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A lying orange turd.
/r/MensRights30/05/25 09:49 PM
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It’s bad. It’s alienating to people like me: centrist democrats who aren’t on board with project 2025. Why is this partisan nonsense what’s discussed? I think there are many others who aren’t cool with the transfer of wealth going on to the mega rich and also believe in men’s rights.
/r/MensRights30/05/25 09:49 PM
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That’s great. Seems like a very literal reading of the intended message I communicated. The only way anyone is getting “near” my nuts under the conditions I stated.
/r/MensRights28/05/25 06:01 PM
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Starts with "rapists" and ends up being for others. Castration?!? No one touches these nuts unless she's blowing me or gargling them by my request. Not happening.
/r/MensRights26/05/25 07:42 PM
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You say that gay men are still men and have male sex drives, that line flattens gendered power dynamics and ignores how sexuality interacts with social context. A man seeking sex in a male dominated dating pool, as in gay communities, operates under entirely different norms and expectations than a woman seeking sex in a male female dynamic where safety, power imbalance, and cultural scripts matter more. Regarding your belief that casual sex being easier for gay men proves there is less pressure …
/r/MensRights11/05/25 11:06 PM
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"If you listen to any homophobic person talk about gay people they will 99% of the time zero in on the men and how promiscuous they are." I'm not homophobic. Facts are facts. The average gay man has 60-70 partners according to the stats. The average straight man has between 4-8 in a lifetime.** **https://journals.lww.com/jaids/abstract/2012/05010/a\_comparison\_of\_sexual\_behavior\_patterns\_among\_men.13.aspx "This is far worse as a straight man with regard to how women judge you." The "gay sc…
/r/MensRights11/05/25 02:26 AM
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Let's be honest: it's difficult to protect any man with the law, even if the perpetrators are men.
/r/MensRights11/05/25 12:29 AM
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It is not a perfect comparison, but in some ways, the ease with which gay men can find casual sex is similar to the experience many women have. That said, the comparison breaks down because women still face a lot of stigma if they engage in frequent casual sex, especially with multiple partners. I have a gay friend who has been very open with me. He has described going to orgies and regularly having sex with men he meets through apps, often without even knowing their names or having a conversati…
/r/MensRights10/05/25 11:20 PM
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I clearly don't condone it. I'm not even that old, that's the sad part, I'm still a millenial. I am sure many of them are bitter. I still remember there was a boy who wore silk shirts and was effeminate, guys beat him down in the locker room, spat at him, made the guy's life hell. I still remember they held him down and dunked him in the toilet, and no one thought anything of it. I didn't do anything to him, but I regret that I didn't speak up, I should have, but I didn't know any better and I j…
/r/MensRights10/05/25 06:33 AM
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Gays have a culture built around male sexuality. In the subculture, from what I hear from my gay friend, there is a casual way to look at sex. They meet, don't need to exchange names my friend said, and then part after each gets what he needs. My friend said the problem is with an inability to settle down often, because men are in "hunting" mode and their sexuality can go wild and be focused on consumption. Like a kid in a candy shop situation. My friend said some of the guys get sick from it, a…
/r/MensRights10/05/25 04:38 AM
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When I was in high school that term was used: you were expected to stand up for yourself and fight back. You didn't go to adults for help or tattle tale. This was the old way, and I am not so sure it was always the right way, but sometimes it did impart independence in us. I still remember how gender "non conforming boys" were seen then, they were seen as a lower form of life to be stomped on with abandon. You learned not to talk a lot and be excitable as a boy, if you violated that or acted in …
/r/MensRights10/05/25 02:15 AM
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I do not condemn them or judge them, I just prefer not to be around them because of their female type antics. I had a girlfriend who was best friends with one: he was always gossiping, bitchy demeanor, glitter in the hair. When I was younger he would have been treated mercilessly for his behaviors, but I was always respectful and tolerated his presence. People are free, and should be free to behave how they want though as long as they don't tell others what to do. I just prefer not to be around …
/r/MensRights10/05/25 02:10 AM
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I'm glad most people don't do it. I am cut.
/r/MensRights05/05/25 11:31 PM
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Many seniors are 18. What's the difference between 18 and 17 a few months shy of 18? Not much, however we have to draw the line somewhere. All high schoolers, even those who are 18, look exceptionally young and most look like kids to an adult.
/r/MensRights27/04/25 11:08 PM
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"Alphaness"? What kind of nonsense is this?
/r/MensRights24/04/25 11:02 PM
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NYer here. Just to respond to the whole “conservative guy scared of cities” thing, that's not a thing for anyone I know, and anyone who thinks that isn't very bright. Violent crime in NYC is actually lower than in every other major city in the country and lower than in most red states too. NYC’s murder rate is around 4 per 100000 people. Compare that to Louisiana, a deep red state, where the rate is about 15. Mississippi is even worse at 20 per 100000. If you break it down by the biggest cities …
/r/MensRights22/04/25 06:38 PM
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It is sick. I can tell you at 15 I had a HAIR TRIGGER. I nutted in 3 pumps or less my first time.
/r/MensRights18/04/25 10:59 PM
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Yeah, I agree. It's a problem for me almost always with women. A hair above 8.75" and I can tell you it's not great. People joke around and I can tell you it isn't some "amazing gift" to need special big pouch underwear etc. or have women make you have sex with 1" of you permanently stuck outside of where it belongs naturally.
/r/MensRights18/04/25 07:01 PM
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So you agree, it's grounded in our biology, and served an evolutionary function for us to dull and push down overly emotional hysterical type behavior. That's all. It doesn't mean we can't have a safer space to express it, but a man's reluctance to do it is part of our very nature due to our: evolution, socialization, hormones/genetics, etc.
/r/MensRights14/04/25 11:47 PM
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It's certainly more complex for men, and that's from the vantage point of women and men. It may be wrong but the "ick" factor is something women and some guys have towards the situation.
/r/MensRights14/04/25 11:45 PM
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How do you mean? Sometimes the thing is very tiny, it's Thailand.
/r/MensRights14/04/25 12:55 AM
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There's always Thailand. The girls there are cute and love white men, I can attest. Real advice: you have to make sure the girl doesn't have nuts, unless you want that.
/r/MensRights13/04/25 07:50 PM
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And Norway is absolutely beautiful. I can attest that Beunos Aires is a beautiful safe place though.
/r/MensRights13/04/25 07:49 PM
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You got two issues going on here. One issue is equality for everyone, I support that and most guys here do too. Gay guys should have the same rights. Then you mention how we find two beautiful feminine women together to be hot, well, that's based in evolutionary biology. We find it hot because it's 2x the chance of sex and consequently reproduction, we are programmed from that angle to find it hot. A gay guy is just a guy. I support their rights and I don't hate on them, but most guys find their…
/r/MensRights13/04/25 05:28 PM
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Pretty simple men. Anytime the velvet pink we desire is an option it almost always comes with manipulation and strings unless you actually just pay for it on the table.
