. In the mid 2000s, cold approaching was emphasized especially in the PUA community as a response to the unfavorable male-to-female ratio in online dating and at least early on, men were having decent success with it. Then women found out that non-natural men had the audacity of trying to learn how to flirt with women, they got pissy and made a huge stink about it. They spent the following decade overplaying their hand in the most overdramatic way possible, now here we are.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 11:20 AM
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There are a lot of women annoyed that men "don't approach anymore", and they don't mean the vocal minority of men that aren't worth dating. It's not even the vocal minority of men who created this -- women are the ones that brought the no-approaching culture about. They failed to appreciate that approaching was already enough of a painful slog, and their increasingly disdainful attitude afforded to men who did approach didn't do much to help. Instead of appreciation and encouragement, they gave …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 10:58 AM
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Of course not. You're missing my point which is -- why would anyone waste their time reading some regurgitated crap from an AI on a discusson board made for humans to discuss things? I see now that my response didn’t offer a sufficiently distinct differing opinion, and I appreciate your patience in pointing that out. Let me offer a more direct challenge to your perspective. A truly differing opinion could argue that the cultural shift is happening to a larger extent than you suggest, and men’s f…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 10:39 AM
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Wow! it wrote a response under a minute L@@K! A differing opinion on your response could emphasize that while it’s true that cognitive biases, like the availability heuristic, shape men’s perceptions of social risks, it’s also possible that the “cultural shift” you mention is more nuanced than either side acknowledges. While it may still be socially acceptable to approach women in many contexts, men might be hyper-aware of specific scenarios where these interactions are increasingly scrutinized.…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 10:31 AM
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Hey this is great. This subreddit should really just be 100% bots arguing back and forth endlessly with each other. A differing opinion on the excerpt provided might emphasize that while cognitive biases such as the availability heuristic, media amplification, and negativity bias do indeed influence fear, men’s reluctance to approach women may not be purely an overreaction to improbable risks. Instead, it could stem from a more rational response to evolving social norms, real experiences, and so…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 10:24 AM
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Seen it a million times anyway, it's still adding nothing of value
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 01:41 AM
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See, the difference here is taht OP has an actual original and interesting point for men to consider, about adopting women's tactic of virtue signaling their preferences and being hypocritical when it's beneficial, and deflecting criticism with platitudes instead of trying to defend them logically. Guys generally don't handle criticism this way, so it's an interesting suggestion that would probably lead to interesting outcomes. And then here you are giving the same tired ass lecture about "but d…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 12:15 AM
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Yes, and also the French celebrate International Whore's Day on Jun 2, to spread awareness of cheating whores
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 12:03 AM
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If most men weren't accepting of rinky dinks, the species would have died out long ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 06:50 PM
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That's a very active imagination you have there, do you write a lot of fan fiction?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 04:46 PM
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Most can afford to get it done at a medical lab for a few extra bucks. If men want to have a dinky diy kit mailed to their house for their wife to find, they can go right ahead.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 02:47 PM
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Men get to ask for a DNA test as long as Nope. In most US states men get to do the paternity test for like $200 whenever they feel like it without anyone else's input. If women don't like it maybe try to ban them, let's drive the wedge even deeper.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 01:16 PM
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This is the kind of thing you normally get from a woman attempting humor.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 11:35 AM
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Wouldn’t the practical benefit be marrying and having kids with women who understand your beliefs? Lol this is question is so strongly based in female reality. No -- because men don't have the limitless options to simply find "a woman who understand your beliefs" on this. You'd literally have to burn through hundreds of options before you find her, and this would be just for a single criteria.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 11:58 PM
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It would be inappropriate IF you actually agreed with a woman's pettiness and nearly universal disregard for your own interests over her ego, yes. You'd have to agree that it's all about calling her a whore, rather than about you wanting certainty. For some guys, maybe having their own family is more important than a woman's petty feelings of being accused and they just get the paternity test quietly.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 11:49 PM
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Yes of course women are all for men asking, but this is not a "question for women" post. There is no practical benefit for men to ask, in the overwhelming majority of cases will just end up filtering themselves out. How is that so hard to understand?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 11:40 PM
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Women haven't shown enough maturity to deal with it. Until then, men should make the decision on their own.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 11:29 PM
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ok, but the topic isn't about you specifically. What I said was, women in general should pre-emptively bring up their strong anti paternity test opinions early on, to give a clear signal to men that starting a family with her is probably a very bad idea. Of course, most women with the intention to start a family are not that stupid, neither are most men.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 11:24 PM
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ok, so let's see women "be honest about their values". When you decide you want a kid with a man, make him promise not to paternity test. Sabotage yourselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 11:12 PM
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I would hope these RPers are extremely honest with their partners long before pregnancy is on the table about their intent to test paternity. Maybe the exceptionally stupid men will. We all know women's typical response is to have a meltdown if this topic is brought up. Any suggestion like this should be correctly identified as a poor attempt to sabotage them. To drive the point home, maybe women should follow their own advice and get their bfs to promise that if they have a kid they won't pater…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 10:47 PM
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Its a life stage issue, not a machiavellian plot to groom concubines. hey man, you don't speak for all of us!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 04:30 PM
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Empirically speaking on reddit, it's overwhelmingly the opposite. I analyzed askmenover30 and askwomenover30 titles in the past month. In the past month there have been 11 posts on r/askwomenover30 where the title indicates anxiety or despair over not having children. In r/askmenover30, the total was a whopping 3 posts in the past month. I would argue it's not evenly split. Modern men simply don't appear more interested in having kids by a long shot, in comparison hardly of them seem to think ab…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 02:59 AM
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Developed nations get a boom in births when there's optimism for the future. Today people are at best uncertain about the future, at worst demoralized especially given the damage done by the Biden / Harris administration.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 11:09 AM
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It seems insane for me specifically, not judging others. And anyway, it's probably just an extreme form of introversion. If I have to see friends and co-workers too often, my quality of life declines quickly and I start to withdraw anyway. You'd never know it if you saw us hanging out, because I make sure to only see them occasionally and it works because they're actually ok with that. A long term girlfriend or wife will never be ok with that. They will want more contact because it doesn't feel …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 11:51 AM
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The concept of giving up, even quitting implies that you've failed and still think it's a pursuit worth taking for yourself. I disagree that premise applies to everyone. I've been in relationships with women who were loyal, good company, attractive "high quality" and so on. I still don't see the even the good relationships I've had as better than being alone, at least not in the long-term. Once my last serious relationship was over, which was with my probably best catch, I was so relieved that I…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 07:59 AM
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I attract females by rubbing fresh ass sweat in my armpits. Natural pheromones, drives them wild. It might seem weird to be walking around with ass sweat until you understand what's going on and there's a very primal biological reason behind it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 05:13 PM
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The fact that it's easier to get a date means the goalposts change too. You're not just merely trying to find a date like a man is, you're trying to date the absolute best from all your available options. That adds a whole set of complications that most men never get the "misfortune" of dealing with. I think this is why women consider their task as looking for clean water in a swamp. the clean water is their ideal man, and in her mind the rest of the men in her inbox are like swamp water.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 11:04 AM
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If you take actionable measures to prevent from being objectified, then you won't be able to moan dramatically about how objectified you are. You really don't understand what game they're playing.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 06:45 AM
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the military has physical conditioning programs, again they work just fine for Israeli women in the IDF. But I get it, only the men are supposed to get shot to pieces and if they're lucky come back with PTSD. Maybe if women just keep making excuses while demanding respect from men it will magically happen one day.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 09:34 AM
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Israeli women seem to be capable enough in combat roles. Look I get it, women don't want bullets shot at them they rather it be one of the men, lest we remind them how they're not needed anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 09:27 AM
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Recommended or not is irrelevant. It's never recommended to be in the line of bullets aimed in your direction but that's never stopped men from getting drafted.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 09:00 AM
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The whole playbook is censoring dedicated spaces on social media and character assassination of whoever might be a "leader".
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 08:50 AM
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Telling a man to date other men is said with the sole purpose of triggering you. They're telling you that your problem has no importance AND they're teasing that dating men would be right for you (short of directly calling you gay). They know enough men will be triggered by this, so they keep doing it -- that's the entire goal. Posts like these make me realize how women / blue pill really has a MASSIVE upper hand over red pill men when it comes to inventing these little rhetorical quips and depl…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 08:19 AM
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I think more and more men are, and I think them just giving up and accept being porn addict is kind of the goal. Personally I say fuck that. If a system is stacked against you, you're a sucker if you follow the rules. I will hit up hoes on ig and offer them cash. I will engage in sex tourism and fuck women who I have no idea if they're sex trafficked. Hell, if a recession rolls around probably start a porn company in the US and cast desperate college girls and desperate single moms, there will b…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 04:27 PM
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weird how all the actual non-bullshit answers are at the very bottom of the thread
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 05:54 AM
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very important post, made some decent and original points its kinda refreshing to see around here
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 04:32 PM
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ok I hear what you're saying but this is a great opportunity to educate fellow men: fellas, paternity tests are already available and cheap in the US and have been for years. Arguing with dumb women the internet for mandatory tests is a waste of time and energy, just get your own. No need to get the mother involved. Unless it's not yours, then you should throw her a surprise reveal party
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 05:12 AM
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Do Any of You WANT An Arranged Marriage? Sure. Why? Who Should Arrange it? Because then I will contribute to upholding civilization with my labor. The government should arrange it if they want to keep their power.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 07:59 PM
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oh, there's a hole in an argument alright
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 07:52 PM
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my condolences
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 05:22 AM
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Yes. We either don't give a shit, or if we do we get plugs and viagra. It's one thing men generally don't whine about, so what exactly is the problem? How does anyone benefit from men becoming neurotic like a woman about aging? Sounds like a classic case of misery loving company, but that's why God invented cats for you. Leave us out of it
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 05:14 AM
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If there are easy fixes available, then why not. These solutions existing makes it even less likely for guys to worry about OPs (very insincere, btw) concerns about men's health.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 04:14 AM
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On the other hand, there are a lot of dullards reading that wealthier, established men experience more interest from women and translate that in their heads into "redpillers think women have the hots for wrinkly old men". Not saying that is you necessarily, but there is a lot of dumminess to go around especially in this "debate" sub
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 03:48 AM
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That complaining is being done by men in their 20s and 30s many of whom still have plenty of good physical attributes.. It's hard to imagine you still give a fuck about how unattracted women still are to you at 60, I mean that's been pretty much your whole life existence to get used to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 03:32 AM
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Because aging hardly changes how attracted women are to most of us, since most of them already weren't to begin with. As another user said: "When they’re young and virile, in the prime of their youth, average men struggle to get any woman to pay attention to them. Then you get older and it’s the same shit plus bald." I think this is pretty spot on. If anything these things just become a health nuisance to deal with rather than going from being attractive by the overwhelming opinion of the opposi…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 03:15 AM
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I'm not really an all or nothing kind of guy. I'd wife the best one up immediately if it was actually accurate, because some reliable benefits are better than none.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 02:39 AM
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ok you do you, blue pill man. No one was trying to challenge your opinion anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 02:26 AM
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only if they're old, like 30+ and it's because it's a pretty safe bet that woman is a loser. Trust me loser men get looked down upon too, it's not just women so it's only fair
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 02:08 AM
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I'm glad this didn't become law.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 01:58 AM
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but you're not actually concerned whether I'm trapped in an echo chamber. You're just using that accusation as a way to pressure me into caring for what you have to say (and for the record, I don't)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 01:54 AM
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because you don't sincerely have incel / RP / average redditor's best interests in mind
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 01:47 AM
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The difficult thing is making guys worry about it any of this the way women worry about their own aging problems. In general we just don't give a fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 01:42 AM
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women like all different kinds of Chads we 👏 are 👏 not 👏 a 👏 monolith 👏👏👏
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 08:55 PM
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What I love about this chart is that men in their mid 40s almost look like they want to start drifting into mid-20s territory. And then they just nope the fuck back to the youngest 20 year olds lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 08:52 PM
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why do women hate this question lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 12:11 AM
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Amen
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 01:21 AM
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great use of "allegedly" lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 12:22 AM
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that's why God invented porn
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 11:59 PM
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women should just be less hateable, mysoginy solved
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 11:44 PM
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It would honestly be kind of endearing and I'm sure there's some out there. Some girls just have high libido but don't want to become a used-up tinder whore, porn would be a great outlet
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 07:41 PM
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I don't ask these kinds of questions but through experience I've learned that asking a woman anything you're going to get an answer mostly based around herself and how it relates to her friends / family / boyfriend / husband. So if I ever felt inclined to ask, it would be for that reason, not really for anything objective.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 09:05 AM
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The ones that fuck up women's sports are kind of based bc its funny, the rest of them are gay af
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 10:05 PM
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How delusional does a person have to be to think anyone is desperate to stalk some random trans on the internet? seriously
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 10:01 PM
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Sure bro, you're actually a model and tons of people approach you. okay
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 09:56 PM
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The point of your post was about how nothing has changed for you. You're trying your best with the boobs and starvation techniques but you're forced to initiate anyway because most people look at you and want nothing to do with that (aside from probably desperate creeps) The fact you count that as some kind testament of your character is just icing on the cake
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 09:49 PM
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hm it's almost like being loaded with estrogen doesn't negate biological reality of being a dude regardless
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 09:42 PM
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yes that's exactly what I'm saying bro, you nailed it
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 09:40 PM
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Like I think I might be more of a man than y’all "transsexual MtF" well I mean, biologically speaking you're just a man who injected some female hormones into his body, so...
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 09:13 PM
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Verily, as a subject of his majesty's kingdom it doth strike my perception that the Conservative Party's foundational bastion doth reside within the realm of privately educated aristocratic gentlemen, yet their inclinations doth lean towards the winds of social liberalism. Alas, it is a paradoxical conundrum, for the sons of toil, the white working-class lads, do indeed oft find themselves under the scrutinous gaze of those upon the right-wing, whilst paradoxically holding dear to their bosoms t…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 07:11 PM
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Best strategy is leveraging exchange rates. Your bux goes a lot farther in third world countries like Colombia and the Philippines.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 07:02 PM
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raped, killed, murdered This isn't something the average man does though, if they did the numbers would skyrocket into the hundreds of millions
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 10:18 AM
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hey this is great! ladies embarking on the redpill, here are the harsh truths about male sexuality: all the attractive men prefer younger naturally beautiful women with big asses and boobs ( in other words, not you). And they also tend to prefer natural blondes for no reason whatsoever. if you don't like it, then you're just a bitter misandrist!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 09:57 AM
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Every general statement someone makes is specifically about me and my wife. Nothing is true unless it conforms to my particular situation. Why are blue pillers like this?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 10:51 PM
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sex bots are around 5-10 years away still, unless robotics research has its own openai moment.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 04:26 AM
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ah you were making these assumptions not for one person you don't know, but for millions of other men. Thanks for clearing that up
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 11:32 PM
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ok I guess this is the part where you pull things out of your own ass and pretend to be a mind reader.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 11:28 PM
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I'll reply to the part of your comment that was actually relevant: You have negative thoughts about porn. Having negative thoughts about minor categories of something doesn't necessarily mean you have negative thoughts about the entirety of it. That was easy!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 11:22 PM
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If I'm ok with 99.999% of women in the world being in porn, then I'm pro porn. You can say I'm not pro porn because of a hypothetical scenario where a family member gets into porn. That wouldn't change my mind on porn being great 99.9999% of the time. In your view the only way to be pro porn is to embrace every type of porn including that of your mom or sister, which to me just looks like you're trying to force a conclusion in a way that men don't actually think. Maybe I hate scat porn, trans po…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 11:11 PM
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Not really. I'm pro porn only because the women in that industry are women I don't much care about, so it doesn't affect me at all. If a woman in my life decided to do porn, I wouldn't be anti porn, I'd just cut them out of my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 11:00 PM
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drunk, angry, sad, lonely, insecure, bored, or in a self destructive spiral Where can I find these women? You know, in case I could cheer them up or soemthing
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 10:23 PM
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yes, you totally can fix her
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 09:56 PM
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I think it's possible, but not from "debating". If anything I only foresee more blue pilled men becoming red pilled and more blue pilled women becoming radicalized feminists.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 09:54 PM
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You'll be waiting a while
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 09:50 PM
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I'm not going to dig one up for you, bud. I'd spend way too much time following your orders and in the end you'd just argue back anyway. The shower meme came out of a void of nothingness, sure ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 09:46 PM
