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| 127 | How to deal with feelings of resentment towards women and society | Coppal | /r/askTRP | 24/09/20 11:23 PM | |
| 78 | How common are flakes/let downs for you guys? | Coppal | /r/askTRP | 19/11/20 04:23 AM | |
| 39 | Rate my tinder profile | Coppal | /r/askTRP | 25/09/20 11:28 AM | |
| 4 | Is it me or are most cosmetic products BS | Coppal | /r/askTRP | 28/11/20 12:57 AM | |
| 2 | Knowing when to call it quits on text game? | Coppal | /r/askTRP | 11/03/21 01:29 AM | |
| 1 | When/how to message after meeting on a night out/party | Coppal | /r/askTRP | 20/09/20 11:10 AM | |
| 1 | What is your lay count and how did you meet them. | Coppal | /r/askTRP | 16/09/20 09:28 PM |
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| 1 | Knowing when to call it quits on text game?Ye I fucked it, haven't been on RP in ages, slipped back into the betaness, ty bruhs for keeping me in check | /r/askTRP | 11/03/21 01:49 AM |
| 1 | Natty lifting is a jokeWhat % BF are you? You'd be surprised how leaning out can make a huge difference. | /r/askTRP | 09/12/20 12:57 AM |
| 1 | Does not having any women in your life make you miss ex's / ex plates more?I know bro - i've even though about reaching out before, but it's just loneliness/lack of options that leads to this retarded thinking. You'll grind through it | /r/askTRP | 09/12/20 12:54 AM |
| 5 | I’m an alcoholic and it’s really fucking with my life.When I read alcoholic, I assumed you were gonna say you get fucked up on your own every night. But what you actually described is how i'm living too....It's hard because I do love it, like you, i'm not ready to stop, but it doesn't impact me in the same way it does you. Tbh you're 23 and getting drunk and having fun is part of life, but bro, if it's really that bad where you hate yourself for half the week, you gotta consider if the trade is worth it, for me, if I don't go too crazy I tend to fe… | /r/askTRP | 09/12/20 12:51 AM |
| 1 | Does not having any women in your life make you miss ex's / ex plates more?I feel that people are going a bit hard on you, It's normal for me anyway, I feel like if i've not got any plates/one breaks, I start thinking about my ex, and its not even the sex, its the whole thing (the mind tends to romanticise and overlook the shitty sides of people when you're thinking like this). The way I come out of this thinking is to realise you're defo thinking of just the good times because you're feeling lonely, and two, you're relying on other people to bring you happiness, which… | /r/askTRP | 09/12/20 12:37 AM |
| 2 | Is it me or are most cosmetic products BSI do all these things, diet is clean af, lift 4/5 days a week for years , i'm in good shape + wear fitted clothes, I've just tried to fix some of the other stuff that bothers me, and these 5 star products do absolutely 0. | /r/askTRP | 28/11/20 01:08 AM |
| 4 | Good countries/cities for meeting girls for casual sex?The girls here are some of the most entitled bratty girls you'll ever meet, 5/10 thinks they deserve Brad Pitt. Pretty antisocial here + weather is shit, if you want to go clubbing, be prepared to be surrounded by 100 indian guys and 1 decent looking girl in the whole club unless you have money for the expensive places, but EVEN if you do go to the really pricey places, girls have 'promoters' that give them free drinks/bottles, so having a table/bottles in these places is no different to what th… | /r/askTRP | 27/11/20 12:17 AM |
| 23 | Good countries/cities for meeting girls for casual sex?Not. London. That's all I can contribute | /r/askTRP | 26/11/20 06:51 PM |
| 3 | EMERGENCY PLEASE HELPPosts like this just show how taking in too much RP can fuck with your head lol, this isn't an emergency You never know, she could've rang her mates after and said "omg he finally showed me emotion, I feel closer to him than ever" I'm not saying cry your eyes out in front of your gf, like the guys here say, dont make it regular, but dont overthink it either, this isn't an 'emergency'. You don't need to beat the shit out of someone in front of her to offset you showing emotion and prove your 'alp… | /r/askTRP | 25/11/20 11:21 AM |