/r/MensRights13/04/25 06:29 AM
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Let's strike the term "more athletic". Again, more mass and strength. That is related to tesosterone and sex.
/r/MensRights13/04/25 05:51 AM
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I just told you: as far as MASS and STRENGTH go, testosterone and sex determine that. Going back and forth with you is futile.
/r/MensRights13/04/25 04:46 AM
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I went to a sex segregated high school. It was completely fine. I dated girls from the all girl school nearby. No dating drama at school existed for guys obviously. I believe it must have been very hard for anyone who was gay. Guys in an all male environment at that age can be immature and can display intolerance sadly. As for universities, I have heard there is an all Male one in texas called St Edward University or something, I imagine that would be a very different situation.
/r/MensRights13/04/25 03:35 AM
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Hahhahaa
/r/MensRights13/04/25 03:29 AM
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You need me to cite actual biological reality? When referring to mass and strength, testosterone is a determining factor, and men are statistically stronger and larger in those areas with a strong P value. This stuff is becoming absurd at this point.
/r/MensRights13/04/25 03:29 AM
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Well, it's our nature not to be manipulative. Women use the pink to manipulate us to extract what they want often. Yeah, my friend explained that it is very, very direct with men, he said it's "ala carte" you can order what you want precisely if you look good enough. I found it kind of sad and empty personally. If I could get over it and have sex with men for a sexual release I would do it, because it's so damn easy, but I think there is hardcoding preventing it. I have a gay friend but you woul…
/r/MensRights13/04/25 02:55 AM
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It does make me feel badly that I get a gut reaction of disgust kind of seeing guys kiss each other. I do think some of that is my socialization, but some of it is a evolutionary reality. That being said, I am fully supportive of you having equality and facing no challenges due to your sexuality.
/r/MensRights13/04/25 02:50 AM
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I never understood the whole thing with penis size obsession. It's an attempt to belittle and emasculate men. I can attest that women do not want a very large guy, it's a pain, literally. No woman wants her cervix battered. Imagine having sex and never fully pushing in. That's what your life is like as a man who is larger than is necessary. The average penis size is 5" and people need to stop thinking 9" and shit is "great".
/r/MensRights13/04/25 02:47 AM
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As a straight guy, I don't really see straight men being horrible to gay men. I have gay friends and straight friends. Most other straight guys I know are fine with it and supportive, but I think there is a boundary where most guys don't like to see gay sexuality expressed around them. I was socialized to be disgusted by it, and I usually have a gut reaction to it also. That said, I support their rights 100% in society. Does that make me a bad guy?
/r/MensRights13/04/25 02:41 AM
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I am supportive of gay rights, I just want to ask you: did you always know you are a bisexual? I am straight and in my casual observation it seems like women are more hardwired to be open to bisexuality and sexuality with other women. If I could get over the "ick" factor of it I would do it because it seems like you boys have a very easy time to get laid. I have a gay friend and he bragged once that he could have a guy over in 10 minutes to get a bj from who will immediately leave. I responded -…
/r/MensRights13/04/25 02:38 AM
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Fortunately gay guys are much more accepted in society today. However, you have to remember they are more expressive because traditionally being with another guy has meant they "violated" a traditional aspect of masculinity already by doing that. This led to them having a culture in which they are more comfortable playing with gender norms and pushing boundaries that we are not. There are some evolutionary realities in terms of why we dull our responses and are more laconic, steadfast etc. These…
/r/MensRights13/04/25 02:34 AM
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I think my comment still stands: most men are uncomfortable with it as well. Seeing a guy breakdown and cry is weakness that we should be ok with, but men are trained by socialization and our evolutionary reality to recoil from it. I guess some women don't want it either.
/r/MensRights13/04/25 02:31 AM
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Right. I misread!
/r/MensRights13/04/25 02:29 AM
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Well he is right. It is in their nature to play with men's minds. To dangle the prospect of the pink in front of us to get things from us or to get us to do things for them. Most women lack strength and ability that a man has, and that is a far easier way to get things done. It's the time tested manipulative way that women have behaved. You can see countless examples of it in literature, film and arts.
/r/MensRights13/04/25 02:20 AM
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Yeah, it's the "ick". When I was young you got beat down extra hard for crying to "toughen you up". You learned to dull your emotional expression and to avoid flamboyance or you faced the same consequence. It was a way to toughen us up and make sure we don't end up as "sissies". The flip side of this is that it caused us to deny our emotions and that isn't healthy.
/r/MensRights13/04/25 02:18 AM
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Yeah, this is also a natural male reaction to another guy being what you might consider as overly emotional. There is some basis in this from culture, evolution, genetics, and our testosterone. There is absolutely room for a guy to be vulnerable and show emotions without being weak and a wreck.
/r/MensRights13/04/25 02:16 AM
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He should dump her. I refuse to let any woman tell me how I can dress. No man should be embarassed of his bulge. That's his manhood. Big deal if people see it and it's covered. Stop looking if you don't like it. We don't force women to cover their breasts bulging in their shirts, nor should they.
/r/MensRights13/04/25 01:19 AM
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Some women do, and good for them. However we can't make a 1:1 comparison. There is a very real effect from testosterone: competition and athleticism and our behavior is influenced by it. That's not to say that all men must be that way, or that even most are, but there is a stronger likelihood of it and it is correlated. Most women are not that way because they lack it. We can't deny physicial, genetic and hormonal realities. We can do that and create a welcome space for EVERYONE to be who they w…
/r/MensRights13/04/25 01:16 AM
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People should have the freedom to be who they want to be. That means be androgynous or flamboyant and effeminate if that's who you prefer to be. However you realize that 90% of men are not that way due to a bunch of factors, one of which is genetic and hormonal: it's in our programming not to be. Nothing wrong with being that way, but there is something wrong in telling boys and men they should push themselves to be more androgynous or that there is anything wrong with being masculine.
/r/MensRights13/04/25 01:13 AM
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Yes but in this case the people who hate us also have a pair of balls swinging. They're one of us but identify with the man hate. Not only that they even have a sexual preference for other men, so why do they dislike us? I think some of them are scarred by how some straight men reacted to their presence in their younger years etc.
/r/MensRights13/04/25 01:10 AM
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That does make sense. I think there are different types of gays, yea. The very flamboyant ones, and the ones who see themselves as men first and foremost.
/r/MensRights12/04/25 05:47 AM
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Why though??? I do not get it. According to a gay friend, gay subculture worships the most masculine guys, who appear and "act straight". So why do they hate men and see us as oppressors, aren't they also men like us?
/r/MensRights12/04/25 12:54 AM
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Same here. traditional left winger. I despise the idea that equality for men is a right wing issue.
/r/MensRights12/04/25 12:53 AM
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What is "gay culture"? I am curious what that means exactly now.
/r/MensRights12/04/25 12:52 AM
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Right? I have noticed the more effeminate gay guys are usually the most hateful towards men. I don't understand it, because they have the same anatomy as us. Why?
