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It's on YouTube if you don't want to buy it.
/r/TheRedPill05/04/18 10:34 AM
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It's easier to talk to two girls than one - Ask questions. Switch from girl to girl depending on who is interesting. The dynamic will become a competition for your attention since you are the one asking most of the questions. There are less awkward silences and if you say something stupid you just switch to the other girl and keep it flowing.
/r/seduction04/04/18 03:50 PM
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Chad is the guy who gets the girls. You attaching the top 5% man requirement is just missing the point. A blue pill dude will have the exact same definition of success as you he just won't call it 'Chad'.
/r/TheRedPill02/04/18 08:28 PM
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To me this seems like you're trying to reintroduce fairness into the concept of Chad when one of the main things about Chad is how unfair his success is by traditional measures. One of the first lessons of the red pill is realising how uncorrelated having your shit together can be to sexual success. The dude blowing his college degree by partying is still Chad, the good looking alcoholic working in McDonalds is still Chad, the guy making six figures who can't understand why his girlfriend would …
/r/TheRedPill02/04/18 06:19 PM
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Zarathustra isn't a good place to start if you want to actually understand Nietzsche, though even if you don't it's still worth reading for the poetic imagery (what got me hooked before I decided to study him seriously). Nietzsche's writing style takes a lot of getting used to so I'd recommend The Genealogy of Morality as the easiest to follow. Definitely look up some secondary literature (the Stanford Encyclopedia of Philosophy is great for this) to give you an idea of the background, themes an…
/r/TheRedPill28/03/18 04:16 AM
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The Roman philosopher Seneca wrote a book on this, On The Shortness Of Life is just under an hour of listening.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/18 09:37 AM
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So what if he doesn't know what he's doing, everyone has to go through the learning curve. I don't know this guy or how he acts but you can have bad sex and not make it a bad time by just not being awkward and making a big deal about it. And if he has really understood the sidebar his confidence will not be affected by an understandably bad review. But really I don't disagree with the hooker thing, just with those particular reasons.
/r/askTRP04/03/18 09:05 AM
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Nope, some people have it easy. It's a bitter pill to swallow but the point one man gets to after a long and arduous journey might be the next guy's starting point. It shouldn't get you down though because you're still doing better than you used to.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/18 08:57 AM
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Yeah I don't think you are able to "conquer" your emotional side outside of exceptional circumstances. OP have you heard of the rider-elephant theory of psychology? The rider is the rational, linguistic side and the elephant is the intuitive, emotional side. The thing is elephants are not like horses, they're way too smart and have their own wills. The rider cannot force the elephant to do anything but they can nudge the elephant in a certain direction. The rider has to build a relationship with…
/r/TheRedPill17/02/18 01:36 PM
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*125
/r/TheRedPill17/02/18 11:48 AM
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I totally agree. Every single significant event in my life has been explained by TRP principles. Not to denigrate the rest of your post but this seems like you're making a pretty straightforward fallacy. How is this reasoning any different from those who see God or karma behind everything?
/r/TheRedPill16/02/18 05:45 PM
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Is that multiple kids from the same man?
/r/TheRedPill17/01/18 03:58 PM
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Then I probably misunderstood you because I agree with exactly what you just said.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/18 10:43 AM
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Second this. Though OP's advice is valuable in that a man still needs to build his own tribe. A sports club is a great place to start but you need to build your friendships beyond the joint activity that binds you. Ideally you want deeper loyalty without having to join the army or a cult.
/r/TheRedPill13/01/18 06:02 AM
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I think that any man is able to build his own network and that this place is best left to giving advice to individuals. Trying to cross the lines of anonymity and situation to build friendship is difficult and shaky in its foundation. Valuable men will find valuable men, once people get there their need for stuff like this is already fulfilled so this place should just focus on showing people how to get there. Saying that I'm interested in how this turns out and I'm happy to find out if I'm wron…
/r/TheRedPill13/01/18 05:48 AM
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This is my point. She could have locked him down then and right now have a great life on his effort. He got her number, there wasn't a marriage proposal. a lifetime of financial support, comfort, friendship and guidance. Do we just assume that every chump is able to provide this? This sounds like some "nice guy" shit. It's good that OP raised himself above her in SMV and there's surely some satisfaction in seeing the tables turned but there was no 'mistake' in picking the more attractive man.
