| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 104 | All the comments were a variation of “WeLl HoLd On, iT’s NoT nEcEsSaRiLy FeTiShIsAtIon” - the bar truly is in hell | PORN SICK, LIMP DICK | CosineMeSenpi | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 12:23 AM |
| 96 | Meatheads on Juicy Meathead Subreddit Shocked They’re Being Called our for Meathead Behaviour | SCROTES MAD | CosineMeSenpi | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 02:55 PM |
| 68 | Genuinely speechless | PICKMEISHA HALL OF SHAME | CosineMeSenpi | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 04:27 AM |
| 23 | Gaslighting microaggressions | RED FLAG 🚨 | CosineMeSenpi | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 11:08 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 17 | Not sure if this has been done before but I made a FDS flag in Animal Crossing!She’s thriving, we love to see it! 💖 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/10/20 08:42 AM |
| 48 | This is the kind of attitude we need to have👏🏼👸🏻If you take anything from the FDS subreddit, let it be this. There is no excuse in the world that explains him breaking it off, other than that he doesn’t want you. No, he does not need to “work on himself”. No, he does not need space to “figure out what he wants”. No, he does not need time to realise you are “the one”. He doesn’t want you, and you deserve somebody who actually does. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/20 09:57 AM |
| 24 | What low value men post on their social media.Yeah they’re sOoOooOooOOoo terrorised by women who desperately want love, and will do anything to get it, including debasing themselves in every way. Doing all the cooking and cleaning, being a porn star in bed, working full-time and draining their own batteries to mother these men. All for the pleasure of being insulted, gaslit and emotionally manipulated. They don’t even de-mould their showers or wipe out the disgusting beard trimmings from their bathroom sinks, but I’m supposed to believe wom… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/20 09:18 AM |
| 50 | FDS fun fact: The posts that get reported the most on Female Dating Strategy are the ones that go something like "why are men so ugly?" Most of these reports are for "targeted harassment against me"Wow you put it into words, it’s just a sub for negging women to destroy their self-esteem and make them easy pickins. Disgusting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 10:23 AM |
| 15 | Men know men are trash and that’s why they’re so overprotective of their hypothetical daughters.Yet they’re the first to cry foul when called out on their shitty behaviour because “I DiDn’T hAvE a MaLe RoLeMoDeL gRoWiNg Up”. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 06:19 PM |
| 19 | Confessions of a former pick meIt’s like a neon red sign the size of Manhattan. My NVM abuser ex would constantly talk about his “ugly, fat, crazy” ex - I tried so hard to be everything she wasn’t, according to him. He would bring her up every other day, either things she used to do and say, or just about how much he “””hated””” her. Anyway, it turns out they were sleeping together for our entire 3 year relationship. Every time he left the house to get weed, she was picking him up and they’d fuck in her car. Then he’d return … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 02:14 AM |
| 13 | Why are you so obsessed with us? Aren’t you supposed to be “going your own way”?They really fancy themselves super-geniuses and social chameleons who are capable of “tricking us” into believing they’re the sort of HVM we discuss here; just so that they can claim the status of having seduced an FDSer. It’s so laughable, I almost pity them. Almost. The true irony here is that if they put even a fraction of the mental energy they spend obsessing about “foids” and “chads”, into some real introspection for personal development, they might actually become HVM. It’s not possible t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 01:36 AM |
| 10 | I did a post on MY personal penis preferences and dudes on Reddit were ready to rope themselves over it. I don’t ever want to hear EVER again how women are “insecure” and “crazy” ones for being NOT OK with Porn.[Insert Eric Andre shooting Hannibal Buress meme] “Why would women do this to us?” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 03:49 PM |
| 258 | Man once again panicking after getting a reality check about open marriagesAbsolutely her love died, I can physically feel the heartbreak she must have felt, and the subsequent hardening of her heart. She’s definitely just staying for the children and perhaps monetary support. I hope she’s found an amazing HVM who treats her with the respect and exclusive affection she so deserves. This is beyond the pale, and I hope he ends up pathetically alone, untouched by these “FWB”, with no access to his children. Exactly what he deserves. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 09:23 AM |
