| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 7 | Popular fake news debunked : men leave sick wives, college educated women divorce 90% of the timeAs someone with a college educated (to masters level) wife I don't understand how really? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/20 04:18 PM |
| 8 | Can women be this direct ?Sometimes, yeah. Especially younger girls. I've had a girl sit across from me at a table at a skate park, point at me, then point at herself, then do the finger in the hole gesture. Lol. Like you at the time I almost couldn't believe what I was seeing. Don't count on this continuing to be the norm after school/maybe university though. Adult women in the real world quickly learn they need to tone it down or they'll be avalanched with unwanted male attention. Younger guys are particularly obliviou… | /r/askTRP | 06/10/20 04:02 PM |
| 7 | How males may evolve due to hypergamyOk but for the record this - This wasn't the case with 1on1 marriage where every male was able to attract at least one female. Was never true. The closest would be arranged marriage cultures but even those marriages were not ubiquitous or afforded to everybody. SOME guys who could not attract women were "gifted" women in some special cultures and eras, but there has never been a society where every single man gets one woman, let alone genuinely attracts a woman. Guys who can't attract women now … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/20 03:46 PM |
| 3 | How males may evolve due to hypergamyThere was never a time where all men got a wife. Lol. Is that what all this is about? I never understood this weird entitlement aspect to the way incels and foreveralones and etc all talk, like they are owed a woman (despite the fact it has always been a privilege you earn with great difficulty), is it based on this misunderstanding of history? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/20 03:25 PM |
| 4 | What are some real ways men can feel they have greater success with women that doesn't involve women changing?It's amazing how much other things improve when your fitness improves. Confidence for example. A reduction in anxiety, too, better sleeping, which results in a clearer mind, etc. I'd suggest sprint intervals, on top of lifting. Sprint intervals shape your whole body better, improve your balance/posture and put a certain spring in your step that girls notice. Also improve your cardio more effectively which goes a long way towards improving your mental health as well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/20 01:35 PM |
| 3 | How to attract a woman( and not a shallow girl) and maintain a good relationship"Maintain a good relationship" isn't gonna fit into a reddit post. You can coerce someone into the sack with some simple tricks, making a relationship work long term is a totally different animal. There's no where to hide in that scenario, they're gonna see behind the curtain, so you better be ready to be seen. | /r/seduction | 06/10/20 12:39 PM |
| 1 | What's your true view on marriage as oppose to the red pill's?It's a risky undertaking and potentially the most horrific heartbreaking agony one can experience, but it's also potentially the most rewarding and gratifying life a human can have. All the people shitting on it are just hurt and/or scared, and I don't even blame them, they're making valid points, but make no mistake if they avoid marriage and children they will never be as happy as the people who pull it off successfully. There's a reason all the celebrities and billionaires and royalty and sup… | /r/ExRedPill | 03/10/20 01:18 AM |
| 32 | If you're shallow, and put a girl on a pedestal bc of her looks, you will be nervous and try too hard to impress her, then get rejected. If you're not shallow, but judge a girl for what is inside and not outside, your behavior and energy will be different, and your results will be much better.Every guy does. I disagree with op, some guys are just more cunning in their quest for ass. Deeper love is real but it builds slowly over time, wanting ass is how it starts. For everyone. The guy who just met you and seems to be interested in your inner being is a liar and a snake. | /r/seduction | 03/10/20 12:04 AM |
| 1 | Does the prevalence of sex selective abortion contradict the disposable man theory?To a family lineage a male is valuable because he can get more of the family's DNA out there, the female can only have so many babies. To a society men are disposable for the same reason. There's plenty of them able to make plenty of babies. We're better off if ONLY the best of the best succeed at breeding, but from the perspective of a family lineage their DNA is the best, even if it isn't, so families want lots of boys spraying lots of jazz around. They also have the primordial instinct assumi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/20 11:33 PM |
| 8 | So what if you've had a lot of partners?He won't exactly know, but he might be suspicious. And at some point might feel comfortable enough to ask "what so you've never ever in your life had a one night stand? Really?" , then what? You're gonna commit 100% to the lie? "yup, never ever". That's the smart move, but in a serious long term relationship lying can be really uncomfortable. And if you do ever say "OK, yeah I did a couple of times, I was dumb, I dunno", or whatever, your serious boyfriend or husband even is now gonna have it ea… | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/10/20 03:15 AM |
| 4 | Seems like women aren't attracted to men who are their equals, we still have to be bigger/richer/older etc,PhD but what did she look like? How old was she? A PhD adds no value to a woman, sadly. To her it does, and she might even feel like she should be with a male doctor because she's the female equivalent of him, but he will be like "yeah nah, do you understand what I can get?". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/20 02:28 AM |
