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They probably also thought they should take whatever they could get. What's the difference? All those people who definitely aren't you all just suck at selecting people. I was also a teenager in teenage relationships once, and I didn't select so poorly, and neither did the girls around me.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 03:03 PM
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Dating gigantic losers and then complaining about it
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 02:49 PM
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Neither of those women is even close to a 6, they are like 2's, nor are they romantic leads in Marvel shows. And Lauren has like ... been in vogue (and a bunch of other mags, internationally) and done runways. They definitely don't let fat or ugly do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 11:35 AM
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Yep, and a wonderful painter/designer, plus she's tri-lingual. Basically perfect.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 09:55 PM
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Yeah, just totally wrong, but that's ok. They don't cast 6's in movies and Marvel TV shows.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 09:54 PM
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Some people just can't be helped, and you may also underestimate just how corrosive and terrible true unrelenting loneliness is for the brain. Once you get to this guy's level of trite hatred and spite for the world, only years of intense therapy can bring you back, and even that is a coin's flip chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 05:51 PM
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Hahahaha well I think you're probably right, but that is obviously ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 05:34 PM
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GF is bi, I thought Lauren would get a much better score. Plus, my GF's pass is fuckin Armie Hammer and he eats people. It's not fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 05:31 PM
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It's not even true. I'm from the Czech Republic, we're just as Slavic as you are, and the women are ridiculous in Czechland, and when the men keep in shape they look good, too. Age seems to hit us pretty damn hard, though. We are not a good looking old bunch. Maybe it depends on the "type of Slav", but we're all Slavs. I think he's just whining and blaming it on non-factors because it does legitimately suck to be alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 05:29 PM
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I'm not RP, and don't really care about their narrative, and don't think any human is in their prime at 35. Telling men to get in shape and make more money isn't "RP", it's just the actually true answer. "Good" try tho, and by "good" I mean "kind of sad"
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 05:26 PM
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Lauren Tsai is muh girl, I would kill for her (my GF rated her a 7 which I think is very ungenerous :()
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 05:23 PM
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30, about 50/50.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 05:19 PM
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Most of the people on this subreddit are hugely predictable and don't actually know how to argue. Kind of weird for a debate sub, but whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 04:35 PM
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Yep, and I've told them as much. Our female friends/coworkers did not give them this advice, and that's the whole point of this convo/thread -- about whether or not women give good dating advice, which they do not.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 04:18 PM
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FOB means fresh off the boat? All of these dudes were born in America. They don't have accents and shit. They act just like my white/black friends do lol. 1/10 is shredded, and he does fairly well, but like, I'm not nearly as shredded as him, but I'm tall and white, and who do you think does significantly better, and who do you think it has always been easier for? Hint: it's me. They all put effort into their appearance. They work for giant corporations, so they like dress nice and stuff, and no…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 04:13 PM
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I never said you could, I just want women to admit it and be honest, which they seem totally adverse to doing. Women have a viscerally negative reaction to admitting that they are shallow, even when it's plain as day that they are. And they have a viscerally negative reaction to admitting that their advice to average/below average man helps absolutely fuckin no one.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 04:03 PM
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Most of them are first generation Americans. And no, this is Los Angeles.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 04:02 PM
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So who does worse -- Asian men or black women? I think the answer would positively shock you. Okay, well I am good friends with like ten "Divakars" and they don't get no pussy, my man. Ever. And they try. Actually, one of them does, but he's ripped as shit. Hm, wonder why women like him hurr durr durr Women don't tell men that advice because the women don't want to appear shallow even when they are. This is called being dishonest. We can talk about all the other factors, sure, and I'd agree ther…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 03:57 PM
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I'm not really RP, "get in shape and be rich" isn't RP advice, it's just advice you give to people when you actually want them to succeed. Cornering this absolutely box standard advice that has been available in perpetuity to 'RP' doesn't really make any sense. Also like, why is asking for looksmatches and weight matches "shallow"? So you're saying 5'6" Indian dudes who are relatively in shape deserve obese Gremlin women? and also like, I'm tall and in shape, I have been allowed by women to be s…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 03:49 PM
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Right. "men that are still in the game" ---> aka, mostly over 5'10, mostly in shape, mostly with good careers. That's not a huge amount of men, and women still give the advice to their less off friends as if that matters. Agree with the varied and individualistic part, for the most part. On average, women are looking for genetically fit men with money and/or stable career prospects. It's really not that difficult to figure out.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 03:46 PM