| 29 | Hope it’s not a repostThe fact that these are considered “high standards” makes me want to kms. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 04:43 AM |
| 5 | Not OC just OG x)Let them eat hate. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 01:58 PM |
| 5 | Got downvoted by scrotes for offering advice to a woman who drove halfway to meet a LVM who turned up 30mins late to a coffee date while holding a tea he made at home...That venn diagram is a single circle. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 12:49 AM |
| 27 | If men are 'more visual', why are they ugly?It reverses the natural order, because males typically fight other males for the chance to breed with a female. They’re trying to switch it up on us because they want to feel like they have reproductive power. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 11:15 AM |
| 47 | Le PoWeR woRDs...😂This is somebody’s “I’m so disappointed with the person my child turned out to be”. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/20 02:09 PM |
| 185 | Bare minimum King 👑He’s showing his ass by implying that dishes are a woman’s job naturally - and that he doesn’t do dishes when he lives alone. Yikes. 🤡 T h e C l o w n e r y | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 01:11 PM |
| 22 | Child sex dolls based on real children are freely available online. Child. Sex. Dolls.I think about this constantly and it is paralysing, because the exact diversity that creates beauty in life is the same that creates this sort of depravity, just a sick iteration of it. That’s not to say we shouldn’t try, but I just worry a lot that even with all the right infrastructure in place, all it takes are a few individuals to induce chaos and cause indelible misery. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/20 02:19 PM |
| 84 | Child sex dolls based on real children are freely available online. Child. Sex. Dolls.It’s been demonstrated time and time again that this is not the case, that a healthy outlet for unhealthy desires does not include the engaging in the unhealthy behaviour repeatedly - even if it is some “derivative” of the original behaviour. In this case, the mind’s pleasure and reward centres are experiencing heightened activity, and it becomes a positive feedback loop: “I enjoy what I’m seeing, I enjoy the way it makes me feel and I want to keep feeling it for as long as possible.” There’s so… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/20 02:16 PM |
| 21 | OBESE PRE DIABETIC SCROTE WITH ED DEMANDS QWEEN GET BUTT LIFT SURGERYAh yes, the ironic relationship between their value and their expectations: Scrotal Hyperbolic Inverse Theory, or SHIT for short. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/20 08:04 AM |
| 43 | I found a HVMHe’s a keeper! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/20 07:18 AM |
| 57 | The social stress of being unwed is the real woman killer 🙄Then men have the audacity to talk about “ball and chains” when they can’t fuck some barely 18 year-old chick, all the while reaping the benefits of a partner who does all of the domestic and emotional labour. Whenever a man claims “my missus nags way too much”, what I actually hear is “I’m a useless sod who has never done a fucking thing around the house we share as a unit, objectify other women in front of my wife and expect her to suck, fuck and be porn ready for me without any sexual recipro… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/20 07:18 AM |
| 37 | As requested, the Lasagna of Male DepravityI. AM. SCREAMING. This is art and belongs in MoMA. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/20 12:39 AM |
| 19 | New rule: you aren't my husband? No sex.WoMeN aRe SeLfiSh BiTcHeS | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/20 12:52 PM |
| 3 | Submission is not our natural state!Carrying a Concealed Weapon. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/20 09:47 AM |
| 5 | Submission is not our natural state!This is exactly why women need CCW, let that fool try and I’ll gladly drop lead in him. Men won’t have that power over us any longer. They’re physically stronger? Fine, I’ll make it a “fair” fight. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/20 01:23 AM |
| 18 | This sub growing so much just proves how many women are unsatisfied with men todayYou give off queen energy and I love it. Pickmeisha life is all about the males, male lives are all about the males - but apparently saying “Nah, I’m just not going to engage any longer” is hatred. People love prattling on about individual liberties, but if you exert them in a harmless way that doesn’t coincide with their dogma, you’re a man-hating harpy. Yawn, women are hysterical for having opinions and preferences, what decade is this again? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 12:06 PM |
| 49 | This sub growing so much just proves how many women are unsatisfied with men todayBig, BIG thank you to the mods for their diligent screening process - seriously, they’re the best gatekeepers and I appreciate how well they manage this space. It sucks they get harassed and cop abuse for managing a subreddit dedicated to the voices of women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 12:03 PM |