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The showers / hygiene meme was all over reddit a few years ago, but it got so much ridicule that they've pretty much stopped saying it because it was making them look dumb. Unfortunately for them the meme has stuck around as a reminder.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 09:00 PM
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Again with the silly assumptions. I'm not talking to "bitter men". Most of the Koreans I know are older, and are happily married and have children. I only mainly to conservative/trad Koreans and I know liberal Korean women think the opposite, but I'd rather not associate with them just to hear their thoughts because I don't care about what they think.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 08:48 PM
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This is what I hear directly from Koreans living in Seoul, usually unprompted as in they're the ones bringing the issue up. Of course, what they say might depend on which Koreans you speak to.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 08:10 PM
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What I call love is clearly a way to care for myself trough others. This sounds like the sanest understanding of love I've ever seen, almost enlightened. If more people had this definition of love the world would be a much, MUCH better place to be honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 12:40 PM
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I'm long on South Korea as a dark horse play to bounce back. A lot of men there finally deciding they've had enough feminism which has been making their women insufferable for the last decade or so. I'm almost proud of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 12:12 PM
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by being sexually compatible AND having money duh Aside from short term dating, the having money part is a requirement unless she's ok with a bum long term. It certainly doesn't play a minor role unles you specify "early" which you didn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 05:09 AM
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I'm kind of agreeing with you with the caveat that money plays a minor role you mean just in the early stages of dating. But the concept of "dating" extends far beyond just the first few dates, so on that end you're dead wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 04:13 AM
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You're right it's not important for the first few dates, and in modern times, the few dates are for establishing sexual compatibility aka fucking
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 03:35 AM
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Yeah sorry but neurodivergent doesn't only mean autistic. Read a damn book
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 11:53 PM
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For dating money is important. Change genuine dating to genuine fucking and you maybe have a point
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 08:44 PM
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In this society , certain undiagnosed neuro conditions can work to your benefit , like narcissism, machiavellianism and psychopathy :)
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 08:42 PM
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I think a lot of men become fluid especially when they're desperate like in the current times. Look at what's happening in China, like 20% of men there are straight up gay. And in the US, a lot of men are willing to experiment with trans on Grindr because they're so desperate. Personally I heavily look down on those kinds of men. I consider their minds to be weak. They have no fighting instinct. When this happens I just cut these men off from my life, rather than be around a weak minded man.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 08:37 PM
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99.9% of the time, if your lady doesn’t want sex it isn’t because she’s “withholding. No, the "whitholding" complaint usually comes after some event that the guy can actually refer to after which the sex started to dry up. Often it's related to a fight or something about the relationship that the chick decides she doesn't like.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 03:21 AM
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nlog? I thought these bitches hated STEM bros
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 09:14 PM
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Purple pill is mainstream society. Most normie couples I know who look bluepilled from the outset are shades of purple when it comes to their own dating pasts, and their adherence to gender roles, behaviour and expectations when you dig deeper. excellent point
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 06:01 PM
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3 months later... https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ov_MqVMKZ4U
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 06:15 AM
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sugar daddies, the guys faking being rich, the guys filling girls with false hope, men being methodical with their flirting. All of this is entirely fine to do. As long as it's not directly lying or done for the sake of harming them, it's morally justified.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 08:33 PM
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Mods would ban red pill discussion altogether if doing so didn't completely invalidate the purpose of this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 01:49 PM
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You literally just said as long as you can pass the looks threshold, you can be the biggest dick and it won't change your ability to get laid. What you just described is much more than looks getting a foot in the door.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 12:32 AM
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They do, and frequently, but women just complain where they know everyone will gather around coddle and validate them. See /r/askwomenover30
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 09:41 PM
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A neighbor of mine started dating a guy at 38 after she ignored him for years. This right here is the significant penalty you were talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 10:35 AM
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As a guy it's 100% ok to your advantage to talk about your feelings as long as they're positive feelings. Negative feelings from a guy are not handled well by pretty much anyone and you'd have to be pretty dumb to bring up negative feelings around a chick you're seeing, unless it's to show how mentally strong you are after you already overcame a difficult situation. If you need to let out negative feelings you need to hire a shrink or go for a run, and not open up about it in a relationship. It …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 10:17 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 05:23 AM
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women being hypocritical as usual
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 05:01 AM
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everyone's a cassanova in the phillippines bro
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 06:52 AM
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If you had 2 great relationships and 1 bad, you already have favorable odds. So nah, one bad experience doesn't seem reasonable to quit. The actual reason certain men stop dating: Usually dating is a hassle and not that fun, and usually women do you no favors in this regard unless you are Chad blah blah we've heard this before. Probably the case for most men in general, but for sure true for most men that eventually decide to quit altogether.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 01:09 PM
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fake Herman Melville ass vibes no one readin that shit bruh
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 12:26 PM
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I need to screenshot this. Are you actually a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 11:27 AM
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That's not him rejecting her, that's just not making the relationship exclusive. OP calls that a rejection, but it's just a dopey reframing game which OP is apparently an expert at.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 10:41 AM
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he’d already rejected her No, they were still seeing each other just not exclusive, learn to read. It's kind of a childish "I'm going to reject you because you already rejected me" game, but here we are admonishing the guy for playing games.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 10:35 AM
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I got your point, I didn't miss the /s and I have nothing to add to what I said earlier
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 10:32 AM
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> common interests, hobbies, friends,jobs and education If choose any of these based on the opposite sex, God help you on the road to living an inauthentic life. If you end up in the right places that facilitate that out of genuine interest and consciously chosen path then great, but not everyone will.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 10:23 AM
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The funny thing is, he was rejected as soon as he made his intentions clear. Women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 10:08 AM
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I'm not expecting you to change your mind, but as a guy who took the aloof approach all I can offer is that some guys take rejection badly and do what these guys did, and other guys take rejection well and barely even think twice. Take it or leave it, but I'm glad I could offer you a new perspective to think about!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 10:03 AM
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Men are not mind readers, if we learn that desperation is usually the biggest killer of attraction, a keen approach is not a worthwhile risk since it can be misconstrued as desperation. The OP's point is "I personally prefer a keen approach", that's fine but she's not communicating anything meaningful. But I totally agree that he's having a hissy fit, except that it's over the rejection as opposed to any supposed remorse over being aloof. Like I said, he'd be reacting any rejection the same way,…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 09:54 AM
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Rejection of what? You said it yourself. They wanted to make things more serious, you didn't. And show me where in my post I said anything about myself or being special? It's right in your OP "insisting we’re nothing special" "after acting as if they hadn’t cared for me much at all, they’d start begging me to reconsider." You imagine guys as regretting how their aloofness backfired and how that decision was a self inflicted emotional punishment, whereas in all likelihood it's just they don't tak…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 09:42 AM
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the revenge fantasy is in the aggrandizing way you explain it to yourself. The whole idea of being secretly worth more to them, or secretly being more special than they were willing to admit. No, you're still not special and it was just a guy who's throwing a tantrum over rejection.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 09:32 AM
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Why would we expect anything other than a gender divide? There is hardly anything bringing men and women together, aside from chasing after happiness.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 09:31 AM
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This has got to be the most common female revenge fantasy: that they are inherently so special and the guys gnash their teeth when they are forced to admit her specialness. What you're actually seeing is a bad response to rejection, which would be just as dramatic even if they took a very keen approach and got rejected.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 09:20 AM
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The people who want a population collapse are the silliest ones of all. Maybe a controlled decline in population could easily be seen as beneficial, but in an all-out collapse all evidence points to a rapid decline in standard of living until population rebounds, which could mean several generations of struggle.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 08:46 AM
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it's like climate deniers except with a different group of people, they just dig their heels in and deny it despite mounting evidence to the contrary. Even sillier are the people who have been brainwashed to believe population collapse would be a wonderful thing
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 08:38 AM
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Speaking of which, has anyone noticed how quarantine and moratoriums is for topics that make blue pill unconfortable? feminism quarantine, looks quarantine, n count, FDS, abortion, paternity test quarantine.. I'm sure plenty of others -- and soon probably sexbot quarantine
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 07:03 AM
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no amount of programming can make up for the vibe/ chemistry and impulse of a real relationship. This is exactly where the threat lies. At one point is was believed that no amount of programming could defeat a chess grandmaster. And then, advances happened in deep learning about 10-15 years after the first consumer grade PCs. Imagine being a world-class relationship partner and still getting blown the fuck out by the Tesla Slutbot 3000. That's why there's a very clear reactionary feminist respon…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 01:30 PM
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delete this
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 01:14 PM
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I'm just controlling and possessive. Male trait :) also, jay-z? 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 10:06 AM
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There's always been a gender war that women had been losing for millenia, but since the rise of industrialization (late 1800s America), corporate powers decided to ally with women and they really turned the tide on men. They knew that if women entered the workforce en-masse, they could line their own pockets twice as much. You could say it started with "Torches of Freedom" cigarette propaganda in the early 1900s and the most recent reincarnation is probably that weird Barbie propaganda movie tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 07:28 AM
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such an original insight!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 06:27 AM
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If this is genuinely her values then I agree with the comments here. But if she was asking "what do I get for all this" that would be a huge red flag.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 03:32 AM
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So then it's fine if men want new pussy quickly after getting a girl and there's nothing to "admit" because they're not trying to deny it. This makes it hard for girls to get validation from sex. Great, it's not necessary to get validation from sex, they can get validation somewhere else
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 03:17 AM
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Waiting longer won't make you less bored about the girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 03:13 AM
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What do you mean don't like admitting it? Guys don't even try to hide the fact that if a chick is making you wait for sex (and she's not a virgin) you should drop her.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 03:10 AM
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sorry but no, I just examine them for aesthetics
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 06:51 PM
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no free breast exams for men that would be kinda gay
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 06:17 PM
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I do free breast examinations
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 06:04 PM
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What policies still remained in the mid 1970s?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 04:25 AM
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There is a way to know for sure, just hire a private investigator. 100% legal too
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 09:49 AM
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All it would take is for most women in the comments to admit that Lizzo looks like a trashbag full of jello, and this would instantly be settled. But no, we MUST pretend that she's beautiful. That's why you can't pull it on the males, we don't engage in these games.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 07:38 AM
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Not sure what you mean by "self inflicted". I'd want to clear things up for the more simple minded reddit folk right out the gate.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 09:05 PM
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this works if you label everyone who is your ideological opponent as a "bad person" simply because they oppose your ideology. Goes back to that puny brain observation.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 09:04 PM
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A male high school teacher who wears pants that are designed to accentuate his penis? A coworker who wears pants that are low cut in the front showing off a little bit of the base. A man at the gym who wears extremely short shorts that let his balls every so slightly hang out. the title of this post should have been "Top 3 cursed midjourney prompts"
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 04:45 AM
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Here's the secret sauce: You can't simply be an asshole to women who pride themselves as well-adjusted and secure. In order to hack their (very puny) brains, your assholery needs to be directed towards her ideological enemies. That way you're not an asshole, but a totally sweet guy for standing up for her and your deeply held beliefs. Trust me that shit works like a charm.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 03:24 AM
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There is something very impressive to women about a guy who wields so much power and security that he can be harsh to people she dislikes, but extends kindness to her and people she likes. but yeah if you're equally kind to everyone you're just seen as an unconfrontational and boring man. It is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 02:35 AM
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You're absolutely right. AI will be utilized wherever it can provide an advantage, and at scale this means things will never be the same. The only reason you're wrong right now is that it's not "at scale". For example, I already know that women tend to love Ryan Reynolds' personality. Last year when I was goofing around online dating, I made a chat-gpt prompt where I would input what my matches said, and it would respond like a flirty Ryan Reynolds. I could barely bring myself to copy and paste …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 01:19 AM
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ctrl+f: blackpi you mention defeatism but don't even bother to compare it to incels / blackpills?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 01:07 AM
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It's generational recoil. Gen alpha girls are looking at their millenial spinster aunts and they want nothing to do with that life
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 12:54 AM
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it seems like they have an obsession with dating us If you're significantly younger, older men aren't truly interested in "dating" you. They just want to fuck you and dating you is usually the only way to make it happen, they'd skip the dating part entirely if they could
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 12:37 AM
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Dating advice, therapy bait-and-switch This is what you get for taking women's "advice" seriously
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 12:18 AM
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hoes mad
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 06:23 PM
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The hope is that men will be so worn down and desperate that when it comes time for the women who DO want to settle down, they'll have no problems doing so.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 01:21 AM
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I disagree with women wearing revealing clothing. What is with all this modesty, it's 2024 women should be showing the full titty already
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 02:15 AM
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I don't know what to tell you, seems like you're just looking to invalidate my lived experience because it doesn't fit neatly in with your worldview of "Tate bad".
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 01:19 AM
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Some consider Tate as somewhat of an Enlightened thinker or prophet who was falsely accused by a manipulated crowd of uneducated peasants and commoners. Like a modern day Socrates.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 07:10 PM
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the whole argument is based entirely on their ability to secure an LTR with a comparably attractive man. You really do have it as easy as people think, since attractive men don't want to maintain relationships with mid women. It's the mid women who get absolutely thrashed in the relationships game but imo they deserve it
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 06:05 PM
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well that's just weird because most andrew tate fans that I know are trustworthy and loved by women. but honestly it probably depends on your social circle
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 06:45 AM
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DISCUSTED mad karen vibes
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 03:40 AM
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my advice is "If he likes Tate, be sure to date." just my personal anecdote but Andrew Tate fans I know personally have been pretty great dudes in general
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 02:38 AM
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So you read someone's youtube comment and you think "Ah yes, this is the red pill once again telling men to do x" But anyway, as far as anything widely spread in the redpill community, is there anything? Anything about it was in the subreddit sidebar, any mention of it in the several widespread books, blogs, grifter courses, etc. Andrew Tate who never shyed away from saying the most outrageous things, did he ever promote that idea? So all you have is some youtube comments or what?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 11:55 PM
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Show me The Red Pill telling men wait until your late 30s and marry a girl 18-25 years old. Since you've always seen this, it should be easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 11:18 PM
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The Red pill tells men that they should wait until they are 35-40 old when they are financially stable to get married, and find a girl in her prime (18-25 old) to marry and start a family. Nope
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 11:05 PM
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Men who constantly surround themselves with terrible women are typically simps. or healthcare workers
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 10:28 PM
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Meanwhile, I have no idea who these 80% of single men are while I did give props to OP for correctly describing 80/20, there always has to be that one derp who the concept has apparently eluded them for years. Well done
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 10:24 PM
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Even though this post is critical of the idea, it's still refreshing to see someone finally describe 80/20 in a way that isn't a complete joke. Props to OP for that
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 10:21 PM
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Get your fitness, finances and priorities in order and find a decent partner abroad; I did, and I'm still going to bitch about American women on reddit
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 10:48 AM
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a lot of black women start to go bald (alopecia) then they do a buzzcut and then put on a wig
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 11:06 PM
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a ton of feminists have been trying to get men out of signing up for the draft Not really.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 11:03 PM
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Don't get me wrong, I'm with you on the policy but I'm just not seeing a strong correlation to actual reproductive security. Even 1800s USA wasn't relative to other countries at the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 10:38 PM
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I didn't say the husband should necessarily make the decisions.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 10:33 PM
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Is there even a relationship between freedom and reproductive security? Even today you could point to regions of the world where fertility rate is relatively high and the people are oppressed, and regions of the world where fertility is low and the people are relatively free. Obviously I'm not saying oppression is great, I agree with cutting taxes and regulations. But I don't see more freedom necessarily providing reproductive security.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 10:05 PM
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“daddy academy” and he’s talking about how men should always pay for dates This really sounds like a sugar daddy course
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 09:50 PM
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explain why the husband is more qualified to make decisions. I didn't say the husband is necessarily more qualified to make decisions.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 09:46 PM
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Are you suggesting "freedom" as a means of achieving reproductive security? I'm not really following
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 09:38 PM
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Apparently not enough. Is there a real answer?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 09:31 PM
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There has to be something better. If men collectively want reproductive security, what else is there for men to turn to?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 08:37 AM