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First, not really RP. Second, Your anecdote doesn't really take if the stats don't conform to it. How well do you think short Indian dudes do on online dating (which is the majority way people date/meet now)? You seem to throw out the dating site stats with the bathwater, but do you have any of your own that don't conform to it? Fuck it, do away with all stats if they don't agree with your perception and anecdotal experience, right? You're happy to use Divakar as a single anecdote, so my source …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 03:45 PM
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No women are interested in him except for bottom of the barrel Gremlins, and that's beside the point -- his women "friends" will not tell him this, they will just use the box standard shitty advice they use every other time, without realizing there are very real things holding back his dating success (or realizing this, but not telling him for the sake of their own, or his, "feelings"). Men will tell him it's because he's short and Indian and white women in the U.S. don't like that, and they wil…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 03:37 PM
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All of that insight is drowned out when they're giving this advice to their 5'6" Indian friend who can't figure out why he's not getting laid, because women will not tell them the things he actually has to hear. They will not say "this advice applies to men in the categories I am willing to sleep with, aka not 5'6" Indian guys", they will use blanket statements to their unfortunate friends, and then never be with or sleep with anyone near his stats. I have seen this happen time and time again, a…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 03:26 PM
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In the case of women, it's the same reason you don't ask a nepotistic millionaire trust fund baby advice on how to build a career or make money. They don't actually know, they got their through circumstance, not actually doing the thing. The circumstances are too wildly different for them to actually understand or provide any real world advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 03:16 PM
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To be fair, your original post is vague as shit, it is pretty much just a broad indictment with zero specifics. Like, it reads as, "I think RP makes men undateable", and then you don't expand on that in any way. You shouldn't be surprised you got a shit answer when you make such a shit low effort no content comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 02:34 PM
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Very few men are 'using women for casual sex' because very few men can acquire any form of casual sex. Your first sentence is untrue on its face. Most men have to "cast a wide net" in order to achieve any sort of affection whatsoever. What do you suggest they do? Tune out all together, remove themselves from trying? It doesn't do an average man any favors to have exorbitant standards or to be picky. He's already being upfront rejected by 99% of women around him, how is his situation going to imp…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 02:16 PM
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Yeah, if the situations were reversed, you wouldn't approach either. If I just had a constant pussy buffet flying in my face, I probably wouldn't approach women or value them at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 04:31 PM
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You should be approaching because you will probably not get any pussy otherwise, and having sex with cool women makes your brain feel less shitty for most men. Like are you just learning that women are the sexual selectors, and men aren't? If this is really so distasteful to you, by all means, do nothing and see how well it works out for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 04:26 PM
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Dude, my GF gets off fairly easily and I still bought vibrators and stuff. You're working hard for no reason, like you're some kind of 19th century Russian peasant that can't benefit from modernity. They make a great gift, and show that you give a shit about getting her off. Robots are better at this stuff than piddling human cocks and take away the labor. Plus, trips to sex stores with SO's is a fun little foray and you can turn it into a date.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 04:16 PM
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Ok, in that case, the probability is that he's fucking uggos, and that's not an accomplishment. Fucking ugly women should make people feel bad, not better, and it definitely shouldn't make you feel bad (or anything at all) that some dude is fucking ugly chicks.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 03:22 PM
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I mean, do you know what these women look like? Anyone can fuck wildebeests and the facially retarded. If you tell me you know that they're all hot somehow, I do not believe you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 03:19 PM
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I was mostly talking about fat ugly people getting laid, not attractive ones, so yet again you say something totally tertiary that has no bearing on anything going on in this thread. Like, you said people are more attractive than I give them credit for ... what does this even fucking mean? Like, this is just saying, "Your opinions of other people are wrong." But I'm sure yours are fuckin magically right, somehow? Like, dude, this is gibberish. And it still has nothing to do with 80/20, or how mu…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 08:27 PM
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Whatever you say my dude, I am sure she will be super hurt because you are just oh so awesome and irreplaceable lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 08:22 PM
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She's a girl, she'll be fine and find a new, likely better you in no seconds flat, and you know it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 08:10 PM
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Yeah, I already said this multiple times: I have only ever lived in major metropolitan cities, and the 80/20 rule does not apply, and fat gross ugly people get laid all the time. So guess we just have different experiences if all we're gonna go off of is anecdotes. And by major metropolitan, I mean, like, I lived in Los Angeles all throughout my 20's.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 08:08 PM