| 27 | This sub growing so much just proves how many women are unsatisfied with men todayGenuinely one of the best parts about this sub, it truly feels safe to talk about our issues without being publicly and privately harangued for dare questioning the general narrative about men being “good” that’s built off the backs of the libfem and conservative patriarchal ideologues. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 12:01 PM |
| 11 | Successful woman is making $200k+, her husband willingly chose to get a job in a field that would destroy his wife's entire carrier, despite she asked him not to. Now he accused her of being selfish and put money before their marriage. LOLYeah, what do they mean if the situation was reversed? It happens all the fucking time and women are told to “support her husband’s career goals” while sacrificing their own. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 05:54 AM |
| 3 | HVM don't talk about other attractive women!Yet we’re expected to trust men in education? Boy do guys love to cry victim about how they’re “perceived as predators” in positions that put them in close proximity to children, while bragging about how the same children supposedly want to fuck them. Disgusting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 03:57 AM |
| 7 | I'm 30 yrs old, and I'm shocked at how old men lookThe projection is so predictable. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 02:38 AM |
| 27 | Successful woman is making $200k+, her husband willingly chose to get a job in a field that would destroy his wife's entire carrier, despite she asked him not to. Now he accused her of being selfish and put money before their marriage. LOLShe totally wasn’t being supportive by squints at scribble...being the sole provider of their household while he was between employment. So glad she dropped his NV ass, but sorry she wasted her life with him in the first place. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 01:49 AM |
| 116 | This snaggle toothed little bitchA man with a literal bushel of pubes for facial hair thinks he’s the prize pig of OLD. I’m not exaggerating when I declare confidently that I’d rather eat shit than spend a single iota of time with this scrote. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 12:27 AM |
| 33 | He doesn't "date fat"? What a coincidence. Neither do I.CEO of delusion, maybe. I love how that’s his only selling point as a dried up raisin. The audacity to look like that and expect fit young women will come flocking is positively scroteful. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 12:22 AM |
| 52 | (TW: violence against women, domestic abuse) Man beats woman in public for breaking up with him, male bystanders do nothing, only women intervene- this is why I intend to buy a gun!You were not exaggerating, this video is incredibly triggering, seriously advise against watching this if you are a DV victim or sensitive to violence in general. That poor woman, my heart is broken for her completely - especially considering she likely did it publicly in order to ensure safety, she knew his nature and tried to take it into consideration when detaching herself from him. I hope somebody straps him to a rocket and launches him directly into the sun. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/20 08:20 AM |
| 144 | Omg 🙃 LVMThe hypocrisy is truly breath-taking. “Excuse me, slim younger woman, but I value honesty while I’m cheating on my current partner.” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/20 08:12 AM |
| 8 | Sex Positive Media Hates Women. Women don’t want to be murdered but yes lets worry about these people’s “rights” to maim each other during sex.Abuser ex-bf was let off because of this exact defence: that we engaged in BDSM (true, but not entirely consensual nor enjoyable on my part) and therefore the rape/abuse was all part of our ‘intimate dynamic’. He nearly killed me but due to extreme sex becoming so widely accepted and normalised, abuse victims are now being additionally humiliated and further deprived of justice. VICE can get fucked. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/20 07:54 AM |
| 67 | Make it make sense! Most of these LVM don’t have any “gold” anyways 😂I really hate this common sentiment amongst cOoL pRoGrEsSiVe Redditors that women can be the bread-winners while the husband stays at home, when we all know the reality is that in the vast majority of cases, the woman STILL shoulders most of the domestic labour, as she also works a 40+ hour week. Why, sis? Why? Better off working those 40 hour weeks and taking care of just yourself, without the additional burden of a man child who’s trying to “find himself” or whatever crap they peddle to make i… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/20 05:53 AM |