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But then that would mean you actually see a cashier as superior to you. How is that possible? Just seems to me like lots of people are projecting their inferiority complexes.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 09:11 PM
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Dominance is relative among men, but not that relative between men and women. They're certainly less dominant relative to men who were socially successful in high school since those guys are concentrated on one the far extreme. But being men they're probably more dominant than women, who tend to shy away from conflict with men (unless they're debating on PPD in which case the gloves come off)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 02:44 PM
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You're making the mistake of thinking I'm comparing a cashier to a marriage -- I'm not. The point was only made to challenge the view that giving authority to another necessarily means a superior/inferior relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 02:25 PM
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obviously? I don't see your point
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 02:11 PM
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No it is very gender specific. Men can rarely suck up their pride and ask their wife to make a decision after they've screwed up. This is where the trope of men never listening to their wives to ask for directions comes from, they'd rather suffer through finding the spot on their own. On the other hand, women not being nearly as prideful, will have no problem asking the guy to fix it even if they're fully aware they caused it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 02:09 PM
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Sure
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 02:04 PM
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Your boss might be superior at the job, but not a superior person to you. Students are not inferior people to teachers, that is crazy. The teachers may be more competent in whatever subject, but that doesn't make them a superior person.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 01:53 PM
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You don't always end up with couples that have evenly matched powers of judgment, and it's not right to say a person is inferior just because they trust in their spouse's decisions more than their own.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 01:43 PM
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supposedly a woman making her own decision that she's going to trust her husband's opinions means she has put herself in the role of an inferior person. This is what I was challenging
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 01:29 PM
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This is because you rarely ever have your own opinion on the whole process of getting some groceries scanned and bagged. The reason "submission" isn't used because of intimacy, it's used is because regardless of your own opinion, you trust the other person's experience and judgment more. What this argument is really about is that women are educated and experienced, and want the freedom to follow their own opinion, which is fine. And it's great when you're right, but if you're wrong too often you…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 01:17 PM
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ok but who cares? Everyone who doesn't has the option not to You're not making an case for inferiority/superiority
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 01:08 PM
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We willingly give authority over to others all the time. Even a cashier at the grocery has some authority over you, but we both want the same outcome so I don't challenge their authority and demand to scan my own items. That's what the "self checkout" is for. None of this means I think they're superior in any way, I just want these roles because they work and they make life easier for everyone involved. I'm amazed this isn't actually intuitive for some people
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 12:59 PM
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do you beat up men's salamis for a living?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 11:39 AM
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We have a 60% chance. In Vegas, I’d put a $100k on those odds. 60% is for the average marriage where the partner counts are moderate for both. If your partner counts really are both that high, it's an easy all-in bet against your relationship. RemindMe! 4 years don't delete your account /u/Realistic-Ad-1023
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 11:07 AM
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No, he's definitely ugly. The fact that women call him cute shows their standards are pretty low. This guy is "ugly cute" to women because they are trying to rationalize being somehow attracted by an average guy with top 0.00001% social clout and worldwide adoration at the moment All this shows is that some women's looks standards can go out the window for extreme outliers in social clout.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 10:16 AM
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Assuming he's not socially retarded he won't tell on himself to women he meets, so I'm just seeing a lot of false concern.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 09:22 AM
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how did you arrive at 5800 number? I'm guessing he might be completely broke and might want the $200 to help cover taxes on the repair? Not making excuses for the guy, that is incredibly generous of you and the request for an extra $200 seems like straight up audacity.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 09:12 AM
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It's not difficult. It means I prefer a woman who's already pretty without it. That is the dream, A kinda meh chick that needs makeup to look good is what we're working with most of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 08:37 AM
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he doesn’t want to spend money to benefit his quality of life unless it’s connected to sex You get this benefit by simply not saying it out loud to women, and you get to save the money too
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 07:03 AM
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I know the porn bots are stealing them but what makes you think all of the women are pretending? Personally I think if they're pretending that's great that they're being stolen and used as porn bait.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 06:56 AM
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I can tell you're a woman seek help, if only because most women will find that attitude off-putting and weird. why would you seek help based on what the opposite gender thinks? If you really need mental help, the first and only reason should be to benefit yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 06:50 AM
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seek help, if only because most women will find that attitude off-putting and weird. Giving strangers life advice for the purpose of gaining women's approval is weird, you might be projecting insecurity or low self esteem. Have you considered seeking help for that?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 06:22 AM
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From my experience, I thought every dude would fall in love with me but that wasn’t the case. There were dudes who were obviously rude to me Not every dude fell in love with you? Some of them were rude? Oh my gosh, I'm so sorry this happened to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 04:26 AM
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just that the only conservative social media campaigns to have gained viral appeal have always had a central figure / leader. I'm not going to say which book.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 04:09 AM
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Absolutely doubtful that the social media will be enough, UNLESS there is a steady stream of personality cults to go along with it. What's crazy to me is that all of this was written about decades ago, and they nailed it up to now. Literally like a modern prophecy.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 03:58 AM
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when you say you're appealing 'To facts.' on a supposed fact, it's you who's clearly making indefensible claims, bub. There's no point in even taking it any further with you
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 03:07 AM
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throw your book of logical fallacies at me, daddy I'm honestly not in the mood today
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 02:56 AM
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the fact that the ideas are also wrong. Are you appealing to your own authority or to popular opinion on this so-called "fact"?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 02:49 AM
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Agreed, if anything it helps in individual cases but not on the whole. It would be smart for tradcons to seize some form of ideological endoctrination that could compete with the American public education system, but I'm not even sure anything like that exists.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 02:25 AM
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If tradcons could outbreed the ideas, the rest of us wouldn't become the majority in the first place, would we? Having said that Tradcons don't outbreed these ideas because they're passed down through conditioning and reinforcement, not through genetics. You only have 1 day of bible school per week to overcome 5 days of whatever crap the school board has approved in their social justice / feminist / LGBTQWERTYUIOP+ / overpopulation agenda.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 02:04 AM
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The plan of a cynical person would be to make sure that they get theirs.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 12:00 AM
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It's black and white thinking. Most of this board is full of disagreeable women that lack self awareness. Some would say these women are in a constant state of "hysteria", even though the term is a bit dated, but that would explain why they seem incapable of nuanced thought and discourse.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 06:19 PM
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what you're describing in the OP ain't it. The "platform" is all wrong and self contradicting. For example, you say men should "distance ourselves" from demanding behavioral change from women, but your whole idea of benevolent masculinity aims to change men's behavior. Why can't I just list the ways I want women to change and label that as "benevolent femininity". It's just a ball of irony. As to who you're trying to get elected, who knows. Maybe some leftist twat like Bernie Sanders
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 09:07 AM
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I do believe we are reaching a point where men can be mobilized but I'm opposed to this particular movement mostly because I don't believe in the sincerity of this movement and it will mostly be used as a political tool and to get politicians elected. I'd like to see something a little bit more interesting, please. Maybe something more social media market-driven. Andrew Tate looked like a step in the right direction tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 11:16 PM
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Which of women's preferences do you think you might be able to change through debate?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 11:05 PM
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you don't have to think very hard to see the connection society faces a climate crisis > Society shuns you > lose compassion for their children / grandchildren > become oil lobbyist > get paid to pollute their children's world > he dies filthy rich, your children die choking on air pollutants If society gives you the middle finger, why not throw yours back at them? Well played lobbyist bro
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 09:43 PM
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You're the one encouraging them! Stop whipping up these small penised men into a sex frenzy by appealing to their humiliation kinks
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 10:40 AM
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But let’s say that was the case, you only do that when you want to father a child? Right
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 10:38 AM
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if you pay them to have your child -- surrogacy
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 10:03 AM
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> Man should be allowed to opt out being a father if he says it enough early in a pregnancy. omg I'm gonna --- NOT BE THE DAAAAD! ​ see ya!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 09:42 AM
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better off abstaining from sex to protect themselves from being personally and socially humiliated Dudes with small dicks are known among swingers circles for being into humiliation play, so this plan would backfire. Sorry OP
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 09:38 AM
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I've been talking about the effort / reward ratio this whole time, not the ratio of men to women. The effort / reward ratio at these events is garbage so men avoid coming out to them, I guess you can also spin it into men are boycotting these events to get revenge on women who reject them too much, it's the same thing just from a different perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 04:48 AM
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I said SATURATED across the country, in other words if there was a good ratio, men would be going to them so much they'd have trouble even getting in but the ratio is shit so the turnout varies
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 04:31 AM
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The effort / reward ratio is too high. If speed dating had a reasonable ratio, someone would have made a "speed dating" course and speed dating events would be saturated across the country in a matter of weeks.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 04:21 AM
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Is anyone here under the delusion that arguing is going to change anything? It's the only way express what is practically forbidden and unthinkable to say aloud in public.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 03:30 AM
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and again, the topic isn't prostitution
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 02:56 AM
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The topic isn't prostitution, it's practically any "pay for play" setup you could think of.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 02:46 AM
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This is one agreement I think society gets right, even if for the wrong reasons. Making it illegal gives the largest number of men (those with even moderate wealth) to simply buy into opportunities that they otherwise wouldn't have. And if you actually want it, the risk/reward ratio is absolutely worth it. Imagine it's 100% legal to do this and take it to its logical conclusion. Women conspire to extract as much as they can, competition among men worsens. It's way better kept illegal. Cowards sh…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 11:35 PM
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strawman disregarded, please waste someone else's time
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 11:50 AM
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Strictly for "getting laid", feminism has made it so that the floodgates open for really attractive men to have practically limitless opportunities. But as a result, the rest of the men end up fighting for scraps or just stop trying entirely. Other factors have contributed to this also.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 11:34 AM
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It's obviously a result of their own delusional standards. Realistic women would have the self awareness to temper their demands (ESPECIALLY online) for men who will take them seriously. Instead they find themselves as forever girlfriends with dead end relationships, with the kind men who will probably opt to slide into a different relationship rather than entertain any talks of commitment. There was plenty of warning about this from the "manosphere", but women weren't having any of it the past …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 10:08 AM
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Women definitely seem more open to settling in their mid/late 30s, the problem is men hate knowing (if not knowing, then even just the hunch) they're being settled for. It's clearly a problem right now for women in their 30s, who are now finding their relationships sabotaged by guys they thought they really connected with.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 02:07 AM
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where the heck is "committing adultery" coming from? At a higher rate than what? None of these things are even a topic here
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 01:56 AM
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So then women are having the hookups on purpose just like men would and OP is wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 12:55 AM
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nah
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 12:46 AM
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ok fine, let me walk right into it Men aren't terrified of pissing off their unmarried gf, they're terrified of questioning paternity of a child from a woman they are married to. ok your turn.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 10:29 PM
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the conclusion most people come to is that men are so terrified of pissing off their unmarried "gf" Here is one gotcha, just as an example. You specifically said unmarried gf so that you can lecture men about vetting properly.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 10:23 PM
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women love the idea because they can't fathom a world where most men are cool with being single to the point where women acutually have to put in significantly more effort. They imagine the same conditions we have now, except that the average single men are content with being invisible taxpayers.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 09:55 PM
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needs more vagina refreshers
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 09:41 PM
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there should be a possibility for parents to opt out if they both want to. This would just result in women opting out just to catch their husband suspecting them of cheating, and we're back to square one. At this point men would have to agree to opt out just to avoid the risk, and do the paternity test behind their wife's back anyway,
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 01:37 PM
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the natural consequences that comes with accusing your wife/gf of cheating. there are no consequences since in most cases you're not required to get their consent or disclose anything to them. You can just go get the test and that's all.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 01:13 PM
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Wherever these conditions exist, there is a money making opportunity. The only problem is keeping a low profile because women (and even some men) will absolutely want to murder you,
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 12:06 PM
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I strongly disagree with mandating paternity tests. In most US states, men have the right to privacy when it comes to getting a paternity test without needing the mother's consent. That's already how it works. A future with mandatory paternity tests is one that rewards the cowardly men. Instead we should normalize unilateral paternity testing rights in all states for all men who seek it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 11:39 AM
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You're welcome :)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 11:28 AM
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Maybe you should go to college so you won't have to miss basic points being made in a discussion. Community college is pretty cheaper for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 11:25 AM
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If you see yourself in relation to women as a man wandering in the desert Cute. I see other men as men wandering in the desert, just like you do. Would they be so thirsty if there was an abundance around them to quench their thirst? Since you made it about me, I go overseas for women where there's a huge power imbalance and I bask in people's disapproval of it so be my guest. The key to stop being thirsty isn't to just stop, it's to find a practical solution. "Work on yourself" isn't even real a…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 09:21 AM
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" Men wandering in the desert -- why are you being so thirsty? Just stop! "
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 08:24 AM
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my mind is blown, this whole time as a redpill man I literally thought women were cars
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 06:37 AM
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"nothing wrong with" vague, your point doesn't actually address any sense of right and wrong. side chicks (and the idiotic term "situationships") are inevitable if we accept the reality of hypergamy, I will agree with that as it's plainly true, but it doesn't mean it is the right thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 05:41 AM
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Whenever I learn a chick is French I can't NOT be reminded of this. Massive L for French men
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 05:26 AM
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stupid risk averse, yes. In poker terms, commitment will tend to be either a low EV or negative EV play for you. On average, the fewer negative EV decisions you make in life, the better you will turn out in the long run. You rarely have pocket Aces when deciding to cmmit to a woman, so why are you going all in on them?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 05:09 AM
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peak lifestyle bro I don't see a reason to engage in your pissing contest just enjoy your inferior life
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 09:16 PM
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Digital nomad / shameless sex tourist in a few third world countries. Love it or hate it, this is what peak lifestyle looks like for average men in the US
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 11:50 AM
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Yes, a lot of poor stupid women are.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 12:59 PM
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Almost makes you feel bad for the men in the US. What a bunch of suckers
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 12:49 PM
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Limerence sounds like you possess some kind of mystical or transcendental gift. Oneitis sounds like a disease so men get this one labeled on them The thing is, objectively it's more like a disease for either gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 09:00 AM
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Actually you know what you're right people always say I am a very caring person, thank you for seeing that
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 11:49 PM
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Let's be honest the most common situation is you're a guy with assets asking for a prenup and your typical brokie debt ridden woman will get offended and walk. Women who want a prenup get it easily because most men feel a sense of dishonor at being financial vultures like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 11:45 PM
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My father literally tried to kill my son and he didn't care if he killed me in the process because I wouldn't get an abortion when I was pregnant at 16 and wouldn't get an abortion. I spent a week in the hospital, received a permanent order of protection, and never spoke to either of my parents outside of a courtroom again, because he beat me so violently. My father passed away a month ago from cancer. who cares, if you don't have an answer or think "answer doesn't exist" or whatever no one's ho…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 11:33 PM
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Most kinks, fears and opinions are relatively harmless and can be easily overcome. To most women asking for a prenup is like saying you are a neo nazi with a diaper fetish and hoping the conversation goes well.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 11:27 PM
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4 replies in 3 minutes Looks like I really hit a nerve there. Good
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 02:34 PM
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When a man fails it's his own fault, pretty much everyone understands that.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 01:33 PM
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Right, it's not a matter of "just" getting a prenup. It's more like taking your chances with a prenup and not being too attached to the outcome, and being extremely patient because women are still about 80 years behind on this one.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 01:15 PM
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No shit, I wasn't saying to marry them when they shoot down the prenup, my whole point was that a prenup is very rarely the simple one-shot solution that you were presenting it as
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 12:59 PM
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I already thought you might do the mentally lazy "then don't marry them" response, which is why I already wrote this in my original comment so let me just repeat it here wasting months/years of your life developing a relationsip just to end things and repeat the process with another woman who is likely do the exact same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 12:50 PM
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Great on paper, but in practice women tend to hate prenups and will pressure men to abandon any thoughts of one, all under the guise of it being un-romantic or some silly nonsense like that even though we all know what's up. As a man you have to worry about not bringing it up too early, but also not wasting months/years of your life developing a relationsip just to end things and repeat the process with another woman who is likely do the exact same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 12:45 PM
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"I don't care as long as they're happy" is the only virtue signaling answer you're going to get from her
