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| 5 | Can men just not be loved for who they actually are?Wow, who would’ve thought you have to be likable and fun to be wanted? You’re not entitled to a girlfriend for existing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/24 10:17 PM |
| 1 | CMV - if you don’t have a strong social circle, you have no right to complain about the dating market being unfairIm average and do not have much trouble at all. I just took a look at your profile and you’re a good looking dude. I feel like it has to do more with socialization and putting yourself out there, being charismatic etc. than anything | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/23 11:11 AM |
| 5 | CMV - if you don’t have a strong social circle, you have no right to complain about the dating market being unfairI was a shut in until I was around 17 years old. Terminal gamer type, super nerdy. Decided to try to better myself and my social skills and it’s worked wonderfully. This is just an insane cope for not putting in the work. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/23 12:34 AM |
| 4 | CMV - if you don’t have a strong social circle, you have no right to complain about the dating market being unfairYes, saying that having a social circle increases your chances at dating is a “far right neo Nazi talking point”. Listen to yourself. Please get help, i don’t know how you can be this deluded | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/23 12:32 AM |
| 4 | CMV - if you don’t have a strong social circle, you have no right to complain about the dating market being unfairOh my god the people in here trying to refute this lmao. There are so many too far gone losers on here it’s insane. So many entitled people who think that they deserve a girlfriend for existing, while having NO social prospects. Holy shit | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/23 09:26 PM |
| 1 | Anyone here regularly visit sex workers?And im saying that it’s okay to be a loser, as long as you’re not complaining about your dating life. Which it seems you are | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/23 07:37 PM |
| 1 | Anyone here regularly visit sex workers?If you refer to yourself as a loser, im assuming that you’re probably unhappy with your life. Doing all of those things will increase your happiness tenfold. (Obviously be confident is easier said than done though). And im not saying there’s anything wrong with staying in all of the time, as long as you’re happy. It becomes a problem when you’re constantly exhibiting antisocial behaviors and expect to get a girlfriend with doing no work on yourself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/23 06:48 PM |
| 1 | Anyone here regularly visit sex workers?If you have the self awareness to call yourself a loser, you have the ability to not be a loser. But yeah i understand that sentiment for sure though. As long as you’re acknowledging you’re a freak | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/23 06:22 PM |
| 0 | Anyone here regularly visit sex workers?If you ever even think about seeing a prostitute you’re a huge loser | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/23 07:08 PM |
| 8 | Jobs that are dealbreakers (for me )...what about you?As a guy I don’t care unless you’re doing like sex work or activism | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/23 08:08 PM |
| 0 | What's up with certain girls who pull away when you start being nice to them. But then when you give up and ignore them they turn all affectionate and lovey. What is going on in their head? How do I make sense of this?Men who fit the criteria for BPD are often diagnosed as Narcisstic personality disorder instead, because it’s often seen as a female mental illness. I’m a man with BPD | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/23 01:06 AM |
| 1 | What's up with certain girls who pull away when you start being nice to them. But then when you give up and ignore them they turn all affectionate and lovey. What is going on in their head? How do I make sense of this?I’m a man who does this. Truthfully, I’m not exactly sure why I’m like this. I think I like the thrill of the chase more than the actual act of sex / beginnings of a relationship etc. oh yeah also I’m BPD | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/23 01:03 AM |
| – | Nightclubs are not the right place to meet womenFinally some great insight in this thread | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/23 11:58 PM |
| – | Nightclubs are not the right place to meet womenCould you play the victim any more than you already are? Maybe you can’t get women becuase of your horrible attitude | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/23 10:25 PM |
| 7 | It’s male projection that women will at least EVENTUALLY want to settle down with an Average Adam eventually. No relationship IS better than a bad or monotonous relationship, this cannot be stressed enoughI love this subreddit because you’ll have actual women being like “Well, that’s not true” and then a man will be like “WELL IT IS YOURE LYING” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/22 06:53 PM |
| 5 | The idea that women could possibly want tall men is preposterous. It’s only important that men are taller than they are.One of the best feelings in the world and i tower over my gf | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/22 08:33 PM |
| 5 | We are living in a sexual dystopiano it’s the exact same concept for both sexes. burn more calories than you eat = weight loss | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/21 08:36 PM |
| 3 | Do you feel burdened by the protector/provider gender role and the social expectation to embody it?As a guy I kind of like it. Makes me feel more manly. I can see why a lot of guys don’t like it though. I think it’s stupid that it’s a societal expectation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/21 08:36 PM |
| 33 | Women are the biggest body shamers of womenyou need to stop watching so much porn if you think the average woman is doing that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/21 11:06 PM |
| 4 | Why do so many men lust after the "goth" aesthetic/lifestyle?as a guy who has always been into “art hoes” and “goth girls” (my current girlfriend falls into both categories), i think it has mostly to do with the fact that it signifies that we most likely have similar interests. normally into underground music and likes to do lots of drugs, has a carefree attitude etc, normally artistic in some way. but also the aesthetic is just hot as fuck to me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/21 05:02 PM |
| 2 | On a scale of 1-10 how proud of yourself/happy do you feel if your wife/gf is hotter than another man's wife/gf?3 i guess. it doesn’t really matter to me that much but i’ve always struggled with self image and self esteem issues so seeing that my gf is more attractive than my friend’s girlfriends makes me feel pretty good. it makes me feel less worthless and realize that i am in fact not ugly | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/21 12:41 AM |
| 2 | [Q4M] Would you move to a foreign country to date women that are more (positively) receptive to you?imagine moving across the world and changing your whole life because you have trouble getting girls LMAO | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/21 12:16 AM |
| 3 | How would you describe your appetite for sex?Male. I’m a type 2 bipolar, I have virtually no sex drive at all when I am in a depression episode. I’ll go around 2-3 days without masturbating, and the only reason why I will masturbate during these episodes is because I’m bored and want a serotonin rush. Never do I get really get “horny” during these episodes, masturbation is simply “something to do” for me. I’ve turned down sex / going over to a woman’s place numerous times during these episodes, partially because of anxiety and self image i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/21 09:04 PM |
| 1 | How would you describe your appetite for sex?gotta get that post nut clarity | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/21 08:51 PM |
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