| 1 | Do you recover from not kissing when you had an oppurtunity?Don't waste your time thinking about what you could've done different now she's not replying, could've been 10000 diff things. I've beta'd it before and met up for a second date, the girl might not axe you just cos you didn't go for it (it is better if you do, esp if it feels right), if she likes you still, she'll see you again. This ones dead in the water though. | /r/askTRP | 25/11/20 11:18 AM |
| 3 | Entanglement advice"At least she’s fun and doesn’t take things so serious." - you can feel yourself getting sucked in cant you. Post about anti-simping and living the bachelor life, but you're getting them feels and you caaan't stop it boy! I empathise though, it's not as easy sitch to be in, as much as people on TRP make out its easy to detach, we're only human, but you do need to force yourself to not get sucked into this one | /r/askTRP | 24/11/20 02:12 AM |
| 4 | Entanglement adviceShe wanted to marry and have kids by 25, shes now 28 and spends her life partying her ass off...nice priorities. I'm not one to judge as I love partying and i'm near 28, but I also dont give a fuck about marriage and kids | /r/askTRP | 24/11/20 01:38 AM |
| 2 | How did you guys get over the fear of STDs?So, I was (and still kind of am) petrified of STDs, if I got drunk and fucked bareback, I'd spend the next two weeks googling the possibility of everything, and persuading myself I have symptoms (always turned out clean) Just strap up every time, and realise that STDs from oral are very rare and I've never heard of one person contracting anything from oral (stay away from crackwhores on the street). So you're pretttty much protected when you wear a condom. Also, with Herpes, type 1, dw bout it, … | /r/askTRP | 22/11/20 08:29 PM |
| 1 | How common are flakes/let downs for you guys?Thanks for the responses my bros, appreciate it. Sometimes you think all the stuff about womens true nature might be exaggerated, till you witness first hand that RP knowledge really is the real deal. Just gotta accept it and power through | /r/askTRP | 19/11/20 06:14 PM |
| 5 | How common are flakes/let downs for you guys?I'm in London where the girls seem to get more self entitled by the day, I think it's more of a common thing here as every 6/10+ thinks they're entitled to date a chad celebrity | /r/askTRP | 19/11/20 10:26 AM |
| 3 | How common are flakes/let downs for you guys?I do think its a bad spell, like you said, I can think back to hot streaks, but when its gone cold af it's hard to remember them, I'll bounce back. | /r/askTRP | 19/11/20 10:23 AM |
| 8 | How common are flakes/let downs for you guys?Hey bro, thanks for the reply, Whats your opinion on phoning on the day? So get the number, text to set up the date, then on the day, give them a call mid day to run through plans/build some comfort? | /r/askTRP | 19/11/20 10:22 AM |
| 2 | How common are flakes/let downs for you guys?Hey man, thanks for the response, appreciate it. I was watching a RP vid on youtube, and the guy said to use this exact line, my only gripe with it is, if you say something like that, it kinda insinuates you've been flaked on before, which imo could lower value. The way I see it is, a guy who's never been flaked wouldn't say something like that as they have no experience of it, however if you do, shows it's something you've experienced and don't want to happen again | /r/askTRP | 19/11/20 04:38 AM |
| -2 | Finasteride or nahSo during my time when I was balding and was desperate to keep my hair (just razor shave now and genuinely never looking back) - I researched relentlessly, do not listen to the whole "2% reported side effects" from the clinical studies etc. That is absolute shit, take it from someone who knows people IRL and been on many forums, a good bulk of people get side effects (sexual, mental health, physical). This is not to say you wont be one of the ones that take it and feel no sides, but don't listen… | /r/askTRP | 19/11/20 03:31 AM |
| 1 | Curious, who here uses Phenibut?8 grams, when I normally dosed for a nice subtle buzz, it'd be 2000mg, before nights out I use to do 8000mg + a shitload of other stuff, degenerate behaviour I know haha | /r/askTRP | 19/11/20 03:28 AM |
