CosmicInkblot Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Question on following up after meeting at a Club and alcohol?		CosmicInkblot	/r/seduction	03/04/16 09:35 PM

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2	Should I tell her I am a virgin?? Agreed, context matters most here, if you are legitimately friends first then tell her and try stuff out. It'll be more honest and you will feel more comfortable overall. If you are looking to sleep with her and that is it, then your best shot of getting laid is to not tell her.	/r/seduction	13/12/17 07:30 PM
–	I feel this cycle of sadness a couple of times a week and I want to know how to cure it I don't know how long you have been trying out seduction stuff but know that a lot of us have been there at some point. But I don't necessarily think this is seduction problem, but maybe just a general life thing. If you are feeling down just try get a small victory here and there, no need for lofty goals, just get into something. As humans we spiral because we feed into our negativity but the opposite works too. Try to win something... anything, learn something, make a goal and stick to it. It'…	/r/seduction	13/12/17 07:26 PM
1	How can I be better with women if I'm a medical student? Hello... I'm a doctor. That should work just fine	/r/seduction	04/04/16 11:56 PM
0	Asking girls out in front of their friends question Oh, I'd probably do it in private then. Prom is meant to be gigantic, but for just a date then maybe better to just get dinner and stuff with her. Regardless seduction advice doesn't really apply when you are talking about a single girl. If there is a good reason why she would want you to ask her out in-front of her friends then go for it! But a relationship is built on being together with her so I typically would try to create an atmosphere which is kinda romantic and then ask her then. Conside…	/r/seduction	04/04/16 11:45 PM
-2	Asking girls out in front of their friends question This is definitely not seduction advice :P Also I'm slightly confused, I thought she already said yes? Anyways, I don't know what prom culture at your school is like but just do whatever you think would make her the happiest. Either go big with flowers, or if she would be nervous just invite her out to a date and ask her there. We can't tell you what to do! Just be happy that you are lucky to have a girl for prom! Enjoy it!	/r/seduction	04/04/16 11:29 PM
2	dated ex girlfriend, heavy makeout now wants to be friends.. ? I feel like this is more relationship advice then seduction :P Just cause she doesn't want to have sex with you doesn't mean, she isn't into you, in fact it's more likely that she is concerned with sleeping with you, getting more feelings and then you not wanting a relationship. It's most likely she just doesn't want to get attached if it's going to lead to nothing. I really think you should just talk to her, and see what she says. Ex's can be very emotionally difficult, and maybe it's better th…	/r/seduction	04/04/16 11:25 PM
1	I'm terrible at The Game. Need Guidance Well I guess the real question is how many girls have you actually asked out on a date to. I mean, you chat them up, say anything like "do you have a boyfriend" and then just ask for her phone and plan a date. I mean at university you can just sit next to a girl in class and talk them up. Making your intentions clear during day game is fine. Also you could always just join common interest clubs and see where that takes you. Also if girls seem uninterested than maybe you aren't very interesting h…	/r/seduction	04/04/16 11:06 PM
2	One night stand, catching feelings. I am so confused... the answer is definitely not block your feelings. If you like her, then maybe see if it goes anywhere. Also if you don't want to be exclusive women are often alright with being casual if you both enjoy each other's company but are also not looking for anything serious. Just be upfront with them all, never promise a girl more than you honestly feel and let her decide. Sure it might limit some girls but you won't feel like a dick about it after. Also be open to a girl that you …	/r/seduction	04/04/16 10:52 PM
1	Direction Needed I don't really think you need the game this time around. I mean you're at a university and your not trying to get first night stands, seems like you want a real relationship. In that case just join different common interest clubs, maybe a rec league for some intramurals and meet girls that way. It's less about lines, and you can just say hi and make friends. After that hopefully you can find someone you like. If you have issues with inner game then work on that too, but the best cure for that is…	/r/seduction	04/04/16 09:33 PM
2	The Problem With Neil Strauss Agreed, I just like Tyler Durden more for his inner game stuff, get's me pumped up for the night :)	/r/seduction	04/04/16 09:13 PM
1	Stuck in my head, trying to apply lessons Haha that reminds me so much of me! Walking up and I'm like, ok gonna neg her, oh shit she responded negatively, uh uh uh... oh she left. I think what you need to work on is just more inner game for now. One of the reasons we use canned lines is so we don't have to worry about the words. If you don't worry about the words then atleast you cut that little bit of anxiety out of you. There is no saying the right thing to be Alpha, it's just being alpha. What do you love about yourself? Why would a …	/r/seduction	04/04/16 09:12 PM
1	How bad was your anxiety compared to where you are now? I think I got over my approach anxiety when me and buddy decided to get into the game together. We went from playing games in the basement, to how many times can we bomb in this mall (we were still underage). Boy did we bomb, but it was nice having a friend who high fived you for sucking ass. We approached like one girl each during our hour at the mall, but it slowly got better and having stupid canned lines makes it easier so you don't worry about the details. The "Can I get your opinion on som…	/r/seduction	04/04/16 09:02 PM
9	What non-boring questions do you ask on a first date? Can you give me a pros and cons list as to why I should sleep with you?	/r/seduction	04/04/16 08:57 PM
24	What non-boring questions do you ask on a first date? This waatch... belonged ... to your father...	/r/seduction	04/04/16 08:56 PM
1	Question on following up after meeting at a Club and alcohol? Hmm kk much appreciated. I guess I get a lot of social proof dancing at clubs since I can dance, so I kind of rely on that to open. I think I'll try to create more meaningful experiences with her after dancing like transitioning to a bar or maybe getting food. Making out and partying with a girl just doesn't give me many second tries with her. Thanks man!	/r/seduction	04/04/16 08:55 PM
1	The Problem With Neil Strauss I agree with you, but in rules of the game, his other book he actively talks about how he talks too fast, and he actively talk about his shrill voice. He says he went to vocal coach and learned how to sing to correct some of his flaws. He definitely knows his flaws, but it might just be an even larger testament to how bad he was before. Overall though, not all people are great presenters and Neil definitely is not, but he was successful cause he had good theories, good stories and was an interes…	/r/seduction	04/04/16 08:46 PM
3	It changed, everything changed. Thank god I dug deeper I agree, but I also think a large portion of the game was also dedicated to the notion that famous or rich people who have passion can still fail at picking up girls. The notion is that inner game, and loving yourself BECAUSE you have things to love about yourself will help your confidence. You should both continue to pursue your passions, but also accept and be happy with where you are in life and what you have accomplished. This combination of both acceptance and drive is what I think true inn…	/r/seduction	04/04/16 08:32 PM
1	Question on following up after meeting at a Club and alcohol? So you would say, push to change location, or get her back to my place? More or less really create a strong connection with her that night? I guess I see PUA in field and they get the number, but I just didn't expect those numbers to be so dead so often.	/r/seduction	04/04/16 08:24 PM
5	I approached a girl for the 1st time last night. 10/10 Love you attitude, if you can identify the problems you can conquer them!	/r/seduction	04/04/16 12:51 AM
1	[xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 3/30/16 Yes, and yes :P	/r/seduction	04/04/16 12:48 AM