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| 2 | Where have you traveled alone?Belgium, China, Germany, Canada and Mexico and many US states. | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/02/26 10:19 PM |
| 14 | So are all divorced men narcissists?I’m convinced narcissists has become a catch all word. Many don’t seem to understand the meaning. My late husband was a diagnosed narcissist. | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/02/26 02:46 PM |
| 5 | Wedding ringHave you checked the price of gold and silver? Seriously guys sell it and party. | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/12/25 08:39 PM |
| 4 | What do I do with 1000’s of pictures of my STBXW on my phone?Put them on a flash drive. | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/12/25 07:39 PM |
| 3 | Paternity Doubts ResurfacingTest so your son knows his true medical history. | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/10/25 12:57 PM |
| 3 | Household Asset Division: How do you stop a spouse from leveraging items and using “marital funds” to replace things?You need separate accounts she can’t touch. Put your 1/2 away. | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/10/25 06:20 PM |
| 10 | I served my wife divorce papers while she was blowing her date in a carHilarious! | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/10/25 12:16 AM |
| 8 | My wife wanted me to kill myself so she could keep the money and get the attention.Please document these violent comments. It’s a small step from talking that horrible and acting on it. | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/09/25 01:06 PM |
| 5 | I knew what I signed up forI think it’s because women now have so many options they never had before. When I was first married if I’d been alone I’d have lost support and child care. Today women have so much support they didn’t have in my times. Plus there’s not the stigma of being a divorced woman like there was. It’s also socially now easier to have girls nights and trips. Those were taboo when I was 20. | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/08/25 07:08 PM |
| 2 | How to navigate daughter meeting ex wife's new boyfriend?Ex relationship with him. Verify where he works. Where does he live in case you need to track him down. Phone number. His custody of his child 50/50? Once you have his name and phone number, you can search him on Truth Finder. Yes they’ll charge you but will give you a lot of info and it’s confidential. Good luck. | /r/Divorce_Men | 31/07/25 12:21 AM |
| 6 | How to navigate daughter meeting ex wife's new boyfriend?B. Suck it up and ask enough questions to be sure your daughter is safe. | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/07/25 08:44 PM |
| 1 | Divorce Finalized – Ex Won’t Refinance as Ordered, Wants Me to Initiate Assumption Instead.If the home will be Ex’s don’t put your name anywhere on it. You sign something now means you have a mortgage and can’t buy another house. Assuming is still buying. Say no and hold Ex in contempt. | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/07/25 10:39 PM |
| 1 | Divorcing due to lack of attraction…?Yes | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/07/25 10:52 PM |
| 3 | You Know It’s Over When…Reading this makes me sad. So sorry. | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/06/25 12:33 PM |
| 3 | Enforcing BoundariesYes! | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/05/25 08:12 PM |
| 3 | Enforcing BoundariesI know. I’m sorry. I know that really doesn’t help but know my heart is with you. | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/05/25 02:58 PM |
| 5 | Enforcing BoundariesSometimes when you get what you want you realize it’s not what you wanted after all. Sorry this happened to you. | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/05/25 02:32 PM |
| 14 | 50 something yo Divorced Cougars picking up 30 year oldsI’m a member of an online group and the 50 yo women say they go for 30 yo guys now because even the 40yo ones have ED. They just want to get laid. | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/04/25 11:19 PM |
| 2 | Chances of alimony in my situation?In a lot of states the Courts will penalize parties who cheated. Just to consider. | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/03/25 08:27 PM |
| 4 | After 20 years she blindsides me with “i dont want to be married anymore”Get a lawyer and you should ask for alimony. | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/03/25 07:25 PM |
| 3 | I was told I should fight for what what is half mine. But how does that work?My ex BIL took out a mortgage on his house to pay the $200k court ordered. Poor guy will have to work until he dies as he was 60. | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/02/25 05:08 PM |
| 13 | AITA for buying my ex wife flowers on V-day, after the divorce?Female here. Flowers will send the wrong message. Don’t do it. | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/02/25 04:46 PM |
| 4 | Lets say you have rock solid proof that your wife cheated with a married man. Do you tell the wife of the AP or keep silent to maintain the peace for the sake of your kids?Yea the wife won’t believe you, she’ll blame the wife, or she doesn’t care. Lose lose in my opinion. | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/02/25 10:02 PM |
| 6 | Seperated 2 months.Talk to an Attorney about moving out. In some states leaving the marital home is abandonment and has negative consequences. | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/01/25 08:26 PM |
