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Being red pill doesn’t make you bitter towards women lol. The Chads I know are red pilled through experience, they are more likely to be red pilled without a label than blue pilled.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 12:21 AM
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is it normal for a guy to feel insecure if he discovers that his partner uses toys? No, this is not normal. he’ll (most likely get insecure) if she has a past is too open. Wtf?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 10:15 PM
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Most people have low standards. That's why their life is ass and people complain all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 07:04 PM
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You think you'd still be happy going your whole life without anyone showing any sign of sexual or romantic interest towards you? If the roles were reversed women would feel exactly the same way men do. Women also feel this, just not to the extent that men can experience it. There's a break-off point where women cannot enter into that "extreme level of loneliness". I don't believe this supports your argument though. the average woman can have sex or start a relationship anytime she likes If you w…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 05:19 PM
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It's dangerous to like any group of people "a lot". The reality is that women need to increase their standards, but remain reasonable once that adjustment is made. The hypergamous nature needs to be practical. If women increased their standards, this idea they will be used as a weak loving gazelle will dissipate. Man plays video game while he's out of shape? Gone. Man goes to bars while his financial life is not in order? Gone. Man wastes time complaining about not getting dates on Reddit? Gone.…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 04:51 PM
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One of my best friends in high school was lesbian. She taught me a bunch of secrets, but we would never hook up, she was genuinely disgusted by the thought of penis lol. One of my other good friends I still have from high school came out to us a year ago, we were 27 at the time. He mainly hangs with women, but as a guy having a gay dude around helps a lot. If I need advice on styling, I just call him right up.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 06:22 PM
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Even if that was the case, it still doesn’t invalidate my point of why the initial friendship is attractive. Anyway, most women are attracted to masculine men who have power over other men and that collect more resources than the other guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 05:35 PM
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Pretty simple, women have the ability to have a male friend without worrying about that man trying to advance sexually. There's no psychological or back-end theory here.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 03:49 PM
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If she is not conditionally feminine, then doesn’t she act submissive, agreeable, and sexually inviting to every man? No, I also wouldn't consider "sexually inviting" as an attribute of femininity. That would be a relationship dynamic. So, if we remove that, and start with submissive and agreeable, the answer is still technically no, because "every man" would include men in situations where your conditions should never be expected to be met (or at least 98% of time). For example, in general, a w…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 04:50 PM
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Conditional femininity/masculinity = men will act feminine, and women will act masculine until both of their conditions are met. What you’ve described here is really just “waiting”. A man who engages in conditional masculinity in this context is essentially screwed, it’s not really an option for men. It’s also a poor decision for a woman to be conditionally feminine in my opinion, but that’s much easier to get away with.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 06:55 AM
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Yeah, that would be fine. However, the argument starts due to the fact that women often lack self-awareness, and have wants that conflict with their current actions. "I want a child by the time I'm 30" "I will only have my child with a man who is tall and rich" With the attributes of - *Overweight, rude, masculine, career driven, not submissive* If you concede to dying alone as a woman, or in the mans case in my hypothetical scenario, dying without getting rich, all while continuously living in …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 07:27 PM
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There is some super cringe “red pill” content out there, but for the most part, people seem to wildly misinterpret red pill talking points. This is fair given it has become so popular, but the experience people share about red pill when they’re looking to disagree with it is usually pretty far off. Men don’t denigrate women for wanting rich and good looking men, they point out the fact that most women don’t have the qualities men who are rich and good looking search for, yet women think they’re …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 08:32 AM
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Disney (and pretty much every fictional story we tell) really just stems from stories going wayyyy back in human history, and even the bible (not religious myself, but it’s true). They’re arguably connected to deep rooted feelings we all have, and those feelings would exist whether or not Disney told the story. Also, nobody wants to think they’re not “the one”. We all have our own conscious experiences that we need to protect…. Women seem to be more concerned with protecting their views on the w…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 06:55 AM
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Standards and preferences are interchangeable in this example. I understand your point, but it’s a moot point in terms of my response above. Not saying it’s uninteresting, but it just doesn’t change my point really.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 07:31 AM
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Huh? How can you attribute an argument like that to a group of people with no data backing it at all? I’m sure there are loads of men who fathered a child that weren’t theirs that are pushing for this, or men who caught women who tried to play it off and they were outed beforehand. As for the latter paragraph, yes, I agree. However, this is likely a lot less practical than how you’re painting it. Large groups of society will have to meet each other doing things they wouldn’t be happy with doing …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 07:20 AM
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That’s just simply not true. I mean, just think about it, that makes no sense. Women don’t talk to ANYONE that doesn’t meet their standards? This is crazy talk.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 07:17 AM
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This just made no sense whatsoever. I asked a question, and then you said “Yes, because….”, followed by an explanation that doesn’t add up at all in relation to my question. If a woman voluntarily makes her standards part of the discussion, it is no longer “none of his business”, and your entire defense goes out the window.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 04:05 AM
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Who is debating women’s preferences? Are you saying that men telling certain women that they’re likely to settle based on their standards, means that those men are debating against their preferences? That’s pretty off…..they’re not debating against their preferences, they’re saying that they are unrealistic for a specific individual, and so they’re likely to have to adjust their preferences at some point, or live in a continuous state of delusion. It would be like telling a man who wants to get …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 01:58 AM
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There’s a lot of nuance here, but imagine a man meeting a woman at a club. They discuss terms to move on from the club scene after dating for a bit, but she continues to do it. This man isn’t “dumb yet”, but in the case it persists and he marries her, then yeah, he’s dumb. Before the marriage point, the “you don’t trust me” issue may arise, and it’s not that the man doesn’t trust her to a healthy extent regularly, it’s the fact that she’s going out in revealing clothing and placing herself in si…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 01:50 AM
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If I was simply addressing your title - You can never 100% trust somebody else for extended periods of time. People change, people’s ideals change, people can change all of their belief systems in under a decade…. That’s why things like prenups exist, as well as other safety precautions for long term relationships. Your examples are where things definitely go south on this topic….. The proposed ideal for mandatory paternity tests is not necessarily about an individual directly accusing their spo…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 07:26 AM
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Some people don't think there's a difference, and believe it's bad on both sides. Would you agree with that idea (bad for both men and women)?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 08:42 PM
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Yeah, this is where making a lot of money as a man could go south (eventually). You have to pick carefully once you’ve “made it”, because you may sweep a woman off her feet with your high value lifestyle, and she’ll act perfect, but eventually, she could become jaded and start complaining about absolutely ridiculous things because they’re just a natural complainer. You have to search for women who essentially don’t really “care” about anything you could provide, but just highly appreciate it. I’…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 06:25 AM
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I really want to know why I got a D-, and not a F. ignoring all other context in favor of a headline, despite the context being repeatedly given in the actual OP and in my responses. So are you admitting your title does not accurately reflect your post? Are you a journalist here? The reason I am using your title in my argument, is because your title is a summary of the rest of your post, that's what a title is.... Also, it's not really my fault that this... If your believe system makes you feel …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 03:21 AM
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Reddit is really a cesspool of people responding to content on more forward facing social media platforms. The question is really why is the gender way becoming so popular on more popular platforms for video?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 12:39 AM
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Your title stated that a belief system that makes you feel good, is not serving you. I provided a belief system that would make you feel good, and serve you. You’re weaseling your way out of it by tossing a bunch of unnecessary deconstructions towards my example. “Someone’s healthy belief system that being fat is bad, can make them feel good, and serve them”. “Well, this doesn’t leave room for healthy fat!” Like, wtf, lol. It doesn’t matter, it still makes them feel good, and serves them. There …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 12:19 AM
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I’m asserting it because we’re debating, lol. You still haven’t disproven my example, you’re simply trying to argue that because there is a healthy range of fat, a healthy belief system that makes you feel good is not serving you. This doesn’t make any sense. However, this doesn’t matter either way, which is why I labeled it as grasping at straws. Belief systems can make you feel good, and still serve you at the same time. I have provided an example that you have yet to disprove.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 07:53 PM
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Your idea here is just not valid, and this can be proven by looking at how you had to bend my point to argue it. Having 0% body fat is not ideal of course, and this is obvious. Having a healthy range of fat means you are not “fat”, to argue this as if it’s not a given is grasping at straws. Your belief system can serve you well, and make you feel good, without being labeled as an excuse, or something that isn’t serving you well. Also, I wasn’t saying the Dunning Kruger effect in and of itself ex…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 06:10 PM