/r/TheRedPill04/01/18 07:36 PM
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OP didn't say anything about what actually changed in those 4 years so for all we know he could have been a repulsive beta.
/r/TheRedPill04/01/18 02:01 AM
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seem objectifying, sad and mean. Yep, yep, and yep but so what? Those are just comments on the tone not the content.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/18 11:58 PM
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What mistake? Going for the muscly guy over the less attractive guy?
/r/TheRedPill03/01/18 11:52 PM
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This is definitely something I'm going to apply. I've been in the habit of giving ultimatums to lukewarm women but there's nothing to lose by leaving it in case they decide to text you. As long as you don't waste time thinking about them in the meantime that is.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/17 05:54 PM
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Value your time and others will value it as well. I recommend On The Shortness of Life by Seneca for some great arguments as to why your time is inherently valuable. It's only an hour on YouTube iirc.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/17 05:50 PM
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You can be top 30% and have 5s and 6s chasing you.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/17 05:45 PM
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I think I addressed this in my second two paragraphs, but maybe "real" is a better word than "natural" because there's no denying big muscles but if your frame is just a front they might sniff it out.
/r/TheRedPill21/11/17 09:08 PM
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Have you read the post man affections vs. boy affections?
/r/TheRedPill21/11/17 03:38 AM
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I think it's accepted in this sub that women want a natural. A natural is attractive just because of the way he is, and this is a sign of good genetics. If she finds out your just putting on a front that she can crack she'll be disgusted. The real debate is whether people here are only mimicking the natural alpha or becoming one. Are we the weak men trying to outsmart mother nature? Or are we rediscovering the potential that has been stunted in us by society? I'd say you get both at different st…
/r/TheRedPill21/11/17 03:37 AM
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Yes but that doesn't make the threshold any lower for most guys. That it's easy for you doesn't make it easy for most guys. Well I didn't say it was easy, just that it's easier than it seems. And I don't claim to be anyone special so if I give advice I expect most guys to be able to get the same results.
/r/TheRedPill11/11/17 02:56 PM
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I think there's a misunderstanding. I agree that going out alone isn't a big deal.
/r/TheRedPill11/11/17 02:54 PM
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The idea of going out on your own is a bigger deal than the reality.
/r/TheRedPill10/11/17 10:16 PM
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Seriously. Friends can be the biggest cockblockers. If I'm going out with friends I'm just going to be worried about having fun with them, having expectations of more will usually lead to disappointment.
/r/TheRedPill10/11/17 10:15 PM
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Definitely, this is more like "warmed up with a few drinks" approach. Not that there's anything wrong with that.
/r/TheRedPill10/11/17 10:11 PM
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I can see it helping you have more control over your voice.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/17 03:26 AM
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In my experience the brain does some background tricks to let you think less often about a girl after she rejects you. So now she can stop taking up space in your head, well done.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/17 03:23 AM
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I've been dressing better and I found a great barber. I'm getting a lot more looks from girls now although I will have to work on capitalising on that. Approach and social anxiety have gone out the window; I'm approaching arrogance honestly which is fine but not when I'm drunk. When I think about it I first started drinking as a teen for confidence with girls, this place has solved that so I need to break the habit. It's minor but my Tinder game has gotten a lot better. "Pizza, Bowling, Rock cli…
/r/TheRedPill06/11/17 03:11 AM
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I hope over time this place can develop into a genuine community that truly knows what it is to be a good man. I'm not sure if that will ever happen, not because there aren't great posters here but because as this place gets bigger there's more dilution and more noise. This place should be used less as a community and more as a resource.
/r/TheRedPill02/11/17 06:13 PM
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You don't really learn economics to that depth in grades 1-12 Well there's your problem, I thought we were talking about college. School is full of bullshit but a good education in economics is still possible in university.