| 2 | There is nothing weird about going out alone, as long as you are not self-conscious about itI don't even think about it any more, it's weird how a pack of friends felt like such a requirement when I was younger. But that's actually pretty standard for a lot of animals. Bands of juvenile bachelors will form after their parents shoo them away, but then as these juveniles mature they get less dependent on allies and even grow to be totally intolerant of them. At 37 I'm feeling pretty intolerant of a friend group these days. Has to be very rare small doses. | /r/seduction | 02/10/20 12:02 AM |
| 2 | For those who have a tall preference, what does seeing a tall guy feel like to you?I know exactly the guys you're talking about, the "hey your niece has grown, hasn't she..." guys. Face-palmingly obvious guys. What you don't get is that monster is inside every male, the most sensitive new age guy you met at the extinction rebellion rally who seemed really different, who didn't even glance over towards the girl in the short skirt and is vocally against treating women like sex objects... he's exactly the fucking same. He saw her, in his peripheral vision, but he was two steps ah… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/20 07:01 PM |
| 1 | I think we should normalize the idea that people have standards when it comes to dating.I think we should normalise that men and women are fundamentally completely different animals, and complaining about "double standards" is like complaining about being able to put plastic in the microwave but not metal. "What's with the double standard microwave??? GahH!" So much gender debate is bitching about double standards, and it's based on the patently false premise the genders are the same. Yes this does umbrella over "standards" as well, women are supposed to have higher standards than … | /r/ExRedPill | 01/10/20 08:47 AM |
| 3 | We should view men who pump and dump and women who finesse men for money the same wayI respect that. Make sure you charge a lot too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/20 08:28 AM |
| 2 | We should view men who pump and dump and women who finesse men for money the same wayLmao so women should be even nicer to the people abusing them out of fear of even more abuse... what a solution. No? Please stop being nice to the people abusing you. By all means stop immediately. Women need to be meaner and less giving of themselves on the single/dating scene. I'm saying be nicer to the men who AREN'T abusing you, the men who actually commit to a real relationship. Women today give the best of themselves, literally and figuratively bending over backwards, for random dudes they… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/20 11:51 PM |
| 3 | We should view men who pump and dump and women who finesse men for money the same wayMake no mistake, MOST hookups are achieved through deceit. Even short term relationships are a case of "yeah yeah, no really I like you a lot, who knows maybe I will love you and marry you one day..." pump pump pump, "lol now I'm sick of fucking you lol bye". So common. And yeah, it is fucked up. It's so incredibly common you have to be numb to it, it's like worrying about a mess on the floor while living in an actual garbage dump. Here's what I think though, women should remember how brutal it … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/20 11:20 PM |
| 0 | We should view men who pump and dump and women who finesse men for money the same wayAs "crimes" I don't see how they are equal. Stealing and rape aren't equal, so neither should this be. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/20 11:13 PM |
| 6 | We should view men who pump and dump and women who finesse men for money the same wayI respect it. Any woman who isn't a bit of a gold digger is a loser in my eyes. And dumb. If one of my daughters marries a broke guy I'll be very disappointed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/20 11:10 PM |
| 13 | We should view men who pump and dump and women who finesse men for money the same wayI'm a guy but I have no problem with the woman in your scenario. Good for her, and lol at her idiot victim. I'd have nothing but high fives for her. The guy you describe in the first scenario is clearly worse, and unfortunately way way way more common. His victim is being violated physically and emotionally under false pretenses. She'll either need therapy or be punishing every other guy she meets for the misdeeds of that guy. Money is just money, and the victim in the second scenario was only t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/20 11:06 PM |
| 46 | How I Got My Man to Commit to an LTRFrom a guy - good advice. Being vulnerable just melts a guys heart more effectively than anything, and so many women are so hellbent on not being vulnerable and being hard and defensive. I've been with my wife for 11 years, and I can say the first 8 were pretty up and down and IMO it really was because of previous bad experiences causing her to keep a guard up. Every time I'd feel myself falling deeper something would happen where she'd put up all her walls and act like she's an independent stro… | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/09/20 09:52 PM |
| 12 | For those who have a tall preference, what does seeing a tall guy feel like to you?Yeah women don't work that way. That raw primal lust for flesh for it's own sake isn't something they really understand, and you can often see this in the way they behave and think about flaunting their own flesh. They vaguely understand men like it but frequently expose themselves to be confused about exactly what it does to us, how it makes us feel, what they're actually putting into our minds, etc. I feel like if a woman could see inside my mind and feel how I feel when I see her in a short s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/20 09:27 PM |