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Eh, this seems pretty off. The practical goal of a belief system is to develop heuristics that typically result in positive outcomes. For example, if my belief system allows me to believe that being healthy is good, and being fat is bad, my heuristics will likely cause me to make healthier decisions, and therefore, result in a bunch of positive outcomes, as opposed to another belief system that would lead me to think, “Being fat is okay!”, and continuing to eat like shit. In the case you have be…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 08:01 AM
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I never said “hugely accomplished”. I said any accomplishments. It is fairly difficult to have a good conversation with someone who doesn’t accomplish anything, which is most people. There’s nothing to talk about, no experiences, and everything will be speculation based off of no solid ground.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 05:40 PM
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Most men get pretty nervous on dates, other than that, most people in general can’t hold good conversations because they’re dumb, and or they don’t have much going on in their life/don’t hold any accomplishments. If you were to ask most people what they accomplished in the past month or so, the answers would be incredibly boring, or the answer would be “nothing”. Aside from that, the “being dumb” usually comes into play either way for men AND women, because if you don’t know that the easiest way…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 08:55 AM
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I stayed home until 25, when I could have left at 21, and had a nice place on my own. I left my home with a large amount of money, and a lucrative business. I purchased a nice house, and got my dream car. Went from looking like a dork, to “what the hell does that guy do?”. Nothing wrong with staying home past 25 either, what matters is what that person is doing at home. Unfortunately, it’s likely they’re screwing off statistically speaking, but realistically, people are home with family for a lo…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 08:14 AM
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Jesus Christ
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 11:29 PM
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I never said people would stop having kids without marriage, that’s an insane statement. You’re not arguing my rebuttal here….and your argument that doesn’t apply, still doesn’t make sense. My point was that OP is arguing that men are upset about things that they aren’t, and in reality, men are already talking much more about the danger of becoming very involved with poorly vetted women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 11:14 PM
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This depends on who you know/what your social status is. I know a good handful of men paying alimony. Regardless, that point is rather irrelevant. Marriage and reproduction coexist for most logical people, so it’s the same talking point.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 10:15 PM
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Men, in general, do not want societal safety nets for themselves, nor do they complain about societal safety nets for women. Women are more vulnerable in the case of something like homelessness, but more often, “women’s shelters” are more prevalent in given areas for domestic violence fleeing. The chief complaint from men, is unfair treatment in family court. Which is why there is a lot of pushback from men on marriage in general lately. The gender dynamics debate is increasingly popular for thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 09:05 PM
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Definitely not a problem in the way you seem to see it. You can’t be considered “dominated” in a game when your goal was never to partake in said game in the first place. College has been regarded to as “sketchy” for quite some time now, and any success data really requires high levels of skepticism, as data could easily be cherry-picked. All of my most successful friends, including myself, all opted-out of college. The writing on the wall was quite astounding in regards to your chances of leadi…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 06:57 AM
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College has a horrific success rate, is often overpriced, and there is an excessive amount of content on the internet explaining why modern college may not be right for you. Men have been opting-out of college and taking alternative approaches. It’s not “domination” in that regard, men are just taking a different route. Also, I’ve never met a man who wanted to be a kindergarten teacher. I’m not saying there’s anything wrong with a man wanting to be a kindergarten teacher, or that the world revol…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 06:30 AM
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Depends, some debates are good. I think some people have just silently conceded to some opposing views over time, and now there’s less progression in debates here. As an example, it seems to me that a few RP talking points have kind of “won” in a way, and the next evolution of them is pretty boring debate wise. A year or two ago, I would mostly see people arguing that n count doesn’t matter, now I’m seeing arguments from those same people saying that “it depends on where/when a woman obtained a …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 07:45 AM
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Yeah, I can't consider a guy who can simply allow for SAHM to be "top tier". There are a lot of men who can provide this, but don't fit other qualifiers that women lay out. Either way, I'm not exactly sure what your angle is here then.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 07:58 PM
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Not really, a top tier guy is someone who can afford high end cars, jewelry, frequent vacations, and can invest in their spouse’s endeavors while their spouse does not have to work at all. Supporting a family is lower on the totem pole there in terms of “top tier guy”. But to clarify, when you say support a family, I’m assuming you mean SAHM right?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 01:03 AM
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You really think men wanting to be loved originated recently? That’s wild. Men and women both want to be loved, and for the most part, always have. Men feel comfortable telling women to lower their standards because it’s ruthlessly obvious what the end result will be of having unrealistic standards, as well as a delusional take on your own SMV. It’s just basic math, if most women want the top tier guy, either they have to share them, or they will be unhappily married if they don’t work on adjust…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 08:22 AM
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I am one of “those guys”, and so are all of my friends. I run multiple businesses, have exotic cars, a luxury home, etc…. Then people try to argue that “high-status men don’t really care about these things”, it’s like…..okay, I’m lying? Every single dude I’ve met in my journey who fits the criteria of what these women want ALL think the same way. The denial is unreal, and it’s coming from people who don’t even rub shoulders with the people they apparently know so much about, lol. Either lower yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 12:44 AM
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Yeah, I mean, given the idea that her Instagram isn’t just clickbait or attention grabs, this person is a pretty solid snapshot of desperate women in NYC who are likely to settle at some point. They move to Manhattan “for the lifestyle”, get a higher paying job, then essentially act like men for 5-10 years while ruthlessly increasing their N count and standards. Then they wonder where all the good guys are at, likely never realizing that in relation to their goals, they were simply doing the wro…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 12:27 AM
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Most high-status men would be willing to settle down. The deal just has to be good enough, and they often can find that. However, someone like this seems to be a fairly bad deal, and also likely has some emotional problems. This is just based on my observation of her need to publicly and desperately address her superficial wants, even if it is just for attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 12:14 AM
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Some other people in the comments think it's a location problem of NYC having too many options for top tier men. This would be irrelevant either way. She has a very public profile, if a guy wanted her from anywhere that fit her standards, then it would be a done deal according to her. is your take that if a woman presents herself more as being a wifey type, AND being attractive physically, that's the more golden strategy ? No doubt this is the correct strategy, or at least it's much better than …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 11:28 PM
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people really don't care about all that, especially when they are already high status, like this woman. This woman literally makes videos saying that she cares about "all that"?? She looks for ivy league investment bankers making multiple 6 figures.... You're making a lot of assumptions about who she's into. No, you are the one making assumptions, lol. She literally says that's what she's into publicly. It's right there on her profile.... Where are the women who are at her status that aren't loo…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 11:23 PM
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why do women like this have no trouble finding men, but a lot of trouble finding men for commitment Well, her body is all over her instagram, and her standards are "ivy league, above 6 figures, and about to get a bonus", which is a pretty low portion of the population. Having high standards is a good thing, but when your actions don't line up with what the average high-value guy looks for, you're going to have an issue finding commitment. In fact, you look pretty dumb, because you're actively do…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 10:58 PM
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Most of them. Men don't realize how stupid they look when complaining to other men that have actually struggled to get to where they are. It's like they think our paths were somehow easier, but yet we struggled (and still do) with the same exact things they do, but we just overcame it and repeatedly did things we didn't want to do. It's like they think our lives were different, or our path came with less resistance, but the reality is, once you actually start trying, you face even more resistanc…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 05:49 PM
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Money definitely helps you get women, but it depends on how you use it. If you try to impress women with your money, you will fuck up. But dating and sending small signals you have a lot of money is definitely going to help an introvert.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 07:03 AM
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I’m M, I prefer the opposite, I’m not neat, and I’m very busy. I like to have my hobbies, and they have their hobbies. I care for my business, I prefer someone who cares less for their career. Though emotionally, I like someone who is the same as me, which is controlled, and is willing to ponder their thoughts before speaking.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 11:57 PM
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It’s fun once or twice if it’s deserved.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 05:10 AM
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I think you’re exaggerating. The large majority of men who seek these “similar” attributes wouldn’t say, “I do not care if she has no ambition whatsoever”. That would essentially make someone intolerable to be around. So this is just kind of a bad faith twist on men who want a more traditional relationship. I think if you really peeled the layers back on this topic - a good part of it derives from the fact that most women will want to ditch their career at some point anyway, and there’s also a g…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 06:44 AM
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You could also fit almost all of those prerequisites for being unattractive, but have money, and then you’d be fine, lol. I know guys who aren’t stoic at all, pretty shy, indecisive, etc., but they make good money, and they’re fine because of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 06:22 AM
