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Yeah that's been my experience too when girls have asked me out. They don't say anything about covering. Earlier, I just ended up offering to cover it coz it just felt too weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/26 01:53 AM

Yeah we talked. It was just her natural libido after the "honeymoon phase". She was happy with that and i didn't like orally asking for sex. Mostly I just start kissing and touching and expect my partner to reciprocate.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/26 01:08 AM

Some women I have been in relationship with do have a similar attitude towards sex based on what benefits them. One of my exes had a low libido after the first few months and I told her we weren't going to work. She threw a fit saying I am sex obsessed and all the shill of sex being separate from love. For wanting my gf to want to have sex with me more than once a week. So I asked her for a one way open relationship (a joke), and then gaslighted her using her sex isn't love logic. She couldn't s…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/26 05:49 PM

I once tried something similar. Convinced a girl to play badminton as a date, she was just so bad that by the end I wanted to throw the rackquet at her. She enjoyed it though
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/26 07:49 AM

All we know about bear is that he's a wimp. We don't even get a background like bullyibg Or something. Jean is shown as a kid who's sister got kidnapped in front of her and later killed. People are obviously gonna sympatjize with her more. Also rape is considered worse than murder morally for most of the people.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 02:25 PM
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I read that in a OH MY GOSH tone.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 04:50 PM
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I feel weird reading that. But Yeah , cyborg is there in "teen Titans GO".
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 04:03 PM
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Women ☕ /s Cyborg has parts of his body replaced by futuristic machinery whereas iron man has an external advanced armor that he can wear and take off. I feel like the latter is gay.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 03:56 PM
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I like cyborg better than iron man.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 03:50 PM
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Blaming them is the way to go, it's not like the abuser is gonna change.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 01:39 PM
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Why is everyone focused on phalluses? Taking Extreme ends a 10" phallus is 2.5 times a 4" one. And less than twice to that of an average sized one. But your hand can at max vibrate at 10 Hz compared to the cheapest of vibrators that easily reach 250 Hz. If I ever lose a finger or hand I am going to get that functionality.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 09:48 AM

I know what works for me and I only need to understand what how one woman thinks, it's pretty easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 02:17 AM
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Perhaps you look too approachable and nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 11:48 PM
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It was a dude who came up with the concept of a bikini
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 11:37 PM
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Well this is not going to go anywhere. Have a good day.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 06:38 PM
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Asking for dutch dates on apps cut my monthly matches by about half back then but raised the quality(atleast financially responsible and self-sufficienct) , it was a good thing to do. They were also less neurotic. I think some women do get an ick or get insecure when you don't pay which is very immature so by filtering them out you are meeting better women who have actually grown up. You are free to do that so I don't see an issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 06:13 PM
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Yeah, I think if you have kids you should take into account your wife's libido may tank, you shouldn't be having kids otherwise. He definitely owes her couple's therapy atleast. She shares fault too as sex is an important part of relationship but it's scummy of him.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 05:08 PM
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Well that's not an answer to my question. Unless you are going to answer you should ignore this.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 05:03 PM
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I'm afraid you would have to explain that. And also please answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 04:20 PM

Yeah, it's obviously hypocritical but my gf knows so who cares.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 02:24 PM

My count is pretty up and I've even fucked prostitutes so I'm not speaking from a "higher moral ground" but I did filter out women I was seeing casually based on their number and length of relationships. I don't think it's an insecurity but I do have some visceral disgust at the thought of marrying a "whore". And since my late college years I had heard that women who view sex as a more intimate thing make better partners and it has alligned with my experiences. I don't need to confront why I fee…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 02:21 PM

No need to deal with unless u're out of options.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 01:48 PM
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You think a dick is enough to determine one's gender?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 01:47 PM
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Yeah, I should've done that. I did try to think of being attracted to a man and just can't. I think the latter two paragraphs would still hold though.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 01:46 PM
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5'5 to 5'8, BMI<22, atleast B cup chest, shouldn't have dick, above shoulder length hair, hourglass shape. Kind, cute, smart, funny. Annual atleast 80k.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 12:23 PM
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*semen
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 06:01 AM
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A stupid bitch. What else would it be?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/26 10:48 AM

People who feel used after sex aren't mature enough to be having sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/26 10:40 AM
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"What if men weren't men?"
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/26 05:55 PM

What you are describing isn't consent. People have different reactions to same behavior/action from different people. That's just reality, accept that. A pretty girl asking me for help would not annoy me while a landwhale asking me would. Same with butting in in a conversatioconversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/26 11:15 AM
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I don't need to, she knows it
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/26 05:31 AM
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:/
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/26 03:19 AM
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Hmm
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 12:21 PM
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Stop having a complex about it. Use any way possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 12:13 PM
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Do you count escorts in your tally??
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 12:10 PM
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Agree with this, I got mad easily at people for changing things like this. Now I just get annoyed.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 02:14 AM
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BEsT cOMiCs, atleast they're laughing, you can do what you're doing
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 04:49 PM
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People on internet get offended too easily. ~CopingAlive, An hour ago
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 03:39 PM
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That's cool then.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 03:29 PM
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Meh, we punch down on lots of demographics that are the "down".
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 03:26 PM
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We joke about killing all the time, even genocide, I have the same reaction to SA jokes if they are funny, this one I haven't heard but it's fox News so it's likely not funny. But nothing to get offended over.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 02:31 PM
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Because the objective proof of rape is mostly same as a consensual sexual encounter. And if you go to grant more leniency of proof than current setup that people would start using this for exotortion.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 02:14 PM
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People on internet get offended too easily. What a surprise that isolated shut ins have no sense of humor unlike people who touch grass?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 02:01 PM
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I would never get in relationship in a sex worker but I've used escort services. So I can't disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 01:25 PM
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It is a real problem dude but she should be thrown in jail either way so who cares
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 01:23 PM
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She looks weird. Good for them though.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 01:13 PM

It's ok, not all things are meant to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 05:55 PM

