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It takes resources to build a good beta provider. Education, job training, nurturing the career etc. Most women are earning more than men these days. The beta bux role is dying off rapidly.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 09:54 AM
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I remember thinking “this is dysfunctional as fuck” and “this bitch is either going to die alone or make a man miserable” Reading this stuff makes me wish I was into men sometimes lol. I don't want to treat women horribly or pretend to be some "huge scary dominant prick". I just want to be me.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 10:05 AM
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I think it honestly depends on the group of people you are with. When it's just men things are great. As soon as a women enters the group the dynamic change it's so weird. I watched it in real time back in my teens and early 20s. My friendship group who I had so much history with would be great when it was just us guys shooting the shit. Then an attractive woman joined in and they all started shitting on each other in order to push themselves up the ladder of dominance. I never really understood…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 10:04 AM
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Remember that sexual desire is irrational and cannot be forced A lot of it is society ingrained though. Like the having a house one shouldn't really affect sexual desire. Especially if someone is attracted to someone on a mental and physical level. But society demands men have their own place and women have been tricked into it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 11:06 AM
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does not ever having any sort of prolonged physical touch or close, intimate contact bother you? It certainly bothers me. A little bit. It makes me feel less human for sure. I feel like everyone should be touched, if not at least cuddled so that they can feel like a human. Otherwise you start to feel like some kinda weird alien.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 12:26 PM
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Being a jock means you’re an athlete 14 year olds playing sports during Physical Education class aren't athletes lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 12:35 PM
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Are you shreded? Have you had plastic surgery? This is just silly. You shouldn't have to be the top 1% of men. Shredded men with visible 6 packs are exceedingly rare. Just because you see it on Instagram all day doesn't mean the average guy can achieve that. Especially someone who is a fulltime office worker. Being shredded means staying within the 6 to 10 BF% range which is so fucking difficult, and requires steroids and fat burners.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 11:01 AM
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I think male users here understand that arguing/debating sexual strategy is not going to get them laid. I think most people here are just blowing off steam and probably wish women were just more honest rather than lying to not appear shallow. I'd rather a woman say to me I'm too short to date or my penis is too small rather than "You're such a nice guy! It's totally me not you!"
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 10:57 AM
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Not all attractive men have to work at it. Some are just born that way. I remember in in high school the jocks were just lucky. Do you think they were gymmaxxing or whatever back when they were 14? They were just naturally attractive and good at speaking with the girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 10:53 AM
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Dude, as long as you don’t have a micropenis you’re fine. What if you DO have a micropenis?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 10:51 AM
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(tall, dominant, muscular, high status and rich man.) I literally have none of those things lmao. Just some poor short schmuck trying to get by day by day. I do have a career but I am still a working class person that will be working up until my late 60s for retirement.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 10:30 AM
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The idea here is just to finally stop beating around the bush and be honest. If you're ugly, or believe you're ugly, and that's the reason you aren't finding love or companionship then own it I actually agree with this. I do think a lot of men are realists. Like they know they're bottom tier or just plainly average. The problem is when you believe you're more than you actually are and deserve better. Look, if you're ugly and short, just accept it and try to better yourself. And if you don't want…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 10:24 AM
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Men below 5'6 that are facially unattractive and imbibed with repulsive personalities You just described me lol :) Although IRL I don't have a repulsive personality. I am actually ok. I don't act how I do on Reddit IRL. But I am 5ft6 with an ugly face.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 12:01 PM
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What about average males? Probably find their SO within their social groups.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 11:59 AM
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I want to be married with kids. I wish I could say the same about the men in my dating pool. I'm 34 and single. But there is plenty of men at 34 who also want to do the same. They are probably being overlooked by women because they are 5ft7 or something stupid. I hardly get any matches on dating apps but i have my shit together and I'm looking for an LTR. I rent my own place, have a decent career, no debts, financially secure. But I guess my dating app pictures aren't me jumping out of a plane o…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 01:57 PM
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People aren't waiting until 35 purposely. They cannot afford to even pay for housing, or are just about scraping by these days so a kid is absolutely off the table.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 01:43 PM
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when really it was over before you were even born. Hurts to see this but it is more or less correct I think. I guess there are some late bloomers but it's all mental rather than physical. Some people never had a chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 12:02 PM
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I also hate it but it seems what we're arrived at. Everyone just at each others throats for no reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 12:47 PM
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Oh believe me I know mate. Just sick of people saying shite like "just learn to be confident bro". It's about 32 years a bit late for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 11:32 AM
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The point is just to keep women from having as much political and economic power relative to men in general. Average women have way more power than the average man now. The only men that have the most power are the top 10%ers who are billionaires.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 12:03 PM
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It doesn’t matter how great you are, low confidence as a grown man will rob you of everything good in life. It's hard to feel great when you spent your entire life being shit on dude. It's not like you can develop an I am great attitude overnight. I'm poor. Come from a family of poverty with a mum and dad both working minimum wage jobs. Got bullied a lot as a kid in school due to being shy and different. Not even gonna get into my physical issues. But yeah. I am a realist. I am not great and not…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 09:25 AM
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It's a fairly shit existence but it's the only one I've got! Yeah I know. I've made peace with it kinda. Just focus on my hobbies these days. Although I would be lying if I said I didn't feel lonely a lot of the time. Sometimes you just have those moment were you realise you are spending so much time on escapism because you are worried about the future.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 09:17 AM
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Stop blaming dad. No. He made me what I am today.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 04:01 PM
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This shit is so depressing to read when you're are a genetic dead end due to being 5ft6 and horrible skin (and a passive sub personality thanks to a weak dad).