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using logical fallacy to try to get what they want I can't tell if you're just being super bad faith right now, or if you actually operate like this. Simply trying to get what you wan't isn't aggressive behavior, you're essentially strawmanning everything I say. What you do in pursuit of getting what you want could very well be aggressive, but trying to get what you want is not. Either you actually operate like this, which would be interesting, because it proves my whole point, or you're just be…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 10:20 PM
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When did I say trying to get what you want is aggression?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 07:42 PM
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Women are actually slightly more likely to be aggressive towards their partner physically speaking amongst younger people, but more often than not, they use indirect aggression, and it's easier to get away with because of this. Indirect aggression could be insinuating something without directly making an accusation, or using logical fallacy to try to get what they want. Which is essentially what you did by trying to boil down my argument into "Women should just do whatever men want". It's a tact…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 06:45 PM
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There is a study where men were tested to see if they were intimidated by highly educated women on Tinder, the answer was no. So that kind of aligns with what you’re looking for, but the main objective was to see if men were actually intimidated by highly educated women, and not if they were specifically attracted to them. Essentially the conclusions were that men don’t give a shit, but I could see this being used in a specific BP debate. However, there are also a lot of things in it that suppor…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 08:23 AM
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Your preconceived notion here seems pretty bitter. Why does it have to be “mindlessly following everything I want”? A lot of men are just treated aggressively by their partner, despite the man being the full package (like I said). Whenever this is brought up, bitter women just label other women with happy lives as zombies. I guess it works as a pretty solid defense mechanism.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 07:40 AM
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I think one of the best things I’ve heard is that a man’s day starts when he gets home from work. So many women are causing men pain these days by just not acting like women. I got lucky, but I definitely feel for men struggling finding the treatment they want, despite them being the full package.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 05:24 AM
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You just argued that a 22 year old woman is very different from a 28 year old woman. Then argued that 6 years doesn’t change much and that both are comparable. This will be an awesome hill to die on if you’d like. I understand that this could allow for a false sense of security, but this isn’t really debatable. You can easily find immature 40 year olds, but generally speaking, a 22 year old woman is going to be much more mature than a 22 year old man. Also, you’ve already lost this debate by act…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 07:36 AM
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Do you live under a rock? Girls mature faster than boys. A 22 year old woman is very similar to a 28 year old woman. A 22 year old “man” isn’t even comparable to a 28 year old man.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 07:01 AM
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Labeling this as schizo just makes you low iq. Anyone with two brain cells to rub together can see the major holes in this take. You don’t seem to qualify for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 05:41 AM
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You’re continuously ignoring half of my reply lol. In that case, you’re still prescribing women sleep with men early to have a good dating life. You’re completely ignoring this contradiction.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 03:14 AM
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You didn't answer my question, why? Your post is impractical, and your comments contradict it. Women won't just sit around being disliked by men. So either you think women should put out quickly to lock in the guy they want repeatedly, or remain disliked by men until they "meet a unicorn", which would make the person who waited the winner since they obtained the unicorn, lol. Either way, the take is still bad. Women who hold out won't struggle in gaining a relationship, they will wind up with be…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 01:10 AM
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This is a mind-boggling pivot, lol. Men don’t actually like women who don’t sleep with men quickly I’m not telling women to have sex with men quicker Oh, so just be disliked by men until you put out quicker, or just never be liked by men? Got it. At what point should a woman sleep with a man who she wants to be with? That way she can avoid being disliked because she isn’t putting out then?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 11:57 PM
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This is a bad take. You’re in college telling women they will struggle in their dating life if they don’t put out early, yet as a woman’s body count increases, her chance of a future long term successful relationship decreases. You’re in college, you’re not dealing with men, you’re dealing with boys (especially if you’re dorming). In the future, you will see the women who hold out wind up with a better partner, and the ones who put out quick will settle.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 11:46 PM
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You’re right about the average guy having a better chance by doing this, but it’s not what women truly prefer. Even then, the move is risky, because men could fuck it up easier than playing it cool. Sounds nitpicky, but I’m mainly just arguing against your title because I think it’s important. Women actually prefer being able to obtain a man she wants to be with right away. For example, if a woman is at a large gathering, and a man of higher status is there who is surrounded by woman who are all…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 07:05 AM
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I don’t think you understand what the point of this data is. Im not invalidating anything, their relationship has a lower chance of working out long-term statistically speaking.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 12:59 AM
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No. The main issues aren't cheating or leaving, those are short term problems that give you the answers. The bigger issues are the overall baggage, lack of connection, etc., when one could easily choose to find a better option. That being said, we're two interactions into this discussion and you're resorting to creating an unrealistic scenario to prove something? I would definitely try something else, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 10:33 PM
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But not with this obsession with numbers like people do on PPD. Not much of an obsession, it's fairly easy to find the data on it. People talk about it IRL, but it is a rather odd topic to be bringing up out of nowhere. Also, if your circle would disagree with n count having an effect on relationships, it's equally understanding they wouldn't look for data to prove them wrong. However, in this case, they are wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 10:23 PM
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Many people who have no idea what PPD is are aware of these studies. It's not a "PPD Study", it's a popular topic far outside of this sub. Your explanation of why my previous take doesn't make any sense, actually makes no sense. Me - It’s irrelevant whether or not someone looks at any data on the subject, the result will be the same whether or not they are aware of it. You - That doesn't make sense.....how are you going to vet against high ncounts? Your response isn't even a logical argument aga…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 09:58 PM
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Low IQ take. It’s irrelevant whether or not someone looks at any data on the subject, the result will be the same whether or not they are aware of it. If driving while your tired increases your chance of an accident, it doesn’t matter if you read a study on driving while you’re tired, your chance of an accident is still higher while driving tired. Men also avoid it naturally, so there’s that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 09:18 PM
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This makes absolutely no sense. Your preferences become much more bulletproof with studies to back up your preference, as long as your ideal outcome is to have a long-term happy relationship, this makes perfect sense. If data shows you reduce your chances of having a good relationship by doing (X), then it’s very logical to avoid (X).
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 09:12 PM
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Even if those two things discontinued, it would still hold a stigma. The data proves that N count can effect your relationship. Higher N count = less likely to have a long-term relationship, Lower N count = more likely to have a long-term relationship. Men will always look to avoid putting themselves in a relationship with a high N count woman, it's essentially illogical to pursue the opposite, because you're putting yourself in a worse situation when you don't have to.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 07:46 PM
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It seems like you didn’t read the post at all. If you read the post and my comment, and thought I was trying to argue that men or women don’t cheat, your comprehension skills here are pretty horrendous lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 01:31 AM
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Not sure what your point is in regards to mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 12:13 AM
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The women here are mostly just strawmanning your post, which is unfortunately just easy to expect at this point. If these women didn't receive the amount of sex that THEY wanted in a relationship/marriage, they would blame the entire demise of that relationship on the fact that they didn't receive the right amount of sexual attention. However, when the roles are reversed, they will strawman you....... Man - "I'm not receiving the amount of sex I'd be happy with." Woman - "Oh, so you think our re…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 04:55 PM
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You’re creating an unnecessary comparison that is also likely to not even be true. Comparing a doctor who owns his own practice to an NBA bench warmer isn’t a comprehensive comparison while discussing “status in society”. They’re both already beating 99% of society, and at that point, their options will be so wide it becomes irrelevant in any practical sense unless you’re talking about one night stands, but you’re not. Getting rich makes it much harder to not obtain status, you’d have to be a co…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 05:08 AM
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A lot of energy and wasted time is spent trying to get people to “admit” and being angry over it. Eh, not really. I think the entertainment sector around this topic does this, but for the most part, people just learn it and move on. Most successful guys I meet including myself are all "red pilled", it's just that we barely even talk about it. As a weird hypothetical, some random dork could start yelling about red pill in a fancy restaurant, and most men would agree, but those men would just keep…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 08:47 PM
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My view is simply that the environment that makes dating hard for men is because of sports culture I don't think it's this. I think it's the brain rotting media that most women consume in the west. Just look at anything popular amongst women, it's actually insane how out of pocket it is, yet it's become completely normalized.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 08:38 PM
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I think most normal people, man or woman, have the ability to lean on someone of the opposite sex for either sex or companionship. They might not view that person as an ideal long term partner, but they’re still there. People online debating against this idea aren’t usually “normal” in my experience. If you’re doing absolutely nothing to make yourself at least somewhat attractive, that’s just not normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 03:59 AM