What you typed Read that
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 05:51 PM

trained response reinforced through personal encounters. Just enjoy the bigger personal space.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 05:41 PM
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And I thought I had it good. I have only ever had one chick agree on a badminton first date with me. She had fun but she was so shit I got annoyed, never asked again.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 05:14 PM
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Meh, some women did insist on paying their share, I let coz why not and we dated after that, not a great sample size though. Different dudes behave differently. Also I agreed on a dutch date in advance so we were clear, paying for the meal wasn't a confirmation of my likeness rather an affirmation. It's not like things with other women just ended if it didn't work out on first date, they were lower in percentage though at being something worthwhile.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 03:55 PM
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I used to pay when I enjoyed the date. That's the pretty clear from my above comment. It not completely benovelent either, in almost none of my dates that ended this way would the lady not like that I payed, women just like that, atleast most of them, so it gets me more positive points if you may say. Aren’t you just saying that you’ll pay only if you like the woman? It's a stupid question. Why would I enjoy a date with a woman I don't like. It's similar to asking if you'd enjoy intimacy with so…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 03:25 PM
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You avoided the main point, another time
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 02:29 PM
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I didn't cross certain streets in my kid years at nights? I shouldn't have had to do that but it's smart and not worth having something bd happen to me. Also not all women live in your state or country. And not all women of your state would be comfortable killing something even if he has done something wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 02:25 PM
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By wasting his time, who wants McDonald's anyway, it's shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 02:21 PM
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Two adult meals is 11$ , it's not that far considering it's unhealthy and adds 200$ to your future medical expenses.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 02:20 PM
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There are different types of abusers. Some men view sex as a trade between money and sex, obviously it's bad but it's justified in their heads and once their side of the trade is complete that is paying for a date they'd see nothing wrong with forcing her in other ways. If there's even a quarter of a chance that the dude won't come after her if she pays for her meal why won't she do it? What's your opinion on women avoiding smiling at men coz they take it as a signal? Same shit except she experi…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 02:18 PM
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Are you a dude larping? If a man feels entitled to sex, why would you assume he can't be more dangerous? Maybe a woman could explain it better. Also I didn't say just guilt trip, maybe he goes much far and tries to justify it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 02:07 PM
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Because enough men (bad actors) o try to guilt trip owomen into being used for their money, or use it as a pretext to justify their entitlement to sex. If the women has come across them then maybe she learns that 15$ are not worth cost to a man trying to do that. And it works, because those men are probably only using that way to take advantage.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 01:57 PM
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Obviously. And Dates have never meant entitlement to sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 01:44 PM
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Skill issue Get them to pay for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 01:41 PM
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The precedent of sex as a entitlement has been marriage, not dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 01:37 PM
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$30 dollars Are you having a date at McDonald's??
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 01:30 PM
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Idk dude, I mostly did dutch dates to assert that both our time is equally important. Then if the date was going well I would "forget" we had that talk, if it wasn't then well good.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 01:29 PM
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"Then" before the second "you"
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 01:26 PM
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What are the other reasons given?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 12:36 PM
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There's a good chance. Women face much more risk typically by having sex with a stranger. So if you are a stranger and are hooking up then either she's horny or you are attractive and tickling her buttons (also getting her horny). In the latter case she's ignoring the risk, they assesit's a risk worth taking if you're hot enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 12:30 PM
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Because something is wrong with people who can't find a relationship. Man or Woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 11:46 AM
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Doesn't change the fact that it's being bastardized. The comic writer who created scarlet witch would've committed suicide on seeing her attire in multiverseofmadness
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 11:41 AM
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The source material is being bastardized, the reverse would be a great thunberg stripping
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 11:38 AM
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I see you are not aware of the comics
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 11:34 AM
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I need context
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 11:32 AM
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Reading nieche opinions <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 08:49 AM
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It's cool and also thanks. Have a good sleep.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/26 04:51 AM
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I was just confirming if what I said was a decent enough point to make a post, you didn't really said say something negative about men who want paternity tests or insulted them in your original comment that I replied to, so I thought I would probably get a good faith response.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/26 04:48 AM
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that's logical, But personally do you think the issues are comparable? Do you think the women who insist on separate accounts which is the advice they receive from literally everyone about relationships with men isn't comparable to paternity tests as a person?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/26 04:38 AM
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Can you apply the same standards to separate accounts for other couples as you do for a paternity test? I understand that women can get trapped in abusive relationships, people can change in negative ways even if they weren't like that initially. So, I have no problems if my wife keeps some a separate account in the minor possibility that something bad happens due to me turning out to be abusive. After all you can never be a 100% sure about someone else. I am not offended, it's just a thing that…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/26 04:33 AM
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Do you have separate bank accounts in addition to joint one?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/26 04:17 AM
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On this sub, claims and all, multiple discussions, can't find them, I just heard them here
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 07:45 PM
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Meh, I don't believe in what he's saying. I just understand what he was saying. A job is not comparanle to dating. Though you were asking a explanation but it seems rather not. It's cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 07:45 PM
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I need money to buy a car to go too and fro from work. I buy it on credit. The job doesn't pay well enough and the car also gets repoed. Essentially a loss.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 07:36 PM
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I was just explaining his analogy, I don't see how that relates to the boy who posted this
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 07:33 PM
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He essentially gets in debt from just being penniless
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 07:30 PM
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U r no fun
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 07:00 PM