/r/MensRights12/04/25 12:52 AM
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I am not a conservative or a liberal. I think these stupid binary choices are here to divide people over issues that never affect my life, or rarely do. I don't care what pronouns anyone uses, and I think abortion is a personal matter I don't want legislated. I also think that being able to afford a damn house and grocery bills should matter a lot more to people than any of this crap. We should have people charged up about whether or not we should have tarrifs, not trans stuff.
/r/MensRights12/04/25 12:48 AM
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Yep, I do walk into high schools and they look like kids to me. Their faces look like little kids usually. Not sure how anyone could be into that unless they're twisted.
/r/MensRights11/04/25 06:19 AM
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Russia is also conscripting men, by force. It's reported that just the latest conscription, Putin is requiring, 160,000 men to report for duty. There is a meat grinder situation going on, it's all ridiculous, and for what? It's like Vietnam part II.
/r/MensRights09/04/25 11:32 PM
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He may likely have OCD.
/r/MensRights08/04/25 05:08 PM
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I don't like calling anyone sub par. I think the dating apps have screwed with young guys (and women's) minds. I'm now "older" in my late 30s. I was, and still am generally athletic and I am 6'3. You know what I found? Be yourself. I pushed myself to get married, have kids, have a "perfect life", I'm a high earner. I pay more in taxes than the average person earns in America. It's not what it's cracked up to be: my wife cheated on me with a friend who makes more money yet. I see my kids on weeke…
/r/MensRights08/04/25 06:22 AM
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I don't like calling anyone sub par. I think the dating apps have screwed with young guys (and women's) minds. I'm now "older" in my late 30s. I was, and still am generally athletic and I am 6'3. You know what I found? Be yourself. I pushed myself to get married, have kids, have a "perfect life", I'm a high earner. I pay more in taxes than the average person earns in America. It's not what it's cracked up to be: my wife cheated on me with a friend who makes more money yet. I see my kids on weeke…
/r/MensRights08/04/25 06:22 AM
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Don't you know? We're gonna have Gaza-Lago Casinos and Resorts. It'll resolve everything. /s
/r/MensRights08/04/25 02:29 AM
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So, do you think a guy can have a vagina? I'm curious.
/r/MensRights08/04/25 02:28 AM
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This is a dying perspective. An entire generation has grown up with limited social interaction, an inability to use salutations properly or to look people in the eye when speaking. I am not "old" but I think some of the social interaction is devolving into a sludge due to the phone held in hand all day long.
/r/MensRights08/04/25 02:27 AM
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I'm 6'3, I don't think your height defines how much of a man you are, same with your dick size. Doesn't define a guy. It's just your anatomical structures. Do you think women are less of women if they have smaller breasts?
/r/MensRights08/04/25 02:25 AM
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1- YOU went and looked at his post, talked about it on here, and then said "well he's a minor". Ok, got it. 2- It's abuse. You could stop at that. Moving on then.
/r/MensRights07/04/25 04:51 AM
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Next time a 40 year old man has sex with a 15 year old girl, I guess we should say it's all ok. Send the url of a pic then. I saw your comments and you're in India. What are the laws like there? Here in the US an adult having sex with a 15 year old, whether it be a girl or a boy is an abuse. It's unethical and illegal.
/r/MensRights07/04/25 12:15 AM
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Where the hell have you seen pics of this kid, and who the hell cares how old he LOOKS. Your body is not your mental state. Plenty of girls "look older" at 12-13, is that cool for an adult man to have sex with them? They're still kids. At 15, it's one thing to have sex with someone near your age, it's quite another to have sex with an adult who is in a position of power, whether you feel like a victim or NOT, it's not legal or moral or ethical. As for "performance" I 100% guarantee you the adult…
/r/MensRights06/04/25 06:26 AM
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I am in my 30s. I refuse to use terms like "a 7-8" or a "5" to refer to people. I say "an attractive woman", a handsome guy. Not using numbers like I am 17. I think it might be generational. I will admit that I am an "average" guy, and I have dated and married attractive women. I think a lot more goes into this than just "number metrics".
/r/MensRights06/04/25 01:11 AM
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15 and he is able to perform sexually with a woman as an adult experienced man would? Nope. He probably nut in 2 seconds the first many times. Cut the crap. Why would an adult sexually mature woman want a 15 year old BOY??
/r/MensRights06/04/25 01:08 AM
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How can the medical team collect sperm from a boy who isn't old enough to produce fully formed sperm that are healthy or to ejaculate??
/r/MensRights04/04/25 02:50 AM
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Yep, you should google Adorno the psychologist who came up with these concepts. Social Dominance Orientation is a preference for inequality among social groups. Right Wing Authoritarianism focuses on submission to authority, conformity to social norms, and aggression toward outgroups seen as threatening. While SDO reflects a desire for group based dominance and inequality, RWA is more about maintaining order and tradition, often through hierarchical structures, but from a different psychological…
/r/MensRights03/04/25 10:31 PM
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Yeah, but what's up with the guy, why did he call up his stalker and have sex with her? I was left perplexed. Does anyone know WHY he would do this?
/r/MensRights03/04/25 10:00 PM
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What was up with the Baby Reindeer guy seducing his stalker and having sex with her of his own voilition? I am curious as to why he did that? The woman was absolutely nuts.
/r/MensRights03/04/25 09:59 PM
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Except of course if you criticise the right here, you will be downvoted, to oblivion. I posted a center / Center left view that is about as middle as it gets, criticizing Trump and Musk and got downvoted. The consensus here is right wing: even if that means banning abortion and trans people from the military etc etc, that's the side that's been chosen here.
/r/MensRights03/04/25 12:31 AM
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The option for men, especially the younger guys, to get release, for pay should be completely legal if you ask me. Bringing it all above ground will be better for everyone. Test the women. Young guys will get the touch and feel of women, they need. The sex workers get to have sex with welcome guys, not old men. Nearly always the men are prosecuted, and the women are not. It should be above ground and legal everywhere, like in Las Vegas.
/r/MensRights03/04/25 12:30 AM
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Except of course it DOES stop men. It is illegal, in most all jurisdictions (though not all) to solicit sex. The sex workers themselves are not prosecuted, however the men are.
/r/MensRights03/04/25 12:27 AM
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Many young men do not know what a woman's touch is like. We need a new bill of rights, and the right to a healthy social and sexual life should be part of it. We should legalize prostitution completely so men can meet their needs instead of having pent up desire that is fomenting into rage. I feel badly for these guys in Gen Z.
/r/MensRights02/04/25 06:42 PM
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This is so juvenile, however, this stupid rumor has been voiced and discussed often. For some reason. Who the hell cares about him or his body or his dick? I know he suffers from mental health problems and that his dad died in 9-11. I hope he is well and gets help he needs. I don't care if he has a 10" cock. I'm just gonna be direct, women don't like their cervix battered by a man, from my own personal exp. It's not an advantage at all.
/r/MensRights02/04/25 12:07 AM
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I'm not on the right. I am also not part of the "new left". I resent the idea that I have to be. I'm a center left person and traditionally a Democratic voter. I am not signing up for Trump and Musk. I think some in the Democratic party are speaking out to the center like Whitmer.