| 1 | Curious, who here uses Phenibut?8mg at max | /r/askTRP | 18/11/20 02:36 AM |
| 1 | Curious, who here uses Phenibut?Yeah, I've never noticed it to be this amazing feeling people say, I've had it in mega doses and small doses, and it does give a decent boost (it's actually better at lower doses imo) but I stopped using it just because the effects weren't that noticeable to justify taking it, plus it tastes awful | /r/askTRP | 17/11/20 12:21 AM |
| 3 | Is it too late to bang 18-22 yo chicksLOL wtf - shocked you had to even ask this. My last 5 fucks have been 18-23 and i'm 27, it pays off to be older trust me, they love it | /r/askTRP | 06/11/20 08:38 PM |
| 1 | For balding 30ish dudes, style questions24/5. At the time I thought I had like another year in the tank too, but looking at old photos I realised it was the right time Made it better (100%). But i'm greek with darker skin/dark features which I think is a good combo It depends bro, some beards are thick and connect through, if thats the case - yes, if yours is patchy and blonde for example, no Dont get a tattoo just to accommodate being bald lol, do it cos you like tats, and if you dont like em, dont get one not sure, never tried it | /r/askTRP | 06/11/20 08:36 PM |
| 2 | Need advice and help from "The" Men.To be honest, it sounds more like a reflection than a question, it's good you've started this journey. Can I ask, you said - "I was sad, even though we were not sexual" what was the circumstances surrounding this.. ? | /r/askTRP | 18/10/20 03:44 PM |
| 3 | Girls think I’m a joker when using shit like A&A"oh yeah just remembered I’m actually into guys" LOL - great answer, I cracked up too, the more you're toying with her and not answering directly the more you're prob driving her crazy for you. When she says "You joke around too much", maybe reply "Only because you ask too many weird questions" | /r/askTRP | 04/10/20 08:24 PM |
| 0 | Retarded Tinder bio questionThis | /r/askTRP | 03/10/20 10:22 PM |
| 2 | Started to read the rational male, it is making me so angry. Help.14 relationships by 21.....fuck | /r/askTRP | 01/10/20 10:50 PM |
| 2 | Dumped LTR of 1 year for being difficult – now she is begging for another chanceBro, before I read the rest, I have to thank you - I youtubed Alpha Male Strategies, fucking hilarious and so so much good content and truth | /r/askTRP | 30/09/20 12:32 AM |
| 1 | How to grow Instagram from scratch?Also - when you unfollow, if you have 30% come back, dont unfollow the other 70% like 24h after, space it out | /r/askTRP | 26/09/20 12:33 PM |
| 1 | How to grow Instagram from scratch?One thing I will say, is I did this all like two years ago, so I dont know how things have changed. BUT i've advised people to do this technique very recently (on already active accs) and they've done follow unfollow successfully, you just have to do it gradually over the day, aka dont follow 50 in 5 mins, do like 5 in one go, then wait a bit, you can avoid that ban This technique defo works better if you have an account where you have like 200 followers that are people you know or engage with a… | /r/askTRP | 26/09/20 12:32 PM |
| 30 | How to grow Instagram from scratch?Okay...this is my area of expertise, it's a fair bit of effort, but can be worth it, I've helped a lot of friends grow businesses on gram with this advice, and for a personal account, can have the same effect. Brand new account, 0 followers, 0 following. BUY 100-250 followers. Now you're 150 followers (for example), 0 following. Post a photo or two so the account doesn't look weird. Now, follow like 100 people in the niche area you want (fitness, music, art, whatever, NOT hot girls, not yet) You… | /r/askTRP | 26/09/20 11:38 AM |
| 1 | Rate my tinder profileThis is awesome advice bro, ty, I like the bio idea too, do you think the reason this worked really well is cos girls are into this depressed mumble rap style thing, lil peep and all those guys, and that look is popular now? | /r/askTRP | 26/09/20 10:23 AM |
| 1 | Rate my tinder profilelul | /r/askTRP | 26/09/20 10:22 AM |
