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| 6 | Advice for a 37 year old virginIf you saw an attractive woman (by your standards) on the street, would you have any urge to go up and talk to her? Not OP but i would think to myself shes really attractive, I dont have a chance in hell and i would avoid looking at her like shes the sun. | /r/seduction | 24/09/22 08:48 PM |
| 3 | How to start a conversation with girls?you know you can just hang out with your friends? meet people through friends of friends and such? Been hanging with my "friends" for a long time now and never see one girl introduced to the group lol. Some have wives and gfs but never met one single girl through them. | /r/seduction | 23/09/22 04:36 PM |
| 1 | You’re scared to approach the woman you like because you think she’s better than youI have no idea. I dont even know what I want anymore to say what I want to become. If I could just find something that brings me joy maybe, but everything feels like a hassle tbh even things that are supposed to be fun. | /r/seduction | 20/09/22 01:50 AM |
| 1 | You’re scared to approach the woman you like because you think she’s better than youOnly thing i can remember is just feeling that way about myself. Maybe something is wrong with me. I just dont understand how therapy could help. Ive never talked to anyone about it because I couldnt take the anxiety of being around them afterward. | /r/seduction | 20/09/22 12:00 AM |
| 1 | You’re scared to approach the woman you like because you think she’s better than youI was similar except in my younger years throughout elementry and jr high i was one of the best in grades and sports. But i just remember thinking "what for". After that I started not caring, dropped out of sports did the bare minimum to get by. Hell my senior year I think I missed 45 days, idk how I passed. That has been the only common factor in my life. Whenever I become good at something, I lose all joy for it. Whether sports, school, guitar, fishing, gaming, etc it just loses all meaning. I… | /r/seduction | 19/09/22 11:53 PM |
| 1 | You’re scared to approach the woman you like because you think she’s better than youI see what you're saying but anything improvement related is just another avenue for my mind to shit on myself. | /r/seduction | 19/09/22 08:48 PM |
| 1 | You’re scared to approach the woman you like because you think she’s better than youI will try and see what happens. I have friends but I could never talk about this stuff with friends and family. Tbh idk what it feels like to love anything. I used to like doing things but nothing really brings me joy anymore. Ill give an example how my mind works. I went from 215lbs pretty chubby to 170lbs with abs @ 5'10" but my mind just says "you could be 190lbs shredded you loser". Idk if its some perfectionist mindset or what. But my mind wont let me enjoy reaching a goal or accomplishing… | /r/seduction | 19/09/22 08:41 PM |
| 5 | You’re scared to approach the woman you like because you think she’s better than youI mean i can remember back as far as 12yrs old looking in the mirror calling myself a loser and ugly so idk. I did grow up pretty poor. My family has always loved me and been supportive. I just always remember hating myself. Wasnt picked on in school or anything either. I even had girls confess to me in school but i blew them off because i knew how i saw myself and they wouldnt like me if they got to know me. | /r/seduction | 19/09/22 08:07 PM |
| 23 | You’re scared to approach the woman you like because you think she’s better than youSo what if i have some things that could go on the list objectively, but mentally I dont see myself as valuable or these things as valuable. Like no matter what i accomplish I still feel like a loser. | /r/seduction | 19/09/22 06:58 PM |
| 2 | The number one thing you must do from here on out if you are serious about changing your luck with women.I have solely blamed only myself since puberty. So i dont think its always the case of blaming others. Whether calling myself fat, ugly, loser, bum, boring, or piece of shit I have done this to myself now for 15yrs and i cant really stop it now. When i see myself in a mirror its an automatic reaction to shit on myself. Dont get me wrong i started OLD and got my first date @28yrs old i got my first kiss and lost my virginity on the very first date of my life. So apparently im not too bad off. Som… | /r/seduction | 14/09/22 04:44 PM |
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