/r/MensRights01/04/25 11:57 PM
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Fauci funded virus research, not a weapon. Gain of function is debated but not illegal. No proof COVID was made. No charges, no pardon, no coverup. Science still leans natural origin. If you really think doctors and researchers in our government were working to make COVID more deadly you're delusional. File this in the crazy files.
/r/MensRights01/04/25 06:19 PM
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I am just under 6'3. I don't think it's a magic bullet. If you want to itemize life, having more money helps, having a longer a thicker dick helps. You really think women care so much about your size? Gay guys do. Women don't think like that. Having even more money helps. Having good looks helps. Having broad shoulders and a narrow waist helps. Etc, etc etc etc. If you average up your strengths and minimize your weaknesses and invest in having a decent personality and demonstrate kindness and go…
/r/MensRights01/04/25 04:16 AM
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COVID has absolutely no place in this discussion. It's a virus, that's not political. There are viruses and there are immunizations for those viruses when we are lucky. Covid isn't a political issue, at least one that has no place here if you think it is. As for the family unit: men's role in the family unit has been under attack by feminism since the 1960s. Men have become completely replaceable except for our sperm, and they're working on that. The state has taken over the role of fatherhood i…
/r/MensRights01/04/25 02:16 AM
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DIVISIVE NONSENSE. This isn't a MAGA forum.
/r/MensRights01/04/25 02:10 AM
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Yeah, I am not, and i mean NOT on board with Trump. Not cool with that nonsense out of DC now.
/r/MensRights01/04/25 02:10 AM
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Yes. Young guys today have a need for sexual partners, and women are punishing the majority of men, and focusing only on a small subset for sex. Guys on apps feel the pain of this. It's time to at least decriminalize prostitution at least, so these young guys can get their needs met, it's a needed release valve.
/r/MensRights01/04/25 02:09 AM
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I watched it. I thought it was a pretty decent show. I don't think it's fair to extrapolate that we have a "major problem" with boys killing girls. That is a bunch of malarkey. I want to add that I hate all the influencers chiming in on every little thing. I think Tate and Co. do us a huge disservice.
/r/MensRights31/03/25 06:59 PM
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Which is what I am saying: That makes no sense. It should be legal, on both ends. It should be legal because men have needs and women who do it need money. I fail to understand how this is a criminal matter. Young men, especially, would benefit from getting this biological need met. It's a release valve.
/r/MensRights31/03/25 06:51 PM
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I think it's more complicated. I think men who do not place their sexuality front and center are first and foremost guys, and it doesn't stand in the way. I think very effeminate men who are flamboyant "fem boys" and "twinks" or whatever, just won't have many commonalities with other guys, they gravitate to women more, for many reasons that I don't fully understand. I have nothing against them but my interactions with them have been quiet: I don't have much in common with them or much to say, an…
/r/MensRights31/03/25 06:49 PM
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You are 100000% right that masseuses and escorts do more for young men's health than any psychologist does. The drive for the pink is real, and men need it. Why not negotiate the price for it? Young men will at least be calmer if they have that need met. Society is up for a real problem with rage if they don't povide these young guys with an outlet.
/r/MensRights31/03/25 02:10 AM
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IT is innate to our being: Men NEED release, especially young guys. I think there is nothing wrong with it if the guy goes into it with a fair and decent approach and she is straight forward. Everyone gets what they need.
/r/MensRights31/03/25 02:05 AM
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I fail to understannd why escorts aren't legal. I'm a successful good looking guy, but I have been to escorts on occassion for the convenience to meet my needs. Men have needs and these women are willing to negotiate a price to help them meet them. What's the problem? My advice to any young man going to them is to find out details that matter: go to higher end ones like in Vegas not street walkers, understand if the deal ends with a set time you have with them or once you drop your nut. Use a ru…
/r/MensRights31/03/25 02:03 AM
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I consider myself an ally, I have a gay friend, but he is pretty much just like any guy, he could be straight. Like I said I am an ally, but I feel I don't have anything to say to the effeminate twink guys/femboys. When I was socialized to be less tolerant I was creeped out by them, and maybe there is some residual left over? I try to be open minded.
/r/MensRights31/03/25 01:33 AM
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A man has every right to visit an escort if he wants to meet his needs. If you are a height weight proportional man who is not very old you will be doing her a favor compared to the men they usually meet. No one is compelling her to lie down, she chooses it. The only warning I would make to my friends visiting escorts is to: agree if it is TIME based or based on once you NUT so you know how to pace it. Also, wear a rubber. I advise you to invest in polyurethane, it's tough but thinner than rubbe…
/r/MensRights30/03/25 11:58 PM
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My nut my choice. My nut makes life, women's orgasm is just for their self pleasure.
/r/MensRights30/03/25 11:55 PM
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Not a fan of any influencer. I don't need anyone to tell me how to exist, or what to think. I think Tate, Fuentes, blah blah all the rest are in this to make a quick buck. They will say, and do, anything to make money.
/r/MensRights30/03/25 11:53 PM
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Many gays are in bed, pun intended, with feminists. I am not sure why they feel allied with and in common cause with women instead of straight men.
/r/MensRights30/03/25 11:52 PM
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I think men should be able to express themselves as they wish. That's what equality and freedom are all about. That said, I think there is a hormonal and genetic element to masculinity. As a father, I also want my son to be self reliant, strong, and independent, not be bossed around by others and expectations from others. I want him to have these masculine traits because these are traits that help men to be successful.
/r/MensRights30/03/25 11:50 PM
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Invest in yourself and your friendship with other men. Gym, friends, stuff like trivia nights, pubs, sports leagues. Camping with guys. If you are religious or spiritual you can engage in a faith community, or fraternal groups and organizations too.
/r/MensRights30/03/25 06:09 AM
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I think that the guys who never get laid are right to be angry. The women who do not invest time in how they look get to select in shape men who look good on apps. The thing is they can't date them, but they can have sexual relations with them. Men need to stop rewarding them just because the guy is horny.
/r/MensRights30/03/25 03:43 AM
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You absolutely cannot change your bone structure, BUT you can lose weight so you have more narrow hips and work out so you have a visual appearance of having broader shoulders. If you have a larger waist it only makes it look like your shoulders are even more narrow. I played sports in high school and college and I can tell you that this is something I observed in many men.
/r/MensRights30/03/25 03:40 AM
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Absolutely yes. Big "large" isn't a help. Many women do not like it, in my experience. It's a pain for me to have to always work around it when I am with a girl, no woman wants her cervix battered.