| 1 | How much should a 28 y/o have in savings?Very hard question to answer, but i'll give a breakdown, lets assume your 'median' salary over this period was 30k (average). 30k = 2k a month, of that you should save atleast 500 (these are very general figures as you might have high out goings like rent etc) 500 x 12 = 6000 6000 x 7 (the ages of 21 to 28) = 42k Again, its a hard question to answer, your earnings could be higher or lower, you might have high expenses, but I think thats a realistic thing to aim for | /r/askTRP | 25/09/20 10:34 PM |
| 2 | Rate my tinder profilehttps://imgur.com/a/Fd5GEmj What do you think of this one Kyle? When I posted this on gram a lot of girls oddly commented/liked it, I love heavy metal and drumming so its more of an indicator of my life style (be totally honest btw i dont get offended) | /r/askTRP | 25/09/20 10:20 PM |
| 1 | Rate my tinder profileThanks Bro - I appreciate it, I'm really motivated to change these pics cos since these are taken i've leaned out and packed on more muscle, and currently rocking a good tan, so defo looking to update Thanks ! | /r/askTRP | 25/09/20 10:17 PM |
| 1 | Rate my tinder profileI can't grow a full head of hair that's why I shave it, it's quite thin and you can see my scalp | /r/askTRP | 25/09/20 10:16 PM |
| 1 | Rate my tinder profileI'd say my cut off is like 7/10 onwards, tinder does give results to me if i griiiind and put up with the cancellations/none responders, to the point I just think it's not worth it | /r/askTRP | 25/09/20 10:15 PM |
| 1 | Rate my tinder profileI change it a lot tbf - can't decide on one | /r/askTRP | 25/09/20 10:15 PM |
| 1 | Rate my tinder profileVery helpful :D | /r/askTRP | 25/09/20 10:14 PM |
| 1 | Rate my tinder profileThanks bro, much appreciated :) | /r/askTRP | 25/09/20 10:14 PM |
| 2 | Rate my tinder profileThat's good advice bro, thanks very much, following Kyle's advice i'm motivated as hell to get better photos | /r/askTRP | 25/09/20 10:09 PM |
| 1 | Rate my tinder profileThe Greek thing works quite well for me tbf, I've never been described as ethnic, but yeah some girls love hair | /r/askTRP | 25/09/20 06:09 PM |
| 3 | Rate my tinder profileGood profile bro - very good looking guy, I didn't know you could link the profile on a tinder URL like that. Yeah that's what happen to me, flooded me at the start then went soooo dead | /r/askTRP | 25/09/20 06:08 PM |
| 2 | Rate my tinder profileLOL Good stuff, thanks bro - I bought that suit a year ago for a wedding, and have since worn it once, I felt like a retard with two left hands trying to put it on | /r/askTRP | 25/09/20 06:07 PM |
| 3 | Rate my tinder profileI'm not - I'm getting fuck all results, a bunch of guys telling me they're good photos etc doesn't change the fact that I aint smashing, so it was a genuine ask from the tinder pros to help me out | /r/askTRP | 25/09/20 03:46 PM |
| 21 | Rate my tinder profileThis was insanely useful - thanks for the effort you put in man, muuuuch appreciated, I crack up a few times, very close with Turkish, i'm Greek, so not far off at all. It's weird because these were all taken on Iphone 10/11s on portrait mode, I think sometimes what happens is, the person sends it to me on whatsapp (compression) I then edit it on photoshop fix (further compression) I change the contrast/brightness and stuff like that, and tbh, based on your assessment of that filter work - it su… | /r/askTRP | 25/09/20 03:44 PM |
| 3 | Rate my tinder profileYeah but i'm weird af so it's cool | /r/askTRP | 25/09/20 03:27 PM |
| 3 | Rate my tinder profileHaha yes indeed, was a great holiday | /r/askTRP | 25/09/20 03:26 PM |
| 2 | How to deal with feelings of resentment towards women and societyThis is exactly my gripe, honestly, people will say i'm being beta or whatever, but it's the truth of the world today | /r/askTRP | 25/09/20 02:29 PM |
| 1 | Rate my tinder profileYeah that's what im thinking, get down to biz straight away in the bio, save all the bullshit. | /r/askTRP | 25/09/20 02:25 PM |
| 1 | Rate my tinder profileLondon, 27, and I only reinstalled recently, so too short to tell, but from the past when I had similar kind of photos, I'd say like..it got to a point where I'd get one of my super likes like me back every 2 days, then just not respond or something | /r/askTRP | 25/09/20 02:24 PM |