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 10:17 AM
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The majority of below average people don't typically develop that much in the way of skills, personality, interests or anything either. In the end pretty much everyone is in the same boat, but easy mode for 20+ years is a major perk that no one else gets to experience at all (not even for 5 minutes). people who’ve never had agency to have the forethought and wisdom to make better decisions By the time person becomes an adult this is no longer an excuse for anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 09:55 AM
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Pre-selection is a shortcut that basically only women have the opportunity to resort to, because there are too many viable options for them. So to avoid choice paralysis they just vie for the man who is popular and it probably works to a fair extent. On the other hand, men can't afford to ignore too many women who aren't popular except the ones who are seriously unpopular (known psycho / whore / fugly)
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 11:54 PM
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ok, do be dishonest about it, who cares
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 06:00 PM
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the overwhelming majority of habitual porn watchers / porn addiction is men. There's no rule against gendered arguments, but at least don't be dishonest about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 05:52 PM
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This is not really a debate. Name a single woman who is known for her insightful dating advice for men -- there isn't one.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 11:45 AM
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Literally everyone Nah, several people identified it as a troll. Even the top rated comment right now does
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 11:40 AM
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yes, he makes lots of money but that's not why she is with him LOL wild streak with the hot guys but she knows now at 30 if she wanted to get serious about her life she needed to choose the man with the good personality lmao! even though not that many people are falling for it, this is the first decent trolling attempt I've seen from a woman on PPD in a while
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 09:46 AM
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The complaint "no good men" is a good sign imo, that's how it should be If women chose to wage their little gender war against us, why would men strive for their standard of "good"? We should strive to be the most boring, rude, inconsiderate, condescending men to them unless we're trying to fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 09:33 AM
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They're actually a complaint of the same thing, just at different stages of a woman's life. Being settled for is often the result of the insane standards she can no longer realistically maintain later in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 02:06 AM
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too smart for you you've already shown everyone how basic level of humor is, too late to try to proclaim your own intelligence now
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 01:42 AM
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yeah but you're a woman so...
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 01:30 AM
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Women arguing on PPD: "Are you sure you're not gay?" this is probably a joke Do women not understand the concept that a joke implies humor?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 11:18 PM
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There's a very good chance plastic surgery and a 6 pack wouldn't be the thing to make you less happy, but rather the ideas that were psychologically designed by others to hold you back, which you've already internalized.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 01:58 AM
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...says the dude who couldn't go a single day in the past week without participating on PPD. Like, yuikes, boyo!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 01:15 AM
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Everyone is jacking themselves off to the one answer that is a TRP man responding in a "Question for Women" post, but is tolerated by the community and mods because... it's actually just a paragraph posturing and lecturing men, and offers some contrived advice that "muh boundaries" that no one cares about aside from it sounding right as long as you don't think too hard but it is a very clear reflection of the community here
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 12:14 AM
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if liftandlurk-pill was a pill, that would be the dumbest pill
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 04:20 AM
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reminder that neither the mother's knowledge nor her consent is a requirement to get a paternity test in most US states. Implicate away, fellas
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 02:32 AM
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No One is a problem of absolute unavailability the other is a result of having an over-inflated sense of self worth there's a reason the suitors you DO like aren't your suitors
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 02:26 AM
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Gender is eroding, which is a structure that generally serves men. Gender is a STRUCTURE that generally SERVES men lol I don't even have to read much futher to know that the entire post is poop
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 02:13 AM
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these days I'm way more likely to commit to a chick if she's not from the US
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 11:37 PM
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No one said they don't like promiscuity. People can like some very non-natural things -- fentanyl for example
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 07:17 PM
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This just seems like a badly formulated question. By impossible do you mean literally impossible, or just really really difficult and uncommon? But anyway, I actually think female promiscuity is actually unnatural, as in it goes against the grain of nature in humans. The reason for this is the high amount of resource investment that a baby requires. Nature makes female promiscuity very difficult to achieve, speaking purely in a biological sense. All of this is completely flipped on its head once…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 06:37 PM
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80/20 isn't a commentary about how many men end up in relationships so you're not rebutting anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 06:31 PM
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Joke's on them I have an 8 year old refurbished iphone that doesn't even come close to any android phone on the market today.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 01:08 PM
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Like I said, video is very much still in its experimental stages. If we were stuck forever in 2023 you'd be right, but AI generated visual content will probably exceed real visual content within a couple of years. It's going to become a hypernormal stimulus. It's not like I think this is a great thing, if you thought porn sickness was a bad, this will be like porn crack for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 01:00 PM
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I had brought up in a thread how I had turned to dating in Europe versus the US and had a far better experience and blablablah you got "mansplained" to because you use an a personal anecdote to prove a point
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 12:52 PM
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Men have been fapping to Midjourney generated images of anatomically perfect women for over a year now. There are some early video trials that are starting to surface.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 12:46 PM
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No, it's women. If a guy says he doesn't find those kinds of women attractive, they'll accuse him of weakness and insecurity (i.e "he's intimidated by strong independent women")
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 02:04 AM
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In reality, though, far more than 20% of men are in relationships Again -- not a rebuttal to 80/20, but I find it amusing that men should find comfort in the thought that they too might attain a Walmart couple relationship one day.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 01:42 AM
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"people in walmart" is not the slam dunk rebuttal to 80/20 that you people think it is. It's already been explained in this sub hundreds (probably thousands) of times why it isn't
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 09:00 PM
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tldr: it’s men’s fault
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 03:51 PM
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Expected or not, it would be equally a waste of my time to elaborate.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 06:19 AM
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Here's a tip for next time: if you lead with "sounds meaningless" to something I just said you're telling me you're already closed off to whatever I might say and I'd be wasting my time in explaining.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 06:04 AM
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Status is important for getting dates but alone it will lead to shallow relationships. Looks are probably a lot more important for actual love (and personality to some extent) status symbol != status, it's often the opposite these days so please stop equating them
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 04:14 AM
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ok so no training or surprise needed then, at least we agree on that
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 04:09 AM
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You really just need a weapon to be extremely dangerous, that's it. No training or surprise needed, you're adding unnecessary elements to make it seem less likely. You really think a woman needs special training or ninja skills to run a a guy over in her car or hit him with something heavy? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 03:39 AM
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When can we get cool Grok API based jannies to replace the jannie weirdo cesspool this sub has created? edit: fuck it I'd even take a soulless chatGPT jannie to what we have now
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 03:30 AM
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your premise just changed from "it's just a slap" to "even if she uses a blunt object to assault him, the man could retaliate". I mean yeah, doesn't matter who if you aggress against anyone with a weapon and they defend themselves, that's on you. The point is it's not at all "unrealistic" for a woman to pose a serious risk to a man, because they can use dangerous things as weapons.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 03:09 AM
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solution that works "There are average couples in Walmart" is really just a mundane observation, it doesn't actually challenge anything about 80/20
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 02:38 AM
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shit I guess the argument that 100% of women settle for the top 20% of men is debun -- oh wait no one ever made that argument
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 01:50 AM
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what's she going to do about it? Slap him? Ooh so scary. So that takes care of both physical and emotional abuse. it really doesn't, because there are plenty ways besides slapping that women can (and often do) physically abuse others. A woman hitting a man with a broom or a frying pan is considered a gag, even if these when used as a weapon they could could kill or injure someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 01:32 AM
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This is the response to end all responses. Touching grass is all that is needed. Touch grass is no more a valid argument than "go to walmart", "have sex, incel" or "who hurt you?"
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 01:13 AM
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If men are dissatisfied they need to reject the conditions around them, rather than give in to the pressure (even from other men) to fall in line.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 10:43 PM
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You were just paying compliments in the most mild mannered way possible with no clear intention to take it further. This is a very loose definition of approaching someone, because normally you approach as a solicitation for some type of a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 07:10 PM
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Call me crazy but I think it’s okay that women (and men) don’t want to get married as soon as they turn 18 Classic strawman. OP never mentions or alludes to marriage, but the reply challenges the (non-existent, completely fabricated) argument that men and women should get married "as soon as they turn 18". PPD is such a clownshow
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 04:50 PM
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She was putting a price on her time so she was a stealth hooker. Plenty of them taking men to the cleaners and the men are none the wiser
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 01:00 AM
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Just make sure to get the BJ from that hooker up front, what’s the big deal?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 12:57 AM
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Why can’t there be 10 wholesome guys so I can ignore the rest and just pick the very hot and tall one 😩 Wimmin
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 11:47 PM
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The environment that you are asking women out in matters much more than how passive you are
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 08:50 PM
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I am directly challenging OPs view, can you read please?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 08:03 PM
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https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=tvDazrJuSdA
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 04:38 PM
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Yup, I was right
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 04:31 PM
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Sounds pretentious as fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 04:30 PM
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Correctly identifying the source and reasons of your dissatisfaction and is pretty much the only logical to do. What would be illogical would be to identify it and then immediately start making rationalizations for why it’s got to be something else out of fear of being labeled a misogynist or something, which is the mindset people are desperate for men to adopr
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 04:12 AM
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So anyway men have have all these varied and nuanced opinions when it comes to old hags giving them compliments, but older men giving a compliment automatically equals he wants to date or sex because your dad schooled you this in the 80s You know what, I’m getting tired of this. Next time it happens as it’s bound to happen again, I’m going to shoot back with a response that will turn into a memory of sadness that she takes with her to the grave, and she will have you to thank for that. Bitches g…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 02:51 AM
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Guaranteed. My dad was a ruthless mf’er who had no qualms lying to women and making it look like they were the ones taking advantage of him. My mom was socially very sharp, manipulative, and insanely skilled social climber.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 02:18 AM
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You seem terribly confused about whether men are a hive mind or not 🤣 So when it comes to receiving compliments from old women, then men aren’t a hive mind. But if they give a compliment, then they are Wrapped yourself into knots
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 01:27 AM
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We don’t give a fuck, let the motherfucker burn In the end population is just a tax base for governments, one that they’ve decided to resolve with mass immigration rather than addressing social and economic issues. Not my problem to worry about. I f I even wanted kids I could hop on a plane tomorrow and get a Philippina pregnant in 2 months tops. Women here can do what they want, kids or not who cares.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 01:19 AM
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“Women are not a hive mind” wouldn’t be a valid justification for old men to make comments to random young women about their looks, so it’s not the other way around either.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 12:59 AM
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No shit but sometimes the ones you want to fuck require you to date them and act interested in them Unfortunately the quality of escorts in the US is terrible, probably due to the saturation of money that goes to IG/TikTok models — nothing you would know about but you seem clueless which is why I’m informing you
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 12:12 AM
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I do it for the pussy not the interesting female perspectives
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 12:07 AM
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Wrong, women are generally annoying you just have to act like they’re not
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 12:02 AM
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That isn’t going to happen and I’m curious to see what all this fighting leads to anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 11:45 PM
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Nah, no one wants that interaction. If you look at the world around you and you don’t appreciate the world these people voted into reality for you, then it requires males with a lot of impulse control. It’s becoming less and less the kind of world where you can just walk up to a stranger who looks harmless and start commenting on their appearance, please warn them for their own good
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 07:22 PM
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No not really for this particular case. Men and women equally hate these comments from old geezers of the opposite gender, it’s just that pussified men are socialized to smile sheepishly and act appreciative
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 03:16 PM
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Who cares what they want, just don’t be a hypocrite. A compliment from an old bird is nothing more than a nuisance, no value in it, no one likes it. I’ve gotten several and every time I have to fight the urge to tell them to fuck off back to the nursing home
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 12:12 PM
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Ok you’re asking specifically for ltr so I will answer only for ltr. Passions opinions and accomplishments, nah couldn’t care less aside from maybe interesting conversation it doesn’t matter The key for ltr is SHARED VALUES— yes ie you are not a high n count whore, then I really do care and will be listening closely
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 02:53 AM
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Not really. Nothing bad is going to happen if we don’t “just accept it”, so we don’t have to.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 02:33 AM
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the most unethical thing I'm going to share in this entire thread, B12 is your friend Don’t demonize vegans, it’s just a lifestyle choice
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 02:24 AM
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How on earth do old women feel so comfortable just walking up to men and casually making comments about their looks… when they’ve spent the last 70 years shrieking about how much they hate men doing this? The fucking audacity of these old birds I swear
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 02:15 AM
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The nature argument isn’t enough to place a person beyond criticism. If redpillers don’t like something about women, that’s not something they can control either, so what you’re asking for is just as unreasonable.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 02:05 AM
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Women ruin the male spaces. Video games, sports, and internet are corporatized so they will involve women until they’re not male spaces anymore. But male spaces are fine where they’re not heavily corporatized and women lose interest. Just find any non-trendy niche like hunting, fishing, motorcycling, martial arts, poker, cigar lounge not that hard and doing fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 12:28 PM
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When something is a near certainty of survival it isn’t considered a risk of life.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 06:11 AM
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No, enough already
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 05:59 AM
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I sympathize with a lot of male issues but so find music like this extremely corny
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 05:42 AM
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who
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 04:51 AM
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People keep repeating “systemic racism” but as a POC I see systemic diversity constantly shoved down everyone’s throats to the point where I feel coddled and infantilized by the system and it’s kind of embarrassing
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 04:48 AM
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a moratorium on mods is long overdue
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 04:34 AM
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Except no guy ever says they hate that women has tingles for them. This is just yet another dishonest take, you’re deliberately choosing to apply the wrong context of when “tingles” actually is criticized Aka bad faith argument
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 04:01 AM
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Nah, this is just a rp revenge fantasy. most men are ok with boning a slampig before passing her to the next dude
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 03:46 AM
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If it comes with a minimum 85 IQ test to filter out lift_and_lurk I’m in favor of it
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 03:31 AM
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They’ll make squishier cannon fodder.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 09:45 PM
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Biden just committed 2000 troops to Israel. Men 18-26 should be clawing themselves out of the country right now, but instead this is a country of sleepwalkers.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 07:54 PM
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Things like kindness, thoughtfulness, intelligence, patience, loyalty, etc. You know, things women used to lie about being attracted to before the truth became too obvious to deny.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 02:12 PM
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The only way men can “ask” to be treated fairly is by breaking up with them if she doesn’t. This kind of behavior is actually second nature for women yet completely foreign to most men. It’s a shame how ruthless women are in relationships and how utterly lame and pussified men have become.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 02:10 AM
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If tinder existed 20 years ago ,most of us wouldn't exist today. Well maybe dating apps are't such a bad idea after all
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 12:15 AM
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rip
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 09:51 PM
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smells like 3 day old tuna in this thread
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 03:17 AM
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punch her right in the pussy
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 03:12 AM
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You are watching edited videos targeted specifically for you based on your interests. It's showing you what you want to see. I wish I could force the algorithm actually work like this for me. I don't use tiktok for anything aside from local content, it still refuses to show me local content unless I use the search bar to find it. It will offer a bunch of zero IQ crap that I never search for or watch.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 12:21 AM
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Sure, totally fine if you make a convincing enough case for it. I at least provided an verifiable reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 10:28 PM
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you're drawing a false equivalence. A subgroup like "single mothers" isn't the same as an all encompassing group like "all men" All members of a subgroup isn't the same thing as all members of a group.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 10:19 PM
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How are you even arriving at that comparison? One of them is a blanket statement about all men, the other is a statement about specific kinds of women. Unless you actually believe all women are either fat, single moms, or hoes which would be a very uncharitable view
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 10:13 PM
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Who's to decide what's "sensible"? Let's start segregating traincars by income level too, since poorer people tend to cause more trouble and we have the stats to back it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 10:02 PM
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The average man today can't meet basic emotional requirements needed fir a relationship you sound like you're already trying to hide the butthurt
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 09:54 PM
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These people don't just exist though. They make themselves known, often in very obnoxious ways. The response they get is well deserved. Fatties, hoes and single moms -- they're all scum of the Earth in my view based on how they represent themselves online.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 09:31 PM
0