/r/MensRights30/03/25 03:39 AM
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I don't want to sound crass. I am nearly 6'3 and very big all over. I just don't think it's that simple as to say "big dick" or being tall gets you women very easily. Women don't usually work that way in my experience. I'd like to add that if you are very large it is uncomfortable for many women, if you are hitting their cervix. I can't usually go all the way and sex is less comfortable for me or for her. I was on a league with my friends and we showered together. I saw a friend of mine had what…
/r/MensRights30/03/25 03:38 AM
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"you still are clinging to the Republicans are the party of the rich, as if this is still the 1960s" The policies advocated by the Republicans certainly are the party of the rich. You think cutting taxes on the top 1% is something the party of the people would do? Republicans are genius, they get working class people to vote against their interests by using "red meat" issues like trans people, abortion, "religious liberty", and other dumb bullshit. I'm very well aware that Republican VOTERS are …
/r/MensRights26/03/25 06:09 PM
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Trump and his cabinet are not populists. They are billionaires playing dress up. This is the wealthiest cabinet in US history. Populism is supposed to mean representing the people. So why are they slashing government programs while handing out tax cuts to the ultra rich? Why are they pushing tariffs, which are basically a national sales tax that hits working people the hardest? Ellon Musk lives off government subsidies and public money. He gets treated like some genius rebel, but he takes our ta…
/r/MensRights26/03/25 02:09 AM
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We had men's rights? Really? The straight and narrow ideas of what little emotions men could display? I want equality. You think we had mens rights? When abortion was illegal? When access to contraception was difficult? When LGBT people were persecuted? When no fault divorce was prohibited? We had a different fucked up society that I also do not want. I want equality under law and in society.
/r/MensRights25/03/25 08:47 PM
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So, you're a Republican, and I didn't start in on the political stuff, whomever posted this did. I resent the implication that men's rights are aligned with the Republican party and Trump. Populism is a scourge. Good policy doesn't pander to the bigotry of the masses. If we put civil liberties up to a popular vote, guess what, we'd probably have had segregation for a lot longer than when it actually ended. We sure as hell wouldn't have gay marriage in most of the country. Diversity at work is a …
/r/MensRights25/03/25 08:45 PM
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I'm directly responding to the insinuation by the OP that men's rights is a Republican movement. I'm not a one issue voter. I'm not a Democrat OR a Republican. There are some Democrats with whom I can align with, Whitmer from Michigan is one such example. Bernie Sanders is another who I generally like. I just want to say that I think diversity at work is a good thing that makes my company stronger, as long as we start from a place of hiring for competency, which I can say where I work we certain…
/r/MensRights25/03/25 04:31 AM
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Yeah, I'm not cool with that idea. I don't have any desire to weaken environmental regulations, privatize education and cut funding for schools. I want healthcare to be affordable (probably some kind of national healthcare we can buy into if we want like Europeans have), and higher education should in public schools should be damn near tuition free if not tuition free. Billionaires should have to pay their God damn taxes. I didn't vote for Elon Musk. I don't like the idea of firing air traffic c…
/r/MensRights24/03/25 11:30 PM
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I am not a Republican or a Conservative. I'll tell you why: I believe in affordable healthcare, affordable public higher education, the idea that we should fund schools well, I like the idea of collective bargaining/unions for workers. I think teachers who do a valuable service should be paid well. I am a higher end earner, but I think the ultra rich should pay their fair share in taxes, and I'm not keen on a billionaire who is unelected slashing and burning our government. I am pro choice, beca…
/r/MensRights24/03/25 08:53 PM
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So you'd be against a draft of anyone when the US was attacked in 1941 and the world faced domination by a genocidal maniac? You have benefits from living here, you have a society you are part of, and if we are under attack by a genocidal maniac who has attacked and destroyed other nations, well, I'd say that's as good of a case as any for a draft. Either do it for both sexes or not at all.
/r/MensRights24/03/25 06:08 PM
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I'm not for a male only draft in any country. I also think this is inherently an internatonal relations - political matter in which one country was invaded by another. It's natural for people to want to defend their country. I'd say that men and women should be part of that war effort if a country is invaded.
/r/MensRights24/03/25 07:33 AM
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Of his own doing. He says absurd things to get media attention and cash from people who view him as a guru. It's one big scam. He's smart to cash in on it. It's like any of the "shock" people like Trump, or anyone else in our politics these days: say crazy shit, get lots of attention, and people are "drawn" in. Men's rights doesn't have to be any of that, and I don't associate it with any of this nonsense. No influencers or douchebags for me.
/r/MensRights24/03/25 07:30 AM
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Well, you'd think I was abusive or I couldn't pay the bills or I cheated. Nope. I'm a high earner, a professional career with an advanced degree that many would love to have, I was devoted and emotionally available. We have a son together. She cheated. The guy makes even more than me, but guess what: he dumped her because he had no respect for a woman who would do that. I'm glad to call her my ex wife. Life isn't about how much money you make or how many things you have or how many hot women you…
/r/MensRights24/03/25 07:25 AM
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We just don't know. I think women have more fluid sexuality and can express themselves sexually with other women easily. Men cannot, if we could, we could easily work around women's monopoly with sex. If only it were that easy as women have it.
/r/MensRights23/03/25 09:29 PM
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Why is this posted here? This is international politics, and has next to nothing to do with men's rights.
/r/MensRights23/03/25 07:46 PM
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Why should a fat sloppy woman be able to get a quality man on an app who takes care of himself, just because he's horny? Men need to raise standards instead of competing with one another to the degree that we are. Homosexual sex will never be an option. I'd be fine with it for "release" if I could stomach it. But most of us can't be bi like women can. The smell of a man and a guy's body is just repellant to me. I'm not conservative, I've been in a MMF one time, and it was the last time I will ev…
/r/MensRights23/03/25 06:53 PM
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Yeah, I guess it makes no sense to me because I am not a predator. I just keep thinking the boy can't even perform. But it isn't about that.
/r/MensRights23/03/25 05:17 PM
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That's what I am saying. I want to be able to control the narrative, and I am open minded, I want my son to be able to understand that shit first though.
/r/MensRights23/03/25 05:09 PM
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I never understood how some MGTOW forego ANY sex. How on earth can they get by in the world for the rest of their lives without the soft pink, ever?
/r/MensRights23/03/25 05:06 PM
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Yep. The Gender war is another tool to dominate and oppress men.
/r/MensRights23/03/25 05:04 PM
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The guys raping men in prison aren't bi or gay, often, they're just psychopath rapists who are horny. It's about power and domination, and getting blown, anything to get their nut out, when they have zero chance of getting out prison ever, often. Faced with the choice of never having sex or forcing a man to dress up like a girl and raping him, that's what many of them do. My friends used to work in a prison and he said he saw things there - how men need sexual outlets or else things become crazy…
/r/MensRights23/03/25 05:02 PM
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Well, you're right that we have 10-20x more testosterone, so things are different. We have upended the natural order of things by going from a state which is natural: having women bring to the table their strengths (femininity, being pretty, being able to provide us with children), to NOW letting women have power and gate keep over us with sex. We have even let trans women join in on the fun, anything but letting a straight, healthy, normal man use his traits and skill sets to be accomplished an…
/r/MensRights23/03/25 04:59 PM
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Exactly. Transmania. If you're a man who wants to chop off his balls and run around angry and demanding everyone call you by your pronoun of choice, you are celebrated. If you're a straight male who needs sex with women, you're a subject of ridicule.