| 8 | Went by the Ex's house yesterday and I'm honestly worried about her... and also relieved.Take care of your kids. | /r/Divorce_Men | 31/12/24 02:17 AM |
| 12 | Why stay in the house?Talk to an Attorney. In some states moving out is abandonment | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/12/24 02:07 AM |
| 6 | Any success with staving off divorce by making a list of demands to radically change the marriage?Sounds like she needs detox first for the alcohol and marijuana. But I’m afraid it’s not going to happen. Sorry move on. | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/12/24 08:28 PM |
| 1 | 'Narcissist' the most over used word of 2023/2024I know! The dating sites every single reject is a narcissist. No they’re not! | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/12/24 11:53 PM |
| 2 | I’m thinking of making a dating profile, brutally honest like how the women do.I’d date you. I love the honesty. | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/11/24 05:49 PM |
| 1 | I’m thinking of making a dating profile, brutally honest like how the women do.I’ve seen these posts and the women are like who does he think he is. They’re the ones with multiple baby daddy’s. Gee be better ladies. | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/11/24 05:45 PM |
| 4 | Does anyone get divorced because of the little things?Is she in menopause. It changes women drastically. Medication helps. Ask my then teen son who suffered along with his Dad until I found something that worked. Believe me going to work with sweat rolling down your body was only one of my many symptoms. Bottom line make sure her changes aren’t medical. Is she just a jerk? Get a lawyer. | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/10/24 08:32 PM |
| 1 | Thinking about getting married againGreat addition thanks. | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/10/24 01:26 AM |
| -4 | Thinking about getting married againIgnore the negative Nancie’s. Continue to learn more about your new friend. Don’t move too fast. After about 6 months move in together. Living together is the true test. That’s when you find if you’re compatible. Be sure you’re both financially good. You don’t need another dependent. Yes consider a prenup so you don’t get hosed. 2 years would be good. Good luck. | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/10/24 12:48 AM |
| 1 | Couples Counseling…has it ever worked for anyone?Well he admitted he was in love with someone else. So there’s that. | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/10/24 12:50 AM |
| 3 | She want alimony included in prenupYou don’t say what your investments are but assuming you’re equal then no alimony. If you’re substantially higher $ then it should be discussed how to split expenses including vacations. | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/10/24 07:53 PM |
| 3 | Dating a legally separated womanI forget you can’t be shy on here. Free to have sex and not be committing adultery. | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/09/24 07:57 PM |
| 4 | Dating a legally separated womanIn most states if you have filed for legal separation and it is accepted by Court, you are free to date etc. if not and you sleep with someone you’re committing adultery. Ran across this researching a book. | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/09/24 07:09 PM |
| 7 | Sex drive is through the roof as I go through divorce. Anyone else have this experience.Where are you? Most states to be legal has to be separate houses. Get out of that bed! If she touches you or you touch her she can claim rape. | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/09/24 10:03 PM |
| 8 | I miss her. I f*cked everything up and just want my family back 2 years post divorceAsk her to dinner and start the conversation. You have a long way back but give it a try. Don’t expect overnight results. Take it slow. She deserves that. | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/08/24 04:55 PM |
| 9 | Ex's love interest says he will beat me upContact Therapist first. Have her talk about this and you will have corroboration of the statements. Then talk to your lawyer. | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/08/24 11:36 PM |
| 7 | Female here - Absolute Hypocrisy of my female neighborYou should never babysit for her… so sorry I’m busy. Suggest she ask the Dad. And I’d be tempted to tell the Dad. Sounds like he has the money to fight if he wanted to. | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/08/24 09:14 PM |
| 1 | My marriage is no longer viable, but divorce will ruin me financially. Am I trapped?What’s more important… money or happiness? You deserve to be loved and happy. Consult an attorney. | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/08/24 11:56 PM |
| 1 | STBXW hits the nuclear button...Take these charges seriously. Depending on your county and State they will investigate very closely. Happened to a friend and he was told he was lucky it was a different County as his current County DA had a hard on for child molesters. Get a good defense attorney and hope you never have to use them. Good luck. | /r/Divorce_Men | 31/07/24 07:18 PM |
| 3 | Wife left meSince divorce laws are different by State contact a lawyer for an initial consult. Be sure to do what first person said. Check your joint accounts. She may have already started withdrawing funds. | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/05/24 04:23 PM |
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