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He might be intimidating the girls into rejecting him, they feel inferior and know a superior female is the who deserves him so they back off.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 06:56 PM
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I heard it all here, but 1 date out of 1200 chats kind of confirms that, I mean he would atleast be used for some foodie calls. It's not a blame, he might just be autistic or maladjusted.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 06:55 PM
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I prefer after showers at all times
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 06:48 PM
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Bald average dude who likes fishing and has bad convo skills and doesn't want a girl who's not into fishing and has a bad profile with photos of shirt with graphic sit on my face. Who only scored one date ot of 2 million and 1200 got to chats. That's all i have heard here.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 06:47 PM
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Bald average dude who likes fishing and has bad convo skills and doesn't want a girl who's not into sihing and has a bad profile with photos of shirt with graphic sit on my face. Who only scored one date ot of 2 million and 1200 got to chats. That's all i have heard here.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 06:46 PM
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Why hasn't he been extradited yet?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 04:49 PM
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Yeah, I think we agree. Have a good day.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 03:22 PM
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First , I wanted him to put "Cis women only" which objectively doesn't directly exclude transwomen. It's the same in function and would be understood by others as same but they are different. you are probably leaving out a group of cis women who will think that maybe op is a transphobe. Or find someone who isn't swayed by group think and understands that there is a difference between trans and cis and that people are entitled to who they date. Quality>Quantity
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 03:10 PM
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So you don't have a problem with preference but writing it on a bio. I think we just disagree, people should be able to add whatever they want to their bio and you can reject them and go on, it doesn't matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 02:53 PM
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No, transphobic would be "transwomen are not real women". I didn't even tell him to exclude transwomen, just to add filter cis women in bio. By saying cis women only, he's just stating his preferences (You are entitled to any preference for filtering people to personally and socially engage with you). It's objectively not transphobic. tbh, I don't think anyone gets enough matches from transwomen to justify adding a filter for any other reason other than to piss people off. But it would still not…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 02:00 PM
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It's a 70:30 case from what I've observed, I think it's bound to change as more people start to transition before puberty. Like some dudes are just built femme, a switch is brock lesnar's daughter.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 01:47 PM
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Yeah , that's unfortunate but you could still try this, wouldn't make much of a difference, just check what the local girls are having an infighting over? Good luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 12:02 PM
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How's it offensive? You don't feel bad seeing men or women just a decade older than you in mobility scooters. Or find a man with a belly like a pregnant woman funny. Also you think eating disorders with people starving themselves is better? Ridiculous Of course not, but it's a trade off, one group of people is getting hurt either way. The only thing different is that i wouldn't have to see fat people by one the ways. So I lean that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 12:00 PM
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I'm a man dude. When I was using the apps I was getting some matches per month, I was using the apps for casuals mostly. Adding negative stuff doesn't really affect the matches that turn to dates and then whatever you want, you just get some extra who try to moralise you or cuss you out. By some fluke I landed my current gf when i had put a negative filter.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 11:55 AM
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Add "cis women only" In bio if you are looking for ltr, atleast the women who you will get would be based have common sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 11:44 AM
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How do you tell? Adam's apple?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 11:36 AM
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Having encountered very fat people with mobility issues out in the wild, I feel bad about them being enabled to those levels with fat shaming being a taboo till few years ago, even encouraged, sometimes they look too funny. Either way I have to avert my eyes and reduce my field of vision. So it's good we are flipping the lid on this issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 11:35 AM
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He looks gay
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 11:29 AM
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Still better than body positivity
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 11:28 AM
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I think we should ship them to an island, it's a mental illness after all, biologically attracttion to pre pubescents has no purpose.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 10:59 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 10:54 AM
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I agree the headline exaggerates the finding of the study That was the point of the post, nothing else. The men were mad very sure that this would not trace back to them in any way. That's why they got admissions.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 08:51 PM
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No prob
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 07:24 PM
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Lmao, even. Why would a perfectly good advise be sarcasm, I was telling him to do the same as those women and not waste his better years.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 07:23 PM
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The "Lmao even" Comment is from someone else that is mocking the women. If that's what you are talking about. My first comment has no mention of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 07:18 PM
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What part were you disagreeing with?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 07:16 PM
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Lol, calling someone unsuitable for a relationship isn't criticism.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 07:16 PM
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I haven't critcised anyone if you know how to read.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 07:09 PM
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Hmm. I think I can group women like this but they really weren't suitable for a relationship but the sex was hot. Small amount though. I assume their definitions of wife material and fun only women were different.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 07:07 PM
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If you haven't changed why would you want a different thing than what you were used to?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 06:57 PM
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Good for you. What's the problem? I was talking about people who are avoiding things out of guilt or fear for how someone would judge you for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 06:52 PM
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What excuse? Just don't tell or lie
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 06:38 PM
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Wrong person, it was for someone down the thread
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 06:33 PM
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What's wrong with it?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 06:26 PM
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Isn't this better, try applying it to yourself? You should have all the experiences you can when you are young without the worry of a future partner. When you want to settle down you claim you are a changed man. Sounds good.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 06:18 PM
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I never finished watching it, my dad turned it off when he came home after she lost her voice and boys shouldn't watch this shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 10:15 AM
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I don't know why anyone would hate people or trying to moralise them for engaging or having fun with someone they perceive as asshole or toxic. The people are just having and don't care about you. Some of my friends have been toxic or assholish to their partners in the past, why would I drop them if I have fun with them? Anyway that's just a stage in people's lives, people change and they're better people now.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 09:26 AM