/r/MensRights23/03/25 04:55 PM
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I am curious, are you proposing that men's sexuality is going to change to be more like women where we are encouraged to be open to sex with each other?
/r/MensRights23/03/25 04:51 PM
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Hm, well, as someone who is just under 6'3" and works in a similar field, I guess I didn't make the cut!
/r/MensRights23/03/25 04:50 PM
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There is a monopoly on sex that women have and it needs to be broken.
/r/MensRights23/03/25 04:47 PM
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It has everything to do with what we are talking about. Women have fluid take on sexuality and gender identity more than men, take a look at the stats. I think boys are now targetted in an effort to push them to also be fluid. I think pushing gender stuff onto little kids is a bad idea. I live in a blue state, and in an ultra liberal city at that. That's what happened to my 1st grade son. He came home upset and confused about his teacher providing a lesson about gender, and asking the kids what …
/r/MensRights23/03/25 04:43 PM
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My son came home from 1st grade asking me about gender, his teacher was educating them on gender vs sex and gender identity. He was upset and said "I like being a boy, I don't want to be a girl". I had to explain things to him. There is a right age to start educating kids about that, and 1st grade isn't it. I live in a liberal area in a liberal state.
/r/MensRights23/03/25 04:41 PM
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Yeah, but if that holds true for women, then is this what's next for men? Our sexuality is very binary. Are we going to push women's sexual fluidity onto boys now in our culture?
/r/MensRights23/03/25 04:39 PM
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I'm for equality, people should be free to do what they want and enjoy the same rights. I have an issue though pushing it into schools on young kids, which is happening now.
/r/MensRights23/03/25 06:45 AM
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I can't speak about mining. I can tell you that the allegations that air controllers who were alleged to be "diversity hires" are not causing plane crashes. I think the entire notion is absurd. I think it's necessary to find competent, skilled employees, and diversity is something that is a VALUE ADD for sure. I have no aversion from the word, I think it's not great to have an entirely homogeneous work force. You want it to reflect the society we are in as much as we can, again, with a focus on …
/r/MensRights23/03/25 06:43 AM
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Like the vast majority here I support equality for lgbt people, who are actually born that way. There is no way 20% of men are actually gay or bi. I think it's a few percent at most. 20% would mean one out of every 5 dudes.
/r/MensRights23/03/25 06:40 AM
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I think gay guys have less hangups about sex just for sex sake, outright, on the table. Because they are men, and just straight to the point. However, like women, they can EASILY get laid, but they cannot easily get a relationship. My friend told me that there is a "hierarchy" in their subculture. Masculine, white, big dicks, who are dominant tops in the bedroom, "straight passing", (to them this means guys who act like us / no lisping and fem voice, not necessarily ultra masculine) are on top o…
/r/MensRights23/03/25 02:09 AM
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So you're saying they are more prone to be bisexuals than we are? No straight man I know is aroused by naked men, at least I am not. I associate naked men with a locker room, the smell of sweat and bar soap. Not hot. Aren't most people wired to be heterosexual for procreation purposes of our species? "It's a sad reality but women don't desire us as much as gay and bisexual men do." I appreciate it, but it's unwanted. I think that heterosexual men are a "premium" for many gay guys. My gay friend …
/r/MensRights23/03/25 01:31 AM
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Exactly. These are videos of scrawny guys mostly in their underwear just standing around. Why would anyone even WANT to see this? I am a straight guy, but am I missing something here?
/r/MensRights23/03/25 01:29 AM
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Not defending military conscription here. Just about MY experience: I did enlist in the military, and I was young, and yes, people stood around, nurses and doctors men and women, as I was naked, we all were. I didn't much care. These guys are clothed, I'm just confused as to what is lewd here or why anyone would even want to see any of this? You can see guys on hulu in less clothing.
/r/MensRights23/03/25 01:27 AM
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Ok, well, that's definitely odd to me. I did click through some of it, and I don't get why anyone would want to watch this. Can you help me to understand why anyone would want to see this? I guess Russia makes 16-17 year olds take an exam before they turn 18. That makes little sense to me. How could anyone get off to this? They're scrawny guys in boxers and shirtless. You can see more nudity on hulu or netflix. There's nothing to be "humiliated" about here. They aren't even remotely naked. Hm, I…
/r/MensRights23/03/25 12:15 AM
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20% are not straight now? That's not possible. Are men there going to be 20% gay next?
/r/MensRights23/03/25 12:12 AM
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Nope, I'm straight. Not interested in viewing all 20 clips of men standing around in MEPS. I can tell you we stood there completely naked, and that is pretty much the experience of everyone else I know. After reading your comment I did view two clips, I saw no genitalia, and I can say these guys have much bigger concerns than having their shirt off and being on youtube. I did a cursory glance at the rest: no nudity that I could identify. You're outraged by this? Have you ever served in the milit…
/r/MensRights22/03/25 09:57 PM
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That's a difficult situation. We opted for marriage prior to having kids because it made sense from a legal standpoint. I don't think I would do it otherwise. I'm fortunate that we have both opted to have a positive amicable relationship for our kid.
/r/MensRights22/03/25 09:24 PM
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I am sick of the proponents of people like Tate and even Ben Shapiro. I don't need influencers out for a buck telling me what I should think or how I should live. These people say things to be shocking so they can make cash: then they become a punching bag as a stand in for me by critics. I don't need them to speak for me, and I don't like them.
/r/MensRights22/03/25 06:28 PM
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Not necessary. Get a good lawyer and a divorce and have a civil amicable relationship with your ex, that's what we did. I still have a relationship with my son. I never trash talk his mother in front of my son. I maintain a positive friendly relationship with her for the sake of my son. Nevermind that she cheated on me, despite having a great life with me.
/r/MensRights22/03/25 06:22 PM
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I do not have many opinions about the guy, other than to say he is out to make money. I don't listen to any influencer, and I really think his whole shtick is a big act for cash.
/r/MensRights22/03/25 04:35 AM
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I couldn't care less about Tate, just putting that out there. I think all those "influencers" are out to make a quick buck, him included. I refuse to listen to any of that nonsense, I can form my opinions without any influencer helping me along.
/r/MensRights22/03/25 04:34 AM
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I want to ask this sub an honest question, because I don't know what to think about my own situation: As 12 year old, nearly 13 year old, an adult woman had sex with me. I did not seek it out, but I went along with it and I enjoyed it. I do not feel like I was raped or molested, but I do think it was a violation on many levels, since no one should do that. Is this ok for me to think this? I just want to say in my specific case this was my experience. I do not want to downplay victims of sexual a…
/r/MensRights22/03/25 02:00 AM
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There are several important issues at play here: Legal Age of Consent: Laws require a defined age of consent, which in most parts of our society falls between 16 and 18. Power Dynamics and Legality: Even if a minor is above the age of consent, it’s typically illegal for someone in a position of authority: like a teacher, priest, or counselor, to engage in a sexual relationship with them. For example, an 18 y/o student in a state where the age of consent is 16 may still be legally protected from …
/r/MensRights22/03/25 01:55 AM
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I'm all for equality and people being able to do their own thing, but I am upset at what seems like some weird gender war against men and masculinity. Do they want boys to be like girls? Do they want men to be androgynous? I don't understand it.