| 4 | What to do when having good looks but no gameStop using the word game so much. That would be a start. | /r/askTRP | 30/09/20 07:40 PM |
| 8 | 30 Quick Tips For Attracting WomenI will say I do agree with this though. If you're gonna be bold enough to tell a girl straight to her face she's attractive, unsolicited and out of nowhere, don't half ass it. It's best to make them think they're so unusually attractive you HAD to say something, like you normally would never, but they in particular are SOO attractive. | /r/seduction | 30/09/20 08:08 AM |
| 5 | 30 Quick Tips For Attracting WomenWell I've only ever tried it on mature women (25-35ish), but admittedly not super hot mature women. I mean they were women I found super hot, but weren't the kind of glamorous smokeshow "babes" that get barraged with constant aggressive attention. There may be nothing I could do to get them on side, and I'm ok with that. I've never read a lick of pick up artist literature either and the whole thing skeeves me out. TBH I think I initially just did it drunk one day, as a genuine reaction to stumbl… | /r/seduction | 30/09/20 07:34 AM |
| 0 | To men, is *everything* you do just to attract women? Is there any self improvement that you do only for yourself?Depends if you mean consciously or sub-consciously. The guys who consciously are 100% focussed poonhounds are weird AF. Where every thing they wear, every way they act, every thing they do is directly consciously tailored with the intent of aiding them in crushing puss. I can't even deal with those guys and also could never for a second even put on a piece of clothing that wasn't something I genuinely thought was cool and me, let alone be someone else, act differently or whatever. My self worth … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/20 05:58 AM |
| 7 | What makes a man who is looking for marriage have a long term relationship with a woman he doesn't plan on marrying?Totally the way I see it. It actually strikes me as mean/cruel. | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/09/20 03:28 AM |
| 55 | 30 Quick Tips For Attracting WomenNGL a lot of this creeps me out and seems really devious and calculated to a weird level, like I wouldn't be comfortable doing a lot of it even if it meant foregoing attracting women. I'm not contacting an agency of wingmen who are strangers to go out with, for example, that's insane. However- Make your intentions clear sooner rather than later. You can do this by simply saying, "You're actually kind of cute." at some point. This will prevent you from getting stuck in the friend zone and also sh… | /r/seduction | 30/09/20 02:59 AM |
| 1 | Is “men are more visual” a hoax?So he crushed a lot of ass, and despite being a totally deformed freak with no discernable talent or wealth? This disproves me how? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/20 02:13 AM |
| 2 | Is “men are more visual” a hoax?The women are all at home joking about what a loser he is like everyone else, but then in person it's like "holy shit... that's the actual guy *trembling breath* *weak knees* *creaming pants*". He's the celebrity in that place at that time, he's automatically the alpha dog, and their lady parts drag them over to him like a magnet. You can even be lower than celebrity, you can be a local celebrity, like the Greek butcher whose kind of known around the neighbourhood because he's been there a while… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/20 01:48 AM |
| 6 | What makes a man who is looking for marriage have a long term relationship with a woman he doesn't plan on marrying?I personally don't get it. I rejected every offer I had for a relationship (bar one - but I was 14), and there were quite a few, until I actually wanted to settle down and have a family (at 26- probably a little early, in hindsight, but I felt I wanted to). Anything less than that is just getting your nut out for pleasure, and for that a relationship doesn't make much sense. Jerking off makes sense, prostitutes make sense, hooking up makes sense if girls are dumb enough to give you that, but a r… | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/09/20 10:25 PM |
| 1 | There is a “Men Are Wonderful Effect” inherent in TRP beliefsYeah I personally don't subscribe to any pro-man nonsense. I criticise women and find it kind of amusing how they operate, but men are fundamentally devious perverse predators, and most deserve nothing, deserve to fail, and deserve to die alone and miserable. Luckily most will, and I'm glad. Cock block? I'd block every cock if I could. Trample on every nutsack. And I expect other men to view me the same way and wish to trample on my nutsack, to decimate and obliterate my rival seed. We men are t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/20 09:51 PM |
| 1 | Is “men are more visual” a hoax?But you do see the ugly celebrities getting crushed on. You see ugly d grade celebrities getting crushed on. I've worked a long time in corporate security and see in person how people react around celebrities both big time and the lowest level imaginable and it's unreal how even the lowliest ugly celebrities get worshipped by women. A contestant on a reality show in Australia, the block, and he was losing every single week and was kind of a national joke for how bad he was (at renovating rooms, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/20 09:25 PM |
| 4 | Is “men are more visual” a hoax?It's kind of embarrassing yeah, and sobering to understand how incredibly different women are from men. A male dog is a more relatable animal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/20 07:21 AM |
