Cosroe Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	The Kickstart The only person that can make you do something is you. If you have a hard time motivating yourself apply a condition to something you like that requires you to do something more productive and not as immediately appealing. For example, let's say you watch TV. There's a new episode out but you haven't seen it yet, so you decide the "cost" of TV time for that show is a 60 minute running session. Because you want to watch TV but don't want to betray yourself you go out to the gym, run your arse off…	/r/seduction	06/06/12 08:50 PM
1	Unexpected observations on the road to becoming alpha... Animals at the bottom of the food chain take what food they're given. Animals at the top go after what they want to eat. Except when they don't, that said I agree with the spirit of the metaphor. You have to go out and reach for what you want in life, no one is going to do the leg-work for you. 3 really struck me by surprise and it's encouraging to hear others dealing with the same shit. To be honest I was turning a little jaded about this but I'm going to re-think the issue having read your pos…	/r/seduction	26/04/12 08:57 AM
1	Movies like "The Notebook" have brainwashed men, ruining our success with women. Look at this example. Do not ever take movies as a guide on how to interact with others. What makes movies so entertaining is that they are often wild exagerrations of acceptable behaviour, yet they somehow are able to continue the flow of social interactions around them. Consider the opening scene for Lethal Weapon 4. There is no way anyone would expect that scene to unfold the way it did in real life, but I'd be hard-pressed to find any dude in my daily life who wasn't amused by it. It all comes down to suspension …	/r/seduction	13/04/12 05:24 PM
6	Quick question on text responses That's the basis of human interaction. Normally we have physical presence to help dictate the flow of conversation but when you're both omnipresent via the phone it never hurts to sign off on a convo. I understand things are changing with the under 20s crowd but I would both do that and expect that from others I was dating. Failing to do so would lose points in my book indicating poor social skills or a self-absorbed character.	/r/seduction	13/04/12 04:23 PM
2	How to Sit like a Badass This right here. I also have ADHD and get around the incessant desire to fidget by gesturing while I speak. It only adds to the conversation and tends to draw people in.	/r/seduction	05/04/12 12:41 PM
5	You know, I really am starting to believe that modern American men just aren't that masculine I agree with Marsupian's assessment that in this day and age males don't have the same social imperative to become manly as they once did. But more and more people are noticing this and I believe there is a rising trend in males today to become a man. On that note there is a website called The Art of Manliness which is dedicated to all things manly. Topics range from how to throw a knife to a guide on old-school hats and how to select one to a primer on pipe smoking and anything in between. I fi…	/r/seduction	25/03/12 01:54 AM
1	Pickup Is Unicycling As someone who has also experimented in unicycles, excellent title. It sums up your entire post in a single sentence. What many people fail to realize with unicycling (as with being social) there are no wipe-outs, only unexpected dismounts. Worst case scenario you're back on your feet, completely unharmed but mildly surprised.	/r/seduction	22/03/12 08:42 AM
2	Approaching after not approaching on previous occasions. Some people need time warming up, and that is what they will most likely assume when you do strike up a conversation. If they think about it at all. Timing is a small detail in this case and I wouldn't think twice about it. Just remember to stay calm and relaxed. Don't have any expectations except for enjoying yourself in their company and the conversation will flow smoothly from there. If you're a bit nervous about striking up conversations there's been great advice and links posted on seddit b…	/r/seduction	14/03/12 05:07 PM
3	Lurking for several months, first [FR]. Props man, it's always good to hear success stories like this. Sounds to me like you're on a good track to being fairly outcome independent. Remember it's not about "success" so much as it's about progress. Today you worked the charm and got some great responses. Saw an opportunity for some kino and took the momentum from that encounter to another. In the future you'll take opens for kino without hesitation, and get closes easily. Just keep doing what you're doing. Although I have to say, I've r…	/r/seduction	14/03/12 04:57 PM
4	Help me get rejected! You're over-thinking this. Find someone you're attracted to and ask them out on a date. You'll either get rejected or you won't. Regardless of your intentions you'll get rejected plenty of times. Hell I got rejected today and I wasn't even flirting with the damn girl, she opted to flatter herself at my expense. I was about to be on my way after what I thought was simply a conversation and DNGAIF.	/r/seduction	03/03/12 06:34 AM
1	How to deal with infatuated girls? This is a potentially risky move, make sure you pull this one off with a bit of finesse. If you're going to go this route I'd flirt with another girl and then leave discreetly when she's not around. After a while she'll notice you're gone and eventually she'll find out you left with another person. If you see terms here you're not familiar with just do a quick search for PUA lingo. It's pretty jargon-heavy at times, here's a barebones definition of pawning as I understand it: From chess in which…	/r/seduction	29/02/12 07:54 PM