/r/TheRedPill02/11/17 01:03 AM
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Because the government holds a monopoly on education, it only teaches ideas that promote and defend its existence. Which is why the colleges of the American republic and British constitutional monarchy are full of communists... It isn't going to teach concepts antithetical to central planning, so you don't learn real economics in school. You learn MMT, keynesianism, and other derivatives of socialism. Look, I'd prefer education to stay free from state influence, but they do not distort the study…
/r/TheRedPill01/11/17 11:29 PM
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And if you can, read some secondary literature on Nietzsche so you actually know who and what his targets are. Personally I'd reccomend Brian Lieter: Nietzsche on Morality.
/r/TheRedPill01/11/17 03:06 PM
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Read this post earlier today and just an hour ago my grandfather comes out with: Even if you're in agony, sick as a dog and have minutes to live, if someone asks 'how are you?' you say 'I'm well thank you very much'.
/r/TheRedPill30/10/17 08:01 PM
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I have a friend who used to complain about some people instantly taking a dislike to him. He was brutally honest, had tattooes and dressed a bit shady but generally had more integrity than the people talking bad about him. His self narrative was that he was too real for all the fakes which I thought was bullshit and always said he should just be nicer to people. And for a while he did pretty well for himself with girls. Anyway I've only recently started to experience something like he described.…
/r/TheRedPill11/10/17 05:51 PM
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Be comfortable sitting on your own, enjoying your drink. Know when a girl wants you to talk to her. It's pretty easy to make a temporary friend through small talk, but be ready to ditch them if they're diverting you from having fun or getting girls. Be comfortable dancing. And I suppose be a bit more careful since you're on your own. All this on top of a basic understanding of this sub is enough but it might make a few goes to turn theory into practice.
/r/TheRedPill08/10/17 07:58 PM
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He got into her Facebook account.
/r/TheRedPill08/10/17 07:43 PM
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You can either suppress your desires or attain them to a point where they aren't a worry for you. Is either really possible? I don't know but I know which attempt is more fun.
/r/TheRedPill07/10/17 03:45 PM
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It feels like the process of becoming redpilled is an exponential curve where you do a lot of catch up with not much reward but once you break into the top ranks (at the average bar) the payoff multiplies. Good: Started at an Olympic Weightlifting club. Went out on my own and had a better night than if I was with my friends. Bad: Been making some rookie mistakes translating mindset into action but that will polish up with experience.
/r/TheRedPill06/10/17 08:25 PM
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You can never "secure" her. You're a lot more invested in her than she is in you. Don't be afraid of a "failed flirt". You should also be talking to those other girls. Meet her, have fun. If something happens it happens if it doesn't, learn from it.
/r/askTRP06/10/17 04:00 PM
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In my opinion it's actually easier to talk to a group of girls. There's a lot more to talk about, shows your not intimidated by girls and most importantly an element of competition is added to the value of your attention. After that just isolate when it's natural.
/r/askTRP05/10/17 06:10 PM
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What we call "The West" today has gone through this multiple times, parts die and parts are born but the torch has always been carried.
/r/askTRP05/10/17 06:02 PM
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If you're that far behind I don't think a reddit thread is enough, you need the sidebar.
/r/askTRP05/10/17 05:54 PM
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Should I go light on the kissing with a new girl? I feel like I might have done too much too quick with a girl the other night, kissing her neck etc. and turned her off, although another girl was happy about it last night so it might just depend on the person.
/r/TheRedPill05/10/17 03:59 PM
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Got a source for that? I can't seem to find a link to Kierkergaard through Google.