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 09:23 AM
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I honestly think its partially because they barely even recognise the existence of average women. Isn't that the same for average men though? Mostly invisible to women.
/r/ExRedPill29/07/24 11:35 AM
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How? Were they complete strangers? You didn't know them beforehand?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 03:52 PM
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I don't think you can create a social circle after your 30s. I mean a completely brand new circle from scratch with no people you used to know. Most people after 30 are too preoccupied with their careers after 30. That's what I have found. They aren't interested in making friends. Maybe if you're still early 20s this advice can work.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 03:36 PM
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I agree. I spent a lot of my teen years playing MMOs because people in school bullied me. I basically wanted to escape from the abuse via escapism. It also didn't help that the people in the MMOs were actually nice to me, so I started to see them as my real friends and not the people I knew IRL. When the real world rejects you don't want anything to do with it. Obviously I changed a bit in my 20s but my teens were a very dark time.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 03:46 PM
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Also just be tall. Minimum 5ft10
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 09:49 AM
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My standards aren't very high as a man. I don't want to date anyone who is clinically obese. Physically that's about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 12:34 PM
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a lot of men get into relationships with just about any woman who shows them some attention. I feel like that's because a large majority of men are lucky to have any attention whatsoever.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 12:31 PM
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everyone is playing to win for themselves. Has this ever not been true since the dawn of humanity?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 12:25 PM
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I live in the UK and it's too car-centric. And if you want to live in the city prepare to be paying minimum £1,500 per month rent for a shoebox. It's not feasible for the average person so most people live in the suburbs.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 10:39 AM
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And "third spaces" are increasing in availability, not decreasing. What's your evidence for this?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 10:28 AM
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I can't believe how angry you come across lol. Looking at your history as well, yikes. I hope one day you feel better about yourself and the world and be at peace.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 12:56 PM
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Just because a few offenders advocate it doesn't mean the sub should have been banned.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 12:06 PM
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women aren’t the ones who are allowed to have porn subs dehumanizing the opposite sex and fantasizing about raping them. Some women actively participate in these types of subs. There are some weird ones where women will post titles like "am I rapeable". I think maybe r rapefantasy or some shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 12:05 PM
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There isn't a solution so nothing else to do except whine about it. As I said, men care about less things than women do. You'll find that men care a lot less about women's career, job, income, housing situation etc. Whereas women care more about than side of things as they still expect men to be the breadwinner (even in 2024).