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You've already slept with the girl, dude, you've just gotta be honest and end it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 08:00 PM
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Great, we have almost no evidence that it applies to mating or sex in humans, so not sure what the point of your comment was except to say unrelated shit to the OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 07:59 PM
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That's not even where it came from. The 80/20 rule is about attractiveness on OLD, not how much sex people are getting (and I don't even think it's right for attractiveness). 80% of women think 20% of men are *attractive on OLD (*according to the crazies on this subreddit*) It definitely has nothing to do with 'hot men having a disproportionate amount of sex'.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 07:27 PM
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I basically went pescatarian under the same logic. Giving up sushi is sacrilegious. I also used this logic: "If I can kill and gut it myself, I deserve to eat it." I grew up fishing, so no issues there. But I could never really kill and gut any mammal, or most birds, so out of the diet they go.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 06:52 PM
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Beats me, I think the consensus around these parts is that there would still be a funnel effect, where the selection mechanisms of the women would just become more and more refined. Like, "That loser only has pictures of himself at the Ile De Belvedere and Tokyo Tower? He's not as cool as the guy who has been to Casablanca, Maceió, Cabo and St. Peter's Basilica!" Exaggerated, but you get what I mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 06:39 PM
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Right, but they could. Not my fault they don't. If they did, they would get better results. And me being able to travel doesn't make me any more or less average. You have to take into account all of the other features. Some chicks like the guy who travels, and some like the guy who has a nice place and car. Depends on the girl. But anyone can get nice pictures of themselves taken in nice places. That doesn't cost that much money.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 06:26 PM
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Um, I'm poor and have a shit job and will always be those two things. Live within your means and you can travel. Also having a rich friend isn't unachievable or even difficult. I guess I got lucky because he's my best friend from high school. A cheap DSLR camera that will still take high res good photos is like $250. Highly achievable. Getting a random insta photographer to take pictures of you is even cheaper and easier. Definitely achievable. Definitely can be done by poor people. I mean, you …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 06:20 PM
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Spent lots of time online dating, plus I travel a lot. Pictures of me standing in front of old European buildings taken with a nice DSLR camera (not my camera, best friend is a camera guy for a reality tv show). Also I steal jokes from actually funny things, which helps a lot, makes me appear funnier than I am up front. Steal jokes. Have rich camera guy friend take pictures of you in Europe. Not rocket science.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 05:59 PM
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ok well then I implore you to think a little harder about this in the future.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 05:55 PM
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Why? I have plenty of average/short friends who do just fine because of their other features. I don't need to do it myself when there's evidence all around me, all the time. Live in large cities and you'll see it, too. Guarantee it. From the average men I know, which is like almost everyone in my social groups, I do about as well as them (or worse), when you factor in other features. I'm like the second tallest dude in all of my friend groups. And there's several shorter guys who do much, much b…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 05:53 PM
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This is a really interesting debate topic, honestly. I'm pretty agnostic on it and have seen good arguments from both sides. There's something very Gen Z about thinking non interaction has some kind of compassionate element. I think it's pretty amoral overall, but it's definitely not compassionate. If you match with someone on a dating site, there's an implicit understanding that you find each other attractive. If you start talking to that person, you're actively pursuing something. Just droppin…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 05:49 PM
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edit: Didn't see your first question. No, I don't struggle because I try. Like, I actively try to date, a lot. I go out, I use dating sites, I speak to women constantly. That's why I don't struggle. Because I realized I had to be active and engaging up front, all the time. That's not a struggle, in my view, though, it has just made me less shy and more active, and continually increases my chances of getting the best women I can get. Also I believe in major metro areas, "average" men do a lot bet…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 05:15 PM
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I don't struggle at all luckily, but I don't see how only height pushes you to above average, especially since I see so many good looking "average height" guys do much better than me, all the time, in every major metropolitan area I've ever lived in. Not even a contest, really. Yeah, go change the height in your bio, and also list all the other shit I listed -- "shit job, no provider potential, no car, painfully shy" and have the same ugly ass face as me. You will do about as well as an average …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 04:51 PM
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Yes, I agree. I dont think that other guy knows what he's saying. He is probably just hyper-fixated on being short and refuses to change his life in any other way.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 04:38 PM