Lol yeah, I am pretty sure I can get a warning for stating my preferences here.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 09:13 AM
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You can explain women having more bad experiences with rejecting a guy with just guys approaching exponentially more.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 08:32 AM
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Yeah I can't remember any actual time I have verbally said "wanna have sex" or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 12:17 AM
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No one should get credit for past things or anything as a group. And women going on foodie dates is nowhere near as serious as them being assaulted by men Didn't say it was? The guys complaining are retarded. That is why manosphere BS will never be taken seriously beyond the internet. Agree. That is why manosphere BS will never be taken seriously beyond the internet and why you trying to downplay the amount of men who admit to being rapists (real numbers are probably higher) is just bizarre to s…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 12:16 AM
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Blackmail is by definition coervion. Whaat 😭😭😭
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 07:40 PM
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Asking for sex is kinda retarded.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 07:31 PM
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Uncool
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 06:45 PM
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It's not limited to men either, lots of omen don't want to be too slutty after marriage or kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 06:44 PM
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What? I was agresing with you. Relationships are not something special and unique now. Like it was before. Obviously you don't think of your partner like people did in the past.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 06:42 PM
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It's quite simple, sex is an adult activity. If people are having sex they are adults and responsible for themselves. And hence you don't get that feeling for anyone nowadays, maybe your kids if you have them. It's cool I guess, I don't really see the point in that , it's a good fantasy though.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 06:35 PM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 06:17 PM
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I am social too but not in that way. I like having fun with my friends and can lift their moods if they are down. But if it's some deep personal shit, My advice will mostly be like I listed above. Some exceptions are my gf, family, and best friend but i know enough about them to actually help them. Being a man it's very rare for a friend to seek emotional or mental support. We all handle ourselves pretty well, I have done work while becoming an adult and don't need to seek help which is great an…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 05:56 PM
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I disagree. Some things you should just learn to deal with yourself. Especially the ones that interfere with your inner piece or sense of self. I don't have anything against people who chose to share but it mostly replaces your block with external validation, it's not worth it. Everyone needs to be self sufficient in dealing with their own shit or they are more or less not ready to be in a relationship. Different perspectives can be managed, it's rare to find yourself in a situation that's not b…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 05:32 PM
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Well it’s done with positive things yet no one has a problem with that “men built xyz, invented xyz” Almost everyone has a problem with it. It receives mainstream condemnation for ignoring women's contributions. It's not like it matters anyway all those people are dead. Twentieth century men shouldn't take pride or feel guilt on the actions of past men. With that being said remember the study about women going on dates for free food and men were freaking out? Mostly chronically online men who ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 05:14 PM
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Yeah, I love my gf and she's a kind person. But she has grown up in the same world as me and doesn't need to know things that rarely pop into my mind that can hange her view of me. Life is pretty interesting with challenges or celebrations you have with your partner, there's no need to share every fucking thing. it's crucial then to be able to clearly admit things to oneself, and judge oneself kindly. Well said.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 04:25 PM
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He probably means he would getbself satisfied and wouldn't need a woman as anything permanent . I don't really agree with it, even making new experiences with another person is quite good, plus it's better being on two incomes as a unit in this economy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 03:35 PM
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You can always build new experiences, a partner improves that quite a bit, also the economy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 03:32 PM
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Revealing it to anyone isn't necessary, just have to be ok with yourself. Shit happened, moved on, it's done.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 03:30 PM
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a straight guy can also say that he hopes it's a hot guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 03:19 PM
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About over coming a no that has been mentioned as a separate strategy in the study which wouldn't be the case if it was assumed for all cases automatically. Many of the strategies that men have addmited using in higher numbers said they use require an introduction. Meaning it by definition could not have been done after a “no”. The two haven’t met yet. See how dumb it sounds to proclaim that this introduction was done after the man was turned down?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 11:59 PM
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A guy who'd leave you over this is not for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 06:20 PM
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Thanks for using better words than me, it's a shame I can't pin this.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 08:54 AM
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Where did you find it? Please link, I would like to make a follow up post.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 08:52 AM
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This is a retarded sub, so many people here don't even go out. The remaining are too paranoid of every single thing that's part of just how humans and dating works.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 08:25 AM
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What they do shouldn't even matter but, they don't double spek about tolerance and understanding though. I don't think it's specifically about something except that the left doesn't really have ayone else to target and bash. The right got lgbt and minorities and hence men are left alone, I don't think there's more to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 05:09 AM
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I had more stuff to pick out of 4 but I knew it'd get derailed so just dumped the rest there.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 09:00 PM
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It's range is 18-34, atleast half of men ina that age have had sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 08:58 PM
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They're nutjobs and should not be taken seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 08:46 PM
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1 in 5 is near what I think the number would be around considering 10-15% women are raped that's not surprising. I didn't look up for it, a lady on this sub brought the 95% in a debate today so I checked it out and it's a Sunday with her not around I've got nothing better to do so now I'm just arguing with strangers online.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 08:41 PM
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You'd have to use your digits more if you want to say something meaningful. It doesn't just hurt men though, would probably satisfy terminally online people to get new headline to throw, but on the ground it's a net negative.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 08:31 PM
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This one is going fir two years and we love each other, do you think she's been coerced for two whole years? She would laugh if someone suggested that to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 08:27 PM
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Because that's how the questions are framed? See the entire section under the third point, why would all that apply to a person you already know?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 08:20 PM
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That's a problem isn't it? The strategies I have listed are as it was asked to the participants.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 08:03 PM
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How will women want to have sex with a man they haven't met or they haven't seen in a while while out before he approaches and they talk a little? What situation is that?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 07:54 PM
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Streching the definition harms your cause. It's stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 07:19 PM
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That's how most women are before you approach. Why would anyone be in mood for sex before you even tlk to them ?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 06:52 PM
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Welcome
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 06:35 PM
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1 in 5 Or 4 is already a good headline. You can generalise anyone however you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 06:35 PM
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Take it bruh.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 06:17 PM
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You don't lose your ability to consent if the other person is asking multiple times.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 06:05 PM
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Your scenario dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 06:02 PM
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I am not doing whataboutism, I just asked you how many women have a proper understanding of consent that they are shielded from becausemen and women have a completely different approach to dating? Girls do grab crotch, but we are already kissing for a while, I prefer to slide my hands from the shoulder ,because it's more serious one side than the other in case of misunderstanding. I am not complaining about it, gender dimorphisn results in these situations and are just reality, nothing to compla…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 06:01 PM
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Well no reason to continue this. Have a good day.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 05:39 PM