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It does get easier in the sense that the average guy who meets a few pre-requisites starts to get more options. That is because that’s when the average woman typically starts to actually look for their equally average man as a partner, as opposed to thinking they can attract an above average man as an average woman. However, I don’t believe this is the start of a happy life for both parties, and I believe this is one of the main contributors to divorce down the road. In other words, women become…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 06:32 AM
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Not sure where you live, but being lazy where I live is part of the job…..lol If you were doing smaller contract work, that’s a different story. But unionized construction is filled to the brim with laziness.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 03:15 PM
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You don’t need a full time job to not be lazy. And lazy construction workers don’t get fired unfortunately LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 12:51 PM
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Being a stay at home doesn’t make you lazy haha. You could be a lazy construction worker. And you could be an active stay at home. My girlfriend works very hard on helping me since I’m busy, takes care of the house, and is very active throughout the day.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 08:04 AM
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56% of women with kids under 18 would like to stay home. 39% of women with no kids would like to stay home. I would wager there is also a significant portion of women who know deep down they would stay home if presented with a favorable scenario, meaning a large portion would essentially lie if asked due to societal pressure. That being said, the split is likely 50/50 overall. You won’t really see a lot of women have these conversations unless you’re a man who could provide that life. Even my gi…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 07:10 AM
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Self improvement is too subjective, so you’d have to define what is mandatory and what is optional. Aka - A need vs A nice to have.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 03:05 AM
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To be clear, I wasn’t saying you specifically should be worried. I was speaking generally on how it’s quite obvious it’s not just a piece of paper. To be fair though, almost nobody thinks that “hell on earth” is around the corner for them. Everyone who gets caught up in it would likely say the same thing before it happens, which would “I’m not worried” lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 05:24 AM
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Well of course it’s not just a piece of paper, you’re signing up for hell on earth if you are wrong about signing that piece of paper haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 05:06 AM
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I don't think most men understand how low the bar is set for actually becoming successful. Most men have just never "played the game", and are actively assuming successful people have some odd form of knowledge that they don't, this is not the case... I can't even begin to tell you the amount of people I have met who are fully capable of structuring a much better life for themselves, but they are either way too risk averse, or just don't understand how bad most people are at keeping their word/s…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 07:14 PM
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I think a key component to this topic is that if you do have that itch to not be patient, it’s best to scratch that itch early on. I don’t believe you will ever learn to be patient unless you are not patient in the first place. On top of this, not being patient can actually result in good things…. I don’t suggest this to everyone, because you have to have the control to eventually pull back, but I choose to live above my means for a significant portion of time, and this forced me to make my life…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 09:12 PM
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The very large majority of people aren’t born ugly. Being ugly is almost always due to something that could be avoided - bad haircut, lack of hygiene (especially teeth and skin), overweight, lack of effort in picking out clothes, etc…. It’s not very difficult for people to see that someone wouldn’t be ugly if they just put in effort, and so I think for the most part people simply don’t respect ugly people because they are avoiding these minimal responsibilities. I forget the name of the sub but …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 03:21 AM
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The very large majority of people consider their phone to be their primary method of communication. This is a crazy argument, I have never lived in an area where it was acceptable to knock on someones door in the middle of the day to have an insignificant conversation. This is a disruptive thing to do people, however, as I said, this may be normal to unproductive people. Sorry to put it that way, but I have just simply never heard of this being acceptable. If someone were to do this even once bi…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 11:42 PM
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How else? How else what? How else should you interpret this other than thinking "the primary way people should contact me is by phone"? You shouldn't interpret it differently, this just is not something that is wrong to think, and it is irrelevant to my point. If you were gunning to debate over what I find important/worthwhile, you are very far behind from the actual point, which again, is what I just stated. If someone knocks on my door in the middle of the day to discuss the fact that a new re…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 10:33 PM
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There is nothing wrong with me, you are simply incapable of understanding my point. This is now your second time misinterpreting my statement and going in another direction, and unfortunately it seems even if I tried to further explain my point, you would once again not understand it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 05:12 PM
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It’s not upsetting, and I never said it was upsetting. I’m simply stating that when it happens, my level of responsiveness/reaction to the situation will be dependent on how worthwhile it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 02:25 PM
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Thank you, but didn't take much thinking on my end, just have to talk to a woman about it, lol. I talk to my girlfriend and her friends about gender dynamics rather frequently, it's just a topic I enjoy.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 11:46 PM
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Uh, not sure how you drew that conclusion. Our time is equally valuable.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 11:44 PM
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The comparison is less about the expected privacy of a particular scenario, and more about the fact that you are interrupting what I would otherwise rather be doing. If you interrupt what I would rather be doing, whatever that interruption contains should be worthwhile. It has nothing to do with where I am.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 11:42 PM
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As a man I feel the modern equivalent to a cold approach for women is someone knocking on my door while I'm home. If you're knocking on my door, it better be something important/worthwhile. Otherwise you should have contacted me in another way. For example - Two days ago my neighbor knocked on my door, I jumped out of my chair and went downstairs to open the door, her husband went to the hospital and she needed a ride. This is okay. If you knock on my door to beat around the bush and fumble your…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 06:23 PM
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If your point is that men require some form of challenge prior (ie childhood challenges) to properly receiving encouragement and support in terms of becoming successful, then I would agree for the most part, but if that is your point, your messaging is wildly off.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 08:46 PM
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Challenges come with encouragement and support, otherwise there would be no sense in completing any challenges. Your interpretation here doesn’t really make any sense, taking on challenges with encouragement and support is obviously ideal when growing and becoming more successful.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 06:56 AM
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Patrick Bateman Lol? Andrew could partially be a good role model for people who know when he’s joking or over-exaggerating, but only if you’re looking for specific qualities. The sad reality is that there’s just such a huge lack of men trying to support other men that someone like Tate could be considered a role model that would result in people wildly improving their life.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 06:37 AM
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I would say the large majority of men discussing these topics aren’t “complaining” about it, they’re just pointing out the reality of the situation. Women try to accuse men who have preferences of participating in the same activities they do, but that’s usually not the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 10:27 PM
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What is something these women overlook? What are the points you’re referring to? If you believe there are points being made that would lead to a utopian society, I would point these out.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 07:48 AM
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Perfect timing for Vice on this one
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 04:29 AM
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Can you give one? I'm just not understanding how her statements are inconsistent with the actions of others or herself.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 10:03 PM
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Do you mind expanding on that? Possibly attempting to substantiate the idea these are red flags?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 06:11 PM
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What red flags did you notice?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 05:30 PM
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That would kind of be ridiculous, because in that case other women will obviously shut that down. I guess we will see, it's obvious who this woman is to the people who worked with her (if she actually worked with them of course) because of her wrist tattoo. The other women who were working with Andrew will most likely point this out, either that or they will come forward and remain anonymous themselves. I think this would be the nail in the coffin either way, either women come out at say she's l…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 12:13 AM
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Could be, not looking good though.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 12:10 AM
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Andrew Tate has admitted to using the loverboy method to get girls to webcam or escort for him. Is there a video out there of this? I've heard of it but never saw it. Also, yes, I'm very aware of how trafficking actually works for the most part. I've told my girlfriend this in the past as well as her friends. With Only Fans growing at an astonishing rate, I think it's important for women to know about this. It's most likely to be someone you know or someone you're friends with. The problem as I …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 12:10 AM
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Oh my bad, I've totally seen this dudes videos. I just never remembered his name. He has huge success with his channel, millions of views. Totally understand what you're saying, but also I don't really see her doing it to that extent in this video. By detailed I meant that she shared some info on the business that only people who worked there would really know.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 11:47 PM
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that she had sex with him because he was really nice to her after he punched her. I didn't hear it as her saying, "I had sex with him because he was nice", to me she said after she came out of the bathroom he was "acting nice" after he punched her. However, I do understand what you're saying, on paper it is illogical, but clearly there are a lot of factors involved here that would sway someone logical judgement. That's my point in saying, "it's fair".