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How does one attribute being above average make you above average overall? Women don't only look for height, there are a ton of other features I don't possess that they also look for. What you're saying makes absolutely no sense. The thing you're missing is that a 5'10" dude who is attractive facially, has a good job, car, aka all the things I'm missing, will do much better than me overall, and anecdotally, this has been very true.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 04:18 PM
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You do know there's a ton of other things women look for, right? Height is my only attribute that is not average or below average. That makes me average overall, if not below average. Like, my face is really fucked up, and I don't and never will have a "good job". I've never even owned a car, and will never own property, thus can never be any type of provider. I am not charismatic or intelligent, nor do I have any semblance of any real "personality", I am not funny and can barely talk to people …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 04:15 PM
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I mean, after browsing this study, I think the best answer is: "I don't know" If you're not willing to trust the reports of men (I'm not), then I don't see why I'd be willing to trust the reports of women (I don't) So the clearest answer is actually "I have no fucking idea", not "7". I am more than willing to revise my previous statement based on the fact that self reports don't actually give us any good data.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 03:52 PM
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I mean, yes, it's crazy people don't realize this. I'm tall but ugly and have never had a problem with OLD. I'd rate it like a B- or C+. It's fine. Meeting women IRL is still easier/better, tho. It's really not that bad for average dudes. Most of the men complaining about it are well below average and don't understand this fact about themselves. I suppose to be fair to them, coming to this kind of realization (understanding your own faults and limitations) is somewhat difficult, and most people …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 03:35 PM
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I don't believe this, and it has not been true anecdotally. I have only ever lived in major metropolitan cities. The fat ugly men have always fucked the fat ugly women, and sometimes the average men also fuck the fat ugly women. Women are hypergamous, so this makes perfect sense. They date/fuck across (fat/ugly men) and up (average men).
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 02:42 PM
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This is a debate forum. Maybe learn to debate instead of just saying random regurgitated nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 02:19 PM
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Right, and your inference is not on topic, and has nothing to do with the question OP asked. Congratulations. 80/20 has nothing to do with how much sex the average man is having, and either does hypergamy. Hypergamy is about dating across and up. Which means fat/ugly women are dating/fucking across and up -- aka fat/ugly men and average men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 02:17 PM
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Ok, and how does that answer the question of the OP? He was asking how much sex an average single man has. The answer is quite a bit, because that average single man can fuck shitter Gremlin women, and they often do, you see that sentiment here all the time ("We'll fuck anything lol".) What you wrote is an inference based on a fake rule, and not even on topic. Like, actually just regurgitated off topic gibberish like you're a malfunctioning robot. Fat/ugly women sleep with fat/ugly men. So the a…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 02:15 PM
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Pretty sure every study on the "average lifetime partners" was done well before the advent of online dating, or at least done before OLD became the majority way to meet others for 30's and under. Really don't think these numbers are even remotely accurate. Every 'average man' I know has had significantly more than seven partners throughout his life, which means the women likely have much, much more. Thinking these studies are accurate is cope.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 02:09 PM
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Ok so like your original comment makes little sense, then. Your inference is that 80% of men don't have sex because of some vapid "rule". That inference only makes sense if those men aren't having sex. But they are. The bottom 80% of men are having tons of sex, just with shitter Gremlin women. They're just not fucking attractive women, which should be obvious to everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 02:07 PM
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This ignores that average men sleep with fat women out of desperation, and fat men sleep with fat women, too. It infers that fat/ugly people don't have sex, which isn't the case. Those people still have sex, it's just not the sex you want to see or think about.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 01:47 PM
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Did you not just read that i'm in an LTR? I'm not talking about myself, I'm talking about what's happening in reality. This isn't about my life, it's about the lives of other people. This sub is mostly women if you have ever read the stats. Like, we've had surveys here before and it's more than half women. It's mostly married and 30's/40's women for the most part. So yeah maybe you ought to take some other opinions seriously outside yourself. Not that you will, that seems like too much for your …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 07:12 PM
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It is not rare. Like 50% of relationships are "successful". That's a coin flip. That's not rare. It isn't easy for guys to get laid, pretty much this entire sub disagrees with you universally, and I definitely do as well. Chicks are pickier these days than ever. Lots of good stats on this. Go read them. I'm in a relationship, and a serial monogamist, so I don't really do the OLD thing and never will. Doesn't make getting chicks any easier. I guess you're just soooo alpha that's it's easy for you…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 07:01 PM
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What? Being in a relationship is 'rare'? No it isn't. Yeah, chicks are. Men aren't. Different things, different strategies, different skills. You're conflating male sexual strategy to women's sexual strategy. That's ... h m... completely retarded. Par for the course for you though.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 06:53 PM