Women only buses are literally segregation. You clearly don't understand what segregation was, it's not something that only applied to black people in the 1960s. You're another failure of the public education system.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 09:26 PM
-1

Let's dumb the argument down to your level: if you want segregated public transport you're the one siding with KKK members. I get that some people think that bigotry is ok as long as it's women demanding it, but it's not in the US.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 03:44 PM
-3

It might work in Japan, but segregating one group of people out for safety reasons sets a very dangerous precedent in the US. People shouldn't be shielded from being a part of the society they helped create.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 12:29 PM
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So, get an escort or have a one night stand, make it as special as you can and then go forth and date like a normal 25 year old. If you hire an escort it should be because you want to experience some NSA fun, maybe because you want to explore it as a hobby. Not for the purpose of dating women so that they won't feel an ick about it. Again "ladies" please get over yourselves. You're not the only people in the world who matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 01:48 AM
4

Just wait for it to get a bit worse. Companies are starting to see the $$ signs of male loneliness after Replika. It's becoming a huge money making opportunity.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 01:07 AM
8

A bunch of losers raided the US Capitol just a few years ago, why weren't they staying at home playing video games and watching porn? A couple of years before that, a different bunch of losers burned down businesses and lit cars on fire under the pretense of a black man being killed by police. Same question?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 11:31 PM
2

What is there to explain? Very cute home assistants are going to be mass produced soon to take care of boomers, and soon after they'll be repurposed for romantic / sexual purposes. With unofficial modifications at first. Since the field of robotics has moved so slowly since the 1950s, people assume it will continue to move at the same pace. It's not, today it's moving as quickly as software was moving in the 1980s the public just hasn't caught on yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 09:19 PM
5

I've been saying this for a while: the population of young attractive female home assistants is going to totally eclipse the population of males within 5-10 years. At this point I really believe spending time debating gender dynamics is a waste of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 08:41 PM
7

well there are more than enough people to support boomers. There won't be enough people to support Millenials and Gen Z, so better start investing.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 11:29 PM
2

No. The species is fine, the culture is fucked. Western European culture and its offshoots will be going extinct and the vaccuum will be filled by other cultures that manage to breed above replacement levels.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 11:20 PM
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It's actually the fault of boomers in every conceivable way. Overexhausted economy? Boomers fault. Feminist indoctrination culture? Boomers fault. Uncertain geopolitical / environmental situation? Boomers fault. Housing market that is completely disconnected from reality? Boomers. Corporate culture that prioritizes work over your own life? Boomers. I would NOT blame this on women at all, at least not the ones of our generation.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 10:50 PM
8

Sounds a lot like a Beta Billy who realizes he won't get casual sex without promising commitment. It would be nice if things were fair for everyone, but oh well!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 10:29 PM
3

What kind of things do men lie about to get casual sex from women?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 10:14 PM
24

ya lots of virtue signaling hypocrites on the internet, this will never change
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 07:18 PM
1

No
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 01:07 PM
7

Mostly from insecurity. Women's biggest nightmare is thinking the man they're with is the love of their life, and then he dumps her for the "new model" who is prettier and sweeter. That's the kind of thing that sends women straight to therapy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 03:53 AM
1

my counter argument is thusly: close your legs, whores! *takes a bow*
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 10:55 PM
3

no one cares as long as you not a virgin man A couple of years ago there was a famous rapper who triggered a bunch of internet hoes for praising his gf's low n-count. https://thejasminebrand.com/2022/03/09/lil-durk-cites-india-royales-low-body-count-as-a-reason-he-proposed-she-reacts-after-backlash/ so apparently even famous men with many options care, they just can't say it out loud most of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 09:01 PM
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personally I don't consider that harrassment, but sex spam. It's kind of like harrassment in that dealing with it is a constant nuisance, but there's a whole impersonal, commercial element to the way men are solicited Also harrassment will generally be complained about, whereas sex spam is just kind of expected for men we just roll our eyes and close it out
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 07:15 PM
1