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But this is how it is that you get into relationships, it works for me and most people I know. It's pushing past an actual no, which is very different from when she is interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 05:35 PM
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We are equals and we play different roles. She isn't literally running away, it's just having fun. Body language is heavily involved. You seriously don't think women enjoy that? Atleast some of them?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 05:29 PM
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Yeah I should've sat at home waiting for my girlfriend to come out of my screen? Lol, it's not like I just decided that's how it works, most people, my friends men and women agree, not all women need to be chased ofcourse, some just enjoy it, it might not even be for sex, I have gotten numbers that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 05:13 PM
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Yeah, I just let that be that section with few others for the topic to not be derailed. It's just how it was asked in the study though, so there was not any more context.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 04:30 PM
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They are not resisting me? And it is normal escalation, once she is showing interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 04:27 PM
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Lol this is not attempt. This is how it has gone for me in most situations and has landed me in relationships. You people here are too paranoid. Get out more, that's how life is.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 04:25 PM
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Yeah and i am not talking about them, western ones try to enter coercive contracts. The nice guys and all.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 04:22 PM
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They just want to be "normal", normal for women is different.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 03:08 PM
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And how many women ? Some things are just part and parcel and outcome depended, it's common for women to be more touchy sexually. Like I read it on this reddit sub itself of a dude saying women grab crotches while kissing, it happens and is accepted but the reverse is not cool. Some things just are.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 02:31 PM
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People have eyes in real life to judge body language.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 02:17 PM
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People here too paranoid.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 02:12 PM
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Because I'm safe.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 02:06 PM
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I'm not. I'm looking at the situation from outside. I mostly initiate by touchibg and kissing and take how she respinds as the yes or no to take it forward or not. Told you at the other place. Direct ask is pretty rare and my gf is pretty clear when she's in mood, when she can get in mood, when she can't so we don't have any trouble. Same for when the situation is reverse. I'd shut it down if I don't want it, if I say yes or just get up to have it then it's consent.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 02:04 PM
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Theyd try coercive contracts I think.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 02:00 PM
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I would doubt it, they are low risk taking slobs mostly. Too paranoid.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 01:56 PM
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Changing her no to use is a entirely separate parameter. Wouldn't be needed if it was the assumption. Participants were asked “In the past four years, how many times have you used any of the following strategies to get (or try to get) a woman to have some type of sex when she did not want to have sex or acted like she did not want to have sex? The quoted part in above text is what the participants were actually asked as a common question. Which doesn't state pushing after a woman's no. And in th…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 01:54 PM
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Told her you knew she wanted it,, flirting? Gradually pushed v or ph, normal escalation? Kept touching and kissing , again normal escalation. The last one is actually confirming her intentions, I don't know that's even in the study. thats just how most sex starts. men escalate and persist more, thats normal. That's how women interact, with mixed signals and you have to read and . And the first one is part of normal chase, women making men work for it. When I was new at dating, I did not push and…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 01:51 PM
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Yeah first thing is unfortunate. meh the study excluded virgins, I guess they'd be like highschoolers.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 01:34 PM
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"You are pretty"
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 01:33 PM
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Showing you hae money. How else would you do that? Clothes, watch, car and the likes. Fitness isn't mentioned, I added that by mistake, but being fit mostly comes with being rich.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 01:32 PM
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I am asking you "have you ever told your girlfriends what they wanted to hear? " Never or ever
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 01:29 PM
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I'm not dismising them. But they are context dependent.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 01:26 PM
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In other words like showing you have money, also getting your friends to introduce you and showing that you have female friends, which make you appear safer.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 01:24 PM
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🤦‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 01:20 PM
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How much higher than 95 percent could you think?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 01:19 PM
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What you consider to be coercive behavior, that’s still 1/5 men admitting to the worst kind behavior Yeah, 1 in 5 men,....... Is still a pretty good headline. No need to strech the rope to 95 percent.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 01:18 PM
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Lol, thinking a general joke is something that people don't get. It wasn't even your own dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 01:17 PM
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You strawmanned elsewhere, before, I mentioned it. Rode a bike to school, wouldn't surprise me if you call that a bus.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 01:11 PM
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Yoou mean strawming like you? His argument was dumb with comparing sex to chores and you applied consent to that situation. My man
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 01:07 PM
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LoL, get offline dude. These are all part and parcel of real world.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 01:02 PM
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Then is getting the headline of 1 in 5 men not enough
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 12:52 PM
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What is manipulation? Wearing a muscle shirt, wearing better clothes. Showing you are not a weirdo loser with no friends. That are all the things listed in the study.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 12:48 PM
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You asked her 10 times in a minute, then it's a no, r in an hour, or in some hour, or in a day.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 12:46 PM
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THE MEN KNEW THAT THE WOMAN DIDNT WANT SEX AND KEPT TRYING STRATEGIES ON HER ANYWAY. Still stuck there
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 12:44 PM
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The fuck is keep trying strategies, men don't have this wide list I got from the study. The average that is total strategies used by total men divided by total men is 8. But it's a average and doesn't tell anything. Of particular importance, the modal number of forceful strategies used was zero, with 62.6% of the men reporting none. However, another 15.7% of the participants reported using one these forceful strategies; all others (21.7%) reported using at least two or more forceful strategies. …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 12:43 PM
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You should state you need comprehension help. Unless you threaten her and the she can safely say no. She has consented.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 12:40 PM
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How would a person know that before talking to her?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 12:38 PM
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Yes? I was countering him.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 12:38 PM
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By seduction I meant just being fun and sexy.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 12:36 PM
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“well, I didn’t physically overpower you, so it was ok.” So you need to strawman now? I am asking you again how would a man know a woman doesn't want to have sex before talking to her or approaching her or if she's a stranger? What are things like "showing you have money", " Approached a stranger" , "told her what she wants" , in the study?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 12:35 PM
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I replied to you dawg. You asked it somewhere else. There's a longer answer there. And it would be yes unless you use threats and she can decline.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 12:31 PM
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I'm sorry is showing you have money and are social and not a weirdo isolated loser bad , or using the friend group not acceptable. That is all social proof.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 12:30 PM
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If they wanted to keep it serious, they wouldn't have needed to include "tod her what she wanted to hear" in the same piece as "physically overpowered her".
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 12:27 PM
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Do you think women are not capable of changing their mind?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 12:26 PM
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Yes and streching the definition of serious things dilutes their value, it helps no one.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 12:21 PM