/r/TheRedPill03/10/17 10:14 PM
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This is supposed to be a community where we help build each other up. With results, not nice words. I don't think a guy who's trying to better himself should come here and read posts about how he'll never be good enough. That will push more people towards giving up than it will push them towards achieving things. I think it's fair to assume here a premise of "you can get around this" in most posts here so don't let the presentation get in the way of the content. Also the majority will inevitably…
/r/TheRedPill29/09/17 07:40 PM
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Maybe recheck that. I don't have a Facebook account but I have Tinder and Messenger based on my phone number.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/17 08:42 PM
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It's easier to talk to two girls than one - Ask questions. Switch from girl to girl depending on who is interesting. The dynamic will become an accelerating competition for your attention. There are no awkward silences, misses can be ignored.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/17 02:50 PM
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You should listen to the originals: Project Pat - Don't Save Her E-40 - Captain Save A Hoe
/r/TheRedPill22/09/17 06:13 PM
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Feels like the advice here is finally paying off. I moved to a different university so I have had plenty of opportunities to meet people and make a good impression. Recently one of the societies I joined had an introduction night and a lot of us went to a pub after. At first I was a bit awkward talking too much to one girl who didn't say much back but I just started talking to other people and it went really well after that. I just switched from person to person and since I was sitting in the mi…
/r/TheRedPill17/09/17 12:34 AM
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I think I get you. Don't be the person who can't proceed because he hasn't ticked an unessential box. It's something I overcame in other areas of my life so I see your point. I think maybe looking at it as additions to a work in progress rather than requirements before starting might be a more action-oriented way of doing things but "just do it" is probably enough. I can bet you know EXACTLY what you should be doing, but are just putting it off. Funny how often I need to remind myself of this.
/r/askTRP30/08/17 10:11 PM
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Looks simple enough, thanks.
/r/askTRP30/08/17 09:34 PM
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What's the problem with checking if someone has already figured something out for you? Stronglifts did affect my gym results, of course I had to "get to work" and actually lift the weights but it handed me a tried and tested plan.
/r/askTRP30/08/17 09:33 PM
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I've been thinking along similar lines but I like the diet metaphor, "mental hygiene" was how I was putting it. I think it's easier to cut out time wasting than to motivate yourself to be productive. If you cut out the bullshit demanding your attention then the productive things come much more naturally.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/17 07:23 PM
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That would be cult like you're right but that's not what he's doing. It's all based on what YOU want in your life and where you're headed. You need to have a vision. We don't need a "redpill approved" list of media because we usually already know ourselves what is bad and good for us if we reflect on what we are consuming.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/17 07:18 PM
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Many parts of the world- like Asia, Africa and South America, perhaps? Did you not say that marriage 1.0 ended that before the exodus from Africa?
/r/TheRedPill30/07/17 03:24 PM
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Every joule of energy used to count, so no energy was spent producing useless sperm Reproduction and survival are what evolution selects for. Why would the primary drive of life disappear so easily? The feminist dogma of 'it takes a village' to raise a child was no longer the status quo. The extended family all took a part in helping raise the children until relatively recently. This is still true today in many parts of the world.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/17 01:15 PM
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Not sure if this is the right place but it's worth a shot. I'm not a socially anxious person in the present sense but I often randomly remember something stupid I said or did which gives me a feeling of regret and affects my mood. Some things I used to overthink have become insignificant as time went on and I got more experience but I still get it sometimes. Has anyone got any advice for dealing with this?
/r/TheRedPill26/07/17 09:19 PM
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You're right, my fellow millennials are a more than sufficient fountain of wisdom.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/17 09:10 PM
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However, you can't continue to follow advice based on someone's outdated experiences. Why would their experiences be outdated? Is what you'll learn over the next 20-30 years going to be useless to share because it will be outdated? I think it is arrogant --and worse -- for someone to assume that their advice should be heeded just simply because of who they are. In the good cases you've got someone in this world actually looking out for you 100% with a couple of decades more wisdom on you. Obviou…
/r/TheRedPill24/07/17 01:32 AM
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Thanks I found it, although I still don't see it mentioned on the side-bar.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/17 08:35 PM
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You let your day be ruined because of her, that's not outcome independence. Texting her isn't going to do shit to change her mind, makes you look bad and through acting out your bitterness you've reinforced it. These things happen. Keep moving forward and this will become insignificant.
/r/askTRP22/07/17 03:31 AM
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Mind pointing me to which post it is?