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 10:41 PM
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Well at that point I think it’s more than fair to assume that women are afraid that if they say no it’s going to be much worse than a punch.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 10:13 PM
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Haven’t watched JCS. Not familiar with that. My point is mostly that it’s just too convincing for me personally. I still think it’s wrong to say you’re 100% sure he’s guilty or innocent. However, this is coming from someone who I would have to say was definitely involved in the business. Pointing out how they grew and moved locations, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 10:12 PM
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Women Allege Sexual and Physical Abuse by Andrew Tate - This is a bombshell. I liked Andrew for a lot of his attributes, and while the media is still guilty of twisting the story of recent events, it is looking like he is guilty here. While I still feel as if I don't have enough information, my hypothesis of him "not being guilty" is seeming to be wrong at this point. Her story is too convincing for me. Maybe I'm wrong and she is lying, but like I said, it's just too convincing. Too graphic, too…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 09:50 PM
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I think that would confuse a child and throw them off in their development. Not seeing any bit of love derived from a sexual relationship in early development is probably not good. Of course this could also exist in toxic relationships, but even in a toxic relationship, it’s still a relationship that can have it’s good moments. At the end of the day, they would probably look for friendships in everything and not know how to view a real relationship, or have a really bad concept of relationships …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 07:28 PM
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Is anyone arguing that it would improve society? At the end of the day, the market for it would probably be there, and it would be from people who just really cannot find a sexual partner. I think it would be nice for people who are severely disabled for example.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 07:16 PM
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What’s purge week?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 07:03 PM
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That’s probably the best case scenario for someone who wants to give up, although that is so unorthodox I would have to question the mental health of both parties that are willing to do this lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 07:03 PM
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That I have no idea of. I would assume some do and some don’t. Most Agency owners in this space have experience with marketing like myself, and I’m not sure how many traditional porn professionals have made way into this sector as it is an entirely different ball game. Fun fact : the same people who film really high quality porn are the same people who film your favorite movies lol. California is a wild place. I would assume there will be some men who completely avoid it, some men will do it her…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 06:09 AM
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Yes, the service is actually really helpful when implemented correctly. The smartest business model I’ve seen so far is building an audience of men who are willing to pay for only fans on accounts the agency owns, and then cycling in new women to that account once they have converted a certain number of those men into paying clients. So for example, “Jenny” starts off with the account owned by the agency, receives guidance on building a large male audience, converts a certain number of the audie…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 05:26 AM
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If anyone is interested in the Tate shit, here is some info. This is also my hypothesis on the Tate situation. If you don’t care, I’d check out now. I’ll also preface this with saying I was actually interested in the business model of an OF agency, not to involve myself in it, but a lot of my industry applies to it, so I did research and fell down a rabbit hole lol. For those who don’t know, Tate’s house was previously raided by the Romanian equivalent of the US FBI in suspicion of Human Traffic…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 04:53 AM
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What makes this confusing is that nobody is really aware of the laws in Romania, and for the most part everyone reporting on it clearly has a narrative. What also makes no sense to me about this is that 6 victims are claiming to have been forced to create pornographic content while being housed…. Didn’t Tate and his brother have dozens of women working for their webcam business? Could they have picked out 6 women in particular to actually force to work over all the other women working for them? …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 04:17 AM
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As I said, that’s fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 05:43 PM
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Please point me in the direction where I said hooking up with your girlfriend is hook-up culture. You legit can’t read, that’s why I said your username checks out.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 05:43 PM
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Do you not know how to read?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 05:11 PM
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Name checks out
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 03:56 PM
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The unfortunate reality of this conversation is that it is quite pointless. People who like to engage in hook-up culture will just continue to do so and believe it has no effect whatsoever. That’s fine, let them do so. I never believed in it, I’m 26, and I have been with my girl for 7 years. We both never believed in it, and I think this has brought us a lot of success. Over the past 6 years I built my business, we have amazing lives, our relationship is traditional and very functional. Other pe…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 07:19 AM
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he’s an accused criminal though This is what I’m referring to.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 08:09 PM
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Well I don’t think you could even consider him “accused” of it. The laws might be different in Romania (doubtful), but in the US “accused”, legally speaking, means you have been arrested or formally charged with a crime. If you’ve seen streamers get swatted, it’s pretty horrible to watch, especially when it’s kids. People have been killed over it too. To consider a kid who was streaming and got swatted as actually “accused of threatening to kill his mother” is not only legally false, but pretty …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 07:17 PM
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I’ve heard of the human trafficking incident, but I’m not sure how one could consider him actively “accused” of that? He was swatted. What I heard was that an American woman who slid in Andrew’s brother’s DMs came to visit him and was in their house and got caught on social media being there by her boyfriend, her boyfriend called her and she lied saying that she was trying to leave but they weren’t letting her, then she hung up the phone. Andrew and his brother weren’t even in the house, they we…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 06:32 PM
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What is he accused of?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 05:58 PM
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that neglect normal experiences in the human brain. Like what? Who are these men that think this as well? they don’t share the same fucked up nature we do We can avoid an entire conversation about whether or not men are more aggressive beings, and jump right to the point that generally speaking men are way more capable of violence than women. Women have to interact with men who are way more capable of hurting them than they are capable of defending themselves. Therefore, men will want to protect…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 05:53 PM
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I figured you did, but you had me confused in the first half haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 04:15 PM
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Eh, I think that’s too broad of a statement. Simply being 6’2 and lanky doesn’t mean anything will look good on you, you still have to know how to dress and match well.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 05:57 AM
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Considering both are hypothetical and unrealistic scenarios (although A is arguably what we live in now), I think the idea would be that you couldn’t lie about it lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 05:19 AM
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Dude just always knew how to dress
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 05:16 AM
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I don’t think you understood my first comment. I said I have yet to see an argument CONTESTING the idea that having a high body count could lead to a lack of commitment.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 05:14 AM
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Those are just arguments that would agree with what I’m saying?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 12:46 AM
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The former will have to put more effort into finding women who they will most likely lie to about their intentions. The latter does not have to put as much work in and most likely does not have to lie about his intentions.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 07:10 AM
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This is what I say all the time…. It’s a justified red flag regardless of gender IF you decide to hold that preference. I have yet to see a single argument contesting the idea that having a high body count could very easily lead to a lack of commitment that is reasonable to me. However, the whole conversation gets diluted with hypocrisy so it’s hard to even get that far.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 06:58 AM
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Well I never said making a lot of money is the same thing as having your shit together, however, making a lot of money is usually done by people who have their shit together. We’d have to define “a lot of money” for your former point I think.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 05:55 AM
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That being said, having a high paying career puts you in proximity of other high paying people, but it doesn’t guarantee anything. It definitely does not guarantee anything, but it's pretty damn close to a guarantee. Considering the fact that a large portion of relationships start because of work (right behind meeting through friends), I would say that taking up a career in something like luxury real estate is essentially a surefire way to meet someone who has their shit together lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 11:53 PM
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The people who shame strictly because of that preference are just wrong. The people who point out the hypocrisy are not wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 06:29 PM
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I think men would really stop losing this argument if they would just let go of the double standard. Men will try to defend their ability to consistently and repetitively give into the same temptations they damn women from being able to partake in at the same rate by imagining that the same consequences don’t apply to men from doing so. If a guy has a huge body count, that can be a red flag for the same reasons it can be a red flag when applied to a woman. There’s no real sensible argument for s…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 07:07 AM
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Yeah for sure, but also have to keep in mind that it’s just one person. Someone’s occupation doesn’t usually have much to do with whether or not they’re a psycho.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 06:50 AM
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Eh, I think you just caught a bad one. I know a lot of people on the interwebs, most are actually really nice, they just refuse to have a normal job.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 03:39 AM
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I was very onboard too, really came out of nowhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 03:37 AM
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People who actually do that over long periods of time very rarely advertise it. It’s just what they do. I’ve been on business trips and other people will be like “If anyone wants to join me for morning yoga tomorrow, it’s at 5:30AM”. I sit there shocked at the fact that person actually does that. Same with vegans or vegetarians that have been that way for life, you go out to dinner after knowing them for some time and it turns out they don’t eat meat. Anyone who advertises it without someone ask…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 07:41 PM
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I know this isn’t the point, but that seems comparable to saying “I’m not sure if this plane is safe to fly, so to test it out I’m going to fly it and see if it is safe”, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 05:19 PM