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How do you think people talk to women? See from afar that women are standing and know they are horny or not. It doesn't happen like that. Most women aren't assumed to be out to have sex. Why wasn't the the question asked been "Did the women say no to having sex with you? " or "We're the women against having sex? " Which is what you are implying but they are present in the study as specific paramaters and are not aplicable to all other scenarios automatically. They are conflating a neutral situat…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 12:19 PM
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10-15% women are raped, that's a big issue and should be the talking point, not streching the definition of sexual coercion.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 12:14 PM
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Nope , read the other reply
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 12:09 PM
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Participants were asked “In the past four years, how many times have you used any of the following strategies to get (or try to get) a woman to have some type of sex when she did not want to have sex or acted like she did not want to have sex? The quoted part in above text is what the participants were actually asked. And in the below text they have conflated that women explicitly not having given consent. That is their added commentary to it. They seem to have an agenda. This research was desig…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 12:08 PM
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Yes they have an agenda
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 12:05 PM
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Also my main issue isn't that but the survey, I haven't dated offline since a long time and have been in a relationship for 2 years. Also what was actually asked was Participants were asked “In the past four years, how many times have you used any of the following strategies to get (or try to get) a woman to have some type of sex when she did not want to have sex or acted like she did not want to have sex? That just is women being neutral towards sex which is how they normally are. This is a quo…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 12:04 PM
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Just because you don't intend it that way? Wider society decides that, not me. Who are you to decide what's predatory or not when you're not on the receiving end of the behavior? Touch my arm and I want you to get life imprisonment sounds good to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 11:58 AM
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I am not talking about overcoming negative behavior, I am talking about women being neutral till you make them feel safe.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 11:56 AM
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I edited so read that again, the added part. You have to use a little seduction and more importantly show them you are safe and then they open up and show interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 11:54 AM
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I am copy pasting as another sis the same thing. Participants were asked “In the past four years, how many times have you used any of the following strategies to get (or try to get) a woman to have some type of sex when she did not want to have sex or acted like she did not want to have sex? The question says acted like she did not want to have sex or acted like it. Which is how most women behave before you approach or talk to them. You have to use a little seduction and more importantly show th…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 11:51 AM
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I am copy pasting as another sis the same thing. This research was designed to focus on men who admit to having intentionally and knowingly sexually aggressed against a woman who they knew did not want sex nor consented to it, including strategies to overcome her reluctance, circumstances, motivations, and positive and negative outcomes. We used anonymous self-report methods and asked men to refer to an occasion involving a woman with whom they had no prior intimate or sexual history The questio…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 11:50 AM
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The question literally includes or acted like she did not want to have sex. That’s not the same as a clear, consistent no, most women don't start out wanting to have sex, you have to show some seduction in most cases. The question is not whether they wanted to have sex with you or against it, not wanting may mean neutral.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 11:46 AM
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Just this "Being introduced by friends ", where did they say no? I haven't dated offline in years. It was better on apps and currently I don't need either.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 11:31 AM
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Will you first address that most strategies mentioned here are to strech the definition? Anyway, An average is total strategies used by all users by total no of users. This does not mean each man has used 9 strategies, the worst offenders are cobtributing the most. Also you have not addressed the part about common, grey area, harmless things being included with violent behavior. Read this Of particular importance, the modal number of forceful strategies used was zero, with 62.6% of the men repor…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 11:29 AM
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Are you a troll? How can she say no before being introduced by friends?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 11:24 AM
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The survey reported them as such. The men were asked the questions as it is written. It's very problematic. Telling them what they wanted to hear is highest reported at 77 percent. How does that belong in the same study as overpowering a woman and threatening her.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 11:23 AM
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Do you not see something wrong in basic flirting, banter , showing social proof which most users probably took it as it is written to other violent predatory behavior such as over powering a woman and preventing her from leaving?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 11:20 AM
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Do you not see a problem in lumping basic flirting with physically over powering and preventing the girl from leaving? An average is total strategies used by all users by total no of users. Also you have not addressed the part about common, grey area, harmless things being included with violent behavior. Here's more on that from the study, Of particular importance, the modal number of forceful strategies used was zero, with 62.6% of the men reporting none. However, another 15.7% of the participa…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 11:18 AM
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Did you read the post? Why are things like showing you have money, approaching with friends, being introduced by friends in there.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 11:07 AM
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Then they would list actua numbers which are also pretty good in itself to make a point, not 95 percent.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 11:05 AM
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Men actually do some pretty horrendous shit, report on that instead of trying to clickbait on complex topics. Why do people need to make stuff up. Also what's 'their' violence, that's the issue I was talking about, you get clickbaited and try to impose collective guilt. A small portion of men do horrendous shit. And the statistics say that and so they need to rope other's because individualism is only okay for women I guess? No can be playful, or the woman can change her mind, it's written as wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 11:04 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 10:56 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 10:55 AM
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This was more in regards to the American left from what I've seen which is the group that only ever explicitly bashes men as a demographic. Also the reddit left, except they have other targets too. Main purpose of posting was just for the 95% claim to be discredited as a lot of people are parroting that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 10:50 AM
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made the post
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 10:37 AM
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I'm gonna make a post, will link it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 08:16 AM
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Yeah that was my complain too. If you are going to address a complex and less known topic regarding a sensitive issue then a supernatural film is not the way to go about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 07:11 AM
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Just don't get in a relationship and keep it clear
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 07:05 AM
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Atleast lilith has more experience being a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 06:42 AM
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I don't know of the pills but i don't agree with this poster who's blue so i guess I would be opposite. The answer would depend, first I don't think I would even keep asking that long, playful nos are not upto 10. I assume you are keeping a time period, like in an hour or in a day, moods can change. Even if you pestered your partner then what if they just want to please you? I have had sex sometimes I wouldn't have prefered not be tired later because my girlfriend was horny. If you can't say no …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 06:35 AM
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The study has included very wide and harmless things into coercion. It's another drama piece like the study that men leave their sick wives more than other wise. Flawed study with clickbait headline that people would use to discredit men.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 06:12 AM
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It would hurt more too if someone passes under.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 01:01 PM
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Jesus, your situation is terrifying. My life has been much better relatively, the most I have suffered is food insecurity as a kid and financial at multiple stages. I hope you stay safe and that your situation improves. I have fortunately never been in a situation where I have fear of being in mortal dangerbdue to another person. I can't imagine how that must be for you. What you have said is very close to what I have deduced from lurking around online about different problems people face and ho…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 01:00 PM
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If the guy is keeping io the act he must be really desperate or is twisted. What I don't get is treating sex like that considering how significant it is as a part of relationships? I don't think most men would wait that much, so ultimately it's slim pickings, and plus the wait would make it feel hurt more if it turns out to be scam. I think changing their attitude regarding sex would be beneficial. Only if they want a relationship of course, if they are fine with being along then who cares.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 12:17 PM