| 12 | Is “men are more visual” a hoax?Celebrity is kind of a perfect storm of attributes women find desirable. The fact hordes of women are giving the green light of approval with their impassioned overt appreciation is a big subconscious one, but there is also the money, power and status, the fact people roll out the red carpet and pander to them everywhere they go, the fact a celebrity is "someone" of note, usually has a clear passion themselves and ambition and drive, all of these things are hugely alluring to women. If the dude … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/20 06:43 AM |
| 33 | Is “men are more visual” a hoax?It's not the appearance of the celebrities, it's the celebrity of the celebrities. Girls would walk past a thousand Justin Beibers on the street and think nothing of it. Some MIGHT think "that guys kind of cute...", none would instantly scream and weep and cream their pants. His celebrity makes them take notice. They've actually tested on animals and discovered females get attracted to males when they notice other females paying attention to them, the same males they earlier turned their nose up… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/20 05:17 AM |
| -4 | What should I do if being ugly asf is the root of my problems?You are flawed so naturally you should be with a flawed woman. Why were you even aiming for hot women? Did you forget about the chin or??? | /r/askTRP | 29/09/20 02:28 AM |
| 1 | Is It Disrespectful To Make "Boyfriend Material" Men Wait?I believe I am. I'm not sayin men need to lie about having one night stands. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/20 02:03 AM |
| 8 | Is It Disrespectful To Make "Boyfriend Material" Men Wait?Who knows? If they lie you may not. I'd recommend lying. If any girl is out there considering playing hard to get with a dude because she wants it to be serious, despite having one night stands in her past with other guys, you better be prepared to commit to the lie. And for the rest of your life maintain adamantly that you have never ever had a one night stand. Seems exhausting. Alternatively you could just fuck the guys you really like, and don't fuck the ones you don't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/20 12:46 AM |
| 25 | Not even an unpopular opinion, just one that consistently brushed under the rugWell I married someone my own age when I was 26, so I'm more talking about observations I've made. But I'm not surprised things have improved and still are improving for you at 27. I would say it's true men have a later "best before" date than women (frankly white women in particular, many of whom cruelly peak much too young- I'd say women of most other ethnicities enjoy longer peaks through their 30s), but it's earlier than we're lead to believe, especially physically. The illusion of it being … | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/09/20 11:24 PM |
| 97 | Not even an unpopular opinion, just one that consistently brushed under the rugI'm a dude, not on the young side (37), and I agree with you 100%. This lie is actually harmful for guys who foolishly think they have decades and decades of banging young babes ahead of them. No you don't. You get old and gross very very quickly to the vast majority of young babes. Live it up now, in your teens and early 20s. I don't think that can be stressed enough. If you're a celebrity or exceedingly rich and powerful, or a manipulative cult leader with access to damaged girls, sure, you mi… | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/09/20 10:35 PM |
| 17 | Is It Disrespectful To Make "Boyfriend Material" Men Wait?I met my wife of 11 years on a one night stand. I chalk it up as me being very persuasive on the night and us having an instant very strong connection. We both seemed to instantly know we would be in a long term relationship and literally were planning our future like an hour or two after meeting. It may sound naive, but I honestly have zero concerns about infidelity and never have for a moment since I've known her. I lean towards your latter point. I mean if they refuse to have a one night stan… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/20 10:01 PM |
| 3 | How Was She Supposed To Date You In Her Youth If She Didn't Know You Yet?I think the guys in question know with confidence the 37 year old wouldn't have dated them in her 20s based on the fact no one in her 20s back when he was in his 20s would and still no one in their 20s will. They're extrapolating from the sample they've experienced (probably with accuracy, I'd say). It's kind of like when you lose weight or gain wealth, suddenly people are interested who you know wouldn't have been when you were fatter, or poorer, and they might say "well I didn't know you back … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/20 04:54 PM |
| 2 | A lack of sexual interest doesn't give anyone the right to dismiss being uncomfortable with too much un-requested sexual interest.False logic. There always has been and always will be a surplus of bitter males who can't get laid. There is supposed to be, and there is for all species. The bar is much much much higher in other species and there is much much more failure (and graver consequences to failure). The conditions could not be better for male humans than they are right now, but yes still there are total losers who still fail. Nothing new there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/20 08:47 AM |