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Well that’s an entirely separate topic, my point was that the comment you’re referring to seemingly doesn’t align with your title. It seems as if you feel more against the idea of men complaining about how promiscuous women tend to be while simultaneously being upset that women don’t put out immediately for them. While I agree doing/thinking both is counterproductive and borderline hypocritical, I don’t think I could label that as “stupid”, as there is a strong factor of “every man for himself” …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 05:04 PM
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That comment seems to be more focused on the fact that a woman is advertising that statement in her bio and feels as if it’s necessary to do so rather than what you’re eluding to in your title.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 04:17 PM
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You’re just an observant person, but don’t use it to think the game is rigged against you . It’s rigged against everyone, but that’s the point of life. There are women out there that are the prize and are worth the work you have described here. You may have just not met one yet. I can see an argument that there’s seemingly less and less out there, but again, that goes back to how the game is simply rigged. Doesn’t mean you can’t beat it though.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 06:52 AM
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This is why people start businesses. I wouldn’t say your philosophy is that strong though. The thought that hard work or sacrifice can go completely unrecognized and without any benefit is a bit strange. There is always good that comes from it, even if it’s pointless…. Also, at the end of the day, I think 99% of what we do is irrelevant and pointless anyway. It’s the 1% of things we do/find out that make all the difference. However, all of the things we do in the 99% that don’t matter lead to th…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 06:43 AM
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The realities being that living a life of higher quality is near impossible to do without a partner for the majority of people. I grew up in NY, everyone around me was at least in some form of good condition. Very rare to see someone who was legitimately repulsive, I now live in South Florida and NY, between both of those places you’ll see people dating all over the place, conventionally unattractive people will be with conventionally attractive people and conventionally unattractive people will…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 09:28 PM
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because what they get from being in a relationship with a person that isn't very close to what they have in mind as an ideal, isn't that appealing anymore. Yes, because the think they can live a good life without a relationship. My original point was that the people who think this way are just young and hold an inaccurate forecast for the future. People will 100% lower their standards of looking for an 8 or above once faced with the realities of the world around them. I agree with the rest of wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 09:53 PM
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Sure, if you have to choose between an abusive man or an obese woman and a smaller/less ideal living situation, for many the choice would be taking the hit on the living situation while continuing to look for a better option. However, it’s not one or the other. While obesity is prevalent, obese people will still find relationships, especially with other obese people. Abusive men are a far lower percentage of the population than obese men or women too. Also, my argument wasn’t that people who are…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 03:09 PM
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Eh, I think you’re kind of an asshole here. The girl needed help with her car and probably didn’t have many other people to call so she asked for your help. You don’t need to do it and it can’t be expected that you would, but it’s just a person asking for help. The questions she asked were nosy, but she clearly just likes you and your responses are a little dick/a bit unnecessary. Again, just want to put emphasis on the “kind of an asshole” here. I don’t think you’re doing anything wrong, and yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 02:50 PM
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It may be so far and few between to the point where it’s not even worth bringing it up, but I’ve heard women 100% admit that they do this.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 02:40 PM
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I really don’t understand what part of the country these “You don’t need a relationship anymore to live” arguments are coming from….. Sure, if you’re in your 20’s and live with 3 roommates in a big city, you don’t need a relationship. Almost everyone I know who lives with roommates couldn’t afford the whole place by themselves though, so what happens if your other roommates leave? You’re going to downgrade or continuously live with other single people? Also, you’re going to live in apartments/re…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 02:18 PM
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Problem is that so many people base their entire personality, beliefs, morals, and ethics on short social media clips. Not only that, you can receive support for the most unideal life decisions and viewpoints. It's absolutely rampant, and now it's somewhat rare to find people who don't spend at least a decent portion of their time on social media these days. To be clear, I don't find anything necessarily wrong with that, especially if you're consuming good and "mildly" educational content for be…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 07:47 PM
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It really depends on your interests and hobbies and if you share similar ones. However, your point is valid. I would do what I do with my girlfriend regardless of whether or not I had a girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 07:39 PM
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My point was not that opportunity cost itself is a fallacy. Opportunity cost is very real. I believe saying someone else’s opportunity cost is higher or lower than your own, and using THAT to justify not taking advantage of your time, or not looking for more time, or not looking for more opportunity creates the fallacy….. Essentially my point is that everyone’s opportunity cost is the same because we’re all capable of better. Monetary gain is irrelevant in this particular thought process to me, …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 08:56 PM
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To be clear, I didn’t assume you were a small biz owner with that statement. I believe it applies to everyone. Opportunity cost being higher or lower depending on the individual is a fallacy IMO. Believing so is one selling themselves short. There are always other things you could do that would increase your quality of life in the present or future. That’s even without the thought of a future family which you may change your mind on.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 05:16 PM
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If you want to look at it from the most selfish standpoint possible - having a good woman will definitely result in you making more money. Still have to weigh the pros and the cons, but it becomes rather difficult to manage everything that comes with life without a partner (a big one being homeownership, which everyone says is a lot of work but nobody really respects the claim until it happens to them), there are alternative ways around this that you can pay for, but then you’re paying service f…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 04:20 PM
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Men who are business owners that are good with women aren’t good with women because of money. Their emotional awareness is at a “female” level and that’s why they have success. In an odd way, most business books for men are just discussing how to seduce other men. When you get good at that, talking to women becomes a lot easier as you learn how to speak to someone in the way they like to be spoken to, mirror them, view the situation from their perspective, and can keep a conversation going. This…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 07:57 AM
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People will always want to watch people lose an argument/have a meltdown due to what someone else has said. It’s not about their talking points, it’s about the reactions to their talking points.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 07:45 AM
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I have many tattoos, but I don’t think choosing not to date someone because of tattoos is shallow at all. Especially when they’re bad tattoos.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 08:56 PM
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Recessions mostly show who prepared for the past 10-12 years for the next recession, people who did will shine, and for the others, their mistakes become clear. This is generally speaking of course, exceptions do apply….. Point being, each recession comes with opportunity in almost every facet in life. While it may feel wrong to view it this way, especially as an empathetic person, it’s just the reality of the world. Many people completely change their lives for the better during/coming out of a…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 08:53 PM
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I’ve met/had small conversations with a lot of A-list celebrities. You would walk right past them in the street if it wasn’t for their security. There were times I had to ask before walking up to them if that was actually them before I made a mistake because of how different people look in person.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 06:49 AM
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Oh, yeah, huge difference between those two things. Edit - although OP just said that isn’t the case. I wouldn’t know though.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 11:19 PM
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Where was it said that people selling their bodies is a new thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 09:09 PM
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selling their souls in McDonalds Pretty bad comparison. The average age of a McDonalds employee is 20 years old and nobody in the future cares if you worked at McDonalds (even if you’re outside of that average age range). Working at McDonalds also doesn’t affect your ability to work towards something else while you’re supporting yourself through working at McDonalds. Working at McDonalds is a starter job, it’s mostly students. There are definitely people who work there that should be moving on, …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 09:06 PM
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The mental health field is riddled with this, I’ve gotten my therapist and psychiatrist to admit it lol. Imagine knowing exactly what somebody needs to hear and do but you can’t say it? That definitely becomes very frustrating.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 03:38 PM
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I always make the joke that this exists for men in movies. There’s so many movies out there where “the nerd gets a chance”, it has to be that way because the movie has to be unbelievable to an extent. I think this is men’s version of false hope, the “nice guy gets a chance in high school”. In 50 shades, the guy had to be into weird ass shit or else that movie would have just been a normal day in a big city lol. While it’s not all that common and you can’t expect it, a rich man picking up an attr…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 02:30 PM
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I worked very hard to be very well off in my mid 20’s, but I believe a UBI is inevitable. Unfortunately, I think there’s going to have to be a lot of government interference with price of goods and services. Labor prices are a bid from businesses that await acceptance. At the end of the day, there will always be a plethora of people of who will take what they believe is a fair price for labor and live for years on end in shitty fashion. We’re not going to break this cycle because nobody will eve…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 02:50 PM
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When you become noticeably intelligent in one thing, you will seem intelligent in most other things you do because of the conviction and confidence you have built from the one thing. Of course you can apply the principals of learning one thing to the other, but I think the overall boost in conviction and confidence is the main factor, you’ll be more calm which will allow for better and quicker thinking. One of the best examples of this is learning a martial art. When you’re constantly learning n…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 05:15 AM
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The majority of people on the internet aren’t qualified to give advice. However, more specifically, yeah, there are single women out there that see any little blip in a relationship as an opportunity to tell them to break up because that’s how they spread their misery. It’s just a very sad coping mechanism.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 05:01 AM
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Being tall helps in your professional life in a way that’s not comparable to having big boobs. Also, not sure if the obsession is more so about being over 6 ft or just not being short.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 04:56 AM