| 4 | Rate my tinder profileThis is great, thanks bro, deleted the baby photo, and time to go down the cocky route | /r/askTRP | 25/09/20 02:23 PM |
| 17 | Rate my tinder profileEveryone said the same, I deleted it | /r/askTRP | 25/09/20 02:22 PM |
| 9 | Rate my tinder profileWhat are your thoughts for good photos, HD Candid style shots or? | /r/askTRP | 25/09/20 02:21 PM |
| 7 | Rate my tinder profileIn the past i'd go like 1 month with 2/3 matches of average girls, then sometimes it'd accelerate a bit, then slow riiight down again, the algorithm of death | /r/askTRP | 25/09/20 02:20 PM |
| 1 | How to deal with feelings of resentment towards women and societyI never said they did, hence why i'm on a male RP forum on reddit, and not going round talking to women about these views, and they'd never guessed i felt this way from meeting me. You assume i'm not because I made this post, but really you have no clue | /r/askTRP | 25/09/20 02:17 PM |
| 1 | How to deal with feelings of resentment towards women and societyWtf does that even mean LOL | /r/askTRP | 25/09/20 12:28 PM |
| 1 | How to deal with feelings of resentment towards women and societyI'm on it - thanks! | /r/askTRP | 25/09/20 12:21 PM |
| 8 | Rate my tinder profileYeah I've done this 3-4 times, that rookie boost is quite good, i'm starting to think the ratio of thirsty men to decent looking women is like 100-1, hence the need for an algorithm to cycle this diluted market, prioritising those who pay them the most | /r/askTRP | 25/09/20 12:08 PM |
| 2 | Rate my tinder profileYeah one thing I thought in the past is maybe the profile is a bit intimidating, body photos, jaw line tensed etc, I think I need to make it friendlier like you said, thanks for the advice! I'm gonna get my wingman to snap shots till I hit that million dollar smile | /r/askTRP | 25/09/20 12:07 PM |
| 7 | Rate my tinder profileI literally can't, I can only smile if i'm naturally laughing/happy, when people are taking photos, if I tried to smile, it'd come out as unnatural as Kurt Cobain on his wedding day: https://imgur.com/XMzmh4x | /r/askTRP | 25/09/20 11:59 AM |
| 3 | Rate my tinder profileThanks man! - i'm not joking you, it ramped up to 48 matches in Gold in less than two days and I was thinking, FINALLY, and since then, it's stayed on 48 for 3 days lol - when I say the app is just money grabbing and shit now, people try and defend it and say if the profile is good you will get great results, but i'm not convinced | /r/askTRP | 25/09/20 11:34 AM |
| 2 | How to deal with feelings of resentment towards women and societyI think part of the reason is lockdown means I got more free time than I did before, and even though I read, lift, work, etc, I find myself having less social time (because everything is closed) and more time seeing all the annoying shit on social media | /r/askTRP | 25/09/20 09:29 AM |
| 2 | How to deal with feelings of resentment towards women and societyTo be honest, I discovered this forum recently and I'm glad I did because it's a good space to talk to like minded people, i'm in a similar position to you in that, I don't speak about this stuff to anyone because no one would get it, so it was just a bit of a rant, I do feel grateful and positive for what I have and I can see how it would seem like i'm being a bitch from your perspective, I just want more than i'm getting right now, but I do need to always remember to be grateful. | /r/askTRP | 25/09/20 09:21 AM |
| 2 | How to deal with feelings of resentment towards women and societyEven moving out of London to other parts of the UK makes a big difference, I sometimes go up to Manchester/Brighton to party and it's SO much easier that end | /r/askTRP | 25/09/20 09:16 AM |
| 18 | How to deal with feelings of resentment towards women and societyVery insightful and true, I see the same faces of 8's+ never finding this boyfriend they're after, they really do want some CEO/Celebrity, you see them on social media, single forever, their own greed will prob leave them lonely, and I installed tinder for 2 days, and was done with it after 2 days... | /r/askTRP | 25/09/20 12:04 AM |