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 04:35 PM
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There's no other choice for some men. It's either dating apps, work, cold approaching or social circle.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 02:52 PM
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A woman can install a dating app and have hundreds of men wanting to either date or have sex. A man can install a dating app and have zero matches for months at a time.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 02:24 PM
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What would you rather have An abundance of options to choose from that overwhelm you Absolutely nothing One is woman's experience and one is a mans.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 01:10 PM
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It’s a lot harder for women of color That's because they are pickier and often racist. A good example is myself. I'm Chinese and I absolutely love black women. But the pairing is extremely rare. And I think it's due to racist reasons personally. So I blame them. They have potential to date other races but don't want to. They either stick to black or white men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 01:06 PM
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As someone who also has a sister, I can kinda verify OPs posts as relevant. But the main thing is men looking for different things in women. My sister is more or less a debt ridden bum but she's always in relationships. While I've got a well-paid career and my own place but can't even get a match. Dating just is easier for women because men are willing to let things slide more than women are for men. Like the current guy she's dating clearly doesn't care she has tonnes of debt and no fucking job…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 12:59 PM
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I don't disagree sadly. I love my sister but she's a bit of a mess. No job currently and always been bad with money (constantly asks me to help her pay stuff off with badly managed debts). But she always has boyfriends or dates when comparatively, my life is in working order with a decent career and my own place but I get virtually zero matches for weeks at a time. I've just accepted women have it easier in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 12:56 PM
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I am 5ft6 and Chinese. I like Desi girls not gonna lie. Although India looks like a dirty country when I see it on videos sometimes
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 02:37 PM
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If they're struggling in their home country they will struggle elsewhere. The only thing that changes is your economic worth. And then those women are staying with you for the wrong reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 11:27 AM
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No, I don’t have patience for creepy weird males AKA I don't want ugly short men approaching me. But if he's tall dark and handsome it's fair game!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 11:25 AM
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If you need to be more physically fit, then workout, and eat right. If you need to make more money, then start finding options and opportunities. Need to be more social, then start talking to people. You will stumble, fail, be in pain, and stressed out. Just do all this shit that take years upon years of effort to get some leftovers. Especially when women don't really need to do any of this stuff and can just hop on a dating app and be inundated. Getting a sculpted body is far far more difficult…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 11:20 AM
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Meh. I don't care personally anymore. I do what makes me happy and if women aren't interested in the things that make me happy then I have zero reason to change. It sucks to die alone but it is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 11:10 AM
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The internet is a good place to get your foot in the door, since you can't see the faces of people you talk to online Until you send them a picture of yourself. Happened to me on my other Reddit account that I used for dating subs. Finally got a message after 6 months of posting a thread. I added her on Discord and we chatted for an evening. All seemed good. Then we exchanged pictures the next day. She said I was cute. Then she never responded back to me ever again. Gave it a week since I wasn't…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 09:45 AM
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Women in past centuries were forced into marriages they didn’t want, and many were miserable. So I guess women are getting revenge now because the opposite is happening with men, where just no one is interested in them so they will die alone. I feel like I'm paying for the sins of the past at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 09:40 AM
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I feel like real love exists for handsome couples but if you're average or below average it's all situationships for gain.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 09:26 AM
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Because the systems we have set up today are designed to make winners keep winning and losers keep losing. Economically and socially. I guess none of this is really new since the dawn of man though. It's just kept evolving. There is always the haves and have-nots.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 01:00 PM
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I think the average male will be able to date and get a relationship. It's the below average 5ft6 men like myself who are simply fucked.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 12:58 PM
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We're all expendable, most people won't care about us. I refuse to participate in a society that doesn't care about me. So I work the minimal amount enough to ensure I can pay for food and the roof over my head. That's it. I will never participate in a draft and would soon go to prison for 10 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 03:56 PM
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My brother met his current gf in the workplace. He doesn't have a social circle.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 12:45 PM
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Natural selection does this because it benefits society. Natural selection doesn't always work that way because upper tier men with often get with women who have defects. That create male kids who don't have the same attributes as their father because they take the negative ones from the mother.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 12:15 PM
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Men are expendable anyway in the eyes of society. I was reading an article this morning on the World News sub that was about how Ukraine is now hunting down men to force them into the draft if they are aged between 25-60. Not women. Men. The world doesn't see men as anything other than people to be thrown to the grinder like how male baby chickens are. And then it uses toxic masculinity to shame them E.G. If you don't defend your country you are "not a real man"
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 12:13 PM
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Society doesnt really care about you, and generally advice for lonely men will break down to "Be better", because society rejects any accountability for how they've treated you and the kind of person that you've become accordingly. This is a really good comment. I've noticed advice online is just endless lists of "do this do that" and a lot of the time the advice is just extremely silly. The idea of creating a social circle from scratch could be years worth of painstaking work and it gets even m…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 12:10 PM
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6 of these photos Damn, that guy is hella attractive. This is why it's not worth the average overweight man to even bother with dating apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 12:01 PM
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You sound insane lol. Delulu femcels
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 03:53 PM
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Even despite all the risks and higher chance of danger? I dont think there's a high chance if they meet in a public area. Also adding someones social accounts so you can see if they have any friends etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 01:09 PM
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What are rules 1 and 2 The rules of dating. 1) be attractive. 2) dont be unattractive