/r/TheRedPill22/07/17 02:17 AM
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Of course I'm interested in having a gym buddy or whatever to make it more fun, getting buff is a tedious process. Of course, go for it if you feel like it will help. I just sense that you're doing what I and everyone else do sometimes which is exaggerate the size of the task and then end up feeling like you require certain things which there's no point starting without. If you're already a meathead in training then disregard my advice but getting into the gym and making decent gains does not re…
/r/askTRP19/07/17 03:06 AM
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That's something I can use for dates in my city but the logistics are a problem in this case. She lives like 30 miles out and I haven't got a licence. It's normal for people from the surrounding towns to come to my city for a night out so it's not an unusual ask but it's a bit awkward. I'll re-frame the invitation into something interesting in itself rather than just to meet me but I think I'll have to leave it at that. There's a festival on at the end of this month in my city which attracts a t…
/r/askTRP19/07/17 02:39 AM
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Do you really need one? Having a gym partner is useful if you're both on the same page but if you tell yourself you need one to motivate you you're just creating an excuse.
/r/askTRP19/07/17 02:26 AM
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Thanks that makes sense. Will keep in mind next time. So can I salvage it?
/r/askTRP19/07/17 02:14 AM
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Maybe we should be allowed to report posts that basically restate something in the sidebar. Obviously it will sometimes be unclear so the reporter should link the relevant part of the sidebar in the comments to save work for the mods.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/17 01:26 PM
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He's famous and rich. Those were not handed to him by his genetics.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/17 05:14 PM
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Yeah I realised that I should done that like I usually do but this one seemed so easy at the time.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/17 07:36 AM
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The gym has been paying off and I'm physically the best I've ever been. Also absorbed some fashion sense from a few friends and I think I dress well now. I've taken some steps to move to a new college away from my hometown which I think is going to open up a lot of opportunity since its a much bigger city and I'll be out of my parents' house. One fuck up last week. Me and a friend went to this bar and within minutes this drunk chick is all over me and I'm just kind of ignoring her and talking to…
/r/TheRedPill09/06/17 07:03 PM
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Interesting but what's with the formatting?
/r/TheRedPill08/06/17 11:37 AM
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How to deal with disrespect from friends? Generally its just banter and I give as good as I get but sometimes lines get crossed. Sometimes its an uncomfortable topic and I want to spend as little time as possible talking about it so I tend to avoid making something big out of it. My current reaction is just to ignore them and pull back from communication a little bit which seems to work but I'd like to be able to nip it in the bud.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/17 09:48 PM
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Field Reports First just re-posting a reply I made a couple of days ago: I went out that night. Talked to 7 girls, didn't give any compliments, didn't offer to buy drinks, didn't even ask their name just talked absolute shit like whatever came into my head. Only got shot down by 2, some were engaged but their friends got in the way and the last 2 seemed like I could've pulled them but that was close to closing time and I needed to leave with my friends. I can see myself getting a lot better at t…
/r/TheRedPill26/05/17 07:57 PM
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I went out that night. Talked to 7 girls, didn't give any compliments, didn't offer to buy drinks, didn't even ask their name just talked absolute shit like whatever came into my head. Only got shot down by 2, some were engaged but their friends got in the way and the last 2 seemed like I could've pulled them but that was close to closing time and I needed to leave with my friends. I can see myself getting a lot better at this with more attempts and at this point I think I'll learn a lot more fr…
/r/TheRedPill24/05/17 08:26 PM
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Reached 100 KG squat and improved on all my other lifts with better focus on form. Been doing a serious amount of reading. I find reading 3 or 4 books at a time is the most efficient because if you're board with one you switch and ultimately this allows you to keep your focus for much longer. Even started writing for the first time which was very stimulating even though I only got about 150 words down. Finally got some medication for my skin condition which will soon leave me with no excuse not …
/r/TheRedPill19/05/17 07:10 PM
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Just finished my last exam for the year in college. This summer I have a number of goals I think will really change my life. First off is discipline. I want to wake up before 9am every day, doesn't seem like much but I missed a ton of early classes this semester just from sleeping in. I have an autoimmune condition which requires me to be strict on my diet but I want to make it so that I never let slip and actively research better diets, drinking is also not allowed. Also want to cut out all gre…
/r/TheRedPill05/05/17 11:42 PM
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