| 17 | How to deal with feelings of resentment towards women and societyYeah I know what you mean, I do love the process, I do love the satisfying feeling of pulling an 8, I love lifting and for the most part I am a positive person and wouldn't change being a man, I've had two LTR that were pretty good, just turned out to not be right, it's just, I live in London, and that culture is massive over here, and women here want EVERYTHING just because they're above a 6/10... | /r/askTRP | 24/09/20 11:43 PM |
| 1 | First dates ends with making out. Never getting second dates.Ahh this made me laugh, it brings me some comfort to know we're both going through it, and prob a shitload of others on this forum | /r/askTRP | 24/09/20 10:35 PM |
| 1 | First dates ends with making out. Never getting second dates.Very true - I use to text the day after asking how their day was etc, but since being on this forum I'm definitely gonna take a step back and give space | /r/askTRP | 24/09/20 10:31 PM |
| 1 | First dates ends with making out. Never getting second dates.Tbf, i have this same issue, I have a size 1 hair cut, i go to the gym a lot so i'm in good shape, and I'm greek (which round hear a lot of greek guys are 'players'), so I always hear the "are you a player" line which is ironic because i'm currently not smashing anyone, and the one date I get every now and then thinks im fucking 20 other girls when i'm not, and judge me negatively for something im not even doing haha, weird shit. My best advice to you would be read 'models' by mark manson, this … | /r/askTRP | 24/09/20 10:30 PM |
| 2 | First dates ends with making out. Never getting second dates.Yeah I've come home and told my bro that "I smashed it" "she's defo gonna wanna hang again etc", then they just flake/act really dry... It gets in my head too thinking 'why', but its an answer we'll never know, it just wastes brain space, but i feel your frustration bro | /r/askTRP | 24/09/20 10:24 PM |
| 4 | First dates ends with making out. Never getting second dates.This has happened to me quite a few times, kind of mind boggling and demotivating tbf, and it does leave you thinking wtf happened... Honestly, when you're trying to kill the single game, you have to close your mind to all the possibilities of 'why', there's too many variables, girls going back to BFs etc. The only thing in your control is how well you game it, keeping the mystery there, confidence, working on your looks etc, just focus on that and keep moving forward | /r/askTRP | 24/09/20 10:20 PM |
| 2 | Not sure what to think about a quite strange event that happened a few months backI don't know your situation (hair wise) but razor shave it, and get jacked, I'm not going to say that it wasn't hard for me - like I said, I decided to go razor shave at 22, there was obviously hair loss for years leading into it, and it bugged me a lot at the time, but once I shaved it, went crazy at the gym, built confidence, the results with girls spoke for themselves and I never thought twice about hair loss again, honestly | /r/askTRP | 18/09/20 01:08 AM |
| 2 | Not sure what to think about a quite strange event that happened a few months backThe problem for you right now is you're in a 'haze' and lack direction, I've been there, the BEST advice I can give you, is read, when you read the books about this kinda stuff, it puts things into such perspective and you'll get all these light bulb moments and it's very uplifting as you can see a way through and a life where you don't get treated like shit by women (Models, 3% man, and no more mr nice guy are my recent reads), it's got nothing to do with losing your hair, you just think it is,… | /r/askTRP | 18/09/20 01:02 AM |
| 1 | Precum pregnancyWell yeah - based on that, fuck all thoughts of sex, find out if you're gonna be a dad or not first LOL, then fucking comes later, don't message up until that day - and goodluck | /r/askTRP | 18/09/20 12:58 AM |