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 12:48 PM
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You’re suicidal, depressed, anxious and self described as “red pilled” man. Not that guy but why does everyone automatically assume that people act the same in real life as they do in the internet? Do you think people who speak about their issues online are walking around telling others they are suicidal, depressed and anxious? So why bring these up if so? I can tell you as a 100% fact that most people do not reveal the stuff they do online in real life. Most people who might be ranting online a…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 12:46 PM
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I decided to find whatever I can to make myself happy without needed a partner Are you looking forward to the Elden Ring DLC?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 12:45 PM
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Humans morality boils down to “All is fair in love and wear…unless it is to my detriment, then that is not fair and things must change to be entitled to what I want.” Just World fallacy. If you're attractive you deserve everything positive you get. If you're ugly you deserve everything negative you get
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 12:45 PM
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Don't work on your health it is a waste of time. It only exists to lengthen your suffering, a literal lifetime of watching something you can't attain pass you by and having it randomly shoved in your face by friends or parents who will ask why you're still single or just observing other people. The actual reason is that OP didn't follow rules 1 & 2. Not because "he needs to be a better person" or whatever people are saying lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 12:44 PM
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the person who ruined your parse Parsebeast obsessed min/maxxers need to go. It's the reason I won't touch savage and the reason I think MMOs have become garbage.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 12:42 PM
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I speak to women every day. I am just ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 03:48 PM
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Don't really care. Your incel card is just pointless. Yeah there are people who moan about women online or say hateful things. But they're just that, words on a web page. And some of them act on it. The ones I can count on two hands. But the majority of women physically and mentally hurt are by men who are in relationships with them. So yeah, shove your "muh incels" up your ass
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 01:07 PM
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Dumb comment. Incel murderers can be counted on two hands. The amount of women beaten up or murdered at the hands of their husbands is in the hundreds of thousands.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 11:52 AM
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Dude women and blue pill men always argue in bad faith and gaslight. And they always move the goalposts. They'll say "go outside go touch grass". Then you tell them you are a fulltime worker who leaves the house every single day. Then it conveniently becomes "well then work on your personality because you're a shit person". It never stops. There's always an issue with you. You could be a donating $1 million dollars to homeless kids and looking after abandoned animals and they'd still try to find…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 11:50 AM
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Like compatibility and trust. Crazy, I know. More like height, handsome face and a big penis. Compatibility and trust are just bonuses.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 04:48 PM
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So you had more? Good to know. Some men have zero.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 04:10 PM
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More men than ever are going the gym due to gymbro culture. Also, I'll stop you right there . A lot of guys have just let themselves go Because women have let themselves go just as much as men have. The stats for the USA show both genders are overweight or obese like 50% of the population of both.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 12:50 PM
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That guy is probably attractive which is why he thinks that. It's like telling a poor person to stop being poor and just be rich. He will never understand being an ugly/poor/short man because he is a top 10%er.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 12:49 PM
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The internet and online dating changed everything. Women have always prefer a man taller than them yes. But let's look at the differences between 1990s dating and 2024 dating. In 1990, if a woman only knew 10 men and had a job in an office, she had a limited selection of men to choose from. Imagine if only one of those men was taller than her. The rest were the same height or shorter. That means that's all she can choose from. In 2024, women can install dating apps and have hundreds to thousands…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 12:47 PM
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https://youtu.be/35fiNZTVVtU?si=sCtK6qwi6253N58d That video is just demoralising to the maximum. It's crazy to me that he calls the dude in the video a 6/10 as well. I thought he was well above average and 6ft3 which is a good height. I would've gave him a 7 or 8/10 personally. If that guy is a 6/10 I must be a 2/10 because I am worse looking and I'm 5ft6.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 12:13 PM
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This reads like a ChatGPT response lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 12:05 PM
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I feel like women in their early 20s are pickiest because they have the most options of men then. Men all the way to 40 would gladly date a beautiful woman in her 20s. No thanks to social media. Back in the 1990s, 20 something women would only have their local network of people to date. Now they are able to pick out of hundreds if not thousands of me within a 20 mile radius.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 12:05 PM
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I have to put way more work into starting a relationship than I did in the past, And the way the economy is these days we're working harder than ever to make ends meet. Sometimes, I feel like dating isn't worth the effort and I don't have the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 12:03 PM
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I always feel like I have to stand against the waves vs shit like this, take my downvotes, and then try to upvote other comments or posts that are getting unjustly crucified. Because this is where the narcissism comes from...and one thing I love about the Jesus story is how it points it out. I usually go against the crowd on purpose for this reason. Reddit is easily the worst for it due to the karma system. People will pander and agree just because they don't want to get downvotes.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 12:01 PM
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Why are they even here if they are wives/moms. Like this is a dating sub right? They're just here to piss us off with their stupid opinions when they aren't even in the game.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 11:56 AM
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It's just really weird now. People have insane expectations and little patience when things aren't exactly right. What I mean is, little things seem to trigger people, especially women. Like you can say everything right, do everything right, then say something specific and they're instantly turned off you. And it can be anything from political opinions to not liking iPhones. I'm not joking. What happened to live and let live? Or just accepting not everyone will have similar opinions on stuff and…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 11:48 AM
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Attractive men can get away with more icks as well. They're more likely to overlook them if the guy is handsome and tall. Less likely to if he's average.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 11:28 AM
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You just don't get it and you never will because you aren't a man. Would you tell your boss what you really think of him? No. You would maintain the status quo so you get paid and don't get fired. Men act the same around women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 11:27 AM
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