/r/MensRights22/03/25 12:59 AM
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I have a son, and I refuse to let anyone tell him being a man, or nurturing traditionally male values is bad. Athleticism, competition, and mastery of skills are valuable and I will not ruin my son's life due to feminism.
/r/MensRights22/03/25 12:54 AM
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7!? I don't get it. I mean any minor makes no sense. What could she even be sucking? A woman who does that stuff has to be an insane freak.
/r/MensRights22/03/25 12:20 AM
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I do not give a shit if people at work have minority groups. That's a good thing if they want to have a black or gay organization. I have zero problem with that. Corporations really just want to make cash. They don't have value systems that motivate that desire usually. They're in it for the bottom line buddy. Look how fast they changed when they got pressure from the white house. I agree. Tate and Rogan and the like are all in it for one thing: money. I have no space for influencers in my life.…
/r/MensRights22/03/25 12:17 AM
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This is interesting. A subculture within a subculture. I had no idea. Makes sense that you are breakaway from the mainstream gays. I only know "mainstream gay" subculture through guys I know. They do "circuit parties" and the guys look very muscular and appearance focused. It seems like a sad pathetic life where they are trapped being 16-18 forever. He said they have pool parties and the rich guys who are muscular and look great are nasty as fuck to guys "beneath" them. It sounds just awful.
/r/MensRights22/03/25 12:15 AM
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Well, it looks objectively not appealing. Just looking at those big guy asses is not hot remotely.
/r/MensRights21/03/25 05:15 AM
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This woman is derranged. Seems like 15 year old boys are targetted. At 15 I would have nut in seconds. What does she even get out of this? This is so messed up. She actually got a GROUP of boys to be naked around one another and fck her? How did these boys even do it, poor kids. Wtf?
/r/MensRights20/03/25 10:23 PM
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Well, you deserve to be treated the same as everyone else regardless of any of that. I'd love to know from the very feminine guys or the guys with the "gay voice" why it's that way. Is it due to lack of male rolemodels? I've met gay men who "pass" completely as heterosexual if they wanted, and I wonder why there is a difference there. Who knows. I am just curious to hear the input from a gay guy.
/r/MensRights20/03/25 08:05 PM
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Again, what does she get out of a boy who nuts in 4 seconds, who doesn't know jack shit about how to be with a woman? It's messed up that she could have a regular adult man and opts to molest a boy.
/r/MensRights20/03/25 08:00 PM
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If you claim it is a genetic situtaion as to why some prefer to be bottoms: biology only dictates that which is an evolutionary advantage. Biological preferences only exist for that reason. Speaking as a straight guy, there is just social factors and exposure that make me prefer aspects of a woman vs other aspects. Environmental preferences exist because of socialization. I think the reason most prefer to be bottoms must be rooted in SOCIALIZATION and ENVIRONMENTAL factors, nothing genetic.
/r/MensRights20/03/25 07:05 PM
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My gay friend said it's a competition for those 20% tops. The most elite are the masculine "straight acting" tops who are in shape and white, with big clocks. That part makes sense to me. Kinda bums me out to hear that gay guys aren't supportive of one another. Biology? I think our sexual orientation is a complex weaving of biology and environmental factors, so complex it's hard to determine. For some it might be more of one than the other. I do not think there is any way we can justify stating …
/r/MensRights20/03/25 06:55 PM
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Can you explain WHY this is? I would have thought it would be more guys wanting to be tops because of the (sometimes) pain and difficulty of being a bottom?
/r/MensRights20/03/25 06:48 PM
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Maybe I am dumb, but why would anyone, ever find guys shaking their ass attractive? That looks repellant, about the least "masculine" looking nonsense ever.
/r/MensRights20/03/25 05:54 PM
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Influencers? I can’t stand any of them. It’s a ridiculous trend catering to people who need to be told what to think and how to live. Tate, like the rest of them, is just putting on a show and cashing in. It’s all an act. I don’t understand why anyone needs figures like Rogan or Tate. I don’t know the details of what Tate is accused of or how credible the allegations are, but I have heard his nonsense about being an “alpha” and all that garbage: not for me. The more outrageous their statements, …
/r/MensRights20/03/25 05:53 PM
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What a freak. Why would she want a 15 year old boy? What could she even get out of that? The poor kid. At 15 I would have nut in seconds, what a freak of a woman. I know it isn't about looks, but why would a woman who looks good like she does NEED THAT? But it's about power. Messed up.
/r/MensRights20/03/25 05:50 PM
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I do not like being around them and I'm not gay. They give me the creeps and I think they're mean usually and bitchy like women are. Something seems off about them almost always. I don't trust them anymore than a bitchy woman.
/r/MensRights20/03/25 05:36 PM
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May I know, why are tops a small number? Shouldn't it be 50-50 roughly? I've never thought of this.
/r/MensRights20/03/25 05:34 PM
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I think there is a difference, men are socialized and there may be some evolutionary reality to this: we compete with one another and have the need to master things. "top tier" gays I have met are brutal to the men below them in a way that straight guys just aren't. Like women when they are younger they have pool parties where they compare one another. While I have never been to such events, I HAVE witnessed them tear each other down. This is my anecdotal observation. I feel badly for the guys w…
/r/MensRights20/03/25 05:34 PM
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I have been hit on by many gays and I just take it as a compliment and move on. I don't appreciate anyone who doesn't respect boundaries and pushes the envelope. When I was younger and on hookup apps I would get angry with guys who didn't respect that I was clearly looking for a woman and would message me with lewd stuff. My gay friend asked to see my pics and said I was asking for it since I had a shirtless pic. He explained it in a way that made sense: that gay guys are attracted to straight g…
/r/MensRights20/03/25 05:16 PM
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I used to think they were brotherly and supportive of one another. My gay friend told me it is very cut throat, and guys who are out of shape, etc are excluded. He stated that there is a hierarchy in their subculture. The effeminate guys are at the bottom of the pack. Sadly my gay friend said they have racial hierarchy as well, and asians are at the bottom. I think they have it hard.
/r/MensRights20/03/25 05:14 PM
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I support equality. I think bisexual men who date women only face little to no discrimination. Is that the case? The effeminate gays I have met are ofen as bitchy as some women, if not worse. I don't like being around them, something feels wrong about the interaction in my gut. I feel like they are acting and I don't like the act they are putting on. The masculine gays don't bother me one bit and I count a few as my acquaintances and friends.