| 1 | A lack of sexual interest doesn't give anyone the right to dismiss being uncomfortable with too much un-requested sexual interest.What's weird is there are any girls at all. Girls willingly signing up to be used like prostitutes, for free, putting themself as a free item on a soup-kitchen's sex menu, is a bizarre new trend. Of course there will be more guys, guys can't believe their luck that such a thing could be real and are tripping over eachother to get involved, and yeah I'm sure some are missing out, but still way more guys are getting free casual sex way more frequently and easily than ever before. Guy used to have … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/20 08:26 AM |
| 2 | A lack of sexual interest doesn't give anyone the right to dismiss being uncomfortable with too much un-requested sexual interest.Issue 1: Men being denied any sexual contact. In some cases, any physical contact. This is not ideal, and is horrible, and can't lead anywhere positive. This is an issue (I believe) exacerbated by social media and online/app dating. Can you just clarify this statement, I'm a little confused... are you suggesting dating apps and social media are resulting in more men being denied sexual contact? You're way off base, if so. It has never been easier for men to get casual sex, thanks to dating apps … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/20 07:51 AM |
| 1 | Why isn't there a REAL equivalent for female dating statergy for men?I see it as the female equivalent of mgtow. They differ because men and women fundamentally differ, a lot. Both are pathetic BTW. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/20 12:09 PM |
| 1 | Women who require marriage in an LTR are at a disadvantage in the dating market due to changing perceptions around marriageI don't know what trad-con means, and I'm glad, because it means I'm not part of a deranged cult. I'm in-tune with real life on our real planet in this real universe. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/20 11:39 PM |
| 1 | Women who require marriage in an LTR are at a disadvantage in the dating market due to changing perceptions around marriageThe dating market doesn't matter, it's merely the d-league trying to make it into the majors. The 35+ year old with 2 kids already made it and is retired. You think at 40 the "dating market MVP" with no kids chick is gonna be happier with her life than a woman who had a real marriage(even if it ultimately broke up) and has two children? You're kidding yourself. Children are extraordinarily fulfilling and gratifying. The meaning of life. That's why every species is just struggling and striving an… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/20 11:08 PM |
| 7 | Women who require marriage in an LTR are at a disadvantage in the dating market due to changing perceptions around marriageI see it very very differently. The women who don't require marriage are just getting chewed up and spit out, they're losing. "Doing well in the dating market" is losing for a woman. If a woman reaches 38 or so and isn't married with children, she failed, who cares if she got fucked a lot in the meantime? That's just failing harder. Even a woman who required marriage and failed at least didn't get used and degraded along the way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/20 09:22 PM |
| 1 | If men want a woman to love them for who he is and not what he can provide, he should go for younger womenBut women can still have this idealistic view of love IF you catch them at a young age, when they are relatively inexperienced (both sexually and life experience) Just FTR, that's also when men have that idealistic view, there are just MORE inexperienced men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/20 08:10 PM |
| 1 | Out of these three women, who would you spend the rest of your life with?IDK, this crowd is pretty big on "splitting the bill" (even saying it makes me cringe, but they love it) and being in perfect shape (no matter what shape they themselves are in). I think you're mistaken on this one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/20 03:37 PM |
| 2 | Out of these three women, who would you spend the rest of your life with?What makes you say that? She's a fat, wino, dork. A financial parasite with bad taste in movies. Won't play games with you or get your gaming or internet comedy references... I think she's as imperfect as suzie, bethany and stephanie, it's just yeah, shit I don't care about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/20 03:29 PM |
| 1 | Out of these three women, who would you spend the rest of your life with?Suzie almost pips it at the post with the photos, but nah out of those I'd say Bethany, I guess. Not ideal. I would prefer more traditional, IE I provide more and she does more housework. I present you... Celeste: Works as a kindergarten teacher, doesn't make much money. Is very warm and sweet and soft natured. Sometimes to a fault when dealing with others. Has hobbies like designing/sewing dresses and playing the cello with a local orchestra. Accepts traditional gender roles but loves it when y… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/20 03:15 PM |
| 2 | If you blame single mothers for picking poor men to hook up with, you should also blame men who get left or "divorce raped" for also picking poor choices for marriage.Very fair and logical. But I will say that women are way better at faking being something else in the early stages of a relationship, because their value, apart from looks, is tied up in their nature. So all they need to do is act sweet and kind and "cool" (whether it's with being happy for you to drink and party with your friends or with giving BJs or whatever), and then later they can just 180 on all those things very easily (and they frequently do, basically like clockwork). A guy can be some… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/20 09:50 AM |
| 1 | If you don’t try then you’ll never know...Inspirational. | /r/seduction | 22/09/20 04:34 PM |
© TheRedArchive 2026. All rights reserved.
created by /u/dream-hunter