They are right to feel hurt then .
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 11:40 AM
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What country are you in? Most women don't earn that much less than me than they to tolerate bad sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 11:12 AM

I am very sorry about how I have worded my opinions in a very callous and uncaring way. The subtle insuniation in a lot of these comments implying rape doesn't feel right but that's just an excuse. I understand how it feels to be used, I have felt used in the past but in situations like this it's the person's own expectations and assumptions that ultimately leads to them feeling this way. Most people have to learn to toughen it out to operate in the real world and there are always risks when the…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 11:10 AM

You can't care a lot about a person you have courted for 3 weeks. Sex is a fun activity you enjoy on your terms. But that's all it is, an activity. Treating it in a transactional way is not a good thing, atleast without verbally making sure the other person is aware of it. Most people are going to follow the wider society. I feel bad for them but it is how it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 10:48 AM

Get out of this echo chamber. Sex is not something you use as a transaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 10:44 AM

This makes sense, I felt crazy reading some women here considering how the mainstream view is regarding treating sex as a transaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 10:42 AM

If you view sex as a transaction then be upfront about it. Or better have it after in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 10:12 AM

What's wrong with most people here talking of sex like it's a transaction with ulterior motives?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 10:07 AM
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Yes it is wrong, I am with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 09:28 AM
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I do think some moral contracts exist, this is just not one of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 09:25 AM

I don't agree with them but the issue is about "feelings" and morals, and I think it's worth to argue over that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 09:15 AM

But it is not the only thing I'm after, when I was single I was trying to find a girlfriend. Sex is an important part of relationship and either our chemistry was just fake or what I don't know, things changed with some women after having sex. Also women find explicit confirmation of consent or other things dangerous, you can see the consensus regarding consent forms, I am nt ruining my chances, plus I am not doing it just to have sex, majority of the times I have felt different about the women …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 09:08 AM

what you do to get sex. Most effective method till now has been the current relationship. I don't see it lasting and I don't think she does too, it's just good to share finances currently. I have ended things many times with women after sex because everything just felt different and I didn't feel the same need or had the same desire to court them, Some have said they felt used but that's just the package and parcel of dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 08:42 AM

Playing grey isn't lying or taking advantage. Women do it all time, being miserable over it helps no one, people should take responsibility for their own actions, in other words they should grow up.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 08:36 AM

LoL, they had sex coz they were horny and i was just a part of it, I am not compelling them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 08:33 AM

I don't think either is getting used in any way, it's their fault if they think doing something entitles you to something without any verbal agreement. They should grow up.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 08:31 AM

👍
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 08:27 AM

So a person with xy chromosomes was jailed.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 08:25 AM

You don't get sex from women, you have sex with them if they want to and feel comfortable , it's for mutual enjoyment.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 08:24 AM

You don't get sex from women, you have sex with them if they want to and feel comfortable , it's for mutual enjoyment.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 08:24 AM

We are into many girls till sex, after it it's a bit more clear and sone things we ignored flash up. It doesn't men we weren't into them before. There was no lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 08:23 AM
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Well they're old (disconnected from current scene) and they have a bias for the closest source (their daughters) of info they have on current men. So it's kind of expected. Let them have some grace and ignore them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 08:11 AM
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Meh dude, cardio and pelvic control.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 08:09 AM
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Don't care about online opinions, you'd be fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 10:37 PM
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Atleast you get that
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 10:35 PM
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Women are more subtle and do it a lot, even naturally without realizing and overall do much more of it. Men can pull of some crazy ones though.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 10:32 PM
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Dude tried to make it work for 2 dates but can't bring himself to lower his standards, good for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 10:15 PM
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Stop caring dude. Just ask out people.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 09:56 PM

That's how it goes till you get rid of her.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 08:50 AM
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N count doesn't matter, just enjoy yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 08:48 AM
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Lmg, it's chemicals and hence all sex is rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 01:35 PM
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It's a psyop
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 01:00 PM
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I would argue that https://np.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/s/K9PMyBZadq While I think the post is favricated, such situations are entirely possible. Not necessarily high n but about hookups, they are correlated so fair game.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 04:10 PM
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Can't say, haven't met one.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 03:24 PM
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Except that's not how humans work.You can think "it doesn't affect me", and bury it. But that doesn't mean it's not there. There's no fixed way human's work. You can train yourself to remove some normal traits that hold you back. I don't need therapy. I am pretty social, can make friends easy, have been in and out of relationships and am earning well.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 03:11 PM
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the the trick is to not let it be in the background of your mind, shit happens, move on, you were unlucky, it doesn't change your odds time. Don't bother others about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 03:02 PM
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the the trick is to not let it be in the background of your mind, shit happens, move on, you were unlucky, it doesn't change your odds time. Don't bother others about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 03:02 PM
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My female PE teacher swatted me all over my back lower back, rear, back of thighs with a hard plastic pipe. I have to object.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 02:54 PM
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Emotional pain is something that should be considered when weighing outcomes. How about "Get over it "?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 02:53 PM
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I am getting my gear, how much democracy would he need?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 02:51 PM
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Is he oily ?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 02:50 PM
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Lion is feline
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 02:48 PM
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Assume they don't exist
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 02:47 PM
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Haha keep up. Bye
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 07:24 PM
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Smh dude you seem decent, improve yourself in the meantime while not quiiting the search completely. So that you can snatch the good stock quick if it happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 07:18 PM
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Yeah it seems odd, I think you should call them some choice words, would definety get a reply back, then maybe you can ask what happened and get closure.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 07:10 PM
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You may just have a bad dating pool, branch out, maybe get to meet in person quicker, women have more options so they might be chattong with other dudes, who get them quicker and they don't bother and just ghost you without telling?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 07:06 PM
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If you have female friends you should ask them? Maybe show you what mesages they respond to, the normal ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 07:00 PM
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I don't think you said something off. I don't know you, your messages or your profile to make that judgement. It's just that they might intrepret you differently, they understand you right and want different things. Or they don't find you interesting. You should show your texts, maybe the women here can help if there's something wrong with your texts, I have only ever had casuals from OLD, you seem to be looking for LTRs. Can't tell you what a girl might find wrong?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 06:58 PM
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You got ghosted it seems, probably didn't pass their texting requirements. Just drop the you there text few minutes after, get a explanation if they ever reply.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 06:51 PM
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Still you haven't given a time period, if she doesn't ever reply then assume she has ghosted you or something unfortunate has happened to her. If she replies late then ask her what happened. You should leave a " you there text? " though, she most likely would just tell you what happened. I haven't dated much through apps, like 3 only, and this hasn't happened so take that into account.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 06:47 PM
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I hope I never need to feel good about my gf or wife by posting on ppd.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 06:42 PM
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Wdym she doesn't answer? What's the time limit
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 06:41 PM
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It's a high evel cost benefit analysis of getting some dopamine hits in exchange of some mild or severe bruises to fatal injury women aren't capable of comprehending. Exhibit A : Your comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 06:29 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 06:21 PM
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Gay men aren't gay, they just like sex with other men. the love between two straight men is the most supreme.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 06:05 PM
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Nah it's a true story, I didn't even know my penis was supposed to do that, so I thought I was dying nd told my mum,
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 06:04 PM
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That truck proves men are gay, men only like curves on women coz that's what they get on women
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 06:00 PM