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Probably closer to 2 mill, I live in Ft. Lauderdale though, moved from Long Island. Just spend time in La Jolla and San Fran.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 04:39 PM
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Solid $1,000,000 in Cali.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 02:26 PM
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Well if I’m on point with your question here I think veterans are a perfect example of men being abandoned, but I don’t know if I can say for sure whether or not you’re more likely to be abandoned because you’re wounded (mentally and or physically?). Veterans are pretty much treated like they’re no longer useful after they trade everything for us to even be useful in the first place. My guess would be that you are more likely to be abandoned because the majority of people seemingly don’t have th…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 02:22 PM
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I think the accurate version of this is that “it’s a non-factor” if this is your opinion. When women say it doesn’t matter, their opinion seems like it’s more so just not a factor when it comes to who they are as a person. So yes, some still don’t want to share it for other reasons, but saying “it doesn’t matter” is just inaccurate when it comes to what they actually mean. To them, it’s just a non-factor. For example (ignoring the practical use of money), the amount of money I make does matter, …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 01:33 PM
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I would say repetitive bad experience with a specific trait can result in that trait being a genuine turn off, or at least causing the alternative to be much more attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 04:52 AM
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17 - getting that done allows for massive focus in your 20’s which will improve your life tenfold in your 30’s, 40’s, 50’s, etc.. What I think a lot of men don’t realize is that when you’re wasting another woman’s time, you’re also wasting your own.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 03:00 PM
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I mean, idk how you would possibly get doxxed from this.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 03:54 PM
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At a bar?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 06:01 AM
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What do you do for a living?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 05:43 AM
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Yes, this is very true. A somewhat accurate way to tell if a man is full of shit when it comes to “caring” is how much he helps his local community. A lot of men tend to pick problems that are way too big to do anything about while claiming they’re helping, but really they’re just trying to virtue signal and point their finger at others from their computer.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 05:41 AM
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How old are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 05:09 AM
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Lol I own a supercar, you’d be surprised how little women can care about it. Most of the attention comes from dudes because they think women must be all over me. Edit - I should point out that you’ll occasionally get flashed and have a girl yell something to you from another car, however, most attention is dudes lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 06:18 PM
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I grew up on Long Island, many rich parents did this and their kids are all lazy as hell. I grew up lower middle class and “broke the family curse”, so it does play out in my experience. However, I’m not arguing that overall a smart poor kid will do better than a rich dumb kid. It and can and does come down to how dumb you are though, I’ve seen quite a few people completely ruin the opportunities presented to them because they didn’t have the necessary tools to actually deal with the opportunity…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 04:36 PM
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You’re missing the point, it’s not an argument over whether a poor smart kid will do better than a rich mediocre kid. It’s that you shouldn’t treat your kids like they’re rich themselves and just hand them things without them working for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 05:45 AM
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Not having money can cause a plethora of issues, but you still can’t buy happiness. There’s a big difference between the two. I’ve been depressed in both situations, and tbh, being depressed and better off is worse for me because I don’t have much to blame for it. Brain just no-worky at those points because I was not doing the right things, I had no ability to say “Well if this happens, everything would be better!”.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 12:40 AM
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Well that guy will be fine lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 09:44 PM
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Yes, but again, the understanding you have of that paired with the fact that you’re not cynical towards conversations of this matter proves that you’re in a good spot. What it shows is that you have a “beacon” (funny enough, Beacon is in the name of my business because of this concept), you have a guide within you that will tell you when things are uncomfortable or not right. If you’re like me, this might result in anxiety or panic attacks at times, but that can mostly be from your mind telling …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 03:44 AM
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Stocks are a good place to park money, but stocks won’t really change your life unless you absolutely step in shit repetitively, which is an acquired skill on its own but that’s another story. Real estate is a simple one because the harder you work, the more money you’ll make unlike my comparison of a job that barely notices you for going above and beyond. That doesn’t go unnoticed in RE and rarely is it not rewarded. Also women do very well building a brand for themselves as an investor on soci…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 03:32 AM
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generally those women’s husbands make as much if not more. I can see that because it's a niche career path, what does your husband do?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 02:46 AM
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Like is a house a "need" if you have an apartment? I mostly focus on my public relations company because it really changes peoples lives and I love that, but my other business is real estate because I wanted to be able to help people during a stressful time where hospitality and good marketing really seems more rare than it should be. I don't have my license, I just run a team and partnered my public relations company to it for marketing. However, I can explain the differences of wants vs needs.…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 01:39 AM
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I might quit my day job but I’d still probably develop software because I genuinely enjoy the process of challenge and reward there. Well yeah, that's what I meant when saying... build skills in different things and get out there for other stuff that you have control over. My girlfriend doesn't just plug herself into the wall when I leave and wait for me to get home, she makes and sells candles (which are actually surprisingly good), goes to the gym, has lunch with friends, shops on certain days…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 01:08 AM
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downsizing for freedom as worth it So IMO not doing this is what screws most people over. It 100% makes sense to downsize for freedom. With freedom, you get back the most valuable asset in the world, which is time. Then you can decide what you want to do with it. Every multimillionaire and billionaire would trade all of their money to be young again. Even at 26 I would trade everything to be 18 again knowing what I know now. Since that isn’t possible, one of the best things you can do is downsiz…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 12:50 AM
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Well I think you’re reading it wrong, it’s not that anyone cares who is making the money, that’s a separate topic. If a man in a relationship holds the potential to make more money, it can make sense for the woman to quit her job to help in other ways so that the man is operating in a more practical way throughout his day. That is the decision a lot of people make when faced with the options. Also, money is a very crucial part of life, so being able to generate good chunks of it definitely shows…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 12:38 AM
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Bad health should be prepared for, abuse is another story though. However, it comes down to risk vs reward. I don’t think it’s unfair to try to mitigate risk in this fashion, however, my main point is that a lot of women go from saying they want to make their own money and have a successful career, to no longer wanting to work to be with their family. Also, to be clear, you shouldn’t sit around and do nothing everyday, that’s not good for anybody. You should build skills in different things and …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 12:30 AM
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It’s pretty disingenuous to say “she wants to lose money for no reason”. She said in her post that she has no plans to quit her job, and that she just wants to feel as if she could quit her job. Her husband is open to trying to make more money while being more financially responsible. This is all very normal. Having expendable income over living the life you want to live isn’t a good trade for a woman IMO. My girlfriend quit her job recently, I loaded up her bank account a bit incase anything ev…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 10:38 PM
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I agree with the 0 life experience concept, as a kid I never commented though, I just watched lol. Definitely more of a minority at my age, hence people poking fun at me for being on YouTube. I also agree with your level of communication comment, people in big cities aren’t really going to see eye to eye with people who live in areas where your neighbor is a mile away from you. Agreeing the grass is green and the sky is blue is pretty much the only middle ground you’re getting at that point. We …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 05:39 AM
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Remove confused and my answer would be all the above. Nothing really confusing about it when you really lay it out, this person was just playing multiple angles without being honest and picked one.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 05:26 AM
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I’ll kickstart a potential debate before bed…. When I was young, my father was given a toughbook from his job. Look up 2005 toughbook, you could easily kill someone with this thing lol. Now picture a 9 year old walking around the house holding it by the handle. I think I was in 4th grade and he showed me YouTube and the internet in general at that age. I was one of the first people I knew to have a laptop to use. People use to make fun of me for watching YouTube instead of TV in 2008, but I just…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 05:22 AM
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So there will be some additional constraints to this idea because of getting approved for things, but the number is really around 300k if you're willing to spend it all on a yearly basis. To do all of this within reason is another conversation. That's why private jets, exotic cars, expensive dinners, expensive clothes, etc., are really not all that impressive, if you add it up yearly, it's not THAT expensive. Don't get me wrong, it's nice, I love my lambo and flying private is a huge time saver,…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 08:11 PM
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It’s an ego thing, “Don’t tell me what to start watching! If it was good, I would have found it by myself!” Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 06:42 AM
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Do you like Always Sunny?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 06:41 AM
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This is the most unacceptable comment I’ve seen in this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 06:40 AM
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Could be, idk if I could call it a popular pipeline though. My assumption would be people with mental health issues are more likely to believe or feel as if “they’re just missing (blank)” and that they are trying to fill that void, and they think that by filling that void, they’d feel better. The problem is, whatever that thing is that you’re chasing to feel better probably won’t solve the problem, but you can feel better while pursuing it/experiencing it in bursts but the feeling is inconsisten…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 06:37 AM
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It’s not to me. Waste of time, waste of resources, potentially dangerous. Just not worth it IMO.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 03:14 PM