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I am sorry there are people in my life that are cooler than both you and I. I don't know what to tell you -- people who got their shit together exist, and I happen to know one of them. Also if knowing a fit guy who works on Naked and Afraid is somehow truly the height of luxury to you, that's pretty pathetic. He's my best friend from high school. It's really not that big of a story.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 06:52 PM
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oh well that's pretty dumb, but carry on. (it's not possible to doxx you based off knowing your first language, if you think it is, you should read up about doxxing, that's not how it works, tertiary irrelevant details about a person's life have 0% to do with it, you are already posting on a public forum where every detail of your life is super easy to ascertain even if you have a VPN)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 06:37 PM
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Wait, you're not a native English speaker? That's way more surprising to me than your age. What's your first language?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 06:24 PM
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The not cumming issue is the much bigger issue here than the not being able to get erect issue, but it's definitely a good thing to keep in mind. Really I'm just trying to give him any and all ideas, 'cause he seems stressed out as shit about it and that makes me sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 06:22 PM
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Czech Rep is literally central Europe, it is like the most middle Europe you can get if you have ever looked at a map in your life, and I live in Belgium, which is western Europe. Your ideas of these things as a person who probably hasn't even been to or spent a modicum of time in these countries is completely wrong. We don't think "it's cool", we just literally don't give a shit. It's not a thing we think about. It's a non factor.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 06:05 PM
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Is this a joke post? Of course it's internalized, you learned it from your culture, which in turn instilled this in you, aka you internalized culturally instilled nonsense. If you grew up in another culture, you wouldn't be as racist. Like, sure, I agree everyone has some degree of racism, but the degree matters and how you act this out in the real world also matters. You seem to think it's good to marry within your race. You are applying a moral value to it. Which makes you a racist asshole. Yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 06:02 PM
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Whoa dude, super weird but interesting suggestion! Absolutely never considered this even a remote possibility, and also didn't know it happened at all. Adding it to the list!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 05:50 PM
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I mean, he turns 34 this year. Seems young to me but I guess it is around the time this shit can start happening. But def agree about the specialist, not sure why that didn't cross my mind. This is why the extra hydra brains of reddit can be a good thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 05:49 PM
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Hahaha I like you, you're fun. And he's in pretty much a relationship at the moment, and she's quite hot, so I don't think that's gonna happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 05:48 PM
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Refractory period of 2 days is a little abnormal, wouldn't you say? I could easily fuck my GF every day multiple times and I consider myself to have a slightly below average sex drive for a 30 year old. All the other info is good, tho, now I can actually tell him some useful shit instead of just being sad for him, or not knowing how to relate, 'cause I just have never had this problem before.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 05:43 PM
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He hasn't actually fucked any models outside 1, they are all just supermodel like.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 05:39 PM
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Haha, he already did (and is going to more), I just like outside the box third/forth/fifth opinions from random redditors I don't know.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 05:37 PM
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His mental health is pretty spotless, he has an objectively awesome life and has always done well for himself. The only thing he's noted is that during sex he gets a weird type of anxiety that is not really performance anxiety. The way he described it is he just starts thinking about other unrelated shit, not even anxious shit, just other shit in general about life/relationships, and it makes it impossible to get off.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 05:36 PM
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GP prescribed him with viagra, and recommended a sex therapist because friend's T levels were good, but urologist does make a good bit more sense, I will recommend that to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 05:33 PM
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You can be in a 'successful' relationship with a fat girl. And it doesn't require 'skill' to be in a relationship, it requires like patience and understanding and a whole bunch of other things, but 'skill' isn't really a word I'd use for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 05:30 PM
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Ok, that does make sense. He was just put on viagra yesterday! I had no idea it could help with actually achieving orgasm tho so that's comforting.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 05:27 PM
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He has done this, mostly a serial monogamist, he got out of a long term (2+ years) relationship in the summer of this year, and just started dating a career actress (indie movies) a few months ago. They are hyper compatible and really like each other, which is why he can't understand why he can't cum and stuff. Like, this is the most into a chick I've ever seen him, and now he's having the problem. Seems not good.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 05:24 PM