Fucking hell dude, when I was 11 or under I cried because of my errection was hurting in the jeans
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 06:00 PM
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your wife of 12 years Calls FBI
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 05:57 PM
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Hmm, I don't like anyone venting tbh, it's so fucking annoying.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 05:24 PM
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I'd say it if you watch the movie.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 05:21 PM
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https://youtu.be/acSIN_iHy1w
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 05:17 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 05:15 PM
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Ramanujan will haunt you
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 05:09 PM
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Lol read your comment again. Your comment said less than 5 uncircumcised, let's take 1 . It's still a lot. If 0.1% is 1 then the sample size is a 1000.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 05:05 PM
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Isn't that what women do as well, the "I just need you to hear"
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 04:52 PM
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Mam respectfully your math sucks. 0.1=0.1 0.1%=0.001 If 5 people are 0.1% then that indicates you have fucked 5k people. I apologize incase you are a whore Or prostitue?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 04:45 PM
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Wdym?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 12:00 PM
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Men in ukraine can't protest thos coz they would be picked up by other men with guns. Also double standards, old white knights plus most women who are far less likely to be drafted get triggered saying it's your duty as a man and if you don't then you are a coward.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 11:53 AM
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Okay so you are saying that ukraine would crackbdown on the protestors harshly. I thought the post was about recent events of europe not accepting military age male efugees from ukraine, and that the op was asking men in Europe or world wide to protest that. You are right though.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 11:50 AM
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What happened in belarus?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 11:41 AM
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Cool
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 07:46 AM
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Cmon you know you are derailing. Of course men shouldn't be raping , but the argument is if men having female friends is a green flag.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 06:45 AM
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Sex doesn't ruin anyone but i just think it becomes less intimate and special. How is seeing women as objects to be conquered not misogynistic ? Coz it also affects queer men, thus a result of patriarchy(men having power) ather than misogyny( hatred of women) .
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 06:18 AM
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You would still reap benefits or disadvantages of how broader society judges that in men and women as that's what shapes individual preferences. My point was that it's just different.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 06:12 AM
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Just becoz your bf has average gear.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 05:45 AM
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Patriarchy maybe, not specifically misogyny. Straight up I think a lot of men wouldn’t want casual sex as much if they didn’t view it through that status focused lens. I find the idea of sleeping with multiple women appealing as in I get aroused thinking of it but I think I want to get married one day more than that and I have a specific special image of it which would be ruined if I have been run through. Can only speak for myself though.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 12:13 AM
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can, does that mean it’s worse to you if a man gets drunk? Yes, you get more chances at avoiding that. Like taking a dick means you’ve been conquered or something. That seems to be why taking the man’s last name in marriage is the norm (man conquers/owns the woman). Or also why bi women get assumed to be straight and bi men are assumed to be gay, and just still half in the closet. And that's similar to the reason why it's not fucking same, n count is a social construct and depends on other's per…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 11:37 PM

It just shows the metric system is better
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 11:28 PM

Redditor doesn't know that old people get shorter
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 11:19 PM
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I don't need lot's of casual sex or any for that matter, it's irresponsible and I'd feel disgusted and guilty partmering up with a low n woman after that plus I'm uncomfortable with partnering with a high n woman. And i can still acknowledge that it's fucking different in effort between men and women plus the social ramifications. It's not even different, most men won't care if their wife has 50 women. Most women would care if their bf has slept with 50 men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 11:04 PM
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Bye, have a good day
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 10:55 PM
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Very very ew
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 10:54 PM
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Eww
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 10:53 PM
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It's just not the same. Men have higher needs for sex and lower accessibility. Women have lower needs and higher accessibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 10:53 PM
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It's just much easier for women, doesn't make sense comparing it. You can even argue men are actual whores since they put in the work to have hedonistic sex but you can not say that it's the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 10:19 PM
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Smh you should only date a man as tall as you or has a dick as big as yours
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 06:27 PM
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But him a hooker for his birthday , ask her to teach him.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 06:26 PM
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Oh step marking
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 02:45 PM
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Do guys ask weight? They can tell fine or not by looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 01:38 PM
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What if he asks after few months of relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 01:28 PM
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How do teachers discriminate in maths?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 01:13 PM
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Why would you get scared of someone in middle of a party, I'm a small dude and have been knocked out one sided in double digits, it doesn't mean i assume any bigger dude is going to escalate for minor friction.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 11:24 AM
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That having female friends isn't a green flag.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 11:20 AM
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It is pretty well known most sexual assaults or rapes are done by the men women already know. What do you make of it?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 11:13 AM
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Did he threaten you explicitly or implicitly? Did he leave after that. I'm sorry for prying.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 11:09 AM
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You can ask for him to be removed from your personal space right? The gym staff are obligated to help you. Are you not mention something, what did he do after he said that?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 11:00 AM
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The problem is women thinking their bodies are high tech precision weapons rather than decades old wide area spam junks. If you dress a certain way then people will notice you. The only thing common between them will be they are into women.As long as you aren't physically harassed what's the issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 08:52 AM
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