| 1 | How do I get my (nearly) fiance back?LOL!! I really laughed whilst reading this...like..a lot Man....come on, stick to the no contact, trying to get her back at this stage is a fruitless task, give her time and space, and forget all these bizarre ideas and go no contact haha (I've reread this response 3 times, it's so elaborate I just can't help but piss myself laughing) - this better not be a troll after all the useful advice i've given | /r/askTRP | 18/09/20 12:55 AM |
| 2 | Precum pregnancyBased on that, the power is still on her side, double message is never a good one, give it some time imo, then if she doesn't message for 1-2 weeks, slip in off the radar on like, a story response, this way it's less direct than a direct message on whatsapp or message | /r/askTRP | 18/09/20 12:49 AM |
| 4 | Not sure what to think about a quite strange event that happened a few months backIt's not weird to be angry, if you invite someone one on one, and as they're about to leave they say 'we' it's fucking weird, and rude. I don't want to 'kick you when you're down' cos you already acknowledged it's pathetic, but, you really should've cancelled the second she said she was bringing another guy, cut her off, learn from this, work on building self esteem/confidence (gym, good books on communication, grooming etc) and move onto the next, and do NOT let something like this happen again | /r/askTRP | 18/09/20 12:47 AM |
| 1 | How do I get my (nearly) fiance back?Honestly, I've done so much similar stuff, and heard identical comments back, the best thing to do now, is take a step back, you just have to, because the more you message, plead etc, the more unattracted she'll get, she has literally 100% of the power now, and is on a power trip, so is finding it really easy to reject your advances, leave on a high, proud note, go no contact, it's gonna be rough, but go to the gym, see your pals, do what you gotta do to stay busy, and chances are she'll message… | /r/askTRP | 18/09/20 12:36 AM |
| 2 | Precum pregnancyIt's hard to give this advice in a 'generic' sense, it's all situational on the last chat had etc, normally me and my friends look at screenshots of the chat etc before giving an opinion, gives a good idea of whether you're chasing/losing power, or are reigniting at the right time | /r/askTRP | 18/09/20 12:31 AM |
| 1 | How do I get my (nearly) fiance back?What a fucked up situation, atleast you got an awesome story to tell now, not many guys get to experience that! But yeah, this may have fuelled her to pursue other things, one guy said "Worst case is that she wipes you, which sounds likely. Women are different to men and can turn the switch off instantly, especially if they feel jaded or scorned. Also, if she’s attractive, she will have unlimited access to thirsty guys and once she realises this after being with you for 4 years then there is no … | /r/askTRP | 18/09/20 12:29 AM |
| 1 | Precum pregnancyHit her up for what - details of the pregnancy scare, or to fuck haha | /r/askTRP | 18/09/20 12:26 AM |
| 2 | How do I get my (nearly) fiance back?It will always bother you, trust me, that seed only grows... and it'd cause problems in the future, cos you'll never know, you'll always wonder 'did she or didn't she' Truthfully, most the time they have, I say this because there's not many women strong enough to lose feelings for a guy quickly without another guy in the picture, I know that aint what you wanna hear, but it's the truth, I had the EXACT same situation during a messy break up... still fucking but 'not seeing other people' she sudd… | /r/askTRP | 18/09/20 12:25 AM |
| 2 | Precum pregnancyTbh - if you're in the clear with the pregnancy thing, and you guys have good sex and it's not causing you any aggro, I don't see why not keep her around, the second this new BF talk starts getting annoying or detrimental, then just ghost her out | /r/askTRP | 18/09/20 12:19 AM |
| 1 | Father wants to meet me in private. Drug usage. Younger girl.....This is an odd situation, I know there's no way in hell i'd meet some 18 year olds dad, I didnt even meet my old GFs dad after 3 years, unless things are getting serious, theres no need for this You don't want some clint eastwood style guy up in your grill telling you to stay away from his daughter, but I guess you're worried if you say no he'll 'forbid' her from seeing you... When she told you he wanted to meet, surely you asked questions like 'Why does he want to meet me' 'did he get angry… | /r/askTRP | 18/09/20 12:16 AM |