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Well I was more so saying it’s an issue in and of itself regardless of the child being there or not. However, I’m not complaining about seeing boobs on the highway during my commute, more so just pointing out the double standard and the fact that there’s women out there that find that behavior acceptable.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 07:01 PM
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I’ll see 🤷🏻‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 06:57 PM
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I haven’t been here for long, already accused of bragging and larping, so idk how long I’ll stay 😂😂.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 06:22 PM
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I understand your point on larping, didn’t mean for my last statement to come off as if I would disagree with that. I was just saying I’ve been accused of it (mostly lifestyle stuff). The problem with accusing someone of that is when people always talk about what people think or do who are in those positions - it’s pretty unfair to just assume someone is larping who claims to be in those positions. Bragging is another topic, and I guess I could understand that, but I find that pretty weird. I di…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 06:20 PM
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Of course, if you’re having those moments everyday, you are not ready for a relationship IMO. That’s something you need to work on yourself and you can’t rely on someone else’s state to keep you balanced. My example would be “I think I bring a lot to the table, but here are my flaws. Periodically I will get stressed, when I do, if I don’t do things to distract me like going for drives alone and playing engaging video games, I will initiate a perpetual cycle of my stomach acting up causing anxiet…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 05:00 PM
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This all comes from not setting standards and expectations IMO. If you come into a relationship like Mr. Perfect, when you as Mr. Perfect is having issues you’re changing what was offered in the first place. The only exception to this in my opinion would be a man holding back the troubles he’s having in his career and professional life. It can be very worrying to your partner to bring this up if you don’t do it very well, and sometimes you’re not in the position to do it very well so it’s best t…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 04:26 PM
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I believe so. I have young dudes ask me for advice pretty frequently, one of the most consistent things I say is “don’t spin plates” (I don’t say it like that, but you and I understand what it means). In reality, the portion of men that can genuinely do that without wasting time and emotional resources is most likely slim. If you’re one of those guys, cool, if you’re not, I believe damage is imminent. Waste of time, waste of resources, all while thinking no damage is possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 04:00 PM
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Never understood the brag accusations on an anon platform (hasn’t happened to me before, I’ve just observed it), I have been accused of larping as well, which I guess I understand, but no way to fully prove either side. If I posted something similar on a personal social media account, I might agree depending on the context. Your last paragraph is pretty much exactly what I said in my last. However, I still think it’s problematic. Very well could have had a kid with me during the flashing, you ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 03:51 PM
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Was driving my nice car yesterday and a girl with what appeared to be two of her friends in the car leaned on the horn next to me and yelled “That’s fucking hot! So fucking hot!”. I just smiled and waved as a natural reaction. She then pulled up again and yelled something about how I was hot and said something about road head but I couldn’t make it out fully. Then she followed me for a decent amount of time. A few days before that a girl sitting in the passenger seat of a jeep just flashed me on…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 05:08 AM
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You can wind up taking it too far and get addicted to it. Can’t say it’s a mental illness itself, nothing wrong with a few things that would make you feel better. However, it seems easy enough to completely lose sight of how ridiculous you look. Studies show only 28% of people are happy with their surgery and the majority regret it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 04:52 AM
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I think men and women should meet “naturally”, meaning not on dating apps or by thinking each other are hot on social media. I think the first impression should be in person. Go on a few dates, have some fun, and then lay out your expectations and standards…. In reality, there’s probably a lot of people out there that you could build a happy life and die with. People just treat each other like playing cards instead of meaningful investments.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 04:11 AM
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Porn fucks ya up, or at least that’s my experience. This is obviously way easier said than done, especially coming from someone who is in a relationship, but a few months with no porn will really shift my view on the world for the time being.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 03:58 AM
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You should have hobbies, but that has nothing to do with being interesting. It’s a bit of a mindfuck, but the way you come off as interesting is to let people talk about themselves and be interested in what they’re talking about. People will talk about themselves as long as you let them, and it’s easy to keep the conversation on their end even when they say things like “What about you?”. When you each leave the conversation, that person will feel like you know a lot about them but they didn’t re…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 03:58 AM
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There is a whole lot of crazy after the word “because” Calling what I said crazy to supplement your argument rather than just responding with an opposing view - check ✅ Women care about other women as human beings and we trust them. Bringing up random points that have nothing to do with what I said as if I argued the opposite - check ✅ We hit on guys (always have) because we want the guy, not because of some obscure thing that hardly ever happens Response that makes no sense in relation to my st…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 08:57 PM
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That’s not what I said, but I’ll entertain the strawman here because it gives room for another comparison. For me? No. For someone who is experiencing chest pains (in comparison, someone who is iffy on signals women are sending them or is in a situation where the chances of a false accusation feels/is higher) the statistical chance of dropping dead of a heart attack at that age can be used to help show someone who is worried about it that there’s likely nothing to worry about. This is what you w…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 03:23 PM
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That statement isn’t false, but doesn’t hold weight in this regard as there’s no agreed upon number or percentage of false allegations. You could argue this if we were discussing the chance of dropping dead of a heart attack in your 20’s because the probability of that is extremely low. You can’t argue against this fear as being invalid on the premise that people are afraid of things that aren’t likely to happen because you have no idea what the chance is of it happening to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 05:03 AM
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Calling that an extreme case to me takes away from the fact that it’s a very real possibility that men are aware and afraid of. Alternatively, many things that could be labeled as an “extreme case” would be a disservice to those who have truly experienced it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 11:27 PM
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I disagree…. Women are definitely starting to become more and more direct because they understand it’s not a “lack of adequate social interaction”. It’s that men by and large are afraid of making a “hot move” because their entire life can be ruined within a few days if they read a situation wrong and if that woman (who may have seen totally normal and into it) winds up to be a nut case who falsely accuses them. The majority of men are concerned about this and are very afraid of false accusations…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 10:58 PM
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It’s illogical - most people hold ideals for themselves that don’t reflect the worldview they suggest imposing or implementing for others. At the end of the day, most people would give this shit up if people were just in better positions, but people aren’t. For the majority of people, being in an above average situation by today’s standards pretty much requires you to push away and deny everything you’re being told for the short term. Men would sweep women off their feet left and right when time…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 06:21 AM
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I believe there is a balance, and I understand I might come off as a huge stick in the mud here, but this is why I think shows and movies that contain stuff like this aren’t all that good to watch. They dramatize horrible things that happen to real people for views. To me, it’s just kind of a cheap shot and I don’t find it enjoyable. People like to watch it because they like to get wrapped up in the drama of it and place themselves in that situation in their imagination, but usually those who ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 06:22 AM
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People will invent all kinds of twisted arguments to avoid confronting their own shittiness. Pretty much the main issue with the internet IMO. It has allowed groups of people to come up with the "best" excuses and pollute the minds of children and young adults. What may seem harmless to some who agree with certain things on the internet could very well be a very cancerous mindset/thought/idea to take in and repeat.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 08:31 PM
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A lot of people are jealous of other people for a lot of reasons. People will often give backhanded compliments and be sarcastic because they're insecure and don't have the recipe. I think most people are jealous of people who hold their youth, everyone would trade everything to be younger again.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 08:27 PM
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Nope, permanent decision in my eyes. As for the other question, that's fine, but it's kind of irrelevant when it comes to the main question IMO.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 08:21 PM
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I mean, I can see people arguing something along the lines of that love is conditional, and people "fall in love" because of what is provided vs what is at the core.... However, to say it doesn't exist, that's just an absurd amount of ignorance.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 06:25 PM
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There are people who actually think this?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 06:00 PM
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Tell the truth, it’s so rare these days it should be respected. From there, in the case they work on that issue, you can always get back together in good faith. I would have benefited heavily from the truth back in the day, it just took years of rejection for me to really look in the mirror.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 05:46 PM
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There’s nothing wrong with sending a message or that they want to send a message. Which is fine ???? you’re supposed to show who you are, not just mindlessly do things the way your date might want them to be. Are you just saying this at random? I really don't think you genuinely believe that on a first date both parties don't bend the truth at least a little bit to make themselves seem a little bit better than they truly are. That's extremely out of touch if you believe this. Most people aren’t …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 02:05 AM
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Women can pay for dates, it just depends on how the woman wants to present herself. There’s nothing that says they can’t. If a woman insists on paying, to a lot of men that’s seen as a sign they have something to prove, or that they want to send a message. Which is fine, that’s just how a lot of men will read it. I like to cook certain meals because when I was growing up I worked in a butcher shop, so I really like to cook steaks. However, other than that, my girlfriend mostly cooks for us becau…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 07:24 AM
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Never haha
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 04:17 AM
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People are obese and don’t brush their teeth. While I totally agree that there are moments of shock when it comes to how dumb people act, I find this to be the least surprising. Women be letting men hit it raw while not on birth control all the time. The only women I know who have gotten abortions are women who didn’t use any form of protection and frequently had sex. What a shocker, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 03:34 AM
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