Sorry most women do want a long term partner. Generally women don't want to just be sex objects for men into their 30s, 40s, 50s. So instead many are opting to stay single, but only because the guys they want to commit want nothing to do with them long-term.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 06:28 PM
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You're now conflating strippers doing sex work on the side as the strip club themselves operating outside of the law. The reality is strip clubs operate within the law, and there's literally zero reason for them to condone illegal behavior that they won't see a dime from. Stings are not uncommon, licenses are very hard to come by.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 02:25 PM
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Escorts and strip clubs operate within the law, they're just not 'normalized'. Normalization of escorts and strip clubs was what your whole post was based around, now you're trying to pivot to something else. Either way, saying on the original topic -- hell no, keep simps out of these industries, if they're lonely too bad for them, I do not want to be paying $5000 for an escort that's costing me a few hundred now.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 02:02 PM
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Strongly disagree. These services are already crazily expensive, if it's normalized then prices will necessarily go up as demand goes up. Imagine how badly simps would fuck it up for us. IMO the premium should be just having balls and doing whatever the f you want instead of waiting for society to "normalize" things for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 01:54 PM
2

who's going to tell them? Because when I see this women around them make it all about how men are the problem. I've never seen this level of honesty around that kind of woman. Why can't we start telling women that their dating life sucks because they're not a good person, just like is commonplace to tell men? edit: I'm loving the downvotes, it speaks volumes of the dishonesty of women on PPD!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 01:23 PM
2

Ok fine, then if you keep attracting jerks and assholes it's because you're bad, stupid, and insecure.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 12:50 PM
2

abort this society
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 02:53 AM
3

If done with firm eye contact, what guy wouln't take the hint?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 10:37 PM
7

rejection blowjob
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 10:30 PM
5

Don't worry I'm pretty much immune, show me the stats
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 12:14 AM
10

Is this true? I honestly didn't think it was this bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 11:59 PM
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Tech company lay offs doesn't necessarily mean worse stock performance. The jadedness and pairing off is generally among the older crowd. There's a never ending revolving door of young people. Their continued success is practically guaranteed since the dating landscape will not be improving for young men anytime soon. I'd say anyone thinking of shorting this stock is a complete fool, prove me wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 10:27 PM
7

eh sure, whatever
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 09:12 PM
3

As much as I hate dating apps personally, the future is probably fine for this company. For the past 15 or so years they've been milking the path of least resistance and probably will for another 5-10 years. In the event consumers begin to sour on the current model, they have plenty of options to bring in technology that would actually create value. But why roll it out prematurely? It's smart to extract everything you can now, and pivot as needed. I fully expect them to grow on the same level as…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 09:11 PM
12

In the end there really are only two rules
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 04:30 PM
5

I'm not an old bitter women, I am a 21 year old Ew, too old for me
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 01:15 PM
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Not depressing but I came at it with no expectations. I see women more like an invasive human-like species in direct competition with us. And since they are generally better organized and more collectively minded, they have been kicking men's ass, at least as an overall group, while a small group of individual men far outperforms them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 01:12 PM
1

yeah, bad idea OP. Listen to Plant Hag!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 01:36 AM
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This fear is primarily a result of not knowing how to interpret or understand the signals women send, and it can cripple a man’s confidence before he even starts a conversation. This right here is why your article is crap. You're not going to have the opportunity to use active listening or emotional intelligence with a woman who you're not already seeing. And if you're already seeing each other, you're not worried about coming off as creepy or lacking confidence. That's usually a problem in the …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 11:40 PM
2

poor misguided fool, bless his heart
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 07:20 PM
1

I'm saying "a man is as loyal as their options" applies when they're not actually in love. What is the alternative, forcing men to stay with women they don't actually love?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 06:20 PM
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Yeah but my only question to OP is: why? I've never seen a reason to maintain female friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 06:16 PM
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women predecease men also all the time. your ejust concentrating on the man woman part. "all the time" is intentional vague wording. We have data on this. Yes I get that men want their wives to have these tax benefits. You can often get men to make financial decisions that aren't in their personal best interest for the greater good of their family or spouse. Those guys are morons, they very often end up regretting it. And the bad financial decision I'm referring to here is getting the government…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 06:01 PM
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Yes, so what. There's no reason to be loyal to a woman who you're not in love with.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 05:45 PM
1

It's honestly easy as hell. First you have to prove you're harmless which is done through just hanging around in a group setting for a few months. Then you have to show how useful you are, in other words do favors for people in that group. They'll take notice and you'll have women lining up to be friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 05:36 PM
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It's kind of like the lemon peel garnish on a coctail. Kind of matters for overall presentation, but not really for the outcome. It won't matter at all if you're missing the major ingredients.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 04:52 PM
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right, i already know the financial benefit is typically for the women, that's what I've been saying this whole time
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 04:44 PM
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Not sure why you're getting so mad If both are healthy when they married, the risk of a man having to pay inheritance taxes after his wife dies are generally very low. imo your husband probably made a dumb financial decision for himself at the time, but now it turns out he might luck out and not take a 12% inheritance tax, who cares? In general the inheritance tax benefit of 12% is not that significant Also what could they be inheriting that is so illiquid that they couldn't sell part of the inh…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 04:13 PM
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Ok, few guys are marrying women with a terminal illness they know of. The point is that it needs to make sense, usually men will not be the ones benefitting from inheritance benefits, so it's very specific to your particular situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 02:47 PM
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Not sure why it's presumed he would be the one inheriting, when women are the ones who tend to live significantly longer. Are you much older than him?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 02:20 PM
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If you wouldn't trust your own wife with the threat of government force looming over you, then I'm sorry but that's very unromantic and a deal breaker for many.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 01:45 PM
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it wouldn't work anyway in our current environment. People would just close the app and hop onto the other ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 03:16 AM
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It has nothing to do with any real hate. It's just regular old criticism being blown out of proportion. Personally I think the choice of the word "hate" is intentional, like if you can successfully label it hate, then maybe criticizing women can be turned into a hate crime. I'm sorry but abusing language is just how leftists operate. Start being precise with your words or someone will pick them apart.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 02:44 AM
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You only see 1 match every month at most. Either they seem nice and you see if it works, or you sit there and wait for next month.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 02:40 AM
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If you're sensitive to criticism you won't enjoy it here. Words have meaning and hate is commonly associated with racial hatred. Something tells me that this is intentional, many women online want to align themselves with victims of racial hatred, in the hopes that saying anything critical about women will be on the same level as bigotry. Seen the same kind of very harsh criticism levied against men, is that also hate? TwoX and FDS are hate subs?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 01:50 AM
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In case you're not a native speaker, it's a figure of speech for being coerced by threats of violence. In either case, I'm sure he didn't go around kidnapping people but I'm happy to let the trial show that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 10:42 PM
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Andrew Tate has been accused of everything under the sun but hasn't been convicted of any actual crime so far. At worst he'll get a few years for sex trafficking, which personally I don't care as long as they're adults and no one involved had a gun to their head. I halfway expect him to turn up dead one day to ensure he stays quiet about the crimes that country has been selectively turning a blind eye to. Also I don't blame you for being completely oblivious to the violent past that feminist mov…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 05:51 PM
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That's why your hypothetical sounds unrealistic. It describes a kind of paradoxical non-attracted type of attraction. For most women, chemistry depends on many factors, physical being just one among many that are usually required. It's usually physical PLUS other things, not instead of.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 05:41 PM
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perfect setup hehehe
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 03:03 PM
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She’s never saying how hot you are or how sexy you are and she’s never touching you uncontrollably. Sex right from the get go was “fine” but she’s never noticeably into you on a superficial level, at least not like she’s been into other men before. You're probably describing someone who settled. How is your chemistry turning her on? You're kind of dancing around this detail.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 02:47 PM
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not their wallet, they left that at home
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 02:11 PM
0

sure whatever
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 02:09 PM
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the problem is that you claim to be equally critical of both, but you're obviously not. You claim to be unbiased, but you're biased.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 01:48 PM
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Supposedly you think both suck, but for the most part you're only vocally critical of "the manosphere". That's kind of my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 01:38 PM
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you're just making a bad semantics based argument Nice implies kind. When I say a person is nice, I don't mean they're just a good person externally but not actually a good person.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 01:06 PM
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I think equating feminism to the manosphere is debatable. But even assuming it is, feminism is a hit in the US with widespread cultural acceptance in the US. I'm glad the it's around even if it's just to show people the mentality they're championing. No one who is critical of "the manosphere" online is equally criticcal feminism to the same degree.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 01:01 PM
2

AF/BB isn't a conscious strategy so much as the result of chasing instant gratification and then becoming "mature" once they get burnt out on it or it's no longer possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 11:30 PM
2

It used to annoy me to see these lazy definitions of hypergamy corrected over and over again but people still fail to understand. Maybe people just have learning problems and then they read each other's comments over and over again, which just reinforces their wrong understanding. More likely it's people getting it wrong because they want to feel like they won their own little personal battle against "the manosphere".
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 01:38 AM
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When I asked about chores. I love keeping my house neat and tidy and evn I'll say this: Men don't want a woman who the first question on her mind is chores. I'd take the friend any day.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 11:13 PM
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It makes perfect sense to me. By the time you're older, ideally your lives are so interwoven and have so many positive memories and experiences together from around 19-35 that he'd actually be in love by that point and all-in on the relationship. Contrast that to your 37 year old fiance that you've known a year and a half, and then a cute 23 year old intern at work smiles at you. imo most relationships with older women are built on pillars of sand which is why they get dumped and ghosted on so m…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 10:42 PM
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What you're writing isn't making much sense. It almost sounds like you're describing basing your relationship around canned PUA routines.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 10:33 PM
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Women will be walking around absolutely gassed up regardless, what you're suggesting wouldn't make a dent
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 10:28 PM
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If this ever happens, the world will turn to absolute chaos as the lives of high profile people are exposed. Whatever some random person said on the internet will be child's play compared to the gigantic skeletons in the closet that would be revealed by this.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 10:20 PM
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Why it's important: there are resaons you got into your last realtionship and there's are reasons it failed. Obviously the reasons for things are important, otherwise you're not really understanding anything that's happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 10:11 PM
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If this is true it's not because they "lack" but because women demand increasingly retarded requirements of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 10:00 PM
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This is something that honestly doesn't bother me. If someone buys that messaging, they very often will end up paying for it. Seems fair to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 04:14 AM
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Men honestly don't have to work those jobs. There is a major shortage of skilled tradesmen right now because men are content just driving Uber for $18/hr and playing video games than destroying their bodies to repair sewage pipes. Why bother? it's not like they have a family to feed. I think men are doing ok in this area. Infrastructure might go to shit in a few decades, but maybe government could have planned for that a bit better.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 04:06 AM
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how is that "not paying" if you're paying 50/50? The only group of people regularly getting away with not paying on dates is women. The reason I'm pointing it out is that it's a loaded question: it presumes that paying for your own expenses is somehow immoral or wrong that he should be getting punished for but is "getting away" with. Almost like a woman paying her share is being stolen from.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 02:57 AM
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No, most of them don't have the chub in the right places. It's not like the porn would lead you to think.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 01:20 AM
2

the nasty girl trifecta
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 01:16 AM
3

"Get away with not paying" means he pays nothing and she pays for the whole date?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 12:56 AM
2

these hoes ain't loyal
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 09:51 PM
1

Any one of us could die on the toilet with a turd poking halfway out their ass. The guy was evil and got the kind of death he deserved, but it doesn't discount the fact that he was orders of magnitude more powerful than most people will ever be, and someone coming in here claiming to mog him because he was a boy scout once is just silly
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 03:48 AM
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I'm cool with women in my country deciding it's not in their best interest to have kids. They're just getting replaced by immigrants and their kids anyway, so whatev. Just comes off like a "sell me on having kids" but honestly no one cares
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 03:20 AM
1

Sorry, you're wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 12:23 AM
3

Loving petite women in the US is like loving tall men in the Philippines where the average male height is like 5'4.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 09:11 PM
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I can't imagine being a republican as a high school student. Things are getting fucked sideways.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 09:07 PM
2

"problematic" is one of the funniest words in the leftist lexicon. Basically it lets you call anything a problem without needing to articulate why.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 08:57 PM
2

Nunchuck skills, bow hunting skills, computer hacking skills
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 06:56 PM
0

Well you made it long enough to be a vet, so that means deep down you know your place and who your masters are, even if you do try not to think about it or delude yourself into thinking you're carrying out the will of the American public.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 06:25 PM
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You're making the generalist vs specialist argument, whch was already settled thousands of years ago. Good for you that you've learned a few self reliance skills, but in the grand scheme of things it's not that impressive (neither is being a Marine, fucking woop dee doo). You're very well trained to take orders from people with big bank accounts.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 06:07 PM
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oh ok. I would just say that women overall won't necessarily be more single. Just women in the US and probably other western countries.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 05:59 PM
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Pablo Escobar could command experts in those fields the way you never will. If he wanted to survive in the woods, he'd be living it up. His soldiers would find you huddled over rubbing 2 sticks together and make you his coca harvesting bitch.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 05:52 PM
2

"I'm gay." -warmaster93
/r/AllPillDebate20/08/23 03:50 PM
1

Nah you're not 12 and trying to figure the world out. Anyone who's been here a few weeks would recognize your username and your bad faith arguments.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 03:33 PM
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Women who lie about their weight/age never accept that they were lying. You can't really "catch" a woman lying about these things. Not to mention it's taboo to even ask, whereas height pretty much needs to be mentioned on your profile to have any reasnable shot.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 03:20 PM
1

I don't know who were responding to but it's not to anything I said.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 01:45 PM
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it's just one of those questions where the intention to lecture men is more important than the obvious answer. It's like imagine I ask "Is it important for a man to own a boat? I've seen women say they like it when a guy owns a boat", it just makes women look shallow and materialistic. Same thing going on here, but making men look unreasonable and oppressive. The answer to the question is hardly what they're after.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 01:38 PM
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Bill Burr looks like a gremlin and his entire act is criticizing women and yet millions of people pay to listen to it. Not saying you have to be a top class comedian, you just have to get past that threshold where people are chuckling. I've been friends with incels who are fun to be around because they express their grievances with humor. People actually take them more seriously because of it. No one wants to be around a self defeatist whiney person, it's exhausting.
/r/AllPillDebate20/08/23 01:30 PM
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Humor is honestly the best tool incels have and way under-utilized in real life. A lot of incels seem to be genunely funny, you can get away with expressing any uncomfortable opinion if the delivery of it is hilarious.
/r/AllPillDebate20/08/23 05:05 AM
3