| 3 | Are all blowjobs like this?Some are pros and it feels awesome, some are cheesegraters and it sucks, you got one of the shit ones. | /r/askTRP | 18/09/20 12:11 AM |
| 1 | How do I get my (nearly) fiance back?Hey man - I empathise with this, it's a tough spot, no doubt about it, given that you said "I simply won't marry this woman if she's already been with other guys." pretty much concludes what you need to do now...let it go, I know that prob hurt to read cos you don't want to, but she's hiding her phone, changing passwords, and now is in mexico living with two guys...I think you know the answer to your own question. I think it's best to move on - because even if she did come back, the thought that… | /r/askTRP | 18/09/20 12:10 AM |
| 1 | Precum pregnancyI feel everyone goes WAY too hard when a guy fucks up like this, MOST of us have gone in raw like morons in the past, he knows he fucked up and I imagine will think twice next time Bro, the odds are in your favour, and even though i'd love to say you're in the clear/you're not, only time will tell. If you know her ovulation date, I assume you guys are pretty open, would she even see it through in the unlikely event she got pregnant? Cos if not - that'd bring some relief | /r/askTRP | 18/09/20 12:00 AM |
| 1 | Does regular sex fix the feeling of loneliness?From my personal experience - it doesn't fix it, it makes it better, though. I had a fuck-buddy for 2 years who I'd always full back on when horny/bored, she wanted a LTR but I kept it casual always, which made her come back for more, she recently got a BF and ditched the situation, I have no other plates right now..and its been this way for some months, feels shit and I feel waaay lonelier....I felt a lot better when I had the fallback, but just working hard on myself and powering through | /r/askTRP | 17/09/20 11:55 PM |
| 1 | Should I go through with this?Personally, I'd go, but don't make it easy for her to get you there. Being surrounded by women and alcohol... you can't say no really... Say, where are you thinking of going, then when she says the place, wait a little while to reply, then say "Okay cool, I might pop down around X time" then just go...keep that mystery/anticipation imo | /r/askTRP | 17/09/20 11:53 PM |
| 3 | Told my oneitis to fuck offDon't go hard on yourself - I've let the anger get the better of me and nerdrage and block, only to feel regretful after. Do NOT unblock - trust me, I've made that mistake too, and you might even get the "Decided to unblock me" message, to which you're relieved they've messaged, but this path is truly lame, beta and an illusion to an inevitable brutal end. Stick to your decision, keep your head held high, if she comes back, she does, if not, who cares, focus on yourself and other prospects | /r/askTRP | 17/09/20 11:38 PM |
| 10 | After some reflection, I don't even really like girls and all their bullshit...It's difficult, this culture is becoming so popular it's really hard to find someone who isn't part of it, where I live theres SO much of those toxic traits you mentioned, and it leaves me at a stand still sometimes... You just gotta keep going, rocking the things you love with confidence (nerding out on things) and just finding girls that appreciate it, I know theres few and far between nowadays, but just keep going, stay positive and work on yourself, | /r/askTRP | 15/09/20 11:38 PM |
| 1 | How to tell when to put on the gas or when to chill out ?I have suffered with this forever - for me (and I imagine you can relate it) is you worry that if you try it, it might come across as unnatural and weird and kill the moment, I worry that even if I was to touch a girls arm whilst flirting, it'd come across robotic and autistic. SO - what has gathered me a lot of success (albeit a bit beta as it's 'asking') is if i'm in your situation, watching a movie at my place, I'd say something to get some kino going, once you say it, you're committed and ca… | /r/askTRP | 15/09/20 11:21 PM |
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