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Haha, he's natty jacked 'cause he's a hard worker, no roids, he has been a lifelong goodie two shoes and has never really done any drugs. He does not smoke, do drugs, and he drinks maybe three times a year for special events and stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 05:22 PM
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No, being in a relationship says nothing about 'skills' -- only the attractiveness/"goodness" of the partner matters. Any idiot can get into a relationship, it's not particularly difficult, but almost no men can actively date around and choose their pick of the litter, and almost no men can date women more attractive than them. The only time being in a relationship says anything about your place in the SMP is when your partner is significantly more attractive than you. Otherwise, if your partner…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 05:21 PM
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yes, we have taken to calling it 'the best problem in the world', but it is also kind of concerning to me, and I never know what to tell him when he brings it up. It makes me sad because I care about him :(
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 05:12 PM
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He's been off for two months or so, 'cause it was starting to wear on him, and he also wanted to spend time at home with his cats. They actually just offered him the director of photography gig but he turned it down because of mental health issues (aka what I just described). He also usually only works about eight months out of the year, so I'm not sure if time off is the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 05:08 PM
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Why not? Being in a relationship doesn't mean anything. It says nothing at all about your success in the SMP and DMP. Literally nothing. The only time it says something is if you end up with someone waaaay above your league, and if that guy isn't lying, he can routinely date chicks above his league. So just from that we know he's "successful", near universally. The above user gave you his definition of success and it had nothing to do with being in a relationship. So what the fuck are you talkin…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 05:05 PM
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Q4A (and doctors/sex therapists): My best friend is a 6' jacked white guy who kinda looks like Ryan Gosling, and a camera man for Naked and Afraid, which means he travels all over the world and makes insane money (like, $600 - 700 a day). Lately he's been having trouble keeping it up, and he can't cum during sex most of the time, despite most of the chicks he's dating being like supermodel level hot. He got his T levels checked and they're 900, which is good apparently. He's never had this probl…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 05:04 PM
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I am reading what you're typing. It is like mostly nonsense. Your first "argument" was about him not being successful because he wasn't in a relationship, then you tried to make that make sense, but since it doesn't, it didn't. Woopsie doopsie. You think "being in a relationship' is some sort of badge of honor that makes you successful in the SMP/DMP, and that is fucking nonsense. If you believe that, which you seem to do, you have worms in your brains.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 04:52 PM
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Yo, I think everyone is racist, too, but I can admit that are varying degrees of internalized racism that aren't good, and are borne from cultural deficits, and they make no sense. You don't seem to be willing to do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 04:52 PM
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I'm from the Czech Rep, technically the most xenophobic country in all of Europe, and there's zero expectations about marrying other Czechs (if anything, it is literally never spoken about in my experience). Live in Belgium for the most part tho. You likely have zero good conceptions of either of these countries, so your opinion really doesn't matter. You're fine with being a racist? JFC, you are out to lunch. Enjoy being insane, I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 04:44 PM
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Dude, SMP and DMP are glossary terms that have been around on this forum forever, they are used by literally everyone, they are included in the official terms on the sidebar lmao. The fact that you can't see how dating and sex can be correlated to a marketplace does in fact make you kind of dumb. not to mention that that is how the user above defined his own success. And you never explicitly agreed with that. You're just backtracking now 'cause your argument is shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 04:41 PM
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I mean I'm dating a dark skinned person and I'm white, but don't believe in marriage, but there's no expectations in my country to 'date other white people'. That's honestly insane. There's no expectation that it's bad to date people of other races, either. You're just a racist. And no, I don't care if you're married to a person of another race. You can still be racist and do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 04:37 PM
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What? of course they have. But it doesn't mean that the relationship is why people would view the individual as 'successful'. People would view the individual as successful because of his ability to get good looking dates in the dating marketplace. Are you braindead?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 04:35 PM
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If he is fucking a bunch of hot girls, yes, he is, basically universally everyone would agree on this. Being able to date above your station/being able to date attractive people, makes you successful in the SMP and DMP. Sexual marketplace. Dating marketplace. Not relationship marketplace.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 04:30 PM
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Yes, that's because of the homogenous populations, like 85% of those countries are white. It still doesn't say anything about it being right or good. Saying something is "normal" is a total non point. Everyone knows it's normal. Like, did you know that upwards of 90% of Africans in sub-Saharan Africa fuck other Africans? Oh my god, who would have thought?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 04:29 PM