| 200 | My parents had a traditional marriage. Everything was in her name. My uncles give their salary to their wives who do the family finances. I feel like most ‘traditional men’ nowadays don’t intent to stay with their SAH wives ‘till death do us part’ considering how they react to such a proposal.I could not agree more, and my parents also had a traditional marriage. Men these days seem to view motherhood is an essential part of a woman, and not an extension of her - a unique burdensome role, that makes her much more vulnerable. My father is definitely not a perfect HVM, but he absolutely values my mother’s labour and worked tirelessly to build a very comfortable life for us. He sacrificed much of his and our time, but built a highly successful business in doing so. My mother sacrificed … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/20 12:25 PM |
| 99 | She’s asking for a “relationship mentor” on an R4R sub with primarily men looking for hookups 🤦🏻♀️Why would you not turn to women who’ve been in relationships previously? Since that’s the dynamic you’ll be experiencing, as a first time girlfriend. It’s like asking the wolf how better to become prey... Definitely strikes me as either: 1) man masquerading as a woman for some strange, autogynephilic role-play or 2) a woman in desperate need of external male validation. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/20 04:35 AM |
| 52 | It’s not okay for your man to be liking other women’s sexy pics.“I only like it when women I don’t feel direct ownership over objectify themselves, not when you do it!” 🤡 Men love to argue against any behaviours women engage in that they don’t like, but god forbid you do the same. Men are a whole circus, I swear. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 04:07 AM |
| 184 | Love this!It absolutely speaks to her character as a person, however it’s optimistic to think he would look at the game and think of her with any sort of meaningful regret - he either played it with a clear conscience and never thought of her once while he did (as with the cheating), or he did feel regret that he was caught and no longer has access to her emotional, financial and physical labour. He never valued her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 02:56 AM |
| 58 | It’s not okay for your man to be liking other women’s sexy pics.I had a partner who had saved a Snapchat photo of a half-naked girl to his phone and acted offended when I told him it was unacceptable. He also told me that the photo wasn’t sent to him on Snapchat, he just “found it” on some subreddit he couldn’t recall the name of, and coincidentally he had made a new Snapchat account right around the time the photo was saved to his phone. Men. Are. Fucking. Trash. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 02:48 AM |
| 47 | Age, job, education, mattress statusI am...disgusted. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 04:32 AM |
| 11 | All the comments were a variation of “WeLl HoLd On, iT’s NoT nEcEsSaRiLy FeTiShIsAtIon” - the bar truly is in hellYou are truly a QUEEN. I’ll be watching your space to upvote the lasagne meme immediately. Thank you for doing it! 🙌 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 02:03 AM |
| 56 | When men “apologize” they be likeThe deflection is so startling, and my ex did the same thing. No prior mention of this profound grievance until I brought up something he was doing that upset/hurt me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 01:25 AM |
| 23 | All the comments were a variation of “WeLl HoLd On, iT’s NoT nEcEsSaRiLy FeTiShIsAtIon” - the bar truly is in hellIt’s another layer of depravity in the disgusting lasagne of male entitlement. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 01:22 AM |
| 24 | All the comments were a variation of “WeLl HoLd On, iT’s NoT nEcEsSaRiLy FeTiShIsAtIon” - the bar truly is in hellIt’s awful! Imagine being with someone for years, thinking they truly value and love you, only to find out they’re a race fetishist. I can’t imagine how soul crushing that must be... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 01:18 AM |
| 61 | All the comments were a variation of “WeLl HoLd On, iT’s NoT nEcEsSaRiLy FeTiShIsAtIon” - the bar truly is in hellHe’s not even being “sexually open” with her, he’s straight up racially fetishising and dehumanising her. “Sexually open” would imply he’s interested in trying new things, what he’s actually doing is cornering her into doing this stuff while she’s vulnerable and then being cold when she meekly raises objections. YIKES. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 01:11 AM |
| 30 | I was deleting pictures off my phone and I found this gem. So glad I deleted my OLD profiles. It was just too much effort.I’m so sorry you had to read that, it is foul and makes me want to throw up. Ugh. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/20 02:11 PM |
| 3 | Comment with a 2am fuckboi emoji😜triggers me so much | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/20 09:15 AM |
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