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| 4 | There’s a reason why every married man you ever meet tells you not to get married.True enough. We got married young. I guess I was recommending that for OP who is already married. Might be an option. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 27/08/22 09:04 PM |
| -2 | There’s a reason why every married man you ever meet tells you not to get married.My wife and I didn’t have kids which gave us the income and emotional room to become swingers. I have a higher body count from the time after getting married than I did before getting married. Recommend. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 27/08/22 08:29 PM |
| 220 | How would you compliment an older woman?Whatever you say, say it really loudly and close to their ear. They love that. | /r/seduction | 01/03/22 11:09 PM |
| 4 | Any advice for this one?If I can prevent a man from living that experience, I’m happy. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/01/22 12:56 AM |
| 1 | Any advice for this one?Speaking from experience—been down this dark road myself, sadly. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/01/22 12:46 AM |
| 4 | Any advice for this one?At best “love at first sight” is finding someone with whom you can reenact the emotional dynamics of your own family. That’s why it feels like you’ve known each other before—because you have known very similar interpersonal dynamics before. At worst—same thing. It’s super fucked. Run far, run fast. Of course you won’t because you’re high on the supply. But if for some reason you do get together, it will be a disaster. So, ya know, enjoy that. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/01/22 12:32 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Great stuff here. There is a national group called Toastmasters where people go to improve their public speaking experience and skills. It helps you at work and in every other sphere of life. Hell, you might meet chicks there. | /r/seduction | 14/01/22 04:20 PM |
| 22 | I think my coworker likes me ,what do I doThis right here times ONE MILLION. Don’t do it, man. It will not end well and could have severe life consequences for you. Do. Not. Date. Co-workers. | /r/seduction | 11/12/21 02:29 AM |
| 0 | I have been cheated on in every long term relationship I have ever been inI would expect you have work to do on being a Nice Guy. They get taken advantage of or cheated on. Always. Even if it takes years, it will happen. Strongly recommend you read “No More Mr Nice Guy” by Glover. | /r/seduction | 30/11/21 10:13 PM |
| 8 | What would you do if you’re dating a girl and she starts to play like a psychoanalyst on you?If you meet one asshole a day, they’re the asshole. If everyone you meet is an asshole—then you’re the asshole. Massive red flags on this girl. It’s just going to get crazier. I know it can feel intensely good, but that high is the siren song luring you onto the rocks. I recognize it from experience. Important: you CAN’T fix her and you CAN’T save her. She’s gotta get some stuff sorted which she’s so far been unable to, which is why she’s making everyone else’s business. | /r/seduction | 25/11/21 02:48 PM |
| 2 | I hate myself for being effeminateFriend, my heart goes out to you. I’m glad the warrior in you has risen to seek assistance in the necessary professionals. Women can be incredibly, traumatizingly violent. I wouldn’t underestimate the impact of her hating on “not men in general” but basically every important man in your life. Even as kids, boys can put 2 and 2 together. I did. “I get it, men are bad.” The problem is that it seems I’m turning into one… Keep doing the next brave thing. You’ll make yourself proud if you do. I don’t… | /r/seduction | 19/11/21 09:06 PM |
| 4 | I hate myself for being effeminateWhat an awesome question: you get right to the heart of the matter. I can only speak from my own experience, so keep that in mind. I’d say that missions can have various scales/scopes/sizes, but for me they have become compelling when they: (1) somehow tap into the notion of “I want to be someone who:____”. For me that has taken many forms. I am a nerd and was a fat little kid and in high school decided if I was going to be big I would at least have muscles so I started lifting with a friend. I’… | /r/seduction | 19/11/21 03:20 PM |
| 4 | I hate myself for being effeminateIt’s f*cking hard being a man in today’s world. The best advice I ever got about becoming more dominant was: “dominate yourself first.” Decide something you want to achieve that is reasonably within your control but still a monster undertaking and pour yourself into it. Push other things aside—everything will come in it’s time. In the meantime focus on something fiercely—a workout goal, a creation, an academic achievement—something that will make you better. Not video games, or D&D, or anything … | /r/seduction | 19/11/21 02:10 PM |
| 6 | I hate myself for being effeminateSure thing. Of all people, Brad Pitt once described therapy pretty well, I think: “It’s like taking a class on yourself, a semester.” I’m in my 50’s and have had more than a dozen therapists across my life. A couple were lame, some were pretty helpful, and a few were absolute god-sends in terms of helping me move my life to the Next Place. Life-changing. If you try one and it’s not a great fit, don’t give up—just try another. 🙂 | /r/seduction | 18/11/21 10:14 PM |
| 12 | I hate myself for being effeminateDid your mother ever shame you for masculine behavior, or was she generally angry at men? Boys without male role models—especially those with angry mothers—can have a real hard time discovering the qualities of their own healthy masculinity. Speaking from experience here. Might be worth talking to a therapist about. Also speaking from experience here. You’re in more company than you know, friend. | /r/seduction | 18/11/21 09:56 PM |
| 2 | How does someone become mysterious?“What is it, Sebastian? I’m arranging matches…” | /r/seduction | 05/11/21 08:48 PM |
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