/r/MensRights20/03/25 05:12 PM
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I was in pre-DADT repeal and discharged after. It was casual scorn, an like you said: a lot of exclusion, and it varied by unit for sure. People used to talk shit about them casually and I never joined in. I can only imagine how gay infantrymen had it. I have heard stories of gays having major issues but I never saw it with my own eyes. It was messed up we couldn't even aknowledge their presence and they had to lie outright. I have talked to guys I knew from that time and most aknowledge it was …
/r/MensRights20/03/25 05:08 PM
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Well, in another bid to make men feel terrible they do use prosthetics to show HUGE members that few men have.
/r/MensRights20/03/25 05:21 AM
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If they're gonna show dick then they better spread the women's legs out I guess. There's no reason to show a naked man, it borders on soft core porn and I don't get why it's necessary for the plot.
/r/MensRights20/03/25 05:20 AM
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Apparently not, cuz it's not in business anymore. Don't need that drek around.
/r/MensRights20/03/25 05:17 AM
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A LOT of these men are doing just that, prosthetics to appear bigger. Setting up unrealistic expectations for men. I also don't want to see that. It's repulsive to need to see a dick when watching a show. Cut it out Hollywood. I see enough of them in the locker room, and I don't even want that.
/r/MensRights19/03/25 11:31 PM
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Who TF would ever buy that? A guy spread eagle on a magazine is rather disgusting. Just unappealing to MOST anyone. Who wants to see that?
/r/MensRights19/03/25 11:28 PM
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Gotta say I didn't want to see Patrick Shwarzzenegger's clock. Glad some people find that hot, I found him sporting his body around and ass a distraction and unwanted by me. When I saw him walking around with the ass and dick shots I could almost smell that repulsive smell from the locker room. Not something I want. Not the equivalent of side boob or full frontal shirtless for a woman.
/r/MensRights19/03/25 11:26 PM
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Naw, I never thought that. I am not sensitive. I'm also straight, and I didn't even think about them twice back then. They were the subject of scorn and derision tbh.
/r/MensRights19/03/25 11:23 PM
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I have a friend who is gay, and yes, he stated it was very awkward for him because he was into many of the men, but also felt paranoid because guys in the military do a lot of "playful" funny "teasing" touching, humping etc that is kinda gay. They were wiser to keep their eyes down at the ground and maybe catch icidental glances, I think they knew what a specific situation it was and to be discrete, it's just not worth it for them to step out of line. If people knew the entire mood would switch …
/r/MensRights19/03/25 09:41 PM
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I was in the military and I can corroborate that this was common place. Your boundaries in the military are very low with regards to your body and being touched, it's not a "normal" environment, you get over all body issues quickly because you have to. That's part of the "bonding" BS they force onto you in training etc. I still remember a guy watching me piss regularly for drug tests. Staring right at your clock. It was very casual and regular to use a toilet for #2 with guys walking around and …
/r/MensRights19/03/25 08:16 PM
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Gays being persecuted is a problem. As a straight guy I had many guy friends who viewed them with contempt and disgust growing up. These days people are more open minded, but I think effeminate gays have a harder time than the ones who can easily present as straight men.
/r/MensRights19/03/25 08:14 PM
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Gays who are able to present as "masculine" have advantages over the ones who present as effeminate.
/r/MensRights19/03/25 08:13 PM
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I believe because some people view feminine and gay men with disgust for violating "rules" around our masculinity.
/r/MensRights19/03/25 08:11 PM
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Same in Eastern Europe. Same anywhere but the Western world really.
/r/MensRights19/03/25 08:10 PM
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I sure do see people objectifying men, and it isn't just gay men doing it now, women do too.
/r/MensRights18/03/25 11:28 PM
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Gen X bad history? Gen X wasn't a reactionary conservative generation. I'm a millenial. My older sibling is an Xennial. The Xs I know are fairly similar to millenials.
/r/MensRights18/03/25 01:40 AM
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I'm really glad you said far right AND far left. Exactly. Many on this sub are Trumpy and promote him and his agenda as our salvation. Not for me. I want the path towards equality and fairness. For me that path doesn't wind through the nonsense Trump does, taking over Canada, Greenland, (wtf to both). the anti LGBT stuff, the anti abortion bs, the proud boys and other drama attention seekers in his admin. I am not signing up for that insane bs.
/r/MensRights18/03/25 01:39 AM
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No one should be treated unfairly. Men or women. Why isn't that common sense? Everyone should be treated with dignity and have equal rights under law. The whole point of feminism, in my view, should be about equality, not "revenge". I hate the "competition" view of relations between men and women. Very unhealthy and in my view just illogical. We are all in this together in society, we need to encourage opportunities for every member of society. Why is this complicated, I don't get it.
/r/MensRights17/03/25 09:22 PM
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I'm in that category. I'm a high earning, highly educated guy. I married one such woman, and we had a kid together. She cheated and, well, I've moved on but the damage caused by that is lasting as it affects our son. I am civil, but use this as a warning: be careful who you marry. Make sure you do it for the right reasons. Money should be the absolute last one.
/r/MensRights17/03/25 09:15 PM
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I also have a successful career and I am in a higher income category. I have a few questions for you, namely, what are your relationships like with others? Sometimes people get so invested in the educational attainment and career, as I did, they forget about the other things. I'm fortunate to be tall and generally athletic, but I don't think this was a fix all. My wife left me abruptly, for no reason, for a guy with more money. Currently battling it out, and would not care much if it weren't for…
/r/MensRights17/03/25 09:13 PM
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A guy who walks around thinking of life as a game isn't pleasant to be around. Yes, if you have billions of dollars that fact will outweigh any other, but do you want a woman who only wants you for your money? I'm not a billionaire, but I've been with a woman who wanted me for my money, and it isn't pleasant. Social Darwinism as posited by some of it's proponents is just bad science dressed up as a justification for inequality. Social darwinism is intertwined with eugenics and that messed up rac…
/r/MensRights17/03/25 05:20 PM
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What on earth is there to downvote bud? The "alpha male" gurus online are conning people, and laughing all the way to the bank for their shtick. Focus on making yourself a better person, for you. Confidence will come from within when you get the education you need to be successful and you work out to stay healthy, for you. People find it appealing that a person is not groveling for attention, and that they're working on themselves and are driven to accomplish a greater goal.
/r/MensRights17/03/25 12:46 AM
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I would agree with this. Exactly.
/r/MensRights17/03/25 12:44 AM
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When it comes to casual encounters women do have all the leverage, it is a dog eat dog world in that regard and higher status, taller guys have an advantage against lower status/income/educational attainment, shorter guys. Typically. This is to add that there are many factors, especially if you are interested in a relationship that matter a great deal. Your personality for instance. Do you show an interest in your partner's life, are you a good listener? Are you caring? Other important factors: …
/r/MensRights17/03/25 12:42 AM
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There are different forms of feminism. I support real equality in work, based on a person's performance. I support women being equal under law just as anyone else should be. This is not offensive or wrong, it's right. I think it starts to get weird when we speak about power relationships intersectionality and all that. Women have a place, as does anyone else, across the table from me in the board room if they worked hard and belong. Their sex should not matter one iota.
/r/MensRights16/03/25 10:07 PM
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