You graduated from a well respected law school but you can't even remember what you said 2 comments ago?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 01:49 AM
1

Somewhere between Stuart Little and Genghis Khan.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 12:27 AM
1

worked pretty well for motorcycle clubs to an extent. The problem is that lots of single men in a group are perfect for organized crime and they become biker gangs eventually
/r/AllPillDebate19/08/23 11:29 PM
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Maybe I'm making breakfast the next morning. Can couples decide whose job it is or do they need to consult you first? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 10:47 PM
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Most morning after pill can be taken within a few days of unprotected sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 10:45 PM
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Not really. I never said to do it without their knowledge or consent, that's just something you made up in your head. A lot of chicks don't like pills though, crushing them up in a smoothie makes them go down with much less fuss. That's all I'm saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 10:39 PM
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uhhh I'm going to go with....YES
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 10:29 PM
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I didn't say you should drug them, geez! Just saying, birth control pills are an option too :)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 10:28 PM
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No, it works. Google it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 10:23 PM
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There are way more options than cutting your balls off or joining the monkhood. For example, you could crush up birth control pills the morning after you have sex and put them in her breakfast smoothie.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 10:18 PM
1

Why not both? Maybe it's actually fun, like a form of entertainment.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 09:33 PM
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While I acknowledge and appreciate the LGBTQ+ community members have made in moderating and nurturing this sub, it is essential to recognize that diversity extends beyond just sexual orientation and gender identity. As a member of the cisgendered community can we have just one mod that isn't gay or a trannie? Thank you for your time.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 07:04 PM
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Just meet in a public place. Anything beyond that is indulging into the female hysteria about the evil bloodthirsty mens lurking in the shadows to kill them for no reason, it's very played out.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 06:50 PM
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I already said it: be ruthless Most black pillers I've talked to have a lot of ethical hang-ups so if that's you don't even bother.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 05:26 PM
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It's not a people's problem but more of a female problem Those don't exist around here. Things are either a male problem or a "societal" problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 04:39 PM
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You linked me to a garbage pop-sociology article that has a link to a paywalled study.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 04:10 PM
2

yes, which is why incels will remain and have remained through history. The reason is women bringing their incel sons into the world. For men it has rarely been as much of a guarantee.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 03:59 PM
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How are you measuring generational narcissism? Boomers and gen X seem to be cool with each other, just like Millenials and gen Z generally are. Millenials won't be screwing over gen Z, but their children and grandchildren who aren't even born yet. We haven't even seen what Millenials will turn the government into after the boomers die off, but it's going to be a very bland, politically correct, corporate 1984 type of ugliness. One thing that strikes me is how ChatGPT is being built with millenia…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 03:55 PM
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I'm a guy But either way, your argument was just wrong. Being 'undesirable' isn't the problem. Conventionally attractive men have always been selected for, but also high-functioning ruthless psychopaths, literally all throughout history. If you think you're "undesirable", there is an alternative option.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 03:37 PM
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wrong, it removes the dumb and social conformist males from dating. Men with sufficient intelligence and low enough conscienciousness can still find ways to game the system to be at less of a disadvantage, if not in their favor.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 03:31 PM
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I can already tell as a millenial that our voting population will be on the same level of insane stupidity that the boomers were, just in our own unique way.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 03:22 PM
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incel and misogyny isn't a "gene", it's the result of being average as a man. But there's plenty of average women who will breed regardless, who will contribute their genes to the gene pool bringing more incels into the world. Now if there was a way to weed out plain looking women from the gene pool you'd have a point.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 03:19 PM
1

That's fine. When people start fighting over this, try not to act too shocked.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 06:22 PM
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There were plenty silly responses I just chose to single that one out because it's probably the silliest one. Bouncers was a close second.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 05:04 PM
1

They will. Sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 05:00 PM
3

You'll see life changing differences from improving upon major problems like obesity, having horrible teeth, crippling anxiety and so on. Literally anything beyond the point where you've taken care of major issues is bad advice, at that point it will kill your self esteem to keep improving and barely seeing results.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 04:57 PM
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They will be soon
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 04:40 PM
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The evidence is AI and Tesla showcasing humanoid robots. Apple is going to get in on it too, Siri + Apple vision seems like cutting edge but it's just a proof of concept. Ultimately, only stunningly attractive women will be approached anymore but honestly that's probably good for human evolution.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 02:29 PM
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it's actually kind of funny that OP seems unable to stop posting L's on the regular
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 04:07 AM
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here's the real answer waaaaaaaaay at the bottom of the page, like most Q4W Yeah you get a lot of status with women as a teacher smh
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 04:04 AM
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The world is about to be turned upside down. The young attractive female population is about to double or triple over the very short term. I mean within 10 years. Everyone talking about the status quo as an inevitability forever is dead wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 11:57 PM
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Speaking of "adapting to society", look at what's right around the corner in technology. Society is about to be absolutely flooded with artificial women. There's actual dehumanization of women coming very soon, and you all are digging a very deep hole for yourselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 10:48 PM
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I'm fine with it too. Like I said I'm not the one you're insulting, it's the guys actually committing to used up women women and their "what's in it for me" mentality
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 10:39 PM
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By a certain age, yeah women are run through. Many men (not me) are mature and gracious enough to overlook that, and women insult them with the whole "what's in it for me" line
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 10:05 PM
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You said "what's in it for us", so I was obviously using the collective form of "you". I know very well no woman will ever admit they been run through and nobody wants them, so it would be kind of a pointless accusation for anyone to make even if they're 100% spot on.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 09:38 PM
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Even if we change it to "most" that's still not the reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 08:47 PM
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If this was true then every blue pilled man should be treated amazingly because he has a "healthy mindset" aka a mindset you approve of.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 08:41 PM
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A man who will actually commit to you even after you've been ran through by other men and none of them wanted your ass? It's a hell of a deal if you ask me, men are stupid to make it but they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 08:33 PM
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Yeah this is a very boring conversation if you think those two sentences are only semantically different and not a difference of meaning. See ya
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 07:36 PM
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You're describing the current situation as the ideal society
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 06:39 PM
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Using OPs own example, she'd be the one to ask and pay for dates, initiate casual sex, and tolerate rudeness and selfishness. OP says this is how she treated attractive guys, so that automatically becomes the baseline for me now. Obviously this varies person to person. Yeah I will absolutely cause psychological harm on anyone who regards me with the mentality that OP describes in her post. Call it a vindictive fantasy or whatever, the labels really don't bother me.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 06:23 PM
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I didn't say I want to be treated the same I said treated better. In an LTR I'll be getting at least what Chad was getting, and then some. the OP presumes that Chad is going to be treated better because he's hot and interesting and other guys should accept mediocre treatement (and often disdain, possibly for life). Try that with that with me I'll fuck you and string you along, propose to you and dump you a week before the wedding while cheating on you with another woman. Anyone who tries to ruin…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 05:36 PM
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The mods are gay that is all
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 05:00 PM
2