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I never said it wasn't. But if you think Russia is broadly reflective of European experiences you are totally out to lunch. Russia has always been a historical outlier with pretty much everything. If you think Russia is anything like France or Germany or Spain, I think you're nuts. And yes, I have also lived in several EU countries. Plus most of Europe has homogenous populations, of course this is the case. it's a non point. It doesn't make it any more right or good. If you live in Alabama, you'…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 04:24 PM
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You're kind of just assuming he's going to end up alone, though, and being single right now doesn't say anything about whether or not he's going to end up alone. Singledom says zero about probability chances of "ending up alone", this is just a dumb assumption on your part. The guy who can get more sex and date more has less of a chance of ending up alone. Like, everything about the amount of good dates you can get says everything about how successful you are in the SMP/DMP -- that's why it's ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 04:22 PM
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lol so maybe don't start with 'Europe' and post your own country first. You were the one that made the stupid broad generalization as a starting point, in which case, you did not mean 'Europe', you meant whatever country you're in.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 04:17 PM
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Wow it's almost like different people want different things and have different expectations. Some dude constantly banging attractive women is successful in the SMP/DMP pretty much universally, yet "being in a relationship" says just about fucking nothing about how successful someone is. If you're in a relationship with some dog faced idiot, or some average plain Jane, that says nothing about how successful you are in the SMP/DMP. Your thinking here is skewed as shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 04:14 PM
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You can be single and still successful in the SMP and dating marketplace... what are you talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 03:50 PM
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Uh, because that's just the way it is? They are being ranked by mostly fat incels anyway, and I would argue that those rankings really don't matter. If you're in the US or shitty country in Europe, 60% of men are fat, so at least 60% of the men that want to fuck you/are choosing you are overweight, and that is an objective measurement. And I mean, you can trust that if you are a man, since in general only attractive/rich men are chosen. It still doesn't say anything about the efficacy of subredd…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 02:56 PM
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Not sure what the first paragraph has to do with whether or not the ratings are objective, or whether or not a few static pictures accurately reflect where you stand in the SMP, or the dating marketplace. That's still not objective. Random redditors who want to judge you as harshly as possible also doesn't make it objective, or a good way to figure out whether or not you can get picked easily. The only way to know if you get chosen easily is if you go out and get chosen easily. More beautiful th…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 02:49 PM
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I would suggest that in person interaction is really the only way to get a somewhat objective score -- and somewhat objective still just means subjective. If it was objective, it could be objectively measured (aka outside of sentient observation), which attractiveness cannot be, unless you have some super secret formula for this you would like to share? But if you go out and hit on some women, and they somewhat reciprocate, or if you get a ton of dates, you have a much better idea where you stan…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 02:38 PM
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In general, they say anywhere from 18 - 25, and even more in general, they say under 30, or not 'past the wall'. So no, I haven't seen a large majority of RPers say this, which is why I just said that in my previous comment. I don't think you've seen it, either.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 02:35 PM
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They are there to judge you as harshly as possible, not judge you based on how attractive you are to a general population. Like the sub exists to tell you you're uglier than you are. Those are not reliable judges of attractiveness, and really, no kind of website that rates pictures alone can actually give you any sort of meaningful score.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 02:27 PM
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Do you think that a sub that revolves around harsh judgement accurately reflects reality? Like do you really think bored redditors who like judging people are the best judges? If you think going on a subreddit to see how hot you are makes any sense, you have worms in your brains.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 02:06 PM
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You're asking a leading question that does not reflect reality. I've been on this sub for years with a pretty neutral stance, argued with a ton of RPers, and I haven't noticed red pillers harping on about 18 year olds anymore than they do 20-26 year olds. If anything, they harp on about women under 30 as being prime real estate, but you're just randomly and dishonestly adding the '18 year olds over 20 year olds' Most RPers, even the really dumb ones, know there is very little discernable differe…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 02:03 PM
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If you can make it work, I am very open minded.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 07:24 PM
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I would like to cum on your tiddies and you can do all the salami stuff or whatever, do we have a deal
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 06:58 PM
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If you plan on sticking around, here's a glossary of the weird shit we say to each other: https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/2k8zk0/terms_acronyms/
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 07:20 PM
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All other topics have been exhausted ad nauseum, all we are left with are whacky hypotheticals that make no sense and will never happen
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 06:27 PM
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