"massive differences" and "not everyone has the exact same experience" are two very distinct claims.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 04:58 PM
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Guys don't want to be a long term partner to someone who treats them worse. I'm not LTRing any chick that doesn't treat me BETTER than Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 04:37 PM
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No. If you make the claim, the burden of proof is on you. You already wasted my time with that previous study, what makes you think I'd let you waste my time again?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 03:03 PM
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Ok then, name 3 of the best "massive" differences you can think of. They're just going to be regular old cultural differences, I want them to really shock me since apparently I think my own experience is universal.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 02:58 PM
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Well that was a waste of time. The study linked in that article makes no mention of green card / naturalized citizens but just of immigrant families (presumably where the husband and wife are both international)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 01:49 PM
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I want it to be equal in the other direction too. Women are misandrist otherwise they would pay the men for sex at least some of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 12:31 PM
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Differences sure. "Massive" differences, nope.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 12:29 PM
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Source on said research?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 12:26 PM
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Don't you think it's a bit misandrist that women almost never pay men for sex? at least this guy pays! Don't worry OP you are definitely not a mysoginist for paying.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 04:57 AM
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They're probably just a bit judgmental that you're getting effortless sex without moral compunctions and shame that they probably have
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 03:48 AM
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Yes. wtf else would someone think you are except for another person or human? It's a very played out cliche and not true, just makes you look ridiculous when you say it
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 03:28 AM
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People call other people liars all the time without doubting if they're a person
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 03:27 AM
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If you insist that other people don't see you as human or a person that's fine with me, I'm just going to roll my eyes and go about my day.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 03:22 AM
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Entitlement isn't the only problem women can have. It's just the most common problem that you'll immediately encounter as a guy in the west. Most of the time entitlement is just the tip of the iceberg.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 01:51 AM
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oh ok. No problem
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 01:45 AM
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men usually point out hypocrisy if they're called virgins, women say being called a slut is dehumanizing men say dating is unfairly skewed in women's favor, women say not wanting to be friends with a woman is dehumanizing How often do you see the complaint "they don't see us as actual human beings" around here over simple grievances The "dehumanization" complaint just seems melodramatic in a world where real human rights atrocities happen. They're just complaining about things they see as unfair…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 01:42 AM
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you should try dating one and find out yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 01:34 AM
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I thought Yeah don't bother with that thinking stuff, it doesn't seem to be getting you anywhere
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 12:23 AM
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I thought mail order bride implied you bring them here from their country, but ok. Basically passport bro it, meaning you always go to them. Focus 100% on your career and family in the US, and travel to a handful of countries 2-3 times per year meeting new chicks. If any of them stay in touch and can't wait to see you again, upgrade them. The ones who are just with you for the money will move on to a new sucker very quickly.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 11:17 PM
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Oh, you're advising men to bring these women stateside so they can get fucked over once they get their green card. I take it back, it's just another scummy dating industry weirdo.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 10:50 PM
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hey womanese thanks for that head earlier today btw, it was p good
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 10:30 PM
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You know shit's fucked when even the CEO of a dating consulting company is encouraging men to become passport bros.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 10:24 PM
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Other cultures can be stupid too, but in their own ways. Modern India seems to be doing a great job trying to emulate the mistkes of the west.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 09:50 PM
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I think what's useless is the differing cultures coming here and thinking their culture is relevant in the discussion. The overwhelming majrity of us on reddit are from the US, Canada, Australia or the UK.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 09:46 PM
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Well it was a fun experiment anyway. Hopefully these surviving cultures learn from the stupid mistakes.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 09:33 PM
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Luckily it won't mean instant population collapse since no one will actually die. Rapid collapse over a generation or 2 maybe. But either way it's not like I can choose the outcome, but it is what I can see happening and it's literally just around the corner. Pussy bubble entering an inflationary death spiral.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 09:03 PM
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No. But I can see a scenario where the average woman is not desirable anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 08:28 PM
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I guess you'll never know
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 06:05 PM
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Well this is a pretty stupid weekly discussion topic, props to the brilliant minds at PPD who came up with it. So anyway, I'm starting to realize that men's and women's grievances are not all that different, but what is different is how they're framed. Men tend to point out how things are unfair or hypocritical, whereas women tend to turn unfairness into a question of human rights and oppression. Definitely an interesting observation to me that women rarely label unfair realities are unfair, but…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 05:50 PM
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Good OP and well argued point in the comments. Props OP that's rare to see here
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 05:41 PM
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Dance, monkeys, dance!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 04:56 PM
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Not a turn off, I will just assume she's dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 02:06 PM
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Yeah sorry this isn't common sense, why is OP leaving out bi's who report experience with both? I've heard too many bi guys and girls thanking their lucky stars because the women are much more of a challenge to date. They do cite their problems with men too, but nowhere near the same level. Also, it rarely seems to be the other way around.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 01:54 PM
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In general it's dumb for a man to get married at any age. Not in every single case, but I mean in general this is the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 11:01 PM
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YES now can we shut down this sub?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 10:57 PM
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woman valued as romantic prospect and other things = ok woman NOT valued as romantic prospect or other things = ok woman valued as romantic prospect only = HELP! I'm being dehumanized! It's pretty clear that women feel very entitled that men should value them exactly how women dictate, but not the other way around
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 06:29 PM
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Something better would take its place, but first this sub needs to die.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 01:19 AM
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I'm in favor of it, hopefully it will give people the ability to read OPs
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 01:16 AM
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ok this sub gets banned I'll stop coming here, deal?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 01:14 AM
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honestly kind of hoping this sub gets banned
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 12:45 AM
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Do you mean improve your looks and compete for attractive women, or improve your looks so that you can attract an average woman with an inflated sense of self? Both of these have their own issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 10:22 PM
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you obviously didn't read the OP a full 50% are male primary earner, 30% are egalitatian, and only 20% are the woman as primary / sole.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 10:15 PM
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hold on, married men are suckers? No way!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 09:57 PM
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the selectiveness is directly related to the ratio. In universities where women significantly outnumber men, guys have it way better than guys where the poulations are even. btw I keep saying this but within a decade population is going to become 2:1 women to men maybe even 3:1, so enjoy it while it lasts
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 05:00 AM
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Most of the time women aren't generally thrilled to be approached either. That's why we have had to develop these "healthy mindsets" in the first place
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 03:01 AM
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Wouldn't this mean that women, who are usually too afraid to approach, just have an unhealhy mindset? Interesting that I've only seen it framed in this way only when it comes to men. The reason women aren't even trying or encouraged to develop a "healthy mindset" about approaching is that it's not really about that. What this actually is, is a way for men to mentally deal with their harsh reality and keep grinding it out through the psychological discomfort. I/e a coping mechanism.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 02:49 AM
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It depends. Is she attracted because I'm a very attractive guy who has tons of better options in this hypothetical, or just myself as an average guy? Assuming just myself, this has happened a few times and it led to relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 01:01 AM
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You won't need to. Sex robots are going to be sold by Apple under the guise of "home assistants"
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 12:57 AM
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You love to see men's coping mechanisms explicitly spelled out?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 12:50 AM
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this post and the careful selection of photos is by a fat girl trying to feel good about being fat, you can just tell
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 02:31 AM
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Robotics was too far away from that reality 6 months ago, things are very quickly changing in that field. The home assistants are not going to be male for the most part they will be female. Siri, Alexa, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 05:08 AM
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Female AIs and female robotic home assistants. The world is about to be up to its eyeballs in females.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 04:18 AM
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No idea why you're suddenly changing the topic to men raising their standards. I mean I get it, the narrative has been that women are happy alone. But just hang out in /r/askwomenover30 for a couple of days and certain repeat posts there will quickly show you how much of a lie that is
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 11:39 PM
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So you're advising them to keep the standards for looks the same, and just increase the standards for character?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 11:34 PM
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Glad this worked for you, but mathematically this is guaranteed to result in the majority of women not getting any man in the end
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 11:29 PM
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If you're attractive, then it doesn't even seem to me that you're even the type of chick OP is addressing. How often do you complain about men pumping and dumping?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 11:19 PM
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OP believed the "taller than me" lie lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 10:58 PM
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There's no point being made about niceness, but about practicality. OPs point is that he's ugly (i.e: actually, average), he won't have a number of significantly better options available to PnD women. It's not practical for an average guy to PnD a woman because it will probably be a very long time before he gets the chance to ever try that again. But I mean, it's not like you can't read, it's just the typical bad faith response. OP says one thing very clearly and in bolded letters, and it's twis…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 10:39 PM
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I don't think there's much left for me to gain from the red pill. Years ago it offered a model of relationships that imo made a lot of sense with, and continues to be confirmed as pretty closely with observations. I think I've mostly learned the lessons to be learned, both from RP and also the pill cannot be spoken of around here.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 01:54 AM
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This is your personal preference, there's nothing to "understand" about men whose personal preference is different. In general, at least physically men prefer younger women, it's an observation that isn't really negated by the fact that there are exceptions.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 12:18 AM
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Not if he says he's cool with high n counts. It's a victory for them in their book. If you took out that paragraph and it's all about how much he enjoys his age gap relationship then yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 03:54 PM
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Age gap relationships end in divorce Age gap *marriages* end in divorce. Solution: don't marry and the risk of divorce drops to 0%.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 02:35 PM
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The ratio is about to be 200 females to 100 males pretty soon so I guess we will see.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 02:09 PM
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Certain types of men have no issues with this. The overwhelming majority is the guy putting in the effort to make her feel special, then slowly putting in less effort because it's not reciprocated, then she leaves him because according to her he just stopped trying. It's the 80/20 rule all over again, of all relationships there's probably a minority where the woman is head over heels with the guy and borderline obsessed no matter how the guy acts, but this is usually the exception. If this kind …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 01:49 PM
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I'm not self improving for these lame ass women in the US After being overseas a while, the US is a great place to re-focus on your finances and looks again so you can get the hottest chicks possible at your next location.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 01:05 AM
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Don't wear that...you're not eating that If a woman dared say this to me, the next words out of my mouth would be the navy seal copypasta, verbatim
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 11:20 PM
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I turned it off a couple of minutes in. Too boring
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 11:16 PM
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Early on. Women have already said repeatedly here that they hate it when a guy becomes a friend with the ulterior motive of a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 10:44 PM
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Agreed for this case. If the sex is already good I'm happy being "husband material" indefinitely
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 07:32 PM
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That's not something I worry about. It's women who seem to think they deserve more respect for their thoughts and opinions, even on PPD. it's only right that someone show them why they're unable to earn it
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 06:25 PM
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I already know from what an *overwhelming* number of women on PPD have said that they need chemistry and spark before having sex with a guy. So where are tf are any of them? They all went to drink mimosas together apparently this is why getting women's opinions and listening to women is worthless imo and not worth respecting. Too much need for consensus with what the rest of the women are currently saying
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 06:13 PM
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My question is, where are those women now?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 06:02 PM
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This is where all those women who claim to need chemistry before having sex with a guy will read that and offer their lived experience because women are not a hive mind. They should be here soon. Any minute now. No? just silence? weird
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 05:56 PM
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you're conflating "sexually attractive" with "physically attractive" You never hear women say "I was really sexually attracted to him, but there was just no spark!". There will pretty much never see a case where she claims there's no spark or chemistry, but she's having tons of sex with the guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 05:31 PM
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well then, it should be easy to find someone to answer your very honest question
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 05:22 PM
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Here, defend this strawman! No thanks. Find whoever said that (it wasn't anyone) and ask them
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 05:18 PM
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where did you get the idea that blue pill men don't cheat?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 04:33 PM
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red-pilled : understandable incel: I failed as a father mgtow: undestandable terminally online PPD: passport bro is an option
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 04:26 PM
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I agree on not being emotionally expressive. Men should be aware of negative emotions and manage them skillfully, but never reactive to them. And never expressive of anything except positive emotions around women. This doesnt mean simply not being in touch with your emotions. You're going to experience them, so just repressing won't help.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 03:08 PM
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The root of the problem is being a low IQ blue pill guy
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 03:00 PM
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the vast majority of my real life interactions with women are positive. It doesn't mean I actually like these people Same for blue haired witches you encounter at starbucks and retail stores. They take my cash, I take the drink, all behind this veneer of friendliness but if they could lecture me on male oppression or whatever crap is on their mind with no repercussions they probably would.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 01:53 PM
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Try not to strawman the other side. starts ranting about dishes Back to the original point which was much more interesting, how much has women joining the workplace increased household income? I was assuming it did significantly, is that wrong?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 04:48 AM
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Nooooooo! He can't keep getting away with it! 😨
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 04:42 AM
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maybe bring the water in a spray bottle in case a bitch starts acting up. start trainign your women to have respect
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 04:28 AM
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Yes, it would solve modern dating problems. Obviously it wouldn't solve marriage problems. It's just silly that this is the defense of the status quo when marriage problems exist today just as much as they existed in more trad days.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 03:49 AM
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Fellow tech bros, please start limiting basic bitches to a water date. The entitlement is getting to be a bit much and those of us who leverage our tech incomes are to blame.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 03:36 AM
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Exactly it's not why feminism was created so let's stop pretending like it matters to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 04:59 AM
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Probably because we haven’t had an active draft in decades. If they activated it, I guarantee feminists That isn't why. Feminists make this issue a priority when a bill is introduced to include women, even during peacetime. Once the bill is tabled, they go quiet again. Why would it take peacetime selective service for women, but an active draft for men? Well, probably because they know that once an active draft is in place, nothing is going to reverse it. In other words they don't give a shit, b…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 04:48 AM
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Ending the military draft is like item 416 out of 417 on the feminist's 'to-do' list, until a bill is floated to extend it to women, then it becomes a pressing issue to them until they get the bill shot down in the end all this accomplishes is ensuring that only men keep having to sign up for selective service while women enjoy free benefits.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 04:23 AM
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No. There will always be hyper conservative religious people who keep marriage strong in their communities. They will be on the lower end of that average earning for women. It would be something else entirely if the poorest women were significantly out-earning men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 11:35 PM
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*boops your little red nose*
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 03:23 AM
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Yall think everyone above a 2 has the lived experience of a slim thick, blond 23-year-old Instamodel. lol You start out reasonable and sincere, almost poignant. And then, when you almost have me empathizing and starting to question my assumptions ... that's you decide to put on the clown show. Honk honk!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 03:05 AM
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In my entire life I never pulled anything above a mediocre chick in the US and even then they're flaky and entitled. I go to SK and managed to pull 8+/10 attractive chicks in the span of a year and it was only because I was a foreigner. Same goes for Colombia. It took work but it's actually possible there whereas impossible in the US.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 02:17 AM
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No. I will say South Korean women in Gangnam disrict are almost as picky as American women, but so many are model tier that it actually makes perfect sense. The pressure was all from parents and everyone knowing everyone's business somehow, so being a foreigner it could stay discreet.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 01:54 AM
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Most men will be blue pilled weenies for life, praying that any mediocre woman on Hinge or at the next hiking group or Bernie Sanders campaign will come along and take a liking to them. Damn right they'll never actually dare to step out of line and draw criticism to get what they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 01:43 AM
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lol I don't understand the desperate attempts to convince men that we're all doomed to be stuck here forever with American women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 01:21 AM
2

exactly, it's that easy
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 01:17 AM
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you can drive uber for a few months and have enough money to travel of course, the best setup is being a US paid remote worker taking advantage of foreign COL
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 01:13 AM
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still mad yet other people need therapy 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 01:01 AM
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big mad
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 12:14 AM
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Most passport bros are too young to be settling down. If they're smart, they're playing the field on an international scale. As women say, discovering what kind of women they like and what kind of women they don't like, being extremely picky. The expectations you're describing aren't for a passport bro but for a foreign guy ready to settle down.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 12:09 AM
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Based on personal experience in South Korea and Colombia, the cultural and social expectations are simply non-existent for foreigners. They expect you to be an American. That's part of what makes dating feel like tutorial mode in these countries.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 11:20 PM
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this is the most upvoted comment but if I point out the fact that women on PPD are on the less attractive side everyone gets mad edit: was the most upvoted comment until I pointed this out and made everyone mad again
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 10:40 PM
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lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 10:08 PM
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Of course, and they prioritize according to the men they see the most promise in. I'm not saying there's anything wrong with it, I'm just helping OP with the difference in communication styles
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 09:56 PM
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I wish it wasn't
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 09:53 PM
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hoes mad 🤷🏻‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 09:51 PM
1

ok but just hear me out: why not just make the good person a friend and then complain to them about your bad partner that you chose instead?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 04:00 AM
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solution: be attractive and then do that. They'll still know you're joining to meet women, but they'll be fine with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 03:46 AM
2

I don't blame you, it's pretty gross how self centered it is. Getting turned on not as much by how attractive you think your partner is, but by how attractive your partner says you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 03:36 AM
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Why would I waste my time considering barely functioning nervous wrecks? Most women aren't racked with anxiety from just from getting messages.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 03:20 AM
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that's so interesting
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 02:37 AM
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you'll see the derived data is only compiled for the last generation that is no longer in child producing age btfo by population pyramid charts
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 02:29 AM
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nah, it's quickly becoming an institution that only the ultra religious partake in anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 02:17 AM
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You have to learn to understand what women mean when they say things. "overwhelmed with messages" is just their way of letting you know how little of a priority you are without actually saying it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 02:10 AM
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this is unintentionally hilarious. I honestly laughed so hard reading this
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 02:00 AM
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Touch grass is not real advice, it's basically the watered down, innocent seeming version of "have sex", which was very popular argument around here a few years ago. This place is bad faith at its core, people just come up with different ways to conceal it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 01:37 AM
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lots of industrialized developed nations that are in trouble, but not all of them. The only ones that aren't in trouble going by the numbers are: Israel and Portugal. Two very small countries.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 01:34 AM
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deciding at 15 not to be a hoe Is it too much to ask of girls whose prefrontal cortex hasn't developed yet? Yes probably, but this is the level of freedom that women want.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 11:39 PM
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There aren't studies on the amount of under-diagnosis. Don't tell me to use google, the burden of proof is on you if it matters to you so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 12:06 PM
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You're acting like someone who has answers but to me you seem terribly confused. Every genuine interest is a pleasure interest. As soon as you start delineating between which ones are for growth, it indicates that you're more interested in the results than doing the thing itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 03:26 AM
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ya
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 03:06 AM
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There is no debate being had here that I'm trying to win. I'm just flinging shit, and the people here are shit flinging target practice. That's all this sub is good for You think this is a real debate sub lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 01:20 AM
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It can't be projection because I'm neither :) It's just common sense that if most people in the US are ugly or fat, then most people on PPD are ugly / fat that includes not just the men but the women too. Sorry, but the stats don't lie, PPD is for sure not a self selecting group of pretty and slim women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 01:16 AM
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I thought I already did lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 01:04 AM
1

Dudes say "nice" when a college guy scores with a smoking hot teacher. If he's scoring PPD tier women, I'd commend him for taking one for the team. Fuckng uggos and fatties is a rite of passage for many young men.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 12:55 AM
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he young men of today are the ripest to fuck!!! lol it's hilarious how bad some women are at rage baiting. It's like a 5 year old trying to insult you by calling you a "poopie head"
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 12:41 AM
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If autism is widespread but undiagnosed, then how do you know how widespread it is aside from speculating? Even if 50% of autism conditions went undiagnosed, that would just bump it up to 2% for men. Still very far from widespread.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 12:26 AM
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One major difference is how much more violence the man will have to depend on to protect himself and his reputation. Seek peace as a general rule, but learn when violence is necessary and be trained in it. Don't sweat jokes and criticisms, but if someone crosses the line know how to put your foot down and stand up for yourself. So as far as actionable, practice debate and judo.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 12:07 AM
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Just another great reason to not be friends with women imo
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 07:43 PM
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this is definitely a don't think of a white elephant problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 07:37 PM
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ok. You're still part of a very small minority of men in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 05:07 PM
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Actual diagnosed autistic men still is around 1%, which is an insignificant segment of the overall population. There are way more people self diagnosing and armchair psychiatrists making it look like autism is widespread when it's not.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 02:18 PM
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> This result confirms responses to sex surveys under anonymous conditions are as valid as when administered under a lie detector condition. you forgot the word "fake". Fake lie detector.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 12:07 AM
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